WEBVTT - Episode 96: Ft. Fat Boy 0:00:01.480 --> 0:00:03.960 Alright, what's up. It's a lift service. I'm Angela yee, 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:07.640 I'm Stephanie Santiago. It's been by the way, it was 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:13.080 her birthday, Happy birthday, beautiful vacation, and we got fat 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:16.640 boy here with us. What's up? Hey? What's We're in 0:00:16.720 --> 0:00:18.760 the bill that there's a lot of pressure on him 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:22.200 to be funny today. So yeah, like that's easy though, 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:25.360 because it's it's organic. All right, good, well, let's keep 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.880 it organic. Now we started with our sex tip. How 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:29.840 do you make sure our woman has an orgasm every 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:41.919 single time? Oh? Damn, um uh, this is you can 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:44.720 say anything I say. You know, I finger a finger 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:48.680 the pussy. Wow, you're the first fingerer. Were packing finger? 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:51.680 You're not looking on it a little bit? Look on 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:55.440 the click Okay, I know you said look on her computer. Okay, 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:57.880 So you make her your finger like you pop it 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:00.920 or you like play with it like fingers are used, 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:03.400 these two fingers and not just in you know what 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:06.480 I mean. That's and he's his third finger and his 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:12.440 ring finger. You may lick it afterwards. That's sexy. So 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.479 you finger her while you lick it, or is it 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:19.640 like alternating and alternating finger it? Then you know what 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:21.760 I mean, I lick it, then I put my fingers 0:01:21.760 --> 0:01:23.919 in my mouth, you know, and that guarantees an orgasm. 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.679 Would you rather that she come like in your mouth 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:32.640 or would you rather she come during penetration? During penetration? Penetration, ladies, 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:38.640 how would you rather come penetration for sure? Yeah, like 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:46.320 she's having a moment. Yeah, yeah, the flashback stuff I like. Um, 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:49.080 I like the end. I like the internal like penetration 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:52.920 orgasm because it just feels it's a little different, you 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:55.400 know what I mean. Like when I'm masturbating, I can 0:01:55.480 --> 0:02:01.080 make myself come from you know, clitoral stimulation, right, so 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:03.760 it's like, you know, it's nothing special, But when a 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:07.080 guy could actually make you come from the inside, yeah, 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:10.040 it's different. I think for me, it's like anytime you 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:13.080 can make me orgasm anyway, whether it be finger or tongue, 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:15.600 I'll take it. But like you know, if you fingering 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:18.000 me or like you're eating me out, I'm just like, yeah, 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:20.680 I need that dick like coming right to please. Do 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:22.160 you have an eat her and then put your finger 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.720 in her butt too? Yeah? Of course I'm nasty, so 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:32.160 I do all. I'm nasty toes and everything. Does anybody 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:34.840 in here like having your toes? Like I've had my 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:38.160 toes sucked a couple of times, man, And I gotta say, 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:41.600 I think it's more exciting for the guy. But the guy. 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:44.280 I think it's more exciting for the guy. Yeah, because 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:49.120 for me, it's like why, like the tickles, this is stupid? 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:52.200 Why is this happening? Like I haven't got in a 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:56.799 pedicure in like a week? Why are you? Yeah? When 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:58.519 is that? Like? When would you suck her toes? Like 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.680 if you see that her toes aren't done, ain't If 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.440 they ain't if they're bad, like they bad, ain't done, 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.320 then I ain't doing it. But they're looking good, looking 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:10.360 good I'm doing as she got that white nail. Probably 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:14.480 guys always want to suck toes in awkward moments, you 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:17.720 know what I mean. Like you're like like he's up 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.399 and you're laying on your back and your legs on 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:23.799 the feet are in the face and then boom. Why 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:27.280 that's kind of sometimes they might prevent the moment from happening, 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:29.960 like can you please not telling you? It's like, oh, 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:32.840 you're just you're just not laughing. Now it's funny. Now 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:36.400 you're doing something is all right now I want to see. Um, 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.320 we were talking about Hedonism before you got here, right, 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:41.280 because I think we're all going to go to Hedonism. 