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Speaker 1: Listening to mess Hi, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Messy people listening to this right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, all of our mess Some of the

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Speaker 1: people have sent to us what they want to call themselves.

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Speaker 3: They said messengers, messengers.

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Speaker 1: I was not mad at that. I like our messengers.

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Speaker 1: That actually feels super cute.

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Speaker 2: What's going on? Messengers? Messengers might be the one.

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Speaker 1: There's another one that people were saying that might be cute,

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Speaker 1: the mess ups. I don't know if we're gonna go

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Speaker 1: with that. That just feels a little negative. No, shall

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Speaker 1: we call.

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Speaker 2: Messies the messies? Messis? Can we call you guys? Mistakes? No?

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Speaker 2: Mistakes is in the building. They are are.

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Speaker 1: There are more than mistakes. They're everything that we wanted anymore.

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Speaker 1: So we're trying to come up with what we're gonna

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Speaker 1: call y'all. But you know what I'm saying, hit us

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Speaker 1: back with what you want to call what you would

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Speaker 1: like to be called? Hey, messengers, that also feels is

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Speaker 1: given you ps. But I like mistakes, Marie. Would you

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Speaker 1: like to be called a mistake?

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Speaker 4: Some people were born and they were mistakes and their blessings.

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Speaker 1: Now I see how you spun that, and that's how

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Speaker 1: creative you are and witty, but my people in the street,

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Speaker 1: is that a mistake?

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Speaker 2: No, go for that, girl. Listen, listen, there's worse things

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Speaker 2: that you can be called. Girl.

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Speaker 1: See, this is why we when we see our fans,

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Speaker 1: you gotta show them that you love them.

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Speaker 2: Girl. You are doing enough of that for the both

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Speaker 2: of us.

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Speaker 4: Okay, When you see the fans and they run up

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Speaker 4: to you and you're exchanging numbers with them, and I'm

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Speaker 4: sitting back with my glasses on, playing it cool, they

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Speaker 4: are not worried about anything that I will or won't say.

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Speaker 2: Or maybe they are. They're like, oh my god, maybe

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Speaker 2: she's gonna call me a mistake.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you think about them mistake, I'll call them messengers.

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Speaker 4: Think about the merch black shirt, teeny tiny font mistake mistakes.

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Speaker 1: Maybe, Marie, if that's what you want to put on your.

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Speaker 2: Chest, Sydney merch. You had good Christian gay that was lit,

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Speaker 2: the people was on it.

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Speaker 1: In giant flashtag mistake tiny demure like the La costs Littlegator.

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Speaker 2: Okay, like Polo Man, I.

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Speaker 1: Need you to go to Shark Tank because the way

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Speaker 1: that you're selling this bitch, you're doing phenomenal jobs.

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Speaker 2: I must not be because you are still fighting.

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Speaker 1: You know what, let the people, the people will tell us,

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Speaker 1: they will give us exactly.

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Speaker 2: What we need, what we need and what we want.

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Speaker 4: Let's get some little socks with a little like ruffle

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Speaker 4: on them and then in the back mistake.

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Speaker 1: And we could sell them at plant parenthood. I think

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Speaker 1: they would love that merch there. I guess that's why

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Speaker 1: everybody's pulling up mistakes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, are there plant parenthoods in other states?

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Speaker 2: States where they banned abortion and stuff?

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Speaker 1: I still know about the planned parenthood in New York

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Speaker 1: City and they know me the Soho, they know me

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Speaker 1: as soho. They know me in the Bronx. Oh, I've

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Speaker 1: never been to anything in Brooklyn, but they know me.

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Speaker 2: The planned Parenthood in the Bronx. Talk about that. What

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Speaker 2: is you gotta go through a metal detector.

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Speaker 1: You have to go through a metal detector period that

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Speaker 1: every plant parenthood there's you swipe your stuff through. But

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Speaker 1: it's given hood club situation where you can you might

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Speaker 1: can sneak something in there, Yeah, in your butt.

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Speaker 2: It's not it's not.

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Speaker 1: Giving like the it's updated metal detectors.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're saying, it's the classics.

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Speaker 1: They got, They got the nineteen eighty original versions, just

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Speaker 1: the ones that like Harriet's Hem and them had. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the dogs was chasing them through those metal detectives, the

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Speaker 1: Civil Rights Medal, the Mountain. But I am Malcolm X

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Speaker 1: right right, they get your hand out my pocket.

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Speaker 2: Medal detectives. Love.

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Speaker 1: But you're asking me about the planned parenthood in the Bronx.

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Speaker 4: I mean I had that was just the one questions. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you thought I was trying to make a trip.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I mean, hey, and I took that trip. I

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Speaker 1: took that trip there, but I wasn't doing anything that

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Speaker 1: y'all think I was. People don't understand plarent parenthood is

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Speaker 1: for all services.

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Speaker 3: Get checkups, if you need birth.

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Speaker 2: Control, you get an oil chain.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you can get a mammogram there. But

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Speaker 1: you know, a bobo bobo's.

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Speaker 4: When I was going to the gun in colleges with

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Speaker 4: no insurance, I was going to plant parenthood and my

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Speaker 4: therapist was like, why do you go there?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, And she was like, you shall go.

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Speaker 4: You should go to a proper obgu I n And

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Speaker 4: I was like, but they take what I got here, so.

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Speaker 1: But we learned that that's not We can't go with

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Speaker 1: what We can't go with what they give us.

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Speaker 2: Because you know, they don't give a damn about us.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember, but did I say this on the

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Speaker 1: last episode, how it went to the doctor and I

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Speaker 1: finally had an annual checkup.

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Speaker 2: I hadn't had an annual checkup on record never. It's

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Speaker 2: like I'm looking.

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Speaker 1: She was going through pieces of paper and looking, and

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Speaker 1: she's like, it seems like you ain't never come to

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Speaker 4: That she had the right spelling, because you know, people

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Speaker 4: be spelling Sidney wrong.

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Speaker 2: They you smell my name and I hate that.

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Speaker 1: It's like, I don't look like the type of person

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Speaker 2: It's just not happening.

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Speaker 4: It's not about what you look like. The name looked

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Speaker 4: like it should be a why there No.

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Speaker 1: I think people should change their point of view or perspective, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, you look like a Marina.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe you.

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Speaker 1: I do. At first, when I first met you, I

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Speaker 1: was like, Marie, that's odd. But now that I see you,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, that's odd, that's odd.

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Speaker 2: So I can't I can't call.

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Speaker 4: Them the people listening mistakes. But you can say my

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Speaker 4: name in face Combo is odd.

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Speaker 1: Your face doesn't give Marie because Marie is kind of

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Speaker 1: like bland and you are very unique. No shade to

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Speaker 1: the maries that are listening.

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Speaker 2: Marie is a dry but it's very cookie cutter.

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Speaker 1: You know. They're wearing plain white tea, flip flops, bootcut jeans.

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Speaker 3: That's what Marie feels like.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, That's what I was gonna word today. I had

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Speaker 2: the boot cut on and I said, no thanks, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm friend.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Marie. What's your mess this week?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 4: Can we talk about So today, when I was on

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Speaker 4: my way here, my landlord called me because I was like, yo,

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Speaker 4: the heat is not working in my apartment was good,

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Speaker 4: so she called me to be like, oh, the man

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Speaker 4: is gonna maybe come.

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Speaker 2: Tomorrow and blah blah blah. I'm feeling under weather. I

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Speaker 2: don't care.

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Speaker 4: She also, as I was getting ready to hang up,

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Speaker 4: she was like, also the check you gave me bounce.

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Speaker 1: I said, huh, Marie, what what hello is the my

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Speaker 1: on is the mic on?

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Speaker 4: Is the money in the Marie? I said, put the

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Speaker 4: motherfucking money in my motherfucker hand.

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Speaker 2: Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: I didn't know he was doing like this girl. I

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Speaker 4: didn't even I've never had a check bounce in my life.

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Speaker 1: Mass she was the way she was talking to me, Yes,

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Speaker 1: mess the way.

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Speaker 4: She was talking to me. She was talking to me

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Speaker 4: like she sees me as a poor person now because

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Speaker 4: after five years of living there, my check bounced one time.

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Speaker 1: But that's all people see you. All you gotta do

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Speaker 1: is mistake the mess ups.

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Speaker 2: All you gotta do is mess up once.

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Speaker 1: And that's what people see when you're coming forward, They're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know she hewed me thirty dollars.

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Speaker 4: It's like thirty dollars. I'm like, well, how long did

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Speaker 4: you take to cash the check? Because the money was

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Speaker 4: in there when.

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Speaker 2: I wrote it, right, I don't know what happened after

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Speaker 2: I wrote it.

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Speaker 1: What account is this that you were like, I'm only

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Speaker 1: putting the amount of money for the rent.

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Speaker 4: Well, this is an account that I only take money

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Speaker 4: out of, but I never put money in.

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Speaker 2: So the fact that it's lasted this long, Marie shocked.

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Speaker 3: The way you live is on the edge and I

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Speaker 3: love it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for saying that.

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Speaker 1: You know, And the thing is is that you don't

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Speaker 1: look like the way you don't like to check.

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Speaker 2: Bounce, You bouncing, but not the check.

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Speaker 4: She was like, yeah, there was. The check was returned

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Speaker 4: for insufficient funds. I said, whoa, why are you talking

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Speaker 4: so loud?

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Speaker 2: That's so loud you don't even ask me where.

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Speaker 1: I was like, if there's people around, if you won't speaker,

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Speaker 1: you know, she was on the rotary, you know, she

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Speaker 1: was on the landline and she was you know, she

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Speaker 1: doesn't she was doing the turn when she's calling you.

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Speaker 1: She was, she was, so she embarrassed you in front

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Speaker 1: of I was home by myself. Okay, but it felt

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Speaker 1: but your plans were listening because I know you were

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Speaker 1: on a speaker.

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Speaker 2: God was listening. God, God already knew the check bounce from.

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Speaker 1: He's the first one and he's never the last.

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Speaker 2: When when I was writing the check, he was looking

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Speaker 2: at me, like, look at this. So that what happened?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I and MO, you know she didn't want

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Speaker 4: to check, she wants a check or she doing shady

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Speaker 4: business dealing.

