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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in. Wow, it has been a minute.

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Speaker 1: It's been too long. I feel like we've so much

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Speaker 1: talk about It's been two weeks, but it weirdly feels

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Speaker 1: so much longer because we've done so much. We've lived.

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Speaker 1: You have lived a lot of life. Um, how are

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Speaker 1: you doing? If I'm being honest, I'm not totally great,

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Speaker 1: just in terms of um, slept, sleep deprivation. But I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm alive and well. I mean, you were in Hawaii,

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Speaker 1: you were back home for a short stint, stint, and

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Speaker 1: then you hit Vegas hard, Vegas hard. You know what

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Speaker 1: I like about your dynamic with Red Star. But he

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Speaker 1: has made you like live again because there was a

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Speaker 1: time in your single days where like, unless you were

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Speaker 1: getting paid or it was like you had to be

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Speaker 1: at a work thing or out, you would go to

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Speaker 1: bed at eight o'clock. True, I really relished in my

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Speaker 1: sleep time. He has broken me out of my shell

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Speaker 1: as as a bit. Yeah, I like it good. It

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Speaker 1: feels like a good balance. You agree, I agree, I

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Speaker 1: totally agree. Because you were just like partying. I mean,

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Speaker 1: first of all, I have to say Hawaii was amazing

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Speaker 1: because I like really really took a vacation, like I

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Speaker 1: like unplugged, Like we got up. We obviously we worked

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Speaker 1: out every morning and then we just got drunk and

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Speaker 1: like laid by the pool every day and like we

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Speaker 1: just like to do the same things. So it was

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Speaker 1: just like really really fun. But everybody could ask me

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Speaker 1: um on Instagram and I got back if I end

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Speaker 1: up wearing my thong bikini, right, because we talked about

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Speaker 1: that this only happens to me. So I like, I'm

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Speaker 1: so stoked, and I was like, Okay, we're spending going

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Speaker 1: to the beach this day, and it was gonna be

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be like out a thing, like just the

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Speaker 1: two of us, kind of like away from all these people,

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Speaker 1: away from everybody. So I like put on my thong

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Speaker 1: we're walking down the hotel lobby stairs and I hear

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Speaker 1: somebody yelling his name and I was just like, oh god,

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Speaker 1: oh god, oh god. And it's like one of his

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Speaker 1: best friends from like back in the day. He's here

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Speaker 1: with his wife on vacation and they're like, oh, we're

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Speaker 1: parked up by the pool. Comes like hang out, I

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Speaker 1: have a glass of wine or whatever. And I was

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Speaker 1: just like okay, like I'm so excited obviously to meet

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Speaker 1: them because he's like his old friends, you know, and

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Speaker 1: so we like sit down and and they were so fun.

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Speaker 1: And then his wife goes, let's all get in the

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Speaker 1: And I was just like I'm literally like my, I'm

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Speaker 1: and my but I had no tanny, you know how

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Speaker 1: White I I was just like, White asked you didn't

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Speaker 1: get a spray to him before Hawahite no, because it

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Speaker 1: was just the two of us, Like I don't care. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was only taking photo, you know, Like but yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I mean debut of the song. You're just like

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Speaker 1: just like, no, I want to get in the pool.

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Speaker 1: I just was like I had to warn everybody else,

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Speaker 1: gonna be stu us. You prefaced, just like I didn't

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Speaker 1: was like, you're like, I don't know if you listen

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Speaker 1: to my podcast when I was talking about wearing the

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Speaker 1: day was the day and I'm so sorry, but here

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Speaker 1: is my ass. So is it just like really cheeky

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Speaker 1: It's not cheeky. It is a thomb like full on

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Speaker 1: butt floss. It's so cute though. It's the cutest thing ever.

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Speaker 1: The Red Star like he did like it. It was

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Speaker 1: well received by all all people. Yeah, yeah, and they

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Speaker 1: were really cool about it. So I was like, Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: something else very significant happened on your trip. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: So set the scene for us. We're walking to the

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Speaker 1: heard about this at first because I was doing it

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Speaker 1: I was like an angry parent, what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: just like praying it didn't here And it was unintentional

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Speaker 1: because if it's that loud, it seems like there's some

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Speaker 1: force behind it. No, it was totally and are you

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Speaker 1: kidding me? It was very unintentional. That doesn't sound like

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Speaker 1: but we're not sure. That's kind of the vibe I

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Speaker 1: it like it's not. I have clenched many a knights

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Speaker 1: of I have had many knights of clenching in this

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Speaker 1: relationship because I'm like, I don't want to do it

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Speaker 1: And I've done a really good job until our vacation

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Speaker 1: to you? And he goes that bird okay, So he

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Speaker 1: recapping it, he called it a parent But like, what

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Speaker 1: y'all just were like, it wasn't the film Bikini, right,

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Speaker 1: it was not they that's comforting, rambunctious honestly. Um, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: a relationship first, did it feel free? Or are you

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Speaker 1: still like? I gotta yeah? But what happened? Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: life with it. I was like, well, I was so

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Speaker 1: um Hailey Marline. I went to the same hotel a

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Speaker 1: few months ago for Haley's birthday, and so when you

