1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 2: Y'all know what y'all don't know y'all at all, So 3 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 2: don't given them the bus bussings and boozy Steve boy 4 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 2: Ye listening to to. 5 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 3: I don't joy Joy. 6 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:06,839 Speaker 1: You know you love? 7 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 4: You gotta turn. 8 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 5: I can't. 9 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 6: I got to turn them out. 10 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 2: Turn you probably got to turn mouth, turn out, turn 11 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 2: a wad of the mony. 12 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 7: Yup, come. 13 00:01:58,560 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 6: Come out your back. 14 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 8: Uh huh, I sure will. 15 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 6: Good morning everybody. 16 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 8: You're listening to the voice, come on dig me now, 17 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 8: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man 18 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 8: o man o, man Wow. I think about all the 19 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 8: things God has done for me is overwhelming at times, 20 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 8: and I want everybody to have that feeling and to 21 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 8: sharing that feeling of completion and satisfaction. And the only 22 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 8: reason I got this, and it's the thousandth time I've 23 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 8: said it, is because I formed a relationship with my creator. 24 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: Period. 25 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 8: That's it. That's that's it. I can't tell you as 26 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 8: anything else else. You know, I've always had a strong 27 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 8: work ethic. My father put that in me. My father's 28 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 8: conversation with me growing up was always constantly about work hard, 29 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 8: don't be lazy, be a man, do what you say 30 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 8: you're gonna do. YadA YadA, YadA, YadA YadA. Man, I 31 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 8: was so tired of my father at times. I was going, Man, 32 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 8: what is with this dude? 33 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 6: Right here? 34 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 8: Man, every time we have a conversation, it's got to 35 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 8: be about work. It's got to be about, you know, man, 36 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 8: doing your best, trying hard, you know, working and being honest, 37 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 8: do what you say you're gonna do. But that was 38 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 8: his mission. I can't tell you how much I appreciate 39 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 8: that now. I can't even I can't even put it 40 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 8: into words when I think about my old man and 41 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 8: what he was to me, and I just, man, I'm 42 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 8: so grateful for that balance I had in my life. 43 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 8: And then my father was a fighter. He fought on 44 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 8: the weekends. 45 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 6: You know. 46 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 8: My father used to come home with his with his 47 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 8: clothes toe off of him. He put a fresh shirt 48 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 8: on and he go back. My mom used to talk 49 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 8: about my father fighting all the time, slick, while you 50 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 8: are always fighting. You know a little bit of that 51 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 8: rubbed off on me too. You know that that kind 52 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 8: of got into me. And I didn't understand that either, 53 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 8: But then I'm the same. My mother was a Sunday 54 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 8: school teacher for forty years, so her conversation was never 55 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 8: about fighting or anything. It was all about love and 56 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 8: understanding and doing another that you would add and do 57 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 8: unto you. My mom was a Sunday school teacher, so 58 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 8: I learned about faith. I had to go to Sunday school, 59 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 8: prayer meeting, Bible study, young people meeting, choir rehearsal. You know, 60 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 8: I was a churchman so much I was actually looking 61 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 8: as there's got to be an alternative to this, you know. 62 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,239 Speaker 8: I want you know, I was a little kid even 63 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 8: I was thinking at one point, maybe I ought to 64 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 8: look into Hell because there's got to be something cooler 65 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 8: than this going on every day. It got that crazy 66 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,799 Speaker 8: for me. But the balance between those two people created 67 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:44,160 Speaker 8: who I am today. And I want you to understand 68 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 8: that the things that you are in your past have 69 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 8: helped create who you are today. If you view it 70 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 8: the right way, everything that has happened to you in 71 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 8: your past has happened to you for a reason, and 72 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 8: it's usually for the good if you view it that way. 73 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 8: But if you, on the other hand, or a type 74 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 8: of person who can't move forward because you are allowing 75 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 8: your past to stop you from having your future. Then you, 76 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 8: my friend, are doing a disservice to your life. You 77 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 8: are not honoring God's blessings. You are not taking advantage 78 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 8: of the gain, knowledge, wisdom, and experience of your life. Example, 79 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 8: if you are a woman and you are always talking 80 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 8: about a former relationship, what he did to me. If 81 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 8: he had not did this to me, I wouldn't be 82 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 8: in this place today. I thought I had a man. 83 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 8: Now I ain't got no man ahllah lah lah la 84 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 8: lah if I you know, he came along and I 85 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 8: was doing just swell. He just came in and he 86 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 8: just lied to me. He lied to me, nod. He 87 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 8: did this to me, Then he cheated, then he left. 88 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 8: All of that that you're saying can very well be true. 89 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 8: Have you thought that maybe maybe somewhere in God's infinite wisdom, 90 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 8: that he knew that you had made a mistake in 91 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 8: picking him anyway? Maybe he knew you had made a 92 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 8: mistake in saying yes or I do to him anyway, 93 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 8: or come on, move in? And so what he did 94 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 8: was based on your decision now to say yes, I 95 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 8: do or come on, let's move in together. That was 96 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 8: your decision. You ain't go to him about this one. 97 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 8: You made this decision. Based on that decision, and all 98 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 8: the negative things that started happening, He allowed you to 99 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 8: get away from it. Now how you got away from it, 100 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 8: it's always not the choice of ours. See, you stuck 101 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 8: on the fact that he left, that he walked out. 102 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 8: But let me share this with you. When he was there, 103 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 8: how good was he to you? How good was he 104 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 8: for you? See, you got to stare at you got 105 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 8: to look at the blessing. The blessing is. Now you 106 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 8: are on your own. Now you walk in your house. 107 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 8: Ain't nobody in there with a disruptive spirit. Now you 108 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 8: go home. You could take your clothes off, walk around 109 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 8: like you want to. Now you go home, you can 110 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 8: sit down and look at TV or catch your breath 111 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 8: if you want to. Your kids don't have to see 112 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 8: y'all arguing all the time. Have you looked at the 113 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 8: blessing in it? But now if you gonna keep looking 114 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 8: at the negative, then guess what. Now you can't move 115 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 8: forward because you keep allowing your past to keep you. 116 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 6: From moving forward. 117 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 8: If God has brought you through it, why don't you 118 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 8: move on from it? Look, you got through it. He gone, 119 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 8: He ain't coming back. He got somebody else, So you 120 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 8: gonna sit there and just keep tripping. Becauts he gone 121 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 8: and he got somebody else. Hey, pick yourself up. Thank 122 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 8: God for the blessing. It didn't feel like a blessing. 123 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 8: Why you was going through it, and all the pain 124 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 8: of him leaving and the divorce and all that messed 125 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 8: you up? Got it when you get through it, all 126 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 8: of that. You ain't the first one being left. You 127 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 8: ain't the first one being divorced. You ain't the first 128 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 8: one been in a bad relationship. Pick yourself up, Thank 129 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 8: God for the blessing, and move forward in your life, 130 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 8: because maybe when you quit complaining, maybe you'll find out 131 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 8: that God has something in store for you that he 132 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 8: wants you to have, but he can't give it to 133 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 8: you if you ain't grateful. So God gives you a blessing, 134 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 8: but because you don't see it as a blessing, you 135 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 8: ain't grateful for it. Now, guess what, You steady asking 136 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 8: God to do something for you, but you ain't thanking 137 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 8: him for what he's done for you, but you steady 138 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 8: wanting him to do more. 139 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 6: How does that work? How does that work? Man? That 140 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 6: He should keep on giving you things when you ain't 141 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 6: even working with the stuff he Didne gave you and 142 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 6: I don't know. 143 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 8: And I'm just using that one example that could go 144 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 8: for me and too, vice versa, and so on and 145 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 8: so forth. I'm just using that as an example. Now, 146 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 8: why I laid on that one so long? You have 147 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 8: to take that over God, that's all just sat I 148 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 8: ain't pointing fingers at nobody in nothing, because I've been 149 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 8: guilty on both sides of the coin. Who am I? 150 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 8: But I'm just sharing with you what I had to do. 151 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 8: I had to learn to stop allowing my past to 152 00:09:54,960 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 8: interfere with my future. Moning show, ladies and gentlemen, boys 153 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 8: and girls, I've got sunshine on a cloudy day when 154 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 8: it's called outside. I got the month of May in 155 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 8: Junior's mind. That is a Jodasy song called Freaking You. 156 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 8: It's not, it's called my Girl by the Temptation. Today 157 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 8: is a wonderful day, man. I so appreciate it. God, 158 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 8: Thank you Lord for waking us all up again, for 159 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 8: getting us off our jobs, getting us ready to go 160 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 8: to our jobs, getting us ready to go to school, 161 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 8: to and fro back and forth, all of that. Appreciate you. 162 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 8: It's a Good day, ladies and gentlemen. This is the 163 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi 164 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 8: Monica Junior, the legend that is nephew Tommy Jr. 165 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 6: You look you look real sunny today. Yeah I do. 166 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 9: Man, I just got a question for you. 167 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 6: I do. 168 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 9: I don't even know. 169 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 10: So you know, it's an honor to have your family 170 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 10: come to you to fix problems. 171 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 9: You take pride in fixing your family's problems. 172 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 6: Uh, it is possible. 173 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 8: So then you get on out of my face. What 174 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 8: I be trying to do, Man, I ain't got no 175 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 8: time for this. I got so I told you I 176 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 8: try to head off problem because if you remain let 177 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 8: me explain something to you. If you are one of 178 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 8: the ones in your family or the one who is 179 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 8: doing well and people have access to you, there are 180 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 8: people who are going to abuse the access. That are 181 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 8: people who treat that access wonderfully. There are people who 182 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 8: I know if they call me, something must be seriously wrong. 183 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 6: And then it's some people that called that I know. 184 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 8: Every time something wrong, I'm gonna be the fixed fil 185 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 8: I know exactly who they are. I could tell I 186 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 8: got a certain ring for them and everything. So it's 187 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 8: not it's not that I take pride. I mean it's 188 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 8: my duty sometimes because I used to suffer from guilt, 189 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 8: you know, being a successful person in my family, I 190 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 8: used to suffer from guilt, which I found was the 191 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 8: most useless emotion in the world, guilt because guilt only 192 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 8: serves the person who's applying you. 193 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:21,839 Speaker 6: So I don't suffer from guilt anymore. I am what 194 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 6: I am. I have what I have. 195 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 8: God has given me what he's given me, and he 196 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 8: ain't give it to you because you didn't. You didn't 197 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 8: want it. You didn't want But you can't look over 198 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 8: here and see me with it and think you supposed 199 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 8: to have some to get that off your mind. Hello, right, 200 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 8: then that's unfair. Yeah, that's unfair. So why do you 201 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 8: feel honored? 202 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 10: No, I don't really feel honored about it. I feel 203 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 10: good about it. I'm able to do it for him 204 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 10: because we ain't hand about it in the family. To 205 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 10: do we all had to put money together, you know, 206 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 10: six the priblem Yeah, we got just mind now. 207 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 8: Oh no, let me tell you man, I paid for 208 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 8: most few. I think funerals is the thing that I 209 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 8: paid the most for. Consistent because you know, you know, 210 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 8: you know my family, you know they have life insurance, 211 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 8: but they short, you know, they're old. They paid on 212 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 8: five thousand dollars policy all they life. Then you know 213 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 8: you can't bury nobody for five no more? 214 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,559 Speaker 6: Oh no, not publish. 215 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: You care, but it won't be no public not have 216 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,199 Speaker 1: a repast and all of that. 217 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 6: No, Anna, you're not gonna really see this cask whatever, 218 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 6: you can do it. 219 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 1: All right? 220 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 11: Thanks guys, coming up next to his a nephew and 221 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 11: run that brank back right after this. You're listening hard 222 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 11: morning show. It is time now for the nephew to 223 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 11: run that prank back. 224 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 5: What you got for his neph Sureley, I got side 225 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 5: job cleaner, watch me work. 226 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 6: Idiots got doll if you would. 