Speaker 1: How I Suck At Dating with Ungler and Jared Haven
Speaker 1: and I heard radio podcast What's going on? Everyone? Welcome
Speaker 1: to an all new episode of Help I Suck At Dating.
Speaker 1: The month is December, the year is and just like
Speaker 1: earlier this year, we have a great co host with
Speaker 1: us this week, it's DeAndre Canoe. I think I'm saying
Speaker 1: the last name, right. I said Canoe and I was like,
Speaker 1: that's not a boat. She's not a boat. It's fine. Um,
Speaker 1: danger we had you on I think back in like
Speaker 1: April to co host an episode with us, Right, Yes,
Speaker 1: you did nice. Well how have you been, what's going on?
Speaker 1: What's been new since then? Um? I've been great. I'm
Speaker 1: still in l A because I know when I first
Speaker 1: hopped on here, I was new to l A, was
Speaker 1: so fresh. But now I'm like getting a little more
Speaker 1: used to everything of just living life. It's the holidays,
Speaker 1: so I'm really excited for that. Yeah, where you're Where
Speaker 1: are you originally from Dallas, Texas? What's dating like in
Speaker 1: Los Angeles compared to Dallas. I wouldn't know, because I've
Speaker 1: yet to go on one day in l A. No,
Speaker 1: it's true, is that that's got to be intentional though
Speaker 1: it's I mean, the thing is, I don't know, well,
Speaker 1: when I've heard that l A dating is terrible, no
Speaker 1: one here is looking for anything real. But I just
Speaker 1: honestly haven't met anyone in l A. Like I've met
Speaker 1: people outside of l A, but just not in l
Speaker 1: A that I've gone on dates with. So what do
Speaker 1: you mean in l A, like you haven't met like
Speaker 1: you like go on a trip and meet someone, or
Speaker 1: like you just haven't met anyone like the out in
Speaker 1: l A. Or how does that work? That the bos
Speaker 1: That's what he was gonna say. I was I don't
Speaker 1: want to I didn't want to project because that's the
Speaker 1: only where I would ever meet people. But I you know,
Speaker 1: people meet every people everywhere, so well, one, I don't
Speaker 1: really go out that often. Like when I go out,
Speaker 1: it's like maybe like once a month or like twice
Speaker 1: a month. So it's like I don't really get to
Speaker 1: meet a lot of people out like that. So the
Speaker 1: only way I'm really meeting people is if it's like
Speaker 1: I go on a trip somewhere and I happen to
Speaker 1: meet some friends or like a friend of a friends,
Speaker 1: or like Sun reaches out on Instagram which is not
Speaker 1: ideal at all. But I feel like everyone that I've
Speaker 1: ever met is outside of l A. I'm not, you know,
Speaker 1: I haven't really met anyone in l A. But it
Speaker 1: sounds like it's not like a super high priority for you,
Speaker 1: or is it? Um? I mean, I all, I mean,
Speaker 1: I would love to meet someone. I would love to
Speaker 1: date someone, but it's just like I can't force anything.
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to get on Hinge, I don't
Speaker 1: want to get on Tinder. I'm not there yet. I'm
Speaker 1: more so like an organic kind of data I wanted
Speaker 1: to happen naturally nice. I would say the fact that
Speaker 1: you're not on any of the dating apps, um, I
Speaker 1: think enforces the point that you're not making now, that
Speaker 1: you're not making a priority, but that you're not going
Speaker 1: to settle for something that you don't want just to
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend or a partner or whatever. You know, right,
Speaker 1: I definitely don't want to date someone just to date someone.
Speaker 1: I want to date really intentionally. But it's not that
Speaker 1: I'm against dating apps. Eventually, I think that would be
Speaker 1: like my last ditch effort to try to the last
Speaker 1: resort better than going on the Bachelor. Maybe not so much.
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of a last resort sometimes too. Um.
Speaker 1: So you live full time in l A. What part
Speaker 1: of l A? Do you live in Hollywood? Okay? Nice,
Speaker 1: Well that's your first mistake. You shouldn't live in Hollywood.
Speaker 1: You should live on the West Side somewhere. Jared, are
Speaker 1: you in l A? No? So, I actually and I
Speaker 1: lived in l A for about three and a half years.
Speaker 1: We lived in West Hollywood. But I used to go
Speaker 1: to the gym in Hollywood. What the hell gym did
Speaker 1: I go? No? Well, I did actually go to twenty
Speaker 1: four hour Fitness. There's actually funny story about that. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I can tell it on air, you
Speaker 1: can tell it. Let's sidebar tell the story. Well, the
Speaker 1: twenty four hour Fitness was right next to my house
Speaker 1: in l A. And there was a gentleman there who
Speaker 1: would constantly hit on me, I mean aggressively, And so
Speaker 1: every time I went to the gym, and if I
Speaker 1: saw this particular man, I'm like, you gotta be kidding me,
Speaker 1: because one time he came up to me very sweet.
Speaker 1: But I was on the treadmill. You guys know how
Speaker 1: awkward it is, and when you're working out you got
Speaker 1: the headphones in. This is before actually and I were married,
Speaker 1: so I wasn't wearing a ring yet. But so he
Speaker 1: came up to me and then like he was like
Speaker 1: waving me and I was like, oh, what's up? And
Speaker 1: then he was like, oh, how how many how many
Speaker 1: times a week do you come here? I was like, um,
Speaker 1: I'm I don't know, like four or five, you know,
Speaker 1: I try to get here. He's like, dude, You're just like,
Speaker 1: you know, what do you what do you do for
Speaker 1: workouts from really good shape? And I was like I
Speaker 1: just you know, I I don't know, I just come in.
Speaker 1: I kind of listened weight so I do treadmill Like
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just do you know, well I
Speaker 1: appreciate that, thanks man. And then he's like yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: he's we should work out some time together. And I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, um, you know, uh, you know, I
Speaker 1: usually just come in like because my schedules all over
Speaker 1: the place. And then even like I didn't know if
Speaker 1: he was being friendly or not friendly at this time,
Speaker 1: so I was just like, well, I'm not looking for
Speaker 1: a workout, but anyway, becau just like going to the gym,
Speaker 1: keep my headphones on, get the hell out. And then
Speaker 1: every time I'd go back and I see this guy
Speaker 1: and he was there quite often as well. Immediately would
Speaker 1: come out to me and then asked if I wanted
Speaker 1: to get drink one time, and then I said I
Speaker 1: wasn't a relationship, but then I don't know, it's still
Speaker 1: like awkward. So I literally left that gym because of
Speaker 1: that guy. Honestly, that can be so awkward knowing that
Speaker 1: one wants to hit on you in the place that
Speaker 1: you go to, like the zone at work out. There's
Speaker 1: nothing worse. Oh so then I was so then this
Speaker 1: fitness has like an ab room, so it's like a
Speaker 1: small little eight by eight room in the back and
Speaker 1: so a room. Oh there goes Jared, there he goes,
Speaker 1: and anyways, I think that's what what he was gonna say.
