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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, hey, how's going It's going good?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing pretty well? All right? Isaiah, twenty

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Speaker 1: two years old in Utah is on experimental male birth control.

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Speaker 1: How is that going?

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Speaker 2: That's right? So it's pretty good, especially compared to like

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Speaker 2: female birth control. And it's experimental, so I do get

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Speaker 2: paid like one hundred dollars a visit, so that's kind

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Speaker 2: of tight, and it works. I've been doing it since

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Speaker 2: probably August or September of last year. It didn't like

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Speaker 2: start working working until probably January or February of this year.

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Speaker 2: But the way that it works is that every morning

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Speaker 2: I just put this alcohol based gel on my shoulders

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Speaker 2: and that's supposed to decrease my sperm count to under

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Speaker 2: a million. I guess is a threshold while also giving

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Speaker 2: me like testosterone to like resupplement it. But but it

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Speaker 2: do be making me a little hormonal. Can't even lie.

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Speaker 2: But it's far less invasive than an IUD or anything

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Speaker 2: like that, so yeah, I can't really complain. It's it's

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Speaker 2: kind of tight.

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Speaker 1: How does the gel get from your shoulder to your balls?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's a pretty good question. I also wonder about, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, like placement of it, because it kind of

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Speaker 2: I guess it's just a good spot to lower that

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Speaker 2: testosterone or something. I don't know. They don't really tell

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Speaker 2: me much about how it works. They're just like, here's

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Speaker 2: what your blood looks like. You know, blood levels, and

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Speaker 2: you know your sperm counts going down. So once a

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Speaker 1: Now, do you do you know if this has any

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Speaker 1: long term effects?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I think that, like fingers crossed, that it doesn't. I've

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Speaker 2: the one negative side effect that they've noticed is that

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Speaker 2: it does make the patients that are on it much

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Speaker 2: more prone to like irritability or frustration. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: That's not really gonna happen to me, because I'm a

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Speaker 1: How much are they paying you for this?

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Speaker 2: I think that collectively it's going to be like maybe

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Speaker 2: Shy have like three thousand dollars, it's like one hundred

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Speaker 1: Do you have a partner?

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Speaker 1: And how she feel about the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: At first, she was really stressed out about it, kind

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Speaker 2: come around for sure, But it was stressful for both

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Speaker 1: Is she happy that, like she doesn't have to be

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Speaker 2: wishes it was more invasive, though. She wished that they

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Speaker 2: just as far as you know the status quo, would

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Speaker 1: If they had to take a shot in your dick hole?

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Speaker 2: I would try it. I think, like, yeah, I think

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Speaker 2: I do it for science. It's easy to say that

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Speaker 1: Have there been any like negative side effects that like

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Speaker 1: like that you you said the irritability was one and

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Speaker 2: Actually, I do think that my sex drive is like up,

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Speaker 2: which is wild because I'm also like a twenty two

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Speaker 2: So it's not like I had a problem with that before.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I do think that I'm like hornier than

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Speaker 2: all feel that way, but I feel like it's extra.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to have a child?

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Speaker 3: Day?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Actually, this thing's been nice because it has sort of

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Speaker 2: do it. So it's kind of like affected me light mmmmmmmmm.

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Speaker 1: Mmmm. Now uh, are you doing anything else for work

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Speaker 1: or is your full time job testing this h mail birth?

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Speaker 2: I do have a full time job, so this is

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Speaker 2: a nice dinner. But it's definitely just like supplementary income

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Speaker 2: and I don't do anything serious with it. It's like

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Speaker 2: I think of it like free money.

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Speaker 1: What's your job?

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Speaker 2: I work at tech support for like a cell company,

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Speaker 2: so it's like it's like kind of like a call

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Speaker 2: center job, but it's like high brid so I work

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Speaker 2: from home. But technology of people?

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Speaker 1: Are you tech support for a sperm cell company? Like

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Speaker 2: See I I wouldn't know anything about that. I'd suggest

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Speaker 2: turning it off and back on again. And that's that's

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Speaker 1: That wasn't funny, but I tried to be funny. What's

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Speaker 1: your dream in life, Isaiah? I?

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Speaker 2: I do stand up comedy, so it'd be fun to

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Speaker 2: for that. That was that was good?

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Speaker 2: I a lot of writing.

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Speaker 1: How long have you don't stand up?

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Speaker 3: Huh?

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Speaker 2: This is I'm going into my I think I think

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Speaker 2: I just started. No, I just finished my fourth year,

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Speaker 1: My fifth Okay, yeah, yeah, you're in Utah. I was that.

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Speaker 1: I was that wise guy. Have you ever been to

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Speaker 1: Wise Guys? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You were?

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Speaker 2: No, I have been there.

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Speaker 2: I got to host for uh like nationally touring comedian

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Speaker 1: So who was who was the King?

