1 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 1: M m mm hmmmm mm hmm. 2 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 2: Welcome back to All the Smoke. We got a very 3 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 2: special episode Jack. Last time we were in DC, we 4 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: got a chance to sit down with the former Vice President, 5 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 2: Kamala Harris. Now we're back in DC, yep, and we 6 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 2: got some very special guests. We got a chance to 7 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 2: sit down with Craig Robinson on Unplugged. Man was that 8 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 2: about a year ago? And he brought his little sister 9 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: today I did he Welcome to the show. Ms. Michelle 10 00:00:54,320 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: Obama and Craig Robinson, thanks for having me. Another legendary episode, 11 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 2: so we get a crossover for our fans. We got 12 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 2: a chance to sit down on their show yesterday and 13 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:09,119 Speaker 2: had an amazing outside of norm our normal scope type 14 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: of conversation. So you guys, make sure you guys check 15 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 2: that out. We'll let you know when that's dropping. And 16 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 2: then to now today they paid the favorite back and 17 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 2: it's All the Smoke time. 18 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, we on your rice. 19 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: Yes, indeed, we already had a violator, but we got 20 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 2: to keep a PG Crystal sat so we can't talk 21 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 2: about that. But Jack, we got let's start with a 22 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: boxing question. 23 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 4: Oh boxing. 24 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 5: We heard back in the day that y'all had a 25 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 5: couple of squabbles. 26 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, so who's the most known top. 27 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 4: She always got to win. She always got to win 28 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 4: the fights. 29 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 7: So her backstory is everyone that my dad was a boxer. Okay, 30 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 7: not professionally, but he boxed in high school and boxing 31 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 7: the army, and he. 32 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 4: Bought us boxing gloves. 33 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 7: Well, I should say Santa Claus got us boxing gloves 34 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 7: for Christmas one year. 35 00:01:59,000 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 2: Make that clear. 36 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 5: That was it? 37 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and uh, we just crushing dreams here. 38 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 5: Don't do that. I got no way. 39 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 6: I blame you for that, Claus, too much time to pass. 40 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 6: Tell your kid a white man coming down here. Uh, 41 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 6: you work too hard. Created We're not doing that at 42 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 6: my house. 43 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 7: So my dad taught us how to box, and we 44 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 7: used to practice with each other, but I was always 45 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 7: practicing on defense. 46 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 4: He didn't want me to hit her. She can hit me. 47 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 7: So she really won all of the boxing squabbles we had, 48 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 7: and then when we were fighting for real, she'd win 49 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 7: all the arguments too. 50 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 2: Sounds like she's undefeated. 51 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 3: Well that was the beauty of our dad. Uh, anything 52 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 3: he did, I did, so I learned right along with him. 53 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 3: He was going on at a box I learned at 54 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 3: a box. If you were learning how to pitch, I 55 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 3: was learning how to catch. I was right there. I 56 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 3: was his little shadow. It's like me too, I can 57 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 3: do it too. And then that got me ready because 58 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 3: we had two of our favorite cousins were boys, yes, 59 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 3: and they were about the same age, so I was 60 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 3: really the only girl and I love those I love 61 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 3: that time. 62 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 4: But we would all box, all box with each other. 63 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 3: And I would still beat them, Yeah. 64 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 4: Because they weren't told not to hit her. She was 65 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 4: fighting them. 66 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go, so you got her ready. Both 67 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: you guys are very obviously impressive journeys and jobs leading 68 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: up to where we are now the podcast space Craig, 69 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 2: I know you jumped in in a while. You guys 70 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: now have something together? What interest did you guys and 71 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 2: made you guys want to come together as a brother 72 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 2: sister duo and have your guys to show? 73 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 5: You know? 74 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 3: It was first of all our team suggested it. You know, 75 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 3: we've got higher ground our production company, we have an 76 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 3: audio division, and our team was like, you know, it'd 77 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 3: be good to have really foundational always on show, you know, 78 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 3: And I'm sitting around looking like, yeah, who were gonna 79 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 3: get and they were like, how about you, Like Craig 80 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 3: had been podcasting, and so I said, Okay, if it's 81 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: gonna be fun, I'll do it. And so they were like, 82 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 3: why don't you do it with Craig. I was like, 83 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 3: that would be fun. And around the time we started 84 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 3: doing it, our mom was sick, you know, so we 85 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 3: were in the process of kind of mourning her loss. 86 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 3: And you know, the thing when you lose your last 87 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 3: parent is you really are it? You know, for me 88 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 3: and Craig, of our immediate family, our nieces, nephews, we're it. 89 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 3: We're the elders. So this has also been kind of 90 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 3: a good way for us to force continuous communication. You know. 91 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: We did a podcast when before my mother died. We 92 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 3: just did a special episode around becoming in the Light. 93 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 3: We carried my two books and we did a show 94 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 3: with my mom. Oh really the three of us talking 95 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 3: about childhood and parenthood. And that was sort of the 96 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 3: beginning of it. So the notion that we can keep 97 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 3: this going, still being conversation with each other is a 98 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: real gift and kind of attribute to our mom and dad, and. 99 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 7: I get to see my little sister more often this way, 100 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 7: you know, I'm seeing her once a month now where 101 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 7: it was only big holidays. And by the way, today's 102 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 7: Mom's birthday. Oh God, happy birth So happy birthday. 103 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 3: I was so busy today. 104 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, so this is means a lot for you all having. 105 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: Us on and well, obviously condolences for the loss of 106 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 2: your month. I lost my mom too, and that's how 107 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: Jack and I actually really became close. He got traded 108 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: to our team. He had a historical run in the 109 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 2: very beginning of the next season. My mom was diagnosed 110 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 2: November first with four cancers, all in stage four and 111 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: died November twenty seven, So within twenty six days she 112 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 2: was gone, and Jack was there for me daily. But 113 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you guys. Obviously it's been on 114 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: my eighteen years for me and there's not a day 115 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 2: that passes. What has that process been like because obviously 116 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 2: we'll touch a little bit later, but your dad lost 117 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: his battle with MS nearly thirty years ago. Yeah, and 118 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 2: as you said, you guys are the last two kind 119 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 2: of standing. So what was that journey like for you 120 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 2: guys individually? Obviously being able to communicate together as important, 121 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 2: but what was your journey like individually when you lost 122 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 2: your mom. 123 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, luckily we had a special year together. You know, 124 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 3: my mom was eighty six. She was in good health mentally, 125 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 3: but you know, just her body was breaking down. So 126 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 3: you know, there were signs that she had some health challenges, 127 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 3: even though she worked out all the time, she would travel, 128 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 3: she would you know, it's just that age was catching up. 129 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 3: So we had clues that you know, we got to 130 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 3: make the most of our time. So the last time 131 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 3: my mom got really sick, she was with me, with 132 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 3: us in our home in Hawaii, and I would still 133 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 3: have to force her to come and stay awhile because 134 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 3: my mom was feared independent. You know, she lived with 135 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 3: us for eight years at the White House, but she 136 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 3: did it kicking and screaming. Not because she didn't love us, 137 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 3: but she really believed that she raised us. You go on, 138 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 3: you have your life, you're with your husband. She loved Barack, 139 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 3: you have your wife, she loves Kelly. But she believed 140 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 3: in you know, grown people having their own household. And 141 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 3: I was like, well, the White House is kind of big, mom, 142 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 3: so you're not going, you know, going to be infringing. 143 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: So she always resisted being up in our space. But fortunately, 144 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 3: when she got sick, she was with me, and she 145 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 3: had to stay longer because she was in and out 146 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 3: of the hospital. I was able to care for her, 147 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 3: you know, spend that time getting her nurses, making sure, 148 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 3: you know, changing her, washing her, all those sort of 149 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 3: special things that I didn't get to do for her 150 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 3: because we didn't live in the same cities. And so 151 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 3: I saw it as a gift that I got those 152 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 3: months with her, and in that process we were kind 153 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 3: of saying goodbye almost through it all. I remember I 154 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 3: shared this on another podcast that you know. One day, 155 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 3: me and Mom were sitting on the couch in the 156 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 3: guest house where she was staying on our property, and 157 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 3: I was just holding her hand watching Judge Judy or 158 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 3: something like that, and she leaned over and she said, man, 159 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 3: I was quick. And I said, what do you mean 160 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 3: and she said, life, you know, And that kind of 161 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 3: that stuck with me because my mother was always one 162 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 3: of those people who was not afraid of death. She 163 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 3: didn't want us mourning her. But you realized at that 164 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 3: time that she felt life was that quick. She wasn't ready, 165 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 3: you know, life was too good, you know, and you 166 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 3: think you're gonna be ready, but you realize that you know, 167 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 3: when you've got a good life and you're surrounded by 168 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 3: the people you love, you've wanted to go on. So 169 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 3: you know that time helped me in a way that 170 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 3: I couldn't ever imagined more her loss and for me. 171 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 7: We lived about ninety minutes for my mom, so we 172 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 7: could take the train down and go see her. 173 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 4: And we would go. As she got older and became 174 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,119 Speaker 4: a little bit more. 175 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 7: Unhealthy I won't say unhealthy, but as she aged and 176 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 7: must have more problems, we were down there like once 177 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 7: a week, and sort of the same thing when we 178 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:25,319 Speaker 7: talk about stuff. The thing I would like people to know, 179 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 7: both as getting those of us who are getting older 180 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,959 Speaker 7: plus the young folks out there, is my mom always 181 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 7: talked about dropping dead for like twenty night. 182 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 3: It's like, you better drop it and get your life 183 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 3: together because when I dropped dead, you know. 184 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 185 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 7: So she would say, when our dad died, don't mourn, 186 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 7: don't mourn too much. He knew you loved him, and 187 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 7: you all knew he loved you, and that's. 188 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 4: All you really want. 189 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 7: And so she always made sure that all of us 190 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 7: Nish and I, our kids knew that she loved them. 191 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 4: She was a very loving grandmother, and. 192 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 7: So when the time came, it was It's never easy, 193 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 7: as you guys know, but it was easier for us 194 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 7: because she prepared us. And I try to do the 195 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 7: same thing with my children, like I try to tell 196 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 7: them I love them all the time, how proud I 197 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 7: am of them, and it just. 198 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 4: And you don't get over it. I think about my father. 