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Speaker 2: You think that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: Why why do you have to physically come to the

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Speaker 1: house and pick up a check?

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Speaker 2: Do you not care about the environment, like you know,

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Speaker 2: damn well dying. She don't get the checks are messing

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Speaker 2: up the hurtles.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the check is getting in the turtle shell and

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Speaker 4: he can't get comfortable that.

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Speaker 1: He's chewing on the checks. And that's why they bounceing. Girl,

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Speaker 1: it's really the turtles that are taking her money. I

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Speaker 1: don't ninja turtle ass niggas. Leonardo is is get your

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Speaker 1: hand on my bocket, Michelangelo, is why the check bounce?

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Speaker 2: That's what did you tell her? That?

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Speaker 1: So? Then what did you say, So, I'm gonna move

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Speaker 1: some funds.

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Speaker 2: No, they didn't say that.

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Speaker 4: I haven't already moved the funds, okay, but I didn't

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Speaker 4: know it wasn't I didn't move them quick enough yea

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Speaker 4: for the check to bounce. But she was like, uh, Also,

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Speaker 4: when you write a check, you have to write the

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Speaker 4: whole word out because I'll.

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Speaker 2: Like you abbreviating.

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Speaker 4: It's not that I abbreviate, but if something is three

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Speaker 4: thousand eighty dollars, all right, thirty eighty or something like that,

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Speaker 4: zero sense?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I thought you had to write out the word

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Speaker 3: for a check.

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Speaker 4: I've been writing these checks for this lady for five years.

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Speaker 4: I write them like this all the time because this

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Speaker 1: There, babe, Hey, when you when you don't abide when

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Speaker 2: Yes, we switching it up.

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Speaker 1: Now the length of the word don't don't ensure the

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Speaker 1: fun is there?

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Speaker 2: Body? It bounce because you didn't.

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Speaker 1: You didn't spell out two little thousand dollars, two little

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Speaker 2: Day late, and a dollar shorts.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, she was like, I'll be there either tonight or

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Speaker 1: Yeah, whenever you turn that heat on, sis, that's when

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Speaker 2: Okay, if that's a freezing, you ain't eating.

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Speaker 4: And then you know when you try to write somebody

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Speaker 1: I said, listen, I'm sorry this happened, but I gotta go.

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Speaker 1: We'll figure this out later. Did you raise your voice

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Speaker 2: It was also yelling at other elders.

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Speaker 1: Somebody an elder with a loud voice. You gotta be

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Speaker 2: You know, they're women of a particular ag Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, damn friend, That's why I mean, I had to laugh.

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Speaker 1: But if we're gonna end a year with anything a

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Speaker 1: bounce check, that's you were leaving bounce checks in twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty four, twenty five.

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Speaker 3: All funds are gonna be sufficient, your.

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Speaker 4: Right, the account funds, the account is gonna be fully funded.

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Speaker 1: Well, there's gonna be so much in the account that

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Speaker 2: But like, do you know you have all this money

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Speaker 2: on your account? Girl, you're doing too much, you doing,

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Speaker 2: you work too hard.

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Speaker 1: Let me take some of that money off your soldier

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Speaker 1: year of Yeah, what you're saying is I'm gonna be

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Speaker 1: so rich next year that I'm gonna get robbed.

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Speaker 2: No white collar crime, absolutely not. What's the man's name,

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Speaker 2: Barry Bernie, Bernie made.

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Speaker 3: Off, Bernie made off. No, that doesn't happen to blacks.

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Speaker 4: But black people be having any money and like the

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Speaker 2: I don't know about those, oh cause you only know

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Speaker 2: the bounce check check. Like, I don't trust the.

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Speaker 1: Banks, and they putting all their money in Noila envelopes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: putting them in a shoe boxes.

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Speaker 2: And I like having too much loose cash at my house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been having cat like before when I was

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Speaker 1: which is so bad because you are literally doing anything

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Speaker 2: You'll have a random hundred on you and three ninety nine.

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Speaker 1: And then I'll think that either somebody didn't pay me

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Speaker 1: when something is missing, or I dropped it.

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Speaker 3: That's how my mind goes.

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Speaker 2: And I do be dropping stuff.

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Speaker 1: I drop drop it like it's hot every time. And

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Speaker 1: so yeah, I don't recommend cash. I have some cash

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Speaker 1: on me now, I need to go to the bank

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Speaker 1: if you want me.

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Speaker 2: To count it right now? Yeah, let me see.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you another thing that's that I'm messy at.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a wallet, so is anybody in your

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Speaker 1: by anybody who wants to send me wallet.

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Speaker 2: This is how I keep my cash money. This money

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Speaker 2: is in the pages of her passport.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because you know where my passport is not gonna

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Speaker 1: be lost. It's not gonna be in the Lost and found.

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Speaker 1: It's always want to give me by my heart. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: I stayed checking my first because I need to know

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Speaker 1: if my passport is with me.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, this is this is my cat.

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Speaker 2: I like three hundred and two dollars.

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Speaker 1: Let's see how much one two, three, four hundred hundred

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know I need to go to the pasage

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Speaker 2: your birthday.

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Speaker 1: I don't carry no, this is this is this is

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Speaker 1: my comedy. When I'm doing when I'm doing what I

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Speaker 1: do night, just.

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Speaker 4: From from when I was a kid, I would always

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Speaker 4: have like the most random, insignificant amount of cash on me.

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Speaker 4: It was like seven dollars, Like I'll leave my house

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Speaker 4: with nine dollars and sixty two cents.

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Speaker 1: But I will say this, people should have some cash

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Speaker 1: on them because when it's time to like split the

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Speaker 1: check or tip, cash is always perfect because then it's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: oh baby, I'm giving you exactly what I got.

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Speaker 2: What if I give you the cash that I have

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Speaker 2: and it's like I have twenty.

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Speaker 3: Dollars, I feel like that's something you would do, Marie.

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Speaker 2: I'll venmo you the rest of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Marie, you're not giving people to vemo right away.

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Speaker 3: No, it's they're gonna have to pull up like your landlord.

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Speaker 1: They have to call you on the landline so much

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Speaker 1: if I did get you know the way adhd brain

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Speaker 1: is set up.

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Speaker 4: If I forget to venmo you and you forget to

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Speaker 4: ask for it. Hey, it's on a house, really, Mari.

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Speaker 1: So you you can't keep tabs of money that you

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Speaker 1: know is out there that you might.

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Speaker 2: Owe loose loose loose for yes.

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Speaker 1: No, the way my shame works, I kind of I

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Speaker 1: usually know when I owe somebody something. It's always in

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Speaker 2: I do not. I never forget. They might forget, but

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because there it's not that many people that

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Speaker 1: I owe money to. You know one friend that this

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Speaker 1: was like ten years ago. He ain't never getting that back.

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Speaker 1: But it was a man ten years ago.

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Speaker 2: He's fine. Girl, How would you think you owed.

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Speaker 1: His he's not getting your back, that's one he is,

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Speaker 1: and he'll be fine. And if he needed that money back,

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Speaker 1: he would hit me. He never hit me back for it. Girl,

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Speaker 1: he forgot. Oh no, he might remember it because he's

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Speaker 1: got he's got a good brain. And then I think

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Speaker 1: there's like another friend in.

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Speaker 2: The I R s.

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Speaker 1: Those those are the I R s. Oh yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I have to say, oh, that friend money to school.

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Speaker 1: But for the most part, it's like I hate having

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Speaker 1: that like thinking because I want people to pay me. Heye,

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Speaker 1: this is mess these things that we work for, you know,

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Speaker 1: we independent contractors. We'd be telling them, hey, this is

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Speaker 1: what I that's what I'm old, that's what I'm dude,

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Speaker 1: And you want me to hurry up and do my job.

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Speaker 1: But you don't want to pay me. You don't want

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Speaker 1: to pay me in a timely faunion. You want to

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Speaker 1: you want to hit me two months later? Yeap, that

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Speaker 1: money is gone in two months. I need the money

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Speaker 1: exactly right. I need a net now.

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Speaker 4: No net sixty ninety net one twenty. They said you

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Speaker 4: might get it, you'll forget by the time you get

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Speaker 4: the money. You forgot what you're getting paid for.

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Speaker 2: This is true. Or no, you're in the hole. That's

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Speaker 2: the thing. That's why you have to be paid immediately.

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Speaker 1: I And then they make you feel bad that you

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Speaker 1: hit them up for your mind.

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Speaker 2: What are you broke? Yes, I say in an email,

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Speaker 2: I'm a broke emailing you. Are you broke? They will account.

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Speaker 2: They'll never say are you broke?

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Speaker 1: They'll just allude to, oh, didn't know that this was

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Speaker 1: in a rush?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I need a rush overnight now right now.

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Speaker 2: I need my need and I need it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So if I feel that way about people that

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Speaker 1: I've worked for, honestly, I don't want to do that

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Speaker 1: to the people that I know because I'm thinking the

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Speaker 4: Well, I will say this week we went out for

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Speaker 4: Alex's birthday. Oh yeah, and a bunch of us went

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Speaker 4: to a diner after and Lisa paid, and yeah, I've

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Speaker 4: venmote her as soon as I go.

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Speaker 2: Home, look at you. You know what you're leader? What

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Speaker 2: is that growth?

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Speaker 4: That's why my check bounce because I've been more right away.

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Speaker 4: The way it was the diner, it was like forty dollars,

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Speaker 4: I'm the diner.

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Speaker 1: Uh, you know what my mess is? My mess is

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Speaker 1: showing up late and then leaving early.

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Speaker 2: I have to go. Yeah, I have to get up.

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Speaker 1: You have been leaving stuff early, so early, that's not

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Speaker 1: even my thing.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'd be the last man standing.

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Speaker 2: I'll be like this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be like one of those animaniacs when they

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Speaker 1: got the like the stuff over their head and you

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Speaker 1: know now they twirling and looking delusional. That's me at

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Speaker 1: the end of the night. Lights on. Hey, y'all, and

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Speaker 1: I'm sober, but I'm realizing I ain't got an in me.

