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Speaker 1: you've almost certainly heard us do a second date update.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, one of the main things we do

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Speaker 1: I say we try because honestly, a lot of them

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Speaker 1: that's why we created second date update updates. I love

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Speaker 1: are you Marissa? Are you buying any of this? Do

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