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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: All right, so welcome to part two of wind Down. Everyone.

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Speaker 2: Welcome my fiance Alan Rosso. We get to keep him forever.

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Speaker 2: He's like, what did I sign up for? He's like,

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Speaker 2: it's me and my three wives. Is so Mark, that's Mark,

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Speaker 2: that's our we call him Daddy. He's like the podcast Dad.

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Speaker 2: Mark is a huge soccer fan, and so he was

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Speaker 2: the one who said I think you should date a

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Speaker 2: soccer player. Oh yep, sorry that it just.

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Speaker 1: That just seemed like right to me. It just seemed right. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why that was in my head, but

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Speaker 1: it seemed right and it turned out to be very precious.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're of a psychic Mark.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I AM could.

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Speaker 2: Have used you about nine years ago, Big Mark.

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Speaker 3: Okay, the old magic gate ball didn't that much to say.

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Speaker 2: So do you have any questions? Mark? I know you

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Speaker 2: have to go soon.

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Speaker 1: I mean I have a lot of questions. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to think a word to begin. I guess we'll start

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Speaker 1: with how long have you known? How long have you

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Speaker 1: known that you were going to be taking a knee?

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Speaker 4: Oh, she told you that I took a.

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Speaker 1: Knee, not that she told me.

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Speaker 4: Pretty much.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, from the moment I met really wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you knew very quickly she was the one

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Speaker 1: I did you. Wow. That's lovely.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I have lots of questions about you

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Speaker 1: and and I hate to double up if if this

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Speaker 1: has been cover on the pod before, but we haven't.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, he's very private, so like we don't. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I haven't even said like his anything like really truly.

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Speaker 2: I mean I've really respected his privacy on things, but

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Speaker 2: I mean he can he can.

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Speaker 1: Should I also respect his privacy on things, And I'd

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Speaker 1: ask these questions.

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Speaker 2: I think people want to get to know him, and

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Speaker 2: I think he's open to I would like to. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so let's try it.

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Speaker 1: Well, h are you have you been married before?

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Speaker 4: I have you?

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Speaker 1: Okay? You have kids?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've got a little boy who will be sixteen

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Speaker 5: this year and a stepdaughter who will be twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Twenty four?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, and you were married for.

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Speaker 4: I was married for.

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Speaker 5: Eleven years together for together for yeah, like sixteen years

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Speaker 5: fifteen sixteen years.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, I mean I don't need to get into

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Speaker 1: that stuff. I mean that seems like your business. So

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Speaker 1: it's a blended family, but not like in it, you know,

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Speaker 1: where the kids will be playing together, like there's a

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Speaker 1: big age gap there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's a few age gaps. Yeah, but they all

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Speaker 5: got on.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah that's good. And Janna's met the kids adult

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Speaker 1: and teenager and everything hit it off.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, yeah, it was nice.

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Speaker 5: They were out here about three weeks ago, three four

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Speaker 5: weeks ago, so here for like ten or eleven days, so

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Speaker 5: it was nice.

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Speaker 1: And how are we going to handle logistics here of

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Speaker 1: London to Nashville.

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Speaker 5: I go back for about ten days a month, so

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Speaker 5: I've got fast and foremost I go back to see

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Speaker 5: my kids and then I've got some business stuff back

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Speaker 5: in London as well, So yeah, roughly.

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Speaker 1: A soccer coach, football coach, right, and.

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Speaker 4: A football coach.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I've got a protein bar business as well,

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Speaker 5: which I go back for.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, but during the season, the football season, you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have to be there full time.

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Speaker 5: And the moment, I mean, I stepped away from from

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Speaker 5: my last club about nine ten weeks ago, and at

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Speaker 5: the moment, I'm just weighing up the options of where

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Speaker 5: to go next, whether it's whether it's Yukia, whether it's America.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Oh so okay, that's great. So we were

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Speaker 1: undecided if to where the like you know, the marital

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Speaker 1: home might be or maybe would be an international you'd

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Speaker 1: have multiple.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think if we're going to go international, we

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Speaker 3: need to talk to the rest of the couch because

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Speaker 3: the rest of the couch is a little codependent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels fair. We're not moving, are we.