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Speaker 1: the hotel and I was like, it's beautiful. But then

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Speaker 1: I you know, you give a recommendation somewhere where you

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Speaker 1: had an amazing time and you're like, I really hope

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Speaker 1: to your recommendation times ten. I know. I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: Like we really just kind of like we were one

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Speaker 1: nature in a different way, Like we were just like

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Speaker 1: But yeah, we just like I don't know if we

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Speaker 1: I bet there's nothing better than a sunrise. Like honestly,

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Speaker 1: well you know, I'm like much more of a sunset

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Speaker 1: like swimming together, and they were like, I can't believe

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Speaker 1: this is red Star, and like he was so sweet

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Speaker 1: and meeting their mom and she was like, thank you

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Speaker 1: It's just like a really kind of beautiful experience. That's

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Speaker 1: cool that, like, I mean, because you dm like back

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Speaker 1: and then yeah, and then came back went to Vegas

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Speaker 1: Is this working? Please? Please say yes? Hi Ali? Oh

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Speaker 1: my mom my mom of you. By the way. Oh thanks, um, okay, Ali?

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Speaker 1: a question forever. Ali, You lied to me. You lied

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Speaker 1: didn't have little really stink. Yeah, I don't think always

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00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: get a new part. But Ali, I'm just thrilled to

425
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: know that you woke up and wanted to chat with

426
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: us and say hello, Oh my gosh, absolutely we Ali.

427
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 1: Do you have Do you have a significant other? Um?

428
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: You know, no, I don't. Me and my ex actually

429
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: broke up around the same time you and Red Star

430
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: broke up the first time. It's okay, girl, I'm doing great.

431
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about you. Do you want to marry

432
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: a doctor? Is that like the goal? Um? I really

433
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: don't have a goal on who I want to marry,

434
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 1: just somebody that it's nice. Really, that's a great place

435
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: to be because, let me tell you, when you think

436
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: you have a list or a box, you end up

437
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 1: with a parrot. M It's a beautiful parrot. Always like

438
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: am I too? Did? Yeah? I watched your guys live.

439
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 1: We just talked about that. Actually honestly got a carrot. Yeah,

440
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 1: we were. I was crying laughing after we like the

441
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: entire live, I was crying laughing. We both rents are

442
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 1: really I really could not understand why your face was

443
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: so close so like that, just getting distracted by all

444
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: the comments. That's just how I lived my life. Just yeah, alright,

445
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: we had a lot more people to get you. We

446
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 1: should move on. I'm sorry. Yeah, okay, you have so

447
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: much fun at the beach. Oh my gosh, thank you

448
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: all made my Monday. We're a thong and we're proud

449
00:25:52,440 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 1: just for you. Perfect all right, Easton, Who's that? I

450
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 1: feel like she was like, probably felt like she was

451
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 1: in a fever dream with Tanya's analogy. She was like,

452
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: did I wake up? Is this happening? Trying to keep

453
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: her on her day. I think this is just an

454
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 1: interesting stat We had. We had four callers on hold,

455
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,239
Speaker 1: two of them from Texas and two of them from

456
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: New York City. Here's one of our callers from New

457
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: York City. This is Michelle. Michelle. You're on the line

458
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: with Becky Antonia. Are you hosting a game show? Easton? Michelle? Hello,

459
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: my god, my heart is pounding. I'm so excited to

460
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: be here. We're so excited to have you. We're this

461
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: is our first time doing this, and we're also I

462
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 1: don't really know what's happening, But um, do you have

463
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 1: a question or a sentiment, maybe a funny limerick of sorts?

464
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 1: I wish I had a funny limerick, but I have

465
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: a question. All right. I am a newer I'm a

466
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 1: newer Scrubber. I joined the crew in like late, like

467
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: probably about two years ago because my friend Kira recommended

468
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: it to me. So thank you, Kira, Thank you Kira.

469
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: I have listened to Yeah, I've listened to every episode

470
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: since then. I haven't heard all of the ones before,

471
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 1: So I'm really dying to hear the story of how

472
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 1: you guys met and became friends Scrubbers that joined late Yeah, Scrubber,

473
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: we love you. Love to hear it, love to see it.

474
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: So when this is my version of the story, Antania

475
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: will definitely probably chime in or have something to say

476
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: about it. But I had just gotten off of the

477
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 1: first season of The Bachelor. I was on and was

478
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: invited to an I heeart event in Vegas. It was

479
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: the Summer Party or summer pool party or something. Do

480
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: you remember one month June May Man, I was just

481
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: seeing if you remembered from the Cool anniversary and forgets.

482
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: So we I was um with my friends Robert and

483
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 1: Zach at the time, and we showed up and went

484
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: to a dinner where Tanya and like some of the

485
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: other people from my heart were and she literally was

486
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: so excited to see Zack and Robber like got up

487
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: and hugged him like did a very Tanya reaction. And

488
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,239
Speaker 1: then I walked up and they were like, oh, this

489
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: is Becca, and she could not have been less interested

490
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 1: in meeting me. Like cold cold, that is such cold

491
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: is not how I was, let me tell you something, know,

492
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: not lukewarm. So I get really excited to see people

493
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: like in my life, Like I just get exuberantly excited

494
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: and and so I think what happened was I was

495
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: like exuberantly excited to see the people that I was

496
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: seeing because also my friend Macy was there, who I

497
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: was a friend of mine from my sorority days. So

498
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: I was just like seeing all these people that hadn't

499
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: seen that. I was just like super excited and I

500
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: didn't know you, and so I was like oh, like, Hi,

501
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: nice to meet you, but like I didn't like whatever.

