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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Diddy,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Good morning today. How's it going great?

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Speaker 1: Everything is good. Thank you for asking. We're all in

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Speaker 1: a great mood, happy to be here. What's going on

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Speaker 1: with this woman? Anya? We need to know how you

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Speaker 1: guys met, About any dates that you've been on, any

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Speaker 1: conversations you've had, and then what's going on now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well we met on Hinge and we I mean

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Speaker 2: we headed off right away.

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Speaker 3: Really, she gave me her number before I even had

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Speaker 3: to ask. She was like, you know, we were super

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Speaker 3: into it. It was a kind of quick click.

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Speaker 1: Which that's a good time, by the way, because you

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Speaker 1: could keep the messaging going forever, and it's an easy

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Speaker 1: way for someone to just kind of disappear and goes me.

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Speaker 1: But once they have once somebody gives you her number

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Speaker 1: or his number, now we're talking like, you know, this

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Speaker 1: is real communication.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's what I thought too, because you know, I've

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Speaker 2: been there where you just kind of talk forever on

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Speaker 2: the app and then it just stayed away. But no,

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Speaker 2: we switched the text thing pretty quick.

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Speaker 1: You could have a burner phone a bad idea. Actually,

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Speaker 1: a dating app burner phone, you know where, like you

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Speaker 1: just give them that number and it's not your real

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Speaker 1: actual number. But then when you're carrying around two phones

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Speaker 1: everywhere that I think people might be skeptical. Anyway, Eddie,

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Speaker 1: that's a sidebar. So you got her number.

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Speaker 2: Actually, maybe that's what happened, because I haven't heard from her,

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Speaker 2: so maybe she did have a burner phone. No. Listen,

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Speaker 2: we it seemed to be going great. We're texting, we

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Speaker 2: exchanged socials, Instagram and stuff, and then finally we did

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Speaker 2: make a plan to go on a date. The date

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Speaker 2: comes and nothing, so we planned a couple of days

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Speaker 2: in advance, and on Friday night, she just didn't respond

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Speaker 2: to any text. She was just completely silent. So the

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Speaker 2: date never happened. And I have no idea why she

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Speaker 2: just she just goes to me. Now, I was feeling

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Speaker 2: super bombed. She never I don't know, she didn't give

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Speaker 2: me a chance at all. She just just stopped talking.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, maybe maybe she met someone else or something,

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Speaker 2: but really she could have just told me that, and

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Speaker 2: she just she just gave me nothing.

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Speaker 3: And I have no idea what happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you kind of had loose plans. But you know,

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Speaker 1: the idea was that you would be going out on

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Speaker 1: this on this Friday night, and then it just comes

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Speaker 1: and goes and and you reached out like you attempted

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Speaker 1: to kind of circle back, but nothing. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was like, how seven work for you? Do you

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Speaker 3: want to go here? Nothing?

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Speaker 2: I sent three texts and I was like, all right,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to look crazy, but something's up.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Anya. You'll be on the phone. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get her on the phone. We'll ask

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Speaker 1: some questions. Don't say anything right at first, but at

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Speaker 1: some point you're welcome to jump in on the call,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully we can figure out what's going on and

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Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, sounds good, Thanks so much.

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Speaker 1: You got I'm gonna play one song and then we'll

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Speaker 1: come back and.

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Speaker 3: Do it all right, Annie, Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome back. You're still going great, still in a

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Speaker 1: good mood, everyone's still happy.

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Speaker 3: To be here. My go to i'd just always ask

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Speaker 3: the people how they are.

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Speaker 1: Hey, we're good, We're good. Let's call Anya and figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on. You guys, you met on a

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Speaker 1: dating app on hinge. Your message and you started texting.

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Speaker 1: You had loose plans, plans come and go, and now

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Speaker 1: she's ghosting and you want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Something, I just I have no idea what happened.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call her right now. Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Thanks?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Anya?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Anya? Hey? Good morning Fred. Yeah, Fred from the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: The whole crew is here. I know this is kind

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Speaker 1: of weird. Thank you for picking up a number that

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Speaker 1: you don't know. But we're calling on behalf of a guy. Now,

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Speaker 1: first I have to ask you if it's okay if

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Speaker 1: we talk on the air. Can we talk on the

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Speaker 1: air for a second.

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Speaker 3: Sure, here you go.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of ridiculous. I know, but thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a dude who reached out

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Speaker 1: to us. His name is Eddie. You met him on

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Speaker 1: a hinge. I guess you texted a little bit, maybe

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Speaker 1: had some plans and it never happened with Eddie.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay, yeah, uh huh, so that's true.

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Speaker 1: So you know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 4: I do, Yeah, I do?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, what happened because he reached out to

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Speaker 1: us and described what he thought was like a good

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Speaker 1: progression that you matched and then chatted and texted, and

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Speaker 1: then you had some plans and apparently when he kind

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Speaker 1: of tried to follow through on those plans, you disappeared

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Speaker 1: and he hasn't heard from you since. So why why

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Speaker 1: is that?

