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Speaker 1: you've almost certainly heard us do a second date update.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, one of the main things we do
Speaker 1: where we try to help a listener reconnect and get
Speaker 1: clarity after they've been ghosted following a bad date. And
Speaker 1: I say we try because honestly, a lot of them
Speaker 1: end up not working out. Yeah, And I'm not I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna blame anybody for that because it maybe Alexis
Speaker 1: because like if we're talking to a guy who even
Speaker 1: has a whiff of money on it, she just starts
Speaker 1: batting her eyes asking for his number. How did they
Speaker 1: hear that through the phone? Even it's weird, it's amazing,
Speaker 1: I just know. And then she starts undermining the other
Speaker 1: woman on the call. IM I know, I'm kidding. Bad
Speaker 1: influence over in that late this corner, but the Richmond
Speaker 1: every once in a while, we actually do a good job,
Speaker 1: and we'll get two people to agree to go out,
Speaker 1: and we want to know what happened next. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why we created second date update updates. I love
Speaker 1: these because I feel like we're really invested in people's
Speaker 1: relationships by the time we're off the phone without Yeah,
Speaker 1: so this gives us an opportunity to check in a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks or maybe a few months after their
Speaker 1: original call, and we're doing one today. Might remember this
Speaker 1: from a while back. It featured a lost car and yeah,
Speaker 1: weird adventure following. We're going to play the date. Yes,
Speaker 1: a lot of people wanted to know what's happened after this,
Speaker 1: so we're going to play the first two parts and
Speaker 1: then we're gonna have the couple back on the phone
Speaker 1: right afterwards to let us know what's up. It's your
Speaker 1: second date update update right now, Second date Update. We
Speaker 1: got an urgent email for a second date update from
Speaker 1: one of our listeners who says they need our help immediately. Well,
Speaker 1: okay today, And we actually had a different call scheduled
Speaker 1: with another listener before this, but we had to move
Speaker 1: them back to tomorrow because this one can't wait a lot.
Speaker 1: We've got Marissa on the phone. Apparently she went out
Speaker 1: on a date last night, and now if we can't
Speaker 1: get a hold of the guy, she says she's going
Speaker 1: to get the authorities involved. What were the right people
Speaker 1: that come to Marissa? Are you okay? Are you in danger? No?
Speaker 1: I'm not in danger, but I'm really kissed off and
Speaker 1: angry because this should not have happened. And I'm about
Speaker 1: to call the cop. Oh okay, it's a good instinct
Speaker 1: to always call us for any emergency before you call
Speaker 1: the police. Well, we'll get to it in just a second,
Speaker 1: but first, tell us what's the name of the guy
Speaker 1: that you're trying to get in touch with? Christopher? I
Speaker 1: met him on this app. Okay, Okay, I think we
Speaker 1: all need to take a deep breath, because like there
Speaker 1: is some anger coming out in those words. I've even
Speaker 1: said anything bad, Like tell us more about Christopher er Well,
Speaker 1: I met him on this dating app, and I always
Speaker 1: crossed my friends with everybody I date on these apps
Speaker 1: through my roommate Maddie, So I told her about this
Speaker 1: guy and and she was like, yeah, it looks great.
Speaker 1: You should definitely go ahead. H That's how they always
Speaker 1: get you, don't they They always get you that way,
Speaker 1: looking all nice and respectable. Yeah, and so I go
Speaker 1: on the state right, and it's fantastic. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: it wasn't great time. I've never had this much fun ever.
Speaker 1: This is not what I was expecting. So what did
Speaker 1: you and Christopher do? We went to this bar and
Speaker 1: then after we went to a dance club and it
Speaker 1: was it was really awesome. So then we went to
Speaker 1: my place obviously because we were all like feeling it.
Speaker 1: We hooked up and then we woke up and we
Speaker 1: were both so hung over. But he was like, let
Speaker 1: me get you breakfast, and I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: it's a dream come true. Yes, yeah, okay, wait wait wait,
Speaker 1: hold on was this this morning? It was this yesterday morning?
Speaker 1: This was yesterday morning, Okay. So he was like, I'll
Speaker 1: get breakfast and can I use your car because he
Speaker 1: didn't have his car because we uber at home. Okay,
Speaker 1: And so he left and then hours passed and I'm
Speaker 1: texting him and nothing, nothing, nothing for like three hours.