199 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 3: I think Dad's death was harder. 200 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 4: It was harder because it came out of nowhere and 201 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 4: we were still. 202 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 3: Young, even though he was battling within mass. It was 203 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 3: one of those things like you know, he was going 204 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 3: to work one day and a few weeks later, you know, 205 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 3: that was that. And for whatever reason, probably because of 206 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 3: the you know, you can't prepare, you know, when you 207 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 3: get that diagnosis, and for some reason, that hits me 208 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 3: harder than my mom, right, because our dad died before 209 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 3: were a lot of things. He didn't get to walk 210 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 3: me down the aisle, he got to meet Avery, your 211 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 3: oldest son, and he Avery was alone, so he didn't 212 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 3: meet any of his fans. He didn't see he didn't 213 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 3: see the fruits of all of us, all of his 214 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 3: hard work, even though he you know, he always knew 215 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 3: we were special, right, he was that dad that told 216 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 3: us every day, you know, you got the light glowing 217 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 3: within you. But it would have been nice for him 218 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 3: to see all that, you know. 219 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you spoke in your book about obviously his 220 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 2: battling MS, but really kind of keeping it to hisself 221 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 2: and and keeping life as normal as possible. What did 222 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 2: you guys learn from kind of his strength through the 223 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: process and during his journey. 224 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 7: It was almost as if we didn't even notice he 225 00:11:55,080 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 7: had MS while because he was such a powerful figure 226 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 7: in our family, Like he was the person that everybody 227 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 7: came to for advice, even people who are older than him. 228 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 7: So my grandfather on my mom's side always confided in 229 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 7: my father, And so it got to a point and 230 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 7: he got up and went to work every day. 231 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 4: You know, he started with. 232 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 7: A cane when we were young. He walked with a limp, 233 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 7: then it went to a cane. Then he had crutches, 234 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 7: then he had the crutches that wrap around your arms, 235 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 7: and finally before he died, he had a van that 236 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 7: you sort of had to use a rascal to get in. 237 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 7: But he went to work every day and he was 238 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 7: always on time, so he would prepare so nobody ever 239 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 7: had to wait for him. So it never felt like 240 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 7: he was disabled, but we knew he was disabled, and 241 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 7: you're right, Matt, he kept it to himself. And but 242 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 7: we were living in a time where I'm sure you 243 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 7: guys remember these days you only went to a doctor 244 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 7: if you got sick, and you went to the emergency room. 245 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 7: That's how we had healthcare. We didn't have a family doctor, 246 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:12,839 Speaker 7: so he rarely went to get checked on. And having 247 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 7: said all of that, we were still surprised when he 248 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 7: died and it hit. 249 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 5: It hit me. 250 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 4: It hit both of us so hard, and. 251 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 3: I think, I what I don't do is take my 252 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 3: physical being, my health for granted. Yeah, I mean, you know, 253 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 3: to see my father, who you know was he was. 254 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 3: He contracted in us in the prime of his life. 255 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 3: So this He was an athlete, he was a swimmer, 256 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:42,959 Speaker 3: he was a boxer, he was a cool dude, he 257 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 3: was a jazz dude. You know. To go from that 258 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 3: to have an unexplained loss of the use of your legs, 259 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 3: that that stands out for me even now. That's why 260 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 3: I work out. That's why you know I pick up 261 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 3: a tennis racket. That's why you know, we're a family 262 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 3: of sports and movement because we saw our father miss 263 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 3: out on that. So I don't I don't take it 264 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 3: for granted. I also think what we learned from him 265 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 3: is not withholding like you know, there was strength in that. 266 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 3: But we got into some arguments about the fact that 267 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 3: my dad wasn't like fighting to find answers. You know, 268 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 3: it's like, well, why don't we why don't you go 269 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 3: to a physical therapist. Why don't you you know, look 270 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 3: at you know, roll yourself in a research study. I 271 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 3: mean that that that stoicism ye also kept him from 272 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 3: finding perhaps some other uh therapies that would have made 273 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 3: his life easier. So that strong black man kind of 274 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 3: I got it thing. You know, we don't know what 275 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 3: the outcome might have been, so fighting for health care, 276 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 3: you know, having converse stations about childhood obesity. I mean 277 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 3: when I think about kind of the things I took 278 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 3: up as first Lady, the kind of things that we 279 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 3: talked about in the White House, A lot of that 280 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 3: has to do with your your health is not guaranteed, uh. 281 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 3: And so you know, I think that there's a part 282 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 3: of me that tries to push against that. With my brother, 283 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 3: all the black men in my life, I want them 284 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 3: to be super conscious. I don't want them to think 285 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 3: that that strength, you know, I don't want that strength 286 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 3: to put them in the grave. 287 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, my heardheaded co host just went through something similar, 288 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 2: didn't you. 289 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 3: Okay, hardhead, what'd you do? 290 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 5: Uh? Well, I got here buy a car too. 291 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 6: What in just years of playing basketball and my body 292 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 6: was acting up. 293 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 5: I should have been went to the doctor and got checked. 294 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 6: I'd felt something in my help, so I decided to 295 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 6: go and he told me aboud have showed up. Two 296 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 6: months later. I needed a new hip and screw. So 297 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 6: it was a minor surgery that is able to that. 298 00:15:58,640 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 6: He went through my back and is able to fit 299 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 6: to my tear in my hip, had assist on my spine, 300 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 6: some stuff that I need to clean up from sports 301 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 6: all these years, and just been dodging the doctor just 302 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 6: like your father. I'm all right, I got it, and 303 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 6: I really have that attitude. But this was a This 304 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 6: definitely woke me up. 305 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 306 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, because I'm you know, I've never been through sergey 307 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 5: or nothing like that. 308 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 7: And I will tell you now, as having been in 309 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 7: the sports realm as a coach and as a front 310 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 7: office guy. You guys train yourselves to play through pain 311 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 7: and that is not a good thing. And so get in, 312 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 7: get your baseline blood work done. 313 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 5: I was. 314 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 3: Talking. 315 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 2: Well, I'm talking so we don't have to experience the 316 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 2: same stuff. 317 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 7: I'm talking because I know I was well. I was 318 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 7: thirty seven thirty eight before I had a whole physical done. 319 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 7: That wasn't a sports physical. Cool, just checking to make 320 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 7: sure everything your joints and everything are working. And you 321 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 7: you get a baseline blood work done, and then from 322 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 7: then on there's so much technology now they can help 323 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 7: you predict avoid a lot of stuff. 324 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: You know, I got my frost, I got a call 325 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 2: be coming up, and I'm not happy with it, but 326 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 2: I can do it. 327 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:24,680 Speaker 5: I know, Yeah, ready for that one. 328 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 3: It's not about being ready. You just got to do it. 329 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 3: It's not that put you to sleep. 330 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 5: Know what's going on. 331 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 7: I've had I've had enough of them that now I 332 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 7: don't even use the I can drive drive myself there 333 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 7: and drive myself home, so I don't get any any medicine. 334 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 4: It's all right. 335 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 3: I'm going to follow up with you when you drop 336 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 3: your sons off at school. I'm definitely gonna check make 337 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 3: sure you get. 338 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 5: See. 339 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 2: All right, we got that real quick before we. 340 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 4: Right exactly you don't want her showing up at your. 341 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 2: Real quick before we transition the podcast spaces. Obviously it was, 342 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 2: it's used in different ways now, obviously policy driven and politically. 343 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 2: It's a big platform. What do you guys hope that 344 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 2: your fan base gets ought that you have a political podcast? 345 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 2: But what was your goals when you guys started this 346 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: and what do you hope that your fans get from 347 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:25,679 Speaker 2: youtubo coming together and sharing? 348 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 4: For me, I. 349 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 7: I always felt like over these last years, since they've 350 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 7: been out of the White House, people have missed hearing 351 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 7: from my sisters a little bit. 352 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 4: I missed hearing from some sense I didn't miss it 353 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 4: because she called me up all the. 354 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 7: Time and I'm. 355 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 3: Trying to miss it, like give me a minute to 356 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 3: miss So so that was That's a big part of it. 357 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 7: And when me talked a little bit about why we're 358 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 7: doing this, and as you guys know, part of our 359 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 7: episode we get questions from our listeners and that is 360 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 7: right up our alley of just trying to help folks 361 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 7: give back, and it's a tribute to our parents. We 362 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 7: had some really cool experiences thanks to our parents. Plus 363 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 7: the lessons we've learned. We just wanted to share them 364 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 7: with the rest of the world. And it just it 365 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 7: warms my heart. Now that I'm walking through the airport 366 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 7: and people are like, we love your podcast. And it's 367 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,160 Speaker 7: not just so when I first started this, I was like, Okay, 368 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 7: black women are going to come up to me now, 369 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 7: I'm all right, I love your podcast. 370 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 4: Everybody, I mean, all. 371 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 7: Kinds of people, all different genders, all kinds of races, 372 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 7: and it just it warms my heart. And then but 373 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 7: the best one is when there was a twenty three 374 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 7: year old with her boyfriend who came over and she said, 375 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 7: I absolutely love the podcast. 376 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 4: And I was like, you mind me asking how old 377 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,439 Speaker 4: you are? She said twenty three. I was like, you 378 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 4: like this, you'resed to, I know, but it's our hype. 379 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 3: Guy is like, seriously, it's. 380 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 7: Like, you know, because this whole room is surrounded by 381 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 7: young folks. I can see them enjoying your podcast, but ours, 382 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 7: it just felt like I feel like an old guy. 383 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 3: But a lot of people are lonely, right, you know. 384 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:28,159 Speaker 3: And we grew up in community. Uh. We grew up 385 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 3: not just with our immediate family, but we had cousin 386 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 3: which we had cousins and everybody got together every Sunday 387 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 3: for somebody's birthday because there were a bunch of aunts 388 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,679 Speaker 3: and uncles and all we did was sit around the 389 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 3: table and talk, you know. That's how we learned our voices, 390 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 3: that's how we problem solved, and everybody was expected to 391 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 3: and everybody's wisdom was accepted, like your voice as a 392 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:56,360 Speaker 3: seven year old, as long as it was polite, meant something. 