Speaker 1: That's when he first kissed this gentleman. Um So, okay,
Speaker 1: so daving is not a priority for you. We'll we'll
Speaker 1: get off that until Jared comes back in here and
Speaker 1: rejoins us. But um so, so like you go on
Speaker 1: these trips, you meet these guys, but they don't live
Speaker 1: in l A. That's obviously a bummer. You don't want
Speaker 1: to go any dating apps, but what, like you, obviously
Speaker 1: I want to find someone eventually, right, So what do
Speaker 1: you think are you doing anything like right to find
Speaker 1: a person right now or are you just kind of
Speaker 1: going along with your life and hopefully someone falls into it,
Speaker 1: because like we kind of mentioned too earlier. Um, they're
Speaker 1: like they're not not that desperate is the word I
Speaker 1: want to use. But like, when you're really looking for
Speaker 1: a partner, you tend to like cut some corners right
Speaker 1: and like slack. So that's not something you're willing to do,
Speaker 1: is what you're saying. Yeah, so, well, being twenty six,
Speaker 1: I feel like my clock is ticking. You're only six, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I feel old. I'm like, I don't know why.
Speaker 1: And I mean this in the most polite way, like
Speaker 1: I guess that your maturity. Uh, I thought you were
Speaker 1: like twenty nine or thirty really, And I mean, like
Speaker 1: that's not I'm not like just like you don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong, but you seem like a very mature person.
Speaker 1: And I think that's part of the problem. Is I
Speaker 1: definitely want to date, Like I'm a lover. I'm a
Speaker 1: lover girl. I want to date. I want to be
Speaker 1: in a relationship. But what I ound is the more
Speaker 1: that I was like searching, the more I was finding
Speaker 1: people who weren't mentally where I am, so like I
Speaker 1: would starting on the pool and then I would find
Speaker 1: out that they're really immature, they're not looking for a
Speaker 1: relationship or you know, they don't have the same morals
Speaker 1: and values as me. And it just became a thing
Speaker 1: where I'd rather be super selective and go on a
Speaker 1: date like once every two months with a person who's
Speaker 1: mentally watched with me, then hanging out with a bunch
Speaker 1: of different guys just to kind of see, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: and see there in lines the maturity to that a
Speaker 1: twenty six year old barely encompass it. So because I mean,
Speaker 1: I agree with you, I waste your time? Why waste
Speaker 1: their time? Hey, Jared, Welcome back to the podcast. Hey,
Speaker 1: So my computer died even though it was charging, which
Speaker 1: makes me really sad because this has been happening over
Speaker 1: the past few weeks. Which the reason it's so sad
Speaker 1: is because I think there's something wrong with my computer
Speaker 1: and I don't want to buy another one because my
Speaker 1: entire life is on here and it's just like, damn it,
Speaker 1: I hope nothing. I just it was literally plugged in
Speaker 1: and then it just turned off. And this is not
Speaker 1: the first time what's happened. It makes me quite It
Speaker 1: makes me quite worried because like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: get it. My whole little laptop, I know, but it's
Speaker 1: very expensive. And then everything is on here, like, oh my,
Speaker 1: I don't know any of my passwords because everything is
Speaker 1: just automatically locked in. If somebody had this computer, my
Speaker 1: whole life would be you know, Dawn, I shouldn't let's
Speaker 1: cut that, Let's keep it. I think it's important. It's
Speaker 1: important for our listeners to know how attached to your
Speaker 1: laptop you are. How old is the laptop? Is it
Speaker 1: like twenty years old? No? How old is this laptop?
Speaker 1: We bought it when we first got together, right, so
Speaker 1: two that was an eighteen it's like four years almost
Speaker 1: five years now. That's not bad. No, that's not bad
Speaker 1: at all. Quick sidebar on your sidebar, I bought a
Speaker 1: new laptop like a year ago. Best investment I've ever made. Anyways,
Speaker 1: continue on with your ab rooms part of your story.
Speaker 1: Appreciate it. So I was in the ab room, which
Speaker 1: is in the back, and this was the last time
Speaker 1: I went to that gym. I'll never forget it. And
Speaker 1: I was laying down because every time I saw this guy,
Speaker 1: I would immediately just go in the other direction, right,
Speaker 1: so like he was near the weights, I'd go to
Speaker 1: the treadmill. If he was near the treadmills, I go
Speaker 1: near the weights. So then I'm I forgot to tell
Speaker 1: you this too. This is an important part of the story.
Speaker 1: He gave me his number, well because he I of
Speaker 1: course had my phone playing music, and he goes, oh,
Speaker 1: you should take my number sometime we'll hang out. I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, sure. Like he's like, just text me
Speaker 1: your number. I said, yeah, okay, So of course I
Speaker 1: take his number, never text him. Ignore, like going on
Speaker 1: with my life. Then I'm in the alb room laying
Speaker 1: down doing my crunches or whatever the hell I'm doing.
Speaker 1: And then I look up and guess who walks in?
Speaker 1: And the problem is, this is like an eight by
Speaker 1: eight room and I'm literally on the floor. I got
Speaker 1: nowhere to go. He goes, hey, man, what's going on?
Speaker 1: I said, oh, hey, glad, good to see you, bro.
Speaker 1: What you know blah blah blah. He goes, hey, you
Speaker 1: never texted me? I said, oh, I'm so sorry, man,
Speaker 1: just been super busy and just a lot going on.
Speaker 1: He goes and he literally, you're not. He goes, well,
Speaker 1: your phone's right there. Just just text me right now,
Speaker 1: so I have your number. And I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't know how am I gonna get out of this one?
Speaker 1: And so then I can't believe I did it. I
Speaker 1: I was. I got up and I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm texting right now, like as I'm grabbing my phone
Speaker 1: and walking away, and I was like, yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm texting right now, dude. I'm so sorry. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm looking at you up right now. Um. He's like, yeah, dude,
Speaker 1: let's hang out sometime, like just text me right now.
