1 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 1: Mom've never told you production of I Heart Radio. So 3 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: I don't have a question for you today because we 4 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: have a lot to talk about and we're going to 5 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: be sharing our opinions throughout. Yes, because you and I 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: come from different angles when we're talking about the nineties 7 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 1: and the treatment of women in our pop culture during 8 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: the nineties, and that has been a topic of conversation lately, 9 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 1: whether it is Britney Spears or Monica Lewinsky. So we 10 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: wanted to briefly go over some of that, and yeah, 11 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,919 Speaker 1: I discuss kind of our own thoughts and feelings as 12 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: that was unfolding, right And when it comes to women 13 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: and feminism, the nineties was a decade full of contradictions, 14 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: and yes, I remember feeling contradicted myself trying to be 15 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: an independent women but then being from the South and 16 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: trying to please my misogynistic family of trying to find 17 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: a nice way of saying this. You had movies and 18 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: shows and we've talked about in the past like Buffy 19 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: the Craft, Practical Magic girl groups like Spice Girls, which 20 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: yes I did own that album. Women in general were 21 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: delay marriage and children for higher education or careers, and 22 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: more and more women entered politics and was quote the 23 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: Year of Women, although there's a lot of back and 24 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: forth about the veracity of that, so just to keep 25 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: in mind, basically the Senate went from two women to 26 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: six women, which the best, it's better, but still, Yeah, 27 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: I learned what I was researching this that there's a 28 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: term called the Scully effect on recruiting women for stem 29 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: still because of how much of an impact for that 30 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: character from The X Files had And I loved it. 31 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: I loved the mm hmm. But at the same time, 32 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: we have example after example of women and young girls 33 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: being sexualized and punished, absolutely ripped apart by the media, cruel, 34 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: cruelly and easily often mocked in late night shows for example. 35 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: A part of this was fueled by the emerging twenty 36 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,959 Speaker 1: four our cable news cycle that yet did debut in 37 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: the early nineties. This was a space to rip apart 38 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: women who were rising to power or attempting to claim 39 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: space for daring to be visible. And yeah, now it 40 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: can be translated into social media doing that to our 41 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: young girls today and it's really sad to see. But 42 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: we are going to go over some brief examples of 43 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: the nineties because it's so fresh in our mind with 44 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: everything that's kind of reoccurring or being rediscussed, I guess, 45 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: and obviously there's so many examples we could have talked about, 46 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: and these are not bios and disclaimer, we're not necessarily 47 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: saying that these women were completely blameless. We're more focusing 48 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,559 Speaker 1: on the media's toxic treatment of them and our interpretation 49 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: of that. So let's get started with, of course, for 50 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: my generation, Monica Lewinsky, and yeah, super brief, because probably 51 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: most of you are familiar with this. It has been 52 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: talked about a lot recently. In Lewinsky started as an 53 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: intern at the U. S. White House. According to her, 54 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: from nine she and then President Clinton engaged in nine 55 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: sexual encounters, including filatio, which resulted in his impeachment. Clinton 56 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: repeatedly denied the allegations. People that worked with them had 57 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: observed that they spent a lot of time together. A 58 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: coworker of Lewinsky's, Linda Trip, started recording conversations with Lewinsky 59 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: when she was confessing sort of what was going on. 60 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: Lewinsky's sexual history became public knowledge, and the prosecutor obtained 61 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: the infamous blue dress that had Clinton's semen on it, 62 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: and eventually Clinton did admit that he had quote an 63 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: inappropriate relationship with her, but he maintained that oral sex 64 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:01,119 Speaker 1: was not quote sex necessarily and these acts were performed 65 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: on him but not by him. I'm so enraged I 66 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: wanted even though I knew all of this, I still 67 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: want to flip the table with that excuse. So Lewhisky 68 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: was majorly intensely harassed and mocked by the media after this, 69 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: which was called the Lewinsky scandal or the Lewinsky affair, 70 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: which is completely stupid that she has no authority in 71 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: this relationship, but let's not forget the power balance. Yeah, 72 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 1: and the age difference here. She was in her early 73 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: twenties and the blame was placed completely on her. And 74 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: this story exemplifies the blaming maggie and dismissing of women 75 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: that was rampant during the nineties. Monica Lewinsky was a 76 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: nineties punchline. She was called it does and and slush shamed. 