WEBVTT - “I’M ON EXPERIMENTAL MALE BIRTH CONTROL”

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hey, hey, how's going It's going good?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing pretty well? All right? Isaiah, twenty

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<v Speaker 1>two years old in Utah is on experimental male birth control.

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<v Speaker 1>How is that going?

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<v Speaker 2>That's right? So it's pretty good, especially compared to like

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<v Speaker 2>female birth control. And it's experimental, so I do get

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<v Speaker 2>paid like one hundred dollars a visit, so that's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of tight, and it works. I've been doing it since

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<v Speaker 2>probably August or September of last year. It didn't like

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<v Speaker 2>start working working until probably January or February of this year.

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<v Speaker 2>But the way that it works is that every morning

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<v Speaker 2>I just put this alcohol based gel on my shoulders

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<v Speaker 2>and that's supposed to decrease my sperm count to under

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<v Speaker 2>a million. I guess is a threshold while also giving

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<v Speaker 2>me like testosterone to like resupplement it. But but it

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<v Speaker 2>do be making me a little hormonal. Can't even lie.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's far less invasive than an IUD or anything

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<v Speaker 2>like that, so yeah, I can't really complain. It's it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of tight.

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<v Speaker 1>How does the gel get from your shoulder to your balls?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's that's a pretty good question. I also wonder about, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like placement of it, because it kind of

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<v Speaker 2>goes on my shoulders and my chest. But I yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess it's just a good spot to lower that

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<v Speaker 2>testosterone or something. I don't know. They don't really tell

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<v Speaker 2>me much about how it works. They're just like, here's

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<v Speaker 2>what your blood looks like. You know, blood levels, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know your sperm counts going down. So once a

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<v Speaker 2>month I bring in a sample as well as they

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<v Speaker 2>take my blood and like vitals and just make sure

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm stable.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, do you do you know if this has any

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<v Speaker 1>long term effects?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that, like fingers crossed, that it doesn't. I've

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<v Speaker 2>actually talked to them because I've noted kind of the

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<v Speaker 2>main thing that they said going into it was that

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<v Speaker 2>the one negative side effect that they've noticed is that

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<v Speaker 2>it does make the patients that are on it much

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<v Speaker 2>more prone to like irritability or frustration. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>That's not really gonna happen to me, because I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>chill dude. I'm not like that, I'm super chill. But

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of noticed recently, very retrospectively, that it has

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<v Speaker 2>definitely had that effect. I'm like a dog person in general,

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<v Speaker 2>but this whole year, anytime a dog hops up on me,

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<v Speaker 2>I like freak out, like yell at the dog, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I just get frustrated by little things that I

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<v Speaker 2>don't normally get frustrated by. But I've actually talked to

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<v Speaker 2>the doctor about that, and they've said that sort of

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<v Speaker 2>the first thing to come back to normal will be

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<v Speaker 2>my hormones when I do stop taking it, and then

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<v Speaker 2>eventually the very last thing that's going to turn back

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<v Speaker 2>on is my sperm's ability to create sperm. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of tight too, because if I don't take it

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<v Speaker 2>for like a day, it's not like I am all

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<v Speaker 2>of a sudden going to be producing sperm again. It

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<v Speaker 2>takes like a week to reset. So it is kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a good option once it does hit the markets

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<v Speaker 2>for someone who's not looking to have kids for you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like in their twenties or something, they can just put

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<v Speaker 2>that on every day and keep it moving.

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<v Speaker 1>How much are they paying you for this?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that collectively it's going to be like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>Shy have like three thousand dollars, it's like one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>dollars a visit. And actually, during a big section of

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<v Speaker 2>the part before I went onto, before I started the

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<v Speaker 2>efficacy process right because before it works, before your sperm

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<v Speaker 2>counts below that, you got to wear a condom, use

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<v Speaker 2>other forms of birth control. But before that there was

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<v Speaker 2>this they would have you use this at home. But

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<v Speaker 2>me kit like tester where you would actually almost like

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<v Speaker 2>test your own semen samples to see what they showed

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<v Speaker 2>results on. And then I was doing like one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>and twenty five when I was using that, But now

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm in this efficacy process, it's just like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you get a hundred, we take your blood, we take

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a sample of your semen, and you go

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<v Speaker 2>home like so, yeah, it's not bad money.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a partner?

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<v Speaker 2>I do. Yeah. That was like a big part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You had to have be in like a monogamous relationship

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<v Speaker 2>for I think I said something like two years when

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<v Speaker 2>he signed up, so yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And how she feel about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>At first, she was really stressed out about it, kind

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<v Speaker 2>of understandably, like like she was down with it because

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<v Speaker 2>she's had pretty bad experiences with birth control. But once

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<v Speaker 2>we started this efficacy process where I'm not allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>use a condom, that's like stressful as fuck, but she's

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<v Speaker 2>actually I think she's into it. She's also just like

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<v Speaker 2>happy that she doesn't have to be with someone who

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<v Speaker 2>like almost like forces them to be put onto a

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<v Speaker 2>birth control right, as women often find themselves being or

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, if a condom breaks, she doesn't have

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<v Speaker 2>to deal with like Plan B or whatever. So she's

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<v Speaker 2>come around for sure, But it was stressful for both

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<v Speaker 2>of us at first because like they say it works,

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<v Speaker 2>but it doesn't actually work.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she happy that, like she doesn't have to be

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<v Speaker 1>on birth control because you're on birth control?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, And we're both pretty like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>big feminists, So it's kind of like cool to be

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<v Speaker 2>part of this process because in general health care for

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<v Speaker 2>women it's pretty rough. So to be part of this

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<v Speaker 2>like trial process for male birth control, which we should

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<v Speaker 2>have had ages ago, is kind of cool. She actually

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<v Speaker 2>wishes it was more invasive, though. She wished that they

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<v Speaker 2>like had to like put a shot in my dick

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<v Speaker 2>every month or something, just like even the playing field

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<v Speaker 2>because like getting an IUD is horrific and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>So there's that part of her that's like it could

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<v Speaker 2>be worse and that would maybe make her a little happy,

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<v Speaker 2>just as far as you know the status quo, would

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<v Speaker 2>you do it.

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<v Speaker 1>If they had to take a shot in your dick hole?

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<v Speaker 2>I would try it. I think, like, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>I do it for science. It's easy to say that

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<v Speaker 2>now though, It's like if I saw the needle right,

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<v Speaker 2>can't can't? Yeah, you know what I mean. I try

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<v Speaker 2>it once. Probably if it was like awful, I might

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<v Speaker 2>not keep coming back.

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<v Speaker 1>Have there been any like negative side effects that like

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<v Speaker 1>like that you you said the irritability was one and

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<v Speaker 1>then uh huh any any anything else besides the eared ability.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I do think that my sex drive is like up,

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<v Speaker 2>which is wild because I'm also like a twenty two

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<v Speaker 2>year old boy man whatever you want to call me,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not like I had a problem with that before.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I do think that I'm like hornier than

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<v Speaker 2>I should be, which is saying a lot. Maybe we

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<v Speaker 2>all feel that way, but I feel like it's extra.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to have a child?

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<v Speaker 3>Day?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, this thing's been nice because it has sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like cemented in my mind that as soon as I'm

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<v Speaker 2>off of it, I'd actually just like to get to

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<v Speaker 2>affect me if I can find a doctor who will

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<v Speaker 2>do it. So it's kind of like affected me light mmmmmmmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Mmmm. Now uh, are you doing anything else for work

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<v Speaker 1>or is your full time job testing this h mail birth?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I do have a full time job, so this is

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<v Speaker 2>just like a side hustle. It's nice, I, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>get one hundred dollars once a month so I can

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<v Speaker 2>like buy video games or take my girlfriend out to

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<v Speaker 2>a nice dinner. But it's definitely just like supplementary income

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't do anything serious with it. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>I think of it like free money.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your job?

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<v Speaker 2>I work at tech support for like a cell company,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like it's like kind of like a call

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<v Speaker 2>center job, but it's like high brid so I work

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<v Speaker 2>from home. But technology of people?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you tech support for a sperm cell company? Like

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<v Speaker 1>some sperm cells? Like, Hey, I'm trying to get this

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<v Speaker 1>egg pregnant, but there's some gel in my way.

