1 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: It's that time time, time, time, luck and load. So 2 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: Michael vari show is on the air. 3 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 2: All right, back to Teresa, all right, let's get this straight. 4 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 2: Take notes. Okay, Teresa, the traditional spelling t h e 5 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 2: r e s A Teresa deesa Latina version of Teresa 6 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: t e r e s A. No h after the T. 7 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 2: You should know that Teresa t e r e s 8 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 2: s A as you spelled it. But this isn't Teresa's Teresa. Okay, 9 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: Roman Teresa. Yes, I'm having distudiously avoid looking at the 10 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: call screen, which is to my right. If I see it, all, 11 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 2: pronounce it the way it's written. 12 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 3: Okay. 13 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 2: Okay. So your father adopts your brother's son. 14 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 4: My cousin. 15 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: He was my aunt's son. Okay, your aunt's his, so 16 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 2: his nephew, his nephew. He had some tough times. He 17 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: struggled as many people do, sewing his wild oats I 18 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: think was your phrase. And then he learned and he 19 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 2: had grown up, you know, with with dad learning, learning 20 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: some skills, and then he became an ac repair man. 21 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 2: Is that right? 22 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 4: Are electrician? 23 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 2: You have a very sweet voice. By the way, Have 24 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 2: I ever told you that? 25 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 3: No? 26 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 2: Thank you? Yes, you just seem like a nice person, 27 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 2: very grit very grandmotherly. How old are you sixty seven? 28 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: Sixty seven? Are you a grandmother? Oh? Several times? Ober, 29 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: Well that's sweet, all right. So your your cousin, uh, 30 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: he's he's an acy repairman. And where did you go 31 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: from there? We ran out of time. 32 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 4: My biological brother and I have very high IQs. Alan 33 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 4: has an average IQ and my mother had a hard 34 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 4: time dealing with that because she was used to my 35 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 4: other brother and I. But Alan was the quarterback of 36 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 4: the football team, so he had talent, he had charisma. 37 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 4: He's a very good looking young man. But like I said, 38 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 4: he had some hard times and then he has Finally, 39 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 4: he's fifty one now works in Huntsville as an air 40 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 4: conditioner electrician, and we are all so very proud of 41 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 4: him because he turned his life around and he's so 42 00:02:55,120 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 4: he wasn't naturally brilliant, but he is a brilliant young man. 43 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 4: He took what he had and he made the most 44 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 4: out of it. 45 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: So I have to go. 46 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 5: I have to take a call. 47 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, no, no, I enjoyed our conversation. This is counterintuitive, 48 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 2: but trust me that it's true. There has long been 49 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 2: the idea that being quote unquote smart, which is scoring 50 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: well on an IQ test, And I'm not I'm not 51 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 2: disagreeing with Teresa. This is this is a tangent off 52 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: of what Teresa said, but not a counter to tersa 53 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: and what you get throw on you. It's scoring highly 54 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: on an IQ test. Being a person who is naturally 55 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 2: gifted with a processor up above your brain processes quickly 56 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 2: that that is the ticket to professional success. And you 57 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 2: you're going to think I'm crazy, and most of you 58 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 2: will not believe me, especially if you are not a 59 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: person so gifted. But I'm going to tell you the 60 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: opposite is true unless you define success differently than I 61 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: suspect most of you do. If you define success as 62 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:23,799 Speaker 2: working in the chemistry lab at Exxon, making one hundred 63 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 2: thousand dollars a year, rarely anymore, wearing a clip on tie, 64 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 2: short sleeve shirt, and grinding out for thirty five years 65 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 2: until you retire, that I'm not saying that person is 66 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 2: not successful, but we don't hold that person up as 67 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: highly successful in society the way we would Trump or 68 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 2: Elon or Tilman for Tita or Steve Jobs or whoever else. 69 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: When you talk about people who make the big money. 70 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 2: And let's say the big money is we'll just pick 71 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 2: a random number where you are will affect this number 72 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 2: five hundred if you were to look at the number 73 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: of people who make five hundred thousand dollars or more. 74 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 2: I have no study to prove this is purely anecdotal, 75 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 2: but observing people and asking tacky questions, intrusive questions, and 76 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 2: finding a way to get answers to them to add 77 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: them to the algorithm so that my algorithm becomes better 78 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 2: and better the more data, the bigger the data set. 79 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 2: I will tell you that if people who make over 80 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 2: five hundred thousand dollars a year, ninety percent of them 81 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:45,839 Speaker 2: are somewhere between average intelligence and slightly above average intelligence. 