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Speaker 1: How was your weekend? I don't do much ship, same ship?
Speaker 1: I did do? Uh? I guess a little bit of
Speaker 1: valentine Dinner on Sunday? A little bit of dinner. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we in Atlanta, right, so Valentine's is today. We're recording, y'all.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, So I did do dinner on Sunday. What
Speaker 1: did you do dinner? And dick? You got dick? Yes,
Speaker 1: I've been getting dick, bitch. I don't know about you.
Speaker 1: I didn't get no dick and I didn't get no dinner. Actually,
Speaker 1: I kind of drove here and I was running around
Speaker 1: trying to find something to wear because we're filming, you guys.
Speaker 1: So I didn't do that. I hung out with Takia
Speaker 1: so we went to Esco. Uh that's a little cool
Speaker 1: little spot, and we had two chains. Was there, his
Speaker 1: wife was there. They were kicking in was R and B.
Speaker 1: I love them. I love yeah. So it was a
Speaker 1: cool time and yeah, that was it. So we could
Speaker 1: be here bright and earlier. I don't do too much.
Speaker 1: You got last night, no Sunday. It's Monday, and today
Speaker 1: is Tuesday. It's Valentine's Day, So Monday we could at
Speaker 1: least wore a paint. Bitch, were sad or black on
Speaker 1: purpose because I ain't got no Valentine. What's your best
Speaker 1: and worst Valentine's I have really not had any bad ones.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to consider the ones.
Speaker 1: You gotta be by yourself kind of bad. But no,
Speaker 1: I had a bad at one. I'm I'm gonna yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start with a bad one and I'm in
Speaker 1: with the best one. All right. We're family and I'm
Speaker 1: sharing with y'all. So it was this guy was saying
Speaker 1: we had only been seeing each other like maybe a
Speaker 1: couple of months or whatever, and we talked about Valentine's
Speaker 1: and he was like, I don't believe in Valentine. Here
Speaker 1: we go and I was like, well, I do. So
Speaker 1: if I don't spend it with you, I'll probably be
Speaker 1: with somebody. Right. So, like the day before Valentine's he
Speaker 1: was like, uh, what you're doing tomorrow. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't have plans yet. He was like, I want
Speaker 1: to see you. I want to when you come over,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you dinner. I'm gonna do some nice things,
Speaker 1: all right. I was like, okay, cool. I was all
Speaker 1: the way in Columbia, South Carolina, and I drove back
Speaker 1: to Charlotte to have this Valentine experience even though I
Speaker 1: still had to work the next day in Columbia. So
Speaker 1: I was doing a lot of back and forth. This
Speaker 1: experience happened for me. Let's just get that together, all right.
Speaker 1: So I get to his house and he got Brian
Speaker 1: night playing and ship and he got like a but
Speaker 1: what's that nothing? Bunt cake one of those, and he
Speaker 1: got some flowers and he's in there and making a
Speaker 1: steak and like, you know, so it's all good, Like
Speaker 1: everything is good. I'm like, oh, this is nice. He
Speaker 1: poured me a glass of wine. We're having a good conversation,
Speaker 1: all right. So I had lied to him about my age,
Speaker 1: but I've been trains aged for a long time. Right,
Speaker 1: So we were having a converse. I had forgot like
Speaker 1: I told him when we first met, and we were
Speaker 1: having a conversation. She was like, did you ever lie
Speaker 1: to me about anything? And I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: think I've ever lied to you about anything. And I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I might have told you I was
Speaker 1: two years younger than I really am. All right, hope,
Speaker 1: let me go back. This is this is after the
Speaker 1: steak and I gave him some head we don't need
Speaker 1: it and all that ship. Now, he was like, did
Speaker 1: you have a lie to me about anything? I was like,
Speaker 1: people want to have serious conversations that I think I
Speaker 1: ever lied to you. I was like, I think when
Speaker 1: we met, I might have told you I was such
Speaker 1: a such age, but I'm really this age. But it's
Speaker 1: like a year and a half older, two years older
Speaker 1: than what I am. He was he lied to me.
Speaker 1: I can't believe you need to leave what I need
Speaker 1: to leave. It's pouring down ray, y'all. It's sucking pouring
Speaker 1: down rain. And nigger made me leave his house. He
Speaker 1: was all right, so earlier I felt like he was
Speaker 1: trying to find a reason to go because he was like,
Speaker 1: I need to go get my homeboy. He need a
Speaker 1: ride real quick. He was trying to go to another
Speaker 1: bitch house, like it was very evident that he had
Speaker 1: played two Valentines for two different people. And when I
Speaker 1: like stopped, like, oh, you're not going to get nobody
Speaker 1: seen him with Uber if you need to go, if
Speaker 1: you need to ride, see him with Uber. I was
Speaker 1: shutting everything down, so he had to try to find
Speaker 1: a way to pick a fight. He was like, did
Speaker 1: you ever lie about anything? He was just waiting on
Speaker 1: me to have something outlied about so he could be
Speaker 1: so appalled and put me out his house in the rain,
Speaker 1: and I drove home in the rain like that nigga.
Speaker 1: I wanted to kill him. That was my words. Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day by far, that's sad. Yeah, and that's sad. I
Speaker 1: wonder if he googled, like how to get rid of
Speaker 1: a bit of Valentine? How did you mean that he
Speaker 1: just was coming? He was, Yeah, this day he tried
Speaker 1: to like give me a newtle trick. No, nigger, you
Speaker 1: put me out on Valentine's Day because in the rain
Speaker 1: over a little white lie that I told you. The
Speaker 1: first day we met a little white that was a
Speaker 1: white lie right, very traceful. Yeah, it's not that deep
Speaker 1: like and you made it a big deal. So fun
Speaker 1: that nigga. And then my best Valentine, my best Valentine,
Speaker 1: my ex boyfriend when he um took took me on
Speaker 1: the helicopter ride over the ocean like a sunset champagne ride.
Speaker 1: Then we went um. Then we went to paint um
Speaker 1: like you know how like a Painton said. We went
Speaker 1: and did that. And then the next day we stay
Speaker 1: did in the hotel room that night and he had
Speaker 1: me packed for five days. He said, just pack and
Speaker 1: he I was lily, never had no ship like that.
Speaker 1: I gotta even get my Valentine's up. I was living
Speaker 1: in Europe at the time. We were both were living
Speaker 1: in Europe. So he flew me home. I was so
Speaker 1: homesick and he flew me home and see my mama
Speaker 1: the next day. So and we also when it saw
Speaker 1: a lion king the Broadway shows, like he didn't he
Speaker 1: pulled out all the stops. I fucked him on the plane.
