WEBVTT - Best of Season Three: Part 1

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<v Speaker 1>You were listening to Ruthie's Table four in partnership with Montclair.

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<v Speaker 2>When people talk about food, they talk about memories, the

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<v Speaker 2>meals of their childhood, unforgettable parties they went to, comfort eating,

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<v Speaker 2>and their grandmother's kitchen. Forty four guests have joined me

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<v Speaker 2>at Table four this season, Chefs, actors, tennis champions, football heroes.

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<v Speaker 2>As part of the podcast, many have cooked with our

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<v Speaker 2>chefs in the River Cafe kitchen. As the season comes

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<v Speaker 2>to a close, we're sharing some of these conversations with

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<v Speaker 2>you in this episode Wycliffe, Seawan, Carrie Mulligan, Tom Hollander,

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<v Speaker 2>and Guy Ritchie. Let's begin with Sarah Jessica Parker, who

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<v Speaker 2>brought her family to the River Cafe, learned how to

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<v Speaker 2>make Puntaurel in the kitchen, and join me for a

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<v Speaker 2>lunchtime event with an invited audience.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, good cooling here.

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<v Speaker 2>So here we are. Did you ever work in a restaurant?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>But I say this, knowing how hard it is. I

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<v Speaker 4>think I would really love to be a server.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I really think that.

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<v Speaker 4>This summer is and you I was, we were really

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<v Speaker 4>admiring your service the day because I said to the girls,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like I'm not sure that I've seen servers

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<v Speaker 4>move this fast a long time, because Sunday is a

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<v Speaker 4>very busy day for you guys, right, Like especially was

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<v Speaker 4>a really busy day and I was saying to somebody

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<v Speaker 4>and I said, you know, I don't get to come

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<v Speaker 4>to the River Cafe very often. I don't live in London,

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<v Speaker 4>and to myself, to Matthew, it's like a very it's

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<v Speaker 4>a it's like a special thing. It's like something you

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<v Speaker 4>earn or maybe you work toward or you pine about,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you visit it and you're not sure if

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<v Speaker 4>you made it all up, like is it possible that

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<v Speaker 4>you joined a sort of cult, like a kind of

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<v Speaker 4>thinking about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Can it be?

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<v Speaker 4>And then you come here? My hand got it is?

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<v Speaker 4>And the kitchen really is. It's extraordinary to watch. It

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<v Speaker 4>is like a pinball machine, but it's like there's such

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<v Speaker 4>precision about it. And I love watching the chefs talk

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<v Speaker 4>to each other quickly and passing or actually come together

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<v Speaker 4>to speak. I don't know, it's amazing and it's glorious.

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<v Speaker 3>We were thrilled to be here, really.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we're thrilled to have you and I. When we

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<v Speaker 2>first did the completely open kitchen. You will remember after

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<v Speaker 2>the fire, Richard Ayir, who's a director of theater, came

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<v Speaker 2>in and I said, Richard, isn't it just like theater

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<v Speaker 2>watching everyone around? And he said, actually, Ry, it isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like ballet. And he said, because watching people everybody,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't shout in an open kitchen. I mean, sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>raise your voice, but basically you're moving around to speak

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<v Speaker 2>to people about if you need to. Usually there's a

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<v Speaker 2>kind of communication.

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<v Speaker 4>And this time I had the ravioli with the spinach

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<v Speaker 4>and the ricotta and those tiny gorgeous porcini mushrooms that

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<v Speaker 4>are like a surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't talk about that as much.

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<v Speaker 4>And we ordered two and I was like, my daughter said,

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<v Speaker 4>do you think we can order another one?

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<v Speaker 3>James said, can we order another one? Which just seems so.

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<v Speaker 4>Like gluttonous and decadent and greedy, and and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, yes, And if anybody says anything, I'll

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<v Speaker 4>just say we'll take it, like I'm sorry that we're

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<v Speaker 4>being so like like animals about this, but it's a

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<v Speaker 4>kind of it's good to think of it as this

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<v Speaker 4>kind of once in a lifetime.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the things I think that we all, probably

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<v Speaker 2>everyone in this moom would think about. Was that in

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<v Speaker 2>Sex and the City and the way you talk about

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<v Speaker 2>food the joy. So many conversations were over food, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was the pleasure of food. It was enjoying food

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<v Speaker 2>as a way of communicating and being together, which we

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we all feel here that we a restaurant

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<v Speaker 2>is a place where you share Yeah, you know food

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<v Speaker 2>you're sitting down at the table or at home with

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<v Speaker 2>your children. Yeah, And so how is that working in

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<v Speaker 2>Sex and the City and doing was that from you?

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<v Speaker 3>I always loved food scenes.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it initially it was initially in place I

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<v Speaker 4>think probably from either Candace's original source material or Darren

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<v Speaker 4>Starr wrote that first coffee shop scene, which I think

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<v Speaker 4>was just a great meeting place to sort of talk

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<v Speaker 4>about the themes of the of each episode, like get

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<v Speaker 4>the headline out, and then each person, those kind of

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<v Speaker 4>archetypal characters would share points of view, so we knew

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<v Speaker 4>where where everybody stood, and it allowed for controversial conversation

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<v Speaker 4>or titillating conversation. But I will say this that Cynthia Nixon,

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<v Speaker 4>who is a dear friend of mine and we've been

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<v Speaker 4>working together since we were little girls.

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<v Speaker 3>We've known each other, so we were eleven or ten.

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<v Speaker 4>She was a child actor also, and we would all

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<v Speaker 4>auditioned together. She often got the part. And but we

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<v Speaker 4>played siblings when I was very young. We played sisters

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<v Speaker 4>on records. They used to do records of stories, and

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<v Speaker 4>we played Laura and Mary Ingalls, and then we played

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<v Speaker 4>siblings of we played children of Vanessa Redgrave in a movie.

