Speaker 1: Alright, what's up. It's a lift service. I'm Angela yee,
Speaker 1: I'm Stephanie Santiago. It's been by the way, it was
Speaker 1: her birthday, Happy birthday, beautiful vacation, and we got fat
Speaker 1: boy here with us. What's up? Hey? What's We're in
Speaker 1: the bill that there's a lot of pressure on him
Speaker 1: to be funny today. So yeah, like that's easy though,
Speaker 1: because it's it's organic. All right, good, well, let's keep
Speaker 1: it organic. Now we started with our sex tip. How
Speaker 1: do you make sure our woman has an orgasm every
Speaker 1: single time? Oh? Damn, um uh, this is you can
Speaker 1: say anything I say. You know, I finger a finger
Speaker 1: the pussy. Wow, you're the first fingerer. Were packing finger?
Speaker 1: You're not looking on it a little bit? Look on
Speaker 1: the click Okay, I know you said look on her computer. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you make her your finger like you pop it
Speaker 1: or you like play with it like fingers are used,
Speaker 1: these two fingers and not just in you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. That's and he's his third finger and his
Speaker 1: ring finger. You may lick it afterwards. That's sexy. So
Speaker 1: you finger her while you lick it, or is it
Speaker 1: like alternating and alternating finger it? Then you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, I lick it, then I put my fingers
Speaker 1: in my mouth, you know, and that guarantees an orgasm.
Speaker 1: Would you rather that she come like in your mouth
Speaker 1: or would you rather she come during penetration? During penetration? Penetration, ladies,
Speaker 1: how would you rather come penetration for sure? Yeah, like
Speaker 1: she's having a moment. Yeah, yeah, the flashback stuff I like. Um,
Speaker 1: I like the end. I like the internal like penetration
Speaker 1: orgasm because it just feels it's a little different, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like when I'm masturbating, I can
Speaker 1: make myself come from you know, clitoral stimulation, right, so
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, it's nothing special, But when a
Speaker 1: guy could actually make you come from the inside, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's different. I think for me, it's like anytime you
Speaker 1: can make me orgasm anyway, whether it be finger or tongue,
Speaker 1: I'll take it. But like you know, if you fingering
Speaker 1: me or like you're eating me out, I'm just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I need that dick like coming right to please. Do
Speaker 1: you have an eat her and then put your finger
Speaker 1: in her butt too? Yeah? Of course I'm nasty, so
Speaker 1: I do all. I'm nasty toes and everything. Does anybody
Speaker 1: in here like having your toes? Like I've had my
Speaker 1: toes sucked a couple of times, man, And I gotta say,
Speaker 1: I think it's more exciting for the guy. But the guy.
Speaker 1: I think it's more exciting for the guy. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: for me, it's like why, like the tickles, this is stupid?
Speaker 1: Why is this happening? Like I haven't got in a
Speaker 1: pedicure in like a week? Why are you? Yeah? When
Speaker 1: is that? Like? When would you suck her toes? Like
Speaker 1: if you see that her toes aren't done, ain't If
Speaker 1: they ain't if they're bad, like they bad, ain't done,
Speaker 1: then I ain't doing it. But they're looking good, looking
Speaker 1: good I'm doing as she got that white nail. Probably
Speaker 1: guys always want to suck toes in awkward moments, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like you're like like he's up
Speaker 1: and you're laying on your back and your legs on
Speaker 1: the feet are in the face and then boom. Why
Speaker 1: that's kind of sometimes they might prevent the moment from happening,
Speaker 1: like can you please not telling you? It's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're just you're just not laughing. Now it's funny. Now
Speaker 1: you're doing something is all right now I want to see. Um,
Speaker 1: we were talking about Hedonism before you got here, right,
Speaker 1: because I think we're all going to go to Hedonism.
Speaker 1: It's in Jamaica. It's a resort where everybody's naked. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll go there too. You would, all right? So, um,
Speaker 1: so we would? Would you all be naked like Hedonism
Speaker 1: if everybody else was, I wouldn't. I shot Smooth Magazine
Speaker 1: and Hedonism, and I was naked a lot of the time,
Speaker 1: but only when I was with crewel people. Because it's
Speaker 1: like everybody's naked and guys are like kind of awkward
Speaker 1: about it, like and it's like, you know, it's kind
Speaker 1: of when the thing. I love Hedonism though, it's really fun.
Speaker 1: But the only like it's kind of awkward to see
Speaker 1: if guys walking around with soft things over the place. Yeah,
Speaker 1: keep it with that, but you don't want nobody to
Speaker 1: look at you soft. That's the only reason why it's awkward.
Speaker 1: As soon as I hate, I know I'm are, I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's interesting because I feel like if everyone's naked,
Speaker 1: you feel comfortable being naked. But I think for me,
Speaker 1: having everybody look at you like that, and yeah, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I don't think I'll do it though, I don't think
Speaker 1: I'll be naked. I probably walk around with a little
Speaker 1: thong and a cute top, but should naked. Yeah, beach
Speaker 1: playing footballiday. I think it's easier for a guy. I
Speaker 1: mean it's easy for some girls too, but I think
Speaker 1: guys don't give a fun but a hedonism. When you're
Speaker 1: wearing clothes, they make you feel uncomfortable, like exactly like
Speaker 1: a spy. It's more like you're more comfortable when you're
Speaker 1: naked than when you're wearing clothes, because when you're wearing clothes,
Speaker 1: everybody's like, are you comfortable naked and soft? Though? Because
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be hard the whole time I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, are you a shower or a grower? Because
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you see the guy's penis and he's
Speaker 1: flaccid as they say it's in limp. It looked awful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like, damn, I don't know if I want to
Speaker 1: do that. But then some guys just bust up out
Speaker 1: like the incredible Hope. So how is that like a
Speaker 1: hedonism when everyone's naked. I'm sure there are guys that
Speaker 1: will get a hard on so are they walking around
Speaker 1: Stay await, here's the thing. They are approach. They are
Speaker 1: approach you soft, and then as they're talking to you,
Speaker 1: it starts growing and you're trying to be here, You're
Speaker 1: trying to not look at it. But that is weird.
Speaker 1: If you watch your boys and like you're like your man,
Speaker 1: let's get a drinking. Watch out, you know your homies
Speaker 1: day they try to yo, what's up? But watch out
Speaker 1: you guys chilling at the bar and a bunch of
Speaker 1: girls won't by naked and all your boys starts going hard.
Speaker 1: That's weird. Watch. But guys get erections at like weird
Speaker 1: random times, right, Yeah, I used to get that gym
Speaker 1: all the time. Damn, that's awkward gym all the time,
Speaker 1: and then it would be so crazy. You gotta it's crazy.
Speaker 1: It's more awkward though, getting an erection at like a
Speaker 1: weird time or not getting one if you had to choose. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm saying getting one, yeah, I would.
Speaker 1: I would get it to not get me. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I think not getting it will be is a more
Speaker 1: awkward time. That's bad. But sometimes guys get really drunk.
Speaker 1: By the way, we have drinks for you if you
Speaker 1: want something appreciate. Yeah, we got you because we heard
Speaker 1: that's what you like. You went lemonade with it or
Speaker 1: simply would appreciate that. But we want to make sure
Speaker 1: you're taken care of appreciate. Now we're gonna play a
Speaker 1: little gang because I just want to see how much
Speaker 1: you guys really know about different sex terminology and how
Speaker 1: many things you've tried. Okay, do you know what is
Speaker 1: the supernova? The supernova Stephanie, I'm looking at you. It's supernova.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna guess. Okay, yes, can I guess? The super
Speaker 1: nova is when um, a guy cream pas your ass?
Speaker 1: How did you come up with that? That's when a
Speaker 1: girl feels her mouth with pop rocks and then gives
Speaker 1: you a blow job. Oh that's awful. That like pops
Speaker 1: in your mouth? So that Oh yeah, I tried that
Speaker 1: feeling like that. You ever been chewing gum and gave
Speaker 1: somebody a blowjob and been like, oh man, you going
Speaker 1: to the side and the guide I was drunk and
Speaker 1: I was I was given a guy had with gum
Speaker 1: in my mouth, and I totally forgot it was there.
Speaker 1: I swear, I told me, And I remember putting the
Speaker 1: gum in my mouth, and I just the next thing
Speaker 1: I know, I wake up and my I got gum
Speaker 1: in my hair and went into my hair gum and
Speaker 1: come ye, all right, here's another thing that I've never
Speaker 1: heard of. This the Kentucky klan dag bar no idea,
Speaker 1: what angela? Where are you getting these from urban dictionary? Okay?
Speaker 1: This is when you freeze a bowel movement and then
Speaker 1: you penetrate somebody with the frozen bowel move That's disgusting.
