WEBVTT - SUNDAY SAMPLER - The Nashville Podcast Network (12-22-24)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, Sunday Sampler, what do your thank you? We

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<v Speaker 1>had a two new podcasts in the Vets Office with

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<v Speaker 1>Doctor Josie and take this personally with Morgan Hulesman. You'll

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<v Speaker 1>hear a clip from these episodes and just a bit

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<v Speaker 1>and subscribe to those if you like them, love them.

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<v Speaker 1>On the Bobby Cast, I sat down with Hunter Girl

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what life was like before she hit it

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<v Speaker 1>and before American idol and the origin of her stage name.

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<v Speaker 1>Really love to be around her and all the cool

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<v Speaker 1>stuff she does even outside of music.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're gonna get started here.

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<v Speaker 1>Within the Vets office with Doctor Josie, they had Dug

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<v Speaker 1>the Pug on Dug the Og celebrity dog millions of

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram followers. So Doctor Josie talked with his owner Leslie

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<v Speaker 1>about how famous Doug got the rise to fame the DMS.

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<v Speaker 2>He gets funny episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go in the Vets Office with Doctor Josie.

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<v Speaker 3>You're listening to in the Vet's Office with Doctor Josie Horchak.

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<v Speaker 4>How did this all come to be?

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<v Speaker 5>So? I used to actually work a few buildings over

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<v Speaker 5>on Music Row. I went to Belmont and that's what

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<v Speaker 5>moved me to Nashville, and I had dreams of working

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<v Speaker 5>in the music industry and doing marketing and PR and

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<v Speaker 5>like graphic design and branding and stuff for bands, and

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<v Speaker 5>so I got a job doing that at a small

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<v Speaker 5>record label artist management company. And I got Doug when

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<v Speaker 5>I was.

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<v Speaker 4>A junior at Belmont.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was in college in college, and so I

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<v Speaker 5>was going to work on music row and then I

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<v Speaker 5>would come home and I had my dream pug who

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<v Speaker 5>loved getting dressed up and loved doing activities with me

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<v Speaker 5>around town. And it became this kind of tradition where

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<v Speaker 5>I would get home from work and go out around

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<v Speaker 5>Nashville and take pics with him. This was in the

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<v Speaker 5>very beginning of Instagram. I think this was twenty thirteen

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<v Speaker 5>when I started posting him, and so I just did

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<v Speaker 5>it for fun on my personal Instagram. I mean, no

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<v Speaker 5>one even really had like my friends didn't even really

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<v Speaker 5>have it. It was mostly Facebook at that time. And

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<v Speaker 5>I would post him and say Doug the pug doing that,

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<v Speaker 5>Doug and I blah blah blah, and people just wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to see Doug. So if I posted anything on my

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<v Speaker 5>personal Instagram that wasn't Doug, people were like, where's.

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<v Speaker 4>Doug, like, we don't really care. They just wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>see Doug.

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<v Speaker 5>And so I started getting a little more creative and

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<v Speaker 5>doing I started getting a little more creative and doing

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<v Speaker 5>you know, things that were on trend, like holiday type things,

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<v Speaker 5>or if a famous artist was coming into Nashville, I

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<v Speaker 5>would like play off that and big Instagram pug accounts

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<v Speaker 5>that had all these followers at the time. When they

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<v Speaker 5>would take our photos and post them and tag us.

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<v Speaker 4>They would get so many likes, and it.

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<v Speaker 5>Was this rush of like, WHOA, that's so cool a

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<v Speaker 5>photo that I took and a concept that I came

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<v Speaker 5>up with, and the styling and everything, like people are

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<v Speaker 5>resonating with this, they like it. And again this is

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<v Speaker 5>very condensed, but I ended up switching my account from

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<v Speaker 5>me to just Dug and putting more effort and time

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<v Speaker 5>into it. And he reached one hundred thousand followers on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 5>which was insane and huge and amazing at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>And we had a.

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<v Speaker 5>Little party and I was just honestly a very fun hobby.

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<v Speaker 5>It got me, brought me a lot of joy, and

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<v Speaker 5>it brought other people joy. And I would be lying

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<v Speaker 5>if I didn't say that at that time, I saw

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<v Speaker 5>it being something like what it is now. I had

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<v Speaker 5>this gut feeling to pursue it, and so I actually

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<v Speaker 5>when he hit one hundred thousand followers, I put in

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<v Speaker 5>my notice to quit my job.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, and people thought I was crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>I kind of lied to most people and said I'm

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<v Speaker 5>starting my own graphic design business because I didn't want

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<v Speaker 5>to be like So, I have this dog that has

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<v Speaker 5>an Instagram and I think he would make a really

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<v Speaker 5>cute stuffed animal. But it happened as soon as I

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<v Speaker 5>put my notice in for that job. At that one

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<v Speaker 5>hundred thousand party, we had a pug balloon left over,

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<v Speaker 5>and Rob and I were just dating at the time,

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<v Speaker 5>and he was on tour and so all by myself,

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<v Speaker 5>I went to Dragon Park in Hillsborough Village, which was

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<v Speaker 5>right by my old apartment, and I tied the pug

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<v Speaker 5>balloon to Doug and again, he doesn't care about anything,

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<v Speaker 5>so he was all about it. He was running around

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<v Speaker 5>the park with this pug balloon attached to him. And

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<v Speaker 5>I sent the footage to Rob and I said, can

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<v Speaker 5>you put a cute song over this?

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<v Speaker 4>Can you put like people?

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<v Speaker 5>Let me tell you about my best friend, Like, let's

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<v Speaker 5>make the pug balloon his best friend, and I posted

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<v Speaker 5>it to Doug's Facebook, his Instagram, and then I made

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<v Speaker 5>him a Twitter because I was like, what would a

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<v Speaker 5>band need, Like if I were to help one of

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<v Speaker 5>my artists at the label, what would they need? And

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<v Speaker 5>so I put it on all these things and I

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<v Speaker 5>had a logo for Doug and I took it very seriously.

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<v Speaker 5>But that night I posted it, didn't think anything of it.

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<v Speaker 5>I woke up and I looked on Facebook. He had

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<v Speaker 5>three thousand likes at the time on Facebook, and the

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<v Speaker 5>next day he had like fifteen thousand.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, what happened? And I looked at the video

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<v Speaker 4>and had twenty million views.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow, and this is the one hundred k party where

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<v Speaker 6>he's running around with a pug bull Yes, Like right

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<v Speaker 6>after that party, I took a little video with a

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<v Speaker 6>leftover balloon and I was like, whoa.

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<v Speaker 4>All of a sudden, it.

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<v Speaker 5>Was real okay, you know, And by the end of

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<v Speaker 5>that week he had a million likes followers on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 4>Doug was like, my mom just quit her job. I

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<v Speaker 4>got to go to one. He was like, let's go.

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<v Speaker 5>And so it was this crazy feeling of like I

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<v Speaker 5>felt very ready for it, because I had already kind

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<v Speaker 5>of set it up for success, but for it to

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<v Speaker 5>actually happen and for me to have the free time

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<v Speaker 5>to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>So Rob luckily.

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<v Speaker 5>Got home from tour right around then, and we just

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<v Speaker 5>started making videos. I mean every day we were coming

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<v Speaker 5>up with like, let's dress Dug up as Harry Potter

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<v Speaker 5>and call him Harry Pugger or you know all these

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<v Speaker 5>popular TV shows, The Walking Dead. I dressed him as

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<v Speaker 5>a zombie and we were crazy people running around Radner

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<v Speaker 5>Lake with our dog with a dressed as a zombie

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<v Speaker 5>and like but we didn't care. It was just this

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<v Speaker 5>very exhilarating time. And within a few months we had

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<v Speaker 5>a book deal and later that year we were going

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<v Speaker 5>on a book tour all over the world.

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<v Speaker 4>We went to London. Did he hit his first million

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<v Speaker 4>followers that year? Oh yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>So he on Facebook went from three thousand to a

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<v Speaker 5>million within like a few weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 5>Instagram's a harder platform to grow, so I think it

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<v Speaker 5>took a little longer. But honestly, justin Bieber posting he

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<v Speaker 5>posted two pictures of Doug. They his label actually hit

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<v Speaker 5>us up and was like, hey, remember the Justin Bieber

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<v Speaker 5>era of like sorry and what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>It was like the best era, but take me back?

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<v Speaker 5>And he was like on the Calvin Klein ads, they

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<v Speaker 5>asked Doug to be a part of a countdown for

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<v Speaker 5>how many days until?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>And so I took pictures of Doug wearing Calvin kleins

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<v Speaker 5>and that little sign that said eight days what do

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<v Speaker 5>you mean? And Justin posted two of those photos and

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<v Speaker 5>tagged Doug. We went up like one hundred thousand followers

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<v Speaker 5>in a.

