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Speaker 1: Alright, what's up. It's a lift service. I'm Angela yee,

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Speaker 1: I'm Stephanie Santiago. It's been by the way, it was

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Speaker 1: her birthday, Happy birthday, beautiful vacation, and we got fat

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Speaker 1: boy here with us. What's up? Hey? What's We're in

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Speaker 1: the bill that there's a lot of pressure on him

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Speaker 1: to be funny today. So yeah, like that's easy though,

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Speaker 1: because it's it's organic. All right, good, well, let's keep

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Speaker 1: it organic. Now we started with our sex tip. How

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Speaker 1: do you make sure our woman has an orgasm every

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Speaker 1: single time? Oh? Damn, um uh, this is you can

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Speaker 1: say anything I say. You know, I finger a finger

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Speaker 1: the pussy. Wow, you're the first fingerer. Were packing finger?

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Speaker 1: You're not looking on it a little bit? Look on

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Speaker 1: the click Okay, I know you said look on her computer. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you make her your finger like you pop it

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Speaker 1: or you like play with it like fingers are used,

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Speaker 1: these two fingers and not just in you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. That's and he's his third finger and his

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Speaker 1: ring finger. You may lick it afterwards. That's sexy. So

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Speaker 1: you finger her while you lick it, or is it

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Speaker 1: like alternating and alternating finger it? Then you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, I lick it, then I put my fingers

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Speaker 1: in my mouth, you know, and that guarantees an orgasm.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather that she come like in your mouth

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Speaker 1: or would you rather she come during penetration? During penetration? Penetration, ladies,

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Speaker 1: how would you rather come penetration for sure? Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: she's having a moment. Yeah, yeah, the flashback stuff I like. Um,

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Speaker 1: I like the end. I like the internal like penetration

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Speaker 1: orgasm because it just feels it's a little different, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like when I'm masturbating, I can

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Speaker 1: make myself come from you know, clitoral stimulation, right, so

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Speaker 1: it's like, you know, it's nothing special, But when a

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Speaker 1: guy could actually make you come from the inside, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's different. I think for me, it's like anytime you

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Speaker 1: can make me orgasm anyway, whether it be finger or tongue,

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Speaker 1: I'll take it. But like you know, if you fingering

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Speaker 1: me or like you're eating me out, I'm just like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I need that dick like coming right to please. Do

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Speaker 1: you have an eat her and then put your finger

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Speaker 1: in her butt too? Yeah? Of course I'm nasty, so

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Speaker 1: I do all. I'm nasty toes and everything. Does anybody

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Speaker 1: in here like having your toes? Like I've had my

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Speaker 1: toes sucked a couple of times, man, And I gotta say,

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Speaker 1: I think it's more exciting for the guy. But the guy.

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Speaker 1: I think it's more exciting for the guy. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: for me, it's like why, like the tickles, this is stupid?

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Speaker 1: Why is this happening? Like I haven't got in a

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Speaker 1: pedicure in like a week? Why are you? Yeah? When

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Speaker 1: is that? Like? When would you suck her toes? Like

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Speaker 1: if you see that her toes aren't done, ain't If

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Speaker 1: they ain't if they're bad, like they bad, ain't done,

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Speaker 1: then I ain't doing it. But they're looking good, looking

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Speaker 1: good I'm doing as she got that white nail. Probably

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Speaker 1: guys always want to suck toes in awkward moments, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like you're like like he's up

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Speaker 1: the feet are in the face and then boom. Why

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Speaker 1: that's kind of sometimes they might prevent the moment from happening,

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Speaker 1: like can you please not telling you? It's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you're just you're just not laughing. Now it's funny. Now

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Speaker 1: you're doing something is all right now I want to see. Um,

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Speaker 1: we were talking about Hedonism before you got here, right,

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Speaker 1: because I think we're all going to go to Hedonism.

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Speaker 1: It's in Jamaica. It's a resort where everybody's naked. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll go there too. You would, all right? So, um,

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Speaker 1: so we would? Would you all be naked like Hedonism

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Speaker 1: if everybody else was, I wouldn't. I shot Smooth Magazine

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Speaker 1: and Hedonism, and I was naked a lot of the time,

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Speaker 1: but only when I was with crewel people. Because it's

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Speaker 1: of when the thing. I love Hedonism though, it's really fun.

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Speaker 1: But the only like it's kind of awkward to see

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Speaker 1: if guys walking around with soft things over the place. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: look at you soft. That's the only reason why it's awkward.

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Speaker 1: I'll be naked. I probably walk around with a little

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Speaker 1: playing footballiday. I think it's easier for a guy. I

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Speaker 1: mean it's easy for some girls too, but I think

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Speaker 1: guys don't give a fun but a hedonism. When you're

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Speaker 1: wearing clothes, they make you feel uncomfortable, like exactly like

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Speaker 1: a spy. It's more like you're more comfortable when you're

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Speaker 1: everybody's like, are you comfortable naked and soft? Though? Because

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna be hard the whole time I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, are you a shower or a grower? Because

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Speaker 1: flaccid as they say it's in limp. It looked awful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like, damn, I don't know if I want to

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Speaker 1: do that. But then some guys just bust up out

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Speaker 1: like the incredible Hope. So how is that like a

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Speaker 1: hedonism when everyone's naked. I'm sure there are guys that

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Speaker 1: Stay await, here's the thing. They are approach. They are

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Speaker 1: approach you soft, and then as they're talking to you,

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Speaker 1: trying to not look at it. But that is weird.

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Speaker 1: If you watch your boys and like you're like your man,

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Speaker 1: let's get a drinking. Watch out, you know your homies

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Speaker 1: day they try to yo, what's up? But watch out

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Speaker 1: girls won't by naked and all your boys starts going hard.

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Speaker 1: That's weird. Watch. But guys get erections at like weird

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Speaker 1: random times, right, Yeah, I used to get that gym

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Speaker 1: all the time. Damn, that's awkward gym all the time,

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Speaker 1: and then it would be so crazy. You gotta it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's more awkward though, getting an erection at like a

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Speaker 1: weird time or not getting one if you had to choose. Um,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm saying getting one, yeah, I would.

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Speaker 1: I would get it to not get me. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: I think not getting it will be is a more

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Speaker 1: awkward time. That's bad. But sometimes guys get really drunk.

