1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha and walking to stuff 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: on her fertility prediction. I heard radio. 3 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 2: Let's put a date on this. It is November eighth, 4 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 2: twenty twenty four. So we are in the fresh hell 5 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 2: that was election week. Also content warning. We are talking 6 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 2: about the election, about what's happening, and about our own thoughts, 7 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: and I'm suspecting Annie that this is going to be 8 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: very pessimistic in view. That's not the way we'd love 9 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: to do our episodes. I mean, I know I am 10 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: in general a pessimistic individual, the negative Nancy, as we 11 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: like to say, But I don't think there's any other 12 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: way around this one but to leane through being a 13 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 2: little bit disheartened. So for those of y'all who needs 14 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 2: to take it a breather from this, understandable. This is 15 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 2: all our own opinions and thoughts. This is in no 16 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 2: way in reflection of the entirety of Smantee. So I'm 17 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 2: not speaking for Joey, Maya, Christina or any I'm speaking 18 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 2: for myself when I'm talking about what's going on through 19 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 2: my head. Also that I know we're going to come 20 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 2: back and revisit a lot. I know I said in 21 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 2: the middle of, maybe in the end of or the 22 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: middle of a conversation about voting as well as my 23 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 2: fears and my family issues when it comes to politics. 24 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 2: That the one thing I do know for certain is 25 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 2: that we do rally. We as a people in a community, 26 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 2: we in the intersectional feminist community, do come through in 27 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 2: rallying together, and we are fighters. So I do understand that. 28 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: But right now we are in the state of mourning. 29 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: Man. 30 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: I keep thinking a little bit about Kristen and Caroline's episode, 31 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 2: and I know, any that's really fresh for you because 32 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 2: you were the producer at the time, remo correct and 33 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: people realized, truly realize that Kristen and Carolina were intersextional 34 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 2: feminists and what that meant because for a while, when 35 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 2: the world didn't seem so bleak, we could talk about 36 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 2: women's issues without being divisive. And I say that loosely 37 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 2: because it's always been divisive. But on the whole, white 38 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: women were very accepting on conversations in pockets and not 39 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: having enough pockets. So we know that. And I'm not 40 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 2: saying white feminists right now, I'm talking about in general, 41 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 2: in what we see and what is accepted in the 42 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: women versus men conversation that often happens not necessarily intersectional 43 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 2: now in fact, absolutely not intersectional, just women versus men. 44 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 2: And that's an old adage, like a housewife joke that 45 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 2: was accepted, and then when it got to be like 46 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 2: a stickier issue of like, oh, so we were talking 47 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: about everybody having rights. No no, no, no no no no, 48 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: I just want to be able to say that to 49 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 2: my husband. He needs to clean every now and again 50 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: and again, this is very heteronormative speculation. So I know, 51 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 2: a long time ago, when Kristin started the show, it 52 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: was a niche show. It was a niche podcasting in 53 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 2: general's niche, and so having easy conversations about women wanting 54 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: more pockets was acceptable. But the minute they came out 55 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 2: and talking about their fear of Trump, a big chunk 56 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 2: of people left the show disappointed that they were that 57 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 2: Kristin and Caroline cared. So I know we are far 58 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 2: away from that. Like I'm pretty we've pretty much established 59 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 2: since then. Caroline and Kristin established that since then this 60 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: is that show that we are an intersectional feminist show. 61 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: And when we say freedom, when we say equal rights, 62 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 2: we're talking about equity for everyone so, but it's still 63 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 2: amazing that we're having a similar episode today. So a 64 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 2: lot of emotions, a lot of emotions are here, and 65 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: now we want to take a time to be very 66 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: transparent with you as listeners about where we are, about 67 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 2: the state we are in. We kind of prepped in advance, 68 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 2: as you know, if you listen to the episode chronologically 69 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: and you are up to date, which kudos if you