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Speaker 1: What's up Its sauce on the side. Welcome back from vacation, Diamond.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Did you go anywhere and do anything fun?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: You going?

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Speaker 2: No? No, not no.

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Speaker 1: I missed you.

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Speaker 2: I missed you too.

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Speaker 1: You know how you can tell if I miss you

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Speaker 1: because I reach out to you. And because when I

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Speaker 1: saw Scotty, because Scotti brought his daughter to Ohio to

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Speaker 1: to show her around. We were standing outside a Donados

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Speaker 1: where there was karaoke.

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Speaker 2: It's a pizza place.

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Speaker 1: It's a chain pizza place, and I could not believe

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Speaker 1: there was karaoke. It was the worst thing I've ever heard,

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Speaker 1: and I thought of you, so we FaceTime you. I

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Speaker 1: was like, these are things Dombe would love. Pizza and

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Speaker 1: horrible karaoke my favorite.

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Speaker 2: It's the best.

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Speaker 1: I wish you would have been there.

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Speaker 3: Do you know I hate when people are good at karaoke,

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Speaker 3: like they can sing, Like, what's the point go fucking

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Speaker 2: Right here, we want horrible singers.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean you would have loved this one. It

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Speaker 2: Are they a pizza place where? Okay, cool, cool, this

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Speaker 1: But wait, you're not a bad karaoke person, but you

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Speaker 1: love karaoke, So how do you fit into that?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? I rap songs or I do? Like,

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Speaker 2: are you not an a good rapper?

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Speaker 3: Sure, as long as you know the words right, But

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Speaker 3: like I'm talking about people who can actually sing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who get up there and they're like this is

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Speaker 1: my moment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like fuck them. There was this girl on a boat.

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Speaker 2: I'll never forget it.

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Speaker 3: It's on a cruise and I did like tutsi roll

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Speaker 3: and won an award, and then she came up right

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Speaker 3: after me. Thankfully she was after me, and she did alone.

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Speaker 3: How can I get killed it?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Killed it? And like a part of me was like, wow,

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Speaker 1: The other half of me was like, fuck you can sing?

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Speaker 2: Go get a record deal, oh, because it's just that easy. Well, like, girl,

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Speaker 1: I always think too when there's somebody up there like

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Speaker 4: You killed it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm like that's how American idol terrible

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Speaker 1: auditions happen. It is that right there. I'm gonna encourage

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, yes, how dare you? I would be amazing.

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Speaker 1: I would not. I would not.

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Speaker 2: Well, you can carry a tune. You and Danielle can't

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Speaker 1: THENO there's carrying a tune, and then there's being a

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Speaker 1: good singer. Those are like wildly different things. You know,

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Speaker 2: Josh, oh god.

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Speaker 1: He like he does all of our imaging, which, by

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Speaker 1: the way, if you don't know what that is, it's

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Speaker 1: the sound effects and the image of our show. He

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Speaker 1: some way. Well, that man cannot sing to save his

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Speaker 1: damn life. He comes in like a key and a

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Speaker 1: half off every time. But damn it if he doesn't

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Speaker 1: give it us all anyway, All right, this podcast has

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Speaker 1: been holding on to for a minute because I recorded

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Speaker 1: it with my dad. I'm a little nervous because I

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Speaker 1: I would like everyone to know he is uncancellable. He's retired,

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Speaker 1: and he gives no fucks. He doesn't care if this

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Speaker 1: is my father. He is an immigrant. He does not

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Speaker 1: Is that fair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's fair. My dad really liked you,

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Speaker 1: You can hulnd my dad hugs. He's actually like very cudly.

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Speaker 1: Really Yeah, his cheeks are so soft. I love giving

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Speaker 1: him kisses anyway. Okay, so here comes my dad. Best

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Speaker 1: Hello Dad, Hello, how are you good?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So you have been probably the most requested person that

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Speaker 1: people want me to have on my podcast.

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Speaker 4: Because they want somebody to laugh at and make the day.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that is it. That's what they want. So I said, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to have my dad come into the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I wanted you to be part of the show this morning,

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Speaker 1: but traffic we got a little late, so you couldn't

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Speaker 1: be on the show. But you're still doing my podcast.

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Speaker 1: So people have sent questions that they want to ask

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Speaker 1: you about me, about you, about family, all kinds of stuff.

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Speaker 4: I will do my best to answer them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the first question, First of all, Dad, thanks for

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Speaker 4: I am delighted to be here. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: What made you come visit?

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Speaker 4: I've not seen you in a long time, and I

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Speaker 4: decided I want to see New York and see if

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Speaker 1: Else and what have you determined?

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Speaker 4: At least you're not living under a bridge. That your

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Speaker 4: nice apartment, Okay, beautiful apartment.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you like it.

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Speaker 4: I'm very very jealous of that apartment.

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Speaker 2: Plea.

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Speaker 1: You have a nice house in Florida. Yeah, with a

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Speaker 4: Beautiful lights out there at night. It looks so beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we could trade anytime.

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Speaker 4: And like I told you, I always love to see

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Speaker 1: That's nice, all right. So the questions they ranged from

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is my dad. His name's per Deep.

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Speaker 1: He's one of my favorite people in the whole wide world.

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Speaker 1: That's how I would introduce you. How would you introduce yourself?

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Speaker 4: Well, as you already announced my name, I don't need

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Speaker 4: to announce it again. No, but I came here to

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Speaker 1: Okay, we have a guest.

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Speaker 2: It's Elvish Dad.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is amazing.

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Speaker 1: We were podcasting.

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Speaker 2: He didn't this?

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Speaker 1: Actually this adds to it. Yeah, nothing, do you want

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: Go, dear thing there you are.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Welcome to New York Dad, Why, thank you so much?

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 5: Now what were you guys talking about? What did I

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Speaker 2: This is we actually just started it?

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Speaker 1: And this works out even better because now you can

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Speaker 1: But my dad was just introducing himself and saying why

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Speaker 4: Actually, Elvis gave me a very good opening. Yeah by

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Speaker 5: Exactly a lot of fathers in this film lot.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's the godfather of radio.

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Speaker 4: Well, let me say something about Elvis. Yes, we got

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Speaker 4: taking all the details from us, and she said, Meyda Gandhi,

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Speaker 4: She goes, You've been here for a long time, very long.

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Speaker 5: You're laughing, and I hear certainly not in look not

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Speaker 6: I've been doing this at this radio station in New

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so a lot of people fly, They fly out

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Speaker 5: Lisa Green from Jersey City. I remember Lisa Green.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how she connected everything. That was amazing.

