Speaker 1: Borrow with me here.
Speaker 2: You know BT's so low shot on oct no real color,
Speaker 2: what we see whole game read of Baller big something.
Speaker 1: Oh, you can't stand on me, own Susie.
Speaker 3: I already know you can't bother with me because up
Speaker 3: with the squad on me. They get into that. They
Speaker 3: called me.
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Speaker 4: Hey, young world, I'm your best CC solo.
Speaker 1: It's you know BT for CT with that. What's having?
Speaker 4: Guys?
Speaker 1: What's up?
Speaker 2: Did you guys watch the Met Gallo or did you
Speaker 2: see the Met Galla pictures?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I've seen a lot of those crazy pictures.
Speaker 4: I was on Balloler's Instagram all night just watching the
Speaker 4: photos liking them. Nah, yeah, I'm just Instagram. But who
Speaker 4: can we talk about the the play play Rihanna and
Speaker 4: asap Rocket? Who were those people the impersonators? Did y'all
Speaker 4: see that?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: I didn't see the how you miss Serena is pregnant
Speaker 2: with her second child a moment I did not know
Speaker 2: what the Matt Gallo was, I just thought it was
Speaker 2: like a show or something.
Speaker 1: It's a charity event. Charity event, you know that. I
Speaker 1: had to look it up. You know what the money
Speaker 1: gets donated to.
Speaker 5: Did not read all the way through there, I say,
Speaker 5: I was about say me neither, Well, who were y'all some.
Speaker 3: Of your favorite outfits of the night.
Speaker 4: I hate to say this, Uh CARDI always nailed it, she.
Speaker 5: Say, okay, Kay, was like, did he fit? Did he
Speaker 5: outfit like he came in there looking like dark Vader Man?
Speaker 5: Did he came in and looked Diddy was flying?
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 3: He looked really good. I thought Tana Taylor looked really good.
Speaker 5: Looked so good like y'all see uh Luna's ex outfit.
Speaker 1: That I was like.
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, look, if that's the theme or
Speaker 2: if that's what he goes with to create shock value,
Speaker 2: he does a great job.
Speaker 3: I thought j Lo looked good too.
Speaker 4: Let's sit on little X for a little bit.
Speaker 1: He does job.
Speaker 4: He okay for for the whole theme and the point
Speaker 4: of the met Gallaby is so theatrical and crazy. He
Speaker 4: obviously nailed it. But the throng part, like it's just
Speaker 4: it was a throng for me. Everything else was fine.
Speaker 4: Do a cat came looking like a cat.
Speaker 1: As her question? She did like every she was every
Speaker 1: time they asked her a question.
Speaker 2: Taking an example, it looked like uncomfortable in this area.
Speaker 3: She had good makeup artists. But one thing that was
Speaker 3: going viral was Diddy saying that him and young Miami
Speaker 3: are you know, no title?
Speaker 1: No title.
Speaker 4: I don't understand why that keeps going viral, but we
Speaker 4: know we know they don't have a title. They say
Speaker 4: it over and over and over.
Speaker 1: A business Karsha got some new so I was about
Speaker 1: to drop, but you just never know.
Speaker 3: I mean they show to the met Gala, that was
Speaker 3: her first met Galla.
Speaker 4: They said they work on those looks for months. Okay,
Speaker 4: Karsha made an announcement that they're not together recently. You
Speaker 4: think they wanting to go to the met gallay, babe,
Speaker 4: the looks was coordinated. Did he needed a muse next
Speaker 4: to him to make his outfice stand out? Even a
Speaker 4: ice spice made it to the megans.
Speaker 5: Hey, man, I wanted the poof though you know how
Speaker 5: she got invited? They could have made it when Donald
Speaker 5: Trump gave her that coat sign that's how she got in.
Speaker 1: Because I don't know or something like that.
Speaker 3: Her real name is iis.
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that, and it kind of went over
Speaker 1: there by Trump and then he.
Speaker 5: Was like, yeah, so you're talking about just the full
Speaker 5: cent podcast and they was like, hey, do you like
Speaker 5: what do you think about Ice Spic And he was like,
Speaker 5: I don't know what.
Speaker 1: I don't know who that is. And then they played
Speaker 1: the song. He was like, I don't know, but I
Speaker 1: like it.
Speaker 4: He knows how to get the black votes. I mean,
Speaker 4: it's so exciting to see her career, like literally, within
Speaker 4: less than a year, she goes from her hood to
Speaker 4: all of this.
Speaker 1: And everybody one hit Wonder.
Speaker 4: A lot of people were definitely, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: Is it bad that I that I kind of like
Speaker 1: her music?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: I like it a lot. I like that song. God
Speaker 1: damn seeing her move called it was.
Speaker 3: Since Diana she got Nicki Minaj on the remix. Yeah,
Speaker 3: she's she's really popping right now. But you know what's
Speaker 3: not popping? And you know who was not at the
Speaker 3: Met Gallery together.
Speaker 1: Share in a do you know whose share is? Now? Yes?
Speaker 1: I do know who?
Speaker 2: Share is her young ex boyfriend or officially not together.
Speaker 2: Said it, boys is down a thousand points. That's what
Speaker 2: I've been.
Speaker 4: You will consider that down. The fact that he was
Speaker 4: with shared.