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Speaker 2: But he did start out in Chicago. Uh, his name

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Speaker 2: is Jeffrey, asked Osmas. Have you heard of him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? He I think I want to say he did

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Speaker 1: stand up comedy in my basement at some point. But

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Speaker 1: I don't know if.

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Speaker 2: Really that's so cool? It is. No, he's really funny.

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Speaker 1: I know, I don't have I met have I met

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Speaker 1: him before? I know I know exactly who that is,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know. Okay, I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: because I've met him or if you know so many

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Speaker 1: comedian of Facebook or something. Yeah, yeah, well ship man,

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Speaker 1: Hey you can open for me if I read if

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Speaker 1: I ever come to wise guys.

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Speaker 2: Oh please, I'll take you up on that for sure.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you have to remind send me a d M.

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Speaker 1: And if I remember next time, I'll.

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Speaker 2: Say I'm the mill birth control guy.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah, so you're the mail birth control guy and

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Speaker 2: Please, Yes, I'm there.

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Speaker 1: I had my I had my boy. I had my

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Speaker 1: What do you do stand up comedy about?

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Speaker 2: Well, I grew up here in Utah, so sort of

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Speaker 1: You know, what's your take on Polynesian sauce.

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Speaker 2: Polynesian sauce.

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Speaker 2: I like it. It's not honestly like karaoke sauce is

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Speaker 2: But it's kind of like Hawaiian pizza, like that was

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Speaker 1: So dude, can I can I tell you something? When

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Speaker 2: Well, Polynesia refers to like the a lot of like

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Speaker 2: Interestingly, I grew up saying like, oh I'm Polly to

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Speaker 1: What's that is that? Is that? Is that a bit

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Speaker 2: It is a bit that I do. Yep, But it's

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Speaker 4: Do you do that?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'd love to.

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Speaker 1: Well. Well, hey, now with the male birth control and NOWS,

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Speaker 1: now is a great time to be Polly and Polly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it really does work out both ways. I think

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Speaker 1: Good things, Isaiah. Is the anything else you want to

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Speaker 2: Go, I mean, look into male birth control near you

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Speaker 2: A lot of grief and and we'll leave it at that.

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Speaker 1: Gek, what before we dive? What is the Polynesian sauce

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Speaker 2: I think it's a lot of like karaoke sauce. Uh

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Speaker 2: you They actually even call like terry sauce for short.

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Speaker 2: There's like burgers in Hawaii. Have you been to Hawaii

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Speaker 1: Maybe I I have a flight to Hawaii tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, incredible. So if you've never tried this, definitely try

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Speaker 2: Loco Moco when you're in Hawaii. It's a Hawaiian burger

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Speaker 1: All the way, that sounds pretty sweet.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for calling, Isaah, have.

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Speaker 2: A good one, safe travels.

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Speaker 1: Crap. I had a thought that I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: What did it had? Something? It had something to do

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I got on.

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Speaker 2: How's it going?

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Speaker 6: I'm good? I'm good. This is my first time calling in.

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Speaker 1: This, okay girl friend, actually no, no, you know you

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, So whenever she like comes around to visit

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Speaker 1: it's okay, it's okay. It's a good it's a good thing,

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Speaker 1: I promise if I understand this correctly. Your friend had

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Speaker 6: There There was talk that they were going to do stuff, but.

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Speaker 1: There was no they didn't. Okay, but okay, your friend

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's wild. That is a that that is very wild.

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Speaker 1: Did you tell do you ever talk to your friend?

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Speaker 6: Well, in the moment, I was like this is uh.

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Speaker 1: This man would be shy. This man would be it's

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 6: And to top all this off, he's my boss at work.

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Speaker 7: Like I'm I'm not joking, Like you're not joking, I'd

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Speaker 1: Come on, all right, mm hmmm? Where what do you

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Speaker 6: I work at a local sandwich shop.

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Speaker 1: He's your boss at the sandwich shop. What is Is

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Speaker 6: It's like a sandwich shop. I'm in I'm in Wisconsin

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Speaker 1: Suffering, which sounds Wisconsin. Were you guys friends before you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we've been friends for like four or five years

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Speaker 1: Okay, now in those four or five years, your understanding

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Speaker 6: Yeah, No, he just hasn't had the greatest luck. He

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Speaker 6: And I mean, like it was great, like if you're

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Speaker 6: But I've just never seen him like that before.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm, m hmm. Did he do you think was

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Speaker 1: and now your friend's feelings for this, your girlfriend's friend

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Speaker 6: I mean, we live like four hours away from her,

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Speaker 6: I think he really really wanted it to, which would

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Speaker 1: Man. So you so you and your girlfriend drove the

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Speaker 6: Uh, We've it's kind of just been like, well, my

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Speaker 6: like in between me and her friend now, so we

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00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 6: kind of just end up meeting at her place. Now,

441
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 6: this hasn't happened in like months, because I just kind

442
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,959
Speaker 6: of felt guilty about it, not even kind of I

443
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 6: do feel guilty about it.

