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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, Anicia, Yeah, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you good? It's a jewil show.

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Speaker 1: What should you never talk about on a first date? XS?

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Speaker 1: But now I'm thinking politics or politics? You gotta choose one. Politics, politics, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't think you should talk about either of those things.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Anisia. I'm Hank de Generous. Ella

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Speaker 1: Degenerous is older brother who's trying to make it in

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Speaker 1: person she is. I'm Hank to Generous and I'm much

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Speaker 1: And this is ridiculous Internet questions where we ask you

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Speaker 1: the question that everybody's wondering on the dot com today?

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Speaker 1: What should you not talk about on a first date?

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Speaker 1: That is today's ridiculous Internet question. I'm Hank de Generous

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Speaker 1: and let's get back to the game, shall we. Anicia.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever been on a date where somebody started

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Speaker 1: talking about politics or an X? Oh? Yes, and how

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Speaker 1: did they go? It was uncomfortable? I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you have a lot of X is most

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Speaker 1: likely people have baggage. People want to get to know,

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Speaker 1: you know, whoever they're dating, they're going to on a

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Speaker 1: want to spend their life with them. Like, let's get

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Speaker 1: about on a first date? ALEX Finances? Finances a good one.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm on family feud right now. Finances

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Speaker 1: Either gony're gonna talk about their finances and how broke

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Speaker 1: on a first date, that's kind of weird. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: then if they're talking about how much money they do have,

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Speaker 1: then it's like, okay, so what are you bragging? You know,

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Speaker 1: So it's on the top five good definitely one six one.

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Speaker 1: Text in four one oh six one. It's ridiculous Internet

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Speaker 1: questions where we talk about the question that everybody's wondering

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Speaker 1: on the dot coms today. And today's ridiculous Internet question

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Speaker 1: is what are things you don't talk about on a

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Speaker 1: first date? Chad? What's up? Bro? What don't you talk

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Speaker 1: about on a first date? Chad? Where I want to

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Speaker 1: get buried at? That? You don't have a plan at

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Speaker 1: the fun stuff? Oh, don't go over your funeral plans.

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Speaker 1: I think that's you know, that's a pretty good idea.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever been on a date where somebody brought

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Speaker 1: up where they wanted to get buried at? Chad? No? No,

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Speaker 1: but there is always a person there is. Text in

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Speaker 1: Don't talk about your death on a first date with somebody,

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Speaker 1: because usually people are dating because they want a future,

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Speaker 1: and if you're talking about that right away, probably doesn't

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Speaker 1: say much about the future. Today's ridiculous Internet question what

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Speaker 1: are the things that you don't talk about on a

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Speaker 1: first date? Bennett? Okay? One thing you shouldn't talk about

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Speaker 1: it's like marriage. You know, I've been on dates and

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Speaker 1: they're like, oh, like yeah, like I want to be

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Speaker 1: what is something that you don't talk about on a

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Speaker 1: first date? People? How many people you slept with? I

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Speaker 1: don't know if that's what I'm afion, right, Like, I

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Speaker 1: That's fun. That's a fun topic. I mean, if that's

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Speaker 1: things you don't talk about on a first date, Victoria?

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Speaker 1: So I googled it and it said don't play the

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Speaker 1: how long have they been single? And how many matches

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Speaker 1: you're messaging on like a dating app. Yeah, talking about

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Speaker 1: don't want to talk about like parents. Oh yeah, talk

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Speaker 1: about parents, Oh yeah, like them? Yeah, mainly the mom. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be a parent, are right. And they're looking

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Speaker 1: The Jubil Show on demand. It's another Jubil phone frame

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Speaker 1: day mornings. That's ones. Is Terry Hey, new guy? All right, Hey,

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Speaker 1: new guy scared Terry? Hey, Terry, Yeah, buddy, how can

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Speaker 1: I help? Name's Bill? Hey? Bill? Hey. We work in

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Speaker 1: costume shopping. Costume contest is coming up. I know I

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Speaker 1: I'm looking to win it all. Are you really? What?

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Speaker 1: What are you? What? Are you going to dress up as?

