1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: with on our radio. 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. 4 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 3: We are here tonight with one of my favorite people 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 3: in the world, one of Almost Famous listeners favorite people 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 3: in the world, Kaylan, Welcome. It's been a while since 7 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 3: you've been on here. Used to be a regular guest 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 3: with us, giving us updates on everything happening in your life. 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 3: But it's been a bit since you've jumped on the 10 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 3: Almost Famous feed. 11 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 4: It's been a bit. But I just come see you 12 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 4: in person, now, you know. I come seeing you and 13 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 4: your wife and Winnie. 14 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 5: It's great. 15 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 2: It's better that way, so much better. 16 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 3: Life is so the crazy part is, Kaylen, out of 17 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 3: any of Jess's friends, have met Winnie the most, you know, 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 3: because for the first few weeks we weren't seeing anybody, 19 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: and then you came and you've been here and you've 20 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 3: got it, and like, just wait to see her again. 21 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 2: I go on and on. She's changed. It's wild. 22 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 5: It's awesome, Sin sing Winnie. 23 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 4: And because we're so close that my goal is to 24 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 4: see her once a month, So I'm at once a 25 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 4: month and then in May Jess and I are going 26 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 4: to a concert, so that'd be the third month. 27 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 5: So I'm hoping I can keep it up. 28 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 3: It would be incredible, and I hope you do too. 29 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 3: It means a lot. That's kind of what we're here 30 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 3: talking about today. You and Dean, let's start with this. 31 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: Do live close ish to Denver. Close to Denver. You 32 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 3: live in Carbondale, which is just west of here. It's 33 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 3: a beautiful place. It's not far from where the two 34 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 3: of you got married. How is the experience being, you know, 35 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:43,199 Speaker 3: moving from Vegas, Slash, La to Carbondale, Colorado. 36 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 5: It is the best thing ever. 37 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 4: I talk about it all the time, Like moving from Vegas, La, 38 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 4: I feel so at peace, Like I'm a very anxious person, 39 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 4: and I'm still anxious to some degree, but I'm just 40 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 4: so calm and I feel very grounded. Like I wake 41 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 4: up there's thirty elk in the backyard, and then there's 42 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 4: twenty deer in the front yard, and we've got turkeys 43 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 4: trying to attack alistair. 44 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 5: So it's it's it's fun. 45 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 4: I love it. It's the best thing, and it's really 46 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 4: hard to leave. I've never been in a place where 47 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 4: I love it so much. And also I love every season. 48 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 4: You live in Colorado, so it's like every single season 49 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 4: is perfect, which is great. 50 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 3: It's it is a unique thing. I think it's something. 51 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: I mean, obviously, we live outside of Denver twenty miles 52 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 3: and so there are similarities with the elk and the deer. 53 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 3: And today I have a buffalo. We have buffalo. And 54 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 3: today I had to bring Whalen in early from a 55 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 3: walk because a fox was like in our backyard and 56 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 3: it was acting all funny, like there's something very sacred 57 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 3: to me. And it's very peaceful. I think you said 58 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 3: it best right there. It's like very peaceful to this 59 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 3: kind of spot to live in. It's different than in 60 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: a city. 61 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you guys are luckier because you are so 62 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 4: close to a city. So if you need, like well 63 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 4: if just needs this suphort, I'm thinking, like girl thingks 64 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:12,399 Speaker 4: just needs a Sephora. 65 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 5: I have to drive to you guys to get to Sephora. 66 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 4: You have all the things that you need and we 67 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 4: are very isolated. 68 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 5: But there's like pros and cons. 69 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 2: To both it. 70 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 3: The I think for for anybody making the move from 71 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 3: a big city like Vegas or La to a place 72 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 3: like Carbondale, especially newly married, I think there, I mean 73 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 3: it would be for me at least, it'd be these 74 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 3: concerns of, Okay, do we really like each other enough 75 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: to be this isolated in the world. I mean, because 76 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 3: you are pretty isolated out there. So how has being 77 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 3: out there impacted your marriage? Because this is where Dina's from, 78 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 3: It's kind of where his roots are at least at 79 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 3: some level. So how has it been for the two 80 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 3: of you to get as you do move, you know. 81 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 2: To his home. 82 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 5: It has been. 83 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: It's been really great for me selfishly, Like all of 84 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 4: his high school friends are there. I've met all of 85 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 4: their wives and get along with them, so I already 86 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 4: have like a built in great group of girlfriends, and 87 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 4: it's been great for our marriage, Like it's been great 88 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 4: being