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Speaker 1: The thing is that in the I feel like in

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Speaker 1: the winter, when people are drinking, it feels like it's

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Speaker 1: suffocating me. And I can't partake in any of the

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Speaker 1: drinks or any of the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's like soup. Yeah, they don't need me. I gotta go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It's wild because when I think about drinking, I think

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Speaker 4: the summer, it's nice out, we're drinking Margarita's, we're drinking

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Speaker 4: we outside, we are outside. Yeah, we're drinking a lot.

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Speaker 4: But holiday season it's a lot of drinking that goes

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Speaker 4: on so much between Thanksgiving and Christmas too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's every day.

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Speaker 1: Yes, there is no reason why you should be sober

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Speaker 1: during November and December, because there's so much going on.

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Speaker 1: There's so much like things that you think you should

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Speaker 1: be finishing up, or things that you're anticipating for the

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Speaker 1: new year, people that you probably don't even want to see,

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Speaker 1: but you blood related.

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Speaker 3: It's like a lot of things tied to the end

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Speaker 3: of the year.

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Speaker 1: So that's why people going all out, going, all out drinking,

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Speaker 1: not not stopping, and they're staying out until the sun

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Speaker 1: goes up. And I'm like, you know what, I've been

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Speaker 1: looking underneath my eyes. I'm like, girl, you look tired.

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Speaker 1: Should get impressed?

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Speaker 2: Should we get some fresh faces for the new year.

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Speaker 1: No, It's just it's just like knowing when to go home.

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Speaker 1: But then my other messes. So our friend Alex was

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Speaker 1: posting all these pictures from his birthday and I wasn't

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Speaker 1: in none, and I was like, I was there, Why

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Speaker 1: why didn't I get any photos? And so that's what

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Speaker 1: happens when you leave, you leave early, You missed the photo,

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Speaker 1: you missed the photo ops, and then it feels like, well, well, fuck,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't there. I know the picture was gonna look

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Speaker 1: crazy of me anyway, but it's just like I just

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Speaker 1: I like that little tag that I was that was there.

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Speaker 2: Well, you want to supports you in post? We could

443
00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:51,119
Speaker 2: throw you in.

444
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 1: We'd love somebody just photoshop me in some of the

445
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,159
Speaker 1: events that I'm not there because I do have fomo.

446
00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,080
Speaker 1: That's another messy thing, is that you have photo fomo

447
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,760
Speaker 1: though no, I have fomo.

448
00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:02,840
Speaker 2: In general. I want to be there.

449
00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:06,479
Speaker 1: My heart is where my friends are, and so when

450
00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm not there, I'm like.

451
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:09,439
Speaker 3: Well, what are they doing without me?

452
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:13,800
Speaker 2: They need me? The night is not young and I'm

453
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 2: not around.

454
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,680
Speaker 3: What I've been doing, That's what I've been doing.

455
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: And then I'll go home and then I'll start scrolling

456
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,720
Speaker 1: the stories that said they look like.

457
00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 2: They having a blast and I don't like that. I

458
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 2: don't like that without me. Yeah, well you should be

459
00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:32,359
Speaker 2: texting me, girl, wish you were here time? Next time?

460
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 2: What do you? Why are you? Why'd you leave?

461
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,600
Speaker 1: When I say I'm gone, people are like, okay, no.

462
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 1: The last two times to tell me you beg me

463
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 1: to stay.

464
00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 4: The last two times you told me you were leaving,

465
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 4: I was like already and you were like, yeah, girl,

466
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 4: I I gotta go. But also you will come up

467
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 4: when the car is already outside.

468
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 2: Oh you you been like my uber here.

469
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,280
Speaker 1: I think it's messy to be that person, like we're

470
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,840
Speaker 1: gonna leave, and then I'm waiting around you caught up,

471
00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:01,600
Speaker 1: somebody got you hand up in a corner and I'm waiting, like, girl.

472
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 2: You're supposed to be get in the car. I'm not

473
00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 2: pulling out the app.

474
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,280
Speaker 1: I'm not pulling out the app because we already figured

475
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,640
Speaker 1: out that you are getting a car.

476
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I'll demo you.

477
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,920
Speaker 1: So when you are chatting it up and I think

478
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,399
Speaker 1: I might you know this is you, this is this

479
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:20,160
Speaker 1: is Marie. So I'm gonna leave when this is done. No, no, no,

480
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 1: I say, let me see it.

481
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:24,400
Speaker 2: We got this much less in this much time. I'm

482
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:25,360
Speaker 2: leaving in this much time.

483
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, she's not a lush, so she's

484
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 1: not gonna guzzle it down.

485
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,439
Speaker 4: I mean, but I am also good for leaving with

486
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,520
Speaker 4: the glass. You do, I will Rihanna it out of

487
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:36,120
Speaker 4: a situation.

488
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 1: It's it's it's interesting when I see you leave at

489
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,640
Speaker 1: the glass, I'm like, only Marie and Rihanna, and Rihanna.

490
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, if she could do it, I too, kids do it?

491
00:21:44,920 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: I didy Okay, So let me tell you what's going

492
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 1: on in this week's mess. So this girl gets on TikTok.

493
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: You know that's where usually where I get my news, y'all.

494
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to work too hard. I just I

495
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 1: just stay on and another mess thing is TikTok is

496
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,159
Speaker 1: supposed to be banned at the top of the year.

497
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 1: Wait top they said officially is supposed to be banned

498
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 1: at the top of the year. I don't believe it.

499
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 1: But who's people are stress? People are stressed about Yeah,

500
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 1: they well, it didn't get bought by anybody Americans.

501
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 2: So they're like, China, goodbye. You're not gonna be keeping.

502
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 1: Telling us such hater they are. But also the tea

503
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 1: is is that people are making a ship ton of

504
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 1: money through TikTok, and it's a lot of awareness and

505
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: it's a lot of people spreading information that is very

506
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 1: necessary to people's individuality or people being like we're gonna

507
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: riot or we don't have to stand for this. And

508
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: so everybody's like, ah, y'all got too much free autonomy.

509
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 2: We still have Instagram and YouTube.

510
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 4: Not doing that on Instagram, Yeah, but I'm saying all

511
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,719
Speaker 4: of that content is still going to exist.

512
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: They can just slide it over.

513
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 1: People are tired now you know, we went to we

514
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 1: went to a little Instagram event, so we we good

515
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: on Instagram. But a lot of people they've got some

516
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: notes they about damn time Instagram. They are lost it

517
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 1: because you know, people are trying to keep up appearances

518
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: on there, and so no one is like living their

519
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 1: free life. They're posting their perfect photos or they're getting

520
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: their perfect reels and tick that people are messy things.

521
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 1: That the aperture is off people being bonnets. They don't

522
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: care what they're saying, and they're they're telling their all

523
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: of their family secrets. At two am, who's the girl

524
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: who dates that guy named Chris.

525
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 2: She does like whig videos. She's like, oh cy and

526
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 2: she has the bracest. Oh she has bracest. Yeah she's wild.

527
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 2: That's a bit.

528
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:15,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm i press not interested at times, but yeah,

529
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: so I'm on t talk and this girl is like, hey,

530
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: the men, the men. Something's going on with the man.

531
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 1: She said, So this guy asked me out on the date.

532
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 1: She pulls up, he takes me to uh he gets

533
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: tickets to a comedy show.

534
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 2: That's the first Red Flag comedy show. First date.

535
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 1: No, no, no, we need to be you know, getting

536
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: to know each other. I can't do that because now

537
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 1: I'm watching the car, I'm laughing at stuff that you

538
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 1: didn't say. You getting a free ha ha ha, you

539
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: didn't work hard. So what's seven other means?

540
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 2: You think?

541
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 4: You think going to a comedy club a comedy show

542
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 4: on the first date.

543
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 2: Is a bad first Yes it is, Yes it is.

544
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: It's lazy.

545
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 1: I don't think that it's a bad first date. It's

546
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: a bad first date for us because we we at work.

547
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 1: Don't come see me at job. But if like now,

548
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: I get to see what your sense of humor is.

549
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: I get to see if you serious. I get to

550
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: see if you sto weak. I get to see if.

551
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 2: They make fun of you. How you let that roll

552
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 2: off your back?

553
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 1: Like, how about you do that in an actual conversation.

554
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: I can see how funny you are if you just

555
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: get some words out of your mind. I could tell

556
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 1: in the first five minutes if you got a sense

557
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: of humor or not.

558
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 4: Well, the comedy show shouldn't be the whole day. It

559
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 4: should be some drinks involved, some a little amoz boosh.

560
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 2: Okay, let me get to it. Okay, so she gets there.

561
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: The tickets to the commerce show are twenty five dollars each.

562
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: So he buys both tickets, which he should. He invited that.

563
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 2: He invited her, right, So he gets there.

564
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, we got some time before the show starts.

565
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: Let's get some meat. She like, I'm not really hungry,

566
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: but okay. He's like, let's get some tacos. He gets

567
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 1: some tacos. He buys her taco because she only wants one,

568
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: and then he gets three. He gets the tacos. They ian,

569
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: they keep kying whatever they go in and he's like, yeah,

570
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: let's get let's get a drink and she's like I'm

571
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 1: not I'm not really that servacy or whatever. She's like,

572
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 1: can you give me some water? And so he literally stops.

573
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: He's like, why don't you get us something to drink?

574
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:11,719
Speaker 1: And she's like, yeah, I could do that, but you

575
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 1: said let's get something drinks, so I assumed you would

576
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: be getting a drinks. He's like, uh, well, why why

577
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: don't we both go get the water? And she's like

578
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,919
Speaker 1: this is this is this is odd and he's like,

579
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Are you now that is

580
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: another reflect Let me ask you something.

581
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 2: No, we need to talk. We need to talk. Let

582
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 2: me ask you something.

583
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: It's all It's always going to be something that It's like,

584
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: you know the answer to this, sir. He asked her,

585
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: So are you the type of type of woman to

586
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 1: serve your man? Excuse me, this is not burger king.

587
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm not serving nobody.

588
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 2: When did this turn into church? He Christians very much. No,

589
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 2: He's like, are you the type of woman to take

590
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 2: care of your man? Sir?

591
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: We are in front of the tacos. They will serve you.

592
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: You're not even my man a day, first first day.

593
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: And mind you, this is my first impression of you.

