WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE Podcast: Car-Jacked

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<v Speaker 1>you've almost certainly heard us do a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, one of the main things we do

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<v Speaker 1>where we try to help a listener reconnect and get

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<v Speaker 1>clarity after they've been ghosted following a bad date. And

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<v Speaker 1>I say we try because honestly, a lot of them

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<v Speaker 1>end up not working out. Yeah, And I'm not I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna blame anybody for that because it maybe Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>because like if we're talking to a guy who even

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<v Speaker 1>has a whiff of money on it, she just starts

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<v Speaker 1>batting her eyes asking for his number. How did they

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<v Speaker 1>hear that through the phone? Even it's weird, it's amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>I just know. And then she starts undermining the other

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<v Speaker 1>woman on the call. IM I know, I'm kidding. Bad

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<v Speaker 1>influence over in that late this corner, but the Richmond

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<v Speaker 1>every once in a while, we actually do a good job,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll get two people to agree to go out,

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<v Speaker 1>and we want to know what happened next. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we created second date update updates. I love

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<v Speaker 1>these because I feel like we're really invested in people's

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<v Speaker 1>relationships by the time we're off the phone without Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so this gives us an opportunity to check in a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks or maybe a few months after their

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<v Speaker 1>original call, and we're doing one today. Might remember this

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<v Speaker 1>from a while back. It featured a lost car and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>weird adventure following. We're going to play the date. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people wanted to know what's happened after this,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're going to play the first two parts and

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<v Speaker 1>then we're gonna have the couple back on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right afterwards to let us know what's up. It's your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update update right now, Second date Update. We

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<v Speaker 1>got an urgent email for a second date update from

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners who says they need our help immediately. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>okay today, And we actually had a different call scheduled

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<v Speaker 1>with another listener before this, but we had to move

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<v Speaker 1>them back to tomorrow because this one can't wait a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got Marissa on the phone. Apparently she went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date last night, and now if we can't

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of the guy, she says she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to get the authorities involved. What were the right people

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<v Speaker 1>that come to Marissa? Are you okay? Are you in danger? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not in danger, but I'm really kissed off and

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<v Speaker 1>angry because this should not have happened. And I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to call the cop. Oh okay, it's a good instinct

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<v Speaker 1>to always call us for any emergency before you call

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<v Speaker 1>the police. Well, we'll get to it in just a second,

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<v Speaker 1>but first, tell us what's the name of the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you're trying to get in touch with? Christopher? I

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<v Speaker 1>met him on this app. Okay, Okay, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>all need to take a deep breath, because like there

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<v Speaker 1>is some anger coming out in those words. I've even

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<v Speaker 1>said anything bad, Like tell us more about Christopher er Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I met him on this dating app, and I always

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<v Speaker 1>crossed my friends with everybody I date on these apps

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<v Speaker 1>through my roommate Maddie, So I told her about this

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<v Speaker 1>guy and and she was like, yeah, it looks great.

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<v Speaker 1>You should definitely go ahead. H That's how they always

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<v Speaker 1>get you, don't they They always get you that way,

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<v Speaker 1>looking all nice and respectable. Yeah, and so I go

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<v Speaker 1>on the state right, and it's fantastic. I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't great time. I've never had this much fun ever.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not what I was expecting. So what did

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<v Speaker 1>you and Christopher do? We went to this bar and

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<v Speaker 1>then after we went to a dance club and it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was really awesome. So then we went to

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<v Speaker 1>my place obviously because we were all like feeling it.

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<v Speaker 1>We hooked up and then we woke up and we

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<v Speaker 1>were both so hung over. But he was like, let

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<v Speaker 1>me get you breakfast, and I was like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a dream come true. Yes, yeah, okay, wait wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on was this this morning? It was this yesterday morning?