82 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 2: And that is an absolute fact. Well, I can't say 83 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 2: that that is an opinion that don't come too lightly. If, however, 84 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: we were to discuss people who make between seventy five 85 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: thousand and two fifty who might have been Valdictorn in 86 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 2: their class, who had a perfect SAT, who are MENSA members. 87 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 2: The number of people who will tell you they are 88 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 2: a MENSA member, who are financially successful very very slim. 89 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 2: So I love Jeopardy I've always loved Jeopardy. It was 90 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 2: my mother and I watched Jeopardy together. Romon, you're too 91 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 2: young to understand this, but there was a time when 92 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 2: you watched something live, or you didn't watch it, you 93 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 2: didn't get to you didn't get to you know, tvo 94 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 2: it or whatever else. We watched Jeopardy together. That was 95 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 2: our thing. And so there's a lot of fond memories. 96 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 2: When Alex died, Alex Trebek, I say, Alex, like we're buddies. 97 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell you that, you know, it 98 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 2: was my dog dying. I went into mourning for three days. 99 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 2: Well I don't do that anyway, but it was a 100 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: little part of me died, A little part of my 101 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 2: life died. I was that attached to Alex Trebek. He 102 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: was a part. He was a stable part of my life. 103 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: People will say to me in writing or in person, 104 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: they'll say, you know, I feel like we're friends because 105 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 2: you're in the passenger seat with me all day long, 106 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 2: especially people who drive all day. You're in the pastor 107 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 2: seat with me all day long. And they think they'll go, 108 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 2: I know that's hard for you to know. I completely 109 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: understand it. We don't do the show the way most 110 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 2: people do a show like this, where we are barking 111 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 2: political things at you. We do the show like we're 112 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 2: on a long drive and we're talking through things. And 113 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 2: so anyway, when you consider if you wanted your kid 114 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 2: to grow up to make a million dollars a year, 115 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: you're better off if that kid is not a high 116 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 2: Q kid. So I watched Jeopardy, and the biggest winner 117 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 2: on Jeopardy of all time is Ken Jenny's I think 118 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 2: he won seventy four times. I know he won seventy four, 119 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 2: he won twohndred and fifty times. But you will notice 120 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 2: on Jeopardy these really really really smart people and none 121 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: of them have what we would donsider highly successful job. 122 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 5: The Michael Barry Show is. 123 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 6: This poison arrow. I don't think we've ever played this 124 00:08:46,080 --> 00:09:00,079 Speaker 6: in twenty years ago. What made you think of this? 125 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 3: But you would just want to do. 126 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 1: That? 127 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 4: I said, I love you fall the situation. 128 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 2: You remember the video for this. There's a hot woman 129 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: in there. I forget her name. She was, uh, she 130 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 2: was famous. Later she was one of those women famous 131 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 2: for being famous. She was on one of the the 132 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 2: Real Housewives. And I don't know that because I watched that, 133 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: but I read the headlines on people magazines when I'm 134 00:09:54,320 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: checking out the grocer s. This is a theme that 135 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 2: I attack often, and I want you to understand why 136 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 2: I do so. It is in large part because I 137 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 2: really think we could transform lives if people understand what 138 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 2: I'm saying and take it to heart. There are a 139 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 2: lot of people within the earshot who think of themselves 140 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 2: as dullards. You know, if you were to go to 141 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 2: the auction, they'd be the skinny cow nobody wanted to buy. 142 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 2: If you were playing pickup ball, they'd be the kid 143 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: last picked, and it's four on four and you know, 144 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 2: best kid has been picked, and now you're lading you go. 145 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 2: I guess we got dumbee, all right, you know. And 146 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 2: if we won't dumb dumby, you post up out of 147 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 2: there on a three if we if we get bored, 148 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 2: we'll throw it to you, but probably not just out 149 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: of the way. Okay, you know, somebody brought along their 150 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 2: little brother. Even numbers or even odds, You're like, y'all 151 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: can have dumb you know, don't make a difference anyway. 