227 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 12: Robbie wanted to get an order in for some construction 228 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 12: uh supplies I need to pick up. 229 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 13: That's fine. 230 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 7: What's your what's your company? 231 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 12: Uh? The roof and Company company? 232 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 13: Have we have we done this and form? 233 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 12: No? No you haven't. This is my first time called. 234 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 12: I heard you guys were pretty good. 235 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 13: I appreciate the compliment. 236 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 12: Okay, I know listen, Uh, I need to get this 237 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 12: as soon as possible. Man, can I possibly pick up 238 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 12: these supplies like in the next couple of hours. 239 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 13: Uh, well, you know, no, it don't work. That fact 240 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 13: kind of a quick turnaround. We got a little bit 241 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 13: of a backup, but I can I can U My 242 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 13: back depends on what you need. 243 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 12: Okay, here's here's what I need. Man, I need five 244 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 12: rolls of duct tape. 245 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 13: Okay, that's no problem, that's quick. 246 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 12: Okay, I need plastic. Man, listen, if you was gonna 247 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 12: wrap up something in plastic that's like about uh six 248 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 12: foot two in height and two hundred pounds, how much 249 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 12: plast did you think I would need to wrap to 250 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 12: wrap that up? 251 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 13: In this is second? You're you're asking for plastic like 252 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 13: a roller plastic. 253 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm telling I need to wrap up something that's 254 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 12: six foot two and like two hundred and ten pounds. 255 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 13: I probably would get about three. 256 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 12: Yards four yards of possis Okay, okay, I need to 257 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 12: get that. Then let me ask you this here. If 258 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 12: you was gonna try to put some cement on that 259 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 12: to hold it down, how much cement you think and 260 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 12: hold it down? 261 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 13: I'm more confused. You're running a roofing company, right. 262 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm a roofer company. But I'm doing a little 263 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 12: side work for some friends of mine. 264 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 13: Oh okay, okay, I just got a little confused. Can 265 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 13: you tell me this is Talish and Company? No problem, 266 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 13: No problem, got. 267 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 7: Some man waiting. 268 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 13: You're you're trying to hold something more. I'm trying to 269 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 13: Are you. 270 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 12: Trying to hold something down? So? How many bags of 271 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 12: cement do you think I need to hold down something 272 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 12: that's two hundred and twenty pounds? Wow? 273 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 7: I don't know. 274 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 12: Eight bags, eight bags, eight bag. 275 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 13: Eight bags, I would recommend at least. 276 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 12: Okay, okay, give me eight bags of cement. Now, just 277 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 12: something else. I want to ask you. Do you have 278 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 12: anything any type of cleaner man that can get that 279 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 12: can get blood, I mean paint off the floor. 280 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 13: Yeah, we got industrial cleaners some of that content. 281 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 11: Industrial clean said, Well, well. 282 00:15:56,520 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 13: He said, paint the paint or blood the frank Okay, yeah, 283 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 13: I mean I've gotten that's your cleans lot Himes. 284 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 7: You mean, do you have the preference? 285 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 12: No, just whatever you could throw in there. I need that. Now, 286 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 12: let me ask you this here. Do you have anything 287 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 12: that can like just kill a smell? You know what 288 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 12: I'm saying? If you know, if you don't want something 289 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 12: to smell. You got anything for that? 290 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 13: Wait? Mane something something some guy in your place? 291 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 7: Is this place is something? 292 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 12: Something? Did you do there? 293 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 13: An animal or something you found? I mean, I'm kind 294 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 13: of confused. You're talking about smell and clean up? Did 295 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 13: you of animal. 296 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 7: On a construction? 297 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 12: A rabbie? Listen, man, just take the rder. That's all 298 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 12: I need you to do. 299 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 13: Okay, okay, No, I'm sorry. I wasn't asking your business. 300 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 12: I just it was a little concern. 301 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 7: What are we getting? 302 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 12: What are we cleaning up? 303 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 13: And what do we I mean, I guess the are 304 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 13: we cleaning up a tile? 305 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 12: Fold? 306 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 6: To clean up carpet? 307 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 7: I mean, what's the what's the cleaner for? 308 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 13: And what's the where's the odor? 309 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 14: Of? 310 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 7: Sir? 311 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 12: All? I'm asking you? Do you have something strong en? Though? Like? 312 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 12: Do you think ammania can can keep a smell down? 313 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 12: What do I need to keep a smell down? 314 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 13: You're definitely gonna need ammonia. I mean, you gotta get 315 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 13: something to just scrub that right down, because I mean, 316 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 13: wherever that sent is, if it's in your if it's 317 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 13: in the walls. But you got fabriished in that place 318 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 13: singing whatever. 319 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 12: What you got it? 320 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 7: You probably have to have a. 321 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 13: Different type of deodorized or something for the carpet, something 322 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 13: for the walls. I mean, I don't. I guess, I 323 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 13: guess it's kind of confused just to as to where 324 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 13: the things coming from. 325 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 12: And don't worry about all that, man, he man, listen, 326 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 12: just just right down. What the order is? 327 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 7: Okay, I got it you. 328 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 13: I got the five rolls of ductive, I got the 329 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 13: full yard of plastic, I got the hate back of 330 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 13: the cement, I got the industrial clean, I got the pneumonia. 331 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 13: I'm I'm I'm typing it all in. I got I've 332 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 13: got your order. 333 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 12: Okay, let me man, do y'all have any type of machete? Anything? 334 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 12: That's real? Shop? 335 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 13: But what? 336 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 12: Oh? 337 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 13: Okay, hold on second, and now now you're completely off base. 338 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 13: You do realize you call the hardware. 339 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 12: Store, right, I'm calling as talk about I need some supplies. Man, 340 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 12: I'm doing the job on the side. I need some supply. 341 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 13: I get that, you said that already, but I'm confused 342 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 13: about it. Now you're asking for a weapon. What what 343 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 13: what would you do the machete for? I mean, you're 344 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 13: you're talking about, uh what you you're gonna chop down 345 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 13: some some some brush. I don't I don't, I don't 346 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 13: get it. What's in the shaddy for? 347 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 12: Hey? Man, listen, listen, y'all. Job is to take the order. Man, 348 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 12: that's your job. Robbie, don't tell me what my job is. 349 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 13: I know what my job is. This is my stole man, Okay. 350 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 13: I've been working here a lot longer than you even 351 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 13: can imagine, and people don't call up asking for a 352 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 13: moonia and and cleaner and trying to get a smell out. 353 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 13: I mean what I just I'm trying to figure out how. 354 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 12: Best to help you. I'm sorry what I'm doing, Robbie, 355 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 12: is you being nosy? You being no All you gotta 356 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 12: do is feel the order and have it have it 357 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 12: done in two hours when I get there. That's all 358 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 12: you gotta do. 359 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 13: I can't do that in two hours. I can't even 360 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:35,479 Speaker 13: I were backed up with this point. I'm not even 361 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 13: sure I. 362 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 7: Can get this done. 363 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 13: Maybe tomorrow morning, just tomorrow morning, work. 364 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 7: For you, O. 365 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 4: Man. 366 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 12: I got to get rid of this body. I got 367 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:42,959 Speaker 12: to get rid of this guy today. 368 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 13: Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa. I need to call I 369 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 13: need to call the policeman. 370 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 12: You just said body right there. That's about white people 371 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 12: always want to call the police when it ain't got 372 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 12: nothing to do with them. Listen, all you need to 373 00:18:57,960 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 12: do is fill the order. 374 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 13: Okay. I need to tell you something. Okay, And I 375 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 13: don't know if you if you found a body, I 376 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 13: don't know if you're responsible for the body either the way. 377 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 13: I don't want to be any part of this business. 378 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 7: Okay. I don't know why you're planning or where you're. 379 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:13,439 Speaker 13: Trying to bury this thing, but you're basically asking me 380 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 13: to be accomplished to something that's none of my business. Hey, 381 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 13: I need your name right now. 382 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 12: Okay, I I'm not giving you my name. 383 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 7: You said, oh drooping. 384 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 13: Hey, hey, listen to me. You said your call from 385 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 13: triphing company. 386 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 12: Are you I'm not? 387 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 14: I'm not. 388 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 12: Hey, man, let me tell you something. Why your wife 389 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 12: folks always trying to be a bot? Tell you why 390 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 12: you want like white folks? 391 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 13: What's your problem something about white folks talking about purple green, 392 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 13: black blue book. It's not about white. 393 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 7: It's what you asking for. 394 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 13: That sounds like you trying to bury your body. Okay, 395 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 13: that's what I'm trying to think of. Are you and 396 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:44,679 Speaker 13: You're not? 397 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 7: What is your name? 398 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 13: I need your name. I'm your name right now. 399 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 14: Man. 400 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 12: Well, first of all, you at work, you're not you can't. 401 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:51,679 Speaker 12: You don't want to be talking to me like this. 402 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 13: I don't care if I'm swearing at work. My co workers, 403 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 13: the people here, they all know who I am, and 404 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:57,679 Speaker 13: I know if I was talking to someone some people. 405 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 7: You not just talking like this too. 406 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 13: I'm gonna try just call I'm gonna get the cops 407 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 13: on your figure out who the you are. 408 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 12: Don't you want to know who I am? Do you 409 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 12: know Marcus? 410 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 7: Marcus? 411 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 13: He works here? 412 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 12: Okay, Marcus is who got me to call you? This 413 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 12: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Alby Morning Show. Robbie, 414 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 12: you just got prank by your co worker, Marcus. 415 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 7: You have got to be kidding me. 416 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 13: Marcus, Marc, I see you over there, I see you, 417 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 13: son of a Marcus. 418 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 7: Why don't you tell me this? 419 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,360 Speaker 12: Hey, I gotta ask you, Robbie. You gotta tell me this. Man. 420 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 12: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 421 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 12: show in the land. 422 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 13: That's easy, Steve Harvey Morning Show. 423 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. 424 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 11: Coming up next as the clo you're listening Steve Harvey 425 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 11: Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour, 426 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 11: and entertainment news Steve Laurie Harvey. 427 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: I think you know her. 428 00:20:56,720 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 11: Laurie makes her Sports Illustrated debut in her very own 429 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 11: Yevra swimwear line. 430 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: We'll talk about that. 431 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 11: Carla is here with the recap of last night's Grammy 432 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 11: Awards and ponk Satani. Phil did not see his shadow 433 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 11: on Groundhog Day, and in some very sad news, iconic 434 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 11: actor Carl Weathers has died Apollo Cree. That's all coming 435 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 11: up at the top of the hour, but right now 436 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 11: it is time to ask the clo Felicia in Lexington 437 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 11: Colo Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey says. 438 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm five years younger than my boyfriend and. 439 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 11: He talks down to me and calls me baby girl 440 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 11: when his friends are around. I'm twenty three and he 441 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 11: makes me feel like I'm not on his level or 442 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,120 Speaker 11: mature enough. He says, my age is not an issue. 443 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 6: So what is it. I'm not really sure about this. 444 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 8: I think he gets around his friends and he tries 445 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 8: to take on a more domineering persona. You know a 446 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 8: lot of some guys get around the frieze and they 447 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 8: show out. It's real as simple as that. He could 448 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 8: just be showing out a baby girl. Slow down. Come 449 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 8: on now, you know you don't know nothing, but if 450 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 8: a man not but I'm gonna tell you this now. 451 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 8: If a man is talking down to you now, it's 452 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 8: not gonna get better. So you have to you start. 453 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 6: It's time. 454 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 8: It's a good time for you to start evaluating why 455 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 8: you're with him. And if you don't tell him, look, 456 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 8: you're gonna have to stop talking down to me in 457 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 8: front of people. It could continue and it could worsen. 