Speaker 1: And then but he said it in like a creepy
Speaker 1: way and so not in a friendly way. So I
Speaker 1: was like, and then I just I don't know what
Speaker 1: the hell I said. I was like, oh, this guy
Speaker 1: is blue, I'll see you later, and then um left immediately,
Speaker 1: even though I was at the gym for five minutes,
Speaker 1: didn't get to work out, and then never went back
Speaker 1: to that gym. That's a lot of pressure, dude. I
Speaker 1: couldn't believe it. The balls, the balls, for someone to
Speaker 1: be like, just your phone's right there, just text me
Speaker 1: and it's like, oh no. But that's the worst though.
Speaker 1: I think the worst thing is when someone that you
Speaker 1: don't want comes up to you. They're like, oh, add
Speaker 1: on Instagram and you're like okay, well they're like, no,
Speaker 1: give me your phone, like I'll look it up right now.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh gosh, don't do that. They said,
Speaker 1: don't do that. Guy. That's tough too, because then you
Speaker 1: want to, like you the like post like in a
Speaker 1: month or two, and you're like, who is this person?
Speaker 1: How do I know this person? And then you feel
Speaker 1: like a jerk for having unfollowed them because like, obviously
Speaker 1: you're not interested in what they're doing because you don't
Speaker 1: know who they are. Right. Have you ever been called
Speaker 1: out for un following someone? Yeah? I have been too.
Speaker 1: Yeah what do you say? I always just say, yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm just not interested in what you're doing in life.
Speaker 1: I wish I could, Jared. What do you say, like, oh,
Speaker 1: is a glitch an accident? Yeah? I say it was
Speaker 1: an accident And I immediately followed them back and now
Speaker 1: I'm following their lives and I don't care. That's the
Speaker 1: only reason you followed me. Let's be honest tough times
Speaker 1: saying no, uh de Andrew, you said, sometimes you do
Speaker 1: slide into guys dms, or do you guys slide into
Speaker 1: your d M? Oh no, I would rather die than
Speaker 1: have to slide to guy's dams. But sometimes guys do.
Speaker 1: It's not always like you can kind of tell what
Speaker 1: kind of guy they are when they slid into your
Speaker 1: d M. So it's not always like the most fruitful
Speaker 1: slide ends. But every once in a while I'll reply,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, Kalin slid into my d M
Speaker 1: S And here we are nearly four years later. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well you guys are also on a show together, were you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true. She slid into my d M S and
Speaker 1: she wanted to meet up her coffee and I ditched her,
Speaker 1: which is not I'm not bragging about that. I'm really
Speaker 1: actually sad about it. Uh So we didn't end up
Speaker 1: a really meeting until we both went on the show.
Speaker 1: But I agree with you, like the person that's gonna
Speaker 1: d M you to meet up. Maybe it's like the
Speaker 1: same kind of person you meet at a club where
Speaker 1: it's like you you could find a good person that way,
Speaker 1: but the odds are kind of against that happening. But
Speaker 1: I also feel like if he's dm ng me, then
Speaker 1: think about how many other people he's damned too, because
Speaker 1: it's like she talk like they bill shoot out five
Speaker 1: and then like one or two will hit. So you
Speaker 1: just never I'm not against it. I'll reply sometimes, but
Speaker 1: you can immediately kind of tell the vibe that they're giving. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's interesting. I am always it's like baseball, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. If if you're in too fifty,
Speaker 1: that's not that's a solid batting average right there. You're
Speaker 1: still an All star. Yeah. I'm always curious because, like,
Speaker 1: guys and girls experience coming off of the show are
Speaker 1: so different in so many ways. And I've never like
Speaker 1: creeped on Kalin's dms, especially before we like like when
Speaker 1: we first got together whatever. But I can only imagine
Speaker 1: like the difference in the d ms that guys versus
Speaker 1: girls get. You know, like, obviously the viewership of the
Speaker 1: show is mostly female, but you still are going to
Speaker 1: have a lot of guys that, like, I guess you
Speaker 1: can catch their eye and they're still gonna want to
Speaker 1: reach out. But I feel like most of my d
Speaker 1: m s, especially now, but even back when I was
Speaker 1: single and Jared, I don't know what your input on
Speaker 1: is on this, but like I would say, of them
Speaker 1: are like middle aged married women who are just like
Speaker 1: weighing in on my life. And it's never like anyone
Speaker 1: like sliding in to like holler at me. You know,
Speaker 1: it's mostly people just like giving their their opinion on
Speaker 1: my life. I feel like, yeah, I feel like it's
Speaker 1: kind of the same way for women a little bit.
Speaker 1: There's like some guys scattered here and there, but honestly,
Speaker 1: it's a lot of women at the dems, probably because
Speaker 1: the show gets a lot of women viewership. Yeah, Jared,
Speaker 1: what are your d ms like these days? These days
Speaker 1: it's just you know, your baby is very cute, You've
Speaker 1: you've lost yourself. Uh you still have patched your facially
Speaker 1: here now I'm kidding about the last two. Usually it's
Speaker 1: just like, uh, yeah, it's it's it's people criticizing my
Speaker 1: life or telling me what I should or should not
Speaker 1: be doing. But that's okay. At least, hey, they care,
Speaker 1: they care a lot. But honestly, a lot of the
Speaker 1: d ms are very nice. I still get I still
Speaker 1: check dms because like the box that says request, because
Speaker 1: sometimes they'll be like, h well, a really good opportunity,
Speaker 1: you know, from I look for the blue check marks.
Speaker 1: I'm very vain people, that's what I look for in
Speaker 1: the request. I look for the blue check marks. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, is this like some sort of really cool opportunity? Um?
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's pretty much. My dms are very boring.