152 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 2: So there are a lot of people within earshot who 153 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 2: are a service technician for home improvement company, are a 154 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 2: billion clerk for a medical office, or a courier or 155 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 2: a cop or some other thing that they never expected 156 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 2: to be when they were growing up. But at some 157 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 2: point you got to get a job, right, And so 158 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 2: you're waiting tables at the restaurant, maybe to get yourself 159 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: through school, and then you waiting tables when you start looking, 160 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 2: and it's hard. It's hard to get in. It's hard 161 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 2: to get into a job. It's very difficult today to 162 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 2: get into a job. And I don't think companies realize 163 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: how hard they make it. They make it very, very difficult. 164 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 2: They create barriers, and they put a person in charge 165 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: of hiring who doesn't have the skill set for that, 166 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 2: and that person wants to create cumber. There's some labyrinthine documents. 167 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 2: These are the same people that scheme up all the 168 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: documents you can fill out before you can see the doctor, 169 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 2: even independent practices. How do I know this because I 170 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 2: always put ridiculous things on there, and there's no way 171 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 2: possible you could read that if you read the form. 172 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: There's no way possible you could read that and not 173 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,719 Speaker 2: bring it up to me. If I'm visiting the cardiologists 174 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: and they say, why are you here today? I have 175 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 2: massive boils on my ass cheek When I sit down, 176 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: they squirt out, and then you start on the next paget, 177 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 2: Like when I get letters from prison inmates. It starts out. 178 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 2: You know, they'll they'll have a margin of zero point 179 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 2: seventy five on each side. What a what an o 180 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: CD thing to say? They'll have a they'll have a 181 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 2: normal margin on each side, And then they run out 182 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,599 Speaker 2: of paper, so then they draw an arrow and I 183 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 2: almost start sideways and write perpendicular to that one, and 184 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: they use every I mean, it's it's a maze to 185 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 2: finish the thing. But people they go to work, they 186 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 2: finally get a job, and it's whoever, wherever they can 187 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 2: get a job, whoever's hiring, okay, and it's doing something 188 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 2: they know nothing about, they have no training for. And 189 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 2: when you're in the entry level position, you're just feeling 190 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: a slot. You're not made to feel valuable because the 191 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: people who should make you feel valuable and appreciated and 192 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 2: who should inspire you do not have that skill set 193 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 2: because they started where you are and they ended up 194 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 2: in that position, or they went to college and got 195 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 2: a degree in psychology. So now they have a college degree. 196 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: Oh they're something special. So they got hired because they 197 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 2: have a college degree, and maybe they check one of 198 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 2: the boxes that need to be checked. That's how people 199 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: end up in HR. And so now that person is 200 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 2: puts you in the spot, but they don't really. All 201 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 2: they do is make sure you get your fob key 202 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 2: and your ID badge and the direct depositive information and 203 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 2: they send you on your own. So now you go 204 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 2: into whatever group you're working with and the person and 205 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 2: nobody there wants to train you. They don't care because 206 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 2: they've never been trained. So how can they train you? 207 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 2: And they've never been trained, they don't know how to 208 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,839 Speaker 2: bring you in. They don't know how to inspire you. 209 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 2: They don't know how to teach you the company culture 210 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 2: because they don't know the company has a culture because 211 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: it hasn't been thought about. Most people don't think about 212 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: these things. So you're living in a world full of dullards. 213 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: So now there you are, you doing this job, and 214 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 2: some point along the way, I am starting to get 215 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 2: on in years. I'm twenty eight. Now I guess I 216 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 2: better get married because I'm ended up fifty and never 217 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 2: been married. I guess this is the point. 