458 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 8: That's the best I got for you. I don't really 459 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 8: know the particulars of how he's talking to you, but 460 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 8: for you to write in you must be feeling some 461 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,199 Speaker 8: kind of way. So if you were my daughter, you know, 462 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 8: I just tell you. You know, you might want to revaluate 463 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 8: this situation right here, because you know this might not 464 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 8: be going over. What's the benefits of the relationship you're 465 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 8: in of all, because right now you're giving me the negatives. 466 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 8: Are there any benefits other than you like him and 467 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 8: you just spend some time with him. I wish people 468 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 8: would stop doing that. Stop looking at the amount of 469 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 8: time you done put into a relationship to determine whether 470 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 8: you're gonna stay in it or not unless you're married 471 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 8: and children are involved. See that adds that that heightens 472 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 8: the equations on it. But if that ain't the case, 473 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:12,399 Speaker 8: then man, miss me baden. And then at some point, 474 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 8: even if you're married with children, if you just living 475 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 8: in a constant state of misery, that's not good either. 476 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 8: So I'm not gonna do that. I don't recommend divorce 477 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 8: to anybody. I do recommend it highly to myself though, 478 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 8: all right. 479 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 11: Moving on to Tatiana in Freeport, Tatiana says, my boyfriend 480 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 11: and I have been together two years and he's my son, 481 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 11: and we just start having sex when my son is home. 482 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 11: He won't respect my wishes and hold it down during sex, 483 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 11: he said, my son will be fine. 484 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: Is he rude or is he right? 485 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 8: No, that's that's really really rude. That's really really rude. 486 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 8: Your son will be fine. No, this dude, he just 487 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 8: want to do it like he'll He has no regard 488 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,199 Speaker 8: for this child. It's certain things a child don't need 489 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 8: to be exposed to, and that's one of them them. 490 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 8: Sounds of his mama coming from the room. You don't 491 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 8: know what's going through that little boy mind. 492 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 6: Man, that's just not healthy at all. Yeah. 493 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,959 Speaker 8: So see, man, No, the dude he needed. No, you 494 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 8: need to put a stop to that. No, we're not 495 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,160 Speaker 8: doing nothing over here. If you can't hold it down 496 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 8: and we can't wait until my son go to sleep 497 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,479 Speaker 8: and all this hell, then we not. It ain't happening 498 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 8: over here. No, No, he'll be fine. See that's that 499 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 8: dude right there. He's thinking only about himself. You have 500 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 8: to consider the well being of the child first. I 501 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 8: mean you his mother. Come on, dude, right here, he 502 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 8: just want what he wants. I like, Holly, Well, the 503 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 8: baby's in the room. 504 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 6: Come to deal with it. 505 00:24:55,560 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 1: The boy, the baby, the boy and the boy. 506 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 6: All right. 507 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 11: Moving on to Weston and Newark, Western writes, one of 508 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 11: my friends is marrying my ex girl, and they kept 509 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 11: the relationship quiet. I don't talk to him all the time, 510 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 11: but I think he should have told me. Did he 511 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 11: owe me that courtesy or not? 512 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 5: No? 513 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 8: Man, br they finna getting married? Bru Do you know 514 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:26,159 Speaker 8: how far up the road this thing and went? Nowt Nah, bruh, 515 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 8: stay out of it. Let it go. He your friend, 516 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,880 Speaker 8: he marrying your ex. They kept it a secret because 517 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 8: they didn't want nobody to knew. They didn't want nobody 518 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,680 Speaker 8: to know. He thought it was a little messy, and 519 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 8: she thought it was a little messy. So you know 520 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 8: how it is. You know you was your ex and 521 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 8: then he was looking at her the whole time and 522 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 8: she was looking at him the whole time. And they 523 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 8: decided when they started seeing each other to keep it 524 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 8: undercovers because they knew it would create this. 525 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,919 Speaker 6: Well, now they getting married. 526 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 8: He don't owe you nothing, dog, Now I want you 527 00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,640 Speaker 8: to understand something that ain't a friend and you thought 528 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 8: he would. 529 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 6: Hell, yeah, he got a location. 530 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:09,159 Speaker 11: Okay, so even if he didn't owe him that, Steve, 531 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 11: couldn't he have just picked or is this not what 532 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 11: men do? Pick up the phone and say, hey man, 533 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 11: you know so you won't hear it from anyone else. 534 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 1: I want to tell you. 535 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 8: Yeah, but see, yeah, i'd have did that. But if we, 536 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:29,120 Speaker 8: if were real boys, thought place that's kind of yeah, 537 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 8: that's kind of sideways. If I'm talking about my real boys. Now, 538 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 8: if I just know what, dude, that ain't nothing. Yeah, 539 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:36,879 Speaker 8: that ain't nothing. 540 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 15: That one of my friends. 541 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 8: But if we friends, though, we ride or die I'm not. 542 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 8: We're not doing the second game, not with your girl, 543 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 8: because there's too many women out here. 544 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not gonna do that. So now you understand that. 545 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 8: That friend that you thought you had, y'all ain't at 546 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 8: the level you thought you were. 547 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 6: That's what at this point. 548 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 8: Oh lord, if you had her on that waiting yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 549 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: Go to the wedding. 550 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 9: Yeah, turn the cake o. 551 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: You got? Did anyone object to this wedding? 552 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 7: I do? 553 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 8: Yeah, you're fine, but this ain't nothing for you to lose. 554 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 8: No sleep about they they made they getting married, man, 555 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 8: they way up the road. Just just just chalk that 556 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 8: one of them and say, okay, so I thought we 557 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 8: were cooler than we really were, and just chalk that up. 558 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,360 Speaker 8: So you lost her and him, it ain't no problem. 559 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,880 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, all right? 560 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:40,159 Speaker 11: Last one Fawn and Charlotte says, my birthday was on 561 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 11: January fifteenth, and I didn't get anything for my birthday. 562 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 11: My husband said, I'm over forty now and birthdays are 563 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 11: no big deal. He's turning forty this year. Should I 564 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 11: tell him that birthdays are no big deal? Should I 565 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 11: be evil like him? 566 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 6: Well? 567 00:27:55,480 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 8: I mean, if you do it, that's you he said, 568 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 8: at the rules. You know, so if you do it, 569 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:07,719 Speaker 8: he set the rules. But that's dumb fellas women's birthdays 570 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,959 Speaker 8: the woman you in a relationship with, it's important days anyway. 571 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 8: Valentine's Day is important, Christmas is important, the anniversary is important, 572 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 8: and birthdays are important them folk gifts a year now 573 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 8: that ain't gotta be huge gifts. 574 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 6: But you gotta do something. Valentine's Day. You can't let 575 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 6: that go by because that's a national day to recognize your. 576 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 8: Sweetheart, her birthday, that is her day. You've got to 577 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 8: get her something. You've got to go h uh. And 578 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 8: then then it's Christmas, and then it's anniversary. Now if 579 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 8: she's a mother, Lord have mercy, that's another one. 580 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 6: That's another. It's five times. 581 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 5: Now. 582 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you something. Men don't get nothing for 583 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 6: the anniversary. 584 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 8: Me and don't get nothing for Valentine's Day, and me 585 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 8: and don't and Father's Day. I strowly started making a movement. 586 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 8: We need to counsel follows. 587 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Thank you, fellow. 588 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this. 589 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 11: You're listening Hard Morning show, all. 590 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 12: Right, So Carlor. 591 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 11: The Grammys aired last night. Philisina, What happened whot Down the. 592 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 16: Sixty six Annual Grammy Awards last night, hosted by Trevor Noah. 593 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 1: Trevor did his thing. He did a great job. 594 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 6: Yes he always does. 595 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, La, it went down, star studying. Mariah Carey 596 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 16: kicks things off. She was the first presenter. She looked 597 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 16: fantastic at me, she was beautiful. Tracy Chapman performed her 598 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 16: iconic song fast Car loved her with Luke Colmbe's Sizza 599 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 16: Straight Fire. She killed and performed her song Killed Bill 600 00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 16: and Snooze Tasha. 601 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: We were in the house Holland yelling for her. 602 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 16: It was emotional when she won her speech, Best R 603 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 16: and B Song. 604 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: Stevie wonder you saw him? 605 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 16: Surely he did the Tony Bennett tribute. Taylor Swift won 606 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 16: her third Yes, yes, he passed away. You know how 607 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 16: the Grammys, dude? Yeah, Yes, Stevie did his thing. Taylor 608 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 16: Swift won her thirteenth and Grammy for her album Midnights, 609 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 16: and she promoted she has a new album dropping in April. 610 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: So there you go. 611 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 6: How you do it? 612 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all. 613 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 16: Lenny Kravitz, he introduced John Baptiste and nesby Jimmy jam 614 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 16: Terry Lewis for the Late Great Black Godfather Tribute to 615 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 16: Clarence Avant. See that was a nice tribute. Nice tribute. Oprah. 616 00:30:53,920 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 16: Oprah Winfrey was in the building. She introduced Fantagia Lord YESLRD. 617 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: Yes proud married. 618 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 16: Fantasia performed the Tina Turner tribute. She set the stage 619 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 16: on fire. We gotta give it up to the sage. 620 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 6: Room and watched that by myself. 621 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 1: It's out of fast, baby thick fast was on the 622 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 1: informance of the night. Yes, Yes, I love Tasia. 623 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 16: Let's see the best new artist Victoria Monete. 624 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: I told you how she was gonna win. Put that 625 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: on my mama. Yeah, ye yep, I love it, love it. 626 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 16: She won yup, Houston's own Junior Travis Scott from the 627 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 16: Seri City, Texas. He performed, and uh, let's see the 628 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 16: speech of the night jay Z with all the shade 629 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 16: on stage. But you know what, jay Z, he just 630 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 16: kept in one hundred about his wife. 631 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 1: That's what it was really about. 632 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 16: He took a moment, he won the Doctor Drake Global 633 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 16: Impact Award and on stage he. 634 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 1: Just kept in one hundred. 635 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 16: His daughter joined them on stage Blue Ivory, and he 636 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 16: did not come to play during. 637 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: His speech, and JA, you just basically talked about I 638 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 1: think last year. 639 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 16: I don't know if you guys remember last year during 640 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 16: the Grammys renaissance, Beyonce's album, you know, she won all 641 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 16: of these Grammys and Album of the Year. 642 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: Last year she did not win. 643 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 16: And I remember watching the Grammys last year and I 644 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 16: looked at the TV, like, what the Harry Styles. Harry 645 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 16: Styles won Album of the Year last year. Harry Styles. 646 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 16: And I like Harry Styles. 647 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 1: I love him. 648 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 8: I don't even know who he is, but let me 649 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 8: just say this for him. This when you need Kanye, 650 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 8: come on back there, ninety and you need Kanye, come 651 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 8: on up in there and keeps well. 652 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 16: And we all remember when Kanye got mad when Taylor 653 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 16: won and he felt Kanye felt that Beyonce should have won, 654 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 16: and he went up there and said, what was the best. 655 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 6: Thing ever happened to Taylor Swift? 656 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 16: But that was Taylor's moment. Jay Z took his moment, 657 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 16: his own moment to speak about his wife. So that 658 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 16: was what Jay did last night. And he talked about 659 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 16: keep showing up until they give you. 660 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: What you deserve. That was basically what he was saying. 661 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 16: He talked about boycott's in the past from the Grammys. 662 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 16: Remember when Will Smith and Jazz Jeff did it. They 663 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 16: boycott and then they went home and watched the Grammars, 664 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 16: but theocott by not going. He mentioned that, and then 665 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 16: when DMX didn't get nominated or didn't win, and he 666 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 16: talked about when he did the same thing. He said, 667 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 16: I didn't go, but I went and watched it too. Well, yeah, 668 00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 16: so there was some yeah, some kind of boycott. So 669 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 16: there were some things, but that was his point. That 670 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 16: was Jay's point about the Grammys. You gotta keep you 671 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 16: gotta get it right, get it right, show up. 672 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: And get it right. So that was Jay's message. 673 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:18,719 Speaker 16: How you feel about that, Steve, Well, you know, yeah, yeah. 674 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 8: I'm a I'm all I'm good with if you speaking 675 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 8: the truth. What he said was factual. Ye, I'm not 676 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,800 Speaker 8: good when people up there speaking their opinions as truth 677 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 8: and they really are live. So I support that one 678 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 8: hundred percent. Anybody standing up for their girl, I'm with 679 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 8: that too, you know, I'm just a proponent of that. 680 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 8: So I like, you know, yeah, yeah, he said, when 681 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 8: I'm nervous, I tell. 682 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 1: The truth truth. 