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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. We're so excited to be back. How are

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Speaker 1: you doing today, Susan.

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Speaker 2: We're sure excited. We've got great people coming. We've got

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Speaker 2: lots to talk about. And make sure you check out

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Speaker 2: our past episodes because we've been having a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: We've answered a lot of good questions and chatting with

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Speaker 2: your Bachelor Nation fans.

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Speaker 1: Well, let me just say, we have a blast when

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Speaker 1: we don't have guests, but today we're going to have

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Speaker 1: a bigger blast because we have a super guy. I

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Speaker 1: say at firsthand knowing that from Jones season of The

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Speaker 1: Golden Bachelorette. Welcome Dan. How are you today?

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Speaker 3: Hey? Dan, guy's good to be here. Thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: It's nice to see you again.

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Speaker 1: How have you been, what's going? How's your New Year going?

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Speaker 1: How's your Valentine's Day plans? You know, give us the

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Speaker 1: scoop here.

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Speaker 3: Valentine's is that coming up?

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Speaker 2: Very years Valentine?

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Speaker 1: Chris tells what's been going on?

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Speaker 4: Oh, you know, it's it's been It's been an interesting

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Speaker 4: and crazy time. On a on a personal note, I

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Speaker 4: flew directly from the finale. What I saw YouTube, yea

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Speaker 4: and everyone else that was there. And my father had

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Speaker 4: been diagnosed with dew blastoma and he passed away.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: So I flew directly to Kansas City. My siblings and

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Speaker 4: I were there, my mother for two months, the whole time.

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Speaker 2: Sorry.

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Speaker 4: He faced it with courage and a positive attitude and

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Speaker 4: then he was ready and that made us all a peace.

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Speaker 3: So that's what I've been up to.

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Speaker 1: I have I have two friends who died from cleoblastoma.

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Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's it's a you know, it's it's a

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Speaker 1: it's not it's exactly what it is. It's a horrible,

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Speaker 1: horrible diagnosis, and it's very fast.

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Speaker 2: How old was he?

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Speaker 3: Which is a blessing, but that's what goes on.

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Speaker 4: And so yeah, he handled it courageously and thanks to

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Speaker 4: family and friends that supported us through all that time.

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Speaker 4: So time for time for life to move on though,

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Speaker 4: and Mom's doing well, and.

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Speaker 2: That's the main thing. How old was your dad? Well,

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Speaker 2: you know what, he had a great life.

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Speaker 3: And he's the first to say that too.

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Speaker 2: At eighty nine. I wouldn't mind checking out now.

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Speaker 3: Can I tell you?

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Speaker 4: He's a stoic man and wise and conservative, But he

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Speaker 4: loved all this Bachelor Nation.

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Speaker 3: It was so much fun for him. So thank you

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Speaker 3: guys for Oh I wish.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: I believe. Dan, he's listening to us today, so you know,

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Speaker 1: he's he's, he's laughing, he's you know, did he play golf?

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Speaker 3: He did? Yeah, he's up there, he's.

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Speaker 1: Up there playing the back nine sayings. I got to

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Speaker 1: take a break. I got to go listen to.

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Speaker 3: This exactly exactly. He's he's tuned in.

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Speaker 2: Well, God rest the soul, and we're glad that you

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Speaker 2: were there with him and your family.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm gott pivot, heir, because Dan, Susan I believe,

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Speaker 1: has a question for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So first and foremost, there's like these questions of

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Speaker 2: the day, and we're going to talk about things and

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Speaker 2: that's not I know, I know, And then we're going

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Speaker 2: to get the audience to know you better with lots

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Speaker 2: of questions.

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Speaker 1: We have plans.

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Speaker 2: I do have one big giant question. And when she

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Speaker 2: means we, when we met you, it seemed as though

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Speaker 2: you and Edith were getting to know each other. I

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Speaker 2: want to know. Curious minds want to know, did it

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Speaker 2: go any further? Are you guys seeing each other. Are

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Speaker 3: Well, Edith is awesome.

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Speaker 1: And I want her hair, I want her.

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Speaker 2: I wonder, but our body is beautiful. Okay, let's let's

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Speaker 3: A few questions for you.