218 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 7: Now. 219 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I've I've got a job. I've been here 220 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 2: for two years now, so I qualify for a car loan, 221 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: and I qualify for a house loan, but don't live 222 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 2: by myself. So I don't really love Susie. I mean 223 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 2: crazy about her, not like it was supposed to be 224 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 2: in the movies. But she'll do and she's willing to 225 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 2: marry me. Let's get married and have a kid. Or 226 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 2: maybe she's pregnant, Let's have a kid. Now we have 227 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 2: the kid. So that takes up a couple of years 228 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 2: of our lives burning through that. Before you know it, 229 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 2: we're starting to look at elementary school. Oh my gosh, 230 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 2: can you believe it happened so fast? And I've been 231 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: at the company for eight years, and maybe I've even 232 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 2: moved up a couple levels. Kids going to kindergarten. Well, 233 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 2: by this time, we're getting into sports. So that'll take 234 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 2: every weekday evening when I get home. That'll give us 235 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: something to do as a family, gives us some structure. 236 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 2: Get to root for my kid, because you know, you 237 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 2: don't come home be like Bobby Snail. 238 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 6: This biology test, you've got this byby whoa. 239 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 2: You're not posting pictures that your kid got an A 240 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: in biology, but a home run in te ball that's something, 241 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 2: even if the home run is really just the rodeo. 242 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 2: You know, you dribble it to third base and he 243 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 2: overthrows first and first runs gets it and he throws 244 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: it to the left or to third base, but it 245 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 2: goes into left before you know your kid's scores and 246 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: you can't help it. You're going, man, you might play pro. 247 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 2: I had to retire and travel and see every ballpark 248 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: in America, probably gonna go pro. Got a home run already. 249 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 2: And somewhere along the line you look up and on 250 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: CNN you're talking about some guy who's a very successful 251 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 2: businessman or maybe maybe your sister her a next door neighbor, 252 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: married this rich man and he's smart. He's I'm not smart, 253 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 2: I'm dumb, I'm sweart. But that's actually not true. This 254 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 2: is important to hang with him for me. The information 255 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 2: that I get from the show that I don't seem 256 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 2: to get from other places, The Michael Barry Show. 257 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 8: Matter of fact, nobody ignoring the fashion one. 258 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 2: Bobby writes, poison Arrow is the gayest song of all time, 259 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 2: The Gayest is one of the gayest songs of all time, 260 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 2: the Gayest being the start of Ballroom Blitz by the Suite. 261 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 2: I don't know that we should have straight dudes deciding 262 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 2: what is and isn't the gayest, because we don't really know, right. 263 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,879 Speaker 2: We need our gay expert, gay Dave to call in 264 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 2: seven one, three, nine, nine, nine, one thousand. He's probably 265 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 2: got us on speed die. Although I'm not really sure 266 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 2: what to do about gay Dave because he's he's kind 267 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 2: of apparently and he's the one who emailed it. He's 268 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 2: kind of becoming a little bit of a celebrity in 269 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 2: the gay conservative circles. Apparently when they go to a party, 270 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 2: because gay guys go to a lot of parties. Apparently, 271 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 2: when he goes to parties now, gay conservatives come up 272 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 2: and say, well, they're gay parties, there are he said. 273 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 2: They come up and be like, I want to meet Michael. 274 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 2: I've only met him one time in an event in 275 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 2: nine to twenty. You go there too, and you can 276 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 2: meet him, he said, I want to talk to him, 277 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 2: and he said, but I guard my access. I don't 278 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 2: share my acts. Sissa's. He kind of like to be 279 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 2: the king of all the gays. You know, Al Sharpton 280 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 2: does that. For blacks, Jesse Jackson does that. Everybody likes 281 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 2: to be that, you know that they're the one that's 282 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 2: the king of you know, they represent the community. So 283 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: we will ask gay Dave once we get him on 284 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 2: the line seven one three nine nine, nine, one thousand, 285 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 2: I guess we could have other gay dudes called him 286 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 2: and tell us the gayest songs of all time and 287 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 2: what makes them so gay because we think of gay 288 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 2: as you know, that's dumb, that's not good, that's not manly. 