502
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: And then we ended up discovering that we had a

503
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: mutual friend. Remember I brought a bar mutual friend. I

504
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: was like, oh, your friends Crystal, like Crystal that I

505
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: was like trying to like include you and like me

506
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: like cute with you. I'm pretty sure I brought up Crystal.

507
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. And yeah, I'm pretty sure. I don't

508
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: think so, I'm pretty sure that sounds more like something

509
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: I would do and less like something you would do.

510
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: So anyways, that happened, and then I ended up moving

511
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: from San Diego to l A. And that's the real ticket.

512
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: This is really where we became friends because I moved

513
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: in literally we shared a wall. I moved into the

514
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 1: apartment next to her, and she would just barge into

515
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: my home. So like I was an apartment to a four,

516
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 1: she was an apartment two a three. And that's when

517
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 1: like the love story really begin because that like, had

518
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: you not moved into my building, we I don't think

519
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: we would have as close as we got, but like

520
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: then we became like family. Yeah, and so that was

521
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: kind of the start of it. And then when I

522
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: started the podcast, I had started by myself. It was

523
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: like me Mark, uh, literally me Mark and Amy right

524
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: when we started Easton, were you the were you? You You

525
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: weren't necessarily like you were there, I think, but you didn't.

526
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: No one chimed in, like I basically would be talking

527
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: to no one and Margaret sometimes respond to me. And

528
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: then we had tany On as a guest and it

529
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: just like clicked, and then that's how that started. Yeah,

530
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: so skip the first few if you go back to

531
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 1: the beginning. Okay, I did go back to the beginning,

532
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: and I did skip the first It's hurtful, but understandable. Michelle.

533
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: It was like really cute because I would like come

534
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: home from work and I would like go I wouldn't

535
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: even go into my house. I wouldn't. I would never

536
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: go straight to my house. I would always go to

537
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: Becka's house right when I go home from work, and

538
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: we would like chit chat and we would like sit

539
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: on the carpet and like you didn't even have furniture

540
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: for like a while. We would like sell, yeah, like

541
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: sell the carpet and just like talk and like do

542
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: the dumbest stuff all day into like dinner time, and

543
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: then I would like do more work and then I

544
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 1: go to bed and she would stay up and watch

545
00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: whatever until like two in the morning, and then like

546
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: it would do it all over again the next day.

547
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 1: And it kind of worked out perfectly because like you

548
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: would wake up and a couple of hours later, I'd

549
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: be done with work. She was Joey from friends. She

550
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: would just barge into my home and if it wasn't

551
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: unlocked for yeah, and if it wasn't unlocked for her,

552
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,719
Speaker 1: she'd be like, why is your door locked? Yeah? If

553
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: her door was locked, I would like puff and puff, like, well,

554
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: it sounds like you had such a like like idyllic

555
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: girlfriend the situation, Like that's like perfect. Yeah, we really did.

556
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I've never had that with another friend where

557
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: we like lived in the same building and we did.

558
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: I mean we had a we have a very unique

559
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: story to our friends. Yeah, and like you would crawl

560
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: my hair before dates outfits. Yeah, you still do that

561
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: time of time. Yeah, if you're in desperate need. Yeah,

562
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: when I really like need it, like when I think

563
00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 1: I'm getting dumped me hopefully doesn't happen for a while ever. Again,

564
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: are you from New York? Are you did you? Are

565
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: you a transplant? I am from like the suburbs and

566
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: I live in the city now, so I love New York.

567
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: I'm missing Yeah, that's great and it's it's coming back, baby.

568
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: What do you do in New York? Do you like

569
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 1: bop around? Do you go to bed earlier? You like

570
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: loving the nightlife? Like, what's your vibe? My vibe? Um,

571
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: definitely go out on the weekend. I have. I live

572
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend, um, and we have a many friends

573
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: in the city, so we go out and we hit

574
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: the bars. We actually have a bar really close to

575
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: us called Easton. Yeah, we said no, yeah, we sent

576
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: me and Kira actually sent Eastern a photo of ourselves

577
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: at Easton. I remember this, It's in my wallet now.

578
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: I printed it out. I remember that picture. Oh perfect,

579
00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 1: thank you. Um. But yeah, we we you hang out

580
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: with our friends a lot on the weekends. We my

581
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: boyfriend is from the suburbs as well, so we go

582
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: home and see our families a lot. Um. We watched

583
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: TV really late into the like you know, until like

584
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: midnight every night, so non early sleeper. But I loved

585
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 1: I just love Tanya's question, what do you do in

586
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: New York? Do you go to bed early? Around town?