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:45.320 It's in Jamaica. It's a resort where everybody's naked. Yeah, 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:48.960 I'll go there too. You would, all right? So, um, 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:52.480 so we would? Would you all be naked like Hedonism 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:56.640 if everybody else was, I wouldn't. I shot Smooth Magazine 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:59.400 and Hedonism, and I was naked a lot of the time, 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:02.440 but only when I was with crewel people. Because it's 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:07.320 like everybody's naked and guys are like kind of awkward 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:09.640 about it, like and it's like, you know, it's kind 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:12.360 of when the thing. I love Hedonism though, it's really fun. 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.080 But the only like it's kind of awkward to see 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:19.000 if guys walking around with soft things over the place. Yeah, 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:20.880 keep it with that, but you don't want nobody to 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:23.880 look at you soft. That's the only reason why it's awkward. 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:36.680 As soon as I hate, I know I'm are, I 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.360 don't know. It's interesting because I feel like if everyone's naked, 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:42.120 you feel comfortable being naked. But I think for me, 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:47.240 having everybody look at you like that, and yeah, yeah, no, 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.440 I don't think I'll do it though, I don't think 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:51.880 I'll be naked. I probably walk around with a little 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:58.200 thong and a cute top, but should naked. Yeah, beach 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:01.480 playing footballiday. I think it's easier for a guy. I 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.400 mean it's easy for some girls too, but I think 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:06.320 guys don't give a fun but a hedonism. When you're 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:10.240 wearing clothes, they make you feel uncomfortable, like exactly like 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.880 a spy. It's more like you're more comfortable when you're 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.279 naked than when you're wearing clothes, because when you're wearing clothes, 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:18.520 everybody's like, are you comfortable naked and soft? Though? Because 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:22.960 you're not gonna be hard the whole time I'm saying, 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:28.960 I'm saying, are you a shower or a grower? Because 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:31.360 you know, sometimes you see the guy's penis and he's 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:35.480 flaccid as they say it's in limp. It looked awful. Yeah, 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:38.360 it's like, damn, I don't know if I want to 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.200 do that. But then some guys just bust up out 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:43.600 like the incredible Hope. So how is that like a 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:47.160 hedonism when everyone's naked. I'm sure there are guys that 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.599 will get a hard on so are they walking around 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:56.800 Stay await, here's the thing. They are approach. They are 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:59.680 approach you soft, and then as they're talking to you, 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:04.400 it starts growing and you're trying to be here, You're 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:08.880 trying to not look at it. But that is weird. 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:10.560 If you watch your boys and like you're like your man, 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:16.920 let's get a drinking. Watch out, you know your homies 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:19.520 day they try to yo, what's up? But watch out 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:22.240 you guys chilling at the bar and a bunch of 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:25.599 girls won't by naked and all your boys starts going hard. 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:30.640 That's weird. Watch. But guys get erections at like weird 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.320 random times, right, Yeah, I used to get that gym 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:36.479 all the time. Damn, that's awkward gym all the time, 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:39.560 and then it would be so crazy. You gotta it's crazy. 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:42.840 It's more awkward though, getting an erection at like a 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:47.440 weird time or not getting one if you had to choose. Um, 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:52.520 I don't know, I'm saying getting one, yeah, I would. 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:56.240 I would get it to not get me. Yeah, so 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:57.960 I think not getting it will be is a more 0:06:58.040 --> 0:07:01.839 awkward time. That's bad. But sometimes guys get really drunk. 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:03.720 By the way, we have drinks for you if you 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:06.960 want something appreciate. Yeah, we got you because we heard 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:09.120 that's what you like. You went lemonade with it or 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:12.800 simply would appreciate that. But we want to make sure 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:17.920 you're taken care of appreciate. Now we're gonna play a 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:20.600 little gang because I just want to see how much 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:24.520 you guys really know about different sex terminology and how 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:29.360 many things you've tried. Okay, do you know what is 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:36.680 the supernova? The supernova Stephanie, I'm looking at you. It's supernova. 