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<v Speaker 2>See I I wouldn't know anything about that. I'd suggest

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<v Speaker 2>turning it off and back on again. And that's that's

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<v Speaker 2>about as much as I can do.

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<v Speaker 1>That wasn't funny, but I tried to be funny. What's

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<v Speaker 1>your dream in life, Isaiah? I?

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<v Speaker 2>I do stand up comedy, so it'd be fun to

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<v Speaker 2>actually like go on a tour with someone. Thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for that. That was that was good?

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, it was probably that.

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<v Speaker 2>I a lot of writing.

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you don't stand up?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh?

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<v Speaker 2>This is I'm going into my I think I think

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<v Speaker 2>I just started. No, I just finished my fourth year,

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<v Speaker 2>so going into like.

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<v Speaker 1>My fifth Okay, yeah, yeah, you're in Utah. I was that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was that wise guy. Have you ever been to

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<v Speaker 1>Wise Guys? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>You were?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I have been there.

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<v Speaker 3>I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I got to host for uh like nationally touring comedian

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<v Speaker 2>there not too long ago. But I don't get like

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<v Speaker 2>super regular gigs. You were here in Utah. It's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of weird. It's a weird comedy scene. It's a weird

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<v Speaker 2>scene in general.

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<v Speaker 1>So who was who was the King?

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<v Speaker 2>But he did start out in Chicago. Uh, his name

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<v Speaker 2>is Jeffrey, asked Osmas. Have you heard of him?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? He I think I want to say he did

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<v Speaker 1>stand up comedy in my basement at some point. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if.

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<v Speaker 2>Really that's so cool? It is. No, he's really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I don't have I met have I met

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<v Speaker 1>him before? I know I know exactly who that is,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know. Okay, I don't know if it's

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<v Speaker 1>because I've met him or if you know so many

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<v Speaker 1>comedian of Facebook or something. Yeah, yeah, well ship man,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey you can open for me if I read if

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<v Speaker 1>I ever come to wise guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh please, I'll take you up on that for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you have to remind send me a d M.

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<v Speaker 1>And if I remember next time, I'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Say I'm the mill birth control guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Yeah, so you're the mail birth control guy and

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<v Speaker 1>you got the gig message me message if I announced it.

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<v Speaker 1>If I if I'm announcing a tour to Utah next year,

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<v Speaker 1>you let me know. I'll let you. I'll let you

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<v Speaker 1>open for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Please, Yes, I'm there.

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<v Speaker 1>I had my I had my boy. I had my

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<v Speaker 1>boy Ryan the Leader open for me last time I

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<v Speaker 1>was there, and he's he's pretty sweet too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh very nice. Yeah, I heard the show was awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up getting stuck at work that night, but

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<v Speaker 2>like my friends went and had a really good time.

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<v Speaker 2>So you had a lot of jem I'm sure you'll

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<v Speaker 2>sell it out again.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do stand up comedy about?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I grew up here in Utah, so sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like a large percentage of it is sort of like

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<v Speaker 2>Utah based, like because I actually grew up in Provo,

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<v Speaker 2>which is like the most kind of Mormon city in Utah,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a lot of that. But then I'm also

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<v Speaker 2>a Polynesian, so I do joke something like Hawaiian and

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<v Speaker 2>tongue in and then just kind of like dumb, like

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<v Speaker 2>dark humor about like my dog dying and shit like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, I try to try to touch a few bases.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, what's your take on Polynesian sauce.

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<v Speaker 2>Polynesian sauce.

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<v Speaker 5>It's good.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it. It's not honestly like karaoke sauce is

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<v Speaker 2>probably one that you might find more like actually Polynesian restaurants.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's kind of like Hawaiian pizza, like that was

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<v Speaker 2>like made in Canada, but I still like Hawaiian pizza.

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<v Speaker 1>So dude, can I can I tell you something? When

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<v Speaker 1>you just said, when you said just now that you

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<v Speaker 1>are Polynesian, that's the first time I've ever heard the

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<v Speaker 1>word Polynesian used out in reference to a sauce of

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<v Speaker 1>Polynesian sauce. Like, I didn't know that Polynesia. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was I I'm being one hundred percent. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it just was a sauce. Where is Polynesia?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Polynesia refers to like the a lot of like

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<v Speaker 2>Pacific islands. So it's like, if you're a Polynesian, you

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<v Speaker 2>could be like Fijian Tonguan sumbling. I think they consider

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<v Speaker 2>like Maori's in New Zealand Polynesian, so it's it's sort

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<v Speaker 2>of like like Asians can be from a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>different countries. Polynesians are like Pacific Islanders.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Interestingly, I grew up saying like, oh I'm Polly to

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<v Speaker 2>refer to being Polynesian. But now if you say you're

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<v Speaker 2>people think that you're like polyamorous. Leads to a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of confusion, so you gotta say the whole thing these days.

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<v Speaker 1>What's that is that? Is that? Is that a bit

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<v Speaker 1>that you do?

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<v Speaker 2>It is a bit that I do. Yep, But it's

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<v Speaker 2>like new it. It was a problem before it was

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<v Speaker 2>a bit, but now it's a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. It's a good bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Please?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'd love to.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. Well, hey, now with the male birth control and NOWS,

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<v Speaker 1>now is a great time to be Polly and Polly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it really does work out both ways. I think

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty monogamous, but I've heard.

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<v Speaker 1>Good things, Isaiah. Is the anything else you want to

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<v Speaker 1>say to the people of the computer before we.

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<v Speaker 2>Go, I mean, look into male birth control near you

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<v Speaker 2>you might save your save the woman in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of grief and and we'll leave it at that.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for your time.

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<v Speaker 1>Gek, what before we dive? What is the Polynesian sauce

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<v Speaker 1>like in Polynesia?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a lot of like karaoke sauce. Uh

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<v Speaker 2>you They actually even call like terry sauce for short.

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<v Speaker 2>There's like burgers in Hawaii. Have you been to Hawaii

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<v Speaker 2>or you're going to Hawaii soon?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I I have a flight to Hawaii tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, incredible. So if you've never tried this, definitely try

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<v Speaker 2>Loco Moco when you're in Hawaii. It's a Hawaiian burger

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<v Speaker 2>that's like a beef patty on rice over like gravy.

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<v Speaker 2>There's like gravy over it and there you have like

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<v Speaker 2>a egg on top that's like that. That that's pretty

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<v Speaker 2>that's like a Hawaiian burger. Like a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>think of like Hawaiian burger as having pineapple on it,

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<v Speaker 2>But Loco Moco.

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<v Speaker 1>All the way, that sounds pretty sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's it's good stuff. You'll you'll like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for calling, Isaah, have.

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<v Speaker 2>A good one, safe travels.

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<v Speaker 1>Crap. I had a thought that I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was gonna wait until Isaiah was off the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>What did it had? Something? It had something to do

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<v Speaker 1>with either Polynesian sauce or first Control. I forget. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna not say it, but let's include this in

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. Still, let's include this afterthought that I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>all from Hello.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, I got on.

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<v Speaker 2>How's it going?

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<v Speaker 1>It's going good man? How are you?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm good? I'm good. This is my first time calling in.

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<v Speaker 6>I actually the first time that I called, I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>realize that there was like a voicemail thing. So you

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<v Speaker 6>might have just a strange message after this.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up man? What'd you want to talk about today?

