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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to US Air with

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. This is great And if you missed it,

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Speaker 1: Tanya made a big announcement that she and her boyfriend

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Speaker 1: at least we're calling him boyfriend now. Who knows it

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Speaker 1: will be in a month, could be something else after this.

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Speaker 1: They got it puppy together and it speaks volumes about

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Speaker 1: I can't wait. I actually would love more announcements coming

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Speaker 1: out of your camp. So and honestly, like, I'm actually

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Speaker 1: concerned for just future things because I literally feel like

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Speaker 1: when we took her to the VET because you can't

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Speaker 1: just like, what we have to like, let some stranger

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Speaker 1: it's the beginning of a lot. Okay, There's gonna be

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Speaker 1: a lot of lots come in your way. Yeah, all right, Michelle,

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Speaker 1: good morning. How are you doing in l A, Hi?

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Speaker 1: How are you, Michelle? We're great. Well. In speaking of announcements,

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Speaker 1: you have an announcement to you are pregnant with twins. Yeah, yeah, Hi, Um,

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Speaker 1: so I'm pregnant with twins, and uh, I just found

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Speaker 1: out that they are. Um it's a boy and a girl.

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Speaker 1: Oh how exciting. Listen, Tanya got a puppy. It's hissne

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Speaker 1: he got twins. Like a lot of a lot of

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Speaker 1: connection here. Oh that is so exciting. Congratulations, Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. Um, I'm so glad you guys took my

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Speaker 1: getting married. I had postponed my wedding like three times

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Speaker 1: when VOY got married at the end of August, and

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Speaker 1: now I wanted to share the news that, um, I'm

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Speaker 1: pregnant with twins. And um, I never thought I would

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Speaker 1: it was on the maternal side. It's just the generation

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Speaker 1: did not happen for me. I'm pregnant with twins. And

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Speaker 1: I thought of Sistany and I was like, oh, it

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Speaker 1: would be awesome if you could give me some tips.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, well question I was. I was thinking, maybe

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Speaker 1: you ask her for what's one thing she never knew

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Speaker 1: about having twins that she now knows. Oh yeah, yeah

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Speaker 1: that And like, if there's a one item that you

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Speaker 1: on my baby registry. I'll be awesome too. Yeah you should.

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Speaker 1: There's this thing called the susher and it's a little

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Speaker 1: speaker and it literally does the shushing sound that we

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Speaker 1: all naturally do when we try to shush her baby

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Speaker 1: like that, you know, basically, And so you're gonna need

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Speaker 1: many sound machines. That's my one tip. Actually with twins,

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Speaker 1: you want at least three different noises. You wanted to

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Speaker 1: sound like a spaceship in their nursery when they're sleeping,

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Speaker 1: because if one of them wakes up and starts crying,

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Speaker 1: of the other one crying. So if there's a lot

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Speaker 1: of noise, sound yes, So like the hatch is really good.

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Speaker 1: I love that noise. That sound machine. And then we

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Speaker 1: just put ocean sounds on that and just have a

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Speaker 1: it's crazy how it works. Okay, okay, and um, did

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Speaker 1: your twins ever like wake each other up to they wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: I mean once they got older and they started throwing

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Speaker 1: their lovees in each other's cribs and crawling into each

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Speaker 1: other's cribs. That that yeah, but they're you're far from that.

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Speaker 1: That's that's in like a year and a half. But

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Speaker 1: we are going to give you a direct access to

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Speaker 1: sistany you can call and ask ask since any time, right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: d M me and I will. I'll send you some

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Speaker 1: links of like other products and things like that. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, would be awesome thing. Q, thank you, I

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Speaker 1: want to see. Um what's you expect on the bump aspect?

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Speaker 1: It's a little bit hard to this really mainly focus on.

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Speaker 1: It's really annoying. There's not much out there for twin stuff.

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Speaker 1: Everything is yeah, like a singleton pregnancy. So yes, hit

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Speaker 1: me up with any of your questions and I will

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Speaker 1: I'll help you. She's on Instagram d M and Michelle,

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Speaker 1: thank you for calling. Congrats all right, bye bye, Yes, Tony,

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Speaker 1: what's the problem to you? It's just like she's on

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Speaker 1: Instagram DM because she reads those. Yeah, well, I'm what's

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Speaker 1: d m s because you always talk about people sliding

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Speaker 1: you're afraid to open them? Yeah, your ms are probably

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Speaker 1: so legit. I would love you. They always tell these

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Speaker 1: did someone help me out here? My Instagram logged me out? Hey, Blenda,

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Speaker 1: if you're listening, I'm also curious how people hit on you,

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Speaker 1: like how they slide into your d M. Hey, what

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Speaker 1: It was when I d M Jason Priestly, I never

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Speaker 1: got back to me or got back to me like

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Speaker 1: two years later. Yeah, so next hour, just looking ahead,

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Speaker 1: we continue to pay your bills, and then Julien and

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Speaker 1: derekoff major. I mean, we have a family meeting about this.