are. 70 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: Wow you who are because we have so many episodes 71 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: and we understand you know, we didn't know yesterday the episode. Again, 72 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: if you're following along the timeline chronologically and actually up 73 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 2: to date with everything or close to it. I was 74 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 2: concerned what was happening with my family and knowing that 75 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 2: this is going to be another huge bump in the 76 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 2: road for my relationship with my family. But I don't 77 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 2: think it had hit. I don't know if it has 78 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 2: it in general, the actual results of it all. And again, 79 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: I don't think it comes as a surprise that for 80 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 2: me personally, my pessimistic self is having a hard time 81 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 2: finding the silver lining in this moment. I woke up 82 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 2: at five thirty am, looked at my phone on Wednesday morning, 83 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:33,679 Speaker 2: and immediately whispered because my partner was asleep in bed, 84 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 2: and I could not stop saying that, oh my god, 85 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 2: what the Even though it wasn't surprising, it still was 86 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: real talk Everything seemed so dark. It was dark literally 87 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 2: realizing not only did he win the electoral votes, but 88 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: he won the popular vote in a landslide, and I 89 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 2: watched as Congress also fell under the Republican control. And 90 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 2: this is new. This did not happen last time around, 91 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 2: So the fact that this is happening makes me nauseous. 92 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: Of course, this will be a huge difference. This will 93 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: be a huge difference. The amount of damage that can 94 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: be done in the next four years feels massive and 95 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: feels very like apocalyptic to me. And ironically, again, the 96 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 2: Happy Hour just released seems almost uh toop optimistic. I 97 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 2: think in comparison to where we're at, I will say 98 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: that there has been and is this dread that's in 99 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 2: the pit of my stomach, that's in my heart, that's 100 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 2: in my throat. It is all but paralyzing. It feels bleak. 101 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: Trying to record this episode is a chore, Let's be 102 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 2: very honest. I keep asking myself, why do people hate 103 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 2: themselves so much that they would vote against their own 104 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: interest and of course our interest, like everybody's interest, And honestly, 105 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 2: this is specifically to my Asian community. It's the only 106 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 2: fifty four percent voted Democrat while thirty nine percent voted Republican. 107 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 2: Apparently there is another stat and I cannot find it, 108 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: but people are saying that seventy two percent of the 109 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: Asian women voted for Democrat. So that does make me 110 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 2: feel a little more hopeful, like at least it's higher, 111 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 2: but the fact that they're still the marginalized, especially when 112 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: it comes to the fact that she is an Asian woman, 113 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 2: like we can't even vote for okay, okay, And I 114 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 2: say maybe me having my own experience growing up in 115 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 2: a very white family and community, and not only white, 116 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 2: but very conservative if you know anything about North Georgia, 117 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: if you know anything about going outside of the metro 118 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 2: area of Atlanta, very conservative. The amount of Trump stuff 119 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 2: everywhere was incredible and scary for me growing up, I 120 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 2: felt like I mean I did, I absolutely felt the 121 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: need to acclimate with my then community and the overall 122 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 2: dislike of my Asian heritage and again wishing to be 123 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 2: white was really overwhelming growing up, Like I would stare 124 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: at myself in the mirror, begging myself to be whier, 125 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: like I would think about the fantasies. And I loved 126 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 2: books growing up, and I love fantasy stuff about having 127 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: the wish, having a wish that I could be white 128 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 2: the guy. I can't explain the amount of self loathing 129 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 2: I had as an Asian person growing up because I 130 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 2: felt so out of place and so ostracized that my 131 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 2: solution was to hate myself and blame my heritage instead 132 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: of seeing the opposite, like that the world around me 133 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 2: is up and hateful. When I say this, that this 134 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 2: type of self hatred and anti Asian ideas and to 135 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 2: my adolescent inks, adding to my adolescent acts, I mean 136 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 2: it was not a great mixture. And being taught also 137 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: that I must be grateful to those who saved me. 138 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: And I'm putting that in quotes from an assumed bad situation. Again, 139 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: we don't know really had a choke hold on me. 140 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 2: And so you know, I made a joke about the 141 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 2: fact that I had voted for Bush when I first 142 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: turned voting age in college because I was that self hating, 143 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 2: not understanding what this meant to me, and I like, 144 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 2: it still doesn't feel as bleak doing that. Don't get 145 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 2: me wrongways bad because what he did was bad, but 146 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 2: still doesn't seem as big as of what's happening today, 147 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 2: I will say that. And when it comes to and 148 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 2: again this is going back to the Asian people immigrants 149 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 2: in general, like the higher high rates of Latina Latino 150 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 2: voters who went for Trump, who a lot of them are. 151 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 2: Some of them are saying some repercussions of that already. 152 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 2: But when it comes to like the American dream and 153 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 2: then the idea that a person could obtain, it is 154 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 2: often only if they adhere to the ideas and structures 155 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 2: that the white rich men put into place, and that 156 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 2: means to idolize and wish to become like them. Like 157 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 2: that's the American dream that's being sold. So many people 158 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 2: in my similar circumstances, immigrating with the hopes of a 159 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 2: quote better life, get sucked into this narrative that all 160 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 2: the problems of the world are because of other foreigners 161 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: and again putting that in quotes who don't play by 162 00:10:56,440 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: the rules, they literally create scenario that pissed themselves against 163 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 2: each other. Again instead of seeing the whole picture that 164 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 2: oppression is created in order for the powerful to remain powerful. 165 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 2: They put the they buy into the idea of the 166 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 2: squid Games. And I'm talking about the K drama. Yeah, 167 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 2: so I'm making a reference here to K drama. There 168 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 2: is a prize, but only a few, if not only 169 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 2: one of the lowly people can get that uh prize. 170 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 2: So you must fight amongst yourself against your own selves. 171 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 2: Like that's that's what is being played out in politics, 172 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 2: and no one wants to talk about it. And yes, 173 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 2: that was the point of the Squid Games. If people 174 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 2: were like, oh what I thought it was just a 175 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 2: fun K drama? No, And and and just to also 176 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: put in that the South Koreans are struggling here that 177 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:57,559 Speaker 2: the divide between upper middle class versus lower socio economics 178 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 2: is so huge there is hardly no middle class. And 179 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 2: that's the point. I'm struggling to see those numbers, especially 180 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 2: how vastly they differentiated from Biden. And of course this 181 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 2: is that conversation about Missage Noir that we knew would 182 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 2: always be a point in this conversation and a big 183 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: stickler to how they would defeat Harris. We know this. 184 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 2: It didn't even matter what her policies were. It was 185 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 2: just missage. Noir is gonna win out. The only people 186 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 2: is speaking of which who seem to best understand this 187 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 2: and has always understood this from the beginning, have been 188 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 2: Black women. Black women have known from the beginning, and 189 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:45,199 Speaker 2: I'm saying this from the beginning, as in Lake trying 190 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 2: to fight for rights when they were able to speak 191 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 2: their truth slash the truth that the breaking down of 192 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 2: a system must mean to break it down completely, not 193 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 2: just from one issue. He's not just about voting rights 194 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 2: as they wanted to talk about in the beginning of 195 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 2: the nineteenth Amendment, but has to include anti lynching laws, 196 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: equal rights for all, rights to not only be able 197 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 2: to work in the workforce, but being able to protect 198 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 2: those in the workforce. Well, it's just often endangered and 199 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,719 Speaker 2: forced women of color into these workplaces or limited their 200 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 2: work options, or even being able to remain at home 201 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 2: if possible, and also being told they should be at home, 202 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 2: but also serving others and for minimal paid. Still, they 203 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 2: knew that oppression for one group or any group, meant 204 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 2: oppression for everyone. They knew that they know that no 205 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 2: one is free unless everyone is free. That that's the 206 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 2: phrase and is simple. The giant they have been that force. 