Speaker 1: Oh he stole your wait he still has your car? Yes?
Speaker 1: And he never came back. Oh my god, so you
Speaker 1: still haven't had breakfast. Yet not the point. Not the
Speaker 1: point right now, we don't even care about this guy anymore.
Speaker 1: You need your car back and get this. He picked
Speaker 1: up after like the fourth freaking hour, and he says,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I'll explain everything to you, but I
Speaker 1: hope you'll understand what and then he and then he
Speaker 1: like hung up the phone. Yeah, he hung up, And
Speaker 1: I was like, what he must be like in trouble
Speaker 1: with the law. This is crazy and he's forwarding all
Speaker 1: my calls to voicemail. So I would really like you
Speaker 1: guys to call him so he like someone can get
Speaker 1: through to him. I think I just so you know,
Speaker 1: I think you're being super kind and giving him one
Speaker 1: last chance to bring the car back before he becomes
Speaker 1: a legit felon. Yeah, and he sounded like he was
Speaker 1: really freaked out as well, But I don't know if
Speaker 1: he was just lying to me. It was a ten
Speaker 1: second brief encounter, so I'm not sure if he's lying
Speaker 1: or not. He was in the drive through line trying
Speaker 1: to decide between a bacon sandwich and a sausage on
Speaker 1: a really bad time. Don't trust the one night stand
Speaker 1: that took your car and hasn't returned it. I know,
Speaker 1: you guys are like laughing and it's really funny and
Speaker 1: this is like a crazy situation. But to me, it's
Speaker 1: like life or death, Like this is my car. Guy
Speaker 1: just randomly hooked up with me. I don't know, like
Speaker 1: what kind of disease is this guy? He's obviously like lying.
Speaker 1: I don't know what we're doing. Yeah, maybe it really
Speaker 1: like this is really serious, all right, So mrs A. Look,
Speaker 1: I mean, there's no guarantee when we call him that
Speaker 1: he'll pick up. It's just gonna be a random phone number.
Speaker 1: Like have you had some of your other friends try
Speaker 1: and call him first, Maddie, She's tried, Maddie. Did Maddie
Speaker 1: get through to him? No? No voicemail, voicemail. And we
Speaker 1: don't know anything else about this guy, right because you
Speaker 1: just met him on a dating nap, like you know,
Speaker 1: I mean, I can for you his his dating profile
Speaker 1: location would probably be more than like if he likes
Speaker 1: to hike or not. We need all the background information
Speaker 1: we can get. So here's what we're gonna We're gonna
Speaker 1: play a song, we'll come back, and we'll call this
Speaker 1: guy for you. And if this doesn't work. I guess
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to call the authorities. Yeah, and did
Speaker 1: I mention he might have diseases men that that's a
Speaker 1: sticking point. But no, we're gonna play a song. We'll
Speaker 1: come back and we'll try and get you your second
Speaker 1: data Dato games. Yes, please, thank you, and maybe eat something.
Speaker 1: Hold on, all right, it's official. This might be the
Speaker 1: craziest first state ending we've ever heard on the show. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like being over dramatic, like he
Speaker 1: tends to do drama king, but you're right, I'm serious.
Speaker 1: Because we got an urgent email today from a listener
Speaker 1: named Marissa who had to do a phone call today.
Speaker 1: Could not wait or she's going to get the authorities
Speaker 1: involved people wi She was like, oh, do mind right away,
Speaker 1: it's an emergency, but like this is a legit emergency. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. She may need to get the authorities involved.
Speaker 1: It could happen because Marissa went out with a guy
Speaker 1: named Christopher. He ended up spending the night at her
Speaker 1: place and then the morning offered to drive out and
Speaker 1: bring back some breakfast for the two of them, so
Speaker 1: she let him borrow her car to go do that,
Speaker 1: and then Christopher never brought it back. In the last
Speaker 1: twenty four hours, She's called and texted him a bunch
Speaker 1: of times, and he's only picked up once and quickly
Speaker 1: said he couldn't really talk, but he'll explain later, and
Speaker 1: then hung up. So now Marissa's depending on us to
Speaker 1: get a hold of him and figure out what the
Speaker 1: hell's going on, or she'll have no choice. What's called
Speaker 1: the authorities, right, Marissa, Yes, I don't know why you're
Speaker 1: waiting so like you've been having me on the waiting line,
Speaker 1: like I'm freaking out. Only here, it's just what we do.