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Speaker 1: We can because I feel like there's this big elephant

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Speaker 1: definitely not that. Um, what are your what are your

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Speaker 1: is major. It's not major. It's totally fine. We've been

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Speaker 1: friends for years, Derek, Julianna, have you ever had an

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Speaker 1: ex girlfriend on the show? Yes, my last ex girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Didn't she come on after No, that was while you

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Speaker 1: but we still talk. We're still very friendly. See, this

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Speaker 1: So you're just gonna interview her like any guest we have.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe I'll range it up. I need

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Speaker 1: do you do the light switch? Like that? Like, how

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Speaker 1: do all of a sudden you're just business? It was

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Speaker 1: eight years ago, wasn't That doesn't matter? Yeah that was

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Speaker 1: She and I have moved on in several different ways

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Speaker 1: in different chapters, but very very friendly and have a

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Speaker 1: glad that you guys feel uncomfortable. I'm literally sweating. My

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Speaker 1: Aren't they coming on to promote their Yeah? But like

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Speaker 1: do you miss me. No, So that's that's just something

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Speaker 1: but I would. I I could certainly ask her about life,

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Speaker 1: what's occupying her time outside of work? Right, something like that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I would feel so nervous, Like I

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Speaker 1: not like we're just calling up x's invite him on

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Speaker 1: like when Nick fraudi Aani came onto my podcast. Did

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like, I don't have bad

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Speaker 1: what is what we're talking about. We're not the only ones.

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Speaker 1: I think she's just being courteous. Well, all she'll be revealed.

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Speaker 1: butterflies for you. You can ask her whatever you want

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Speaker 1: good morning in Hollywood. How are you? I'm good? How

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Speaker 1: are you? We're doing well? So you're calling about you're

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Speaker 1: eleven year old who has a fake Facebook account? Yes,

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Speaker 1: because it is a lie? Um, why did you do it?

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Speaker 1: What's the point? Well, so, what she's done is she

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Speaker 1: created this profile of a middle aged mom in Kansas

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Speaker 1: these other moms and it's joined groups like crocheting and

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Speaker 1: she she interacts with if she's also a middle aged mom,

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Speaker 1: and she'll she'll put us, you know, say things like, um,

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Speaker 1: I'll of us here of these fenced accounts where you

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Speaker 1: sister role model to like asan Max and I think

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00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: it's so cute, Canny, I feel like you're let down. No,

421
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not let down. We are. We are

422
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: a modern post relationship, modern people. You know, I'm not

423
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: let down. I just I guess I could have asked

424
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: her if she's like what she does in her free time.

425
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: We can always have her back again. She's got a

426
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:34,719
Speaker 1: Broadway show coming out. That's right, so very easy, So

427
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: why keep your list? All right? Yeah? Pin in it

428
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Secrets. I've got a call on

429
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 1: the line that's asking, uh, the angel question. Should I

430
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: be flatter or creeped out by this guy? So we'll

431
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: get to that in a second. That's in Los Felis, Johnny,

432
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: you asked me to I'm wearing a button down shirt

433
00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: that I got for Christmas, but to slim fit. But

434
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: where it's slim in the center where my stomach is

435
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: on the sides, it doesn't fit right. It's pushing out

436
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: a little bit. So it's a little uncomfortable. You know

437
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: when you you know, when you go to the store

438
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: and you buy something because you think you're going to

439
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: fit in it or it's gonna be your goal fit. Hate.

440
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: I hate gold fit outfits. And I have a whole like,

441
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: I have a whole little area of jeans that I

442
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 1: take it into right, right, might just keep going to

443
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: the bottom of the pile. I'm not going to wear him, Okay,

444
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: So you'd like to get some of the clothes that

445
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: I wear for your boyfriend? Yes, you guys have a

446
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: similar body. I feel like you have same same body

447
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 1: shape and size. So if it looks good on you,

448
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: it's going to look good on him. Is he there?

449
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: He's not here right now. Now what time is he

450
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: going to be there? I'm probably gonna go because he

451
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: has Sunny at his house, so I'll probably go to

452
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: him when I finished for the day. Sunny the dog,

453
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 1: all right? Well, free to get his response to that

454
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: and let me know if you guys find it. Yeah,

455
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: I mean the photo that you sent me. It's kind

456
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: of hard to read the tag, but I'm gonna gonna

457
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: figure it out. Well, I'll take my shirt off later

458
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: and I'll get a smile and the Yeah. I'm like,

459
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: I don't need any of your phase. I just need

460
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: to Thanks for that. Guys, Guys, we digress, Okay. We

461
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: give things to do that are important. Monica is on

462
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: the line. She needs something here from us. Monica. Good morning,

463
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 1: how are you and how are you? I'm doing well?

464
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, Monica. So tell me what is this is? All?