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Speaker 5: Well, there's not many Gandhi's around.

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Speaker 4: That's true. But then the other incident, and I don't

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, we're the old people hook up with other

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Speaker 6: Finally, finally, hey, quickly they forgot how quickly they forget

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Speaker 4: The right word made them maybe not to riotrioting, notioting.

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Speaker 5: So I missed out in the conversation. You said you

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Speaker 4: The first time I came here was when I came

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Speaker 6: A whole different city.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't seem much different, but it was already so

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Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, I've seen this in pictures before. Whereas

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Speaker 4: many other cities you can tell, oh, it wasn't this way.

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Speaker 5: Again? What do we do with this boy?

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Speaker 4: But actually, my mom was a meat eater and my

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Speaker 4: My dad came, what the hell is all this deodren

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Speaker 4: going on smelling something funny? I said, that's all you're smelling, right, Okay.

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Speaker 5: No problem, And still I mean never found out.

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Speaker 1: Well, outside of all things podcasting, I really just wanted

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Speaker 6: Brother, it's an honor to meet you and thank you

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Speaker 5: How long have we worked together now?

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Speaker 1: Six years?

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Speaker 6: It was just yesterday she arrived here as well. That's

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Speaker 6: That brings up a lot of what it's like living

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Speaker 4: I think she's retarded.

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Speaker 4: There you go. I said, I'm going to leave her

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Speaker 6: Rather than I would like some milk please, So rather

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Speaker 4: Yes, Center one day and the lady said, mister Gandhi,

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Speaker 4: Einstein's theory of relatives.

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Speaker 6: Wow, your daughter is a theory on the marine montessory,

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Speaker 4: Exactly what.

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Speaker 5: She's the opposite of developmentally.

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Speaker 4: Our convolution is mainly to leave them alone.

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Speaker 5: Good good thinking, please.

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Speaker 6: But also I would think that you know, Meida is

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Speaker 4: Rolls and cons and then she moves this one, jumps

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Speaker 6: So maybe there's water in that pool, maybe not dive in.

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Speaker 6: I must leave you now.

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Speaker 7: It's the moment.

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Speaker 5: It's a pleasure meeting you. Oh my god. I could

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Speaker 5: go on and on for hours.

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Speaker 1: With you and your daughter.

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Speaker 4: She tells us you are a blessing to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, she's candy coating that, sugarcoating.

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Speaker 4: That that's one thing you won't get to her. This

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Speaker 5: I love you. I love you even more than.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for stopping.

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Speaker 6: There's more podcast to go, more podcast.

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Speaker 4: Thank you very much, take care bye.

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Speaker 6: Later.

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Speaker 7: God.

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Speaker 2: So okay, So these no, you're okay.

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Speaker 1: These are actually some of the questions that people wanted

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Speaker 1: to ask you. You know, what was it like growing up

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Speaker 1: want to start here, what do you think I do

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Speaker 1: for a living?

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Speaker 4: You have exercise? First thing is you have known from

451
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Speaker 4: childhood what you were, who you were, what your attributes are.

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Speaker 4: With ninety percent of humanity, does not know.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's nice.

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Speaker 4: That led you into the profession of your choice, and

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Speaker 4: when you use your talents into the right profession, your

456
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Speaker 4: contributions are magnificent. Most people, i'm sorry to say, don't

457
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Speaker 4: know that, myself included, and it's at a later age

458
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Speaker 4: that we find out, ooh, I needed to go here. Luckily,

459
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Speaker 4: in my case things worked out fine where I made

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Speaker 4: the choices and moved on. But that early recognition of

461
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Speaker 4: who you are has set the stage for where you

462
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Speaker 4: are and because of that, your contributions turn out to

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Speaker 4: be outstanding. If only all of us knew that, we'd

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Speaker 4: be fine.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's very nice of you, thanks Dad.

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Speaker 4: And I have to say that even with Priya, she

467
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Speaker 4: was very decisive after graduating in journalism for her to

468
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Speaker 4: completely change course do it all on her own. The

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Speaker 4: first time I came to know she had changed her

470
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Speaker 4: career was when she almost graduated from me. Yes, and

471
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Speaker 4: that requires a lot of courage, and for her to

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Speaker 4: take up a profession in which blood is the major

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Speaker 4: factor and she hated the sight of blood tells you

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Speaker 4: how well she thinks. Two things though, so we feel

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Speaker 4: very fortunate to have two wonderful well.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that, but no, my question was what do

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Speaker 1: you think I do? What do you think my job is?

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Speaker 1: What do you think I do for a living?

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Speaker 4: I would say your job is number one to entertain

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Speaker 4: the public at times of stress, okay, and number two

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Speaker 4: to educate them through that process okay, without coming across

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Speaker 4: as if you're lecturing them.

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Speaker 1: So if somebody were to ask you what is your

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Speaker 1: daughter's job, what is your answer?

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Speaker 4: I said, my daughter's job is to inform the people

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Speaker 4: and make them laugh okay, and they are ready to cry.

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Speaker 1: So you wouldn't say she's a co host of a

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Speaker 1: radio show.

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Speaker 4: I would assume they knew that.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 4: That's why, because the people asking me would be very

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Speaker 4: much the ones who know you're on a show.

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Speaker 1: Well, Prayer and I were talking the other day and

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Speaker 1: we said, you know, I don't know if somebody asked

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Speaker 1: mom and dad what do both of us do? If

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Speaker 1: they would be able to say it in one sentence,

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Speaker 1: what either of us do?

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Speaker 4: But see, if I tell everybody you're a co host

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Speaker 4: of a radio show, it is not as impressive, okay

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Speaker 4: as telling them what you actually do.

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Speaker 1: But you know I'm a co host of a radio show. Yes, okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: And what would you say?

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Speaker 4: I don't bring that kind of I would say inhibits.

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Speaker 4: Like I told Elvis earlier, Indian parents is they don't

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Speaker 4: like to boast about it. No, no, no, no, tend to

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Speaker 4: boast about them, so it can be easily construed by

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Speaker 4: people as if we're boasting. So careful about how we

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Speaker 4: come across.

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Speaker 1: I totally get that. And I actually don't think you know.

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Speaker 1: I told you I don't want you guys to talk

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Speaker 1: about my job. I just want you to talk about

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Speaker 1: us as people whomever we are. Lot no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I would rather you not do it. We were just

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Speaker 1: wondering if both of you, if you and Mom actually

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Speaker 1: knew what we did.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, absolutely. Mom actually thinks she is the co

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Speaker 4: host with you on Elvis Durantro.