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Speaker 5: I think we'll have a home in both both sides

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Speaker 5: of the wall size.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to visit the other home. I think

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Speaker 2: home bases. You know, we have definitely the new Nashville home.

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Speaker 2: And then you know, I've always said to him, like,

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Speaker 2: wherever the job takes you, like I just want you

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Speaker 2: to be happy and successful in your career, Like we'll

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Speaker 2: be fine regards less, which is again very new for me,

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Speaker 2: because but I just I trust him and I trust

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Speaker 2: what we have, and I'm like, I'll, you know, we'll

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Speaker 2: figure it out. Like I think you make work what

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Speaker 2: you you know you really want.

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Speaker 1: And if I'm correct, you two. This is another example

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Speaker 1: of a dating app success story. No wrong, no, oh,

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Speaker 1: I read that somewhere.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he DMed me.

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Speaker 1: Oh so it was app based, but not like Riya,

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Speaker 1: this is like Instagram DM.

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Speaker 2: We did not meet on Rya.

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Speaker 1: He so what why what drew you to her in

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Speaker 1: the first place? Were you a fan?

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Speaker 2: It was a big one tree killer Mark.

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Speaker 5: Well, no, my friend got a job here and Memphis

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Speaker 5: as a as a head coach, and we discussed me

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Speaker 5: possibly coming out to work with him.

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Speaker 4: So I was looking a lot.

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Speaker 5: On my phone on the Memphis and Nashville area, and

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Speaker 5: as your phone does, it thinks of algorithms and spits

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Speaker 5: things out on your phone, and this little face popped up.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: That's cute.

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Speaker 1: And then did you like if if it's me, I'm

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Speaker 1: doing my homework at that point, I'm looking in I'm

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Speaker 1: googling her. I'm seeing who she is and what she's

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Speaker 1: all about. Did you do that before you asked her out?

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Speaker 5: That didn't look into it too much? Now I think,

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Speaker 5: do I feel background check?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: No, that's just what girls do. That's what I did.

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Speaker 1: That's what I done. Did you know that she was

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Speaker 1: a musician, that she was an actress, this stuff and

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Speaker 1: if she was a musician, yeah, okay, gotcha, And that

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Speaker 1: I was a man? Yeah, okay, that's good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So you knew those things.

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Speaker 5: And then yeah, I mean, I mean, obviously I knew

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Speaker 5: once I looked up Push she was. I knew about

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Speaker 5: being an actress in the music industry and that she

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Speaker 5: looked like an amazing mom and had a couple of

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Speaker 5: amazing kids.

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Speaker 4: So I knew that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and his message was very respectful.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, go ahead, that's what I want to hear. I

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Speaker 1: want to hear that initial message roughly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, roughly, I don't. I actually can't. I actually can't remember.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't know that that's could be educational for people,

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Speaker 1: Like how do you do that? Like a stranger to

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Speaker 1: another stranger, dming them with romantic interests, Like it's more

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Speaker 1: than just a hey, right, it's like a hi, Alan,

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Speaker 1: I'd like to get to know you better. Like what

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Speaker 1: is it? What's the vibe?

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Speaker 4: I think it was.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm quite a traditional person enemy so I

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Speaker 5: think it was. It was very respectful and monoly, and

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Speaker 5: I think it was along the lines of you look

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Speaker 5: like an amazing person, a great mom, and it would

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Speaker 5: be it'd be good to connect something along those lines.

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Speaker 5: So don't quote my words on it, but it was really.

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Speaker 3: Like it was really handsome and like not slimy. It

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Speaker 3: was the part that was it was very appropriate and

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Speaker 3: just like courtship.

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Speaker 1: Like so this was immediately shared with you two when

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Speaker 1: she got to steer Mark.