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Speaker 4: Okay, sure, I'll get into it. Okay. So everything seemed enormal,

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Speaker 4: uh for a while. But at one point while we

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Speaker 4: were you know, flirting, the like exchange you know, insta handle,

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Speaker 4: and things just got weird after that?

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Speaker 1: Why did they get weird?

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Speaker 4: Started sending me like a lot a lot, a lot

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Speaker 4: a lot of memes, which I like memes. That's not

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Speaker 4: the weird part. It was just like it was the

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Speaker 4: content of them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he's start supporting you in like in the

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Speaker 1: d MS weird memes? What what did they say? Can

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Speaker 1: you give us some examples?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Of course, yeah, hold on, I think I have.

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Speaker 1: Let me just pull them up for us. Oh this

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Speaker 1: is wonderful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we've got some receipts. Uh. So okay. So some

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Speaker 4: of them were about like true love homemade, and I

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Speaker 4: was like, okay, dude, that's cute, but that's way too soon. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: way too soon. And he would got into sending me

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Speaker 4: this really sexual means. And it's not that I'm even

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Speaker 4: prude like I you know, I obviously would like to

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Speaker 4: have to be a part of my intimate relationship. But

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Speaker 4: these were really weird ones.

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Speaker 1: And can you give us an example of one of

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Speaker 1: the sexual ones please? I just I have to know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So, okay, Oh, here's one me when the airport

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Speaker 4: security finds the metal butt plug in my ass?

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Speaker 1: What is the picture of it? What is it?

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Speaker 4: It's Toby Maguire smiling.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, give us some do you have any more?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So here's here's an Oh, here's a good one. Okay.

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Speaker 4: So it's a girl like a cartoon one in and

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Speaker 4: she's texting and it says, why do you bring me

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Speaker 4: to the beach every day? And then, in a thought

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Speaker 4: bubble above the boy cartoon, it says, desperately trying to

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Speaker 4: get stung by a jellyfish, so she'll test on me.

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Speaker 1: It seems on fire? Who true love soulmates a butt

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Speaker 1: and on each other? Okay, it's like a love story.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this guy's game is strong. Let me bring

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Speaker 1: Eddie and I forgot to mention that Eddie is here. Eddie,

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Speaker 1: I mean, don't you think that some of this content

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Speaker 1: would be a little better suited for someone who knew

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Speaker 1: you a little better and got your sense of humor?

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Speaker 1: I mean she's never met you.

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Speaker 3: I mean not really funny funny. I feel like they're funny.

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Speaker 1: Really, that's hilarious, bro, I love Okay, So I mean

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Speaker 1: you're all laughing, right, but we're also not trying to

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Speaker 1: go out with you or like interested in being in

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Speaker 1: a relationship with And I guess if you're this comfortable

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Speaker 1: with jokes like that and we've never met, then I

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Speaker 1: mean what, I don't know. You know, it's like people

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Speaker 1: they don't.

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Speaker 2: Good It means I'm open minded, I'm I'm you know,

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Speaker 2: it's hard to offend me.

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Speaker 3: It's I think it's a good thing.

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Speaker 1: Well, and in fairness, I'm kind of with you on

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Speaker 1: that in some regard, because you know, if if that's

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Speaker 1: your sense of humor and somebody can't handle it, then

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Speaker 1: it's probably better that you know, you don't hang out anyway. However,

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Speaker 1: sometimes it takes it, you know, a few days to

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Speaker 1: get to know someone develop interest in them, to then

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Speaker 1: determine that Okay, they got kind of a raunchy sense

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Speaker 1: of him where I can deal with that. She doesn't

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Speaker 1: even know you, she has no context, But like.

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Speaker 3: Why beat her on the bush? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Just show her who I am right away.

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Speaker 1: But it does come off kind of pervy too, which

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Speaker 1: is the risk you take. And I assume it, Onya,

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Speaker 1: that was sort of your angle. Was this dude's a weirdo?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, to say the least I was. I was not charmed. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Look, he's saying that it's just his sense of humor

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Speaker 1: and he thought he was being funny. Maybe he can

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Speaker 1: tone it back a little bit. Oh no, no, I

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Speaker 1: would never tone it back. So maybe he maybe, okay,

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Speaker 1: maybe cannot tone it back. Then, Anya, would you would

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Speaker 1: you consider actually meeting him once and seeing if maybe

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Speaker 1: you know he's for you in person?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't think so. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well that's a shame. So we don't have

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Speaker 1: a love match here, Eddie. I'm sorry it's not going

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Speaker 1: to work out. Uh, he's got to.

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Speaker 3: Sound like a crea at least I know why.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'll find someone who, uh who gets us as

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Speaker 2: a humor.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well maybe so I hope that for you and Anya,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time, best to luck to you

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Speaker 1: as well.

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Speaker 4: Thank you,