WEBVTT - It BEES Like That Sometimes 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:08.080 Listening to mess Hi, what's going on? 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:09.959 Messy people listening to this right now? 0:00:10.440 --> 0:00:13.800 Yes, yes, yes, all of our mess Some of the 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:17.439 people have sent to us what they want to call themselves. 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:21.560 They said messengers, messengers. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.759 I was not mad at that. I like our messengers. 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:27.280 That actually feels super cute. 0:00:27.560 --> 0:00:31.160 What's going on? Messengers? Messengers might be the one. 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:35.000 There's another one that people were saying that might be cute, 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.880 the mess ups. I don't know if we're gonna go 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:45.640 with that. That just feels a little negative. No, shall 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:46.080 we call. 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:50.840 Messies the messies? Messis? Can we call you guys? Mistakes? No? 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:55.200 Mistakes is in the building. They are are. 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:58.680 There are more than mistakes. They're everything that we wanted anymore. 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.520 So we're trying to come up with what we're gonna 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:03.680 call y'all. But you know what I'm saying, hit us 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:05.680 back with what you want to call what you would 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:09.560 like to be called? Hey, messengers, that also feels is 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:14.120 given you ps. But I like mistakes, Marie. Would you 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:15.120 like to be called a mistake? 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:19.360 Some people were born and they were mistakes and their blessings. 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.920 Now I see how you spun that, and that's how 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:27.160 creative you are and witty, but my people in the street, 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:28.720 is that a mistake? 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:35.280 No, go for that, girl. Listen, listen, there's worse things 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:37.520 that you can be called. Girl. 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:41.319 See, this is why we when we see our fans, 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:43.000 you gotta show them that you love them. 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.480 Girl. You are doing enough of that for the both 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:45.800 of us. 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:50.000 Okay, When you see the fans and they run up 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:53.200 to you and you're exchanging numbers with them, and I'm 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:56.960 sitting back with my glasses on, playing it cool, they 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:02.680 are not worried about anything that I will or won't say. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:04.400 Or maybe they are. They're like, oh my god, maybe 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:05.560 she's gonna call me a mistake. 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:10.520 Yeah, you think about them mistake, I'll call them messengers. 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:16.560 Think about the merch black shirt, teeny tiny font mistake mistakes. 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:22.160 Maybe, Marie, if that's what you want to put on your. 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:28.919 Chest, Sydney merch. You had good Christian gay that was lit, 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:30.440 the people was on it. 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:35.920 In giant flashtag mistake tiny demure like the La costs Littlegator. 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:37.639 Okay, like Polo Man, I. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:39.560 Need you to go to Shark Tank because the way 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:42.400 that you're selling this bitch, you're doing phenomenal jobs. 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:43.960 I must not be because you are still fighting. 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:46.840 You know what, let the people, the people will tell us, 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:48.680 they will give us exactly. 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:49.600 What we need, what we need and what we want. 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.040 Let's get some little socks with a little like ruffle 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.600 on them and then in the back mistake. 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.200 And we could sell them at plant parenthood. I think 0:02:57.200 --> 0:03:00.120 they would love that merch there. I guess that's why 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:03.560 everybody's pulling up mistakes. 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:06.720 Yeah, yeah, are there plant parenthoods in other states? 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.480 States where they banned abortion and stuff? 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:12.960 I still know about the planned parenthood in New York 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.000 City and they know me the Soho, they know me 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:17.280 as soho. They know me in the Bronx. Oh, I've 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:19.960 never been to anything in Brooklyn, but they know me. 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:23.520 The planned Parenthood in the Bronx. Talk about that. What 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:26.280 is you gotta go through a metal detector. 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:29.679 You have to go through a metal detector period that 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:33.400 every plant parenthood there's you swipe your stuff through. But 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.680 it's given hood club situation where you can you might 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:38.720 can sneak something in there, Yeah, in your butt. 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:40.440 It's not it's not. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.280 Giving like the it's updated metal detectors. 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.080 Oh you're saying, it's the classics. 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:49.080 They got, They got the nineteen eighty original versions, just 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:52.200 the ones that like Harriet's Hem and them had. Yeah, 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:55.720 the dogs was chasing them through those metal detectives, the 0:03:55.760 --> 0:04:01.680 Civil Rights Medal, the Mountain. But I am Malcolm X 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:05.080 right right, they get your hand out my pocket. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:06.880 Medal detectives. Love. 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:09.640 But you're asking me about the planned parenthood in the Bronx. 