1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,679 Speaker 1: I was showed up on the sidelines looking like Lisa Lobe. 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: I had glasses and black hair, and the week before 3 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: I had Barbie trying something hair. 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 2: It's a journey. It is my Larissa Thompson. 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 3: Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 6 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 3: It's pregame and guess what. It's the draft this weekend. 7 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,479 Speaker 3: I mean, our lives, as we like to say, are over. 8 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 3: But that's very exciting. I'm excited to like the football's 9 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 3: back in the conversation. Were in the conversation with you 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 3: guys and your fun questions so good. But let's do 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 3: a disclaimer. 12 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, what a bad mood. 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 3: No, but I thought we would both be super hungover 14 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 3: today because we went to a little sore for our 15 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 3: friend and instead the aggravation, aggravation and frustration of a 16 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 3: call and text you left me of losing your wallet 17 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 3: potentially in an uber. Dear Uber, this is a PSA. 18 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 3: I've left a message to messages on the driver's voicemail. 19 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 3: I know Chris's husband has left a message. She just 20 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 3: got her brand new license. She left her wallet in 21 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 3: his car. Sir, you were great with your tunes, with 22 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 3: your hair, with your semi screens. Can we get the 23 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 3: wallet back? 24 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: Please? And thank you? I know I'm so annoyed at myself. 25 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 3: Have you guys ever done this where it's like and 26 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 3: it's like a purse that doesn't close all the way. 27 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 2: It's like open and it's trying to be like, oh, 28 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 2: it's such a cute curse. 29 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 3: And I put it in the backseat not paying attention 30 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 3: and I didn't check. So yes, dear overdriver, please call 31 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 3: me back, Please call me back. 32 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: But I got to say I was crying this morning 33 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: to you about losing my wallet because I have to 34 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: get on a plane today and I already thought I 35 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: lost my passport. 36 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: But I got that back, so at least I have that. 37 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 3: But I'm just like I at least appreciate American Express 38 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 3: and bank cards that let you order that thing in 39 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 3: twenty four hours and they, you know, like are sending 40 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 3: it like AMEX is like you'll have your new replacement 41 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 3: card by tomorrow. 42 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 2: That's amazing. Side note, this is for the big show. 43 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: Actually, I'm going to tell you something that I discovered 44 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 1: this morning. The tease is that American Express things. I've 45 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 1: been a member with them for forty two years. Well, 46 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: now they're going to living No, they're not. They're not 47 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: going to fix it. Loyalty. It's their mistake, and I 48 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: am a very loyal American Express person. I'm going to 49 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: explain this. 50 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: That's adorable. It's it was a mistake they made, but 51 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: it's to my benefit. AnyWho. Dear Uber driver, please send 52 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: me my wallet back. 53 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 3: We weren't even drunk, no, we and that's we were 54 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 3: having great breakthrough conversations. Also, to steal a line from 55 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 3: Steel Magnolias, I don't know what you're feeling on the inside, 56 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 3: but on the outside you look fantastic, Like when Milan 57 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 3: was at the funeral. Was great because I blowed dried 58 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: my hair leaving conditioner at the party yesterday. I had 59 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 3: to wear a hat because I fell asleep and it 60 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 3: took a nap and my leaving conditioner was left in 61 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 3: for Oh. I mean, my hair's probably never felt healthier. 62 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 3: You're saying much though. 63 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: By the way, this hair is a cracking off and 64 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: I don't have any money now to pay to fix it. Okay, 65 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: enough of my place here we go pre game. We 66 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: love you guys, thank you for writing it. As always, 67 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: we got Melanie ten twelve. Does it irk? First of all, 68 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: I love the word irk. Does it irk you too? 69 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: When people walk in the middle of the parking lot? 70 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: Zero awareness? 71 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 2: Melanie? 72 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: Fantastic question, and absolutely it irks me. Do we just 73 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: think that, like the parking lot is for pedestrians last 74 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: time I checked. 75 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 2: Parking lot is for cars. 76 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: Look behind you and if you see a car, speed 77 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: it up or move off to the side. 78 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 2: I'm with you, Melanie, it's so. 79 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: And you know what, there's zero awareness for a lot 80 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: of things in life. 81 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,839 Speaker 2: People just think the world's going to revolve around them. 82 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to wait to get out of this parking 83 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: lot so you can saunter your ass slowly across this 84 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: Tjmax parking lot. 85 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 2: Let's go. 86 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 3: We all got places to be. I not without a wallet. 