594
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: That's their thing on TikTok. They're like, mind you, this

595
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: is my first impression of you, meaning like I've never

596
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: seen anything, and this is what Now I'm gonna leave

597
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: with this, right.

598
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 2: So he's kind of like going back and.

599
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: Forth with her, and she said, you know what, have

600
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: a good night, and she left.

601
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: She left. She didn't even get to.

602
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: See the comedy show, because I was like, maybe she

603
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 1: was at one of our shows.

604
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 4: Missed you missed you missed out. Mad made a mistake.

605
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 4: I would have stayed for.

606
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: The comedy and then I would have left immediately, or

607
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 1: I would have stayed for the comedy.

608
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, can we sit different?

609
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 4: But she must have already not been feeling him, Like

610
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 4: for you to be like that ready to go, it

611
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 4: must be like you leaving a bad taste in my mouth,

612
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 4: or maybe the tacos did, But like, I'm not even

613
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 4: gonna go back and forth with you.

614
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: How loud was he talking? He was yelling? No, I

615
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 2: don't think he was yelling.

616
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: But I think we're at the point in our lives.

617
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: I don't know how old this girl is, but we've

618
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: gone on enough dates where it's like some of us

619
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: are doing it for the plot and other people's like

620
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: the plot is done. I'm exhausted. Either we're gonna have

621
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 1: good vibes or not. I did not come out of

622
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: my place where it's warm for you to ask me,

623
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 1: so are you gonna serve your man? Excuse me, I

624
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: don't speak whatever language you talking about, Sir.

625
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 4: I'd be like, what you mean by that? Like cater

626
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 4: to you, destiny shaw?

627
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: I mean that's what she was asking.

628
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: But also it's like you're taking me to a comedy

629
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: show and you're getting tacos, so you're acting like this

630
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,439
Speaker 1: is a Michellin star like Caviars pulled out we at

631
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 1: the opera.

632
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 2: What kind of tacos it was?

633
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 4: It was Gordon Ramsey was in there putting caviar eggs

634
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 4: on caviar eggs, fish eggs on the stuff.

635
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 3: No, it felt like it was one step above Taco bell.

636
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 2: It was actually a.

637
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 3: Taco truck, mind you. It was the tacos were on wheels.

638
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 2: Were they in La because the taco trucks hit in La?

639
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.

640
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 3: But she was just like, I'm not putting up with this,

641
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 3: and I.

642
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: Think I don't know self care everyone it is self care,

643
00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: but we're trying to figure out what is going on

644
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: with both people. Because if someone asked me for me,

645
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: I get the whole, like be a man, take care

646
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: of it, and you know, bring back men.

647
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 2: Da da da da da.

648
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: But it's also like somebody got the tickets, they got

649
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: some tacos. I would I would probably offer, oh you

650
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: want some drink, I'll get you your drink. And so

651
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: I think his thing was as a human being, you

652
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: see me doing on stuff you don't wanna. You don't

653
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: want to get me a you don't want to get

654
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 1: me no water, you don't wanna, Well, you don't want

655
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: to contribute.

656
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 4: I hear what you're saying, yes, but she's not saying

657
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 4: I'm hungry. He's like, ask her something to eat, and

658
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 4: she like, I guess I have a taco. A taco

659
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 4: is five dollars. Yeah if that Uh. He's like, let's

660
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 4: get a drink. She's like, I don't really want to drink.

661
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 4: Maybe some water.

662
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: Now you mad?

663
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 4: Now you're mad because I asked for a water. She

664
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 4: didn't say, oh, I'll take a long online ice tea.

665
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 4: She didn't say I'll take a whiskey sour. She just said, oh,

666
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 4: can you give me a water? And he was like,

667
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 4: why don't you get me a drink?

668
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 2: Like it's him.

669
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, okay, I'm not I'm not team you know.

670
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: Him, sir?

671
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: Are you gonna serve your God and me at the

672
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: same time? Now, I'm not team him, but I'm also

673
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: like a person who is a giver, and you do

674
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: people when it's going to be like, oh, this is

675
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: gonna be one sided. You could tell, you could tell,

676
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: But I'm also I'm also not. I'm also not a

677
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 1: straight man, so I cannot relate.

678
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 2: But I do.

679
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: I do know with people you can feel like it's

680
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: not reciprocal. You can feel that energy when they're like.

681
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 2: Oh I just I can't. I'm here for the wings.

682
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: That's the gift, you know. And so he probably communicated

683
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: that poorly. But I do think that if someone asks

684
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: you to come out right, maybe they are paying for

685
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: most of the stuff. But I think it is a

686
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: cute gesture to be like, oh, let me get you

687
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: something you want. You want a napkin, babe, I'll get you.

688
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: You want me to hold the door for your mo

689
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: like you don't. Chivalry can go both ways.

690
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 4: Let me sit with my back to the door so

691
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 4: you can face the door, just in case trouble is coming,

692
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 4: and I could God first for you.

693
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: Hey, can let me stand on the side of the

694
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: road so you know the car. If the car comes it,

695
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: don't hit it me and me first. When you come

696
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: home late, tap me on my shoulder, roll over. No

697
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: no no.

698
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 4: But I agree, I agree with you, but also things

699
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 4: need to be communicated better.

700
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 2: But maybe he was having.

701
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 4: A bad day and he had eight dollars left in

702
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 4: his account. Maybe his check bounce.

703
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: Oh girl, you're always gonna bring it back for that

704
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: bouncing checks, freezy bounce on that check al.

705
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 2: What did you see this week? So Nick Cannon, father

706
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 2: of twelve, just ensured his balls for ten million dollars.

707
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 2: You know you know what.

708
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: I love that for him because he's knowing his worth.

709
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: He's like, do you know how many shots I take

710
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: and they actually go?

711
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: You missed one hundred percent of the shots you don't take? Yeah.

712
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: So he's like, hey, I know that I have stuff

713
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: that works.

714
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 2: It's a hundred percent.

715
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: It's one hundred The sperm when it hits the egg,

716
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: it's like, let's go.

717
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, that's how Nick can He's like.

718
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: I have to ensure this because it's one hundred percent

719
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 1: going through raid. And I can't say all all the

720
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: guys who have sperm can be as successful. I'm just saying, yeah,

721
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon does not play for the Mets. I'll say

722
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 1: that as I wear a Mets hat. What what's the

723
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: Mets comparison? The Mets they play base you know the

724
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: baseball they bad or they good? What are you trying

725
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: to think they win that much.

726
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 2: Good? That he said?

727
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Somebody somebody fact checked that for

728
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: us we need the Mets good? Are the Mets good?

729
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: I have a couple of friends who ride or die

730
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: for the Mets. And that's how I know that the

731
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: Mets can't be that good, because why why are you

732
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: holding on so strong? You know, some teams just win

733
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 1: and people don't have to say much. They're like, oh,

734
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: I know, I got the winning team.

735
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 4: Can I tell you why I don't like the Mets

736
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 4: over the Yankees. That's somebody who doesn't care about baseball

737
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 4: at all. I don't like the font of the n

738
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 4: Y It's it's different. Yeah, I don't like then I

739
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 4: like the Yankees font better. Well, this is given like italics.

740
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 4: It's calligraphy. Maybe not calligraphy, but it's definitely given, like.

741
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 2: Sheriff, sheriff. You know what I'm saying.

742
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: You know, yeah I do remember, yes, yes, like sheriff whatever.

743
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 2: I don't use that font, but yeah, time's new Roman.

744
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: But I think that the problem with the Mets is

745
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: is that when you wear this, people assume that you

746
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: actually like the team. Yankees is universal. You could just

747
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: like it for the stole. Mets is like, oh that

748
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: was a choice, honey, they'd Mets and I'll be like mass, yes, mass,

749
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: oh my god, should we get mess hats?

750
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: Yes? But it should kind of be like the Mets.

751
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: Font No, no, I don't like like that.

752
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So wait.

753
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 3: So you're so you think it's a mess that Nick

754
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 3: ensured his because.

755
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 4: Like Mariah Carey in her voice, I think Rihanna insured

756
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 4: her legs, j Lo's insured her ass Like since insurance

757
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 4: has existed, people have been insuring these things.

758
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, to ensore your balls. So what does that mean?

759
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 4: If someone kicks him in the nuts, he gets ten

760
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 4: thousand dollars. What does it mean to ensure your body parts?

761
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,800
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't really have insurance. I don't even know

762
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,839
Speaker 1: what I don't even know what insured means. Shout out,

763
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: shout out to Luigi, And you can't even spell insurance.

764
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 2: Can I say this?

765
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: The crazy thing about the Luigi situation for me is

766
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: that he got caught in the McDonald's.

767
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 3: I have a conspiracy theory. I don't think any of

768
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 3: this is real.

769
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: I think that he's the scapegoat for the person who

770
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: really I think they needed to boost something to let

771
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: people know, hey, you can't just be killing CEOs what.

772
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't.

773
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: He didn't really look like the guy who we saw

774
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: on camera. This guy is just too sexy, too young.

775
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: The guy in the in the video looked older, so

776
00:34:58,680 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: and he didn't look as tall.

777
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 4: So what you're saying is you think there's a conspiracy

778
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 4: and he's not the guy. What I got from the

779
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 4: situation is hot people need to do more crimes, and

780
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 4: they do.

781
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 2: And that's the problem is like you think that.

782
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,280
Speaker 1: You don't think that somebody who has all their teeth

783
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: and amazing bone structure isn't pulling a fast one, isn't

784
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: scamming people.

785
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 4: They are scam absolutely, but I'm saying just crime in general,

786
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 4: not necessarily murder, but definitely hot people need to do

787
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 4: more crimes.

788
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: I want to use my hotness for good oh and

789
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: to be And the thing is so funny thing about

790
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 1: Luigia's that all these women are like all.

791
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: The good men are assassins.

792
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 1: I was on the train and God was like, damn

793
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 1: these girls is on this God Dick like what I

794
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 1: need to do kill a Ceowen was like, well, yes,

795
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,959
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, but if you don't say it for something,

796
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: you'll fall for anything, thank you.

797
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 4: I just think it's weird and I don't understand how

798
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 4: that works, Like you have all these kids, you're gonna

799
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 4: have more. If something happens to your balls that are

800
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 4: now insured, will the insurance companies pay you? Like Nick

801
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 4: Canned is worth like half a million, half a billion dollars?