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:40.280 I'm gonna guess. Okay, yes, can I guess? The super 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:47.640 nova is when um, a guy cream pas your ass? 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.520 How did you come up with that? That's when a 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:53.560 girl feels her mouth with pop rocks and then gives 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:58.320 you a blow job. Oh that's awful. That like pops 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:08.360 in your mouth? So that Oh yeah, I tried that 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:12.320 feeling like that. You ever been chewing gum and gave 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:15.960 somebody a blowjob and been like, oh man, you going 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:19.960 to the side and the guide I was drunk and 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:24.280 I was I was given a guy had with gum 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.760 in my mouth, and I totally forgot it was there. 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:29.240 I swear, I told me, And I remember putting the 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.880 gum in my mouth, and I just the next thing 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.000 I know, I wake up and my I got gum 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:36.800 in my hair and went into my hair gum and 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:42.120 come ye, all right, here's another thing that I've never 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:46.120 heard of. This the Kentucky klan dag bar no idea, 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:50.680 what angela? Where are you getting these from urban dictionary? Okay? 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:53.520 This is when you freeze a bowel movement and then 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:56.600 you penetrate somebody with the frozen bowel move That's disgusting. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:02.319 That's the wait, what does that another way? Did you 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:04.439 take a piece of ship, freeze it and then take 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:13.959 your hold dog and then guy forbid it. That's a weird. 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:22.480 That's a weird, shitty fetish. Who's doing that? Have you 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:27.280 ever have you ever penetrated your girlfriend with an object? Yeah? 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:31.760 Is it like a real dildo or vibrator or just 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:35.000 an object like it was? It was it was just 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:39.280 like this plastic thing, this white plastic that you can 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:42.120 get sick off that. Did you put a condom on it? 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:47.880 Did you sanitizlastic thing? It was from auspices. It was 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:52.320 some it. She doesn't remember this, she remembered. She just said, oh, yeah, 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:57.199 she's here by the way, he said special, yea, we 0:09:57.200 --> 0:09:59.439 paid twins for it. It's um, I don't know what 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:04.640 it was, probably a massager. Yeah, you didn't describe that 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:09.559 well this white thing. Yeah, it was like, boy, you 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:13.440 better not talking. Do you like using toys? I'm saying, yeah, 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:22.240 I'm a free November? Okay. Yeah, but they're also cheaters. Uh. 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:25.920 He looked down. She said, that's the fact I had 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:29.600 a scorpio boyfriend at one point that was definitely a cheater. Now, 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:31.520 a lot of people also have written in some questions. 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:33.199 We'll get back to some of these terminologies, and I 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:35.520 want to see what you think about this. Okay. One 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:37.640 girl is asking. She's saying, she's the only young black 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:39.599 woman in her department at work, and she wants to 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.559 go on a few nice trips to celebrate her success 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.079 or her friends ain't got the money for that. Is 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:47.480 it safe for her to travel alone? No? Hell no, 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:52.439 friends get their bags up, friends up, go go do 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.280 with your friend to have of the time. Have you 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:58.000 ever been on vacation by yourself? No? No, because I 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:03.880 bring my niggas with me. Well, I m I I've 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:06.880 traveled by myself a lot, and I just feel like 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:09.559 it depends on where you're going, you know what I mean, 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:13.800 Like you can't go to Paris or two. I feel 0:11:13.840 --> 0:11:16.880 like London is is safe to go by yourself, but 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:19.800 Paris is not. And I feel like Miami you can 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:22.440 go by yourself. You're probably gonna meet a lot of people. 