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<v Speaker 6>So kind of have an interesting situation going on in

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<v Speaker 6>my life right now involving my roommate, my girlfriend, and

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<v Speaker 6>one of her friends. So my girlfriend's friend and my

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<v Speaker 6>roommate had a thing for a while and around the

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<v Speaker 6>time of her birthday. She lives in a different town,

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<v Speaker 6>she came to the town where my girlfriend and I

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<v Speaker 6>my roommate lives, and when she got here, they were

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<v Speaker 6>talking about potentially like hooking up and stuff, and my

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<v Speaker 6>roommate was just really like head over heels for this girl,

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<v Speaker 6>and we ended up going out for drinks for the

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<v Speaker 6>first night of the weekend and it was all great,

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<v Speaker 6>and then eventually what happened was is that after we

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<v Speaker 6>got back to my house and I dropped my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 6>and her friend off back my girlfriend's house, he was

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<v Speaker 6>texting me saying like, oh, she like really wants me

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<v Speaker 6>to like come over, Like what should I do? And

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, uh, you know how mad my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 6>would be if you went over to her house at

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<v Speaker 6>three am and had effect with her friend on her couch. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>now you're just just wait till tomorrow, dude. What he

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<v Speaker 6>didn't know was that my girlfriend and I were after

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<v Speaker 6>he went to bed, we're going to uh puck up

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<v Speaker 6>with her friend afterwards. And after it was all said

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<v Speaker 6>and done, her friend was like, yeah, I don't really

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<v Speaker 6>want to like pursue a relationship with this guy. And

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<v Speaker 6>long story short, she ended up cutting it off from

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<v Speaker 6>him and he was heartbroken. And now whenever she like

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<v Speaker 6>comes around like.

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<v Speaker 1>This, okay girl friend, actually no, no, you know you

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, go ahead finished, I'll save my questions.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Yeah, So whenever she like comes around to visit

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<v Speaker 6>my girlfriend or she ever gets brought up in the conversation,

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<v Speaker 6>he just like tries to shut it down immediately, and

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<v Speaker 6>he gets all sad and shit. And I really feel

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<v Speaker 6>like I kind of ruined his chances with this girl.

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<v Speaker 6>And I know that it's probably wasn't much.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna cut I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna cut in with my questions now. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to congratulate you on having so many friends

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<v Speaker 1>that I've lost track of all the different friends that

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<v Speaker 1>you have in this story. But okay, sorry, so no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, it's okay. It's a good it's a good thing,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise if I understand this correctly. Your friend had

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<v Speaker 1>a big old crush on your girlfriend's friend, and they

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<v Speaker 1>did They hadn't done any they there was just a crush.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no real thing between them, correct.

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<v Speaker 6>There There was talk that they were going to do stuff, but.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no they didn't. Okay, but okay, your friend

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<v Speaker 1>had a crush on your girlfriend's friend and one night

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<v Speaker 1>text your girlfriend's friend to see if if he could

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<v Speaker 1>come over. Uh, that doesn't work out, And on that

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<v Speaker 1>very same night, you and your girlfriend go to her

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<v Speaker 1>house to have a threesome with her.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess that it is correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's wild. That is a that that is very wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell do you ever talk to your friend?

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<v Speaker 1>Your friend has no idea that you had a threesome

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<v Speaker 1>with your girlfriend and has no idea. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel bad at all? Did you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>were you morally conflicted?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, in the moment, I was like this is uh.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean in the moment I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was in the moment, you were like, this is fucking awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. But after after it was all said and done,

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<v Speaker 6>you like didn't come out of his room for like

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<v Speaker 6>two weeks mm hmm, And I just, uh, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 6>felt real bad. And there was like a moment of

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<v Speaker 6>time where I was going to tell him, But it's

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<v Speaker 6>been continue to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>This man would be shy. This man would be it's

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<v Speaker 1>been continuing to have like you've done this with you

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<v Speaker 1>guys have had this three some multiple times. Yes, this

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<v Speaker 1>man would be shattered if he knew what was going on.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 6>And to top all this off, he's my boss at work.

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<v Speaker 7>Like I'm I'm not joking, Like you're not joking, I'd

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<v Speaker 7>get fired. No, I am not joking with you, and

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<v Speaker 7>I'm afraid that if he does find out, I'll get

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<v Speaker 7>like fired and it would just make the whole living

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<v Speaker 7>situation really awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, all right, mm hmmm? Where what do you

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<v Speaker 1>do for work?

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<v Speaker 6>I work at a local sandwich shop.

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<v Speaker 1>He's your boss at the sandwich shop. What is Is

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<v Speaker 1>it a subway or is it like a local sandwich shop?

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<v Speaker 6>It is a Herberts and Gerberts.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that?

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<v Speaker 6>It's like a sandwich shop. I'm in I'm in Wisconsin

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<v Speaker 6>right now, and that's like the sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>Suffering, which sounds Wisconsin. Were you guys friends before you

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<v Speaker 1>started working together? Have you been friends for a long time?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we've been friends for like four or five years

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<v Speaker 6>or so.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, now in those four or five years, your understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of his friend? How have his relationships been over the

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<v Speaker 1>course of five years? Is this like kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>is is just like a recurring thing in his life

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<v Speaker 1>that he's like like, I guess romantic rejection.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, No, he just hasn't had the greatest luck. He

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<v Speaker 6>he kind of just gets really like invested into people.

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<v Speaker 6>And I mean, like it was great, like if you're

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<v Speaker 6>gonna love love hard, But he ends up getting hurt.

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<v Speaker 6>But I've just never seen him like that before.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm, m hmm. Did he do you think was

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<v Speaker 1>and now your friend's feelings for this, your girlfriend's friend

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<v Speaker 1>were they? Were they purely lustful or was there you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a little a little more to that.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, we live like four hours away from her,

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<v Speaker 6>so I think in the back of his head he

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<v Speaker 6>was like, yeah, I know this would never work, but

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<v Speaker 6>I think he really really wanted it to, which would

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<v Speaker 6>explain the reaction after she texted him when she went

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<v Speaker 6>back home and was like, yeah, I'm not looking for anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Man. So you so you and your girlfriend drove the

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<v Speaker 1>four hours.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh, We've it's kind of just been like, well, my

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<v Speaker 6>girlfriend has later moved since the moment, she's kind of

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<v Speaker 6>like in between me and her friend now, so we

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<v Speaker 6>kind of just end up meeting at her place. Now,

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<v Speaker 6>this hasn't happened in like months, because I just kind

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<v Speaker 6>of felt guilty about it, not even kind of I

0:24:14.960 --> 0:24:16.280
<v Speaker 6>do feel guilty about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, dude, I don't know, I really, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because you know what, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna sit here,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure there's plenty of other people listen to this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna sit here and tell you I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have done the same thing.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh that's awesome, I mean it makes you feel a

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<v Speaker 6>little better, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, well, I don't think it because I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to lie to you. I don't want to lie to

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<v Speaker 1>you and tell you I wouldn't have done the same

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<v Speaker 1>thang because it's not like it'd be what it'd be,

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<v Speaker 1>because it'd be one thing if this was like your friends,

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<v Speaker 1>uh like X or like uh, you know obviously would

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<v Speaker 1>be a thing if it was your friend's girlfriend. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, man, which I mean, tell me more

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<v Speaker 1>about your relationship with this guy with your friends.

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<v Speaker 6>So me and him moved in together into a house,

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<v Speaker 6>uh like two years ago, and sorry, we've I mean

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<v Speaker 6>we've been good friends. But ever since this moment, I

0:25:44.400 --> 0:25:47.919
<v Speaker 6>feel like it's just been kind of difficult to like

0:25:48.560 --> 0:25:50.840
<v Speaker 6>talk to him because he's also just been really stressed

0:25:50.840 --> 0:25:55.159
<v Speaker 6>with like work lately and uh coming home and the

0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 6>only thing that you can really talk about is work.

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<v Speaker 6>Is just like I'd really rather not talk to you then,

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<v Speaker 6>But I feel like they're kind of cold, you are?

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<v Speaker 6>I am twenty four?

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<v Speaker 1>How old is hey?

0:26:12.119 --> 0:26:12.960
<v Speaker 6>He is twenty five?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? What's his because it sounds like it sounds

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:24.679
<v Speaker 1>like homie, Like there's he's got a kind of a

0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:33.440
<v Speaker 1>general malaise going on or depression or or or something.

0:26:33.600 --> 0:26:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Something's something this is, this is it's not just this thing.

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:39.920
<v Speaker 1>He likes the girl and the girl doesn't like him back,

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<v Speaker 1>like there's a there's something. Is that accurate?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean there always kind of seems to be

0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:52.680
<v Speaker 6>something with him. So I tried to, like, I don't know,

0:26:52.720 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 6>I've tried to help in the past and try to

0:26:54.240 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 6>get him to like open up, but uh again, it's

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<v Speaker 6>just a lot about work. And I mean he's tried

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<v Speaker 6>dating since then, but it just has not gone well.