683 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:44,799 Speaker 6: You know. 684 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, you know that right there. You can't get 685 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 8: mad at the brother for that. I think he's done 686 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 8: so much. I think a cat like jay Z, who 687 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:59,160 Speaker 8: has done so much, he's earned the right to speak up. 688 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 8: I mean, and he he has a voice that's worth 689 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 8: listening to. We have to be careful in our culture 690 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,839 Speaker 8: who we give a voice to. Everybody that speaks up, 691 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 8: don't need to say nothing. Some people need to be quiet. 692 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 8: Stop listening to liars. Jay Z is not known to 693 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 8: be a liar. 694 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 6: He's just not. 695 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 8: He's a hard worker, he's accomplished, he's he's he's sheer greatness. 696 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:22,239 Speaker 1: He's good. 697 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 6: Oh man, he that dude. 698 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:25,640 Speaker 1: Culture. 699 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,600 Speaker 8: So those are the people you lended ear to when 700 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 8: they have a voice. Be very careful because of this 701 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 8: thing we live, the world we live in today, be 702 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 8: very careful of who you who you give a listen to. 703 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,280 Speaker 8: You know, stop letting fools direct your life and your thoughts. 704 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:48,759 Speaker 11: All right, call black woman, come a black woman, Thank 705 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 11: you guys. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, 706 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 11: we will have a black History moment right here on 707 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 11: the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and we will tell you 708 00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 11: how Steve Harvey himself is making history right after this 709 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,359 Speaker 11: you're listening morning show. 710 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 1: Well, February is. 711 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 11: Black History Month, and this year's Black History Month theme 712 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 11: is African Americans and the Art, and it aims to 713 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 11: explore the influential African Americans in visual and performing art, literature, fashion, folklore, language, film, music, architecture, 714 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 11: culinary and other forms of cultural expression. So on that note, 715 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 11: may I have a drum roll please, mister Harvey. 716 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: We want to honor you, sir. 717 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 11: You are the first black host of the hit TV 718 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 11: game shows Family Feud and Celebrity Family Feud, and this 719 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,319 Speaker 11: is your fourteenth year hosting Family Feud. So we got 720 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 11: to say congratulations to you in this Black History Month. 721 00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:55,800 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey, all right, congratulations you history. 722 00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 10: You see that? 723 00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: Oh here boy, we had time. 724 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 6: Thank you, thank you, thank. 725 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 1: You all so much energy, that same energy. 726 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:13,919 Speaker 6: No, this is how you accept it, humb. 727 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,839 Speaker 8: You don't go up there wow man by time like 728 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:17,839 Speaker 8: I don't want to thank me. 729 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 6: No, I ain't. 730 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 8: That was a great speech. I wouldn't make it right hand, 731 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 8: all the things I was supposed Yeah, I wouldn't. 732 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 14: Man. 733 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 8: You know what, man, It's like really crazy for me 734 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 8: when I look back on it all. I look back 735 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 8: on it all. 736 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 6: You know. I got agree Old back in November. October. 737 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,360 Speaker 8: November, I received Agree It was didn't add to November, 738 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,959 Speaker 8: but I received the tv Icon Award of thirty years 739 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:53,239 Speaker 8: of Television. I can't even tell you, man, how that 740 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 8: just came up on me. 741 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,239 Speaker 6: And I didn't realize it. 742 00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 8: But I was in the same room accepting an honor 743 00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 8: that Kevin Hart was in, Eddie Murphy was in, Denzel 744 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 8: Washington was in, And to be in that same room 745 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,879 Speaker 8: on the same night, it was really really humbling for me, man, 746 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 8: because what God has done for me. I just did 747 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 8: not see it coming. You could not have told me 748 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 8: that I would have lasted in television this long, you know, 749 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,960 Speaker 8: because it's just been it's unheard of, it really is, man, 750 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:29,840 Speaker 8: and it's just been like, it's been a lot of 751 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 8: first for me. First first black to host a pageant show, 752 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 8: you know, mister Universe, I did. 753 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:40,319 Speaker 6: I was the first black to host New Year's Eve show. 754 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,360 Speaker 6: You were the first black to say the wrong name. 755 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:49,360 Speaker 1: Shot Fire. 756 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,280 Speaker 11: You were doing Family Feud since twenty ten, Steve. 757 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:58,280 Speaker 6: Congratulation, I'm taping right now. Year fifteen. 758 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: Wow, congratulations how many did Richard Dawson do. 759 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:10,560 Speaker 11: Richard Dawson did from seventy six to eighty five? All right, 760 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:15,280 Speaker 11: long running, congratulations Steve. Coming up at thirty four minutes 761 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,760 Speaker 11: after the hour, she will be here. Who you ask, 762 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:23,399 Speaker 11: Sister Odell? Right after this you're listening hardy morning show, 763 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 11: ladies and gentlemen. As promised, she is here, the one 764 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 11: and only Sister Odell. 765 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 17: Yes, jeesus, my lord, my lord, my lord. 766 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 6: Good mornings. Everyone, go down ULLI College. You on your 767 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 6: time in Mississippi. 768 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:50,880 Speaker 17: David morning? 769 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 6: Do David in there? You know I like him. He 770 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 6: works on the board. He don't say nothing. Yes, he's 771 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:04,280 Speaker 6: a member hood, yes, ma'am. Yes, wonderful. Good morning. 772 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 1: What's going on, Shirley, Well news, Sister Odell. 773 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,839 Speaker 11: I just good morning to you. I just wanted to say, 774 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:15,520 Speaker 11: you know, Valentine's Day is coming up, and we kind 775 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 11: of consider you an expert in love and stuff like that. Yeah, 776 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,680 Speaker 11: you've get married, you know, you've had your relationships and everything. 777 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:27,240 Speaker 1: So eleven husbands, Wow. 778 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:32,319 Speaker 6: That day now that dad, that's axe, Yes, ma'am. 779 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: That's definitely qualified you as an expert. 780 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:39,359 Speaker 6: Got it going on cracking and popping? So you can't 781 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 6: water me down. I'm still. 782 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,920 Speaker 8: Milk, chocolate, milk, four milk, old mill rice, milk, cab water. 783 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 11: Same thing en crackling pop baby. Well are you getting 784 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 11: ready though? For Valentine's Day? 785 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:54,280 Speaker 15: Is there someone? 786 00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 8: And you know I have to do women's women shouldn't 787 00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,319 Speaker 8: have to get ready for Valentine's Days. 788 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,839 Speaker 6: There's some responsibility. Mean, we will just be there. 789 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,319 Speaker 1: But you know what is you gonna do a lot 790 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 1: of women these days by their partner or. 791 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,399 Speaker 8: That was wrong with these hepos these days they see 792 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,840 Speaker 8: they y'all, y'all in mess around and let these men's. 793 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: Just reverse the trends on it. 794 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,839 Speaker 6: You ain't probably do all that for them, stop doing 795 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:20,680 Speaker 6: for them? They post? 796 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 14: Do you? 797 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 8: You know you got these little rapper boys and sit 798 00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 8: up and change and rund got you talking about what 799 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:26,520 Speaker 8: you're gonna. 800 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 6: Bring to the table and all this What is your 801 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 6: rabbitad bringing to the table? 802 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:30,759 Speaker 1: Come on? 803 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 8: And so that ought to be to stop the ground 804 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,400 Speaker 8: right here. Why is I got to show you what 805 00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:35,480 Speaker 8: I got to the table? 806 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 6: Why you come up? 807 00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 8: Tell me folk? Because you saw something on the table, 808 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 8: you want it? That's right, And that's what it comes 809 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,799 Speaker 8: up to the woman faut. Now you come up there 810 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 8: and all of a sudden you got a whole lot of. 811 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:46,360 Speaker 6: List of what we need to be. 812 00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 8: Well, what is you damn come on dropping if you 813 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,320 Speaker 8: can't buy a box of hand there some damn flowers 814 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 8: over Valentine's there. You ain't finna get what you're seeing 815 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:58,200 Speaker 8: on this table. We are pulling up this tablecloth. I'm 816 00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:01,239 Speaker 8: telling you that right now you won't see what's under 817 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:02,320 Speaker 8: this table flaw. 818 00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 6: Bet your laugh. 819 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,480 Speaker 1: I like that when when you take us to school 820 00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 1: like that, when you're edge waymen? Is this shine now, 821 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 1: shary De? 822 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,319 Speaker 6: Your women didn't letting these boys get away with too much. 823 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 17: Make these young men's be men's. 824 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 6: Okay, before you start showing them how much a woman 825 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 6: you eating? 826 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,719 Speaker 1: Yes, Smith, what does that mean? Exactly? Break that down 827 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: for people. 828 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:29,439 Speaker 8: Who don't passing out your cookies? Come people that ain't 829 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:30,320 Speaker 8: bringing milk? 830 00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: Yes, oh okay. The whole word today says so damn think. 831 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 6: Of this best right here? 832 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 8: All these little young girls going to you're watching these 833 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 8: are Dardashian girls on TV. 834 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,720 Speaker 6: You want to just go have a baby without a husband, 835 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:47,439 Speaker 6: You better get. 836 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 8: Yourself a man first and quit worrying about what you 837 00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 8: see them Dardashian girls. 838 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 4: Going on nothing. 839 00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 1: Dardashians, Carla. 840 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 8: They got money, they have keys home, they want to 841 00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,800 Speaker 8: They got babysitters and nannies and security. 842 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,560 Speaker 6: You ain't got nobody's ain't nobody but your mama. 843 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right. So you believe in like the 844 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:10,239 Speaker 1: man should be the provider. 845 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 6: That's what they made for. What mans don't want to provide. 846 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 17: That's your job. 847 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,640 Speaker 1: But nowadays, sister Odell, you know they have the women 848 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 1: taking care of the men. Men stay high and the 849 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 1: women go to work. 850 00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 6: I wood take care of me. You want to be 851 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:32,399 Speaker 6: out of your mind. 852 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,360 Speaker 8: No, that's right, you little shit, your ass at the 853 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 8: house talking about you and mamma daddy. 854 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,760 Speaker 6: No, you ain't not a mean he ain't mamma daddy. 855 00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 1: Well whatever they call they sail mamma daddy. What's this 856 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 1: like a dad? 857 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 11: Mom? 858 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 6: All these here, mama daddy? You know where a man 859 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:48,840 Speaker 6: stay home, take like. 860 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:53,439 Speaker 1: A house husband, say, get your ass or job somewhere. 861 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:56,839 Speaker 5: The hell. 862 00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 1: Well, thank you sister Odell for that word. 863 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:09,440 Speaker 11: Today, ragged ash man, Hey you leave well, happy Valentine's today? 864 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 11: All right, coming up, n it is a nephew with 865 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:17,879 Speaker 11: Today's prank phone call. Right after this you're listening Hard 866 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 11: Morning show coming up at about four minutes after the hour. 867 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,200 Speaker 11: It's my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is 868 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 11: I need to move out, but he won't let me. 869 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,920 Speaker 11: We'll get into that find out what that's all about 870 00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 11: in just a few but right now it is time 871 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,800 Speaker 11: for today's prank phone call with the nephew. 872 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,320 Speaker 1: Nephew, I got it, I got it. 873 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 6: Let me, let me let me first. 874 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,719 Speaker 5: Uh, I gotta thank New York City man, Manhattan, Oh 875 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 5: my god, y'all came out and hung out with the 876 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:51,000 Speaker 5: nephew Saturday night at the NYC Winery, two sold out shows. 877 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 5: Appreciate your man, Thank you, thank you, Thank you everybody. 878 00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 5: The w b l s came out. Miss Ann Tripp 879 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 5: came and hung out with me. It was it was 880 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 5: all changing. So I would say, thank you. 881 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:02,960 Speaker 13: Man. 882 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 5: Got a gift last night. I mean, I got a 883 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 5: gift on Saturday night from miss Ingrid Dixon. It's Ingrid 884 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 5: Dixon and she is waiting for me to have Ready 885 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 5: to Love after sixty. So that's something I have to 886 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 5: talk Yeah, ready to Love after sixty, that's something I 887 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 5: got to talk to will pack about because that's what 888 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 5: I get everywhere I go from everywhere I go to airport, 889 00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,719 Speaker 5: them all anywhere. When you're gonna do something for people 890 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,880 Speaker 5: that's in the sixty crowd, we need Rented the Love sixty. 891 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:33,520 Speaker 6: Tell me. 892 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 5: I think it'll worked, though, Big Donald, I think it 893 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:39,920 Speaker 5: would possibly work. Rented to Love. 894 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 6: Holy Season, Yes to one or two week version to Well, 895 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 6: that's not that. 896 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,320 Speaker 5: But you know what, Actually I said that we should 897 00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 5: do a nice weekend, a nice four day weekend or something. 898 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,320 Speaker 6: If it works, work. 899 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:01,879 Speaker 5: What do you mean? 900 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,439 Speaker 8: See, well, it's like the record label when the last 901 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 8: time you've seen a six year old person get a 902 00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 8: record deal, because we need three albums out y'all to 903 00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 8: complete this deal. 904 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:13,279 Speaker 6: Chances of that happening. But they did gold numbers. They did, 905 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 6: they did golden. 