Speaker 1: It was like a red Eye. It was a red
Speaker 1: eyeback from like from England and London and New York
Speaker 1: and it was like empty and I sucked him right
Speaker 1: on that plane. I did because that was the dopest
Speaker 1: Valentine because I was so guaranteed pussy. Yeah, that was
Speaker 1: my best Valentine. What about you? This basic ship dinner, Dick,
Speaker 1: you know the same thing you did Sunday. Ain't never
Speaker 1: flew me on a goddamn helicopt over the ocean. Never happened.
Speaker 1: It's on my bucket list. I'm added on there. That's
Speaker 1: type of Valentine's I need next year. So hopefully I'll
Speaker 1: have a whole boyfriend or husband if we can, just
Speaker 1: we can pay for it. Helicopter, get on there and drink.
Speaker 1: He might could do that ship today in the meantime, right,
Speaker 1: we don't have to wait till Valentine's We can go
Speaker 1: down to Miami. They gotta helacopters. We can right over
Speaker 1: the ocean. I ain't sucking like, but you know what,
Speaker 1: it's still early. It's Valentine's You never know what might
Speaker 1: happen night. And you know my suggestions for any man
Speaker 1: in a relationship today, stop acting like Valentine's Day does
Speaker 1: not matter. It matters to women. It also matters to men. Too,
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. Imagine you liking a
Speaker 1: woman and they just ghost your ass on today, Right,
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a problem. And women stop they getting
Speaker 1: fucking sucking Valentine's get that man real gold digg is
Speaker 1: trick first anyway, get him a small little trinket, something
Speaker 1: socks and draw It was like anything he said that
Speaker 1: he like a little video game, wanted or some sh
Speaker 1: and then pussy right, and then pussy the same old
Speaker 1: pussy been bringing every day. I'm sorry, I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: like it's not a gift. Oh did you see that
Speaker 1: post that somebody post. It was like, uh, I'm sorry
Speaker 1: to break the news to y'all, but all pussy feel
Speaker 1: the same. And I was like, that's not somebody missmelled
Speaker 1: buddy hole, because first of all, it's different. Yeah, absolutely right,
Speaker 1: makes just that all you could ever feel the same
Speaker 1: because some are tighter summer, older summer, newer summer, you know, right,
Speaker 1: some dry right dryer winter, Like there's no just shape
Speaker 1: different on the inside. That sound like somebody who ain't
Speaker 1: had a lot of pussy are none at all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that sounds like, yes, I just saw a little inch finger.
Speaker 1: Yeah it sounds like somebody penis than all. There's not
Speaker 1: even a micro But if you only can get to
Speaker 1: the front of the vagina, that's probably the same. It's
Speaker 1: just the top of the hole. Everybody got a top
Speaker 1: of the hole. Yeah, ignorant man. Okay, well that's paltize
Speaker 1: that guys, that's all we got. We got no love
Speaker 1: advice to mean, we're happy. If your love it's a
Speaker 1: special strap up or not make a baby? Strap up? Girl,
Speaker 1: You're gonna have a war, maybe an apocalyptic type ship,
Speaker 1: but to happen. Do not get pregnant today? Why not?
Speaker 1: We need kids to keep the earth. Wait till next year,
Speaker 1: wait till after. This is my first time that I
Speaker 1: would advise you to have sex raw. That's usually listen
Speaker 1: to you and a baby, like, don't we We're gonna
Speaker 1: be fine. Okay, there's not gonna be any apocalypse. We're
Speaker 1: talking about Valentine just been talking about a poet loose. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you'll people need to remember that real ship still
Speaker 1: going on. Yeah, don't ever get comfortable. Okay, but still today,
Speaker 1: can we just can it be about love today? Just
Speaker 1: for one day? Yeah? I love today. That's why I
Speaker 1: love tomorrow. All right. Yeah, that's it. That's all we
Speaker 1: got on Valentime to day. Thank y'all. We'll be right back,
Speaker 1: all right, So let's get into super Internet and yeah,
Speaker 1: so what we got going on? So this past weekend
Speaker 1: was the Super Bowl. Yes, oh Super Bowl Sunday, that's
Speaker 1: what I did Sunday. Yes, I forgot about that ship.
Speaker 1: So the Eagles and whatever who won, they opened up
Speaker 1: for us, They opened up for Rihanna. And from what
Speaker 1: I understand, because I wasn't paying attention, it looked like
Speaker 1: it was a good game. It was a game the
Speaker 1: Eagles through the game. As far as it's dropping the ball,
Speaker 1: somebody a hundred dollars on that game. I don't know
Speaker 1: who I forgot. You bet again, Yeah, bet for the ego.
Speaker 1: I just knew they was paid. No, you're gonna pay
Speaker 1: if the person said bat you beat me, Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: pay them name money. Other than that note, I'm not
Speaker 1: paying the ass. Let me tell you why I thought
Speaker 1: the Eagles was gonna win. So my ex boyfriend is
Speaker 1: getting out of prison in like a week or two,
Speaker 1: who's been in prison for nine years, and he got
Speaker 1: egos tattered on his Uh, that's his favorite team. So
Speaker 1: I just knew they was gonna win, because coming home
Speaker 1: from jail, that's not good enough. It would have been
Speaker 1: good to boost his morale coming back into you know,
Speaker 1: into the real world. Well, how do you feel about Rihanna?
Speaker 1: I love Rihanna? As soon as she hit the say
Speaker 1: this is that bitch breaking again? I love it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm happy for And she showed up like
Speaker 1: whatever during her little too step, barely dancing like y'all
Speaker 1: niggas and be happy. I feel like a side was
Speaker 1: dancing harder on the ground than he was air on
Speaker 1: the platform, floating and ship. I don't see no harnesses
Speaker 1: or nothing on her. I was scared to tell her,
Speaker 1: like bit what Beyonce does that at concerts? Bring nobody out,
Speaker 1: though I feel like if you can't dance, maybe you
Speaker 1: should bring out somebody that can dance. But she's enough
Speaker 1: what ship? Arihanna is enough? I mean I love don't
Speaker 1: get me wrong, Rihanna, Navy or whatever. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I'm in the Navy, but I'm a big fan.
Speaker 1: But I just don't feel like she gave what needs
Speaker 1: to be getting. She showed up pregnant like all you know,
Speaker 1: Cardi b kind of started that whole thing, like, stop
Speaker 1: putting your life on the whole. Do the ship? Have
Speaker 1: you maybies you can stole Cary was humping the ground,
Speaker 1: pregnant and all kind of ships he was doing. Rihanna
Speaker 1: has a little more class. Is that what it is?
Speaker 1: Because I got seeing Rihanna titties a couple of times
Speaker 1: on different outfits and stuff like that. So it is
Speaker 1: a matter of don't class, don't do a reread. I
Speaker 1: loved her performance. I love the little baby bump, I
Speaker 1: love the baby bump um. Well, the performance was. I
Speaker 1: love the songs. It was nice to hear the songs again.