Speaker 5: Because remember they were they was allegedly engaged, right, and
Speaker 5: you know I thought that, you know, he would have
Speaker 5: got engaged to Sharon was having fun.
Speaker 4: Okay, want you what do you guys think happened?
Speaker 3: Because they're no.
Speaker 5: I think the friends messed up, wore off guy. No, No,
Speaker 5: I think what happened was with her friends. I think
Speaker 5: her friends started hating on him. I think she was
Speaker 5: buying him gifts and spending that blood effect.
Speaker 2: He just kept seeing the same little you know wrinkle JJ.
Speaker 4: He wanted to cut it off?
Speaker 3: Was that man?
Speaker 1: You know, I don't think that was the case. I
Speaker 1: think I would think Ferrari or something like that, LEMGEINEI
Speaker 1: or something like that.
Speaker 3: I remember that because because so he think her friends
Speaker 3: and family, because you know she has kids too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think her friends and family was a little
Speaker 5: concerned with her spending habit that was a little abnormal.
Speaker 4: And you know, I doubt that it was abnormal. I
Speaker 4: don't think do you think that she wouldn't normally.
Speaker 1: Spend I disagree, because you got to think about this.
Speaker 5: I think that when she got with him and she
Speaker 5: started going out and partying and doing all those things
Speaker 5: that brought him.
Speaker 4: A very expensive kind of money.
Speaker 1: Is the point man, Listen.
Speaker 5: One thing I learned about rich people is the people
Speaker 5: around him count they money more than they count their
Speaker 5: home money.
Speaker 1: I tell you, I'll tell you that.
Speaker 2: Specially she buys a young man a very expensive sports car. Exactly,
Speaker 2: it's going to raise a red flag to the.
Speaker 4: Getting that thing. Okay, the nigga was probably a munch.
Speaker 4: She was enjoying it.
Speaker 3: It was what it was.
Speaker 1: I feel like they enjoyed each other's time. And the
Speaker 1: time had passed.
Speaker 4: The man was probably a month.
Speaker 3: Do you think he I'm going to keep his gifts
Speaker 3: or did he take any?
Speaker 4: Ain't no, baby, when you give me something, you gift
Speaker 4: me something.
Speaker 1: I gave it to him and his name.
Speaker 3: You haven't got any extras, any five finger this kind
Speaker 3: of things from her house.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I don't think that you never know,
Speaker 4: because he's above it.
Speaker 1: I won't say that, you're right, I don't. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think.
Speaker 2: I don't think.
Speaker 5: I don't think he's a bad person. I haven't heard
Speaker 5: really anything bad about it.
Speaker 1: I don't think I don't think bad about it. I
Speaker 1: don't think he's a bad person.
Speaker 2: I just sighed out of him when he was we're
Speaker 2: like ship and I looked up Network.
Speaker 5: I was like, she was popping and he wasn't even
Speaker 5: part Network is three hundred million dollars. I was like that.
Speaker 3: And other couples, Little Meach and Summer Walker are official.
Speaker 1: And you heard the first right here the ball Little
Speaker 1: Show podcast. Yes, they're ski see the boy.
Speaker 4: Uh, why is that a city boy situation? You're just
Speaker 4: stuck saying just.
Speaker 5: Saying city boys just to say, well, Little Meach is popping.
Speaker 5: He lit someer Walker's live me and most of the
Speaker 5: time let people date.
Speaker 2: They look happy to the I told you, I told
Speaker 2: you anyone's happy. I think that they're No, they look happy.
Speaker 2: They look like they're having fun. They look happy, So
Speaker 2: you don't know that happiness. I think that's fun. You
Speaker 2: can have fun and not be happy because fun, you know,
Speaker 2: it's temporary. I don't think this is gonna last.
Speaker 4: I think they're happy. I think they're having a good
Speaker 4: time and they're happy. I think Summer Walker and Little
Speaker 4: Meach kind of on the same wavelength, like, but Summer
Speaker 4: seems a little eclectic, like she likes a different type
Speaker 4: of guy. Like, but at the end of the day,
Speaker 4: they're both talented, they're successful. Summer is like, listen, my
Speaker 4: kids are a little bit older. I'm outside their babies,
Speaker 4: but they old enough for mama to have a new man.
Speaker 4: I got to be outside.
Speaker 2: Okay, she don't even know how to talk.
Speaker 4: I think Summer loves love. Okay, she loves love and
Speaker 4: she's having a good time. I'm not saying no, I
Speaker 4: don't think it's.
Speaker 2: A good fleet.
Speaker 1: I've been saying that.
Speaker 5: As long as Summer Walker keep putting out these good albums,
Speaker 5: I want her to continue dating.
Speaker 3: Good workout.
Speaker 1: We got bench pressed.
Speaker 3: He's a good workout.
Speaker 1: She likes a good workout partner.
Speaker 5: Shout out to Little Beach Mantle with the chain he
Speaker 5: got all the girls did you'll see him in the club,
Speaker 5: know where he was like bring your ass?
Speaker 1: Oh she had the mask on. He did this come
Speaker 1: over and you know he's younger than her?
Speaker 3: Oh really?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah is older than him. They're definitely not the
Speaker 2: same age.