802
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: Really, yeah, he's worth a lot.

803
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: I mean, And I think that the important thing that

804
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: people who are like regular and don't have as much

805
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,919
Speaker 1: access or money, they don't know they're worth. They don't

806
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: know what you can actually do to instill like a

807
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 1: better future for yourself.

808
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 2: He knows he has people in his ears.

809
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 1: So somebody might have told him, hey, man, you see

810
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: all these kids you have, that's a that's a blessing.

811
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 4: Not all these Some of these men got blanks. They

812
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 4: got blanks in their gun. You don't, you know, for

813
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 4: some people, blanks is a blessing. Ooh, and you know what,

814
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 4: I wish I had more blanks.

815
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 2: Listen now it is they don't work. Baby. I I

816
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 2: got no egg now, So there it is.

817
00:36:56,360 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: No for Tata's happening over shit shut it's an empty

818
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: egg crate, empty nesters. Yes, oh did you see the

819
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: So they're doing all these like lookalike contests.

820
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 4: They did one for Luigi and they did yeah, they

821
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 4: did a not when we knew it was Luigi, but

822
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 4: when it was the guy with the hood and the backpack.

823
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 2: They had one in the park.

824
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they were being really funny. That was comical.

825
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: But this one they had an actual one for Drake

826
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 1: in Toronto, and the videos were killing me because there

827
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: were so many guys that Are'm like, I guess you

828
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: look like him, but it's more like the essence. But

829
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 1: there's one dude that was supposed to be like the

830
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: bigger Drake, like you know, thick Drake, thick Drake, and

831
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: they say that he's the one that impersonates him all

832
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: the time. They were like he he was robbed, he

833
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 1: should have won, but they ended up giving a girl.

834
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, a girl, a girl one. Yeah. No, it's a

835
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 2: great lookalike. They did a great job. They're calling all

836
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: the skinny guys ozembic Drake. Yes, yes.

837
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: I sometimes I think it's cute when people were like,

838
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: you look like this celebrity, but it hurts when you're not.

839
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: You're like, I don't want to look.

840
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 3: Like that celebrity. I just want to be a celebrity.

841
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 2: They all look like him except for the girl.

842
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 3: And she won, and that's and honestly, and that's feminism.

843
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 2: No, she should not have won. And she was dancing.

844
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 2: She was dancing, she was giving it. I was like,

845
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 2: I love how committed she was to it. She was like,

846
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 2: this is a joke.

847
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: I'm not taking this serious. She had the beard and everything.

848
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: I would like to see.

849
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 3: What's what's your predictions for the next look.

850
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:39,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, they also had a honist there the people.

851
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: That's the one thing that I feel bad about TikTok

852
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: being gone. There's so many funny people out there.

853
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 4: People are really they can still shoot all these same

854
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 4: videos and just slide them through Instagram.

855
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 2: You don't hit the same that.

856
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,240
Speaker 3: The algorithm on Instagram is not the same as TikTok.

857
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 2: Instagram.

858
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: So they say, word on street is they want you

859
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: to money behind promotion. What Yes, they want you to

860
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: boost more things they want. Instagram is out a rabbit

861
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: ass buyer.

862
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 4: The people who need to see the content will see it,

863
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 4: and those who don't will miss out. Mark Zuckerberg is

864
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 4: getting a.

865
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 2: Zum from me. I mean, no one's any a diametomy

866
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: checks Dooby bouncing tapping her foot girl.

867
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 4: First of all, guns cost money, and my landlord is

868
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 4: not spending money on guns. So who do I think

869
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 4: is the next look alike? Well, because we got Timothy,

870
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 4: Shala May, we got the we got the Zendaya. Oh

871
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 4: I didn't see that looking like contest?

872
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 2: What did that? What did they look like Biracials? She's Byris?

873
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were given by racials, And a lot of

874
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 1: the comments were just like, I see where y'all were

875
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 1: going with that. But also if I was Zendia, I

876
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: would be mad because none of these girls is giving her.

877
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: They did Tyler, they did Tyler, they did Rachel sitting it,

878
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 1: I'm wondering, like, who's the next person they should do.

879
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 2: No, it's gonna be Trump on inauguration Day in DC.

880
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:18,720
Speaker 2: It's gonna be big orange, blobby, lace front white man. Girl.

881
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 2: Are you done? They gonna do that.

882
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that. That doesn't matter if

883
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 1: you want to hear it. And I think you asked

884
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: what I think is the next one.

885
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 4: I think it's gonna be big orange lace front white

886
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 4: man in ties that are too long and suits that

887
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 4: are too baggy.

888
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

889
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: I don't want to.

890
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 3: Honestly, if my eyes don't work that day, I won't

891
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 3: be mad.

892
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 2: I won't be mad.

893
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe Paul Pascal Pedro. Yeah, people love him and

894
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 1: he's a cutie too. But I don't know that many

895
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 1: people who look like him.

896
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 2: Pedro Pascal, Yeah, a Spanish guy. Girl. You don't know

897
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: nobody that looks like that. I don't know anybody.

898
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,800
Speaker 1: You don't know nobody with a little mustache and a

899
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: little tossledd babe. I live in eastern New York. I know,

900
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: I know more people who look Haitian. I know more

901
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: people look like Sean Paul.

902
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 2: He squint, you kind of look like Shan Paul. No,

903
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 2: Shan Paul is Pedro with a little season in no, no,

904
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 2: no wait.

905
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: I told the story right, a story about how was

906
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: in Miami. We were at SLS Hotel all day getting

907
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 1: I mean I had I had so many Margarita's.

908
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,439
Speaker 2: My middle name was Mark.

909
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 1: So we we're in the pool all that we realized,

910
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,760
Speaker 1: oh shoot, we're running late. We gotta get our bags

911
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: because we got to go to the airport.

912
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,800
Speaker 2: I that's how it happens in Miami. Always.

913
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,720
Speaker 1: I still have my bikini on going to the airport.

914
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm taking what it looks like I eat on myself.

915
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: Mind you, there's traffic so We're like, oh, we're definitely

916
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: gonna miss this light.

917
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 2: There's traffic. I have to pee.

918
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: I get out of the car in the middle of

919
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: the highway and I eat on the side in my

920
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: wet bikini.

921
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 2: Then we get back in the car. So you pee,

922
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 2: hold hold on, hold on because we need the visuals here.

923
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 4: Yes, you pull the bikini bottoms down to pee, or

924
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 4: you pee through the bikini since it's already wet.

925
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: Now you know, I'm a classic girl, So you pee

926
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 1: through the bini. I pulled it to the side, not

927
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: classy ten on the highway.

928
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 2: That thing to this side.

929
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: And I had a long I had a maxi dress on.

930
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: So we get to we get to the airport and

931
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, we actually do have some time.

932
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 2: It's not that bad.

933
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: Uh.

934
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 2: We pull up to t s A. I got a

935
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: I got a.

936
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 3: Or like a cowboy hat on.

937
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: Yep, my wet bikini, long dress and in my suitcase.

938
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: And another friend she's not nobody is in their bikini

939
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 1: except me.

940
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, why would you? I was like, I don't have

941
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,399
Speaker 2: time to take They're like, why don't you just take

942
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 2: it off?

943
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: You could just be naked underneath. I said, oh no,

944
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want to, I don't want

945
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: it loose. But eventually I do take the bottoms off

946
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: because I was like, this is gross. We're going through TSA. Uh,

947
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,760
Speaker 1: I'm so messed up. But my eyes see so clearly

948
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: that Sean Paul is about to come through TSA. And

949
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: I screamed, baby boy, you stay on my mind, baby,

950
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: and everyone is and everybody's looking around.

951
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 2: I was like, oh no, no, no, get busy. And

952
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 2: so he sees me and I was like, I'm screaming.

953
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 4: And I was looking at you like that because probably

954
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 4: no one, no one knew him, no, just I'm sure

955
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 4: no one's ever reacted that strong to him before.

956
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 2: No one knew. I was looking at you too. You

957
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 2: owe her money?

958
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 1: No, he was such he was and he's like a

959
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: tiny guy, he's not big. You don't yeah, And he

960
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: had a mohawk and everything. And I was like, I

961
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: am such a fan. I know you gotta go catch up.

962
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: Can we take a picture?

963
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 3: And so first of all, I give him a hug

964
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:55,720
Speaker 3: soaking wet way.

965
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 2: Sean was like, still got it, I'm stand may you.

966
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 2: So he gives me a hug and he's like okay.

967
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 2: And then he takes a picture.

968
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: He's so you could tell he's so happy because he's

969
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: like someone acknowledged me.

970
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 3: He I'm sure he was, Like I felt so seen.

971
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 2: I'm screaming, baby boy. AnyWho.

972
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: I I ended up like sitting down for a second

973
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 1: because I was definitely very much so blackout, and I

974
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: was like I lost. I had a bag of like

975
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: sun tanning oil. That's how you know I was hanging

976
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: out with too many white people because I was like.

977
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 2: Sun tanning oil. Sun tanning oil, Now, what is the

978
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 2: purpose of sun tanning oil?

979
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: For?

980
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 2: It was a bandeath soul.

981
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: So it gives me like a really bronzy glow, Like

982
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: it wasn't just like getting darker, but it was like

983
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: a glow from within.

984
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 2: Oh girl, that's you. That's Jesus. Anyway, gla that for you.

985
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: But bond Dells soul came threw from me.

986
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,720
Speaker 4: Girl, I did to see a picture of you, Crispy

987
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 4: Crunches black on Instagram.

988
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,320
Speaker 1: People were screaming. They were like, Sidney, I wish I

989
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: knew you during this time. I was like, no, you

990
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: don't that that was the best of times. That's the

991
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: worst of times. I would have loved to be your

992
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: black friend during that time.

993
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 2: Friend. You called me on the end of it and

994
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 2: I and you were like, I think you got a problem.

995
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 2: That's what you said to me. While I was at

996
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 2: my job.

997
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: I said, if you were a blackout at work, that's

998
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 1: the problem. I said, give me my drinks back, girl.

999
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 2: Being blackout in Miami is different than being blackout at work,

1000
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 2: I said, throw up that sandwich I just got had

1001
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 2: made for you from scratch. How dare you?