Speaker 1: You know, They're just a question you guys who are
Speaker 1: both in relationships. Do you guys still like randomly have
Speaker 1: women try to hit on you even though you're in
Speaker 1: very public relationships or do you feel like no, I
Speaker 1: there's like maybe a few people that are consistently my
Speaker 1: d M s saying not like inappropriate things, but definitely
Speaker 1: like shooting their shot. But that's just that's like it's
Speaker 1: not obviously as common as it was when we were single,
Speaker 1: but it is interesting because I'll like see a message
Speaker 1: and I'm like why what, Like I've just got engage,
Speaker 1: why are you sending me these things? Not like they're
Speaker 1: like no, they're not like pictures or anything like that,
Speaker 1: but it's it's like I love you, or like you
Speaker 1: can just go back through the like the search or
Speaker 1: the common history, and they say like a bunch of
Speaker 1: like things, flirtations, flirtatious things. I guess you could say, um,
Speaker 1: but yeah, it is interesting. I remember once Ben, when
Speaker 1: Ben started dating Jess and that he like posted his
Speaker 1: relationship for the first time or something like that. He
Speaker 1: was like, it's really weird to go from being a famous, famous,
Speaker 1: very loose, obviously famously single person to now being in
Speaker 1: a relationship, because your internet persona kind of changes a
Speaker 1: little bit, and like obviously the people that are like
Speaker 1: interacting with the changes quite a bit too. So fortunately
Speaker 1: for both of us, Jared, I would say, I think
Speaker 1: we kind of got the long end of the stick
Speaker 1: in the sense where people got to see our relationship
Speaker 1: happen on TV. I know, yours is kind of like
Speaker 1: off TV, but then you got engaged on TV. So
Speaker 1: I'm counting it, and I think that helps a lot, because, uh,
Speaker 1: not everyone that sees you on TV is going to
Speaker 1: follow you on Instagram. So the people that see you
Speaker 1: in a relationship onto like, there's gonna be more people
Speaker 1: that see you in a relationship on TV, and so
Speaker 1: it kind of like sets the precedent moving forward that
Speaker 1: you're in that relationship. You know I would agree, and
Speaker 1: talking about the internet persona. I've been thinking about this
Speaker 1: not a lot, but I've given thought to it, and
Speaker 1: I really I haven't told told Ashley that's just sitting
Speaker 1: next to me. I need to like really identify myself
Speaker 1: because I feel like I'm just just losing who I
Speaker 1: am individually, because I'm just this dad who put like
Speaker 1: I need to post like a workout video, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean and be like, no, guys, I'm still
Speaker 1: I could still lift weights and I can still do
Speaker 1: things on my own as an individual, as a man,
Speaker 1: instead of just like this dad, It's no, it's not me.
Speaker 1: And also you do do that you'd like post about
Speaker 1: Tom Brady all the time. You post about your quarter
Speaker 1: pounders with cheese and cheese so good. I can go
Speaker 1: for one right now q PC. But also your life changed,
Speaker 1: so it's like this is like you are a father,
Speaker 1: you are you know, a partner, you're all these things,
Speaker 1: and it's of course it's different from when you were single,
Speaker 1: but you're still you. It's just the majority of what
Speaker 1: you do now with your life it's different. So it's
Speaker 1: not inaccurate and it's not like you've lost yourself but
Speaker 1: this is a new role that you play, you know.
Speaker 1: I guess it's also I am a new person. I
Speaker 1: guess it's also owning a business and hiring all these
Speaker 1: college kids because they just they look at me and
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just like the dad. Now I'm that guy.
Speaker 1: I'm the dad, and I'm like, oh god, I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm old as hell. Dandrew, I gotta ask, So, if
Speaker 1: a guy is going to slide into your d MS,
Speaker 1: what would be your preferred like method or verbite that
Speaker 1: they use. I love like when a guy is just
Speaker 1: straight up like I don't even know want to waste
Speaker 1: time in the dams, like, or you do you want
Speaker 1: to go on a date? Like that would be my
Speaker 1: first thing. It's like I just want. I like when
Speaker 1: people cut to the chase because I'm not really a
Speaker 1: small talker, Like I'm not going to go back and
Speaker 1: forth if I can't really tell your attentions. So I think, like,
Speaker 1: if you're going to be in my dams, like, let's
Speaker 1: try to meet in person, Like let's not even waste
Speaker 1: the small talk. Obviously you have to be a real person,
Speaker 1: but not I'm not really catfish. I don't think that ever.
Speaker 1: Happens to me. But um, I like the people are
Speaker 1: just straight to the point. I'm an in person person.
Speaker 1: I like that. And then how does like I saidone
Speaker 1: straight to the point, how do they catch your eye?
Speaker 1: Because I can only imagine how many guys must DM
Speaker 1: you on a regular basis, and like, how do you
Speaker 1: sort through the chaos and kind of pick which ones
Speaker 1: that you would even consider responding to? Um, well, I don't, honestly, like,
Speaker 1: I probably response like one out of already, but a
Speaker 1: lot of them I look at their page, so like,
Speaker 1: some of them like just happened to be a majority
Speaker 1: of them happen to be like verified people, so I
Speaker 1: know that they're real people. And then I'll go to
Speaker 1: their page make sure they don't have a girlfriend, kind
Speaker 1: of seeing stuff that they're posting, I like, actually don't
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend. Make sure they have a girlfriend, because
Speaker 1: you know, people do that and it's weird. Have you
Speaker 1: ever been to Have you ever gone to a guy's
Speaker 1: page and realized they are in a relationship, I'll trying
Speaker 1: to hit on you. Well, this is the thing. So
Speaker 1: I've had guys like consistently like my story because you
Speaker 1: know how we can like stories now and you don't
Speaker 1: necessarily photo, but you still get the notification. I have
Speaker 1: guys that will like my story consistently, and so I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're cute. I went to their page
Speaker 1: a girlfriend and I'm like, what's why are you hiding
Speaker 1: liking my story post because it's my real posts. Um,
Speaker 1: so that's definitely happened. So I definitely sort through and
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, I don't. I don't think that's stuff
Speaker 1: is cute because their girls. That's annoying. That's annoying for
Speaker 1: the guy's girlfriend. Um, what is your What is your
Speaker 1: type in terms of like do you want someone that
Speaker 1: like lives in l a lifestyle or do you want
Speaker 1: someone that maybe lives more of a Dallas lifestyle. I
Speaker 1: think I definitely want someone who lives more of a
Speaker 1: Dallas lifestyle and Dallas lifestyle the sense that they're not
Speaker 1: like always on the scene. They're like, you know, they
Speaker 1: take care of their business, they're not always out. I
Speaker 1: think it's a red flag if someone's like consistently out
Speaker 1: every weekend, That's not really what I'm looking for. So
Speaker 1: I definitely want someone who just lives more of like
Speaker 1: a I don't want to say normal but l A
Speaker 1: is very much you always want to be on the scene.