587
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: Would you ident who do you identify yourself as most

588
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 1: on the podcast? Oh? Certainly Becca. Um. I definitely like

589
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: Kany you mentioned earlier earlier in this when I was

590
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:35,719
Speaker 1: talking to you that you like get really excited when

591
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: you see people. And that's like the one way that

592
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: I think I relate to you, like I'd like, I'm

593
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: really enthusiastic when I meet someone new, or like you know,

594
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: see someone's seen in a while. But like in every

595
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: other way, I am Becca. I love to hear it.

596
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: Even though you skipped the two episodes where it was

597
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: just me on the Becca, would you have skipped them?

598
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: I was literally about to say I would have done

599
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: the same thing exactly. Okay, fair, that's fair. Yeah, all right,

600
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: Oh Michelle, we love you. Thank you so much for listening,

601
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: and Kira shout out to you. Thank you for intro

602
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: the intro. Yeah, oh my gosh, thank you so much

603
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: for everything you do. We love you so much. I

604
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: love you. I hope you have time around New York.

605
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: Than bye. Our next color is also from the Big Apple.

606
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 1: This is unc and I definitely have her name right.

607
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 1: I pronounced your name correctly, right, Yeah, you did, you

608
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 1: said it right? Thank you? Such a great name. That's

609
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: I've never heard that before. I love that. It's super Greek.

610
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: It means blonde, which I'm not so um. You know,

611
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: that's always fun to tell people. That's so funny. Your

612
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: parents were like, this will be funny, and they're like, oh,

613
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: she's completely brunette and has all dark features, let's be

614
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 1: her blonde. Perfect. Zon Z sounds like san Zy, so

615
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: it's zon c right, like not zon z? Yeah. Yeah.

616
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: Sometimes at Starbucks when I say it, though, they think

617
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 1: I say zombie. So that's always fun. They're like, you're

618
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,720
Speaker 1: crossing is ready and I'm like, you're I am a zombie,

619
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: but not my name. I Starbucks Like mess ups are

620
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 1: always my favorite. They're so random. I know that was

621
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 1: that was probably the best stuff, Zoncy. Do you have

622
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: a question of funny? Limerick? Did you just call to

623
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 1: say Hi? What do you? What do you? I do

624
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: have a question. So I have the worst travel anxiety,

625
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: just not not so much as like going onto the

626
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: airplane and flying, but more so like getting to the

627
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 1: airport on time and making sure I have everything. I'll

628
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: of that stuff, especially because my husband likes to get

629
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 1: to the airport two minutes before the flight boards, and

630
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: I like to get there two hours before the flight boards.

631
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: So I wanted to know what you guys do to

632
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: deal with travel anxiety. I am your husband, so I

633
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: don't I mean my thing though, Like I get the

634
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: if I'm at the airport too long and it's like

635
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 1: being around all the people and hearing a loud like announcements,

636
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,879
Speaker 1: that actually makes me a little more anxious than if

637
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 1: I just get there, go through security, get on the plane,

638
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 1: Like that's how I avoid it. But I also take

639
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: CBD to a travel Yeah, like even today, I'm I'm

640
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: just sitting here like, oh my gosh, I have to

641
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: go to the airport and what if the lines are long,

642
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: and what if my COVID test doesn't come back in

643
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: time for my flight, And it's just like all the

644
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: what if And it's just it's so much more complicated

645
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: to travel now with COVID, Like you have to get

646
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: an authorization to travel, especially internationally, and you have to

647
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: get a COVID test and before three days, but not

648
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: before your flight on the third day. It's so wild.

649
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 1: So I'm like, oh my gosh, this is just overload

650
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 1: of anxiety for me. Yeah, maybe might be a good choice.

651
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: I always try to think of it as like, what's

652
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: the worst that can happen, Like you miss a day

653
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 1: of your vacation, Like that's kind of like because I

654
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: had the same way. I'm so anxious about all that

655
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: kind of stuff, Like when we were about to go

656
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: to Hawaii, like we weren't getting our results in the

657
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: in the emails, and then were leaving the next day,

658
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: and I was like stressed about that and calling those people,

659
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: and then I was just like, well, what if our

660
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 1: plane is delayed and then we don't make it onto

661
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: the next plane. And then I was just getting anxious

662
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: about the fact that I was packing so much and

663
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 1: like my bag was heavy. I just like, my mind

664
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: just goes a million miles an hour. But I kept,

665
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 1: like I kept texting Becca like so stressed about it,

666
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: and I was just like, at the end of the day,

667
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: the worst that can happen is you miss your flight,

668
00:37:58,360 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: you miss a day of your Like that's not the

669
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: end of the world. So like, in big picture, it's

670
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 1: really not a big deal. I was gonna say to

671
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: like a lot of times, I think if you can

672
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: get into the mindset where you only have control over

673
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 1: over what you can control, and beyond that you kind

674
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 1: of have to let go because you can't control if

675
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: there's gonna be a lot of people there. You can't

676
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:22,720
Speaker 1: control if you know there's a delay on the plane,

677
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,240
Speaker 1: whatever it is. So I think like, if you feel

678
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: best getting there a couple of hours before, then go

679
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: go eat, have a glass of wine, whatever you need

680
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: to do, and then you're prepared for it. But like,

681
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: you can only prepare so much, and then the rest

682
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: is kind of out of your control, which I think

683
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: gives you like some peace thinking like I don't have

684
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 1: to carry the weight of like everything else going right

685
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: if I don't have control over it, correct, right, I

686
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: have to let some of that go. Yeah, I like

687
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 1: to control things, so I get the idea of like

688
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: needing to get it all, like have the answer and

689
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 1: make sure it's all done the way I want it done.