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:12.240 I mean I had that was just the one questions. Okay, Yeah, 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:13.480 you thought I was trying to make a trip. 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:16.600 Yes, I mean, hey, and I took that trip. I 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:19.320 took that trip there, but I wasn't doing anything that 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:23.080 y'all think I was. People don't understand plarent parenthood is 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:24.560 for all services. 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:27.880 Get checkups, if you need birth. 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:29.039 Control, you get an oil chain. 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:31.520 I don't think you can get a mammogram there. But 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:36.120 think it's all things womanhood and it's not just for 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:38.400 you know, a bobo bobo's. 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:39.320 Yeah. Yeah. 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:41.040 When I was going to the gun in colleges with 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:43.599 no insurance, I was going to plant parenthood and my 0:04:43.640 --> 0:04:45.320 therapist was like, why do you go there? 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:47.320 Oh no, And she was like, you shall go. 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.719 You should go to a proper obgu I n And 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:53.600 I was like, but they take what I got here, so. 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:56.560 But we learned that that's not We can't go with 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:59.040 what We can't go with what they give us. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.200 Because you know, they don't give a damn about us. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:03.680 I don't remember, but did I say this on the 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:07.120 last episode, how it went to the doctor and I 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:08.440 finally had an annual checkup. 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:14.160 I hadn't had an annual checkup on record never. It's 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:14.839 like I'm looking. 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.599 She was going through pieces of paper and looking, and 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:20.560 she's like, it seems like you ain't never come to 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:21.160 see the doctor. 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:22.880 That she had the right spelling, because you know, people 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:23.840 be spelling Sidney wrong. 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:25.720 They you smell my name and I hate that. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:28.280 It's like, I don't look like the type of person 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:30.200 who have a Y at the end of my name. 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:31.239 It's just not happening. 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.960 It's not about what you look like. The name looked 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:35.440 like it should be a why there No. 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:40.039 I think people should change their point of view or perspective, like, 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:42.640 you know, you look like a Marina. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:43.680 I don't believe you. 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:45.680 I do. At first, when I first met you, I 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:49.760 was like, Marie, that's odd. But now that I see you, 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.919 I'm like, that's odd, that's odd. 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.520 So I can't I can't call. 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:57.279 Them the people listening mistakes. But you can say my 0:05:57.560 --> 0:06:00.200 name in face Combo is odd. 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:03.720 Your face doesn't give Marie because Marie is kind of 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:08.120 like bland and you are very unique. No shade to 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:09.360 the maries that are listening. 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:12.719 Marie is a dry but it's very cookie cutter. 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:18.880 You know. They're wearing plain white tea, flip flops, bootcut jeans. 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:20.479 That's what Marie feels like. 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:24.600 Honestly, That's what I was gonna word today. I had 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:28.360 the boot cut on and I said, no thanks, Yeah, 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:28.800 I'm friend. 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:32.800 Okay, okay, Marie. What's your mess this week? 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:33.360 Wow? 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:36.320 Can we talk about So today, when I was on 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:39.840 my way here, my landlord called me because I was like, yo, 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:41.680 the heat is not working in my apartment was good, 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:43.840 so she called me to be like, oh, the man 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:44.760 is gonna maybe come. 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:47.040 Tomorrow and blah blah blah. I'm feeling under weather. I 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:47.440 don't care. 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:49.560 She also, as I was getting ready to hang up, 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:52.200 she was like, also the check you gave me bounce. 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:59.880 I said, huh, Marie, what what hello is the my 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:01.680 on is the mic on? 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.400 Is the money in the Marie? I said, put the 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.360 motherfucking money in my motherfucker hand. 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:09.480 Are you serious? 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.000 I didn't know he was doing like this girl. I 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:14.280 didn't even I've never had a check bounce in my life. 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:16.360 Mass she was the way she was talking to me, Yes, 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:17.920 mess the way. 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:19.080 She was talking to me. She was talking to me 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:21.080 like she sees me as a poor person now because 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.559 after five years of living there, my check bounced one time. 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:26.920 But that's all people see you. All you gotta do 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:28.800 is mistake the mess ups. 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:30.200 All you gotta do is mess up once. 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:33.440 And that's what people see when you're coming forward, They're like, oh, 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:35.800 you know, you know she hewed me thirty dollars. 