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Speaker 1: your closure call right after this. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning. And if I've learned anything from watching

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Speaker 3: The sisters always have each other's back, and it's love.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't mean that they always get.

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Speaker 1: A lost Yes, maybe that's it might be a little

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Speaker 3: Seriously, sometimes she can be in a mood and I'm

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, that's normal. Though Strangely, it's not the

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Speaker 1: case for one of our listeners named Amelia, who's reached

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Speaker 1: Name is again, Amelia, Amelia, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, you're welcome.

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Speaker 3: Do you have more than one sister or is it

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Speaker 4: It's just the two of us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what's awesome?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with you and your sister? What made

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is a lot, but I'll give you the

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Speaker 1: I mean, like you lived on a boat together. That's

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Speaker 3: It's a tropical version of frozen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But I mean sisters are how they are. I mean, like,

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Speaker 2: But I was just talking about this with Alexus because

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Speaker 4: Right, And that's always been the case. I mean, we

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Speaker 1: Okay, so there were a lot of little fights, but

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so things have gone completely off the rails and

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Speaker 3: So why what happened?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, one night we were on our way out and

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Speaker 2: And you're always jockeying, like, hey, mom, you should really

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm the oldest I wanted on these things.

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Speaker 3: Oh, my God. At my grandmother's house.

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Speaker 1: God. Well, at least that gives you a little bit

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Speaker 3: So wait, how did she get the ring? Though?

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Speaker 4: So my mom does have quite a few pieces that

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Speaker 4: But like my issue with it is like we're going

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Speaker 4: Yes, so the ring is gone. She took it off

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Speaker 1: No, why are you waiting a year to yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Absolutely nothing except she moved out of state. That's all

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Speaker 1: Nothing, but she moved a thousand miles away so she

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Speaker 3: Wait, you guys aren't talking.

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Speaker 4: No, we got into a huge fight and like, granted

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, did your parents know what happened? Do your

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Speaker 4: No, she won't talk to anybody, Like, I know what happened.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Okay, I get it.

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Speaker 2: It's a huge deal, but it's not a big enough

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Speaker 2: This, there's a replaceable that makes me so sad for you,

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Speaker 1: So that's why you reached out to our show to

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Speaker 2: Right, she moved exactly, and you haven't had any chance

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Speaker 2: to apologize to her until now, right, Because I.

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Speaker 4: Mean I would have had she been able to return

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Speaker 4: a text he call. But I don't want to, like,

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Speaker 1: radio show I like this. And so you've been working

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Speaker 3: Did Clarissa explain it all?

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Speaker 4: Come on?

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Speaker 3: Laughing text?

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Speaker 1: It's gonna happen when we do your closure call. Right

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Speaker 1: She and her little sister have not spoken to each

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Speaker 1: night and her sister drunkenly lost their mom's heirloom jewelry. No,

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Speaker 1: so that led to an argument. Some things were said

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine what you said.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, do you want to repeat some of

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Speaker 4: I mean, I will say I said a lot of

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Speaker 3: See if she says the same thing.

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Speaker 1: I know Brooke has said, there's gotta be something else,

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: What if she went and ponned it and lied and

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Speaker 3: Were drinking, she had it on when they left.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I would have done. I would

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Speaker 3: This entire time.

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Speaker 4: If anything, this ring has more sentimental value than financial value.

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Speaker 2: Your family heirs like my family airlooms like we love them.

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Speaker 3: They're very sentimental to us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, Okay, we can all call our parents'

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Speaker 1: We have her answers ready to read. Amelia, are you

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Speaker 1: call question we said. First of all, I feel completely

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Speaker 1: I'm super sorry. Can you forgive me?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 3: I mean that, but would hit me wrong. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: I mean, I wish it was a little more brief.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if she would go that.

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Speaker 3: God's that's what you wanted.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, accountability is important, and like she has lacked accountability

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we're asking for an apology from her. She

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Speaker 1: I drank way too much and acted like a total idiot,

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Speaker 1: Because she's sober when she's writing back, I think the

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Speaker 3: It's been a year.

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Speaker 4: Does she say? Right? What is it? Like? I'm more

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Speaker 1: someone and we became very very close. Okay, please don't

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Speaker 1: I've been seeing your ex Ryan.

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I heard it, but like, no, I also did

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Speaker 4: not just hear that, because that is like, no, that

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Speaker 4: I literally lived together when she was living like a

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Speaker 1: Do you understand that's why she said she may be mad,

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Speaker 4: She's that's disgusting. I'm completely disgusted. I'm not mad. I

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Speaker 1: She does keep going and says, I'm really really sorry

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's way. That's way better, right, that's super better.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. She says, I don't want to

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Speaker 3: for a year. Like what do you think? Yeah, are

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Speaker 3: you still in love with Ryan?

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Speaker 4: No? I mean, like I'm up said that was the

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Speaker 4: Like and what if, like what if they are like

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Speaker 1: Mean, I'm so sorry, but we're running out of time here,

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 1: So what we wrote to her was, I know we

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Speaker 1: and we need to love and cherish each other. Is

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well the answer hard pack? Did you say hard pass?

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Speaker 4: So right, if that did not age, well, but you

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Speaker 3: To see she should see.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you that she did answer it. She wrote, well, actually,

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Speaker 1: Ryan and I are supposed to go to mom and

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Speaker 1: Dad know already about me and Ryan. They've known for

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Speaker 3: Girl, you'll show them you can handle it, right.

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm literally speechless, I have no I have no words.

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Speaker 4: to that? Like so, like my mom and dad have

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Speaker 4: been lying to me too, Like that's perfect, that's great stuff.

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Speaker 3: Why well they could tell that you're I mean, you know, no, there's.

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Speaker 4: No excuse, like like you can't protect somebody by like

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Speaker 4: of them handled this right from Jump Street, And I've

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Speaker 4: comments that I made when I was rightfully angry.

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Speaker 3: Like that makes like, okay, way more deep breath, deep breath.

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Speaker 3: Does Ryan have a brother you could date? I'm just saying, yeahet.

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Speaker 4: If anything, I will like I'm going after Ryan's dad.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, at least maybe the good news that came

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Speaker 4: I think after you sit with this, we'll communicate.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I was going to say, I think after

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Speaker 4: I'm going to sit with it on Ryan's dad's lap

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Speaker 4: as the now.

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Speaker 1: That was your closure call, I actually support that, Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: only if Ryan's dad's rich. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning.

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,