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Speaker 1: Second dat updates. You know, we learn a lot from

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Speaker 1: second Date updates. And one of the things that we

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Speaker 1: haven't talked about enough that I think we're learning is

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Speaker 1: do not let them use the bathroom. Well, don't let

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Speaker 1: your plane site, right there at the table. Make sure

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Speaker 1: they will leave themselves right there at the table. I

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Speaker 1: have not learned that. You're the other one that's picked

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Speaker 1: that up. Not only is it sexy, we already know that,

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Speaker 1: but every time somebody goes to the bathroom, they disappear.

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Speaker 1: We hear that all the time and second date updates

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Speaker 1: if someone's going to ditch, that's what they do. Where

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Speaker 1: what happened to Tara, who's on the phone for a

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Speaker 1: second date update right now, what's up Tara? Hey, how's

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Speaker 1: it going? He just do you want a bathroom break? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Never let your day go to this freaking bathroom, Like,

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Speaker 1: we get into him ditching you, where'd you meet this dude?

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Speaker 1: So we'd met him bumble and we've been like chatting

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Speaker 1: That's like a good opening that you took. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: We were having such a good time up to that point.

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Speaker 1: Literally five minutes before we were making out. Like, I

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Speaker 1: don't get it. He made out with you and everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't he dit you when you lost each other exactly,

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Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. Yeah, that would have been

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Speaker 1: Is there any way that he I mean, you said

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Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning dates if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 1: For today's second day update, Tara is on the phone

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Speaker 1: That's a little bit extreme, but I think from now on,

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Speaker 1: you ever been ditched before on a date? No? What? Never?

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Speaker 1: can figure it out for you. Here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 1: how can I speak to Ben? Please? Yeah? This Ben? Hello? Ben? Hi?

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Speaker 1: How are ye today? I'm doing? Okay? Ye? Is Spanish

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Speaker 1: for you? I'm sorry? What? Oh? Sorry? I should have

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Speaker 1: the Morning, the radio show. Um, oh, okay, okay, cool.

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Speaker 1: Well I'm calling you today because one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: what we're here for. Do a segment on our show

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Speaker 1: called the second Date Update. That's where if somebody goes

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Speaker 1: out on a date and then the person doesn't call

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Speaker 1: person on the phone and ask what happened. So you

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Speaker 1: Uh I did? She She wants you to call me, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I mean that she's a bit of a weirdo.

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Speaker 1: That kind of makes sense. What she's a weirdo bit? Yeah, wait,

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Speaker 1: weirdo that I absolutely did not make out with. Well,

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Speaker 1: go to a concert with her. Yeah, that's true, but

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Speaker 1: But you're at a concert, Like, what do you expect

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