Speaker 1: We have to play a song in between the first
Speaker 1: and second part. It's just the radio business. And honestly,
Speaker 1: like at this point a couple of minutes isn't probably
Speaker 1: going to make a big difference to me. It's like days.
Speaker 1: I know, I know it is. I dated a guy
Speaker 1: who was in for grand theft auto for a while too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding, I did. I really want to get
Speaker 1: to the phone call, But first, Marissa, before we do that,
Speaker 1: I just need to ask if he answers because he
Speaker 1: might just ignore us too. Is there any other details
Speaker 1: about the actual date that I could bring up to him.
Speaker 1: I just might need to ease into it. That's all
Speaker 1: I'm saying before I started accusing him of things. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: whatever you're doing, just get my car back. That's my
Speaker 1: one mission right now. Here we go, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: the phone number. Let's see if he answers all right, Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: your call has been forwarded to an automatic voice message
Speaker 1: to Okay, he sent us straight to voicemail on that one.
Speaker 1: I figured that was gonna happen. He's not answering anybody's call.
Speaker 1: Why would you answer someone's cause if you just stole
Speaker 1: a car and I got to pick up an unknown number. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: we have another line. Let's try a different line here.
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? Is this Christopher? Yeah? Who's this Christopher? Okay,
Speaker 1: don't hang up all right. My name's Jeffrey from the
Speaker 1: radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. I really
Speaker 1: need to talk with you. Okay, you're in a lot
Speaker 1: of trouble, but that is not why you started. Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: doing this is important. I need you to not hang up. Christopher.
Speaker 1: What's going on here? We're doing something called a second
Speaker 1: date update because someone's trying to get in touch with
Speaker 1: you and you're ignoring them. Oh yeah, if this is Massa,
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with it. Okay, wait wait wait wait, hold on, man, Christopher,
Speaker 1: dealing with what? What are you dealing with on a squeeze?
Speaker 1: None of your business? And I talked to her when
Speaker 1: I'm ready. I can't talk to right now because I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not ready for it. Okay, well hold on, when
Speaker 1: I'm ready, I will just relax, Christopher. Okay, we're like
Speaker 1: your last chance right now before it goes out statewide
Speaker 1: that you're on some wanted list. Man. And I'm not exaggerating.
Speaker 1: We don't want that to happen. I mean, I can
Speaker 1: see why she's concerned. All right. It's not like I'm
Speaker 1: not I'm not blind here. I It's just I'm screwed. Honestly.
Speaker 1: She thinks I sold her car and it's not what happened. Well,
Speaker 1: you took it and didn't return it, and provide an
Speaker 1: explanation for why. I understand why she see this guy.
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm worried about, because she thinks that
Speaker 1: I took it, but it's not what happened. Just tell
Speaker 1: don't hold the cops. I don't want to be a
Speaker 1: skeptic here, But if a guy who stole a car
Speaker 1: and doesn't bring it back tells me not to call
Speaker 1: the cops, maybe I shouldn't trust him. Yeah, no, definitely
Speaker 1: trust him. Look, dude, you're gonna have some more here,
Speaker 1: because Marissa's freaking out just telling it when to get
Speaker 1: breakfast sandwiches, and I went to two different places. They
Speaker 1: were both closed. The car runs out of gas, so
Speaker 1: I went on. I walked to get gas, and I
Speaker 1: come back right and the car has been told. Oh
Speaker 1: so now I've tracked down where the car is and
Speaker 1: they want two hundred and fifty dollars to get the
Speaker 1: car out. But how long did it take you to
Speaker 1: go get gas? Like a tope situation, isn't I don't
Speaker 1: work for the police. I don't know. So the car's impounded.
Speaker 1: It's an impound. Car has impounded, right, I need two
Speaker 1: hundred fifty bucks to get it out. I don't have
Speaker 1: that kind of money right now. I'm talking to a
Speaker 1: guy today, so I'm gonna probably work it out with him,
Speaker 1: and I'll have the money and I can get to
Speaker 1: the car back. I was just hoping to get it
Speaker 1: to it right away. I don't want her to think
Speaker 1: that I took it. I'm doing my best. So do
Speaker 1: you believe him? I don't know. Do you believe it?