690
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: But when it comes to flying and traveling, you literally

691
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: kind of have to just be ready for the adventure. Right.

692
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: But I'm like you, I I can tend to be

693
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: a little like Auntie anxious. Yeah, I know all of

694
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: my friends are probably like, you're fine, relaxed, You'll you'll

695
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 1: be fine. Stop worrying and I'm like, um, I can't

696
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 1: stop worrying. Can you just tell like, keep telling me

697
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: it'll be fine though. Yeah, Like I needed a vacation

698
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: from the day before my vacation because I was so

699
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: anxious that day about my vacation. Like that's a problem. No,

700
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,919
Speaker 1: my friend, Yeah, my friend Alley is the same way.

701
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: Like she has she has the anxiety about traveling like

702
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:51,479
Speaker 1: you're talking about, but she also has anxiety about being

703
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: on the plane in turbulence everything. So she's like, I

704
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: love her, but traveling with her, I have to be

705
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: ready to comfort and offer comfort and support. So that

706
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: being said, you're gonna have a wonderful time. Everything's gonna

707
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,760
Speaker 1: go great. Get to the airport early. Tell your husband

708
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,879
Speaker 1: it makes you anxious, so please just help me out

709
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 1: here and let us know how your trip goes. Yes,

710
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: I will, and I definitely will say that. My husband

711
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: is good about being like, all right, let's compromise and

712
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 1: we'll get there two hours early instead of three. So

713
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: that's nicely understands the anxiety and rolls with it. We

714
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: love a support of husband over here and scrubbing and

715
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: you know, we love a compromising relationship. Ye, not compromising,

716
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: but a couple who compromises. I love you both and

717
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 1: I'm so excited that I got to talk to you guys.

718
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 1: This is like a dream come true. Oh gosh, thanks

719
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: for calling me too, and I kind of feel better already.

720
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: So has been great for Listen. Just listen to the podcast,

721
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: just this segment over and over. Yeah, we're like real

722
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: life CBD. Yeah, okay, podcast, I'll just listen to. Yeah,

723
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: this was amazing, Thank you. Bye. All right. Our next

724
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: caller is McKenna from Houston, Texas, h Town, the Third Coast.

725
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: How's it going, McKenna? Hi, Hey, how's it going? Oh?

726
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 1: Going so good? Now? What are you up to? Very exciting.

727
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: I love the excitement in your voice. The excitement of

728
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: your voice is good. I just love work. And I'm

729
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: currently sitting in my car because I didn't want to

730
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: go in my like in lose service or something, so

731
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: I'm just chilling. I honestly love sitting in the car

732
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 1: after I go, Like if I get home from work

733
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: or anything where like an event. I kind of like

734
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: just sitting in the car for a second. Nothing worse.

735
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: I mean, what are you doing there, like hang in

736
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 1: your car? Well, if I'm on the phone, I'll sit

737
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: in my car until I'm done talking, and then if

738
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 1: I don't like to listen to a podcast or that,

739
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 1: or if I'm listening to a song, I'll finish, you know,

740
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: I'll be like just sitting in the car until I'm

741
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: done interesting, never done that. Surprised by that. I'd like

742
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: to get the car, park it, get out, get my

743
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: thing to go in, you know, like, let's go. No

744
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: time to waste, no time to waste. Sad for you

745
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: two kinds of people in this world, you know. Yeah,

746
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: there's a backup, and there's a tell Yeah, um, did

747
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 1: you were you calling to say hi? Did you have

748
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 1: a question for us? What was your other thing that

749
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: you were asked? A limerick of sorts? Of sorts? I

750
00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: don't have a limerick. Nobody called surprise and I I

751
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: originally had a question for Tania, but then I thought

752
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: of one for both of y'all to we call that

753
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: a two fur Thank you for thinking of me. Yeah,

754
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: I didn't want to. I mean, I wasn't expecting y'all

755
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: to answer. And then Easan answered and I was I

756
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: was a nervous I just had a question for Tanya,

757
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: but I thought of one. That's what Ethan does he

758
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: answers you know, if you need to answer my question

759
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: I thought of for both of y'all to answer was, um,

760
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: so with y'all both being like obviously successful women, do

761
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 1: either of y'all find it hard to like be happy

762
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 1: for the other when they're doing something like great or

763
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: and you're kind of like not in that like maybe

764
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: it's that's what happening for you in that moment. A

765
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: good quote comparing because girls do that, you know totally. Yeah,

766
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:10,919
Speaker 1: I think I have never felt um like competitive with Tanya,

767
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 1: and we're kind of I mean, we kind of were

768
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 1: in the same industry, but like not enough to where