77 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: She herself has talked about how many times her name 78 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: pops up in rap songs synonymous with something she'd rather 79 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: not be known for. And yeah, don't blame her and 80 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: the last thing impact that has had on her personal 81 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: and professional life, and how this time she didn't want 82 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: him to resign because she didn't want to be responsible 83 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: for it, and the guilt he talked about the guilt 84 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: that she had. She came onto public TV to apologize 85 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: yeah to him. Yeah, yeah, those are her where she 86 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: said she did not want to be responsible for it. 87 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: Those are her words. That's how she felt when she 88 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: was young. In she sort of re emerged as an 89 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: outspoken activist against cyber bulling, calling herself Patient zero for 90 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: online cyber bulling. And comedians yeah, like David Letterman and 91 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: Bill Maher both said that they felt guilty about jokes 92 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: they told it her expense, um And now people are 93 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: currently trying to rebrand this whole event as the Clinton affair. 94 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: So in terms of what I remember, because I was 95 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: probably like what eight, I didn't know what a blowjob was, 96 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: I didn't know what they were talking about. All I 97 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: knew was there basically were saying this woman messed up politics. 98 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: I felt I feel like she it was causing a 99 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 1: scene and messed up. This was my interpretation as a 100 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: young person. She'd like really drawn attention to herself and 101 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: was messing up our government had done something embarrassing that 102 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: we shouldn't talk about. And I remember people making fun 103 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: of her all the time because I did. I've, like 104 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: from a young age, watched late night shows, so I 105 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 1: didn't get the jokes, but I knew they were making jokes. 106 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: And I will say, when I was in Europe for 107 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: the second time, so like maybe eighteen, there was a 108 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 1: drink at a bar I could get that was called 109 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: the Monica Lewinsky, and you got on your knees to 110 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: drink I don't remember what, like they shook it and 111 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: exploded in your face. So this was like in Europe. 112 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: That's how far and wide this story captured people's attention, right, 113 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: And there's so many connotations to that because I remember 114 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 1: I was seventeen, so obviously I was a teenager trying 115 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: to figure out sexuality. Of course, was high mighty in 116 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: my religious fervor of like, oh, virginity is a real thing, 117 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be virginil on Mary. Like this whole 118 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: narrative that had me believe this is what a woman's 119 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: value was that and she was the epitome of the 120 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: dark side because for some reason, we all had to 121 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: blame her. She was the reason for the a failure 122 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: of this man, be the failure of their marriage, and 123 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: see the doubtful of young women altogether. So this whole 124 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: narrative became this cautionary tell for the rest of us, 125 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: meaning young women who try not to be tempting, don't tipman. 126 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: This is what happens when you tipman. And people bought it. 127 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: Like she came out as a cool person. He came 128 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: even till this day in those rap songs. He is 129 00:07:54,680 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: the hero of this. And it's beyond discussing because when 130 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: we look at what has happened, we completely take away 131 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: the whole level of responsibility that he had as a 132 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: commander in chief, as the older man, as her boss 133 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: in all of this, and the fact that there's a 134 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: reason why young girls fall into I don't know if 135 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: I have a choice, and then also are victim blamed 136 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: and take on that blame. And I love seeing what 137 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: she is doing now because she's a powerhouse and it's 138 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: kind of having to take everything as a joke but 139 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: at the same time calling things out and I respect that, 140 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 1: but yeah, I definitely didn't respect her at the time. 141 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: She was a punch line. I remember the SNL sketch 142 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: where John Goodman plays Linda Trip, you know, and like, 143 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 1: of course, like that's a whole big conversation. How this 144 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 1: woman who for whatever reason was involved, but she was 145 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: also to blame instead of being on the person, is 146 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: that she didn't really herself. And yet we still and 147 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: we still call her a golden digger. Essentially, they called 148 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: her as if she was trying to, you know, work 149 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: her way up and this is what women do, and 150 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 1: this is where we see this narrative. And and again 151 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: we talked about in the nineties how we saw the 152 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 1: Crazy Bitch troupe and she was a part of that narrative. 