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Speaker 2: Mark. We're all marying Allan, all of us. But it

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Speaker 2: also was something where I saw it and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: he lives in London, like I'm not. And at that

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Speaker 2: point I was very happy being single and like I

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Speaker 2: go for a bit and then for some reason, I

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Speaker 2: kept thinking, I'm like, there was this football player coach

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Speaker 2: we kind of what stopped a few times, but then

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Speaker 2: I went away again for a few weeks, and then

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Speaker 2: he would text and but he stayed pretty stayed pretty persistent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was the first date here or there.

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Speaker 2: Well, so he was like, hey, you know, if you

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Speaker 2: want to come over here, and then I was like

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Speaker 2: hm hmm, like if you want to me, Like yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't know this guy, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: Like I do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: For sure?

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Speaker 2: Come here? And I've kids and I'm like I'm not

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Speaker 4: A Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 5: I was already in the US, so I made a

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Speaker 2: I was and yeah, he was again very respectful, very

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Speaker 2: And then the second we met at the One hotel

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Speaker 2: I was living my I told the girls. I was like,

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Speaker 2: it was like we were in our own version of

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Speaker 2: like a Christmas movie, because like the lights were already

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Speaker 2: up in the hotel, and like he's wearing this long

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Speaker 2: like pea coat and just like I just see like

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Speaker 2: was him, and so I was like, I'm walking into

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Speaker 2: around like a slow mo It was like a slow

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Speaker 2: he's like, you know, he says, I can't impersonate his

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Speaker 2: accent to save my life. But he was just like hello, Joanna,

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Speaker 2: because that's how he says my name. And I was

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Speaker 2: just like, oh, I'm done, done, done so.

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Speaker 1: And did you feel the same, Alan when you saw

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Speaker 1: in person? You were pretty pleased.

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Speaker 4: I told you pretty please, pretty please?

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Speaker 1: And was it just drinks? The first day was drinks

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Speaker 1: at the bar hotel bar, and.

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Speaker 4: Did we get fits?

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Speaker 2: So what happened was we give no, Well, what happened

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Speaker 2: was is we were sitting down, we got a drink.

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Speaker 2: He's like, what would you like to drink? And I

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Speaker 2: was like, I'll take a gossip wine, I think I said,

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Speaker 2: and he got a drink. But then someone approached me.

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh my god, I'm wake one Tree Hill.

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Speaker 2: And I was so embarrassed. I was so embarrassed, embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: That's a big deal. That's like an after easy act, Like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she has fans.

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Speaker 3: So after I paid that girl twenty bucks, she left

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Speaker 3: Alan and Jane alone.

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Speaker 2: It was just for the effect, you know, we got.

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Speaker 1: To that effect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, And but then we ended up I'm kind

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Speaker 2: of trying to find a different place to go, and

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Speaker 4: And yeah, I didn't. There was no there was no

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm happy for you. I think it's great. I

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Speaker 2: Ever, Aft, thank you so much, Thank you Mark, thanks

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Speaker 4: Pleasures to meet you.

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Speaker 1: My pleasure, pleasure to meet you. I hope we'll see

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Speaker 1: your own Bye. Mark gets you on the show frequently.

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Speaker 2: Talk talk football. We love you, Mark girls. Do you

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Speaker 1: Bye?

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Speaker 2: Mark Girls, Do you have any last things you want

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Speaker 2: to say to Alan, I'm just glad we get to

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Speaker 3: When she sent the picture, I was like, you guys,

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Speaker 2: I did because I love him. Yeah, it's wild though, right,

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Speaker 3: I just love him so much.

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Speaker 2: Well, and I think, like, you know, I can go, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I have a video? I forget it, you guys, I

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, she said she's gonna marry I

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Speaker 2: I don't know why or how or what, but I

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Speaker 3: Maybe next year, are you guys, you're gonna be one

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Speaker 2: No, no, I'll have well TVD Queendom goes to the Kingdom, remember,

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Speaker 3: I'm here for it. I just want I just want

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Speaker 3: This has just been so fun for me.

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Speaker 3: Well, she's gonna have a vacation home there. I was

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Speaker 2: You don't realize you're marrying Queendom. He's already figured that out.

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Speaker 2: And I love the relationship that you have with Sarah

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all great, every one of them.

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Speaker 2: Any last words any last words, my love. Okay, I

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