Speaker 1: That's the wait, what does that another way? Did you
Speaker 1: take a piece of ship, freeze it and then take
Speaker 1: your hold dog and then guy forbid it. That's a weird.
Speaker 1: That's a weird, shitty fetish. Who's doing that? Have you
Speaker 1: ever have you ever penetrated your girlfriend with an object? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is it like a real dildo or vibrator or just
Speaker 1: an object like it was? It was it was just
Speaker 1: like this plastic thing, this white plastic that you can
Speaker 1: get sick off that. Did you put a condom on it?
Speaker 1: Did you sanitizlastic thing? It was from auspices. It was
Speaker 1: some it. She doesn't remember this, she remembered. She just said, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's here by the way, he said special, yea, we
Speaker 1: paid twins for it. It's um, I don't know what
Speaker 1: it was, probably a massager. Yeah, you didn't describe that
Speaker 1: well this white thing. Yeah, it was like, boy, you
Speaker 1: better not talking. Do you like using toys? I'm saying, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm a free November? Okay. Yeah, but they're also cheaters. Uh.
Speaker 1: He looked down. She said, that's the fact I had
Speaker 1: a scorpio boyfriend at one point that was definitely a cheater. Now,
Speaker 1: a lot of people also have written in some questions.
Speaker 1: We'll get back to some of these terminologies, and I
Speaker 1: want to see what you think about this. Okay. One
Speaker 1: girl is asking. She's saying, she's the only young black
Speaker 1: woman in her department at work, and she wants to
Speaker 1: go on a few nice trips to celebrate her success
Speaker 1: or her friends ain't got the money for that. Is
Speaker 1: it safe for her to travel alone? No? Hell no,
Speaker 1: friends get their bags up, friends up, go go do
Speaker 1: with your friend to have of the time. Have you
Speaker 1: ever been on vacation by yourself? No? No, because I
Speaker 1: bring my niggas with me. Well, I m I I've
Speaker 1: traveled by myself a lot, and I just feel like
Speaker 1: it depends on where you're going, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like you can't go to Paris or two. I feel
Speaker 1: like London is is safe to go by yourself, but
Speaker 1: Paris is not. And I feel like Miami you can
Speaker 1: go by yourself. You're probably gonna meet a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Depends what hotel you stage, yes, exactly. I just feel
Speaker 1: like it depends in just certain places, Like I wouldn't
Speaker 1: recommend going to the Caribbean by yourself and for how
Speaker 1: long to you. It depends in the Caribbean with island
Speaker 1: you're going to, because some of them, like I wouldn't
Speaker 1: recommend Puerto Rico by yourself, and I wouldn't recommend to
Speaker 1: medic Republic by yours if you're staying like on a
Speaker 1: resort and you're not really going to is that. You know,
Speaker 1: those are places are crazy. Mexico by yourself, those are
Speaker 1: like the heat makes people a little strange. I think
Speaker 1: it also. I think it depends on who you are,
Speaker 1: how long you're going for, and what you're going for,
Speaker 1: because if you're going for like a week and a
Speaker 1: half by yourself, that's exploring everything, it's kind of long,
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna want to talk to people, get
Speaker 1: to know people in the town, and you don't necessarily
Speaker 1: really know who they are or what their intentions are.
Speaker 1: But I have to say, man, I've traveled. I used
Speaker 1: to go to Miami by myself all the time. I
Speaker 1: used to go to Miami by myself before. Like, now
Speaker 1: I know where I go, I'm gonna know people everywhere
Speaker 1: I go. But before I didn't really know people. I
Speaker 1: knew a handful of people. And I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not fun. It's not fun being by yourself,
Speaker 1: Like you don't really get to be my day ones.
Speaker 1: I like to you know what I mean? Would you
Speaker 1: rather go on vacation with your boys or your girl? Both? No?
Speaker 1: Go pick one, um, because they're all in here, everybody
Speaker 1: looking like you have to say that you have to
Speaker 1: think about I wasn't thinking. I already knew that I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking I'll go to my girl. She's like
Speaker 1: mad as hell right now. What's a good vacation. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's say she wants to go somewhere. You want to
Speaker 1: surprise her. Are you a planner? Or did she got
Speaker 1: a planet and you just she got a planet and
Speaker 1: then I just paid for it. That's fair enough. Can
Speaker 1: she go on vacation with her friends a girl's chick? No,
Speaker 1: what you be going with your boys your day? One?
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that? Right? She can't go because I
Speaker 1: don't know some of her friends, hose and not, just
Speaker 1: like she don't know some of your boys. And that's
Speaker 1: that's understandable. But I would have passed in the relationships.
Speaker 1: She's not going. I said, no, not fat boy, some
Speaker 1: of your friends hose Um, Oh no, all right, that first,
Speaker 1: right answer. He's not supposed to be righting on his friends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't do nothing because you can't never admit to your girl,
Speaker 1: yes they because then she's gonna say I don't want
Speaker 1: you with them? Right. Yeah, that's the biggest mistake you
Speaker 1: can make in a relationship to all your significant your
Speaker 1: friends as business. But I think as a woman, you
Speaker 1: know who's who, and yeah, but you have to you.
Speaker 1: I mean, when you have when you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: with somebody and you're spending a lot of alone time
Speaker 1: with them, you're talking with them, and you know what
Speaker 1: I mean that your friend text you and he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: what's up, and like you're telling him and you don't
Speaker 1: even mean to tell on your friend. You know, it's
Speaker 1: just random conversation with your man. And now two weeks
Speaker 1: later you're like, oh, I'm gonna go over here with
Speaker 1: x Y and he's like, after she was doing that.
Speaker 1: You can't you cannot imagine you tell your man my
Speaker 1: friends just said three dicks in wondering, right, and that
Speaker 1: he's definitely not sure yeah, or even just being around,
Speaker 1: Like if you're out with your man and his friends
Speaker 1: are around and they're doing something funny or vice versa,
Speaker 1: he's out with you and your girls and she's acting mixed,
Speaker 1: they're gonna look at that and be like, is this
Speaker 1: how it always is? Right? Okay? How they actually not
Speaker 1: going on? What if this? What if it's like somebody's
Speaker 1: getting married, it's the Bachelor that weekend? Oh no, you
Speaker 1: still ain't going because you know it's gonna be strippers.
Speaker 1: What do you think women strips? Right of A? No,
Speaker 1: I think it's more likely you're not going to the
Speaker 1: show club either, because we can't try. I think it's
Speaker 1: I think it's more likely for a guy to have
Speaker 1: sex with a stripper or like during the bachelor party
Speaker 1: ship than a girl. You know, even if we do
Speaker 1: spot days and we go to dinner, even if starts
Speaker 1: with each other. No, but I do. I get my feet,
Speaker 1: my clean, a little polished. Like all right, here's the
Speaker 1: next question. Um this one person said. I was in
Speaker 1: a relationship for four years, the latter two of the
Speaker 1: years I moved to Charlotte while she stayed in be
Speaker 1: A long story short, We've been trying the long distance thing. However,
Speaker 1: recently I'm feeling disconnected to her. I'm not attracted to
Speaker 1: her mentally anymore. I realized this after I brought her
Speaker 1: around my new friends and she wouldn't so she lies
Speaker 1: at all, which was a huge turn off for me.
Speaker 1: How imprating is it to date somebody that gets along
Speaker 1: and socializes with your friends. She's very important because if
Speaker 1: you don't, you're gonna lose your friends. Seated, Stephanie's like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be around your friends. I mean,
Speaker 1: I feel like this, I'm always gonna be. I'm always
Speaker 1: that girlfriend that all my I wherever I'm dating their
Speaker 1: friends is like, you know what, stuff is so cool?
Speaker 1: Like right, she's so cool, she's so real, she's so
Speaker 1: down to earth, Like I love stuff. We can watch
Speaker 1: football with stuff. Stuff is amazing. But as soon as
Speaker 1: the door closes and I'm with my man, I'm like, listen,
Speaker 1: I hate all of them. Awful. They holes. Every time
Speaker 1: you do something, you try to blame one of them, like, uh,
Speaker 1: but just to make him happy, I'm cool with everybody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll be there like, oh, hey, what's up the motherfucker
Speaker 1: you gotta that's a sacrifice I feel like you have
Speaker 1: to make for your lover. I don't expect for my
Speaker 1: my lover to be cool with my friends, but if
Speaker 1: he wants me to be cool with friends, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: treat them like. I think it's a difference between being
Speaker 1: cool and being respectful, right, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Because you could, like be around them and be respectful,
Speaker 1: but you might not necessarily favor them because of how
Speaker 1: they are what they've done. But for me, I think
Speaker 1: it's important for my significant other to be cool with
Speaker 1: my friends. I'm not saying you gotta go everywhere with us,
Speaker 1: but you know, I don't want to feel separated. I
Speaker 1: don't want to feel like, you know, there's a weird
Speaker 1: energy every time I say I'm going out with my friends,
Speaker 1: or when I tell my friends. I'm going out with
Speaker 1: my man, you know what I mean? Friends don't like? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Or when your man don't like your friends? Because I
Speaker 1: had an ex boyfriend like that where I would want
Speaker 1: to bring him around my friends and he always want
Speaker 1: to be with me only and I'm like, dude, like
Speaker 1: for me, none of my girlfriends, I don't like none
Speaker 1: of my good Why there's don't like them? Don't you
Speaker 1: seem overbearing in the relationship? Right? She can't go on
Speaker 1: trips to the friends. You don't like none of her friends?