444
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh man, dude, I don't know, I really, I don't know.

445
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 1: I don't know, because you know what, I'm gonna be

446
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: honest with you. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna sit here,

447
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: and I'm sure there's plenty of other people listen to this.

448
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and tell you I wouldn't

449
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: have done the same thing.

450
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,920
Speaker 6: Oh that's awesome, I mean it makes you feel a

451
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 6: little better, but.

452
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 1: Like, well, I don't think it because I don't want

453
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: to lie to you. I don't want to lie to

454
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 1: you and tell you I wouldn't have done the same

455
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 1: thang because it's not like it'd be what it'd be,

456
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: because it'd be one thing if this was like your friends,

457
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: uh like X or like uh, you know obviously would

458
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: be a thing if it was your friend's girlfriend. But like,

459
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, which I mean, tell me more

460
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 1: about your relationship with this guy with your friends.

461
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 6: So me and him moved in together into a house,

462
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 6: uh like two years ago, and sorry, we've I mean

463
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 6: we've been good friends. But ever since this moment, I

464
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,919
Speaker 6: feel like it's just been kind of difficult to like

465
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 6: talk to him because he's also just been really stressed

466
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 6: with like work lately and uh coming home and the

467
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 6: only thing that you can really talk about is work.

468
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 6: Is just like I'd really rather not talk to you then,

469
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 6: But I feel like they're kind of cold, you are?

470
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 6: I am twenty four?

471
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: How old is hey?

472
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 6: He is twenty five?

473
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: All right? What's his because it sounds like it sounds

474
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 1: like homie, Like there's he's got a kind of a

475
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 1: general malaise going on or depression or or or something.

476
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: Something's something this is, this is it's not just this thing.

477
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: He likes the girl and the girl doesn't like him back,

478
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: like there's a there's something. Is that accurate?

479
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 2: Uh?

480
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean there always kind of seems to be

481
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 6: something with him. So I tried to, like, I don't know,

482
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 6: I've tried to help in the past and try to

483
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 6: get him to like open up, but uh again, it's

484
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 6: just a lot about work. And I mean he's tried

485
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 6: dating since then, but it just has not gone well.

486
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

487
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think if you want to help your friend,

488
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: because like, here's the thing. If that girl didn't like

489
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: your friend, there was nothing, there was nothing you could

490
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 1: have done to help. But like, I don't know, could

491
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: you and your friend like why do you? Why do

492
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: you look? You sound like you're probably a handsome guy.

493
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 1: You know, thank you, You're you got stuff going on

494
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 1: and you and you know your friend intimately, what do

495
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: you think it is about him that that made that

496
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: girl not like him? Or what do you what do

497
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: you think it is that has has made him, you know,

498
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: romantically unsuccessful or like what what? Like in your opinion,

499
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: what do you think is is holding him back?

500
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 6: I mean he's I really don't mean to like kind

501
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 6: of bash this guy now, but he's a little weird

502
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 6: and he's like really stinky and doesn't have the greatest hygiene.

503
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 6: Like there was one night where me and him went

504
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 6: out to get drinks and I had to drive him

505
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 6: home and I made like a little puke bucket for him,

506
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 6: and that puke bucket proceeded to sit in his room

507
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 6: for the next two months without being emptied. It got

508
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 6: to know what, where like you couldn't even.

509
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: I'm not going to sit here and tell you I

510
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't do the same as well with.

511
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 6: That, Yeah, I mean it literally got with.

512
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: You with your friend as well.

513
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 6: It literally got to the point where like I couldn't.

514
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 6: So we live on opposite floors. I live on the

515
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 6: main floor. He lives upstairs, and I genuinely couldn't like

516
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 6: walk past the stairs because of how bad that entire

517
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 6: floor smelled purely because of his room.

518
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 3: Man.

519
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, Man, this is tough. This is tough

520
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: because I don't know how you could help your friends. Yeah,

521
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how you could help him. Yeah,

522
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: I mean, is it a bad eye, is it a

523
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: bad idea to hmm to tell him?

524
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

525
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 1: I don't know.

526
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 6: That's personally, I don't think it would end well if

527
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 6: I didn't tell him.

528
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: No, I'm not even I'm not even talking about telling him,

529
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: but no, I I I I H dude, I don't know.

530
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: I sort of think ignorance is blissed with that. I'm

531
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: trying to think if I were in the friends if

532
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: I were in the friends position, and I don't think

533
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,239
Speaker 1: I would want to know. I think there are some

534
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: there are some cases where you ignorances is just bliss

535
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of how you could, I don't know,

536
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: just in general help your friend. It's hard because you

537
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: don't want to just be like giving him unsolicited advice.