Speaker 1: They're probably close. She's older and.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying she's older right, I'm just saying she's
Speaker 2: older than him.
Speaker 4: So what do y'all think about Walker's twenty seven?
Speaker 1: She's not twenty seven for sure.
Speaker 3: How do you think he is about twenty three years
Speaker 3: twenty four?
Speaker 4: He's probably sounds like it was.
Speaker 2: You remember, a man that's twenty three is very not
Speaker 2: as mentally there as all of.
Speaker 4: Them, not all of you.
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't know man, little meat.
Speaker 5: She he comes from a you know, a tough background,
Speaker 5: smart family.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what you will, be a little more mature
Speaker 4: than you think.
Speaker 3: Well, they're on the ground professing their love for one
Speaker 3: another or like whatever you want to call it. Selena
Speaker 3: Powell is actually the Instagram model Selena Powell.
Speaker 1: I'm tired of her. I Am fucking tired of her.
Speaker 3: Helena Powe, the Instagram model, is posting herself giving a
Speaker 3: fulation go to little meetch and.
Speaker 1: Trying to stir the pot.
Speaker 2: She posted a video of I sent y'all in the
Speaker 2: group chat about oh my god, so so she said,
Speaker 2: she said the video. She posted a video of.
Speaker 5: One there entertainer's gonna realize that this girl is just
Speaker 5: doing things to have, you know, just something the chamber for.
Speaker 4: You they're not. They're gonna validate them having a good
Speaker 4: time with her. Because they're single, they can do what
Speaker 4: they want to do. But I don't think Summer giving
Speaker 4: down girl that you sucked his dick. However long ago, Summer, Walker,
Speaker 4: do not care that you gave that man oreo oral
Speaker 4: sex you much. Nobody cares like you're trying to get
Speaker 4: back in people that are that have moved on from you, like,
Speaker 4: oh I had them, we all got a pass baby.
Speaker 1: She posted the chain and everything. I said, look at
Speaker 1: this groupie.
Speaker 4: It's just whack. It's super wack. But I do agree
Speaker 4: with you BT like it's it's probably even whacker. How
Speaker 4: many celebrity men are going for it and they want
Speaker 4: to be shocked, like when she puts something out there,
Speaker 4: like I know, y'all know she's cool. Little don't respond well,
Speaker 4: speaking of oral, you don't got a sen to nobody
Speaker 4: but someone Walker.
Speaker 3: Ninety singer Maya goes Borro after her juice squirts in
Speaker 3: her hair.
Speaker 1: That was dope. That was a good.
Speaker 2: It was dopeat.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know why that was.
Speaker 5: I don't know why that was so satisfying to watch
Speaker 5: because I watched that video probably about six times.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie because it was the way she reacted.
Speaker 5: In the element.
Speaker 1: She reacted, I was like, I need to watch the
Speaker 1: six War times stay with me comfortable.
Speaker 3: Well, I think they was comparing it to Whenissa Ray,
Speaker 3: you know, was an insecure she holding her eye and
Speaker 3: may It was just smiling about Ita.
Speaker 1: Seems like she know how to have a good time.
Speaker 4: Maya didn't. She didn't flinch at all, but she called it.
Speaker 4: She said, that's going to be a me.
Speaker 1: First of all, have you seen Maya in person? Yes,
Speaker 1: she is gorgeous.
Speaker 4: She looks the exact same.
Speaker 2: She looks like the same person I had in my
Speaker 2: wall that picture.
Speaker 1: I had the moment I thought just about go somewhere
Speaker 1: else with that. I thought it was somewhere left.
Speaker 4: So when you had a Maya poster in high school,
Speaker 4: were you getting inspired by this poster?
Speaker 2: I used to like her and Alicia Keys this something
Speaker 2: shoot up.
Speaker 1: I just made me want to watch that video again. Poster.
Speaker 1: She was having such a great time.
Speaker 3: It's okay, here's again.
Speaker 1: She looked like she was having a great time.
Speaker 3: She was well, she was just excited about her twenty
Speaker 3: fifth anniversary of her first album coming out, so she
Speaker 3: was celebrating, and I guess she had her green juice
Speaker 3: and it just you know, squirted out a little bit.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm about the bus. It's time for
Speaker 1: the Player's ball, Kobe for Protro.
Speaker 2: Mama Sita shoes jersey in honor of Gianna Bryant's seventeenth birthday. Salute,
Speaker 2: Salute that super dope man. And again, you know, that's
Speaker 2: such a sad thing every time I think about Kobe
Speaker 2: and the other passengers on the helicopter. But man, you know,
Speaker 2: you never you never knew what she was gonna become. Man,
Speaker 2: you know, she was really good in basketball, and who
Speaker 2: knows what she would have been right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, It's just it never it never feels real.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: Even you called me too. I never forget you called
Speaker 2: me and said, Kobe Bryant, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: You know, I was, I was crying, like I was.
Speaker 5: I was on my way, I was, I was on
Speaker 5: my way to to to do my radio show, and
Speaker 5: I was I was like, people just calling my phone
Speaker 5: and then I get alert on my phone. I was like, man,
Speaker 5: this this, this can't be real. And I remember, Yeah,
Speaker 5: it was a Sunday, and I remember I was just
Speaker 5: going to the radio station.
Speaker 1: I was just crying.