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.040 It's like thirty dollars. I'm like, well, how long did 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:39.640 you take to cash the check? Because the money was 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:40.200 in there when. 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:43.200 I wrote it, right, I don't know what happened after 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:43.760 I wrote it. 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:47.400 What account is this that you were like, I'm only 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:49.160 putting the amount of money for the rent. 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:52.120 Well, this is an account that I only take money 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:54.120 out of, but I never put money in. 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:58.120 So the fact that it's lasted this long, Marie shocked. 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:00.640 The way you live is on the edge and I 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:01.000 love it. 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:01.720 Thank you for saying that. 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:03.559 You know, And the thing is is that you don't 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:06.400 look like the way you don't like to check. 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:11.480 Bounce, You bouncing, but not the check. 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:14.840 She was like, yeah, there was. The check was returned 0:08:14.920 --> 0:08:17.560 for insufficient funds. I said, whoa, why are you talking 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:18.400 so loud? 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:20.560 That's so loud you don't even ask me where. 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:23.160 I was like, if there's people around, if you won't speaker, 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.560 you know, she was on the rotary, you know, she 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:28.520 was on the landline and she was you know, she 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:31.640 doesn't she was doing the turn when she's calling you. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:36.520 She was, she was, so she embarrassed you in front 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:39.000 of I was home by myself. Okay, but it felt 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:40.840 but your plans were listening because I know you were 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:41.400 on a speaker. 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:44.800 God was listening. God, God already knew the check bounce from. 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:48.920 He's the first one and he's never the last. 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:50.880 When when I was writing the check, he was looking 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:57.120 at me, like, look at this. So that what happened? 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.640 I'm like, I and MO, you know she didn't want 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.439 to check, she wants a check or she doing shady 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:03.199 business dealing. 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:04.199 You think that's what it is. 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:06.640 Why why do you have to physically come to the 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:07.800 house and pick up a check? 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.280 Do you not care about the environment, like you know, 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:14.120 damn well dying. She don't get the checks are messing 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:15.200 up the hurtles. 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:18.880 Yeah, the check is getting in the turtle shell and 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:20.000 he can't get comfortable that. 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:22.720 He's chewing on the checks. And that's why they bounceing. Girl, 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:25.520 it's really the turtles that are taking her money. I 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:30.480 don't ninja turtle ass niggas. Leonardo is is get your 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:33.240 hand on my bocket, Michelangelo, is why the check bounce? 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:34.400 That's what did you tell her? That? 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:38.440 So? Then what did you say, So, I'm gonna move 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:39.120 some funds. 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:40.040 No, they didn't say that. 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:42.120 I haven't already moved the funds, okay, but I didn't 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:44.640 know it wasn't I didn't move them quick enough yea 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:48.720 for the check to bounce. But she was like, uh, Also, 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.560 when you write a check, you have to write the 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:53.640 whole word out because I'll. 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:54.880 Like you abbreviating. 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:57.760 It's not that I abbreviate, but if something is three 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:01.760 thousand eighty dollars, all right, thirty eighty or something like that, 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:02.679 zero sense? 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:05.440 Oh, I thought you had to write out the word 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:06.000 for a check. 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:06.520 Girl. 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:09.160 I've been writing these checks for this lady for five years. 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:12.000 I write them like this all the time because this 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:13.800 one bounced. Now she needs the whole word. 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:16.680 There, babe, Hey, when you when you don't abide when 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:17.840 things is not right. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:19.480 Yes, we switching it up. 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.560 Now the length of the word don't don't ensure the 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:23.160 fun is there? 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:25.400 Body? It bounce because you didn't. 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:29.040 You didn't spell out two little thousand dollars, two little 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.000 words too little funny, a. 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:33.640 Day late, and a dollar shorts. 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:38.160 Anyway, she was like, I'll be there either tonight or 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.320 tomorrow for the boiler and I was like, I'll have 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:41.720 the check tonight or tomorrow. 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.000 Yeah, whenever you turn that heat on, sis, that's when 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:45.200 that's when I'll have that money. 