Speaker 1: It's always about who you dies here, just who you're
Speaker 1: with or you're hanging out with climbing the social ladder,
Speaker 1: and that's not really me. So I feel like in
Speaker 1: order to find that in l A, you have to
Speaker 1: be willing to date someone that's a little bit older,
Speaker 1: because twenty year olds in l A are always trying
Speaker 1: to be out in like party and stuff. At least
Speaker 1: in my experience, like when I was twenty in l A,
Speaker 1: I only wanted to like party with my friends, and
Speaker 1: I was very undateable at the time. But now that
Speaker 1: I'm in my thirties, I think I've definitely settled down
Speaker 1: quite a bit. So is that something you would look
Speaker 1: forward to? Is or is age not really super important? Um? Well,
Speaker 1: age it is important. I mean, I definitely want someone
Speaker 1: who's mature, but I don't know, like I feel scared,
Speaker 1: not scared, but I feel weird about dating someone who's
Speaker 1: significantly older than me. I think the oldest I would
Speaker 1: go right now is like thirty five. Just how old
Speaker 1: are you? I'm twenty six? Okay, yeah, so young. You
Speaker 1: don't don't stress, Oh my god, you're six. But my
Speaker 1: best relationship for you, my best relationship advice for you
Speaker 1: right now is don't be in a relationship. Just enjoy
Speaker 1: your life. You're living in l A. You're having a
Speaker 1: good time. There's no reason to stress. If Mr Wright
Speaker 1: comes along, great. But you know, I want you to
Speaker 1: come back on this podcast when you're thirty two and
Speaker 1: then you're you know, then you're feeling a little bit
Speaker 1: less um positive about everything this podcast in six years.
Speaker 1: I I gotta say, I don't think Dan Andrews stressed
Speaker 1: about it. I think I'm asking a lot of questions
Speaker 1: about it, even though you don't seem like you're very
Speaker 1: stressed about it, right Like you're kind of you don't
Speaker 1: seem like you're stressed about it or are you, nor
Speaker 1: should you be. You're beautiful, you're single, you're living in
Speaker 1: l A. But I mean people get lonely, Like for me, Um,
Speaker 1: I was kind of explaining to do it earlier, like
Speaker 1: I'm not the kind of girl that just likes to
Speaker 1: hang out with guys just to fill my time. So
Speaker 1: a lot of times I don't hang out guys at all.
Speaker 1: Like I'll go from like going on a date and
Speaker 1: like talking to someone to like knowing at all, so
Speaker 1: it does get lonely. Like I want someone that I
Speaker 1: can travel with, because I feel like traveling with a
Speaker 1: guy is so much fun. Um and like my friends
Speaker 1: can't always travel and get up and go all at
Speaker 1: all the times, and either can I. But I feel
Speaker 1: like I want someone to be able to do those
Speaker 1: things that I go to the farmer's market with, travel with,
Speaker 1: go to the beach with, go on dates with. I'm
Speaker 1: more so like want that companionship. So that's what I
Speaker 1: would be looking for in a a relationship right now. I
Speaker 1: don't necessarily have to be like married and like pop
Speaker 1: out a kid, but you know, I would like to
Speaker 1: have a kid before I'm thirty. You know, is that weird? No,
Speaker 1: not at all. I think that's perfectly normal. Um, when
Speaker 1: you do you what do you do for work in
Speaker 1: l A, Because that is a big part of it too,
Speaker 1: because when I was there and single, kind of like
Speaker 1: what you're saying, I had all this free time and
Speaker 1: all I wanted was something like if I wanted to
Speaker 1: date someone, I wanted to date someone that had the
Speaker 1: same amount of free time as me, so we could
Speaker 1: do those things like travel farmer's market, whatever it might be.
Speaker 1: But it's hard to find something well maybe less in
Speaker 1: l A. It's hard to find this. But when your
Speaker 1: schedule is so free and open, it's hard to find
Speaker 1: someone that doesn't that also has that like freedom, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: out well, I think part of the problem for me
Speaker 1: is I'm not, like I don't have a lot of freedom. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I work from home because I work technically in Dallas, Like,
Speaker 1: I still have a full time job, so I work
Speaker 1: from home. And that's probably a majority of my problem
Speaker 1: is I'm at home a lot of the times and
Speaker 1: content creations, so it's like I'm working two jobs. So
Speaker 1: I really don't have that much free time. And the
Speaker 1: kind of guys that I do don't have a lot
Speaker 1: of free time, you know, and they travel a lot
Speaker 1: for work and stuff like that, so it's always like
Speaker 1: scheduling conflicts. That's probably part of the reason I'm single.
Speaker 1: But a lot of people are free, Like I'll look
Speaker 1: at my friends stories and they're like at the gym
Speaker 1: at like one o'clock in the afternoon, and like what
Speaker 1: I always think that too, because I don't have a job.
Speaker 1: I'm unemployed, but every time I go to the gym
Speaker 1: at like eleven am on a weekday. I like look
Speaker 1: around and I'm like, why are all these people here?
Speaker 1: Tonch of jobs? And then I look in the mirror
Speaker 1: and I'm like, but I'm here, So I can't really
Speaker 1: say anything about it. You know, I love it, though.
Speaker 1: I want that flexibility. That's something I'm definitely working towards.
Speaker 1: It is very nice. And you kept mentioning traveling with
Speaker 1: a significant other. I will say the first couple of
Speaker 1: times you travel with someone new when you're in a relationship,
Speaker 1: that is the most fun because then you wake up
Speaker 1: together and you get coffee and it's like firtatious and
Speaker 1: new and free, and you get dinner. Your entire day
Speaker 1: is just you guys. You know, you wake up and
Speaker 1: you go get coffee and it's like to keep snuggle
Speaker 1: time when you're waking up together. And then you go
Speaker 1: get like lunch or food, because that's what you do
Speaker 1: when you're on vacation and you go by the pool
Speaker 1: and relax for a while. Then you come back and
Speaker 1: cuddle more and then shower and then go out to
Speaker 1: dinner and it was a fun times. Those are good days. Actually.
Speaker 1: Thanks for sharing how to date someone on a trip. Jared,
Speaker 1: we appreciate it. It's a great it's a great vacation.
Speaker 1: Three days of that. So what do you think of
Speaker 1: what do you think of going to Italy for your
Speaker 1: first date? Is that a first date option? Or now
Speaker 1: I'm I'm down to do that? Like Victorian Greg so
Speaker 1: was that their first date? Allegedly that was their first date.