isolated, but also living in the valley that we do, 89 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 4: there are so many community based events, like more there's 90 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 4: like a bigger sense of community than I've ever felt 91 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 4: in La and Vegas because it's just so big, but 92 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 4: there's constantly something going on. So every Wednesday we go 93 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 4: to trivia, Like the bartenders know us, like the whole 94 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 4: restaurant owners know us, and like every single place we 95 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 4: go it's so intimate that we kind of know everyone, 96 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 4: which is fun. 97 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 3: I'm curious because I don't know many people that are 98 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: better at it and more known for it than you 99 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 3: and Dean and and I don't want to see the 100 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 3: influencing space because that feels like a. 101 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 2: Diminishes exactly what you do. 102 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 3: But you, too, have done a really great job at 103 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 3: kind of showing off your life through social media and 104 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 3: through other platforms to the public in my opinion, and 105 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 3: you tell me if I'm wrong. This is where my 106 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 3: curiosity comes from. It would be a lot easier to 107 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 3: do that when you're in Los Angeles or Vegas, because 108 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 3: there's these big, fancy events that you're getting invited to, 109 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: and you know you're running into people who are like, oh, 110 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 3: there's Kaylin, let's hire her on to do this brand 111 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 3: deal because she's so great. Now you're in Carbondale. Has 112 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 3: it changed that at all? Does it feel harder? Does 113 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 3: it feel easier? Kind of talk through what it's like 114 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 3: to influence her, to show off your life from a 115 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 3: completely different city that this isn't super common. 116 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 5: In it kind of it feels easier and harder. 117 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 4: It does feel harder, like you're not like going face 118 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 4: to face with brands, But it feels easier in the 119 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 4: sense of, like, I feel way more comfortable sharing my life. 120 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 4: It's the happiest I've ever been. It's true, Like I 121 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 4: tell everyone, it's the best place in the world. So 122 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 4: I'm just like so much happier and feel like I'm 123 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 4: way more open. In LA there's a lot of showboating 124 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 4: in the influencer space, particularly, so it's tricky and I'm 125 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 4: just like, I feel whatever, if I don't get a 126 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 4: brand deal because I'm not at an event, that's fine 127 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 4: because I'm happy just like being here with my wild 128 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 4: animals in my front yard, you know. 129 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 130 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 3: I mean it's why I stayed, because the race to 131 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 3: stay relevant in Los Angeles was eating me alive, and 132 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: so I had to stay in Denver because, if anything, 133 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 3: it gave me the mental excuse to be like, I 134 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 3: wasn't invited to that because I don't. 135 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 5: Live there, right, and so your ego, it's better for 136 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:44,559 Speaker 5: my ego. 137 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 3: It's what I needed. I have a big ego and 138 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 3: it gets hurt too, so when I'm. 139 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 5: Away, so I get that. 140 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 4: Actually, I'm like, no, I wasn't invited because I don't 141 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 4: live close. 142 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 3: They got to buy a plane ticket or it has 143 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 3: me to travel in. It's I protected my ego by 144 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 3: staying here. I think that's like, if it comes down 145 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 3: to it, I was protecting myself, like I. 146 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 5: Don't want to go to Coachell or Stagecoach. But the 147 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 5: fact that I wasn't. 148 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 3: Invited, I've never been invited to either. So if that 149 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 3: makes you feel better, I've never been to either. It 150 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 3: never been invited to either. But the reason is because 151 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 3: I live in Denver. Yeah, it's just not convenient for 152 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: anybody to invite me to hang out with them. You 153 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 3: get it, Kaitlin, you have made the reason I asked 154 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 3: about this is E News has had an interview recently 155 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 3: talking about your fertility experience. Now they described it as 156 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 3: fertility struggles. But I am not going to put that 157 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 3: word on you unless you use that word yourself. So 158 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 3: for anybody listening who doesn't read E News but listens 159 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 3: to the almost famous podcast, I guess the assumption here 160 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 3: that I'm making is that you and Dean are at 161 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 3: least considering starting a family and expanding your family, and 162 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: then you take it from there to wherever you want 163 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: to take it to. 164 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we've been trying for not quite a year, 165 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 4: but we're like coming up on that cusp, and it's 166 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 4: it's harder than I anticipated because I have many, many siblings. 167 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 4: My mom got pregnant super easily, and I thought that 168 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 4: would happen for me shet like first try every single time, 169 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 4: every single kid, so I like anticipated that. But I'm 170 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 4: still not pregnant and I'm not putting too much pressure 171 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 4: on myself. 