465
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: I know? It says here, I have a little screen

466
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: that says, you don't know if you should be flattered

467
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: or creeped out by this guy? What happened, all right,

468
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: So you know, I'm on the apps and I was

469
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: on one talking to this guy and it was all

470
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: like normal, fine, whatever, And then a few days later

471
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 1: I got a d M request on Instagram from this

472
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 1: guy being like, oh I was blocked, but thank god

473
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 1: I had the Internet to like find you so we

474
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: can continue our conversation. And I don't know if I

475
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 1: can accept it or like, it's kind of it's not

476
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: like you can find me, Like it's not like personal

477
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: infos on the app, you know, So I gotta go

478
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: to my dating app expert, Tanya. What do you do?

479
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: It's creepy to me, I'd say no, thank you, so

480
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: just like, don't respond, delete the message, thank you next. Yeah.

481
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: I don't know you know pro any of this, but

482
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you how I look at things.

483
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: If we have to ask if it's creepy or blank,

484
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: then it's creepy, creepy blank. There's no blank that takes

485
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: creepy out right. So if it's already creepy or blank,

486
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: to me, it's creepy full stop. Okay. I'm gonna use

487
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: that motto for the rest of my dating life and

488
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: life forever, because that's that's a good point for sure.

489
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: It's so clear and it takes less time to debate

490
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 1: internally what to do. If it's if it could be creepy,

491
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: then it's creepy. Right, that's good, Okay, great, And you

492
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: know what, if he happens to be my soul meat,

493
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: maybe I'll run into him my whole food or something. Yeah,

494
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: it fees your soul mate, then something else will transpire.

495
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: But if creepy entered your mind, then it is all right,

496
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: good luck, great, thank you so much. All right, don't

497
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: you agree tough? I only know why she said soul mate.

498
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: I was on the creepy side, but then when she

499
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 1: said soul mate, I was like, this guy really went

500
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: the effort to track her down again, Like is it

501
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: kind of romantic? I don't want to gender stuff here,

502
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: but I find guys are definitely creepier than you know

503
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: what I mean. I don't mean, I don't I'm not

504
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 1: trying to say every guy, but I find like if

505
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: I were to do a survey of creeps, there might

506
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: be more creepiness on the guy side than the women's side. Yeah,

507
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: but girls are better at hiding it because we could

508
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: be creepy, but you just won't see it, like will

509
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 1: be like kind of psycho and like could you know

510
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: all that stuff you get caught. The only thing that

511
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: like takes me it doesn't like creep but it I

512
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: am a little stalled by it is if somebody you

513
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: meet looks at you and they don't blink ever, like

514
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: that freaks me out. I don't know what to do.

515
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: I feel uncomfortable when they just stare at you. Yes,

516
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: then I don't think they realize they're staring, but they're

517
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: not blinking. And sometimes people do that as an expression

518
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: of love, not love. It's like I just can't take

519
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: my eyes off you. That's the long pause. But it's

520
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: the long like, it's the dead air. It's the dead

521
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: air of no blank that stalls me a little bit.

522
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: Just personal okay on air with Ryan Seacrest. By the way,

523
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: let's not let's get to this. You sent me a

524
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: note about this rare zodiac sign, Tanya. I want to

525
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: get to that in a little bit. You remember sending that.

526
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: Did that not come from you? Definitely not? Wait is

527
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: your number? My name and your phone is t rad

528
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: hold on t Rad. Yeah, you sent this to me.

529
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: You're on this chain? Do you not remember sending it?

530
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: What do you send you this? So your phone number

531
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 1: is five six two right? Correct? And then some other digits. Yeah, okay,

532
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: well we'll get to it in a minute. Veronica is

533
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: on the line. Veronica, good morning. How are you, Hi, Ryan?

534
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: I'm doing well. How are you? I am doing well?

535
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: Thank you for asking? So your cousin started calling? What

536
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: calling in the one? What does that mean? Yeah? So, okay, Tanya,

537
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,959
Speaker 1: this is for you because I remember you saying that

538
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: you started something called calling in the One. I'm out

539
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: of the dating game. I'm married, you know, ten years,

540
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: I got a kid. So I really didn't have a

541
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: lot of advice for her when she asked me to

542
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: be like her accountability person for calling in the One.

543
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: But I need her. I need my cousin Katie to

544
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: find her red star, and I would love any insight

545
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: that you might have or you know, how can I

546
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: help her be accountable in this process? I know it's

547
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 1: you know, can be kind of emotional. So what can

548
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 1: I do? How can I help her wait for some

549
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: of us? Yes? Um? She basically she started this book.

550
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: It's called Calling in the One. I've told you guys,

551
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: about this book. It's a seven week you have seven

552
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: weeks to call in the one and every day you

553
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: have kind of homework. And I did this book and

554
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: literally right when I finished reading it and doing all

555
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: the stuff, I met my now boyfriend Robbie. Yes, okay,

556
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: let me tell you how you can help keep her

557
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: accountable because you do have to read it and do

558
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: the work everything of the accountability buddy. I mean, here's

559
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: the thing. It is, there are days where you kind

560
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: of don't want to sit down for twenty minutes and

561
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: read a thing and do a thing, but it's all

562
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: for the greater good. So just kind of keep checking in.