Speaker 1: But what's your who? When I see it? What's up?
Speaker 1: What makes you not like them? Have they done anything?
Speaker 1: But I just don't like them? Let me guess why?
Speaker 1: If I could guess, Okay, have you funked up in
Speaker 1: the relationship? Yeah? And she told her friends, I guess you,
Speaker 1: and so they probably would like him. And now you
Speaker 1: don't like them? Yeah, because they as friends they always
Speaker 1: like they always on my Instagram like telling her what
Speaker 1: I'm don't like? Yeah, leave me alone, like I don't
Speaker 1: like I'm not real friends, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like I I comment like it don't even got to
Speaker 1: be simple? Common heart eyes and some other girls. Let's
Speaker 1: talk about that even had it like like it's something
Speaker 1: like not different anything anything anything anything flirting anything anything.
Speaker 1: But it looks to me alone. But if your girl
Speaker 1: was to do that on another guy's picture, would you
Speaker 1: think that's casual? You would think that's flirting. You'll be say,
Speaker 1: break the phone. I posted a comment on a guy's
Speaker 1: picture and he was like, he was like, oh, so
Speaker 1: he was like this, nig I got three hundred people
Speaker 1: comments and hunting and ship and you just got to
Speaker 1: be three hundred and one? Would you comment it was?
Speaker 1: It was a heart? It was it was a heart.
Speaker 1: I commented that on Nicky Jam. I'm friends with Nicky Jam.
Speaker 1: That's my boy, okay, you know, like he has a
Speaker 1: wife and everything like Puerto Rican, you know connection, It's
Speaker 1: just my friend. And it depends on the post too,
Speaker 1: because I've posted like hearts on on guys things. But
Speaker 1: that's like if they have a picture of their family, right,
Speaker 1: And it was like like that. It was like he
Speaker 1: got an award or something like that, and I put
Speaker 1: it and he was like, he was like, oh you
Speaker 1: had to say. He was like you you had to
Speaker 1: be three. He got three thousand comments, you have to
Speaker 1: be three thousand and one. But let's okay, but let's
Speaker 1: dissect this for a second. As women, we leave hard
Speaker 1: eyes under each other's pictures, right under other women's whatever. Men,
Speaker 1: y'all don't leave hard eyes under each other's pictures, So
Speaker 1: you can't be leaving them under some other woman's picture, right.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't like that. It was like I said,
Speaker 1: it was like they was getting a ward or somebody
Speaker 1: was getting award. They was graduating, graduated. It was graduated,
Speaker 1: graduated like the city. She got a new car like ike,
Speaker 1: up with a little up with banks, a little car
Speaker 1: to make yourself leave it better. But is it like, okay,
Speaker 1: what about your female friends? Do you have female friends? Um? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got I got female friends. Does your girl know them? Yeah?
Speaker 1: She said no, she like she knows, she knows of them.
Speaker 1: It's like when female friends. It's not like I got
Speaker 1: female friends. Like my best friend, like I got her
Speaker 1: time on me. I mean, what, yeah, that's my best friend?
Speaker 1: Do you and she? Are you cool? We're his best friend? Okay,
Speaker 1: so that's you have a hit. Why don't have your
Speaker 1: because that's my best friends? Stance fourth grade? But I
Speaker 1: didn't do that. I never did nothing. All right, I
Speaker 1: could get that fourth grade, like, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: have my friend up together, but yeah, that's that's a
Speaker 1: strong statement that my best friend, but you have your
Speaker 1: girl's had it on YouTube on my back. Okay, Now,
Speaker 1: was that her asking you to do that or you
Speaker 1: just decided to do it? I just did it? Did
Speaker 1: you give her heads? Act? Like? No? I just did it.
Speaker 1: Do you want what signs he was in love? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm still in loved. Love so beautiful. So it's still
Speaker 1: when a guy could admit it comfortably, right, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: really because you gotta be really you can't be in
Speaker 1: there now with yourself strategically. You have to let them know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's oh, this is the wrong thing. All right. Here's
Speaker 1: the next question that we got. All right, let's see, Okay,
Speaker 1: this person is asking for advice on a good way
Speaker 1: to get engaged to his girlfriend. He said, We've been
Speaker 1: together a little over two years. She's the love of
Speaker 1: my life, and I want to pop the question within
Speaker 1: the next two months, but I wanted to be special.
Speaker 1: I don't want to do it at a restaurant or
Speaker 1: in some type of typical way that people normally propose.
Speaker 1: What's some advice. Um, you could you could take it
Speaker 1: to like. I like, I like what Gucci did with
Speaker 1: his wife the basketball game. That's dope to me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know, I like, I like, I like different, I like,
Speaker 1: don't I don't know. I like Gucci did. Okay, So
Speaker 1: something like at a game and fun. So you want
Speaker 1: to do it in front of people, fun of people.
Speaker 1: Some people like, oh my god, yeah, I think I
Speaker 1: take a nice way to propose, Like sant Haranascavin Hunt
Speaker 1: that's okad know what a bunch of notes and signed
Speaker 1: her to different places where she could get different notes
Speaker 1: that evening, yes exactly, and then when she gets there,
Speaker 1: he's like with roses and all want to put in
Speaker 1: the cupcake and her bite the cupcake in the ring.
Speaker 1: What if she's like, no, you know, I'm gonna diet.
Speaker 1: I don't want this. What do you What if she's
Speaker 1: fastening like I'd be fastening, and it's just so hungry.
Speaker 1: By the time she gets a cupcake, she just like
Speaker 1: and she swells the ring. That's what I yeah, which, baby,
Speaker 1: I got a surprise for you toilet hopefully yours right.
Speaker 1: I like that scavenger Hunt thing. I think cute I
Speaker 1: think just listening to things that she likes that she's
Speaker 1: never done, you know, and taking that into consideration, like
Speaker 1: my mom, like my money. Uh, created do you are
Speaker 1: you already thinking about what you're gonna do? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do. Okay, we don't want to,
Speaker 1: She's right, can't. Yeah. I think just finding something that
Speaker 1: she likes, like if she ever wanted to go somewhere
Speaker 1: and she never been able to things like that. All right, Now,
Speaker 1: here's another definition. I want to see if you guys
Speaker 1: know what this is? Sex talk, cold lunch, cold lunch?
Speaker 1: Who wants a cold lunch? Cold lunch? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I like, I like, I like hot. When it comes
Speaker 1: to sex, cold, I'm not sure about thatthing. Like cold,
Speaker 1: it is the simple sexual act of forcing yourself to
Speaker 1: throw up into another persons and then has to eat it. Actually,
Speaker 1: she just picked the most disgusting people actually like doing
Speaker 1: ship like that. Trust me, you know how many people
Speaker 1: go quick tent that? Please? Freaky? What's the freaky thing?
Speaker 1: I know you say you're freaky. Now, what's the freakiest
Speaker 1: thing that you've done? Like the spittle, Like I'd like
Speaker 1: to just spit on the like in her mouth, her face, everything,
Speaker 1: like she over here like they I feel like, once
Speaker 1: a guy spits in your mouth, that's it. You belong
Speaker 1: to him, your own. She's like, that's just hanging up,
Speaker 1: throwing the towel. I said, you have an owner now.
Speaker 1: She said, you don't spit on her face, but she chatting.
Speaker 1: Now what about okay, what about her spitting on your face?
Speaker 1: Do you like that? Or spitting your mouth? I'll saying
Speaker 1: you could do that. A's cool because that spit spit.
Speaker 1: What about if she is giving you a blow job
Speaker 1: and then she like sticks her dumb in your but
Speaker 1: she laughing, like why are you like men are so
Speaker 1: closed off? Said that my guys always like anything but
Speaker 1: that don't touch don't touch it, don't touch the whole tongue. Oh.