906 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: On It works, Run, Hit Getting Married very much, it 907 00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 1: was hit. 908 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:28,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, ABC, I ain't like how that sounded, right. No, No, 909 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,439 Speaker 8: it's not, it's not and it's not I was making 910 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:32,320 Speaker 8: a race reference. 911 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,280 Speaker 1: Oh oh oh. 912 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,000 Speaker 6: No, I'm just being rich. I ain't talking about the age. 913 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 6: I'm talking about the race. 914 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,840 Speaker 8: Now, be careful, it's gonna it's gonna play out differently 915 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,440 Speaker 8: because we different towards each other. It would be okay, man, 916 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 8: if we would be supportive and loving and respectful and 917 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:50,640 Speaker 8: cheering for each other. 918 00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,840 Speaker 6: But we've changed in our culture, man, we've changed for 919 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,920 Speaker 6: each other at all. Oh hell oh hell no, do 920 00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 6: you know the dogs? You're gonna get that hate that's 921 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,080 Speaker 6: gonna go that way? Look at her? Why he looked 922 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:04,360 Speaker 6: like that? 923 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:05,280 Speaker 1: Who wants. 924 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:06,920 Speaker 17: Braud? 925 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,959 Speaker 1: They do it to the young people, now, I would 926 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:12,560 Speaker 1: be mad if they did that to older people. 927 00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 8: You can please paying yourself to get mad that internet 928 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:21,800 Speaker 8: man that in and then I'd love to see it personally. 929 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that'd be nice. It would be a nice change. 930 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 1: We're gonna roof a. 931 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 5: Love well miss Ingrid Dixon, miss Ingrid. I don't know 932 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 5: if we're gonna do it. 933 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 6: Well, they can do it, but let's make it. Deal. 934 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:39,000 Speaker 6: If you do it, Tommy, let's just get more. Tell 935 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 6: all the old people they have to sign the paperwork 936 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 6: so we can put some other used effectitious names, Ingrid, Agnes, Abigail. 937 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 6: All of that ain't good TV. 938 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 15: Come on, Tommy. 939 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,759 Speaker 6: Prak this is super Bowl Trip. Super Bowl Trip. Let's go. 940 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,720 Speaker 12: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach you. You Martina, Please 941 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 12: I'll see you not in right at the moment. 942 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,279 Speaker 7: Can I take a message or something I can help 943 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 7: you with? 944 00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,879 Speaker 12: Uh? Actually, I'm giving a call to make sure double 945 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,800 Speaker 12: checking on confirmation for mister and missus. 946 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,839 Speaker 7: Now, man, now that may be a mistake because she's 947 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 7: going by herself. I'm not going, so that should be missed. 948 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 12: That's all, okay, All right, Well I'll tell you what 949 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:32,320 Speaker 12: we have. We have our schedule. 950 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 14: We wanted to make sure we gave the confirmation and uh, 951 00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,640 Speaker 14: you know, with a big weekend like this, we're double 952 00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,400 Speaker 14: checking and making sure everybody's actually coming and getting their 953 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,360 Speaker 14: rooms because you know, you're subject to get charged for it. 954 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,719 Speaker 14: And we definitely have the honeymoon sweet waiting on her honeymoons. 955 00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,720 Speaker 7: We man, we've been married seventeen years. What's you come about? Honeymoon? 956 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 6: Sweet? 957 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,040 Speaker 12: Well, we got missus. 958 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:54,000 Speaker 7: What's the name on that? 959 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,319 Speaker 12: Miss Martina? Is that right? 960 00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,080 Speaker 7: Yeah? 961 00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,280 Speaker 12: That's my wife? Yeah, all right, and we've got Tony 962 00:48:59,560 --> 00:48:59,920 Speaker 12: as well. 963 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,240 Speaker 7: Who who is Tony? 964 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 12: My name is Vernon? Say what now? 965 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 7: My name is Vernon? Who the hell is Tony? 966 00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 12: So? 967 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:12,359 Speaker 7: Wow, we we have where this is uh the wrong one. 968 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:13,719 Speaker 7: I think y'all got the wrong one man. 969 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,200 Speaker 12: Okay, did you guys make reservations here at the hotel 970 00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:20,279 Speaker 12: and for the super Bowl weekend. My wife is going 971 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 12: to this. 972 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,880 Speaker 7: Weekend to be with her sick auntie. That's what she 973 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:27,360 Speaker 7: told me. Now, I don't know nothing about noose, but 974 00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 7: you know what, Yeah, keep talking to me. Yeah, okay, twy, 975 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,600 Speaker 7: keep talking to me, because, uh, this will getting really 976 00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 7: interesting right here. 977 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 12: She's coming to I have a mister and missus Martina 978 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,960 Speaker 12: and Tony are coming. We have the honeymoon suite here 979 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,359 Speaker 12: for the super Bowl weekend, checking in tomorrow and checking 980 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:45,120 Speaker 12: out on Monday. 981 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,239 Speaker 7: I don't now you know what this is right here, 982 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,800 Speaker 7: because see now I got to said. She told me 983 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:50,719 Speaker 7: she was going to see her seek auntie, and I 984 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:52,840 Speaker 7: told her cool, I paid for the damn ticket myself. 985 00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:54,920 Speaker 7: I got my tax returned back and I paid for 986 00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,239 Speaker 7: my damnself so she can go out there. And you're 987 00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 7: telling me this help for the main reservations and out 988 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:01,399 Speaker 7: let's clok. 989 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 12: I mean, what the hell I mean? Now? 990 00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 14: Uh? Uh? 991 00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:05,479 Speaker 7: Victor, Victor? 992 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 12: What's your name again? 993 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,160 Speaker 7: But my name is Vernon, Okay, mister Vernon, sir. 994 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,320 Speaker 12: I first of all, I do apologize. I'm just a. 995 00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:16,400 Speaker 12: You know, I'm here and in the reservations, and basically 996 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 12: they just got us calling because it's a big weekend 997 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,279 Speaker 12: and you know if you if you don't come in 998 00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,239 Speaker 12: your your car will definitely get charged. They gotta stu. 999 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:26,879 Speaker 7: Well, y'all been not charged nothing to my car. Don't charge. 1000 00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,400 Speaker 7: Matter of fact, I want to cancel this reservation. She 1001 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 7: can fall back in as far as I'm concerned. This 1002 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,719 Speaker 7: is the met will walk up in here right now. 1003 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 7: They don't walk up up in there right now, because 1004 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:37,239 Speaker 7: see this is this. 1005 00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,839 Speaker 12: Okay, let's let's just slow Let's slow down a minute. 1006 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,560 Speaker 12: Le's slow down. Maybe there's just a mistake here. 1007 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 7: I mean, no man, uh uh the honey, I'm sweet 1008 00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 7: at the no one she told me, no wonder, I'm like. 1009 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 7: She teld me she needed two hundred dollars for them hotel, 1010 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 7: me for the hotel room. 1011 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 12: Yeah. Well actually it's well they must be splitting in here. 1012 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,359 Speaker 12: It's it's it's about four hundred and something to night 1013 00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 12: for this room. 1014 00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,880 Speaker 7: Excuse me, she will say that much come up there 1015 00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 7: and wedding ring. 1016 00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,319 Speaker 12: Wow. Okay, well I'll. 1017 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 7: Tell you what, sir. 1018 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,080 Speaker 12: Is there any way I can I can call back 1019 00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 12: and speak to Martinez. 1020 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:09,759 Speaker 7: So I can I never in life call back to 1021 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,759 Speaker 7: this okay, because see if you call back here talking 1022 00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 7: about this, because yea, I don't know you know me 1023 00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:16,640 Speaker 7: answer this phone. Okay, this is her phone. She would 1024 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 7: to go runn erring for me. But don't you never 1025 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,919 Speaker 7: call this phone back again because see, she ain't coming, 1026 00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:22,280 Speaker 7: not this lifetime. 1027 00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 6: She's not. 1028 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,279 Speaker 7: But uh, you know what, I want to thank you though, 1029 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,080 Speaker 7: I appreciate you let me in on the rules up. 1030 00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:30,640 Speaker 12: Yeah, knew it. Okay, okause, mister Bernon scared? Slow down, 1031 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 12: some man hang on. Okay, now listen. What I have 1032 00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 12: to do is I have to talk to the person 1033 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,239 Speaker 12: that made the reservation in order to cancel it. Now. 1034 00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,759 Speaker 12: I don't any means you're counseling right now, but I 1035 00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,239 Speaker 12: need to hear that from miss Martina that has trust me. 1036 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 7: When she gets back, you're gonna even talk to you. 1037 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,880 Speaker 7: You can cancel it now. I'm telling you now, cancel it. 1038 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,920 Speaker 7: It ain't gonna be no honeymoon. Okay. We've been there 1039 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,680 Speaker 7: for seventeen years, we got folk kids, and I'm sitting 1040 00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:57,360 Speaker 7: back here. No cancelor now, I'm telling you. 1041 00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 12: The counselor I cannot cancel it without speaking on her. 1042 00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 7: I tell you what your best better is to cancel 1043 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,319 Speaker 7: that because if you put a charge on that, I'm 1044 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:09,440 Speaker 7: gonna drive it and find Joe. What's your name? Excuse me, 1045 00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,080 Speaker 7: what's your name? I'm Brian, Sir, Brian, if there's one 1046 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,520 Speaker 7: charge with my credit, but I will find you, sir, 1047 00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,920 Speaker 7: mean you do you have Tony's number where I can 1048 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:19,680 Speaker 7: call him and. 1049 00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,120 Speaker 12: Maybe you know what you know. 1050 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:22,960 Speaker 7: I'm gonna have Tony's number in a minute, because I. 1051 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:23,640 Speaker 18: Got her phone. 1052 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,360 Speaker 7: I'm just go through it and find it because this 1053 00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 7: is some and she gonna do it with Tony. So 1054 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:29,319 Speaker 7: if you called back here, you're not gonna get her 1055 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 7: because she's gonna be over. 1056 00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 12: There with that. Okay, sir. Now there's one more person 1057 00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:35,080 Speaker 12: that's on the schedule on the room. 1058 00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:37,080 Speaker 7: One more personal. 1059 00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 12: They're doing the freesome. I'm not sure. Now I got 1060 00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,040 Speaker 12: another person on the on the schedule on here. 1061 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:44,000 Speaker 7: This can't get no worse. Come on, Reddy, you. 1062 00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:45,600 Speaker 12: Want to I'm sorry, you want the name of your 1063 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:47,320 Speaker 12: I the name, yes, come on with it. 1064 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 7: You can tell me everything else. 1065 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:52,800 Speaker 12: Okay, I got a a uh somebody named nephew Tommy 1066 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:59,440 Speaker 12: excuse me, hey man, and this is nephew tell me 1067 00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:03,160 Speaker 12: man for Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife got me 1068 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:04,600 Speaker 12: the prank phone call you. 1069 00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:19,240 Speaker 7: Oh I'm gonna I'm a at that, hey man. Okay, 1070 00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,120 Speaker 7: that's who she's been talking to you on the phone. Yep, 1071 00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 7: all right, yeah, you got me. I got hey. 1072 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,000 Speaker 12: I gotta ask you what is the baddest and I'm 1073 00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,840 Speaker 12: talking about the baddest man radio show in the land. 1074 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1075 00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:35,640 Speaker 1: All right, thanking for you. 1076 00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,440 Speaker 11: Coming up next Strawberry Letter, the subject I need to 1077 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,320 Speaker 11: move out but he won't let me. 1078 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:41,880 Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. 1079 00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:46,920 Speaker 11: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is 1080 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,560 Speaker 11: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 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Buckle up and hold on tight. 1088 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 6: We got it for you here. 1089 00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,600 Speaker 1: It is strawberry and let us thanking a few subject. 1090 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,120 Speaker 1: I need to move out, but he won't let me. 1091 00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,360 Speaker 11: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty seven years old and my 1092 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:22,920 Speaker 11: sister is forty five. I'm staying with her and her 1093 00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,719 Speaker 11: living boyfriend of seven years. I've been having sex with 1094 00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:29,760 Speaker 11: her boyfriend, and it started after I was here only 1095 00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:33,440 Speaker 11: a week. For years, the sexual tension has been strong 1096 00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:36,400 Speaker 11: between me and her boyfriend, but I was married at 1097 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 11: the time. A few years ago. She mentioned it, but 1098 00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,920 Speaker 11: she wasn't mad. I wondered if it was on her 1099 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,279 Speaker 11: mind when I moved in with him, but it's like 1100 00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 11: she doesn't care at all. She confided in me that 1101 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,000 Speaker 11: she has a new man and she's trying to figure 1102 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,759 Speaker 11: out if he's a sure thing or not before she 1103 00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,359 Speaker 11: breaks up with her boyfriend. She said that I need 1104 00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,360 Speaker 11: to help keep her boyfriend's mind off her when she 1105 00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:02,080 Speaker 11: sneaks away. I have been doing exactly what she asked 1106 00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,480 Speaker 11: me to do. I don't think she cares, but I 1107 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,000 Speaker 11: know she would flip out if she knew all of 1108 00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,680 Speaker 11: the things he's done to me in her guest bedroom. 1109 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:13,000 Speaker 11: Her boyfriend is gentle and he guides me through the 1110 00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:14,960 Speaker 11: experience with soft whispers. 1111 00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,600 Speaker 1: And kisses. I am about to lose my mind because 1112 00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:22,160 Speaker 1: it's that good. But what we're doing is so bad. 1113 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,120 Speaker 11: Before I get into deep, I told my sister's boyfriend 1114 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,480 Speaker 11: that is time for me to move out. He almost 1115 00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:32,399 Speaker 11: cried and said I can't go. I waited two weeks 1116 00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,520 Speaker 11: and told him again that I was moving out, and 1117 00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:35,680 Speaker 11: I gave him a date. 1118 00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:38,680 Speaker 1: He told my sister and she begged me to stay. 1119 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 11: Either my sister is aware of what's going on and 1120 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,080 Speaker 11: she doesn't care, or she's planning to attack me in 1121 00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,880 Speaker 11: my sleep. He doesn't want me to move out, So 1122 00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 11: should I keep this arrangement for a little while longer? 