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:25.600 Depends what hotel you stage, yes, exactly. I just feel 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.920 like it depends in just certain places, Like I wouldn't 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:30.520 recommend going to the Caribbean by yourself and for how 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:32.920 long to you. It depends in the Caribbean with island 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.560 you're going to, because some of them, like I wouldn't 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.240 recommend Puerto Rico by yourself, and I wouldn't recommend to 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:40.079 medic Republic by yours if you're staying like on a 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:43.880 resort and you're not really going to is that. You know, 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:47.320 those are places are crazy. Mexico by yourself, those are 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:50.439 like the heat makes people a little strange. I think 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:52.600 it also. I think it depends on who you are, 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:54.800 how long you're going for, and what you're going for, 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:56.400 because if you're going for like a week and a 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:59.480 half by yourself, that's exploring everything, it's kind of long, 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:02.000 and then you're gonna want to talk to people, get 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:04.160 to know people in the town, and you don't necessarily 0:12:04.240 --> 0:12:06.400 really know who they are or what their intentions are. 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.760 But I have to say, man, I've traveled. I used 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:10.920 to go to Miami by myself all the time. I 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:13.640 used to go to Miami by myself before. Like, now 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:16.200 I know where I go, I'm gonna know people everywhere 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:19.880 I go. But before I didn't really know people. I 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.839 knew a handful of people. And I'm not gonna lie. 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:24.920 It's not it's not fun. It's not fun being by yourself, 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:28.640 Like you don't really get to be my day ones. 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:30.000 I like to you know what I mean? Would you 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:35.160 rather go on vacation with your boys or your girl? Both? No? 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:43.000 Go pick one, um, because they're all in here, everybody 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:47.880 looking like you have to say that you have to 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.640 think about I wasn't thinking. I already knew that I wasn't. 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:53.160 I wasn't thinking I'll go to my girl. She's like 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:56.600 mad as hell right now. What's a good vacation. Okay, 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:58.920 let's say she wants to go somewhere. You want to 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:01.160 surprise her. Are you a planner? Or did she got 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.439 a planet and you just she got a planet and 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:06.360 then I just paid for it. That's fair enough. Can 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:09.120 she go on vacation with her friends a girl's chick? No, 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:13.080 what you be going with your boys your day? One? 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:17.640 What's wrong with that? Right? She can't go because I 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:20.120 don't know some of her friends, hose and not, just 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.959 like she don't know some of your boys. And that's 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.720 that's understandable. But I would have passed in the relationships. 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:28.640 She's not going. I said, no, not fat boy, some 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:37.280 of your friends hose Um, Oh no, all right, that first, 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:40.600 right answer. He's not supposed to be righting on his friends. Yeah, 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:47.800 don't do nothing because you can't never admit to your girl, 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:50.000 yes they because then she's gonna say I don't want 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.800 you with them? Right. Yeah, that's the biggest mistake you 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:56.520 can make in a relationship to all your significant your 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:59.599 friends as business. But I think as a woman, you 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:02.679 know who's who, and yeah, but you have to you. 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.200 I mean, when you have when you're in a relationship 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:06.880 with somebody and you're spending a lot of alone time 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:08.719 with them, you're talking with them, and you know what 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:10.880 I mean that your friend text you and he's like, oh, 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:12.800 what's up, and like you're telling him and you don't 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:14.959 even mean to tell on your friend. You know, it's 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:18.280 just random conversation with your man. And now two weeks 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:19.840 later you're like, oh, I'm gonna go over here with 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:22.320 x Y and he's like, after she was doing that. 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:26.880 You can't you cannot imagine you tell your man my 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.440 friends just said three dicks in wondering, right, and that 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:35.080 he's definitely not sure yeah, or even just being around, 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.240 Like if you're out with your man and his friends 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:39.640 are around and they're doing something funny or vice versa, 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.000 he's out with you and your girls and she's acting mixed, 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:43.560 they're gonna look at that and be like, is this 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:46.760 how it always is? Right? Okay? How they actually not 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:49.960 going on? What if this? What if it's like somebody's 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:53.160 getting married, it's the Bachelor that weekend? Oh no, you 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:55.320 still ain't going because you know it's gonna be strippers. 