WEBVTT -  2nd Date Update PODCAST: Mystery Makeout 

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat updates. You know, we learn a lot from

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<v Speaker 1>second Date updates. And one of the things that we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't talked about enough that I think we're learning is

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<v Speaker 1>that when you go out on a first date with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>do not let them use the bathroom. Well, don't let

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<v Speaker 1>them go to the bathroom. If they have to use

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom, you make sure they relieve themselves right in

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<v Speaker 1>your plane site, right there at the table. Make sure

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<v Speaker 1>they will leave themselves right there at the table. I

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<v Speaker 1>have not learned that. You're the other one that's picked

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<v Speaker 1>that up. Not only is it sexy, we already know that,

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<v Speaker 1>but every time somebody goes to the bathroom, they disappear.

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<v Speaker 1>We hear that all the time and second date updates

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<v Speaker 1>if someone's going to ditch, that's what they do. Where

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<v Speaker 1>people go out with someone and then they go, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me, I got to take it real quick, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they're never to be heard from again. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what happened to Tara, who's on the phone for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right now, what's up Tara? Hey, how's

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<v Speaker 1>it going? He just do you want a bathroom break? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Never let your day go to this freaking bathroom, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't break the seal. Oh my god. Okay, Well, before

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<v Speaker 1>we get into him ditching you, where'd you meet this dude?

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<v Speaker 1>So we'd met him bumble and we've been like chatting

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit and he's like a funny dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we got along and I was supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>a concert with a friend and then last minute she

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<v Speaker 1>totally diss me and I really wanted to go and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have anybody to go with, so I bously

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<v Speaker 1>like took a chance to asked the guys who come

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<v Speaker 1>with me to the show? And he did and it

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<v Speaker 1>was fun. What's his name, by the way, his name's Ben. Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a good opening that you took. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like super child, but not too much conversation, just enough, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And did you guys have fun? It was a blast.

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<v Speaker 1>We had so much fun. We were like dancing around.

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<v Speaker 1>He was enjoying the show too. So I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you don't have a good take on

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<v Speaker 1>his actual emotions if he left in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>the date, not at all. I literally don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>We were having such a good time up to that point.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally five minutes before we were making out. Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get it. He made out with you and everything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were dancing. I mean there was kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>this one point where we were dancing and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like really crowded and we kind of like lost each

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<v Speaker 1>other for maybe like five to ten minutes. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we found each other. And right after that is

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<v Speaker 1>when like the making out and sued. So I figured

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<v Speaker 1>it was fine, right, And if he was gonna dit you,

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<v Speaker 1>why wouldn't he dit you when you lost each other exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was thinking. Yeah, that would have been

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<v Speaker 1>the perfect time to get out and be like, oh sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>it was crowded, and I thought maybe you left. And

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<v Speaker 1>then like a little bit later, after all of these

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<v Speaker 1>fun things, he was like, oh, I have to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, and then apparently the bathroom ate him.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any way that he I mean, you said

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<v Speaker 1>it was so crowded. Maybe he really honestly couldn't find

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<v Speaker 1>you again, See that's what I was thinking. But even

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<v Speaker 1>if you can't find somebody, you usually answer your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and even if it's like dead that night,

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<v Speaker 1>you call maybe the next day exactly okay. And you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard anything from him at all, not at all, nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>So what are you feeling right now? Are you pissed?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you I'm just annoyed and confused, Like, honestly, he's

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<v Speaker 1>a bumble dude, so saying I'm pissed is like a

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<v Speaker 1>little far okay, but I'm just confused. Like I give

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<v Speaker 1>you a free ticket to a great show, I dance

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<v Speaker 1>on you, and then we make out and that was

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<v Speaker 1>so fun and then you leave, like really really like

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm a great kiss there. Sorry if you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there anything awkward that happened after the kiss? No,

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<v Speaker 1>like other than us losing each other, which didn't seem

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<v Speaker 1>like that big of a deal. Oh my god. What

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<v Speaker 1>if he was cheating on you and then when he