207 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 2: They have done that work, and they have shown again 208 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 2: and again they are willing to do it even when 209 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 2: they're most likely to be the most unappreciated and absolutely 210 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 2: not given any credit. I think in Georgia alone, you 211 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 2: can see this. You can see the wavering here. How 212 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 2: when things have gone right, I guess in that viewpoint 213 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 2: of liberals in general, they're willing to clap their hands 214 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 2: and gay way way to go. But when things go wrong, 215 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 2: they just get lumped into Georgia sucks type of conversation. 216 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 2: And we'll talk a little bit about that a little 217 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 2: bit later. But the percentage was fifty point seven percent 218 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 2: voted for Trump, with the mind that not only was 219 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 2: there a surge of purging of the voter registration, bomb threats, 220 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 2: absentee ballots not being sent out correctly, which, by the way, 221 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 2: Cobb County, which was the biggest issue, still was blue, 222 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 2: not as blue as could be, but still flip blue 223 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 2: because that's a swing county for us, by the way, y'all, 224 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 2: And so many other things, the gerrymandering alone, so many 225 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 2: other issues at hand that they barely barely won. And 226 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 2: it isn't because the black women stopped working because they 227 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 2: never stopped. I hate the fact that we were read 228 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 2: like so badly, like the one small thread of hope. 229 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 2: It's even if she lost. Please let us be blue, 230 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 2: Please let us remain blue. I honestly am struggling with 231 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 2: understanding any of this. I do feel like my family 232 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 2: voted against me as a person, as a human, and 233 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 2: I know they have not tried to reach out to 234 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: me by the way, we have not talked. But knowing 235 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 2: that they care so much more about these quote unquote 236 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 2: bad guys immigration, which I've yet to see them affected by, 237 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 2: says in fact, my brother has been taken advantage of 238 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 2: by three white women, including Besley, hundreds of thousands of 239 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: dollars from him to go and bankrupt. I don't understand 240 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 2: how he sees immigration as being the issue. Let's be 241 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 2: very honest. I knew it. I knew that this could happen. 242 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 2: We knew that things were falling this way. Unfortunately, I 243 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 2: still had hope. I still hoped, but I didn't want 244 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 2: to see it. In four k this is not something 245 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 2: we wanted to see. But here we are. There's so 246 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 2: much more to do. We know this. I'm a little 247 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 2: more scared than before because people are dying. We also 248 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 2: know that people continue to die, people are being deported, 249 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 2: people are putting put in bad situations. Extremists have come 250 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: out in victory saying that saying the most awful stuff 251 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 2: that they've been able to hide, or at least they 252 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: thought that would be ridy killed four, but they no 253 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 2: longer feel that, which is a concern. There's I know 254 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 2: there's still investigations, and I haven't even talked about the 255 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 2: failing of this system in general, because it is a failing. 256 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: I haven't talked about who, Like I don't want to 257 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,200 Speaker 2: talk about who's false? Is this? Who did this? Who 258 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 2: were wrong? People who are angry should be angry. People 259 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:33,199 Speaker 2: who have fought should be tired and feel disappointed. And 260 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 2: that's completely reasonable. There's a lot of things happening right now, 261 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: but I think we have to remember we have more 262 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 2: to do. And I'm saying this we as a collective 263 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 2: Asian person in my community, I can only speak to that. 264 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 2: I am disappointed. Like I said, I am very scared, 265 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 2: but that doesn't mean we're going to give up. I'm 266 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,439 Speaker 2: not going to give up, although I really want to, 267 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 2: because you know, I'd like to sleep, you know, these 268 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 2: special times I sleep, I will say, for ourselves and 269 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 2: for a lot of our people, I think we have 270 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 2: to give ourselves room to rest and mourn, but also 271 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 2: to remember that we still have to rally. 