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<v Speaker 1>This was yesterday morning, Okay. So he was like, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get breakfast and can I use your car because he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have his car because we uber at home. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And so he left and then hours passed and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>texting him and nothing, nothing, nothing for like three hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he stole your wait he still has your car? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>And he never came back. Oh my god, so you

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<v Speaker 1>still haven't had breakfast. Yet not the point. Not the

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<v Speaker 1>point right now, we don't even care about this guy anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>You need your car back and get this. He picked

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<v Speaker 1>up after like the fourth freaking hour, and he says,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I'll explain everything to you, but I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you'll understand what and then he and then he

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<v Speaker 1>like hung up the phone. Yeah, he hung up, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what he must be like in trouble

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<v Speaker 1>with the law. This is crazy and he's forwarding all

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<v Speaker 1>my calls to voicemail. So I would really like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to call him so he like someone can get

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<v Speaker 1>through to him. I think I just so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're being super kind and giving him one

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<v Speaker 1>last chance to bring the car back before he becomes

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<v Speaker 1>a legit felon. Yeah, and he sounded like he was

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<v Speaker 1>really freaked out as well, But I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>he was just lying to me. It was a ten

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<v Speaker 1>second brief encounter, so I'm not sure if he's lying

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<v Speaker 1>or not. He was in the drive through line trying

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<v Speaker 1>to decide between a bacon sandwich and a sausage on

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<v Speaker 1>a really bad time. Don't trust the one night stand

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<v Speaker 1>that took your car and hasn't returned it. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are like laughing and it's really funny and

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<v Speaker 1>this is like a crazy situation. But to me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like life or death, Like this is my car. Guy

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<v Speaker 1>just randomly hooked up with me. I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of disease is this guy? He's obviously like lying.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what we're doing. Yeah, maybe it really

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<v Speaker 1>like this is really serious, all right, So mrs A. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's no guarantee when we call him that

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<v Speaker 1>he'll pick up. It's just gonna be a random phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>Like have you had some of your other friends try

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<v Speaker 1>and call him first, Maddie, She's tried, Maddie. Did Maddie

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<v Speaker 1>get through to him? No? No voicemail, voicemail. And we

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<v Speaker 1>don't know anything else about this guy, right because you

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<v Speaker 1>just met him on a dating nap, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I can for you his his dating profile

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<v Speaker 1>location would probably be more than like if he likes

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<v Speaker 1>to hike or not. We need all the background information

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<v Speaker 1>we can get. So here's what we're gonna We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, we'll come back, and we'll call this

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<v Speaker 1>guy for you. And if this doesn't work. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to call the authorities. Yeah, and did

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<v Speaker 1>I mention he might have diseases men that that's a

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<v Speaker 1>sticking point. But no, we're gonna play a song. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back and we'll try and get you your second

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<v Speaker 1>data Dato games. Yes, please, thank you, and maybe eat something.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, all right, it's official. This might be the

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<v Speaker 1>craziest first state ending we've ever heard on the show. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it sounds like being over dramatic, like he

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<v Speaker 1>tends to do drama king, but you're right, I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we got an urgent email today from a listener

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<v Speaker 1>named Marissa who had to do a phone call today.

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<v Speaker 1>Could not wait or she's going to get the authorities

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<v Speaker 1>involved people wi She was like, oh, do mind right away,

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<v Speaker 1>it's an emergency, but like this is a legit emergency. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. She may need to get the authorities involved.

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<v Speaker 1>It could happen because Marissa went out with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Christopher. He ended up spending the night at her

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<v Speaker 1>place and then the morning offered to drive out and

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<v Speaker 1>bring back some breakfast for the two of them, so

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<v Speaker 1>she let him borrow her car to go do that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Christopher never brought it back. In the last

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours, She's called and texted him a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of times, and he's only picked up once and quickly

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<v Speaker 1>said he couldn't really talk, but he'll explain later, and

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<v Speaker 1>then hung up. So now Marissa's depending on us to

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of him and figure out what the

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<v Speaker 1>hell's going on, or she'll have no choice. What's called

