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Speaker 1: Welcome to This Country Life. I'm your host, Brent Reeves

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Speaker 1: from coon hunting to trot lining and just general country living.

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Speaker 1: I want you to stay a while as I share

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Speaker 1: my stories and the country skills that will help you

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Speaker 1: beat the system. This Country Life is proudly presented as

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Speaker 1: part of Meat Eaters Podcast Network, bringing you the best

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Speaker 1: outdoor podcast the airways have to offer. All right, friends,

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Speaker 1: pull you up a chair or drop that tailgate. I

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Speaker 1: think I got a thing or two. The Teacher, Kids

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Speaker 1: and Outdoors Part two, I'm passing the platter with a

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Speaker 1: second helping of kids and outdoors. It doesn't take a

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Speaker 1: lot to get them interested, and you can be a

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Speaker 1: minimalist or go all in with what your activities are.

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Speaker 1: The key is to just find something that they'll enjoy

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Speaker 1: some good information to share, so y'all get easy and

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Speaker 1: listen up. But first, I'm going to tell you a story.

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Speaker 1: Since we're talking about kids and outdoors, I figured i'd

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Speaker 1: share this one. Tams boys, my nephews, were fourteen and eleven,

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Speaker 1: and wanted to go coon hunt with me. One night

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Speaker 1: thirty years ago. I was hunting with a friend of mine,

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Speaker 1: David Boudra, the same friend that I was hunting with

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Speaker 1: a few months later when we saw a mountain lion

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Speaker 1: less than two miles from where this incident took place. Now,

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Speaker 1: that was the second sighting of my existence and David's first,

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Speaker 1: but that's another story. David and I had driven down

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Speaker 1: tried to take advantage of every opportunity. I didn't have

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Speaker 1: a dog then, and as long as it wasn't you

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Speaker 1: could just about bet we were going to go. Had

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Speaker 1: have gone that night because the wind was howling like crazy,

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Speaker 1: but it wasn't raining, so we were going. We stopped

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Speaker 1: at Thams to visit before we cut loose, and to

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Speaker 1: These two hooligans were and are just like my own sons,

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Speaker 1: be fun for them, or so I thought. The boys

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Speaker 1: each had a couple of decailed flashlights, and it didn't

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Speaker 1: were going to be walking with us anyway, So we

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Speaker 1: It wasn't long before he struck in trailing a coon. Now,

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Speaker 1: pretty rough. Briars and old tree tops from where some

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Speaker 1: it challenging for me and David, much more so for

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Speaker 1: We'd walked close to a mile by then, I'm sure,

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Speaker 1: which is where we all should have been. The wind

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Speaker 1: It didn't matter if it was a simple traffic stop

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Speaker 1: they went, in a beeline straight for that night light.

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Speaker 1: The lesson hears this. We should prepare our kids for

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Speaker 1: learned a valuable lesson that night, and that's just how

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Speaker 1: it happened. In Part one of Kids Outdoors, I gave

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Speaker 1: a few basic ways to pry those grocery goblins off

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Speaker 1: don't have to be technical or labor intensive. Nature walks

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Speaker 1: for that one show that's based out of Montana. It's

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Speaker 1: about a group of folks going outside in places all

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Speaker 1: over the world, getting close enough to nature to literally

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Speaker 1: take a bite out of it. It's my favorite. Oh

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Speaker 1: and the guy that started it all published a book

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Speaker 1: about getting kids outside. It's called catch it crayfish, count

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Speaker 1: the stars. It's pretty sporty. And he'd be the first

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Speaker 1: So I learned something this week. Y'all remember my friend

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Speaker 1: Terry Garner. He was the guy who met trout fishing

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Speaker 1: that I talked about in my podcast entitled The Power

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Speaker 1: of Hello. If you haven't already, I suggest you listen

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Speaker 1: to it. It's one of my favorites. But until you do,

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Speaker 1: let me give you a quick review. I went fly

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Speaker 1: guy fishing near me gracefully catch fish like orchestrated ballet. Well,

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Speaker 1: made friends, good friends. Terry married up. He out kicked

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Speaker 1: his coverage. As they say, his wife, Terry spelled taor

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Speaker 1: I is a Jedi princess of the fly ride herself

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Speaker 1: and a dynamo educator who retired after forty years. Her

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Speaker 1: retirement lasted about as long as my patience. The possum

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Speaker 1: this program is fantastic. It's a whole curriculum geared for

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Speaker 1: all students K through twelve. Okay, Brent, it's a good program.

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Speaker 1: How will it help my kids at home when they're

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Speaker 1: doing these activities at school? Well, I'll tell you simply,

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