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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Pasha is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jordan.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe

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Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Tasha, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Jordan?

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Speaker 3: It's been nine days, Okay.

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Speaker 4: Okay, good amount of time. Yeah, So have you been

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Speaker 4: trying to get a hold of him? How have you

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Speaker 4: felt during that time?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Man, haven't you been so nervous? Like I actually

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Speaker 3: did reach out to him two days ago and he

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Speaker 3: didn't respond.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, let's talk about your date, like what could

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Speaker 4: have gone wrong? How was it?

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Speaker 3: I thought it was great, you know, like it was

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Speaker 3: a classic get to know you sing coffee in a bookstore,

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Speaker 3: and you know with it, we just like kept hanging

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Speaker 3: out and we watched some people watching, you know, like

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Speaker 3: by the park and.

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Speaker 5: He's really funny, low key you know, she's a low

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Speaker 5: key Okay, Yeah, And we had this moment where he

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Speaker 5: brushed my hair back while we were sitting on the bench,

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Speaker 5: and well things got a little romantic after that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it just made me think he liked me,

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Speaker 3: and he was real, like none of the like performative

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Speaker 3: stuff you get on the apps, and like I felt

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Speaker 3: so seen. I don't know, he even remembered the book

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Speaker 3: I said I loved in high school.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's cool, that is cool. So you felt like

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Speaker 4: he was vibing you too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and his voice is so dreamy for her. I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I'm just like so into him and and

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Speaker 3: I don't get it. I thought he was into me too.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I can't really think of anything. I just feel like

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Speaker 3: maybe he found me too talkative, or he didn't like

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Speaker 3: my jokes, you know, like I mean I made this

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Speaker 3: like one political joke, but like it wasn't even a

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Speaker 3: joke that I made up, you know, I just like

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Speaker 3: googled jokes to talk about on dates, and so you

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Speaker 3: went political, like I'm not even a political persons, Like

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Speaker 3: I don't care about politics, you know, but maybe he

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Speaker 3: found what I said offensive.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean usually they say talking about politics on

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Speaker 2: a first date is a bad thing, a joke, but

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Speaker 2: you google jokes before you go on dates, And that's

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Speaker 2: the thing, if you preferred you don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I've never done it before, but I think

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Speaker 6: that's kind of cool. Actually, I'm about to start.

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Speaker 2: So you go to dates with like a list of

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Speaker 2: pre approved or pre googled jokes to use.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's cool. I think that.

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Speaker 2: Like, actually, if I were to go on a date

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Speaker 2: with you, I think that was dope. If you if

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Speaker 2: you told me that you googled their things, I'd be like,

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Speaker 2: that's awesome, that's effort, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean I didn't tell him. I mean, you don't tell

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Speaker 3: the person you're on a date with that you googled

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Speaker 3: jokes or something. That's like months into the relationship. Then

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Speaker 3: you then you tell.

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Speaker 2: Them right when they're like she had all these jokes

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Speaker 2: but now she doesn't, You're like, yeah, it'scause I've been

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Speaker 2: googling them.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, how was this mood after the political joke?

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Speaker 7: Then?

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Speaker 6: What did it change after that?

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Speaker 3: No? I mean I mean he you know, but I

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Speaker 3: don't know if it was like an awkward laugh.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys change the subject after that? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, the conversation just kept flowing naturally, like,

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Speaker 3: and then we just liked made fun of people walking by,

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Speaker 3: and and and I don't know, I just I didn't

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Speaker 3: really think anything bad happened. So that's why I'm just

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Speaker 3: very confused. You know, he gave me a little kiss

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Speaker 4: Well, so how did how did you guys leave it?

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Speaker 4: Did you plan on seeing each other again or was

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Speaker 4: it just like, oh this is fun thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I mean I was like, okay, well I'll

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Speaker 3: see you, you know soon hopefully. And then that's kind

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Speaker 3: of like how we ended it. And then, like you know,

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Speaker 3: these days go by and I'm just like replaying the

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Speaker 3: date in my head over and over again, and I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 3: what did I do? Like, I don't get it. I

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Speaker 3: thought we were good. I wasn't being weird or anything

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Speaker 3: when I texted him two days ago, like I just

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Speaker 3: you know, sent him a playful text, and you know,

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Speaker 3: he didn't respond, so it's like, what's up.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back and then call

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Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date if.

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Speaker 6: You still want one, all right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I want one?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll play a song, come back and call him

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Speaker 2: and get your first day follow.

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Speaker 1: Up Next first date follow Up powered by the Advocates

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Speaker 1: Injury Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Tasha is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a dude named Jordan's. So we're gonna call him in

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Speaker 2: just a second and see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. You still

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Speaker 2: want one, right, Tasha? Oh yeah, and maybe get her

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Speaker 2: another day if she wants one, which she said she does.

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Speaker 2: But first, Tasha, let's get a recap of your date

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Speaker 2: real quick before.

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Speaker 6: We call him.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was such a beautiful date. You know.