538
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I mean a lot of the ways that

539
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 6: it does help is just kind of like just being

540
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 6: a friend to him and overall just kind of just

541
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 6: kind of being there to listen to him, kind of

542
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 6: giving him a shoulder to cry on. I mean that

543
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 6: helps for the moment, but I mean usually by the

544
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 6: next day he's kind of back in that same spot.

545
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: Are you going to continue to hook up with this

546
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: girl with your girlfriend?

547
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 2: Uh?

548
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 6: Her and I have talked about it, and I mean

549
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 6: she knows how I feel about it, and she's kind

550
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 6: of has her uncertainties too. So I think we're both

551
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 6: kind of in the same boat of if it if

552
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 6: the stars align and us three are together again and

553
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 6: it happens great. If not, that's not going to be

554
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 6: something that we're like actively pushing for being like, oh,

555
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 6: when is this gonna happen again?

556
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: Like no, mm hmm, dude, what if you guys had

557
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: a threesome in the sandwich shot?

558
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 2: Oh?

559
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: Man?

560
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 6: I uh, you know, there there have been things that

561
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 6: have happened in like the store that.

562
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: Are but like like what.

563
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 6: There's just been like some crazy things that have happened

564
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 6: in the store. We Uh so, we had a coworker

565
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 6: who had a baby not too long ago, and we

566
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 6: found out that the baby was conceived like in the

567
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 6: back room area, Like the mother and the father had

568
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 6: sex in the back of the store. They both work

569
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,719
Speaker 6: at the store, so it wasn't like I mean, it's

570
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 6: still weird, but like it'd be weird of just like

571
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 6: two random people. They came to the back of the store.

572
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 2: I don't know how to explain.

573
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: I feel as though being conceived in Wisconsin sandwich shot

574
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: probably dooms a baby.

575
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, the Uh what's your name again?

576
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 4: Sir?

577
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: Well? Good luck, g l HF my friends. Uh is

578
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: there anything else you want to say to the people

579
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: of the computer before we go?

580
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 6: This is Uh feels good to get this off my chest.

581
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 6: And yeah, at the end of the day, I really

582
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 6: just wish the best for my friends. But I guess

583
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 6: all I gotta say.

584
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: Never let him listen to this podcast.

585
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 6: Oh absolutely not. He knows nothing about that.

586
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: Okay, you have a good one.

587
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 6: Yeah you too, Thank you.

588
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: Wait. What's the name of the sandwich shop again? Herberts

589
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 1: and Gerberts Herberts. Is that a chain?

590
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it's a chain.

591
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: Oh okay, because I thought because then people would be like,

592
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do you think, Anon, what do you get?

593
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: You can give me a real name, did you?

594
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 6: No?

595
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, have a good one.

596
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 6: Yeah you two see man.

597
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: Because I feel like somebody would could just uh pinpoint

598
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: how many Herberts and Gerberts are there in Wisconsin. Let's

599
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: see here, hold on Herberts. Oh okay, this is like

600
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: a thought. I honestly thought he was making it up.

601
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: Herbert's and Gerbert's. All right, there's I don't know why

602
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 1: I'm giving instructions on how to dox this guy, because

603
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: I don't want that to happen. We'll just we'll bleep

604
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: his name out. Herberts and Gerbert's is a restaurant franchise

605
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: specializing in sub marine sandwich Is the company? Oh? Wait no,

606
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: the company has more than fifty locations throughout Arizona, Colorado, Indiana, Wisconsin.

607
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 1: They have only one in North Carolina. So if the

608
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: caller was from North Carolina, he'd be easy to find.

609
00:34:54,000 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 1: Don't dox the people on this show? All right, what

610
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: I'll make I'm going on. Let me go to their website.

611
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: Let's go what's going on on Herberts and Gerberts dot com. Oh,

612
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: they got a turkey bacon ranch. They got all. They

613
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: got a little cartoon drawing of an alien eating a sandwich.

614
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 6: I like that.

615
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. Do they have any near me? Let

616
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:35,359
Speaker 1: me type in my zip code. Okay, I forgot Wait

617
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:41,320
Speaker 1: hold on, damn, they don't have any Orbits and Gerberts

618
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: near me. Wait fuck, Now, people can docks me, dude,

619
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: ship people people who Now, people can find all the

620
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: places in America that don't have Herberts and Gerberts, and

621
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: they can do the reverse of what they would do

622
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: to a caller to me and use the absence of

623
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: Herberts and Gerberts to determine where I live. The internet

624
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: is a dangerous place.

625
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 6: Hello, hey there, how are you?

626
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: I'm okay, how are you man?

627
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 5: Doing all right? I'm actually in the middle of a well,

628
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 5: actually just finishing up a big move. I just moved

629
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 5: back to my hometown from a bigger city.