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Speaker 1: By the way, we have drinks for you if you

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Speaker 1: want something appreciate. Yeah, we got you because we heard

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Speaker 1: simply would appreciate that. But we want to make sure

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Speaker 1: you're taken care of appreciate. Now we're gonna play a

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Speaker 1: you guys really know about different sex terminology and how

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Speaker 1: many things you've tried. Okay, do you know what is

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Speaker 1: the supernova? The supernova Stephanie, I'm looking at you. It's supernova.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna guess. Okay, yes, can I guess? The super

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Speaker 1: nova is when um, a guy cream pas your ass?

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Speaker 1: How did you come up with that? That's when a

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Speaker 1: girl feels her mouth with pop rocks and then gives

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Speaker 1: come ye, all right, here's another thing that I've never

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Speaker 1: heard of. This the Kentucky klan dag bar no idea,

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Speaker 1: what angela? Where are you getting these from urban dictionary? Okay?

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Speaker 1: This is when you freeze a bowel movement and then

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Speaker 1: you penetrate somebody with the frozen bowel move That's disgusting.

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Speaker 1: That's the wait, what does that another way? Did you

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Speaker 1: your hold dog and then guy forbid it. That's a weird.

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Speaker 1: That's a weird, shitty fetish. Who's doing that? Have you

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Speaker 1: ever have you ever penetrated your girlfriend with an object? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is it like a real dildo or vibrator or just

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Speaker 1: get sick off that. Did you put a condom on it?

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Speaker 1: Did you sanitizlastic thing? It was from auspices. It was

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Speaker 1: some it. She doesn't remember this, she remembered. She just said, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's here by the way, he said special, yea, we

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Speaker 1: paid twins for it. It's um, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: it was, probably a massager. Yeah, you didn't describe that

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Speaker 1: well this white thing. Yeah, it was like, boy, you

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Speaker 1: better not talking. Do you like using toys? I'm saying, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm a free November? Okay. Yeah, but they're also cheaters. Uh.

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Speaker 1: a scorpio boyfriend at one point that was definitely a cheater. Now,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people also have written in some questions.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back to some of these terminologies, and I

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Speaker 1: want to see what you think about this. Okay. One

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Speaker 1: or her friends ain't got the money for that. Is

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Speaker 1: it safe for her to travel alone? No? Hell no,

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Speaker 1: But I have to say, man, I've traveled. I used

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Speaker 1: It's not it's not fun. It's not fun being by yourself,

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Speaker 1: know what this is? Sex talk, cold lunch, cold lunch?

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00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: Who wants a cold lunch? Cold lunch? I don't know.

420
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,200
Speaker 1: I like, I like, I like hot. When it comes

421
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: to sex, cold, I'm not sure about thatthing. Like cold,

422
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: it is the simple sexual act of forcing yourself to

423
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 1: throw up into another persons and then has to eat it. Actually,

424
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: she just picked the most disgusting people actually like doing

425
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: ship like that. Trust me, you know how many people

426
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: go quick tent that? Please? Freaky? What's the freaky thing?

427
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: I know you say you're freaky. Now, what's the freakiest

428
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: thing that you've done? Like the spittle, Like I'd like

429
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:05,479
Speaker 1: to just spit on the like in her mouth, her face, everything,

430
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: like she over here like they I feel like, once

431
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: a guy spits in your mouth, that's it. You belong

432
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 1: to him, your own. She's like, that's just hanging up,

433
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: throwing the towel. I said, you have an owner now.

434
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: She said, you don't spit on her face, but she chatting.

435
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: Now what about okay, what about her spitting on your face?

436
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 1: Do you like that? Or spitting your mouth? I'll saying

437
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: you could do that. A's cool because that spit spit.

438
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: What about if she is giving you a blow job

439
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: and then she like sticks her dumb in your but

440
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: she laughing, like why are you like men are so

441
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: closed off? Said that my guys always like anything but

442
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: that don't touch don't touch it, don't touch the whole tongue. Oh.

443
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: He like, yeah, I ain't even gonna not that. I

444
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: don't think there's nothing wrong with that, there's anything. What

445
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: do you mean the guy that I'm doing, I'll be

446
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 1: working with him like he thinks it's so weird and awkward,

447
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: so on his nipples. So we'll be laying down and

448
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: I'll just start looking on his like it's so weird,

449
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 1: but he likes it. He doesn't like that's what I

450
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: saw of I'm like, you like it, He's like, no,

451
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: don't like. That's because men think of a girl getting

452
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: her TITTI sucked where you know it's that's not masculine, right,

453
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, like what some guys like, like like pinch

454
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: their nipple while you're sing. See when I'm like caressing

455
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: my guy's chest, I'll go over his nipple, but I

456
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: won't like right, not because I feel like he'll be like,

457
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,959
Speaker 1: what you should try it? Yeah? Right? These guys who

458
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: wants you to like sprinting on it because he Here's

459
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: the thing I think in general and sex, you can't

460
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: never ask somebody just you have to just do it,

461
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 1: because if you ask somebody and then they think about it,

462
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: they're gonna be just put your thumb in his butt.

463
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: You don't mind your butt lick though, Oh my god,

464
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 1: are you sure? He's sounding a little sound hesitant? Positive?

465
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: So how you know you don't like it? I don't

466
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: like it. You just don't like the idea of it,

467
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: or like or the idea of like putting your legs spreading.

468
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: You don't have to spread your legs. I eat the

469
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: booty like groceries I'm eating the booty. I'm eating it. Nah,

470
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: I ain't getting Could you come from getting your h

471
00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 1: that's amazing, he said, that's the first I told you

472
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 1: I a freak. So you never come from that. Yeah, wow,

473
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: that's easy, He's easy. How long does it take though?

474
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: How long did she have to play with your nips? Lim?

475
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: But wait? Does she have to play with your nipples

476
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 1: and be jerking you off? Or just like you just

477
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: come just from the nipples without touching your dick? No, no,

478
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: you gotta, I gotta you gotta touch the dick. Yeah,

479
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: you gotta. I can see it in your head. I've

480
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: made a guy coming before like that, like king on

481
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: his nipple and jerking him off. It comes back. They

482
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: come last. You just like lick on your palm a

483
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: little bit, like make your palm wet, and you jerk

484
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: a guy off and stuck on his nipple makes them

485
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 1: come back. It makes the coast. Now do you think

486
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: if she masturbates in front of you? Yeah? Do you

487
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: masturbate in front of her? Yeah? Lit, I never had

488
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: to got masterbate in front of me. You know what,

489
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship with somebody and you're like, oh, no,

490
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm not having sex tonight. I'm noting I got my period,

491
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: I haven't had a I'm going to sleep. So the

492
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: next thing, you know, you feel somebody and jerking that

493
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 1: dick off came on your leg. And every day I think,