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<v Speaker 4>Day, I bet, and it was.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just still so crazy to even look back on

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<v Speaker 5>that and to see what it is now, and just

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<v Speaker 5>it's been the most amazing fun ride and Doug.

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<v Speaker 4>Loves every second of it.

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<v Speaker 6>One thing that you said that I just feel like

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<v Speaker 6>sitting here and talking with you is I feel like

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<v Speaker 6>there's Instagram influencers and TikTok where you're like, Okay, this

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<v Speaker 6>is like their job, and you can kind of tell

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<v Speaker 6>like it just seems so organic and you just enjoy

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, obviously he's like your child, so you enjoy

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<v Speaker 6>doing it. He loves to do it, and like that

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<v Speaker 6>just really translates. I thank you on his page is

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<v Speaker 6>why he's so successful.

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<v Speaker 4>I really appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like, obviously, social media has changed exponentially. We've

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<v Speaker 5>been doing it full time for almost ten years, and

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<v Speaker 5>it's changed so much, and I think every day I

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<v Speaker 5>have to make the conscious choice and Rob as well

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<v Speaker 5>to do it because we love it, right, because we

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<v Speaker 5>would have a completely different approach to social media with

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<v Speaker 5>Doug if we were doing it just for the followers

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<v Speaker 5>and the clout at this point, yeah, and so it's

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<v Speaker 5>honestly become so much more laid back and we're a

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<v Speaker 5>lot happier because of it, because we're just sharing like literally.

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<v Speaker 4>What we want to share doing anyway. Yeah, we feel

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<v Speaker 4>like we.

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<v Speaker 5>Have nothing else to prove at this point, right, and

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<v Speaker 5>it's it's just like truly for fun and to like

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<v Speaker 5>we still have so many big dreams obviously, but his

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<v Speaker 5>happiness and our happiness is like most important of course.

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<v Speaker 2>Why one word hunter girl?

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<v Speaker 8>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>I know and I've heard the story. You know you

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<v Speaker 1>were the only or whatever the version is, you were

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<v Speaker 1>the only in your class. You're a girl, But what

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<v Speaker 1>as a stage name and one word like all that

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<v Speaker 1>came together and you decided on it?

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<v Speaker 9>When why just because That's what everybody called me growing up,

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<v Speaker 9>and my last name's Walking Awski, eleven letters, pretty rough,

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<v Speaker 9>but I feel like that just part of me, especially

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<v Speaker 9>right now, and like, hey, hunter girl, like how are

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<v Speaker 9>you doing? That's what my Paul would call me. And

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<v Speaker 9>so whenever I come up on stage and I have

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<v Speaker 9>the name that a lot of people call me when

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<v Speaker 9>I was growing up, it kind of always just reminds

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<v Speaker 9>me of home. That's how I feel when I think

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<v Speaker 9>of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I don't say anything to you about just going

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<v Speaker 2>by one name? Weirdly? Were they like, are you sure

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<v Speaker 2>you want to do this?

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<v Speaker 8>Uh?

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<v Speaker 9>Like I think somebody had like mentioned that. They're like,

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<v Speaker 9>do you want to do Hunter Walking Awski? And I

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<v Speaker 9>was like, I think I want to be I think

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<v Speaker 9>I'm gonna be Hunter girl.

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<v Speaker 8>One word And they're like, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 9>People will remember it, and they were like, just go

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<v Speaker 9>for it.

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<v Speaker 1>People do remember. I remember going, oh, this girl's I

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<v Speaker 1>got one name. I didn't even know what it was about.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is cool, Like that's how I

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<v Speaker 1>was again. I was checking out the show I'd Adventures,

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<v Speaker 1>but you you never know who they're going to keep

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<v Speaker 1>on that show. I watched them edit people and like

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<v Speaker 1>two people in but only to cut them out later,

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<v Speaker 1>but they'd already been eliminated, like for for drama.

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<v Speaker 2>So Hunter, though, is your name? I remember asking I

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<v Speaker 2>know the answer, but I remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Asking you this in the same way, like what do

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<v Speaker 1>I call you?

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<v Speaker 2>Your friends call you that.

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<v Speaker 9>My friends call me hunter, like my like my Paul

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<v Speaker 9>will still he still calls me hunter girl, just because

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<v Speaker 9>that's what he always did. But my friends called me

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<v Speaker 9>hunter and uh, but on stage, it's like I kind

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<v Speaker 9>of get to separate myself a little bits, like the

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<v Speaker 9>like hunters going home and enter PJS. But whenever I'm

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<v Speaker 9>on stage, I get to be Hunter girl.

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<v Speaker 1>What I would like for you to go back and

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<v Speaker 1>talk about, just for a second, when you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>writing with the veterans, which is how you and I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up together that night we were doing some veterans stuff

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<v Speaker 1>at the Opry together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, explain like what that is.

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<v Speaker 9>So I started writing writing with veterans when I was

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<v Speaker 9>about seventeen.

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<v Speaker 2>And why why would you write with veterans?

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<v Speaker 9>My grandfa, my grandpa's in the service, and six of

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<v Speaker 9>my great uncles and I just got involved and I

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<v Speaker 9>was just volunteering and singing songs for the people that

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<v Speaker 9>were writing the songs with the veterans, and so it's

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<v Speaker 9>always been something like meant a lot to me and

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<v Speaker 9>just seeing how much it, like it affected my family too.

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<v Speaker 9>And basically what we do is we get in a

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<v Speaker 9>room with a veteran and we write their story about

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<v Speaker 9>whatever they want to talk about, whether it's like something

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<v Speaker 9>in the service or somebody they miss or anything. And

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<v Speaker 9>it's kind of therapeutic in a way for them to

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<v Speaker 9>get to tell their story. And honestly, like, whenever I've

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<v Speaker 9>been in that room, it's like, you know, I'm lucky

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<v Speaker 9>enough to write a song every day, but this is

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<v Speaker 9>their first time that they get to feel that whatever.

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<v Speaker 9>Like it just makes me remember just how like how

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<v Speaker 9>good songwriting is for the soul. And I've written with

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<v Speaker 9>gold Star kids and gold Star families and so I've

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<v Speaker 9>been doing that consistently.

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<v Speaker 2>Since I was about seventeen and still do it.

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<v Speaker 9>I had one a few weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Really yeah, cast.

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<v Speaker 10>Up Little Food for your Soul.

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<v Speaker 1>Life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's pretty bad. It's pretty beautiful, BEFU.

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<v Speaker 11>That's a little more family said, ek cut you're kicking

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<v Speaker 11>with full thing with Amy Brown, We're.

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<v Speaker 12>Just gonna have a little chat today. I am sitting

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<v Speaker 12>on my bed next to my dog with my computer.

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<v Speaker 12>I've been looking at emails. Tomorrow is my mom's birthday,

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<v Speaker 12>or it would be her birthday if she was still alive.

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<v Speaker 12>But I think I just got a little emotional as

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<v Speaker 12>I was prepping for the episode because I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 12>in honor of her birthday, maybe I should share one

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<v Speaker 12>of my favorite things that she would make, which was

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<v Speaker 12>cherry Berry's on a Cloud. And it's not a recipe

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<v Speaker 12>she came up with. It's just something that she was

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<v Speaker 12>known for making, like she was really good at making it.

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<v Speaker 12>People would request it. I would request it her friends

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<v Speaker 12>for showers or any type of event or gathering. People

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<v Speaker 12>would be like, Judy, can you bring cherry Berry on

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<v Speaker 12>a cloud? And she would and it's so good. And

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<v Speaker 12>I just went into my email and I searched, you know,

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<v Speaker 12>Judy Cherryberry, and things popped up, and it just took

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<v Speaker 12>me down memory lane because there was this email that

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<v Speaker 12>my sister had sent out. Because Ben and I were

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<v Speaker 12>married for years in years in years, let me think

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<v Speaker 12>you're almost seventeen. We lived in Austin, some we lived

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<v Speaker 12>in North Carolina, and then we were back in Austin,

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<v Speaker 12>and then we've been in Nashville the last almost twelve years.

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<v Speaker 12>So when we were in North Carolina because Ben was

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<v Speaker 12>in the Air Force, I guess we were going back

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<v Speaker 12>to Austin for a visit, and my sister sent out

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<v Speaker 12>this mass email to everybody and it was like the

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<v Speaker 12>Browns are back in town, and she is the queen

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<v Speaker 12>of hospitality, and she was inviting everybody over and saying, Hey,

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<v Speaker 12>bring whatever you can, or just bring yourself, it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 12>Judy's gonna make Cherryberry's on a cloud. We're gonna grill out,

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<v Speaker 12>and everyone's going to have a good time. And I

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<v Speaker 12>was looking at everybody on the email and even my

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<v Speaker 12>sister's husband.

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<v Speaker 4>And then Ben and.