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Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. Let's get out of here

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Speaker 1: right now, right now. You want to do this? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this costume shop? Maybe stop off, get some Margarita's, I know,

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Speaker 1: can't do it now, Bill. You guys a wet blanket. No, well,

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Speaker 1: five years. You can skip out right now and go

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Speaker 1: get a margarite. Do with me. Bill. You might be

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Speaker 1: But I gotta get going. What are you? Scary? Funny? Scary? Funny? Sad?

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Speaker 1: What are you? What costume? The costume contest coming up?

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Speaker 1: What are you? What kind of costume? Guy? Are you scary?

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Speaker 1: our Halloween party. Yeah, you and McGregor one. Okay, lame,

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Speaker 1: Last year, somebody got a TV. I'm not trying to

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Speaker 1: have fun like everybody else. You know what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm gonna go as Good luck beating

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Speaker 1: me in the costume contest. Scary Terry? What Bill? Scary

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Speaker 1: here listening. Bill. I don't know if you didn't take

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Speaker 1: I got a present for you. You're a little present

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Speaker 1: for meal. What is that? What do you mean? It

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Speaker 1: looks like you put a bag of cocaine in my desk.

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Speaker 1: I did New Guy let's party. Come on, I topped

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Speaker 1: like that's where new guy is and me and new

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Speaker 1: guy are getting to know each other day, So come on,

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Speaker 1: are you kid? They have cameras in crazy hey, New Hey.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go costum traveling with me. What

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Speaker 1: if I call HR right now and tell him I

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Speaker 1: know what's in your desk? I bet they wouldn't like that?

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Speaker 1: Would they listen to me? This isn't a joke anymore.

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Speaker 1: I need you to come up here right now and

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Speaker 1: claim this world. I'm gonna call I'm gonna call the cop.

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Speaker 1: That's the only choice I have. You're giving me right now,

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Speaker 1: I should go call your supervisor Jim, because he's actually

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Speaker 1: want to put that in there. What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: What I mean, Jim set you up for a phone prank.

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Speaker 1: This is actually Jewel from The Jewil Show doing a

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Speaker 1: is pounded. What I think your heart's pounded? Now? Scary terry?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna that fun him right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:21,920
Speaker 1: what's up? Is this Trevor? Yes? Let hee? Hey, what's

421
00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 1: up Trevor? This is the Jewel Show. It's a radio show.

422
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:29,199
Speaker 1: My name's Jebil, my name's Alex, my name's Bennett. Okay,

423
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,160
Speaker 1: how can I help you? Well, we're calling you today

424
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 1: because we got an email from somebody who listens to

425
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 1: our show and they asked us to give you a call. Oh,

426
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:41,439
Speaker 1: than cute. That's a good question. You might think they

427
00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 1: are because you went on a date with them. Actually,

428
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 1: oh really, Yes, we do a segment on our show

429
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,119
Speaker 1: called the First Date fallow up. It's where if you

430
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 1: go out on a date with someone and then end

431
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,720
Speaker 1: up ghosting him. That person can email us to get

432
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,399
Speaker 1: you on the phone and figure out what happened. And

433
00:20:54,480 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 1: we got an email about you from Zane. Oh god, Zaye, yes,

434
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:05,440
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what happened with Zane? What happened was, yeah,

435
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: we had we had we had a date and I mean, look,

436
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 1: we had a good time at the end of it.

437
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 1: And that was that. Okay, Well, why aren't you calling

438
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 1: Zane back? Well, I mean, first of all, can I

439
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 1: just say that I'm a little weirded out by that

440
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: that he called a radio station get in touch with

441
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 1: me to find out why. I'm like, the guy won't

442
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 1: take a hint. Well, I'm ghosting him. You could have

443
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 1: just told him that you weren't interested for whatever reason

444
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 1: you are, which we want to know. God, oh god, Okay,

445
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: cheek a hint, buddy. Okay. So I mean it's I

446
00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,359
Speaker 1: it was going okay, but you know, um, I was

447
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 1: just it was just weird that he just in the

448
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 1: middle of center starts talking in this drunken Spanish out

449
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 1: of nowhere, and it's like, okay. The first second was

450
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 1: it was funny, cute, but then he just kept calling

451
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: on and on, Like you started speaking in Spanish? Is

452
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:01,360
Speaker 1: that what you said? Yeah, like this drunk in weird Spanish.