Speaker 1: Better have my money. That was where we can go
Speaker 1: with that, and we're gonna leave that right there. All right, y'all.
Speaker 1: So y'all know, for a Black issue month, we try
Speaker 1: to do like, you know, a batty who talks back. Um.
Speaker 1: And speaking of the super Bowl, did y'all see Sheryl
Speaker 1: Lee Ralph? Okay, she was so fine, looks so good.
Speaker 1: Oh she looks Black people are fucking beautiful. That's what
Speaker 1: I do know. She looks so good and she sounded
Speaker 1: good too, Yes, And I knew she was talented, but
Speaker 1: I didn't know she could also sing. I didn't know
Speaker 1: she could sing either. I always known her, you know,
Speaker 1: as an actractress. But I guess that's about right because
Speaker 1: she played in Dreamgirls. So just to give a little
Speaker 1: background on Shirley Ralph, she was born in nine team
Speaker 1: fifty six December thirty. She's an actress and singer, now
Speaker 1: that I know she's a singer to UM. She made
Speaker 1: her screen debut in the nineteen seventy seven comedy film
Speaker 1: A Piece of Action, before landing the role as Dina
Speaker 1: Jones and the Broadway musical dream Girls. That was UM
Speaker 1: for what she received the Tony Award for dam I
Speaker 1: didn't know she had a Tony UM. So she received
Speaker 1: the Tony Award for Best Actress in a Musical Nomination. UM.
Speaker 1: She currently stars as Barbara Howard on the a m
Speaker 1: ABC mockumentary sitcom Abbot Element. No, No, let me watching
Speaker 1: TV first, I'm gonna have to catch up on it.
Speaker 1: UM for what she won Outstanding Supporting Actress in Comedy
Speaker 1: Series at the seventy Prime Time Emmy Awards. Okay, so
Speaker 1: this week's Batty who Talks Back goes to Sheryl Lee
Speaker 1: Ralph because she was cutting up at the Super Bowl
Speaker 1: at Sunday and she's so talented, so we salute your
Speaker 1: girls and she looks so good. Yeah all right. So
Speaker 1: you got this pastor talking crazy about Beyonce and not
Speaker 1: want her congregation to attend any umy concerts. So Tiffany Montgomery.
Speaker 1: So she got saved in two thousand and fifteen because
Speaker 1: she used to go to Beyonce and jay Z concerts
Speaker 1: back before she got saved. Now she's a pastor and
Speaker 1: she wants to influence everyone to not endorsed Beyonce or
Speaker 1: jay Z. And she says that they witches or something
Speaker 1: like that. Right, Yeah, that's what she said, And I
Speaker 1: kind of a little bit. Is nothing wrong with being
Speaker 1: a witch? First of all? Yeah, I know I'm a
Speaker 1: self proclaimed one. When you say that, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: I used the Earth's elements to bend shipped to my will.
Speaker 1: I don't funk with people, though. I think when people
Speaker 1: try to get into witchcraft, the first thing women want
Speaker 1: to do is put a spell on the negative, make
Speaker 1: him like that, and actually to give me a spell.
Speaker 1: You don't want that, because you're gonna be trying to
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to file up. Yeah, I appreciate that
Speaker 1: you didn't do that, because you can't take away people
Speaker 1: free will. So that's the one thing I may not
Speaker 1: agree with with, you know, using witchcraft ship, but I
Speaker 1: do believe that they on some ship, the Knowles family, right,
Speaker 1: But for the church to be talking this is our
Speaker 1: one of our first films. This is gonna get this canceled.
Speaker 1: Why I'm with it, I'm dad. It's so funk with people, right,
Speaker 1: But I don't think the church has any room to
Speaker 1: talk like y'all literally being there drinking and eating the
Speaker 1: blood of Christ on Sundays. That sounds like witchcraft whatever.
Speaker 1: That sounds like a ritual to me. To me as
Speaker 1: somebody who practices, that sounds like a ritual. So you
Speaker 1: feel like I'm confusing. The church should not be talking
Speaker 1: about Beyonce. That's what I feel like. Well, you know what,
Speaker 1: I don't think it was a church. It was just
Speaker 1: that one lady. I haven't seen a lot of this ladyship.
Speaker 1: I think Michelle came to her defense, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because Michelle is like a very Christian woman,
Speaker 1: and she definitely came to her defense. She clapped back, saying,
Speaker 1: this don't make me run up on you wait, that's no,
Speaker 1: that's the faster anyway. I like Beyonce. I like Beyonce.
Speaker 1: I don't know about jay Z, but I do like Beyonce.
Speaker 1: I feel like, UM, I don't know, maybe she's being
Speaker 1: held under her under duress. I don't know. Now I
Speaker 1: will say that these concert tickets is out of control.
Speaker 1: I won't. I'm not gonna luck, did you? I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna go because I can't afford them tickets, not because
Speaker 1: this pastor told me not to go. I haven't looked
Speaker 1: how much. How much is that somebody was like, oh
Speaker 1: I got two floor tickets if you want to It
Speaker 1: was three thousand apiece. Damn. I looked online like the
Speaker 1: Nosebleedes was like five hundred dollars. So now, and I
Speaker 1: did go to UM Tina knows UM nonprofit in l A.
Speaker 1: Last year they were auctioning off tickets for Beyonce concert
Speaker 1: and fifty thousand dollars. Two bitches bought those tickets, was
Speaker 1: one of them. She bought those tickets. Get somebody else
Speaker 1: to do. I ain't got that kind of money to
Speaker 1: invest in the concert. No, it just doesn't seem right.
Speaker 1: Three thousand dollars to sit on the floor. It was
Speaker 1: like two thousand and eighteen or something like that. I
Speaker 1: paid three hundred dollars for floor tickets. I saw Beyonce
Speaker 1: in two thousand eight My ticket was like, but here's
Speaker 1: the thing. They're doing something with these tickets like Ticketmaster,
Speaker 1: and there has there should be some kind of law
Speaker 1: about raising the prices on these tickets, because I don't
Speaker 1: even think it's really Beyonce tickets that is that much.
Speaker 1: I think it's the resellers. Yeah, the people bottom when
Speaker 1: they hit them market, just like the sneakers and then
Speaker 1: they you know, yeah, I feel like in other countries
Speaker 1: that have laws against that happening, but here in the States,
Speaker 1: anything just getting chance they get. That's all we had.
Speaker 1: No the lightning. Oh okay, alright, so look moving right along.
Speaker 1: Um So, earlier this week a flash storm struck the
Speaker 1: big ass Christ that they have in Real Dejaniro, Brazil.
Speaker 1: And now the internet isn't a frenzy. I know Will
Speaker 1: Smith posted it, but this is not an uncommon event.