272 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:27,959 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and just to everyone out there, I know. 273 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: So it's been so hard, and it feels very like 274 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 1: when I did my election anxiety episode. I've seen it, 275 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 1: like my calendar ends on this day, and so now 276 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: it's just like we fight for the next day, the 277 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:55,199 Speaker 1: next day. But you're not alone because so many of 278 00:18:55,240 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: you were so kind and you reached out, so thank you, 279 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: thank you for doing that. And I feel it's so 280 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: frustrating because I wanted to like spend the next four 281 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: years fighting for more progress instead of fighting going backwards. 282 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: And it's frustrating too because I've had so many friends 283 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: reach out to me who are scared. I'm scared too, 284 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 1: but whose jobs are going to be affected by this? 285 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 1: Impacted by this, because like I have a friend who 286 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 1: works with a CDC RFKA Junior is gonna be in 287 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: charge of that, so who knows what's gonna happen there. 288 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 1: And then I have a friend who's a nurse, been 289 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: on the show, and I don't know if this was 290 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: just poor timing or what. But they had to go 291 00:19:52,359 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: through a training on how to tell people are pregnant 292 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:06,880 Speaker 1: that their babies are dying. Yeah, it's just it's a lot. 293 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: It takes a physical toll. Like I've been very sick. 294 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: I've been physically sick, and that makes it harder to. 295 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 2: Fight. 296 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, we can't. I don't want to give up. 297 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to let them win. Makes me mad 298 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: just thinking about it. But it does hurt. And I 299 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: kind of a diet of people being like, ow, you're 300 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: being so dramatic. Come well, good for you. You're probably 301 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 1: better off than me. So if you feel it, if 302 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: you're hurting too, because I have so many people text 303 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: me too and they're like, am I this too much 304 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 1: of a reaction? Why do I feel this way? And 305 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 1: I was like, no, it hurts. It hurts, and it 306 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 1: does hurt because a lot of us do have the 307 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: conservative family members and this is a time where the 308 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: holidays are bearing down upon you, and well what do 309 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 1: I do about this? I'm already like having imaginary fights 310 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 1: with people because I have a lot of like men 311 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 1: in my life who are liberal. But then they always 312 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: dismiss me when I'm like, don't you think sexism had 313 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: a role here? And they're like, no, Okay, cool, it's 314 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:47,919 Speaker 1: not like it's my job. Great, but it does. I 315 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: mean it's I right before this, I was reading an 316 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 1: article and I briefly mentioned it in the election anxiety episode, 317 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 1: but it was about like the trauma of the twenty 318 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: sixteen election and like how so many people are still 319 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: dealing with that and how this was compounding upon that. 320 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 1: But it is worse because the damage he can do 321 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: in this second term is worse. But it was also 322 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: and we're gonna have to come back and talk about 323 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: this maybe when we're both in a better place. But 324 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 1: it was also saying like one of the reasons for 325 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,919 Speaker 1: better or worse that Kamala Harris really didn't make a 326 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: big deal about like being perhaps the first woman candidate 327 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: or perhaps the first Asian black the candidate, is because 328 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: there was such a backlash in twenty sixteen to when 329 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton did that, to the point there were articles 330 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: written about like feminists elected Donald tr Yeah, and if 331 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 1: that is true, if just like the idea of having 332 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 1: out of forty seven presidents a woman, of just like 333 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: having equal rights and equity and safety, like people just 334 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 1: want to exist. If that is still enough to call 335 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: such a backlash, then yeah, we have a lot, a lot, 336 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,120 Speaker 1: a lot, a lot of work to do. 337 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 2: Right, It's not surprising to see that a lot of 338 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 2: the reactions for Trump's when are conservatives sending messages to 339 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 2: black people, to women, to queer people. Haha, you'll never 340 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: be free. I own you, essentially is what the message 341 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 