Speaker 1: I believe that men like to try and fix things
Speaker 1: without telling anybody what they're doing and then inevitably make
Speaker 1: it worse. You just need to talk to her, man, Yeah, seriously,
Speaker 1: this would have been so much better if you had
Speaker 1: just told Marissa upfront, like, hey, I had a problem
Speaker 1: and ran out of gas. Why are you rupturing you?
Speaker 1: I'm not lecturing you. I'm telling you. It's a good
Speaker 1: idea to tell the girl whose car you're borrowing that
Speaker 1: there's problems with the car. And it's also a good
Speaker 1: idea to drive twenty miles to go get a practice, which,
Speaker 1: for sakes, maybe she should go hook up with her
Speaker 1: and then steal her car. That's what you can do this, okay? Well,
Speaker 1: the good news, as soon as I get the car back,
Speaker 1: you can steal it and date her, all right. The
Speaker 1: good news is, even if you're not willing to tell
Speaker 1: her directly, you've kind of told her indirectly because I
Speaker 1: need to let you know. She's been on the other
Speaker 1: line listening this entire time. Dating. Are you kidding me. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding you. She needed to hear this. Christophers there,
Speaker 1: I've been trying to reach you. You haven't been picking
Speaker 1: up your phone. This is crazy, I know, Marisa. I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry. I'm trying to fix the situation. I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk too. I've fixed it, yes, But why
Speaker 1: didn't you just tell me? You just tell me it's fine,
Speaker 1: Like I would have accepted that. This is crazy, that
Speaker 1: you're keeping everything secret, right, it makes me really, I
Speaker 1: just want to feel really stupid, like you ran out
Speaker 1: of gas. I don't know, you know, it's kind of
Speaker 1: boot on it. It's just it's awful. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: need to get to work, like I need to get
Speaker 1: my car back. Yeah, I'm so sorry. I feel terrible
Speaker 1: about all this. But I mean we did have a
Speaker 1: really fun time though, right, I mean that was some
Speaker 1: fun bad dancing that we did, right, Yes, until this. Look,
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to whiten the mood. It's a situation
Speaker 1: I don't have any control over and can still get
Speaker 1: you that sandwich dollars. Right, you would have lightened my
Speaker 1: mood if he told me right away. That would have
Speaker 1: been great and I would have been knowing what's going
Speaker 1: on and be able to get my car, be able
Speaker 1: to eat you. I could uber and get there before
Speaker 1: they told my car. Like, I really wish you contacted me.
Speaker 1: I wish you answered the phone. I need to know.
Speaker 1: I wish you. I wish you'd put gas in the car. Oh,
Speaker 1: I was just getting a lot of pointing fingers and
Speaker 1: this is not productive. I wish we never met. Dude, Christopher,
Speaker 1: what's your plan with the car? How are you getting money?
Speaker 1: I told you I would have talked to a guy
Speaker 1: later today, and we're going to work this all out.
Speaker 1: But on the off chance that done work, maybe we
Speaker 1: could have like a backup plan that we figure out. Now,
Speaker 1: what's the backup plan? I mean I feel responsible for
Speaker 1: what happened, So I mean I could at least pay
Speaker 1: for half. If you want to vend on me one
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars right, what we'll hold up? You
Speaker 1: want her to send you money and just trust that
Speaker 1: the car is an impound and that your story is legit,
Speaker 1: because there's still in that chance that you stole this
Speaker 1: thing and that you're like on the lamb or something.
Speaker 1: I don't know the money, I will okay, would I
Speaker 1: be talking about this on the radio if I hold
Speaker 1: the car. I mean, I don't know. I'm inniscent here.
Speaker 1: I just I just need enough money to get the
Speaker 1: car to impound. I guess I have about one hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you want to chip in, that's fine,
Speaker 1: or you know you can even nd hurt your car
Speaker 1: and telling I get the car. We're gonna wait, Marissa,
Speaker 1: are you Marissa? Are you buying any of this? Do
Speaker 1: you trust you? What? I will give you the one
Speaker 1: fifty under one condition. What's that that you have my
Speaker 1: car back at my apartment within two hours. I can
Speaker 1: do that. I can do that, Marissa. This guy still
Speaker 1: has your car and you're actually gonna send him more money. Look,
Speaker 1: I'll have it there in a couple of hours. I
Speaker 1: know exactly where it is the last time. It's not
Speaker 1: going to be a problem. I trust you, but you
Speaker 1: better be here. Okay. Oh, once the Venmo payment goes through.