153 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and so it was Linda Trip. Yeah. And 154 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: when I was reading today just headlines from that time, 155 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: it was it was I'm I'm both shocked and not 156 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: shocked at how easily even really well known and respected 157 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: institutions were like calling her fat, calling her slot or 158 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: just like all of this stuff, when again, she was 159 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: a twenty or year old and you're blaming her, right, 160 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely fell into that trap. I absolutely 161 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: agreed with all that thought the jokes were funny. I 162 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: didn't think about it until later made the Lewinsky jokes. 163 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: I'm sure, even though I was still kind of too 164 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: young to quite understand, but I knew what, you know, 165 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: blow jobs were, and that was to me at that 166 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: point in time, not realizing what those connotations, and that 167 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: the blacklash was that was the main women and of 168 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:24,439 Speaker 1: course she would be the one to do that, and 169 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: if you're giving a man a blow job, that meant 170 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: that you were the desperate hussy. Like there was this 171 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: whole like level of submission in the way they played 172 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: in that narrative, and that's how I saw that oral 173 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: sites like that meant that the man was in power 174 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: and he was using it against you, and it was 175 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: just that's a whole lot of the conversation. We can 176 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: talk about how that got to be such a twisted 177 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: thing of power and submission, and yet we celebrated that 178 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: for him. Yeah, instead of seeing the disgusting like layers 179 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: to that. Yeah, well, I think that's what I find 180 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 1: one of the most upsetting things about this to this 181 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: day is that it's almost seen as like a good 182 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: on you, old dude, You got this younger girl and 183 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 1: that's what men do, and that's cool, And yeah, he 184 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: really didn't face. I mean, she like basically went in 185 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 1: hiding when her whole life was defined by this thing. 186 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 1: And and for her it's like, oh, you slut, And 187 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: for him it's like a good job, bro right. And 188 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 1: the fact that, I mean he's still seen us. Sure 189 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: he did some good things, he did some bad things, 190 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: and we can't ignore one of those things, but he's 191 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: still kind of held as a hero of our country. 192 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: I just I just can't. There's no to that. Speaking. 193 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: Let's talk about Britney's Oh my gosh and and Spears 194 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: got her start in the Mickey Mouse Club, if you 195 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: don't know this in the nineties, as she signed a 196 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: record deal in nine when she was fifteen hit me 197 00:11:57,480 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: Maybe One More Time, which one of favors obviously, which 198 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 1: has the music video where she is dressed as a 199 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: sexy schoolgirl. In ninety eight. Oh yeah, that was a 200 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: big deal and it made like it made a huge splash, 201 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: to the point that it is still replicated in other 202 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: videos today. She was called the Princess. The pop went 203 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: on to sell millions of albums. Maybe One More Time 204 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 1: and oops, I did again, which I did have a rendition, 205 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: but I'm not going to do it again are some 206 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: of the best selling albums of all times, and she's 207 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 1: one of the most successful teenage pop stars of all time. 208 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: And she changed the landscape of pop music and the 209 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: media frenzy around her and the sexualization of her was intense. 210 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: I remember this really well. I was in middle school 211 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: and all this was going down, and like, you couldn't 212 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: for listeners who are younger are just missed it for 213 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: some some reason. You couldn't escape like I would be 214 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 1: reading a science article about farting, no joke mentioned Britney 215 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: spears or like, just like she would come up all 216 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: the time, and there was this narrative that she was 217 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: ruining young girls. Her music was often called worthless, manufactured, 218 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,839 Speaker 1: or fake. A Rolling Stones review of hit Me Baby 219 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: called her a quote jail bait dynamo and she could 220 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: not win. She was either too sexy or not sexy enough. 221 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: She was an airhead, but she should stay quiet. Religious 222 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: groups called for people to boycott her music. When she 223 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,199 Speaker 1: said she was planning on being asked in it until 224 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: she was married, she was laughed at. She publicly expressed 225 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: frustration about being compared to bubblegum pop. Her relationships were scrutinized. 