494
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: I think for a man or at least the situations

495
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: that I've been in, like they do it. They'll like

496
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: they'll start jerking off like or like grabbing their dick,

497
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: but then like they like the pussy. Yeah, no, when

498
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: I when I was I was when I was in

499
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: a relationship. I'm telling you when I was in and

500
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: we lived together, and I'll be like, no, I'm not

501
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to have sex tonight, like I'm tired,

502
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: And the nigga will just comment jerk off touching my ass,

503
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: like you don't want to have to come like its

504
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: easy for you? Is it easy for you stuff to

505
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: like play with you pussy in front of a guy. Um,

506
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: it depends if I'm being a little bit right and

507
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: we had sex and because I'm I'm real evil, this

508
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: is some evil ship to do. Like we'll have sex

509
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: and you know, like it'll be done if we finished

510
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: having sex for like twenty five minut and I'll be like, ah,

511
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: you didn't even make me come, and I'll start massively

512
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: and right there, and they're always like dude, yeah, but

513
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: like because I can't get hid again. No, they never

514
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 1: cook right, and it's always like, oh, just stop, I'll

515
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: give you, just give me like ten minutes. Stop. And

516
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: that's also a good trick to get to get I

517
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: got to eat your pussy after you because I didn't come,

518
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: you gotta. Yeah, it's a good trick, like when we've

519
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 1: done a couple of rounds and I know his energies out,

520
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: and like, because I could, I could keep going, like

521
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: I'll be tired. Yeah as a woman, yeah, I could

522
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: keep going to like I'll be tired, like yeah after

523
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: a couple of rounds. But then my she'll get wet

524
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: and I just played with my ship in front of

525
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: him and then it'll turn him on and then we'll

526
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 1: probably sunk again. Or I just come. I just coming,

527
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: and it's a it's a good trick. Like once they

528
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: worn out and you're like, oh, you didn't even make

529
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: me calm and you start massively and they're either like

530
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: just wait, you stopped. Just give me like a couple

531
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: of minutes, or they start eating your pussy, so you

532
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: do that so he could fuck you? Do what on purpose?

533
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 1: Just to make him feel bad? Like look, you swore

534
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: you all that work and look at me. Now. That

535
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: is evil. I'm telling you it's evil. It's it's fun.

536
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: And that's where are you loud when you come? No,

537
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: I ain't loud. I just like the cessation when the

538
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: ladies talking like the yeah, yeah, needs give out, your

539
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: legs give out. I like when a guy like moans,

540
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: like yeah, I think that's sexy. You got that's too quiet.

541
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: I don't make noise, but my eyes roll back to

542
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: my head and stuff. Does he make noise like like

543
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: not like screaming, but like you, I don't make do it.

544
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: I don't scream, not screaming, but moaning. I think that's sexy.

545
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: A guy that's too quiet. It's kind of if I

546
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: if I, if I ain't come in like a week

547
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 1: spaed I'm like, uh like that, but I don't really scream,

548
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: but they're like I do. I think it's good with

549
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 1: guys scream. Yeah, it's sexy. I like. I like when

550
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: a guy moans a little bit and I like he's

551
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: like a little again. I like and I like a

552
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: little grunt when a guy's coming, like a little grunt,

553
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: like yeah, get their heads up like I'm about to come. Yeah,

554
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,719
Speaker 1: of course all guys give that up. Yeah. But I'm

555
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: simple though I don't like. I'll tell you this, like

556
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: I'm simple. I'm fat too, so I don't like. I

557
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: don't like hitting it from the front like I like

558
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: hitting it from the back. Okay, that's your favorite. My

559
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: favorite position is doggy stuff over commit the day. White

560
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: men like slapping asks when he had that. It just

561
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: makes me feel like I'm making that red night. Yeah.

562
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: I like when a guy spanks me while we're having

563
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: sex because it makes me feel like he's in control,

564
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: like being like, oh daddy, you know you get hurt

565
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: because you like to you No, no, no, I like it.

566
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: I like for it to have some feelings to it,

567
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: like not a little no. I want to hear that.

568
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: I want to hear it. But but you see that

569
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: that's too much. That's too That cock back was too know,

570
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,479
Speaker 1: Like I like a little cock but not not when

571
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: you do the cock back, you got if you if

572
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: you really what you gotta do the cock back, they

573
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: come slow down, the hand put on the ash to

574
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: be like that all far and I like, but I

575
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: think when you're drinking you don't even really kind of numb,

576
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,719
Speaker 1: you don't really feel it that much. So and then

577
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: til you wake up in the morning and they got

578
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: like bruised up, asked the second time. I'm on lip service.

579
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,200
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Speaker 1: the guy who wasn't court. His girlfriend died while giving

596
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Speaker 1: him a blowjob, but his defense was that his dick

597
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: was so big and shetunately she chose and he actually

598
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Speaker 1: actually won. But how did she chose? W wait wait,

599
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Speaker 1: wait wait wait, how did she die while giving him

600
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 1: a blowjob? She died, and so he was saying that

601
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 1: what then was what was she doing it that she

602
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: couldn't breathe? She couldn't tell she couldn't breathe right like

603
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 1: kept like or what's he like? You know, some guys,

604
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: you should have washed her head towards He should have

605
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: went to jail for that, he said he should have.

606
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: It was in court he said he didn't kill her.

607
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: It wasn't you know, it was like he murdered her.

608
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: But again he was. He was hold he was suffocated her.

609
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 1: He hold her there because she knew when she tried

610
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: to get up. He should have want the jol for

611
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: that's crazy, he got that would make me not breathe

612
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: and you know you're like in a dick, and they

613
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 1: tried to push it down here and right right let

614
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: me right, he lacks. You don't have to try to

615
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 1: kill that's how you know that Judge was a man,

616
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: because any woman would have been like, wait he killed

617
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: he was holding her, he was He probably kept pushing

618
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: her head down and she just like sticking all the

619
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: way down at throat. Let the tears come down. Yeah,

620
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: that's the stuff I would say. You gotta cry, Yeah

621
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: when you I say that, right, that's mine is jus favorite.