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<v Speaker 12>I aren't married anymore, but we're still close and our

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<v Speaker 12>families are close. But all of those relationships came from

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<v Speaker 12>my mom and her friendships that she made, and I

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<v Speaker 12>was just thinking how special it was that we would

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<v Speaker 12>all gather together. And I'm getting emotional because I miss that,

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<v Speaker 12>I really do. But I'm about to be with my

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<v Speaker 12>sister and her family for Christmas, and I know we're

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<v Speaker 12>going to be gathering around the table We're going to

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<v Speaker 12>be cooking and hanging out, and it's going to have

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<v Speaker 12>that same vibe. It's just not exactly how I saw it.

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<v Speaker 12>Although Ben will be in Colorado at the same time.

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<v Speaker 12>ISH we kind of overlap, so the kids will be

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<v Speaker 12>with me some and then they'll go be with him,

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<v Speaker 12>and I wonder if we'll all get together. I could

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<v Speaker 12>see him coming over because he's friends with them, and

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<v Speaker 12>I have gratitude right now for that. I have gratitude

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<v Speaker 12>for these memories of gathering and keeping it simple, just

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<v Speaker 12>inviting people over, and my sister's like, don't worry about anything,

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<v Speaker 12>bring your kids. Everyone will pitch in and help. I've

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<v Speaker 12>got cribs if you've got babies, and they just we're

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<v Speaker 12>all about hosting and community. Like when we were living

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<v Speaker 12>in Austin. I just remember that so much, my mom cooking,

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<v Speaker 12>my dad cooking, my sister cooking. And it looks a

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<v Speaker 12>little different now that my mom and my dad are

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<v Speaker 12>gone and Ben and I are divorced. My sister is

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<v Speaker 12>still really, really, really good at that and inviting people

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<v Speaker 12>over and having extra chairs for people to pull up

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<v Speaker 12>around the table. And I guess my point here really

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<v Speaker 12>is I'm going to link the or copy and paste

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<v Speaker 12>the cherryberries on a cloud recipe and the show notes,

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<v Speaker 12>because if you have to go anywhere this holiday season,

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<v Speaker 12>take this.

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<v Speaker 4>It will be a hit.

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<v Speaker 12>It is so good. And if you ever just have

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<v Speaker 12>some time and you want to reminisce, type in keywords

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<v Speaker 12>into your email. I mean, I was going all the

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<v Speaker 12>way back to I think it was two thousand and

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<v Speaker 12>ten or twenty eleven that I saw that email that

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<v Speaker 12>my sister sent out to everybody, and I copied and

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<v Speaker 12>pasted that and I sent it over to my sister

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<v Speaker 12>so that she could reminisce. But then I had to

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<v Speaker 12>go find the actual recipe, So then I had to

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<v Speaker 12>google or search inside my Gmail my mom's name and

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<v Speaker 12>the cherryberry recipe and it popped up. So I copied

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<v Speaker 12>that and I'm going to drop it in the show notes.

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<v Speaker 12>But then I started looking at emails from my mom,

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<v Speaker 12>and that's probably what got me emotional, alongside the fact

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<v Speaker 12>that it's her birthday tomorrow and she's not here, but

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<v Speaker 12>I had sent her this email of this little garden

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<v Speaker 12>I was growing because I wanted to make fresh salsa,

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<v Speaker 12>and I took a video and I emailed it to

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<v Speaker 12>her and she said, she said back, let me tell

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<v Speaker 12>you what she said here cute. She goes, what's really

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<v Speaker 12>in that planter? I said, cayenne, tomato and cilantro. You

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<v Speaker 12>don't believe me, And she said, amy, tomatoes get huge.

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<v Speaker 12>Are you starting your garden with seeds?

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have to.

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<v Speaker 12>You can buy tomato plants and that will be much faster.

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<v Speaker 12>And I said, mom, I started with seeds. I will

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<v Speaker 12>transplant them to separate pots when they get three inches tall.

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<v Speaker 12>It's a salsa garden. Did you watch my video? I'm

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<v Speaker 12>not scared. I'm being patient. When it's time, I'll get

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<v Speaker 12>to make salsa. For Ben's smiley face. I said, my

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<v Speaker 12>first sprouts came in today. I just noticed about twenty

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<v Speaker 12>minutes ago, and I got so excited.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't even know that version of me.

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<v Speaker 12>That decided to make a little salsa garden from seeds.

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<v Speaker 8>We're gonna do it live. We ah the one shoot

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<v Speaker 8>three sore losers?

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<v Speaker 13>What up, everybody? I am lunchbox.

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<v Speaker 10>I know the most about sports, so I'll give you

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<v Speaker 10>the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much

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<v Speaker 10>a sports genius, y'all.

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<v Speaker 8>It's Sison I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.

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<v Speaker 8>I live on the north side of Nashville with Bayser,

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<v Speaker 8>my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a

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<v Speaker 8>lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 8>soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue

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<v Speaker 8>to be determined.

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<v Speaker 10>Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this

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<v Speaker 10>week's episode of The Sore Losers.

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<v Speaker 13>Right, tell me, how'd that Christmas party go?

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<v Speaker 14>Man?

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<v Speaker 8>You missed out. I told you it was networking.

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<v Speaker 10>I know I was gonna go. Then the wife informed

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<v Speaker 10>me we had Christmas caroling with the neighborhood and we

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<v Speaker 10>were getting together with other families and we were gonna

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<v Speaker 10>go Christmas caroling.

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<v Speaker 8>Sometimes you realize I just got a network for the

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<v Speaker 8>good of the Sore Losers. And I realized that. Baser

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<v Speaker 8>even said before I went, I can't believe you're going

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<v Speaker 8>to this because it was an hour and a half

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<v Speaker 8>drive from where I live.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, it's at a higher up's house, which is weird.

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<v Speaker 10>It's not easy to get to and they do it

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<v Speaker 10>at five o'clock, and I don't know if they understand

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<v Speaker 10>what five o'clock means.

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<v Speaker 13>It means grid lock traffic.

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<v Speaker 10>So if you want to get there right at five o'clock,

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<v Speaker 10>you got to leave at three o'clock. If you don't leave,

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<v Speaker 10>if you leave any later than three, it's gonna take

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<v Speaker 10>you an hour and a half proceed.

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<v Speaker 8>And I get there, and when I say networking, it

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<v Speaker 8>was me, the two big bosses, and Robin from Media Base.

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<v Speaker 13>Robin still works here.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, show's great too.

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<v Speaker 13>Excuse me, m h. I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 8>Stuff she does outside of here that you just don't

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<v Speaker 8>see her doing. I guess she deals with songs, artists,

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<v Speaker 8>media base ratings, rankings, songs, climbing charts, getting credit for

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<v Speaker 8>playing live performances, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 10>I mean that means she works from home, because I

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<v Speaker 10>mean she has not been around in eight years.

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<v Speaker 8>Correct, FTW, that's awesome. From the home. Fth from the home. Okay,

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<v Speaker 8>And that's it, dude, it's I said in Indian Circle

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<v Speaker 8>having a pow wow. That is how you promote the

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<v Speaker 8>sore losers. And I mean it's just when it's just

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<v Speaker 8>you and the brass in the kitchen, dude, you have

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<v Speaker 8>no choice.

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<v Speaker 13>So it was just four people, yes.

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<v Speaker 8>Because I got there so early. It was my fault.

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<v Speaker 8>It was nothing on the party. It was what times

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<v Speaker 8>you get there, right at five and I get and

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<v Speaker 8>it's one of those where they were on the couches,

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<v Speaker 8>and so I didn't really want to I pulled up.

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<v Speaker 8>I just pulled up a chair, dude.

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<v Speaker 13>You didn't want to sell on the couch in between

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<v Speaker 13>two of them.

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<v Speaker 8>I just pulled up a chair. Dude. Hey, if we're

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<v Speaker 8>going to network, let's network, baby. I told Beazer before

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<v Speaker 8>I left the country, I said, going to network. I

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<v Speaker 8>kind of like I was going to war. I was like,

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<v Speaker 8>I'll be back after my tour. I'll see in a

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<v Speaker 8>couple hours. But yeah, that was the start of it.

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<v Speaker 8>They weren't in the kitchen, dude, and it caught me

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<v Speaker 8>off surprise, or I didn't even mention the parking situation. So,

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<v Speaker 8>because it's a city and it's a very very expensive

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<v Speaker 8>place to live, they don't have the biggest driveways.

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<v Speaker 13>And the driveway is right on a busy road.