87 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 3: I don't spatial awareness in general, just when people don't 88 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 3: have it pisses me off. Kendra and I my sister, 89 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 3: have actually created a tune. It's very easy to learn. 90 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: Spatial awareness is amazing. 91 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 3: Or you could throw in you don't have spacial awareness 92 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 3: and you should get it. I can't stand when people 93 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 3: have black of spatial awareness. 94 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: It's crazy toll for me. 95 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: Fright, So are you guys at a restaurant and someone's 96 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: standing really close to you, and you'll start singing the song. 97 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 3: Restaurant, bar, Disneyland, wherever, like you here too, And then 98 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 3: I can see you guys also doing a little jazzer 99 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: size move with the song. 100 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I could break out to a full chorus. 101 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 3: I mean, forget Taylor Swift's forty five songs she launched 102 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 3: this week, we could do seventy five about spatial awareness. 103 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 2: I'm with you. 104 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 3: I that's something for the big sure that we can 105 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 3: have a conversation about. Because you and I discussed it. 106 00:04:59,360 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: We need a road. 107 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 3: I have so many questions comments we're talking about it. 108 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 3: I need to stop guide. Last night, when I got 109 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 3: home from the party with you, I stayed up for 110 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 3: another hour and a half reading about all the Easter 111 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:17,239 Speaker 3: eggs Taylor Swift puts in all of her songs and videos. 112 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 3: I got to go over some things with you. We 113 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 3: got a lot to talk about this weekend, Amy together. 114 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 3: This weekend a Amy is Amy is our new go to. 115 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 3: Oh okay, you're up, girl, Patrick, cue like that? Aaron, 116 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 3: how are you navigating being? Presumably it's like you know 117 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 3: me so well? A type A mom recovering control free. 118 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 3: There's a couple of things, and we can talk about 119 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 3: this on the Big Show. I okay, So when we 120 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 3: go to our gym classes, which we have a really 121 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 3: good time doing, and they're great, he's, you know, learning 122 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 3: all about motor skills, interacting and socializing and so forth. 123 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 3: But the old I'm going to put a toy in 124 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 3: my mouth that doesn't belong to me. I mean, my 125 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 3: reflex skills are fantastic. I swatted it away so packed 126 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 3: now no, And then he's like the other thing I'm 127 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 3: having a hard time with. And I know moms out 128 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 3: there can relate to me, and I can relate to them. 129 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: And I feel bad for never understanding this as a 130 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 3: woman that didn't have a kid. I feel like such 131 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 3: a failure. In the morning, he's getting a little fussy 132 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 3: after he's done with breakfast, but we'd like him to 133 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 3: eat a little bit more. And then it's like ah, 134 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 3: and then the crying. It's not even crying, it's just 135 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 3: whining without tears. So I just looked at our nanny today, 136 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 3: who is such a great help and is so wonderful, 137 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 3: and I just said, I feel like a failure. I 138 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 3: can't make him happy. So that's something I'm trying to 139 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 3: navigate when he's upset. He's upset and I don't know 140 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 3: how to get him out of it. But bab he's 141 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 3: also a baby. 142 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: And I'm going to tell you because firsthand I saw 143 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: it yesterday, prior to losing the wallet. The highlight of 144 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: my car ride was us facetiming with Mac and the 145 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 1: second that he sees you, he went ah, and it 146 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: was so cute. I came home and I told Steve, 147 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: I go we FaceTime Mac on the way home, and 148 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: the way he looked at you, he was so happy 149 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: to see his mom And I love seeing it, Like 150 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: makes me emotional thinking about it because it's like you 151 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: waited so long to have this baby, and like now 152 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: he's getting to the age where he can recognize you 153 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: and like all these things and he's like. 154 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: He knows his mommy, and it's so sweet. It's really sweet. 155 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 3: Tommy's struggling making him happy. But I'm trying to figure 156 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 3: it out. That's not trude, No, you aren't. He's a baby. 157 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 3: It probably has nothing to do with you. It's like 158 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 3: all relationships. His sadness in certain moments has nothing to 159 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 3: do with you. He's just going through a lot. You know, 160 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 3: he's teen. Ooh, Anonymous, we have an anonymous question for you. 161 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 3: Oh we do It's great? Yeah, okay, fantastic. 