289 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 2: But they may have a different definition of what's you know, 290 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 2: the gayest. So back to the point, and this is 291 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: this is a very important point because we're talking about 292 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:44,120 Speaker 2: how someone's life turns out. This is not a minor thing. 293 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 2: Even getting the presidential election wrong will have less influence 294 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 2: on getting this part right. So let's go back. This 295 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 2: is important. People start school. Kids start school and they 296 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 2: have no idea why they're going to school. They liked 297 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 2: staying home, but mom needs some time during the day, 298 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 2: and who can fault it's tough to stay home with kids. 299 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 2: Tell you this, it's also tough to be an assisted 300 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,399 Speaker 2: living nurse or caregiver. The things you learn when you 301 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 2: just spend a few minutes in somebody else's shoes. It's 302 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 2: rough to be around old people. They're grumpy, they're never happy. 303 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 2: Everything hurts, you know, it's like little big kids again, 304 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 2: to pee in the poop and all that. I mean, 305 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 2: I'm walking down the hallway and every single person is 306 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 2: struggling with their own crisis in any given moment. It's 307 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 2: rough anyway. So we send a kid to school because 308 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 2: mom needs some time away, and we've got it. The 309 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 2: state has to indoctrinate his mind with the certain things 310 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 2: we want him to know, and so we send the 311 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 2: kid off and he doesn't fit in. But especially true 312 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 2: if boys. Teachers will tell you boys are so bad 313 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 2: and girls are very good. No, we're very different, just 314 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 2: as boys have wieners and girls don't. Did you see 315 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 2: President Trump over the weekend. They asked him what is 316 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 2: a woman? He said, we'll start with she can have 317 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 2: a baby in most cases. I mean, he wasn't afraid 318 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: to answer the question. So little boys are built differently. 319 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 2: That's why the little that's why we always sent the 320 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 2: little boys off to war and not the women, because 321 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 2: they're built differently. Their minds are different, they grow at 322 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 2: different rates, the things going through their mind. You know, 323 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 2: you're very comfortable seeing a male and female dog introduced 324 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 2: into the same playpark, dog park. You're very comfortable watching 325 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 2: in a dog part full of dogs up that breed 326 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 2: over there. He's going to go in and dominate him. 327 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 2: He's gonna hump that other dog's leg to tell him 328 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: we're in prison, and I'm on top, like you see 329 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 2: these things play out. And if you know anything about dogs, 330 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 2: you know that's what that breed does. That's every member 331 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 2: of that breed. That's what they're going to do in 332 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 2: the crowd. Well, that's also true to a large extent 333 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 2: for boys and girls. We have a physiological developmental process, 334 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 2: and boys and girls are completely different. There will be 335 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 2: exceptions to that rule. There will was that gay Dave 336 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 2: Tom told him an somebody had to track him down, somebody, 337 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:26,919 Speaker 2: somebody in the relay. They've got a gay relay. Somebody 338 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 2: calls somebody who called somebody like, hey, gay Dave is 339 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,959 Speaker 2: needed on Michael Berry Shaw. They came and got him. 340 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 2: He says, oh okay, all right, let me finish this point. 341 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 2: So these kids, so these little boys are going to school, 342 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 2: and it's historically mostly women who are teaching it. And 343 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 2: so you've got a woman who's just like mom at home. 344 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 2: She doesn't want him to be a little boy. She 345 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 2: wants him to be like a little girl. And today 346 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 2: they literally like pigtails and cut you in her off 347 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 2: chemical castration. These little boys are struggling to keep it together. 348 00:21:55,320 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 2: They're struggling not to distract. They can't sit still. They're 349 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 2: they're they're anxious, they're they're they're eager. Then want to 350 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 2: go outside and climb stuff and throw stuff and break stuff, 351 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 2: build stuff, knock stuff and kick stuff. And no, no, no, 352 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 2: little lord frontleroy, who want you to sit there like 353 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 2: a prison inmate, locked down. So they develop behavioral problems. 