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<v Speaker 4>But Cynthia and I in those coffee shop scenes, we

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<v Speaker 4>always eat. Yeah, we always eat, and we always need

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<v Speaker 4>to like reprop our plate. And then when we finally wrap,

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<v Speaker 4>they'll always they always said to Cynthia, Me and Cynthia,

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<v Speaker 4>do you guys want to take it.

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<v Speaker 3>To go again today? Yes, we do.

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<v Speaker 4>So we really like those scenes, and we very much

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<v Speaker 4>go back and forth about what you could they'll send

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<v Speaker 4>the menu in advance now now that we all have

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<v Speaker 4>the phones and things, and because they want you to

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<v Speaker 4>order an advance for props to have everything ready and multiple,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, multiples of it.

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<v Speaker 3>So we'll go back and forth. Would you order You're

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<v Speaker 3>going to order the all or that? So you ordered

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<v Speaker 3>that and we can share. So the food is the lines.

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<v Speaker 5>Are blurred yes, women eating you know, yes was something

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<v Speaker 5>that we are all thinking about how we combine you know, food,

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<v Speaker 5>and I think it it's changed.

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<v Speaker 2>You find that your daughters are different now in terms

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<v Speaker 2>of their attitude.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I I never was very disciplined about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm not really good at like denying myself something.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think also I was a dancer for so

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<v Speaker 4>long and running around, so it was I was able

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<v Speaker 4>to be that way. It's certainly not the same now.

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<v Speaker 4>But I also just I had girls. It just was

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<v Speaker 4>so I didn't want them to have a relationship with

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<v Speaker 4>food that was antagonistic or they felt like this was

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<v Speaker 4>their enemy and that they were going to have to

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<v Speaker 4>sort of like stake out a position with food. So

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<v Speaker 4>when I was growing up, we weren't allowed sugar in

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<v Speaker 4>the house, and we were allowed to cookies, and we

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<v Speaker 4>weren't allowed the chocolate. And of course all we did

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<v Speaker 4>the minute we moved out was buy Entimate's cakes and cookies,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, and I didn't want that. So in

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<v Speaker 4>our house we have cookies, we have cake, we have everything.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think as a result, you kind of have

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<v Speaker 4>a healthier relationship and my daughters will have the figures

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<v Speaker 4>they have and hopefully they'll be healthy in their athletes

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<v Speaker 4>and they enjoy food, and they have different palettes, and

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<v Speaker 4>you can't make someone like something they don't like or want.

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<v Speaker 4>And I hope that they I hope that they can

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<v Speaker 4>maintain their affection for the experience and their delight in

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<v Speaker 4>taste and find their own ways to have that be

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<v Speaker 4>healthy for them.

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<v Speaker 2>And your son mad for food. It was fantastic to

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<v Speaker 2>be all three of them are just you know, involved

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<v Speaker 2>in the food and talking about the food and asking

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<v Speaker 2>questions about yea on Sunday, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Math Matthew cooks.

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<v Speaker 4>We both cook every single day, every day, every single day.

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<v Speaker 3>Every day. We probably eat dinner as a family every night.

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<v Speaker 4>If I'm shooting or he's going to play, obviously that

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<v Speaker 4>shifts around. We always have dinner Sunday night, but one

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<v Speaker 4>of us, if we're home, cooks every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>The film director Guy Ritchie loves food and he loves

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<v Speaker 2>wine and has his own unique way of doing things.

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<v Speaker 2>When he came to the River Cafe, he didn't go

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<v Speaker 2>into the kitchen. He set up his own outdoor kitchen

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<v Speaker 2>in the garden and cooked a steak for our chefs.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's not the only reason I like guy. He's

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<v Speaker 2>a childhood friend of my step Sunabe and I've known

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<v Speaker 2>him for decades. We began this conversation talking about his

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<v Speaker 2>early food memories growing up with his family in London.

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<v Speaker 6>When we moved in, it was an old old fashion.

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<v Speaker 7>In theory.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't a sort of Cottney community, but it was

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<v Speaker 6>an old fashioned English community there. So this is in

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<v Speaker 6>sixty They bought that house in Fulham and they were

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<v Speaker 6>like foodies and boozies then, which is quite early doors.

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<v Speaker 2>So you grew up in the house that loved food.

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<v Speaker 6>And then my mum was very a cook.

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<v Speaker 2>Where did she cook?

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<v Speaker 6>My favorite was watercress soup. Really it was quite exotic

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<v Speaker 6>rabert carriers idea, but she was a very goa cook.

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<v Speaker 6>I used to like baked eggs and watercrest soup.

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<v Speaker 2>And would you sit down to dinner like most nights

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<v Speaker 2>as a fa who's in your family?

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<v Speaker 6>Your brothers and one sister, a sister and a mother, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So would you sit down to me with the family supper?

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<v Speaker 6>I heard something earlier on that I'm not can't remember

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<v Speaker 6>which generation we are, but we are still the sort

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<v Speaker 6>of the I suppose maybe the LA generation that lived

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<v Speaker 6>more outdoors than we did indoors, so I knew all

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<v Speaker 6>the other kids in the street, so you were never indoors.

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<v Speaker 6>You were always out with your mates. And we were

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<v Speaker 6>on bicycles. I remember used to cycle to quite far

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<v Speaker 6>Afield and we were on bicycles when we were six.