226 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: Her relationship with Justin Timberlake was the source of endless 227 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 1: media coverage, and in two thousand seven eight she struggled 228 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: with drugs and mental health and she was widely mocked 229 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: for that. I remember that too. I remember jokes about 230 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: how fat she was, about how her agent was trying 231 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 1: to keep her away from the buffet and she shaved 232 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: her head. People are making jokes about that, and I 233 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: will say I did do a recent rewatch of Seinfeld 234 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: during this pandemic, and Jee's calling women fat, who are 235 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: so freaking beIN? It's wild? Like this is I remember 236 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: that in frience too, because I watched Friends when it 237 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: was on TV. I haven't watched it since, but I remember, 238 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: like the ad for them was three interrexic chicks, Like, yeah, 239 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: I was so confused with Monica Lewinsky as well as 240 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: Britney Spears when they were calling her fat, and even 241 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: Jessica Simpson was part of that. I are like continually 242 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: being called fat and I looked at them like they're 243 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: size six seven, How how are they fat? This doesn't 244 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: make any sense to me. And as a thick girl 245 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 1: growing up, the self consciousness of like if they're fat, 246 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm morbidly obese, like I beyond and having to deal 247 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: with that type of scrutiny from Afar and what that 248 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: meant for me because these are huge stars. Yeah, and 249 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: with the documentary and the Free Britney movement, the whole 250 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: leave Britney Alone thing, which by the way, changed that 251 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: person's life because they were adamantly trying to advocate for 252 00:14:54,960 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: Britney spears. And now there's Seena's uh, they were right, Yeah, 253 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: they're right, we should we should listen to them, and 254 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: her treatment in the media is being reassessed. And actually 255 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: she's kind of started this whole conversation because of this 256 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 1: documentary about what we did and what we do two 257 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: young stars like that, and how this level of scrutiny 258 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: is placed solely on them to the detriment of their 259 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: health and lives. And yeah, she's become a huge icon 260 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: because of this. By the way, apparently she said that 261 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: she couldn't watch all of it, and when she started 262 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: watching it, she only could. Things she could do was 263 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: cry because she hated it. She at which is surprising 264 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: and not surprising because you don't want to be seen 265 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: vulnerable a b I'm sure she doesn't want to revisit 266 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: all the awful things that happened to her trying to 267 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: get her life back together. And of course the Free 268 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: Brittany movement has everything to do with the conservativeship that 269 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: has happened and the debate back and forth about who 270 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 1: can control her money, which is such a weird thing 271 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: is I've never seen that, And then they talk about 272 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: this in a documentary on a young person and a 273 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: young person's career outside of parents with underage children and 274 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: or people who are older and become senile due to 275 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: age or whatnot, those are the only times you've actually 276 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: ever seen that play out. So this seems very suspicious. 277 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: I don't have an opinion because I can't say too much, 278 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: but yeah, there's a lot of questions I remember going through, 279 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: like they're allowed to do what that's weird. And then 280 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: they talk a lot about the fact of her being 281 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: so ostracized in her life because of the constant scrutiny 282 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: for being a woman growing up in the spotlight, and 283 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: it's so hard and you see it repeatedly, but they 284 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: didn't go to that as deep of scrutiny like the 285 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: Jonas brothers. They kind of came from that same line 286 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: of we're good boys, we're gonna stay abstinent, all these things, 287 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: but they never went through the hell that Britney Spears did. 288 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: And it's interesting to say, and I was right there. 289 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: Any I don't know about you about making fun of 290 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: her like I because I think I came from that 291 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: generation of being tired of being branded as not as 292 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: cool or you know, like I was coming into an 293 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: age where you know, Nirvana and all of that was cool, 294 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: and so you can't beat pop if you're going to 295 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 1: be grunge. Yeah, so if you liked one, you have 296 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: to hate the other. Right, The spice girls don't ask well. 297 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 1: I I know I've spoken about my relationship with my 298 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 1: siblings before on here, but it wasn't always the best. 299 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: And I remember when Britney Spears was like blowing up 300 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:43,719 Speaker 1: and that just like she's bad for girls and this 301 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: whole sexualized thing and keep it It felt like such 302 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 1: a like not anything to do in Britney Spears. And 303 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: I legitimately had her music, but I would rename it 304 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 1: on my computer so my brothers didn't know I had it. 305 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 1: That's how embarrassed I was and how ashamed I felt 306 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: of liking this music that, yes, I had been told 307 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: was bad and fake and superficial and worthless. But she 308 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: was huge. I mean she she legitimately left an impact 309 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: on our music. She now iconic. She has made a 310 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: point that she is still bringing them money for her 311 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: content and whether it's a documentary that wasn't even done 312 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 1: by her, was working money. Her Las Vegas shows were huge. 313 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. But yeah, I feel bad because I definitely 314 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: was one that hated on her because she was the 315 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: downfall in my mind of the good girl and she 316 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 1: was just like everybody all the Hollywood things, not understanding 317 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 1: how toxic that whole mindset was, of course, and I 318 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:53,880 Speaker 1: fed into that, and I came out with really negative 319 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 1: views about sex in my body because I fed into that. 320 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, I was definitely part of the problem when 321 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: it came to using Whitney spears as an excuse for 322 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: what's wrong with the world. Yeah, And I think it's 323 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 1: good to keep in the back of our heads here 324 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: that age period of like fifteen and becoming a woman 325 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,919 Speaker 1: in heavy quotes, that's a tough time to do that 326 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: in front of everyone, where everyone has an opinion. I 327 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: can't imagine but then being young and watching that, you're thinking, oh, well, 328 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 1: that's what people are going to think of me if I, 329 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: you know, dress more risque or you know all these things, 330 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: and you do internalize that stuff. So there's not good things. 331 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 1: They're Yeah, and I think you and I have talked 332 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 1: a lot about this, and we we decided to do 333 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 1: a Monday Money because it's been covered and it's being 334 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 1: covered by so many already, but just having a revelation 335 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 1: in ourselves of like, wow, this is what we're talking 336 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,959 Speaker 1: about about the patriarchy and how it really damages individual 337 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: in societies. And what we're looking at is just a 338 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: small sample of a large, famous figure. So when we 339 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,640 Speaker 1: talk about how that trickles into everyday life for young 340 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 1: girls and what that looked like for us and then 341 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: seeing it play out, it's still it hasn't gone away. 342 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: Now at least we have more people being held accountable, 343 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 1: which some people again want to call it a cancel culture. 344 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 1: Let's just throw that out there once again. Jay Leno 345 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 1: making an apology. We know that John Oliver made an 346 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: apology about Monica Lewinski, Like those things are great, our 347 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: new ways step up and and that taking responsibility is 348 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 1: great and we want to see it, but we also 349 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 1: have to take responsibility and understanding that it needs to 350 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: be called out and it needs to be changed. But 351 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 1: holy crap, there's such a level of intense need to 352 00:20:56,320 --> 00:21:00,640 Speaker 1: fill this patriarchal side of our society that it's hard 353 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 1: to let go for them, and they want to call 354 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: it silencing. Right, Yeah, And so obviously this didn't go 355 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: away in the nineties, and we wanted to very briefly 356 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:17,360 Speaker 1: talk about Janet Jackson because just yesterday and we're recording 357 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 1: this April, this news came out that the whole as 358 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: I'm sure you know, in two thousand four, at the 359 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,880 Speaker 1: Super Bowl, just from Timberlake grabbed at Janet Jackson's costume, 360 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 1: resulting in the so called what he called wardrobe malfunction, 361 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: exposing Jackson's rest to forty million people. Again, this isn't 362 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 1: a bio episode, but Janet Jackson is a huge figure, 363 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: and right, I would love to come back and talk 364 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 1: about it in another episode. But apparently, like just now, 365 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 1: the stylist of Janet Jackson said that Timberlake pressured for 366 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 1: such a malfunction so that he could one up Britney Spears. 367 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: Christina aguilera I'm a Donna who made this big news 368 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: at the MTV Music awar Video Awards after it kissed 369 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: a few months earlier. And it is another example of 370 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: like that's kind of bleed over from the nineties of 371 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:17,679 Speaker 1: this justin Timberlake Britney Spears thing, but also yeah, like 372 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: a man using a woman's body against her will while 373 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: asking and then pretty much getting away with it while 374 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 1: she suffered from like blacklisting. She was disinvited from the Grammys, 375 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: but she still performed uf yes exactly yeah, exactly right, 376 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: and that was the whole big thing. And and we 377 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,680 Speaker 1: know that timber Lake actually came out with an apology, 378 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 1: and it's kind of one of those things, like it's 379 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 1: kind of too little, too late. We see situations where 380 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: women are constantly called out for using their life. Taylor 381 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 1: Swift prime example, how she writes about the people that 382 