Speaker 5: I was like, and I've never cried over any celebrity
Speaker 5: passing or anything like that was the other one. But
Speaker 5: I mean that that really hurt me. So I was like,
Speaker 5: I was calling for Ari because I'm like, man, how
Speaker 5: do I even do my show? Like I never you know,
Speaker 5: I never anything. Yeah, I never dealt with something like that,
Speaker 5: And you know, it's just a sad situation because I
Speaker 5: actually almost had the chance to meet Kobe because I
Speaker 5: was in La or one of my friends, Trey Young,
Speaker 5: who plays basketball kobe daughter, was a huge fan of his,
Speaker 5: and I remember he was like telling me he was
Speaker 5: going to work out with him, and I was like,
Speaker 5: I was so hung over.
Speaker 1: I was like, man, I ain't gonna be able to
Speaker 1: go to practice with y'all.
Speaker 3: Well you need to stop being hungover. Yeah, but yeah,
Speaker 3: that is that is very sad and just to your point,
Speaker 3: like for him to go and then the daughter, everybody
Speaker 3: that was when they found out the baby was was.
Speaker 2: Was going to I think that was that bothered me.
Speaker 2: Everything bothered me. The conditions of the day. I haven't
Speaker 2: been on the helicopter ride since and I would go
Speaker 2: on helicopter rise of. I haven't been on a helicopter since.
Speaker 2: Even though it's a safe way to travel, it's just
Speaker 2: it just really bothered me.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: On the brighter note, Lebron James versus Steph Curry, who
Speaker 2: y'all got?
Speaker 1: We got Steph Curry. I love Lebron James.
Speaker 5: I'm a Lebron James fan, but I'm also a Steph
Speaker 5: Curry fan because guess what, I think the words gonna
Speaker 5: get another championship.
Speaker 1: You're wrong, You are so wrong. You're wrong. Why am
Speaker 1: I wrong? Here's in six And if you want to
Speaker 1: put some money up, do it on camera.
Speaker 4: How much money I got?
Speaker 1: One hundred dollars. That's it, that's it.
Speaker 3: You're that confident and Steph Curry.
Speaker 1: And that's a lot for BT. Yeah, that's definitely a
Speaker 1: lot for me.
Speaker 5: That's definitely I'm confident because you gotta understand, man, when
Speaker 5: Curry is ready to take over a game, he's gonna
Speaker 5: take over a game. Now, I'll get him on Steven
Speaker 5: Ice Smith voice. Not this time, you think Lebron is
Speaker 5: gonna be Steph Curry. Lebron is gonna wash Andrew Wiggins.
Speaker 2: That's who sticks. Who's gonna guard Seth Kurk. They gonna
Speaker 2: have to double team him exactly.
Speaker 1: New Subjects.
Speaker 2: Deon Sanders calls out the NFL after only one HBCU
Speaker 2: player gets drafted.
Speaker 1: Now, I do agree with him on that.
Speaker 2: He's always been big on this guy, so this isn't new.
Speaker 2: He had said this before, even before he was at
Speaker 2: Jackson State when he was a personality on television, So
Speaker 2: this isn't new for him to say this. But of
Speaker 2: course it's getting highlighted now. But he said the NFL
Speaker 2: should be a shame for that, and I agree.
Speaker 5: No, I'm gonna get some sl I'm gonna get some
Speaker 5: I'm getting some uh some backlash from this.
Speaker 1: But is this dude actually good? Yeah, he's good.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: He was saying more.
Speaker 2: It was more HBC players across the nation, not just
Speaker 2: that JS.
Speaker 5: So why do they think that? Why do you think
Speaker 5: that the NFL turns the eye on HBCUs.
Speaker 4: They need these black kids to go to pwy's and
Speaker 4: you cannot give HBCUs too much love, otherwise you will
Speaker 4: continue to encourage these black kids to go to HBCUs.
Speaker 2: I agree with that, but I also will say, you know,
Speaker 2: the recruiting is based off of also big television time,
Speaker 2: which those pwy's are on television. A lot of recruiters
Speaker 2: do not even go to the games anymore. They can
Speaker 2: literally watch the game get taped. So all those schools,
Speaker 2: they're not worried about a Tennessee State, Savannah State.
Speaker 1: I fam.
Speaker 2: You you got to really stick out, and it's hard
Speaker 2: to stick out when you have so many HBCUs and
Speaker 2: so many pwys, and the pwis get the checks and
Speaker 2: the big money and all that shit.
Speaker 1: So it's hard.
Speaker 5: So you feel like it's kind of like it's really
Speaker 5: you know, people always says, you know, the NFL is
Speaker 5: like a fraternity, so you mean to it just seems
Speaker 5: like it's a maternity with the NFL has a relationship
Speaker 5: with these major colleges and saying that, hey, these other
Speaker 5: guys that you know they're trying to get, these guys
Speaker 5: go to these HBCU college is, we're not really gonna
Speaker 5: get them a shot. We're gonna stick to our frat
Speaker 5: brothers and do business with you guys.
Speaker 4: I can see that.