630
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: Uh is that a Is that an upgrade?

631
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 4: Well?

632
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: Where where is that in your life plan? Is that

633
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: what you desired?

634
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 5: You know what? I didn't think it was, but it is.

635
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 5: I'm moving back to my hometown and just kind of

636
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 5: growing up. I always thought I wanted to leave and

637
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 5: do something else and be in a bigger city, but

638
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 5: ever since I was there, I just wanted to come

639
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 5: back home and be closer to family.

640
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 1: That's kind of the hero's journey is you go out

641
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: into a big city and you you're like, all right,

642
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: this place is cool. It has restaurants and bars, and

643
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: you realize that everywhere was really the same and that

644
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: the best place to be is where your friends and

645
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: family are as long as there are like also also

646
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: bars and restaurants there where you can get margerita, pizza

647
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: and shit. But where's your hometown.

648
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 5: I actually I live about an hour north of Louisville, Kentucky.

649
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: I was in Louisville, Kentucky. That's a nice spot. I

650
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: like Louisville.

651
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 5: It's a buffal one.

652
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: What do you are you living back with your parents

653
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: or did you get a place.

654
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 5: I got a place. So far, it's been a lot

655
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 5: nicer than my older place. You know, the bigger cities

656
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 5: have a lot higher rent, and I think that was

657
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 5: a main decision making doctor. I actually lost a job

658
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 5: that I moved to the bigger city for, and that's

659
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 5: kind of the catalyst for the move back home.

660
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: What was the job that you had in the big city.

661
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 5: I worked for a major abortion provider and it was

662
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 5: really interesting and I had a really intense time there.

663
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 5: And I worked there for probably about three years and

664
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 5: at the end, I got a promotion and that's why

665
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 5: I had to move, And it turned out I did

666
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 5: not like the added responsibility, so it didn't turn out very.

667
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 4: Well for me.

668
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: Interesting, So what was it about the promotion or the

669
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: added responsibility that made you want to leave?

670
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 5: I think it was kind of your peers turning into like,

671
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 5: you have this weird power dynamic with them, and you're

672
00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:00,919
Speaker 5: kind of, on one hand, expected to like to lay

673
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 5: down the law without a better way to put that,

674
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 5: and you don't want to be like a stern you know,

675
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 5: don't be late kind of guy, and you have to

676
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,280
Speaker 5: be and I don't like it.

677
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're you're you go from like actually doing something

678
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: to managing other people doing stuff.

679
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 5: That's that's put perfectly absolutely, it's just kind of like

680
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 5: watching it all unfold and being responsible for how it

681
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 5: ends up.

682
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: You said here on the call screening notes that that

683
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: it was a toxic job. Why did you feel like

684
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:41,240
Speaker 1: it was it was toxic?

685
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 5: You know, I'm sure a lot of people who work

686
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 5: in like nonprofit organizations can relate to this, But I

687
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 5: think a lot of times places like that kind of

688
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 5: take advantage or pray upon your your empathy or your

689
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 5: your support or compassion towards whatever mission you're working towards,

690
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 5: and so they kind of just exploit that, you know,

691
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 5: as much as possible, like, hey, if you if you

692
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 5: miss this shift, you know, like X, Y and Z

693
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 5: will happen to this many people.

694
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: You know.

695
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 5: It's a kind of one of those things.

696
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was. It was that tough working

697
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: at the abortion clinic. Was it seems like there's a

698
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 1: lot of emotions going on around there.

699
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 5: Definitely, And I mean it's it's crazy. You just see

700
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 5: like a crazy, wild variety of emotions about it. So

701
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 5: it's really like common to see just like a spectrum

702
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 5: of different feelings around it. It's just really interesting to

703
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 5: do it in such a hostile state. I actually got

704
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 5: to do some training in the Washington State and it

705
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 5: was wild just how different things are laid out there

706
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 5: than in a state like Kentucky or Indiana.

707
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 1: What's of the big city? Where was the big city.

708
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 5: At I'm Bloomington? Where I you is?

709
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what either of those I don't know

710
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 1: what either of those things are.

711
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 5: Sorry, it's like a college town.

712
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 4: I you.

713
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: Oh, Indiana University? Oh okay, you go to IU. And

714
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: next door you can get an I U D.

715
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 6: Exactly where is UH?

716
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay? So what are the abortion laws like in UH?

717
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: In Indiana?

718
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 5: I'm actually kind of embarrassed to say that I'm out

719
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 5: of touch with what's going on most recently, but I

720
00:41:56,520 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 5: remember there was a really big push for everything to

721
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:05,919
Speaker 5: be completely you know, basically like Texas style band laws here,

722
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 5: and that was it's just so stressful because it goes

723
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 5: back and forth with the courts, and you know, staff

724
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 5: and patients have to kind of bend over backwards for

725
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 5: whatever happens, you know, at the very last minute.