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<v Speaker 8>Truck ain't fitting in that driveway. So you park in

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<v Speaker 8>the neighborhood over for not a quarter eighth of a mile,

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<v Speaker 8>for half of a football field, you're literally walking on

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<v Speaker 8>the road.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, bro, And there's no street lights.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm running on the road because I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 8>walk in the grass. Well, then a car starts coming,

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<v Speaker 8>so I go into the grass and it looks like

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<v Speaker 8>other cars have gone into the grass as well, and

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<v Speaker 8>it might be muddy, so there were probably mud on

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<v Speaker 8>my shoes. I walk into the party and there's nothing

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<v Speaker 8>but white carpet. Ugh, So what do you think I

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<v Speaker 8>did because it'd.

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<v Speaker 13>Been raining, Yeah, took a shoe off.

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<v Speaker 8>So I looked at the party host, the brass they

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<v Speaker 8>all had their shoes on. I just couldn't risk walking

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<v Speaker 8>on that carpet and making shoeprints when I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 8>network for the sore losers and I'm just dirtying up

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<v Speaker 8>the place. I took off my shoes. Why was that

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<v Speaker 8>a mistake? Bro? Every time I tried to network and

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<v Speaker 8>conversate with somebody, I was a foot shorter than everybody

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<v Speaker 8>because everybody wore their shoes except for me. That leads

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<v Speaker 8>me to my next story. Dude comes walking in, looks

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<v Speaker 8>like he's from Chicago. New York got a big bar

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<v Speaker 8>fig time city. Everybody was dressed up and looked good.

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<v Speaker 13>But did he have a scarf?

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<v Speaker 8>No? Yeah, just a long black jacket, butt up, good shoes,

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<v Speaker 8>good jeans.

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<v Speaker 13>What looked like what was his hair?

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<v Speaker 8>He looked he looked like falcon. Oh and but but

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<v Speaker 8>you knew he was important and I had already. Dude,

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<v Speaker 8>I talked to every brass there there was. There was

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<v Speaker 8>no more brass left.

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<v Speaker 13>So he's a baldy.

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<v Speaker 8>Huh. I didn't even talk to Abbie.

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<v Speaker 13>I don't even know who the baldy. I don't know

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<v Speaker 13>who this guy is.

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<v Speaker 8>There's people this company don't even know there was a

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<v Speaker 8>brunuit chick. I go Morgan, who's at Oh she works

0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:04.080
<v Speaker 8>for a premiere. No, I never seen her. Who is

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<v Speaker 8>that blondie? How do you even know her? Why are

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<v Speaker 8>you guys so friendly? Oh, she's great, she was at

0:24:07.440 --> 0:24:10.000
<v Speaker 8>the last Christmas party. I don't know. I'm literally never

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<v Speaker 8>seen her. And we work in the same building.

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<v Speaker 13>Got it.

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<v Speaker 8>And so then this dude comes in. He looks important.

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<v Speaker 8>I've talked to everybody, Abbey, I see every dam damn

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<v Speaker 8>IM not talking about?

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<v Speaker 10>So what did you talk about with the brass when

0:24:18.720 --> 0:24:20.440
<v Speaker 10>you're sitting in that little circle the pow wow?

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:22.800
<v Speaker 8>It's did you do your high low for the day,

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<v Speaker 8>or your rose or your thorn. Now I was trying

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<v Speaker 8>to think that's what it was. It was she's from

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<v Speaker 8>Kentucky and she goes, oh, yeah, I hope the Valls

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<v Speaker 8>win on Saturday. Because the one lady not to get

0:24:33.720 --> 0:24:35.280
<v Speaker 8>too much in the weeds. The one lady just got

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<v Speaker 8>a divorced and her husband ex husband was a huge

0:24:40.440 --> 0:24:42.520
<v Speaker 8>fan of the Boles. And so I was being funny

0:24:42.520 --> 0:24:45.320
<v Speaker 8>and I was like, hey, screw the balls, let's root

0:24:45.359 --> 0:24:47.600
<v Speaker 8>against the balls this Saturday, being on her side, just

0:24:47.640 --> 0:24:51.359
<v Speaker 8>being funny. I'm Avalls fan. And then the brass jumps

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<v Speaker 8>in and goes.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, let's go.

0:24:52.840 --> 0:24:55.200
<v Speaker 8>Actually I want the Falls. Let's go. We want Tennessee.

0:24:55.400 --> 0:24:58.000
<v Speaker 8>And I go, aren't you from Kentucky? And then she goes,

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<v Speaker 8>I just go for the game. But she goes, I'm

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<v Speaker 8>more of a basketball girl, and she said I love

0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:05.560
<v Speaker 8>the pre games. And then we talked about Rup and

0:25:05.600 --> 0:25:08.240
<v Speaker 8>I said I was out rupping, Oh the Steak the

0:25:08.480 --> 0:25:11.439
<v Speaker 8>area of Rop, And I was like, have you ever

0:25:11.480 --> 0:25:14.320
<v Speaker 8>been there? She goes, Honey, I ever been there. I've

0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:17.080
<v Speaker 8>been there a hundred times. And I said, I want

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<v Speaker 8>to go for a game. You know what, maybe you

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<v Speaker 8>and me go for a game sometime that's called networking, baby, honey,

0:25:23.840 --> 0:25:28.199
<v Speaker 8>that's called networking. So that was just one of the

0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:28.920
<v Speaker 8>things that we talked about.

0:25:28.960 --> 0:25:30.600
<v Speaker 13>And you said me and you should go to a

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<v Speaker 13>game sometime. What did she say?

0:25:32.520 --> 0:25:34.600
<v Speaker 8>It was all just laughing joke. Here's a Christmas party?

0:25:34.920 --> 0:25:37.040
<v Speaker 8>Am I in the brass? Gonna go driving Kentucky and

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<v Speaker 8>go to Rupprena sometime maybe?

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<v Speaker 13>But anyways, I've heard rough so old and that needs improven.

0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:44.560
<v Speaker 8>Dude. They looked good. But I moved to the kitchen

0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:47.840
<v Speaker 8>and here comes another brass. There's so many brass around, dude.

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<v Speaker 13>Hey, which one got divorced?

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:50.840
<v Speaker 15>Robin?

0:25:51.720 --> 0:25:51.920
<v Speaker 12>Oh?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, but I knew that already. Oh but it would

0:25:56.200 --> 0:25:57.639
<v Speaker 8>have been bad if I got caught off Guarden. I

0:25:57.640 --> 0:26:00.600
<v Speaker 8>didn't get a heads up about that. Then the dude

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:02.560
<v Speaker 8>walks in and I go right up to I'm not

0:26:03.119 --> 0:26:04.960
<v Speaker 8>I chill in the glassroom with Abby. I'm not trying

0:26:05.000 --> 0:26:06.960
<v Speaker 8>to be like, hey, Abby, how's it going. I've talked

0:26:06.960 --> 0:26:09.960
<v Speaker 8>to Abby about everything. I'm good. So she Abby's like

0:26:09.960 --> 0:26:12.639
<v Speaker 8>call me over. I'm like, ha ha, I totally dissed her.

0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 13>Abby. I see you every day at work.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm going to network with this dude. I go Hey,

0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:19.119
<v Speaker 8>how's it going. He goes, hey, you right, yeah, how

0:26:19.119 --> 0:26:21.640
<v Speaker 8>are you? What's your name? He goes Bob, and he goes,

0:26:21.760 --> 0:26:25.680
<v Speaker 8>he were sore losers, right? What dude? I just about

0:26:25.760 --> 0:26:28.359
<v Speaker 8>fell out. Not only did he know my name, he

0:26:28.440 --> 0:26:30.119
<v Speaker 8>knew about sore losers.

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<v Speaker 13>Tell me more about it.

0:26:31.320 --> 0:26:37.400
<v Speaker 8>So Bob runs everything the volume. Colin cow or Dan Patrick,

0:26:37.680 --> 0:26:40.000
<v Speaker 8>if they go somewhere to Fountain Blue, he runs it.

0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:42.560
<v Speaker 8>If they're at the pool, he runs it. He's all

0:26:42.600 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 8>over the country. They'll go to events, six hundred people

0:26:45.280 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 8>pop up, boom, he goes. Sometimes the crowds are wild.

0:26:48.040 --> 0:26:52.000
<v Speaker 8>For Steven A. Smith, he runs it. Draymond Green runs it.

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:55.800
<v Speaker 8>The volume has Jeff Tigue and the some of oh yeah.

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:57.760
<v Speaker 13>Yeah, that Jeff guy. He's pretty funny.

0:26:57.920 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 8>Runs it. He's always there, advice, ads, marketing. Who's the

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:04.960
<v Speaker 8>other show? He said, Draymond getting on a mic. Right,

0:27:05.000 --> 0:27:07.159
<v Speaker 8>I forgets the technical It's amazing, he said. That shows

0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:11.400
<v Speaker 8>that volume blowing up. He goes, you guys are blowing up.

0:27:12.320 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 8>Great talk with him?

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:14.800
<v Speaker 13>What all did he say?

0:27:15.000 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 8>Everything? He was just talking And I said, I used

0:27:16.800 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 8>to listen to Colin Cowhard. That must be so cool.