Speaker 2: I can kind of agree to disagree because you got
Speaker 2: to think about it like this, right, Alabama is a
Speaker 2: big college. Alabama State is not. So Alabama's going to
Speaker 2: be on TV. They're going to play Tennessee. Who's Alabama's
Speaker 2: number two, Tennessee number six. That's gonna be a game
Speaker 2: where all the recruiters are going to be at versus
Speaker 2: a Alabama State playing in Albany State where it's not
Speaker 2: even going to be packed. So it's just gonna be different.
Speaker 2: It's just a different in attendance, it's a difference in coverage.
Speaker 2: Is not gonna be on TV at all, You may
Speaker 2: not even you may have to pay to get in
Speaker 2: the game.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be different. It's different.
Speaker 5: Well, I just I mean, I really hope that you know,
Speaker 5: that eventually changes, and I hope that a lot of
Speaker 5: these talented athletes, you know, start going to HBCUs and
Speaker 5: you know, letting them know that, you know, these big
Speaker 5: draft picks can come from other colleges.
Speaker 1: But you know, I know that whole thing is just
Speaker 1: a big corporation.
Speaker 2: Don't getting started on black NFL coaches. We can go
Speaker 2: we can start there too, because it's not too many.
Speaker 4: Let me ask this, It's not that black kids were
Speaker 4: not selected it's that black kids from HBCUs.
Speaker 1: Black kids get selected.
Speaker 5: Now we have schools showing the hell because the number
Speaker 5: one drive pick was a black guy for California.
Speaker 1: We all have been there.
Speaker 2: It was just more so the love to the HBCUs
Speaker 2: because some kids can't afford or can't get the look.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they deserve right about that. We'll be right back
Speaker 1: with more of the Baller Alert show.
Speaker 5: It's love versus money on the ball or Alert show
Speaker 5: back with more Baller b Alert.
Speaker 3: We got love versus money. I give the couple and
Speaker 3: you let me know if they're there for the money
Speaker 3: or is it love?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 3: Today we have cam Newton and Jasmine Brown.
Speaker 1: Oh man, that's my dog, cam my dog too? What
Speaker 1: us can man first? Jazmin and Homie too. I don't like.
Speaker 1: I don't like y'all as a couple. It's just my opinion.
Speaker 1: Can you dog jazz? You know, don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know jazz like that. However, I just you know,
Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of it. But I also don't
Speaker 2: think you're.
Speaker 1: With each other for the money, So you know, so
Speaker 1: what are you trying to say?
Speaker 4: Are they having fun?
Speaker 5: The fun?
Speaker 1: They're having fun on each other listen. I think I
Speaker 1: think that it's love workout. I really do.
Speaker 5: I really do believe that it is that is love
Speaker 5: because Jasmine she got her own back, Jasmine is doing
Speaker 5: uh podcasts, she's doing stand up shows, she makes a
Speaker 5: lot of money off social media. I don't I don't
Speaker 5: think that she's looking, especially if you're with somebody who has,
Speaker 5: you know, a bunch of kids and you gotta you
Speaker 5: gotta play that that step mother role. I think I
Speaker 5: think that it has to be loved because you gotta
Speaker 5: love the kids too, especially if you're looking at somebody
Speaker 5: in the long term relationship.
Speaker 1: Hey, you gotta you gotta be there for them kids too.
Speaker 1: So I think that it is love.
Speaker 4: I think it's love. I have heard her talk about
Speaker 4: this man in interviews, and the way that she loves,
Speaker 4: the way she loves to give love, the way she receives,
Speaker 4: like you're not gonna tell me, the way that she
Speaker 4: talks about her man, her man, her man. That it
Speaker 4: is not love. I think it's love, flat out.
Speaker 1: What you think, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just seen they came up. They came up a lot,
Speaker 3: you know, with her being submissive and all this things.
Speaker 3: I just thought it was interesting that. I just thought
Speaker 3: it was real interesting. Their dynamics so, uh, you know,
Speaker 3: he seems like an alpha male kind of and she
Speaker 3: seems like, you know, she's okay with that and in
Speaker 3: her role in their relationship.
Speaker 5: I think they both go hand in hand, and I
Speaker 5: think that's why their relationship works.
Speaker 4: So we see some women hate the idea of being
Speaker 4: submissive because they have had bad experiences being submissive to
Speaker 4: the man. When you have a man that is your man,
Speaker 4: your man, your man, and he leads and you can
Speaker 4: trust his leadership, you're gonna be submissive.
Speaker 3: Because they had one clip, I got a lot of
Speaker 3: backlash when she said, I scratched this man's back to sleep.
Speaker 4: She rubs his back until in his head until he
Speaker 4: falls asleep, and she waits to hear him breathing a
Speaker 4: certain type of way because that's how she knows he
Speaker 4: is actually asleep, and then she lays her head down
Speaker 4: the stairs. I like that. It's cute. I like that
Speaker 4: got to be doing something. It sounds very romantic. But
Speaker 4: he's got to be filling her cup enough for her
Speaker 4: to feel like she can be submissive to this man
Speaker 4: in that way.
Speaker 2: Talk to him so especially if she wants to leave,
Speaker 2: she's doing it out of January.
Speaker 5: Yes, if somebody, if a woman is doing that, she
Speaker 5: loves you educated me, So we're gonna say for the love.
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying everybody can't agree because it's just like,
Speaker 3: you know, because some people probably feel like she's just
Speaker 3: doing it for, you know, to be to do everything.