393 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,120 Speaker 3: And a lot of the learning happens in the conversation. 394 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 3: But if people don't have that table right, if they 395 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 3: haven't cultivated that, you know, Imo, we want that to 396 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 3: be a place where people come and they just feel 397 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 3: someway in the conversation scene, you know, and maybe they 398 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 3: get a little wisdom along the way, and that it's 399 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 3: fun too, you know. I mean, we actually play games 400 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 3: give people a chance to hear the unfiltered me, the 401 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 3: unfiltered us, rather than the political sort of got to 402 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 3: say everything right and just the right way. Can't make 403 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:37,360 Speaker 3: a joke or else somebody's gonna think, you know, everybody 404 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,120 Speaker 3: upsight tight, and it's like, well, let's all just settle down, 405 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 3: because that's where the learning and the familiarity, the trust 406 00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 3: gets rebuilt. So we're having a good time just being us. 407 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:49,360 Speaker 3: You know, just like you guys are. 408 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 6: People watching because it's so much bad information out there. 409 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 6: It's refreshing to hear good information from the heart, genuine information. 410 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 6: So many people worried about being first and being wrong 411 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 6: come with the right information. 412 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 5: So that's why. 413 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 6: People watching, because it's refreshing to hear y'all talking to here. 414 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 6: Y'all give good information. 415 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 3: Thank you, guys. 416 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 6: Let's go Chicago outside Euclid Avenue. Yes, sir, y'all slept 417 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 6: in the room three inches apart your whole life. Yeah, 418 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 6: your husband said, y'all was the black leave it to beaver. 419 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 4: That's yeah. 420 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 3: That well, it's spoken from a man whose life was 421 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,439 Speaker 3: upside down in so many ways. I mean, you know, 422 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 3: he didn't know his father grew up by racial kid 423 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 3: in Hawaii, you know, I mean, so his you know, 424 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 3: his world was was his upbringing was so completely unconventional, 425 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 3: right compared to us, And then to meet us and 426 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 3: to come to seventy fourth and Euclid, you know, it 427 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:57,199 Speaker 3: felt like Okay, dinner was at six, you know, you know, 428 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 3: there was healthy conversation. You know, I came home from work. 429 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 5: You know. 430 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 3: Now we were the broke leave at the Beavers, you know, 431 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 3: I mean we were living above our aunt. You know. 432 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,719 Speaker 3: My dad was driving his deuce in a quarter, you know, 433 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 3: until it went into the ground. 434 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 7: Yes, it was a small apartment, yeah it was. It 435 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 7: was really a one bedroom apartment that we converted into 436 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 7: two bedrooms and we used the main living room split 437 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 7: and made our two bedrooms together. The room that was 438 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 7: supposed to be the bedroom was my mother and father's bedroom, 439 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 7: and then the dining room was our living room and 440 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 7: our kitchen. 441 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 3: We just made a house. 442 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 5: We just made right. 443 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 7: But I will tell you we used to do everything. 444 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 7: I mean, we used to hit balls in there, shoot baskets. 445 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 7: We thought the place was huge. 446 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,120 Speaker 2: Slide down the hallway in the sock. 447 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 5: Did you put the hanger on the door as a 448 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 5: basketball hoop? 449 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 7: We put the hanger on the hoop, But before we 450 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 7: put the hanger on the hoop, we used the lamp 451 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 7: and a nerf ball as the ball in the lamp 452 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,199 Speaker 7: was the basket until we forgotten left the ball in 453 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 7: there and Mom turned the light on it and burned up. 454 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 3: I think that was you. The ledge on the door, 455 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 3: sit fill on the top that was Craig's first hoop right. 456 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 3: So the goal, my dad would put a penny on 457 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 3: the ledge of the door and he had to jump 458 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 3: and get it. And if he could jump and get it, 459 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 3: he could keep it right. So those were the you know, 460 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:30,919 Speaker 3: he was. 461 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 6: Growing up, growing up like that beginnings the senior sister 462 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 6: from South Side Chicago on the way to the White House, 463 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 6: what's your feelings? 464 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 4: Well when it so it was sort of a progression. 465 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 7: And so if you can imagine when she met Barack, 466 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 7: he was just a lawyer and he had just done 467 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 7: some community organizing. But he was just like a regular guy. 468 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 3: He was just a nice young man. 469 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 7: He was a nice young man. And he was at 470 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 7: our house for Thanksgiving early on in their relationship, early on, 471 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 7: and I was playing the big brother. So I was like, 472 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 7: come here, man, let me talk to you. So what 473 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 7: do you think, what do you think you're going. 474 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 4: To do with this? 475 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 7: My sister, well plans, you know, you're going to stick 476 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 7: with law. He said, well, you know, I think I 477 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 7: might go into politics. I was like oh, And I said, said, 478 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 7: you want to be like a mayor or an alderman 479 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 7: or something. He was like, no, No, I was thinking 480 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 7: maybe runs for Congress, senator maybe and then maybe even 481 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 7: run for president. And I was like, man, you don't 482 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 7: want to talk like that. If my aunt Gracie heard you, 483 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 7: she'd think you crazy. 484 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 2: I don't tell too many people that at this time, 485 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 2: Rocket this time, how old? 486 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 5: So? 487 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 4: How old was it when you all met? 488 00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:00,159 Speaker 3: He had been like twenty six twenty. 489 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 7: Seven so, and I was a year younger than him, 490 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 7: but I didn't realize that. I just figured we were 491 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 7: around the same age. And I was like, you can't 492 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 7: say stuff like that around here. People will They'll think 493 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 7: you crazy. 494 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 4: And lo and behold. Jump ahead, jump ahead a few 495 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 4: years and I'm. 496 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:23,159 Speaker 7: In Orlando when he gave the big speech. I'm in 497 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 7: Orlando for AU Nationals. I'm going recruiting. I'm at Northwest, 498 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 7: and I asked Bill Carmody, who's our head coach there. 499 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 4: I was like, can I have the evening off Barrock's 500 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 4: doing his speech. He was like, of course. 501 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 7: And I'm in my hotel room, shorts, T shirt, and 502 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 7: I'm sweating, nervous and just because I wanted him to 503 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 7: do well, and he knocks it out of the ballpark 504 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,199 Speaker 7: and the next day people are saying he could be 505 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,640 Speaker 7: he could eventually run for president of the United States. 506 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,199 Speaker 7: It's still it's still when I think about that. It 507 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 7: just never it never really hit me until we were 508 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,719 Speaker 7: on our way to the inaugurate to the not an inauguration, 509 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 7: but the election night we won in Chicago. The whole 510 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 7: time we're like talking like we are now. Nobody could 511 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 7: believe it. Even Barack to me, couldn't believe it because 512 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 7: we're sitting in the kitchen at their house waiting for 513 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 7: the results, and we thought, oh, this is gonna be 514 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 7: a late night. It's gonna be like two in the 515 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,119 Speaker 7: morning before we find out. We had just finished dinner, 516 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 7: so I figured it's about seven o'clock. And all of 517 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 7: a sudden, everybody's phone start buzzing. And you know, we 518 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 7: were we always kept our phones away from the table 519 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,439 Speaker 7: when the kids were there, and we were all talking, 520 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,119 Speaker 7: and everybody's phone starts buzzing, and Barack picks up his phone, 521 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 7: puts looks at it, and puts him back down, comes back, 522 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 7: sits at the table, and we're all talking and he says, well. 523 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:56,119 Speaker 4: Looks like we won, just like that. 524 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:56,679 Speaker 2: You remember that. 525 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 4: The way he said it was so cool. It was 526 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,400 Speaker 4: like I knew I was gonna win, you. 527 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 7: Know, and it's still it didn't register until we were 528 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 7: in the motorcade going down to the to the to 529 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 7: the to the election election night. 530 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 4: But that was a long story. 531 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 7: I wanted to tell you that story to say through 532 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 7: all of that, my sister's been to the same person. Really, 533 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 7: people just got to know how smart, how accomplished, how thoughtful, 534 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 7: how generous he is. 535 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 4: And it's been great. 536 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 3: We're getting this on tape. 537 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 4: It's been it's been great to watch. It's a proud 538 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 4: moment for you know, a big brother. 539 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 3: I spent my all my life being Craig Robinson's little sister. 540 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 4: Poor thing. 541 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 3: I mean, because he was mister basketball, our mister you know, 542 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 3: all ivy, and we went to the same college. I 543 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 3: came on campus and was like, oh you Gray listen 544 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 3: the uk LI. I'm like yeah, and I was proud 545 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 3: of it. 546 00:28:55,080 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 7: And now when he become it was that night it 547 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 7: was you, Michelle Obama's brother. 548 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 4: Yes, I am. 549 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: For you. Excitement, hesitation, nervousness, Like, what's going through your 550 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 2: mind because this is a huge shift, the first in 551 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 2: the history, and it's just a crazy history. But what 552 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 2: are your inner thoughts during that time? 553 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 3: I mean it was really all over the place. And 554 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 3: you know it's not just that night. I mean it's 555 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 3: the run of the presidency is a two year process. 556 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, you start and I first of all, 557 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 3: you start announcing, and that's a battle, right because your 558 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 3: husband tells you that he's going to do something that's 559 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 3: going to fundamentally change your life. And my first reaction 560 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 3: was hell, No, No, Why why would we want to 561 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 3: do that? We have We're the beavers, we're the cleavers. 562 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 3: We're doing just fine. We live in a lovely house, 563 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 3: we're near family, girls are good. Why would you want 564 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 3: to go and do something that crazy? You know, people, 565 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 3: you know, It wasn't that I didn't believe in him. 566 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 3: I didn't believe America was ready and so much of 567 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 3: I knew he was talented. I knew he was gifted. 