563
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: How's it going? Can I help you with anything? What

564
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: did you discover today? What did you learn? Because sometimes

565
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna learn things and have breakthrough moments and she's

566
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: gonna want to talk to you about and be like,

567
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, this is the pattern I learned in

568
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: my dating life and this is the pattern I want

569
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: to break, and she's going to be excited. So I

570
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: would just kind of check in with her every couple

571
00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: of days and just ask her, like, what she's learning totally? Yeah,

572
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I love that. Okay, I'm sorry. Sorry,

573
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: I would say no, I cannot be your accountability buddy

574
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 1: because listen, I don't mean to be cynical, and I

575
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 1: know it worked for U, Tania. But is it love

576
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: not supposed to be from a workshop? Is it romance

577
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: supposed to happen organically out of the universe and life

578
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: and not a textbook? No, you're missing the point. It's

579
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: not about a book. That's it's like, it's about creating

580
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,439
Speaker 1: and making yourself the best version of yourself too, then

581
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 1: open yourself up to it, to getting that love that

582
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: you deserve. I think I'm much better at missing the point.

583
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: I think I've settled in that space all my life,

584
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: so I'm going to continue missing the point. I'm telling

585
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 1: you it's so good. It's such a great workbook. I

586
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: discovered so much about myself, and I'm really safe for

587
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: your cousin. You're someone's become the relationship expert. Right, you

588
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 1: remember two years ago pre covid who was here at

589
00:34:56,360 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: that same microphone and now a literal professional. Well, Veronica,

590
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: keep us post and let us know how your accountability

591
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: buddy ism is going. I will let's find her husband, y'all? Alright? Yeah, friend,

592
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: I have to have to take a second. We don't

593
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: have to find someone. You don't exist to have to

594
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: have a husband. You don't exist to have to have

595
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: a wife. I agree with you, nobody has to do it.

596
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 1: But if it's a desire of your heart and that's

597
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: something that you want, you shouldn't be ashamed to say

598
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: that you want it and go for it, just as

599
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: much as you're going for your dream job. Again, I

600
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: don't recognize you, Erica, So this is interesting. Your only

601
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: hing tony, which one is the friends? Where you could

602
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: meet friends? Bum bumbo bff. Honestly, when you texted me

603
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 1: that the other day, I was like, is Ryan trying

604
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: to make some new friends because I can set you

605
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: up on some friend dates. No, I don't want any

606
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: of that. I was just curious, and by the way,

607
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: you took forever to respond. Avenue puppy. Okay, So back

608
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 1: to Erica. She is in southern California and she is

609
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: out there looking for love. Let me tell you it

610
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 1: is a tough sport. It's not going well. Well. Don't

611
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: have an answer to her question. I don't even say

612
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 1: things like that. You put the badness into the universe.

613
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 1: So what you met a guy in Hinge and now

614
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 1: he's asked you before you've gone out if you're we

615
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: haven't gone out yet, but like you know, we had

616
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: some banter back and forth. It was great. And then

617
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: he said, look, if this works out, are you open

618
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: to being in a long distance relationship? And I was like, well,

619
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: where do you live? Because its profile just said Los

620
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: Angeles turns out into Venice and that's pretty far from

621
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: Millis Vilas. It depends on the time of day. You

622
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: could do the middle of the night and roll in there,

623
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: but even then it's like thirty minutes. I mean, it's

624
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 1: not an easy one because you're inland and tucked away

625
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: and he's speech and if you if you want to

626
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,959
Speaker 1: want it, you got to swing all the way out right.

627
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: That's exactly right. Yeah, there there are benefits to beach boyfriends.

628
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 1: That's totally true. And I did date someone in Culver

629
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: City for a long time that come you thought, pretty gnarly,

630
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: but it wasn't the benefit of the beach. So maybe

631
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: this is better. I don't know. I've been in Venice

632
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: places before, right, and I've been in coffee shops and restaurants,

633
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,399
Speaker 1: and I see some of the guys that lived there

634
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: and think, oh, those look like cool, chill, relaxed kind

635
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 1: of boyfriends. Yeah, okay, but like you know, you know,

636
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: the vibe, like the celebrity vibe I get in Venice

637
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: is like Milo vent Amilia. Wait, hold on, what does

638
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: that mean for Erica? Well, like that's like the vibe

639
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,240
Speaker 1: of the guy you're probably gonna date, like just like chill, cool,

640
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 1: short shorts, longer hair. They might be way too chill

641
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: for me then, but maybe it's a good ying and

642
00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: yang maybe. Yeah. No, I am torn on this because

643
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: I have been in situations where a drive was required

644
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: and it was about that distance. Okay, it makes it

645
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:18,399
Speaker 1: crick Yeah, look, I mean this was like, it makes

646
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: it tricky if you can't spend the night. I just

647
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: gonna if you can't sleep over, and then it's tricky

648
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: once you get to It's like if you get fast

649
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: forward to go, I like you I can stay over

650
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: because you're like, I can't have too many drinks because

651
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 1: I've got to drive home eventually. And then you know,

652
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: dating is weird when you weren't drinking at all. Um,

653
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: So I guess what is your guys? This advice for

654
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: me dating is weird when you're not drinking at all.