354 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 2: They don't understand why they're in school. They're not interested 355 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 2: in what's being taught and doesn't make them dumb, but 356 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: they're not fitting within the school, and the school is 357 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 2: giving them marks, and that mark is everything. Oh my 358 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 2: kid is all as Crimson Elementary. Well, the only the 359 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: only comeback is a good old fashioned redneck Like I 360 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 2: drew up, grew up with the kind of guys that said, 361 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 2: if it's brown and root, flush it the union workers 362 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 2: at the plant. That was a very common one when 363 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 2: I was growing up. Uh, and then there was always 364 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 2: a free uh free what was the one guy? There 365 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 2: was always some redneck that worked at the plant that 366 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 2: had gotten a fight, and they'd arrested him and send 367 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 2: him away and they're you know, they're they're trying to 368 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 2: get him out. So they'd have a plate line dinner 369 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 2: this weekend. You could come out and get a plate 370 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 2: lunch and drink beer and rider Harley and we were 371 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 2: all doing it for Jerry Lafleur, but actually was just 372 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 2: an excuse to get together. But anyway, so these these 373 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,520 Speaker 2: boys particularly are struggling as they're going into school and 374 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 2: they're not the all A student. But the redneck parent 375 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 2: growing up will be like my d student, beat up 376 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 2: your A student that I always love that bumbersticker. So 377 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 2: now these kids, because they're not getting good grades, they're 378 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 2: not getting the opportunities. We don't want you in college 379 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,639 Speaker 2: because you're not a good student. We don't want you 380 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 2: over here because you're not a good student. And wherever 381 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 2: these kids go, how are you doing in school? All 382 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 2: A's all right, okay, yeah, you get a free pizza deep. 383 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 2: You get a free piece of pizza because you got 384 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 2: all a's you played by the rules. The woman gave 385 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 2: you good marks on being like a little girl, because 386 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 2: that's that's how it is for a little kid. 387 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:48,160 Speaker 4: Right. 388 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 2: So now they're coming into their own and so they 389 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 2: got to go into prison all day and the only 390 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 2: outlet is a sport or a fight, or a cigarette 391 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 2: or a drug, or maybe they can go home and 392 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 2: start working on on on an old car. Before you 393 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 2: know what, school is out. They don't know what to do. 394 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 2: They go to the military because why not, what else 395 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 2: are they going to do? They don't know what to do. 396 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 2: Some will go to vocational training, some will go to 397 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,639 Speaker 2: work at dad's shop. Some will try to get hired on. 398 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 2: But they getting hired on. It's harder than it used 399 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 2: to be. See this is where a legal immigration destroyed 400 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 2: multiple generations. Used to a young kid coming out of 401 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 2: American school, black, white, Hispanic, coming out of high school, 402 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 2: if he didn't go to the military and didn't go 403 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 2: to vocational training, there were still jobs. He'd get hired 404 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 2: as a helper and he might take it to it. It 405 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 2: might get real good at it. So hold with me. 406 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 2: One morning. We got gay David to tell us, ask 407 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 2: him to just go ahead and know what the five 408 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:39,919 Speaker 2: gayest songs are? 409 00:24:39,920 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 3: All all, this is the Michael Berry show. 410 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 2: Good thing, got. 411 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 9: My goodness, he's going crazy right now. He's the biggest 412 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,719 Speaker 9: George Michaels fan. Well it's Ronda now it wasn't an 413 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 9: Rondo before. Jay's last name. 414 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:38,640 Speaker 7: Is one. 415 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 2: Gay Dave? 416 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 7: How you doing, Michael good? 417 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 2: This was the gayest song? Is that what you said? 418 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 7: No? No, that's number five? 419 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 2: Oh okay, hold on number four. 420 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 7: We'll go in reverse order, but. 421 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 2: You would know this is it George Michael or George Michaels. 422 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 7: I think it's just Michael. 423 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 2: Okay, you know his real name? 424 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,400 Speaker 7: Uh yeah, it's Papadopoulos or something. 425 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 2: That's so funny. I was gonna say it's Papadopoulos or 426 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 2: something like that. Yeah, it's something Greek. I think it 427 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 2: starts with an a. It's like Aristotle, Aristophanes or something. Yeah, 428 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 2: something like that. 429 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 7: All right, Number four, something like that. Number four is 430 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 7: Dancing Queen by Abba. 431 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Do you know that Ramon does not go 432 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 2: more than one month at a time and has him 433 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 2: for twenty years without watching Muriel's wedding because he loves 434 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 2: that song so much. 435 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 7: That's pretty gay. 436 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well number three, yeah, number three. 