453
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you Christen Wig and brides lads?

454
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:09,200
Speaker 1: Come on? Is he Spanish? No? Okay? Was he drunk?

455
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: A little tipsy, But you know, I've seen tipsy people

456
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 1: and they don't break out into another language. I mean,

457
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 1: you don't like the bilingual was does he speak Spanish

458
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,879
Speaker 1: or was he just like making up trying to Was

459
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 1: he trying to speak Spanish and be sexy or something.

460
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 1: It just sounded like he was trying to do this

461
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 1: drunken Spanish. He was trying to do something and I'm like, dude,

462
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 1: it's not working, so stop. But he kept going on.

463
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 1: That's the reason you're not calling him back. Yeah. I mean, look,

464
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,920
Speaker 1: it was just kind of weird and annoying, and I

465
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: was weird at out. So I felt like that and

466
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 1: that was it. Okay, fun not annoyed with somebody in

467
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 1: the first date. Imagine after five or six days or relationship,

468
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: right right, Okay, So it was basically that he was

469
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 1: just kind of annoying to you. Yeah, it was annoying

470
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,639
Speaker 1: and we had a good time. Look, ultimately, we had

471
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: a good time, and you know, boys, your boys. He

472
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: got what he wanted, I got what I wanted, and

473
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 1: we move on. Cool. Well, we can move on after

474
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: you talk to him, because he's actually on the other

475
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,159
Speaker 1: line listening and wants to talk to you. Wow. Oh

476
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: my god, oh my god. Yeah there, yes, no, yes,

477
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 1: I mean whatever. My friends love. If I had a

478
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: little bit to drinking, I'm a little tipsy. My friends

479
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 1: love when I speak in Spanish, so it's funny to them.

480
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 1: Tell me, please tell me this is not happening. Quick

481
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 1: me up, quick, No, yeah, they didn't let me. Let

482
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 1: me ask you something, let me answer something, mister Mann. No,

483
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 1: if you were so annoyed, why did you come back

484
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 1: to my place and hook up with me? Then? Not

485
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 1: that annoyed as right, Yeah, exactly, That's what I said.

486
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: Boys are boys, And okay, so you were that annoyed.

487
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: So you were that annoyed, but you still could take

488
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 1: time to come back and do what you had to

489
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 1: do with me. It's kind of messed up. You know

490
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: what you did what you had to do. Okay, Look,

491
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: we're not no but I no date. But I was

492
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: looking forward to getting to know you even more so right,

493
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 1: but I don't speak drunk in Spanish. Well, I was

494
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 1: just letting moves. That's no big deal. That's not who

495
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: I am. I mean, I mean, who are you? But

496
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 1: I'm not like you like like, well, I'm the person

497
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: you laid up with. That's who I am. I mean,

498
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: why don't you get to know me further? I'm gone?

499
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 1: I mean we're uh you know, what, would you guys

500
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: like to go on another date? We'll pay for it, Trevor,

501
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 1: would you like to who I was again? We'll pay

502
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: for it? Um, I really no, what is it? That's

503
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: a sound like listening to him? Oh my god, when

504
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: I grew up with him? Really, Oh my god? Are

505
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:50,360
Speaker 1: you this right now? Wow? Okay, I guess I think

506
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: this is an abusive situation now, the anger? Okay, Jesus,

507
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 1: it really is? I mean, oh really, uh huh Jesus. Really, yes,

508
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm any times you're gonna say, really, okay, this is

509
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: you and I this is you and I stop talking

510
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: about Jesus. He has nothing to do with this. Okay.

511
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Trevor, thank you for being honest. Back, Zane,

512
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry it doesn't look like you're gonna get another

513
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 1: date Oh my gosh, Will apparently not. There's lessium and viagra. Okay,

514
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: I suggest you look into it. Oh my gosh, Oh

515
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 1: my god, hang up with him? Guys? Why okay? Y?

516
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: Actually I didn't even need to hang up on him.