1123 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:52,080 Speaker 1: That is her question. 1124 00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:58,200 Speaker 11: Girl, Please get out of your sister's house today. I 1125 00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 11: don't care if she has another man or not. It's 1126 00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,640 Speaker 11: still not right what you're doing. This is your sister. 1127 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,680 Speaker 11: I mean, come on, she opened up her home to you. 1128 00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:08,000 Speaker 11: This is how you show your. 1129 00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,160 Speaker 1: Gratitude to your sister. You didn't even wait a week 1130 00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,080 Speaker 1: before you started sleeping with her man. 1131 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,760 Speaker 11: I mean, you're sleeping with her man in her house. 1132 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 11: By the very definition, this is just wrong. He almost 1133 00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:22,200 Speaker 11: started crying. Did you say when you told him you 1134 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:25,160 Speaker 11: were going to move out. Of course he did. You're easy, 1135 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,920 Speaker 11: You're convenient. Why would he want to let someone so 1136 00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:32,040 Speaker 11: accessible to him go? He doesn't have to do anything 1137 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,440 Speaker 11: because you're right there at his back and call. I mean, 1138 00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:37,160 Speaker 11: he's living a dream and he wants to keep it 1139 00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:40,719 Speaker 11: that way. You moving out will mess up his good thing. 1140 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,160 Speaker 11: I hope you see that. I really hope you see that. 1141 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,160 Speaker 11: You gotta go, Sis, Stop doing this to your sister, 1142 00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:48,000 Speaker 11: who's been nothing but kind to you. 1143 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: Get out, get your own place. And you know what, 1144 00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:53,480 Speaker 1: I'm glad you're not my sister, Steve. 1145 00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,680 Speaker 8: You know when you write this letter, and I think 1146 00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:03,759 Speaker 8: the question is should I keep this arrangement for a 1147 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:08,839 Speaker 8: little while longer? That's really the question. Should I keep 1148 00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:14,440 Speaker 8: this arrangement for a little while longer? That's the There 1149 00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:16,120 Speaker 8: is no should I get out now? 1150 00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,160 Speaker 6: Should I? How should I break this to my sister? 1151 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,160 Speaker 6: Do you think we should all talk it through? There? 1152 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:25,960 Speaker 8: You don't want none of that. All you want to 1153 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,440 Speaker 8: know is at the end of the letter. So should 1154 00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:32,720 Speaker 8: I keep this arrangement for a little while longer? A 1155 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,680 Speaker 8: this letter right here has so much that nobody in 1156 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,200 Speaker 8: this letter is okay. Nobody in this letter is right 1157 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,440 Speaker 8: nobody in this letter is. I mean, what are y'all doing? 1158 00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:48,280 Speaker 8: I got consensual. I know what the term consensual means, 1159 00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 8: but everybody's consenting to a bunch of bulls. So you 1160 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,160 Speaker 8: thirty seven, your sister forty five? You staying with her 1161 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,919 Speaker 8: and her living board friend for oh of seven years. 1162 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 8: I've been having sex with her boyfriend and it started 1163 00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:09,080 Speaker 8: after I was only there for one week. For years 1164 00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:12,560 Speaker 8: as sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend, 1165 00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:16,439 Speaker 8: but I was married at the time. A few years ago, 1166 00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:19,320 Speaker 8: she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. So I'm saying you, 1167 00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 8: I guess you said it a few years ago, your sister. 1168 00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 6: Would you know what? 1169 00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:26,120 Speaker 8: I see how you and Ray Ray look at each other. 1170 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,440 Speaker 8: I see that y'all need to y'all watch y'allself now. 1171 00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,760 Speaker 8: But she wasn't mad. A few years ago she mentioned it, 1172 00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:37,200 Speaker 8: but she wasn't mad. So I wondered if it was 1173 00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:40,280 Speaker 8: on her mind when I moved in with them. Hell yeah, 1174 00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:43,960 Speaker 8: how you think it wasn't She mentioned it twice to you, 1175 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,480 Speaker 8: and then you moved in. 1176 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:53,080 Speaker 6: She knew that when you moved in, but it's like. 1177 00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 8: She don't care at all, She confided in me that 1178 00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,120 Speaker 8: she got a new man and she trying to figure 1179 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,360 Speaker 8: out if he's the sure thing or not before she 1180 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:01,880 Speaker 8: breaks up with her boyfriend. 1181 00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 6: Okay, so that then gave everybody the green light to 1182 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:08,320 Speaker 6: do what they want to do. 1183 00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:12,240 Speaker 8: I'm assuming she said that I need to help keep 1184 00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:15,800 Speaker 8: her boyfriend's mind off her when she sneaks away. 1185 00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,120 Speaker 6: Now hold on, let me say this. 1186 00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:28,680 Speaker 8: The dude that's in the middle of this hill, aw, 1187 00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,760 Speaker 8: didn't my fortune smile on him? 1188 00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:33,960 Speaker 14: This? 1189 00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 8: How in the world this happened, This gift, this incredible 1190 00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:50,080 Speaker 8: moment of ecstasy, was just provided for me a girl 1191 00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:52,360 Speaker 8: that I had been looking at over a seven year 1192 00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:55,840 Speaker 8: period that I had some strong sexual tension. He happens 1193 00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:59,640 Speaker 8: to be the sister of my girlfriend. She's having trouble 1194 00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,600 Speaker 8: in her marriage. She moves in with us, and in 1195 01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:07,440 Speaker 8: one week we ain't fantasizing no more, were actually doing it. 1196 01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:11,000 Speaker 6: And then my wife, who's. 1197 01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:16,160 Speaker 8: Seeing somebody else, my girlfriend, who seeing somebody else, tells the. 1198 01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:20,440 Speaker 6: Girl to keep me occupied. Why she all sneaking with 1199 01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:21,280 Speaker 6: her bar friend? 1200 01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:25,760 Speaker 11: Hang on, hang on, Steve living right there, we have 1201 01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:29,720 Speaker 11: part two of your response coming up at twenty three 1202 01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 11: minutes after the hour today Strawberry letter, subject I need 1203 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:34,640 Speaker 11: to move out but he won't let me. 1204 01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,920 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1205 01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:40,040 Speaker 1: hard Morning Show. 1206 01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:43,360 Speaker 11: All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter 1207 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,560 Speaker 11: that subject I need to move out but he won't 1208 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:45,920 Speaker 11: let me. 1209 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 6: I've never read a letter with so much pain and 1210 01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:53,920 Speaker 6: pleasure in it. I'm just concusing. I don't know. 1211 01:00:54,520 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 8: I won't to be happy for the dude, right, But 1212 01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:03,520 Speaker 8: you don't really want advice. I thirty seven year old lady, 1213 01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,080 Speaker 8: and she got a sistan that's forty five, that's been 1214 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,600 Speaker 8: staying with her and her living boyfriend. 1215 01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,479 Speaker 6: She got a living boyfriend of seven years. 1216 01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:13,840 Speaker 8: The lady that's writing a letter says she's been having 1217 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:17,440 Speaker 8: sex with that living boyfriend and it started. I was 1218 01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 8: there after only a week. For years, the sexual tension 1219 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,040 Speaker 8: has been strong between me and her boyfriend. But I 1220 01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,000 Speaker 8: was married at the time. And then a few years 1221 01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,080 Speaker 8: ago she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. I know 1222 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:30,320 Speaker 8: it's some sexual trench between you and layby, but she 1223 01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:32,760 Speaker 8: wasn't mad at the time. I wondered if it was 1224 01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,560 Speaker 8: on her mind when I moved in with them. It 1225 01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:41,400 Speaker 8: was on all, y'all, it was on everybody's mind. 1226 01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 6: It was on her mind. When she offered the place. 1227 01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:46,280 Speaker 6: He went along with it. 1228 01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,920 Speaker 8: Like, well, if your sister really need a place, I 1229 01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,640 Speaker 8: just I'm okay with it. And then you were, ohh 1230 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,680 Speaker 8: there's sexual attention between me and oh, I hope they'll 1231 01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,240 Speaker 8: let me stay there. It took y'all one week to 1232 01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 8: figure it out, and then y'all start doing each other. 1233 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:01,920 Speaker 8: But you say, it's like she don't care at all, 1234 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,880 Speaker 8: because she confided in me that she got a new 1235 01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:06,120 Speaker 8: man and she trying to figure out if it's a 1236 01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,360 Speaker 8: sure thing or not. Before she break up with a boyfriend, 1237 01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,080 Speaker 8: she said, I need your help to keep my boyfriend's 1238 01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:12,800 Speaker 8: mind off of her when. 1239 01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:13,439 Speaker 6: She sneaks away. 1240 01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:15,720 Speaker 14: What what? 1241 01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:17,720 Speaker 6: Who gave me the gree? 1242 01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:23,200 Speaker 8: You gotta live in hall pass, You got a green light, 1243 01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 8: you got consent, you got the okay, And I have 1244 01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,200 Speaker 8: been doing exactly what she asked me to do. 1245 01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:35,560 Speaker 6: You was doing it before she asked you, and I 1246 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:36,800 Speaker 6: don't think she cared. 1247 01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:39,600 Speaker 8: But I know she would flip out if she knew 1248 01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:42,160 Speaker 8: all the things he's done to me in their guest room. 1249 01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:45,760 Speaker 8: She would flip out. She knows something happening, and what 1250 01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,040 Speaker 8: you think he ain't done it to her. That's how 1251 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:49,080 Speaker 8: you get to be alive in. 1252 01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:49,959 Speaker 6: For seven years. 1253 01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,960 Speaker 8: You think what's happening in that guest room is crazy. 1254 01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 8: You ought to see what's happening in that master girl 1255 01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:03,120 Speaker 8: seven years here? How you think he got. 1256 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:03,560 Speaker 6: Good at it? 1257 01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 8: Keep it in that practicing in the master. So when 1258 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,800 Speaker 8: you come to the guest room, you just say, have 1259 01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:13,440 Speaker 8: it at your house. Her boyfriend is Gumple. He guides 1260 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,360 Speaker 8: me through the experience with soft whispers and kissing. I'm 1261 01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:18,840 Speaker 8: about to lose my mind because it's that good. But 1262 01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:23,400 Speaker 8: what we're doing is so bad. Now, before I get 1263 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:24,440 Speaker 8: in too deep. 1264 01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:24,959 Speaker 6: She said. 1265 01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:28,040 Speaker 8: Now let me stop right here, she said, before I 1266 01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:30,120 Speaker 8: get in too deep? How much deeper? 1267 01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:33,960 Speaker 17: How much? 1268 01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:34,600 Speaker 12: What? 1269 01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 6: Before I get in too deep? Girl? How much deeper 1270 01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:46,600 Speaker 6: do this water get? I told my sister's boyfriend that 1271 01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:48,200 Speaker 6: it's time for me to move out. 1272 01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:52,640 Speaker 8: He almost cried. Now, I ain't giving consentedou this letter. 1273 01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:54,960 Speaker 8: But if I was the boyfriend and he told me that, Hell, 1274 01:03:55,040 --> 01:04:00,680 Speaker 8: I cried to you to you don't even understand. He 1275 01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 8: ain't got to go nowhere to cheat. No, he ain't 1276 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:05,520 Speaker 8: got to sneak to cheat. 1277 01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:07,800 Speaker 1: It's right there. 1278 01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:11,240 Speaker 8: The wife, the girlfriend want you to keep him occupied 1279 01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:13,640 Speaker 8: while she await, and you okay with it, and he 1280 01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:14,480 Speaker 8: ain't got to go to work. 1281 01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,440 Speaker 1: But I cry too perfect. 1282 01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:20,480 Speaker 6: He cried and said I can't go. 1283 01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 8: I waited two weeks and told him again I was 1284 01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:26,080 Speaker 8: moving out, and I gave him the date. He told 1285 01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:30,920 Speaker 8: my sister, and she begged me to say, either my 1286 01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:33,560 Speaker 8: sister's aware of what's going on, or she don't care, 1287 01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:37,280 Speaker 8: or she's planning to attack me in my sleep. First 1288 01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:39,320 Speaker 8: of all, your sister ain't gonna attack you to sleep. 1289 01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 8: If that was gonna happen, that would have been happened. 1290 01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,439 Speaker 8: It ain't no way no woman gonna wait this long. 1291 01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:47,720 Speaker 8: She would have been done you. You are the convenient arrangement. 1292 01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,680 Speaker 8: She has your sister know you, She know what y'all doing. 1293 01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:53,600 Speaker 8: Ain't nothing happening in no woman house. But that's stending 1294 01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:55,640 Speaker 8: free of the time, and she don't know. She had 1295 01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:57,720 Speaker 8: an inkling y'all was up to something before y'all got 1296 01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:00,560 Speaker 8: into it. She just bought you in here because now 1297 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:03,160 Speaker 8: that's gonna help her figure out her move with her boyfriend. 1298 01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:06,120 Speaker 8: So she is aware of it, and she done begged 1299 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,560 Speaker 8: you the state or she gonna plan on attacking you 1300 01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,960 Speaker 8: in your sleep. That would have been done happen. But 1301 01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:12,840 Speaker 8: you ain't got to worry about that because he gonna 1302 01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,400 Speaker 8: save your life. I can promise you that he's the 1303 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,520 Speaker 8: one person that all dive in front of that night 1304 01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:22,080 Speaker 8: because he can't let nothing happen. You the goose that 1305 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,720 Speaker 8: laid the golden egg. Ladies no way in their heads. 1306 01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:27,760 Speaker 8: I'm telling you right now, you the prize and you 1307 01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,400 Speaker 8: the catch me out. Hey, ain't nobody got this go 1308 01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:33,840 Speaker 8: this me and listening to this letter, going oh, how 1309 01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:36,800 Speaker 8: can we speak? Because the fool I live with ain't 1310 01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:39,600 Speaker 8: allowing none of this to happen at birth, I can't 1311 01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:41,840 Speaker 8: even make a phone call it a bathroom with the 1312 01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:46,919 Speaker 8: lights out without this flow of gas. He doesn't want 1313 01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:49,360 Speaker 8: me to move out, So should I keep this arrangement 1314 01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:50,280 Speaker 8: for a little longer? 