769
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 1: it feel ever feels competitive. I think, um, watching her

770
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: because we've been friends for however long I'm watching her

771
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: start from when I first met her to like where

772
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: she is now has really just been like something to

773
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: celebrate as a friend. So I've never felt like I

774
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: know how it could be. And to be honest, like

775
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,959
Speaker 1: I would say, some of my other friends who are

776
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: more directly in the same industry, which is you know,

777
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 1: I guess like the influencer space, I get not even

778
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: competitive with them, but more like, oh I wish I

779
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 1: was getting to work with that brand or got to

780
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: go to that event. And it's not so much like

781
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: I didn't want them to do it, but it was

782
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: more like, Oh, I wish I could have been that too. Yeah,

783
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:01,359
Speaker 1: I feel like I was gonna say that. I feel

784
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: the exact same way like with you, whenever there's opportunities

785
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 1: or you get things like I'm trying to think of

786
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 1: I guess when you like the one of the biggest

787
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: ones recently was your Macy's line. When you got your

788
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: Macy's line, Like, it was like, I want to do

789
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: whatever I could to help you, know, Like you were like,

790
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: can you model some clothes? I was like, sure, whatever

791
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 1: you need, you know what I mean? Like, I think

792
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 1: that's I think that we are. We are in the

793
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: same industry, but we're like also so different and we

794
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: have different goals in certain ways. So it's like I'm

795
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: never like I want to do everything I can to

796
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: help her, and like I feel the same way about

797
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: you with me. Um. Also, I think maybe it's because

798
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: we are friends, so it's not. Yeah, I think it's

799
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: I think it'd be hard to have a best friend

800
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:47,720
Speaker 1: that you felt competitive within work because I think what's

801
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:51,240
Speaker 1: so what makes our friendship so strong and like special

802
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: is that we do like really cheer each other on. Yeah,

803
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 1: Like it's like you're like a built in like literally

804
00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 1: built in biggest cheerleader. Yeah. So it would be hard

805
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 1: to be friends with someone that I felt that like

806
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:06,439
Speaker 1: competitive because I'm a pretty competitive person. But like I said,

807
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: I think Tonya actually give advice recently that she got

808
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 1: from Chelsea Handler where it was like there's room for everyone,

809
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 1: And anytime I get in that headspace like there's so

810
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: many people doing the same thing is me, it's so competitive.

811
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I offer something of my own

812
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: and I think, you know, that calms me down if

813
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: I get competitive in that way. But I think between

814
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: us we were very healthy dynamic. Yeah, I think so too.

815
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: I I don't know y'all personally, but I mean it

816
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: seems as though you'll do That's why I was asking, Oh, yeah,

817
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: thank you. I really appreciate and honestly, like I hope

818
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: that it continued, not even just between us, but like

819
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: I do, like you know, there are people that get

820
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: like get you know, if I go for you know,

821
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: I want to do some TV gig and somebody else

822
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: gets it, Like there is that sense of like, oh darn,

823
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 1: I really wanted that. But at the end of the day,

824
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: like it's all about, you know, the more that we

825
00:46:56,120 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: all grow and get, you know, to bigger, better places,

826
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: we can all help each other up, you know. So

827
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: it's kind of like looking at it from like that

828
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: perspective versus the competitiveness, which I feel like it is

829
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: so like so no, it's so like Britney Scarce Christi Aguilary. Yeah,

830
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: it's so like nineties. It's like, no, thank you, all right,

831
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: all right, thank Yeah, you're not modern at all, Like,

832
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: let's app to the modern ancient. Nailed it. Oh, thank

833
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 1: you so much for calling in. I hope that you

834
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: have a yummy dinner wherever you are once you go inside. Yeah,

835
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: well I will try my best seats something yummy. We

836
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: love you. Thank you so much for calling. Yeah, thanks

837
00:47:51,640 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: for thanks for answering. Eastern to Eastern. Alright, bye, we

838
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: love you, bye bye. All right, we have another caller here. Uh,

839
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: this is Brianna. Brianna. Hello, Hi, Hi, I hope you

840
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: guys can hear me. I'm like hiding at work. It's

841
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: for us. Good good Hi Becca, Hi, Tanya. I love

842
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: you guys. Love the podcast. My question is for Tanya,

843
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:38,319
Speaker 1: so we obviously have Becca's percentage for on if that

844
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 1: person is the one. Tanya, I was wondering if you

845
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: can give a percentage for a red Star. That's a

846
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: fantastic question, great question, Yeah, Hi, Mark. I mean, honestly,

847
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: it's like I was getting I think I'm nervous about

848
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: how everything's going because I feel like I'm still like

849
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: like reeling from the trigger event, you know what I mean. Like,

850
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I like it's hard for me to

851
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 1: admit that it's going so well and things are like

852
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: really good because I'm scared and like every time I

853
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: post something about him, I get like anxious about it

854
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: and like I don't that's not such a good place

855
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 1: for me to be in because I'm like living in

856
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 1: the past and not the present. And so right now

857
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: it's like so good and we're in a really good

858
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: place and things are like moving along nicely, and I

859
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: just like he literally feels like home to me. So

860
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, I would say like nineties seven, Oh

861
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: my good, n point nine? What did she says? The

862
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: seven point nine percent? An, that's so amazing, And I

863
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: have also like the MD you that your pictures with

864
00:49:56,320 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: him recently, like you're just radiating, like the love and happiness.