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Speaker 1: Did she figure out how to get the iHeartRadio app

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Speaker 1: back on her phone?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if she's figured out how that phone works.

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Speaker 4: Did you?

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Speaker 1: You don't have it on your phone either.

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Speaker 3: Do you? Uh?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't have that app?

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Speaker 1: No, because you just got a new iPhone right, okay, and.

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Speaker 4: I'm still trying to master Remember this is my first smartphone.

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Speaker 1: I know you had a flip phone until a few

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Speaker 1: weeks ago. A flip phone. That is nuts. Do you know?

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Speaker 4: I do not like the iPhone because to me, the

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Speaker 4: purpose of a phone is communications, that's it. Okay, my

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Speaker 4: flip phone, I could do everything I wanted except text messages.

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Speaker 1: And now you're texting like a champion.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but that did not connect people too.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay.

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Speaker 4: It's a matter of time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll figure it out.

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Speaker 4: And don't get me wrong. I love the technology. It

538
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Speaker 4: is the misuse to which it can be put so

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Speaker 4: that bothers me. Okay, so that's why the flip phone.

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Speaker 4: You could not misuse it that way. Dad.

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Speaker 1: I was so mad when you broke the first flip

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Speaker 1: phone and you went to the store to get it fixed.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were going to come out with a

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Speaker 1: smartphone because I didn't know they had flip phones. And

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Speaker 1: when you came home with a second flip phone, correct,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to have that guy's ass. You said. He

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Speaker 1: walked back in the back, found a box and was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: we have another flip phone for you.

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Speaker 4: I would have had a third flip phone had they

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Speaker 4: not said that we don't repay these phones anymore.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, thank god. Because it's a relic, it

552
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Speaker 1: might as well be on the Titan.

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Speaker 4: Yes, so am I kind of relic too. Okay, I'm

554
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Speaker 4: proud of it all right.

555
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Speaker 1: Other questions that were submitted by listeners of our podcast.

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Speaker 4: So I need to know the names who these listeners are?

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Speaker 7: I don't.

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Speaker 1: We don't have names.

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Speaker 7: I have.

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Speaker 4: I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: I have Instagram handles, and I know you don't like

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Speaker 1: Instagram and all that stuff either.

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Speaker 4: The only gramm I know is Telegram.

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Speaker 1: Wait you know telegram?

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Speaker 4: I mean sending a telegram, Oh.

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Speaker 1: Like the instant telegram, because you know Telegram is.

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Speaker 4: An app now too, Oh I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's.

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Speaker 1: It's like another social platform where you can talk to

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Speaker 1: people and communicate.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, Why do you need so many platforms

572
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Speaker 4: when there are already so many there?

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Speaker 1: Well, a lot of people don't like certain censorship on

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Speaker 1: certain platforms, so then they'll go somewhere else where they

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Speaker 1: think they have more free speech.

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Speaker 4: Some people don't like that choice. So you get to

577
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Speaker 4: talk to everybody whatever you want, you.

578
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Speaker 1: Like calling them?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, all right, what wait?

580
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Speaker 4: Wait? Wait, I got to say something about what calling

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Speaker 4: versus texting. Yeah, I have seen you and Priya sitting

582
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Speaker 4: in the car are as, my passengers and people from

583
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Speaker 4: other cars looking inside to see what these monkeys are doing.

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Speaker 4: You look like crazed, insane people banging away at the iPhone.

585
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Speaker 1: Now, welcome.

586
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Speaker 4: You would not have had that problem with the flip phone.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the club. Now you're going to do the

588
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Speaker 1: same thing.

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Speaker 4: Use it for I just use it for a couple

590
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Speaker 4: of things, communications, meaning contacts and text That's it. I

591
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Speaker 4: yet to look at any of the apps. I asked

592
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Speaker 4: the Apple guy, can you delete all these apps from

593
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Speaker 4: the phone? And he looked at me like I was insane.

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Speaker 4: He said, so, why are you buying an iPhone? Yes,

595
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Speaker 4: I said, only for this.

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Speaker 1: And you also put a case on your phone that

597
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Speaker 1: protects it. But you can't use the camera.

598
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Speaker 4: You have to take the case off.

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Speaker 1: You have to take the case off to use the camera.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't need to do a case off.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 4: What I do is it's for those who are in

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Speaker 4: the know. I have an outer box case and the

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Speaker 4: auto box case comes as a case with a holster

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Speaker 4: feathers that it protect the camera. Yeah, cover when you

606
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Speaker 4: want to take a picture all you do is take

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Speaker 4: the holster out.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You're going to take the case off.

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Speaker 1: You have to take it out of that thing to

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Speaker 1: take a picture.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't take the case out of the phone.

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Speaker 4: What I don't take the case off the phone.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're saying, just the just the whole thing that

614
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Speaker 1: clips on. But still you have to take it off

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Speaker 1: to take a picture.

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Speaker 4: And I want to take pictures.

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Speaker 1: Have you even taken a picture? Who'd taken one?

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Speaker 4: No? Okay, no, cool? But I want to remind you

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Speaker 4: of what George Carlin said.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 4: Please For those who don't know, George Carlin was a

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Speaker 4: great comedian okay in the nineties, and in one of

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Speaker 4: his episodes, he said, what is this thing with the

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Speaker 4: one hour development of photographs? You just saw the damn thing.

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Speaker 4: Why do you have to take a picture of it?

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Speaker 7: Now?

627
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Speaker 4: That's how I operate.

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Speaker 1: That is not true.

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Speaker 2: You love photos.

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Speaker 1: You love looking at a picture, a baby picture of

631
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Speaker 1: Prea and I or Pria's wedding pictures.

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Speaker 2: You always want to see pictures, you say.

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Speaker 1: Send me photos. Whenever I take a trip, send me photos.

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Speaker 1: You want to see them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because now I don't travel anymore. Okay, try not

636
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Speaker 4: to travel, so I get all my vacations for watching videos. Okay,

637
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 4: normally I watched those videos on the computer. So if

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Speaker 4: you send me the photographs, I watch it on my

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00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 4: computer so I can see. Okay, may that I went

640
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Speaker 4: to Mexico and this is how Mexico looks.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: When I was traveling a lot, it didn't matter to me.

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Speaker 4: I could go and see it for myself. Okay, But

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Speaker 4: now because I'm not traveling, I've had so many vacations

645
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 4: sitting at home. Okay, I've seen the entire Russian countryside.