2: has been, to the point that people are like been 342 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 2: reporting it to the FBI. But if the Project twenty 343 00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 2: to twenty five, which we haven't talked much about, but 344 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 2: a part of that Project twenty twenty five is literally 345 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:14,360 Speaker 2: reversing any of those equities or equal rights conversations. Oddly, 346 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 2: and I've noticed people telling this recently that Trump specifically 347 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 2: has been very quiet since is the victory, which is 348 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: not like him. So that scares me more. But the 349 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: first thing he said that he's gonna do is immediately 350 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 2: undo or any trans rites day one, just horrifying and scary, 351 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 2: and then immediately go into obviously abortion stuff. And now 352 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 2: that the Republican Party has taken control with a big 353 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 2: chunk of very conservative, right winged people at his I 354 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 2: guess at his side as his accomplices. There's a lot 355 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 2: we're going to have to look at, and there's a 356 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 2: lot of we're going to have talk about. I feel 357 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 2: like the tone of smant He might change a little bit, 358 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 2: not that it hasn't already. After twenty sixteen, we went 359 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 2: through we as a show, not necessarily me, but the 360 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 2: show in general went through massive changes and hosts, like 361 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 2: back to back to back, like within that same administration. 362 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: Right, yeah, yeah, another think about it was stressful. 363 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 2: I cannot believe all of that happened within one administration, 364 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 2: that there was like for host change, it was yeah, 365 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 2: oh my goodness. Anyway, sorry y'all because I came in 366 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 2: twenty nineteen that was still under his administration. 367 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: Yep, it feels like. 368 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,919 Speaker 2: Yes. On top of the fact, COVID happened, so a 369 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 2: lot of things were different obviously, and everybody the show 370 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,640 Speaker 2: was changing in direction. But twenty happened and we established 371 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 2: We established a good tone for us, I think in 372 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 2: what we were able to create and how we were 373 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 2: able to create, on how much demanded of us or 374 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 2: expected of us. When it came to going from two 375 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 2: to three days a week to five to six days 376 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 2: a week and We're still going to try our best 377 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 2: to give lighthearted inspirational stuff obviously that that's the one 378 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: thing I know for sure is that we're gonna get 379 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 2: a lot of inspirational names and a lot of people 380 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 2: who are doing some amazing things that we could support 381 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 2: and watch. And I'm sure all you listeners will be 382 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 2: some of those people, and I'm excited to find that out. 383 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 2: But we will also make sure that we are fighting 384 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 2: to get truth out, which sounds so gross because the 385 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 2: way that is phrased seems like a right winged mantra. Yeah, 386 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 2: and I hate that that's what we're doing. But honestly, 387 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 2: like we we've talked about the importance of like unraveling 388 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 2: disinformation and misinformation, and that is something that I think 389 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 2: is something that will have beay on us as podcasters 390 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 2: that is continuing on. We want to make sure that 391 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 2: we are voicing that and we are working for that 392 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 2: because that is our job and that is our privilege. 393 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 2: So I'm bear with us as we change with the environment, 394 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 2: I guess the UH and social status of everything, and 395 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 2: hopefully we can remain I mean, I don't know. 396 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 1: I do want to say this is like a random 397 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: thought that I had, and I'm not angry at the 398 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: person who said it to me, But this is in 399 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:55,440 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen. A friend of mine said to me after 400 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 1: Trump was elected, and he was like, well, you will 401 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 1: never rune out of time to talk about now, Like, no, 402 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: I wouldn't over run out of dogs without. 