WEBVTT - Second Date Update: No Fire In The Fireplace

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of day, alexis if you could describe

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<v Speaker 1>not the perfect guy for you, but the feeling that

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<v Speaker 1>you get when you're around that guy. Close your eyes

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<v Speaker 1>and tell us the three words that he makes you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit roasted, like I want him to be

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<v Speaker 2>mean to me a little bit, you know, like I.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel a little.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like a hard thing that comes to your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Answer wherever you want to feel belittled as one full

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<v Speaker 1>of food.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope I get to go a little tipsy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I don't know if I've ever met

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<v Speaker 4>anyone as scared of emotions as you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Terrified you should imagine this is.

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<v Speaker 1>What everybody's perfect guy a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 5>That's like Michael B. Jordan making fun of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you see two guys because you just have double vision.

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<v Speaker 1>I bring it up because one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 1>she figured out how she wants to feel when she

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<v Speaker 1>meets her perfect guy, and maybe it even happened to

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<v Speaker 1>her this last date. I mean, he's not calling her back,

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<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't matter. She felt that a certain way.

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<v Speaker 2>That could feel good though, like just a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>not ignored.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's talk to Alice and hear about it, Alice,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good in you guys? How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm worried about Alexis, but I think the rest of

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<v Speaker 4>us are fine.

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<v Speaker 5>Would you like because we will?

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<v Speaker 1>I bring it up because in your email you said

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<v Speaker 1>you felt the way that you wanted to feel when

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<v Speaker 1>you met up with this guy. What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, the deal is is that I've just been meeting

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<v Speaker 6>the wrong guys.

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<v Speaker 3>My discernment hasn't been the best because.

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<v Speaker 6>I usually go for guys that wind.

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<v Speaker 3>Up being wrong for me.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you're taking a different approach, looking for a

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<v Speaker 4>different feel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes. Yeah, So I heard this podcast by.

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<v Speaker 6>This lady and she said, instead of looking for your firecracker,

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<v Speaker 6>you should be looking for your fireplace. O. Good, like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard this. You're supposed to go for the slow

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<v Speaker 2>burd type of thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So like firecrackers like for me, like I get butterflies,

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<v Speaker 6>and not to my stomach, like I get like an

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<v Speaker 6>adrenaline rush.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so fun.

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<v Speaker 6>It's scary, but it's like a ride I want to

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<v Speaker 6>go on, but then the ride crashes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, it's a dangerous r.

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<v Speaker 4>Ries.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, now, a fireplace is actually more it's welcoming,

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<v Speaker 6>it's warm.

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<v Speaker 3>You look forward to that comfort.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not scared, right, you're not scared.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not all the bells and whistles.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically you're not supposed to be looking for the

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<v Speaker 1>exciting person anymore. You're supposed to look for the safe person.

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<v Speaker 6>I need to be swiping right on the fireplaces.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So is this guy that you went out with

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<v Speaker 2>the fireplace?

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<v Speaker 6>He fits the profile where he doesn't necessarily knock my

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<v Speaker 6>socks off, but.

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<v Speaker 3>But he does tick off the boxes that I like.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's what I found.

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<v Speaker 1>In doesn't knock your socks off, and maybe he would

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<v Speaker 1>mend your socks if the Yeah, he'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Warm them because he's a fire is.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's his name?

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<v Speaker 3>His name is Paul.

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<v Speaker 5>He's got a fireplace name.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you and Paul decide to do? What did

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<v Speaker 1>you in this fireplace?

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<v Speaker 4>Go?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>So what we decided to do was to go out

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<v Speaker 6>to dinner and my thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>At five thirty? Was that his idea? Or were you

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<v Speaker 2>just really pushing this old persons?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>No, actually he said he had to be home to

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<v Speaker 6>be in bed by nine thirty so that he could

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<v Speaker 6>go to work.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, Okay, even when I was dating, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>go to bed at nine thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, one night to stay up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, come on, Yeah, that's attracted to those firecrackers, that's why.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, right, okay, so you were excited about this because

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<v Speaker 4>this is still like fulfilling what you're how a.