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Speaker 4: I've traveled the Trans Siberian Railway. Now we all wants

647
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Speaker 4: to travel in person, I don't. I've seen it all. Okay,

648
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Speaker 4: fair enough, I can give advice to people who want

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Speaker 4: to go.

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Speaker 1: Next listener submitted question, I don't think we've even gotten

651
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Speaker 1: really any yet. What are you least proud of? When

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Speaker 1: it comes to me? Least least proud.

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Speaker 4: Of that I cut your hair and made you look

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Speaker 4: like a boy.

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Speaker 1: That's true. That was so bad. Do you remember how

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Speaker 1: often people used to ask me if I was a

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Speaker 1: boy or a girl.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't I preparing you for today's world?

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Speaker 1: Then oh yeah, thanks, that's why now I want to

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Speaker 1: have so much hair and all the hair all the time,

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Speaker 1: because you made me look like a little mushroom like

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Speaker 1: every Indian kid, by the way, gets these horrible haircuts.

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Speaker 1: So thanks a lot, but.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, that's the one thing I'm not proud of everyone.

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00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: But that's something that you're not proud of about you?

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00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: What about me? What about me?

667
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 2: Are you least proud of?

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00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: And you're not gonna hurt my.

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Speaker 4: Feelings about you that I'm least proud of about me?

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Speaker 4: I really cannot think of anything, okay nothing. I would

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Speaker 4: probably say I'm most proud of you about many things,

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Speaker 4: but I don't think anything i'm least proud of you.

673
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Speaker 4: The most proud of you I am is you can

674
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 4: associate with its comebacks, You can associate with wonderful people

675
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 4: and not lose even the slightest knowledge of who you are.

676
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you really didn't like some of my friends growing up.

677
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, and time proved it to be true.

678
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you're right, So that to.

679
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 4: Me, I cannot think of a single thing that I'm

680
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 4: not proud of about you and Priya.

681
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: Wow, really, what a nice thing to say.

682
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 4: Thanks Dad, okay, and I would tell you right now.

683
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: I know you would, I have no doubt. So I

684
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: tell stories about you a mom on the air all

685
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: the time, and people don't believe them. They think there's

686
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: no way that that happened. And some of them make

687
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: me laugh all the time. You guys make me laugh

688
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: all the time. But specifically, you know, we live in

689
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: this age where parents are just clapping for their kids

690
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: all the time. You're amazing. Everything you do is the

691
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: best thing that's ever been done. And people don't believe

692
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: me that you showed up to our school to tell

693
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: the teachers that they gave us too good of a grade.

694
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 4: Yes, we did, absolutely we did. And you can see

695
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 4: today what's happening in education.

696
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

697
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 4: Right, to get a report card on your English language

698
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 4: writing which was full of spelling errors, full of grammatical errors,

699
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 4: and then to read that you got a bee is

700
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 4: an insult to us.

701
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: So you came to the school to tell the teacher

702
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: that it is an insult that she gave a bee. Yea,

703
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: and in fact that paper deserved a lower grade. Right,

704
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: very shocking for that teacher.

705
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 4: Nope, she was actually actually she was afraid when she

706
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 4: met us. She said what's the matter. Should I have

707
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 4: given them an A? And that really made Mangola and

708
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 4: me live it.

709
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: That's my mom.

710
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, and we said, what are you talking about? This

711
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 4: paper deserves an F. And she was breathing such a

712
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 4: sigh of relief. She said, mister Gandhi, you have no

713
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 4: idea how much grief I tolerate because parents come here

714
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 4: demanding that their kids get an A. Yeah, and today

715
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 4: we are seeing the result of that poor grading process everywhere, I.

716
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: Bet, and now we are. I'm actually really glad that

717
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: you guys did that. I say all the time, I

718
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: am very happy almost everything that you and mom told

719
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: me when I was younger, you will thank me for

720
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: this when you grow up. You're right about I actually

721
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 1: can't think of the things that you were not right about.

722
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: So I'm just going to say, you guys were right

723
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: about a lot of it. And I'm glad that you

724
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: guys were hard on us. And I'm glad that you

725
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: guys didn't just clap all the time and you were

726
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: honest with us, and that you made us do our

727
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: own work. I'm very happy about that.

728
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 4: I'm not proud of saying that you will thank us

729
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 4: for it. I'm proud that you understood and appreciated it

730
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 4: and took full advantage of it. That's what I'm proud about.

731
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys made us very self reliant and independent,

732
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: and we figured out how to, you know, get around

733
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: a lot of things.

734
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 4: I was actually simply carrying on a tradition of my parents. Yeah,

735
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 4: because when I was in school in India, I remember

736
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 4: my father coming to school and berating the teacher for

737
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 4: giving me a higher grade than I deserved.

738
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: Oh, so you were just paying it forward.

739
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, great.

740
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: Are you having fun doing this?

741
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 4: Enjoying it?

742
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 7: Yeah?

743
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 4: I'm also amazed by the technology.

744
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: Amazing of the studio incredibly Yeah, it's pretty cool. It's fun.

745
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: It's a fun. Oh you want to see something cool?

746
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 4: Hold on.

747
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: So we have these screens in here, and we can

748
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: change them to be Oh, there's me.

749
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 4: Baby, hot sauce.

750
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: That's me sauce on the side. That's the name of

751
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: the podcast, by the way, did you know that?

752
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, the name of this podcast.

753
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: Do I banned you? And mom? Mom? Does do you?

754
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: Mom told me you guys listen sometimes together.

755
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 4: You know what I find out is what she tells me. Yeah,

756
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 4: you said and not by watching.

757
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: So the only reason I banned you guys and by

758
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: banned no. No, but this is you have to This

759
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: is my reasoning. So everybody knows. I think Indian kids,

760
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: first generation Indian kids, we all have double lives. We

761
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: have our regular life and then we have the lives

762
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: our parents think we lead. I think I've blurred those

763
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: lines a lot more than most Indian kids have, because

764
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: most of them just have completely double lives separate, you know.

765
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 1: I mean again, we have the life that we live,

766
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: and then we have the life our parents think we live.

767
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 7: No, not at all.

768
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 2: Okay, either way.

769
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: The only reason I don't want you a mom to

770
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: listen is because mom just has a lot of critiques.

771
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: She likes to tell me the things I should and

772
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 1: shouldn't say. I said like that, I guess so. But

773
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:05,719
Speaker 1: I always say, Mom, I got this far doing it

774
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: the way that I'm doing it. I'm not going to

775
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,280
Speaker 1: change it now. She thinks I make fun of myself

776
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: off the podcast. No, No, we're recording.