Speaker 1: For like, it's a big as statue with the mountain, yes,
Speaker 1: lightning ft tall, so why would it not get striped
Speaker 1: by lightning? But all right, so that ship got struck
Speaker 1: by lightning. And we've been shooting under the unidentified flying
Speaker 1: objects out of the sky all over the United States
Speaker 1: and Canada, going on the Georgia Guide Stones. I don't
Speaker 1: know if anybod body you ever heard of Georgia Guy Stones.
Speaker 1: So last summer, that ship got struck by lightning. Well
Speaker 1: you can't tell what struck it on video. You see,
Speaker 1: they have a video where car speeding away from it.
Speaker 1: It looked like lightning striker to me. And it's a
Speaker 1: three uh stone hinges and on the stone hinges it
Speaker 1: tells you how to maintain humanity. And this is sitting
Speaker 1: in the middle of a small town in Georgia, and
Speaker 1: that ship got blown up last summer. Mm hmm. And
Speaker 1: now you got the aliens flying around right. So but
Speaker 1: I won't be surprised by nothing. Let me tell you.
Speaker 1: I packed all my bullets in my car, both my pistols,
Speaker 1: just in case just the ever turned into like the
Speaker 1: Walking Dad, because you know on the Walking Dad that
Speaker 1: SI started. Oh it did started that level. But here's
Speaker 1: the things you won't get me stuck. I'm a survival
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you can't shoot you like with
Speaker 1: your regular bullet. What the aliens or the um the aliens,
Speaker 1: They've probably got some type of soup. I'm sure they
Speaker 1: have done their research on us down here, and they
Speaker 1: know that we like to shoot each other up and
Speaker 1: ship like that, so they they prepared. Yeah, y'all keep
Speaker 1: on playing out here if y'all want to. I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: one thing, I know, I'm gonna live to tell a story.
Speaker 1: That's all the funk, I know. I know that's all right.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, We're gonna take a break right quick,
Speaker 1: and when we come back, we want to get into
Speaker 1: some fun stuff like, Yeah, we're gonna talk sitcoms and love.
Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Okay, So guys, we're back, and
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk with a J about black sitcoms
Speaker 1: and black sitcom love, not just sitcoms movies too. So
Speaker 1: we made a list of all our favorite black couples,
Speaker 1: and we just want to talk about a few things
Speaker 1: that we love about them and that we hate about
Speaker 1: them and those things like that. So I may I
Speaker 1: compile a list of questions to ask a J. And
Speaker 1: we can talk about it in y'all can talk about
Speaker 1: it at home. Too. Okay, So first, which couple was
Speaker 1: the best parents out of all your black couple sitcoms
Speaker 1: and movies? Who do you feel like it was the
Speaker 1: best parents? Okay? I think it would be a tie
Speaker 1: between Uncle Phil and Viv and um, the Hustables, the Hustles.
Speaker 1: I feel like every episode came with a life lesson, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like there was a lot of people parents that didn't
Speaker 1: have parents. Uncle Phil to Ja Cole definitely said oh yeah,
Speaker 1: Uncle Phil. But Uncle Phil like the way that you know,
Speaker 1: that was a little bit unrealistic for most black people.
Speaker 1: I guess the household oh because it was rich, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: but they definitely, you know, had a lot of ship
Speaker 1: you can learn from, especially the episode when Will was like,
Speaker 1: don't love me? That was that was sad man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was sad. But it was a lot of black
Speaker 1: kids that could relate to that ship. But we're gonna
Speaker 1: never see him cry about it. They just keep blaming
Speaker 1: their mom about it. Sometimes Mama fault though, No, they're
Speaker 1: just never mama fault. She did her best, women accountable
Speaker 1: for ship. She all right, which couple would you want
Speaker 1: to be? Like? Uh, which couple I'm looking at it?
Speaker 1: I like relationship. They can trip out together, but they
Speaker 1: didn't seem like they was doing a whole lot of
Speaker 1: good fucking Like they just was funny together, but they
Speaker 1: wasn't like remember she had her head stuck in the bead, like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's some fucking all right. I would say, mm hmmm,
Speaker 1: I don't know who would I want to be, Like,
Speaker 1: did you Georgia Wheezy l No, because George Jefferson was toxic.
Speaker 1: That's That's what I'm putting for toxic. But I would
Speaker 1: say I probably wouldn't want to be like Uncle Phil
Speaker 1: and Viv rich and and healed and happy. No, I
Speaker 1: guess which one which the first one? Both a black
Speaker 1: darkly Okay, I could not be on Viv because I'm
Speaker 1: not married and niked that big Okay, I'm sorry. So
Speaker 1: if you had a rich man who loves you to
Speaker 1: death and do anything for you because you don't have
Speaker 1: to take care of that nigga you'd be carrying around
Speaker 1: about sixty seven years old, you're gonna be having to
Speaker 1: take care of him because he did not make happy decisions.
Speaker 1: Still not be healthy by the time you sixty seven
Speaker 1: years old, But the chances of you being unhealthy and
Speaker 1: needing someone to take care of you, because now you
Speaker 1: have done what the funk you wanted to do your
Speaker 1: whole life, right, made all these unhealthy decisions. Now I
Speaker 1: got to pay for him. I see that in real life.
Speaker 1: If you don't want no fact, nigga, who you pick?
Speaker 1: I decaid? I want to Okay, I don't want to
Speaker 1: unhealthy nick God say that. Let me know, Uncle Phil,
Speaker 1: I'm not body shaming him, size man. No, I still
Speaker 1: want to go with Martin and Gina. Okay, So that
Speaker 1: would be to couple that was cool, but I wouldn't
Speaker 1: I don't think I would have chosen. Okay, which couple
Speaker 1: was the funniest. Definitely Martin and Gina. Sometimes Gina got
Speaker 1: funny and like maybe I don't know, maybe it was
Speaker 1: Martin that made it funny. You know. It was just
Speaker 1: like the Martin and goddamn Pam were funny. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: they weren't a couple. They can't. They probably wanted to
Speaker 1: fun in real life. They might have did in real life.
Speaker 1: They wouldn't have fucked, right, Martin would have smashed Pam
Speaker 1: in real life because that was something like the playground
Speaker 1: hitting the girl because you like them. Their chemistry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I could see that, but they don't count because they're
Speaker 1: not a couple. So who you pick? Um? I picked them.
Speaker 1: That's the funniest. Yeah, all right, I agree, which couple
Speaker 1: would do the best? Fucking? Like, we didn't watch all
Speaker 1: these couples fun, but in your imagination, who is fucking
Speaker 1: the best? Mm hmmm, why are you thinking I'm gonna
Speaker 1: give you mine? I really think Florida Evans and James
Speaker 1: Evans was doing the biggest nice, creazy, fucking poor fun
Speaker 1: sweat poor in. All we got is little fucking I agree.
Speaker 1: Damn this ship in the way, damn that way. Just
Speaker 1: about him being gone, she was gonna miss that big.