517
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 1: Zane hung up himself. Oh my gosh. I am so

518
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 1: sorry that I even got you guys into this. Oh

519
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm so over it. I'm sorry you didn't

520
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: get another date. There will be people, there's people. There's

521
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: guys out there that love guys who speak in Spanish,

522
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 1: especially in the bedroom. So go find one of those,

523
00:25:54,960 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 1: even if you don't know what you're saying. Okay, that's

524
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: my life about the Jewels Show on demand Jewbils Dirty

525
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:25,360
Speaker 1: little Secret? Hello, Hey, what's up? This is the Jewil Show.

526
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: When you text it in four one oh six one

527
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 1: that you have a dirty little secret, so we're calling

528
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: you back. Hi. Oh hey, yeah, Martie. How's it going good?

529
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: How about y'all? Not too bad? Do you have time

530
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: to tell us your dirty little secret? Or are you busy?

531
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: Oh no, I definitely do. What's your dirty little secret? So?

532
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: My dirty little secret is that I've been lying to

533
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: mighty boyfriend. Oh okay, Okay. So you you know when

534
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: you're first dating someone and you just kind of want

535
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: to find things that you have in common and like

536
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: go with the flow and all that good stuff. So

537
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: when I first met my boyfriend was telling me how

538
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: like golf is his favorite pastime, and sort of without

539
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: thinking about it, I was like, oh, golf, great. I

540
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: love golf just to like go on with things, right,

541
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 1: But I did not grow up in a golf playing world,

542
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 1: Like I'm like kind of from like the punk rock

543
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: scene like this, the golf world is not my thing.

544
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 1: But we've just continued to date and things have gotten

545
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: more serious. Like we've been together like two years, and

546
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 1: I've just never kind of backed down from that half

547
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: truth about liking golf. So I kind of have to

548
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: make up things all the time so that I don't

549
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 1: actually have to go play golf with him, because of

550
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: course I suck at it and can hardly play. Yeah, So,

551
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 1: like one time he surprised me, like, hey, we're going

552
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 1: to go to the driving range today, which is like

553
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: my worst fear, right, So it was like I completely sucked. So,

554
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: like on the way into the driving range, I pretended

555
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: to trip over a curve and hurt my ankle and

556
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: was like pabbling around like I can't stand. Oh my god,

557
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, I can't. I ruined our day. And

558
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 1: then you know, he took me home when we watch

559
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: Netflix and it was amazing. Jake. You never know. Hey,

560
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: it's Benny. So what's gonna happen? Because you have two options.

561
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: He's gonna bring you golf and again. So you could

562
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 1: either one like, learn how to play golf. I think

563
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,239
Speaker 1: it's hard, but good luck. Or you could just tell

564
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: him the truth because if he loves golf, he's gonna

565
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: bring you again. I don't know if I have it

566
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: in me to want to learn. I mean, they excuse

567
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: this has been working so far, They're not going to forever.

568
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: You should just come clean. Eventually, you're gonna have to

569
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: tell him. I think I should just tell him, Yes,

570
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: just tell him you liked him so much that you

571
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: said it and then you realized, oh crap, I don't

572
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: want to play golf. Maybe that's true. Hopefully he just

573
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: used that as me like wanting to stick around and

574
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: for him to like me, and we've been together long

575
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: enough that maybe he'll laugh about it. She doesn't even

576
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: necessarily have to tell her boyfriend that she's been lying

577
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: about the fact that she plays golf. Because golf is

578
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: a game where you can be the best at it

579
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: and then be the worst at it the next day.

580
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: So every day she could just have a terrible game

581
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: and they'll lie. Like most people that you play gold

582
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: if you've ever played golf before, somebody will lie. Usually

583
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: it's somebody who's not very good, says, oh, dude, I

584
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: usually shoot like in the seventies or eighties, which is

585
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: really good golf. But they'll shoot one hundred and forty

586
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: five that day and lie about every single score, and

587
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: you'll know that they're lying. So that's all she really

588
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: has to do is just be like normal people who

589
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: don't play golf but say that they do. I don't

590
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: think she ever has to tell him anything. Hey, it's victory.