1002
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:34,879
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1003
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, visiting friends at work is that mess?

1004
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: You know? Ooh that's good because that kind of ties

1005
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: into something that God, I wouldn't say it kind of happened.

1006
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:53,240
Speaker 1: But I think that people don't respect like the things

1007
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: that we do. They think it's like a pull up, like, oh,

1008
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 1: we having fun. This is not really a job.

1009
00:45:58,360 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 2: It is, but it is.

1010
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: We are at work and people are constantly watching us.

1011
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,720
Speaker 1: And even if you think that people are not judging

1012
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: or not, look they are. And so anybody we have

1013
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 1: around it your.

1014
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 3: Reflection of us.

1015
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: And so you can't go to people's job being lose

1016
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: too overfamiliar because you make the vibes a little weird.

1017
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 1: I had a friend come out with us at SNL

1018
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: and we were at an after party. He pulls out

1019
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: a brand new disposable camera still in the wrapper, oh,

1020
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 1: and unwraps it and starts taking photos with at the table.

1021
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:38,320
Speaker 2: And I said, brother, no, no, brother, no, Like this

1022
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:43,439
Speaker 2: is not b Yeah, I mean, you know, Chris Rock

1023
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 2: is there. All these like celebrities were there, and it

1024
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 2: was like, nobody wants to see.

1025
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 1: This big disposable camera doofy CBS flash happening at Zuma.

1026
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: Like it's just not big doofy disposable camera flash? Is

1027
00:46:58,600 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 2: that the title? I like it?

1028
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe, And maybe it's me because I am in

1029
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: burying my head about being perceived and like people seeing us.

1030
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: But I don't like that.

1031
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:10,840
Speaker 1: I don't like being embarrassed. I don't embarrass myself, but

1032
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't want somebody else embarrassing me. Yeah.

1033
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 2: But you know what.

1034
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 4: I was out the other day and I was with

1035
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 4: a friend of mine and we went to get ramen

1036
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 4: and we you know, we had both taken edibles, we

1037
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 4: had smoked a little, so we were feeling good, and

1038
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 4: he was really chatty and at one point he said

1039
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 4: he said something like he was talking and I was like, oh,

1040
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 4: he's being kind of loud and this is kind.

1041
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 2: Of like silly, low key annoying. Wait do I know

1042
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 2: this person?

1043
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,959
Speaker 4: I don't know, but he said some stuff and people

1044
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 4: could overhear him, and I was like, that's embarrassing. But

1045
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 4: the people that overheard were in on it, like they

1046
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 4: were like, oh yo, bro blah blah blah blah, like

1047
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,720
Speaker 4: they were completely feel like they were there for the vibes.

1048
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 2: They felt good. He had he had a friend. Yeh,

1049
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 2: he made friends. And I was like, oh, maybe maybe

1050
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 2: he was me.

1051
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 3: We do be in our heads.

1052
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: But I mean sometimes remember when your brother came to

1053
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: my job and he started bring dancing step up to

1054
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: dance moves in the bar was crowded.

1055
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 2: My brother he was. It was shoulder to shoulder.

1056
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 1: My brother turned into black channing tatle he did and

1057
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: was he wearing a fedora that he was wearing he

1058
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 1: dis for dora. I didn't believe you weren't embarrassed. Friend,

1059
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: I'm always embarrassing. I'm always embarrassed.

1060
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 2: He starts to ray dance. I'm always like here, my

1061
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 2: friends are here. You don't be here for your brother.

1062
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: He was.

1063
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 3: He formed a circle. He formed a circle like it

1064
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 3: was a dance battle.

1065
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: Like he was at a bobmitz yeah, and he started

1066
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: like Kung Fu Panda backflips and all ring around the rosie.

1067
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 2: It was insanity.

1068
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 1: And I'm got my tray and I got like pour

1069
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: watermelon Martini's and I got shots, and I see your

1070
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 1: brother doing all cap flips, acrobats, sir to so lay,

1071
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: I said a girl now job met him and he

1072
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: did that girl now he ce and got abs.

1073
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 2: But this is too much, bro. You know, I was embarrassed.

1074
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 1: Everything doesn't, but sometimes you just gotta let people be embarrassing,

1075
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: to let them do that.

1076
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 2: Because I'm not your mom. I'm not gonna scold you.

1077
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be like, listen, listen here, you little bitch.

1078
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 2: This is have some decorum. We at a bar. No,

1079
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 2: let them do that.

1080
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 4: They're grown You acting like that should not embarrass me

1081
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 4: because I'm cool. Really, That's what like I'm saying in

1082
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 4: the moment where where my friend was talking and I

1083
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 4: was like oh, everybody was like aha, and I was like,

1084
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 4: I guess.

1085
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 2: It was just me, okay.

1086
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 3: And that's the thing I think that gets really like

1087
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 3: nothing is black or white, but it's.

1088
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: Well, it is black and white because the white people

1089
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: don't get embarrassed with they people do crazy stuff because white.

1090
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 2: People are not a monolith.

1091
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're free.

1092
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 4: They see a crazy white person doing whatever, and they

1093
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 4: just like, Tom's crazy. But a black person. If I'm

1094
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 4: out and a black person is acting wild, I'm like,

1095
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 4: they think we came together.

1096
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 2: They think that's my ride.

1097
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1098
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: When I'm on the train and the one guy that's

1099
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: like being weird is like talking to me, I'm like, sir,

1100
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: I don't we don't know each other.

1101
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 3: Stop you're so familiar you be.

1102
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 1: Talking to them though, I because also I don't like

1103
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: when we ignore people who are obviously kind of going

1104
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: through something, like you could be that one person that

1105
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: changed their day, and I don't want to treat them like.

1106
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 2: Well, this is dangerous. You see, this is crazy. Why

1107
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 2: I understand.

1108
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 4: I understand acknowledging somebody that's there, but I also I'm

1109
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 4: not trying to put myself in harm's way.

1110
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 2: I don't know what this person is going through.

1111
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 4: I don't know how they feel about young black beaches

1112
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 4: on the subway.

1113
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 2: I don't need you snapping on me.

1114
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: I'm moving seats, I'm moving cars, that's valid. I'm not

1115
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: you sitting there you gonna have a pow wow.

1116
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 2: Not a pow wow, but you know, I'll chat it

1117
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 2: up a bit.

1118
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: You know. Remember, did I tell you a story about

1119
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:18,439
Speaker 1: the guy named Macavelly, Yes, Maca I met on the train,

1120
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:18,919
Speaker 1: the rapper.

1121
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 3: Yes, the rapper he was, and I honestly think he

1122
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 3: was pretty good.

1123
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:23,720
Speaker 1: Girl.

1124
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: He wasn't. He wasn't terrible. I would I didn't. I

1125
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 2: at first, I was like, now I have I have

1126
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 2: some money. I have some money in my first and we.

1127
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,399
Speaker 1: Know you have you have four hundred and fifty two

1128
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 1: dollars in your purse. I had a couple of dollars.

1129
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 1: I had a couple of dollars with maca Velly. And

1130
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 1: he's chatting, and I'm like, all right, man. Like he

1131
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:44,439
Speaker 1: after I give him the money, he would not move.

1132
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I girl, because he saw you pull

1133
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 1: out your passport and unfold several hundred dollars and you

1134
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: gave him what did you give him?

1135
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 2: Like a ten or a twenty?

1136
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: Oh?

1137
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 2: Girl, I give him five dollars? And you know he's talking.

1138
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 2: I said fine. Then he's like, can you uh, can

1139
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 2: you follow me? Sir? I give you five dollars. That

1140
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 2: is your follow Okay, is that five?

1141
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, But it made me think it's like, I am

1142
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: so embarrassed by peddling my jokes or like things that

1143
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm doing, and it's hard for me to promote. This

1144
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,800
Speaker 1: man got five dollars for me and he said, I

1145
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 1: need you to follow me. So, you know what, maybe

1146
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 1: I need to move in the world more like Macavelly.

1147
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 2: Be more like Machavelly. Don't you agree. I think we

1148
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 2: need to get out of our own heads.

1149
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: That is mess the people thinking that, ooh, like I

1150
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: love the brain, but then I'm also like, throw it away,

1151
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: throw it in the trash, because it's you.

1152
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, you realize it's like

1153
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 3: it's never that serious.

1154
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: It never was, it will never be that serious, and

1155
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: it's just like have fun, throw things at the wall.

1156
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 3: If it doesn't work out, who cares.

1157
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 4: But when you think about the people who seem to

1158
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 4: be the happiest people that you know, just like think

1159
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 4: about the person that you feel like, oh, that person

1160
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 4: seems to be pretty happy.

1161
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 2: You have somebody in your head.

1162
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 4: It's usually somebody who like they marshal to be to

1163
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,319
Speaker 4: their own drum. They like wear what they want. It's

1164
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 4: usually something real weird or misfrizzly or whatever, but they

1165
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 4: wear it. They maybe they have like a scooter or

1166
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 4: a Vespa or something stupid. They like drive a FI

1167
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 4: out or something.

1168
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1169
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 4: Like they don't drive the cool thing or wear the

1170
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:27,879
Speaker 4: cool stuff or say the right.

1171
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 1: They just do.

1172
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 2: They just be.

1173
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to be important, yes, you just. I

1174
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: think we gotta get out of our own heads. And

1175
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 1: just like for me, if something makes me happy, I'm

1176
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 1: gonna do it. If something doesn't make me I mean,

1177
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: I've been saying this.

1178
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 4: For years now, but like you know, when you're old

1179
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 4: and gray, Yeah, right, in one hundred years and you.

1180
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 2: Sitting in your house thinking about your life, you're gonna

1181
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 2: be like your own house, which I can't get an

1182
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 2: apartment right now? You talking about house, a whole house.

1183
00:53:58,920 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 2: I have motherfucking trick.

1184
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: Friend.

1185
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 2: Do you know me Sidney in a hundred years the

1186
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 2: house in two years, I don't know. I don't know

1187
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 2: the way. The landlord's got their hard bottoms on my neck.

1188
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 4: You jump through hoops and I have an apartment and

1189
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 4: my checks are about wode.