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think if you want to help your friend,

0:27:09.560 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>because like, here's the thing. If that girl didn't like

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:17.160
<v Speaker 1>your friend, there was nothing, there was nothing you could

0:27:17.160 --> 0:27:21.960
<v Speaker 1>have done to help. But like, I don't know, could

0:27:22.000 --> 0:27:27.800
<v Speaker 1>you and your friend like why do you? Why do

0:27:27.880 --> 0:27:30.480
<v Speaker 1>you look? You sound like you're probably a handsome guy.

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:36.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, thank you, You're you got stuff going on

0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:41.439
<v Speaker 1>and you and you know your friend intimately, what do

0:27:41.480 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>you think it is about him that that made that

0:27:47.560 --> 0:27:50.280
<v Speaker 1>girl not like him? Or what do you what do

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 1>you think it is that has has made him, you know,

0:27:55.480 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 1>romantically unsuccessful or like what what? Like in your opinion,

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:00.760
<v Speaker 1>what do you think is is holding him back?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean he's I really don't mean to like kind

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 6>of bash this guy now, but he's a little weird

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 6>and he's like really stinky and doesn't have the greatest hygiene.

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:19.199
<v Speaker 6>Like there was one night where me and him went

0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:22.280
<v Speaker 6>out to get drinks and I had to drive him

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 6>home and I made like a little puke bucket for him,

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:28.480
<v Speaker 6>and that puke bucket proceeded to sit in his room

0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:32.920
<v Speaker 6>for the next two months without being emptied. It got

0:28:32.960 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 6>to know what, where like you couldn't even.

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to sit here and tell you I

0:28:40.040 --> 0:28:42.480
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't do the same as well with.

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<v Speaker 6>That, Yeah, I mean it literally got with.

0:28:48.640 --> 0:28:50.200
<v Speaker 1>You with your friend as well.

0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:55.600
<v Speaker 6>It literally got to the point where like I couldn't.

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:57.880
<v Speaker 6>So we live on opposite floors. I live on the

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 6>main floor. He lives upstairs, and I genuinely couldn't like

0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:03.960
<v Speaker 6>walk past the stairs because of how bad that entire

0:29:04.000 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 6>floor smelled purely because of his room.

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:07.160
<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Man, this is tough. This is tough

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 1>because I don't know how you could help your friends. Yeah,

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:26.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know how you could help him. Yeah,

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, is it a bad eye, is it a

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 1>bad idea to hmm to tell him?

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:36.320
<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm.

0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:29:39.320 --> 0:29:43.200
<v Speaker 6>That's personally, I don't think it would end well if

0:29:43.240 --> 0:29:44.120
<v Speaker 6>I didn't tell him.

0:29:44.200 --> 0:29:46.080
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not even I'm not even talking about telling him,

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:53.040
<v Speaker 1>but no, I I I I H dude, I don't know.

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I sort of think ignorance is blissed with that. I'm

0:29:55.000 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to think if I were in the friends if

0:29:56.720 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I were in the friends position, and I don't think

0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:06.239
<v Speaker 1>I would want to know. I think there are some

0:30:06.560 --> 0:30:10.720
<v Speaker 1>there are some cases where you ignorances is just bliss

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of how you could, I don't know,

0:30:13.120 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 1>just in general help your friend. It's hard because you

0:30:17.120 --> 0:30:19.920
<v Speaker 1>don't want to just be like giving him unsolicited advice.

0:30:22.400 --> 0:30:24.480
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, And I mean a lot of the ways that

0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 6>it does help is just kind of like just being

0:30:27.880 --> 0:30:33.120
<v Speaker 6>a friend to him and overall just kind of just

0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:36.320
<v Speaker 6>kind of being there to listen to him, kind of

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 6>giving him a shoulder to cry on. I mean that

0:30:39.960 --> 0:30:43.240
<v Speaker 6>helps for the moment, but I mean usually by the

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 6>next day he's kind of back in that same spot.

0:30:47.920 --> 0:30:51.680
<v Speaker 1>Are you going to continue to hook up with this

0:30:51.720 --> 0:30:52.800
<v Speaker 1>girl with your girlfriend?

0:30:54.960 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:30:56.360 --> 0:30:59.560
<v Speaker 6>Her and I have talked about it, and I mean

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:02.600
<v Speaker 6>she knows how I feel about it, and she's kind

0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:06.880
<v Speaker 6>of has her uncertainties too. So I think we're both

0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:09.880
<v Speaker 6>kind of in the same boat of if it if

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 6>the stars align and us three are together again and

0:31:13.360 --> 0:31:17.600
<v Speaker 6>it happens great. If not, that's not going to be

0:31:17.600 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 6>something that we're like actively pushing for being like, oh,

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:21.920
<v Speaker 6>when is this gonna happen again?

0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Like no, mm hmm, dude, what if you guys had

0:31:31.640 --> 0:31:33.520
<v Speaker 1>a threesome in the sandwich shot?

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:31:39.160 --> 0:31:39.400
<v Speaker 1>Man?

0:31:39.920 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 6>I uh, you know, there there have been things that

0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:47.440
<v Speaker 6>have happened in like the store that.

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:52.960
<v Speaker 1>Are but like like what.

0:31:56.120 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 6>There's just been like some crazy things that have happened

0:31:58.680 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 6>in the store. We Uh so, we had a coworker

0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:09.360
<v Speaker 6>who had a baby not too long ago, and we

0:32:09.480 --> 0:32:13.160
<v Speaker 6>found out that the baby was conceived like in the

0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 6>back room area, Like the mother and the father had

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 6>sex in the back of the store. They both work

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:23.719
<v Speaker 6>at the store, so it wasn't like I mean, it's

0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 6>still weird, but like it'd be weird of just like

0:32:25.800 --> 0:32:28.520
<v Speaker 6>two random people. They came to the back of the store.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to explain.

0:32:32.120 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 1>I feel as though being conceived in Wisconsin sandwich shot

0:32:39.800 --> 0:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>probably dooms a baby.

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:48.840
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, the Uh what's your name again?

0:32:48.920 --> 0:32:49.120
<v Speaker 4>Sir?

0:32:51.960 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Well? Good luck, g l HF my friends. Uh is

0:32:57.560 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 1>there anything else you want to say to the people

0:32:59.120 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 1>of the computer before we go?

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 6>This is Uh feels good to get this off my chest.

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:10.240
<v Speaker 6>And yeah, at the end of the day, I really

0:33:10.320 --> 0:33:13.440
<v Speaker 6>just wish the best for my friends. But I guess

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:14.440
<v Speaker 6>all I gotta say.

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:17.760
<v Speaker 1>Never let him listen to this podcast.

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:20.040
<v Speaker 6>Oh absolutely not. He knows nothing about that.

0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:22.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, you have a good one.

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:24.200
<v Speaker 6>Yeah you too, Thank you.

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Wait. What's the name of the sandwich shop again? Herberts

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:30.040
<v Speaker 1>and Gerberts Herberts. Is that a chain?

0:33:31.600 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, it's a chain.

0:33:32.960 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, because I thought because then people would be like,

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to do you think, Anon, what do you get?

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:43.040
<v Speaker 1>You can give me a real name, did you?

0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:43.160
<v Speaker 6>No?

0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:47.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, have a good one.

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:49.160
<v Speaker 6>Yeah you two see man.

0:33:51.680 --> 0:33:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Because I feel like somebody would could just uh pinpoint

0:33:57.720 --> 0:34:03.040
<v Speaker 1>how many Herberts and Gerberts are there in Wisconsin. Let's

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:08.640
<v Speaker 1>see here, hold on Herberts. Oh okay, this is like

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:11.000
<v Speaker 1>a thought. I honestly thought he was making it up.

0:34:11.360 --> 0:34:17.600
<v Speaker 1>Herbert's and Gerbert's. All right, there's I don't know why

0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:20.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm giving instructions on how to dox this guy, because

0:34:20.400 --> 0:34:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't want that to happen. We'll just we'll bleep

0:34:24.480 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 1>his name out. Herberts and Gerbert's is a restaurant franchise

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 1>specializing in sub marine sandwich Is the company? Oh? Wait no,

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 1>the company has more than fifty locations throughout Arizona, Colorado, Indiana, Wisconsin.