1315 01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:50,840 Speaker 6: Lady? 1316 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:54,680 Speaker 8: Look, it seems to me like what you're really hoping 1317 01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:56,520 Speaker 8: for in the back of your mind is that your 1318 01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:59,880 Speaker 8: sister goes on gets with this new boyfriend. So you 1319 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,600 Speaker 8: could have hugged her boyfriend all to yourself. But I'm 1320 01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,680 Speaker 8: gonna tell you right now, he's not gonna keep you, 1321 01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:10,240 Speaker 8: because it's hard to go from second to first. Very 1322 01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:13,360 Speaker 8: few people get to moved up from a side chick 1323 01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:17,240 Speaker 8: to wife side chicks. They rarely make the cut at wife. 1324 01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:20,840 Speaker 8: They make it sometimes, but for the most part they don't. 1325 01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:23,800 Speaker 8: He gonna be off somewhere and looking for this situation again. 1326 01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:26,240 Speaker 8: I don't know what to tell you. I don't care 1327 01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:30,680 Speaker 8: what y'all do. I really don't. I really don't. But 1328 01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,000 Speaker 8: if the dude could write in and tell me how 1329 01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:34,040 Speaker 8: he pulled this off? 1330 01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:44,200 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, your leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter 1331 01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:46,840 Speaker 11: on Instagram at Steve Harb FM and check us out. 1332 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:50,320 Speaker 11: I'm a Strawberry Letter podcast on the Free iHeartRadio app 1333 01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:53,400 Speaker 11: where free never sounded so good. Coming up next, Juniors 1334 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 11: in the building with Sports Talk right after this. 1335 01:06:57,240 --> 01:07:01,360 Speaker 1: You're listening Hard Morning Show. It is time now for 1336 01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:02,480 Speaker 1: Junior and sports Talk. 1337 01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:03,440 Speaker 15: What you got Junior? 1338 01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:06,520 Speaker 10: All right, Shirley, you know yesterday uncle was the Pro Bowl. 1339 01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:10,600 Speaker 10: Did anybody watch it? Didn't nobody watch flag football game? 1340 01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:14,160 Speaker 10: I couldn't tune in for that. Yeah, gradually I can't 1341 01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:15,640 Speaker 10: watch the flag football game. 1342 01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:15,920 Speaker 17: Can't. 1343 01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:17,520 Speaker 9: I can't pull myself together to do it. 1344 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:20,920 Speaker 10: Also with other dudes Man, Lebron James raised my eyebrows 1345 01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:23,000 Speaker 10: over the tweet that he put out over the weekend. Man, 1346 01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:25,200 Speaker 10: it was just a tweet of an hour glass with 1347 01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:27,280 Speaker 10: no no text on it and explained it. 1348 01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:29,360 Speaker 9: So everybody expect like, what does that mean? Like to me, 1349 01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:30,280 Speaker 9: he wanted to be traded. 1350 01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:30,560 Speaker 14: Do it? 1351 01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:32,360 Speaker 9: Do it mean he run out of time for you know, 1352 01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:35,240 Speaker 9: his career. We don't know what it means. He just 1353 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:36,120 Speaker 9: asked about it. 1354 01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:39,160 Speaker 10: Yes, it we don't know. They ain't even ask he 1355 01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:41,080 Speaker 10: asked him. He wouldn't even explain it, Like, what did 1356 01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:42,640 Speaker 10: it mean, Bron? He said, nope, I want to talk 1357 01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,480 Speaker 10: about it, so you know. But you know, Rich Paul 1358 01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:48,280 Speaker 10: came out his agents and said, hey, Lebron James has 1359 01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:49,680 Speaker 10: never been traded in the middle of the season. He 1360 01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,360 Speaker 10: is committed to the Lakers. And they did beat the 1361 01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:53,840 Speaker 10: Knicks over the weekend. I don't know if you saw 1362 01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:55,280 Speaker 10: the game off, but it was a really good game. 1363 01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:57,720 Speaker 10: But Lebron James and the end of the nine game winners. 1364 01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,440 Speaker 8: I don't want to basketball on TV this time of 1365 01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:03,680 Speaker 8: the year. When do you start watching playoffs? When they 1366 01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:09,160 Speaker 8: care the playoffs? Yeah, that's when you see basketball. They 1367 01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:10,040 Speaker 8: play in the playoff. 1368 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:11,280 Speaker 9: So what they playing now? 1369 01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:16,840 Speaker 8: They don't they just bashing forth up and down. Yeah, 1370 01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 8: every now and then you see a good game, some 1371 01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:22,920 Speaker 8: rivalries play or something. Game get tight. But I wait 1372 01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:23,640 Speaker 8: till the end of. 1373 01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:26,479 Speaker 10: The season, not even after the after the All Star game. 1374 01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:28,519 Speaker 10: You ain't watching them like when he racing it he 1375 01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:30,719 Speaker 10: did to play on my dog playoffs? 1376 01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:33,240 Speaker 9: Got it all right? Let me ask you this now. Now, 1377 01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:35,320 Speaker 9: you know the super Bowl week is starting up this week, 1378 01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:37,360 Speaker 9: you know, so we're getting ready to I don't. 1379 01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:39,519 Speaker 8: I don't even pay no attention to that super I 1380 01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:41,439 Speaker 8: used to really get caught up in that super Bowl 1381 01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 8: hype for two weeks. 1382 01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:45,320 Speaker 6: I don't think that no more. I go now this week, 1383 01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:47,760 Speaker 6: right here, I start kind of listening. 1384 01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:49,880 Speaker 10: A little bit, you know, Yeah, yeah, I got you 1385 01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:51,559 Speaker 10: because I was gonna ask you because you know, US 1386 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:53,799 Speaker 10: is doing the halftime show. Who who's the best halftime 1387 01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,439 Speaker 10: show you've seen? Because they're saying right now, just Lopez 1388 01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 10: and that they had the best one. 1389 01:08:58,360 --> 01:08:59,719 Speaker 6: I give it, damn what they said? 1390 01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:01,240 Speaker 1: Who's said you said that? Last week? 1391 01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:07,160 Speaker 6: Yeah they had a good show. It was a nice show. Okay, but. 1392 01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:13,200 Speaker 8: Well I saw Prince, I said, my time show uh, 1393 01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:18,559 Speaker 8: Beyonce and that one they did with Dre and Eminem 1394 01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,760 Speaker 8: and all them. That was that thing, right, that was 1395 01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:24,560 Speaker 8: strong Man, that was you know, but but but but 1396 01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:26,800 Speaker 8: but Jennifer Lopez did a good one. 1397 01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:29,439 Speaker 6: Now I've seen something. 1398 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:31,080 Speaker 1: Rihanna last year was fire. 1399 01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:34,400 Speaker 9: Yeah, because you know, I just don't think they're asking us. 1400 01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:36,800 Speaker 6: I just think they just you know, well, Usher Finn 1401 01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,120 Speaker 6: to come in here and show y'all something listening to me. 1402 01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,280 Speaker 8: That dude is a show boy. Yeah, boy is a 1403 01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:45,599 Speaker 8: real showman. Don't you think nothing wrong about Usher? Raymond. 1404 01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:54,280 Speaker 18: You gotta give me full name because because because Roscoe 1405 01:09:54,360 --> 01:10:01,599 Speaker 18: Wallace and his grandfather was cool, she's rare. 1406 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:07,559 Speaker 6: Father attended at Raymond. 1407 01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:11,800 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, a guy 1408 01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 11: set up a meeting with his girl and his side chicken. 1409 01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:17,120 Speaker 1: Things didn't go so well. He needs your advice, Steve. 1410 01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:21,559 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Morning show. 1411 01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:23,880 Speaker 5: Steve. 1412 01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:25,759 Speaker 1: This is from BK in Florida. 1413 01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,960 Speaker 11: B K says, I was dating a beautiful introvert and 1414 01:10:29,200 --> 01:10:32,479 Speaker 11: I messed up and cheated on her. After we broke up, 1415 01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:35,839 Speaker 11: I was sick. I told her I would do anything 1416 01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,360 Speaker 11: to get us back together. She said she wanted to 1417 01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:41,640 Speaker 11: sit down with the woman that I cheated with. Against 1418 01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:45,200 Speaker 11: my better judgment, I set up a meeting for the 1419 01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:47,680 Speaker 11: three of us. My girl took one look at my 1420 01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:52,400 Speaker 11: side chicken called her TACKI buck tooth bee. She also 1421 01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 11: said her weave was terrible and her shoes were cheap. 1422 01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:58,120 Speaker 11: This woman didn't deserve that. 1423 01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:01,200 Speaker 1: So I told my girl to check. She got up 1424 01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:01,679 Speaker 1: and left. 1425 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:04,040 Speaker 11: Now she won't speak to me. She said, I defended 1426 01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:06,479 Speaker 11: my side piece. Is this a lost cause? 1427 01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:10,640 Speaker 6: And dog, you stupid. 1428 01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:15,080 Speaker 8: When she said, if you want to do anything, get 1429 01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,240 Speaker 8: back to me. I want to meet your side piece. 1430 01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:20,519 Speaker 6: And then you said, okay, but you have to understand 1431 01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:22,559 Speaker 6: that why would your side pieces? 1432 01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:29,519 Speaker 8: But as soon as she sat down, oh you left 1433 01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:35,639 Speaker 8: me for this buck too, raggedy hair, having heffer wear, 1434 01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:38,439 Speaker 8: she bast shoes, and she was right about all that. 1435 01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,880 Speaker 8: This was a first appearance. She was right about all 1436 01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:47,559 Speaker 8: of that. But she didn't deserve that. Dog, what's wrong 1437 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:50,559 Speaker 8: with you? You got to be young man, How did 1438 01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:54,320 Speaker 8: you think this was gonna go? First of all, why 1439 01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:57,960 Speaker 8: is it necessary that she sit down with the girl 1440 01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:02,120 Speaker 8: you cheated on her with? Everybody want that meeting? Those 1441 01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:04,599 Speaker 8: meetings very rarely ever happened? 1442 01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:06,320 Speaker 5: Who is she? 1443 01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:07,200 Speaker 14: Who is she? 1444 01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:11,120 Speaker 6: Who is she? Put on the phone? Don't do that either, dog, 1445 01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:14,880 Speaker 6: don dog, There was no good could have come out 1446 01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:15,080 Speaker 6: of this. 1447 01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:18,200 Speaker 1: You're telling them, right, Steve, so bro. 1448 01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:21,559 Speaker 8: The lesson than this, you can you can write this off, man, 1449 01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:25,800 Speaker 8: you can't do that no more. Do you know why 1450 01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:28,479 Speaker 8: you should never cheat again? In you do you know 1451 01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:29,960 Speaker 8: why you should never cheat again? 1452 01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:31,920 Speaker 6: Stupid? 1453 01:12:35,120 --> 01:12:40,200 Speaker 1: Stupid, he said against a better judgment. He did gainst 1454 01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:41,760 Speaker 1: what you're doing for. 1455 01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:43,640 Speaker 12: That? 1456 01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:47,479 Speaker 1: But buy some shoes though, dog man, you can't like that, 1457 01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:49,400 Speaker 1: and some more hair. 1458 01:12:50,960 --> 01:12:53,920 Speaker 6: Or some fix man them little shoes that smile at 1459 01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,280 Speaker 6: you when she walked, You know how your shoes open 1460 01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:58,000 Speaker 6: up on each side and smile. 1461 01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:01,639 Speaker 8: But you you know when you walk in your feet 1462 01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 8: crep your shoes got the smiley mouth different. 1463 01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:09,120 Speaker 1: Teas shoes though I didn't know they had a name 1464 01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:16,200 Speaker 1: for it, but her mouth, smiley mouth shoes. 1465 01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:18,519 Speaker 6: What which I know exactly what I'm talking about? When 1466 01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:27,439 Speaker 6: the end step step wrong side? Keep ass shoes? 1467 01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:35,040 Speaker 11: All right, all right, I think we have time for 1468 01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:37,599 Speaker 11: one more, Steve. This is from Addie and Moss Point. 1469 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,200 Speaker 11: Addie says, my boyfriend has a drawer at my house 1470 01:13:41,280 --> 01:13:43,519 Speaker 11: because we've been together for almost two years and he 1471 01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:46,280 Speaker 11: spends a lot of time here. I have put my 1472 01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,320 Speaker 11: things in a plastic I have to put my things 1473 01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:50,839 Speaker 11: in a plastic bin at his house and he slides 1474 01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:53,160 Speaker 11: it under his bed. I thought it was because his 1475 01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:54,840 Speaker 11: apartment is tiny and messy. 1476 01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:57,599 Speaker 1: But is he hiding my things? Am I giving him 1477 01:13:57,680 --> 01:13:59,920 Speaker 1: more than I'm getting? M? 1478 01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:08,760 Speaker 8: Well, you and a band? And yeah, yeah, I mean 1479 01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:12,400 Speaker 8: it is tiny and messy, that's for sure. He probably 1480 01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:14,400 Speaker 8: want your stuff in the bend with an ad tight 1481 01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:17,720 Speaker 8: lid on it. Yeah, because he filtered it, so I 1482 01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:21,400 Speaker 8: wouldn't read too much into it. He probably don't have 1483 01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:23,560 Speaker 8: a drawer to give you. What's his stuff in? 1484 01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:25,040 Speaker 6: M see? 1485 01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:29,080 Speaker 8: You know you gave him a drawer. There's really nothing 1486 01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:31,240 Speaker 8: wrong with that. It's in a band under the bed. 1487 01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,960 Speaker 8: He ain't got nowhere for it to go, he messages, 1488 01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:35,519 Speaker 8: so I wouldn't read too much into that. 1489 01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:38,800 Speaker 6: But you gave him a drawer. He gave you a band. 1490 01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:43,519 Speaker 6: What you need to do is when he out the room, 1491 01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:45,080 Speaker 6: you need open the drawers he was in. 1492 01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,360 Speaker 8: Somebody else got to draw over that and that yam 1493 01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:51,960 Speaker 8: anybody else got a drawer? 1494 01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:55,800 Speaker 6: Yeah? Because you just got a little plastic band up 1495 01:14:55,840 --> 01:14:57,200 Speaker 6: under the bed. Don't will everybody? 1496 01:14:57,680 --> 01:15:01,680 Speaker 11: There's more bends I all right, all right, coming up 1497 01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:03,760 Speaker 11: in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of 1498 01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:05,200 Speaker 11: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1499 01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:09,439 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1500 01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:11,880 Speaker 4: All right. 1501 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,800 Speaker 11: So there's a new Wendy Williams documentary coming out. It's 1502 01:15:14,840 --> 01:15:18,519 Speaker 11: called Where Is Wendy Williams. It's going to premiere on Lifetime. 1503 01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:25,360 Speaker 6: When Is when We? Yeah, you ought to do the 1504 01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:26,439 Speaker 6: announcement for the show. 1505 01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:31,000 Speaker 5: Yes, ladies and gentlemen, get ready for Where When Do 1506 01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:33,000 Speaker 5: We Woo woo? 1507 01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:37,320 Speaker 6: Straight out of the When Is City. 1508 01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 11: It's happening February twenty fourth and the twenty fifth. It's 1509 01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:44,880 Speaker 11: going to explore the events that led to Wendy's led 1510 01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:47,559 Speaker 11: Wendy to disappear from the Spotlight. It's going to center 1511 01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:51,160 Speaker 11: on Wendy's struggles with money, alcohol, and mental health. The 1512 01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:54,360 Speaker 11: trailer was released Friday, and in the clip, Wendy is 1513 01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:57,000 Speaker 11: heard saying, I have no money and let me tell 1514 01:15:57,040 --> 01:15:57,519 Speaker 11: you something. 