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Speaker 3: We went to a bookstore and a coffee shop and

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Speaker 3: then we like sat at the park and people watched

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Speaker 3: and it was it was literally like a movie, like

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Speaker 3: a romantic comedy movie, and I was the star and

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Speaker 3: he was a hero.

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Speaker 2: The only reason you can think of that he might

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Speaker 2: be ghosting you is because you made a political joke

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Speaker 2: on your date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't care about politics, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, Are you ready for us to call him? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go. Hi, I'm i a speaking to Jordan please.

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Speaker 2: Uh hey, Jordan, how are you? My name is Jebel

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Speaker 2: and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The

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Speaker 2: Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 8: Wait.

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Speaker 7: Is this a prank?

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Speaker 6: No, it's not. We're calling you today for a different

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Speaker 6: reason though. It's not a prank.

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Speaker 8: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So we do a segment on our show it's called

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Speaker 2: the first Day follow Up. That's where if you go

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Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and then you end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can ask us to get

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 2: So we got an email about you from someone that

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Speaker 2: you've been out with but aren't calling back. Oh wait, Tasha, Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: she emailed us.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and she told us about your days.

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Speaker 2: She said she really liked you, but she's confused because

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Speaker 2: it's been nine days and you ever responded to her.

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Speaker 7: I mean, she was great. The date was actually a

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Speaker 7: lot of fun and she made me laugh a lot.

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Speaker 7: She's actually really funny.

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Speaker 6: Do you mind telling us why you're not talking to her?

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Speaker 8: Though?

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Speaker 3: It's the glitter.

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Speaker 8: What She had a lot of glitter on her face, like.

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Speaker 7: Like a lot of it, you know, And I don't know.

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Speaker 8: It's just by the time we were done.

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Speaker 7: It was all over me, and it was all over

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Speaker 7: my clothes and my car, and I could.

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Speaker 8: Never get it off.

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Speaker 7: And I know, I know that.

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Speaker 8: Sounds great and if I'm serious, it's just I kept

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Speaker 3: Myself for days.

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Speaker 8: It was like I was dating a disco ball.

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Speaker 4: So what was her eyeshadow?

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Speaker 7: I don't know. She's wore in her hair. I guess

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Speaker 7: her face. I think it was on her hands hat,

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Speaker 7: it has been on her hands.

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Speaker 8: I don't know, it was every I mean, I guess

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Speaker 7: Then I'm a clean freak.

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait, you ghosted me because of glitter?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jordan, Tasha, she's actually on the phone listening and

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Speaker 2: wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 8: Oh my, this is embarrassing. Hi, Sasha, Look, it's nothing personal.

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Speaker 8: I swear I really did have a great day and

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Speaker 8: you were very pretty and hilarious. But I'm saying about

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Speaker 3: It's called sparkle Jordan, and some of us like to shine.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, okay, it's fine, but I don't like this

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Speaker 3: Wow. No, okay, sparkle life, you know, And I'm a

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Speaker 3: And I mean, you've been to strip clubs before, so

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you had your you know, load.

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Speaker 8: Of I knew what I was and what's actually I

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Speaker 8: don't really go to strip clubs like that because of

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Speaker 3: Don't mean it is what it is. I mean, what's

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Speaker 3: so bad about it? Like it just makes your life

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Speaker 3: a little bit more shiny. I mean, I'll hope you

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Speaker 3: clean it off.

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Speaker 7: It's impossible to clean up. I'm sorry. Well, the date

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Speaker 7: was great, but I just it was like it was

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, if there was last Jordan, would you

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Speaker 4: be down with that?

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Speaker 6: Jordan? Would you like another day with Tasha? Will pay

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Speaker 6: for it?

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Speaker 2: If Tasha is willing to cut back on the glitter

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Speaker 2: a little bit if.

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Speaker 3: There's no glitter involved.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, yeah, it was a good date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not sure about that because I am a

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Speaker 3: sparkly girl and I don't know if I want to

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Speaker 3: live a life without glitter.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Okay, stand on your girl.

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Speaker 8: Okay, Well, I mean maybe we pick somewhere less glitter friendly,

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Speaker 8: like a tool.

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Speaker 4: I feel like that would be worse.

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Speaker 2: Jordan.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, you're swimming in it, then, I mean I already

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not even sure anymore, Jordan, because I

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Speaker 3: thought we had something special and I can't believe you

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Speaker 3: ghosted me because I sparkle and I don't even know.

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Speaker 3: I don't even think I want another date with you.

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Speaker 3: I don't want you did in my light?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So does that a no, then, Tasha, you

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Speaker 2: don't want another day with Jordan?

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Speaker 3: Uh No, I will pass.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, at least you know now why he's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and that he's probably not a good fit for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I'm very disappointed about this, Jordan.

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Speaker 8: Hey, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm sure there's

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Speaker 8: a lot of guys who would love to have your

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Speaker 8: sparkle all over them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're is and his name is Nate and I'm

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Speaker 3: going on a day with him actually tonight, so whatever.

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Speaker 4: OK.

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Speaker 3: Juble's first date follow up