0:27:19.040 --> 0:27:21.800
<v Speaker 8>He does it. Sounded more with the sports shows, and

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:23.400
<v Speaker 8>I was trying to think of the one other one

0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 8>that is huge. Oh, Ocho Cinco is on a show

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:32.000
<v Speaker 8>with you guys are yelling at your trucks right now.

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:37.159
<v Speaker 8>Ocho Cinco has a show with Shannon Sharp.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah. I think you're right that one.

0:27:40.000 --> 0:27:44.240
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, And he said, blowing up, dude. The fact sore

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:48.280
<v Speaker 8>Losers was mentioned in the same sentence as Ocho Cinco,

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:55.480
<v Speaker 8>Draymond Green, Shannon Sharp, Colin Cowherd, and Dan Patrick blowing up.

0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 13>What else did Bob say about sore Losers.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh, not not much, but the fact that he knew

0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:06.439
<v Speaker 8>the show and then put us in the category of

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:09.359
<v Speaker 8>sports and he said, blowing up.

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<v Speaker 16>Seles Man, are you ready, Hillary, I'm excited.

0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 14>I'm excited to get a talk with you on a microphone.

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:48.800
<v Speaker 16>Not that I haven't talked to you in a long time.

0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:52.320
<v Speaker 14>But this is our first official talk on a microphone

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:53.560
<v Speaker 14>since you left the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's been almost three years. I was thinking about

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:57.920
<v Speaker 3>that today. I was like, this is the first I've

0:28:57.920 --> 0:29:01.640
<v Speaker 3>been behind a microphone and almost three years, and the

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 3>last time I was was probably the last best bits.

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<v Speaker 14>But you had mentioned how Tyler is your first boyfriend

0:29:09.600 --> 0:29:13.840
<v Speaker 14>and now like potentially going to be your fiance. But

0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:19.760
<v Speaker 14>what's that been like for you? He's your first boyfriend

0:29:19.920 --> 0:29:22.080
<v Speaker 14>and you weren't dating before that. Is there like any

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:23.880
<v Speaker 14>part of you that thinks about that and that kind

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:24.440
<v Speaker 14>of situation?

0:29:24.800 --> 0:29:27.240
<v Speaker 16>Yes, I yes, I have thought about it.

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 3>First of all, when I was never you know, part

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 3>of the reasons I haven't dated was I feel like

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 3>if I liked a guy, they wouldn't like me back.

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:38.080
<v Speaker 16>So it wasn't like a choice. Part of it was,

0:29:38.200 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 16>but part of it wasn't. It was just people just

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:41.640
<v Speaker 16>didn't like me. So I always saw something was wrong

0:29:41.640 --> 0:29:45.240
<v Speaker 16>with me. Okay, I liked you, well, you know what

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:45.840
<v Speaker 16>I mean.

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<v Speaker 14>There were I'm ninety nine point nine percent sure, even

0:29:50.680 --> 0:29:52.480
<v Speaker 14>though I have only known you my adult life, that

0:29:52.480 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 14>there were people that liked you. You just probably didn't feel

0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:56.280
<v Speaker 14>that back, so.

0:29:56.200 --> 0:29:58.560
<v Speaker 16>They never pursued it or they didn't tell me. Yeah

0:29:58.640 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 16>that's possible too. Yeah, Yeah, you maybe beautiful, So I

0:30:01.800 --> 0:30:04.400
<v Speaker 16>can guarantee that there were people that liked you. Yeah,

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:06.120
<v Speaker 16>maybe they just didn't tell me.

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:08.800
<v Speaker 3>Okay, So maybe there have been missed opportunities, which is

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:11.960
<v Speaker 3>fine because I'm happy where I'm at. Yeah, but yeah, no,

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:15.360
<v Speaker 3>I've always felt like, Okay, something's wrong with me. If

0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:17.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm not nobody likes me, nobody wants to be in

0:30:17.560 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 3>a relationship with me. Something's wrong with me. And I'd

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:21.880
<v Speaker 3>have strangers on the internet telling me something is wrong

0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 3>with me too, So that didn't help. Yeah, they definitely

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:29.200
<v Speaker 3>let me know. They're like, something's wrong with you, Like,

0:30:29.280 --> 0:30:31.400
<v Speaker 3>are you, you know, normal?

0:30:32.240 --> 0:30:34.960
<v Speaker 16>I was like, no, I'm fine, You're perfectly normal. Yeah,

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:37.520
<v Speaker 16>I'm just not finding someone. Timeline was just different.

0:30:37.840 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 3>My timeline was different, and it was definitely worth the

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:43.240
<v Speaker 3>way of waiting for waiting to find him. Like he is,

0:30:43.480 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 3>like you said, just to a gem of a human.

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 16>Yeah, he's precious.

0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 14>Well do you feel like, do you still have those

0:30:50.720 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 14>feelings now or did once you met him? Did that

0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:55.600
<v Speaker 14>all kind of quiet itself?

0:30:56.280 --> 0:30:57.960
<v Speaker 16>It did? It quieted itself?

0:30:58.240 --> 0:31:01.640
<v Speaker 3>I mean I I you know me, I struggle with

0:31:02.440 --> 0:31:07.320
<v Speaker 3>self confidence issues and things like that, so that stuff

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 3>has remained. But the whole it was like it was different.

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:15.560
<v Speaker 3>It was I do feel like I'm worthy enough and

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 3>you know, good enough for someone, and so I feel

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:21.320
<v Speaker 3>very secure in that. But within myself, I definitely still

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 3>have you know, the doubts and.

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 16>Self confidence issues, all those things.

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 14>You want to talk about that a little bit, because

0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:33.040
<v Speaker 14>mental health is part of this podcast, yes, and we

0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:34.200
<v Speaker 14>talk about.

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:34.720
<v Speaker 16>Those things a lot.

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:37.640
<v Speaker 14>So where do you feel like you're at kind of

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:41.600
<v Speaker 14>right now in your life with your I guess you

0:31:41.640 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 14>can say self love journey. Do you feel like you're

0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:46.440
<v Speaker 14>on a better path or do you feel like you're

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:47.320
<v Speaker 14>kind of stagnant?

0:31:47.320 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 16>Where are you right now?

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:52.400
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I'm in a good place now. I

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:54.960
<v Speaker 3>think a couple a couple of years ago, i'd had

0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:58.120
<v Speaker 3>a not I was not in the best place, which

0:31:58.160 --> 0:31:59.760
<v Speaker 3>was right around the time. It was right before I

0:31:59.760 --> 0:32:03.640
<v Speaker 3>started dating Tyler. But I'll never forget. We were at

0:32:03.760 --> 0:32:06.000
<v Speaker 3>a dinner. I know exactly. I know you're gonna remember

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:08.880
<v Speaker 3>what it was. It was a Valentine's Day. It was

0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:12.760
<v Speaker 3>Valentine's Day dinner. And at the point at that time,

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:17.280
<v Speaker 3>I was still single and I just turned thirty, and.

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:20.719
<v Speaker 16>I just was having so many self doubt issues.

0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:24.960
<v Speaker 3>And I've dealt with that my entire life, Like, honestly,

0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:27.520
<v Speaker 3>ever since I was in elementary school, I've dealt with

0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 3>self confidence issues and didn't know it at the time.

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:32.960
<v Speaker 3>As I've gotten older, I've learned a lot about anxiety

0:32:33.040 --> 0:32:35.040
<v Speaker 3>and things like that, and I know that's you know,

0:32:35.040 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 3>what I was dealing with. But yeah, a couple of

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:40.479
<v Speaker 3>years ago, I remember I was just in not a

0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:44.920
<v Speaker 3>great place. I didn't like myself. I've always struggled with

0:32:45.280 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 3>weight and you know how I view myself body my

0:32:48.600 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 3>body issues, Yeah, body image issues. It's a great way

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:54.040
<v Speaker 3>put that. So at that time, I was really dealing

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:57.240
<v Speaker 3>with a lot of those issues. And I've definitely always

0:32:57.240 --> 0:33:00.640
<v Speaker 3>struggled with body image issues and that's all always probably

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 3>been one of my main things that I've struggled when

0:33:03.400 --> 0:33:07.080
<v Speaker 3>it comes to myself and self confidence issues. And yeah,

0:33:07.080 --> 0:33:10.120
<v Speaker 3>a couple of years ago, I just I was dealing

0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 3>with with those things. And I feel like I can

0:33:14.160 --> 0:33:17.240
<v Speaker 3>talk about like I feel like it's kind of probably

0:33:17.240 --> 0:33:19.320
<v Speaker 3>like trigger warning type of stuff for some people, but

0:33:19.640 --> 0:33:22.040
<v Speaker 3>I definitely do feel like I had like eating disorder

0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:25.480
<v Speaker 3>type stuff. I mean I would there were times that

0:33:25.920 --> 0:33:29.040
<v Speaker 3>I would make myself throw up or I wouldn't eat,

0:33:29.320 --> 0:33:30.680
<v Speaker 3>like I would starve myself.

