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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date podcast, and we are counting

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Speaker 1: down the top second dates of twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Yes, number seven, that's right. And I think there's fewer

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Speaker 2: and fewer rom com movies that are being made now

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Speaker 2: because people just don't meet in real life anymore.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's actually like a meet cute.

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Speaker 4: Swiping isn't cute so many movies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just not even believable to see it on

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Speaker 2: the screen. And you can't have a realistic romantic scene

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Speaker 2: with a drunk dude at two am sliding into a

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Speaker 2: hot girls DX. They just don't make those films. That's

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Speaker 2: why today's call was so rare. One of our listeners

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Speaker 2: turned a super awkward moment into an actual meet cute

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Speaker 2: that seemed almost too perfect, and you're going to hear

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Speaker 2: it in your Second Date Update number seven of the

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Speaker 2: year right now, Second Date Updated. There's a lot of

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Speaker 2: fun things in life that begin with the word street, street, street, magic,

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Speaker 2: street tacos.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Jeff, I'm getting street meets.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, street walkers, right, I feel like I do that.

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Speaker 2: I walk down a lot of streets.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, today we're going to talk to a street dater.

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Speaker 3: Jeffs like why are people giving me money for you?

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Speaker 2: I must have really good hair today. But again, this

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Speaker 2: guy says he's a street dater. He met someone will well,

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Speaker 2: not stereotypically, but he met somebody while out on the street. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 2: that's what I met. His name is Drew street Walker. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: technically Drew street Walker too.

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Speaker 6: I think I walked the streets about as much as

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Speaker 6: everybody else around here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's a humble street walk Jeff's neighborhood.

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Speaker 7: Okay, we should probably using that phrase.

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Speaker 2: But apparently you met somebody while just walking out and

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Speaker 2: about how did that happen?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I was at a bookstore locally, and I like to read.

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Speaker 6: So I'm leaving the bookstore and you know, I have

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Speaker 6: my face buried in the book as I'm walking, and

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Speaker 6: I knock into this woman.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's kind of a cute. It sounded like out

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Speaker 3: of a movie. The bookstore is involved.

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Speaker 5: Clumsy, her bag fell, I helped her, and then I

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Speaker 5: gave her a little flirt.

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Speaker 7: Wait, wait, did ever really happen in slow motion?

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Speaker 3: I think he's joking about that part.

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Speaker 2: I know, Yeah, I imagine the bag falling. He grabbed it,

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Speaker 2: he picked it up, he ran gotcha. You just knocked

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Speaker 2: her bag out of her hand by accident.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, by accident.

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Speaker 3: Oh you really did knock the bag over.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we bumped into each other. It was a pretty

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Speaker 5: big bump, and you know, everything just kind of flew

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Speaker 5: all over the place. I helped. There's some stuff fell

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Speaker 6: Her bag, and I said, you know, it's usually old

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Speaker 6: ladies I knock over and then I just move on and.

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Speaker 2: Really funny he.

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Speaker 3: Beats him with her I get the joke.

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Speaker 6: So then we started walking and we started going in

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Speaker 6: the same direction. So I just started doing a little

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Speaker 6: more like joking, like.

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Speaker 5: You following me? And she was like, no, you following me?

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Speaker 5: And we laughed again. Trying to build like a little rapport.

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Speaker 7: Bro, Like, you're turning like kind of a bad situation

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Speaker 7: or a weird situation into like something positive.

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Speaker 3: What point were you able to get her name?

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Speaker 6: I did ask her name, but we walked a little

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Speaker 6: more and we'd love to know the name.

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Speaker 7: She's like, don't tell anybody what my real name is.

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Speaker 5: That name is Sonia.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you and Sonya are just accidentally walking in

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Speaker 2: the same direction and kind of flirting with each other.

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Speaker 6: It sounds like, yeah, We eventually get to a park

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Speaker 6: and we start walking through the park.

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Speaker 2: What when you got into the park? Is that when

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Speaker 2: you took her bag?

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Speaker 6: Then that's when I knocked her over and ran Okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, gotcha more escape routes than here.

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Speaker 1: Did you really have to go to the same way

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Speaker 1: or were you just pretending so you could plants?

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Speaker 3: Like you both just had free time to keep walking.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, that's true too.