Speaker 1: They went on their first date to Italy together, which
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, more power to them. That's a pretty
Speaker 1: badass first date. But Jared, I don't know if you
Speaker 1: watched this this most recent season in Paradise, but Deandred
Speaker 1: it sounds like you might have seen some of it
Speaker 1: a little bit, but not a whole lot. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: got got you. It's like the only best I do
Speaker 1: remember that that was that was my highlight of the show. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, my my only thought before we move on
Speaker 1: on the Victorian Greg thing would be, Um, I'm kind
Speaker 1: of in the camp that I just don't believe anything
Speaker 1: right now because I've been hearing so many different stories
Speaker 1: that I'm like, I just don't believe either side. I think, Um,
Speaker 1: you know, I know the cliche line is, you know
Speaker 1: there's two sides to every story and the truth lies
Speaker 1: and somewhere in the middle, I'm just choosing not to
Speaker 1: believe either side because they're so like it's just one
Speaker 1: side is saying one thing and the other side saying
Speaker 1: something completely different from the clips that I've seen, I've
Speaker 1: not watched either full interview between Johnny and then the
Speaker 1: Gregor Victoria one, But that's my two cents on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's gotta be tough to break up with your fiancee
Speaker 1: and then do interviews that only revolve around you breaking
Speaker 1: up with your fiance like that sucks for both of them,
Speaker 1: for all of them. I don't know. I I don't
Speaker 1: I don't envy them in any way really, but hellum no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: But but yeah, you're right. Let's take a quick break, Jared,
Speaker 1: and we can come back with Deandra and maybe talk
Speaker 1: about some headlines your favorite segment if you don't mind,
Speaker 1: So take a quick break. We'll be right back. Hey,
Speaker 1: welcome back to help I suck a dating Dean myself.
Speaker 1: DeAndre is still here, going to go over a quick
Speaker 1: hot topic. Uh so, DeAndre, do you watch Dancing with
Speaker 1: the Stars at all? Um? Not really, but I mean obviously,
Speaker 1: I know the concepts. I know Gabby is on it
Speaker 1: right now. Yep, so Gabby is on it former bachelorette,
Speaker 1: our current bachelorette because she's maybe still single. We don't
Speaker 1: really know, but Gabby Windy is her last name from
Speaker 1: this headline. And I've heard all over the social media
Speaker 1: platforms that she got lou flirty with the Vinny from
Speaker 1: Jersey Shore after her and her fiance Eric broke up
Speaker 1: from the show. So the article goes, the speculation continues.
Speaker 1: Gabby made another flirty appearance in Vinnie's comments after the
Speaker 1: pair previously sparked romance rumors. Now the Jersey Short star
Speaker 1: took to social media on Monday to share several posts
Speaker 1: of himself. The caption was, y'all need to get with
Speaker 1: a strong seven or eight with a good personality. If
Speaker 1: he's too hot, he's not going to be funny or cook,
Speaker 1: Vinny wrote, alongside an Instagram video of himself dancing. Now
Speaker 1: the video also excuse me, that was the overlay, and
Speaker 1: the caption says, when you're meet when your medium hop
Speaker 1: as somebody fine likes you. And then Gabby in the
Speaker 1: comments wrote, quote honestly at ten Now the Internet actration
Speaker 1: came shortly after uh they re lied to each other
Speaker 1: um from after Vinnie shared a snap of himself writing quote,
Speaker 1: if I'm a lot, go find less, and then Gabby
Speaker 1: wrote once again in the comments, a lot of you
Speaker 1: is never enough. So it's pretty pretty feels pretty confident
Speaker 1: that these two are flirting, dating, potentially in a relationship. Now.
Speaker 1: I never watched reality TV before I was on Bachelor
Speaker 1: except for one show, and that was Jersey Shore, and
Speaker 1: I started watching it because DJ pauly D is from Johnston,
Speaker 1: Rhode Island. I'm a Rhode Island boy, and anytime someone's
Speaker 1: on Rhode Island but someone from Rhode Islands on TV,
Speaker 1: you watch that show because you support your local Rhode Islanders.
Speaker 1: And then I fell in love with the show because
Speaker 1: I think it's hysterical and fantastic. And one of the
Speaker 1: characters I loved most of course was Vinnie. So the
Speaker 1: idea that Vinnie and Vinnie has been on this podcast before.
Speaker 1: He's awesome, great guy. So I would love nothing more
Speaker 1: for selfish purposes if Vinnie started dating Gabby, because then
Speaker 1: he is kind of like a part of Bachelor family,
Speaker 1: like all of us and the idea that I would
Speaker 1: be in the same grouping as Vinnie would just be
Speaker 1: a dream come true. So selfishly, I'm hoping that these
Speaker 1: two get married. I mean, there's definitely something going on,
Speaker 1: because if they're bold enough to reply to each other
Speaker 1: in the comments and there has to be d m s,
Speaker 1: which means they're probably some kind of something going on.
Speaker 1: I would love that too. I guess they were on
Speaker 1: that show together for a long time, so wouldn't be
Speaker 1: the craziest thing in the world. But it is. Uh,
Speaker 1: it is funny, how especially when you go on a
Speaker 1: dating show and Vinny was. I mean that Jersey Shore
Speaker 1: is not a dating show, but they dated on that show.
Speaker 1: Any type of interaction you have with your preferred gender
Speaker 1: is going to be labeled as flirtatious or anything like that.
Speaker 1: So it is just funny to see like the stirrup
Speaker 1: of a reaction that those comments get. But they are,
Speaker 1: I mean, they are very over the top flirtatious, but
Speaker 1: it's I wouldn't read too much into it personally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, right, it's not very but I guess at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, they're both single, so you're
Speaker 1: doing it on purpose because they know exactly what they're doing,
Speaker 1: which I can't blame them one bit, especially if they're
Speaker 1: actually dating. I'm surprised that more relationships don't come from
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars because you're in this. I know,
Speaker 1: it's you know, work, and you know you're getting paid
Speaker 1: to do it, and it's a TV show, but you're,
Speaker 1: you know, dancing, at least in my experience, I'm not
Speaker 1: a professional dancer. It's a very intimate and you know,
Speaker 1: I guess sexualized. I don't know how to phrase it,
Speaker 1: but it's very intimate right between you and another person.
Speaker 1: And then especially in Dancing with the Stars, everybody's always
Speaker 1: dressed up. You're probably in great shape because you're practicing
Speaker 1: all the time. You're always in these beautiful costumes, and
Speaker 1: dance itself is very attractive. I'm surprised that there's like
Speaker 1: not more relationships that come from Dancing with the Stars,
Speaker 1: or maybe there are and we just never hear about it.