0:33:31.240 --> 0:33:32.880
<v Speaker 16>And I kind of had dealt with.

0:33:32.840 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 3>That a little bit in you know, my early twenties,

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 3>and I was doing fine and then for some reason

0:33:39.160 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 3>a couple of years ago, I just was having some

0:33:41.400 --> 0:33:44.960
<v Speaker 3>issues and just not loving myself. I was turning thirty

0:33:45.000 --> 0:33:46.560
<v Speaker 3>and I was not at all where I thought i'd

0:33:46.560 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 3>be in my life. And I think that had a

0:33:47.720 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 3>lot to do with it. Was turning thirty and realizing

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm not married, i don't own a house, i don't

0:33:53.480 --> 0:33:54.920
<v Speaker 3>have kids, I'm not at all where I thought I

0:33:54.920 --> 0:33:58.280
<v Speaker 3>would be in life. And I was also making career changes,

0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:02.200
<v Speaker 3>so everything all at once, Everything was changing at once,

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 3>and I was not feeling good about myself. And so

0:34:06.280 --> 0:34:09.040
<v Speaker 3>a couple of years ago, yeah, I just was not

0:34:09.200 --> 0:34:11.480
<v Speaker 3>and I was in a very dark place and just

0:34:11.520 --> 0:34:13.960
<v Speaker 3>not feeling good about myself. And we were out that

0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:16.600
<v Speaker 3>dinner and I don't remember what was said, something said

0:34:16.600 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 3>and I just started bawling my eyes out at the dinner,

0:34:19.360 --> 0:34:22.319
<v Speaker 3>and we got up and went into your jeep, and

0:34:23.480 --> 0:34:25.680
<v Speaker 3>you and Jodie were there, and y'all said, we're not

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:29.719
<v Speaker 3>leaving until you tell us what's going on. And I

0:34:29.760 --> 0:34:34.080
<v Speaker 3>remember I was just crying so hard I couldn't barely speak,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was just so embarrassed because I'd never I

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<v Speaker 3>do need to say, I'd never really admitted to anybody

0:34:39.200 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 3>that I did all of that stuff, and because I

0:34:42.480 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 3>was embarrassed and nobody knew that that had ever happened,

0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:48.960
<v Speaker 3>that I was doing, you know, making myself sick, not

0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:54.279
<v Speaker 3>eating things like that, nobody knew, and I finally was

0:34:54.320 --> 0:34:57.640
<v Speaker 3>able to open up to y'all about that. And I

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<v Speaker 3>will never forget that night of just sitting there for

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<v Speaker 3>even know how long, just crying and just I don't

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:04.960
<v Speaker 3>think many words were said. It was just y'all being

0:35:05.000 --> 0:35:08.480
<v Speaker 3>there and being able to cry to y'all and admit,

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:12.640
<v Speaker 3>this is what's going on in my life. And I

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<v Speaker 3>have these bad habits again like I had them before

0:35:14.560 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 3>and I got past it, but it's happening again, and

0:35:17.440 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 3>I feel alone and I feel stuck, and I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like what do I do? So I remember being able

0:35:26.760 --> 0:35:28.680
<v Speaker 3>to talk to y'all about that that night.

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<v Speaker 17>Hey, it's Mike d And this week All Movie Mike's

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<v Speaker 17>Movie podcast, I shared my top ten underrated.

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<v Speaker 16>Movies of the year.

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<v Speaker 17>And these are a lot of movies that aren't sequels,

0:35:38.520 --> 0:35:41.640
<v Speaker 17>aren't remakes, aren't superhero movies. So if you're somebody who says, man,

0:35:41.719 --> 0:35:44.560
<v Speaker 17>everything's a remaked these days, I have ten movies that

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<v Speaker 17>maybe you missed in theaters. I think they are underappreciated.

0:35:47.920 --> 0:35:49.920
<v Speaker 17>More people should have seen these, they should have performed

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<v Speaker 17>better at the box office, because I think they're all

0:35:52.200 --> 0:35:54.160
<v Speaker 17>good movies that you can watch at home. Now, So

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<v Speaker 17>here's what I had as my number one pick, but

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<v Speaker 17>be sure to go check out this full episode to

0:35:57.719 --> 0:35:59.799
<v Speaker 17>hear the entire list. Right now, here's just a little

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<v Speaker 17>bit of movie Mike's Movie podcast. At number one, my

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<v Speaker 17>most underrated movie of twenty twenty four, I have My

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<v Speaker 17>Old Ass So Good, which I gave a four at

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<v Speaker 17>a five. It has a pretty decent audience score, like

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<v Speaker 17>a great eighty nine percent. But I think this one

0:36:17.560 --> 0:36:19.680
<v Speaker 17>comes down to the box office. Had a budget of

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<v Speaker 17>three million dollars, which is wild that they made this

0:36:22.200 --> 0:36:24.520
<v Speaker 17>movie for three million dollars, but it only made five

0:36:24.520 --> 0:36:25.160
<v Speaker 17>million dollars.

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<v Speaker 4>That's two million dollars.

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<v Speaker 8>Now.

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<v Speaker 15>Though it sputtering bean in the red.

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<v Speaker 17>I just think that it is hard to make a

0:36:33.040 --> 0:36:35.440
<v Speaker 17>fresh coming of age movie at this point. And I

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<v Speaker 17>love the formula. I could watch the same coming of

0:36:38.200 --> 0:36:42.200
<v Speaker 17>age formula in any amount of movies and I would

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:45.000
<v Speaker 17>still enjoy There's just something special about it when done right.

0:36:45.680 --> 0:36:49.239
<v Speaker 17>And this one the twist was that she takes some mushrooms,

0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 17>she sees her older self, which is Aubrey Plaza. She

0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:55.319
<v Speaker 17>tells her all this stuff about her future and kind

0:36:55.360 --> 0:36:58.560
<v Speaker 17>of gives her advice on what to avoid, and then

0:36:58.920 --> 0:37:01.479
<v Speaker 17>puts her phone, no in her phone, and she's able

0:37:01.480 --> 0:37:04.520
<v Speaker 17>to communicate with her. My only thing was I wanted

0:37:04.560 --> 0:37:05.799
<v Speaker 17>more Aubrey Plaza, But.

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<v Speaker 15>It was cool to see Aubrey Plaza on more like

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:10.239
<v Speaker 15>I mean, she was still her like dry, comedic self,

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<v Speaker 15>but a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 8>Of an emotional Yeah.

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<v Speaker 17>Well, there was a scene in this movie where I

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<v Speaker 17>damn near cried.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, I think you did.

0:37:17.560 --> 0:37:19.640
<v Speaker 17>Like I think it was there was a span of

0:37:19.680 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 17>movies there. I think this one in the Wild Robot.

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<v Speaker 17>We watched back to back, I believe, and both times

0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:26.560
<v Speaker 17>the movies like I almost cried.

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<v Speaker 2>I look over and.

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<v Speaker 17>I did not expect to go there because there's just

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<v Speaker 17>a moment where it's like, oh, man, all this stuff

0:37:33.760 --> 0:37:36.360
<v Speaker 17>that had been building up and building up. Yeah, there's

0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 17>a lot of fights between her younger self and her

0:37:39.080 --> 0:37:43.000
<v Speaker 17>older self, which I would question things that I would

0:37:43.080 --> 0:37:46.279
<v Speaker 17>be telling my younger self, and there's a moment that

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<v Speaker 17>just hits you right in the gut and then it

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<v Speaker 17>just like, oh man, I just kind of sat with it.

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<v Speaker 15>What's the number one thing that you would tell your

0:37:53.920 --> 0:37:57.919
<v Speaker 15>younger self? Sitting here now as a thirty three year old,

0:37:57.960 --> 0:37:59.359
<v Speaker 15>I always have to remember, hold you are.

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<v Speaker 17>It's very difficul I don't know how cliche this is,

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<v Speaker 17>but like, stop caring what people think. I think that

0:38:05.480 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 17>kept me from doing a lot of things that I

0:38:07.640 --> 0:38:11.319
<v Speaker 17>enjoyed younger because I was worried about how they would

0:38:11.320 --> 0:38:13.680
<v Speaker 17>be perceived by other people. And at that time, I

0:38:13.719 --> 0:38:15.920
<v Speaker 17>didn't realize that those other people would not matter when

0:38:15.920 --> 0:38:17.799
<v Speaker 17>I was older. Like look at this room now, Like

0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:20.279
<v Speaker 17>all these things that I embraced now were things that

0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:22.839
<v Speaker 17>I hid back then. And I think all the things

0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:26.480
<v Speaker 17>about me now that I enjoy actually about myself I

0:38:26.600 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 17>was ashamed of probably fifteen years ago. And it's hard

0:38:31.640 --> 0:38:35.120
<v Speaker 17>to say to imagine me like being cool, but I

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<v Speaker 17>had a feeling of like I need to be cool

0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 17>because I was so one cool that I didn't want

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 17>to come across of like putting anything against me because

0:38:42.320 --> 0:38:44.000
<v Speaker 17>there was already a lot of things held against me.