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Speaker 5: I walked through that park all the time. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No, this isn't like the first I was going in

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Speaker 6: that direction anyway. So it's just like a very.

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Speaker 5: Good meat cute.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 6: Eventually we came across a sketch artist and he flagged

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Speaker 5: He was like, hey, you guys want to get a picture.

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Speaker 5: You thought we were a couple?

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Speaker 3: Wait did you get a character drive?

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Speaker 5: Oh look I was down, but she wasn't. Okay, I

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Speaker 5: think first, I think was freak down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds there's so many like perfect things that

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Speaker 2: are happening to you along the way on this short walk.

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Speaker 2: You didn't set this whole thing up. It sounds like,

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Speaker 2: how could he do?

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Speaker 5: No, I didn't set anything up.

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Speaker 2: Well, you just have a friend who's like in the park,

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Speaker 2: with a thing, and he's like, I'm just going to

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Speaker 2: take her this way.

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Speaker 5: I didn't say it was a friend. It was just

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Speaker 5: a sketch artist. He wasn't a friendly.

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Speaker 3: The most that.

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Speaker 1: Would be the most elaborate setup ever. You accidentally run

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Speaker 1: into somebody and then suddenly you call your buddy when

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Speaker 1: she's not looking, who happens to be an artist, and

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Speaker 1: tell him.

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Speaker 3: To set up quickly in the park.

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Speaker 7: I really want to sit down with her for forty

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Speaker 7: five minutes. This stranger.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying. We've heard people that have like orchestrated

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Speaker 2: all sorts of weird things in order to make that's true, but.

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Speaker 7: This doesn't sound like that job.

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Speaker 3: How long is this walk going on.

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Speaker 6: We're about twenty minutes into the walk. By the time

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Speaker 6: she said no to the picture way through the park

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Speaker 6: and we got to the end of the park, it

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Speaker 6: was probably about a half an hour.

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Speaker 5: We were together and I got a good vibe.

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Speaker 6: So I asked her number to go out, and she

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Speaker 6: gave me a number, and the date just hasn't materialized.

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Speaker 1: Ince said, Okay, have you guys talked via text or

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Speaker 1: phone call?

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Speaker 5: No? Nothing.

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Speaker 6: I've tried to call a few times, I've lost a

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Speaker 3: I automatically think that she gave you a fake number.

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Speaker 2: Oh, there's no response.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was her voice on the voicemail it okay, okay, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: She gave you the numbers. So I'm assuming she's single.

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Speaker 3: Did you specifically ask her?

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Speaker 6: I didn't ask her if she was dating anyone. No,

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Speaker 6: but I left a few voicemails and she hasn't answered.

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Speaker 3: How many yeah?

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Speaker 5: Three? Maybe four?

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Speaker 7: I don't think I called a girlfriend that many times

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Speaker 3: I think my mom calls me.

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Speaker 2: He felt the connection. So wheneveryone's different.

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Speaker 7: Some people love being on the phone.

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Speaker 2: So I'm glad you take a break from your extent

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Speaker 2: of book reading in order to help reach out to

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Speaker 2: the show. And we're going to try and help you

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Speaker 2: call this girl. What's her name, Sonya? So yeah, Sonyr Okay,

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Speaker 2: we'll reach We'll reach out to Sonia, and we'll do

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Speaker 2: your second date update right after this hold on second

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Speaker 2: date update. If I hadn't read it on the back

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Speaker 2: of a Blockbuster movie sleeve, I still wouldn't believe it.

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Speaker 2: But an accidental sidewalk bumping turned into your classic Hallmark

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Speaker 2: street walker love story.

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Speaker 3: Again with the term. Yeah, that's the wrong use.

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Speaker 7: We're trying to make it sound better than it is.

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Speaker 3: It's not a Hallmark movie. I'll tell you that one.

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Speaker 2: It fits in this scenario because our listener Drew accidentally

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Speaker 2: ran into a woman outside of a bookstore, knocked over

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Speaker 2: her bag, and then turned that awkward moment into a

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Speaker 2: twenty five minute stroll through a local.

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Speaker 1: Park thirty I believe. I mean, those five minutes are

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Speaker 1: going to be precious. When it's only a short amount

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Speaker 1: of time, you have to get fair.