777
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 4: I mean we're recording here. Why what were you going

778
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 4: to say? Mom?

779
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: Go ahead?

780
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 4: No, I don't want to be killed, so.

781
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: Fair enough. Yeah, okay, So back to the questions from

782
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: listeners things that they want to know what was or

783
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: are some of your favorite childhood memories of me of you?

784
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, there are quite a few. One of my earliest,

785
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 4: not my earliest, but most poignant memories was when Wiley

786
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 4: came to the house for a party and he's a

787
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,399
Speaker 4: big guy, yeah, and I told him, you know, maya

788
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 4: could fit into your shoe. And he started roaring with

789
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 4: laughter and he said, kem running to me. I didn't

790
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:56,479
Speaker 4: know what their dad said.

791
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, dad. If I we had a

792
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 1: dollar for the amount of times people said do you

793
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: know what your dad said? I would be so rich.

794
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 1: I have no doubt that after Elvis walked out of

795
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: this room, he went and told everybody out there about

796
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: our conversation. Old everybody.

797
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 4: But the other other memory I have is when we're

798
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:17,399
Speaker 4: staying in that.

799
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: Apartment or in South Florida.

800
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 4: In North North Northtown apartments in Columbus, Ohio.

801
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

802
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, you came one day and you were kind of crying,

803
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 4: and you were you had come running home, and I

804
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 4: had looked out and you were running home yelling at

805
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 4: some kids, saying wait till I grow up, I'll kill you.

806
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 2: Oh.

807
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 4: And then you came home. He had kind of been

808
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 4: rough with you. He was word three times your side.

809
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like twelve, and I think I was

810
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: like five or six.

811
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 4: If you looked like he was twenty one. Okay, But anyway,

812
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 4: you came home and you asked me a question, not

813
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 4: that day, but the next day. I think, so, Dad,

814
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 4: what happens if someone if you throw a banana peel

815
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 4: in front of somebody? And I said, boy, you'll slip

816
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 4: and fall. Well, a few days went by and I

817
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 4: was pulling in home from work and a whole bunch

818
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 4: of your friends came running up to my car and said,

819
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 4: mister Gandhi, mister Ghandhi, you know what made that is?

820
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 4: And I said, no, she threw a banana peel in

821
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 4: front of that bum, and he slipped and hit his

822
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 4: head on the concrete. And may that I told him,

823
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 4: next time, you'll be dead. Yeah, And the guy never

824
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 4: fooled with you again. I said, I was proud you

825
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 4: were not a Mahatma Gandhi descendant.

826
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: You I'm a descendant, not a disciple.

827
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 4: Exactly right, exactly, So.

828
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: That is actually another question. First of all, I think

829
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,760
Speaker 1: if I would have told that story and told people

830
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: I threw a banana peel at someone and made him

831
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: fall and crack his head, nobody would have believed it.

832
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 2: So I'm glad that you relate the stories.

833
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, because.

834
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 1: I think a lot of things just seem unbelievable, but

835
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: if you hear them from another person, maybe more believable.

836
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: So one of the other questions was, what do you

837
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: think Gandhi g would think of both of us, of

838
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: you and of me. That's a tough one. I never

839
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: know what to say because I didn't know.

840
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 4: What he would think. But I know one thing he

841
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 4: would appreciate that we are both following what we want,

842
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 4: not trying to be blind disciples of him like many

843
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 4: of his other relatives are. I don't believe in derived glory.

844
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 4: The glory has to be ours. We have to earn

845
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 4: our own way. Just because I'm born as his grandson

846
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 4: doesn't mean that or a great grandson, and doesn't mean

847
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 4: that I have to follow everything he says. Sure, like

848
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 4: you said, we are his descendants, not his disciples. We

849
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 4: are to think for ourselves because what was right for

850
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 4: him may not be right today. But one of the

851
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:44,720
Speaker 4: things I disagree with him the most is his obsessive

852
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 4: policy of non violence. Had he been under Hitler, he

853
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 4: would have been killed and not even heard from again. Okay, Okay,

854
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 4: so that's one of the pink things. You have followed

855
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,479
Speaker 4: your own rules. You followed your own principles in life

856
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 4: right from a young age, and I'm very proud of that.

857
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 4: That's why I say, if we had very little to

858
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 4: do with yours and Pria's advancement in their careers, but

859
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 4: we are proud that you are our kids.

860
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,399
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that at all. I think, even

861
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 1: though you will always say you raised us with benign

862
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: neglect and that's why we turned out the way that

863
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:22,439
Speaker 1: we did, I think you guys played such a key

864
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: integral role in the way that we are in taking

865
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: personal accountability for things and following through with things and

866
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 1: not quitting. You guys didn't let us watch TV forever,

867
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 1: and I'm really happy at this point in my life.

868
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm happy that you didn't.

869
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 4: I'm thankful that you think that way. But you know,

870
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 4: to expand a little bit, Bill Gates and Steve Jobs

871
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 4: both banned their kids from being near any screen device

872
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 4: until they were twelve years old. That included television. That

873
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 4: included iPads that included anything that had a screen. They

874
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 4: were smart enough to know what it can do to children. Yeah,

875
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 4: a child learns best by doing, not by sitting on

876
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 4: a sofa and playing with a machine that has nothing

877
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 4: to do with the real world very little. And you're

878
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 4: seeing the results there today. Sure, where kids can't write,

879
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 4: they can't read, it's unfortunate.

880
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: Sure, But I'm glad that you guys did those things.

881
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: I really am. And I'm glad that you made us,

882
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 1: even though I hated it at the time. You always

883
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: made us do extra homework, especially in summertime. You didn't

884
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 1: like that school just stopped for that amount of time,

885
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: so you gave us your own homework and we had

886
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: to write two to four essays every single day before

887
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 1: we could go out and do anything. And I'll tell

888
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: you what, Dad, I'm pretty good at Jeopardy now because

889
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: of that. Because of that.

890
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 4: And on the homework side and all. I have to

891
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,439
Speaker 4: give Mom the credit because she did a lot more

892
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 4: of that than I did. And when I think of

893
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,879
Speaker 4: how much time she spent with you guys, taking your

894
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 4: gymnastics and all these things while not becoming a soccer

895
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 4: mom speaks well for her too. Yeah, you have to

896
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 4: give the devil the credit.

897
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: Yes, you call him on the devil.

898
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 4: Yes, because I'm senior deVie.

