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Speaker 1: So let's get to a second date. Update. Dear Ryan

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Speaker 1: is hisney? This comes from Alyssa, who's on the phone now.

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Speaker 1: If you're dating, just hone in on this for a second.

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Speaker 1: Me need your help, She says, Look, guys, I pretty

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Speaker 1: much stop dating. But I went out dancing with friends

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Speaker 1: one night and met this guy. Went on a date.

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Speaker 1: Date was great, great conversation, grete vibe, We kissed, it

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Speaker 1: was perfect, well not again after that. I ran into

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Speaker 1: him a few times. It seemed to be perfect. But

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Speaker 1: it's cool dramatically on his end. I want to know why?

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Speaker 1: Is it because she was interested? Like Alysta, do you

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Speaker 1: think thanks for coming on? Do you think like because

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Speaker 1: you this is why do you honestly act like you're

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Speaker 1: into somebody or not? Because like you act like you

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Speaker 1: have a good time because you do, and then they

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Speaker 1: know they've they've got you, and then they cool off

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Speaker 1: and make you nuts. You know what I mean? What

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Speaker 1: do you think, Alyssa? What do you think happened? What

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Speaker 1: could have gone wrong?

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Speaker 2: I don't know because, like you know, we met, we

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Speaker 2: went out twice, and I ran into him a few times,

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Speaker 2: like when we first meat, we were hitting off grades.

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Speaker 2: So I just don't get how he could go from

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Speaker 2: like zero to one hundred still bad.

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Speaker 1: I just don't know. I Look, I don't envy you

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Speaker 1: going through all of this. We've all been there. We've

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Speaker 1: all been there, some of us more recently than others.

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Speaker 1: So here's what we're gonna do. I'm very interested and

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Speaker 1: I want to get to the bottom of it for you.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna the guy's name is Roger, and apparently we

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Speaker 1: have his number. Okay, so we're gonna try and get

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Speaker 1: Roger on the phone here and see what we can

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Speaker 1: find out. Why does he go out with you, make

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Speaker 1: great conversation, create this great vibe, kiss at the end,

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Speaker 1: and then just cool off dramatically and not say anything

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Speaker 1: about why. It's kind of annoying. Actually hang on one second, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: on Air with Ryan Seacrest. On Air, On Air with

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. To anybody that's dating right now, we're happy

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Speaker 1: they're not listen to this. So Lisa is on the phone.

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Speaker 1: This is a second date update. She stopped dating on

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Speaker 1: Why did she stop dating? I didn't find that out.

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Speaker 1: She stopped dating. She meets this guy, they're a great time.

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Speaker 1: He blows her off, But why I got the guy

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Speaker 1: on the phone too, So hold on, let's go through this.

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Speaker 1: Lit'sten real quick, just fast, because I got Roger on

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Speaker 1: the phone on their line. Why did you quit dating?

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Speaker 1: Why'd you stop dating altogether?

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Speaker 2: Dad? It was nug going well, you know, and I

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Speaker 2: decided to take a break to focus on me in

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Speaker 2: my career. But then my one day, my friends they

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Speaker 2: dragged me out dancing and then sow you know, and.

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Speaker 1: Then you meet this guy and you decided it back

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Speaker 1: in it and then you guys have a great time,

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Speaker 1: and then he starts to blow you off.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah, you were. We met, we exchanged the numbers,

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Speaker 2: we talked text and it was growing great. And finally

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Speaker 2: he like asked me to go out with him, and

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Speaker 2: I said, like, sure, do you even need to ask

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Speaker 2: me that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, let me get him before he goes anywhere.

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Speaker 1: I got him on their line. Be very very quiet.

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Speaker 1: We're going to talk to him now. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: Hello Roger, thanks for holding on. How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good?

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Speaker 1: Great, Thank you for coming on the radio. Your voice

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Speaker 1: is on air here at Kiss FM in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: I have Tanya and Siciny with me too. We're calling

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Speaker 1: about a woman named Alyssa that you went out with.

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Speaker 1: When I say her name, what do you think about?

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Speaker 3: Ah? Yeah, Lissa. Yeah, she's someone I went out with

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Speaker 3: a few times.

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Speaker 1: How'd that go?

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Speaker 3: Uh? It was I mean, it was all right, it

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Speaker 3: was okay whatever. I guess what was it?

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Speaker 1: What was missing? You sound like someone wasn't there. What

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Speaker 3: Roger, Well, nothing in particular was missing. The actual date

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Speaker 3: in itself was fine. It's just that outside of the

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Speaker 3: date was the problem. You see.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean a problems?