655
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: One of great statements in America, right there, one of

656
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: the great statements. And she's right now, Erica. I think

657
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: if you want my advice, I would say, don't put

658
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 1: up a wall. Don't let geography become a barrier. If

659
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 1: the guy's cool or not, you're gonna net that out fast.

660
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: And if he's cool, it might be fun until it's not.

661
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: And when it's not, you either overcome the geography you

662
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: won't see him. Okay, go with the floor, that's what

663
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: you're compelling me. Well, just look, we've been in this world, like,

664
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: this dating world is tough. I know. I always say, like,

665
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 1: don't nip it before you give it a try, because

666
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: you might go out with him and hate him and

667
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 1: then you and now that you know. But if you

668
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 1: don't go because he lives in Venice, then you're never

669
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: gonna know. You're talking Los Felis Aventage. You're not talking

670
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: in to Long Beach right as well? Feels just as bad. No,

671
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: I think that might be. It might be, but even

672
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 1: then I should be open to it. Right, You're you're

673
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: not red Lands to downtown, alright, I don't even Yeah, sure,

674
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: good luck and keep us posted. Bumble bff. Hi CR

675
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 1: in Toronto. How are you? I'm good? How are you?

676
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: We're doing fine. So you're in high school and you've

677
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: got a teacher that's given you a hard time. M

678
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: M yeah, we'll tell me more. So. UM, I am

679
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: in grade nine in high school and I am taking

680
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 1: English and my English teacher is always hard on me,

681
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: always picking on me, always saying that I need um

682
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: to help others more and when it's for the others,

683
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: And I asked how, He's always like no, UM, you

684
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 1: can figure out the answers to the questions on your own.

685
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,359
Speaker 1: And I just don't know if I should bring it up.

686
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 1: Why is he doing this to me? And when I

687
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: asked for how, they don't um allow the other kids

688
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: to give me help or parents about it. Yeah, and

689
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: my parents are like, UM, you can bring it up,

690
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: but then they don't bring it up because he's the teacher.

691
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: He's basically there to teach you. But it's always been

692
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: closing me. Yeah, and you really feel like you're getting

693
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: different treatment than the other students. I think everybody should

694
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: be treated fairly, not one's more than others, one's less.

695
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: You know this is not like I mean this. I

696
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: know for fact, one of my math teachers graded me

697
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:29,280
Speaker 1: differently because they didn't like me speaking out. I spoke

698
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 1: out a lot in school and most of the teachers

699
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: let me get away with it. This teacher wasn't having

700
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: it and graded me differently because of it. And I

701
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: knew it, and so I did, Sierra. Now maybe you

702
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 1: do this. What I did was I you I overdramatized,

703
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: but I kept telling my parents that, you know, just

704
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: having some fun class, trying to entertain everybody, and I

705
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,240
Speaker 1: think this teacher doesn't like it so much, and instead

706
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: of really saying anything to me, this teacher just grades

707
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: me harshly. And I would I kept telling him that,

708
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,359
Speaker 1: telling that, so when I got not so good great

709
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: from that teacher, they let it slide. So what could

710
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: you do that? I mean I could. Yeah. It means

711
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: one way on one path or like you, there's only

712
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: three paths in mid One you let it be to

713
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: you set your parents up for it so you don't

714
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: get in trouble. Or three you kind of address it

715
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: best way you can with the teacher. I think three, okay,

716
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: thanks three? You know with that, you know I have

717
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 1: used expressed exactly what you told us. I feel is

718
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 1: what you can tell your teacher. I just feel like

719
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: everyone should be treated fairly, and I feel like I'm

720
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: not being treated fairly. Is there something I'm doing wrong?

721
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: Like put it on them? Like you know, like what

722
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:56,240
Speaker 1: c are we are broadcasting obviously in the US and Canada,

723
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: since you're calling from there, we could just put the

724
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: teacher's name out right now. I mean, don't get that

725
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 1: only because I would get in trouble for You're right,

726
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: and thank you for knocking sense into me. All right,

727
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: we'll see the dress it with your teacher in the

728
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: most honest, genuine way, exactly like you did to us.