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Speaker 1: Now wait, answer, answer an answer here told you what.

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Speaker 4: I've been up to the last two months, and I

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Speaker 1: But you told me, Dan, you told me the five

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Speaker 4: Is that happening, Uh well, everything has gotten pushed this year. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: not on a timeline. So maybe at some point this

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Speaker 1: Are you in Naples, You're in Florida.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so, Kathy, maybe we should go check out his

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Speaker 1: We have never been to Naples.

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Speaker 2: It's all over Florida, never Naples.

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Speaker 1: Is it nice?

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Speaker 3: It's beautiful. It really is.

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Speaker 4: A nice beach community, incredible restaurants, great.

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Speaker 3: Beaches, golf, golf.

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Speaker 1: Are you a golfer?

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Speaker 3: Dam I'm retired from golf, is what I like to say.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to want to golf from golf?

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Speaker 3: Right, I found other interests, you know, I still like it.

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Speaker 1: What's your biggest interest? What do you do?

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Speaker 3: What's your You know, I've been enjoying.

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Speaker 4: I live at the beach. You know, it's five hundred

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Speaker 2: Of we have to look at this.

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Speaker 4: And so I'm into nature and fishing, boating and and uh.

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Speaker 1: And can I give you one little bit of a

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Speaker 1: piece of advice here.

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Speaker 2: If you go on a dating site, don't If you.

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Speaker 1: Go on a dating site, do not take a picture

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Speaker 1: of yourself holding up a dead fish.

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Speaker 2: Is the biggest in the mirror in the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: Don't stand in the mirror with the bathroom. And for

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Speaker 1: God's sakes, keep your shirt on when you're taking pictures.

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Speaker 3: These are these are okay, this is basic common sense.

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Speaker 1: But what else what you would think?

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Speaker 2: Would think one would think, But most of them don't

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Speaker 4: Dating sites, I don't know about that, you guys. If

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Speaker 1: I wish did you to see how my eyes just

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Speaker 1: you know what.

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Speaker 2: I marry people, as you know, and I cannot tell

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Speaker 2: on dating sites. D Yeah, most of them younger of course.

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Speaker 1: Have you had success, Dan, I mean in the past

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Speaker 4: I've been on and off some of the dating apps,

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Speaker 4: you know, Yeah, and I've met some terrific women. And

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Speaker 4: for I consider those that I've dated, I'm still friends.

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Speaker 4: And you know, at this age we part reasonably.

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Speaker 2: What are we going to see?

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Speaker 4: It's easy, right, whatever reason, they didn't work out, but

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Speaker 2: So we have a quick question ahead. When a man

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Speaker 2: put down long term relationship.

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Speaker 1: What are you looking for on the profile? What do

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Speaker 1: you That's exactly what I was going to ask you, Dan.

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Speaker 1: Do you put down friendship, something casual, long term relationship?

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Speaker 1: What do you put down?

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Speaker 3: I leave that very unspecific intentionally you leave it. I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't comment because I think that depends on the

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Speaker 3: And it takes two to tango, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, And there's no checkbox saying start out slow and

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Speaker 2: see where it goes. You know, that's right. How long

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Speaker 2: have you been single?

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Speaker 4: Dan?

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Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh, I was.

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Speaker 4: I was divorced in twenty ten, so coming up on

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Speaker 4: Married, Yeah, And I've been in a couple of long

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Speaker 4: date all So I'm in one of those phases right now.

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Speaker 1: Well, you've had a lot on your plate. Dam be

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Speaker 1: kind to yourself. Behind yourself here, be good to you,

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Speaker 1: all right, Since you want to start with the question

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. What are some signs that help

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Speaker 1: How do you know, Dan, of a woman's into you

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Speaker 3: So it's y'all are confusing anyway, So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think ahead, do you think women are confusing a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's the Venus and Mars thing. Maybe

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Speaker 4: I think if they laugh at my jokes.

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Speaker 3: Sincerely, that's a I throw some bad ones out there.

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Speaker 2: Well, see if you were with me and you threw

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Speaker 2: a bad one, I'd be like, really big, No, don't

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Speaker 2: say that's a good sign. But there are there any

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Speaker 4: I think if people are asking questions genuinely, you can

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Speaker 4: if they if they want to talk mostly about themselves,

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Speaker 3: That's not really fair.