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<v Speaker 1>kissed you he felt guilty and he had to go,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well there's an idea. Yeah, I didn't think about

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<v Speaker 1>that one yet. Did you know that hadn't crossed my mind?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? How many times have you tried to reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to him since you guys hung out? Um? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I texted him quite a few times at night,

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<v Speaker 1>just because I was worried, and then the next day

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<v Speaker 1>I hit him up, and then a couple of days

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<v Speaker 1>after that, and then I just left it alone. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because he hasn't responded at all. Yeah at all. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not being creepy at all. It's like a perfect amount

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<v Speaker 1>of Yeah. I mean that's what I was wondering and

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<v Speaker 1>texting him a few times at night. Like after you

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<v Speaker 1>can't find him? Is understandable. You didn't freak out on him,

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<v Speaker 1>did you. No. I was just like, hey, man, is

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<v Speaker 1>everything good? Like where you at? And then I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't find you. And then I was like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna leave in like ten minutes. Yeah, that's normal.

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<v Speaker 1>You're being a lot more chill about this than I

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<v Speaker 1>think I would be. Yeah, I think i'd be really mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've had time to process. And again, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was really cute, but like I've also matched with

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<v Speaker 1>way cuter guys. I just want to know, like it

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<v Speaker 1>was a blast, Like I just want to know why. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him to get

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<v Speaker 1>your second DA update. Okay, Okay, all right, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning dates if you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>For today's second day update, Tara is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and she went to a concert with a dude named

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<v Speaker 1>Ben and she got ditched. He said he had to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the bathroom and then left and she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>heard from him since. And if you were listening to

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<v Speaker 1>the first part I said earlier, this is proof that

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<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't let people leave to go to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. You should make him do it right

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<v Speaker 1>there in front of you. And I take that back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a little bit extreme, but I think from now on,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're on a date and somebody says they have

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the bathroom, you simply just follow them

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<v Speaker 1>into the bathroom so that you know they won't leave

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<v Speaker 1>you much better idea, Tara, you want to try that

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<v Speaker 1>next time? Actually, yas, I'm taking notes. Okay, good. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever been ditched before on a date? No? What? Never?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually the one that does the ditching. Why this

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<v Speaker 1>is even more confusing? How long how long did you

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<v Speaker 1>wait at the concert before you realize, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just gone. I mean, I was so really enjoying

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<v Speaker 1>the show, so I definitely stay till the end, and

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<v Speaker 1>then was like, oh, I don't know you people around me?

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<v Speaker 1>So you still enjoyed the concert at least? Oh most definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't like that ruin it? Oh good. I like

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<v Speaker 1>your attitude. Like I said, I really just want to

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<v Speaker 1>know why he would ditch me. Everything seemed like it

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<v Speaker 1>was going so well. All right, cool, Well, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do host phone number right now and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can figure it out for you. Here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>how can I speak to Ben? Please? Yeah? This Ben? Hello? Ben? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>How are ye today? I'm doing? Okay? Ye? Is Spanish

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<v Speaker 1>for you? I'm sorry? What? Oh? Sorry? I should have

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<v Speaker 1>introduced myself. This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, the radio show. Um, oh, okay, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'm calling you today because one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>actually emailed us asking if we get in touch with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know why that's happening, but okay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we're here for. Do a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called the second Date Update. That's where if somebody goes

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date and then the person doesn't call

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<v Speaker 1>them back after, they can email us to get that

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<v Speaker 1>person on the phone and ask what happened. So you

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date recently with a girl named Tara? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh I did? She She wants you to call me, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's been trying to get ahold of you, but

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't answered any of her texts, phone calls or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean that she's a bit of a weirdo.