Speaker 1: M just because you're that close to somebody. It could
Speaker 1: be awkward if you're in a relationship and they're not
Speaker 1: and you get I don't know. Yeah, I remember when
Speaker 1: Joe was on it, he kind of gave us a
Speaker 1: glimpse behind the curtain, and I think there are a
Speaker 1: lot more relationships than we see. And like, obviously the
Speaker 1: premise of the show mostly is dancing, and they get
Speaker 1: these like little sidebar storylines that they maybe like to
Speaker 1: share sometimes. But I do think I remember hearing him
Speaker 1: say there's a lot more going on behind the curtain
Speaker 1: then meets the eye, So I mean I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: surprised if there's a lot more. Yeah, um, but yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's interesting. I maybe one day we'll
Speaker 1: get the chance to go on Dancing with the Stars
Speaker 1: and will know for ourselves. Yeah, they should have Dancing
Speaker 1: with the Stars help by Second Dating edition, and then
Speaker 1: you and I will every every uh new episode will
Speaker 1: sign off like make sure you guys tune in next
Speaker 1: week where hopefully we suck a little less at dancing Dandrew,
Speaker 1: would you do Dancing with the Stars with us to
Speaker 1: help by second Dating version? Oh my gosh, I was
Speaker 1: just thinking, like I want to be on Dancing with
Speaker 1: the Stars. I think to be out of my element,
Speaker 1: but like in the best way. Yeah, I'm a very
Speaker 1: bachelor version of it. Now that it's streaming, you could
Speaker 1: do all different types of of iterations because it's not
Speaker 1: primetime TV. Actually, we should we should pitch this. We're
Speaker 1: pitching it right now and help us suck a dating.
Speaker 1: There should be a Dancing with the Stars Bachelor edition
Speaker 1: were all the former Bachelor contestants alum that gets chosen
Speaker 1: get to compete against one another, and then a crown
Speaker 1: a champion would be crowned, and the judges are former
Speaker 1: Bachelor contestants that have one Dancing with the Stars because
Speaker 1: there's been Caitlin one didn't handle win Handle one? There
Speaker 1: anybody else? Did Nick win? It? Will? Nick didn't win?
Speaker 1: But who Gabby? Wasn't Gabby? Just runner up? There's your
Speaker 1: three judges right there, Kitlin, Gabby, Hannah and Melissa Ryecroft.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna have any judge judge dancing competition. Um,
Speaker 1: I've got a question for you guys. So Caylin and
Speaker 1: I like, she's doing a lot of wedding planning, so
Speaker 1: we talked about it every once in a while. She
Speaker 1: came up with this idea that she wants me to
Speaker 1: play my saxophone at the wedding, and I rebuttaled that
Speaker 1: idea with I want to play. Here comes the bride
Speaker 1: while I'm standing on the altar and while Kylin walks
Speaker 1: down the aisle on my saxophone. Oh my god, beautiful.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't that be the coolest thing of all time? But
Speaker 1: I feel like you'd miss seeing her though, like, you know,
Speaker 1: like to see her walk down the aisle. But I
Speaker 1: think that's such a cool idea. That's true, that's true.
Speaker 1: She also said she doesn't want like when the bride
Speaker 1: walks down the aisle, the bride typically wants all eyes
Speaker 1: on her, and she was saying, if I do that,
Speaker 1: people would like be looking at me and laughing instead
Speaker 1: of like putting their attention on her, which I get.
Speaker 1: I get that point, but it's still it's a war
Speaker 1: workshop in the idea, it's gonna there's gonna be some
Speaker 1: saxophone at the wedding. For sure. Easton will appreciate this reference.
Speaker 1: So sometimes you guys know the Marvel Cinematic Universe, Oh yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So sometimes lately the m c U as we call it,
Speaker 1: gets criticized because they'll throw jokes into a scene or
Speaker 1: scenario that should not be jokey and it should be
Speaker 1: taken very seriously, and they feel like it takes away
Speaker 1: from the drama because they go for the joke instead
Speaker 1: of really just making it a serious moment. You playing
Speaker 1: the saxophone while Klin walks down the aisle, the you know,
Speaker 1: very funny it would be. I mean, I would laugh.
Speaker 1: It would be a great jokey moment. But I do
Speaker 1: think that Kalin is correct that if it was me,
Speaker 1: would I be watching Calin walk down the aisle or
Speaker 1: Dean playing here comes the Bride on his saxophone while
Speaker 1: sailing at the altar? My eyes are on Dean, and
Speaker 1: I'd be laughing my ass off while Calin was walking
Speaker 1: down the aisland. I'm not sure if that's what If
Speaker 1: she wants to hear like all these dudes laughing while
Speaker 1: she goes down the aisle. Yeah, I think the compromise.
Speaker 1: The compromise might end up being I might play here
Speaker 1: comes the Groom as I walk down the aisle. That's
Speaker 1: pretty good. Yeah, but there's gonna be some saxophone there. Um.
Speaker 1: But we are doing a lot of wedding planning. Well
Speaker 1: generally speaking, we're still kind of you know, we're like
Speaker 1: ten months away, but I can't remember when you We
Speaker 1: don't have a date set, but we have like a season,
Speaker 1: so I guess that kind of helps a little bit.
Speaker 1: I remember when you were talking about the wedding planning
Speaker 1: process and I was always like brushing it off, Like whatever, Jared,
Speaker 1: you're just being dramatic about it. There's so much that
Speaker 1: goes into it and we've barely even just catch the surface.
Speaker 1: Yet it is. It is a very exhausting experience. Just
Speaker 1: wait for the last two weeks. We were like, we
Speaker 1: still love to do all this and we have fourteen
Speaker 1: days left. This sucks. Yeah, yeah, a lot of coordinating cool,
Speaker 1: and just money. It's so expensive. I thought that we
Speaker 1: were going to be able to save money because we
Speaker 1: could use like my friends property in Aspen, and I
Speaker 1: texted him, I was like, hey, cound we like get
Speaker 1: married at your ranch and he's like, oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: of course. Just just reach out to my sister. And
Speaker 1: then we talked to the sister and she was like,
Speaker 1: trying to charge this full price, and full price is
Speaker 1: way too much money for us to get married in Aspen,
Speaker 1: so we might have to like diver and go somewhere else.
Speaker 1: But just the money aspect alone is like it's pretty intimidating.
Speaker 1: My biggest uh advice for you Dean. Right now, for
Speaker 1: you and calin Uh is to just be shameless and
Speaker 1: ask for things in exchange for promotion, because that's what
Speaker 1: Ashley and I did and it helped out a lot.