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Speaker 2: And it all seems too perfect to be true, and

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Speaker 2: maybe was because she's not responding to any of his messages.

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Speaker 7: It's always the park scene. Yeah, ruins something in that.

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Speaker 4: I mean he left Okay, here's the thing. You left

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Speaker 4: four voicemails. Yeah, we have not asked what was in

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Speaker 5: I just told her, Hey, it's me Drew by the park.

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Speaker 5: You need a lot of guys by the park. I mean,

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Speaker 5: it's true, not even from the park, like the guy

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Speaker 5: that's adjacent.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she thinks you live in the park. After that

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Speaker 2: that there's a chance though, that if she's not responding

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Speaker 2: to anything, maybe she wasn't even real, He was real?

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Speaker 2: Are you sure that would make me crazy?

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Speaker 7: Exactly?

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Speaker 3: What could just mean? You have a bad drug habit?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're from the park. Were you microdosing that day? No,

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Speaker 2: Homark hasn't done that yet. A microdosing Christmas lead to this? Well,

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Speaker 2: if you over micro dose?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, no, wonder.

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Speaker 3: One of those kids still in the DARE program.

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Speaker 7: I signed that contract.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's have all the street walkers unite because we're

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Speaker 2: gonna call and we're going to get an answer from

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Speaker 2: this woman to figure out what actually happened, if she's real,

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Speaker 2: and hopefully if there's an explanation a lot of.

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Speaker 1: Kids listening who use that term wrong for the next Christmas.

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Speaker 2: This is the education you get here. I'm going to

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Speaker 2: die of the number right now here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 2: it sounds real, Jeff, It sounds like a person. Is

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Speaker 2: this Sonya?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: This is Sonya.

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Speaker 5: Who's this? Hey?

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Speaker 2: Sonya. We're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 2: the Morning.

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Speaker 7: Good morning, Hi, Hi, Hey, what's this about.

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Speaker 2: This is a segment that we do on our show.

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Speaker 2: It's called a second Date Update, and we're trying to

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Speaker 2: help out one of our listeners. His name is Drew

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Speaker 2: who you met the other day outside of a bookstore.

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Speaker 3: Did you just laugh?

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Speaker 8: Are you sorry? I just I can't believe that you're

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Speaker 8: calling about him.

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Speaker 3: What you remember?

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Speaker 4: Remember Drew knocked you over on accident outside the bookstore?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I remember Drew.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well that's great because he said there was like

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Speaker 2: a meet cute type of situation that happened on the street,

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Speaker 2: and then you guys went through a park for a bit.

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Speaker 2: He left a few messages.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean that did happen, and I was actually

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Speaker 8: open to seeing him again. That's for the messages. The

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Speaker 8: messages are the problems.

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Speaker 2: Well, we asked him about the messages, and he basically,

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Speaker 2: according to him, he said, it was basically, hey, this

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Speaker 2: is Drew from the park. Remember I'm Drew.

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Speaker 6: Is that what he said? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Well summary interesting?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm not curious.

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Speaker 8: Like he left me one message that was so ridiculous.

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Speaker 8: Okay, so he told me, he said, I left you

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Speaker 8: You're very attractive. But I don't play that game. If

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Speaker 3: Because he called us.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it didn't mean it.

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Speaker 3: Call him some positives.

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Speaker 8: That's good, he says, I'm very smart, I'm great in bed. Okay,

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Speaker 8: it makes a lot of money.

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Speaker 7: But something everybody says.

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Speaker 7: It's like discovering.

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Speaker 8: So then he says, believe it or not, I'm a

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Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly, I'm the best one.

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Speaker 7: Is like a child trying to do reverse psychology.

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Speaker 3: Is that finally the end of the message.

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Speaker 8: So I don't know what your situation is if you're

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Speaker 7: Now we're back, now we're unhinged again.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Yeah, So clearly there was a lot happening in

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Speaker 3: Meant by it, because it's embarrassed right now.

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Speaker 2: Maybe because Sonya, he is on the other line listening.

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Speaker 2: We've got Drew waiting to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: Oh hey, hey, Sony, Hey hey.

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Speaker 5: Is there something that I said that wasn't true? Was

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Speaker 5: wasn't That was a lie?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you can't say that, dude.

