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Speaker 1: Second dat updates. You know, we learn a lot from
Speaker 1: second Date updates. And one of the things that we
Speaker 1: haven't talked about enough that I think we're learning is
Speaker 1: that when you go out on a first date with somebody,
Speaker 1: do not let them use the bathroom. Well, don't let
Speaker 1: them go to the bathroom. If they have to use
Speaker 1: the bathroom, you make sure they relieve themselves right in
Speaker 1: your plane site, right there at the table. Make sure
Speaker 1: they will leave themselves right there at the table. I
Speaker 1: have not learned that. You're the other one that's picked
Speaker 1: that up. Not only is it sexy, we already know that,
Speaker 1: but every time somebody goes to the bathroom, they disappear.
Speaker 1: We hear that all the time and second date updates
Speaker 1: if someone's going to ditch, that's what they do. Where
Speaker 1: people go out with someone and then they go, oh,
Speaker 1: excuse me, I got to take it real quick, and
Speaker 1: then they're never to be heard from again. And that's
Speaker 1: what happened to Tara, who's on the phone for a
Speaker 1: second date update right now, what's up Tara? Hey, how's
Speaker 1: it going? He just do you want a bathroom break? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Never let your day go to this freaking bathroom, Like,
Speaker 1: don't break the seal. Oh my god. Okay, Well, before
Speaker 1: we get into him ditching you, where'd you meet this dude?
Speaker 1: So we'd met him bumble and we've been like chatting
Speaker 1: for a little bit and he's like a funny dude.
Speaker 1: Like we got along and I was supposed to be
Speaker 1: a concert with a friend and then last minute she
Speaker 1: totally diss me and I really wanted to go and
Speaker 1: I didn't have anybody to go with, so I bously
Speaker 1: like took a chance to asked the guys who come
Speaker 1: with me to the show? And he did and it
Speaker 1: was fun. What's his name, by the way, his name's Ben. Ben.
Speaker 1: That's like a good opening that you took. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like super child, but not too much conversation, just enough, right,
Speaker 1: And did you guys have fun? It was a blast.
Speaker 1: We had so much fun. We were like dancing around.
Speaker 1: He was enjoying the show too. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: I feel like you don't have a good take on
Speaker 1: his actual emotions if he left in the middle of
Speaker 1: the date, not at all. I literally don't get it.
Speaker 1: We were having such a good time up to that point.
Speaker 1: Literally five minutes before we were making out. Like, I
Speaker 1: don't get it. He made out with you and everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we were dancing. I mean there was kind of like
Speaker 1: this one point where we were dancing and it was
Speaker 1: like really crowded and we kind of like lost each
Speaker 1: other for maybe like five to ten minutes. I feel
Speaker 1: like we found each other. And right after that is
Speaker 1: when like the making out and sued. So I figured
Speaker 1: it was fine, right, And if he was gonna dit you,
Speaker 1: why wouldn't he dit you when you lost each other exactly,
Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. Yeah, that would have been
Speaker 1: the perfect time to get out and be like, oh sorry,
Speaker 1: it was crowded, and I thought maybe you left. And
Speaker 1: then like a little bit later, after all of these
Speaker 1: fun things, he was like, oh, I have to go
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, and then apparently the bathroom ate him.
Speaker 1: Is there any way that he I mean, you said
Speaker 1: it was so crowded. Maybe he really honestly couldn't find
Speaker 1: you again, See that's what I was thinking. But even
Speaker 1: if you can't find somebody, you usually answer your phone.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and even if it's like dead that night,
Speaker 1: you call maybe the next day exactly okay. And you
Speaker 1: haven't heard anything from him at all, not at all, nothing.
Speaker 1: So what are you feeling right now? Are you pissed?
Speaker 1: Are you I'm just annoyed and confused, Like, honestly, he's
Speaker 1: a bumble dude, so saying I'm pissed is like a
Speaker 1: little far okay, but I'm just confused. Like I give
Speaker 1: you a free ticket to a great show, I dance
Speaker 1: on you, and then we make out and that was
Speaker 1: so fun and then you leave, like really really like
Speaker 1: I know, I'm a great kiss there. Sorry if you're not.
Speaker 1: Was there anything awkward that happened after the kiss? No,
Speaker 1: like other than us losing each other, which didn't seem
Speaker 1: like that big of a deal. Oh my god. What
Speaker 1: if he was cheating on you and then when he
Speaker 1: kissed you he felt guilty and he had to go,
Speaker 1: Oh well there's an idea. Yeah, I didn't think about
Speaker 1: that one yet. Did you know that hadn't crossed my mind?