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<v Speaker 1>the authorities, right, Marissa, Yes, I don't know why you're

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<v Speaker 1>waiting so like you've been having me on the waiting line,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm freaking out. Only here, it's just what we do.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to play a song in between the first

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<v Speaker 1>and second part. It's just the radio business. And honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like at this point a couple of minutes isn't probably

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<v Speaker 1>going to make a big difference to me. It's like days.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know it is. I dated a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who was in for grand theft auto for a while too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not kidding, I did. I really want to get

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<v Speaker 1>to the phone call, But first, Marissa, before we do that,

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to ask if he answers because he

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<v Speaker 1>might just ignore us too. Is there any other details

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<v Speaker 1>about the actual date that I could bring up to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just might need to ease into it. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying before I started accusing him of things. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you're doing, just get my car back. That's my

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<v Speaker 1>one mission right now. Here we go, I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>the phone number. Let's see if he answers all right, Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>your call has been forwarded to an automatic voice message

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<v Speaker 1>to Okay, he sent us straight to voicemail on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>I figured that was gonna happen. He's not answering anybody's call.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you answer someone's cause if you just stole

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<v Speaker 1>a car and I got to pick up an unknown number. Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we have another line. Let's try a different line here.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hey? Is this Christopher? Yeah? Who's this Christopher? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>don't hang up all right. My name's Jeffrey from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. I really

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk with you. Okay, you're in a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of trouble, but that is not why you started. Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>doing this is important. I need you to not hang up. Christopher.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on here? We're doing something called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update because someone's trying to get in touch with

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<v Speaker 1>you and you're ignoring them. Oh yeah, if this is Massa,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dealing with it. Okay, wait wait wait wait, hold on, man, Christopher,

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with what? What are you dealing with on a squeeze?

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<v Speaker 1>None of your business? And I talked to her when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. I can't talk to right now because I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not ready for it. Okay, well hold on, when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready, I will just relax, Christopher. Okay, we're like

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<v Speaker 1>your last chance right now before it goes out statewide

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<v Speaker 1>that you're on some wanted list. Man. And I'm not exaggerating.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't want that to happen. I mean, I can

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<v Speaker 1>see why she's concerned. All right. It's not like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm not blind here. I It's just I'm screwed. Honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>She thinks I sold her car and it's not what happened. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you took it and didn't return it, and provide an

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<v Speaker 1>explanation for why. I understand why she see this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I'm worried about, because she thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>I took it, but it's not what happened. Just tell

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<v Speaker 1>don't hold the cops. I don't want to be a

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<v Speaker 1>skeptic here, But if a guy who stole a car

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<v Speaker 1>and doesn't bring it back tells me not to call

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<v Speaker 1>the cops, maybe I shouldn't trust him. Yeah, no, definitely

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<v Speaker 1>trust him. Look, dude, you're gonna have some more here,

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<v Speaker 1>because Marissa's freaking out just telling it when to get

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast sandwiches, and I went to two different places. They

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<v Speaker 1>were both closed. The car runs out of gas, so

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<v Speaker 1>I went on. I walked to get gas, and I

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<v Speaker 1>come back right and the car has been told. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so now I've tracked down where the car is and

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<v Speaker 1>they want two hundred and fifty dollars to get the

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<v Speaker 1>car out. But how long did it take you to

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<v Speaker 1>go get gas? Like a tope situation, isn't I don't

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<v Speaker 1>work for the police. I don't know. So the car's impounded.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an impound. Car has impounded, right, I need two

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<v Speaker 1>hundred fifty bucks to get it out. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of money right now. I'm talking to a

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<v Speaker 1>guy today, so I'm gonna probably work it out with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll have the money and I can get to

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<v Speaker 1>the car back. I was just hoping to get it

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<v Speaker 1>to it right away. I don't want her to think

0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.480
<v Speaker 1>that I took it. I'm doing my best. So do

0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:44.920
<v Speaker 1>you believe him? I don't know. Do you believe it?