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<v Speaker 3>Dinner go dinner went really well?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, he told me he likes to cook, he

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<v Speaker 6>likes to bake.

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<v Speaker 3>And when he said that to me, it's like that.

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<v Speaker 6>Gave me some really nice, like low key fireplace vibes,

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<v Speaker 6>which I really like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, So did you tell him this because you've brought

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<v Speaker 4>it up so many times?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you use the term firecracker and fireplace with him?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, I didn't want to bring up those terms because

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<v Speaker 6>I just wanted him to be himself and not say

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<v Speaker 6>that he had to be somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably not going to go too well if you

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<v Speaker 1>keep referring to him as the safe fireplace.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I mean, every guy wants to think of themselves

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<v Speaker 4>as a bad boy in some ways.

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<v Speaker 7>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So, okay, he seems to be checking the boxes

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<v Speaker 1>that you want, right.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, he said he was looking for long term.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, he's into health and nature, and that to

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<v Speaker 6>me was perfect. I mean, I wasn't getting butterflies in

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<v Speaker 6>my stomach, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that should still be happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, you don't want to have that. That's a firecracker.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm guessing, like you guys, didn't end the night

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<v Speaker 4>with a kiss or anything.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, near the ending of the night, he tells me

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<v Speaker 6>a joke and he says to me, did I want

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<v Speaker 6>him to teach me a car trick?

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<v Speaker 3>So I said, okay, and then it's cute, says, oh.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I don't know any gotcha?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, hopefully didn't laugh too hard because then you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get too excited and that would be a time.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that?

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<v Speaker 4>The only funny moment is that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just so specific.

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<v Speaker 1>What was there? Like any like hugg or.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll say we did a nice little hug. I mean

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<v Speaker 6>I thought it was I thought it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't over the top.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what you want though.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't like a bad experience or one big negative thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So what's happened? Since the date.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh this is the thing.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, I haven't heard back or gotten a call back

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<v Speaker 6>from this boring fireplace.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy sounds so, are you just more mad that he's

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<v Speaker 2>not calling you back? Or do you really want to

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<v Speaker 2>see him again?

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<v Speaker 3>I really would like to see him again. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>how could you not call me back?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>What do you possibly have going on outside of what

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<v Speaker 6>you told me?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I have a cat. Maybe we should dial down

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<v Speaker 1>some of this language when we actually get him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, but we're gonna call him. We'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>stoke that fire back up and not too brightly when

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<v Speaker 1>we do your second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Right after this, Okay, hold.

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<v Speaker 1>On second date update, I got the strangest text message

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<v Speaker 1>from the Academy of Radio Broadcasters saying, we just hit

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<v Speaker 1>a new radio record for saying the word fireplace over

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen thousand times.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what we're looking for, Jeff, Yeah, And.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm only gonna say it once more because our listener, Alice,

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<v Speaker 1>you use that term as a simple analogy for what

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<v Speaker 1>she's looking for in her romantic partner. She learned she

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<v Speaker 1>needs to stop chasing fire crackers and start looking for

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<v Speaker 1>her fireplace and what if you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do, don't chase waterfalls either. We'll just put it in there.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't need any more analogies thrown. Basically, it's stopped

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<v Speaker 1>looking for the exciting guy who gives you butterflies, start

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<v Speaker 1>looking for the safe option.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, set kind of, not really.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's just like, yeah, just don't look for

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<v Speaker 4>the stuff that's going to fizzle out really quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're looking for that feeling that's going to make

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like you're at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And now that she went down that road, the fireplace

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<v Speaker 1>is leaving her on red. Yeah, I said fireplace again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say it anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't break our own record.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, it's like our wood soggy. It just won't, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Al, that's how you feel him before we call