Speaker 1: He like, yeah, I ain't even gonna not that. I
Speaker 1: don't think there's nothing wrong with that, there's anything. What
Speaker 1: do you mean the guy that I'm doing, I'll be
Speaker 1: working with him like he thinks it's so weird and awkward,
Speaker 1: so on his nipples. So we'll be laying down and
Speaker 1: I'll just start looking on his like it's so weird,
Speaker 1: but he likes it. He doesn't like that's what I
Speaker 1: saw of I'm like, you like it, He's like, no,
Speaker 1: don't like. That's because men think of a girl getting
Speaker 1: her TITTI sucked where you know it's that's not masculine, right,
Speaker 1: But yeah, like what some guys like, like like pinch
Speaker 1: their nipple while you're sing. See when I'm like caressing
Speaker 1: my guy's chest, I'll go over his nipple, but I
Speaker 1: won't like right, not because I feel like he'll be like,
Speaker 1: what you should try it? Yeah? Right? These guys who
Speaker 1: wants you to like sprinting on it because he Here's
Speaker 1: the thing I think in general and sex, you can't
Speaker 1: never ask somebody just you have to just do it,
Speaker 1: because if you ask somebody and then they think about it,
Speaker 1: they're gonna be just put your thumb in his butt.
Speaker 1: You don't mind your butt lick though, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: are you sure? He's sounding a little sound hesitant? Positive?
Speaker 1: So how you know you don't like it? I don't
Speaker 1: like it. You just don't like the idea of it,
Speaker 1: or like or the idea of like putting your legs spreading.
Speaker 1: You don't have to spread your legs. I eat the
Speaker 1: booty like groceries I'm eating the booty. I'm eating it. Nah,
Speaker 1: I ain't getting Could you come from getting your h
Speaker 1: that's amazing, he said, that's the first I told you
Speaker 1: I a freak. So you never come from that. Yeah, wow,
Speaker 1: that's easy, He's easy. How long does it take though?
Speaker 1: How long did she have to play with your nips? Lim?
Speaker 1: But wait? Does she have to play with your nipples
Speaker 1: and be jerking you off? Or just like you just
Speaker 1: come just from the nipples without touching your dick? No, no,
Speaker 1: you gotta, I gotta you gotta touch the dick. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta. I can see it in your head. I've
Speaker 1: made a guy coming before like that, like king on
Speaker 1: his nipple and jerking him off. It comes back. They
Speaker 1: come last. You just like lick on your palm a
Speaker 1: little bit, like make your palm wet, and you jerk
Speaker 1: a guy off and stuck on his nipple makes them
Speaker 1: come back. It makes the coast. Now do you think
Speaker 1: if she masturbates in front of you? Yeah? Do you
Speaker 1: masturbate in front of her? Yeah? Lit, I never had
Speaker 1: to got masterbate in front of me. You know what,
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship with somebody and you're like, oh, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not having sex tonight. I'm noting I got my period,
Speaker 1: I haven't had a I'm going to sleep. So the
Speaker 1: next thing, you know, you feel somebody and jerking that
Speaker 1: dick off came on your leg. And every day I think,
Speaker 1: I think for a man or at least the situations
Speaker 1: that I've been in, like they do it. They'll like
Speaker 1: they'll start jerking off like or like grabbing their dick,
Speaker 1: but then like they like the pussy. Yeah, no, when
Speaker 1: I when I was I was when I was in
Speaker 1: a relationship. I'm telling you when I was in and
Speaker 1: we lived together, and I'll be like, no, I'm not
Speaker 1: I don't want to have sex tonight, like I'm tired,
Speaker 1: And the nigga will just comment jerk off touching my ass,
Speaker 1: like you don't want to have to come like its
Speaker 1: easy for you? Is it easy for you stuff to
Speaker 1: like play with you pussy in front of a guy. Um,
Speaker 1: it depends if I'm being a little bit right and
Speaker 1: we had sex and because I'm I'm real evil, this
Speaker 1: is some evil ship to do. Like we'll have sex
Speaker 1: and you know, like it'll be done if we finished
Speaker 1: having sex for like twenty five minut and I'll be like, ah,
Speaker 1: you didn't even make me come, and I'll start massively
Speaker 1: and right there, and they're always like dude, yeah, but
Speaker 1: like because I can't get hid again. No, they never
Speaker 1: cook right, and it's always like, oh, just stop, I'll
Speaker 1: give you, just give me like ten minutes. Stop. And
Speaker 1: that's also a good trick to get to get I
Speaker 1: got to eat your pussy after you because I didn't come,
Speaker 1: you gotta. Yeah, it's a good trick, like when we've
Speaker 1: done a couple of rounds and I know his energies out,
Speaker 1: and like, because I could, I could keep going, like
Speaker 1: I'll be tired. Yeah as a woman, yeah, I could
Speaker 1: keep going to like I'll be tired, like yeah after
Speaker 1: a couple of rounds. But then my she'll get wet
Speaker 1: and I just played with my ship in front of
Speaker 1: him and then it'll turn him on and then we'll
Speaker 1: probably sunk again. Or I just come. I just coming,
Speaker 1: and it's a it's a good trick. Like once they
Speaker 1: worn out and you're like, oh, you didn't even make
Speaker 1: me calm and you start massively and they're either like
Speaker 1: just wait, you stopped. Just give me like a couple
Speaker 1: of minutes, or they start eating your pussy, so you
Speaker 1: do that so he could fuck you? Do what on purpose?
Speaker 1: Just to make him feel bad? Like look, you swore
Speaker 1: you all that work and look at me. Now. That
Speaker 1: is evil. I'm telling you it's evil. It's it's fun.
Speaker 1: And that's where are you loud when you come? No,
Speaker 1: I ain't loud. I just like the cessation when the
Speaker 1: ladies talking like the yeah, yeah, needs give out, your
Speaker 1: legs give out. I like when a guy like moans,
Speaker 1: like yeah, I think that's sexy. You got that's too quiet.
Speaker 1: I don't make noise, but my eyes roll back to
Speaker 1: my head and stuff. Does he make noise like like
Speaker 1: not like screaming, but like you, I don't make do it.
Speaker 1: I don't scream, not screaming, but moaning. I think that's sexy.
Speaker 1: A guy that's too quiet. It's kind of if I
Speaker 1: if I, if I ain't come in like a week
Speaker 1: spaed I'm like, uh like that, but I don't really scream,
Speaker 1: but they're like I do. I think it's good with
Speaker 1: guys scream. Yeah, it's sexy. I like. I like when
Speaker 1: a guy moans a little bit and I like he's
Speaker 1: like a little again. I like and I like a
Speaker 1: little grunt when a guy's coming, like a little grunt,
Speaker 1: like yeah, get their heads up like I'm about to come. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course all guys give that up. Yeah. But I'm
Speaker 1: simple though I don't like. I'll tell you this, like
Speaker 1: I'm simple. I'm fat too, so I don't like. I
Speaker 1: don't like hitting it from the front like I like
Speaker 1: hitting it from the back. Okay, that's your favorite. My
Speaker 1: favorite position is doggy stuff over commit the day. White
Speaker 1: men like slapping asks when he had that. It just
Speaker 1: makes me feel like I'm making that red night. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I like when a guy spanks me while we're having
Speaker 1: sex because it makes me feel like he's in control,
Speaker 1: like being like, oh daddy, you know you get hurt
Speaker 1: because you like to you No, no, no, I like it.
Speaker 1: I like for it to have some feelings to it,
Speaker 1: like not a little no. I want to hear that.
Speaker 1: I want to hear it. But but you see that
Speaker 1: that's too much. That's too That cock back was too know,
Speaker 1: Like I like a little cock but not not when
Speaker 1: you do the cock back, you got if you if
Speaker 1: you really what you gotta do the cock back, they
Speaker 1: come slow down, the hand put on the ash to
Speaker 1: be like that all far and I like, but I
Speaker 1: think when you're drinking you don't even really kind of numb,
Speaker 1: you don't really feel it that much. So and then
Speaker 1: til you wake up in the morning and they got
Speaker 1: like bruised up, asked the second time. I'm on lip service.
Speaker 1: Definitely fun, always good, being with the ladies, talking sexy.
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Speaker 1: the guy who wasn't court. His girlfriend died while giving
Speaker 1: him a blowjob, but his defense was that his dick
Speaker 1: was so big and shetunately she chose and he actually
Speaker 1: actually won. But how did she chose? W wait wait,
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, how did she die while giving him
Speaker 1: a blowjob? She died, and so he was saying that
Speaker 1: what then was what was she doing it that she
Speaker 1: couldn't breathe? She couldn't tell she couldn't breathe right like
Speaker 1: kept like or what's he like? You know, some guys,
Speaker 1: you should have washed her head towards He should have
Speaker 1: went to jail for that, he said he should have.