0:14:56.520 --> 0:15:00.320 What do you think women strips? Right of A? No, 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:03.240 I think it's more likely you're not going to the 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:06.160 show club either, because we can't try. I think it's 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:09.160 I think it's more likely for a guy to have 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:14.200 sex with a stripper or like during the bachelor party 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:19.920 ship than a girl. You know, even if we do 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:26.240 spot days and we go to dinner, even if starts 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:32.760 with each other. No, but I do. I get my feet, 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:42.240 my clean, a little polished. Like all right, here's the 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:45.080 next question. Um this one person said. I was in 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:47.480 a relationship for four years, the latter two of the 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:49.360 years I moved to Charlotte while she stayed in be 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:52.640 A long story short, We've been trying the long distance thing. However, 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:55.600 recently I'm feeling disconnected to her. I'm not attracted to 0:15:55.680 --> 0:15:57.800 her mentally anymore. I realized this after I brought her 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:00.480 around my new friends and she wouldn't so she lies 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:02.360 at all, which was a huge turn off for me. 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:04.680 How imprating is it to date somebody that gets along 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:08.360 and socializes with your friends. She's very important because if 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:14.040 you don't, you're gonna lose your friends. Seated, Stephanie's like, 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:16.080 I don't want to be around your friends. I mean, 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:19.080 I feel like this, I'm always gonna be. I'm always 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:22.120 that girlfriend that all my I wherever I'm dating their 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:24.880 friends is like, you know what, stuff is so cool? 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:28.480 Like right, she's so cool, she's so real, she's so 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:31.120 down to earth, Like I love stuff. We can watch 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:34.520 football with stuff. Stuff is amazing. But as soon as 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:36.640 the door closes and I'm with my man, I'm like, listen, 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:40.640 I hate all of them. Awful. They holes. Every time 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:43.480 you do something, you try to blame one of them, like, uh, 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:48.480 but just to make him happy, I'm cool with everybody. Yeah, 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.800 I'll be there like, oh, hey, what's up the motherfucker 0:16:53.360 --> 0:16:55.960 you gotta that's a sacrifice I feel like you have 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:57.960 to make for your lover. I don't expect for my 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:01.440 my lover to be cool with my friends, but if 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:02.960 he wants me to be cool with friends, I'm gonna 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:05.440 treat them like. I think it's a difference between being 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:07.520 cool and being respectful, right, you know what I mean? 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.840 Because you could, like be around them and be respectful, 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.239 but you might not necessarily favor them because of how 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.360 they are what they've done. But for me, I think 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:18.119 it's important for my significant other to be cool with 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:20.879 my friends. I'm not saying you gotta go everywhere with us, 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:23.240 but you know, I don't want to feel separated. I 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:25.400 don't want to feel like, you know, there's a weird 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:27.760 energy every time I say I'm going out with my friends, 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:29.720 or when I tell my friends. I'm going out with 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:31.880 my man, you know what I mean? Friends don't like? Yeah? 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:34.560 Or when your man don't like your friends? Because I 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:37.600 had an ex boyfriend like that where I would want 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:39.680 to bring him around my friends and he always want 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:41.560 to be with me only and I'm like, dude, like 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:50.280 for me, none of my girlfriends, I don't like none 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:53.480 of my good Why there's don't like them? Don't you 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:56.720 seem overbearing in the relationship? Right? She can't go on 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:58.960 trips to the friends. You don't like none of her friends? 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:02.239 But what's your who? When I see it? What's up? 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:05.400 What makes you not like them? Have they done anything? 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:07.880 But I just don't like them? Let me guess why? 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:11.960 If I could guess, Okay, have you funked up in 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:17.399 the relationship? Yeah? And she told her friends, I guess you, 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:21.399 and so they probably would like him. And now you 0:18:21.440 --> 0:18:25.119 don't like them? Yeah, because they as friends they always 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:28.280 like they always on my Instagram like telling her what 0:18:28.400 --> 0:18:31.160 I'm don't like? Yeah, leave me alone, like I don't 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:35.640 like I'm not real friends, you know what I mean? 0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:37.920 Like I I comment like it don't even got to 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:46.520 be simple? Common heart eyes and some other girls. Let's 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:51.920 talk about that even had it like like it's something 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:57.959 like not different anything anything anything anything flirting anything anything. 