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Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Getting

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Speaker 1: engaged is one of the most exciting moments of your

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Speaker 1: entire life. You're filled with happiness and hope and optimism

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Speaker 1: and Brooke, you've been there. How long did the joy

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Speaker 1: last before the harsh reality of marriage finally set in?

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Speaker 1: Was it like a month? Two months?

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Speaker 2: I think marriage is great, I really do, Brooks and Denial.

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Speaker 1: So one of our listeners just got engaged and says

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Speaker 1: that joyful feeling lasted less than one minute, which is

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Speaker 1: why he needs our help today. His name is jak

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Speaker 1: So welcome to the show, JK, and I'm not joking.

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Speaker 1: When I welcome you, I do mean welcome.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's good joke radio.

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Speaker 1: That's a tough name to have. So tell us you

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Speaker 1: got engaged recently. I want to say congress radulations. But

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Speaker 1: why did the joyful feeling last so short?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So I'm in dating Leanna for two years. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's nice.

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Speaker 1: I love her and she's the one you ended up

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Speaker 1: getting engaged to. I'm assuming right.

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Speaker 2: It's actually a valid question for this show.

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Speaker 1: If you're already feeling the regret, who knows all right, Leanna.

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Speaker 3: So we went out for dinner on her birthday, and look,

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Speaker 3: I'm not the most romantic person, and she's very nice

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Speaker 3: about it, sometimes teases me. So I got her some jewelry,

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Speaker 3: and I thought that she would be surprised by that.

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Speaker 3: And I'm no.

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Speaker 4: Offense to you, but I'm sure getting her anything would

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Speaker 4: be very good if you're not used to, like if

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Speaker 4: you normal don't get her stuff totally.

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Speaker 3: So I knew she was going to be cited. So

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Speaker 3: we're at dinner and right before dessert, they bring out

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Speaker 3: this box and so I handed the box and she

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Speaker 3: opens it up and takes out the ring.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you got it. Wait, so you're proposed

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Speaker 2: or you're not proposing. I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm not proposing. I'm not proposing. This is

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Speaker 3: the point.

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Speaker 1: That's why i'm here.

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Speaker 2: Why would you give it to a waiter to bring

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Speaker 2: out a ring if you're not showmanship?

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Speaker 3: I thought, Look, I thought, if you don't get down

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Speaker 3: on your knee, it's different. I thought, like that was

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Speaker 3: the thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's that's fair. Like you weren't holding it

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Speaker 1: up to her. They just brought it out and gave

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Speaker 1: it to her on a plate, yeah, plate in a box,

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Speaker 1: in a box. Well, the box I'm assuming is on

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Speaker 3: But everybody around like sees it happening. Like she opens

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Speaker 3: it and freaks out and she makes it like she

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Speaker 3: like squeals, and then like everybody started clapping.

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Speaker 1: Like an engagement ring.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it matters, like engagement rings can look

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Speaker 3: I mean, I hope it would be a nicer ring

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Speaker 3: if it was an engagement ring, but like she's not

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Speaker 3: a jeweler, so she doesn't know how much it costs.

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Speaker 5: It is a green flag.

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Speaker 2: She didn't care. Yeah, so she said, asked before you

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Speaker 2: asked a question, or what happened?

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Speaker 3: Yes, She's like, oh my god, of course, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: but she was like the prize but not like at

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Speaker 3: least in that moment, Zeros mixed feelings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds like you're getting married.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know that there's I can only

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Speaker 1: imagine what was going through your mind? Is this is

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Speaker 1: all happening? What did you say?

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Speaker 3: I was flabbergasted. I just I've said very little.

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Speaker 1: You didn't get up and be like, actually no, it's

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Speaker 1: not an engagement.

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Speaker 3: Really it didn't because I didn't have any time to

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Speaker 3: process it, so you.

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Speaker 2: Don't tell her anything. You just go along with it.

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Speaker 1: Not that night, No, not that night, probably process What

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Speaker 1: does what does not that night mean?

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Speaker 3: Well, the next morning I tried the next morning. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so we're breakfast and it's not never it's going to

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Speaker 3: good a time as any. So I tell her I

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Speaker 3: like that ring wasn't really a proposal? Ring?

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Speaker 1: Oh is it bad?

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Speaker 2: Relieved we don't have to do this over the phone. Gosh,

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Speaker 2: you're sitting at the table. What does she do?

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Speaker 3: Well? Because I don't know. I guess because I laughed

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Speaker 3: a little bit. She thought I was joking, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to marry her?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Man, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That is not a good response.

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Speaker 3: Like it's been two years, I don't know. Is she

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Speaker 3: the one? Maybe? Like am I ready? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like am I supposed to know? Because

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Speaker 3: I definitely don't have for sure feelings.

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Speaker 1: But like that's not good.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I ever would be.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, then it's good that you're addressing it and

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Speaker 4: you're not just gonna accidentally get married, and so you're

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Speaker 4: playing along with this.