865
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 1: It is just radiating from you, and we see it

866
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: and we just you know, I'm speaking for all scrubbers,

867
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: I guess, but we just wish you, you know, nothing

868
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: but happiness. So you've made her cry. This is her

869
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 1: first cry in the podcast. It's just really sweet because

870
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 1: like a lot of people do that. Me, Like, it's

871
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 1: like it's really sweet because I do, like I feel it,

872
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:25,399
Speaker 1: Like it just feels so good and it's like so

873
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: scary at the same time. That's love. It's the thrill

874
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: and but yeah, it's like really really good. Thank you.

875
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: That's good to hear that. That was a great question.

876
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming. We got the emotions flowing. Tears

877
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 1: are going because it's like it's so weird, you know,

878
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: I think they are. They're super happy tears. But it's

879
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 1: like you think about like you think about you know,

880
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: like let's say, like look at me five years ago,

881
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: and it's like I never lost hope that there was

882
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 1: somebody like him out there. But it's like when you

883
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: date so many people and they're just like it's like

884
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: let down after let down after let down and even

885
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 1: he's like let me down at times, you know. But

886
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like I always knew

887
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: and I had faith in his character and like our

888
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 1: connection that it was just something really special and really unique.

889
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: And it's like it's so interesting because it came in

890
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: a package that I would have never expected, Like I

891
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 1: would have never expected it to you know, for him

892
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: to be who he is. But I always knew that

893
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 1: like somebody like him was out there, you know. It's

894
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: just like so crazy that I met him on Hinge.

895
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: It's just like it's all so weird. That's how it goes.

896
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:49,439
Speaker 1: It's predicted. Thank you, um, Brianna, thank you so much

897
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 1: for calling in and making this an emotional podcast now

898
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 1: because now I have clip bait of like see what

899
00:51:56,600 --> 00:52:01,359
Speaker 1: made Tanya cry today, and we love It's just like

900
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 1: really nice, you know, and like I think that he

901
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 1: even got to see it when we were in Hawaii

902
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 1: with those scrubbers that came up to us and they

903
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: were like like opening up to him, and he was like,

904
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just it's the community that we

905
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 1: have and through this podcast is just like very uplifting

906
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,280
Speaker 1: and just like supportive in like a way I've never

907
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: experienced before. Yeah, it's true, it really is true. Like

908
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:28,280
Speaker 1: our podct you guys, everything you've built, so thank you

909
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: know well, we love you. Thank you so much, oh

910
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 1: guys to have a great thing. Love you, thank you

911
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: you too. Okay, we are back from a break, so

912
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: we have a scrubber here and this is a really

913
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: fun story. She wrote into the podcast in two thousand nineteen,

914
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:04,799
Speaker 1: asking or just kind of what kind of what you

915
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,240
Speaker 1: were going through at the time, And she is joining

916
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: us on the zoom um to give us an update,

917
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 1: and Mark is going to read the email, but we

918
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: have Macy with this right now. Hello Mazee. This is

919
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 1: what she wrote in nineteen. She said, I just graduated

920
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 1: from college and I'm excited to start my dream internship

921
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: and grad school program in a fun new city. I

922
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 1: feel like everything is falling into place, and I'm thankful

923
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: to be surrounded by the greatest friends. However, I've been

924
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,760
Speaker 1: single for two whole years, and when I say single,

925
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: I mean very single. I haven't gone any dates or

926
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: talk to twenty guys. I'm not a fan of dating apps,

927
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,439
Speaker 1: you're meeting guys at bars, but I am a hope

928
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: it's romantic like Tanya and dream of meeting a wonderful guy.

929
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 1: Any advice on how to go about this? I know

930
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: it's vague, but seriously, any advice would help. And what

931
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: did we tell you? I don't remember what I see?

932
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: What did we tell you? It's funny. I actually just

933
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: listened back to this the other day. Um, okay, So basically,

934
00:53:56,840 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: y'all are very encouraging, and y'all were just like, you

935
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: should just try, like you never know if you don't try, basically,

936
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: and I remember re Becca saying like, if you're at

937
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 1: those bars or if you're like at those places, like

938
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: you might as well just you know, your person might

939
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: be there too, so you might as well just be

940
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: open to it. And so I mean you were encouraging

941
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: of dating apps because I know you'll have told stories

942
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: about like downloading and then deleting them and stuff. So

943
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 1: y'all were basically like, you should just get to try

944
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: and see what happens. But okay, and you did. I did, yes, y'all. Uh.

945
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: I y'all like gave me that advice over the summer.