403 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:12,200 Speaker 2: We were never without. Like people ask us constantly, how 404 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 2: do you think of so many things because we have 405 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,199 Speaker 2: to publish so many episodes and it literally sometimes we 406 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 2: do have moments, but then there's not any point. Have 407 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 2: we actually went out of an idea? 408 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: No, And it's not. But the thing is, like there 409 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 1: were always gooda There's always going to be intersectional feminist 410 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 1: things to talk about right now. It's just I was 411 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: hoping I'd never have to think about this guy again, right, 412 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: other than like the legacy and what gave him power 413 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: in the first place. Right, But now here we are, 414 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: And yeah, it's because I know he's also trying to 415 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: get rid of the So when you're elected, you replace 416 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 1: the cabinet. Yeah, but there's like thirty five thousand other 417 00:28:55,680 --> 00:29:00,239 Speaker 1: jobs that you don't replace, and that's for stability. He 418 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: wants to get rid of that and replace them with 419 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 1: people he likes, which means like potentially you couldn't even 420 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: trust the weather like. 421 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 2: Right, So he's trying too. 422 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: He's definitely tried that, I think, honest. 423 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 2: Windmill thing because he wants to change the climate change 424 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 2: climate like he doesn't. He doesn't want to talk about it. 425 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,000 Speaker 2: He wants to say no, no, no, y'all, keep keep getting 426 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 2: all the coal. We're good. 427 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. 428 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 2: He also has he he's also part of the reason 429 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 2: why a lot of our standards have changed, and the 430 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 2: FDA and all of that. Anyway, Yeah, but it's okay. 431 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 2: We will talk about also how economically we are. Effects 432 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 2: of a rumor of tariffs have already made impact in 433 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 2: a lot of companies, which we'll have to come back 434 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 2: to because again, as we've told before, women hold the 435 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,479 Speaker 2: buying power in the household, so we have to have 436 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 2: that converse of what that looks like. I will say, 437 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: we're gonna try to end with some positives. Only have 438 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 2: four things, any I know there's more, y'all, so you can, 439 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 2: you can, but here's a few. Maryland elected their first 440 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,920 Speaker 2: black woman as the US Senator. Her name is US 441 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 2: Senator Angela also Brooks. She is an attorney. She has 442 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 2: done some amazing things in Maryland already, so I'm excited 443 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 2: to see her. I think she's the fourth black woman 444 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 2: to be elected into the US Senate. Uh. And I'm 445 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 2: really sad, but glad she's there. I said that that's 446 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 2: the number, and I'm glad she's there. 447 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 1: Though. 448 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 2: New Jersey elected the first Asian American US Senator, Andy Kim. 449 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 2: Really excited to see what he can do and hope 450 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 2: he does us proud. Do be proud, man. Don't maybe 451 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 2: sit here crying on this corner, okay. 452 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:50,959 Speaker 1: Uh. 453 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 2: And Sarah McBride, who has already made history, has also 454 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 2: made history as the first openly transgender US House of Representative. 455 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 2: She again made history as a state senator in Delaware, 456 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: but now as a part of the US House of Representatives. 457 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 2: We are so glad you're there, Sarah. We are rallying 458 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: behind you and excited about the work. And I'm sorry 459 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 2: about the work you we're about to have to go through. 460 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 2: And out of other good news, seven out of ten 461 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 2: states who had reproductive rights on their ballots one protection 462 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 2: for those rights. I love that. I love that the 463 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 2: people were able to speak out. Of course, three of 464 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 2: the states did not, including Florida, but we also know 465 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 2: the misinformation in the campaign that the Santis did in 466 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 2: order to make sure uh to sabotage that. So that's 467 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: a whole different conversation. But to the other seven states excited, Unfortunately, 468 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 2: we will see what. Okay, no, no, no, I'm a backtrack. 469 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 2: I'm not saying god, I'm nope, Nope. We're celebrating that 470 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 2: and ending it there. We're celebrating that. Yes, we're celebrating this, 471 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 2: but we will keep an eye on what's going on 472 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 2: and have conversations and come and have a conversation about it. 473 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 2: We love you listeners. To those who have stuck with 474 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 2: us through all the changes, thank you, to all those 475 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 2: who support us, To those who have the privilege to 476 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 2: support those marginalized and do so, thank you. We would 477 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 2: love to hear from you. 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