0:34:44.239 --> 0:34:48.279
<v Speaker 1>They have only one in North Carolina. So if the

0:34:48.320 --> 0:34:53.160
<v Speaker 1>caller was from North Carolina, he'd be easy to find.

0:34:54.000 --> 0:35:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Don't dox the people on this show? All right, what

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:06.400
<v Speaker 1>I'll make I'm going on. Let me go to their website.

0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Let's go what's going on on Herberts and Gerberts dot com. Oh,

0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:18.480
<v Speaker 1>they got a turkey bacon ranch. They got all. They

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 1>got a little cartoon drawing of an alien eating a sandwich.

0:35:25.680 --> 0:35:26.040
<v Speaker 6>I like that.

0:35:26.080 --> 0:35:28.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go. Do they have any near me? Let

0:35:28.400 --> 0:35:35.359
<v Speaker 1>me type in my zip code. Okay, I forgot Wait

0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:41.320
<v Speaker 1>hold on, damn, they don't have any Orbits and Gerberts

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:47.319
<v Speaker 1>near me. Wait fuck, Now, people can docks me, dude,

0:35:47.560 --> 0:35:52.160
<v Speaker 1>ship people people who Now, people can find all the

0:35:52.160 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 1>places in America that don't have Herberts and Gerberts, and

0:35:57.080 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 1>they can do the reverse of what they would do

0:35:59.760 --> 0:36:02.719
<v Speaker 1>to a caller to me and use the absence of

0:36:02.760 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 1>Herberts and Gerberts to determine where I live. The internet

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:08.680
<v Speaker 1>is a dangerous place.

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:11.239
<v Speaker 6>Hello, hey there, how are you?

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm okay, how are you man?

0:36:14.120 --> 0:36:18.239
<v Speaker 5>Doing all right? I'm actually in the middle of a well,

0:36:18.320 --> 0:36:22.759
<v Speaker 5>actually just finishing up a big move. I just moved

0:36:22.800 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 5>back to my hometown from a bigger city.

0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Uh is that a Is that an upgrade?

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 4>Well?

0:36:28.719 --> 0:36:31.880
<v Speaker 1>Where where is that in your life plan? Is that

0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:32.719
<v Speaker 1>what you desired?

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 5>You know what? I didn't think it was, but it is.

0:36:39.480 --> 0:36:42.920
<v Speaker 5>I'm moving back to my hometown and just kind of

0:36:42.920 --> 0:36:45.600
<v Speaker 5>growing up. I always thought I wanted to leave and

0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 5>do something else and be in a bigger city, but

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:51.239
<v Speaker 5>ever since I was there, I just wanted to come

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:53.880
<v Speaker 5>back home and be closer to family.

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:58.800
<v Speaker 1>That's kind of the hero's journey is you go out

0:36:59.320 --> 0:37:03.000
<v Speaker 1>into a big city and you you're like, all right,

0:37:03.040 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 1>this place is cool. It has restaurants and bars, and

0:37:06.800 --> 0:37:10.600
<v Speaker 1>you realize that everywhere was really the same and that

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:13.160
<v Speaker 1>the best place to be is where your friends and

0:37:13.239 --> 0:37:17.920
<v Speaker 1>family are as long as there are like also also

0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:21.600
<v Speaker 1>bars and restaurants there where you can get margerita, pizza

0:37:21.600 --> 0:37:23.640
<v Speaker 1>and shit. But where's your hometown.

0:37:24.080 --> 0:37:27.840
<v Speaker 5>I actually I live about an hour north of Louisville, Kentucky.

0:37:28.440 --> 0:37:31.560
<v Speaker 1>I was in Louisville, Kentucky. That's a nice spot. I

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 1>like Louisville.

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:34.920
<v Speaker 5>It's a buffal one.

0:37:35.719 --> 0:37:37.600
<v Speaker 1>What do you are you living back with your parents

0:37:37.680 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 1>or did you get a place.

0:37:40.520 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 5>I got a place. So far, it's been a lot

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:47.080
<v Speaker 5>nicer than my older place. You know, the bigger cities

0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 5>have a lot higher rent, and I think that was

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 5>a main decision making doctor. I actually lost a job

0:37:57.239 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 5>that I moved to the bigger city for, and that's

0:38:00.600 --> 0:38:03.359
<v Speaker 5>kind of the catalyst for the move back home.

0:38:04.400 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 1>What was the job that you had in the big city.

0:38:06.800 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 5>I worked for a major abortion provider and it was

0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:17.520
<v Speaker 5>really interesting and I had a really intense time there.

0:38:17.640 --> 0:38:22.239
<v Speaker 5>And I worked there for probably about three years and

0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 5>at the end, I got a promotion and that's why

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:29.640
<v Speaker 5>I had to move, And it turned out I did

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:36.240
<v Speaker 5>not like the added responsibility, so it didn't turn out very.

0:38:36.080 --> 0:38:36.560
<v Speaker 4>Well for me.

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Interesting, So what was it about the promotion or the

0:38:40.719 --> 0:38:42.640
<v Speaker 1>added responsibility that made you want to leave?

0:38:44.920 --> 0:38:51.239
<v Speaker 5>I think it was kind of your peers turning into like,

0:38:51.840 --> 0:38:56.359
<v Speaker 5>you have this weird power dynamic with them, and you're

0:38:56.440 --> 0:39:00.919
<v Speaker 5>kind of, on one hand, expected to like to lay

0:39:01.000 --> 0:39:06.279
<v Speaker 5>down the law without a better way to put that,

0:39:07.880 --> 0:39:11.040
<v Speaker 5>and you don't want to be like a stern you know,

0:39:11.280 --> 0:39:13.719
<v Speaker 5>don't be late kind of guy, and you have to

0:39:13.760 --> 0:39:16.280
<v Speaker 5>be and I don't like it.

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:21.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're you're you go from like actually doing something

0:39:21.360 --> 0:39:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to managing other people doing stuff.

0:39:25.800 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 5>That's that's put perfectly absolutely, it's just kind of like

0:39:29.239 --> 0:39:32.400
<v Speaker 5>watching it all unfold and being responsible for how it

0:39:32.480 --> 0:39:32.879
<v Speaker 5>ends up.

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:37.719
<v Speaker 1>You said here on the call screening notes that that

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.040
<v Speaker 1>it was a toxic job. Why did you feel like

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:41.240
<v Speaker 1>it was it was toxic?

0:39:45.040 --> 0:39:49.080
<v Speaker 5>You know, I'm sure a lot of people who work

0:39:49.120 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 5>in like nonprofit organizations can relate to this, But I

0:39:53.600 --> 0:39:57.680
<v Speaker 5>think a lot of times places like that kind of

0:39:58.480 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 5>take advantage or pray upon your your empathy or your

0:40:05.239 --> 0:40:10.000
<v Speaker 5>your support or compassion towards whatever mission you're working towards,

0:40:10.760 --> 0:40:13.200
<v Speaker 5>and so they kind of just exploit that, you know,

0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:16.400
<v Speaker 5>as much as possible, like, hey, if you if you

0:40:16.480 --> 0:40:18.840
<v Speaker 5>miss this shift, you know, like X, Y and Z

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:20.520
<v Speaker 5>will happen to this many people.

0:40:20.719 --> 0:40:20.960
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:40:21.040 --> 0:40:23.719
<v Speaker 5>It's a kind of one of those things.

0:40:24.360 --> 0:40:27.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was. It was that tough working

0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:31.279
<v Speaker 1>at the abortion clinic. Was it seems like there's a

0:40:31.320 --> 0:40:33.160
<v Speaker 1>lot of emotions going on around there.

0:40:35.000 --> 0:40:38.640
<v Speaker 5>Definitely, And I mean it's it's crazy. You just see

0:40:38.680 --> 0:40:45.239
<v Speaker 5>like a crazy, wild variety of emotions about it. So

0:40:45.440 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 5>it's really like common to see just like a spectrum

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:52.560
<v Speaker 5>of different feelings around it. It's just really interesting to

0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:57.000
<v Speaker 5>do it in such a hostile state. I actually got

0:40:57.000 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 5>to do some training in the Washington State and it

0:41:01.239 --> 0:41:04.080
<v Speaker 5>was wild just how different things are laid out there

0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:07.480
<v Speaker 5>than in a state like Kentucky or Indiana.