568 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 3: I knew he would be phenomenal. I knew he had 569 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 3: that perfect combination of sharp intellect, ability to connect, the charisma, 570 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 3: all this stuff that we miss. 571 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:22,479 Speaker 4: He had it. 572 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 3: So my first reaction was no. And it took my brother, 573 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 3: it took a whole lot of people to convince me that, 574 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 3: you know, when somebody has that kind of passion for something, 575 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 3: you know, I didn't want to be the one to 576 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 3: say no, And then I didn't want fear to guide 577 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 3: my decision, because that's what it was all about. It. 578 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 3: It wasn't that I didn't believe in him. I was 579 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 3: just scared, and so I had to think long and hard, Well, 580 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 3: if I wasn't married to him, I would want somebody 581 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 3: like him to run. He's the person that we say, 582 00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 3: so I can't be selfish and be like I want 583 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 3: all to myself. So there was that part of it. 584 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 3: And then, you know, just like anything, I'm competitive, so 585 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 3: we're gonna run, We're gonna win, I'm gonna help, I'm 586 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 3: gonna be good at this, So then you just throw 587 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 3: yourself in, you know. Campaigning in Iowa, giving speeches. Some 588 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 3: of it was fun, some of it was crazy. A 589 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 3: lot of it uplifting because we were in parts of 590 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 3: the country where you would think that a black couple 591 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 3: with the name Obama coming through would just be turned away. 592 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 3: But the truth of our nation that I want to 593 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,800 Speaker 3: remind people is is that folks find it hard to 594 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 3: hate up close. And when you get to know people 595 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 3: and you're sitting in there kitchen tables, and they're talking 596 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 3: like we're talking. You know, you could see people start 597 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 3: to melt almost you know, you hear our story, how 598 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 3: we grew up, how Barack grew up, and you get 599 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 3: a chance for people to unpack and get beyond race. 600 00:31:55,280 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 3: Watching that transformation was empowering, right, I mean, it's hopeful. 601 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 3: You know. It was all the things you want to 602 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 3: believe about this country and we were seeing it, right. 603 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 3: So there was that jubilation, and then there was just 604 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 3: the when they started going after us. Now I'm pissed. 605 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 3: You know you're going after me, You're going after my husband. 606 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 3: You now take this thing that's really good and you 607 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 3: play with it. And that was true on the Democratic side, 608 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 3: hand on the republic Went side. That was true for 609 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 3: white leaders, and it was true for black leaders too. 610 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 3: A lot of people were disappointing, a lot of people, 611 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 3: you know, let you down. But then in the end 612 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 3: it was just like by the time you get two 613 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 3: years in, you want to win, you know, you want 614 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 3: to get it done, and you're ready for the work. 615 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 3: So it was a roller coaster, and at the core 616 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 3: of it was how am I going to raise these 617 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 3: little girls and make sure that they're saying through it. 618 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 3: You know. I was like, we can get through anything, 619 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 3: but what would this do to them? You know, because 620 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 3: I wanted them to come out on the other end 621 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 3: as two people I would know and recognize. And that's 622 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 3: what having our mom move with us to the White House, 623 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 3: you know, I mean I Barock and I you know, 624 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 3: we're solid parents. But I didn't want the girls to 625 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 3: come home to that big house to strangers when we 626 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,880 Speaker 3: were working or traveling. You know, there's just something about 627 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 3: you know, that house is like they're Butler's and florist 628 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 3: and ushers and all this stuff. And I was like, 629 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 3: this is not normal. We you know, we grew up 630 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 3: sharing a bedroom. It's like, my kids cannot think that 631 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 3: this is normal. So the one way to make sure 632 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 3: that that was true was to have them come home 633 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 3: to Marian Robinson sitting there going, Okay, you know what 634 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 3: you're supposed to do. You ain't cute, get your homework done, 635 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 3: you know, plus that dose of I love you. I 636 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 3: love you more than anybody. My mom got in the 637 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 3: car every day in their motorcake and rode to school 638 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 3: to drop them off because I didn't want them riding 639 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 3: the school with a bunch of security, and I wanted 640 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,800 Speaker 3: them to be in the car just even if nothing 641 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:15,360 Speaker 3: was said, just just have your grandmother there. And she 642 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,240 Speaker 3: was that for us, and that gave me the security that, Okay, 643 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 3: we'll get through this, you know. So it was, it was, 644 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,320 Speaker 3: it was all of it, all of the feelings. 645 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 2: You guys grew up on the top floor living above 646 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 2: Aunt Robbie with her music school. The South Side is 647 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,359 Speaker 2: the epicenter for you know a lot of soul music, 648 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 2: Curtis Mayfield, earth Wind and fire Shylights MANI rip attend 649 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,320 Speaker 2: to name a few. How instrumental was music in your guys' 650 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 2: upbreaking and still today. 651 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 7: Huge, huge, and it I mean it started with our grandfather. 652 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 7: So before everybody had houses with speakers in every room, 653 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:58,959 Speaker 7: and he had Jerry rigged his whole house. Every room 654 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 7: had a speaker. Now there were wires and they were 655 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 7: matching and they was a speaker. 656 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 1: It was. 657 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 4: The sound was great. 658 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:09,840 Speaker 5: It was before. 659 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 4: Surround sound. 660 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 3: He had two speakers, reeled a real tape. 661 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 4: Two turntables before people knew what that was about. 662 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 7: And he was a jazz officionado, So we grew up 663 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 7: listening to jazz. So he had a jazz collection our 664 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 7: father had a jazz collection. 665 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 3: And this was our grandfather's name. We called him Southside 666 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 3: just by the way. He was a carpenter south Side. 667 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 668 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 3: He played music twenty four to seven, I mean, And 669 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 3: that's how my mother, this is my mother's father, six 670 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:51,480 Speaker 3: o'clock when he woke up, speaker's blasting, lasting everybody's room bedroom, 671 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 3: you asleep, You learn how to sleep with the music. 672 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 7: We drive up to his place and you know, Park 673 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 7: Street Park, and so you drive up you can hear 674 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:05,919 Speaker 7: two houses down the music on, and it's it's it's 675 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:08,720 Speaker 7: good jazz music. 676 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 4: And you know, he. 677 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 7: Ended up not being able to hear before he died 678 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 7: because he played his so loud. 679 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,319 Speaker 4: But we, you know, we grew up. 680 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:25,120 Speaker 7: We learned how to play different instruments, like the fludophone first, 681 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 7: and then the piano. 682 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 4: And recorder and and different things. 683 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 7: And unfortunately sports hit my life, so my music tailed off. 684 00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 7: But me, she kept taking lessons and she used to 685 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 7: play the piano for me on game days. 686 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 4: When I come home from school, we had a ritual. 687 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 7: I get my pregame, snack, do my homework, go on 688 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 7: to couch. She'd start playing the piano. I'd take a 689 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 7: nap she played until I part, she did her part. 690 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,319 Speaker 4: I mean every game days that's live music. 691 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,319 Speaker 2: I mean Whenmally go home and listen like the rest, 692 00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 2: like you got live music, live music music. 693 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was. 694 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 4: A big part. 695 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 7: And then that just that just sort of extrapolated to 696 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 7: whatever was was was hot. 697 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,240 Speaker 4: On the radio. And we were a big Motown house. 698 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 7: We had the we had the album set called the 699 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 7: sixty four Motown Hits. It was like the greatest hits 700 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 7: at that time out of Motown. So it had the 701 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 7: Jackson five on Spokey Robin. 702 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,840 Speaker 3: I mean all that was our favorite multi set album. 703 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,480 Speaker 7: I mean we would put that thing on and where 704 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 7: you could stack the albums and it would just play 705 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 7: one side and then you turn it over in the 706 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 7: next all four would play. It was like hours of music. 707 00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 7: And so music has always been a part. And now 708 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 7: you know, uh, I go to their house and they 709 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,319 Speaker 7: got music playing all the time. You come to our 710 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 7: house is music playing all the time. 711 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 2: So I get it. I'm the same way you guys 712 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 2: went in Chicago go through an unfortunate transformation, the white 713 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 2: flight and loss of manufacturing jobs, let the gangs, gun violence, 714 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 2: crack epidemic, how did Chicago change while you guys were 715 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,320 Speaker 2: there to what it is today. 716 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,360 Speaker 3: When we were little, you know, there were white people, 717 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 3: you know, I mean it was as plain as that. Yeah, 718 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 3: south Shore it was a heavy Jewish community. We lived 719 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 3: there because my aunt Robbie was a music teacher and 720 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,799 Speaker 3: a teacher. Her husband was a pullm importer and he 721 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:37,800 Speaker 3: was retired. He was older but had a good pension, 722 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 3: so they earned enough, never had kids, so they could 723 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 3: buy a home. So they were probably among the first 724 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 3: black people in South Shore to buy homes right and 725 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 3: to start integrating because they could afford it. And you 726 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 3: can see the transition in our school pictures, you know, 727 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 3: you know the end of the year picture when I 728 00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:02,839 Speaker 3: was in kindergarten, my kindergarten a picture. There was Faizelle, 729 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:06,279 Speaker 3: There was Soapa knot consipant. There was Susan Yaker, there 730 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 3: was Rachel Dempsey. These were all kids that lived around us. 731 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 3: They were my friends. I went to their houses, we played, 732 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 3: and it seemed like after first grade it was like 733 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 3: the lights went out and the white people were gone. 734 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:24,920 Speaker 3: I mean it was like somebody called and said get 735 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:29,880 Speaker 3: out because of the like the next year and it 736 00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 3: registered to me later on, But as a kid, you're 737 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:36,480 Speaker 3: just like, oh, they don't live here anymore. You know, 738 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 3: nothing was said. It was just they all disappeared, and 739 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,279 Speaker 3: so went a lot of other little things, like the 740 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:49,800 Speaker 3: park was a little less down the street, swings didn't 741 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,880 Speaker 3: get replaced. You know, the gas station on the corner, 742 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 3: you know, started carrying lickory. You know, the liquor store 743 00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:01,280 Speaker 3: became more the liquor store than not. Craig was more 744 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 3: of the street dude because of basketball. I mean I 745 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:07,359 Speaker 3: stayed around the block and played, but you went up 746 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 3: and you know, got your and my dad was very 747 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,920 Speaker 3: clear on you need to go to the courts and 748 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:17,719 Speaker 3: learn how to play with everybody. So you saw more 749 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 3: of how the name I. 750 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 4: Saw the game. Yeah, I could see it from that standpoint. 751 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 5: You know. 752 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 7: Every now and then there'd be a couple of white 753 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 7: guys up at the basketball court and all of a sudden, 754 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 7: it wasn't But to Misha's point, it was just like, oh, 755 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,440 Speaker 7: well they moved and somebody moved in, and we just 756 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,759 Speaker 7: were friends with the people who moved in, you know. 757 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 4: But it was you could really see a change at the. 758 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 7: Park because there was this huge softball league that happened there. 