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Speaker 4: But if if they're asking questions about me and my interests,

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Speaker 1: Life, then Susan, do you remember we talked about that.

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Speaker 1: We talked about that. Susan dated a guy for ten

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Speaker 1: offload him. If a guy is asking you questions about

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Speaker 1: yourself if you're not asking him questions reciprocal the benefit

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Speaker 1: of the doubt the first phone call, like maybe he's

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Speaker 2: But by the third phone call, I knew his life story,

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Speaker 2: what he drove. He was supposed to be on Jones season.

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Speaker 1: That's Susan could even do our podcast because she was

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Speaker 1: very busy writing his biography. She had no time. Kathy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think that's I think you've got a great handle

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Speaker 1: on it. And like you said, you just haven't had

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Speaker 1: time to right now to get into but you will.

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Speaker 3: You will be.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So the next thing that we do, we we

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Speaker 1: just want to talk about your life a little bit

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Speaker 1: more than we have. So I want to know prior

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Speaker 1: That's what I wanted. Well, and I know you've had

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Speaker 2: It's amazing that you can make a friendship at this

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Speaker 1: But I will tell you particular right, yes, and we

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Speaker 1: It's never putting me wrong. So you must be a

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I am very understanding. Friends.

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Speaker 1: Take the compliment, Dan, take the complicated.

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Speaker 3: Here, Thank you compliment, Thank you Dan.

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Speaker 2: If there is a golden paradise, the question is would

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Speaker 3: Well? You two for sure?

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Speaker 1: Yes, the guy ran, the guy ran for governor last year.

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Speaker 1: That's what you have to say that damn what else?

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Speaker 2: Who seriously would you go?

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't understand blor in paradise and what

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Speaker 3: Ye would have to be you know, I'm open to anything.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Yeah, you know that's how we feel, right, I mean,

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Speaker 4: I play, I play golf, I'd swim, I did. I

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Speaker 1: Can you date ten women at once?

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Speaker 3: I can barely handle one?

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Speaker 2: Come on, are you the jealous type?

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Speaker 3: You know what? I think it's good to have a

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Means that means you care about no. No, yes, I'm

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Speaker 2: You know why.

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 2: Mean, that's not that's more of a trust thing, but

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Speaker 1: Then I'm going to kill him. Well, sorry, you didn't

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Speaker 1: make that clear. He's mine, He's mine. Susan, head over there,

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Speaker 1: So we always ask uh if you were on a

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Speaker 1: I want the answer, but I also want to know why,

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Speaker 1: aside from Susan and me, who of course will accompany

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Speaker 2: As long as you go fishing, because there's not going

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Speaker 1: And I don't really care that much about food.

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Speaker 2: We're all people at the table, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, What three guys from Jones season would you bring?

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Speaker 1: And why? I want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Right, give me a seconds.

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Speaker 1: Remember it's a political answer, Sure.

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Speaker 3: It is, Sure it is.

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Speaker 4: And if you're if you're gonna keep it to three

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Speaker 3: So you know, my boy Keith, my boy Greg, and

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Speaker 2: Tell me why, and.

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you what. He is a good hearted man,

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Speaker 4: I mean he is. I consider him a good friend.

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Speaker 3: So that's cool.

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Speaker 4: Greg is one of the smartest guys that I've met.

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Speaker 1: And he has this Gregg, the guy that I had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he lives.

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Speaker 4: He lives in Longbow Key, Uh yeah, in Salt Lake City,

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Speaker 3: So, and he was a roommate, so is Pascal. So

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Speaker 1: I think I make a good I don't even know him. Okay,

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Speaker 2: He did, I forgot to tell you that. Sis.

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Speaker 1: He said, I see somebody like who's just out there

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm full of energy. I actually prefer men who

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I love it.

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Speaker 2: Actually he's in Florida now. It was just getting to Florida.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so do you get together with all the kinds?