622
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: Gotta cry when you're I think that. Yeah, Like that's

623
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: what Like when you're giving a good blowjob, you know

624
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: you got snow, Like, yeah, you're breathing heavy. You know,

625
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: it's fantastic, it's amazing. Have you ever cried during sex? Me? Cry? No,

626
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: like you've just been overwhelmed us. Maybe you up? What's

627
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: the longest that your girl has held out on you

628
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 1: because you sucked up? No? Not too long, not too

629
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 1: long that make up sex? Yeah, because if I don't know,

630
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: if she ain't trying to give me those checks, I

631
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: just like like not force it. But you know, like

632
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: I mean, what's the longest you could go without having sex? Oh? No, no,

633
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: not even if I could bust ten times, I do it,

634
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: but you know you can't. But I do y'allka yaka

635
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: bus all day. You know, um here's the thing. Like

636
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: I feel like, all right, because you guys know, I've

637
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: been I've been through um even on the show. I was.

638
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: There was a time that I was in a relationship

639
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: for a year, and then there was a time that

640
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: I was single for about a year. And now again

641
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 1: I'm dating somebody, you know, like just I'm only dating him, right,

642
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: and I find what I'm sorry, I find um. You

643
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: know what, I'm single. I don't have as much sex

644
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: as I have when I'm in a relationship. Of course,

645
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 1: you have a steady dick, that's the thing. So you know,

646
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: like I just feel like my pussy needs a break,

647
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like when I was in

648
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 1: my relationship with my son's father, we used to have

649
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: sex all the time. But I feel like I was

650
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: a little younger at that time, and now I just

651
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: feel like I can't have sex every day. Like I

652
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: feel like my pussy is gonna fall apart if I

653
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: have sex every single day. You know, oh god, so

654
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: pussy is not going to fall apart. I feel like

655
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 1: I'm just like damn, like I cannot so much. Man

656
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: a big guys, baby, soon be fine. I pussy snapped, right,

657
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: snap and do you, but I don't want to funk

658
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: every day. I get what Stefanie's staying because after a

659
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 1: couple of rounds and ship, you're like like pussy, like throbbing,

660
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, it's okay. The baths of crying,

661
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: like oh my god, but then you need a couple

662
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: of hours and then you're good to go again. Horny.

663
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: All right, here's another question. Somebody wrote in I'm a

664
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 1: twenty six year old young man from Jersey, but I

665
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: live in Philly now and I was with my ex

666
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,720
Speaker 1: for about three years. He was arrested for drug trafficking

667
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: and is doing five years. I told him I would

668
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: stay by him and hold him down while he was

669
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 1: locked up. Skip ahead of a year later, and I

670
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 1: met this guy who was a detective for the Philadelphia

671
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 1: Police Department and yeah, I'm gay, and yeah they both

672
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:02,319
Speaker 1: aren't out, but me and the detective hit it off

673
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: and I'm really starting to catch feelings and he said

674
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 1: he is also. But I feel like what I'm doing

675
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 1: is wrong because I love my ex, but he's in jail.

676
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 1: What should I do. That's such an interesting thing, just

677
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 1: being with like, yes, it's all guys back. That's so interesting.

678
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: That's so interesting, just the transition of the relationship, like

679
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: he went from being with the criminal to be right,

680
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: here's the thing, here's the truth about that. This is

681
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: this is the real answer. This is don't feel bad,

682
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: Stay with the guy who has a career, Stay with

683
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: the detective. The other one is definitely one hundred cheating

684
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 1: on you in jail. Listen, So he is in jail.

685
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: He's doing hedonism in jail. Alright, Alright, in general, Okay,

686
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: aside from just this, if somebody gets locked up in

687
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 1: a relationship, do you think that you have to wait

688
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: and hold them down, like, say, they're locked up for

689
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: three years? It's tough. Yeah, she I don't know if

690
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: I know what. She ain't gonna hold me that I'm

691
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: not talking? Are you say she ain't? She just look crazy.

692
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: I think I don't know about fight. I can't. Three

693
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 1: years is a long ye predicted, I can't to me.

694
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: She a woman's perspective. Could you hold her down for

695
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: three years? Never? Yeah, I think that's the thing you

696
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: could try. Yeah, I think you can try. But there's

697
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: nothing wrong if you move on, because realistically, people need intimacy.

698
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 1: People paid someone to talk to me, to be there

699
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: for you, yea. And it depends like the relationship, how

700
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 1: long you guys were together, the history you have, you know,

701
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like when you're saying you're gonna

702
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: hold somebody down in jail, it does not necessarily mean

703
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,280
Speaker 1: that you're not gonna date other people while they're locked

704
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: up and saying that you're gonna take care of them.

705
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 1: You're gonna be there for them. You're gonna hold them down,

706
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: You're gonna go to the visits, they're gonna put money

707
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 1: on their books exactly. You know, that's how you hold

708
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: the person down in jail. And I feel like a

709
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: smart person who thinks logically and it's realistic, will know

710
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: that you are going to be doing what you want

711
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: the outside. You know what you want to know about it.

712
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: You know. I was, I was willing, and I was

713
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna be with this person forever

714
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: and he's gonna be in jail for X y Z

715
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 1: amount of times and I'm right, and I'm gonna hold

716
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: it down. But he didn't give me the opportunity to

717
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 1: hold them down because he broke up with me. And

718
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: I have to say, the time passed, he's already out

719
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: of jail, and I have to be honest with myself

720
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: and I have to say that no, there was no

721
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: way I was not gonna cheat on him. I think

722
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: people grow. He was right, he was smart, He did

723
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: the right thing because I definitely Wan had one of

724
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 1: like the best years ever in my sex life. Well

725
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: here's people grow. I feel like, like like that boy said,

726
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: three years is a long time, So like you grow.

727
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: If I change, you meet different, we have different opportunities.

728
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: So after that, and I honestly and it's not and

729
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: it's also it's sexual, but I think it's mental too,

730
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. For you also, like if

731
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: you're on the outside, you don't have someone mentally like

732
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 1: stimulating your mind in that sense where you're even attracted

733
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: to wait for them, you know what I mean. You

734
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 1: might meet somebody else that just does it for you

735
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 1: all around, sexually, mentally. And guys can always be mad

736
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 1: at you, yeah, always, because I forbid you don't answer

737
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: the phone. Of course they don't got to do. They

738
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 1: make up all kind of scenarios so you can't answer

739
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 1: the phone, like, um, I mean, I'm wating you answer

740
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 1: this phone. If you see my car, you don't know

741
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 1: what I could be going through. I could, but that's

742
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: that's how I was doing lip service. I couldn't answer

743
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 1: that phone. As if he called you right now, you

744
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: got to answer that phone. And honestly, while when he

745
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: first when he was in the tombs down here in

746
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 1: the city, Um, there was a time I was working,

747
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 1: I was here and I didn't answer the He and

748
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: I would be out and she would go outside and

749
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: be on the phone for like two hours arguing, and

750
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: I'd be like if she coming back, you know, and

751
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: but you know, I just feel like he, um, he

752
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: did the right thing. I was definitely going to cheat

753
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 1: on him. We were not gonna last this time. It was.