591
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: Maybe she can also, don't know, just like hang out

592
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: in the golf cart, like I've seen, like a lot

593
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: of people will just film the golf cart while like

594
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: their boyfriend plays golf, and it's just kind of like

595
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: a it's still a fun dat activity, like you still

596
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: go out, you still hang out. It's weird that she

597
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: would even lie about that, Like that's something that is

598
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,479
Speaker 1: easily provable, right, Like, you can lie about a lot

599
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: of things if you just meet somebody in your dating

600
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: but to go I really like golf and I'm good

601
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: at golf to a golfer, You're gonna have to show

602
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: them that at some point because they're gonna be like,

603
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: oh sweet, we can go golf offing together. I have

604
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: a new friend, right, and they're like the biggest Nicki

605
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: Minaj fan and they absolutely hate Cardi B. But I

606
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: like them both, but I kind of want to be

607
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: their friends. So I've been acting like I'm not the

608
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: biggest fan of Cardi as well. Yeah, I know that's

609
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: so bad. I've been like, yeah, because in the fandom,

610
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: you have to pick a side, Like everyone's like you

611
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: got to pick a side, and I feel like I

612
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: don't have to choose a side, you know. But because

613
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: they're such a huge Nikki fan, I'm like, okay, I'll

614
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: choose a side Nicky. So now, if you were to

615
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: get into a relationship with them, you could never listen

616
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: to Cardi B around them except in private. And if

617
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: they walked in the room and you were like downloading

618
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: a Cardi B song, you'd have to hide the computer

619
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: real quick, like oh my god, and they're like, what

620
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: are you doing here? Like did I just hear? Okay,

621
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Speaker 1: the Jewels Show on demand, we make horrible decisions. It's

622
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: The Jewels Show, and at least once a week we

623
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 1: make the horrible decision of just opening the phone lines

624
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: and doing unscreen phone calls where people can call up

625
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: and talk about whatever. And the other day we had

626
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: to listen to Callista Callas and she said this, So,

627
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: I'm just having like relationship issues and I keep going

628
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: back and forth with my ex to be honest and contusing,

629
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Speaker 1: and I'm trying to see other people, but he doesn't

630
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Speaker 1: like that, and I don't know how to move on.

631
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: We didn't have time to help her in the segment,

632
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Speaker 1: but now we have time to give her some advice.

633
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Speaker 1: So Calista, tell us again, what's going on. I've just

634
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: been in a relationship with this person off and on

635
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: for the past I say four years. We did long

636
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: distance for like a little bit, and we ended up

637
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: like rekindling, and it's just been back in forth. And

638
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: we broke up in June, and you know, he I

639
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: started dating and he didn't like that. So it's back

640
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: in forth, and I don't know how to move on

641
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: or if I even want to move on. I think

642
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: I just need like solid advice for what to do. Okay, well, hey,

643
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: it's been it. It's interesting because, like I feel in

644
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: the same exact situation. So I've been married for five

645
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: years and it's been very on and off for five years,

646
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: and right now in one of those off periods and

647
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: a lot of time times, I think it's really hard

648
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: to make decisions for myself because I've been in a

649
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: relationship for so long. And I know you said, like

650
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: you started dating, but you don't even know if you

651
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: want to get back to this relationship with your ex.

652
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: And I think right now it's really important for both

653
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: me and you to like focus on ourself build ourselves

654
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: up to the point where we're able to like make

655
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: these decisions for ourselves. So, you know, before you even

656
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: start dating both of us, maybe you should decide what

657
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: you really want, you know. And as far as your

658
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend, you guys aren't together. You guys broke up,

659
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: it's off. Same with me, it's off. So right now,

660
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: it's just time for us to make decisions for ourselves

661
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: to become our better selves. You know what I'm saying, girl, Yeah, exactly.

662
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: So you guys are broken up right now? Um? Yes, okay,

663
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: but still talking, still talking. And then he has a

664
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: problem if you're dating other people or with you dating

665
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: other people. Okay, So he doesn't like it, he does

666
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: he try to tell you what to do. Does he

667
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: try to tell you not to? No, he doesn't tell

668
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: me not to, but he to like express us his jealousy. Okay.

669
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: And so you know it's an uncomfortable position to put

670
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: me in because you know, you broke up with me.