0:41:08.560 --> 0:41:10.880
<v Speaker 1>What's of the big city? Where was the big city.

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:14.640
<v Speaker 5>At I'm Bloomington? Where I you is?

0:41:16.520 --> 0:41:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what either of those I don't know

0:41:18.120 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 1>what either of those things are.

0:41:22.239 --> 0:41:23.600
<v Speaker 5>Sorry, it's like a college town.

0:41:25.920 --> 0:41:26.279
<v Speaker 4>I you.

0:41:28.160 --> 0:41:33.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh, Indiana University? Oh okay, you go to IU. And

0:41:33.600 --> 0:41:35.279
<v Speaker 1>next door you can get an I U D.

0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:41.759
<v Speaker 6>Exactly where is UH?

0:41:41.880 --> 0:41:45.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay? So what are the abortion laws like in UH?

0:41:45.760 --> 0:41:46.440
<v Speaker 1>In Indiana?

0:41:48.920 --> 0:41:52.839
<v Speaker 5>I'm actually kind of embarrassed to say that I'm out

0:41:52.880 --> 0:41:56.480
<v Speaker 5>of touch with what's going on most recently, but I

0:41:56.520 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 5>remember there was a really big push for everything to

0:42:00.800 --> 0:42:05.919
<v Speaker 5>be completely you know, basically like Texas style band laws here,

0:42:07.600 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 5>and that was it's just so stressful because it goes

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:13.880
<v Speaker 5>back and forth with the courts, and you know, staff

0:42:13.960 --> 0:42:17.160
<v Speaker 5>and patients have to kind of bend over backwards for

0:42:17.239 --> 0:42:20.160
<v Speaker 5>whatever happens, you know, at the very last minute.

0:42:22.920 --> 0:42:30.319
<v Speaker 1>And was it is it like because there are I say,

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:35.640
<v Speaker 1>assume like like like planned there are planned parenthoods in

0:42:36.960 --> 0:42:40.240
<v Speaker 1>states where abortion is illegal rights.

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:44.520
<v Speaker 5>I believe so, yes, And I think I think the

0:42:44.680 --> 0:42:49.000
<v Speaker 5>focus right now is just to like, you know, provide

0:42:49.280 --> 0:42:56.760
<v Speaker 5>as much education as the law allows and just encourage

0:42:56.840 --> 0:42:57.520
<v Speaker 5>you know, safety.

0:42:59.239 --> 0:43:00.719
<v Speaker 1>So what are you gonna do now now that you

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:01.440
<v Speaker 1>don't work there?

0:43:03.920 --> 0:43:09.279
<v Speaker 5>I think I'm gonna be more in touch with my

0:43:09.400 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 5>own feelings instead of you know, just kind of being

0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:20.080
<v Speaker 5>like this empathy vacuum every day. I think it's been

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:22.399
<v Speaker 5>a really eye opening experience for me to just kind

0:43:22.400 --> 0:43:26.279
<v Speaker 5>of spend time alone and switch to like a work

0:43:26.320 --> 0:43:30.120
<v Speaker 5>from home job. It's it's been awesome to just kind

0:43:30.160 --> 0:43:33.240
<v Speaker 5>of like be with myself and and see myself outside

0:43:33.280 --> 0:43:34.360
<v Speaker 5>of a work environment.

0:43:36.200 --> 0:43:40.879
<v Speaker 1>I know, it feels it feels nice to to work

0:43:40.920 --> 0:43:43.840
<v Speaker 1>on yourself, right because you're you're having to comfort people

0:43:43.880 --> 0:43:44.520
<v Speaker 1>all the time.

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:47.880
<v Speaker 5>Oh definitely. Yeah.

0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:49.879
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot and just kind of.

0:43:51.600 --> 0:43:54.000
<v Speaker 5>You got to like kind of read the moment, read

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 5>every single little moment, and interpret that on how to

0:43:57.520 --> 0:44:02.480
<v Speaker 5>act next. It's really awesome, and I think that people

0:44:02.480 --> 0:44:07.640
<v Speaker 5>who work in those situations are incredible people. I really

0:44:08.239 --> 0:44:10.960
<v Speaker 5>loved it.

0:44:10.960 --> 0:44:14.839
<v Speaker 1>It's I mean, you know, that's the thing is say

0:44:14.880 --> 0:44:18.279
<v Speaker 1>what you will about people who are assholes. But I

0:44:18.440 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 1>got it. It sounds like a such a nice life

0:44:22.960 --> 0:44:27.160
<v Speaker 1>a little bit, doesn't it, not caring about anything or

0:44:27.200 --> 0:44:28.200
<v Speaker 1>anyone at all?

0:44:31.200 --> 0:44:31.359
<v Speaker 6>Oh?

0:44:31.440 --> 0:44:37.759
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I mean it's it's been really weird. It's

0:44:37.760 --> 0:44:40.440
<v Speaker 5>been really weird. And it kind of feels like, you know,

0:44:40.520 --> 0:44:42.759
<v Speaker 5>like when you're in high school and you finally get

0:44:42.760 --> 0:44:44.399
<v Speaker 5>the summer off or whatever, and you're just.

0:44:44.320 --> 0:44:45.360
<v Speaker 6>Like, dang, what do I do?

0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:49.880
<v Speaker 5>Because you're just so used to like constant routine day

0:44:49.960 --> 0:44:52.560
<v Speaker 5>after day after day. And when you finally have like

0:44:52.640 --> 0:44:56.040
<v Speaker 5>the time to do anything else, You're like, dang, I'm

0:44:56.080 --> 0:44:59.759
<v Speaker 5>so boring, Like do you have personality anymore? I feel

0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 5>like almost brainwashed by work.

0:45:01.880 --> 0:45:04.080
<v Speaker 1>What are you going to do now that you have

0:45:04.160 --> 0:45:04.840
<v Speaker 1>all this time?

0:45:08.480 --> 0:45:12.920
<v Speaker 5>Well, I think I've been spending more time with my family,

0:45:13.880 --> 0:45:17.200
<v Speaker 5>but honestly, one thing I'm really excited about is to

0:45:17.239 --> 0:45:21.760
<v Speaker 5>get back into like hiking and go into the state parks.

0:45:21.920 --> 0:45:25.480
<v Speaker 5>I used to be so into that and it's just

0:45:25.560 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 5>like disappeared for me entirely since since I started, you know,

0:45:32.080 --> 0:45:35.360
<v Speaker 5>being more career oriented.

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:37.520
<v Speaker 2>I guess, mm hmmm hm.

0:45:39.719 --> 0:45:41.200
<v Speaker 1>Do you have Do you have a lot of friends

0:45:41.239 --> 0:45:41.920
<v Speaker 1>in this hometown?

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:47.680
<v Speaker 5>No, No, I've never I never had a large friend group.

0:45:48.600 --> 0:45:51.759
<v Speaker 5>But I do have really great close friends that are

0:45:53.960 --> 0:45:58.319
<v Speaker 5>just a few, but really wonderful friends. And I just

0:45:58.320 --> 0:46:00.960
<v Speaker 5>feel like a brand new chapter life. And I feel

0:46:01.000 --> 0:46:04.440
<v Speaker 5>tooper excited and really happy to be talking to you

0:46:04.480 --> 0:46:06.160
<v Speaker 5>tonight and everything.

0:46:08.120 --> 0:46:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I gotta say you sound. I can hear in your

0:46:11.800 --> 0:46:16.920
<v Speaker 1>voice that you've been dealing with incredibly emotional situations for

0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:18.680
<v Speaker 1>three years. Like I want to I want to throw

0:46:18.719 --> 0:46:22.480
<v Speaker 1>an army black around you right now. You're you seem

0:46:22.800 --> 0:46:25.520
<v Speaker 1>you see them incomplete shock just from talking to you.