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<v Speaker 6>So I went to local school, local, I went to

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<v Speaker 6>thirteen school. I went thirteen thirteen. Okay, yeah, local school

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<v Speaker 6>or no school could cope with no educating local school

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<v Speaker 6>could cope. And I sort of picked up the reputation

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<v Speaker 6>that it was because I was naughty, and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 6>because I was naughty. It was it was just I

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<v Speaker 6>was remarkably slow in understanding what they were trying to translate,

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<v Speaker 6>and I had no ability to translate it. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>very probiscuous for schools. And I went to about five

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<v Speaker 6>local schools and then gradually, I mean even the one

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<v Speaker 6>I went to school with ab that was which is

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<v Speaker 6>subsequently shut down. Most of the schools I went to

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<v Speaker 6>subsequently because they were all learning disability schools, and they

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<v Speaker 6>did well. They sort of fumbled around as best they could,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm sort of grateful for their efforts. But there

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<v Speaker 6>was only one person I met that was more dyslexic

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<v Speaker 6>than me, and that was Abe.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been to my kids' schools, you know, whether it

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<v Speaker 2>was Abe or it was you know, my children, and

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<v Speaker 2>I remember saying the only I don't care if they

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<v Speaker 2>learned to read when they're eight or six or ten

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<v Speaker 2>or twelve or fourteen. What you do never want your

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<v Speaker 2>child to do is to feel stupid. You know, because

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<v Speaker 2>I said, those are the people that come into the

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<v Speaker 2>River Cafe, and they was coming and they say, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to sit here. I don't want that, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want this, And I almost want to say, did

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<v Speaker 2>you have a hard time in school? You know, because.

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<v Speaker 6>It's I'm going to challenge you. I'm going to challenge

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<v Speaker 6>you that from the best roses come from the worstman you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>So I think a certain amount of adversity is rather essential.

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<v Speaker 6>And I don't think it did me much harm being told.

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<v Speaker 6>You never told you're stupid, It was implicit feel that

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<v Speaker 6>you were where you were clear, it was clear that

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<v Speaker 6>you couldn't follow right, and you were clear that kids

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<v Speaker 6>that weren't that quick were following quicker than you. Could follow,

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<v Speaker 6>so you could you knew there was an issue. I

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<v Speaker 6>would argue though, that that gave me a sort of

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<v Speaker 6>a myriad of skills that otherwise I would never have developed.

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<v Speaker 6>And feeling like you were an outside of some description

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<v Speaker 6>and feeling diminished as a point in the end, I

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<v Speaker 6>just don't think that did me any harm.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with you about a lot of that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with self esteem. I used to think self

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<v Speaker 2>esteem was the most important thing. Now I think maybe not.

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<v Speaker 6>It was a paradox that. Yeah, there's a paradox.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, going back then thirteen schools, do you remember

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<v Speaker 2>any of those searteen schools having good food?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you'll be surprised what kind of food I can enjoy? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>tell me everything. My mum wasn't fussy, and I've never

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<v Speaker 6>been fussy. The only thing I couldn't eat was rhubarb,

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<v Speaker 6>and even that I can eat now, and I was.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm quite interested and enjoy industrial quantities of food that's

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<v Speaker 6>not necessarily to consume. But there's a sort of it

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<v Speaker 6>takes on certain qualities they used to do, like school, Lasanya,

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<v Speaker 6>when you're cooking for a few hundred kids, it takes

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<v Speaker 6>on complex characteristics that are impossible to derive if you're

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<v Speaker 6>using quality product. So yeah, I liked school food.

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<v Speaker 2>Out of thirteen schools, which one did you? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>do something like graduating from school? Or did you just

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<v Speaker 2>leave school?

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<v Speaker 6>It just left fifteen, and it was anticlimactic sort of.

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<v Speaker 6>I left and then they said, don't bother coming back?

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<v Speaker 2>And did your parents were they? Were they worried about you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yes, because I had no qualifications at all. I

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<v Speaker 6>can barely spell my name, but I was. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>I was working by the time I was fifteen, not

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<v Speaker 6>far from here, actually some Peter Square in amazonhere.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I worked in the Island Records, which I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>if it's still there, but I worked as a twoboy

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<v Speaker 6>in records.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you living at home? Did your mom still cook

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<v Speaker 2>for you?

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<v Speaker 8>Who?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 6>I left home early door, So I was from fifteen onwards.

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<v Speaker 6>I was in and out And.

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<v Speaker 2>What were you eating? Do you remember?

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<v Speaker 9>Ummm no is.

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<v Speaker 6>The answer that no be goes. Then it was it

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<v Speaker 6>was all work from fifteen to now. It's really all

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<v Speaker 6>been work, although it's been sort of messy periods along

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<v Speaker 6>that way. I've been working pretty much since I was fifteen.

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<v Speaker 6>My first love of real food was French and I

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<v Speaker 6>was tremendously impressed by the layering.

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<v Speaker 2>M call layering, you mean the way.

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<v Speaker 6>That I felt as though there was every nuance was investigated.

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<v Speaker 6>There was a place on Pimlico Road that was run

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<v Speaker 6>by those brothers.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember, yeah, it was next to the pot Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's when I.

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<v Speaker 6>There was a little supermarket. There was next door a

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<v Speaker 6>little shop and a little French shop, not much bigger

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<v Speaker 6>than this room. And when I was a van driver,

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<v Speaker 6>I used to go in there and it was absurdly expensive,

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<v Speaker 6>but the quality was mind blowing. You've run a career

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<v Speaker 6>off the quality of your ingredients, Avenue.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say that about French food and Italian food.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that I see nothing I love more than

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<v Speaker 2>a piece of fish, both blanc and spinach on the bottom.

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<v Speaker 2>As you say, almost layering the way. But there's something

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<v Speaker 2>also when you go to Italy and then you have

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<v Speaker 2>a piece of sea bass and nothing. You know, you

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<v Speaker 2>just get this bass and maybe, if you're lucky, a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of salsa verdi or lemon, and so if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to have only two ingredients of lemon and a

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<v Speaker 2>sea bass or sea bass and a bit of wild diregular.

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<v Speaker 2>The wild diregua has to be wild, and the sea

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<v Speaker 2>bass has to be incredibly fit, you know, fresh, because

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<v Speaker 2>there's no masking of it. You're not looking at the

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<v Speaker 2>hollandaise or the burnets or the other stuff, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think we are with the river Cafe definitely

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<v Speaker 2>is very ingredient based. Yeah, we are.

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<v Speaker 6>I went fishing for sea bass this week, actually Portland anyway,

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<v Speaker 6>So I caught four very healthy bats. We're actually caught fourteen.