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:02.960 But it looks to me alone. But if your girl 0:19:03.080 --> 0:19:05.040 was to do that on another guy's picture, would you 0:19:05.119 --> 0:19:07.800 think that's casual? You would think that's flirting. You'll be say, 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:12.520 break the phone. I posted a comment on a guy's 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:16.440 picture and he was like, he was like, oh, so 0:19:17.440 --> 0:19:19.680 he was like this, nig I got three hundred people 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:21.480 comments and hunting and ship and you just got to 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:26.800 be three hundred and one? Would you comment it was? 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:29.240 It was a heart? It was it was a heart. 0:19:29.280 --> 0:19:31.800 I commented that on Nicky Jam. I'm friends with Nicky Jam. 0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:34.359 That's my boy, okay, you know, like he has a 0:19:34.400 --> 0:19:38.360 wife and everything like Puerto Rican, you know connection, It's 0:19:38.440 --> 0:19:40.520 just my friend. And it depends on the post too, 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:43.240 because I've posted like hearts on on guys things. But 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:45.520 that's like if they have a picture of their family, right, 0:19:45.600 --> 0:19:47.720 And it was like like that. It was like he 0:19:47.840 --> 0:19:51.000 got an award or something like that, and I put 0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:53.200 it and he was like, he was like, oh you 0:19:53.320 --> 0:19:54.840 had to say. He was like you you had to 0:19:54.960 --> 0:19:57.720 be three. He got three thousand comments, you have to 0:19:57.760 --> 0:20:00.800 be three thousand and one. But let's okay, but let's 0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:03.520 dissect this for a second. As women, we leave hard 0:20:03.560 --> 0:20:07.640 eyes under each other's pictures, right under other women's whatever. Men, 0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:10.879 y'all don't leave hard eyes under each other's pictures, So 0:20:11.119 --> 0:20:14.199 you can't be leaving them under some other woman's picture, right. 0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:16.120 But it wasn't like that. It was like I said, 0:20:16.160 --> 0:20:18.040 it was like they was getting a ward or somebody 0:20:18.160 --> 0:20:26.000 was getting award. They was graduating, graduated. It was graduated, 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:36.760 graduated like the city. She got a new car like ike, 0:20:36.880 --> 0:20:39.040 up with a little up with banks, a little car 0:20:39.119 --> 0:20:43.560 to make yourself leave it better. But is it like, okay, 0:20:43.920 --> 0:20:47.400 what about your female friends? Do you have female friends? Um? Yeah, 0:20:47.440 --> 0:20:50.640 I got I got female friends. Does your girl know them? Yeah? 0:20:50.760 --> 0:20:55.920 She said no, she like she knows, she knows of them. 0:20:56.280 --> 0:20:58.800 It's like when female friends. It's not like I got 0:20:58.920 --> 0:21:01.080 female friends. Like my best friend, like I got her 0:21:01.160 --> 0:21:05.520 time on me. I mean, what, yeah, that's my best friend? 0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:10.760 Do you and she? Are you cool? We're his best friend? Okay, 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:13.719 so that's you have a hit. Why don't have your 0:21:14.840 --> 0:21:17.520 because that's my best friends? Stance fourth grade? But I 0:21:17.560 --> 0:21:19.359 didn't do that. I never did nothing. All right, I 0:21:19.440 --> 0:21:22.240 could get that fourth grade, like, you know, I don't 0:21:22.240 --> 0:21:24.240 have my friend up together, but yeah, that's that's a 0:21:24.280 --> 0:21:27.720 strong statement that my best friend, but you have your 0:21:27.720 --> 0:21:30.640 girl's had it on YouTube on my back. Okay, Now, 0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:32.320 was that her asking you to do that or you 0:21:32.400 --> 0:21:34.919 just decided to do it? I just did it? Did 0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:36.960 you give her heads? Act? Like? No? I just did it. 0:21:37.800 --> 0:21:43.400 Do you want what signs he was in love? Yeah, 0:21:43.520 --> 0:21:50.840 I'm still in loved. Love so beautiful. So it's still 0:21:50.880 --> 0:21:53.840 when a guy could admit it comfortably, right, Yeah, that's 0:21:53.880 --> 0:21:56.280 really because you gotta be really you can't be in 0:21:56.320 --> 0:22:00.960 there now with yourself strategically. You have to let them know. Yeah, 0:22:01.359 --> 0:22:05.320 it's oh, this is the wrong thing. All right. Here's 0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:10.080 the next question that we got. All right, let's see, Okay, 0:22:10.400 --> 0:22:12.439 this person is asking for advice on a good way 0:22:12.520 --> 0:22:15.080 to get engaged to his girlfriend. He said, We've been 0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:16.920 together a little over two years. She's the love of 0:22:17.000 --> 0:22:18.959 my life, and I want to pop the question within 0:22:19.000 --> 0:22:20.520 the next two months, but I wanted to be special. 0:22:20.520 --> 0:22:22.040 I don't want to do it at a restaurant or 0:22:22.080 --> 0:22:24.920 in some type of typical way that people normally propose. 0:22:26.080 --> 0:22:29.440 What's some advice. Um, you could you could take it 0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:32.720 to like. I like, I like what Gucci did with 0:22:32.840 --> 0:22:38.200 his wife the basketball game. That's dope to me. Okay, 0:22:40.400 --> 0:22:44.040 I know, I like, I like, I like different, I like, 0:22:44.200 --> 0:22:47.639 don't I don't know. I like Gucci did. Okay, So 0:22:47.840 --> 0:22:49.560 something like at a game and fun. So you want 0:22:49.600 --> 0:22:51.200 to do it in front of people, fun of people. 0:22:51.240 --> 0:22:55.080 Some people like, oh my god, yeah, I think I 0:22:55.200 --> 0:22:59.320 take a nice way to propose, Like sant Haranascavin Hunt 0:22:59.560 --> 0:23:01.520 that's okad know what a bunch of notes and signed 0:23:01.520 --> 0:23:04.080 her to different places where she could get different notes 0:23:04.280 --> 0:23:09.280 that evening, yes exactly, and then when she gets there, 0:23:09.359 --> 0:23:13.800 he's like with roses and all want to put in 0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:16.439