Speaker 3: You know how some women do everything for somebody just
Speaker 3: to for them to marry them or secure.
Speaker 6: But isn't that's what you want in the relationships either
Speaker 6: or it's either or something some women saying absolutely, some
Speaker 6: women are going to work their way into a situation
Speaker 6: because it benefits them, whereas other women will be naturally
Speaker 6: submissive because they really trust.
Speaker 4: It's not one way for anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we all do say things changed to down the
Speaker 2: line too, because you would you start doing in the beginning,
Speaker 2: Sometimes don't end up being that way five years, ten
Speaker 2: years down the mind, things changing, relationships adjust, They definitely do.
Speaker 2: Shout out to Tanisa. She she used to cook dinner
Speaker 2: for me when I came home three in the morning.
Speaker 2: I don't do it no more. However, she's pressed, she
Speaker 2: will leave something, well, yeah, she will leave something in
Speaker 2: the microwave for me.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: She'll leave something in the fridge for me. So, you know,
Speaker 2: like I said, it adjusts. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She used to get her.
Speaker 2: Little finance up, go downstairs with that little thong on
Speaker 2: and yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what to be hot
Speaker 2: and ready.
Speaker 1: But now she tied.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, y'all ye twenty kids, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's an adjustment.
Speaker 3: You'll find your way back there, you.
Speaker 1: Know what, real quick after, I see what you crazy.
Speaker 5: I see what Michelle Obama she says something about, you know,
Speaker 5: how how hard it is in marriages and stuff like that,
Speaker 5: and she was talking about like how her and Obama
Speaker 5: didn't like each other for ten years, and she was like,
Speaker 5: you know, people think marriage is a certain way, but
Speaker 5: you know, she was like, it's really like you really
Speaker 5: working to make things working. And you know, I don't
Speaker 5: know how I started watching Michelle Obama and Oprah talk
Speaker 5: about all this stuff. I was on YouTube, but I
Speaker 5: was like, that's that's very interesting because I feel like
Speaker 5: people think that, you know, marriages isn't isn't worth it
Speaker 5: anymore and stuff like that, and you know, I really
Speaker 5: like Michelle Obama's you know insight on you know when
Speaker 5: she was speaking.
Speaker 3: You know, you see different versions of yourself as you
Speaker 3: grow up. You know, like a couple who started, you know,
Speaker 3: when they first year of marriage twenty years later or
Speaker 3: not the same people.
Speaker 2: So you just never know, you see that person that
Speaker 2: they're worse A lot of the time. Some people are
Speaker 2: not good at conflict resolution. Sometimes you may have to
Speaker 2: do counseling together separately.
Speaker 4: It's a lot you have to choose this person every
Speaker 4: day and decide that you're going to do the necessary
Speaker 4: work to make it work. And sometimes making it work
Speaker 4: doesn't necessarily mean that you conform to what this person needs,
Speaker 4: but maybe it just means you show up for them differently,
Speaker 4: like understand their love language, and that ship changes.
Speaker 2: A lot of people do get married for the wrong
Speaker 2: reason though. Yeah, it's a yeah that that that comes
Speaker 2: out in time.
Speaker 1: We'll find out because.
Speaker 3: It's hard to pretend for so long. You can like
Speaker 3: a and share.
Speaker 1: Hey, sit it by.
Speaker 5: Came up, We'll be right back stayed with more of
Speaker 5: the ball or alert show.
Speaker 1: Message they're a ball alert.
Speaker 2: My man and I are in an open relationship, but
Speaker 2: he's taking things way too far. We went from doing
Speaker 2: things together to him spending more time with the other person,
Speaker 2: especially when we get into an argument, he disappears with her. Lastly,
Speaker 2: I brought up that if we are all open, she
Speaker 2: needs to help pay bills since she's been slick living
Speaker 2: with us for the past two months.
Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Damn?
Speaker 4: First of all, am I the only person in here
Speaker 4: that has ever experienced an open relationship?
Speaker 1: Definitely? I've been a big cheater that's not open. That's all. Okay,
Speaker 1: So that's a big liar.
Speaker 4: You forced them to be in an open relationship unknowingly. Okay, cool,
Speaker 4: no problem. Okay, So this is the thing. My open
Speaker 4: relationship was different. We didn't do things together. We had
Speaker 4: an understanding that if we wanted to see other people
Speaker 4: then we could do that. But home bases. Home bases
Speaker 4: a certain level of respect that we have for each other.
Speaker 4: We respect each other's boundaries. There's a lot that goes
Speaker 4: into open relationships, and they're all different. Okay, they're all different.
Speaker 4: What I would say is leave baby girl. That my
Speaker 4: advice is to leave said just one thing about it.
Speaker 4: He is gonna do what he wants to do, and
Speaker 4: if this doesn't work for you, and you have expressed
Speaker 4: to him that this is a boundary I don't like.
Speaker 4: I don't like. Don't cross his boundary, and he ain't stopping.
Speaker 4: He's not going to change, So leave. You can't change them.
Speaker 4: You can't make the girl pay pay no bills. If
Speaker 4: he don't want her to pay no bills, he's gonna
Speaker 4: run there when he wants to run.
Speaker 3: Leave.
Speaker 4: That's it, girl?