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of makes sense. What she's a weirdo bit? Yeah, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>a weirder that you've made out with? What? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>weirdo that I absolutely did not make out with. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she told us that you did make out, that you

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<v Speaker 1>kissed her. I don't know where that idea came from. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>did you go to a concert with her? I did

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<v Speaker 1>go to a concert with her. Yeah, that's true, but

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<v Speaker 1>there was there was no making out at this concert. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well really, her story doesn't really match yours then, other

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<v Speaker 1>than the concert thing. Okay, So she's she's telling you

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<v Speaker 1>that I made out with her. Yeah, she says that

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<v Speaker 1>you went to a concert, you guys made out, and

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<v Speaker 1>then shortly after that you went to the bathroom and disappeared. Okay, Um, no, wait, no, one,

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean you already said no on the kissing

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<v Speaker 1>did you ditcher though? Did you go to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and ditcher? I didn't go to the bathroom. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>strictly speaking, I ditched her because she was hardly paying

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<v Speaker 1>attention to me and I just left. Okay, so you

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<v Speaker 1>did you did ditch her? Yeah, I mean I guess, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>strictly speaking, I did dis her. Okay, wait, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>go over the night. I want to hear what happened

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<v Speaker 1>in your words. Okay, Um, like you said, she got

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with me, invited me out to the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, she was like in full long party

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<v Speaker 1>mode when we got there, like she was looking around

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, like she was fascinated by like the

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<v Speaker 1>lighting at the venue and was paying more to engine

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<v Speaker 1>that then to me. Well, in her defense, that day

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<v Speaker 1>have good lighting, because you know, I'm a big fan

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<v Speaker 1>of lighting. I mean, it was cool, but it's it

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<v Speaker 1>was all. It was like a moth to a flame, man,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just the intensity of the focus was just

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<v Speaker 1>But you're at a concert, Like, what do you expect

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<v Speaker 1>her to do? Just talk to you the whole time

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<v Speaker 1>that you mean you're supposed to listen to the show

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<v Speaker 1>and pay intended to the show. Well, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we got there a little bit early, and when I

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<v Speaker 1>would try to talk to her, she would be kind

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<v Speaker 1>of staring off over my shoulder at something, and she'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like yeah, yeah, yeah, like she she would just

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<v Speaker 1>say yeah, yeah, yeah, and then go off on this

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<v Speaker 1>whole other tangent. Really was like, yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hope so otherwise she's in for a really

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<v Speaker 1>weird life. Okay. Once the show started, we were dancing.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never seen dancing like this. She's just like flailing

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<v Speaker 1>all over the place and hopping up and down and

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<v Speaker 1>left and right like I've seen enthusiastic dancing, and this

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<v Speaker 1>was like verging on manic dancing. She's a manic dancer.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we got separated in the crowd and I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to rEFInd her. I looked for a minute or two,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I realized, like, I'm just gonna be putting

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<v Speaker 1>myself back into this really weird situation, so I just

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to leave. Okay. I want to know where

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<v Speaker 1>the makeout comes from, though, because she told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys made out, you lost each other for a

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<v Speaker 1>few minutes and then found each other again and made out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he said, you had to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and left. I don't know what to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there was no making out between You're a liar.

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<v Speaker 1>You are so a liar, Terry, you're supposed to wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, but you are a liar. We totally made out,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's tera if you can't tell already, she was

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening. I wants to talk to you, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, yeah, So what's the deal? Why are you lying?

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<v Speaker 1>We totally made out and then you did to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to tell you. Tera we had

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't make out after we got separate, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I never saw you again. I left. No, we totally

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<v Speaker 1>found each other and then we were like grinding up

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<v Speaker 1>on each other and then making out happened. What don't

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<v Speaker 1>you remember? You pulled me in. It was like a

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<v Speaker 1>low sloppy and nibbled me here a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it was like a lot sloppy. It wasn't the

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<v Speaker 1>best kit stober, But I mean, you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't going to hold it against you until now because

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<v Speaker 1>you're lying. Um, well, yeah, I don't really have a

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<v Speaker 1>response to that. Are you Are you lying? Ben? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you make out? With her, and you just don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to say that you made out with her industry. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not lying. I didn't make out with her. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>becoming increasingly glad that I didn't make out with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Tara, how were you sober? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how sober were you Tara when this happened. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like exactly sober totally. I mean, I was