172 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 5: And Dean and I were just talking about this. 173 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 4: Two of our best friends are getting married next year 174 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 4: in Ireland, and so it's like, if I get pregnant 175 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 4: right now, we won't be able to go. But Dean's like, 176 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 4: if there's always an excuse to put it off, you know, 177 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 4: So we're gonna keep trying. If we get pregnant, that's awesome. 178 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 4: If we don't, then we can go to Ireland. And 179 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 4: I don't know, we're not putting pressure on it yet 180 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 4: and we're just gonna keep like taking it easy and it'll. 181 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 5: Happen when it happens. 182 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 4: And you guys are proof of that because you have 183 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 4: a perfect little Winny, and you guys have made me 184 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 4: so excited for kids because anytime I see what she's 185 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 4: just so great and talking to Jess, Jess is like 186 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 4: the happiest mom ever, which you don't see that often. 187 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, Jess, and like that's a genuine, 188 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 3: authentic experience for her. She was just telling me this 189 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 3: on the walk yesterday. She said, if I can do 190 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 3: one thing, not everybody's baby is the same as whinny, 191 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 3: easier or harder. Not everybody's mothering experience is the same, 192 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 3: you know, not everybody's postpartum is the same. But she's 193 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 3: she said, if I can do one thing, it's just 194 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 3: encourage moms that it's not bad. It's good, no matter what, 195 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 3: it's good. It could be hard, but it's good, and 196 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 3: to encourage that. But I'll tell you what, Jess, You're right, 197 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 3: she's thrived in this role. Like it's been incredible, and 198 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 3: I would tell anybody, like it's awesome. It's the coolest, 199 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 3: most fun thing. But the other side of that is 200 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 3: it took us time. It took us a lot of work. 201 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 3: It took us a lot of doctor's appointments and checkups 202 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 3: and tests and figuring stuff out to make it, you know, 203 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 3: make us both healthy enough to make this happen. 204 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 2: But it took time. 205 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 3: And not putting pressure on it, I think is the 206 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 3: best advice I could give and the best insight that 207 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 3: you're sharing. 208 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. I also think it's cool that you said, like 209 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 4: Jess is being intentional about wanting to encourage, you know, 210 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 4: women to become moms, because that literally anytime I talk 211 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 4: to her, text her, see her. That's what I feel. 212 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 4: And it's really cool to see you be a dad. 213 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 4: I've only seen you twice now in that role, but 214 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 4: I remember the first time I came over. I don't 215 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 4: know if when he was I can't remember if she 216 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 4: was fourteen days old or twenty days old, but she 217 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 4: was very, very small, and you took her out of 218 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 4: Jess's arms and you were changing her and you're like, 219 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:56,839 Speaker 4: is that my daughter? 220 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 5: It was so sweet. It's really cool to see you 221 00:10:59,080 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 5: both be parents. 222 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a weird change in life, but it's an 223 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 3: exciting change. But it is hard, and it's a really 224 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 3: weird season where you are prepping and planning and trying 225 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 3: to do all these things to make, you know, to 226 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,599 Speaker 3: bring something new into this world. And I would just 227 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 3: say this, I don't you're not asking for advice, but 228 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 3: it's just like, yeah, don't put pressure on it, because here's. 229 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 2: The truth to it. 230 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 3: Too, the dirty truth or the good truth. The more pressure, 231 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 3: the hearter, the whole thing becomes. That's when things get 232 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 3: really weird, is when it's all pressure packed and you're 233 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 3: like perform. 234 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it's like friends with Chandler and Monica. 235 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 5: You know, that's what I want to avoid. 236 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 3: You know, as we close up here, I'm gonna make 237 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 3: a complete pivot away from the family and from the move. 238 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 3: We're gonna we're gonna finish talking about this show that 239 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 3: we were both a part of. There's been some big 240 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 3: changes with the show as of recent and almost Famous 241 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 3: podcast if you listen to the feed, there's a section 242 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 3: called Infamous. Now an there's these episodes called Infamous that 243 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 3: are highlighting these stories that are very iconic within the 244 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 3: Bachelor franchise, and we're getting more of the behind the 245 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 3: scenes of what exactly happened in these moments. Now, let's 246 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 3: do a little infamous here for just a few minutes. 247 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 3: The productions team that we knew, the editors that we knew, 248 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 3: the camera crew that we knew, the audio that we 249 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 3: knew are pretty much gone at this point. There's a 250 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 3: few remaining. And so if you were hired on as 251 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 3: the EP of the Bachelor franchise tomorrow. What would be 252 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 3: your insight to the team on what needs to happen 253 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 3: to make this show maybe what it was, or to 254 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 3: bring it back to relevancy in the future. 