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<v Speaker 6>We returned ten of them. Wet fishing with my ten

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<v Speaker 6>year old is obsessed and English bass.

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<v Speaker 2>We get it is. We get all our fish off

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<v Speaker 2>the coast. We don't bring any two now or anything in.

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<v Speaker 2>We once had one of my was we had the

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<v Speaker 2>we you know, we call it the end of service.

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<v Speaker 2>So at eleven o'clock at night, we know how much

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<v Speaker 2>bass we've sold, how much you know turbot we've sold,

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<v Speaker 2>and we know that the next day we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>change the menu. So we never have the menu. It

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<v Speaker 2>just depends what there is in the fridge and what

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<v Speaker 2>there is in the sea. And then we got a

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<v Speaker 2>call from the boat and he said, I we have

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<v Speaker 2>just reeled in a turbot and it's so big that

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<v Speaker 2>either the River Cafe takes it or we put it

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<v Speaker 2>back in the sea.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you want and we took it? How big was it?

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<v Speaker 6>I can't remember?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I have no eight kills. The River Cafe Cafe,

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<v Speaker 2>our all day space and just steps away from the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 2>is now open. In the morning an Italian breakfast with cornetti,

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<v Speaker 2>ciambella and crostada from our pastry kitchen. In the afternoon,

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<v Speaker 2>ice creamed coups and River Cafe classic desserts. We have

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<v Speaker 2>sharing plates Salumi, misti, mozzarella, brusqueto, red and yellow peppers,

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<v Speaker 2>Vitello tonado and more. Come in the evening for cocktails

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<v Speaker 2>with our resident pianist in the bar. No need to book,

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<v Speaker 2>see you here. When Michael Jean came to Table four,

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<v Speaker 2>he had memories to share and songs to sing, But

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<v Speaker 2>the moment that stays with me most was this story

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<v Speaker 2>about his childhood. As a young boy, Wycliffe was left

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<v Speaker 2>with his grandmother in Haiti while his parents tried to

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<v Speaker 2>make a new life for the family in America, and

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<v Speaker 2>then one day an immigration officer came looking for them.

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<v Speaker 1>The immigration unit goes to my mama the apartment that

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<v Speaker 1>they staying in. So while my dad's running, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a big raid like dayDay about them. Yes, this is

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<v Speaker 1>in Brooklyn. Now immigration officer gets to my mama apartment. Immigration,

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<v Speaker 1>open up the door now, man, and my mom is

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<v Speaker 1>so scared. The immigration officer has a translator with him

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<v Speaker 1>that speaks French and crayle. So the immigration officer says,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a knocked on this door for a time.

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<v Speaker 1>They ain't open and I know somebody in there. I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to say it in cray all, in French

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<v Speaker 1>whatever language that is. Tell them to open that door.

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<v Speaker 1>And the translator says to my mother and cray all

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<v Speaker 1>fair softly, man, I was butler translation, do you not

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<v Speaker 1>open that door right now? Now? The reason why I

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<v Speaker 1>say this right is, at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>people get caught up in these situations, and we the

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<v Speaker 1>United States of America, like there was a time where

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<v Speaker 1>we would take keyed to this, and we would take

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<v Speaker 1>like cause to this, and we would be so sensitive

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<v Speaker 1>to that, like where we could say, we'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>a pass because we know what you're doing here. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not breaking the law. You just had a bad day.

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<v Speaker 1>And these days do not exist.

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<v Speaker 2>No. Also, you know you're making the country better, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>by coming from another country. And I was just given

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<v Speaker 2>a prize in America. It asked to be in the academy.

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<v Speaker 2>I was made a member of this Academy of Arts

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<v Speaker 2>and Letters. And I wrote the letter and I said,

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<v Speaker 2>my grandparents came from Russia and I came in nineteen seventeen.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they were part of that Ellis Island. I

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<v Speaker 2>was just thinking, two generations. How you know if your

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<v Speaker 2>grandparents were here watching you they did your grandparents know

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<v Speaker 2>the measure of your success? Did they see?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>My grandparents, my grandma knew my musical abilities at a

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<v Speaker 1>very young age because I would just like make songs up.

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<v Speaker 1>There was these women in the village every Sunday that

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<v Speaker 1>would sing these church hymns and I would just get

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<v Speaker 1>I would just be part of remember one. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>remember a few of them.

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<v Speaker 7>She sat fair, Not do you wan pair?

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<v Speaker 8>When Bennie and corner Shop? She shuck fair? Oh what

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<v Speaker 8>do you want pair? Oh Bennie when Bennie?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? And more corner Poco Damn the.

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<v Speaker 8>Lulja bo Ben Dick Show, Wha.

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<v Speaker 10>Wha Poco men, The Louija Bo Ben Dick show Whoa.

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<v Speaker 10>So that was that was you know, you could just

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<v Speaker 10>feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>But the the the the him is saying we're blessed

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<v Speaker 1>and we should acknowledge that like basically every day of

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<v Speaker 1>our life. So again that was some of the I

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<v Speaker 1>would hear these these these uh, these amazing women like

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<v Speaker 1>and and then so the heymns would just channel through me.

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<v Speaker 2>And after church, would you would that be food? Would

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<v Speaker 2>that be a meal? Would you go home?

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<v Speaker 1>And hence we call it lucky Sunday. You get that

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<v Speaker 1>lucky Sunday. Everything come out on that Lucky Sunday. But

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't happen often. Lucky Sunday happens on Easter.

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<v Speaker 9>The meal is big.

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<v Speaker 1>The meal is big. The meal is a lot of meat,

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<v Speaker 1>goat goat goat cooked very interesting. It's called tasu. It's

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<v Speaker 1>fried traditionally in Haiti. If you see how they cook,

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<v Speaker 1>they used the chabon charcoal, so it's caught with the

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<v Speaker 1>charcoal because you know, the food gonna taste different, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they put the big aluminum pan and so the

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<v Speaker 1>gold is fried. They would make a uh poisson. The

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<v Speaker 1>poisson gorsel is the white fish a little saltea like codfish.

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<v Speaker 1>At times, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like you're saying gross sell large salt, doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It yeah, yeah, yes, yes so. And in crele the

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<v Speaker 1>word means big yeah so yeah, and then phonetically yes

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<v Speaker 1>so because crayle in French at times the words do

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<v Speaker 1>mean the same thing else.

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<v Speaker 2>And so when you your father around and your mother

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<v Speaker 2>didn't open the door, so were they safe in the

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<v Speaker 2>United States for you to come?

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<v Speaker 1>They were safe. My parents came and got me and

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<v Speaker 1>my brother. Now they get on the plane. The immigration

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<v Speaker 1>laws work. They come and get us from Haiti. So

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<v Speaker 1>me and my brother going to see my parents for

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<v Speaker 1>the first time. Left for me now yeah. So now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like eight nine and now my parents are come

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<v Speaker 1>in to get me, and I've never seen them. For them,

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<v Speaker 1>so my grandma gets us dressed, she takes our bags,

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<v Speaker 1>she brings us to the airport. I ain't never seen

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<v Speaker 1>an airport before. So when the airplane is landing, you

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<v Speaker 1>can imagine what that looks like to me, the UFOE.

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<v Speaker 1>So the airplane lands, and I'll never forget. My mother

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<v Speaker 1>had a yellow outfit. She looked like Jackie Yo. She

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<v Speaker 1>had the glasses on, you know, she looked like Miss America.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yo, that's my mama right there.

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<v Speaker 7>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad had the long bed looking like he moses.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he comes and they come and they hold

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<v Speaker 1>me and my brother in that hog. I could still

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<v Speaker 1>feel that hog.

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<v Speaker 2>I hadn't seen you for how long I haven't seen us?

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<v Speaker 1>Since we were born?

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<v Speaker 2>Did they continue cooking the food of Haiti? In Brooklyn?

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<v Speaker 1>My mama had a thing you only can eat in

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<v Speaker 1>the house. I didn't even know what it was like

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a fast food restaurant. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>what was cooked in Brooklyn was something called ligan. Ligan, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>ligan is similar to a gumbo, right, but all in vegetables,

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<v Speaker 1>so eggplants, water cress, this was like part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Also a lot of yam, sweet potatoes and this is natural.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of fish in the morning. It was very,

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<v Speaker 1>very important that you had breakfast. My father, who was

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<v Speaker 1>also an amazing cook, he used to cook liver for iron, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so again like it would be all, but he would

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<v Speaker 1>like cook the liver with egg whites.

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<v Speaker 2>They dipped the liver in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they beat the batter, yeah, And they batter the

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<v Speaker 1>liver so it's very it's not rough, so everything is

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<v Speaker 1>very tender. So we naturally grew up in an environment

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<v Speaker 1>where the food wasn't processed like they literally, Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, she used to do chicken, So from the chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>She would always go to the butcher, like they would

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<v Speaker 1>not if the meat wasn't from the butcher, they would

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<v Speaker 1>there's no such thing about she go to the supermarket

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<v Speaker 1>and get chicken. So everything is from the butcher. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was called pool gee. And I gotta tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking about that chicken right now and how they

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<v Speaker 1>seasoned it and cooked it was pretty amazing.

0:26:44.320 --> 0:26:46.040
<v Speaker 2>Did you ever go in the kitchen and cook with

0:26:46.119 --> 0:26:46.480
<v Speaker 2>your mom?

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:50.280
<v Speaker 1>My mother? She was like, you gotta be real successful.

0:26:51.280 --> 0:26:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I said, why because she said every time we cook,

0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:55.640
<v Speaker 1>and all you do is you come in the kitchen

0:26:55.720 --> 0:26:59.119
<v Speaker 1>and sing, and you sing, and you stay here and

0:26:59.240 --> 0:27:01.040
<v Speaker 1>you wait. So you the first one with the first

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:04.160
<v Speaker 1>meal out right. My mom when she would cook rice,

0:27:04.480 --> 0:27:07.320
<v Speaker 1>she would had me work with the seasons with her.

0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:11.159
<v Speaker 1>There's a seasoning called Maggie. You've ever heard of it?

0:27:11.640 --> 0:27:12.240
<v Speaker 2>I think I have.

0:27:12.560 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>It's like amazing because it's like a mixed season and

0:27:17.960 --> 0:27:20.920
<v Speaker 1>it was something like she can't. It literally works in everything,

0:27:21.359 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 1>like literally is like a little cube, yes, yeah, yeah,

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>like a yellow okay.

0:27:26.760 --> 0:27:30.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like it's like a cube of vegetables.

0:27:30.480 --> 0:27:31.720
<v Speaker 1>And they put Maggie in.

0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:35.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah.

0:27:35.800 --> 0:27:37.480
<v Speaker 1>So that was one of the things. She was like,

0:27:37.760 --> 0:27:43.240
<v Speaker 1>give me the two Maggie's so the rice game is crazy,

0:27:43.800 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 1>and Haiti and and and then the the the kitchen.

0:27:48.800 --> 0:27:51.680
<v Speaker 1>So she'd be like, okay, put this amount of water

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:55.960
<v Speaker 1>right in the pot. And she put the water. She says, okay,

0:27:56.640 --> 0:27:58.920
<v Speaker 1>put this amount of oil right. And one of the

0:27:59.040 --> 0:28:01.320
<v Speaker 1>things she used to have me you do was wash

0:28:01.400 --> 0:28:04.680
<v Speaker 1>the rice. Cleaning was very very important to her how

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:07.720
<v Speaker 1>she actually cooked the food. So I'd be like, but

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:09.639
<v Speaker 1>the rice is already in the park just but no,

0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:11.440
<v Speaker 1>she says, you got to put the rice in the water.

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:12.119
<v Speaker 9>Got it.