Speaker 1: Because weddings are expensive, but your wedding will get a
Speaker 1: lot of attention and it will be written in articles.
Speaker 1: And if you get, say someone like People magazine to
Speaker 1: say we'll put you in the you know. I mean
Speaker 1: that's if you're like, hey, listen, guys, you got you
Speaker 1: know for a vendor, You'll be in People magazine. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you a very personal question that I
Speaker 1: need you to answer honestly? Yeah? Sure, I'm an open
Speaker 1: book at this point in my life. How much money
Speaker 1: did you spend out of pocket for your entire wedding? Oh?
Speaker 1: I don't know. If I don't know how overnight about this?
Speaker 1: Dean wants to know how much we spent on the wedding.
Speaker 1: We can't say, come on, it's it was. I mean
Speaker 1: it was in the six figures obviously. Oh okay, that's
Speaker 1: enough for me to know. I don't want to know anymore.
Speaker 1: But that was all like it wasn't it was? It
Speaker 1: was a family affair. Yours was quite grand You had
Speaker 1: a quite a grand wedding. We had a grand wedding,
Speaker 1: and um, that was a part of you know, a
Speaker 1: big a portion of it. When we were talking about
Speaker 1: wedding and you guys are going through the same thing,
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, well do we save this money and
Speaker 1: use it on a down payment of a house or
Speaker 1: do we put the money into a wedding? And so
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, we were, like I said, we
Speaker 1: realized that the wedding would be like a moment, you know,
Speaker 1: and uh, something that would uh it's just something that
Speaker 1: we wanted and we knew it would be good for us,
Speaker 1: and and we wanted we always wanted a big wedding,
Speaker 1: and we just we were when we decided to do it,
Speaker 1: we said, okay, let's do it. But you know, obviously
Speaker 1: there was in the wedding planning process. Man, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of like, um, trying to save money as much
Speaker 1: as possible, you know, and these because these vendors charged
Speaker 1: a lot of money, and rightfully so, they do a
Speaker 1: lot of work. But you know, if you can somehow,
Speaker 1: you know, save some money on your wedding on and
Speaker 1: make it as beautiful as possible, why wouldn't you do that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's fair. I had another follow up question. I forgot
Speaker 1: what it was, though it was it was definitely yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. I'll tell you some other time. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: We're also trying to figure out, like the number of
Speaker 1: guests that we're gonna have, how many guests were at
Speaker 1: yours because yours and yours was a good size, like
Speaker 1: the perfect size, about one seventy. I think we ended
Speaker 1: up having seventy. How much do you know that many people?
Speaker 1: I like, I think I want to only about like
Speaker 1: twenty of my friends and like teen weeks of family wedding.
Speaker 1: I mean that's pretty good. But how do you know?
Speaker 1: I know you're I know you're a popular guy, but like,
Speaker 1: how do you find a hundred and eighty people to
Speaker 1: come to a wedding? Dude adds up fast man, when
Speaker 1: you think about the plus ones were a big one
Speaker 1: and then you think about it, I mean, so I
Speaker 1: had what there were seven groomsmen? I think seven or eight,
Speaker 1: And dude, if you guys all had plus one and
Speaker 1: they're sixteen people in a blink of an eye, and
Speaker 1: then you um and like between cousins, like I think,
Speaker 1: so my dad has four brothers and sisters. All of
Speaker 1: them have plus ones, so that's eight and then there's
Speaker 1: probably like fourteen kids between them and then plus one
Speaker 1: for some of them. So like just between those those
Speaker 1: two groups of people, you're talking about like fifty people
Speaker 1: right there. Yeah, that's true. We're we're like planning our
Speaker 1: engagement party right now, and we have a forty person
Speaker 1: venue and I like struggled to get forty people to
Speaker 1: come to an engagement party. Oh dude, you, I mean,
Speaker 1: well how many you just have one? You just have
Speaker 1: your brother, right? Well, I got my two brothers, my sister.
Speaker 1: I'm like not close with my aunts, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: invite them, I guess. But my point is, like we
Speaker 1: were making a list of friends in l A that
Speaker 1: we wanted to come to our engagement party, and I
Speaker 1: was like, in my head, I always am like, oh,
Speaker 1: I've got a lot of friends, Like I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: have any issues with this, And then I was like
Speaker 1: trying to write them all down, and I was like, man,
Speaker 1: I don't have that many friends. I'm finding out, which
Speaker 1: I guess it's fine, but but not all your friends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true. In l A is important that's a that's
Speaker 1: a good point. I don't know it's gonna be It's
Speaker 1: gonna be a tricky situation. But you guys need to
Speaker 1: set aside all the fall next year because you're both
Speaker 1: coming to the wedding, so just to be ready for that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's go, let's go party. What other hot topics you got, Forest, Jared.
Speaker 1: I think that's actually gonna do it because we have
Speaker 1: uh we're wrapping up here on the on the final
Speaker 1: episode and not final episode, uh close to the final
Speaker 1: Help by such a Dating? Why are you looking at me?
Speaker 1: What do you mean the final episode? People? No, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, this thing is never gonna stop. We're gonna
Speaker 1: be eighties still talking about how much we suck at dating. Um,
Speaker 1: but no, not of two? What is what is the week?
Speaker 1: We have three more episodes left, something like that before
Speaker 1: God talmey flies by. Anyway, I think that's gonna do
Speaker 1: it for this week's episode of Help by such a Dating.
Speaker 1: De Andre, thank you so much for joining us. You
Speaker 1: were awesome. I think you're gonna be here for Thursday's
Speaker 1: episode of the Caller episode, which will be a lot
Speaker 1: of fun. Um Dean, Yeah, oh I love you too.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say I felt I feel bad
Speaker 1: because de Andrew is an incredible co host, and I
Speaker 1: felt like I was just Grill and Jared with wedding
Speaker 1: questions the whole time. No, I love it. I love
Speaker 1: being the third party listening here, and we appreciate you.
Speaker 1: You're You're the best. We hope to have you back June.
Speaker 1: Like Jared said, we'll have you for the Thursday's episode
Speaker 1: as well. Um, Jared, thanks for the insight of the
Speaker 1: wedding planning. I might have some more follow up questions,
Speaker 1: but I'll keep that off to the side in a
Speaker 1: in a private text, Um, we still have to figure
Speaker 1: out your punishment for losing at fantasy football. That that
Speaker 1: was an action I never took on myself because I
Speaker 1: guess I just forgetful and lazy. But thank you to
Speaker 1: the listeners out there, Dandrew, thank you again for joining us,
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