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Speaker 3: Well, the thing is is that I would be hanging

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Speaker 3: but then, you know, I started running into her at Ralph's.

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Speaker 3: I see her down the cereal aisle, you know, and

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Speaker 3: that maybe because you have your SnapMap, you know location

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Speaker 3: on said to my friends, She's figuring where I'm at

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Speaker 3: and then decide just to pop up.

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Speaker 1: You know, so you'd think she's Do you think it's what?

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Speaker 1: Did you think she's stalking you?

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Antny, you think that's cute.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys had a nice time, and she's.

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Speaker 1: Stocking him, following him the store, trying to I will

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Speaker 1: say Roger, Strangely, I have not seen this person that

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Speaker 1: I ran into twice at the grocery store. I went

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Speaker 1: once I was shopping, then I had to go back

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Speaker 1: like two weeks later for Dill and I ran into

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Speaker 1: the same person.

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Speaker 3: It's just the odds.

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Speaker 2: You know, does she live Does she live around you

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Speaker 1: Got a grocery shop.

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Speaker 3: It's a small world. But time I took that in,

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Speaker 3: took that aside.

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Speaker 1: Okay, forget that that aside. Let's say that that didn't happen.

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Speaker 1: Do you like Alissa.

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Speaker 3: At first? I did, but now it's but.

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Speaker 1: Forget the grocery store sighting. Do you like her enough

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know if I could do

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Speaker 3: that honestly, and I'm going to creepy.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to put you on the spot. Here. List

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Speaker 1: is on the phone with us right now listening to this. Listen,

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Speaker 1: can you explain the grocery store sightings? He thinks it's creepy?

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 2: I don't, No, I need I have to grocery shop too.

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Speaker 1: Were you following him or were you retracking him?

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Speaker 3: But just you just so happen to be at Murphy's

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Speaker 3: at the library. Like come on, maybe if it was

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Speaker 3: the other way around and I so happened to bump

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Speaker 1: Let's not be so edgy on this, Lyssa, explain.

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Speaker 2: Like, look, I mean, yeah, i'd like snap map is

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Speaker 2: something that like we do use sometimes, and you know,

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Speaker 2: I think like we were dating, it was funny, it

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Speaker 2: was going nice. I did want to see him and

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Speaker 2: I saw that.

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Speaker 1: So you are following him?

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Speaker 2: No, not exactly. I mean I I saw that you

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Speaker 2: are You're not you.

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Speaker 1: Are you are? You are you are you.

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Speaker 2: Are, But I like, look, I needed to go grocery

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Speaker 1: Then you saw it was there and he timed it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I just like, what about the library coffee shop?

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Speaker 1: What about the coffee shop?

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Speaker 2: No, Like, I get coffee there all the time. It's

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Speaker 2: not like the places that I don't go unless you

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Speaker 1: But then I used to, like in high school time

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Speaker 1: I don't think it makes us, you know, bad people

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Speaker 1: in high school, we used to do that. But well, no,

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Speaker 1: she did it like three years ago, Tanya. So, Alyssa,

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Speaker 1: I can see why Roger's a little standoff is here?

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Speaker 1: I guess Roger, the question is, do you think there's

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Speaker 1: with me, and you liked her enough. Do you think

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Speaker 1: there's a chance to clear this up and go out

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Speaker 1: with Alyssa?

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Speaker 3: I mean maybe at first, but not now that you

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Speaker 3: it's just kind of.

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Speaker 1: Not into her. Yeah, I can tell you you're not

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Speaker 1: you're not interested. I can hear it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure I can't. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Roger, thank you very much for coming on with us.

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Speaker 1: Good luck to you that. Okay, bybye, Alyssa, Okay, it's

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Speaker 1: not meant to be. It's okay, it's not meant to be.

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Speaker 1: You know, all of this and you know you doing

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Speaker 1: work out. And that's the good news. Maybe somebody else

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Speaker 1: would have appreciated all that, Yeah, but it was. It

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Speaker 1: here because we try, you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 1: we tried, so you know what, you can't do the

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Speaker 1: wrong thing to the right guy. Just remember that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it.

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Speaker 1: Like when she says it, then she sits back in

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Speaker 1: just by nodding her head and sitting backwards. Okay, well, Alyssa,

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Speaker 1: we move on and don't give up dating. It's it's

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Speaker 1: gonna be all right, right, not meant to be, totally

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Speaker 1: not meant to be. Remember you can't do the wrong

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Speaker 1: thing to the right guy. Get back