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Speaker 2: How are we helping?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you give me some advice on how

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Speaker 3: I can on a good way to break it to

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Speaker 1: Another joke. Well, we're not doing anything. You're right styling

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Speaker 1: the number. JK still has to do the talking in

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Speaker 1: the kard. We just need to help him deliver the message.

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Speaker 1: Show it doesn't come across as another joke.

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Speaker 4: We do this, it sounds like she's prim hang out

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Speaker 4: for us.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, this is tough.

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Speaker 1: Well Brook, is it better or worse that she thinks

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Speaker 1: he joked about it the first time he tried to

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Speaker 1: tell the truth.

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Speaker 2: I mean, at least he's brought it up before, you know, Like,

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Speaker 2: it's not like it's an idea that you haven't put

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Speaker 3: Actually I brought it up more than once. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: tried it again another time in the car. But I

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Speaker 3: don't know. Now it's a running joke.

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Speaker 1: It's one of those jokes that gets funnier the more

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Speaker 1: that you say it. Or do you think she knows what?

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Speaker 6: She's just ignoring him.

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Speaker 1: At this point, they're going to get to their golden

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Speaker 1: anniversary and he's still going to be like, by the

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Speaker 1: way I swear I pose to you good one. JK,

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Speaker 1: eve been so funny phone. No, but you want.

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Speaker 2: To stay with her, right, We don't want to break

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Speaker 2: the relationship up.

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Speaker 3: No, absolutely not. I definitely do want to stay with her.

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Speaker 1: Just want to take a step back. This sounds like

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Speaker 1: an easy one. We're going to come back, do an

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Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call to your quote fiance, Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: try to tell her for the third time that you

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Speaker 1: never actually meant to propose to it. We'll do it

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Speaker 1: with your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. Hold on,

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Speaker 1: it's awkward.

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Speaker 3: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Telling your fiance you did

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Speaker 1: not mean to propose to her over breakfast, that's strike one.

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Speaker 1: Try telling her again in the car. Strike two.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's why.

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Speaker 1: Now we're hoping that telling her over the radio with

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Speaker 1: millions of people listening won't be Strike three. For our

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Speaker 1: listener who accidentally popped the question to his girlfriend when

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Speaker 1: he handed her a ring at her birthday dinner, it really.

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Speaker 2: Was actually the waiter brought the ring to the table,

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Speaker 2: which made it even worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so she took that as a proposal understandably, why

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Speaker 1: and said, yes, of course I'll marry you. So JK

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Speaker 1: just went along with it, and his two attempts to

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Speaker 1: backtrack clearly have not worked. That's why he's hoping we

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Speaker 1: have some advice to finally get the message through to

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Speaker 1: her on this awkward Tuesday call. Jose, what do you

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Speaker 1: think he should do?

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Speaker 3: You need to be.

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Speaker 4: Direct, bro, that's been your problem. I've noticed you always laugh,

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Speaker 4: you say after, and it's kind of a upbeat situation.

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Speaker 4: That's why she doesn't believe you.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't want to be doom and gloom.

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Speaker 1: I make you jump.

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Speaker 2: Into that doom and gloom? Have you tried crying?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I didn't even think of that.

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Speaker 2: Can you do that on command?

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Speaker 3: I mean I could probably make it sound like it. No,

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Speaker 3: she would see through it. She would see through it

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Speaker 3: for sure.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, I don't mean to be the doom and

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Speaker 1: Somehow you're gonna pull it off.

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Speaker 3: Here.

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Speaker 2: Listen, you are just in very different places in your

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Speaker 2: relationship right now. She's ready, obviously to get married. You

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Speaker 2: don't even know if you want to, like, is this

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Speaker 2: maybe a sign that we call it.

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Speaker 1: Smiling? When you say that? Jes why are you smiling

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Speaker 1: as you could be right now?

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Speaker 2: But it's like, what if like six years go by

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Speaker 2: and you still aren't sure, and then you've wasted all

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Speaker 3: Like, I mean, well, hopefully, Look, I'm trying to avoid

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Speaker 3: this kind of like predicting what happens with the rest

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to make it not such a heavy thing.

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Speaker 1: Right And besides, that's for a different segment that we're

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Speaker 1: going to be doing coming up called Brooke breaks Up

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Speaker 1: your Relationship.

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Speaker 5: I would love.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, some people really need it. I have so many

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Speaker 2: girlfriends that were in relationships for way too I wish

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Speaker 2: I would.

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Speaker 1: Have quality couples counseling. Reach out to Brook.

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Speaker 2: Most of my advice will be you're wasting your time,

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Speaker 2: move on, Okay, everybody.

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Speaker 1: We're we're running out of time here. So we got

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Speaker 1: to call Leanna and tried to deliver the news that

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Speaker 1: the proposal was not done on purpose. JK. Hopefully our

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Speaker 1: feel like you need a little bit of help, but

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Speaker 1: here we go.

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Speaker 3: Thank guys.

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Speaker 6: Hello, hey, hannay, hello, oh hi, oh my god, I

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Speaker 6: was I was actually just.