Speaker 1: I agree. Read they probably had the best sex life,
Speaker 1: and they seemed the happiest a lot of times, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. They the most miserable all the time.
Speaker 1: You think it was always for real, like every episode
Speaker 1: was like hardship. But they had a lot of love.
Speaker 1: There you go. So maybe I'm confusing and conflating happiness
Speaker 1: with love, But it's that not the same thing. Not
Speaker 1: Oftentimes we can have a lot of love and not
Speaker 1: be like happy with your situation. All right, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: love makes the situation easier. No, I'm sure it would,
Speaker 1: but I don't think it was completely happy. I know
Speaker 1: they wasn't happy with the kids, but together them as
Speaker 1: a couple of minus the kids, I feel like they
Speaker 1: were happy with each other because they had financial struggles
Speaker 1: that they were always arguing about. You don't think so,
Speaker 1: I gotta rewatch, but you watch way more TV than me.
Speaker 1: I love me a good black sitcom. Okay, which couple
Speaker 1: was the most toxic? Um? Don know who you got?
Speaker 1: I would say, First of all, I would say the
Speaker 1: most toxic was um, what's his name? On the show?
Speaker 1: U from Not Good Times? But the Jeffersons, Sherman Hesley,
Speaker 1: George George and Wheezy George was toxic. He was she
Speaker 1: was male male shoving his pig is what he was
Speaker 1: and like that show would never like fly in today's
Speaker 1: like he couldn't be like that and be okay. They'd
Speaker 1: be like, why is this nig always talking ship to
Speaker 1: Wheezy like that? And how he did what was the
Speaker 1: the mad name? Girl? I don't know what was the
Speaker 1: mad name? You know? Anybody? Florence? How he used to
Speaker 1: talk to Florence. He was real disrespect for the Florence,
Speaker 1: but then she was in there not doing ship. So
Speaker 1: like the Eastern Ray and Lawrence, like I only caught
Speaker 1: like a few episodes of that. That would be a
Speaker 1: more modern day Why I don't feel like I stick
Speaker 1: towards each other, They would be more modern day like
Speaker 1: they just were having together? Are we not together? Like
Speaker 1: that's what we deal with now, Like that a gray
Speaker 1: area when you started working with somebody and they still
Speaker 1: funking with somebody, and like listen Monica and Quincy Monica
Speaker 1: and Quincy Basis, Like you think about it. That movie
Speaker 1: was supposed to be such a like sweet loving story,
Speaker 1: is it really not? He did Monica so fucking dirty,
Speaker 1: Like he dumped Monica because she couldn't play basketball, no basketball,
Speaker 1: because because she wouldn't be there for him right when
Speaker 1: he needed him to talk to her, like she had
Speaker 1: a game, she had a curfew, like why he don't
Speaker 1: do because of that ship? And then God with fucking
Speaker 1: Tyra banks ass and then she imagined being playing the
Speaker 1: nigga for his heart in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1: He played hard to imagine knocking on the nigga window
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night. The fuck and then
Speaker 1: he really came out there and played her like that
Speaker 1: was definitely very toxic. I wouldn't call it toxic. Who
Speaker 1: else Melanie and Derwin? This ship was dumb? What shows
Speaker 1: that was? Like? What shows? That's? Um? The game? Oh?
Speaker 1: I definitely didn't watch that time. Really, No, I don't
Speaker 1: have so good You should go back and I know something. Okay,
Speaker 1: So I know, like, um, the storylines on a lot
Speaker 1: of shows, but like to say, I watched the ship
Speaker 1: from top to bottom. No med school, no, no girl,
Speaker 1: you need to go back and see that. It's really good. Okay,
Speaker 1: So now what happened? They were? They were definitely toxic.
Speaker 1: Derwe had an outside baby. Well, I mean I guess
Speaker 1: they were kind of split when she had the baby,
Speaker 1: but she was like the baby and see if the
Speaker 1: baby was his, like trying to get pregnant with turkey
Speaker 1: bases and all kind of crazy because he was a
Speaker 1: football player, right, Okay, I remember he played for the
Speaker 1: I don't know who the fuck he played for. But
Speaker 1: they was real toxic, all right? Which couple would you
Speaker 1: want to see more of? Like if you could pick
Speaker 1: a couple from any show, which one would you like
Speaker 1: a new reboot? I would love for again Martin and
Speaker 1: Gina to be rebooted. We know that would never happen,
Speaker 1: but I would love to see a reboot of that.
Speaker 1: But could you imagine them, like how the show would
Speaker 1: be at fifty though not fun because did you see
Speaker 1: the reunion on I think it was on HBO Max.
Speaker 1: On the reunion, Martin looked clearly uncomfortable, like why am
Speaker 1: I heir g know? It was like talking a whole lot.
Speaker 1: She's I don't know, I don't know what the is
Speaker 1: that with her? Pam fly fine, it flies as always.
Speaker 1: I don't think they could have the same on chemistry
Speaker 1: not back there, Yeah, because they're oldert So like if
Speaker 1: we can get a TV show similar to Martin, that
Speaker 1: would be great, That would be great. I would want
Speaker 1: to see Easter Ray Uh and Lawrence like the whole show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the whole show just dedicated to them. Who the fund
Speaker 1: is Carling, Harriet, Where's low? Why? They were a good
Speaker 1: family to have, Like I would like to see hercle
Speaker 1: again as a grown as fifty year old nigga. No,
Speaker 1: just on the show like that type of show we are,
Speaker 1: of course, we're not gonna be able to get the
Speaker 1: same people acting the same at the same age, but
Speaker 1: just like similar shows, not the same show, but like
Speaker 1: to see where these characters, how they evolved, Like, is
Speaker 1: there any character that you would want to see how
Speaker 1: they evolved over time? We would need some eighteen year
Speaker 1: old characters then, what do you mean like so it
Speaker 1: could be age relevant. That's what I'm saying. Eastern Lawrence
Speaker 1: would be good to see again. I can agree with that.
Speaker 1: I would like to see what Florida did after James die,
Speaker 1: you know, like did she get a new nigga? Like
Speaker 1: did she get a house? Did she get out that apartment? Scott?
Speaker 1: I would love to see that. Oh me and Lance,
Speaker 1: Oh we did. We just got to see lads get
Speaker 1: a new girlfriend. I would like to see where I
Speaker 1: could see watch more episodes. Um the Best Man? Um,
Speaker 1: this was the final chapters, but they can add more
Speaker 1: chapters maybe when my movie comes out? What's your movie
Speaker 1: gonna be about? So just imagine, like, um, there's I
Speaker 1: don't know seven men, right and seven women essentially? So
Speaker 1: take uh Best Man? And what's the movie with the
Speaker 1: crazy ass white dudes who go hangover? Mix that together? Right?