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to ask you, Dan, who you see Susan

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, now that I have insight to you, Kathy,

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Speaker 2: Just somebody to adore me like I adore them. I

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Speaker 1: Women are simple, Dan, they are. We all want someone

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Speaker 2: Men think we're more complex than we really are. Yeah

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Speaker 3: All right, Well I'm listening your sage with your wisdom.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So because he's so fun and full of laughs,

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Speaker 3: Have you watched him? He's like all in with.

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Speaker 1: And so wait, Susan, is that you wait? Maybe that's it?

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Speaker 2: So would it be good to be somebody just like

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Speaker 2: I think I think I need an introvert because I'm

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Speaker 4: I don't know if our cast is the right group,

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Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's great that you know that you made

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Speaker 2: And do you see the other guys from the show.

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Speaker 4: I've seen a few, yes, and we talk text, I

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Speaker 1: To say, I know who David is. He lives. He's

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Speaker 1: David was the guy from you I know who you're

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Speaker 3: I said the wrong name, but yeah, I know David.

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Speaker 4: He was only the briefly guy, a really good guy.

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Speaker 1: I can't deal with someone I mean Jackson Gregg.

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Speaker 2: We've talked.

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Speaker 1: Susan's good friends with them, but I mean that, you

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Speaker 2: I mean, I know, I know, but no, I love

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Speaker 2: It has It didn't change my life because I've always

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Speaker 2: I will, We'll go to death being best.

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Speaker 1: Friends, and well we will and we will unless we

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00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 1: fight over the same guy and then you're dead.

449
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 2: To me, I wouldn't allow it. It's I'm very simple,

450
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 2: all right.

451
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 1: Dan.

452
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,439
Speaker 2: We're so happy for you that you got to experience this.

453
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,719
Speaker 2: We're very sorry for what you had to deal with

454
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 2: and that's just part of life. But now I'm excited

455
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 2: for you to move on.

456
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 1: For you are and you know what, Dan, it will

457
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 1: you will? It's time and and it's going to happen.

458
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:01,119
Speaker 1: But so we do this thing where we read letters

459
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 1: from fans and we give advice. And because you are

460
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,400
Speaker 1: the lucky guy today, we want you to help us

461
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 1: weigh in. So I'm gonna read a question and then

462
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 1: you're gonna help give its advice.

463
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,199
Speaker 2: Okay, are you good with that? All right?

464
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 3: Please?

465
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 1: Anonymous? And some of the questions are anonymous, and we

466
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 1: don't care if they have a name. Okay, Anonymous asks, Hi, ladies,

467
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,719
Speaker 1: I could really use your help. My husband had a

468
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: heart attack about eight months ago and has been stuck

469
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 1: in a funk ever since. His health has been improving

470
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:34,239
Speaker 1: remarkably and the doctor gave him the green light to

471
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: start doing some light activities he used to dabble in. However,

472
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 1: he hasn't wanted to really do anything. He takes care

473
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: of himself and make sure to do light exercise, but

474
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 1: anything that's not doctor mandated he doesn't do. He's normally

475
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: such a fun and social guy, but he's been pretty reclusive.

476
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 1: I feel like he hasn't been able to relax. Still,

477
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 1: given all that he's been through, how can I help

478
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: him get out of this? And start feeling like I'm

479
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,360
Speaker 1: off again. We love you both and thank you in advance.

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00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 4: What says you, Dan, Well, first of all, she's she's

481
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 4: an incredible person to be come out and seek help

482
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 4: and to know that she just wants to be there

483
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 4: for her husband.

484
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 3: That's amazing. That's great. And her heart certainly in the right.

485
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 2: That goes with the territory.

486
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 3: Damn sure, yeah, and it should, but it doesn't always right.

487
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 3: So you're right, kudos to her and that.

488
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 4: And she's trying to figure out how to bring him along.

489
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

490
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 4: He just had this life changing experience and he survived.

491
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 4: Maybe he's a little in touch with his mortality so

492
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 4: he's more cautious. Listen to him, be there for him,

493
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 4: and and you know, don't don't give up on proposing

494
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 4: some light activities that would be out of.

495
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 2: I think she's scared. I think men are a little scared,

496
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: and when something like that happens, that's huge. He doesn't

497
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 2: want to die. You got to give him time and

498
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 2: like you said, be there for him and encourage him.