729
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: And good luck. Okay, thank you. She's thanking guys on

730
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: your three children and Ryan, you're doing than you. Yeah,

731
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: that's the story of my life. Congrats on your evolution,

732
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: your maturity, your family, your kids, your marriage, and Ryan

733
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: hanging there best. You're doing amazing, best efforts bro On

734
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: Air with Ryan Seacrest. Michelle is on the line. I

735
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: think she's asking, you know, I have the screen where

736
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: I can see what the calls are. She's asking, do

737
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: we have any tips on getting over and almost relationship?

738
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 1: I need to know what an almost relationship is. So

739
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 1: let me grab Michelle. Michelle, good morning, how you doing good?

740
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: How are you good? So we're here to weigh in

741
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:15,839
Speaker 1: on this. But what is an almost relationship? Well, to me,

742
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: I think an almost relationship is like you're talking, things

743
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 1: are on, like you know, thinks they're going well, and

744
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: then you're like, okay, great, we're gonna do this, and

745
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: then life happened, you know, like I don't know how,

746
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 1: maybe that doesn't makes sense. It's like, oh, we're we're

747
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 1: gonna do this, but then something kind of comes in

748
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: the way of that, and it's like, oh, it just

749
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: didn't work out. That's kind of my interpretation of it.

750
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: And you just lived through this. Um yes, actually, well

751
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 1: are you heartbroken? I think so? Because well I think so.

752
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: I think I would. Heartbreak is such a big word.

753
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 1: But I'm definitely disappointed because I'm like, this had this

754
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: the potential to be something so good and why was

755
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: it derailed? Michelle? What happened? Um? Well, distance happened and

756
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: then stressed of I would say, like life, and so

757
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 1: he feels like he can't give me like his full

758
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: attention right now. And so that's why He's like, I

759
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 1: just don't think this is gonna work, especially adding on

760
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 1: the distance, and he was like, I just am not

761
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 1: focused and I don't think you deserve that. So, Michelle,

762
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: the only way to look at this is to say

763
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 1: to one's self, the stars didn't aligne for some reason,

764
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: and forcing it maybe a mistake. You know, they say

765
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: that things that happened in your life in the moment

766
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: may not seem like this, but in the long run,

767
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: do happen for your greatest benefit. So there's a great

768
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 1: benefit to this not happening. We just don't know what

769
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: it is yet. Benefit could be many, many things. Well,

770
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 1: I think what we know is that when you force something,

771
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: eventually it cracks. Right, When you push something too hard,

772
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: eventually it breaks. So the only way to peacefully of

773
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: mind work through it, from my point of view, is

774
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: to say, the stars didn't align. Things added up, He's

775
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: in a different headspace, there's distance for some reason. This

776
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: is my It's happening for my greatest benefit. M Yeah,

777
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: that's good. Now I can't do that myself, but I

778
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: certainly have read about it, and hopefully you can do that. Yeah. No,

779
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 1: I agree, I definitely agree with that. I that's kind

780
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: of like the headspace I've been taking of, like something

781
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: you know along the line had to prevent this, and

782
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: maybe it was better that was sooner than later. You know,

783
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: we're more feelings are invested and things like that where

784
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,879
Speaker 1: it's like I don't kind of what you're saying, like

785
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: I don't know what um like I'm being protected from,

786
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: but it's sometimes happening. That's right, that's right. So Michelle,

787
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 1: we will leave you with that, and good luck to you. Okay,

788
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Guys, you take care, bye bye,

789
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: good luck, good bye. It's easier said than done, I know,

790
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: but it's true. You can't force it. Scony has brought

791
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: up when it comes to fail dates, did you get

792
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: I like the ick or was it your own intuition?

793
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: So what exactly is the ick? So it's all over

794
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: TikTok again a little refresher. It's you're on the first

795
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: day and you can probably relate the precise moment that

796
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: your date goes from desirable to repulsive, Like it could

797
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 1: just be the slightest thing that they did, or you

798
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: saw something, or maybe it's their mannerisms, or maybe it

799
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: was the way they spoke to the raider or whatever,

800
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: and that was that it's called the ick. And then

801
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 1: at that moment you cannot shake it. You're done, like

802
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: there's no coming back from it, that there's nothing that

803
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 1: they can do to convince you. You're just I think

804
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: maybe there have been situations where little like lower case X,

805
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: like a dribble, like drops from the sink, you know,

806
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: like the fawcet dripping X. And then at the end

807
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: you're like, all of these drips from the sink don't

808
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: seem like a good idea. I just didn't wasn't weren't

809
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: feeling why right? Like, well, I bring this up because

810
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: it's all over TikTok again and they're using will I

811
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:39,919
Speaker 1: AM's song Bang Bang. Do you remember this song? Yes?

812
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: Always Needla? And why they're using that song, I have

813
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: no even who knows why the song is gonna be

814
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: used for these TikTok videos. But basically, right when he

815
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: starts singing is when they start listening all people all

816
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 1: of the X that they don't like in men or

817
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: women vice versa. It could be anything like his ear

818
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: web acts, or he makes a joke that no one laughs,

819
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: or his family calls him been ACKed by a voice.