754
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: I told him I was going to cheat on before

755
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: he went to jail. If you were left that for

756
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: three years, But is that cheating? You could forget it

757
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 1: if you if you're still committed, like if you say

758
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: you're still my man. Yeah, I understand this two thousand seventeen, right,

759
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: you're not coming home to two thousand and twenty. Okay,

760
00:43:55,320 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: what about six months? Six months? Six months to come

761
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: on six months? Right? No? No, I agree with that, right, no,

762
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: But but I even like being said, I feel like

763
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 1: I grew in the time that he was away anyway,

764
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 1: Like you guys know, I feel like I feel like

765
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I'm the same person that I was,

766
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,240
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, man, I wish she definitely

767
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: would just break up with this guy said she have

768
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: a good time, and she would be miserable time she

769
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: drinking mad. Yes, exactly, I would drink and get mad.

770
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: If you're in a relationship and you're miserable like more

771
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,760
Speaker 1: than you're not, then it's not a good one. I agree.

772
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: I totally agree now that way. If you are with

773
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: your woman and you come in her mouth, does she

774
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: have to brush her teeth before she kisses you? So

775
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: I swallowed, gone, don't kiss What if you it's snowballing it?

776
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 1: Just like God, No, I just hold up, just like,

777
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 1: but what if you're in bed and like y'are laying

778
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 1: there and then it's like ten twenty minutes past and

779
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: y'all cuddle in and she kisses you. No, I know

780
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: we're not doing bone. I get eyes all out. She's

781
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 1: going to bathroom to do what you do. But maybe

782
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: she just went to lay there and counter for a while.

783
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't not with no come, I'm not trying to

784
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: not taste yourself, but it already went down. It already

785
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: went down the throat, her throat. Bust your teeth with gate,

786
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 1: so your nipples with that content. Yeah, because I just

787
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: don't want to taste yourself. I only know you don't

788
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: want to know what you taste. Like, I know one guy.

789
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: I know one guy that snowballs and his girlfriend, she's

790
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: one of my girlfriends, and she tells me and he's bisexual.

791
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 1: So there you go. He's okay, he's bisexual and he's

792
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 1: snowballed her like, he comes in her mouth and they

793
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 1: kissed after he's sexual though, Yeah, I think that's of course,

794
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 1: that's the reason, Stephanie. Could you date a guy that

795
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: was bisexual? No, I personally, I don't know, because it's

796
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: like it's one thing I think. I definitely don't know.

797
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: I think I've definitely had sex with a guy that

798
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: is gay, Okay, once or twice in my lifetime. Did

799
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: you think it when I thought it? Well, one guy

800
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: I thought it because he took like two and a

801
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: half fingers in his ass. That's that's too much. That's

802
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: just was that his choice of yours? Though? Was that

803
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: his choice of yours. I didn't ask him you want

804
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: three fingers. I put one and I was like, okay,

805
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 1: let's try to. I was like, let me put a

806
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: little bit of the ring and he was fine, just

807
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: like he was loving it. He was loving it. He

808
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 1: was loving it. So I'm definitely you know, would you

809
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: have sex with him again after that? No? No, no,

810
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: he's actually engaged to a woman. Okay, what about you, Avi,

811
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: and you can give it has sex with a gay

812
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: man or bisexual that I know of? Knowing that I

813
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: know of, No, nah, I would think I could have

814
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:20,399
Speaker 1: sex with somebody that's bisexual. I don't have anything against bisexuals,

815
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 1: like at all, but just like my man has strictly

816
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: pussy and I mean, like now and now, I gotta

817
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: worry about these holes and I gotta worry about these right,

818
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 1: like what the holes and girls before? Right? How many

819
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 1: things you take exactly like yea o yeah. Now I'm

820
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: not even going into the spe how men and women

821
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,399
Speaker 1: are so different because okay, guys don't mind if women

822
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: have been with other women, right, that's fine, like that

823
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: I want to waiting and for women, we want to

824
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: taste that else stick your thing. Yeah, but you don't

825
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: want to taste yourself. See how different men and women are. Yeah,

826
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: but I feel like, you know, um what we what's

827
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,800
Speaker 1: coming out of the vagina is like it's it's saucier.

828
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 1: It's a different taste. It's clear, it's like, but it

829
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: is a different taste. Come, guys come, it's like you know,

830
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: it's children. There's children, so that's how kids, you know

831
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like it's a women. Yeah there it's

832
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: like little tadpoles, you know. Like I like it, but

833
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: I don't think my man should like it for him.

834
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: I don't think you should like I like living at

835
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: women's podcast saucy like she said, Yeah, men and women's

836
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: come just taste different. Understand, women come when you yourself,

837
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: when you's wondering because you're trying to ricken, I've trying

838
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: been with the woman. I've never been with a woman.

839
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,359
Speaker 1: When you taste yourself, it tastes different than the guys come.

840
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: So I could understand why men wouldn't want to taste themselves.

841
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 1: But if you never tasted yourself, how do you know

842
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: what that tastes like? I would think a guy would

843
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: be curious, but he tastes like I feel like this,

844
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 1: I feel like a curiosity kills the cat. Guys don't

845
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: taste it. Don't taste your own come unless you're unless

846
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: you're you're curious. What about morning breath? Yeah, like you

847
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 1: wake up in the morning, she has a brush of teeth.

848
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's like you're not in love if you

849
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 1: don't kiss your Yeah. I think if if you're with

850
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:45,800
Speaker 1: somebody that has a super unhealthy lifestyle, then they'll have

851
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: like a really bad breath, Like somebody that doesn't eat

852
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 1: well and doesn't take care of themselves will have like

853
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 1: a yeah. But if you eat healthy, you just have

854
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: a little woman breakfast. And if you do the right

855
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,720
Speaker 1: thing and brush your teeth before you go to sleep,

856
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: the breath isn't that bad the morning. And I feel like,

857
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: if you're really in love, you kiss you're a person

858
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 1: you don't even smell it. Yeah, you don't smell it,

859
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: Like you're like making out with their nose and they're like, oh,

860
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: this smells good. Now. What about if you come in

861
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: your woman right? And then you guys go again, like

862
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: say you take a nap, she's just lazy and she

863
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: falls to sleep y'all pass out because good sex, right,

864
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: and then you wake up and you have sex again.