Speaker 1: After that happens, then Christopher, we would like to send
Speaker 1: you and Marissa out on a second date and we'll
Speaker 1: pay for it. Oh, this is romance. Let's talk here. Okay,
Speaker 1: he minors, great, two hours, that sounds great. Is that
Speaker 1: what you said? Yeah, yeah, I had a great time.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Now I believe him. He's like, sure, No, no, Marissa,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be your fault at this point. Okay,
Speaker 1: when your car never returns, you're only gonna have yourself
Speaker 1: to blame. Like you seriously think that he's not going
Speaker 1: to come back and give me my car, Like no,
Speaker 1: he sounds to me, no, no, no, you guys are
Speaker 1: all thinking with your hearts. You need to be thinking
Speaker 1: with your brains. I don't know what you're doing. You're
Speaker 1: gonna get robbed even greater. Like you guys are so cynical. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I would have hung off if I stole the car,
Speaker 1: but I'm still here talking about it. Yeah yeah, I
Speaker 1: just need the money and then I'll get the far
Speaker 1: out because you saw one to take the money. The
Speaker 1: only way to truly test this, Marissa, is to send
Speaker 1: him the full two hundred and fifty dollars and see
Speaker 1: if he does the right thing. If you're serious, I'll
Speaker 1: do it. No, you're welcome. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: That was a second eight from a few months back.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. And when we were done, there was
Speaker 1: a lot of questions left unanswered. Yeah, normally we want
Speaker 1: to know if they get together again. I don't know
Speaker 1: if she got her card back. A lot of people
Speaker 1: have been wondering. That's why we've reached out in today.
Speaker 1: Marissa and Christopher are both back on with us. Welcome
Speaker 1: back you guys. Hi. Okay, it sounds like you're on
Speaker 1: friendly terms, which is a good sign. Now they were
Speaker 1: just being nice to me, bro. I have that effect
Speaker 1: on people, do you. Yeah, taken charge into me the
Speaker 1: worst over here. It's a slow process. But so Christopher,
Speaker 1: everybody wants to know were you able to get Marissa's
Speaker 1: car back for her or did she have to pay
Speaker 1: for it? She did get her car back, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say that right away. Did she get it back or
Speaker 1: did you get it back for I had to get
Speaker 1: it back for Honestly, I didn't have the money to
Speaker 1: get it out, and I had to pon my watch.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, wow, Okay, you pawned your watch to
Speaker 1: raise the money to get it out. It was the
Speaker 1: right thing to do. That's what I like. I had
Speaker 1: to do that for her. You know. Oh wow, you
Speaker 1: are a night in shining. I know, I really am. Wow. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: So I mean what happened after that? So, Marissa, you
Speaker 1: got your car back? And I did. He told me
Speaker 1: that he was sorry and that he pointed his watch
Speaker 1: to get it back for me, and I just felt that.
Speaker 1: So it's like, let me entertain this date. You guys,
Speaker 1: you went on another Are you went on a pity
Speaker 1: date with him? Yeah? Christopher's like I felt that for him.
Speaker 1: Well that's amazing. How did date number two? Goodrove? It
Speaker 1: actually wentn't surprisingly well. But this last part is gonna
Speaker 1: get you guys. So I walk after this car and
Speaker 1: it's not there. What it is? A joke? Is this
Speaker 1: you're pulling a joke? You had like one of your
Speaker 1: guy friends toe it or something. No, no, no, I
Speaker 1: parked too close to a fire, eyedrate, it was insane.
Speaker 1: We went to the same toeyard. Oh my god, you're
Speaker 1: back again. But it's our toeyard. That's the thing. What
Speaker 1: did you call this time to get your car back? So?
Speaker 1: Where are you guys? Now? Have you gone out on
Speaker 1: more dates? We're still dating somehow? Like how did you
Speaker 1: meet him while he stole my car? Guys? Know, if
Speaker 1: you get married, you have to get married in that Toeyard,
Speaker 1: Now that's a given. Well wow, congratulations though you guys,
Speaker 1: that's an amazing story. Please keep us updated on what
Speaker 1: happens next in your weird relationship because we want to know.
Speaker 1: If you guys know, we have a ruled now we
Speaker 1: only kick ubers Okay, yeah, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.