499
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 2: But I don't think there's a whole lot more you

500
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 2: can do. He's got to come on his own.

501
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 1: Well, and I think Dan, you had a great idea,

502
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 1: you know, saying hey, let's go for a walk, or

503
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 1: sort of slowly.

504
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 2: Easing into it. But I'm I'll be like, all right, babe,

505
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 2: the worst is over. You've got to get up.

506
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: See that's your hard suits in your heart. You have

507
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 1: to be kind. But I would say, I would say

508
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: that he probably is scared. He probably is scared, and

509
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: you have to respect that because you know these are

510
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: that's truly a life change.

511
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 2: You know it certainly is right.

512
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 4: And I can tell you from the male's perspective, at

513
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 4: least of our generation for sure. And I don't I

514
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 4: don't think this goes away in any generation. Actually, we

515
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 4: want to be the provider and the perfector of our

516
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 4: our partners or loved ones or our wives. And you know,

517
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 4: now he's questioning his abilities to do that because he's

518
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 4: in a week in state.

519
00:24:53,480 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 2: And that's understanding. You're so wise. You're watching eat it.

520
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Susan and Kathy are coming after Dan. Now, Dan,

521
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: let me tell you what's gonna happen. That's going to

522
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,199
Speaker 1: be a sound bite. Social media is gonna pick up.

523
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 1: Kathy Susan both want Dan. So get buckle up, Dan,

524
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 1: get ready.

525
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 3: Let's go. Social media is awesome? Is that?

526
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 2: Oh God?

527
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: Are you on social media?

528
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 3: You know I posted? I haven't posted in a couple

529
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 3: of months.

530
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 4: I was trying to be active and I've got my

531
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 4: my daughters and my niece has helped me mostly.

532
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 2: How many kids do you have, Dan?

533
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 3: I have two daughters, thanks?

534
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 2: And how old are they?

535
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 3: Six?

536
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 2: Do you have kids married?

537
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 3: Both married? Yes?

538
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 4: And one in Tampa, one in Orange County and uh

539
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 4: one has I have a granddaughter in Tampa and my

540
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 4: youngest daughter and her husband were waiting there there.

541
00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 3: There'll be grand kids there soon.

542
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:01,919
Speaker 2: How old is your granddaughter?

543
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 3: She's a senior in high school seventeen?

544
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Oh you need a new baby now, somebody

545
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:09,199
Speaker 2: to spoil.

546
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 1: So that's to be clear, not his own, his grand.

547
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 2: Now it's time for a bachelor Nation and all our

548
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 2: listeners to get to know Dan a little better. So

549
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 2: we have a little fun game, and we'd like to

550
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 2: do this before we have to wrap up today. These

551
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 2: are fun, easy questions. Okay, So what is what is

552
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 2: one piece of advice you wish you could give your

553
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 2: younger self?

554
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 3: Listen more.

555
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: Good good. I love that.

556
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: I would send it to myself too. Yeah, that's a

557
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: good one.

558
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 2: Okay, wow, except one time one guy, And this was

559
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,719
Speaker 2: kind of towards the end. I lost a lot of respect.

560
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: But I was trying to listen and he turned around

561
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 2: and said to me, now's your chance to listen. I said,

562
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 2: excuse me, Wow, how that was? It's okay, he's in

563
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 2: a rearview mirror. Okay, no, I get that.

564
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: I I love that piece of advice.

565
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:18,360
Speaker 2: Man.

566
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: Actually, all right, what's your favorite way to unwind after

567
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: a long day?

568
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 3: You know, I don't drink anymore, so there's no happy hour.

569
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 4: But I'm in this this place where the beaches are fantastic,

570
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 4: the sunsets are incredible, and it's all.

571
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 2: Rubbing Dan really good. Wait, Susan, Susan, how fast you

572
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 2: get on good? We can be there in no time.

573
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: I believe in there.

574
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 2: He's gone to California. I twic.

575
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: I said, we're gonna hop a plane fast before he's gone.

576
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: Someone to walk on the beach.

577
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 4: You walk on my beach a lot, and it's you know,

578
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 4: it's it's good exercise, you know, Uh, it's it's great

579
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 4: to be out in the sunshine. It's uh, you know,

580
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 4: a little bit spiritual. There's lots of nature. It's a

581
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 4: great way to unwind.

