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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, on work, sex, parenting, and more,

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Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air,

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Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,

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Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. It could

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Speaker 1: be yours. Buckled up and hold on tight. We got

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Speaker 1: it for you here it is. Thank you, nephew. Subject.

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Speaker 1: You need to know what you're getting into. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: my brother has been married for almost a year and

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Speaker 1: it's been a rough year for him and our family.

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Speaker 1: He met her online and she ended up being an

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Speaker 1: old friend of one of our cousins, and before they

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Speaker 1: got married, our cousin told him not to marry this girl.

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Speaker 1: To make matters worse, she shoved me and put me

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Speaker 1: out of my brother's house. Before the wedding, she told

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Speaker 1: my brother that she was getting liposuction on her tummy

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Speaker 1: and it would take three days to recover. She went

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Speaker 1: came back, like I said, a new body, a whole

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Speaker 1: new body, and he didn't speak to her during the recovery.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what made him stick with her and

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Speaker 1: go through with the wedding. After that, he said that

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Speaker 1: she told him she didn't need his consent to do

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Speaker 1: with all the medical bills that keep piling up because

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Speaker 1: she's been having a lot of complications from her booty implants.

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Speaker 1: She does not have any feelings in her left cheek,

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Speaker 1: and I think it's karma. My brother keeps complaining to

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Speaker 1: me and our parents, and our solution is to tell

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Speaker 1: her to kick rocks, but he won't. A lot of

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Speaker 1: things aren't what they seem with her. She's always been

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Speaker 1: the type to jump from man to man for money.

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Speaker 1: According to our cousin, with everything that's going on in

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Speaker 1: the world now, there should be a database of men

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Speaker 1: and women so we will know what we're getting into.

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Speaker 1: It's like the Carfax system for people. My sister in

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Speaker 1: law clearly has self esteem issues and needs to love

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Speaker 1: herself before she can love my brother. I'm not trying

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Speaker 1: to be in her business, in their business but it's

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Speaker 1: a lot for my brother to deal with, and on

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Speaker 1: top of that, he hasn't had sex in five months.

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Speaker 1: What should he do well? I think he should stop

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Speaker 1: telling you guys all of his business. Okay, that's first.

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Speaker 1: That's what I would tell him first. This is his wife,

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Speaker 1: this is his marriage, love it or hate it. Your

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Speaker 1: at the time because this is who he wanted, and

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Speaker 1: he did what he wanted to do like most grown

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Speaker 1: people do. Now that he's in it, he needs to

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Speaker 1: man up and either try to make it work with

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Speaker 1: the new booty or get a divorce. If he's staying

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Speaker 1: in it, it should be between him and wife what happens.

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Speaker 1: She probably does have a lot of medical bills for

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Speaker 1: all the work she's had done, but your brother is

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Speaker 1: certainly under no obligation to pay them. That body makeover,

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Speaker 1: like she said, didn't need his consent, but now she

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Speaker 1: needs his money to help pay for it. This is

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Speaker 1: a mess. The fact that he hasn't had sex in

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Speaker 1: five months after only being married a year, that's bad.

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Speaker 1: I think that's bad. But you shouldn't even know that.

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Speaker 1: Why do you know that, sister, and the family. Why

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Speaker 1: because he's telling you guys everything, and of course you

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Speaker 1: care because he's your brother. But there's nothing you can do,

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Speaker 1: sister about any of this. So my advice to you

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Speaker 1: it out. Steve met the girl online. Here we go,

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Speaker 1: another horror story, fucking going role online. Now, there are

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Speaker 1: a lot of success stories too. I read a survey

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Speaker 1: that says sixty five percent of all marriages now come

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Speaker 1: Problem we're having right now is too many cooks in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen. I tell people all the time, best way

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Speaker 1: to get married and stay married. This form of two

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Speaker 1: headed sucker. Took me a while to figure it out

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Speaker 1: and learn it. But ah, me and Margie make all

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Speaker 1: don't have a democracy. We have a dictatorship and it

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Speaker 1: works out just fine. It's a monarchy. I'm the king,

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Speaker 1: she's the queen. That's what we had. This guy right here,

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Speaker 1: like Shelly says, tells every damn thing that's going on.

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Speaker 1: He met a girl online. Turns out that the girl

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Speaker 1: before they got married, your cousin told him, don't marry

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Speaker 1: statement to make matters worse, she's shoved me and put

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Speaker 1: a brea. What did you do to make her shove

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Speaker 1: you and put you out your brother's house? Which is

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Speaker 1: her house? Now? See, and that's where you're wrong. Ain't

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Speaker 1: your brother's house you getting married? Is her house? She

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Speaker 1: shoved you? Why because you was in that time about

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Speaker 1: this my brother's house. You ain't got no see, you

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Speaker 1: you part of this problem here. So you got shoved

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Speaker 1: put out? And you know how I know she left

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Speaker 1: because she said as she put me out, which means

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Speaker 1: she had to write to and your brother couldn't say nothing.