0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.880
<v Speaker 1>I believe that men like to try and fix things

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<v Speaker 1>without telling anybody what they're doing and then inevitably make

0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:54.000
<v Speaker 1>it worse. You just need to talk to her, man, Yeah, seriously,

0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:55.360
<v Speaker 1>this would have been so much better if you had

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<v Speaker 1>just told Marissa upfront, like, hey, I had a problem

0:11:58.160 --> 0:11:59.920
<v Speaker 1>and ran out of gas. Why are you rupturing you?

0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm not lecturing you. I'm telling you. It's a good

0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.000
<v Speaker 1>idea to tell the girl whose car you're borrowing that

0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:07.920
<v Speaker 1>there's problems with the car. And it's also a good

0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:10.720
<v Speaker 1>idea to drive twenty miles to go get a practice, which,

0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:12.960
<v Speaker 1>for sakes, maybe she should go hook up with her

0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:15.760
<v Speaker 1>and then steal her car. That's what you can do this, okay? Well,

0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:18.079
<v Speaker 1>the good news, as soon as I get the car back,

0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:20.559
<v Speaker 1>you can steal it and date her, all right. The

0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:23.520
<v Speaker 1>good news is, even if you're not willing to tell

0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:26.920
<v Speaker 1>her directly, you've kind of told her indirectly because I

0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:28.280
<v Speaker 1>need to let you know. She's been on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening this entire time. Dating. Are you kidding me. No,

0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not kidding you. She needed to hear this. Christophers there,

0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.240
<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to reach you. You haven't been picking

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<v Speaker 1>up your phone. This is crazy, I know, Marisa. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry. I'm trying to fix the situation. I don't

0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:45.839
<v Speaker 1>want to talk too. I've fixed it, yes, But why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you just tell me? You just tell me it's fine,

0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:49.800
<v Speaker 1>Like I would have accepted that. This is crazy, that

0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:52.240
<v Speaker 1>you're keeping everything secret, right, it makes me really, I

0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.040
<v Speaker 1>just want to feel really stupid, like you ran out

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<v Speaker 1>of gas. I don't know, you know, it's kind of

0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:59.360
<v Speaker 1>boot on it. It's just it's awful. Yeah, but I

0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:00.880
<v Speaker 1>need to get to work, like I need to get

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<v Speaker 1>my car back. Yeah, I'm so sorry. I feel terrible

0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.000
<v Speaker 1>about all this. But I mean we did have a

0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:09.079
<v Speaker 1>really fun time though, right, I mean that was some

0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:13.720
<v Speaker 1>fun bad dancing that we did, right, Yes, until this. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to whiten the mood. It's a situation

0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:18.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't have any control over and can still get

0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:24.840
<v Speaker 1>you that sandwich dollars. Right, you would have lightened my

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<v Speaker 1>mood if he told me right away. That would have

0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:28.200
<v Speaker 1>been great and I would have been knowing what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on and be able to get my car, be able

0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:31.880
<v Speaker 1>to eat you. I could uber and get there before

0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:34.920
<v Speaker 1>they told my car. Like, I really wish you contacted me.

0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I wish you answered the phone. I need to know.

0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:41.480
<v Speaker 1>I wish you. I wish you'd put gas in the car. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just getting a lot of pointing fingers and

0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:52.360
<v Speaker 1>this is not productive. I wish we never met. Dude, Christopher,

0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:54.720
<v Speaker 1>what's your plan with the car? How are you getting money?

0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I told you I would have talked to a guy

0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:58.280
<v Speaker 1>later today, and we're going to work this all out.