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:47.680 Okay, if that's a freezing, you ain't eating. 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:52.079 And then you know when you try to write somebody 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.600 up on the phone and they're talking too slow, and 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:56.800 she said. I was like, listen, I'm got to get 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:59.160 on the train. I have a podcast that I need 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:02.520 to go record. And she was like, another thing is 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:04.840 you know, I don't know what the fee is gonna 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:05.840 be for the bounced check. 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:08.800 I said, listen, I'm sorry this happened, but I gotta go. 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:11.640 We'll figure this out later. Did you raise your voice 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:14.520 to an elder, Where's who raised you an elder? 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:17.920 It was also yelling at other elders. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:19.800 Somebody an elder with a loud voice. You gotta be 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:22.360 allowed to compete with the elders for them to hear you. 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.560 You know, they're women of a particular ag Yeah. 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:29.080 Absolutely, damn friend, That's why I mean, I had to laugh. 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:32.600 But if we're gonna end a year with anything a 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:36.000 bounce check, that's you were leaving bounce checks in twenty 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:37.680 twenty four, twenty five. 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:40.040 All funds are gonna be sufficient, your. 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:43.640 Right, the account funds, the account is gonna be fully funded. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.200 Well, there's gonna be so much in the account that 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:46.880 they're gonna call you. 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:48.160 But like, do you know you have all this money 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:51.360 on your account? Girl, you're doing too much, you doing, 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.040 you work too hard. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:55.920 Let me take some of that money off your soldier 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.240 year of Yeah, what you're saying is I'm gonna be 0:11:58.360 --> 0:11:59.920 so rich next year that I'm gonna get robbed. 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:03.640 No white collar crime, absolutely not. What's the man's name, 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:06.160 Barry Bernie, Bernie made. 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:08.600 Off, Bernie made off. No, that doesn't happen to blacks. 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:11.960 But black people be having any money and like the 0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:14.080 pension fund and whatever, and they take it. 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:16.560 I don't know about those, oh cause you only know 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:20.080 the bounce check check. Like, I don't trust the. 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:23.360 Banks, and they putting all their money in Noila envelopes, yeah, 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:25.440 putting them in a shoe boxes. 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:27.880 And I like having too much loose cash at my house. 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:32.400 Yeah, I've been having cat like before when I was 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.760 working at the stand a lot, I had tons of cash, 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:39.400 which is so bad because you are literally doing anything 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:41.679 and everything and you can't keep track. I knew I 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:43.880 have four hundred dollars on me, but I don't know 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:46.319 exactly where it is all just at a time. 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:50.680 You'll have a random hundred on you and three ninety nine. 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:54.280 And then I'll think that either somebody didn't pay me 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:56.840 when something is missing, or I dropped it. 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:57.839 That's how my mind goes. 0:12:57.960 --> 0:12:59.439 And I do be dropping stuff. 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:02.920 I drop drop it like it's hot every time. And 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.640 so yeah, I don't recommend cash. I have some cash 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:07.640 on me now, I need to go to the bank 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:08.559 if you want me. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:09.920 To count it right now? Yeah, let me see. 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:12.719 Let me tell you another thing that's that I'm messy at. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.120 I don't have a wallet, so is anybody in your 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:19.079 by anybody who wants to send me wallet. 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:23.640 This is how I keep my cash money. This money 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:25.439 is in the pages of her passport. 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:27.960 Okay, because you know where my passport is not gonna 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:31.520 be lost. It's not gonna be in the Lost and found. 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:33.520 It's always want to give me by my heart. Oh no, 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:36.240 I stayed checking my first because I need to know 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:37.360 if my passport is with me. 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:39.600 But yeah, this is this is my cat. 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.040 I like three hundred and two dollars. 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:49.600 Let's see how much one two, three, four hundred hundred 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.240 five dollars, four hundred and five dollars. 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:53.840 Yes, I know I need to go to the pasage 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:54.520 your birthday. 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.440 I don't carry no, this is this is this is 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.680 my comedy. When I'm doing when I'm doing what I 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:00.800 do night, just. 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:04.240 From from when I was a kid, I would always 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:08.480 have like the most random, insignificant amount of cash on me. 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:11.240 It was like seven dollars, Like I'll leave my house 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.480 with nine dollars and sixty two cents. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.199 But I will say this, people should have some cash 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:19.720 on them because when it's time to like split the 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:23.400 check or tip, cash is always perfect because then it's like, oh, 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:26.360 oh baby, I'm giving you exactly what I got. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:28.320 What if I give you the cash that I have 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:30.440 and it's like I have twenty. 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.560 Dollars, I feel like that's something you would do, Marie. 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:33.720 I'll venmo you the rest of them. 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:36.520 Yeah, Marie, you're not giving people to vemo right away. 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:39.280 No, it's they're gonna have to pull up like your landlord. 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:43.480 They have to call you on the landline so much 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:46.440 if I did get you know the way adhd brain 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:46.920 is set up. 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:49.840 If I forget to venmo you and you forget to 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:53.160 ask for it. Hey, it's on a house, really, Mari. 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:56.560 So you you can't keep tabs of money that you 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:58.000 know is out there that you might. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:01.040 Owe loose loose loose for yes. 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:03.960 No, the way my shame works, I kind of I 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:07.280 usually know when I owe somebody something. It's always in 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:07.880 the back of my head. 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:10.440 I do not. I never forget. They might forget, but 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:11.000 I don't. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.960 Oh yeah, because there it's not that many people that 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:17.840 I owe money to. You know one friend that this 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:19.880 was like ten years ago. He ain't never getting that back. 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:21.920 But it was a man ten years ago. 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:24.560 He's fine. Girl, How would you think you owed. 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:27.960 His he's not getting your back, that's one he is, 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.760 and he'll be fine. And if he needed that money back, 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.080 he would hit me. He never hit me back for it. Girl, 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.960 he forgot. Oh no, he might remember it because he's 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:40.640 got he's got a good brain. And then I think 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:43.360 there's like another friend in. 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:44.160 The I R s. 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:47.840 Those those are the I R s. Oh yeah, no, 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:50.520 I have to say, oh, that friend money to school. 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:54.160 But for the most part, it's like I hate having 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:58.280 that like thinking because I want people to pay me. Heye, 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:02.320 this is mess these things that we work for, you know, 0:16:02.360 --> 0:16:06.240 we independent contractors. We'd be telling them, hey, this is 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:08.360 what I that's what I'm old, that's what I'm dude, 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:10.600 And you want me to hurry up and do my job. 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:12.560 But you don't want to pay me. You don't want 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:14.080 to pay me in a timely faunion. You want to 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:16.920 you want to hit me two months later? Yeap, that 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:19.040 money is gone in two months. I need the money 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:21.120 exactly right. I need a net now. 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:24.800 No net sixty ninety net one twenty. They said you 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.120 might get it, you'll forget by the time you get 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:29.520 the money. You forgot what you're getting paid for. 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:31.720 This is true. Or no, you're in the hole. That's 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:34.200 the thing. That's why you have to be paid immediately. 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:37.240 I And then they make you feel bad that you 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:38.320 hit them up for your mind. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:41.960 What are you broke? Yes, I say in an email, 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:46.880 I'm a broke emailing you. Are you broke? They will account. 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:48.760 They'll never say are you broke? 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:53.160 They'll just allude to, oh, didn't know that this was 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:54.280 in a rush? 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:59.000 Yes, yes, I need a rush overnight now right now. 0:16:59.200 --> 0:17:01.000 I need my need and I need it. 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:04.760 Yeah. So if I feel that way about people that 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:07.520 I've worked for, honestly, I don't want to do that 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:09.919 to the people that I know because I'm thinking the 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:10.320 same thing. 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:12.480 Well, I will say this week we went out for 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.080 Alex's birthday. Oh yeah, and a bunch of us went 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:20.359 to a diner after and Lisa paid, and yeah, I've 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:22.160 venmote her as soon as I go. 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:25.240 Home, look at you. You know what you're leader? What 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:26.720 is that growth? 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:30.640 That's why my check bounce because I've been more right away. 0:17:30.640 --> 0:17:33.280 The way it was the diner, it was like forty dollars, 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:35.480 I'm the diner. 0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:39.399 Uh, you know what my mess is? My mess is 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:41.359 showing up late and then leaving early. 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:44.840 I have to go. Yeah, I have to get up. 0:17:45.520 --> 0:17:49.320 You have been leaving stuff early, so early, that's not 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:50.040 even my thing. 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:51.760 You know, I'd be the last man standing. 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:52.399 I'll be like this. 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:57.239