726
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:30,319
Speaker 1: And was it is it like because there are I say,

727
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: assume like like like planned there are planned parenthoods in

728
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:40,240
Speaker 1: states where abortion is illegal rights.

729
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 5: I believe so, yes, And I think I think the

730
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 5: focus right now is just to like, you know, provide

731
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:56,760
Speaker 5: as much education as the law allows and just encourage

732
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 5: you know, safety.

733
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do now now that you

734
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: don't work there?

735
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 5: I think I'm gonna be more in touch with my

736
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 5: own feelings instead of you know, just kind of being

737
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 5: like this empathy vacuum every day. I think it's been

738
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,399
Speaker 5: a really eye opening experience for me to just kind

739
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 5: of spend time alone and switch to like a work

740
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 5: from home job. It's it's been awesome to just kind

741
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,240
Speaker 5: of like be with myself and and see myself outside

742
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 5: of a work environment.

743
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:40,879
Speaker 1: I know, it feels it feels nice to to work

744
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: on yourself, right because you're you're having to comfort people

745
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: all the time.

746
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 5: Oh definitely. Yeah.

747
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 1: It's a lot and just kind of.

748
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 5: You got to like kind of read the moment, read

749
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 5: every single little moment, and interpret that on how to

750
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 5: act next. It's really awesome, and I think that people

751
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 5: who work in those situations are incredible people. I really

752
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 5: loved it.

753
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 1: It's I mean, you know, that's the thing is say

754
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 1: what you will about people who are assholes. But I

755
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: got it. It sounds like a such a nice life

756
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 1: a little bit, doesn't it, not caring about anything or

757
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: anyone at all?

758
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:31,359
Speaker 6: Oh?

759
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I mean it's it's been really weird. It's

760
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 5: been really weird. And it kind of feels like, you know,

761
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 5: like when you're in high school and you finally get

762
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 5: the summer off or whatever, and you're just.

763
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 6: Like, dang, what do I do?

764
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 5: Because you're just so used to like constant routine day

765
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 5: after day after day. And when you finally have like

766
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 5: the time to do anything else, You're like, dang, I'm

767
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 5: so boring, Like do you have personality anymore? I feel

768
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 5: like almost brainwashed by work.

769
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: What are you going to do now that you have

770
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 1: all this time?

771
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 5: Well, I think I've been spending more time with my family,

772
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 5: but honestly, one thing I'm really excited about is to

773
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 5: get back into like hiking and go into the state parks.

774
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 5: I used to be so into that and it's just

775
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 5: like disappeared for me entirely since since I started, you know,

776
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 5: being more career oriented.

777
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 2: I guess, mm hmmm hm.

778
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: Do you have Do you have a lot of friends

779
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 1: in this hometown?

780
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 5: No, No, I've never I never had a large friend group.

781
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 5: But I do have really great close friends that are

782
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 5: just a few, but really wonderful friends. And I just

783
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 5: feel like a brand new chapter life. And I feel

784
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 5: tooper excited and really happy to be talking to you

785
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 5: tonight and everything.

786
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: I gotta say you sound. I can hear in your

787
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: voice that you've been dealing with incredibly emotional situations for

788
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: three years. Like I want to I want to throw

789
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: an army black around you right now. You're you seem

790
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: you see them incomplete shock just from talking to you.

791
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 1: So I'm glad to hear that you're moving on to

792
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: hiking and stuff instead of constantly having to be there

793
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: while people go through uh uh, you know, some of

794
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: the most awful times in their life. That sounds like

795
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: a lot to deal with every single day, you know.

796
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 1: I was talking to I was talking to somebody about

797
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: this and maybe you would have some interesting insight on it.

798
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 1: I've read on on the internet and talk to some

799
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: people and whatever. I've heard stories of people who like

800
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: they call the suicide hotline and the person on the

801
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: other end is like kind of cold or or uncaring,

802
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 1: you know. Or they're in some kind of a situation

803
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:24,240
Speaker 1: medically or some some dire thing where where like they're

804
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: at the horrible time in their life, but the person

805
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: working it's it they're sort of apathetic to them. And

806
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: I kind of get it a bit because it's like

807
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: for them, it's like every single day, you know, when

808
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,439
Speaker 1: you and a human being, as you know, can only

809
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: handle so much empathy, you know. So it's like it's

810
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: not surprising to me that these people, even though they're

811
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: put in situations where they where their whole job is

812
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 1: to deal with folks who are heavily distressed. It kind

813
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,320
Speaker 1: of makes sense to me that that occasionally they would

814
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 1: grow cold or uncaring or anything, not because they're rotten people,

815
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: but just because it's you know, I mean, like you

816
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 1: were saying, it takes an incredible person to be able

817
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: to do something like that, you know.