946
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,799
Speaker 1: So in the fall, I downloaded Hinge and so the

947
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: first time I went on a date and I wasn't

948
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 1: like too crazy about the guy, so I deleted it

949
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 1: because I was like, but in the spring whenever covid

950
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 1: hit um, I had moved to a new city for

951
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: grad school, so I was hopeful I would meet a

952
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 1: lot of people there. Um. But when covid hit, I

953
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: was kind of like, dang, um, I don't know when

954
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to meet someone. So I was like, I'm

955
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 1: gonna try hinge one more time, and so I downloaded it,

956
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 1: and like I started talking to a few people and

957
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: so like my husband now husband messaged me and like

958
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: just a few days later, we went on a date um,

959
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 1: and I just like had a good feeling. I could

960
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: not sleep that night. I was like so excited. And

961
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: then yeah, I just was like, did you kiss him

962
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 1: on the first date? No, we didn't on the first date,

963
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 1: but we went on a second date a few days later,

964
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: and he kissed me on that date. How did the

965
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 1: kiss feel? So? Honestly the first so the first time

966
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,760
Speaker 1: kiss me, we were like, so we went to dinner

967
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: and then we went to a cute wine bar and

968
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: we were just sitting outside. So the first time we

969
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: kissed was like a little bit awkward, but then he

970
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: dropped me off at home and the kiss was much better.

971
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: So we just like that's where it happened, the home

972
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: drop off. Yeah, so it was good. That's where the

973
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 1: vagina tankles come. She always has to take it. Just

974
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:07,720
Speaker 1: family here, right, Mazie. Yes, absolutely. I love you guys.

975
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 1: I yeah, feel are my favorite. Well, I'm so happy

976
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 1: you like to work for something to work, and so

977
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you did that because Tanya also did

978
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 1: that and is with the guy that she met on

979
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: a dating app. Yeah, and like it's true, like you

980
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 1: stepped outside your comfort zone and it's like scary but

981
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 1: exciting and like you would have never met this man

982
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 1: had you not been on the dating app. Correct, Like

983
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 1: you guys never crossed paths. Absolutely not, No. And the

984
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 1: funny thing is, like I was living in downtown Houston

985
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:41,720
Speaker 1: at the time, and he was like in a small

986
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 1: town about an hour outside of where I was living.

987
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 1: So we it turns out, like you know, want to hinge,

988
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: it like connects to you with like your mutual friends.

989
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: So we like had mutual friends. But I mean I

990
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:54,239
Speaker 1: don't think I ever would have met him, you know,

991
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,839
Speaker 1: because he especially since he lived far away from where

992
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,879
Speaker 1: I was. So you like met, gotten engaged after six

993
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 1: and then married six months later. Yeah, it was really

994
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 1: it was really quick. He's uh, he's a little bit

995
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 1: older than me, so I think we were just both sure, like, yeah,

996
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 1: it was a little bit older. So I'm twenty four

997
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: and he's twenty nine. It's not it's not big of

998
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: it age out. But can we see the ring? Yes,

999
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 1: this is my news. This was this was his grandma's ring,

1000
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: and so yes, so I really love it. It's yes,

1001
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for and this is basically we just

1002
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: wanted to prove that the advice that we give does

1003
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 1: work sometimes. I listened back to the podcast. I was like,

1004
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: you know what, they gave me great advice and now

1005
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm married. So everyone everyone, I'm like, Masie, remember what

1006
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 1: your line is. Everyone should listen to Mecca to his advice. Um.

1007
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: So the plug the red star on Hinge. So I

1008
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 1: feel like Hinges just tried and true at this point. Yeah,

1009
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: it's he's the only man I'm ot on Hinge. That's yeah,

1010
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:18,439
Speaker 1: wild yeah, absolutely, I yeah, he's the first the first

1011
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 1: date I went on. Yeah, pretty much, it was he

1012
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: was the one. So well, congratulations, we were so happy

1013
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: for you. We love a success this success story, success story.

1014
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: We love it. Thank you, love to see it and

1015
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: love to see it. Thanks for calling in and giving

1016
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: us an update. That was so fun. It's like when

1017
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 1: I read the email and saw us from two thousand nineteen,

1018
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: I was like, this is so cool. Yeah. No, And

1019
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: I had been meeting to like give an update for

1020
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: a little bit, but I like just got I just

1021
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: got home from the honeymoon and I was like writing

1022
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 1: home and I was like, you know, this is the

1023
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 1: perfect time to just email it. So it's the greatest.

1024
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: It's like not to be like it was a full

1025
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:02,920
Speaker 1: circle moment, you know, like you came in, you got

1026
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: your advice, you took the advice, you did it, you

1027
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: did dated, you got married. Like if this was a file,

1028
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 1: it would be case closed exactly beautifully put by Tanya. Yeah,

1029
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 1: this for a file And what am I trying to say?

1030
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: It wasn't that wasn't um Macy. We love you, Thanks

1031
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: again for listening and for you know, calling back int

1032
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: up data. Yeah, we love you. I love you guys

1033
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: so much. Thanks for we love you. Bye. All right,

1034
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 1: that's fine getting to talk to some of our girls.

1035
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: It was really fun. Limericks, no limericks, but no, no limericks,

1036
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: no naughty jokes. Well maybe we can do that enough.

1037
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah jokes already yeah. Um, we love you guys,

1038
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: have a great week and and we'll see you next time.

1039
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: We love you. Bye M.