Speaker 1: Thank you? How many times have you tried to reach
Speaker 1: out to him since you guys hung out? Um? I
Speaker 1: mean I texted him quite a few times at night,
Speaker 1: just because I was worried, and then the next day
Speaker 1: I hit him up, and then a couple of days
Speaker 1: after that, and then I just left it alone. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because he hasn't responded at all. Yeah at all. You're
Speaker 1: not being creepy at all. It's like a perfect amount
Speaker 1: of Yeah. I mean that's what I was wondering and
Speaker 1: texting him a few times at night. Like after you
Speaker 1: can't find him? Is understandable. You didn't freak out on him,
Speaker 1: did you. No. I was just like, hey, man, is
Speaker 1: everything good? Like where you at? And then I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: I can't find you. And then I was like, dude,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave in like ten minutes. Yeah, that's normal.
Speaker 1: You're being a lot more chill about this than I
Speaker 1: think I would be. Yeah, I think i'd be really mad.
Speaker 1: Like I've had time to process. And again, I mean,
Speaker 1: he was really cute, but like I've also matched with
Speaker 1: way cuter guys. I just want to know, like it
Speaker 1: was a blast, Like I just want to know why. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him to get
Speaker 1: your second DA update. Okay, Okay, all right, hang on
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning dates if you're just joining us.
Speaker 1: For today's second day update, Tara is on the phone
Speaker 1: and she went to a concert with a dude named
Speaker 1: Ben and she got ditched. He said he had to
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom and then left and she hasn't
Speaker 1: heard from him since. And if you were listening to
Speaker 1: the first part I said earlier, this is proof that
Speaker 1: you shouldn't let people leave to go to the bathroom
Speaker 1: on a date. You should make him do it right
Speaker 1: there in front of you. And I take that back.
Speaker 1: That's a little bit extreme, but I think from now on,
Speaker 1: if you're on a date and somebody says they have
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom, you simply just follow them
Speaker 1: into the bathroom so that you know they won't leave
Speaker 1: you much better idea, Tara, you want to try that
Speaker 1: next time? Actually, yas, I'm taking notes. Okay, good. Have
Speaker 1: you ever been ditched before on a date? No? What? Never?
Speaker 1: I'm usually the one that does the ditching. Why this
Speaker 1: is even more confusing? How long how long did you
Speaker 1: wait at the concert before you realize, oh my god,
Speaker 1: he's just gone. I mean, I was so really enjoying
Speaker 1: the show, so I definitely stay till the end, and
Speaker 1: then was like, oh, I don't know you people around me?
Speaker 1: So you still enjoyed the concert at least? Oh most definitely.
Speaker 1: It didn't like that ruin it? Oh good. I like
Speaker 1: your attitude. Like I said, I really just want to
Speaker 1: know why he would ditch me. Everything seemed like it
Speaker 1: was going so well. All right, cool, Well, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do host phone number right now and see if we
Speaker 1: can figure it out for you. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: how can I speak to Ben? Please? Yeah? This Ben? Hello? Ben? Hi?
Speaker 1: How are ye today? I'm doing? Okay? Ye? Is Spanish
Speaker 1: for you? I'm sorry? What? Oh? Sorry? I should have
Speaker 1: introduced myself. This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning, the radio show. Um, oh, okay, okay, cool.
Speaker 1: Well I'm calling you today because one of our listeners
Speaker 1: actually emailed us asking if we get in touch with you.
Speaker 1: I don't really know why that's happening, but okay, that's
Speaker 1: what we're here for. Do a segment on our show
Speaker 1: called the second Date Update. That's where if somebody goes
Speaker 1: out on a date and then the person doesn't call
Speaker 1: them back after, they can email us to get that
Speaker 1: person on the phone and ask what happened. So you
Speaker 1: went on a date recently with a girl named Tara? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Uh I did? She She wants you to call me, yeah,
Speaker 1: because she's been trying to get ahold of you, but
Speaker 1: you haven't answered any of her texts, phone calls or anything.
Speaker 1: And I mean that she's a bit of a weirdo.
Speaker 1: That kind of makes sense. What she's a weirdo bit? Yeah, wait,
Speaker 1: a weirder that you've made out with? What? No, no,
Speaker 1: weirdo that I absolutely did not make out with. Well,
Speaker 1: she told us that you did make out, that you
Speaker 1: kissed her. I don't know where that idea came from. Wait,
Speaker 1: did you go to a concert with her? I did
Speaker 1: go to a concert with her. Yeah, that's true, but
Speaker 1: there was there was no making out at this concert. Okay.