Speaker 1: It was in court he said he didn't kill her.
Speaker 1: It wasn't you know, it was like he murdered her.
Speaker 1: But again he was. He was hold he was suffocated her.
Speaker 1: He hold her there because she knew when she tried
Speaker 1: to get up. He should have want the jol for
Speaker 1: that's crazy, he got that would make me not breathe
Speaker 1: and you know you're like in a dick, and they
Speaker 1: tried to push it down here and right right let
Speaker 1: me right, he lacks. You don't have to try to
Speaker 1: kill that's how you know that Judge was a man,
Speaker 1: because any woman would have been like, wait he killed
Speaker 1: he was holding her, he was He probably kept pushing
Speaker 1: her head down and she just like sticking all the
Speaker 1: way down at throat. Let the tears come down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the stuff I would say. You gotta cry, Yeah
Speaker 1: when you I say that, right, that's mine is jus favorite.
Speaker 1: Gotta cry when you're I think that. Yeah, Like that's
Speaker 1: what Like when you're giving a good blowjob, you know
Speaker 1: you got snow, Like, yeah, you're breathing heavy. You know,
Speaker 1: it's fantastic, it's amazing. Have you ever cried during sex? Me? Cry? No,
Speaker 1: like you've just been overwhelmed us. Maybe you up? What's
Speaker 1: the longest that your girl has held out on you
Speaker 1: because you sucked up? No? Not too long, not too
Speaker 1: long that make up sex? Yeah, because if I don't know,
Speaker 1: if she ain't trying to give me those checks, I
Speaker 1: just like like not force it. But you know, like
Speaker 1: I mean, what's the longest you could go without having sex? Oh? No, no,
Speaker 1: not even if I could bust ten times, I do it,
Speaker 1: but you know you can't. But I do y'allka yaka
Speaker 1: bus all day. You know, um here's the thing. Like
Speaker 1: I feel like, all right, because you guys know, I've
Speaker 1: been I've been through um even on the show. I was.
Speaker 1: There was a time that I was in a relationship
Speaker 1: for a year, and then there was a time that
Speaker 1: I was single for about a year. And now again
Speaker 1: I'm dating somebody, you know, like just I'm only dating him, right,
Speaker 1: and I find what I'm sorry, I find um. You
Speaker 1: know what, I'm single. I don't have as much sex
Speaker 1: as I have when I'm in a relationship. Of course,
Speaker 1: you have a steady dick, that's the thing. So you know,
Speaker 1: like I just feel like my pussy needs a break,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like when I was in
Speaker 1: my relationship with my son's father, we used to have
Speaker 1: sex all the time. But I feel like I was
Speaker 1: a little younger at that time, and now I just
Speaker 1: feel like I can't have sex every day. Like I
Speaker 1: feel like my pussy is gonna fall apart if I
Speaker 1: have sex every single day. You know, oh god, so
Speaker 1: pussy is not going to fall apart. I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm just like damn, like I cannot so much. Man
Speaker 1: a big guys, baby, soon be fine. I pussy snapped, right,
Speaker 1: snap and do you, but I don't want to funk
Speaker 1: every day. I get what Stefanie's staying because after a
Speaker 1: couple of rounds and ship, you're like like pussy, like throbbing,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, it's okay. The baths of crying,
Speaker 1: like oh my god, but then you need a couple
Speaker 1: of hours and then you're good to go again. Horny.
Speaker 1: All right, here's another question. Somebody wrote in I'm a
Speaker 1: twenty six year old young man from Jersey, but I
Speaker 1: live in Philly now and I was with my ex
Speaker 1: for about three years. He was arrested for drug trafficking
Speaker 1: and is doing five years. I told him I would
Speaker 1: stay by him and hold him down while he was
Speaker 1: locked up. Skip ahead of a year later, and I
Speaker 1: met this guy who was a detective for the Philadelphia
Speaker 1: Police Department and yeah, I'm gay, and yeah they both
Speaker 1: aren't out, but me and the detective hit it off
Speaker 1: and I'm really starting to catch feelings and he said
Speaker 1: he is also. But I feel like what I'm doing
Speaker 1: is wrong because I love my ex, but he's in jail.
Speaker 1: What should I do. That's such an interesting thing, just
Speaker 1: being with like, yes, it's all guys back. That's so interesting.
Speaker 1: That's so interesting, just the transition of the relationship, like
Speaker 1: he went from being with the criminal to be right,
Speaker 1: here's the thing, here's the truth about that. This is
Speaker 1: this is the real answer. This is don't feel bad,
Speaker 1: Stay with the guy who has a career, Stay with
Speaker 1: the detective. The other one is definitely one hundred cheating
Speaker 1: on you in jail. Listen, So he is in jail.
Speaker 1: He's doing hedonism in jail. Alright, Alright, in general, Okay,
Speaker 1: aside from just this, if somebody gets locked up in
Speaker 1: a relationship, do you think that you have to wait
Speaker 1: and hold them down, like, say, they're locked up for
Speaker 1: three years? It's tough. Yeah, she I don't know if
Speaker 1: I know what. She ain't gonna hold me that I'm
Speaker 1: not talking? Are you say she ain't? She just look crazy.
Speaker 1: I think I don't know about fight. I can't. Three
Speaker 1: years is a long ye predicted, I can't to me.
Speaker 1: She a woman's perspective. Could you hold her down for
Speaker 1: three years? Never? Yeah, I think that's the thing you
Speaker 1: could try. Yeah, I think you can try. But there's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong if you move on, because realistically, people need intimacy.
Speaker 1: People paid someone to talk to me, to be there
Speaker 1: for you, yea. And it depends like the relationship, how
Speaker 1: long you guys were together, the history you have, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like when you're saying you're gonna
Speaker 1: hold somebody down in jail, it does not necessarily mean
Speaker 1: that you're not gonna date other people while they're locked
Speaker 1: up and saying that you're gonna take care of them.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be there for them. You're gonna hold them down,
Speaker 1: You're gonna go to the visits, they're gonna put money
Speaker 1: on their books exactly. You know, that's how you hold
Speaker 1: the person down in jail. And I feel like a
Speaker 1: smart person who thinks logically and it's realistic, will know
Speaker 1: that you are going to be doing what you want
Speaker 1: the outside. You know what you want to know about it.
Speaker 1: You know. I was, I was willing, and I was
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna be with this person forever
Speaker 1: and he's gonna be in jail for X y Z
Speaker 1: amount of times and I'm right, and I'm gonna hold
Speaker 1: it down. But he didn't give me the opportunity to
Speaker 1: hold them down because he broke up with me. And
Speaker 1: I have to say, the time passed, he's already out
Speaker 1: of jail, and I have to be honest with myself
Speaker 1: and I have to say that no, there was no
Speaker 1: way I was not gonna cheat on him. I think
Speaker 1: people grow. He was right, he was smart, He did
Speaker 1: the right thing because I definitely Wan had one of
Speaker 1: like the best years ever in my sex life. Well
Speaker 1: here's people grow. I feel like, like like that boy said,
Speaker 1: three years is a long time, So like you grow.
Speaker 1: If I change, you meet different, we have different opportunities.
Speaker 1: So after that, and I honestly and it's not and
Speaker 1: it's also it's sexual, but I think it's mental too,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. For you also, like if
Speaker 1: you're on the outside, you don't have someone mentally like
Speaker 1: stimulating your mind in that sense where you're even attracted
Speaker 1: to wait for them, you know what I mean. You
Speaker 1: might meet somebody else that just does it for you
Speaker 1: all around, sexually, mentally. And guys can always be mad
Speaker 1: at you, yeah, always, because I forbid you don't answer
Speaker 1: the phone. Of course they don't got to do. They
Speaker 1: make up all kind of scenarios so you can't answer
Speaker 1: the phone, like, um, I mean, I'm wating you answer
Speaker 1: this phone. If you see my car, you don't know
Speaker 1: what I could be going through. I could, but that's
Speaker 1: that's how I was doing lip service. I couldn't answer
Speaker 1: that phone. As if he called you right now, you
Speaker 1: got to answer that phone. And honestly, while when he
Speaker 1: first when he was in the tombs down here in
Speaker 1: the city, Um, there was a time I was working,
Speaker 1: I was here and I didn't answer the He and
Speaker 1: I would be out and she would go outside and
Speaker 1: be on the phone for like two hours arguing, and
Speaker 1: I'd be like if she coming back, you know, and
Speaker 1: but you know, I just feel like he, um, he
Speaker 1: did the right thing. I was definitely going to cheat
Speaker 1: on him. We were not gonna last this time. It was.