759 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,439 Speaker 7: Sixteen inch, no gloves, guys are playing. It was sort 760 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 7: of like a beer league, but it was completely integrated 761 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,440 Speaker 7: when we first lived there. So you'd have some all 762 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,760 Speaker 7: white teams, some all black teams, some mixed teams, and 763 00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 7: what they had in common. They played off and afterwards 764 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 7: they drank beer and were telling jokes along the streets 765 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,440 Speaker 7: until the lights went out, and then all of a sudden, 766 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 7: it's they were all black teams. And to Nish's point, 767 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,720 Speaker 7: the park didn't get cleaned up as much. 768 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 4: There were more vagrants. It was just. 769 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:20,279 Speaker 3: Struggled more. 770 00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 4: The school had. 771 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,880 Speaker 3: Had more disruption in the classroom, all the things that 772 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,840 Speaker 3: would happen, and slowly but surely, white folks were moving 773 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:33,520 Speaker 3: further south into the southern suburbs, and that, you know, 774 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 3: as I would come to study, Oh that was literally 775 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:40,359 Speaker 3: white flight, you know. And the point that I make 776 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 3: two people who were fleeing, it's like you all were 777 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 3: fleeing from us. You know. That's just sort of the 778 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 3: crazy thing, like the kleavers, you know, because that's all 779 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:57,239 Speaker 3: we you know, we mowed our lawn, planet flowers. We 780 00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 3: were a students. Most of the kids around us were 781 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,840 Speaker 3: the same parents went to work, people had jobs, but 782 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 3: because of the color of our skin, they were afraid 783 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:10,280 Speaker 3: of something. And I you know, the point is, that's 784 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 3: what we have to realize, is the people in this country, 785 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:17,319 Speaker 3: what are we running from? You running from us? You know, 786 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,840 Speaker 3: you're running from Michelle and Craig and for the people 787 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,880 Speaker 3: who were still running. Nine times out of ten, you 788 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:28,320 Speaker 3: were running from a decent family with good values, trying 789 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:33,160 Speaker 3: to get ahead just like you. This country, these neighborhoods 790 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,839 Speaker 3: don't belong to anybody, you know, we're all trying to 791 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 3: get it together, you know. 792 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:47,239 Speaker 2: But yeah, you ran into a someone named DEDI in 793 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:48,760 Speaker 2: the day you gained the respect. 794 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:56,359 Speaker 7: I like how you frame that well. 795 00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:00,920 Speaker 3: I was kind of always like I like playing by myself. 796 00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,799 Speaker 3: I like my imagination. I like my dolls, I like 797 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 3: my space. We didn't have much space, you know, so 798 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 3: I was that kid for a while. Craig was always 799 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 3: I'm going out, I'm playing He's out in the neighborhood, 800 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,399 Speaker 3: right And there was just something in me that was like, wow, 801 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 3: you know, the neighborhood's messy. You know, other little kids 802 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,440 Speaker 3: can be messy, you know, I just know this sad, friends, 803 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 3: but you know, Craig was already out there, but there 804 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 3: was something in me. I think, Mom, it's like, you 805 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 3: need to get out of this house and go be 806 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 3: a regular kid and play right. And so there was 807 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 3: this neighborhood across the alley from us that didn't have 808 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,280 Speaker 3: a street, in the middle of a bunch of houses 809 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,440 Speaker 3: with a sidewalk. A lot of kids were there, a 810 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,560 Speaker 3: lot of all our friends were over there, and it 811 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 3: was a good place to play because you could go 812 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 3: in between houses and not be in a street. And 813 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,759 Speaker 3: you know, it's just the regular ole. You're kind of 814 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 3: the new girl, but I'm not because I'm Craig's little sister, 815 00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 3: you know. And you you know, there was one girl 816 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 3: that decided she wanted to test me, right, just like 817 00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 3: who are you? You talk like white girl? What about this? 818 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,719 Speaker 3: And what about that? And it's like, mm, you know, 819 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,759 Speaker 3: I'm either gonna have to deal with this or I'm 820 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:23,840 Speaker 3: gonna have to debt it right in the vernacular. Uh, 821 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 3: you know, that would just sort of like you You know, 822 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:30,200 Speaker 3: that's probably why I didn't want to have to go out, 823 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 3: you know, because you have to go out, you have 824 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,439 Speaker 3: to be out, you have to earn your spot out, 825 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 3: and I was like, do I really want to do that? 826 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 2: Do I need it? 827 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 3: Do I need it? 828 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 4: Beneath her? 829 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 3: But then I had I like my friends. I like 830 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,839 Speaker 3: playing piggy and tag and softball. The cute boys were 831 00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 3: out there, Double Dutch was out there. I was like, 832 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 3: d d is not going to stop me from being 833 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,360 Speaker 3: out here. So I figured there was one time that 834 00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 3: she was giving me a little bit too much lip, 835 00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 3: and I just decided then and there to punch her 836 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 3: in the face. And we were fighting. Yeah, And it 837 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 3: was that. I know, I took her by surprise because 838 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 3: while he saw that side of me inside nobody, I 839 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,000 Speaker 3: was a very lovely young lady. You know. All the 840 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 3: parents liked me because it was like, Hi, it's such 841 00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 3: and such. But I did punch her in the face. 842 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 3: Those bots and skins pulled off on Dadi. We fought, 843 00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,400 Speaker 3: you know. I think a lot of people would just 844 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:31,000 Speaker 3: really shock. It's like, is that Michelle fighting? I was like, 845 00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,440 Speaker 3: can let me ht her? But after that, me and 846 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,160 Speaker 3: Dady were cool, We were good. 847 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. Rerounded that part three times on 848 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 2: the audio book. I just like really got and initially 849 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 2: wasn't on the Rundown. I'm reading the Rundown last like 850 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,840 Speaker 2: I'm going. I want to hear the I want to really. 851 00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:48,800 Speaker 5: Hear the side of it. 852 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it, even taking that air. 853 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,439 Speaker 5: But we have wait. 854 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,320 Speaker 7: We have to say that you, you and d D 855 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 7: got to be friends. We were all really good friends 856 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 7: that you know how it is, so the first time 857 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:07,480 Speaker 7: you have. 858 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,719 Speaker 2: Fun, I want not to cut you off. I'm going 859 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,839 Speaker 2: to one of my closest friends wedding that I played 860 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,319 Speaker 2: college basketball with him. Didn't come close until we fought 861 00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 2: to beat the brakes off of But I'm gonna be 862 00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 2: in his wedding next week. That's how we like. 863 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,919 Speaker 4: That game with the hair is only gonna get you something. 864 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 2: Sometimes you got to step out and show them. So 865 00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:34,439 Speaker 2: times you got to do. 866 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 3: I was an enforcer, my own waish shape and form. 867 00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:42,879 Speaker 5: A little bit of is coming with me, So coming 868 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,879 Speaker 5: with me. I can hide it. 869 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 7: Craig, Yes, sir, you had a little game, a little 870 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,360 Speaker 7: bit Princeton. 871 00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,640 Speaker 6: Michelle wrote in the book that basketball seemed to unlock 872 00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 6: every frontier of you. 873 00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:58,480 Speaker 2: What does she mean when you say. 874 00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:03,479 Speaker 7: That, Well, you guys probably can appreciate this, but it's 875 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:08,120 Speaker 7: really hard to be one of the best at something 876 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 7: at a young age, because there's no way to differentiate 877 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,360 Speaker 7: yourself from the other kids. And once I started to 878 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:20,120 Speaker 7: realize I was good at basketball, that sort of gave 879 00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 7: me that differentiation. And it also gave me the confidence 880 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:30,360 Speaker 7: to do a whole lot of stuff and and and 881 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 7: it started with traveling away from my neighborhood to go 882 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 7: play against dudes who are in an other neighborhood. I 883 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 7: was not afraid to do that. Then I would venture 884 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 7: to the West side of Chicago and play in leagues. 885 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,200 Speaker 7: And you know how what you do, you're just trying 886 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:48,279 Speaker 7: to find guys through this competitions. Unfortunately doesn't happen enough 887 00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:53,279 Speaker 7: these days with our kids. We're too busy setting up 888 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,799 Speaker 7: the games for him, right like we would just do 889 00:47:55,880 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 7: it on our own. And it really like I was 890 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,799 Speaker 7: always a really good student, but that wasn't something that 891 00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 7: people rewarded you for accolades and usually got you usually 892 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,400 Speaker 7: got teased for it. But then once you know, you 893 00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,399 Speaker 7: hit seventh eighth grade and you can play a little bit, 894 00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 7: then it's like, oh okay. And so I think it 895 00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 7: helped me. It is continued to help me because even now, 896 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 7: you guys remember when we were coming along. I'm a 897 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:34,879 Speaker 7: little older than you. Coaches didn't coach confidence. They coached discipline. 898 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,640 Speaker 7: Do it my way or the highway. Nowadays, folks are 899 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:43,280 Speaker 7: unlocking guys games by building up their confidence. And that's 900 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:44,320 Speaker 7: what the game. 901 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:45,440 Speaker 4: Did for me. It built me up. 902 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 7: There's no way I would walk onto the campus of 903 00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,919 Speaker 7: Princeton without having been a basketball player. There's no way 904 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:55,560 Speaker 7: I wouldn't have even thought I could achieve that. But 905 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,520 Speaker 7: because of the game, you learn how to work harder 906 00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,840 Speaker 7: on the academic side, and then next thing you know, 907 00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,840 Speaker 7: you're at a place that you know, you can't believe 908 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 7: you're there, and it changes your life. 909 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,200 Speaker 2: I think we spoke yesterday on your gother show, just 910 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 2: what sports used to teach you, not only the principles 911 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,319 Speaker 2: in the game, but the principles for life. It used 912 00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,000 Speaker 2: to teach you so many life qualities that I feel 913 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,239 Speaker 2: like obviously lacking in today. But I completely agree. I mean, 914 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 2: it just gives you the confidence and I can take 915 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 2: on anything. If I could do this, yeah type mentality 916 00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 2: you with I did cook you. 917 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 7: Of course, I wasn't even at your level. I was 918 00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:42,400 Speaker 7: just an ordinary player. Listen, So my first encountered in 919 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,360 Speaker 7: playing in the Chicago Summer League. Now I held my 920 00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:48,040 Speaker 7: own and we weren't always guarding each other, but that was. 921 00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 4: Five on five hell bone. It was fine. 922 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 7: But then once he retired and he was coming back, 923 00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:00,399 Speaker 7: he needed some guys who kind of knew the game 924 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,839 Speaker 7: that he could sort of quietly start working out with. 925 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 4: And he ended up somebody. 926 00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:07,800 Speaker 5: Grover. 927 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 7: Tim Grover knew us, and he got me John Rodgers, 928 00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 7: who's the president of Aerial Capital Management, Ernie Duncan, who 929 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:19,440 Speaker 7: was a former. 930 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 4: Secretary of Education. 931 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,440 Speaker 7: The three of us would go kind of work do 932 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:29,080 Speaker 7: workouts with him, and that's when he that's when he 933 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:32,920 Speaker 7: cooked me, I mean cooked me. And it was so 934 00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:38,280 Speaker 7: funny because he was very serious about what he was doing. 935 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,880 Speaker 7: Where you would think that somebody who is one of 936 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 7: the is like the greatest of all time, would be 937 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 7: taking it easy on some guys who are trying to 938 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:48,520 Speaker 7: help him get in shape. 939 00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,920 Speaker 4: It was not like that. And you guys know him too, 940 00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,000 Speaker 4: that's the greatest. 