0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:29.080
<v Speaker 1>So I'm glad to hear that you're moving on to

0:46:29.520 --> 0:46:35.680
<v Speaker 1>hiking and stuff instead of constantly having to be there

0:46:35.719 --> 0:46:38.680
<v Speaker 1>while people go through uh uh, you know, some of

0:46:38.760 --> 0:46:41.759
<v Speaker 1>the most awful times in their life. That sounds like

0:46:41.840 --> 0:46:45.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot to deal with every single day, you know.

0:46:45.200 --> 0:46:46.839
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to I was talking to somebody about

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:50.200
<v Speaker 1>this and maybe you would have some interesting insight on it.

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I've read on on the internet and talk to some

0:46:54.440 --> 0:46:56.560
<v Speaker 1>people and whatever. I've heard stories of people who like

0:46:57.120 --> 0:47:04.400
<v Speaker 1>they call the suicide hotline and the person on the

0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:13.000
<v Speaker 1>other end is like kind of cold or or uncaring,

0:47:13.760 --> 0:47:19.399
<v Speaker 1>you know. Or they're in some kind of a situation

0:47:20.640 --> 0:47:24.240
<v Speaker 1>medically or some some dire thing where where like they're

0:47:24.360 --> 0:47:27.160
<v Speaker 1>at the horrible time in their life, but the person

0:47:27.280 --> 0:47:30.640
<v Speaker 1>working it's it they're sort of apathetic to them. And

0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:35.279
<v Speaker 1>I kind of get it a bit because it's like

0:47:35.600 --> 0:47:40.160
<v Speaker 1>for them, it's like every single day, you know, when

0:47:40.200 --> 0:47:42.439
<v Speaker 1>you and a human being, as you know, can only

0:47:42.600 --> 0:47:48.040
<v Speaker 1>handle so much empathy, you know. So it's like it's

0:47:48.040 --> 0:47:50.960
<v Speaker 1>not surprising to me that these people, even though they're

0:47:51.000 --> 0:47:53.640
<v Speaker 1>put in situations where they where their whole job is

0:47:53.680 --> 0:47:57.319
<v Speaker 1>to deal with folks who are heavily distressed. It kind

0:47:57.320 --> 0:48:00.320
<v Speaker 1>of makes sense to me that that occasionally they would

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:05.840
<v Speaker 1>grow cold or uncaring or anything, not because they're rotten people,

0:48:05.920 --> 0:48:09.000
<v Speaker 1>but just because it's you know, I mean, like you

0:48:09.040 --> 0:48:11.839
<v Speaker 1>were saying, it takes an incredible person to be able

0:48:11.840 --> 0:48:14.640
<v Speaker 1>to do something like that, you know.

0:48:16.440 --> 0:48:19.520
<v Speaker 5>Definitely, definitely, and shout out to those who are still

0:48:19.520 --> 0:48:25.600
<v Speaker 5>doing it. I think my insight to that is just

0:48:25.719 --> 0:48:28.760
<v Speaker 5>from working in an environment like that. Every single person

0:48:28.760 --> 0:48:31.560
<v Speaker 5>that I worked with was so compassionate and empathetic towards

0:48:31.560 --> 0:48:35.000
<v Speaker 5>the people who needed it, and even you know, between

0:48:35.000 --> 0:48:38.439
<v Speaker 5>co workers, we were really empathetic and compassionate towards each other.

0:48:39.200 --> 0:48:43.239
<v Speaker 5>But speaking only for myself and none of my other

0:48:43.280 --> 0:48:49.719
<v Speaker 5>coworkers at the time, some of the stress, like you, like,

0:48:50.640 --> 0:48:53.160
<v Speaker 5>you just don't even know where to put it, and

0:48:53.239 --> 0:48:55.680
<v Speaker 5>it is not an option to give it to the

0:48:55.719 --> 0:48:59.320
<v Speaker 5>people you're serving, you know what I mean, So you

0:49:00.239 --> 0:49:03.080
<v Speaker 5>kind of and in my case, something I'm not proud

0:49:03.080 --> 0:49:06.120
<v Speaker 5>of is definitely taking it out on the people you

0:49:06.160 --> 0:49:10.920
<v Speaker 5>work with every single day, or being like inappropriately, like

0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:14.920
<v Speaker 5>snippy or just short with them. And I think that's

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:19.720
<v Speaker 5>how I handled it. Which was not great.

0:49:19.480 --> 0:49:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I bet it would be a good idea to like

0:49:21.600 --> 0:49:26.319
<v Speaker 1>date an exterminator, you know, somebody who's just they get

0:49:26.320 --> 0:49:30.799
<v Speaker 1>all their aggression out on the job, so that way,

0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:31.799
<v Speaker 1>you know it's all love.

0:49:31.880 --> 0:49:38.000
<v Speaker 5>When they get home, you're just like taking out entire

0:49:38.239 --> 0:49:42.600
<v Speaker 5>you know, species from an area. Just you probably feel

0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:44.000
<v Speaker 5>really powerful.

0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:48.839
<v Speaker 1>Right right, They got to be happy people. What's your

0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:56.200
<v Speaker 1>name again, Karen? Karen, Karen, thanks for talking to me.

0:49:56.239 --> 0:49:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I hope there's a good things ahead on the horizon.

0:49:59.400 --> 0:50:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Is there any anything else you want to say to

0:50:01.280 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 1>the people of the computer before we go, or to

0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:08.359
<v Speaker 1>me or to Mark who's listening to this podcast right now.

0:50:09.920 --> 0:50:16.520
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I would just say, be nice to each other

0:50:17.160 --> 0:50:20.279
<v Speaker 5>as often as possible, and thank you so much for

0:50:20.320 --> 0:50:22.680
<v Speaker 5>taking my call. And I hope you have a wonderful

0:50:22.760 --> 0:50:23.520
<v Speaker 5>rest of for your night.

0:50:24.400 --> 0:50:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Have a good night. Karen Karen. That's uh. You don't

0:50:30.000 --> 0:50:32.280
<v Speaker 1>meet a lot. You don't meet a lot of nice Karen's.

0:50:32.320 --> 0:50:33.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't have any I don't have a joke. I

0:50:33.719 --> 0:50:37.360
<v Speaker 1>don't have a Karen joke, and I don't want to

0:50:37.400 --> 0:50:42.120
<v Speaker 1>have a Karen joke. Let's move on, let's talk, just

0:50:42.239 --> 0:50:48.920
<v Speaker 1>talk to another person. Hey, what's up?

0:50:49.160 --> 0:50:51.960
<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I'm actually all who is this?

0:50:52.640 --> 0:50:52.799
<v Speaker 5>Oh?

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:54.440
<v Speaker 4>This is Tyler Tyler.

0:50:54.680 --> 0:50:56.560
<v Speaker 1>You know what's so cool? It's cool to me that

0:50:58.239 --> 0:51:01.160
<v Speaker 1>I've been doing this podcast for three years and there's

0:51:01.200 --> 0:51:04.920
<v Speaker 1>still new people calling in. I was thinking about that

0:51:04.960 --> 0:51:06.000
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day. I was like, what

0:51:06.080 --> 0:51:10.439
<v Speaker 1>happens when I literally just have talked to everyone who

0:51:10.480 --> 0:51:11.600
<v Speaker 1>listens to this already?

0:51:12.239 --> 0:51:14.799
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I've watched from about a year now. Actually I

0:51:14.840 --> 0:51:16.040
<v Speaker 4>went to You're showing New York.

0:51:17.080 --> 0:51:21.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh shit, well at the Bellhouse, Yes, yeah, where those

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:24.560
<v Speaker 1>two twins arm wrestled.

0:51:25.080 --> 0:51:25.319
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:51:25.840 --> 0:51:28.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was sweet. That was awesome. Are you coming

0:51:28.280 --> 0:51:30.080
<v Speaker 1>back again? I won't be offended if you're.

0:51:29.960 --> 0:51:34.080
<v Speaker 4>Not about hustled out, but I'm gonna go to the

0:51:34.160 --> 0:51:34.959
<v Speaker 4>one the next day.

0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, sick sick six sick Tyler Tyler. You sent me

0:51:40.440 --> 0:51:45.600
<v Speaker 1>a text and you said you said, I farted in

0:51:45.719 --> 0:51:50.480
<v Speaker 1>a coworker's face because she annoys me. But after farting

0:51:50.520 --> 0:51:54.319
<v Speaker 1>in her face, I've mellowed out and I don't hate

0:51:54.360 --> 0:51:54.960
<v Speaker 1>her anymore.