818
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 5: Definitely, definitely, and shout out to those who are still

819
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 5: doing it. I think my insight to that is just

820
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,760
Speaker 5: from working in an environment like that. Every single person

821
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 5: that I worked with was so compassionate and empathetic towards

822
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 5: the people who needed it, and even you know, between

823
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,439
Speaker 5: co workers, we were really empathetic and compassionate towards each other.

824
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 5: But speaking only for myself and none of my other

825
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 5: coworkers at the time, some of the stress, like you, like,

826
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 5: you just don't even know where to put it, and

827
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 5: it is not an option to give it to the

828
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:59,320
Speaker 5: people you're serving, you know what I mean, So you

829
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 5: kind of and in my case, something I'm not proud

830
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 5: of is definitely taking it out on the people you

831
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 5: work with every single day, or being like inappropriately, like

832
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 5: snippy or just short with them. And I think that's

833
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 5: how I handled it. Which was not great.

834
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: I bet it would be a good idea to like

835
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: date an exterminator, you know, somebody who's just they get

836
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: all their aggression out on the job, so that way,

837
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 1: you know it's all love.

838
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 5: When they get home, you're just like taking out entire

839
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 5: you know, species from an area. Just you probably feel

840
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 5: really powerful.

841
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 1: Right right, They got to be happy people. What's your

842
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: name again, Karen? Karen, Karen, thanks for talking to me.

843
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: I hope there's a good things ahead on the horizon.

844
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: Is there any anything else you want to say to

845
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: the people of the computer before we go, or to

846
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 1: me or to Mark who's listening to this podcast right now.

847
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would just say, be nice to each other

848
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 5: as often as possible, and thank you so much for

849
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 5: taking my call. And I hope you have a wonderful

850
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 5: rest of for your night.

851
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: Have a good night. Karen Karen. That's uh. You don't

852
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,280
Speaker 1: meet a lot. You don't meet a lot of nice Karen's.

853
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: I don't have any I don't have a joke. I

854
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: don't have a Karen joke, and I don't want to

855
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: have a Karen joke. Let's move on, let's talk, just

856
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 1: talk to another person. Hey, what's up?

857
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm actually all who is this?

858
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 5: Oh?

859
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 4: This is Tyler Tyler.

860
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 1: You know what's so cool? It's cool to me that

861
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: I've been doing this podcast for three years and there's

862
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: still new people calling in. I was thinking about that

863
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. I was like, what

864
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:10,439
Speaker 1: happens when I literally just have talked to everyone who

865
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: listens to this already?

866
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've watched from about a year now. Actually I

867
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 4: went to You're showing New York.

868
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 1: Oh shit, well at the Bellhouse, Yes, yeah, where those

869
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: two twins arm wrestled.

870
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 2: Yes.

871
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was sweet. That was awesome. Are you coming

872
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: back again? I won't be offended if you're.

873
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 4: Not about hustled out, but I'm gonna go to the

874
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:34,959
Speaker 4: one the next day.

875
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: Okay, sick sick six sick Tyler Tyler. You sent me

876
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 1: a text and you said you said, I farted in

877
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: a coworker's face because she annoys me. But after farting

878
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: in her face, I've mellowed out and I don't hate

879
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: her anymore.

880
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think because I'm not gonna say with

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Speaker 4: star work, I by work at a retail store and

882
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Speaker 4: there's this girl I will not I don't know what

883
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Speaker 4: type of saying they much, you ever, let's just say

884
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 4: h so h. She is not the best employee, like

885
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Speaker 4: everyone kind of like you know comments and the fact

886
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,879
Speaker 4: that she's ad the scattered brain. She'd messes stuff up.

887
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Speaker 4: And when I first started working at that store, I

888
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 4: had to fix certain things that she would mess up.

889
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 4: And one day, you know, we were in the break room.

890
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Speaker 4: She was sitting in a chair. I was washing my

891
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 4: hands and I noticed my butt was at the perfect

892
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 4: angle at her face where I was like, if I

893
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Speaker 4: start and leaves, she's not going to know there's several

894
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:45,760
Speaker 4: other people in here. And I did that and I left.

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Speaker 4: And it's been I think about a year or two

896
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Speaker 4: ever since I fart in her face, And honestly, I

897
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Speaker 4: don't know. I am pretty I don't mind her anymore

898
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 4: or like, you know, she still has an approved of

899
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Speaker 4: the worker and I'm like, hey, how are you? You know,

900
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 4: like sometimes we chat and it has gotten significantly better

901
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 4: working with her.

902
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Speaker 1: You know, there's something to that. There's something too that

903
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: I was on TikTok last night and I saw a

904
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: really beautiful video that I and I think I think

905
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Speaker 1: this is related to what to your thing. It was.