Speaker 1: Well really, her story doesn't really match yours then, other
Speaker 1: than the concert thing. Okay, So she's she's telling you
Speaker 1: that I made out with her. Yeah, she says that
Speaker 1: you went to a concert, you guys made out, and
Speaker 1: then shortly after that you went to the bathroom and disappeared. Okay, Um, no, wait, no, one,
Speaker 1: what I mean you already said no on the kissing
Speaker 1: did you ditcher though? Did you go to the bathroom
Speaker 1: and ditcher? I didn't go to the bathroom. I guess
Speaker 1: strictly speaking, I ditched her because she was hardly paying
Speaker 1: attention to me and I just left. Okay, so you
Speaker 1: did you did ditch her? Yeah, I mean I guess, yeah,
Speaker 1: strictly speaking, I did dis her. Okay, wait, hold on,
Speaker 1: go over the night. I want to hear what happened
Speaker 1: in your words. Okay, Um, like you said, she got
Speaker 1: in touch with me, invited me out to the show,
Speaker 1: and you know, she was like in full long party
Speaker 1: mode when we got there, like she was looking around
Speaker 1: all the time, like she was fascinated by like the
Speaker 1: lighting at the venue and was paying more to engine
Speaker 1: that then to me. Well, in her defense, that day
Speaker 1: have good lighting, because you know, I'm a big fan
Speaker 1: of lighting. I mean, it was cool, but it's it
Speaker 1: was all. It was like a moth to a flame, man,
Speaker 1: it was just the intensity of the focus was just
Speaker 1: But you're at a concert, Like, what do you expect
Speaker 1: her to do? Just talk to you the whole time
Speaker 1: that you mean you're supposed to listen to the show
Speaker 1: and pay intended to the show. Well, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: we got there a little bit early, and when I
Speaker 1: would try to talk to her, she would be kind
Speaker 1: of staring off over my shoulder at something, and she'd
Speaker 1: be like yeah, yeah, yeah, like she she would just
Speaker 1: say yeah, yeah, yeah, and then go off on this
Speaker 1: whole other tangent. Really was like, yeah, I mean, I
Speaker 1: kind of hope so otherwise she's in for a really
Speaker 1: weird life. Okay. Once the show started, we were dancing.
Speaker 1: I've never seen dancing like this. She's just like flailing
Speaker 1: all over the place and hopping up and down and
Speaker 1: left and right like I've seen enthusiastic dancing, and this
Speaker 1: was like verging on manic dancing. She's a manic dancer.
Speaker 1: And then we got separated in the crowd and I
Speaker 1: tried to rEFInd her. I looked for a minute or two,
Speaker 1: but then I realized, like, I'm just gonna be putting
Speaker 1: myself back into this really weird situation, so I just
Speaker 1: I decided to leave. Okay. I want to know where
Speaker 1: the makeout comes from, though, because she told us that
Speaker 1: you guys made out, you lost each other for a
Speaker 1: few minutes and then found each other again and made out,
Speaker 1: and then he said, you had to go to the
Speaker 1: bathroom and left. I don't know what to tell you.
Speaker 1: I mean, there was no making out between You're a liar.
Speaker 1: You are so a liar, Terry, you're supposed to wait,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you are a liar. We totally made out,
Speaker 1: and that's tera if you can't tell already, she was
Speaker 1: on the other line listening. I wants to talk to you, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, yeah, So what's the deal? Why are you lying?
Speaker 1: We totally made out and then you did to me.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. Tera we had
Speaker 1: we didn't make out after we got separate, I did.