1190
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 2: I must have pished you off, my friend, nod it

1191
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 2: did it. Oh. I posted this yesterday. This, this is

1192
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 2: this is all I was going through it.

1193
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: I was spirally happened last night because again, you know,

1194
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: I didn't want to talk about this, but you know,

1195
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: another apartment fell through situation and I'm like.

1196
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 2: Damn, I just can't.

1197
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: I just maybe this is a sign, like the universe

1198
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: is like, you're not read. Then I get on Instagram.

1199
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 1: There's this little bee and it's like bobbing around and

1200
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,360
Speaker 1: this woman is like, so I found this bee. It

1201
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 1: has like a you know, a fractured wig. It can't fly,

1202
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: and you know, I felt connected to this bee. So

1203
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 1: I started, wait like an act like a bumble like

1204
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 1: a bumboo bee. This is not an animation, sist, this

1205
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 1: is for real happening.

1206
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 2: The bee can't fly.

1207
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 1: The woman is like, you know what, let me build

1208
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 1: you a house. And it's a nice house. It's a

1209
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 1: two story house. It got chairs, it got windows.

1210
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 2: It's faus. Bees don't sit on chairs.

1211
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: Hey, this bee named Harriet, she was sitting her fat

1212
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 1: ass right, big ass.

1213
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 2: It was a big ass. It was a bumble bee.

1214
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 2: Not like that, you know what I mean? The bee

1215
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 2: had a two story Olivia cut that out. You know

1216
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:55,680
Speaker 2: was fast. No, it wasn't.

1217
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: It was bees be bee, it was thick. It was

1218
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: thick be let be it was thick bee. The bee

1219
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: had a b b L anyway, b bl b b

1220
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: L was terrible's texting us. Now, uh so the bee

1221
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: is in the house living his life. The bee got

1222
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: wi fi the the bee is living flowers, honey, and

1223
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 1: so she then the woman is like, I gotta bring

1224
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 1: awareness about this bee. And there's probably other bees that

1225
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 1: are you know, endangered or you know they're they can't

1226
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: they got pushed out of their colonies, so they're just

1227
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 1: like loose.

1228
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 2: She don't know why this bee got pushed out. Predator.

1229
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: Could be this bee was meet to in the other

1230
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: bees they kicked them out. The bee could be diddy.

1231
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: They could have had frequent and that that bees being funny.

1232
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 2: You have to stop. That's my bad. Yeah, the bee

1233
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 2: has a.

1234
00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: Messed up wing because the baby oil that was involved

1235
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:06,919
Speaker 1: exactly exactly take that out living in So she's she's

1236
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 1: literally building this awareness and foundation for it, you know, being.

1237
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 2: Sound rich and board very much. So I'm sitting there on.

1238
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: Fire, I said, really want this be a house to

1239
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: beat us, because bees don't live there three days, three

1240
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 1: days in days. He didn't even get to move into

1241
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 1: the house.

1242
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 2: I said, no, the bee was there to be spent

1243
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: like there were people in the comings. At least she

1244
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 2: spent her last days in at home, and I said,

1245
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 2: I deserved my last days in her apartment. What about me?

1246
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 1: Girl?

1247
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 2: First of all, I said, do I need to get

1248
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 2: on the doughdough? Do I need to act like a

1249
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 2: little bummer and just be like one moving around like girl,

1250
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 2: bumbling girl. All I need is a home. Where is

1251
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 2: the lady, the board lady with the b house. Where

1252
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,439
Speaker 2: does she live? Definitely not in New York.

1253
00:57:56,840 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 1: Well where it was four thousand commons, Marie, four thousand.

1254
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 2: People are pro b pro habby.

1255
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: Oh people will throw hands for bees. I don't know

1256
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: about that. We have to protect bees at all costs.

1257
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 2: All bees matter. Listen.

1258
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 4: Somebody un followed me on Instagram last week because I

1259
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 4: said there's a bee in my house.

1260
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 2: I need to kill it.

1261
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 4: She said, oh, we're killing bees? Unfollowed, She wrote you down, yeah,

1262
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 4: And then you know what I did.

1263
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,439
Speaker 2: I blocked her. Did you kill a bee? Marie? Yes?

1264
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 2: I cannot you.

1265
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 4: Associated well, in the comments, everybody was like Oh, actually

1266
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 4: that was a wasp.

1267
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 2: Does that make it better? It was a wasp, a

1268
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 2: big gass wasp in my house. So our wasp like

1269
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: the thugs of bees, Like what is a wasp?

1270
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 4: The wasps are the angry ones and the bees are

1271
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 4: the fuzzy ones.

1272
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: So bees are chilly and the wasp are like angry.

1273
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 1: They're like they're like from the bronx. Then they get

1274
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: ready to they're ready to rumble. They're from the violin

1275
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 1: from East New York.

1276
00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 2: No they're not. East New York is a nice place.

1277
00:58:58,720 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 2: That's where.

1278
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: No, it's can see some New York. It's meaning that

1279
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 1: this got an attitude. You know, was are there checks bouncing?

1280
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 2: Olivia? What can I get a bomb on that? But

1281
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 2: you know what what you just said? You you see

1282
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 2: how you're stung me? Like, yes, that was a wasp.

1283
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 2: Best comment was energy.

1284
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: Okay, I guess I'm a wasp, but I don't see

1285
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 1: no bumble bee over there?

1286
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 2: Whoa just be the same? Wow? Where have you been?

1287
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 2: I'm a hornet? Wait? Should we do some messages? Yea,

1288
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: yea yeah, let's do it. Let's do before we get

1289
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 2: out of here. Oh, we learned so much today.

1290
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: We did.

1291
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 2: We got through some things.

1292
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. So if you're listening to this, you know this

1293
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: is it's a new year, it's twenty twenty five. Yeah,

1294
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: you should just do whatever it is that you want

1295
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: to do.

1296
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 2: Do it today. Unblock your ex, waste his time, tell

1297
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 2: him why leave him? Is that what it's giving? Listen,

1298
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 2: if I'm being honest with you about what I'm doing,

1299
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 2: there's no surprises. I'm in it out. Yeah.

1300
00:59:57,520 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: But that's also that's also a scary thing, is like,

1301
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: I think it's weird when you tell somebody how you

1302
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:07,040
Speaker 1: feel and what you do and they still go through

1303
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 1: with whatever.

1304
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's okay I want to.

1305
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 1: Do Yeah, but that's confirmation that you're awesome and the

1306
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: way that the delusion that you live can you spread that?

1307
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 2: Spread that honey on me?

1308
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: Every week every Tuesday, I come here and a Lulu

1309
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 1: the gospel of you know, be all that you can be,

1310
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 1: or be try you can't be.

1311
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 2: That might be the title. Friend. I'm not mad at that,

1312
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 2: thank you so much. But I do this all the time. Yeah,

1313
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 2: and you know why I'm allowed to be delusional. I'm

1314
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 2: not in my head. Are you ready?

1315
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 3: Are you ready for the messages?

1316
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 2: Thank you guys.

1317
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 3: You guys are doing so well with the messages. We're

1318
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 3: really proud of you.

1319
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 1: You're working very hard, you're spilling, you're opening, you're being transparent,

1320
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 1: and uh.

1321
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 2: You're making them long but short, long but short.

1322
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: We're getting to the point you're setting the scene and

1323
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 1: we're getting in and we're getting out, and we appreciate that.

1324
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: So this one is a family mess to share. Hi,

1325
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: Sidney Marie. First of all, I just want to say

1326
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of mess and oh thank you.

1327
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: I've been binging your episodes and thought who better to

1328
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: turn to with my family mess than you two.

1329
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 2: Our hearts so open for you. Here's the situation for context.

1330
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 2: We are African.

1331
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: I have an older brother who's irresponsible, ats and delusional

1332
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: at worst. He has a family of seven and has

1333
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 1: never held down a steady job.

1334
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 2: WHOA way is your brother? Whoa But also it checks.

1335
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: Out yes, his wife is the breadwinner and works tirelessly

1336
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: to provide while he bounces from one poorly planned entrepreneurial

1337
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 1: venture to the next.

1338
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 2: Damn, you ain't here for your brothers.

1339
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, I've been grinding since college, working hard, and that's

1340
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 1: usually how it is.

1341
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 2: For the ladies, building my career and securing my future.

1342
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:57,439
Speaker 1: I'm in the C suite now and I've made wise

1343
01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: decisions with money, and now my family reaps the benefits travel,

1344
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: best schools for my kids, and solid investments. I've done

1345
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: the work and I'm proud of where I am. Okay, Okay, period, dude, listen,

1346
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 1: boost yourself up.

1347
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 2: You deserve Okay. Here's where the mess comes in.

1348
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: A few years ago, a family friend offered our family,

1349
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 1: not just me, an amazing deal on a house from

1350
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 1: a recently deceased relative.

1351
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 2: We already know how this is about to go.

1352
01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 1: I was the only one in the family with the

1353
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 1: right debt to income ratio, credit and financial standing, so

1354
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: everyone convinced me to buy it. Real estate is always

1355
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: a good investment, right girl. Well, the investment turned into

1356
01:02:37,960 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: my brother and his family moving in because of course

1357
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 1: they had nowhere else to go.

1358
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 2: Damn Gina. But I thought the wife was a breadwinner.

1359
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 2: She must not be winning enough breathin, No, she's winning

1360
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 2: the bread.

1361
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: But you know, the brother probably convinced, like, why do

1362
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 1: we need to get another house?

1363
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 2: We already got one in a family.

1364
01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So he swore he'd get a stable job and

1365
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 1: pay rent. But you already know how that turned out.

1366
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 1: His wife is breaking her back trying to cover their expenses,

1367
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 1: and now it's become too much for them to even

1368
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 1: pay me the rent consistently. Some months I don't even

1369
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 1: get anything. Other months I get rent in pieces over

1370
01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: the course of months. Ooh, it's given. Klarma, Honey, you

1371
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 1: get mad enough. I told them it's time to sell

1372
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:22,040
Speaker 1: the house so I can get out of this mess

1373
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:22,919
Speaker 1: and cut my ties.

1374
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 2: Now the whole family's mad at me.

1375
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 1: They're acting like I'm the villain here, and I'm tired

1376
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: of enabling his irresponsibility. Am I the asshole for wanting

1377
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: to sell? Or is my brother the real problem here?