0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:01.040
<v Speaker 1>But on the off chance that done work, maybe we

0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:03.160
<v Speaker 1>could have like a backup plan that we figure out. Now,

0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:07.360
<v Speaker 1>what's the backup plan? I mean I feel responsible for

0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:09.200
<v Speaker 1>what happened, So I mean I could at least pay

0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.640
<v Speaker 1>for half. If you want to vend on me one

0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:15.200
<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty dollars right, what we'll hold up? You

0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:17.640
<v Speaker 1>want her to send you money and just trust that

0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:20.920
<v Speaker 1>the car is an impound and that your story is legit,

0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:23.400
<v Speaker 1>because there's still in that chance that you stole this

0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:26.040
<v Speaker 1>thing and that you're like on the lamb or something.

0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know the money, I will okay, would I

0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.520
<v Speaker 1>be talking about this on the radio if I hold

0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:33.200
<v Speaker 1>the car. I mean, I don't know. I'm inniscent here.

0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I just I just need enough money to get the

0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:37.320
<v Speaker 1>car to impound. I guess I have about one hundred dollars.

0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you want to chip in, that's fine,

0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:41.280
<v Speaker 1>or you know you can even nd hurt your car

0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:44.960
<v Speaker 1>and telling I get the car. We're gonna wait, Marissa,

0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:47.400
<v Speaker 1>are you Marissa? Are you buying any of this? Do

0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:49.360
<v Speaker 1>you trust you? What? I will give you the one

0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:52.760
<v Speaker 1>fifty under one condition. What's that that you have my

0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.880
<v Speaker 1>car back at my apartment within two hours. I can

0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:58.080
<v Speaker 1>do that. I can do that, Marissa. This guy still

0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:02.200
<v Speaker 1>has your car and you're actually gonna send him more money. Look,

0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:03.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll have it there in a couple of hours. I

0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:06.960
<v Speaker 1>know exactly where it is the last time. It's not

0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:09.240
<v Speaker 1>going to be a problem. I trust you, but you

0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:17.320
<v Speaker 1>better be here. Okay. Oh, once the Venmo payment goes through.

0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:22.080
<v Speaker 1>After that happens, then Christopher, we would like to send

0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:24.320
<v Speaker 1>you and Marissa out on a second date and we'll

0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:27.480
<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Oh, this is romance. Let's talk here. Okay,

0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:30.520
<v Speaker 1>he minors, great, two hours, that sounds great. Is that

0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:32.880
<v Speaker 1>what you said? Yeah, yeah, I had a great time.

0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Now I believe him. He's like, sure, No, no, Marissa,

0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:41.720
<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be your fault at this point. Okay,

0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:44.640
<v Speaker 1>when your car never returns, you're only gonna have yourself

0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.040
<v Speaker 1>to blame. Like you seriously think that he's not going

0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.080
<v Speaker 1>to come back and give me my car, Like no,

0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:54.280
<v Speaker 1>he sounds to me, no, no, no, you guys are

0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:56.120
<v Speaker 1>all thinking with your hearts. You need to be thinking

0:15:56.200 --> 0:15:58.320
<v Speaker 1>with your brains. I don't know what you're doing. You're

0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:01.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna get robbed even greater. Like you guys are so cynical. Honestly,

0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:03.280
<v Speaker 1>I would have hung off if I stole the car,

0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:05.760
<v Speaker 1>but I'm still here talking about it. Yeah yeah, I

0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:07.400
<v Speaker 1>just need the money and then I'll get the far

0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:13.000
<v Speaker 1>out because you saw one to take the money. The

0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:15.360
<v Speaker 1>only way to truly test this, Marissa, is to send

0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:17.680
<v Speaker 1>him the full two hundred and fifty dollars and see

0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:21.360
<v Speaker 1>if he does the right thing. If you're serious, I'll

0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:26.760
<v Speaker 1>do it. No, you're welcome. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:29.040
<v Speaker 1>That was a second eight from a few months back.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. And when we were done, there was

0:16:31.840 --> 0:16:35.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot of questions left unanswered. Yeah, normally we want

0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:37.560
<v Speaker 1>to know if they get together again. I don't know

0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:39.480
<v Speaker 1>if she got her card back. A lot of people

0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:41.680
<v Speaker 1>have been wondering. That's why we've reached out in today.