Speaker 1: I told him I was going to cheat on before
Speaker 1: he went to jail. If you were left that for
Speaker 1: three years, But is that cheating? You could forget it
Speaker 1: if you if you're still committed, like if you say
Speaker 1: you're still my man. Yeah, I understand this two thousand seventeen, right,
Speaker 1: you're not coming home to two thousand and twenty. Okay,
Speaker 1: what about six months? Six months? Six months to come
Speaker 1: on six months? Right? No? No, I agree with that, right, no,
Speaker 1: But but I even like being said, I feel like
Speaker 1: I grew in the time that he was away anyway,
Speaker 1: Like you guys know, I feel like I feel like
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I'm the same person that I was,
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, man, I wish she definitely
Speaker 1: would just break up with this guy said she have
Speaker 1: a good time, and she would be miserable time she
Speaker 1: drinking mad. Yes, exactly, I would drink and get mad.
Speaker 1: If you're in a relationship and you're miserable like more
Speaker 1: than you're not, then it's not a good one. I agree.
Speaker 1: I totally agree now that way. If you are with
Speaker 1: your woman and you come in her mouth, does she
Speaker 1: have to brush her teeth before she kisses you? So
Speaker 1: I swallowed, gone, don't kiss What if you it's snowballing it?
Speaker 1: Just like God, No, I just hold up, just like,
Speaker 1: but what if you're in bed and like y'are laying
Speaker 1: there and then it's like ten twenty minutes past and
Speaker 1: y'all cuddle in and she kisses you. No, I know
Speaker 1: we're not doing bone. I get eyes all out. She's
Speaker 1: going to bathroom to do what you do. But maybe
Speaker 1: she just went to lay there and counter for a while.
Speaker 1: I don't not with no come, I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: not taste yourself, but it already went down. It already
Speaker 1: went down the throat, her throat. Bust your teeth with gate,
Speaker 1: so your nipples with that content. Yeah, because I just
Speaker 1: don't want to taste yourself. I only know you don't
Speaker 1: want to know what you taste. Like, I know one guy.
Speaker 1: I know one guy that snowballs and his girlfriend, she's
Speaker 1: one of my girlfriends, and she tells me and he's bisexual.
Speaker 1: So there you go. He's okay, he's bisexual and he's
Speaker 1: snowballed her like, he comes in her mouth and they
Speaker 1: kissed after he's sexual though, Yeah, I think that's of course,
Speaker 1: that's the reason, Stephanie. Could you date a guy that
Speaker 1: was bisexual? No, I personally, I don't know, because it's
Speaker 1: like it's one thing I think. I definitely don't know.
Speaker 1: I think I've definitely had sex with a guy that
Speaker 1: is gay, Okay, once or twice in my lifetime. Did
Speaker 1: you think it when I thought it? Well, one guy
Speaker 1: I thought it because he took like two and a
Speaker 1: half fingers in his ass. That's that's too much. That's
Speaker 1: just was that his choice of yours? Though? Was that
Speaker 1: his choice of yours. I didn't ask him you want
Speaker 1: three fingers. I put one and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's try to. I was like, let me put a
Speaker 1: little bit of the ring and he was fine, just
Speaker 1: like he was loving it. He was loving it. He
Speaker 1: was loving it. So I'm definitely you know, would you
Speaker 1: have sex with him again after that? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: he's actually engaged to a woman. Okay, what about you, Avi,
Speaker 1: and you can give it has sex with a gay
Speaker 1: man or bisexual that I know of? Knowing that I
Speaker 1: know of, No, nah, I would think I could have
Speaker 1: sex with somebody that's bisexual. I don't have anything against bisexuals,
Speaker 1: like at all, but just like my man has strictly
Speaker 1: pussy and I mean, like now and now, I gotta
Speaker 1: worry about these holes and I gotta worry about these right,
Speaker 1: like what the holes and girls before? Right? How many
Speaker 1: things you take exactly like yea o yeah. Now I'm
Speaker 1: not even going into the spe how men and women
Speaker 1: are so different because okay, guys don't mind if women
Speaker 1: have been with other women, right, that's fine, like that
Speaker 1: I want to waiting and for women, we want to
Speaker 1: taste that else stick your thing. Yeah, but you don't
Speaker 1: want to taste yourself. See how different men and women are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I feel like, you know, um what we what's
Speaker 1: coming out of the vagina is like it's it's saucier.
Speaker 1: It's a different taste. It's clear, it's like, but it
Speaker 1: is a different taste. Come, guys come, it's like you know,
Speaker 1: it's children. There's children, so that's how kids, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like it's a women. Yeah there it's
Speaker 1: like little tadpoles, you know. Like I like it, but
Speaker 1: I don't think my man should like it for him.
Speaker 1: I don't think you should like I like living at
Speaker 1: women's podcast saucy like she said, Yeah, men and women's
Speaker 1: come just taste different. Understand, women come when you yourself,
Speaker 1: when you's wondering because you're trying to ricken, I've trying
Speaker 1: been with the woman. I've never been with a woman.
Speaker 1: When you taste yourself, it tastes different than the guys come.
Speaker 1: So I could understand why men wouldn't want to taste themselves.
Speaker 1: But if you never tasted yourself, how do you know
Speaker 1: what that tastes like? I would think a guy would
Speaker 1: be curious, but he tastes like I feel like this,
Speaker 1: I feel like a curiosity kills the cat. Guys don't
Speaker 1: taste it. Don't taste your own come unless you're unless
Speaker 1: you're you're curious. What about morning breath? Yeah, like you
Speaker 1: wake up in the morning, she has a brush of teeth.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's like you're not in love if you
Speaker 1: don't kiss your Yeah. I think if if you're with
Speaker 1: somebody that has a super unhealthy lifestyle, then they'll have
Speaker 1: like a really bad breath, Like somebody that doesn't eat
Speaker 1: well and doesn't take care of themselves will have like
Speaker 1: a yeah. But if you eat healthy, you just have
Speaker 1: a little woman breakfast. And if you do the right
Speaker 1: thing and brush your teeth before you go to sleep,
Speaker 1: the breath isn't that bad the morning. And I feel like,
Speaker 1: if you're really in love, you kiss you're a person
Speaker 1: you don't even smell it. Yeah, you don't smell it,
Speaker 1: Like you're like making out with their nose and they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: this smells good. Now. What about if you come in
Speaker 1: your woman right? And then you guys go again, like
Speaker 1: say you take a nap, she's just lazy and she
Speaker 1: falls to sleep y'all pass out because good sex, right,
Speaker 1: and then you wake up and you have sex again.
Speaker 1: Can you eat her out? Mm hmmm, oh nah, I
Speaker 1: done it could Damn I think I'll pray. I think
Speaker 1: I think you could. But you just have to focus
Speaker 1: your mom on on the cliff, like, don't what you said?
Speaker 1: You said if you came in her right, yeah, you
Speaker 1: might not taste it. You could have focused on the clip.
Speaker 1: Just don't you know, don't go in the hole. Don't
Speaker 1: put your tongue in the hole at the top. You
Speaker 1: have some swimmers listening. I was reading about oysters, like
Speaker 1: people who oysters? Did you know that oysters are alive
Speaker 1: when you get them in the um? And you know
Speaker 1: what they said, So when people eat oysters, there lives
Speaker 1: and you know when they die when you pull them
Speaker 1: off the shell. Oh wow. So because they said it
Speaker 1: would be a lot of backter, I just read that today.
Speaker 1: I don't even eat seafood, but I just said it
Speaker 1: would I eat oysters all the time, that you will
Speaker 1: be a lot of back to God. They said that
Speaker 1: if you eat the oysters, if they were to be
Speaker 1: dead already, there would be too much bacteria and you
Speaker 1: wouldn't even be able to eat. It would be harmful.
Speaker 1: But when you have oysters, they're alive and then you
Speaker 1: pull them off the thing and you kill them. R P.
Speaker 1: I did I put it out there because it was
Speaker 1: something that was interesting to me. And you know that's
Speaker 1: so vicious because the way I stabbed the oyster when
Speaker 1: I'm taking it off the shell, because you know that
Speaker 1: little sticky piece that's stuck on the shell, you like,
Speaker 1: stab it with a little fork to take it off,
Speaker 1: killed it. Like I'm just thinking about the little Mermaid
Speaker 1: and all the sea creaturs. Okay, they don't have mermaids,
Speaker 1: but you never see their characters in the movie. Did
Speaker 1: you see it under thee? You never saw it? All right,
Speaker 1: here's the last question from the email. What's better dating
Speaker 1: someone who you have a genuine connection with that doesn't
Speaker 1: treat you poorly, but doesn't necessarily treat you the way
Speaker 1: you've always dreamt of being treated treated or dating someone
Speaker 1: who treats you how you always wanted to be treated
Speaker 1: But you have no connection with like as far as
Speaker 1: no passion, no, I rather the first one. So they
Speaker 1: don't treat you as well as you wanted to and
Speaker 1: it's not what you dreamed of, but you have a
Speaker 1: connection sometimes in relationships. What you dream of is not
Speaker 1: necessarily what you need or what God wants for exactly,
Speaker 1: or what ends up working. I feel like if they
Speaker 1: treat you well, you can work towards, you know, having
Speaker 1: greater times. But if you just have someone that you
Speaker 1: have no connection to, that she's just gonna die out.