Speaker 1: You got one character who just got out of prison
Speaker 1: that nigga like he's the comic relief. He's still hanging
Speaker 1: his draws up. All types of ship in the house.
Speaker 1: You got the corporate the type dude, you got the
Speaker 1: Eric type nig Yes, I love her because yeah, the
Speaker 1: Erica I do type woman who like changes the playboy,
Speaker 1: the whole little thing whatever. And yeah, like one of
Speaker 1: the wives, or you gotta bi racial couple in there too,
Speaker 1: white guy, Yeah, like one of the wives. Get into
Speaker 1: the group chat and see like, because you know, I've
Speaker 1: seen some nigga's group chats before. It should be little.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of pussy in there, a lot of
Speaker 1: ship that should not be happening if you married. Yeahs
Speaker 1: back in my group chat periodically. You know it's not
Speaker 1: a whole lot y'all. Y'all be sharing like I love
Speaker 1: real dicks, Like I love the invention of a camera
Speaker 1: phone because it saves you from making mistakes sitting the dick.
Speaker 1: Let me see what I'm working with, so the dick
Speaker 1: that the dick pick comes and it's not right. I
Speaker 1: don't think we should. I don't think we should think
Speaker 1: a ghost and then men have snatched you and then
Speaker 1: ghost to you. At least I want to ghost to
Speaker 1: you first. Yeah, that's thoughtful. Thank you friends, thoughtful O
Speaker 1: T I you will, Okay, So back to your group chat.
Speaker 1: So that's pretty much yea, that's the gist of it.
Speaker 1: So they find something in the group chat that is
Speaker 1: like unsavory and and this is my what is it
Speaker 1: called a poor man's copyright, poor man's trademark? This is
Speaker 1: what I'm doing right now. So if I see my
Speaker 1: should come out on film somewhere. Um soon, who the
Speaker 1: fuck ever you're gonna do a friend, don't worry about
Speaker 1: nobody coming for your ship. You're gonna do it from
Speaker 1: chat coming in. He told abody gonna shoot your ship,
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna shoot your ship, all right? Which who
Speaker 1: who should have never been a couple? If you had
Speaker 1: to pick someone from these TV shows or movies, who
Speaker 1: do you feel like should have never been a couple? Um?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe over Tennis, sin't clear. They're like
Speaker 1: and I think they're too much alike. Now, that could
Speaker 1: have been a toxic relationship. That might have been like
Speaker 1: love bombing. They were love bombing each other a lot,
Speaker 1: mi ovie all that ship it was No, I feel
Speaker 1: like Stella and Winston should have never been a couple.
Speaker 1: Stella was forty five, Winston was twitter two, Like she
Speaker 1: picked him up and moved in from Jamaica. I'm mixed
Speaker 1: up overturning. What's his name with? You know the other two? Who? Um? Sinclair? Sinclair? No? No,
Speaker 1: not st Clair? What's the one with the with the dreads? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Maxine Shaw and Ky? Yeah. I liked them together. They
Speaker 1: had like a little see I need shows next to
Speaker 1: this ship were they weren't compatible? In my opinion, it
Speaker 1: was just like an older lady who was just needed
Speaker 1: sub dick in her life. Can you ever relate to
Speaker 1: something like that? Yeah, that's why I feel like I
Speaker 1: really asked the ship like that, did you get your
Speaker 1: groove back? Only for a minute I heard from that
Speaker 1: nigas Christmas? But yeah, next question, bitches all right? Which
Speaker 1: couple had bad timing? M M, I guess Easter and Lawrence? Uh?
Speaker 1: If I had to keep Did they end up together? Yeah?
Speaker 1: They did. They did end up together. But he had
Speaker 1: a baby on the way. He had a baby. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know why the baby came. It was one episode.
Speaker 1: She needed that baby. It was her imagination that I
Speaker 1: remember the morning my Eggs called me, well, I knew
Speaker 1: the baby was on the way, right, and he sent
Speaker 1: me a picture of his baby. And I slept peacefully
Speaker 1: after that because I'm like, like what the baby wasn't cute?
Speaker 1: So I was happy that. First of all, I was
Speaker 1: hoping that she would have had a boy then he
Speaker 1: then she could name him like the Junior. I think
Speaker 1: she doing something, but I hate that nigger name. So
Speaker 1: you could have done that, I wouldn't give a fuck
Speaker 1: and still would have had his baby. But when I
Speaker 1: seen that baby, like she grew up. She's very beautiful
Speaker 1: now right, but newborn, like brand new, he feels the
Speaker 1: need to send you a picture of his newborn baby
Speaker 1: with somebody else. I mean, I knew he was on
Speaker 1: the way to the hospital. We was like together, we
Speaker 1: were stole together. So yeah, yes, I stay it, okay,
Speaker 1: you know what I say? Because uh, we were in
Speaker 1: a law in this relationship, and I just feel like
Speaker 1: ships gonna happen if we was living five minutes apart,
Speaker 1: that's different, you know what I'm saying. But I can't um.
Speaker 1: I knew that I knew something like that was gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I don't think he understood the significance of him having
Speaker 1: a baby to the baby came down, because that's when
Speaker 1: the real problem started. We was good while the girl
Speaker 1: was pregnant, but once that fucking baby touchdown, bitch, it
Speaker 1: was problems. But yeah, I love because pant. I knew
Speaker 1: I wasn't good. I knew I wasn't good, and I
Speaker 1: was really like waiting for when that baby comes and
Speaker 1: he understands the significance of having your first child and
Speaker 1: wanting to be there and ship like that, how are
Speaker 1: you gonna what's what what's the logistics of that gonna
Speaker 1: look like? And it didn't work. It did not, bitch,
Speaker 1: not to be in your business, but a little bit.
Speaker 1: What was the conversation that was like, hey, I got
Speaker 1: a baby on the way with the girl? It was
Speaker 1: it was a cold New Year's Eve twenty Uh who
Speaker 1: year was this? I think we were going into twenty
Speaker 1: thirteen maybe something like that. The Nigger Room in New
Speaker 1: year is. Nonetheless, we were we were about to get
Speaker 1: dressed to go to his homeboy house. Um, they were
Speaker 1: having a New Year's Eve party and this stupid ass
Speaker 1: is like, man, that girl says she pregnant. That girl
Speaker 1: I knew he had been with somebody else. Yes, so
Speaker 1: that girl when he said that, I knew exactly who
Speaker 1: he was talking about. But that girl say, she and
Speaker 1: I just left the house and went to a Mexican
Speaker 1: restaurant and they didn't mind you. I didn't live in
Speaker 1: the city. We didn't. We were living in the same city.