941 00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 7: I mean, he was working on stuff and elbow right 942 00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,040 Speaker 7: to the ribs. Oh okay, all right, let me be 943 00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:02,880 Speaker 7: prepared next time. Elbow to the next and then and 944 00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 7: then finally once I got one on him where he 945 00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 7: fooled me and I made it and I fell down 946 00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 7: and he was like, Craig, you okay, And I said, yeah, 947 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,880 Speaker 7: I appreciate it. He's like, I didn't get the fuck up. 948 00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 4: I was like, all right, I see what everybody's saying. 949 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:21,000 Speaker 5: Have been. 950 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,880 Speaker 4: First of all, I was, I was in fear the 951 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,759 Speaker 4: whole time I was playing that he land on my. 952 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 953 00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,160 Speaker 7: But then then once he got in real shape, he 954 00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:39,960 Speaker 7: started bringing in real pros because we were in our 955 00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,640 Speaker 7: we were probably you know, that was probably in our 956 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 7: early thirties when that happened. So he brought in some 957 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,239 Speaker 7: real athletic guys who were playing We were we were 958 00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:55,560 Speaker 7: playing three on threes and so he used us early on. 959 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 7: But it was it was a real treat, and he's 960 00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 7: always been gracious ever since. 961 00:51:59,719 --> 00:51:59,880 Speaker 2: You know. 962 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 7: I always assumed that he didn't remember me from that. 963 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:11,080 Speaker 7: And we were at David Stearn's funeral or memorial it wasn't. 964 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:15,279 Speaker 7: It was a memorial in New York City and I'm 965 00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,400 Speaker 7: walking past and I was like, Mike, Craig Robbins. 966 00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,839 Speaker 4: He's like, Craigie, I remember you messed up, you know, 967 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:22,400 Speaker 4: how he is. 968 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:23,759 Speaker 1: He just is. 969 00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 7: His mind is as sharp as his game. But it 970 00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 7: was a real it was it was a real treat. 971 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:31,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. 972 00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,040 Speaker 7: And then I ended up one one more story. When 973 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 7: I was the I was assistant coach at Northwestern and 974 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,800 Speaker 7: I got the head coaching job at Brown. I tried 975 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:43,720 Speaker 7: to recruit his oldest son, Marcus. Uh no, Mark, not Marcus, Marcus, 976 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,920 Speaker 7: the one who's older than Marcus to go to Brown. 977 00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:51,279 Speaker 7: He ended up going somewhere Florida or something. I think 978 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:58,160 Speaker 7: Marcus went to Marcus Florida, Central Florida, but I can't. Jeffrey, Yeah, 979 00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:00,200 Speaker 7: he ended up going to Illinois. I was like, man, 980 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 7: you bonus points. You could have come to Brown and 981 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,160 Speaker 7: would have been starting the Man and Ivy League school. 982 00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 7: But you know, not not everybody understands the big picture, 983 00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,280 Speaker 7: the big picture, or once the big picture. 984 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:14,480 Speaker 4: So it's just really neat. 985 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 5: Neither one of them was good. That's crazy. 986 00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:26,000 Speaker 2: By the way, By the way, way this is so popular, 987 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,359 Speaker 2: by the way, you know how you really feel? The 988 00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,960 Speaker 2: WNBA has been a really hot topic. You know, we 989 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 2: discussed off camera project you guys were potentially working on 990 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 2: a few years ago that I thought was great. Maybe 991 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 2: you guys will be able to bring that back. But 992 00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,440 Speaker 2: what is your guys thoughts on just the growth of 993 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 2: the league and how it's a real topic of conversation 994 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,520 Speaker 2: right now. And on top of that, the ladies fighting 995 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:47,440 Speaker 2: for I just sat down with Kelsey Plumb a few 996 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,640 Speaker 2: days ago before we came out here, and their revenue 997 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,239 Speaker 2: share is completely different. For those of you who don't know, 998 00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:54,240 Speaker 2: I think the NBA is a forty nine to fifty 999 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,960 Speaker 2: one windows split. They get nine percent of their split. 1000 00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:00,439 Speaker 2: So it's a little misinformational people. 1001 00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 5: You're not doing this. 1002 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,880 Speaker 2: You're not doing that. They want a different revenue split, 1003 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 2: they want more, a different cut of the pie. But 1004 00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 2: what is your guys thoughts on just the growth of 1005 00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 2: the game and how it's you know, really common now. 1006 00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 3: To I mean, they're two ways to look at it. 1007 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:16,719 Speaker 3: They've come a long way. Things have changed. There is 1008 00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 3: a league, there are stars, it's growing. There owners or 1009 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:27,320 Speaker 3: owners like the size or you know, really making the investment. 1010 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:32,239 Speaker 3: All all that's wonderful to see. But we were just 1011 00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:36,719 Speaker 3: we just had a great conversation with Candice Parker and 1012 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:40,759 Speaker 3: to be reminded of how hard things were, you know, 1013 00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:46,759 Speaker 3: playing in Russia and China getting maybe two weeks a 1014 00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:50,640 Speaker 3: break on her body a season because she had to 1015 00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:54,200 Speaker 3: play in two sass being pregnant, you know, in a 1016 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:59,200 Speaker 3: league that didn't have a maternity policy. The toll that 1017 00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:03,839 Speaker 3: that's taken her body. I mean, and she's just thirty nine, right, 1018 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:08,480 Speaker 3: and she is one of the greats. The fact that 1019 00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:12,800 Speaker 3: she will not experience, or did not experience, the fruits 1020 00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:19,280 Speaker 3: of her outstanding athletic ability is sad. You know why, 1021 00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 3: because she's a woman. It's ridiculous. So you know, politically 1022 00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:27,879 Speaker 3: you want to say, well, it's great they're making their way, 1023 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:33,279 Speaker 3: but you know, I say faster, better, quicker. You know, 1024 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:37,440 Speaker 3: why do women athletes have to jump through so many hurdles? 1025 00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 3: And it's not just in basketball. You know, Alison Felix 1026 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,360 Speaker 3: can tell you the same story. You know, we haven't 1027 00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 3: figured out how to recognize and pay women for their talent, 1028 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,959 Speaker 3: even though their name and likeness that people are making 1029 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 3: money off of them. You know, Nike Is still uses 1030 00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:02,759 Speaker 3: Alison Felix's name and likeness, but they wouldn't pay her 1031 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,920 Speaker 3: when she got pregnant. You know, women can have babies 1032 00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:11,880 Speaker 3: and dunk and run fast and you know, do it 1033 00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:17,080 Speaker 3: all but why are we constantly you know, third in 1034 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:21,240 Speaker 3: line for the you know, for the payoffs. 1035 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:25,040 Speaker 7: There's just a lack of investment. You know, you guys 1036 00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,279 Speaker 7: have been in the league. You see you see why 1037 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:29,680 Speaker 7: certain teams win a lot. 1038 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,839 Speaker 2: Of games start at the top. 1039 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,160 Speaker 4: It's on art's at the top. 1040 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,600 Speaker 7: And if there's no if there's only a couple of 1041 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:40,400 Speaker 7: really understanding, I don't want to say good other owners 1042 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,239 Speaker 7: who understand. 1043 00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:42,960 Speaker 4: It's like any other investment. 1044 00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:46,000 Speaker 2: You put the resources toward it, behind it, you will 1045 00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,320 Speaker 2: it will start to grow. 1046 00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:53,440 Speaker 7: And it's just been interesting to see what has taken 1047 00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:58,399 Speaker 7: it so long to start moving in that direction. I 1048 00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,600 Speaker 7: used to think it was okay, once people start to 1049 00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:05,359 Speaker 7: watch it and it'll start to grow, but it has 1050 00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,840 Speaker 7: never been any more popular than it is now. So 1051 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:13,160 Speaker 7: now it's it's got to be let's let's negotiate a 1052 00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:17,680 Speaker 7: fit something fair. Because when I'm with you, it was 1053 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:19,600 Speaker 7: it was in the last couple of years that I 1054 00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,400 Speaker 7: knew it was nine percent or seven whatever, it is 1055 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 7: nine percent and not closer to fifty percent. 1056 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:29,440 Speaker 5: I think it's more. 1057 00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:31,880 Speaker 6: I think it's more the w n B A and 1058 00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,880 Speaker 6: it's it's really on them because tennis get paid well, 1059 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,000 Speaker 6: they take care of them. Soccer girls they get played well. 1060 00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:40,040 Speaker 6: I think they solely singling out these girls. That's how 1061 00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 6: I look at it, because no other people, no other 1062 00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,600 Speaker 6: women's sport is really going through that. Yeah, you know, 1063 00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,439 Speaker 6: Tennis they get treated great, Soccer they get treated great. 1064 00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,080 Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. It's just a WNBA. So 1065 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,440 Speaker 6: why is that? It's my question? 1066 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,400 Speaker 2: I think too. It's also the contrast and compared to 1067 00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,440 Speaker 2: what men are making and doing compared to what you know, 1068 00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:00,320 Speaker 2: the women are doing. But one thing I think has 1069 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:03,360 Speaker 2: helped the growth of the female game of late is 1070 00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:07,160 Speaker 2: the storylines. And obviously with Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese 1071 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 2: starting and developing their storyline in college and obviously you know, 1072 00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:11,960 Speaker 2: you start hearing about them in high school and then 1073 00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:15,000 Speaker 2: their storylines really start to develop in college and to 1074 00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,920 Speaker 2: bring all that same energy into the NBA, and I 1075 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 2: think that was kind of an injection of just life 1076 00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:23,120 Speaker 2: and support. But the one thing I don't like about 1077 00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:24,720 Speaker 2: it is I feel like people feel like if you 1078 00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,080 Speaker 2: like one, you can't like the other, Like both these 1079 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:30,600 Speaker 2: women can't. Unfortunate, they're gonna synonyms be be linked for 1080 00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 2: the rest of their careers, whether they like it or not. 1081 00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 2: But I also think the storyline helps both of them. 1082 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:37,760 Speaker 2: What are your guys' thoughts on kind of the either 1083 00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:39,400 Speaker 2: or mentality in this. 1084 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, Matt, I want to speak to that because I've 1085 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 7: always said if these if it was two guys, it 1086 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:51,840 Speaker 7: would be okay to totally fine against one of them 1087 00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:55,600 Speaker 7: and for the other. That verb that's what happens in sports. 1088 00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:59,000 Speaker 2: It would root, but it wasn't. Not necessarily the hate. Yes, 1089 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:00,160 Speaker 2: I feel like you. 1090 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:00,480 Speaker 3: So. 1091 00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,040 Speaker 4: I thought a lot of folks hated the Celtics. 1092 00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 2: Oh you're talking about back in with the Magic. 1093 00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:08,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, you are right on that. You are right, That's 1094 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:09,280 Speaker 4: what I mean. 1095 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:14,800 Speaker 7: And what it's not okay for the I think I 1096 00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:20,080 Speaker 7: think the storylines of a real rivalry is good. 1097 00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 4: For the guests. Yes, and I mean the hate is 1098 00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:25,000 Speaker 4: the hate. 1099 00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:28,440 Speaker 7: It's part of social media, it's part of the it's 1100 00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:32,120 Speaker 7: part of society today. But I thought I have been 1101 00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:35,440 Speaker 7: saying for the last I don't know, maybe ten years, 1102 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,640 Speaker 7: you've heard me say this that the women's game needed 1103 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 7: real drama, not fabricated drama. You needed real drama. And 1104 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 7: for the first time in the last couple of years, 1105 00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,560 Speaker 7: you saw actual. 1106 00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:51,000 Speaker 6: Beef beefal and they started in college though I love it, 1107 00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:52,959 Speaker 6: and they brought it, transferred it to the NBA. 1108 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,240 Speaker 5: So that's how they get that light. So you're exactly right. 