899
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, the two of you together a pair of Satans.

900
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 1: One of the things I also really appreciate that you

901
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 1: guys did for us was instill And I've said this

902
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: on the show so many times, and they say it too.

903
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 1: Your lack of planning is not my emergency.

904
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 4: That I believe in one percent.

905
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: I know, but let me tell you, as a little kid,

906
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 1: that's a pain in the ass, because how many kids

907
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,240
Speaker 1: are really planning. Kids don't plan their kids.

908
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 4: However, you planned very well how to make our lives miserable?

909
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 4: Oh did I very well plot out?

910
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 1: Oh you're miserable. This is you being miserable. Yes, yeah, right,

911
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: you look so tortured.

912
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 4: Oh my god, telling me that you're surprised that I

913
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 4: look like a ninety year old guy. Yeah, I'm only seventy.

914
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, Dad, you don't have one wrinkle.

915
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 1: I don't know how it's possible. There's not a wrinkle

916
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: on that damn head. But you've given everyone else wrinkles,

917
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:16,800
Speaker 1: and I need to know how it happened.

918
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,240
Speaker 4: The wrinkles I gave you. Guys made you look better.

919
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: How do you not have wrinkles? You laugh all day long,

920
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: you laugh all the time, you have a good time.

921
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: Not a wrinkle. I'm looking at you right now, not one.

922
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 4: Well, that's because they're not looking well.

923
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: No, I can see.

924
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 4: Please, I've heard a wrinkled head.

925
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:30,800
Speaker 2: Please.

926
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: Anyway, what is something that always makes you think of me?

927
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 4: Think of you?

928
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

929
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 4: I have to keep coming back to the fact that,

930
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 4: because it is a very very important thing that from

931
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 4: the youngest days of your life you thought differently from

932
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 4: most people. What I thought of you as being retarded

933
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 4: was actually you being very different, okay, And that difference

934
00:41:56,400 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 4: today is blossomed into who you are. And I remember

935
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 4: in school, wherever you went, you're a swarm of kids

936
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 4: behind you, like mosquitoes after a guy who was sweating,

937
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 4: And I found that amazing. You were not the epitome

938
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 4: of a perfect kid at school, yet to have this

939
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 4: huge crowd behind you was amazing to me. Prior took

940
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 4: a brunt of our learning experience, as every older kid

941
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 4: will tell you, Yeah, they're the brunt of their parents'

942
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 4: learning experiences. And in spite of that brunt, even she

943
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 4: turned out beautifully. Yeah, we're very proud of both of you.

944
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: She's awesome. I will say I would like to apologize

945
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: to you, a mom, because, as you said in a

946
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 1: very nice way, I was not necessarily the perfect kid

947
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: when it came to school. You guys spent a lot

948
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: of times coming in and talking to principals or teachers

949
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 1: or whomever because I was a little naughty, which is

950
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 1: actually one of the other questions. What were some of

951
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,320
Speaker 1: the mischievous or naughty things that you can remember about

952
00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 1: me growing up?

953
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 4: Mischievous things?

954
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 2: You know.

955
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 4: It's funny. Mom and I were talking a few weeks

956
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 4: ago about you guys and how kids were getting into

957
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 4: all this kind of trouble. We know people whose kids

958
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 4: got into trouble of a very terrible kind, like what drugs, alcohol?

959
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 4: Some of them are into prostitution.

960
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 2: What you guys have friends who have hookers for kids?

961
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 4: Not when they were young. At that age, we didn't

962
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 4: think they were prostitutes. But I should say lose people

963
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 4: and I won't name any names. Hello, you can keep talking.

964
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 1: I invited Diamond and in case she had one question

965
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 1: for you, Oh yeah, yeah, but no, no, no, finish what

966
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: you're saying so you were talking.

967
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I can remember some of the unfortunate things,

968
00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 4: especially when we moved Florida and you told me you

969
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 4: wanted some money from your savings account that you had

970
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 4: built up very well to help out two guys who

971
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 4: had been unfortunately arrested, and to give them the bail money.

972
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: Yep.

973
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 4: And I remember telling you may that get ready to

974
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 4: lose your money and your friends yep. And you said no, no, no, no,

975
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 4: that will never happen. And it showed dead yep. But

976
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 4: what's more important is not that you defied me, but

977
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 4: that you learned from it. That's what life's all.

978
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll never build anyone out of jail again. Want

979
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: and done.

980
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, just kidding out. You still to bail people

981
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 4: out of jail. You need to revise your friends.

982
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: Happens that it happened, so that I remember.

983
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 4: There were unfortunate incidents, but nothing that I could say

984
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 4: made us regret.

985
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: You have no regrets, none for you guys.

986
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: Let me tell you this. I've said this to Diamond

987
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,439
Speaker 1: before too. Most of the people that I know now

988
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: who have kids, including my friends, they're like all of

989
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: my kids, and they're cool. But if I could do

990
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: it again, I wouldn't no.

991
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 4: No, no. If the only regret I have is the

992
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 4: way I was and I would do things differently today,

993
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 4: what would I do differently? I was tough with you guys, tyrant,

994
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 4: but in some ways I was brutal. Yes, now, in

995
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 4: India that would not have been considered out of the

996
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 4: way at all.

997
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: I tell them all the time, Indian parents are crazy breed.

998
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 4: I believe the love is very different. And I'm sorry

999
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 4: to say, I don't intend to offend any Americans, but

1000
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 4: to just put a little placard out there saying we

1001
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 4: love our kids drove slowly doesn't cut it. If you

1002
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 4: really love your kids, you should be involved in them

1003
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 4: all the time, involved with them in every aspect of

1004
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 4: their lives, without trying to dictate. I never saw that

1005
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 4: in many American parents, and that's why we today have

1006
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 4: the problem. And I'm sorry. I don't mean to be

1007
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 4: a lecturing person. Okay, okay, we can worry for this country.

1008
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 4: I worry about the future of the youngsters. And you

1009
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 4: cannot produce youngsters if you don't teach them adversity. And

1010
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 4: the whole attempt prize right now is to avoid adversity

1011
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 4: with the kids the way I grew up. The best

1012
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 4: friend you could have was someone who told you what

1013
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 4: you needed to know, not what you wanted to hear.

1014
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 4: The best friend you can have is an honest critic.

1015
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 4: And unfortunately, in our country today, we can't handle criticism

1016
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,760
Speaker 4: and that's why we have so many problems.

1017
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sure we'll get some criticism on this podcast.