Speaker 1: I I float flew on for Christmas, so I was
Speaker 1: living in the Midwest the time. So now you like,
Speaker 1: got me here, good Christmas, nice Christmas. Good, Yes, this
Speaker 1: is New Year's fucking eaves and you got a whole
Speaker 1: bit preg I would have never came down here. I
Speaker 1: hadn't do me like that. Before he took me. He
Speaker 1: took me to the game. We had good seats. He
Speaker 1: took me shopping, he took me to a nice dinner,
Speaker 1: and then while I was at the table, he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I got twins on the way. No, no, no, they
Speaker 1: weren't on the way. It was nine months. Oh that's disgusting.
Speaker 1: I life could be a damn sick. It should have
Speaker 1: been through as a Look, my movie gonna start with
Speaker 1: a scene front ship I really went through in real life.
Speaker 1: Imagine you y'all just had a you know, a couple
Speaker 1: of dates or whatever. But this is a night, y'all
Speaker 1: gonna this is the night you're gonna give him the pussy.
Speaker 1: You high with it, like I wasn't smoking weed at
Speaker 1: the time. I'm getting high with this man. All this ship.
Speaker 1: We have sex, great, great, great sex all about two
Speaker 1: three thirty in the morning. At the window of the bedroom,
Speaker 1: you and there with another bit. You're I'm outside pregnant.
Speaker 1: I heard that like I'm high and sleep and I
Speaker 1: heard that like you got a baby on the way.
Speaker 1: This is the same nigga, nothing nigga. And I stayed
Speaker 1: and was against this, nigga, I've been making poor choice.
Speaker 1: How many times you've been engaged one time? Oh, this
Speaker 1: is the same thing. No, the other thing. This is
Speaker 1: another thing. You had the baby. Now this is another man.
Speaker 1: The engagement is you only engaged one time? Okay, So
Speaker 1: I was just you know, I was putting two and
Speaker 1: two together. So that's how the movie gonna start. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's not good. I'm tuning into that ship. I wanna
Speaker 1: be in there. I'm gonna be the bitch outside like
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant and here and there when I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: fight you, all right, So last question before we get
Speaker 1: out of here. What's your favorite scene from any show
Speaker 1: any time of all time. Ah, your favorite scene. It
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be like a couple story or um.
Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, I'm gonna tell you mine.
Speaker 1: Thank you. That ever going to Martin where they go
Speaker 1: to that island and they fighting that that's really beating
Speaker 1: the ship out of that ship. That is the best
Speaker 1: ship ever. If you watch that ship to this day,
Speaker 1: it's still sucking. He there. Recently it was Tam and
Speaker 1: Martin beat the beating like the puy up. That's my
Speaker 1: most favorite scene of any show of all time. Do
Speaker 1: you have one? But I like the scene with Martin
Speaker 1: Um and Gina they went to his reunion and her
Speaker 1: face was one of my favorite episodes periods one. That
Speaker 1: was a good episode too. Do you have any good
Speaker 1: emotional episode that like, damn, this made me cry? I
Speaker 1: was in my feelings outside of the Will Smith um
Speaker 1: with my dad. Now, okay, back to loving basketball. Now
Speaker 1: when he when he beat that bitch and she started crying,
Speaker 1: you know, beating the basketball when he beat her in
Speaker 1: the game the Divorite movie see on domestic violence. Oh,
Speaker 1: we left them out they were definitely the most toxic.
Speaker 1: Fucking Turner and Tina Turners, they definitely get I did
Speaker 1: George and Wheezy bad saying that they were the most time.
Speaker 1: It was definitely Tina that was the most toxic. And
Speaker 1: Ship Jackson fives their parents. They wasn't beating each other.
Speaker 1: Some kids. That's the best pair of day. Listen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not funny, right, but I mean kind of. But kids. No,
Speaker 1: kids turned out to be very successful. Yeah they're successful,
Speaker 1: but they are they like sound mind individuals. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can't speak to that, but they definitely did well.
Speaker 1: We all speak in their name, right, I would have
Speaker 1: took a cup. But if I could have been like
Speaker 1: Michael Jackson, my mom could have beat the ship out
Speaker 1: of me every day. Ain't gonna lie. No. I mean,
Speaker 1: they have a successful career like Michael Jackson and be
Speaker 1: like Michael Jackson will get on stage and stand there
Speaker 1: for ten minutes and not moving. The crowd would just
Speaker 1: be like, he ain't even moved. You see how they
Speaker 1: did Rihanna up there they were talking ship because she
Speaker 1: wasn't moving. It's not a Michael Jackson moment there. There
Speaker 1: will never be another to compare Michael Jackson and Beyonce
Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, because she has like the the closest
Speaker 1: level of starting to Michael Jackson that has ever existed
Speaker 1: since him. Mark, Can you think of anybody that's more
Speaker 1: famous than Beyonce? I mean maybe, what what's that Molly Molly? No,
Speaker 1: not Molly Taylor Swift? Taylor tell us something doing the
Speaker 1: dancing either, No, she's not dancing. I can't even name
Speaker 1: a Taylor Swift song. But I think Michael Jackson is
Speaker 1: so the greatest to ever do it, right. I don't
Speaker 1: think Michael beating your would you let your got what
Speaker 1: beat me? I mean, I hit my mama bag? That's
Speaker 1: a la your bama bag. They go act like you
Speaker 1: hit him anyway, might as well? They asked, do we
Speaker 1: have a dumb bit story? Outsided when you told earlier? Oh,
Speaker 1: shut up bit dumb bitch stories, because we've all been
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch at least once or twice. Alright, so
Speaker 1: I do have a dumb bit story. Is not my own, Okay,
Speaker 1: I always tell my dumb bit ship just so y'all
Speaker 1: can live vi curiously through me anyway. Um, this comes
Speaker 1: from one of our Instagram listeners, and she says, Hey,
Speaker 1: Tammy and j J, I love y'all show, not a podcast,
Speaker 1: but show, because that's what y'all give every Thursday is
Speaker 1: a motherfucker's show. I heard that. Um So, she said,
Speaker 1: So I need some advice on my semi dumb bit story.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we could have a semi dumb
Speaker 1: bit story about Okay, So, my nigga is in jail.
Speaker 1: We have been talking since we were in middle school.
Speaker 1: We broke it off when I went to high school
Speaker 1: and got back together by senior year in high school.
Speaker 1: He's a hood nigga and he has been in and
Speaker 1: out of jail since two thousand eighteen. On his streak
Speaker 1: of being out, he went back in and he's about
Speaker 1: to come home in February. He might be home right now.