0:28:12.240 --> 0:28:14.639
<v Speaker 1>So literally for five minutes she has me cleaning this

0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:17.639
<v Speaker 1>rice out. And I remember, like now I would sit

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:21.480
<v Speaker 1>back and watch the water boil. And while the water

0:28:21.680 --> 0:28:27.960
<v Speaker 1>was boiling, I was singing my mother's favorite French song,

0:28:29.840 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Jacques Bell, which.

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 7>One my l.

0:28:46.480 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 1>Says, quite and Mary unfaithful and faithful? Did it sting?

0:28:56.280 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 9>Did it?

0:28:56.920 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 7>I have a version of it?

0:28:59.120 --> 0:29:06.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you go, yes, that's right. Yeah, Now you

0:29:06.200 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 1>got to hear they clap version.

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:10.240
<v Speaker 2>So you sang it in Creole, No.

0:29:10.320 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I sang it in English. But I put the hip

0:29:11.880 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 1>hop to it. I was like, yeah, yeah, you know,

0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I put the hipness to it. I put that sauce,

0:29:26.360 --> 0:29:27.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I put the maggi in it.

0:29:30.520 --> 0:29:33.680
<v Speaker 2>Did you live in an enclave of Haitian culture?

0:29:34.200 --> 0:29:37.720
<v Speaker 1>So we we grew up in Marlborough projects, one of

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 1>the roughest projects in Coney Island in Brooklyn. So yeah,

0:29:42.360 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 1>so I we got there from Haiti. We grew up

0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:48.600
<v Speaker 1>in Coney Island. As far as me and my brother

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:51.880
<v Speaker 1>was concerned. We came from a hut and so we're

0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>in the building. So we were rich. We like the Jeffersons.

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:57.120
<v Speaker 1>We moved on up on the east side.

0:29:58.800 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Did you what was schooler?

0:30:01.120 --> 0:30:03.760
<v Speaker 1>We went to school in Brooklyn. But this is what

0:30:04.000 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>was amazing about Coney Island. We lived in this big project,

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:11.520
<v Speaker 1>one of the most dangerous projects. But when we go

0:30:11.680 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>on the roof, we could see the entire amusement park

0:30:15.440 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 1>in the beach in Coney Island. And then so we

0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 1>was like living on up because me and my brother

0:30:22.840 --> 0:30:24.720
<v Speaker 1>was like, this is amazing. So literally we could go

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:27.880
<v Speaker 1>from the projects and then like walk to the beach,

0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:33.840
<v Speaker 1>which was pretty amazing and the reason why we identified

0:30:33.920 --> 0:30:38.360
<v Speaker 1>with the beach again. In Haiti and a village, we

0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 1>played in the cemetery, so our Walt Disney and our

0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:50.040
<v Speaker 1>playground was this big cemetery. So and I had we

0:30:50.320 --> 0:30:57.840
<v Speaker 1>watched the transformation go from the cemetery to this amazing

0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>amusement park. Again, what that did for us was, you know,

0:31:04.800 --> 0:31:08.120
<v Speaker 1>we are in the land of opportunity, and we was like,

0:31:08.280 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing now that's going to set us back. So

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:16.640
<v Speaker 1>the Eagle gave us that opportunity. America has given us

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:19.600
<v Speaker 1>this opportunity. And I don't say that just for me.

0:31:20.240 --> 0:31:23.400
<v Speaker 1>I say that for many of my friends, my peers

0:31:23.440 --> 0:31:25.959
<v Speaker 1>that ended up being super successful.

0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 2>While many people visit hotels or work in hotels, Carrie

0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 2>Mulligan's experience is more unique. She grew up in hotels.

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:50.600
<v Speaker 2>When Carrie joined Maybe we talked about food and films.

0:31:51.000 --> 0:31:54.840
<v Speaker 2>Her performance is Felicia Bernstein in Maestro and her very

0:31:55.080 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 2>unusual childhood.

0:31:57.040 --> 0:32:01.840
<v Speaker 11>My father was a hotel manager for Continental for my

0:32:01.920 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 11>whole childhood until I was sort of eighteen, so we

0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:10.160
<v Speaker 11>I was born. I think we were at the Brittannia

0:32:10.200 --> 0:32:12.360
<v Speaker 11>when I was born. My dad was running the Brittannia hotel,

0:32:12.400 --> 0:32:17.720
<v Speaker 11>and then in London, yeah and then they yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:32:18.360 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 11>so there and then the Mayfair. And then we moved

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:25.440
<v Speaker 11>to Germany to Hanover and Dustledorf and he ran hotels there,

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 11>and then we moved back to London. He ran I

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:30.480
<v Speaker 11>can't remember in the hotel. He then was at the

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 11>Churchill in Portman Square, so he moved around those and

0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 11>he also ran hotels in Vienna and Frankfurt.

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:37.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah did you but you actually lived in the hotel.

0:32:38.080 --> 0:32:39.520
<v Speaker 11>We lived in the hotel till I was eight.

0:32:39.680 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 2>Were you were a bit like Elowise? Do you remember

0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:43.760
<v Speaker 2>that book? Alowis? Did you ever know that growing up

0:32:43.800 --> 0:32:47.400
<v Speaker 2>in the plaza? Would you run around the hotels? Yeah? Fine?

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:48.480
<v Speaker 7>What was that like?

0:32:48.600 --> 0:32:49.520
<v Speaker 2>Living in a hotel?

0:32:49.720 --> 0:32:51.440
<v Speaker 11>It was amazing. I mean it was you know, it's

0:32:51.480 --> 0:32:53.280
<v Speaker 11>kind of all we knew. But I look back and

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 11>I think, oh wow, that was kind of an extraordinary

0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 11>way to grow up. And my brother and I were

0:32:59.200 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 11>certainly we know, we would sort of roll around with

0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 11>the the maids, you know, going into people's rooms after

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 11>they checked out and sort of you know, I remember

0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:15.520
<v Speaker 11>sort of sitting in the basket with all the sheets,

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:18.280
<v Speaker 11>you know, with my hands holding on, rolling around the

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:21.040
<v Speaker 11>corridor and you know, sitting on with my whole body

0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 11>wrap around a hoover, you know, going up and down

0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:24.480
<v Speaker 11>the hallways.