906
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: It was one of these TikTok prankster kids, who I

907
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: really don't like a lot of those guys, but it

908
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: was one of these TikTok prankster people. And he was

909
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: like fucking with this old man. And the old man

910
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: was like, if you do that again, I'm gonna if

911
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: you if you call me that again, I'm gonna fuck

912
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Speaker 1: you up. And so the kid put the prank kid

913
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Speaker 1: he put up like a fighting stance, and the old

914
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: man smacked him in the face, and then the little

915
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: and then the kid punched the old man and then

916
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: like they kind of like circle, but then they kind

917
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Speaker 1: of like circle each other for a little bit and

918
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Speaker 1: then I swear to God, the old guy he just

919
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: he just looks at the prank kid and he goes, kid,

920
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: what are we doing? And the kid and the kid

921
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: is like, ah, you know what, you're right, and they

922
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 1: both they like put their hands down, and the old

923
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: man is like, you actually got me pretty good, and

924
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: the kid's like, you got me pretty good too, you

925
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: can fight, and then they hugged and and and that

926
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Speaker 1: was it. And I was like, and by the way,

927
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Speaker 1: I mean, I've watched a lot of fight videos on

928
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Speaker 1: the internet, and that's the only one I think I've

929
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 1: seen that ended like that, but I did it may

930
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: be kind and I'm not a big proponent of you know,

931
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 1: I don't think you should hit people and stuff, but

932
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 1: it just was kind of beautiful to see one time

933
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Speaker 1: where you know, hitting people worked. And maybe there's something

934
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: to that where you farted in your coworker's face and

935
00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 1: that just got it out. I think it's missing the

936
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Speaker 1: element of you got to let your coworker fart in

937
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:08,399
Speaker 1: your if you let your coworker fart in your face. See,

938
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Speaker 1: that's the thing this was. This is kind of what

939
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Speaker 1: makes it different from that fight is that it's only

940
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Speaker 1: one sided so far. If you let your coworker fart

941
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Speaker 1: in your face and you or and then you just

942
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 1: spend a little bit of time farting in each other's faces,

943
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Speaker 1: that might solve everything. Because I don't know how she's feeling.

944
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Speaker 1: Maybe she's feeling as pent up shit. Again, she probably

945
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Speaker 1: doesn't like you, but if she farted in your face,

946
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Speaker 1: she would see that you're actually, you know, pretty cool.

947
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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe you're right, but I'm also too tall for

948
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 4: her to fart in my face too. I think even

949
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 4: sitting down too tall to far in my face, not.

950
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:46,240
Speaker 1: In the the t bag position.

951
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, probably she could probably do it if I was

952
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 4: in that position.

953
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Speaker 1: Again, why did this? Why does this person annoy you?

954
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Speaker 4: Because like in retail, you know your already in pays

955
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Speaker 4: a little, customers are already like snapping at you for

956
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 4: the smallest things, and then like repeatedly for like you know,

957
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Speaker 4: like maybe like three or four days a week. You know,

958
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 4: you do something that person, they purposely mess it up.

959
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 4: And like in the store, we all like stalk our

960
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 4: own little sections and maybe like a whole thing will

961
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 4: be messed up and they'll go to me and being like, well,

962
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Speaker 4: I do like this, and I'm just like I saw

963
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 4: agh just restock it, Like what why are you talking

964
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 4: to me about this? So yeah, something like that.

965
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Speaker 1: I look a job environment like that would make me

966
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 1: want to fart in people's faces too. I get it.

967
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 1: You had that fart. There was more in that fart

968
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Speaker 1: than just uh fart chemicals. There was anger, resentment, frustration,

969
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,359
Speaker 1: and you farted it all out of your body onto

970
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 1: this woman's face. And that's why exactly love.

971
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:09,240
Speaker 4: Now, maybe maybe maybe the world's problems would be solved

972
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 4: a bit more. If people were just like, I'm not

973
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 4: going to punch this guy, I'm not going to kick

974
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 4: this kid. I'm just going to do one simple fart.

975
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 4: I'm just going to walk away from the situation.

976
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: I agree with that. What's your name again?

977
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Speaker 4: It's Tyler, Tyler.

978
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: Well, Tyler. If you're if you need it a referee

979
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: of a fart battle between you and this person, and

980
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: you can you can hold it within a ten minute

981
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 1: walk of my house, let me know and I'll do it.

982
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 4: Okay, cool, I will to have a large kind of

983
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 4: beans before that.

984
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 2: I will.

985
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 4: I'll be prepared.

986
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 1: Thank you for calling, Tyler.

987
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 4: Thanks lover podcast Bye.

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Speaker 3: Goes on the line. Thank you phone calls every night

989
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 3: everythig kid goes through in his eye. Who's teaching him

990
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Speaker 3: loud every life? But he's not really an expert.