1378
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: Would love your thoughts, love y'all. Ooh, girl, you are

1379
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: beautiful with this.

1380
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 2: Thank you. This is guys, if you ever want to

1381
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 2: know how to write us something this It had details,

1382
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 2: it had twists. She was dragging. She boosted herself. Thank you, Marie.

1383
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 2: What's your thoughts.

1384
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 4: I think in a lot of families that have a

1385
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 4: girl and a boy, the sons usually get babied, so

1386
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 4: I'm not surprised that they're.

1387
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 2: Like, you should support your brother. I don't want to.

1388
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 4: Support him and his seven kids or I mean five

1389
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 4: kids and his wife. But yeah, I think that it's

1390
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 4: kind of easy to jump into a situation and be like,

1391
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:13,360
Speaker 4: this is family.

1392
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 2: You'll get the money when I got it. No, I

1393
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 2: want it now.

1394
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. I hate saying this on the record, but I

1395
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 1: don't f for my family like that. You can you,

1396
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: even though we blood and stuff. Like, I pick the

1397
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 1: people on one in my life, which sometimes sucks because

1398
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 1: now I feel like I'm just leaning on this chosen

1399
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 1: family of mine. But no, you don't get to just

1400
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 1: be related to me and then all of a sudden

1401
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: have all these demands or tell me what I'm supposed

1402
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:44,240
Speaker 1: to do.

1403
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 3: It's not happening. I work too hard.

1404
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 4: I spent money to buy this house, and I don't

1405
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 4: know nothing about home ownership.

1406
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 2: Maybe you maybe, yeah, we don't. I don't. Somebody don't Olivia.

1407
01:04:55,760 --> 01:05:01,440
Speaker 1: Get an apartment baby, apartment ownership, okay, apartment rentorship.

1408
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 4: I don't know how homeowning works, but like, after you

1409
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 4: buy it, you still gotta pay taxes.

1410
01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 2: The mortgage.

1411
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: I think it's like mortgage, like you put money down

1412
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 1: and then the mortgage is to like maintenance.

1413
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 2: Som housing y'all. Yes, no, yes, you gotta go, You

1414
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 2: gotta go.

1415
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 3: But what about the kids?

1416
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 2: Did I give birth to them? What about the kids?

1417
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 4: The kids need to know their dad is a bum

1418
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 4: and therefore they will grow up to not be bumps.

1419
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 2: Don't enable the baby. You've come from a long line

1420
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 2: of bums. Baby, My grandfather was a bum my grandfather's

1421
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 2: father was a bum my father father.

1422
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, no the buma bees no, yeah, yes, girl,

1423
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 1: don't feel I know it's a lot. I'm sure it's stressful,

1424
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:52,560
Speaker 1: and I know that the family is putting pressure on

1425
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 1: you and making you feel bad.

1426
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 4: Tell the family what how much he owes you, and

1427
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 4: tell them to either as settle the balance or the

1428
01:05:58,800 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 4: house gotta go.

1429
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta find this money. Like any landlord, you

1430
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 1: gotta find this money. And if you ain't got it,

1431
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: we gotta we gotta get other tenants in here, or

1432
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 1: we gotta sell it.

1433
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 4: It's not even that she says she's ready to sell it.

1434
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 4: She don't even want the responsibility of being a homeowner.

1435
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 2: It's a lot.

1436
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: And I have friends who have home We have friends

1437
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: that have homes and they're like, baby, you that's why

1438
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 1: they're working so hard because it's not like you just

1439
01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 1: buy a home and then you don't have to worry anymore.

1440
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:24,880
Speaker 3: There's so much money that goes into maintaining a house.

1441
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,640
Speaker 4: So like, you know, I think Beyonce and jay Z

1442
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 4: bought a house for like seventy four million dollars or

1443
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 4: something like that. After you pay that seventy four million dollars,

1444
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 4: you still got to pay money, Like I can't just

1445
01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 4: I'm not done.

1446
01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 1: Well, maybe with them, because they have the actual money,

1447
01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 1: they probably paid it off, but you still have to

1448
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 1: maintain it. Doesn't You don't just buy a home and

1449
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 1: just let it go right like Swiss beats, Gahan nails done.

1450
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 4: You gotta get it wag, Yeah, to trim the hedges

1451
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 4: and work hyaluronic acid on the outside.

1452
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:53,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a.

1453
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: Lot of work that goes into it. So maybe they

1454
01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 1: just were able to pay it cash and then move

1455
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 1: from there. But a lot of people they getting them loans.

1456
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 1: They're paying a certain amount and then they have to

1457
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 1: pay you know, four thousand, eight thousand dollars a month.

1458
01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:15,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, sister, release yourself. Yeah, relinquish the shackles of

1459
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 1: family and be free. Hey, come up there like a boss.

1460
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 1: And be like, look your landlord, Hey, you're check bounced.

1461
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 1: She actually did it over the phone, yes, she said,

1462
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 1: and then she buried the lead. She didn't start with

1463
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: the check bounce. She was like, yeah, the guy is

1464
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 1: gonna come for the boiler today.

1465
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 4: Another thing because you are trying to wrap her up,

1466
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 4: are trying to get off the phone, and she sprung

1467
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 4: it on me that she lied.

1468
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 2: I need to see it. That should check that bounced.

1469
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 4: But uh yeah, or tell your family this is how

1470
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 4: much the house costs. If you want to buy it

1471
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:47,440
Speaker 4: off me, you can have it and he can stay there.

1472
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel that. Oh yuck. This was beautiful.

1473
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: Thank you friend, another successful messy episode.

1474
01:07:56,560 --> 01:07:57,200
Speaker 2: Oh are we done?

1475
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 3: Yes, we're done.

1476
01:07:58,360 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 2: Oh but I just want to read this one right

1477
01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 2: here real quick.

1478
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 1: You want to Okay, oh my god, there's a picture

1479
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 1: of me in this mess Yeah, okay, get to it, getting.

1480
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 4: Divorced but never married. High ladies, Huge you Chogs fan,

1481
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 4: So happy you're back online. I'm a thirty five year

1482
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 4: old African American woman living in Chicago working as a professional.

1483
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 2: Recently bought a house. Okay, two people, boy house, you're

1484
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 2: laughed that that's our demographic home owner.

1485
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:25,519
Speaker 4: As home owners, then quickly got pregnant with my then

1486
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 4: Caucasian male partner of nine years.

1487
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 2: I already feel I already feel bad about this. Yeah,

1488
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 2: let's call him Jim.

1489
01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 4: Jim and I found out we were having twin girls.

1490
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 4: I was so terrified and excited to meet my new babies.

1491
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:41,439
Speaker 4: I ignored how much he was drinking and gaslighting me.

1492
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:44,800
Speaker 4: Fast forward nine months. His violence, rage, drinking, and gas

1493
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:47,599
Speaker 4: lighting never changed. He would often threaten to kill himself

1494
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 4: when I told him he could leave or I would leave.

1495
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 4: After years of his abuse, I had enough. I decided

1496
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 4: to file a restraining order. Thank god, I guess them

1497
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 4: to protect myself and my babies. He and I are

1498
01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 4: currently in court, and I'm losing my mind with dress.

1499
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,560
Speaker 4: But I feel so much more at peace in my

1500
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 4: own house.

1501
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:07,760
Speaker 1: I can breathe easier and feel my emotions which were

1502
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 1: fogged by my overactive nervous system. He's been trying to

1503
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:14,560
Speaker 1: gaslight me through his family and his attorney. Okay, he

1504
01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:17,400
Speaker 1: got attorney money because he isn't allowed to talk to me.

1505
01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:20,200
Speaker 1: We haven't spoken in four months. Best thing I've ever done.

1506
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 1: Should I continue?

1507
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:24,559
Speaker 4: Only asking for half of the child calls or should

1508
01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 4: I ask for half my mortgage too? Miss attached photo

1509
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 4: of me and my babies, me and my ex, and

1510
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:34,400
Speaker 4: me and Marie in Brooklyn in twenty twenty two. Oh

1511
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 4: I fairly, yeah, girl, Uh ask for everything, take it all,

1512
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:41,640
Speaker 4: take all of it, and if you feel like you

1513
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 4: can get it, ask If you don't feel you can

1514
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 4: get it, you know, keep what you got and leave

1515
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:46,240
Speaker 4: him far far away from you.

1516
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 2: That's all you know. This is, this is unpopular.

1517
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:54,639
Speaker 1: Take whatever, but I hate these like emotionally physically abusive

1518
01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 1: and it's like, I'm gonna kill myself.

1519
01:09:56,280 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 2: Okay, bye, okay later, don't put the me.

1520
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 1: Like writch a little note and do what you need

1521
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 1: to do, but don't threaten me with a good time. No,

1522
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 1: I'm kidding that was that was messed up. But I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying, like I hear girls talk about this all

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Speaker 1: the time, like the the their boyfriends are excess with

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Speaker 1: spiral and say I'm gonna get my It's like, that's

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Speaker 1: not like a throwaway line. That sucks, like to have

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Speaker 1: that on your back, to have that. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be with anybody that is going to

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Speaker 1: die without me. Oh is that so Romeo and Juliet,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be with you if you're like

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Speaker 1: you're the reason why I breathe and I live, and

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Speaker 1: if you leave me, I will die. Well, I guess

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Speaker 1: you're gonna die because we have respectfully respectful, because I'm

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Speaker 1: not I don't want to be here. So you saying

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Speaker 1: that if I leave, you gonna die, then I guess

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Speaker 1: you're gonna you're gonna die.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, it bes like that. Sometimes it bees like that.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes that's another title. You've been on the roll. And

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Give me your hands, give me your hand.

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Speaker 2: You do such great work for us. Thank you. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what I would do without you. Will read

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Speaker 2: I be with you, Okay, listen, thank you for listening.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for that. S Sevenday. Let's add Sydney's apartment

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Speaker 2: back to the brown of my son girl this time,

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Speaker 2: this time next year, we're gonna be like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: it's a duplex full of bees. Shut up, bye, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Mess with Sidney Washington and Marie Foston is a production

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Speaker 1: and hosted by Sidney Washington and Marie Foston.

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