865
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 1: Can you eat her out? Mm hmmm, oh nah, I

866
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 1: done it could Damn I think I'll pray. I think

867
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: I think you could. But you just have to focus

868
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: your mom on on the cliff, like, don't what you said?

869
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,800
Speaker 1: You said if you came in her right, yeah, you

870
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:47,359
Speaker 1: might not taste it. You could have focused on the clip.

871
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: Just don't you know, don't go in the hole. Don't

872
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 1: put your tongue in the hole at the top. You

873
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 1: have some swimmers listening. I was reading about oysters, like

874
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: people who oysters? Did you know that oysters are alive

875
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:04,800
Speaker 1: when you get them in the um? And you know

876
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: what they said, So when people eat oysters, there lives

877
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: and you know when they die when you pull them

878
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: off the shell. Oh wow. So because they said it

879
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 1: would be a lot of backter, I just read that today.

880
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't even eat seafood, but I just said it

881
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 1: would I eat oysters all the time, that you will

882
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: be a lot of back to God. They said that

883
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: if you eat the oysters, if they were to be

884
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: dead already, there would be too much bacteria and you

885
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: wouldn't even be able to eat. It would be harmful.

886
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 1: But when you have oysters, they're alive and then you

887
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: pull them off the thing and you kill them. R P.

888
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: I did I put it out there because it was

889
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 1: something that was interesting to me. And you know that's

890
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: so vicious because the way I stabbed the oyster when

891
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm taking it off the shell, because you know that

892
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,800
Speaker 1: little sticky piece that's stuck on the shell, you like,

893
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 1: stab it with a little fork to take it off,

894
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: killed it. Like I'm just thinking about the little Mermaid

895
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: and all the sea creaturs. Okay, they don't have mermaids,

896
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: but you never see their characters in the movie. Did

897
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,840
Speaker 1: you see it under thee? You never saw it? All right,

898
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: here's the last question from the email. What's better dating

899
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: someone who you have a genuine connection with that doesn't

900
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: treat you poorly, but doesn't necessarily treat you the way

901
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 1: you've always dreamt of being treated treated or dating someone

902
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: who treats you how you always wanted to be treated

903
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: But you have no connection with like as far as

904
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:27,359
Speaker 1: no passion, no, I rather the first one. So they

905
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 1: don't treat you as well as you wanted to and

906
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: it's not what you dreamed of, but you have a

907
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 1: connection sometimes in relationships. What you dream of is not

908
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: necessarily what you need or what God wants for exactly,

909
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: or what ends up working. I feel like if they

910
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: treat you well, you can work towards, you know, having

911
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 1: greater times. But if you just have someone that you

912
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 1: have no connection to, that she's just gonna die out.

913
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 1: I think if someone already treat you well and you

914
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,479
Speaker 1: have a good connection, you can only grow from there.

915
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: But if you don't have connection, that's just not going

916
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 1: to were right. You know how many times we've tried

917
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: to date somebody that would be good for like, Okay,

918
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: I have to date this person. They'd be good. It's

919
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: great on paper, you know, but or even like this

920
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: person looks good and the sex is good, but no connection,

921
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: they're boring. Yeah, this person looks good and the sex

922
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: is good, but they're dumb. Like the passionate connection with

923
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 1: the person, like I can look into your eyes, you

924
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: look into my eyes, and you know, mad love the

925
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 1: passionate because you could build that and the growth right,

926
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: and you can always I always feel like, I know

927
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 1: they say you can't change people, but I always feel

928
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 1: like you can teach somebody how to treat you, because

929
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: I do feel like guys sometimes just don't know, Yeah,

930
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: my good told me how to treat like or they're

931
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: used to something else, right, Like you know how many

932
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 1: guys out there have never been in a relationship with

933
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: a girl has demanded like certain things right that that boy,

934
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:55,879
Speaker 1: we're happy demand a lot? Like what what's demanding a lot?

935
00:53:56,760 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: A lot? Like what everything? What's everything? Because even just

936
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,839
Speaker 1: listen to your talk, I feel like there's a lot

937
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: of things that you don't want her to do that

938
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:07,959
Speaker 1: you feel like you can do as a man. Yeah,

939
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: I wear the pants you see these, Yeah, the sweatpans, alright,

940
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: But like, what are some things that you learned? I learned.

941
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 1: I learned how to like you know, I mean be

942
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: a little more caring. I mean be a little more passionate. Uh,

943
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: I spend more time. But you know, like I gotta

944
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: go get the bags. You can't get in in that

945
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 1: now to evolving that now. But it's some things where

946
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: you still can't where she can't tap in, where I

947
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 1: have to go bust that move to get that bag.

948
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,359
Speaker 1: You can't be madaged Like when I go bust that move,

949
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 1: you still madge I'm going to get that bag. You

950
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: can't do that. I think sometimes as women that's just

951
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 1: how we are. Sometimes sometimes it's just how we are.

952
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:55,360
Speaker 1: But I think if you're if you're doing good in

953
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: all other areas, that's what matters. And let's keep it real.

954
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: If she didn't care at all, you probably be like, damn,

955
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 1: why is she not being right? If she wasn't if

956
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:06,760
Speaker 1: she wasn't demanding of certain things, and she just didn't

957
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 1: give a funk, then the relationship wouldn't be what it

958
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: would probably looking at her like what is she doing this?

959
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,359
Speaker 1: I'd be mad because it'd be time with my girl.

960
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 1: Would call my phone off the hook, right, she called

961
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: my phone off the hook. Man, she called me mad,

962
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: But then then soon she don't call where she had

963
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: like like, nah, I ain't playing right then I get mad.

964
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: Sometimes as women, we got to show you what you

965
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: do to us and do what that takes, because sometimes

966
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: that's the only way a man could see, like you

967
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:42,359
Speaker 1: can't do that ship and let me show you right,

968
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,439
Speaker 1: let me feel I don't do that to me because

969
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: you don't know what I was doing in the time

970
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: when he was calling me. I probably was getting But

971
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: it's not even about the phone to call off the

972
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: cardinal or something, or pay off that phone bill. Don't

973
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: get mad at me, But I don't think it's only

974
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: with a phone call. When it comes to like what

975
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,399
Speaker 1: and she just said? I think it's just don't really

976
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: just even like how you treating a woman like you

977
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 1: see how she taught you how to be more caring

978
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: and spending more time with her. There's a lot of

979
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: guys that are used to women that don't necessarily care

980
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 1: or act for those things. So when they have a

981
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: serious relationship or someone that genuinely loves them, they're not

982
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: going above and beyond to make it work, you know

983
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: what I mean. So sometimes a woman gott to act

984
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 1: like she don't give a fucking order for you to

985
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,360
Speaker 1: be like, yo, what's up? Like sometimes you date a

986
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 1: guy and you're like, who the funk did you date before?