Speaker 5: Is it?
Speaker 4: You have found out that your man is gonna do
Speaker 4: something that you don't like and he's going to continue
Speaker 4: to do it, so leave.
Speaker 1: Wow, So you tell her to just leave? This man's
Speaker 1: advice T Yeah, I mean my advice.
Speaker 5: I mean, I've never been in an open relationship, but
Speaker 5: if I have, my advice to her is to I
Speaker 5: think that she should sit both of them down, or
Speaker 5: maybe she should talk to the girl separately and say, listen,
Speaker 5: I don't like when me and my man get into
Speaker 5: an argument and you guys are doing whatever y'all doing,
Speaker 5: because it seems like y'all on a side quest relationship.
Speaker 1: And it started out side quest, a.
Speaker 5: Side quest relationship, and it started out we was all together.
Speaker 5: Now listen, I brought you in and I can damn shit,
Speaker 5: take you out.
Speaker 4: Clearly not I think she could. No, she couldn't. If
Speaker 4: he gets into it with his girl, the main girl,
Speaker 4: and then runs off to be with the other girl,
Speaker 4: she ain't got no power over the other girl.
Speaker 1: Well, he's only doing that because that's his escape.
Speaker 5: But that's the problem with some of these people that
Speaker 5: be an open relationship is the jealousy. See, in my opinion,
Speaker 5: if you gonna be in an open relationship, it could
Speaker 5: be no such thing as being jealous.
Speaker 1: I can't say you gave her twenty pumps and gave
Speaker 1: me five.
Speaker 4: No jealousy, no control. And that's why I'm saying leave
Speaker 4: because you have a problem with it, so leave.
Speaker 5: I think they should have a conversation about didn't make
Speaker 5: a decision from that point because, like I said, if
Speaker 5: you're in an open relationship, you can't be jealous or
Speaker 5: about any of those things because that's what you signed
Speaker 5: up for.
Speaker 1: You signed up for other people to enter your relationship,
Speaker 1: she said.
Speaker 4: Lastly, I brought up that if we are all open,
Speaker 4: she needs to help pay bills since she's been slick
Speaker 4: living with us damn bills. That means she had a
Speaker 4: conversation with her man and said, Listen, if she gonna
Speaker 4: be here, she gotta pay bills. They've been talking about it,
Speaker 4: and what you.
Speaker 1: Think he said. They've been talking about what you think?
Speaker 1: He said.
Speaker 4: She ain't doing ship. She's gonna say rob water stay
Speaker 4: and anytime we get it, I'm gonna do what I
Speaker 4: want to do. That's exactly what he said. I'm gonna
Speaker 4: do what I want, so leave.
Speaker 2: I didn't get you say you're gonna say something, Come on, okay.
Speaker 3: I was just gonna simply say, if you got a
Speaker 3: problem in the group, it's time to go solo.
Speaker 4: That's what Solo did.
Speaker 2: Looks like you got a free load on your hands. Definitely,
Speaker 2: she's been slip living of it too much. She ain't
Speaker 2: paying no damn bills, but getting all the goddamn.
Speaker 4: You know penis she could get.
Speaker 2: She probably getting some platio from her because you know,
Speaker 2: if it's two girls, usually the other girl like to
Speaker 2: eat on the other girl.
Speaker 1: You know, never know what the situation is.
Speaker 2: The dynamic eat mad.
Speaker 1: Sure, she is mad that she's mad. She ain't doing
Speaker 1: no extra thing.
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is I agree with Sue. You need
Speaker 2: to pack your ship, then leave, damn leave, then leave
Speaker 2: pack your ship.
Speaker 1: They leave.
Speaker 2: This right here is headed towards the dead end. Big
Speaker 2: dog is gonna have. He's having his cake and eat
Speaker 2: it too. All three of y'all agreed that she should
Speaker 2: just leave.
Speaker 1: Believe she should have never started. No open relationship in
Speaker 1: the first placed.
Speaker 2: For three though, it's always going to be a pair
Speaker 2: that you know, get along more than another pair of
Speaker 2: three people.
Speaker 1: Is hard. That's hard that she was about it. She
Speaker 1: learned that she's not.
Speaker 4: This is not even just an open relationship issue.
Speaker 1: Though.
Speaker 4: You can be in a in a monogamous relationship with
Speaker 4: one person and they do something that you don't like
Speaker 4: and you're trying to set a boundary, and they refuse
Speaker 4: because they say, this is who I am. You can't
Speaker 4: change me. That's not an open relation.
Speaker 1: Just a boundary thing.
Speaker 4: But in this relationship, because they are open, and because
Speaker 4: he's crossing a boundary that she's not comfortable with, you
Speaker 4: gotta go. It's the same same foundation as a monogamous relationship.
Speaker 3: Leave, all right, And that was baller mail. Before we
Speaker 3: get out of here, we got a pep talk.
Speaker 2: I want to talk about friendship, all right. I have
Speaker 2: friends that I see and when I see my friends.
Speaker 2: You make eye contact with each other, you say, hey, Sue,
Speaker 2: how you doing?
Speaker 1: Give you a hug?
Speaker 2: Kiss on the cheek, Hey, how you doing?
Speaker 1: Give you a hug?