582
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 2: Do you live on the beach? I said, Wow, what

583
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: is your favorite memory that you have when you were

584
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 2: a teenager? Does something just stand at one thing?

585
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 3: Wow?

586
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 4: You know, I've had so many recent thoughts about things

587
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 4: that my dad and I have done, and we spent

588
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 4: a lot of time outdoors together, and one of his

589
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 4: passions was fishing. And I'm thinking of you and I

590
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 4: used to do these flying fishing, flying fishing trips.

591
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 2: Into flying fishing. Yeah where in Canada?

592
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 4: Northern Ontario? Where well, we we'd fly out of Red

593
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 4: Lake like Goose Lake.

594
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: And yeah, my daughter, my daughter, my sister lives in Ontario.

595
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 3: Oh you're kidding me? Where?

596
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: Well, she lived in Toronto. Now she lives in Ottawa.

597
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: But I've been pretty much all through Ottawa. I know

598
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: where you're talking. I mean Ontario. Very Yeah, it's beautiful there.

599
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 4: With my dad, I'm thinking about and fishing with him

600
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 4: and just you do more. Fishing is not all about

601
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 4: catching fish.

602
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 1: Isn't it funny? I was just going to say to you,

603
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: isn't it funny when we when we lose someone special,

604
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: we spend at least I do I should I shouldn't

605
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: put words in your mouth, but I spend a lot

606
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 1: of time when my husband died, spend a lot of

607
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: time and I still do rethinking, re living those memories

608
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: because that's how you preserve them in your heart. You

609
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: know that's that's uh so, I'm glad you get to

610
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: do that.

611
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 3: It's true, it's true. Yes, it's important.

612
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: Okay, what with the title of your autobiography be.

613
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 3: I like that question? I don't know, give me a second.

614
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: Keep it clean.

615
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 3: Dan tried the best he could.

616
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 2: That's a good one. I like that title. He tried

617
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: the best he could. I like it. I like it

618
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 2: all right. If you if you could bring back any

619
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 2: fashion trend or old slang, what would it be?

620
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: Old slang? Yeah? The gods are so many great ones

621
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 3: from from our genre.

622
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 2: My kids, I'm sorry.

623
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 3: Fashion trends, you know they're already making a comeback.

624
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 2: But bottoms are backing.

625
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, but they're doing it without any any of our input.

626
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: How about the slang banging? My kids? I still say it,

627
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, have you heard that? And my kids

628
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 2: are like, Mom, that's in Boston. I never.

629
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: I've never found that until she.

630
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 3: Told me, where did you grow up?

631
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 2: Susan outside of Philadelphia.

632
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 3: Okay, well, yeah, I grew up in Iowa and we said.

633
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: Banging there, everybody said banging.

634
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

635
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: I tried. I do the best I can. Dare Sorry,

636
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 2: is there anything you've always wanted to do but haven't

637
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 2: done it?

638
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: That was my question?

639
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sorry I jumped the guns.

640
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 3: That's these are great ones. So, man, I have done

641
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 3: so much.

642
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 4: I've been fortunate to do so many things and travel

643
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 4: extensively and all that. It would probably be U. And

644
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 4: I've had no lack of adventure either.

645
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: I mean I've I've done it all.

646
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 4: Crazy exciting things, and so I don't know if I

647
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 4: think it would be going somewhere I wanted to and

648
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 4: I want to live there for a little while, like

649
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 4: Portugal or Spain.

650
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 3: I've been to Europe.

651
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 2: I think, do you speak about the language, Dan, I.

652
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 4: Speak a little bit of Spanish just from being around it,

653
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 4: and I speak a little bit of.

654
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 2: German Mucho de Niro.

655
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 3: See.

656
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: My daughter speaks fluent span I'm not kidding. My daughter

657
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: speaks fluent Spanish. My son speaks fluent German. Okay, and

658
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: I speak in of Spanish to get by. Yeah, speak,

659
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: I wanted my kids to It was the goal of mine.