987
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: We don't know how to do? That's how I feel,

988
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: that's right. Do you walk on the outside when you

989
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: walk with your lady? Know? I walk on on the

990
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 1: outside car. I guess I don't know why I walk.

991
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 1: I know I just walked out. I got it back,

992
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: I got it back. Do you open the door? Like?

993
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: Are you conscious of things like that? Like I gotta

994
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: open the door for her. Yeah, she said no. Sometimes

995
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 1: I mean my mom be Roman. I'll bet my mom

996
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 1: be everywhere, because I feel like it should be a

997
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: reflex when you have somebody, it should be a reflex

998
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,879
Speaker 1: that I walk on the outside. I opened the door

999
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: for you carry your bags. How about when you're carrying

1000
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: mad bags and he's just chilling and you're like, yo,

1001
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 1: you don't see. Yeah, And then then she got a

1002
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: pub beat for four to to help me to just

1003
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: talking about you here? Now you know she's not here.

1004
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: Can't be can't you can't? I can't. I don't want

1005
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: to at least carry the light bag. I didn't like

1006
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: when you were turning man and yeah, no, no, the

1007
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: light ones. Every bag I will roll. I should be

1008
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 1: able to roll the bag and you carry it. You

1009
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: know you're always talking about getting the bag carry him too.

1010
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 1: That reminds me I'm carrying a heavy one. That reminds

1011
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 1: me of something interesting that I saw on Instagram. Um,

1012
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: this DJ posted a video with his girl UM and

1013
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: they were in the car and they were going back

1014
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 1: and forth that paint the rent. Yeah, what do you

1015
00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,320
Speaker 1: think about that? I talked about this? Should um? Yeah,

1016
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: should a woman. Oh yeah, Yeah, we're spoke about the

1017
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: whole rent because she was like, you're the provider, you

1018
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 1: should pay the rent. And he's like, but sometimes I'm

1019
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: so mad about this. Ye yeah, because we had a

1020
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: whole discussion about this before. Yeah. I mean, I just

1021
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, what was the question that on

1022
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: the last episode when we talked about that, you said,

1023
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: if the if the bills are thirty five hundred or

1024
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 1: something like that, how much she should spend, how much

1025
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: she should pay on the bill? Should pay what? I

1026
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 1: just feel like this, you know, I feel like if

1027
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: you live with a man, if I'm gonna live with

1028
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 1: a man, he should be paying the bills. I could

1029
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: pay my phone bill, I can pay for my child

1030
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: because we don't have a child together, so I should

1031
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: pay for my own kid. And you know, I'll pay

1032
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 1: my maintenance, my hair on my nails, my wax. The man,

1033
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: but I feel like he should he should be paying

1034
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 1: the rent. He should pay the cardinal't pay the rent,

1035
00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: the phone bill, they posted, do the light thing, like

1036
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 1: make sure the house clean exactly. I'm cleaning. I'm talking

1037
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm taking care of I'm

1038
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 1: running your bath. Baby, I'm doing everything next morning. Oh

1039
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: that's that's that's another story. It's cool, you know what

1040
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 1: I mean. It's cool. We get now were good. Now

1041
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 1: we got more leeway. That's cool. I want to see

1042
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 1: my girl make morning. Will you clean house? Yeah, but

1043
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: then that's gonna be going to get the back if

1044
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: I make. If I make more than my man, he's

1045
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: gonna he's cooking, he's cleaning, he's doing everything, but he's

1046
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: the housewife. Now I wear the pants like he said

1047
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: this time, I'm wearing the sweatpad. Right A right, But

1048
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: would that be a problem though, as far as like

1049
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:41,919
Speaker 1: I make more than you, but you're the man, you're

1050
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: supposed to be the provider, get out there, because they'll

1051
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 1: still be an issue for some people. But I'd like

1052
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: to see my woman like that. If she makes more,

1053
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: that means she's doing something. You know what I mean.

1054
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: I means she she poised anybody I ever did. Right,

1055
00:59:56,760 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say you with this, I have

1056
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 1: to I'm not gonna lie on the humble, But what

1057
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 1: do you feel about that? I feel like this. I

1058
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: take care of my own business, Like I got my house,

1059
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: I pay my mortgage. I've never my whole life, even

1060
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: when I wasn't making a lot of money, I never

1061
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: had anybody give me money for my bals. I've always

1062
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: felt like it's my responsibility. It would be nice if

1063
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 1: somebody could be like, Okay, I can help you, and

1064
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 1: I don't need it now, Like I can handle all

1065
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: of that on my own. I buy all my own.

1066
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 1: You were never living with a guy. I live with

1067
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: somebody for like two months. It didn't go well. I

1068
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 1: didn't go well. Hease came. But anyway, so I do

1069
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: feel like if I lived with somebody now, I would

1070
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 1: like for us to split the bills because I also

1071
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: never want to feel like you're living off of me, right, Yeah,

1072
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: so from I don't mind taking care of my stuff,

1073
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 1: and I also I'm very generous, like if I feel

1074
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: like because I shop a lot, so if I buy

1075
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: myself something and i'm out, I buy my man something too,

1076
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:00,120
Speaker 1: I think that's the right thing, and I justn't like

1077
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 1: doing it. You're just talking about how much of a

1078
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: sugar mama am I like buying my friends If I'm

1079
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: not right, maybe, oh my god, this would be so

1080
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 1: cute for you know. That's definitely me. I feel like

1081
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 1: I agree with that whole thing. I'm very generous girl.

1082
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:15,919
Speaker 1: She's going to be in the house cleaning that. Yeah,

1083
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm bringing see me, I wouldn't want to just like

1084
01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 1: be a housewife cleaning like I want to work too,

1085
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: But of course I'm gonna have the house clean and

1086
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,720
Speaker 1: cook for you. But I'm I've always been a generous

1087
01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 1: person kind of like you. I've always paid for my

1088
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: own ship. I've never like begged or asks to God

1089
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,439
Speaker 1: for anything. I felt like having my own ship. Yeah,

1090
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 1: I felt like having my own ship helps me feel

1091
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 1: secure because I don't got to rely on you or

1092
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 1: wait for you. So that also has helped me be

1093
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: generous in a sense of if me and my man out,

1094
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: like I don't mind footing the bill, let me treat you,

1095
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: but I'd be like, you know, I got yeah, let

1096
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 1: me treat you like you know what I mean, because

1097
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: I feel like it shouldn't always be the man, like

1098
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 1: like the man is the productor but it's good to either, right,

1099
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,080
Speaker 1: it's good to it's a cater to you man, I'll

1100
01:01:57,120 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 1: put the oh no, no, yeah, I'm saying she can

1101
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: help me, assist me. She could be my assist. But

1102
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: what if he's like, no, I need to get out

1103
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: there and make my own. Have you gonna do that?