255 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 5: Okay, that's a really good question. 256 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 4: My heart is racing because Dean and I have both 257 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 4: been in many infamous headlines. 258 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 5: Where is it going with this? 259 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 3: Doing any of them? I just refuse to read them 260 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 3: if I see it, or saying that not for are. 261 00:12:58,679 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 5: We really doing this? 262 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 4: Last a couple of minutes of wow, uh gosh, It 263 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 4: just it does need to be more relevant because there's 264 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 4: way too much competition out there, and I think the 265 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 4: biggest thing, like I would love to get back to 266 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 4: like old school your season, JoJo's season, you know, like 267 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 4: those were prime days, but the contestants are so guarded 268 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 4: and they're so cautious of like looking bad or not 269 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 4: getting enough followers. I personally think that's a huge, huge hump, 270 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 4: and I don't know how. 271 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 5: To overcome that. So I don't really think I have 272 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 5: an answer. 273 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 4: I think we just need to get rid of it 274 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 4: for a few seasons and come back and revamp. 275 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:39,559 Speaker 2: That's insight right there. 276 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 3: If you're hired on the as the EP, you'd say, Hey, 277 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 3: I'm firing myself and everybody else. We're gonna take a 278 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 3: break in three years. We'll hope this thing comes back 279 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 3: in three years. 280 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 2: We'll see it then, and we hope people watch. That's 281 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 2: the insight. I like it. I think it's a great move. 282 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 3: I think people would be so ecstatic if you like 283 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 3: American idol over again, take a few years off, come 284 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 3: back with the old host and your rock and roll Kaylin. 285 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 3: As we close here, is there anything about your life, 286 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 3: your life with Dean? I don't know these infamous headlines, 287 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 3: that's not what I would put you in a position 288 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 3: to have to answer to. 289 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 2: But I'm glad that you thought I would. 290 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 3: But is there anything that you would love to share 291 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 3: with anybody? 292 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 2: As we close up that I didn't ask? 293 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 4: No, I think you did a great job. I love 294 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 4: you and Jess, and I know Dean loves you and Jess. 295 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 4: And it's great too. You know, it's a rare thing 296 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 4: to like love a couple equally, you know, like the 297 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 4: wife loves the wife, the husband loves the husband. 298 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 5: So it's really great. 299 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 4: We love you guys, and I know Dean's really looking 300 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 4: forward to his golf trip with you next month. 301 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 2: I know he needs to get down here and meet 302 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 2: when he is well. 303 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 5: Though, that is, you won't come to Denver. It's so hard. 304 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 3: The guy has literally gone from traveling in a van 305 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 3: across the US too. 306 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 4: Oh v this, I'll text you this video. He's cuddling 307 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 4: with Carl right now. Carl is like wrapped around him 308 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 4: and he won't leave the couch. 309 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 5: So he's a good dad. 310 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 2: That's I mean, that's good for him, it's good for us. 311 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 2: We love you so much. 312 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 3: It means so much that you've came and visited Winnie. 313 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 3: You're gonna see her grow up. I could talk about 314 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 3: her forever, but I refuse to because nobody wants to 315 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 3: hear an hour long of me just talking about how 316 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 3: cute that little girl is. But here's the cool part, 317 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 3: kaylen uh. Four days ago, here's the update for anybody 318 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 3: listening and you. Four days ago, she started to mirror me. 319 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 3: So when I smile, she smiles. When I stick my 320 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 3: tongue out, she sticks her tongue out, and it breaks 321 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 3: me in two in a way that she never did before, 322 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 3: and that I've never had happened to me in. 323 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 5: My life so special, it. 324 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 2: Is something to behold. 325 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 5: So she do it to Jess, you or just you. 326 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 3: Jess as well, she'll do it to anybody you can. 327 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 3: Just wait, you come here, you stick out your tongue 328 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 3: and she starts giggling and she'll do it. 329 00:15:59,080 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 5: Beat so excited. 330 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 3: It's something. Caylen, thanks for jumping on with us tonight, 331 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 3: and we appreciate you. Best of luck and everything, and 332 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 3: I can't wait to see you soon. 333 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 5: Thank you so soon. 334 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 3: With that, this is the Almost Famous podcast we had 335 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 3: Kaylin here tonight. Until next time I've been Ben, We'll 336 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 3: talk to you soon. 337 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: Everybody follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts 338 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:23,479 Speaker 1: on iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts