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Speaker 1: My boyfriend said it was just a gamer moment, but

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Speaker 1: I actually think he is sexist and homophobic.

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Speaker 2: It ain't no gamer moment, bully.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, you're just the bigot.

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Speaker 2: Stop it.

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Speaker 1: Turn off the spigot. That was the off position. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for all you listeners, please turn it off.

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Speaker 2: I twisted risk.

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Speaker 3: Let's just go click. It's a nifty little Mormon trick.

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Speaker 3: Have you seen that epoo Mormon?

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Speaker 2: I haven't no great.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I had moved in together. He's a gamer,

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Speaker 1: but I never joined him for that because he's freaking lame.

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Speaker 3: It sucks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have a desk job now, and by the end

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Speaker 1: of the day I'm sick of sitting at a computer

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Speaker 1: desk grinding away at something. So I first saw him

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Speaker 1: play after we moved in together.

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Speaker 4: Ooh, spicy watching him push them buttons.

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Speaker 1: Only he would push my buttons and not the buttons

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Speaker 1: of his video game.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna put some joy in your stick.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna put some squares in your circle.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna hit that X spot, that triple X, that

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Speaker 1: X x X game moment.

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Speaker 3: The X is your vagina, gamers. Yeah there what else?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Oh, oh, I know what station I want to play

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Speaker 3: at but.

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Speaker 4: Wait, wait, hold on, it's I'm really close. I have

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Speaker 4: the first part, there's the second part.

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Speaker 3: Forget about that Xbox. I want that x X Xbox.

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Speaker 2: Damn a k he vested me, lates, gentleman.

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Speaker 3: I was trying.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I know I have Box, but what

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Speaker 4: am I gonna do with the x What do I

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Speaker 4: do with I was gonna do X marks the box, but.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, Xbox about this? How about this? Uh live

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Speaker 3: and in person now? But you touch my Wii my

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Speaker 3: Wi stick.

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Speaker 2: That one was so bad it was fucking amazing.

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Speaker 4: Also, also, guys, we're gonna every every joke that if

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Speaker 4: whichever one is bested, we're gonna give each other one thousand.

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Speaker 3: Dollars a thousand dollars. That's real money.

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Speaker 2: This is certified you've ever seen in your whole life.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So it's not prop money. Yeah, hit him with it.

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Speaker 3: Hit him with it.

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Speaker 1: So I first saw him play after we moved in together,

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Speaker 1: and what I heard definitely felt bad.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, gamers be saying.

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Speaker 1: Dude, you've ever been into like an Xbox live chat room.

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Speaker 1: It's disgusting.

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Speaker 2: It is fucking filthy.

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Speaker 1: He used a lot of really sexist and homophobic insults,

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Speaker 1: like saying other players were bitches, which tame, I'll give him.

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Speaker 4: That's the tamest like gamer lobby room talk of all time.

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Speaker 1: Then he started calling stuff gay or the f slur

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Speaker 1: and making suggestive and aggressive sexist comments if there was

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Speaker 1: a girl in the game yep, yep, yep. Sounds like

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Speaker 1: an Xbox Live yet room. Yeah, baby, I told him

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Speaker 1: how I felt, and he was trying to say, it's

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Speaker 1: just normal guye talk, bro which is like locker room,

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Speaker 1: but it's like freaking virtual brod. I'm not cool enough

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Speaker 1: for the locker room, so I do it in the

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Speaker 1: gaming room. Yeah, that is how guys talk when women

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Speaker 1: aren't around. Maybe now I know what normal guide talk is.

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Speaker 1: Last two places I've worked, I've been the only woman

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Speaker 1: on the team, and I'd go out with coworker's plenty

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Speaker 1: and we'd often get drunk enough they didn't give two

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Speaker 1: shits if they were talking in front of a lady

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Speaker 1: like me, not to mention. At all times I went

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Speaker 1: walking up the shop floor in full ppe, including a respirator,

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Speaker 1: and with my short hair no makeup. They didn't even

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Speaker 1: realize they were talking to a chick. So basically, this

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Speaker 1: lady is saying, like, the dudes talk to me like

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Speaker 1: a dude. Brokes didn't even realized that I was a.

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Speaker 2: Girl browing they're browing down.