1515 01:15:57,600 --> 01:15:59,840 Speaker 1: If it happened to me, it can happen to you. 1516 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:04,040 Speaker 11: Wendy's sun and sister both appear in the documentary and 1517 01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:08,560 Speaker 11: express that Wendy is not mentally well. The interviews in 1518 01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:11,960 Speaker 11: the documentary are done by the people closest to Wendy, 1519 01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:16,240 Speaker 11: so it's not clear why they're exposing Wendy's current condition. 1520 01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:18,439 Speaker 1: Again, Tommy, what's the name. 1521 01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:18,719 Speaker 14: Of the show? 1522 01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:26,439 Speaker 1: Where is? It's in two parts. 1523 01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:30,400 Speaker 11: It's gonna air February twenty fourth and twenty fifth on Lifetime. 1524 01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:41,720 Speaker 15: You don't want to miss it. The street in the 1525 01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:42,680 Speaker 15: same neighborhood. 1526 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:46,800 Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 1527 01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:48,960 Speaker 11: Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after. 1528 01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:50,519 Speaker 1: We'll play a round of would you water? 1529 01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:57,720 Speaker 11: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It's time now, 1530 01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:00,280 Speaker 11: guys for a round of would you rather? Would you 1531 01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:03,559 Speaker 11: rather be a pastor or a lawyer? 1532 01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:04,240 Speaker 12: Oh? 1533 01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 6: I'm crooked a lawyer some stuff. I'm not visiting the 1534 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,320 Speaker 6: sickest shutting in here we go? 1535 01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:13,680 Speaker 16: Oh that on? 1536 01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,559 Speaker 6: I ain't coming to my office telling me your problem. 1537 01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:19,439 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh, well, you don't need to be a pastor. 1538 01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:24,400 Speaker 1: That requires compassion for you know, I. 1539 01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:31,160 Speaker 8: Don''t go down there every Sunday, every your job. I 1540 01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:33,440 Speaker 8: don't forget about every Sunday. 1541 01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:38,160 Speaker 1: Sundays you want to chill. Yeah, the game as pastor 1542 01:17:38,200 --> 01:17:38,639 Speaker 1: you're up. 1543 01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:42,160 Speaker 6: Hey man, we're gonna have to move. We're gonta and 1544 01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:43,679 Speaker 6: my service gonna have to move around. 1545 01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 11: What do you mean. 1546 01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:50,760 Speaker 8: Different playing that Sunday where we haveing church at all 1547 01:17:51,600 --> 01:17:53,280 Speaker 8: and super and super Bowl Sunday. 1548 01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:56,920 Speaker 1: We all completely okay? 1549 01:17:57,800 --> 01:17:58,120 Speaker 6: All right? 1550 01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:00,879 Speaker 1: So you'd rather be a lawyer? You guys rather be lawyers? 1551 01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:01,320 Speaker 6: All right? 1552 01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:04,920 Speaker 11: Would you rather turn up the TV while your wife 1553 01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:07,920 Speaker 11: is talking? Or would you rather pretend to fall asleep? 1554 01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:08,840 Speaker 14: Oh? 1555 01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:10,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, b I tried. 1556 01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:15,240 Speaker 6: I'm going asleep. Yeah, I'm just gonna. 1557 01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:22,240 Speaker 1: You better go to sleep. Turn the TV up while 1558 01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:22,799 Speaker 1: your wife. 1559 01:18:22,680 --> 01:18:24,479 Speaker 9: Is I turned the T while she was talking. 1560 01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:29,360 Speaker 1: She ll plugged it, ripped that whole TV off the wall. 1561 01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:36,000 Speaker 6: Just fall asleep, you know, I really am with this 1562 01:18:36,080 --> 01:18:39,320 Speaker 6: whole You cannot turn that TV up though? 1563 01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:46,720 Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather would you rather have a 1564 01:18:46,920 --> 01:18:51,639 Speaker 1: bear in your backyard? A bear? Or would you rather 1565 01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:53,759 Speaker 1: have your ex in your front yard? 1566 01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:55,120 Speaker 6: Hey? 1567 01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:58,040 Speaker 9: Yeah, put the bear back there. I ain't got to 1568 01:18:58,080 --> 01:18:58,519 Speaker 9: go out there. 1569 01:18:58,960 --> 01:18:59,839 Speaker 6: He in the backyard. 1570 01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:02,360 Speaker 5: Man, I'm gonna try to talk to bad it we 1571 01:19:02,520 --> 01:19:06,320 Speaker 5: come bare, I'm gonna have a discussion. 1572 01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:11,000 Speaker 6: I know what it's the same thing. Hell, well, I 1573 01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:13,840 Speaker 6: solved that problem. I have my exit in the front yard, 1574 01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:15,320 Speaker 6: and then after us come round back. 1575 01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:20,800 Speaker 1: Let me you. 1576 01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,080 Speaker 6: Should be coming up the driveway. I'll be looking out 1577 01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:33,800 Speaker 6: the window a little bit more terror. 1578 01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:34,679 Speaker 17: Terror. 1579 01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:41,200 Speaker 1: That was really bad, so terrible to make perfect. 1580 01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:42,840 Speaker 12: That? 1581 01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:45,080 Speaker 6: All right? 1582 01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:45,720 Speaker 1: Last one? 1583 01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:48,439 Speaker 11: Would you rather speak your mind twenty four to seven 1584 01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:51,120 Speaker 11: or just do whatever you want to do? Twenty four 1585 01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:51,559 Speaker 11: to seven? 1586 01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:53,400 Speaker 6: Do whatever I want to. 1587 01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:59,719 Speaker 19: Do, whatever, no repercussions, whatever you want to know before seven, 1588 01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:02,439 Speaker 19: Please do what I want to do. 1589 01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:06,840 Speaker 1: All right, Thanks, guys, that's today's rounded. 1590 01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,280 Speaker 11: Would you rather coming up next to our last break 1591 01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:11,080 Speaker 11: of the day and we'll close out the show with 1592 01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:14,400 Speaker 11: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're 1593 01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:18,599 Speaker 11: listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are 1594 01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,320 Speaker 11: last break of the day on this Monday. 1595 01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:25,439 Speaker 15: Steve, I think, Junior, before we. 1596 01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:29,439 Speaker 10: Get out of your hockey, I gotta ask your opinions, Yeah, man, 1597 01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:31,439 Speaker 10: let me ask. So we was our smoke cigars? 1598 01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:31,639 Speaker 12: Man? 1599 01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:32,479 Speaker 9: I don't know this guy. 1600 01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:33,760 Speaker 10: You know, you know, but you know it's all the 1601 01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:35,280 Speaker 10: one guy in the group when you're smoke and it's 1602 01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:37,920 Speaker 10: gonna try to say something vocaty and it's a group 1603 01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:39,560 Speaker 10: of men, and we just understand how he could do that. 1604 01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:42,160 Speaker 10: He said he loved his wife so much that he 1605 01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:45,160 Speaker 10: thinks about just taking her last name. Is that ever 1606 01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:46,240 Speaker 10: possible for you all? 1607 01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:46,880 Speaker 14: No? 1608 01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:51,479 Speaker 6: No, But he can go ahead and do whatever he wants. Yeah, 1609 01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:53,919 Speaker 6: yeah you can't. That whip. 1610 01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:02,200 Speaker 8: Situation ain't be nothing else or else. Her family got 1611 01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:05,400 Speaker 8: some money, so I don't know my wife so much. 1612 01:21:05,439 --> 01:21:09,760 Speaker 8: I'm gonna take her last name. But they about to 1613 01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:10,280 Speaker 8: get married. 1614 01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:13,400 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, he's her last name, and. 1615 01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:15,720 Speaker 8: I see, let me explain something to see. Here's what 1616 01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:20,720 Speaker 8: then happened, And she done told him he not changing. 1617 01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:21,639 Speaker 6: Her last name. 1618 01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:26,599 Speaker 8: Yeah, So now he to prepare his group of tears 1619 01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 8: and said, you know what, I love my wife so much, 1620 01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:34,479 Speaker 8: I'm thinking about taking her last name. Because she said 1621 01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:39,080 Speaker 8: she's not going to change her last name. That's what 1622 01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:44,840 Speaker 8: didn't happened, because where does that come from? Yeah, her 1623 01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:48,479 Speaker 8: last name. Well, what has happened is they've had the 1624 01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:52,400 Speaker 8: discussion that she done said adamantly, I'm not changing my 1625 01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:56,280 Speaker 8: last name. So now he's sending here talking about I 1626 01:21:56,400 --> 01:21:58,400 Speaker 8: love my wife so long. See that little punk move 1627 01:21:58,520 --> 01:22:01,800 Speaker 8: right there, you know, because I mean for me that 1628 01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:04,200 Speaker 8: that would be a deal breaker. If you don't want 1629 01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:07,320 Speaker 8: my last name, then I understand that. 1630 01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:08,000 Speaker 6: Then cool. 1631 01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:11,439 Speaker 8: Then you don't you don't want to join me, you 1632 01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:14,680 Speaker 8: want to stay you And that's cool, and wei'll need 1633 01:22:14,760 --> 01:22:15,280 Speaker 8: to get married. 1634 01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:18,640 Speaker 6: Let's just keep dating. If Hall Bearry is here, I 1635 01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:21,679 Speaker 6: mean that I need to be Tommy Barry. I'm gonna 1636 01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:22,400 Speaker 6: be Tommy. 1637 01:22:22,160 --> 01:22:25,280 Speaker 1: Barry, Tommy Bearry all day long. 1638 01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:26,960 Speaker 6: Can be Tommy. Go ahead, I ain't lasting. 1639 01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:28,559 Speaker 1: Let me ask you questions. 1640 01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:30,960 Speaker 16: So if your wife, this woman in your fiance, she 1641 01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:32,679 Speaker 16: has a lot of money, I'm talking. 1642 01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:39,640 Speaker 1: Like Jeff Bezos money, Steve billions would change I'd have 1643 01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:40,559 Speaker 1: been Tommy Smith. 1644 01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:40,960 Speaker 6: Steve. 1645 01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:55,840 Speaker 19: Yes, So there are some conditions to it, Okay, but 1646 01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:57,519 Speaker 19: put it in lights, Steve. 1647 01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:07,320 Speaker 11: Yeah, but that's so offensive to you. If if the 1648 01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:08,679 Speaker 11: woman doesn't want to take your. 1649 01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:10,120 Speaker 6: Name, well yeah, it's that. 1650 01:23:10,520 --> 01:23:13,960 Speaker 8: That to me is a deal bro And why because 1651 01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:18,960 Speaker 8: I'm not finna take your father's last name. I'm not 1652 01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:23,800 Speaker 8: gonna do that because what about my father and and 1653 01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:25,920 Speaker 8: the man he raised me to be, and the man 1654 01:23:26,040 --> 01:23:28,760 Speaker 8: you said I do too? That that ain't who you 1655 01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:33,559 Speaker 8: really want? What we ain't doing all that? I don't 1656 01:23:33,600 --> 01:23:34,080 Speaker 8: want to do that. 1657 01:23:34,200 --> 01:23:37,400 Speaker 5: I don't want to do that all that is it 1658 01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:40,000 Speaker 5: offensive when the lady keeps her maiden name and and 1659 01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:43,000 Speaker 5: and has that uh you know once she used both of. 1660 01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:46,719 Speaker 6: Them people, I don't. 1661 01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:49,559 Speaker 8: I don't think hyphen nation would bother me so much 1662 01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:53,600 Speaker 8: as you're just not gonna take my name, you know. 1663 01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:56,559 Speaker 6: I would, I would, I would be a little bit 1664 01:23:56,640 --> 01:23:57,320 Speaker 6: bugged about it. 1665 01:23:57,400 --> 01:23:59,559 Speaker 8: But I could also understand if you want to continue 1666 01:23:59,600 --> 01:24:01,800 Speaker 8: to honor your father that way, yeah, you know, and 1667 01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:05,240 Speaker 8: then I'm okay. I would be okay with that hyphenated. 1668 01:24:05,680 --> 01:24:08,000 Speaker 8: But my last name is don't be on that paperwork 1669 01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:08,280 Speaker 8: or else. 1670 01:24:08,320 --> 01:24:09,040 Speaker 6: We're not gonna. 1671 01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:15,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care what if she made more money 1672 01:24:15,560 --> 01:24:16,720 Speaker 1: than you if you know. 1673 01:24:16,920 --> 01:24:18,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's going to do with that? 1674 01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:21,439 Speaker 8: Well, I mean, I mean really technically, it has nothing 1675 01:24:21,479 --> 01:24:23,160 Speaker 8: to do with it. Me and my heart across on 1676 01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:26,519 Speaker 8: the reel. No, I don't care what you make on 1677 01:24:26,600 --> 01:24:27,439 Speaker 8: the I don't. 1678 01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:28,160 Speaker 1: Care what real answer. 1679 01:24:30,080 --> 01:24:33,840 Speaker 16: So, now, when when I got married, my maiden name 1680 01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 16: became my middle name, I stopped legally using my middle 1681 01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:39,960 Speaker 16: name until my maiden name is my middle name. 1682 01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:44,920 Speaker 1: Now Pherreh is my married name. So I'm cool with that, yeah, 1683 01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:47,439 Speaker 1: but I have no hyphen in it. But some people 1684 01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:47,840 Speaker 1: do it. 1685 01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:50,400 Speaker 16: Some women get married and they don't use their husband's name, 1686 01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:53,920 Speaker 16: like Tommy was saying at all. It's not that they 1687 01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:57,880 Speaker 16: don't say that their husband has to use their name. 1688 01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:00,719 Speaker 16: They just don't use their husbands last I've seen. 1689 01:25:00,880 --> 01:25:01,680 Speaker 14: Not do that. 1690 01:25:02,200 --> 01:25:09,840 Speaker 8: You see we're not doing that. Going back to it, Well, 1691 01:25:09,880 --> 01:25:11,920 Speaker 8: my dog, you know you're just asking me. 1692 01:25:12,040 --> 01:25:15,040 Speaker 6: I'm old school. I'm old fashioned. You know what I mean. 1693 01:25:15,360 --> 01:25:17,439 Speaker 8: And that's why I am with it. You know all 1694 01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:20,040 Speaker 8: y'all doing heyn. Let me tell you something. All this 1695 01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:24,519 Speaker 8: new stuff, it ain't working. It's not working, dog, dog, 1696 01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:27,920 Speaker 8: it's not working. This new way of living, this this 1697 01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:31,439 Speaker 8: this moving in first, he's having all these kids first. 1698 01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:35,040 Speaker 8: It's not working for the average woman. Man, there is 1699 01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:37,680 Speaker 8: an order to this thing. The reason that was an 1700 01:25:37,960 --> 01:25:41,160 Speaker 8: order was to protect the woman, to give a woman right. 1701 01:25:41,400 --> 01:25:45,080 Speaker 8: You can't you can't get it. Later on, you moved 1702 01:25:45,120 --> 01:25:48,200 Speaker 8: in to a house, ain't got your name on the deed. 1703 01:25:48,600 --> 01:25:51,720 Speaker 8: You you moved in and you are it's bank accounting. 1704 01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:55,000 Speaker 8: Your name ain't on the bank accounting. And he gives 1705 01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:56,280 Speaker 8: you money as he sees fit. 1706 01:25:56,560 --> 01:26:01,840 Speaker 6: This dog, this what all all this new stuff, the 1707 01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:03,080 Speaker 6: new stuff ain't working. 1708 01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:04,800 Speaker 7: And listen to this. 1709 01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:07,400 Speaker 8: All these pre nups do you know? And this is 1710 01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:11,439 Speaker 8: honest to God's truth. I have never met a couple 1711 01:26:11,680 --> 01:26:14,040 Speaker 8: that had a pre nup that did not use it. 1712 01:26:15,560 --> 01:26:17,720 Speaker 1: Wouldn't have That's what I don't. 1713 01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:24,400 Speaker 6: I ain't nothing we had to build, wasn't nothing to. 1714 01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:32,760 Speaker 8: Pre nupt We didn't have no, we didn't have the 1715 01:26:32,920 --> 01:26:36,559 Speaker 8: nut for what, nothing to pre Now when I got 1716 01:26:36,600 --> 01:26:39,600 Speaker 8: with Marjorie, I had a little bit, But yeah, I 1717 01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:43,880 Speaker 8: just knew this was it. I'm betting on at all, 1718 01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:46,360 Speaker 8: all or nothing for me. That's just my opinion. You 1719 01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:48,200 Speaker 8: don't have to agree with me. Hey, listen, y'all talk 1720 01:26:48,240 --> 01:26:51,000 Speaker 8: to God today because he probably be open to listen 1721 01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:52,240 Speaker 8: to what you got to say than I am. 1722 01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:55,200 Speaker 6: Y'all, have a great day. We'll see you tomorrow. Carl, 1723 01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:56,680 Speaker 6: I ain't know you were walking around with at him. 1724 01:27:07,320 --> 01:27:10,800 Speaker 11: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void wear prohibited. 1725 01:27:10,840 --> 01:27:14,320 Speaker 11: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1726 01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:18,680 Speaker 11: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM 1727 01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:22,400 Speaker 11: dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show