0:38:44.040 --> 0:38:47.080
<v Speaker 17>I felt like like I was overweight, I had bad skin,

0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 17>my teeth are messed up. There were just things I

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:52.239
<v Speaker 17>felt that kept me from being cool, and I was like,

0:38:52.280 --> 0:38:55.279
<v Speaker 17>I just can't show any other weakness. I think that's

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<v Speaker 17>what it would be it for me. I would just

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<v Speaker 17>not care about what anybody else thought. And just like

0:38:58.600 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 17>the things I like, would you tell yourself?

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<v Speaker 15>Mine's also cliche, and mine would be to like stop

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:09.040
<v Speaker 15>worrying about the boys that didn't like me. Like I

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 15>just was like, no one's ever gonna like me. I'm

0:39:11.239 --> 0:39:14.520
<v Speaker 15>gonna be single forever. I felt that too, and I

0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:17.319
<v Speaker 15>was so young. But I think I think when you're

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<v Speaker 15>in high school and it's like you have those couples

0:39:19.960 --> 0:39:22.560
<v Speaker 15>and like ever I never had a boyfriend. You were

0:39:22.560 --> 0:39:23.759
<v Speaker 15>my first boyfriend.

0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:26.960
<v Speaker 8>I damn you went my first girlfriend dates.

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<v Speaker 15>Like I liked people, I talk to people, but like

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:32.279
<v Speaker 15>no one ever really fully liked me. And I just

0:39:32.360 --> 0:39:35.640
<v Speaker 15>used to think, like I'm ugly, no one's gonna like me.

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:37.960
<v Speaker 15>And I'm just say in retrospect, I think I was

0:39:38.080 --> 0:39:40.560
<v Speaker 15>just like too smart. I think I intimidated people like

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:43.080
<v Speaker 15>not to toot my own horn, but I think I

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:45.960
<v Speaker 15>just was like unapproachable because I was really smart.

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<v Speaker 2>I've oddly been thinking about this lately.

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:48.279
<v Speaker 8>Is.

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<v Speaker 17>I always felt that it was people not giving me

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<v Speaker 17>a chance. And when I look back on myself there,

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<v Speaker 17>I think I just didn't respect myself enough, Like I

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<v Speaker 17>didn't put enough effort into myself to attract anybody. I

0:40:00.280 --> 0:40:02.920
<v Speaker 17>thought it was all about looks, but I think it

0:40:03.000 --> 0:40:06.520
<v Speaker 17>was how I treated myself and probably the energy I

0:40:06.520 --> 0:40:08.960
<v Speaker 17>put out that was really what it was. And I

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<v Speaker 17>just thought it was, like I said, just people not

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<v Speaker 17>give me a chance. But I thought about like would

0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:16.080
<v Speaker 17>I even want to be with me then? So maybe

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<v Speaker 17>that's the advice I would give to myself, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 17>working yourself a little more, dummy.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, I think I would tell myself to stop stressing.

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<v Speaker 15>Because I met you when I was twenty four. That's

0:40:23.640 --> 0:40:28.040
<v Speaker 15>that is still so young when in retrospect, I met

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<v Speaker 15>you when I was twenty four, I'm married to twenty seven.

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<v Speaker 15>Like I don't know. I think I just was like,

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<v Speaker 15>oh my god, I'm going to be alone forever. But

0:40:37.800 --> 0:40:40.960
<v Speaker 15>like those things feel so big when you're younger. Yeah,

0:40:41.000 --> 0:40:42.680
<v Speaker 15>they feel so monumental.

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<v Speaker 17>When you're younger, you want to get older. When you're older,

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:46.440
<v Speaker 17>you want to be younger. I think if I was

0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:48.840
<v Speaker 17>more specific about my advice I think it would be

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<v Speaker 17>that you're on your own timeline. Yeah, like nobody else

0:40:52.080 --> 0:40:54.279
<v Speaker 17>is really looking at your timeline, even though to you

0:40:54.320 --> 0:40:56.600
<v Speaker 17>it feels like, ah, I'm so behind. How am I

0:40:56.640 --> 0:40:59.000
<v Speaker 17>not at this point in my life yet? When really

0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:02.040
<v Speaker 17>nobody else cares about what's going on with you And

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<v Speaker 17>in the end, it doesn't really matter, like what age

0:41:05.200 --> 0:41:08.480
<v Speaker 17>you are when you hit these supposed milestones that you're

0:41:08.520 --> 0:41:09.120
<v Speaker 17>supposed to hit.

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<v Speaker 15>I think I would also I would warn myself not

0:41:11.360 --> 0:41:13.520
<v Speaker 15>to like several of the guys that I liked. I

0:41:13.520 --> 0:41:16.240
<v Speaker 15>think I would be like, don't waste your time, don't

0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 15>just don't delete his number.

0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:21.880
<v Speaker 17>Even more specific advice, I would have told myself to

0:41:21.920 --> 0:41:24.239
<v Speaker 17>like to get into coding more like pay attention to

0:41:24.840 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 17>technology more.

0:41:25.840 --> 0:41:28.560
<v Speaker 15>I would have told myself to purchase real estate at

0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:29.880
<v Speaker 15>the age of like five.

0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:32.640
<v Speaker 17>I'd invested in like TikTok or something.

0:41:33.160 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 8>I would have invested in bitcoin exactly.

0:41:35.719 --> 0:41:37.439
<v Speaker 17>I'd have bought it when it was so cheap. It'd

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:40.120
<v Speaker 17>be millionaires now as I tell you.

0:41:40.160 --> 0:41:42.440
<v Speaker 15>I would have bought stock and Apple.

0:41:42.719 --> 0:41:44.200
<v Speaker 2>Would it have been as value?

0:41:44.320 --> 0:41:47.040
<v Speaker 17>I guess back then, I feel like the time would

0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:49.280
<v Speaker 17>have to buy it would have been like the eighties.

0:41:49.280 --> 0:41:51.320
<v Speaker 17>Whenever they were first launching, it was like dirty. I

0:41:51.360 --> 0:41:52.719
<v Speaker 17>don't know if they were public by that point.

0:41:52.760 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 15>It's not according to what one of the characters in

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:55.920
<v Speaker 15>the Nexolas Sparks book.

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<v Speaker 17>Did, But all right, that is the list.

0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:12.759
<v Speaker 15>Cary Lone, she's a queen and talking and you saw them.

0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:17.440
<v Speaker 15>You know, she's getting really not afraid to feel its episode, so.

0:42:17.840 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 13>Just let it flow.

0:42:19.160 --> 0:42:24.479
<v Speaker 17>No one can do we quiet cary Lone is kind

0:42:24.480 --> 0:42:26.200
<v Speaker 17>of care Lone.

0:42:27.080 --> 0:42:29.560
<v Speaker 7>I'm sad I was not someone who grew up watching

0:42:29.560 --> 0:42:31.399
<v Speaker 7>One Tree Hill, and now I feel like I need

0:42:31.400 --> 0:42:34.600
<v Speaker 7>to go back and binge that because after like reading

0:42:34.640 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 7>your book and then deep diving you and then I

0:42:37.239 --> 0:42:41.120
<v Speaker 7>deep dived One Tree Hill, and that show is like,

0:42:41.160 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 7>that's like an amazing That show like shaped our generation.

0:42:46.400 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 7>Like I'm forty one, and I feel like, I don't

0:42:48.760 --> 0:42:50.600
<v Speaker 7>know how I missed watching it, probably because I didn't

0:42:50.680 --> 0:42:52.439
<v Speaker 7>watch a whole bunch of TV growing up, but.

0:42:52.840 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 18>That was like pretty much I know, I know, right,

0:42:55.960 --> 0:43:01.640
<v Speaker 18>that was like the show that shaped our like our minds.

0:43:01.680 --> 0:43:02.920
<v Speaker 18>I feel like I feel like that.

0:43:03.000 --> 0:43:06.280
<v Speaker 7>And Friday Night Lights it's like One Tree Hi Lights

0:43:06.440 --> 0:43:07.040
<v Speaker 7>were the ones.

0:43:06.960 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 19>Right, that was a big one too. Yeah, the others

0:43:10.760 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 19>felt like they were as much as we loved Gossip

0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:16.200
<v Speaker 19>Girl in the OC, they were very they lived in

0:43:16.239 --> 0:43:18.600
<v Speaker 19>that Beverly Hills nine O, two and O zone of

0:43:21.560 --> 0:43:24.400
<v Speaker 19>it's such a rare population of America who live like that.