0:51:55.520 --> 0:51:59.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I think because I'm not gonna say with

0:51:59.239 --> 0:52:02.040
<v Speaker 4>star work, I by work at a retail store and

0:52:02.160 --> 0:52:07.120
<v Speaker 4>there's this girl I will not I don't know what

0:52:07.239 --> 0:52:08.759
<v Speaker 4>type of saying they much, you ever, let's just say

0:52:08.920 --> 0:52:14.360
<v Speaker 4>h so h. She is not the best employee, like

0:52:14.520 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 4>everyone kind of like you know comments and the fact

0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:20.879
<v Speaker 4>that she's ad the scattered brain. She'd messes stuff up.

0:52:20.920 --> 0:52:24.759
<v Speaker 4>And when I first started working at that store, I

0:52:24.840 --> 0:52:27.279
<v Speaker 4>had to fix certain things that she would mess up.

0:52:27.320 --> 0:52:30.680
<v Speaker 4>And one day, you know, we were in the break room.

0:52:31.120 --> 0:52:33.200
<v Speaker 4>She was sitting in a chair. I was washing my

0:52:33.280 --> 0:52:37.400
<v Speaker 4>hands and I noticed my butt was at the perfect

0:52:37.440 --> 0:52:39.680
<v Speaker 4>angle at her face where I was like, if I

0:52:39.920 --> 0:52:43.400
<v Speaker 4>start and leaves, she's not going to know there's several

0:52:43.400 --> 0:52:45.760
<v Speaker 4>other people in here. And I did that and I left.

0:52:47.960 --> 0:52:50.560
<v Speaker 4>And it's been I think about a year or two

0:52:50.600 --> 0:52:53.200
<v Speaker 4>ever since I fart in her face, And honestly, I

0:52:53.200 --> 0:52:57.040
<v Speaker 4>don't know. I am pretty I don't mind her anymore

0:52:57.239 --> 0:52:59.160
<v Speaker 4>or like, you know, she still has an approved of

0:52:59.160 --> 0:53:02.719
<v Speaker 4>the worker and I'm like, hey, how are you? You know,

0:53:02.800 --> 0:53:06.240
<v Speaker 4>like sometimes we chat and it has gotten significantly better

0:53:06.560 --> 0:53:07.239
<v Speaker 4>working with her.

0:53:07.680 --> 0:53:09.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's something to that. There's something too that

0:53:10.000 --> 0:53:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I was on TikTok last night and I saw a

0:53:13.280 --> 0:53:16.719
<v Speaker 1>really beautiful video that I and I think I think

0:53:16.760 --> 0:53:19.560
<v Speaker 1>this is related to what to your thing. It was.

0:53:21.080 --> 0:53:25.520
<v Speaker 1>It was one of these TikTok prankster kids, who I

0:53:25.920 --> 0:53:28.120
<v Speaker 1>really don't like a lot of those guys, but it

0:53:28.239 --> 0:53:33.120
<v Speaker 1>was one of these TikTok prankster people. And he was

0:53:33.200 --> 0:53:39.000
<v Speaker 1>like fucking with this old man. And the old man

0:53:39.120 --> 0:53:41.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, if you do that again, I'm gonna if

0:53:41.120 --> 0:53:43.200
<v Speaker 1>you if you call me that again, I'm gonna fuck

0:53:43.239 --> 0:53:45.920
<v Speaker 1>you up. And so the kid put the prank kid

0:53:45.960 --> 0:53:48.360
<v Speaker 1>he put up like a fighting stance, and the old

0:53:48.480 --> 0:53:53.160
<v Speaker 1>man smacked him in the face, and then the little

0:53:53.160 --> 0:53:56.799
<v Speaker 1>and then the kid punched the old man and then

0:53:56.920 --> 0:53:59.239
<v Speaker 1>like they kind of like circle, but then they kind

0:53:59.239 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>of like circle each other for a little bit and

0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:04.160
<v Speaker 1>then I swear to God, the old guy he just

0:54:04.280 --> 0:54:07.040
<v Speaker 1>he just looks at the prank kid and he goes, kid,

0:54:07.040 --> 0:54:10.200
<v Speaker 1>what are we doing? And the kid and the kid

0:54:10.280 --> 0:54:13.080
<v Speaker 1>is like, ah, you know what, you're right, and they

0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:15.279
<v Speaker 1>both they like put their hands down, and the old

0:54:15.280 --> 0:54:17.040
<v Speaker 1>man is like, you actually got me pretty good, and

0:54:17.040 --> 0:54:18.680
<v Speaker 1>the kid's like, you got me pretty good too, you

0:54:18.719 --> 0:54:21.560
<v Speaker 1>can fight, and then they hugged and and and that

0:54:21.680 --> 0:54:24.080
<v Speaker 1>was it. And I was like, and by the way,

0:54:24.960 --> 0:54:27.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've watched a lot of fight videos on

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<v Speaker 1>the internet, and that's the only one I think I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen that ended like that, but I did it may

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<v Speaker 1>be kind and I'm not a big proponent of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should hit people and stuff, but

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<v Speaker 1>it just was kind of beautiful to see one time

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<v Speaker 1>where you know, hitting people worked. And maybe there's something

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<v Speaker 1>to that where you farted in your coworker's face and

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<v Speaker 1>that just got it out. I think it's missing the

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<v Speaker 1>element of you got to let your coworker fart in

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<v Speaker 1>your if you let your coworker fart in your face. See,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing this was. This is kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>makes it different from that fight is that it's only

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<v Speaker 1>one sided so far. If you let your coworker fart

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<v Speaker 1>in your face and you or and then you just

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<v Speaker 1>spend a little bit of time farting in each other's faces,

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<v Speaker 1>that might solve everything. Because I don't know how she's feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's feeling as pent up shit. Again, she probably

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't like you, but if she farted in your face,

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<v Speaker 1>she would see that you're actually, you know, pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe you're right, but I'm also too tall for

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<v Speaker 4>her to fart in my face too. I think even

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<v Speaker 4>sitting down too tall to far in my face, not.

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<v Speaker 1>In the the t bag position.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, probably she could probably do it if I was

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<v Speaker 4>in that position.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, why did this? Why does this person annoy you?

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<v Speaker 4>Because like in retail, you know your already in pays

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<v Speaker 4>a little, customers are already like snapping at you for

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<v Speaker 4>the smallest things, and then like repeatedly for like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like maybe like three or four days a week. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>you do something that person, they purposely mess it up.

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<v Speaker 4>And like in the store, we all like stalk our

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<v Speaker 4>own little sections and maybe like a whole thing will

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<v Speaker 4>be messed up and they'll go to me and being like, well,

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<v Speaker 4>I do like this, and I'm just like I saw

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<v Speaker 4>agh just restock it, Like what why are you talking

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<v Speaker 4>to me about this? So yeah, something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I look a job environment like that would make me

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<v Speaker 1>want to fart in people's faces too. I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>You had that fart. There was more in that fart

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<v Speaker 1>than just uh fart chemicals. There was anger, resentment, frustration,

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<v Speaker 1>and you farted it all out of your body onto

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<v Speaker 1>this woman's face. And that's why exactly love.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, maybe maybe maybe the world's problems would be solved

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<v Speaker 4>a bit more. If people were just like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>going to punch this guy, I'm not going to kick

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<v Speaker 4>this kid. I'm just going to do one simple fart.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just going to walk away from the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with that. What's your name again?

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<v Speaker 4>It's Tyler, Tyler.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Tyler. If you're if you need it a referee

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<v Speaker 1>of a fart battle between you and this person, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can you can hold it within a ten minute

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<v Speaker 1>walk of my house, let me know and I'll do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, cool, I will to have a large kind of

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<v Speaker 4>beans before that.

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<v Speaker 2>I will.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for calling, Tyler.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks lover podcast Bye.

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<v Speaker 3>Goes on the line. Thank you phone calls every night

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<v Speaker 3>everythig kid goes through in his eye. Who's teaching him

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<v Speaker 3>loud every life? But he's not really an expert.