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:28.000
<v Speaker 2>We were ordering room service. Did you have we had?

0:33:28.040 --> 0:33:29.760
<v Speaker 11>It was like that, you know, they'll have a they'll

0:33:29.800 --> 0:33:32.360
<v Speaker 11>have a little I mean in the place at the hotels.

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:34.880
<v Speaker 11>And we lived in the sort of an apartment in

0:33:35.000 --> 0:33:38.120
<v Speaker 11>the top floor for the manager. So we lived in

0:33:38.240 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 11>a yeah, Mum talks about I mean, we had our

0:33:41.360 --> 0:33:44.240
<v Speaker 11>own little mini kitchen and stuff, but it was more Yeah,

0:33:44.280 --> 0:33:46.560
<v Speaker 11>we didn't do room service, but we did have our

0:33:46.600 --> 0:33:49.160
<v Speaker 11>linen change. The only thing I remember about the kitchen

0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:51.040
<v Speaker 11>because we were, you know, nowhere near the kitchen that

0:33:51.200 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 11>was not And I was saying earlier, my dad, you know,

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:57.840
<v Speaker 11>I think briefly worked in kitchens on his way. He

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:00.560
<v Speaker 11>worked his way up from kind of collect in glasses

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 11>in a restaurant to being the manager. Yeah, and he

0:34:06.320 --> 0:34:09.680
<v Speaker 11>so whenever he cooks, generally I exit the building because

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:13.920
<v Speaker 11>it's just not what is it like? He just likes

0:34:14.000 --> 0:34:19.080
<v Speaker 11>things ordered and the way that they and you know,

0:34:19.200 --> 0:34:20.840
<v Speaker 11>for us to sort of come in and sort of

0:34:20.880 --> 0:34:24.080
<v Speaker 11>casually start munching on something. His heart was not part

0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:28.160
<v Speaker 11>of it, so that yeah, it's but my memory of

0:34:28.320 --> 0:34:31.520
<v Speaker 11>one of my birthday parties when I was little was

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:37.440
<v Speaker 11>at the hotel in Disseldorf, and you know, the pastry

0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:41.040
<v Speaker 11>chef made a bunch of dough. We were all making

0:34:41.120 --> 0:34:43.200
<v Speaker 11>little dollies out of dough, and then they took them

0:34:43.239 --> 0:34:45.640
<v Speaker 11>off and cooked them in the kitchen and brought them back.

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:49.640
<v Speaker 11>And the birthday cakes, you know, when we lived in

0:34:49.719 --> 0:34:52.200
<v Speaker 11>hotels were always you know, those very elaborate kind of

0:34:52.640 --> 0:34:54.160
<v Speaker 11>I feel like they always had liquor in them.

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:54.840
<v Speaker 2>They always had like a.

0:34:54.880 --> 0:35:00.480
<v Speaker 11>Bit of booze in it, properly kiddie birthday and they

0:35:00.520 --> 0:35:03.400
<v Speaker 11>had like very beautiful writing in icing and all that

0:35:03.560 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 11>kind of stuff. There was always such a sense of

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:09.080
<v Speaker 11>occasion in hotels. It's always like there's a big display

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:11.160
<v Speaker 11>for Christmas or there's a big you know. It was

0:35:11.239 --> 0:35:13.839
<v Speaker 11>like there was always some sort of sense of there's

0:35:13.880 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 11>a sort of event happening. But I always felt, really

0:35:18.560 --> 0:35:21.480
<v Speaker 11>I like being nomadic. I don't mind, you know, I

0:35:21.680 --> 0:35:23.800
<v Speaker 11>like being in hotel tells I'm not someone who I

0:35:23.880 --> 0:35:26.040
<v Speaker 11>don't need to bring you know, some people sort of

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 11>need to bring stuff with them to make wherever.

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 2>They feel like home. Carries with her.

0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:33.440
<v Speaker 11>Do you know the only time I ate lunch here

0:35:33.520 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 11>was with Tracy Ty.

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:38.799
<v Speaker 2>She described, you know that she I think she's ever

0:35:39.000 --> 0:35:41.880
<v Speaker 2>ordered room service. She would always, you know, I'd go

0:35:42.080 --> 0:35:44.320
<v Speaker 2>out and find something and take her food on the

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 2>plane or take an object. And as you say, I

0:35:47.640 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 2>love hotels so much that I actually don't like when

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:53.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm upgraded to a suite because it reminds me too

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:56.640
<v Speaker 2>much of home. Yeah, yeah, I like the confines of

0:35:56.800 --> 0:35:59.439
<v Speaker 2>a hotel them. You can find everything, you know, where

0:35:59.440 --> 0:36:01.720
<v Speaker 2>your boocket as you know where everything is. I always

0:36:01.760 --> 0:36:04.720
<v Speaker 2>thought that maybe I'd be one of those women who age,

0:36:04.880 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, Richard would be a stay at Clarages for

0:36:07.080 --> 0:36:09.839
<v Speaker 2>the rest of, you know, our days. I had said

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 2>to him, if we saw our house, how many nights

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:15.040
<v Speaker 2>do you think we'd get in Clarges. He's like, probably six.

0:36:17.080 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 2>And do you think there was a performance that you

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:20.960
<v Speaker 2>had to behave in a certain way with strangers?

0:36:21.239 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 3>I think so.

0:36:21.840 --> 0:36:24.640
<v Speaker 11>Yeah, yeah, we had you know, we met people who

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:27.880
<v Speaker 11>were staying at the hotel sometimes and there was a

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 11>real kind of day. It felt like being a bit

0:36:29.840 --> 0:36:31.640
<v Speaker 11>of a like a diplomat stater or something. You know,

0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 11>someone would come and stay at the hotel and you

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:34.359
<v Speaker 11>would greet them.