437 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 7: You know, this might not actually be a top five 438 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 7: for most gay people, but for me, this is my favorite. 439 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,199 Speaker 2: Well, you're the spokes all gay people, so it is 440 00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 2: now officially number three. 441 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 7: Okay, Well there you go, so then it works. It's 442 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 7: I don't feel like dancing by the Scissor Sisters. 443 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 2: That it's lesbian. We're not mixing those. 444 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 7: They're pretty gay, okay, like every one of them is gay. 445 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 2: I don't know this song, I know, but that's. 446 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,439 Speaker 7: A great song. You would like that song. It's a 447 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 7: great song. 448 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 2: Why would Why is there three on the gay listen? 449 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 2: I would like it? What do you say it? 450 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 7: I'm just saying it's a good song, no matter if 451 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 7: you're gay or not gay. Like I don't like to dance, 452 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 7: but when I hear that song, I want to dance. 453 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough. Number two. 454 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 7: Number two is Ymca by The Village People. 455 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 2: Which I think I'm pretty sure is Donald Trump's favorite song. 456 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, he loves that song. He loves pretty pro gay, 457 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 7: even though the gays don't think that. 458 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 2: What's funny is gays knew that they knew that, but 459 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,560 Speaker 2: they have to make him anti gay. That's what they 460 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 2: do when they don't like Song's politics. They have to 461 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 2: make them out to be a gay hater, right, because 462 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,199 Speaker 2: that will make other gays who are lazy and not 463 00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:01,400 Speaker 2: look it up. Trump has always been very very pro gay, 464 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 2: openly pro gay New York politics, pro ge. 465 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 7: Here's pro gay before Hillary was. Yeah, they ran in 466 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:08,400 Speaker 7: twenty sixteen. 467 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 2: Yep. Evangelicals don't want to admit that because it upsets them, 468 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 2: but they're lying. It's true. He's always been very pro guy, 469 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 2: has has many many gay friends. He's his policies in 470 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 2: his company, his positions publicly. But he does love YMCA, 471 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 2: There's no doubt about that. Loves it. And so do 472 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 2: we be honest? 473 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 7: All right? 474 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,239 Speaker 2: Go ahead, Number one, get fun And number one, who 475 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 2: are you talking to the background? 476 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 7: It's raining men by the weather girls. 477 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 2: Who are you talking to in the background? 478 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 7: Me, I'm not talking to anyone. 479 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 2: What are you doing? 480 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 7: I'm trying to do some work on the farm. 481 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 2: Oh I forgot you're at the farm. Okay, Now off 482 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 2: the cuff, I in no particular order. Off the cuff. 483 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 2: Give us the five gayest jobs, the jobs at most 484 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 2: gays that more gays do than anything else. You get five. 485 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 7: I t anyone in, I t uh. If you're a 486 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 7: hair dresser, I think that's up there, or barber. 487 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 2: I don't think barbara. 488 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 7: Think yeah, more hair dresser, but I mean, yeah, there's 489 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 7: a fancy kind of barber's. 490 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 2: Yes, all right. Number three, if. 491 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 7: You work in a bath house, I think that's pretty Gaya. 492 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 2: Just took a turn. Wow, Okay, I didn't know we're 493 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 2: talking about Barack Obama here. All right. 494 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 7: I'm trying. I'm trying to think, hm hmmm, uh. Maybe 495 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 7: if you do like nails, like painting people's nails, manicures. 496 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 2: Any dudes painting nails? The next answer was a florist, 497 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 2: very good, Yeah, what's the last one? 498 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 7: And uh, Monsieur if you're okay. 499 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, Massur is a girl. I think I might have it. 500 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 7: I think the other way around. 501 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right. The five biggest trips triggers on your 502 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 2: gaytor If you walk in there's a guy across the 503 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 2: room and he's not being nelly or flamboyant or anything else, 504 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: but based on how he's how he looks, what he's 505 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 2: wearing or whatever, what are the five tails for you? 506 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 7: Oh, if you have really like nice hair, if you're 507 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 7: one of those like hair people, although those metro sexual 508 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 7: is really mess things up these days. 509 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, well they might be on the spot. 510 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, if you have painted nails, that's definitely a sign. 511 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 2: Okay, what about this. I have a lot of black 512 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 2: friends who they get their nails polished and buffed and 513 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 2: it creeps me out and I tell them and they 514 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 2: don't care, and they're like, it's a black thing. You 515 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 2: want to understand. But I mean it's like gloss on there. 