Speaker 1: I think if someone already treat you well and you
Speaker 1: have a good connection, you can only grow from there.
Speaker 1: But if you don't have connection, that's just not going
Speaker 1: to were right. You know how many times we've tried
Speaker 1: to date somebody that would be good for like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I have to date this person. They'd be good. It's
Speaker 1: great on paper, you know, but or even like this
Speaker 1: person looks good and the sex is good, but no connection,
Speaker 1: they're boring. Yeah, this person looks good and the sex
Speaker 1: is good, but they're dumb. Like the passionate connection with
Speaker 1: the person, like I can look into your eyes, you
Speaker 1: look into my eyes, and you know, mad love the
Speaker 1: passionate because you could build that and the growth right,
Speaker 1: and you can always I always feel like, I know
Speaker 1: they say you can't change people, but I always feel
Speaker 1: like you can teach somebody how to treat you, because
Speaker 1: I do feel like guys sometimes just don't know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: my good told me how to treat like or they're
Speaker 1: used to something else, right, Like you know how many
Speaker 1: guys out there have never been in a relationship with
Speaker 1: a girl has demanded like certain things right that that boy,
Speaker 1: we're happy demand a lot? Like what what's demanding a lot?
Speaker 1: A lot? Like what everything? What's everything? Because even just
Speaker 1: listen to your talk, I feel like there's a lot
Speaker 1: of things that you don't want her to do that
Speaker 1: you feel like you can do as a man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wear the pants you see these, Yeah, the sweatpans, alright,
Speaker 1: But like, what are some things that you learned? I learned.
Speaker 1: I learned how to like you know, I mean be
Speaker 1: a little more caring. I mean be a little more passionate. Uh,
Speaker 1: I spend more time. But you know, like I gotta
Speaker 1: go get the bags. You can't get in in that
Speaker 1: now to evolving that now. But it's some things where
Speaker 1: you still can't where she can't tap in, where I
Speaker 1: have to go bust that move to get that bag.
Speaker 1: You can't be madaged Like when I go bust that move,
Speaker 1: you still madge I'm going to get that bag. You
Speaker 1: can't do that. I think sometimes as women that's just
Speaker 1: how we are. Sometimes sometimes it's just how we are.
Speaker 1: But I think if you're if you're doing good in
Speaker 1: all other areas, that's what matters. And let's keep it real.
Speaker 1: If she didn't care at all, you probably be like, damn,
Speaker 1: why is she not being right? If she wasn't if
Speaker 1: she wasn't demanding of certain things, and she just didn't
Speaker 1: give a funk, then the relationship wouldn't be what it
Speaker 1: would probably looking at her like what is she doing this?
Speaker 1: I'd be mad because it'd be time with my girl.
Speaker 1: Would call my phone off the hook, right, she called
Speaker 1: my phone off the hook. Man, she called me mad,
Speaker 1: But then then soon she don't call where she had
Speaker 1: like like, nah, I ain't playing right then I get mad.
Speaker 1: Sometimes as women, we got to show you what you
Speaker 1: do to us and do what that takes, because sometimes
Speaker 1: that's the only way a man could see, like you
Speaker 1: can't do that ship and let me show you right,
Speaker 1: let me feel I don't do that to me because
Speaker 1: you don't know what I was doing in the time
Speaker 1: when he was calling me. I probably was getting But
Speaker 1: it's not even about the phone to call off the
Speaker 1: cardinal or something, or pay off that phone bill. Don't
Speaker 1: get mad at me, But I don't think it's only
Speaker 1: with a phone call. When it comes to like what
Speaker 1: and she just said? I think it's just don't really
Speaker 1: just even like how you treating a woman like you
Speaker 1: see how she taught you how to be more caring
Speaker 1: and spending more time with her. There's a lot of
Speaker 1: guys that are used to women that don't necessarily care
Speaker 1: or act for those things. So when they have a
Speaker 1: serious relationship or someone that genuinely loves them, they're not
Speaker 1: going above and beyond to make it work, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So sometimes a woman gott to act
Speaker 1: like she don't give a fucking order for you to
Speaker 1: be like, yo, what's up? Like sometimes you date a
Speaker 1: guy and you're like, who the funk did you date before?
Speaker 1: We don't know how to do? That's how I feel,
Speaker 1: that's right. Do you walk on the outside when you
Speaker 1: walk with your lady? Know? I walk on on the
Speaker 1: outside car. I guess I don't know why I walk.
Speaker 1: I know I just walked out. I got it back,
Speaker 1: I got it back. Do you open the door? Like?
Speaker 1: Are you conscious of things like that? Like I gotta
Speaker 1: open the door for her. Yeah, she said no. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I mean my mom be Roman. I'll bet my mom
Speaker 1: be everywhere, because I feel like it should be a
Speaker 1: reflex when you have somebody, it should be a reflex
Speaker 1: that I walk on the outside. I opened the door
Speaker 1: for you carry your bags. How about when you're carrying
Speaker 1: mad bags and he's just chilling and you're like, yo,
Speaker 1: you don't see. Yeah, And then then she got a
Speaker 1: pub beat for four to to help me to just
Speaker 1: talking about you here? Now you know she's not here.
Speaker 1: Can't be can't you can't? I can't. I don't want
Speaker 1: to at least carry the light bag. I didn't like
Speaker 1: when you were turning man and yeah, no, no, the
Speaker 1: light ones. Every bag I will roll. I should be
Speaker 1: able to roll the bag and you carry it. You
Speaker 1: know you're always talking about getting the bag carry him too.
Speaker 1: That reminds me I'm carrying a heavy one. That reminds
Speaker 1: me of something interesting that I saw on Instagram. Um,
Speaker 1: this DJ posted a video with his girl UM and
Speaker 1: they were in the car and they were going back
Speaker 1: and forth that paint the rent. Yeah, what do you
Speaker 1: think about that? I talked about this? Should um? Yeah,
Speaker 1: should a woman. Oh yeah, Yeah, we're spoke about the
Speaker 1: whole rent because she was like, you're the provider, you
Speaker 1: should pay the rent. And he's like, but sometimes I'm
Speaker 1: so mad about this. Ye yeah, because we had a
Speaker 1: whole discussion about this before. Yeah. I mean, I just
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, what was the question that on
Speaker 1: the last episode when we talked about that, you said,
Speaker 1: if the if the bills are thirty five hundred or
Speaker 1: something like that, how much she should spend, how much
Speaker 1: she should pay on the bill? Should pay what? I
Speaker 1: just feel like this, you know, I feel like if
Speaker 1: you live with a man, if I'm gonna live with
Speaker 1: a man, he should be paying the bills. I could
Speaker 1: pay my phone bill, I can pay for my child
Speaker 1: because we don't have a child together, so I should
Speaker 1: pay for my own kid. And you know, I'll pay
Speaker 1: my maintenance, my hair on my nails, my wax. The man,
Speaker 1: but I feel like he should he should be paying
Speaker 1: the rent. He should pay the cardinal't pay the rent,
Speaker 1: the phone bill, they posted, do the light thing, like
Speaker 1: make sure the house clean exactly. I'm cleaning. I'm talking
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm taking care of I'm
Speaker 1: running your bath. Baby, I'm doing everything next morning. Oh
Speaker 1: that's that's that's another story. It's cool, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's cool. We get now were good. Now
Speaker 1: we got more leeway. That's cool. I want to see
Speaker 1: my girl make morning. Will you clean house? Yeah, but
Speaker 1: then that's gonna be going to get the back if
Speaker 1: I make. If I make more than my man, he's
Speaker 1: gonna he's cooking, he's cleaning, he's doing everything, but he's
Speaker 1: the housewife. Now I wear the pants like he said
Speaker 1: this time, I'm wearing the sweatpad. Right A right, But
Speaker 1: would that be a problem though, as far as like
Speaker 1: I make more than you, but you're the man, you're
Speaker 1: supposed to be the provider, get out there, because they'll
Speaker 1: still be an issue for some people. But I'd like
Speaker 1: to see my woman like that. If she makes more,
Speaker 1: that means she's doing something. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I means she she poised anybody I ever did. Right,
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say you with this, I have
Speaker 1: to I'm not gonna lie on the humble, But what
Speaker 1: do you feel about that? I feel like this. I
Speaker 1: take care of my own business, Like I got my house,
Speaker 1: I pay my mortgage. I've never my whole life, even
Speaker 1: when I wasn't making a lot of money, I never
Speaker 1: had anybody give me money for my bals. I've always
Speaker 1: felt like it's my responsibility. It would be nice if
Speaker 1: somebody could be like, Okay, I can help you, and
Speaker 1: I don't need it now, Like I can handle all
Speaker 1: of that on my own. I buy all my own.