1018
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:35,439
Speaker 1: I can't wait, Diamond, I asked you earlier. So Diamond, Dad, Diamond, Diamond, Dad,

1019
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,919
Speaker 1: you met her downstairs, she walked you up. I don't

1020
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 1: know how I would do a lot of things without her,

1021
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 1: specifically this podcast. That beeping Diamond just wondered what it was.

1022
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: It's a blood monitor for sugar. Yes, someone went to

1023
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:47,280
Speaker 1: krispy Kreme.

1024
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 2: You went to Krispy Kreme. Yes, yes, okay.

1025
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 4: There are times my legs are not under my control,

1026
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 4: just like my car is not. Oh that's true, driving

1027
00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 4: by a Krispy Kream. The steering will suddenly turn. Cannot

1028
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 4: control it.

1029
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: That you know what, Dad, That also happens when you're

1030
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: not driving by Krispy Kreme and you just hit curbs only.

1031
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 2: He said, Okay, so I feel like.

1032
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: You'll appreciate this time and then you can ask your

1033
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: question or if you have a question. So my dad,

1034
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: my sister and I tell my mom and dad all

1035
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: the time, like we just want to hire you guys

1036
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,399
Speaker 1: a driver, Like, let's just get you guys a driver.

1037
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: Because he says, he says this, I don't say this.

1038
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,720
Speaker 1: I've been in the car and I experienced it. He says,

1039
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:29,439
Speaker 1: he drives by sound. He doesn't wear his hearing aids

1040
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 1: half the time because he thinks that people are going

1041
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: to tap into them, so he doesn't want to wear them.

1042
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: So he doesn't have great vision. And he says he

1043
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: drives my sound, but he won't wear his hearing aids.

1044
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: So that's the type of driver we're dealing with over here.

1045
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just go by the sound and I hear

1046
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 4: somebody going ah, somebody don't.

1047
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: Okay, this is my father. A couple curves have met

1048
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: their maker from things hit.

1049
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 4: The cars have kept going.

1050
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: And that is the important part. Yeah, I won't bring

1051
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: up all of the things. But Diamond, did you have

1052
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 1: any questions for my dad?

1053
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 2: I just want to know what she was like as

1054
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: a child.

1055
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 4: Oh, there you go, she was like as a child.

1056
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, what was she like as a child?

1057
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 4: Well, if you look closely, there are two stubs of

1058
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 4: horns on her head. Yeah, yeah, one two stubs of horns,

1059
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 4: and I had to chop them off. Luckily they've stopped

1060
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 4: growing again.

1061
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: And you're saying I was a Satanic child. Satanic satanic

1062
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 1: child as.

1063
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 4: A child, she was truly, Seriously, I was just telling

1064
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 4: her that earlier, and I'm afraid I'm repeating myself here.

1065
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 4: She was a cut from a different cloth. She had

1066
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 4: a different view. People would look at something, she would

1067
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 4: look at it and have a completely different perspective on it.

1068
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 4: So after a while I realized it's best to leave

1069
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:57,760
Speaker 4: her alone because that perspective will grow into a nice person.

1070
00:48:58,160 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 3: At the end of it all, you think she's a

1071
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 3: nice Person's she's a competent person.

1072
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: Wow, dad, Well an honest critic, we have one here.

1073
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 4: We know we love her that I will say.

1074
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 1: You know, I never doubt that you love me.

1075
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 4: I will tell you that we butt heads on many things.

1076
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, we go at.

1077
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 4: It, but that's what it's all about.

1078
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1079
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 4: If two people think the same way all the time,

1080
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 4: only one is doing the thinking. Okay, it's an old problem.

1081
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 4: So we seldom agree on Manythings. So she was always

1082
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 4: a different kid from the beginning. And you will notice

1083
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 4: that people who tend to think differently are not cut

1084
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 4: out for school because school school regiments you. Okay, and

1085
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 4: I don't mean to put Mesa in the same class

1086
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 4: because I think she does belong there. But Albert Einstein

1087
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 4: kicked out of school. It was totally never amount to anything.

1088
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 4: Thomas Edison, Steve Jobs in most recent times.

1089
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: Okay, you can put me in that class.

1090
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 4: I'm go on, that's a parent who did it, But

1091
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 4: I do. Steve Jobs. If you watch go back and

1092
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 4: watch his commencement speech. I think it was the universit

1093
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 4: of San Diego Somewhere he talks precisely about that originality. See,

1094
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 4: a creative person sees possibilities where others cannot. So you

1095
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 4: and I might see and see this little technology piece

1096
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 4: and saw the buttons here, this switch is there, wonderful.

1097
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 4: Steve Jobs would look at it and say, how can

1098
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 4: I make it smaller? So that's why creativity is so important. Now,

1099
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 4: where creativity has a liability is many creative people cannot

1100
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 4: determine which creative idea is really workable and which is not.

1101
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 4: That's where you need us ordinary people, us meaning me,

1102
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 4: not you.

1103
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 2: No, I think we're ordinary.

1104
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 4: That's why we need to tell them, Hey, there's bullshit.

1105
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 4: There's not going to work. If a creative person doesn't

1106
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 4: have that kind of person with them, they often end

1107
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 4: up going way off the rails.

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00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: Oh thank god I had all of you.

1109
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 4: That you need.

1110
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 3: I have two questions. I don't know which one you did.

1111
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 3: You did kind of the first one. Did you give

1112
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 3: her spankings as a child?

1113
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 4: Yes?

1114
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 3: Absolutely, see, this is what I'm talking about. Did you

1115
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 3: put her over the lap and spank her? Or did

1116
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 3: you grab the hand and let her try to run

1117
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 3: away and spank?

1118
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 2: Which one combinations? She seems like a kid who needed

1119
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 2: and asked.

1120
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, oh, I'm so sorry that to somebody's dad.

1121
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 1: I just thought about that.

1122
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1123
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: Did you even hear what she said? Did you even

1124
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: hear what she said? Yeah, that's okay, you're okay.

1125
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 2: Okay, speaking of that, what's your favorite curse word?

1126
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 4: My favorite? Yeah?

1127
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: I don't even think of Let me tell you what.

1128
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: This is a plot to us, because I will say this,

1129
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: I don't ever really hear my dad cursing. He they

1130
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: grew up speaking like the English that they learned is

1131
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 1: kind of British English. So he says bloody, Like that's

1132
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 1: the worst thing that I've heard him say, is like

1133
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,919
Speaker 1: this bloody idiot. You know, but I don't. I don't

1134
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: really hear you curse that often publicly.