660
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: I wanted my to be bilingual. And two of my

661
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: kids are I mean truly bilingual and uh. And then

662
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: my third child, who I adore, the mother of my

663
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: oldest granddaughter. He's really good most of the time with English.

664
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,479
Speaker 1: So wait, I have a question if you if you found, like,

665
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: if you found the person that you want to be with,

666
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: what what would your life look like? What? What would

667
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: what would you want to do with that person that

668
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: you're not doing? Now?

669
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 3: Okay, based on what you've just instructed me, I should

670
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 3: listen and love them completely.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know what else a valuable guy who

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Speaker 1: listens and takes direction? Well, check for you, dad, check

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Speaker 1: check check?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Would you travel?

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00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 2: Though?

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00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 1: Like do you like to cook? Would you cook together?

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Speaker 1: What I'm getting that is the we can all do

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00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: those things by ourselves, but what things would you like

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00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 1: to do with someone else?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 4: And at this stage of life, you know, everybody says travel.

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Speaker 4: And I've been fortunate to travel a lot with my

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Speaker 4: business and personally and all that. But there's I mean,

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Speaker 4: the world's a big place. Haven't been to a lot

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Speaker 4: of places. So travel is always fun. It's it's a

687
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Speaker 4: great way to get to know your partner. Yeah, I agree,

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Speaker 4: It just is because you're.

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Speaker 3: Gonna have challenges. You're going to have highs.

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Speaker 1: And lows and yeah, you're right, you're gonna you're gonna

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Speaker 1: be lugging around those heavy suitcases for the woman who

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Speaker 1: can't pack a dussle. Yes, go for three weeks. Wait,

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Speaker 1: one more question. Where do you want to go? Since

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Speaker 1: you've traveled a lot, where's the first place?

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Speaker 3: Well, I haven't been to Portugal. I've been to Spain,

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Speaker 3: but I want to those parts of.

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Speaker 1: Spa time my left.

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Speaker 2: I want to go to Portugal. I've been to Spain twice,

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Speaker 2: but only a little bit. And my next trip I

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Speaker 2: wanted to do south to Spain and end up in Portugal.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, Page I let's go.

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Speaker 2: Let's plan a trip three of us, Susan.

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00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: That is another SoundBite that's not going to play well.

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Speaker 1: Will you think about I'm really sorry they're going to

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Speaker 1: have you married.

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Speaker 2: What is the worst piece of advice you've ever been given?

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00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: That's the last question I promised.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, oh no, I've got another one for him.

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Speaker 3: Well, it would it would have to be with an

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00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 3: investment of some kind.

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Speaker 2: Of Okay, okay, fair enough, fair enough, Okay, Kathy.

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Speaker 1: I'm lost now, Okay, what you know. I I'm just

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00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: going to tell you straight up. We've had a couple

714
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: of episodes and we've talked about New Year's goals and resolutions.

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00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: I'm not a big January one. I mean, we're well

716
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: into this February now, but I'm not a big goal

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00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 1: uh person in that one one moment January one, twenty

718
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: twenty five, because I try to make myself a better

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00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: person every day of the year. Having said that, what

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00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: are your goals for twenty twenty five? Not like a resolution?

721
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: Just what do you how do you see you?

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Speaker 2: What do you want to twenty five? Yeah? How do

723
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 2: you see it shaping up?

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Speaker 3: It's that's a great question. I'm a lot like you,

725
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 3: is that I don't. I don't do you lose, Susan.

726
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 3: I try to live in the moment, and it's hard

727
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Speaker 3: to do.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you have to make plans, and obviously, if

729
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 4: you live life, those plans are going to get thrown

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Speaker 4: out the window. Case of point, my last couple of months,

731
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Speaker 4: in my next couple of months too, I'm going to

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Speaker 4: be going back to kat Kansas City, a little bit

733
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 4: here and there, and so those kind of things. But overall,

734
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 4: self improvement is a goal. I want to relocate and

735
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 4: that's that's a good But that was a goal for

736
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 4: twenty four Just because it didn't happen.

737
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 3: It doesn't mean still life late.

738
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Speaker 4: Ye yeah, looking ahead towards that and just try to

739
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 4: become a better person, more evolved and healthier. And you know,

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00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 4: I feel like I need to be a little more

741
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 4: settled till I find my person too, because right now,

742
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Speaker 4: you know, if I were to meet someone in Florida

743
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 4: or California or in.