671
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm trying to move on, right and then now you're

672
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: showing me all of this affection again, okay. And so oh,

673
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: and he's showing you affection, the affection that he didn't

674
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: show yet. And is this affection is affection he didn't

675
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: show when you guys were together. No, it is when

676
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: we were together. But I think like at first, when

677
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: I was seeing other people, it made him so upset

678
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: that he started treating me differently. But I think like

679
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: now he's like, no, I want you, and then he's

680
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: acting like it was the same again. Yeah. I think

681
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: it's important to like, if you're going to move on

682
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: with somebody and like I think it's important that like

683
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: you kind of like set that boundary between you and

684
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: your ex, because if you don't like set that boundary

685
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 1: and you're considering like his thoughts on how you're moving forward,

686
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: it's not really gonna work. That's what I was just

687
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: about to say, is in these type of situations, right,

688
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: he's not trying to tell you what to do, but

689
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: he's sharing with you that he's upset because you're seeing

690
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: other people in these situations. Is good to remember a

691
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 1: couple of things, and you have to look at the

692
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: reality of the situation. You guys are not together. You

693
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: don't owe him anything too. You're not responsible for his emotions, right,

694
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 1: It's not your fault that he feels that way. He

695
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: is upset because you're dating other people. He's maybe jealous,

696
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: he's maybe sad because he lost something, but that's not

697
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 1: your responsibility to even let that bother you. It sounds cold,

698
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: but it's actually just how it should be. Like, that's

699
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: his emotion to deal with, right, You shouldn't be care

700
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: taking his emotions. So if you're comfortable dating other people,

701
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 1: you're comfortable dating other people if you also care that

702
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: he's upset about it. You can be a listening ear

703
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 1: if you want to be. I don't think that would

704
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: necessarily be good for you because you guys are broken up,

705
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: But you can listen and go, hey, I'm sorry you

706
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 1: feel that way, right, so you don't own his emotions.

707
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 1: Don't put that pressure on yourself, basically is what I'm saying.

708
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: Right and honestly, girl, he broke up with you, you know,

709
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: if he really wanted to be with you and he

710
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: really cared about like who you're dating or if you

711
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: were going to date anyone else you want to have

712
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: broken up with your He can't have his cake any Yeah,

713
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 1: absolutely not. And like I se an exact situation like

714
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: bump that time to move forward and like move on

715
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: and like bigger and better. You know, if somebody's giving

716
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 1: you attention that you weren't getting in your relationship before,

717
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I need, I need to listen to

718
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: my own life. But like, if someone's giving you attention

719
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: that you weren't getting in your relationship before, then that's

720
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: where you should put your energy. Yeah, and keep your

721
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,280
Speaker 1: head up. Every single hard thing in life can actually

722
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: be a happy thing, even if it sucks, because you're

723
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: learning a lesson right now about something. Right, Either you're

724
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: gonna learn a lesson about sticking around and toughing it

725
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: out with someone and getting through a really hard time,

726
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: or you're gonna learn a lesson for yourself about looking

727
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: out for yourself and moving on and how you can

728
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: be happier. Even if you're sad right now, know that

729
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: at the end of it, you're gonna learn something, so

730
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,240
Speaker 1: it makes the sad times actually a lot better. Like, Okay,

731
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 1: this is for a reason. Everything does happen for a reason, right,

732
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: So you're learning something right now that is going to

733
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 1: be valuable for you as you move on with the

734
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: rest of your life. So just embrace the pain, as

735
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: weird as that sounds, and realize what you're learning and

736
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: then use it in the future. All right, you do,

737
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,399
Speaker 1: all right, So let us know how it goes though.

738
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: Let us know if any of this advice helped. When

739
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: you figure it out, fully, hit us back up and

740
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 1: let us know how it worked out. Okay, all right,

741
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: I will thank you guys. Have a good one. Take care.

742
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: If you want some advice from the show, hit us

743
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: up at the Jewil Show. Also, you can call us

744
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: eight at eight three four three one oh six one

745
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: or text Us four one oh six one, and maybe

746
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: we'll give you some terrible advice to The Jewil Show

747
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:23,480
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