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Speaker 7: You're coming to kind of hot, Yeah, a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I think defensive, no apology.

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Speaker 8: Well I'm sorry, Drew. I just like we met for

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Speaker 6: I'm know you agree that I'm right, So what was

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Speaker 5: You don't you don't appreciate being direct. You don't like

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Speaker 5: guys who are direct. I'm direct, You're making a lot

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Speaker 5: of money. I'm smart and I'm good in bed being direct.

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Speaker 8: More and more doubtful talking about you.

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Speaker 6: Know, you're all laughing now, but you won't be You'll

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Speaker 6: be crying later when I'm out of your life. That's

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Speaker 6: what's gonna happen if you don't make the right move.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I gotta find out how good you are

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Speaker 5: Bro, So you didn't call me back was really stupid.

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Speaker 6: I mean, come on, people like me who are good

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Speaker 3: You know, why do you leave with that?

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Speaker 5: Stupid person? Is going to give that up?

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Speaker 2: I think he's making.

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Speaker 5: You know. You know, in this city there are no men,

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Speaker 6: You know that good man.

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Speaker 2: I kind of agree with him on that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I don't know, Drew. I feel like the people who

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Speaker 5: You haven't bragged about being good in bed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not supposed to.

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: Listen to any hip hop music? They're all about that.

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Speaker 3: Are we going to ignore the rest of the text about.

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Speaker 4: What was that?

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Speaker 5: I saw her beg, her begs.

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Speaker 6: Everything fell everywhere I saw her meds.

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Speaker 4: You read everyone's on medications on medication.

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Speaker 5: You sound crazy smart and well read, Sonya.

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Speaker 4: I thought you were going to come to Drew. This

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Speaker 4: is honestly, this is shocking to be I thought we

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Speaker 4: to be humiliated that this voicemail.

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Speaker 3: Was out there.

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Speaker 2: But like only somebody who's addicted to meds would be humiliated.

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Speaker 2: He's perfect, broke.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with no narcissistic tendencies at all.

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Speaker 5: You know, I don't clearly good, Sonya?

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Speaker 2: Was he read? Are you on the verge of tears

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Speaker 8: I'm just really heartbroken that it can't be with this perfect.

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Speaker 6: I'm glad that you can finally admit it.

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Speaker 2: Well, Sonya, don't give up yet, because I'm going to

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Speaker 2: give you a second chance right now by offering to

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Speaker 6: She would do that if she went on a date,

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Speaker 6: if she called me back like a normal person, I

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Speaker 2: Sonya. It's up to you if you'd like to see

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Speaker 8: I appreciate the offer, but I really I'm really not

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Speaker 3: Shocking.

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Speaker 2: She's talking about me though there like and I get that,

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Speaker 2: but what about Drew?

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Speaker 3: That was really shocking?

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Speaker 5: I say not to Drew.

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Speaker 2: Also, wow, really, Sonya, I'll tell her.

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Speaker 6: True.

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Speaker 2: If this woman can't see how perfect you are, then

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You can't read sarcasm, jes he's really thanking you, jeff

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Speaker 1: I don't read sarcasm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you hear it, Brooke exactly. Thank you, Drew, thank you.

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Speaker 7: He really is.

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Speaker 2: Brook Jeffrey in the morning. I feel like we should

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Speaker 2: have asked that guy in part one, how confident are

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I felt like maybe he was a four going into it.

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Speaker 2: He would have said he'd like thirty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: He acts so confident, but we never brought up the

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Speaker 4: interested again if she didn't call him back, and yet

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Speaker 3: Yeah, still left her more voicemails. Yeah still, I mean,

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Speaker 7: It's like a guy who doesn't know how to play

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Speaker 7: the game. But someone told him right like, hey, if

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Speaker 3: And they love ultimatum.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it didn't work, and he was totally shocked

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Speaker 2: be sure, he is a perfect man.

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Speaker 3: So many other options he'll be fine.

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Speaker 7: Ever said they were perfect and turned out to be

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Speaker 7: like perfect. Like when has George Clooney been like, oh

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Speaker 3: Do you know what he said this week that was

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Speaker 2: Let's not go into it. I don't want to go

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Speaker 2: into it. I don't want to go into it. But look,

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