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<v Speaker 1>really excited about this concert, so I may have like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't little sounds to make it more fun, though I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it worked if you were having plenty of fun, Tara,

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<v Speaker 1>Were you like doing something else besides alcohol? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I was. OK. I just wanted to make sure we're

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<v Speaker 1>all clear on that. I mean I think we all

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<v Speaker 1>thought it. But yeah, I mean, my friend and I

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<v Speaker 1>had this whole plan and it was ruined when she bailed,

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<v Speaker 1>so I figured I would still go through with my

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<v Speaker 1>half of the plan, just with like bumble dude. But

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<v Speaker 1>don't you think it's weird? Like it's kind of weird

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<v Speaker 1>to like go out and do that on your own

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<v Speaker 1>when the other person you're with isn't in the same

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<v Speaker 1>state of mind. I'm not gonna say I totally thought

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<v Speaker 1>it through. No, but I regret very little. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a blast. Okay, do you see like the possibility at

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<v Speaker 1>least that when we got separated and then you found

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<v Speaker 1>me again that it wasn't actually me that you found

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe Tara, but I swear he looked like you.

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<v Speaker 1>You were wearing a blue shirt, right, it was more

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<v Speaker 1>of a like a green but no, all right, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, does that mean Tara that you think that

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<v Speaker 1>there's a possibility you made out with some random dude

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<v Speaker 1>thinking it was Ben. I kind of its possible. I

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<v Speaker 1>was having a fun night. It sounds like you were. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is definitely making a little more funse I get it. Well, Ben, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Tara now that she's you know, it's really fun? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think fun is subjective. I was not

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<v Speaker 1>having so like, I'm sorry, I'm really sorry that I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I made out with you, but it was another

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<v Speaker 1>guy and um, yeah, like it got out of control,

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<v Speaker 1>but we could definitely still like have fun. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>always that like out there and you know him, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Sarah, Like it was really strange. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to make of it. Really, maybe next time

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<v Speaker 1>we can do something like a little more show like coffee. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think, Ben, papamali and go to Starbucksum,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's just a little bit out of control, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be around for the day when things

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<v Speaker 1>get locked. That is a good that is a good thought.

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<v Speaker 1>You're planning for your future. Ben, Hey man, you are

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<v Speaker 1>totally missing out. I'm a blast. Okay, Well your Tara,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you didn't get a second date. And Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you very time. I appreciate it. Yeah, no, definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>this was This was interesting. And I bet the random

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<v Speaker 1>dude that she made out with once to thank you too. Yeah, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>who was that guy? Kara? If you ever find him,

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<v Speaker 1>call back, We'll do a second day up dat. There

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<v Speaker 1>we go broken jupil in the morning and every single

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<v Speaker 1>hey dude is texting in wanting a date with Tara.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a booking jewel in the morning. There's a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of ladies who also want to date with every single

0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:10.800
<v Speaker 1>thirsty person. That's fine, everybody wants to date with Tarah.

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<v Speaker 1>If you missed today's second date update, Tara wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call a dude named Ben. She actually had plans to

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<v Speaker 1>go to a concert with a friend, but her friend bailed,

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<v Speaker 1>so she hit Ben up on bumble and then they

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<v Speaker 1>met up at the concert and Ben ditched her. We

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<v Speaker 1>got Ben on the phone and found out the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that he did was because when he showed up, she

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<v Speaker 1>was acting kind of weird and she was like staring

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<v Speaker 1>at the lights, super happy, kind of spacey, and he

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<v Speaker 1>ditched her. And then she said that she made out

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<v Speaker 1>with Ben, but it turns out she was so high

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<v Speaker 1>on something that she made out with another dude and

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was Ben. In the end, they decided not

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again because I guess Ben isn't down

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<v Speaker 1>with that. Yeah, that's all right. I don't think Tara's

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a long term relation now. It doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like it. Yeah, exactly. Remember if you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second day up, they don't have to do his

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person that

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back. It is Friday, so Young Jeffrey's

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<v Speaker 1>Song of the Week is coming up at eight to

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<v Speaker 1>ten Movement ninety two point five five