0:43:24.640 --> 0:43:28.000
<v Speaker 19>But the kids that live like us kids in One

0:43:28.040 --> 0:43:30.040
<v Speaker 19>Tree Hill and the kids that lived like the Friday

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:38.480
<v Speaker 19>Night Light kids are vastly more. Sorry my sentences aren't

0:43:38.520 --> 0:43:41.359
<v Speaker 19>working today. They'll come together eventually, but there's so many

0:43:41.360 --> 0:43:44.120
<v Speaker 19>more of a population that lives like that and things

0:43:44.160 --> 0:43:47.040
<v Speaker 19>like that and experiences life just in a small town

0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:49.960
<v Speaker 19>like that. So I feel like we really kind of

0:43:49.960 --> 0:43:55.440
<v Speaker 19>cornered the market on just reflecting back to teens in

0:43:55.480 --> 0:44:00.680
<v Speaker 19>America what their life was and they felt seen. And

0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:01.759
<v Speaker 19>you should go back and watch it.

0:44:01.800 --> 0:44:02.520
<v Speaker 18>You definitely should.

0:44:02.560 --> 0:44:03.040
<v Speaker 2>It be fun.

0:44:03.200 --> 0:44:05.280
<v Speaker 18>I need to binge it. I love a good show.

0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:07.040
<v Speaker 7>I have a five year old daughter and all I

0:44:07.080 --> 0:44:10.239
<v Speaker 7>watch is like Disney, and now she's into watching YouTube,

0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:13.719
<v Speaker 7>like YouTube kids and all these families just make their

0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:15.920
<v Speaker 7>own YouTube videos and I'm like, oh my god, I

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:19.520
<v Speaker 7>literally it's torture to watch it, but it's I need

0:44:19.560 --> 0:44:23.200
<v Speaker 7>to watch like real, real content, and that's our shows

0:44:23.200 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 7>were great. You know, that's when the storylines were good.

0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:27.040
<v Speaker 7>They lasted a long time.

0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:30.920
<v Speaker 18>It's just, man, what a life you've lived, Bethanie.

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:33.080
<v Speaker 7>Okay, So now that I'm like diving into your book,

0:44:33.200 --> 0:44:36.000
<v Speaker 7>I literally you're such a good storyteller.

0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:40.120
<v Speaker 18>First off, becauk you, I am so in the story

0:44:40.160 --> 0:44:40.400
<v Speaker 18>with you.

0:44:40.520 --> 0:44:43.760
<v Speaker 7>When I am reading this, I feel like I feel

0:44:43.760 --> 0:44:50.320
<v Speaker 7>like I'm like in your actual brain walking starting from

0:44:50.440 --> 0:44:52.640
<v Speaker 7>your childhood with your parents.

0:44:52.800 --> 0:44:57.120
<v Speaker 18>Like it's just it makes so much sense, like it's

0:44:57.480 --> 0:44:58.080
<v Speaker 18>you always wonder.

0:44:58.120 --> 0:45:00.320
<v Speaker 7>I'm from Waco, Texas, and we had David Crash in

0:45:00.360 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 7>the branch Davidians.

0:45:01.160 --> 0:45:04.399
<v Speaker 18>We actually, oh boy, yes, that's right, of course you did.

0:45:04.760 --> 0:45:05.319
<v Speaker 8>You had a.

0:45:05.280 --> 0:45:09.239
<v Speaker 18>Cult in our in our town. And there's been like.

0:45:09.440 --> 0:45:12.600
<v Speaker 7>Lots of other little pop up cults that lots of

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<v Speaker 7>families join and they're integrated into the city. But it's

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<v Speaker 7>definitely always been like cults. So there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 7>culty vibes in Wacos. So I've always grown up with

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<v Speaker 7>interesting Yeah, I've always grown up like with a big

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<v Speaker 7>understanding of cults.

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<v Speaker 18>But like I always wondered, how does this happen? Like

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<v Speaker 18>how does so unusual?

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<v Speaker 19>But maybe it's not unusual. I haven't. I'm not a researcher,

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<v Speaker 19>but it seems strange to me that in a town

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<v Speaker 19>like Waco, where it's known for being the center of

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<v Speaker 19>this massive cult event, that others would pop up, so

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<v Speaker 19>many others would still pop up in that region that

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<v Speaker 19>like people didn't quite learn the lesson.

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<v Speaker 18>I guess it's that is wild. It is wild, And

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<v Speaker 18>there's some other I don't know if they're called cults.

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<v Speaker 18>What do you call them?

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<v Speaker 7>A focus group or like a what does the other

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<v Speaker 7>word you use for that?

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<v Speaker 18>It's not cult, but it's like a control group.

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<v Speaker 19>Yeah, high demand, high demand group great, which that is

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<v Speaker 19>what a cult is. It's it's the definitions are interchangeable.

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<v Speaker 18>High demand group think.

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<v Speaker 7>I love the group think because I actually was talking

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<v Speaker 7>to my friend. We're in Georgia and I we're saying

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<v Speaker 7>with some friends, and we were talking about just faith

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<v Speaker 7>and how people can have all sorts of.

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<v Speaker 18>Rules with it.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, so I have some friends right now who I

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<v Speaker 7>consider really great friends who are like not practicing yoga

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<v Speaker 7>because they feel like that is sacrilegious. Then I'm like,

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<v Speaker 7>and you can probably find all of these spiritual practices

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<v Speaker 7>to back it. But at the same time, like I

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<v Speaker 7>personally have had so many spiritual experiences that I have

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<v Speaker 7>had myself that it's like, I know, I have to

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<v Speaker 7>trust my own intuition and not other people's advice. What

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<v Speaker 7>might be good for someone, or what might someone might

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<v Speaker 7>feel like is their path, that does not mean it

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<v Speaker 7>is my spiritual path.

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<v Speaker 18>And I love that.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like that's sort of the point that I'm

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<v Speaker 7>getting from your book is yes, someone can have a

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<v Speaker 7>spiritual idea and that can truly be their road, But like,

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<v Speaker 7>if it does not align with you, and if it

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<v Speaker 7>is not your internal guidance system, like really you need

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<v Speaker 7>to examine that and really take note of why are

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<v Speaker 7>you doing something just because someone is telling you.

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<v Speaker 18>To do them if you don't really know why?

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<v Speaker 19>Right, Yeah, it's huge. We do so much in our

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<v Speaker 19>life and we don't ask why why do I do this?

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<v Speaker 19>I am very neurodivergent, and my tendency is to examine things,

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<v Speaker 19>and so I appreciate that not everyone's brain works the

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<v Speaker 19>same way that mine does. It's taken me a while

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<v Speaker 19>to get to that point. I used to be so

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<v Speaker 19>frustrated that people seem to think I was overthinking things

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<v Speaker 19>all the time. And people thought I was, you know,

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<v Speaker 19>pushing too many buttons, and I was like, oh, that's

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<v Speaker 19>because the neurotypical brain, most people's brains aren't endlessly curious

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<v Speaker 19>about the why, and so I try and leave space

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<v Speaker 19>for that. Just everybody's brain works differently, you know, But

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<v Speaker 19>for me, I just I don't know how you can

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<v Speaker 19>go through life not asking yourself why? Why?

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<v Speaker 11>Why?

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<v Speaker 19>Because even when I was in this group, it's the

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<v Speaker 19>why that got me in, but it's also the why

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<v Speaker 19>that got me out. Like it's just the most important question.

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<v Speaker 19>I think you can ask yourself with everything. Why do

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<v Speaker 19>I eat this? Why am I I'm getting married? Why

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<v Speaker 19>do I walk down an aisle? Why? Why do do

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<v Speaker 19>I need to keep my room clean? Why do I

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<v Speaker 19>need to walk my dogs? Why do I pray? Why?

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<v Speaker 19>And follow it all the way down? And I think,

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<v Speaker 19>I mean, some roads just keep on going. I don't

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<v Speaker 19>know that we'll ever arrive at the answer, but you

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<v Speaker 19>certainly can arrive at like new layers of understanding of

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<v Speaker 19>yourself and other people. Sorry, I didn't mean to go

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<v Speaker 19>on a tangent, but yes, you're right that one of

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<v Speaker 19>the main points of the book is nobody else can

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<v Speaker 19>live your life for you, you have to move with

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<v Speaker 19>the God of your understanding at the pace that you're at.

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<v Speaker 19>And you also can't condemn or judge other people for

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<v Speaker 19>the pace that they're at and where they are. You

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<v Speaker 19>didn't grow up as them. You don't know their life,

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<v Speaker 19>and you don't know how God is speaking to them

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<v Speaker 19>or planning to speak to them. You just don't know