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Speaker 3: Talking about you, oh like what like to your boss

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Speaker 3: or something or no.

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Speaker 6: I was just talking to one of my co workers.

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Speaker 6: She she saw the ring course, so I told a story.

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Speaker 3: Wo uh.

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Speaker 1: Cool.

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Speaker 3: Okay, are you are you in like a private area

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Speaker 3: or or if you're not, if you've moved to a

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Speaker 3: private area. So just we can talk.

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Speaker 6: About okay, just handle it. Okay, my uh my doors.

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Speaker 3: Closed, okay. So ah, So it feels like there's I

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Speaker 3: don't know, it's like there's never a good time to

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Speaker 6: Uh oh, okay, what's okay?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong?

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Speaker 6: Because I'm getting my can nervous.

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Speaker 3: Okay. So you know how like the last week or so,

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Speaker 3: there were times where I was joking about us not

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Speaker 3: I was not. I was trying to tell you the truth,

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Speaker 3: the truth. When will you what do you mean the truth?

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Speaker 3: The truth that maybe when we were at the restaurant

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Speaker 3: and you kind of took it another way, and and

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Speaker 3: then that spiraled. So I just kind of went with

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Speaker 3: not something I had considered. And now, what are you?

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Speaker 5: What are you saying?

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Speaker 3: Well, I guess what I'm saying. Okay, like you deserve

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Speaker 3: better than dude being accidentally proposed to. That's why you need.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, okay, wait, so.

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Speaker 3: We're so we're not engaged. I mean, I just I really,

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Speaker 3: I definitely didn't mean to propose to you. So, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I guess not you. You didn't mean to propose to me?

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Speaker 3: Are you serious? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Oh my god, Oh.

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Speaker 3: My God's sake, the Lord, oh my god.

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Speaker 5: I'm not engaged. I'm not engaged.

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Speaker 4: Is that joy?

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what's going on? He consed, Hello, Hello, hey, Leanna,

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Speaker 1: you're on the radio right now. We're show called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey. In the morning. We were we were helping

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Speaker 1: JK make this call to you.

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Speaker 4: It's super I'm so worried.

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Speaker 5: I thought this was a private conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, this is called an awkward Tuesday phone call because JK,

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Speaker 1: didn't you didn't know how to deliver the news to

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Speaker 1: you that that proposal was not meant as a proposal.

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Speaker 1: Did you? Did you shout thank the Lord when he

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Speaker 1: said that, Thank god?

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Speaker 3: Baby? What's going on right now?

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Speaker 1: Did you not want to be engaged?

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Speaker 5: I just like it was a high pressure situation and

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Speaker 5: I don't not love you. I wasn't like ready for this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, Oh it's perfect.

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Speaker 5: You guys are actually on the same You.

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Speaker 4: Accidentally are on the same page after accidentally getting engaged.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what the heck?

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Speaker 3: So no, why did you pretend? Were you pretending or

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Speaker 3: was I just misreading your enthusiast?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Oh, it was my birthday and like, I don't

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Speaker 5: want to ruin it, and you never get me stuff

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Speaker 5: like that, So I know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think we're all confused too, because it sounded like

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Speaker 1: you were really thrilled, and the whole restaurant was thrilled,

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Speaker 1: they were all thrilled.

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Speaker 5: Well, like, actually, my mom wasn't thrilled about the engagements.

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Speaker 3: Like that.

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Speaker 1: What did she say?

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Speaker 5: She thought it was like kind of just like a

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Speaker 5: short term thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh, guys have been together for two years.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but like you never like asked my dad or

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Speaker 5: like my mom about it, about it? Like when I

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Speaker 5: tell my mom this, she's going to be like over

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Speaker 5: the moon.

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Speaker 6: Everyone.

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Speaker 1: You guys are.

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Speaker 4: Broken up though, like we're still together, right, that's so insulted.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a blind side because there's no way in

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Speaker 3: a million years that I would have expected this kind

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Speaker 3: of enthusiastic relief and this kind of reaction.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I say, I'm not going to.

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Speaker 2: Opin you as one that was really dialed in with

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Speaker 2: human emotion to begin with.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you did accidentally propose by giving a curl

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Speaker 1: a breath. Yeah, maybe next time, different piece of jewelry

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Speaker 1: or no jewelry at all.

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Speaker 3: This is what you learned.

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Speaker 4: You don't buy your girl anymore gifts the first.

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Speaker 1: Time you do it, that's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: That's why I never did it before. I guess.

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Speaker 2: Just hearings enough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Leanna, you should probably give well, no, keep

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Speaker 1: the ring. I guess that's a normal ring. But I

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Speaker 1: guess by the power vested in us, we officially declare

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Speaker 1: you unengaged.

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Speaker 5: Yes, this is.

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Speaker 2: Where you ceremoniously move it from your left hand to

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Speaker 2: your right hand.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just did, just did well. Congratulations on your

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Speaker 1: unengagement right here on Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: You I am so glad we're not getting married.

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Speaker 3: Oh me too, baby, I love you so cute.

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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.