Speaker 2: You don't like doing all that touch and touch stuff,
Speaker 2: might do an elbow bump. But for some reason, when
Speaker 2: I see Byron Turner, this food just decides to just
Speaker 2: keep walking.
Speaker 1: Who is that you? Okay?
Speaker 2: Every time I have seen you in public outside of here,
Speaker 2: keep mind it one of my groomsmen. People, This is
Speaker 2: one of my grooms men at my wedding. I didn't
Speaker 2: seen this man two times of public, and he proceeded
Speaker 2: to walk past me each time. The first time we
Speaker 2: was going, I was going to Waffie. For some reason,
Speaker 2: I just randomly saw him. I said, Bet, what's up?
Speaker 1: He just came while He just walked right past me,
Speaker 1: like I want ship.
Speaker 3: You know. You know, BT aspires to be a celebrity.
Speaker 2: Then I randomly saw him in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at
Speaker 2: the airport baggage claim. I walk outside to see where
Speaker 2: the rental car shuttle is and I see a guy
Speaker 2: that looks like BT. I said BT, and he proceeds
Speaker 2: to keep walking.
Speaker 1: I said BT, Damn bro can I can? I can
Speaker 1: I say something? That's what it is? A bad friend.
Speaker 5: Listen, you don't know what I look like. First of all,
Speaker 5: do you not let me? Let me say something? First
Speaker 5: of all, when I'm out in public, I want to
Speaker 5: be invisible. So when people say something to me or
Speaker 5: or yell my name, I'm gonna act like I don't
Speaker 5: hear nothing.
Speaker 4: People.
Speaker 5: Yeah, people, So wait, So I'm gonna give you the
Speaker 5: real story. The real story is Waffi. Waffi is a
Speaker 5: jeweler in Atlanta, is a popular jeweler. I was, yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm over here acting like a guess because he got
Speaker 5: me pissed off. So I was walking to the to
Speaker 5: the to the Juris store. And first of all, you
Speaker 5: just got to be cautious about when you go at
Speaker 5: certain places.
Speaker 1: I walked to the I hear somebody that Wait wait,
Speaker 1: parking lot was empty.
Speaker 5: Wait, the parking lot was not empty. And there was
Speaker 5: a security out in front of the Juris store. So
Speaker 5: if a security is there, I need to have my.
Speaker 1: P's and q's. So I'm walking to this. I'm walking
Speaker 1: this way. Ferrari is to my left.
Speaker 5: I can't even see him. The only thing I hear
Speaker 5: somebody said hey, BT, and I said, what's up? And
Speaker 5: I kept walking because that's how I was taught to be.
Speaker 5: Second of all, I was at the airport. I'm walking
Speaker 5: and it's like seven in the morning. I'm y'all know,
Speaker 5: I'm not a morning person. I was up to five
Speaker 5: in the morning. I didn't even I didn't even get
Speaker 5: any sleep. I slept on the plane for thirty minutes.
Speaker 5: So I'm getting off the airport. I'm like, oh man,
Speaker 5: I'm tired.
Speaker 1: Where is this car? At seven in the morning, I
Speaker 1: hear somebody say hey. I'm like what. We make contact
Speaker 1: and look at him. Wait, wait, I look at him.
Speaker 1: Take my glass off. I look at him and I
Speaker 1: was like, this guy looks like Ferrari. And he proceeded
Speaker 1: to keywalking. Wait I did this? I did this?
Speaker 4: Come on?
Speaker 5: Wait wait, you said Joe part. Let me say my part.
Speaker 5: It's early in the morning. I hear somebody say hey,
Speaker 5: I turn over.
Speaker 1: I look.
Speaker 5: I'm like what, And then it's Ferrari. I said, wait,
Speaker 5: he this dude looks like Ferrari. So I kept walking
Speaker 5: and I looked at and Ferrari's like looking at me,
Speaker 5: like I know you're gonna speak to me this morning,
Speaker 5: and I was.
Speaker 1: Like, second time you did that? I yes, And I'm
Speaker 1: sitting there like this, I'm following.
Speaker 4: Guy.
Speaker 5: Wait, you gotta understand I'm not a morning person and
Speaker 5: he's not. I'm not a morning person at all. And
Speaker 5: it's seven in the morning. He gets up early because
Speaker 5: he kids. I ain't got no damn kids. So I'm
Speaker 5: I'm I'm looking at him like, damn, this du look
Speaker 5: like Ferrari And we at the airport at the same
Speaker 5: time at seven in the morning.
Speaker 1: What's the odds of that? And then then it ends
Speaker 1: up in Ferrari. Moral of the story is BT was
Speaker 1: not alone.
Speaker 2: But that's okay, just just letting you guys know that
Speaker 2: friendship should be definitely a little bit more.
Speaker 3: If you ever seen BC, don't say nothing.
Speaker 2: You usually won't see the first time I saw BT,
Speaker 2: he was alone. The second time and for a lot
Speaker 2: of that he was not alone. Okay, that is a
Speaker 2: football alert. I appreciate you guys tuning in to us.
Speaker 2: BT was not alone. Make sure you like share, subscribe
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Speaker 1: And BT was that.
Speaker 3: You know that was a pet talk, But did you
Speaker 3: go to that that beach party? If you know, don't
Speaker 3: say nothing, so.
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