162 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 2: What do we have? 163 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: Friend started a rumor I slept with a guy had 164 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: a girlfriend, and now years later wants to be friends again. 165 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 2: Yes or no? 166 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 3: Oh well I have a track record with letting people 167 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 3: back in my life that I shouldn't. Hello, that's a 168 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 3: Taylor Swift song which number twenty six. I mean I know, no, no, 169 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 3: absolutely not. I'm at a place in my life and 170 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 3: I'm not sure Anonymous where you are at your age. 171 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 2: But I would say. 172 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: This the whole like, you know, burn me once, shame 173 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: on you, burn me twice, shame on me thing uh huh, 174 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: burn me once, bye bye, Like we're we're not waiting 175 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: for second and third and fourth chances. If this person 176 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: is going to do that to you back, then they're 177 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: going to do it again in some capacity. It might 178 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: not be as harsh maybe whatever, but no, like you're 179 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: starting a rumor that you slept with the guy that 180 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: had a girlfriend and now you want to be friends. 181 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 3: Absolutely not. There are too many wonderful people out there 182 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 3: in the world that can be your friend. You do 183 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 3: not need to waste time on someone that has already 184 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 3: shown you. 185 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: Who they are. We talked about this a lot yesterday. 186 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 3: It was a totally different circumstance on our way back 187 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 3: from our girlfriend's birthday party. Just the group of people 188 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: that were there, and a lot of them are my 189 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:00,079 Speaker 3: friends that you have met casually before. But they love you, 190 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,839 Speaker 3: you know, want to be I almost started a tech 191 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 3: chain with you in them with you and them today, 192 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 3: but knew the wallet situation so didn't want to go 193 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 3: there yet. 194 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 2: But make me happy. 195 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 3: They're great, great, But you show up for people, you 196 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 3: don't start rumors about them f that. No, I guess 197 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 3: you could be like give somebody a chance like you mentioned, 198 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 3: But I'm good. I'm just him at this point. You 199 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 3: and I discuss it all the time. I don't need 200 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 3: that in my life. I need people lifting me up. 201 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 3: I'm talking about you nicely in the room when you're 202 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 3: not there. 203 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 2: Don't you see that meme a lot lately all. 204 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: The time, And I think it targets me for the algorithm, 205 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: because I want all the support that I can get 206 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: when I'm not in a certain room. But no, it is, 207 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: and I'm the queen of a quote and I love it. 208 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: But my friendship circle has gotten a lot, a lot smaller, 209 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: and that is by choice. And I've never been happier 210 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: knowing that. Like, I don't need a ton of friends, 211 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: I just need really good friends and those and this 212 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: anonymous is not a really good friends. So keep it moving, sister. 213 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 3: Oh my god, here's a teaser. I just saw one 214 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 3: of the tip one of our headlines for the Big Show. 215 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 3: I can't wait to discuss it. 216 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 2: What do we got? We'll talk about it in the 217 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 2: Big Show. There's a tea. 218 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 3: But meanwhile, Kate Evelyn one one one, CHRISA, tell us 219 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 3: about your short short hair phase. I think that's her 220 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 3: tinker Bell phase. 221 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 2: I loved it. I love our hair right now and 222 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 2: there's no extensions and it looks good. No extensions right now. 223 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 3: My whole hair journey has been documented by Google searches 224 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 3: that I have had some real doozies this. 225 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 2: I have a lot of moisturizer on those listening. 226 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: I was the short short phase, as I like to 227 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: refer to it, my Susie Orman. 228 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 2: It was. 229 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: It was something that I was like so down to 230 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: do because I had been. I had like the worst 231 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: set of hair extensions like for years and years, and 232 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 1: shout out to Rihanna, who is an incredible hairstylist. I 233 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 1: only trusted her to do it. I was like, I want. 234 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: I found this one picture of this girl. I thought 235 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: she looked so sexy with like short hair, and it 236 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: was do you remember it was no? I mean I 237 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: have the picture still. 