1135
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:33,280
Speaker 2: I don't hear you curse privately.

1136
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:35,399
Speaker 1: You curse in your head.

1137
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 4: No, I don't say that.

1138
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: You don't say that, Okay, use it on me. There's

1139
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: some interesting stuff about you. He really doesn't curse. He'll

1140
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: say he'll say things that are like it should have

1141
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: been a curse word.

1142
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 4: But instead wat like George Carlin.

1143
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:57,280
Speaker 1: Yes, he loves a good comedy show. I never really

1144
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: saw him like fawning over women or even acting like,

1145
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: you know, like I do. I always say he looks

1146
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: at food the way I think most men look at women,

1147
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: like like if a nice dosa walks by, he's like,

1148
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 1: what was that?

1149
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 3: You know.

1150
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 4: Muslims they believe in going to heaven and they get

1151
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 4: seventy two virgins. Yes, that's their philosophy. I formally believe

1152
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 4: when I go to heaven, I have seventy two waitress

1153
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 4: waitress coming.

1154
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 7: It's all.

1155
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 2: He wants it all. He cares about.

1156
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 1: The Only two people I ever even heard him say

1157
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: were pretty were Aliyah and Whitney Houston. You would if

1158
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 1: I showed you her picture, you recognize her. She was

1159
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: a singer. She died in like the very early two thousands.

1160
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: But you were walking by one day and you saw

1161
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: her in a music video and you said, huh, she

1162
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: might have been on a horse at some point.

1163
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. It was a music video. It was

1164
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 2: the Rock the Boat music video.

1165
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 4: No, it was the Rock the Boat. I know.

1166
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: You just never say it just so he doesn't care

1167
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: about anything he's like.

1168
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,760
Speaker 4: Because you know, no, No, that's not why I think

1169
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 4: looks are fleeting. You know, so many of I have

1170
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 4: seen so many times the most beautiful women ending up

1171
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 4: looking the ugliest old women old at the other way

1172
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:20,640
Speaker 4: around too. I have seen in my school in Indiana

1173
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:28,479
Speaker 4: really good looking guys whose parents were ugliest. Sin. That's

1174
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 4: how mother nature works. Nobody knows how it works, you know.

1175
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 4: So to me, looks are a passing glory. You know. See,

1176
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 4: if I am to marry somebody and I marry them

1177
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 4: just for the looks and nothing else matches, imagine how

1178
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 4: miserable they're going to be you know.

1179
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I have one last question, but you have to

1180
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: speak into the microphone.

1181
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 4: Okay, can you hear me now?

1182
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can. I can hear you the whole time,

1183
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: but it's not yeah, yeah, all right. So everybody here

1184
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 1: knows I don't want to get married. They would like

1185
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: to know how you feel about that.

1186
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 4: Well, I've passed your word on to a lot of people,

1187
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 4: have you, and they've adopted your philosophy that marriage is

1188
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 4: a scam by the government to take your.

1189
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:10,839
Speaker 1: Money, but the other person.

1190
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 4: And them are non lunatic asylum.

1191
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 2: So how do you feel about it?

1192
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:22,320
Speaker 4: By the way, Diamond.

1193
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,880
Speaker 1: Calls the allatic all the time.

1194
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 2: I think she's a lunatic.

1195
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 1: Sure, excellent. How do you feel about that?

1196
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 4: The choice is yours and we have I certainly have

1197
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 4: no problem with it.

1198
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 7: All right.

1199
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a good note to end on.

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00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: Is there anything you wanted to say you wanted to add?

1201
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 4: The only thing I want to add is I hope

1202
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 4: those who are viewing this podcast view it with the

1203
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 4: same sense of bluntness and honesty that we've both engaged in.

1204
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 4: And if you don't, my apologies, but I hope you

1205
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 4: had a.

1206
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: Good time that was nice. Thanks Dad for joining me.

1207
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 1: I appreciate it.

1208
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 4: Thank you for having me on any time, Diamond for

1209
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 4: your questions.

1210
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:21,879
Speaker 7: All right, by, goodbye.

1211
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:15,240
Speaker 1: And there we go. That is my father, Ladies and gentlemen,

1212
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 1: When they say the apple doesn't fall far from the tree,

1213
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 1: I beg to differ. I think I rolled down a hill.

1214
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 1: But other people are like, oh my god, you guys

1215
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,720
Speaker 1: are just alike. No, I wouldn't use these words.

1216
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 3: No.

1217
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 2: I think you guys are just to like, oh my god,

1218
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 2: we look alike.

1219
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: That's terrifying. Let me tell you rules.

1220
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 2: Stop. I just want to cuddle the both of you.

1221
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 7: Oh you got them? Any tell you what.

1222
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: Let's see, we are way past the limit of episodes

1223
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 1: that I thought we were ever going to do for

1224
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 1: like this year. I think I'm supposed to do thirty

1225
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,399
Speaker 1: maybe or thirty five something like that, and we're like, way, way,

1226
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: way past it.

1227
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 2: So should I just stop?

1228
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: Should I keep going? Do I go out on a

1229
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 1: high note or a low note with this podcast?

1230
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 2: I think you should keep going? Oh okay, yeah, keep rolling.

1231
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,919
Speaker 1: I think I've told you use before. Our highest rated

1232
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,400
Speaker 1: episodes are when we just kind of shoot the shit together.

1233
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 1: Either you and me, you, Me, and Andrew, You, me, Andre

1234
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: and Josh. Those are the ones that people seem to

1235
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: like the best. And I think maybe for the next

1236
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: episode we'll do something like that.

1237
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I love that.

1238
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, Okay, if people want to find you, where

1239
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: do they find you?

1240
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 2: Diamond at Diamond Sincere on Instagram and I am at.

1241
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: Baby Hot Sauce on Instagram. And if you're trying to

1242
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: find my dad, you never will because he doesn't subscribe

1243
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 1: to any type of social media because he thinks the

1244
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: government's watching him. I'm not kidding real quick. He he.

1245
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 3: Did.

1246
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 1: He stay in eisdeow. He won't use his hearing aids

1247
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: even though he can't hear shit, because he thinks that

1248
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: the government's going to tap into his hearing aids and

1249
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: like saying, oh my god. Meanwhile, I'm like, it's better

1250
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 1: than you hear nothing.

1251
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:53,439
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1252
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 2: Oh, love of God, Oh my god. I love this man.

1253
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: He's great. Love him too. He's just a bit of

1254
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: a liability alright, until next time, say bye bye.

1255
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.