820
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,439
Speaker 1: Have you all ever had that time where you're itcked

821
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: by the way someone speaks. Maybe if I can't understand you,

822
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: then that might be ana not not. It's just like

823
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:26,839
Speaker 1: there are patterns I don't know, like the cadence. Just

824
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: like we used to say tan Asan and we lived together.

825
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: We I think we try to go out with the

826
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 1: same girl, which is like all bad when your roommates.

827
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: And we were both competitive because she was interesting to

828
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: both of us and we were we were competitive like

829
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: a competition. I was accompetition. Yeah, okay, it was like

830
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: like like a written competition. But every time he was

831
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: around her, he try and charmer. When I was around

832
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: I try and charmer. Just to spoil the plot. Neither

833
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: of us ended up dating here, but we mean met

834
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: her and we were one on one with her. It

835
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: took us a while to realize she kind of trails

836
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: off like she would speak, but it would trail it

837
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: didn't really finish, and I know what you're talking about,

838
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Speaker 1: Like I know, yeah, And I was like, can I

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Speaker 1: see a question. I know we're both like fine, but

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Speaker 1: neither are going out with her. But she didn't notice that,

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Speaker 1: like sound just trails off sentenced and with volume, there

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Speaker 1: was no deathable level to the end of a sentence.

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Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. It's like it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be a bran yeah, And I'm like, yeah, so I

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Speaker 1: was gonna you know, my friend, Wait, you're a trailer.

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Speaker 1: That's a trailer's that's trailer's talk like like well, it

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Speaker 1: was both of us realizing eureka. But it's like the

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Speaker 1: sentence trails h coming up, coming up today, it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be yeah, and you're like, what, Oh my gosh, you

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Speaker 1: have a walk a fallow heard he here the end

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Speaker 1: of the sentence. This one guy that I went on

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Speaker 1: a date with, um he actually I wouldn't I want

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Speaker 1: to date with him, but like we were friends and

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Speaker 1: like there was a potential nous like we could maybe

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Speaker 1: start dating. But he one day we wore shorts and

856
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Speaker 1: I saw his legs and that was it for me.

857
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Speaker 1: That was the what did you see in his legs?

858
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:26,240
Speaker 1: His legs reminded me of my brother's legs. Okay, that

859
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Speaker 1: that was the egg. It could just be the craziest

860
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Speaker 1: things that just like I had the egg by a

861
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: guy data that had an Instagram account for his dog.

862
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: And now I'm that person and now like, wow, how

863
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: times have changed, so I don't recognize who's in that

864
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Speaker 1: zoom box. Sometimes, you know, people grow, people change, you change.

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Speaker 1: We all change our minds. We learned. We now have

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Speaker 1: the dogs. M hyeah. So we have Drew with us

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Speaker 1: here from TikTok, almost four million followers on TikTok, twenty

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Speaker 1: six years old and doing it getting it done. There

869
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 1: are so many seven year olds that are just getting

870
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: it done and doing great things, and she's one of them.

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Speaker 1: It's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you too.

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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, Drew. You're out of l A. Where in

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Speaker 1: l are you from? M I'm in. I don't really

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Speaker 1: know because I've just moved here, so not from from

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Speaker 1: their legits on fake I'm gonna fake Los Angeles. No, no no,

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Speaker 1: we all well, I mean that's I moved here from

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Speaker 1: Atlanta many many years ago. Sissony is counting from here,

878
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Speaker 1: and Tanya is from here. So really yeah, you and

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Speaker 1: I are the only ones that aren't anyway. Uh, welcome.

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00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: I want to explain what you're doing so that we

881
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 1: can get a little more insight. But you're known on

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00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: TikTok as a crusader of women. How would you describe

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00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: what you do and what you're doing. Um, well, I

884
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: guess a lot of people call me the Boogeyman of

885
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: TikTok so, like Bobby Yaga, like a John Wick reference.

886
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: So essentially I seek out really misogynistic and bigoted content

887
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: and kind of just like flip it on its head.

888
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 1: So I'm really just someone who sticks out for a

889
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: lot of marginalized groups, women included. But it's like black women,

890
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 1: black trans women, you know, non binary people, gay people,

891
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: so just everyone that is constantly made fun of for

892
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 1: no reason. I kind of make fun of them. So

893
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,320
Speaker 1: but give me an example of something that you saw

894
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: that really got under your skin and really caused reaction

895
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 1: from you. Um. I would say one of my very

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Speaker 1: first videos that ever took off, like ever was Jim

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Speaker 1: bro video. The Jim Brows are not a fan of

898
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:58,919
Speaker 1: me on that. But it's not people who work out.

899
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: It's just men who are almost in a choke hold

900
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 1: by this male gaze, so they feel the need to

901
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 1: constantly work out and try to overcompensate for things, and

902
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 1: they were making fun of fat women. Um So something

903
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:16,320
Speaker 1: like that really irks me, really gets under my skin.