238 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 3: It was just some random like not like a actress 239 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 3: or anything, but it was a random girl and I 240 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: thought she looked so incredible. So I brought into Rihanna 241 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 3: and I was like do this and she's like, are 242 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 3: you sure? 243 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: And I was like yeah, cause that's like you take 244 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: all that hair off, and it's like you better like 245 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: feel good about yourself because that is a hairstyle that 246 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: a you have to do and it's not like, oh, 247 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: you're rolling out of bed like it has to. 248 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 2: That is one thing about short hair. You have to 249 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 2: do it way more than long hair. 250 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 3: Like long hair like you could just take that ponytail 251 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 3: down and you're like, judh it up and you're ready 252 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 3: to go. I did, like you up in a clip 253 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 3: and you and you like let your things down and 254 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 3: you look great tundrels. You know, I think that short 255 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 3: hair is more high maintenance than long hair. But I 256 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 3: have always had shitty hair just because I fuck with 257 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 3: it all the time. But to answer your question, my 258 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 3: sweet Kate Evelyn eleven one one one, I won't ever 259 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 3: do that again. This is as short as I will go. 260 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 2: But it was. 261 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: I'm happy I did it at the time of my life. 262 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it as I keep getting older. I'm like, 263 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: that was a hairstyle for like the mid twenties. If 264 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna take a chance, do it when you're younger, 265 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: not when you're older, because then you're like, mom cut 266 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: without I'm not even a mom. 267 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, Kristen wigg and the Target added, which by the way, 268 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 3: is so good. The commercials are so great. You know 269 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 3: what I would think about with that haircut is I like, 270 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 3: this is so psychotic and stupid of me, like to 271 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 3: have a little ponytail in pilates or berries. 272 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 2: You're not having a ponytail. 273 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: With no no, no, no, no, You're you're there's nothing 274 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 1: on the neck. 275 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 2: There's there's a breeze coming through. 276 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: You're getting burned back there, you're getting frostbite. 277 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 2: There's nothing to protect the neck. 278 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: Wow. 279 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 2: No, yeah, okay, you really do? 280 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 3: You need to put some makeup on because it's like, 281 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 3: oh shit, it is like what wolf. 282 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 2: In the morning. 283 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: There's a certain guy that has to be with you 284 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: for that haircut too. Not all guys are down for that, 285 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: Like are you at the behind? 286 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 2: Are we this a boy or girl? 287 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 3: Was I? No? 288 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:16,719 Speaker 1: I was at I was at Extra, I was at 289 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: Extra and Fox. 290 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 2: Yeah I did Lisa. 291 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: It was shout out to Lisa Grigorge, all the bosses 292 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 1: that I've had, I will just do these hairstyles, like 293 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: when I went black, Like I just dyed my hair 294 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: black and then showed up for work the next day 295 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: and they were like yo, Like I was showed up 296 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: on the sidelines looking like Lisa Lobe. I had glasses 297 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: and black hair, and the week before I had Barbie 298 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 1: trying something. 299 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 2: And I'm trying something. 300 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 3: But I remember all my bosses, especially Lisa, was like, hey, 301 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 3: can you not do this every week like something different, 302 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 3: like we're going for consistency, Like we had shot all 303 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 3: of our promos, like all of our stuff for the 304 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 3: new season, and I come strolling in with shorty swing 305 00:13:58,360 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 3: my way. 306 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 2: Anyways, hair it's a journey. It is Arsa Thompson. 307 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 3: We're going to go a little longer on the pregame. 308 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 3: I'm taking liberties and making that announcement here because this 309 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 3: is such a great question, and I know Chris and 310 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 3: I get so fired up about this cass G seventeen. 311 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 3: What to do about men who think they know sports 312 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 3: and give wrong stats at the bar. I wish Jared 313 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 3: lee Stole was here right now because he would go 314 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 3: like this, head down shake. 315 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: It is a It is not. 316 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 3: A good time with us when we are at a 317 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 3: bar and someone starts yapping away about sports in general. 318 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 3: Don't know what they're talking about, give wrong stats, give 319 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 3: stupid opinions. 320 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 2: I misinformation. 321 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: Where you're like that, You're like, that's not actually what's 322 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: happened at all, But go ahead and so out. If 323 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: you want to keep petch wow perpetuating that rumor, go 324 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: for it. 325 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 3: I tend to think I am like the player that 326 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 3: got drafted late in the draft. 