0:16:41.720 --> 0:16:45.280
<v Speaker 1>Marissa and Christopher are both back on with us. Welcome

0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:49.800
<v Speaker 1>back you guys. Hi. Okay, it sounds like you're on

0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:52.040
<v Speaker 1>friendly terms, which is a good sign. Now they were

0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:54.840
<v Speaker 1>just being nice to me, bro. I have that effect

0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:59.560
<v Speaker 1>on people, do you. Yeah, taken charge into me the

0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:03.640
<v Speaker 1>worst over here. It's a slow process. But so Christopher,

0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:07.639
<v Speaker 1>everybody wants to know were you able to get Marissa's

0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:09.400
<v Speaker 1>car back for her or did she have to pay

0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:12.960
<v Speaker 1>for it? She did get her car back, I'm gonna

0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:15.280
<v Speaker 1>say that right away. Did she get it back or

0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:18.000
<v Speaker 1>did you get it back for I had to get

0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:19.800
<v Speaker 1>it back for Honestly, I didn't have the money to

0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:21.600
<v Speaker 1>get it out, and I had to pon my watch.

0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:25.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, wow, Okay, you pawned your watch to

0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:27.320
<v Speaker 1>raise the money to get it out. It was the

0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:29.640
<v Speaker 1>right thing to do. That's what I like. I had

0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:32.320
<v Speaker 1>to do that for her. You know. Oh wow, you

0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:38.640
<v Speaker 1>are a night in shining. I know, I really am. Wow. Okay, okay,

0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:41.000
<v Speaker 1>So I mean what happened after that? So, Marissa, you

0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:43.760
<v Speaker 1>got your car back? And I did. He told me

0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:45.720
<v Speaker 1>that he was sorry and that he pointed his watch

0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:48.080
<v Speaker 1>to get it back for me, and I just felt that.

0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:52.040
<v Speaker 1>So it's like, let me entertain this date. You guys,

0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:55.400
<v Speaker 1>you went on another Are you went on a pity

0:17:55.480 --> 0:18:03.280
<v Speaker 1>date with him? Yeah? Christopher's like I felt that for him.

0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Well that's amazing. How did date number two? Goodrove? It

0:18:08.840 --> 0:18:12.679
<v Speaker 1>actually wentn't surprisingly well. But this last part is gonna

0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:17.000
<v Speaker 1>get you guys. So I walk after this car and

0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:22.560
<v Speaker 1>it's not there. What it is? A joke? Is this

0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:24.360
<v Speaker 1>you're pulling a joke? You had like one of your

0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:27.600
<v Speaker 1>guy friends toe it or something. No, no, no, I

0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:33.480
<v Speaker 1>parked too close to a fire, eyedrate, it was insane.

0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:38.160
<v Speaker 1>We went to the same toeyard. Oh my god, you're

0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:43.720
<v Speaker 1>back again. But it's our toeyard. That's the thing. What

0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:47.040
<v Speaker 1>did you call this time to get your car back? So?

0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:48.879
<v Speaker 1>Where are you guys? Now? Have you gone out on

0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:55.919
<v Speaker 1>more dates? We're still dating somehow? Like how did you

0:18:55.960 --> 0:19:00.479
<v Speaker 1>meet him while he stole my car? Guys? Know, if

0:19:00.480 --> 0:19:02.320
<v Speaker 1>you get married, you have to get married in that Toeyard,

0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:09.520
<v Speaker 1>Now that's a given. Well wow, congratulations though you guys,

0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:12.840
<v Speaker 1>that's an amazing story. Please keep us updated on what

0:19:12.920 --> 0:19:16.159
<v Speaker 1>happens next in your weird relationship because we want to know.

0:19:16.240 --> 0:19:17.760
<v Speaker 1>If you guys know, we have a ruled now we

0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:25.560
<v Speaker 1>only kick ubers Okay, yeah, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.