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: she may know and people really just gave are a 383 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: lot of crap about that. Timberlake did that before her 384 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 1: and one Awards won so many awards that he continued 385 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 1: to make the same songs about the same person even 386 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 1: though he'd gone through fifteen different relationships. Exaggeration after the fact, 387 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 1: but no one called him out on it until recently, Yeah, 388 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: and it seems like he may still wide I know. 389 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: And that's the thing I think thinking about these women 390 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 1: for me, because you and I have we been expressing 391 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,360 Speaker 1: our opinions. We did have this sort of the this 392 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: media fed opinion where we were like judging these women 393 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: and it was the l Whimsky scandal and not the 394 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 1: Clinton affair, Like we were painting the story in this 395 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: way that they were bad because they god forbid, they 396 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 1: were sexual, or just a woman that exists in the 397 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:52,679 Speaker 1: public and did something that people don't approve of. But 398 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 1: now that we're rethinking about it, it's like, really, right, 399 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: these men have gotten away pretty scott free for something 400 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 1: that I would argue in many cases is largely on them, right, 401 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 1: as well as the fact that they make a lot 402 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: of them, whether it's just making jokes at their people's 403 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: expenses or making money off of the mistakes they made 404 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: money off of them, They profiteered off of someone else's misery, 405 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: and and just the level of demise, and it's just 406 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 1: this whole level of grossness. And the fact is I 407 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: fell for it and believed to be true because of 408 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: course the woman's fault. That's why all of these things, 409 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: the ruin of everything is because of a woman. And 410 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 1: I have to be very very careful a to not 411 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: dress that way, not talk that way, not think that way, 412 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: not be that way, and to protect a man yea 413 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: in whatever way possible, because that's apparently my duty. And 414 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: if something goes wrong and Amanda something bad, it is 415 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:55,679 Speaker 1: my fault. And I believe that, Yeah, yeah, we were 416 00:24:55,720 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 1: told that, we were fed that narrative, and just it's 417 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: still there. Obviously, like the nineties weren't like cuts then, girl, 418 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 1: and I feel like social media has made it worse, 419 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 1: and now it's just also a little more balanced of 420 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 1: calling people out and people don't like it. So we've 421 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 1: got to scream cancel culture exactly exactly. Obviously, we have 422 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 1: a lot of thoughts about this, brig. I did do 423 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: a whole episode on the Janet checks and thing if 424 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: you want to hear more on that, because it's really infuriating. 425 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: And I do think like, originally we have Lindsay Lohan 426 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 1: in here, and I feel that if you look at 427 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: that sort of disneified space of women who start a 428 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 1: young girls who start in this very wholesome family environments. 429 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,880 Speaker 1: If you're talking about like Lindsay Lohan, Amanda Binds, Miley Sarah's, 430 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 1: even Britney Spears. I was thinking maybe the wholeson twins 431 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: and then they reach out, they Hillary Duff explore their sexuality, 432 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 1: and the media tears them apart. We all tear them apart, right, well, 433 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: most of us do. We get We get fed into 434 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: it and it's very upsetting. And I read a lot 435 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: of articles comparing like, well, imagine, if you imagine this 436 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: mail actor who did very much the same thing, did 437 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: nothing really happened to them. Daniel Redcliffe would be the 438 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 1: prime example. Came up a star and decided he needed 439 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,160 Speaker 1: to be naked on stage for a play and everybody 440 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 1: embraced that was so maybe again though a that was 441 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: kind of a pathway paved by these other blunderers. But 442 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: if we look at Emma Watson, she fell back a 443 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: little bit and people were not happy when she became 444 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 1: an adult, like they were like, wait, wait, wait, he's 445 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: getting sexy and modeling weight. It just seemed like a 446 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:48,399 Speaker 1: whole different narrative. Yeah, yep, And I think clearly we 447 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 1: could probably do a whole episode on this, and we 448 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 1: kind of did but we wanted to end with the 449 00:26:55,400 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: apologies women of the nineties, and I guess most women 450 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,920 Speaker 1: in general will try to do better and we are 451 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: fighting for you. Yes, yes, so listeners. If there's anyone 452 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: or any angle in particular you would like us to 453 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 1: cover in this topic space, you can email at the 454 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: Stuff Media mom Stuff at ihart mea dot com. You 455 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 1: can find us on Twitter at mom Stuff podcast, or 456 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Stuff I've Never Told You. 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