327 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 2: I have a chip on my shoulder because this justin. 328 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 2: I'm a woman. 329 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 3: I work in sports actually get to hear and learn 330 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 3: about a lot of things the average show doesn't. And 331 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 3: I'm not saying anything poor like rude about that, but 332 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 3: it always feels like a challenge at a bar when 333 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 3: somebody starts to yap it away and given their two cents. 334 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 3: I got a neighbor. I'm not gonna I'm gonna say it. 335 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 3: I got a neighbor that's a forty nine ers fan. 336 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 3: I think I've been pretty pretty vocal about my love 337 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 3: for Kyle Shanahan, my love for that team, my love 338 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 3: for the offense, the defense, the general manager, yep, pr, 339 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 3: I got a covered great organization. Fab gives their two 340 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 3: cents every now and then about you know what John 341 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 3: Lynch should do, gives a two cents about how Kyle 342 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 3: Shanahan should coach, and Jared's Oltlake Oh god, oh god, 343 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 3: what you want to raller up? Just say nine ers? 344 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 2: Here we go. 345 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh really, Oh yeah, because because what didn't 346 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 3: you like about that? 347 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 2: Oh? 348 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 3: Because but you know that the backup but Drake Greenlaw 349 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 3: got hurt, so that probably didn't hurt them at all. 350 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm getting like sweat emotion. Now, how do 351 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 2: you feel about this question? I don't like it. 352 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: I've gotten into it. I know this sulper shocking for everyone. 353 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: I had an airport bar after I've come from. I 354 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: don't know whether it's working a game or whether it's 355 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 1: having done an NFL Films interview about the guy like sure. 356 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: My favorite is like when it was Brandon Graham that 357 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: I was doing an interview with last year for NFL Films. 358 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 3: Incredible individual, has played great Eagles. I think he's going 359 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 3: into his like fifteenth year. Family is great. Family is incredible. 360 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 3: And I'm sitting there in Philadelphia at the bar, and 361 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 3: you know the guy that wants to be like, oh, 362 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 3: so what do you do? And I'm like, oh, and 363 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 3: I always go I always go. 364 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 2: Through the TV. I'm right there. 365 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm going for the lowest thing. I was like, oh, 366 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: I just work in sports. And he's like, oh, what 367 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: do you do? I was like, oh, I work for 368 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 1: Fox at Amazon. 369 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 2: He's like, but what do you do? 370 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, So now we're on the third 371 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 3: follow up questions and now I'm finally gonna say it, okay, 372 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 3: Like I ho was this? 373 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 2: Oh what are you doing? 374 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 3: In Philly? I did an interview with Brandon Graham. Oh 375 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:19,919 Speaker 3: he retired a few years ago. He didn't retire. I 376 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,199 Speaker 3: just sat down with him. Yeah, no, no, he retired 377 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 3: a few years ago. I said, sorry, sir, I don't 378 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 3: mean to be rude, but I just sat down with him. 379 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 3: He's going into his whatever said fifteenth season. No, no, no, 380 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 3: I know he retired a few years like. He's like 381 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 3: adamant about it. 382 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: Now. 383 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 3: Finally, I'm like, who's the idiot, the person that argues 384 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,120 Speaker 3: with crazy or the crazy. So at this point I go, oh, 385 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 3: you must know better than I do, no problem, And 386 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 3: he's like, oh, well, now you have an attitude. I'm like, 387 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 3: you're well, now I'm the asshole. It always comes back 388 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 3: to this because I actually know the information, but you 389 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 3: are now embarrassed because you're wrong. 390 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 2: I'm the asshole. No problem. 391 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: You know what, sir, how about I just buy you 392 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: a drink and you go sit on the other side 393 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: of the bar. 394 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 2: Because I'm bored of this conversation. 395 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: This happens a lot more than it should, and you 396 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 1: know this, I should probably just go to Hudson News 397 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,919 Speaker 1: and get a book not rude exactly. 398 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 2: If I were a man, I'd be the man. 399 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: And no, Brandon Graham's still playing love just sign a 400 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 1: new deal right one ear? 401 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 3: But no, he retired years ago. Oh okay, Well, you're retired. 402 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 3: I'm you should retire from your cocktails. 403 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 1: Bye, a big show. We have a lot to say. 404 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: Hopefully the uber driver calls me in the middle of 405 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 1: the big show. That would be a great call. 406 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 3: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 407 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeart Radio, visit the iHeartRadio app, 408 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.