904
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: Just because like everyone's living a different experience in life,

905
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 1: so it's really not your place to tell someone that

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00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 1: they're not they don't belong in certain spaces, like you're

907
00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 1: not allowed to be here, not allowed to be happy

908
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 1: because I don't like what which you look like, which

909
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 1: is just bizarre to me because I don't care about

910
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: anyone but myself and like people who affect me and

911
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:39,360
Speaker 1: people I love. So that was probably one of the

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Speaker 1: very first videos I ever made that really took off

913
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: because I just kind of let this one Jim bro

914
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Speaker 1: have it. What did you say to that, Jim bro Um,

915
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: I essentially, in a nutshell, I'm also very vulgar, so

916
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Speaker 1: I'll have to give you the cliff notes, but I

917
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: essentially said that, um, you know, drinking pre workout and

918
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Speaker 1: eating a lot of boiled chicken is not a person

919
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:05,839
Speaker 1: reality trade that many women are looking for. So that's like,

920
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: in a nutshell, what I feel like. I feel it was.

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Speaker 1: It was a lot more colorful than that, right there

922
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Speaker 1: was more sure, a little bit a little bit more colorful. Yeah,

923
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Speaker 1: is it? Is it real? Prevalent? Are there a lot

924
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 1: of things like this happening? Do you see a lot

925
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:27,439
Speaker 1: of it? Yes? Constantly. I described it to someone else

926
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Speaker 1: the other day as like a boat with a hole

927
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 1: in it, and no matter how much water I shovel out,

928
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: more just keeps coming in, Like I just can't ever

929
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: seem to get to shovel enough of it out. So

930
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Speaker 1: I'll never be out of a job, that's for sure.

931
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 1: Why I wonder is this indicative? For example, look at

932
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 1: how people are treating people in airplanes, right, I mean,

933
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: where where has the civility gone? Where has where has

934
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 1: uh you know, not being in someone's space gone? And

935
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 1: do you think that that those physical altercations in exchanges

936
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Speaker 1: are derivative of how people are talking on social media? Yeah?

937
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 1: I always describe it as um some of these jokes

938
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Speaker 1: that misogynists like to make have real life implications. So

939
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: it's not it's not necessarily a joke. When people are

940
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 1: actually discriminated against, some people are actually oppressed. It's not

941
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: really a joke because it's a joke to you because

942
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: it doesn't affect you. But it's not a joke to

943
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: other people, Marge, people who live in marginalized groups, people

944
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 1: who live in those shoes every single day, it's not

945
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 1: a joke to them. So that's why those jokes aren't

946
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 1: funny to me, because if I truly think, like, if

947
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: you have to be a bigot to be funny, then

948
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: you're not funny, you know, you're if you're incapable of

949
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: being funny. Yeah, I mean that that. That couldn't be

950
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: more true. Has anyone apologized after you've hit them back?

951
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 1: Good question? Um, No, I wouldn't say an apology. It

952
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 1: was it's more so of a backtrack. So a lot

953
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: of times they either delete the video, just pretend it

954
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 1: never happened, um, delete their whole account privated, um. Or

955
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: they'll put out videos where they attack me and call

956
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: me a bunch of names and call me ugly and

957
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 1: fat that it's it's almost, you know, when one says terrible, horrible,

958
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:34,040
Speaker 1: hurtful things about someone else to someone else, it's only

959
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: coming from their lack of security themselves. There lack exactly,

960
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:41,920
Speaker 1: their lack of happiness themselves, and you almost feel sorry

961
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 1: for him. Yeah, absolutely, it's it's that's why every time

962
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: I make jokes, it's they're silly and lighthearted compared to

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00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: what they said. A lot of times, like the things

964
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: they say are truly vile um. And then the things

965
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: they say about me are also vilent, but like I

966
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: compare someone to a cartoon rat, and so how I'm

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00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 1: the worst. I mean, the fact that people take their

968
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 1: time and their energy to put that kind of vile

969
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: stuff out there just tells you what you're dealing with it. Yeah, well,

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00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:18,479
Speaker 1: and we love it. We love what you're doing, Drew

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00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: I Fwallow. You can follow her on TikTok to see

972
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: the vulgarness, uh she self described. And thanks for doing that,

973
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: Thanks for all that you're doing, and thanks for coming on.

974
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: It's really great to talk to you and get to

975
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: know you. Yeah, of course, thank you so much for

976
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: having me. I'm honored you. Take care and welcome to

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Speaker 1: l A. Thank you bye. Really great but true when

978
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 1: you read something that someone says about me, you us

979
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 1: you just think, I mean that effort that they took

980
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 1: to do that. It's like, come on with Ryan Secrets,

981
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: that is going to do it for us tomorrow and

982
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: all new Ryan's roses devint to carry you. So thanks

983
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure

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