1104
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 1: And be mad? But if you're gonna do that, I can't.

1105
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 1: But why but mad? Why because she should kind of

1106
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: feel like she has her own. Yeah, you're right, but

1107
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying I don't know. It's just me, like I

1108
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 1: just don't want to. I just feel like this. You know,

1109
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: whether I work or not, I'm gonna be. I'm gonna

1110
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: cook and clean in my house. Like that's just something regardless,

1111
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 1: you know. So if I'm if I'm living with somebody

1112
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 1: and he's a millionaire, he's richer than me, much richer

1113
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 1: than me, I don't feel like I should be paying.

1114
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: But I dated guys, and you know, and I date.

1115
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 1: I like dating manly man. I don't like dating soft guys.

1116
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: I like dating off of males, except for that guy

1117
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 1: with the three fingers in the But I mean it

1118
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: very serious. I'm talking about serious relationships. I was only

1119
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 1: way to have a few times times though, just but anyway,

1120
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 1: he um, you know, I dated somebody and I was

1121
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: making more money than him, and like I said, he

1122
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: was an alpha male and he couldn't really handle that.

1123
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 1: So I found us arguing all the time, and I

1124
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: felt like he was trying to bring me down to

1125
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: his level, you know, because I was just I was

1126
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:12,840
Speaker 1: I was doing so well and he was doing so bad,

1127
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: and it was just like we just will fight about

1128
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: it all the time because it's hard than the guy's

1129
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: ego exactly. Like I could tell it was paying the bills,

1130
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: and I would even hide some of the money that

1131
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: I was bringing him because I didn't want him to

1132
01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: feel like I was, you know, making so much more

1133
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: than him, and he would find out and he would

1134
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,959
Speaker 1: get upset that I was hiding money because men and women,

1135
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: we should never throw it in somebody else's face. And

1136
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: that's how I feel, true, because and I'm all about,

1137
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: you know, making my man feel like he is that nigga,

1138
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: you know, like my man is like even even if

1139
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: my man is the flies, the riginals, I want him

1140
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 1: to feel like he could flies, I want him to

1141
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 1: feel like he's the riginess. I wanted to feel like

1142
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 1: he is just the best ever. So it's kind of

1143
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:54,520
Speaker 1: hard when you're doing so much better than somebody and

1144
01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 1: still trying to make them feel like, hey, you know,

1145
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: I was still trying to encourage him, like like together,

1146
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: we can do this together, we could do that. He's

1147
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 1: more like, not funk that I want. I want to

1148
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 1: do it on my own. I don't want you to help.

1149
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: That's the key too, It's like helping each other build

1150
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: into something bigger, you know, because you're both going to

1151
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 1: have insecurities and you gotta work on and you know,

1152
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:15,440
Speaker 1: help each other and don't throw it. Anais felling like that.

1153
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 1: Alpha males want to do it on their own. They

1154
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 1: want to do better than their girl. They can't handle

1155
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: being with a success. And some guys don't want you

1156
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: to work because they want to control you. Right. Not

1157
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 1: Because when I was broke, I'm still broke, baby, I'm

1158
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 1: still broken. No, I don't know you sneakers still broke baby,

1159
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 1: but I'm when I was broke, I'm still broke. No,

1160
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But when you were broke,

1161
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: when I was broken, Yeah, I'm doing better now. I'm

1162
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 1: still broke. But my d was paying for the bill

1163
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: like that that became you see the bigger picture. That's

1164
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 1: another thing. I don't think it's it's bad for a

1165
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: woman to provide, even if she's with a man who's

1166
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: much more successful than she is. I think it's good

1167
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: for the woman to go and buy food because it's

1168
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: the food you're gonna cook. But you should buy what

1169
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: you want. How did that make you feel when she

1170
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: had to pay all the bills? Did you feel like?

1171
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 1: Did it feel crazy to you? Yeah? Like that, but

1172
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: it made you work harder. Yeah, maybe work harder, that's

1173
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 1: what you know? What I mean, just made me go harder.

1174
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: Now a time is me I pay. I think once

1175
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:18,720
Speaker 1: you have that, once you have an understanding, it's cool.

1176
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: Like if if she, like Drake said, you knew what

1177
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: it was when you signed up. So like, if you

1178
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: know your man doesn't have that much money, but he's

1179
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:28,040
Speaker 1: working towards it, and you know you gotta help him out.

1180
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 1: But I feel like if you know your man and

1181
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 1: ship and he's just being lazy and then you're supporting him,

1182
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:33,960
Speaker 1: that's a different story. But if you know your man

1183
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: don't got it right now and you you know you

1184
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: gotta help him build that, then do what you gotta do.

1185
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: Don't throw it in his face, all right? But fatboy,

1186
01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: why don't you because I know we gotta get out

1187
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 1: of here. Why don't you promote everything you gotta because

1188
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 1: you know we all follow you, so okay, um, yeah,

1189
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: you just follow my Instagram, Fatboard, underscore SSEC. You will

1190
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: see more because I gotta. I got a segment that

1191
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 1: I put on my Instagram now. It's called couples event

1192
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 1: with me and my shoulder. So you know what next time,

1193
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 1: you guys got to do it together because I didn't

1194
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 1: know she was time and we wouldn't we would have

1195
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 1: paid some really fun games. Yeah, of course we got

1196
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 1: to a side. But yeah, you can follow me Instagram

1197
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: at fabul underscore s s E and you can find

1198
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 1: me on Twitter Fabule Underscore s see YouTube, same things.

1199
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll have her up here without you one day.

1200
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: He said, huh, can she feeling herself? Because she just

1201
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 1: she just hit the hunted k on Instagram. She like

1202
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,200
Speaker 1: she's feeling herself because there's a lot of things that

1203
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 1: you said. I think she didn't agree with I'm saying

1204
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 1: there's a lot of she said from a woman's perspective.

1205
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you, we appreciate you, Thank you,

1206
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Hopefully you try some new things at

1207
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: home now too. Yeah, I ain't trying no cool or

1208
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 1: the other one. What's the other one? Frozen conducting, I

1209
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 1: ain't doing all that, not that kind of okay,