1109 00:59:55,600 --> 01:00:00,400 Speaker 7: You're exactly right, and and so use that, use that 1110 01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,480 Speaker 7: and then tell the good stories, tell the bad said, 1111 01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:07,200 Speaker 7: but use that because that's what draws people to sports, 1112 01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:12,560 Speaker 7: right because you root against everybody else who's not your team. 1113 01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:16,080 Speaker 2: And the hero villain approach has always been good for 1114 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 2: sports as well. 1115 01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,240 Speaker 4: And it's the real reality TV. 1116 01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,320 Speaker 3: I think the tough thing is the social media elements 1117 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,439 Speaker 3: to it. But that's true across the board. I mean, 1118 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 3: we've talked about this on our show. It just you know, 1119 01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 3: it just takes a normal occurrence. You know, these young 1120 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:37,960 Speaker 3: kids today, what they have to go through, what they 1121 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:41,080 Speaker 3: have to be able to withstand because social media is 1122 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,880 Speaker 3: such a huge part of their world. I mean, you 1123 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,240 Speaker 3: know there's the hate, but now the hate is in 1124 01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 3: your room, on your phone with you all the time, 1125 01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,600 Speaker 3: and you can't, for whatever reason, tell these kids to 1126 01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:54,880 Speaker 3: turn it off because they're making their living that way. 1127 01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:58,480 Speaker 3: I mean that they now are expected to stay engaged. 1128 01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,280 Speaker 3: So I think that makes it feel even worse. But 1129 01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:05,560 Speaker 3: as you point out, that's happening in sports across gender. 1130 01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:12,160 Speaker 3: It's just harder now to withstand other people's horrible, horrible opinions. 1131 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad that mental health is a conversation now 1132 01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:18,520 Speaker 2: because of that. And we talked a ton yesterday just 1133 01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,640 Speaker 2: about how my approach to my kids is very mental. 1134 01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:23,439 Speaker 2: It's because of you know, there's keep it. Really, there's 1135 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:25,440 Speaker 2: a lot of idiots out there with voices now, and 1136 01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:29,439 Speaker 2: not everyone deserves it, but just the negative energy that's 1137 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:33,240 Speaker 2: constantly drawn on these athletes and really just people in general. 1138 01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:35,880 Speaker 2: And again, that's why I feel like the conversation of 1139 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,640 Speaker 2: mental health is so important now, because there's just any 1140 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:42,080 Speaker 2: time you turn anything on, it's just negative, negative, negative. 1141 01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:44,520 Speaker 5: Marriage and relationships. 1142 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:47,720 Speaker 6: Becoming the first lady playing basketball, we were blessed to 1143 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:52,000 Speaker 6: have veterans in the locker room right to kind of 1144 01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:55,320 Speaker 6: give us the ropes and to not make mistakes. Becoming 1145 01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:59,320 Speaker 6: the first lady, is it a og? First lady? This 1146 01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:00,000 Speaker 6: is what you got to do. 1147 01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:08,480 Speaker 3: Let me tell you what I did do as being 1148 01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:12,400 Speaker 3: being the first black, first black woman. I knew that 1149 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:14,920 Speaker 3: it was in common. I knew I wanted to come 1150 01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,840 Speaker 3: in and do things differently that I you know that 1151 01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:21,000 Speaker 3: I had to bring my authentic self to the role, 1152 01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,400 Speaker 3: and there was a question of how was the country 1153 01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 3: going to respond to that. Part of my strategy was, 1154 01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:33,520 Speaker 3: let me before I make changes, let me show respect 1155 01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:37,360 Speaker 3: to the ogs, let me, let me let people understand 1156 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,280 Speaker 3: that I know the history, and I get the job, 1157 01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 3: and I get and I value what other people brought 1158 01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:47,240 Speaker 3: to it. So in that vein, in my first year, 1159 01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 3: at least, I made it a point to reach out, 1160 01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:54,080 Speaker 3: have lunch with, invite over every living first Lady that 1161 01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 3: was alive and could could could make the trip Number one, 1162 01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,720 Speaker 3: because I wanted to send the message that you know, 1163 01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:04,840 Speaker 3: when your family goes into the White House, regardless of 1164 01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 3: what party you're in, your family lives there right you know, 1165 01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:12,360 Speaker 3: that's the house of your family. My kids have lived 1166 01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:15,080 Speaker 3: longer in the White House than they've lived in any house, 1167 01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:21,440 Speaker 3: so there is you know, it doesn't belong to us, 1168 01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:25,959 Speaker 3: it belongs to everyone. So I didn't want a Republican 1169 01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:29,400 Speaker 3: former First Lady to feel like she couldn't come back 1170 01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,880 Speaker 3: to that house, that she wouldn't have access to it 1171 01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:33,160 Speaker 3: because I was there. 1172 01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:34,080 Speaker 4: Because it's like. 1173 01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:37,080 Speaker 3: That that house meant something to you. And in order 1174 01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,200 Speaker 3: to do that, you had to It was up to 1175 01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:42,680 Speaker 3: me to extend the olive branch, to sit down, to listen, 1176 01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 3: to ask questions, to hear tell me how you did it, 1177 01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,120 Speaker 3: what your challenges were? 1178 01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:48,520 Speaker 5: Right? 1179 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 3: Not everybody else did that. I haven't gotten a lot 1180 01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:56,280 Speaker 3: of calls, you know, but I think that there's some 1181 01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,360 Speaker 3: people who are looking for some OJ advice and others 1182 01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,640 Speaker 3: who don't don't want it. I wanted it and and 1183 01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:05,880 Speaker 3: I felt that it was useful, and as a result, 1184 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,320 Speaker 3: I felt like we had a lot of support from 1185 01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:12,919 Speaker 3: other administrations, first ladies offices. It wasn't just first Lady 1186 01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,640 Speaker 3: the first Lady, but my chief of staff was very 1187 01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 3: connected to Lord Bush's chief of staff. There are always 1188 01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:21,520 Speaker 3: questions that would come up, protocol, What did you do here? 1189 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:24,560 Speaker 3: How did you handle this? I wanted my teams to 1190 01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:27,520 Speaker 3: have some kind of, you know, place to go for 1191 01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,960 Speaker 3: advice and to feel like there was a community, a camaraderie. 1192 01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:36,040 Speaker 3: Not everybody, uh, you know uh has approached the job 1193 01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:39,560 Speaker 3: that way, but it's it's it's that's their prerogative. That 1194 01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:42,040 Speaker 3: was how I chose to approach it. 1195 01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,960 Speaker 6: When did you When did when did you tried to 1196 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 6: put swerve and and and and Michelle Obama spin on 1197 01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:50,760 Speaker 6: the White House. 1198 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:51,840 Speaker 5: When did that feel come in? 1199 01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 3: I think I think that was right away as soon 1200 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:59,040 Speaker 3: as yeah, yeah, because well, first of all, you know, 1201 01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:03,400 Speaker 3: we ran on it was a campaign that wasn't just 1202 01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:05,960 Speaker 3: me and Barack. You know, there were a lot of 1203 01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 3: people who got us there, and in every every step 1204 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:13,040 Speaker 3: we took, the question was how do we keep bringing 1205 01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:15,440 Speaker 3: people along with us? You don't just get to that 1206 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,360 Speaker 3: house and close the doors behind you. And you know, 1207 01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:22,040 Speaker 3: our motto was We're the People's House, and we wanted 1208 01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:27,400 Speaker 3: the people to be defined very broadly, right. Some of 1209 01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:29,920 Speaker 3: the things we would do, like even when you do 1210 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:32,360 Speaker 3: a state visit, for example, one of the things I 1211 01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:35,960 Speaker 3: thought is that, okay, we have these large state dinners 1212 01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,520 Speaker 3: where the presidents of other countries come to the White 1213 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,560 Speaker 3: House and it's you know, black tie, and you know, 1214 01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:45,080 Speaker 3: ambassadors are invited and the top donors are invited. I 1215 01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:47,840 Speaker 3: was like, well, what about everybody in the city, you know, 1216 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,280 Speaker 3: who's impacted by this state visit? How do we incorporate 1217 01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:56,880 Speaker 3: the kids from public schools around the area. So for 1218 01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:00,720 Speaker 3: every state dinner, we would do a companion taste and 1219 01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:03,600 Speaker 3: invite some kids to come and sit at the tables 1220 01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:07,720 Speaker 3: and see the You know, if we had entertainers come, 1221 01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:11,800 Speaker 3: we do a companion event in the afternoon where the 1222 01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,640 Speaker 3: entertainers would agree to sit down and talk to the kids. 1223 01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:18,280 Speaker 3: For the opening ceremony, we would invite little kids to 1224 01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:23,320 Speaker 3: come and wave and to see the every chance we got, 1225 01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:26,280 Speaker 3: the question was how do we get more people here? 1226 01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,000 Speaker 3: And then when we weren't bringing people here. For me, 1227 01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,120 Speaker 3: it was important for me to go out, you know, 1228 01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:35,160 Speaker 3: because if you're building relationships with people, you can't just 1229 01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:37,800 Speaker 3: invite them to your house. You got to go to 1230 01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:41,320 Speaker 3: their house shot to show that there's some respect for 1231 01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,960 Speaker 3: your house. So off the record, for my entire time 1232 01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 3: at the I thought I was First Lady. I made 1233 01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:50,480 Speaker 3: it a point to try to go to every public 1234 01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:54,560 Speaker 3: high school in the DC area off the record and 1235 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,280 Speaker 3: to just go talk to kids, because I thought that 1236 01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:01,320 Speaker 3: there was some power in the First Lady's motorcade driving 1237 01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:04,960 Speaker 3: up to into Anacostia and for me walking in those doors, 1238 01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,560 Speaker 3: usually with kids not even knowing. I'd ask them to 1239 01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:11,040 Speaker 3: set aside a group of seniors or juniors, you know, 1240 01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:14,400 Speaker 3: tell them that it was the superintendent or whatever, and 1241 01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:16,360 Speaker 3: then I'd show up and then I'd just sit for 1242 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:19,200 Speaker 3: hours because it would take kids a second to stop 1243 01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:22,440 Speaker 3: crying or to realize that it was happening. 1244 01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1245 01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:29,080 Speaker 3: And my whole point was what we do is about you, 1246 01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:34,080 Speaker 3: and your community is important enough that we need to 1247 01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:36,880 Speaker 3: come to you too, you know. So that those were 1248 01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:40,720 Speaker 3: the kind of if you want to say, obamafication of 1249 01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:43,680 Speaker 3: you know, the White House. It was just opening it up. 1250 01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:44,080 Speaker 5: You know. 1251 01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:47,440 Speaker 3: Music was big for us in the White House. We 1252 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:53,000 Speaker 3: had a whole array of music series ongoing. We honored 1253 01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 3: Stevie Wonder. Prince performed at the White House months before 1254 01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:00,640 Speaker 3: he died. I wanted to make sure that at every 1255 01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:04,439 Speaker 3: black diva that maybe would never be invited to sing 1256 01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:07,640 Speaker 3: in the White House got invited. Chaka Khans sang at 1257 01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:13,360 Speaker 3: the Governor's Ball, Diana Ross did an event, Janelle Monet 1258 01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:17,400 Speaker 3: was dancing on tables for the South Korea. We had 1259 01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:21,639 Speaker 3: a Beet R and B blowout at the end with Bell, 1260 01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:27,040 Speaker 3: Biv Devaux and Poison being sung on the walls, bringing 1261 01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,280 Speaker 3: a little flavor. And it wasn't just R and B, 1262 01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:32,799 Speaker 3: but it was country, it was Broadway, it was dance. 1263 01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:35,800 Speaker 3: It was theater. I did one event where we just 1264 01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:39,240 Speaker 3: invited all these designers to the White House because I 1265 01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:43,040 Speaker 3: was known for fashion, but I never really talked about 1266 01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:45,439 Speaker 3: it in the White House. So we had a day 1267 01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:48,479 Speaker 3: where we invited some of the top design students to 1268 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:51,080 Speaker 3: come to the White House for the day to meet 1269 01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:56,240 Speaker 3: with Anna Wintour, to drape fabrics with you know, you know, 1270 01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:58,759 Speaker 3: some of the top designers, to spend the whole day 1271 01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:01,040 Speaker 3: in the White House. You know, those were some of 1272 01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:05,080 Speaker 3: the things that just kept saying, this house is yours, 1273 01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:08,760 Speaker 3: we are you. You belong here as much as the 1274 01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:14,120 Speaker 3: hoodie dudes. And that was to me, that was the 1275 01:09:14,120 --> 01:09:17,599 Speaker 3: most valuable way for us to use that space at 1276 01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:17,880 Speaker 3: the time. 1277 01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:21,080 Speaker 6: The flyers first Lady for sure. One more question, though, 1278 01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:24,680 Speaker 6: it's this funny question. Was it any Louisiana hot so 1279 01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:26,520 Speaker 6: tony sassers in the White House. 1280 01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:28,280 Speaker 3: All up and down the place? 