Speaker 1: I never saw you again. I left. No, we totally
Speaker 1: found each other and then we were like grinding up
Speaker 1: on each other and then making out happened. What don't
Speaker 1: you remember? You pulled me in. It was like a
Speaker 1: low sloppy and nibbled me here a little bit, and
Speaker 1: then it was like a lot sloppy. It wasn't the
Speaker 1: best kit stober, But I mean, you know what, I
Speaker 1: wasn't going to hold it against you until now because
Speaker 1: you're lying. Um, well, yeah, I don't really have a
Speaker 1: response to that. Are you Are you lying? Ben? Did
Speaker 1: you make out? With her, and you just don't want
Speaker 1: to say that you made out with her industry. No, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not lying. I didn't make out with her. I'm
Speaker 1: becoming increasingly glad that I didn't make out with her.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Tara, how were you sober? I mean,
Speaker 1: how sober were you Tara when this happened. I mean
Speaker 1: I wasn't like exactly sober totally. I mean, I was
Speaker 1: really excited about this concert, so I may have like,
Speaker 1: don't little sounds to make it more fun, though I
Speaker 1: guess it worked if you were having plenty of fun, Tara,
Speaker 1: Were you like doing something else besides alcohol? Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I was. OK. I just wanted to make sure we're
Speaker 1: all clear on that. I mean I think we all
Speaker 1: thought it. But yeah, I mean, my friend and I
Speaker 1: had this whole plan and it was ruined when she bailed,
Speaker 1: so I figured I would still go through with my
Speaker 1: half of the plan, just with like bumble dude. But
Speaker 1: don't you think it's weird? Like it's kind of weird
Speaker 1: to like go out and do that on your own
Speaker 1: when the other person you're with isn't in the same
Speaker 1: state of mind. I'm not gonna say I totally thought
Speaker 1: it through. No, but I regret very little. I had
Speaker 1: a blast. Okay, do you see like the possibility at
Speaker 1: least that when we got separated and then you found
Speaker 1: me again that it wasn't actually me that you found
Speaker 1: I mean maybe Tara, but I swear he looked like you.
Speaker 1: You were wearing a blue shirt, right, it was more
Speaker 1: of a like a green but no, all right, wait,
Speaker 1: hold on, does that mean Tara that you think that
Speaker 1: there's a possibility you made out with some random dude
Speaker 1: thinking it was Ben. I kind of its possible. I
Speaker 1: was having a fun night. It sounds like you were. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: this is definitely making a little more funse I get it. Well, Ben, Ben,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with Tara now that she's you know, it's really fun? Uh?
Speaker 1: I think I think fun is subjective. I was not
Speaker 1: having so like, I'm sorry, I'm really sorry that I
Speaker 1: thought I made out with you, but it was another
Speaker 1: guy and um, yeah, like it got out of control,
Speaker 1: but we could definitely still like have fun. I'm not
Speaker 1: always that like out there and you know him, I
Speaker 1: don't know, Sarah, Like it was really strange. I don't
Speaker 1: know what to make of it. Really, maybe next time
Speaker 1: we can do something like a little more show like coffee. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what do you think, Ben, papamali and go to Starbucksum,
Speaker 1: if that's just a little bit out of control, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be around for the day when things
Speaker 1: get locked. That is a good that is a good thought.
Speaker 1: You're planning for your future. Ben, Hey man, you are
Speaker 1: totally missing out. I'm a blast. Okay, Well your Tara,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you didn't get a second date. And Ben,
Speaker 1: thank you very time. I appreciate it. Yeah, no, definitely,
Speaker 1: this was This was interesting. And I bet the random
Speaker 1: dude that she made out with once to thank you too. Yeah, seriously,
Speaker 1: who was that guy? Kara? If you ever find him,
Speaker 1: call back, We'll do a second day up dat. There
Speaker 1: we go broken jupil in the morning and every single
Speaker 1: hey dude is texting in wanting a date with Tara.
Speaker 1: There's a booking jewel in the morning. There's a couple
Speaker 1: of ladies who also want to date with every single
Speaker 1: thirsty person. That's fine, everybody wants to date with Tarah.
Speaker 1: If you missed today's second date update, Tara wanted to
Speaker 1: call a dude named Ben. She actually had plans to
Speaker 1: go to a concert with a friend, but her friend bailed,
Speaker 1: so she hit Ben up on bumble and then they
Speaker 1: met up at the concert and Ben ditched her. We
Speaker 1: got Ben on the phone and found out the reason
Speaker 1: that he did was because when he showed up, she
Speaker 1: was acting kind of weird and she was like staring
Speaker 1: at the lights, super happy, kind of spacey, and he
Speaker 1: ditched her. And then she said that she made out
Speaker 1: with Ben, but it turns out she was so high
Speaker 1: on something that she made out with another dude and
Speaker 1: thought it was Ben. In the end, they decided not
Speaker 1: to go out again because I guess Ben isn't down
Speaker 1: with that. Yeah, that's all right. I don't think Tara's
Speaker 1: looking for a long term relation now. It doesn't sound
Speaker 1: like it. Yeah, exactly. Remember if you want to do
Speaker 1: a second day up, they don't have to do his
Speaker 1: email the show and we will call the person that
Speaker 1: didn't call you back. It is Friday, so Young Jeffrey's
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