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Speaker 1: So now we got a woman's writing this letter that

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Speaker 1: don't like this girl. So the whole letter is based

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Speaker 1: around that. Before the wedding, she told you brother, she

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Speaker 1: was getting light on suction on a tummy and it's

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Speaker 1: don't know what made him stick with her and go

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Speaker 1: You don't know why he stuck with her and went

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Speaker 1: went through with it. I don't see how he could

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Speaker 1: have not hold of thought. Hold of thought. We'll have

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Speaker 1: part two of Stubberry Letter. Response from Steve coming up

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Speaker 1: in twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter,

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Speaker 1: subject you need to sell what you're getting into. We'll

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Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject you need to know

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Speaker 1: what you're getting into? Yeah, you do. This lady's writing

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Speaker 1: this letter because his brother met this woman online and

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Speaker 1: married her. Now cousin knew her before, old friends for

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Speaker 1: warned got not to marry her. Then right after that,

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Speaker 1: the other thing is she has shoved her and put

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Speaker 1: guess what you left? So then what you do? You left,

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Speaker 1: She told your brother that she was gonna get a

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Speaker 1: tummy tuck and she would be at life on suction.

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Speaker 1: She'd be out of town three days. She was gone

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Speaker 1: new body. He ain't speaking of doing the recovery. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what made him stick with her or go

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Speaker 1: through with the wed and after that what you don't know,

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Speaker 1: Lord alber Bottom, Mega wanna bite alber Bottom? Megam wanna bite. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that boy said I guessed to marry. Now it's more everything.

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Speaker 1: Well now, then she says, he says she told him

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Speaker 1: and then uh, like like you said, you don't know

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Speaker 1: what made him go through with the web. He says,

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Speaker 1: she told him she didn't need his consent to do

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Speaker 1: with all the medical bills piling up because she didn't

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Speaker 1: have a lot of complications from her booty implant. All right,

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Speaker 1: now we have it with the booty implants. You know

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Speaker 1: why you have it because that ain't your booty. See,

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Speaker 1: these women are getting all these booty and players. Y'all

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Speaker 1: need to start running some tests. See when you go

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Speaker 1: to get a kidney transfer and stuff like that, they

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Speaker 1: run tests to make sure that the kidney of the

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Speaker 1: Y'all need to find out does your body rejects hillicone?

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Speaker 1: Does your body accept pix a flat? Can you jam

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Speaker 1: of foam? Do you need to start looking into down

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Speaker 1: like like a comforter. Yeah, you got do something now

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Speaker 1: you're the run out here and got some booty in

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Speaker 1: plants that don't fit your body. Now you got medical

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Speaker 1: Kate Michell told y'all they hadn't been that they got

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Speaker 1: documentaries on it right now to keep telling y'all, y'all

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Speaker 1: keep going to get these asses so y'all can get

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Speaker 1: on Instagram and walk and look back over your shoulder.

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Speaker 1: Cartie B said something too about it recently, didn't she? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And now you say she don't have any feelings in

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Speaker 1: to kick rock. I'm thinking divorced, but he won't. A

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Speaker 1: lot of a lot of things aren't what they've seen

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Speaker 1: to your cuss, you don't like the woman there since

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Speaker 1: she pushed your ass. That's what this whole damn letterbot.

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Speaker 1: She pushed you and put your ass out the house,

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Speaker 1: type of Steve hard Morning Show. And then we got

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Speaker 1: it ain't one, it ain't one, and it ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: be one. Dating sites put flags on certain profiles, men

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Speaker 1: who are romanizers and stuff like that. They got that

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Speaker 1: my sister in law clearly had self esteem issues and

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Speaker 1: Now here's the part that I'm trying not to be

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Speaker 1: had six in five months. Now, I want you to

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Speaker 1: listen to this whole state. I'm gonna make a statement.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying not to be in their business, but it's

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Speaker 1: You know what I got to say. None of this

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Speaker 1: You ain't trying to stay out their business. You wrote

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Speaker 1: then he ain't had sex in five months. That's another lie.

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Speaker 1: That is a lie right here, that's a lie. Now,

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Speaker 1: your brother ain't telling you everything. Your brother have him

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Speaker 1: doing nothing with it, sitting here paying all these medical bills.

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