516 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, they put the clear stuff on sometimes. 517 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they buffet, like they get their nails 518 00:30:55,360 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 2: done as much as my wife does. All right, Next, 519 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 2: my gatar is terrible. 520 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 7: I always have that. I hope their gay thing that 521 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 7: that gets in the way my gaitar. But I would say, uh, 522 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 7: like the way they're dressed. That they're dressed like really 523 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 7: nice and fancy. 524 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 2: Well that's what we're for like. 525 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 7: A place, yeah, kind of a day a place like 526 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 7: you're not yeah, kind of dandy, like if you're especially 527 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 7: if you're in a place that normally people just dress 528 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 7: in shorts and a T shirt. Yeah, and they're all fancy. 529 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah gay dave, you know, what's interesting. So in the 530 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 2: mid nineties I did a after law school, I did 531 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 2: another law to gree in England and I'm an Angliphile 532 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 2: love everything about England. There decline saddens me, but especially 533 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 2: when I went to London. London is the sartorial capital, 534 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 2: in my opinion of the world, especially for this English 535 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 2: gentleman look. And I would see guys that they would 536 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 2: be the three piece suit, I mean, over the top, 537 00:31:56,440 --> 00:32:00,240 Speaker 2: over the top Savoy Street bespoke suit, you know, every 538 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 2: hair in place, carrying their briefcase. And there's no way 539 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 2: they're all gay. It's just a very English thing to 540 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 2: dress like a dandy. And and they took such pains, 541 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 2: and I, you know, I thought, man, when I'm a 542 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 2: young lawyer, I'm gonna I'm gonna dress like that. And 543 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 2: so I bought, you know, within reason on my first salary, 544 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 2: started buying. And then I realized, man, now I do 545 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 2: the show in shorts and Andreot it's just I'm more 546 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 2: kind of Island attire now because it's just too it's 547 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 2: too much work. All right, So what did you say? 548 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 7: Oh? 549 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 2: Okay, what else? 550 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 7: I was just gonna say, All British people, they're kind 551 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 7: of gay. 552 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 2: Well, they do kind of have that. They're less they're 553 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 2: less manly masculine than Americans in in the vibe. There's 554 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 2: no doubt about that for sure. What about the frosted 555 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 2: tips that that old George. 556 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, Yeah, if you got colored like hair frosted stuff, 557 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 7: that's definitely a big sign. 558 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's a big one. And you have the 559 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 2: fifth one or do we have to stop it for. 560 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 7: Uh this one? Uh? If your shorts are shorter than 561 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 7: the skies that wear shorts, like most most maskt and 562 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 7: most Saton maskings, most straight guys, their shorts go down 563 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 7: at least their knees. Yeah, And if a gay guy 564 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 7: has like real short, like real short shirts on, that's 565 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 7: that's definitely a side. 566 00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 2: My wife will buy one or two. She'll buy something 567 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 2: and bring it home and if I like it, then 568 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 2: we keep it, and if I don't, because she can't 569 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 2: get me to go out and shop, but she has 570 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 2: taught me it's five, seven and nine. That's the linked 571 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 2: on the shorts. So five is the gay dude, that's 572 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 2: how the are. And I'm a nine guy because I 573 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 2: want it just above my knee. I think that's probably 574 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:35,479 Speaker 2: the biggest. 575 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 7: I'm kind of in the middle. 576 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Ramon wears, which is odd. You wouldn't experence where 577 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 2: really really short shorts, really really short shorts, so much 578 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 2: so that if you walk in, you want him to 579 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 2: close his legs because it's it's awkward. It's a very 580 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 2: awkward visual. Gay Dave, thank you for your shirt. We 581 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 2: appreciate it. 582 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 7: Hanging out the side of his shirt. 583 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't say that, all right. 584 00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 7: Thank you