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<v Speaker 1>him here, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Feeling pretty good.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just hoping to figure out why haven't heard back

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<v Speaker 6>from Paul.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that you will have hope, but not too much.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's like you're like shifting everything to try

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<v Speaker 4>to find the thing that you're supposed to have, and

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<v Speaker 4>even that is a struggle right now.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think it will be at the end

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<v Speaker 2>of this.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope so yeah, we all do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting we're going to be calling a boring guy

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<v Speaker 1>for a radio segment here. Not the best reading strategy

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<v Speaker 1>on our part, but you know what, let's dial him

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<v Speaker 1>up anyway, Stay tuned.

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<v Speaker 5>We've got a crackling fireplaces.

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<v Speaker 1>Hopefully we can squeeze.

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<v Speaker 5>A little bit of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But here we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak

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<v Speaker 1>with Paul.

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<v Speaker 7>This is Paul.

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<v Speaker 4>Not that we wanted you to come hot out of

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<v Speaker 4>the gate or anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, thank you so much for answering this

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<v Speaker 1>number that I'm sure you didn't recognize it. Well, strangers,

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<v Speaker 1>we know we're a radio station called Brook and Jeffery

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Okay, Okay, nice, Okay, let's keep this

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<v Speaker 1>going because what we're doing here is called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, and we're trying to help out one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners that you actually went out to dinner with

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<v Speaker 1>a few nights ago and she had a really nice

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<v Speaker 1>time with you. Her name is Alice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, good old Alice.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh yeah, Well, we'd like to open it up to

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<v Speaker 1>you for a second and tell us what you thought

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<v Speaker 1>about the date. Which you thought about Alice?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh, what what is this for?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's a second ate update. Basically, Alice has reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to us because she told us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your night together. She had a great time. How

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<v Speaker 1>was it for you?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just not really sure how the date when I guess,

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<v Speaker 7>I don't uh, I don't know. I don't get I

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<v Speaker 7>don't a lot of matches, so I was pretty nervous.

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<v Speaker 7>That's been a long time doing my hair, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes feel better. She said that she was nervous

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up with you too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I told her a joke at one point and it

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<v Speaker 7>kind of failed but kind of worked at the same time.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not really did you tell her?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you talking about the magic trick joke? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she told us that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're funny.

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<v Speaker 5>It was good.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a compliment. I feel good about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Why would you not be calling her back? And why

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't you be excited right now? Like we're telling you

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<v Speaker 4>it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 7>I just didn't know how to feel about it. And

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<v Speaker 7>then we did talk about going out again, but she

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<v Speaker 7>was talking about acts throwing and I don't know about

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<v Speaker 7>dad going out into the woods and throwing axes. That

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<v Speaker 7>seemed dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, I understand you. You haven't dated in a while. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like you, you might not know this, but

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<v Speaker 1>they actually have places set up where you're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>go indoors in and throw axes at the wall at

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<v Speaker 1>like targets.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't even have to date to know that.

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<v Speaker 7>I never heard of that. I thought it was sounded

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<v Speaker 7>kind of like a liability.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, you're going to be fine, man, You're going to

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<v Speaker 4>be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be a relief to her. So you

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<v Speaker 2>just weren't calling her back because you didn't think she

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<v Speaker 2>liked you. You're just confused and you were scared of

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<v Speaker 2>throwing Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess that's kind of the gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know it was probably really really relieved to

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<v Speaker 1>hear you say all those things. Is Alice, who is

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line right now, wanting to talk to you?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Poul, how are you?

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<v Speaker 7>I I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>You could hear the smile.

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<v Speaker 3>That it's good to hear your voice, Paul. I was

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<v Speaker 3>wondering why I hadn't heard back from you.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry. I guess I was just kind of unsure.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't really know if you wanted to go out

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<v Speaker 7>again or if it went well.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think the axe throwing idea really scared him

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<v Speaker 1>off there, Alice like that. You're not married to that

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<v Speaker 1>as the next.