744
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 3: Between, it's where are you going to be?

745
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 4: And so I know where I want to be, and

746
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 4: that's family related to my my daughter.

747
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 2: Oh so wait, so you found have one in Florida.

748
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 2: You still have a daughter in Florida?

749
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 3: Yes, I do.

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Speaker 2: You're leaving one to be with another, Yes, and I've

751
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:29,720
Speaker 2: been I've.

752
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 3: Been fortunate to be close to her and my.

753
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Speaker 2: Grand about half and half.

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00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 3: Well, you know that'd be nice, Yeah, nice.

755
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 2: I would leave the summers in Florida goes.

756
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: To you and you don't want to relocate, You would

757
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: not relocate if you found the right person, like chalk.

758
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: You know, he's they're they're probably going to end up

759
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,240
Speaker 1: on the East Coast somewhere.

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00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not a guy that's wanting to really Okay,

762
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: you're going to move to California. You're gonna find grow

763
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:01,240
Speaker 1: in California.

764
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:02,359
Speaker 3: Let's put it this way.

765
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 4: It's I need to be settled so I can have

766
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 4: that flexibility.

767
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 3: I guess. I want to be near.

768
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 4: I want to be a part of their family as

769
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 4: it begins. I mean there's the two of them, and

770
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 4: as you know, they're going to have grandkids.

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00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,240
Speaker 1: You're talking about your you're talking about your child with California, Yes,

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00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: and so I want.

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00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 3: To be there for those things. It doesn't mean I

774
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 3: can't spend half the year somewhere else or more travel

775
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 3: and do all those things. Just where that's going to

776
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 3: be home base, because I do want to be integrated

777
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 3: with them. It's too far. It's too far.

778
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: And who's to say the person you meet wouldn't want

779
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 2: to join you in both places. I mean that's right,

780
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 2: too right, definitely doable.

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00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: Right, Well, you go ahead, No, you go ahead, go ahead.

782
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 4: Keeping an open mind through all this at our age,

783
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 4: because everybody has the same circumstances.

784
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 3: I mean, they just do.

785
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: I have to say, we've interviewed a lot of the

786
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: guys from Jones season, and each one of you we

787
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: didn't know you. You know, people think that everybody knows

788
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: everybody on Vachlination, But you are as interesting and as

789
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: kind and fun as as you know we had heard

790
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: you were, and we're just so happy that you could

791
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: join us.

792
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: Is any better knowing them from this? I got to

793
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 2: know each and every one of them better than I

794
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 2: did from watching. You know, you can only see so much.

795
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: Well, you know, this is the real Dan, Yes, this

796
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: is the real dance, so we like it. Truly is

797
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: a pleasure getting to chat with you again. So sorry

798
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,839
Speaker 1: about your dad. You know, life hope twenty twenty five

799
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: brings you well, Well, of course we'll see you again soon,

800
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 1: but just you know, I'm really hoping that things next

801
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: few months go a little easier for you.

802
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 4: Thank you, Yeah, thank you, thank you very much. You

803
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 4: guys are awesome to have me. I get to know

804
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 4: you better too. I mean, this this is great. It

805
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 4: truly is. Thank you for having me.

806
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 2: We really will come to Naples and out the property

807
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 2: before you sell it.

808
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: Okay, So much.

809
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 3: I'll show you around and you'll have the time of your.

810
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: Life before before Dan packs up, and before Susan is

811
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: on a one way ticket to Florida. That's going to

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00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: do it for this episode of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden

813
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: Hour Again, thanks thank you to our lovely guest Dan

814
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: for joining us and dishing out some great advice and

815
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Speaker 1: sharing your life with us.

816
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: We do thank you so much and we really do

817
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 2: adore you. We love getting the chat with you best.

818
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 2: Thank you and thank you all so much for joining

819
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Speaker 2: us and getting to know Dan right with us. Make

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Speaker 2: sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have brand

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Speaker 2: new episodes coming out every week that you won't want

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Speaker 2: to miss.

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Speaker 1: And just like today when we answered questions, we love

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825
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