Speaker 1: Excuse me, all right, So, while he was in jail,
Speaker 1: I was so faithful to this nigga. Couldn't breathe in
Speaker 1: my direction without getting turned down. Oh she excuse me,
Speaker 1: she said, while he was in jail, I was so
Speaker 1: faithful a nigga couldn't breathe in my ruction without getting
Speaker 1: turned down. While he was doing his first year in jail,
Speaker 1: he wanted to get all of his dirt office chest,
Speaker 1: and I found out about all his holes he was
Speaker 1: talking to while I was in college, and all these
Speaker 1: holes um bank accounts he was funding while I was
Speaker 1: in college making Ramen and me playing the strong black
Speaker 1: woman role. I was being too damn understanding. But eventually
Speaker 1: that ship sat with me and I was like, fuck no,
Speaker 1: I'm too cute for this, and I started my first
Speaker 1: whole phase. Ever. By the way, I'm twenty three. I
Speaker 1: forgot to mention that, so she's a young girl. I
Speaker 1: like young women. Um, so long story short. I told
Speaker 1: him about my whole phase right before the year, and
Speaker 1: it did. You don't never ever admit to any whole ship.
Speaker 1: These niggas, they will never They're not as forgiving and
Speaker 1: they don't give as much grace as women give men. Right,
Speaker 1: um right. Maybe I don't know. Maybe because he's being honest,
Speaker 1: she wanted to be honest with him. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but never never do this. I'm like, this is my nigga,
Speaker 1: This who I really want. And I was getting too
Speaker 1: cold hearted and he was this is all mixed up. Um.
Speaker 1: He's done a lot of making up and really changed
Speaker 1: a lot in his old a lot of his old
Speaker 1: ways and as far excuse me, what the fuck uh,
Speaker 1: he has done a lot of making up and really
Speaker 1: changed a lot of his old ways as far as
Speaker 1: he treats me. So he's getting ready to come home,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to wanted to clean slate. But my
Speaker 1: favorite hole is also peeping. She says, she got a
Speaker 1: favorite hole in the streets, basically always peeping in my
Speaker 1: d ms. And I'm wondering, should I, um just do
Speaker 1: this last scratch with him, or this last itch and
Speaker 1: scratch whatever she's saying, um, or just wait for my
Speaker 1: man to come home. This is what she's asking. So
Speaker 1: I was, like, your favorite hole and did he ever
Speaker 1: fund your accounts? Right? But what's your advice to her?
Speaker 1: Should she scratch that itch before she her man come home?
Speaker 1: I never suggest anybody to wait for anybody to come
Speaker 1: out of prison. First of all, she should have been
Speaker 1: moved on, like I don't suggest any young young women
Speaker 1: young girls. Depends on how much time are you going
Speaker 1: to come? Okay, the nigger who had the baby he
Speaker 1: had just came home from prison, was outside for one
Speaker 1: year and had someone pregnant. I'm not I didn't wait
Speaker 1: on him. I just happened to be single when he
Speaker 1: came home. But I'm not just gonna just be waiting
Speaker 1: for I don't suggest any young woman to wait unless
Speaker 1: that's your husband. Yeah, because you cain't gonna wait on you.
Speaker 1: You go to jail. He's gonna jail if she's willing. No,
Speaker 1: don't do that, don't go that far. I'm just looking like,
Speaker 1: I mean, what your mama looked like. If motherfucker looked
Speaker 1: like you, she didn't. I missed you so much. Suck
Speaker 1: your mama. Yeah, like I believe. No, hell no, don't
Speaker 1: wait for no man to come home from prison. And
Speaker 1: why are you working with somebody who's in it and
Speaker 1: out of jail anyway? He's not a good criminal, you know,
Speaker 1: get you a blue collar excuse me, get your white
Speaker 1: collar babe, like somebody who's into mortgage. Maybe not any criminal.
Speaker 1: Like that's a good idea too, you know, stop working
Speaker 1: with criminals. But okay, like maybe he's reformed and maybe
Speaker 1: he's coming back a different man who wants to do
Speaker 1: the right thing by her, and that's fair. So uh,
Speaker 1: I would say, go ahead and square stags and keep
Speaker 1: it to yourself and then just both of y'all started.
Speaker 1: I think then coming home from prison, they come home
Speaker 1: with a lot of resentment. Let you miss a letter
Speaker 1: of visit. They have a lot of resentment towards like
Speaker 1: the people on the outside until they're out here for
Speaker 1: a little while and they not responded to their home.
Speaker 1: He's in prison to see, like nobody got time for
Speaker 1: that ship for real, Like you have life going on
Speaker 1: out here. Your life stopped when you went to prison,
Speaker 1: So it's really hard. Like that's why it's usually mama's
Speaker 1: that keep up with them niggas, Like no, for real,
Speaker 1: like people go to jail, they life really stopped. Like
Speaker 1: this guy wrote me a letter. I had already graduated college.
Speaker 1: It had been like I had been out of college
Speaker 1: probably like five years at this point, and I got
Speaker 1: a letter from him. Went to my mother's house so
Speaker 1: she's like, you got some prison mail here, like okay, sorry.
Speaker 1: So it said when he's about to come home and
Speaker 1: he's gonna play basketball for bidnitick, and I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: his girlfriend and we're gonna be living in the d
Speaker 1: he was still living. And I was like, fuck you
Speaker 1: talk about I've been working for five years. I've been
Speaker 1: out of college five years and he was still caught
Speaker 1: up in that timeframe and we hadn't even spoken. So
Speaker 1: people really be trapped the times. So that means you're
Speaker 1: in jail with him if you don't move on with
Speaker 1: your life like you've been outside, been imprisoned. Niggas wants
Speaker 1: you to be loyal like that. Yeah, And there's a
Speaker 1: lot of women in prison who in prison because of
Speaker 1: men and they have nobody. Yeah, so don't wait on
Speaker 1: these niggas. Move on with your life and you know,
Speaker 1: maybe change yourself so you can attract the different type
Speaker 1: of man. That part, that's my suggestion that hurt a
Speaker 1: blue collar because when we go through things with men
Speaker 1: like you have to look internal. It's not always the
Speaker 1: men like what about me attracted this situation? What about
Speaker 1: me attracted this person? Yeah? Yeah, so that's what you
Speaker 1: gotta work on. But just because someone goes to jail
Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily mean that they're absolutely not I like, like
Speaker 1: I said, like, I like smart people who with the system. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I know that the system is still set up
Speaker 1: for black peuter fail. So even if we find those
Speaker 1: little craeri a little loophole ship and get in trouble like,
Speaker 1: I'm not like those type of people. But if you
Speaker 1: bun jail for a bunch of stupid ship robbing people
Speaker 1: that type of stuff. Now been moving the packs? Okay,
Speaker 1: Like I might have a little bit more. Give me
Speaker 1: a corporate guy who go come home every day? You
Speaker 1: want to get a corporate man? Yeah, That's where I'm
Speaker 1: at with it right now. Yeah, I haven't for a
Speaker 1: long time ready for my regular guy. Ve come home
Speaker 1: just like rout as a routine. I don't want a
Speaker 1: niggle like what you're doing. Play. If I meet another
Speaker 1: nigga making a place, I want more. No more niggas
Speaker 1: making plays. Okay, I'm lindle fing it to your old
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