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<v Speaker 6>Day, you know, like we could there was always other

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<v Speaker 6>activities that we could do, would be would be good.

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<v Speaker 7>I tend to be a bleeder.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but you must feel good, like you understand, like Alice,

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<v Speaker 1>Alice likes you, right, Alice, you can even tell him

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<v Speaker 1>yourself now, we don't have to be your voice.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I really had a great time with you when

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<v Speaker 6>we had dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the conversation was pretty good.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if maybe you might have been a

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<v Speaker 6>little anxious, but I mean if you were, I couldn't tell.

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<v Speaker 4>Your confidence has to be through the roof right now, right, Paul?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, good, all right, okay, up for.

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<v Speaker 2>That and he knocked it down all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think that you guys should give it

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<v Speaker 1>one more show. You choose like a safe activity for

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<v Speaker 1>you too, to do no sharp objects anywhere around bowllying.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, we could do that. You could come see my.

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<v Speaker 1>Collection collection what collection?

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<v Speaker 5>The collection?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh? I collect antique gynecological chairs.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what did you say gynocologically with the

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<v Speaker 2>star I heard dynacological like a dinosaurs, like an obg

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<v Speaker 2>y n chair.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but like they're from the eighteen hundreds.

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<v Speaker 1>You collect those.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, they're really kind of fascinating. Actually, you know why?

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<v Speaker 2>Why are they fascinating? Paul?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean it's that period is kind of, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>really interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I say, not a great period in women's.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the experimental thing is they're trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what's going on now.

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<v Speaker 6>They did not know.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a little How are you feeling about that?

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<v Speaker 3>That's a that's a little bit odd.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think maybe the question we need to ask

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<v Speaker 1>is do you feel like you have butterflies right now? Alice?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh hope not.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Well, that's a good sign for you. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>opposite of what you're looking for. So we would love

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<v Speaker 1>to send you two out on a other date. Paul

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for this date if you're willing to meet

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<v Speaker 1>up with Alice.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, that sounds great, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes from Paul, Alice, you're still up for it. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to go to his house, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to see the collection.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll see maybe you can see pictures of his collection

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<v Speaker 4>first and then judge from there.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's a third day.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I think that's what I would need to have

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<v Speaker 6>a visual of the collection of the dynacological chair.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's not say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Take some photos of your collection and text them over

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll send you guys out again on a date.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I'll send a link to my website.

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<v Speaker 1>Website.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm kind of excited, Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the old firecracker fireplace thing needs to come

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<v Speaker 1>with an asterisk now, right, because the quote safe, quiet,

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<v Speaker 1>introvert also might have some secret firecracker tendency.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you saying might burn your house down?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that that's what it is. I think

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<v Speaker 2>get that chimney is what you need to do.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's more of a bonfire situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe not good. Well, you did get them a second

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<v Speaker 1>date though.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe we found out some stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, if she says it's bad, though, if she goes,

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<v Speaker 4>we need to do a safety check afterwards, just to

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<v Speaker 4>make sure.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a history buff. He's not actually doing any examinations

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<v Speaker 1>with that stuff. He's a collector of old goods.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the one that walks down at dark Alley at

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<v Speaker 4>two am and says nothing bad is gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 5>Ladies, Why are you running? I'm a collector of old goods.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to go to his house and see

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<v Speaker 1>all the guy in coological chairs. I bet they're cool. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>let's wrap myself into what you do that, Jeffa.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe check it out for her first.

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<v Speaker 1>I will what the lengths I'm willing to go through

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<v Speaker 1>for our listeners, so you.

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<v Speaker 2>Will put your foot up in stirrups.

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<v Speaker 1>I will keep that in mind when you email us

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<v Speaker 1>asking for help with your love life. We'll call that

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<v Speaker 1>person who won't call you back and go check out

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<v Speaker 1>at Brook and Jeffrey