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Speaker 1: I know this shit isn't normal guide talk. Hell, even

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Speaker 1: when the guy did say something homophobic or sexist, I'm

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Speaker 1: a by woman who dresses pretty masculine at work, a

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Speaker 1: lot of the team would tell whoever said it to

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Speaker 1: shut the f up and get the f out or

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Speaker 1: they were going.

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Speaker 3: To be a bitch to me.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow wow, Like even in a room.

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Speaker 1: Of all guys who like shit talking plenty, being a

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Speaker 1: bigot still didn't fly, which is cool.

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Speaker 4: Oh, they were saying if anyone said like bad shit,

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Speaker 4: they would like cut them out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I thought I.

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Speaker 4: Thought they were saying, like if they like, if they

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Speaker 4: if they you know, said some slur or something, and

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Speaker 4: anyone tried to stand up to them, they'd.

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Speaker 2: Be like, no, bro, we're not.

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Speaker 3: They were all keeper supportive.

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Speaker 4: That's awesome, Okay, great, okay, Wow.

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Speaker 2: Now I feel like totally misunderstood that.

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Speaker 1: And NoP's basically saying chill guys don't attack people just

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Speaker 1: because of their gender sexuality, which is facts. Yes, the

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Speaker 1: coolest among us. No biggots ie, no biggots ice cold.

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Speaker 1: I told my boyfriend all that, saying I know normal

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Speaker 1: guy talk from work, and this ain't it, and that

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Speaker 1: he wasn't being a guy, he was being a bigot.

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Speaker 1: He said it was that I just didn't know because

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Speaker 1: guys would be different around me. I asked him, what

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Speaker 1: about all those times guys on the shop floor thought

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Speaker 1: I was a dude until I opened my mouth, and

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Speaker 1: he said he didn't think that happened, gaslighting.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't believe, He doesn't believe women.

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Speaker 3: And doesn't believe on.

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Speaker 1: I told him it did, and literally all the guys

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Speaker 1: that he thought were too rough around the edges and

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Speaker 1: total macho douchebags that I've worked with were still a

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Speaker 1: shit town more respectful than he was, And honestly, I

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Speaker 1: had more respect for someone who says it like it

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Speaker 1: is than how he was acting like all two faced,

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Speaker 1: acting all progressive, nice and soft spoken around me and

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Speaker 1: then dropping slurs left and right with his friends.

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Speaker 4: That's right, Keep it consistent, okay, forget all times, Okay

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Speaker 4: or not, the choice is yours, but.

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Speaker 1: You have to one yeah, be a big at one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent or zero percent right. He said he was

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Speaker 1: way more respectful to me than the guys at work

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Speaker 1: ever were, and I told him that he wasn't and

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Speaker 1: if he didn't understand that I was moving out, big

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Speaker 1: nice guy.

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Speaker 2: Energy over the fact I'm such a nice guy though,

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Speaker 2: but he not.

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Speaker 1: He got really defensive and I had my friend come

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Speaker 1: by with her truck that night. I'm renting a room

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Speaker 1: in a friend's sharehouse and I'm not sure if the

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Speaker 1: relationship will survive. He's getting mad at me, saying I

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Speaker 1: overreacted majorly. I'm also upset too. I'm saying he needs

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Speaker 1: to fix that shit if he wants to repair our relationship.

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Speaker 1: So am I the a hole for moving out? You

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Speaker 1: absolutely are not not psych God Gordon Ramsey moment where

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Speaker 1: it's like, your cooking does not deserve to be in

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Speaker 1: this kitchen, because it deserves to be in the best

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Speaker 1: kitchen in the entire world. In the track of that

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Speaker 1: kitchen because it's the worst thing I ever tasted.

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Speaker 4: Literally, the editors are the editors are just in world class.

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Speaker 4: We were watching an episode last night and there was

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Speaker 4: a guy that was like, did he finally come to

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Speaker 4: his senses? And he was like guys, I'm a loser.

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Speaker 4: And that was the only clip that like, keep watching

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Speaker 4: to find out.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I love it, I love it. Gordon Ramsey

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Speaker 3: or the goat you are you can penetrate me.

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Speaker 2: The end.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's that's where we're ending