1281 01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:30,479 Speaker 5: I want to hear that type. 1282 01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:33,960 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, the question is was anybody frying 1283 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:37,719 Speaker 3: chicken up in the White House? Answer was yes, yes. 1284 01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:41,840 Speaker 3: At the last party that we had, the going away party, 1285 01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:44,559 Speaker 3: which was full of tears, what you know, and it lasted. 1286 01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:46,880 Speaker 3: Some of the parties would last till three four in 1287 01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:52,280 Speaker 3: the Morris where people were really you know, enjoying themselves. 1288 01:09:53,120 --> 01:09:57,040 Speaker 3: And at the last the midnight snack that was brought 1289 01:09:57,040 --> 01:10:01,439 Speaker 3: out were chicken and waffles, you know, and so everybody 1290 01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:03,160 Speaker 3: and that's what everybody said. 1291 01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:08,800 Speaker 2: Oh, yes, all this has been great. We got about 1292 01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:11,040 Speaker 2: ten minutes left, so we're going to jump to quick hitters. 1293 01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:14,200 Speaker 2: First thing to come to mind. Let us know, Michelle, 1294 01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:17,240 Speaker 2: you had a visit. You had a very famous quote, 1295 01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:21,559 Speaker 2: when they go low, we go high. We still have 1296 01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:23,200 Speaker 2: to go high. 1297 01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:28,600 Speaker 3: You'll get there, you know. The the true answer is, 1298 01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 3: you know, no. 1299 01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:33,559 Speaker 5: Sometimes it was good at the moment. 1300 01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:35,479 Speaker 2: Let's meeting where they're at now. 1301 01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:35,559 Speaker 7: You know. 1302 01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:39,639 Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. Here's the thing. Going going high 1303 01:10:39,760 --> 01:10:43,719 Speaker 3: is about being strategic, right, and that's really my point. 1304 01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:46,400 Speaker 3: That doesn't mean you don't feel it emotionally, that doesn't 1305 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,719 Speaker 3: mean you don't get angry, you know, but that means 1306 01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 3: that our response needs to be strategic and have a 1307 01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:57,559 Speaker 3: goal beyond us just being mad, because that's just you know, 1308 01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:00,679 Speaker 3: I don't want to waste my mad, right. So let's 1309 01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,479 Speaker 3: you know, let's let's be thoughtful about what we say, 1310 01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:07,559 Speaker 3: why we say it, what's the plan where we headed. 1311 01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:09,360 Speaker 3: You know, that's what going high is. 1312 01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:10,000 Speaker 2: Gotcha. 1313 01:11:10,120 --> 01:11:16,800 Speaker 6: You think I got some mad ways, I'm a lot 1314 01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:22,519 Speaker 6: of mad you got from somebody else. Both of you. 1315 01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 6: This question is both of you. One album you can 1316 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,720 Speaker 6: listen to with no skips. 1317 01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:31,680 Speaker 7: Oh that's easy for me. What that's the way of 1318 01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:35,280 Speaker 7: the world, Earth Wind and five. I can listen to 1319 01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:37,479 Speaker 7: just play the whole thing, look it over and play 1320 01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:38,000 Speaker 7: the other ones. 1321 01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 3: Stevie wonders talking about New yours. 1322 01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:46,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, what music artists again? For both you 1323 01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:48,800 Speaker 2: guys will be surprised to see on your playlist. 1324 01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:52,600 Speaker 3: I mean there's there's so many. I like Billy, I 1325 01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:56,360 Speaker 3: love Billy Joel, I love Elton John, I love pianist, 1326 01:11:57,000 --> 01:12:00,800 Speaker 3: you know I love that. You know, like it's like, 1327 01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:03,080 Speaker 3: how'd you do that? How did you make that piano 1328 01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:04,719 Speaker 3: sound that way? Diana crawl? 1329 01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:09,800 Speaker 4: So yeah, Neil Diamond. 1330 01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:12,960 Speaker 3: I'm surprised to hear that. Neil Diamond. 1331 01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:17,519 Speaker 4: Oh huh Yeah, you. 1332 01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:26,479 Speaker 7: Guys gotta you gotta explain that I still have young kids. 1333 01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:28,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, fifteen thirteen. 1334 01:12:29,439 --> 01:12:32,720 Speaker 3: Say, but I wouldn't be surprised. See that's why I 1335 01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:35,200 Speaker 3: was like, of course glow real, of course wrap arm 1336 01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:35,840 Speaker 3: b all of it. 1337 01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:37,320 Speaker 4: I got, I get a mix. 1338 01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:39,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is a very important question right here. 1339 01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:43,679 Speaker 5: Grits, salt or sugar? Any grits? 1340 01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:48,320 Speaker 6: Oh salt salt, no way, no way, butter sugar? 1341 01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:50,360 Speaker 2: Oh gallon of sugar, salt butter? 1342 01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:57,719 Speaker 3: Now you got oatmeal, very bland oat me, cheese and salt. 1343 01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:01,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, if anything, I'll have she's in my salt. 1344 01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:01,839 Speaker 5: Sugar. 1345 01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:04,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say scrambled eggs in there somebody. 1346 01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:05,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, butter. 1347 01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:06,920 Speaker 3: Well, then what do we have now? 1348 01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:07,400 Speaker 2: We just have? 1349 01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:08,599 Speaker 3: We have. 1350 01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:13,479 Speaker 2: Guilty pleasure? 1351 01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:24,520 Speaker 3: Uh, a very dry martini up olives novermouth. 1352 01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:26,320 Speaker 5: Basically, what does dry mean? 1353 01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:32,559 Speaker 2: Just just straight once to the dome. Yeah, okay, money, 1354 01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:33,960 Speaker 2: once to the dome. I like that. 1355 01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:36,599 Speaker 4: My guilty pleasure would be. 1356 01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:43,160 Speaker 7: Harold's fried Chicken from the South Side of Chicago called. 1357 01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:47,479 Speaker 3: When he said hair, I was like, where are you going? 1358 01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 5: That's the original They got him in Atlanta. Now, so. 1359 01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:54,360 Speaker 2: He stabbed him like stabbing it shoes. 1360 01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:58,400 Speaker 7: She's like, you said hair, And then I started like 1361 01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:05,479 Speaker 7: y'all too, I know, look at that that's going. It's 1362 01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:08,600 Speaker 7: not going anywhere. 1363 01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:12,639 Speaker 5: Lebron Kobe wrank them. 1364 01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:18,679 Speaker 4: I'll let the queen go first, Okay, m J lebron Kobe, Yeah. 1365 01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:20,000 Speaker 2: Order one to three. 1366 01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:23,800 Speaker 7: Oh Reallyron Kobe, Yeah, very good. 1367 01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:25,879 Speaker 4: I'm impressed. I'm impressed. 1368 01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:27,200 Speaker 3: That's just me personally. 1369 01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:30,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's personal questions, your personal question. 1370 01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:31,599 Speaker 6: Uh. 1371 01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:33,360 Speaker 2: One book everybody should read. 1372 01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:37,280 Speaker 3: The book I read every couple of years is Tony 1373 01:14:37,320 --> 01:14:41,759 Speaker 3: Morrison's song Asylent Solomon, Song of Solomon, Song of Solomon. 1374 01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:46,960 Speaker 3: Tony Morrison is my favorite author of all time. And 1375 01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:50,680 Speaker 3: you know she writes in metaphor, and you know her 1376 01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:54,240 Speaker 3: pros are just awesome. So Song of Solomon. 1377 01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:59,120 Speaker 4: I would go, uh, Malcolm X's auto virus. 1378 01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,120 Speaker 6: If you could see one person on our show, who 1379 01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:04,920 Speaker 6: would it be? But you have to help us get 1380 01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:12,360 Speaker 6: your answer on the show, echoing. 1381 01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:18,000 Speaker 3: Barack Obama would love I would even. 1382 01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:20,519 Speaker 2: Think of that. 1383 01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:22,839 Speaker 3: Call his people. 1384 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:25,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, he would get a hold of them. 1385 01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:27,759 Speaker 3: I think I think I got his numbers. 1386 01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:30,639 Speaker 4: That was going to be mine. 1387 01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:31,719 Speaker 5: I think I got his number. 1388 01:15:31,920 --> 01:15:34,880 Speaker 3: If you were talking about sports, I mean any sport, 1389 01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:37,360 Speaker 3: I mean, you name it, it's a you know, and 1390 01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:41,320 Speaker 3: he knows about everything, so he would he would have 1391 01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:41,599 Speaker 3: a ball. 1392 01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:43,400 Speaker 5: Got it, We got it. We're gonna we have him 1393 01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:43,800 Speaker 5: on the show. 1394 01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:46,639 Speaker 6: If we haven't we're gonna know not if when we haven't, 1395 01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:48,599 Speaker 6: we're going to have a live game of horse. 1396 01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:52,639 Speaker 5: Yeah, I want to see what the left hand about. 1397 01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna talk about that too, but we wait 1398 01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:57,800 Speaker 2: to get that last question. If you were to have 1399 01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:01,480 Speaker 2: a biopic, who would you want to play you? Oh 1400 01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:04,920 Speaker 2: gosh on the spot. Final question? 1401 01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:07,760 Speaker 4: First, Well, nobody's gonna do a bio pick on me, 1402 01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:09,320 Speaker 4: but you're going to be in. 1403 01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:12,400 Speaker 3: It, to be in the big part of you. 1404 01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:14,120 Speaker 2: Know. 1405 01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:19,640 Speaker 4: What's what? I have not thought about it? Lay me? 1406 01:16:21,200 --> 01:16:26,400 Speaker 3: Oh, Charlie Rolf because I just love her these days. 1407 01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:30,280 Speaker 5: Okay, big guy. 1408 01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:32,160 Speaker 4: I was gonna say Denzel. 1409 01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:32,719 Speaker 5: Big guy, ball headed. 1410 01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:35,920 Speaker 6: I would go Forrest Whittaker because he's killing it right 1411 01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:38,160 Speaker 6: now on TV and yes he's playing. 1412 01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:39,479 Speaker 4: I would, I would. 1413 01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:44,600 Speaker 7: I was gonna say before she said Denzel, I was 1414 01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:45,600 Speaker 7: gonna say Samuel L. 1415 01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:46,160 Speaker 4: Jackson. 1416 01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:49,439 Speaker 5: But neither one of them. Can you need somebody that 1417 01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:50,519 Speaker 5: hoop a little bit? 1418 01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:52,240 Speaker 4: Say Forest Willier? 1419 01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:57,960 Speaker 5: Not better than them? Who's the dude, Who's. 1420 01:16:57,840 --> 01:16:58,840 Speaker 2: What's your name's brother? 1421 01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:04,600 Speaker 6: Who's what Harris's brother would have to play on bim F? 1422 01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:07,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, he would be great. He won't be great his brother. 1423 01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:08,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, his brothers. 1424 01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:13,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, slipping mine because. 1425 01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:16,040 Speaker 7: What Harris is probably a good athlete. Oh yeah, because 1426 01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:17,120 Speaker 7: I think he played. 1427 01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:21,920 Speaker 6: He slayed inove the room. Yeah yeah, Harris, he's real good. 1428 01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:23,200 Speaker 6: He's a real good actor. 1429 01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:23,479 Speaker 5: All right. 1430 01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:25,160 Speaker 2: Last thing, what do you think when you see this 1431 01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:25,880 Speaker 2: picture right here? 1432 01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:35,639 Speaker 3: Is that Barrock? He doesn't the archives anymore? Oh my god? 1433 01:17:35,640 --> 01:17:37,360 Speaker 5: Okay, what was he doing in this picture? 1434 01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:39,960 Speaker 3: I have no idea. It looks like. 1435 01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:41,920 Speaker 5: He's was he collecting his starts? 1436 01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:44,759 Speaker 3: I don't know. He's probably about to smoke. 1437 01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:49,559 Speaker 6: That's what was that about to happen? Because I could 1438 01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:52,519 Speaker 6: see myself in this picture, like the chairs over there, he. 1439 01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:53,320 Speaker 3: Might have just fit. 1440 01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:56,760 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, he fresh off one. I can see. 1441 01:17:57,240 --> 01:17:57,720 Speaker 5: I can see it. 1442 01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,000 Speaker 4: That's the same class. 1443 01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:01,599 Speaker 3: Appreciating all. 1444 01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:04,559 Speaker 5: Indeed, that's beautiful. 1445 01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:07,120 Speaker 2: Thank you guys very much for your. 1446 01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:15,160 Speaker 4: For you all you guys have your own yes, you 1447 01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:19,360 Speaker 4: and our daughter, thank you so much. 1448 01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:20,920 Speaker 5: Thank you so much. 1449 01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:25,839 Speaker 2: Also, big things to manifest this new amazing eleven thousand 1450 01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:27,679 Speaker 2: square foot building opening up September. 1451 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:28,760 Speaker 4: You guys come check it out. 1452 01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:34,960 Speaker 2: One stop d C Harbishop, Crazy Clothes, Speak, easy bar food. 1453 01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:35,759 Speaker 5: It's amazing. 1454 01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:36,840 Speaker 2: Thank you guys for having. 1455 01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:39,080 Speaker 4: Us and the most comfortable chairs. 1456 01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,559 Speaker 2: And they got some gript to shell Obama Craig Robinson 1457 01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:44,479 Speaker 2: catch us on All the Smoke YouTube and the Draft 1458 01:18:44,560 --> 01:18:46,439 Speaker 2: Kings Network. We'll see you guys next week. 1459 01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:55,880 Speaker 5: Leg you pa, mm hmm