Speaker 1: You were never living with a guy. I live with
Speaker 1: somebody for like two months. It didn't go well. I
Speaker 1: didn't go well. Hease came. But anyway, so I do
Speaker 1: feel like if I lived with somebody now, I would
Speaker 1: like for us to split the bills because I also
Speaker 1: never want to feel like you're living off of me, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so from I don't mind taking care of my stuff,
Speaker 1: and I also I'm very generous, like if I feel
Speaker 1: like because I shop a lot, so if I buy
Speaker 1: myself something and i'm out, I buy my man something too,
Speaker 1: I think that's the right thing, and I justn't like
Speaker 1: doing it. You're just talking about how much of a
Speaker 1: sugar mama am I like buying my friends If I'm
Speaker 1: not right, maybe, oh my god, this would be so
Speaker 1: cute for you know. That's definitely me. I feel like
Speaker 1: I agree with that whole thing. I'm very generous girl.
Speaker 1: She's going to be in the house cleaning that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm bringing see me, I wouldn't want to just like
Speaker 1: be a housewife cleaning like I want to work too,
Speaker 1: But of course I'm gonna have the house clean and
Speaker 1: cook for you. But I'm I've always been a generous
Speaker 1: person kind of like you. I've always paid for my
Speaker 1: own ship. I've never like begged or asks to God
Speaker 1: for anything. I felt like having my own ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I felt like having my own ship helps me feel
Speaker 1: secure because I don't got to rely on you or
Speaker 1: wait for you. So that also has helped me be
Speaker 1: generous in a sense of if me and my man out,
Speaker 1: like I don't mind footing the bill, let me treat you,
Speaker 1: but I'd be like, you know, I got yeah, let
Speaker 1: me treat you like you know what I mean, because
Speaker 1: I feel like it shouldn't always be the man, like
Speaker 1: like the man is the productor but it's good to either, right,
Speaker 1: it's good to it's a cater to you man, I'll
Speaker 1: put the oh no, no, yeah, I'm saying she can
Speaker 1: help me, assist me. She could be my assist. But
Speaker 1: what if he's like, no, I need to get out
Speaker 1: there and make my own. Have you gonna do that?
Speaker 1: And be mad? But if you're gonna do that, I can't.
Speaker 1: But why but mad? Why because she should kind of
Speaker 1: feel like she has her own. Yeah, you're right, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying I don't know. It's just me, like I
Speaker 1: just don't want to. I just feel like this. You know,
Speaker 1: whether I work or not, I'm gonna be. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: cook and clean in my house. Like that's just something regardless,
Speaker 1: you know. So if I'm if I'm living with somebody
Speaker 1: and he's a millionaire, he's richer than me, much richer
Speaker 1: than me, I don't feel like I should be paying.
Speaker 1: But I dated guys, and you know, and I date.
Speaker 1: I like dating manly man. I don't like dating soft guys.
Speaker 1: I like dating off of males, except for that guy
Speaker 1: with the three fingers in the But I mean it
Speaker 1: very serious. I'm talking about serious relationships. I was only
Speaker 1: way to have a few times times though, just but anyway,
Speaker 1: he um, you know, I dated somebody and I was
Speaker 1: making more money than him, and like I said, he
Speaker 1: was an alpha male and he couldn't really handle that.
Speaker 1: So I found us arguing all the time, and I
Speaker 1: felt like he was trying to bring me down to
Speaker 1: his level, you know, because I was just I was
Speaker 1: I was doing so well and he was doing so bad,
Speaker 1: and it was just like we just will fight about
Speaker 1: it all the time because it's hard than the guy's
Speaker 1: ego exactly. Like I could tell it was paying the bills,
Speaker 1: and I would even hide some of the money that
Speaker 1: I was bringing him because I didn't want him to
Speaker 1: feel like I was, you know, making so much more
Speaker 1: than him, and he would find out and he would
Speaker 1: get upset that I was hiding money because men and women,
Speaker 1: we should never throw it in somebody else's face. And
Speaker 1: that's how I feel, true, because and I'm all about,
Speaker 1: you know, making my man feel like he is that nigga,
Speaker 1: you know, like my man is like even even if
Speaker 1: my man is the flies, the riginals, I want him
Speaker 1: to feel like he could flies, I want him to
Speaker 1: feel like he's the riginess. I wanted to feel like
Speaker 1: he is just the best ever. So it's kind of
Speaker 1: hard when you're doing so much better than somebody and
Speaker 1: still trying to make them feel like, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: I was still trying to encourage him, like like together,
Speaker 1: we can do this together, we could do that. He's
Speaker 1: more like, not funk that I want. I want to
Speaker 1: do it on my own. I don't want you to help.
Speaker 1: That's the key too, It's like helping each other build
Speaker 1: into something bigger, you know, because you're both going to
Speaker 1: have insecurities and you gotta work on and you know,
Speaker 1: help each other and don't throw it. Anais felling like that.
Speaker 1: Alpha males want to do it on their own. They
Speaker 1: want to do better than their girl. They can't handle
Speaker 1: being with a success. And some guys don't want you
Speaker 1: to work because they want to control you. Right. Not
Speaker 1: Because when I was broke, I'm still broke, baby, I'm
Speaker 1: still broken. No, I don't know you sneakers still broke baby,
Speaker 1: but I'm when I was broke, I'm still broke. No,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But when you were broke,
Speaker 1: when I was broken, Yeah, I'm doing better now. I'm
Speaker 1: still broke. But my d was paying for the bill
Speaker 1: like that that became you see the bigger picture. That's
Speaker 1: another thing. I don't think it's it's bad for a
Speaker 1: woman to provide, even if she's with a man who's
Speaker 1: much more successful than she is. I think it's good
Speaker 1: for the woman to go and buy food because it's
Speaker 1: the food you're gonna cook. But you should buy what
Speaker 1: you want. How did that make you feel when she
Speaker 1: had to pay all the bills? Did you feel like?
Speaker 1: Did it feel crazy to you? Yeah? Like that, but
Speaker 1: it made you work harder. Yeah, maybe work harder, that's
Speaker 1: what you know? What I mean, just made me go harder.
Speaker 1: Now a time is me I pay. I think once
Speaker 1: you have that, once you have an understanding, it's cool.
Speaker 1: Like if if she, like Drake said, you knew what
Speaker 1: it was when you signed up. So like, if you
Speaker 1: know your man doesn't have that much money, but he's
Speaker 1: working towards it, and you know you gotta help him out.
Speaker 1: But I feel like if you know your man and
Speaker 1: ship and he's just being lazy and then you're supporting him,
Speaker 1: that's a different story. But if you know your man
Speaker 1: don't got it right now and you you know you
Speaker 1: gotta help him build that, then do what you gotta do.
Speaker 1: Don't throw it in his face, all right? But fatboy,
Speaker 1: why don't you because I know we gotta get out
Speaker 1: of here. Why don't you promote everything you gotta because
Speaker 1: you know we all follow you, so okay, um, yeah,
Speaker 1: you just follow my Instagram, Fatboard, underscore SSEC. You will
Speaker 1: see more because I gotta. I got a segment that
Speaker 1: I put on my Instagram now. It's called couples event
Speaker 1: with me and my shoulder. So you know what next time,
Speaker 1: you guys got to do it together because I didn't
Speaker 1: know she was time and we wouldn't we would have
Speaker 1: paid some really fun games. Yeah, of course we got
Speaker 1: to a side. But yeah, you can follow me Instagram
Speaker 1: at fabul underscore s s E and you can find
Speaker 1: me on Twitter Fabule Underscore s see YouTube, same things.
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll have her up here without you one day.
Speaker 1: He said, huh, can she feeling herself? Because she just
Speaker 1: she just hit the hunted k on Instagram. She like
Speaker 1: she's feeling herself because there's a lot of things that
Speaker 1: you said. I think she didn't agree with I'm saying
Speaker 1: there's a lot of she said from a woman's perspective.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you, we appreciate you, Thank you,
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Hopefully you try some new things at
Speaker 1: home now too. Yeah, I ain't trying no cool or
Speaker 1: the other one. What's the other one? Frozen conducting, I
Speaker 1: ain't doing all that, not that kind of okay,