0:36:34.600 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 2>You know, what was German food like? Do you have

0:36:38.000 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 2>a memory of it or did you.

0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:44.880
<v Speaker 11>Yeah, lots of quite meat, meat based food. I mean

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:47.800
<v Speaker 11>we you know, we were amongst kind of lots of

0:36:47.840 --> 0:36:52.880
<v Speaker 11>bricks as well. So but we spent We were amazingly lucky.

0:36:52.960 --> 0:36:55.840
<v Speaker 11>We got to go skiing in Austria in our holidays

0:36:55.920 --> 0:36:59.120
<v Speaker 11>and things, we you know, spent lots of We had

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:03.320
<v Speaker 11>lots of Asia Kaza, spetzel and you know venus ntzel

0:37:03.400 --> 0:37:08.160
<v Speaker 11>and delicious like warm brothy things to be able to

0:37:08.719 --> 0:37:12.560
<v Speaker 11>warm up. But yeah, I think we you know, because

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 11>it was also an international hotel. It was you know,

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:17.279
<v Speaker 11>it wasn't we were if I was eating stuff from

0:37:17.400 --> 0:37:19.800
<v Speaker 11>it wasn't necessarily German cuisine or anything.

0:37:20.080 --> 0:37:23.279
<v Speaker 2>I usually asked people about their families and growing up,

0:37:23.320 --> 0:37:26.479
<v Speaker 2>and restaurants were restaurants, But in your case, I often

0:37:26.560 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 2>asked if restaurants were a special occasion, which was the

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:31.960
<v Speaker 2>touth In my family, we went out to restaurants for

0:37:32.640 --> 0:37:37.120
<v Speaker 2>somebody's birthday and somebody's anniversary or something great had happened,

0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:41.560
<v Speaker 2>and you'd celebrate a restaurant. Here we see people just

0:37:41.920 --> 0:37:44.000
<v Speaker 2>coming out for dinner with their kids all the time,

0:37:44.320 --> 0:37:46.920
<v Speaker 2>and maybe it was just more for you. That was

0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:48.279
<v Speaker 2>that something that was just.

0:37:50.920 --> 0:37:54.520
<v Speaker 11>I suppose that I don't really remember going to restaurants

0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:56.880
<v Speaker 11>at all. I don't remember going to nice, you know,

0:37:57.080 --> 0:37:58.440
<v Speaker 11>white tabletop restaurants.

0:37:58.480 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 6>Ever.

0:37:58.760 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 11>With my we would go to there was a pizza

0:38:01.480 --> 0:38:03.440
<v Speaker 11>place in Dussledorf that we would go to, but like

0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:06.040
<v Speaker 11>really a hole on the wall kind of pizza place,

0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 11>and that was sort of a treat that we would

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:11.400
<v Speaker 11>go there. I don't think we went to I remember

0:38:11.480 --> 0:38:15.000
<v Speaker 11>what for the Millennium my dad was running the Intercontinental

0:38:15.040 --> 0:38:18.040
<v Speaker 11>in Vienna, and there was a big Millennium meal there

0:38:18.080 --> 0:38:21.680
<v Speaker 11>and I was fourteen and fourteen fifteen, I think, yeah, fourteen,

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:27.040
<v Speaker 11>and my best friend came with me and we bought dresses,

0:38:27.400 --> 0:38:29.800
<v Speaker 11>you know, for millennium and we sat and it was

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:35.600
<v Speaker 11>a proper white tablecloth, seven course meal thing, and that

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:37.919
<v Speaker 11>was that was a big, big deal. So I don't

0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:40.920
<v Speaker 11>think we did necessarily, although when I was when we

0:38:41.200 --> 0:38:44.719
<v Speaker 11>moved home and we were living in you know, Buckinghamshire.

0:38:44.800 --> 0:38:47.280
<v Speaker 11>We used to go if there was anything to celebrate,

0:38:47.360 --> 0:38:50.160
<v Speaker 11>we'd go to Mister Poone's the Chinese restaurant and go

0:38:50.280 --> 0:38:52.640
<v Speaker 11>and have big Chinese and we did that kind.

0:38:52.520 --> 0:38:53.200
<v Speaker 3>Of for years.

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 11>Your parents cook for you, yeah, I mean Mum's always

0:38:56.680 --> 0:38:59.320
<v Speaker 11>you know, she couldn't turn her hand to anything. She

0:38:59.400 --> 0:39:01.080
<v Speaker 11>was never a sort of passionate cook, I think because

0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:03.560
<v Speaker 11>Dad was the cook. So if there was meals that

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:07.080
<v Speaker 11>were cooked, it would be Dad, you know. And Mum,

0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:12.160
<v Speaker 11>my grandmother was a was a wonderful bay loved baking.

0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:12.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:39:13.080 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 2>So where did she live?

0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 11>So she was my mother's Welsh So she was in Carmarthenshire.

0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:23.279
<v Speaker 11>So and every time I went to her for any

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<v Speaker 11>kind of length of time, we were just bake and bacon, baked,

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<v Speaker 11>oh well everything. Welsh cakes, famously delicious Welsh cakes.

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<v Speaker 2>Welshcakes, that's don't tell Sean, I asked you this because

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<v Speaker 2>I've lived in this country.

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<v Speaker 7>For well.

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<v Speaker 3>If you weren't it.

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<v Speaker 11>But they're like their little mini sort of flat cake

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<v Speaker 11>with raisins in and like a scone, yeah, like a

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<v Speaker 11>sort of flatter scone. But she'd make amazing Welsh cakes,

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<v Speaker 11>a cherry almond cake, a delicious cherry almond cake that

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<v Speaker 11>just got better the longer you left it in the tin.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 11>It was that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>When Tom Hollander came to Table for here, just finished

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<v Speaker 2>filming the series Feud, Capoti Versus the Swans. The Swans

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<v Speaker 2>were Babe Paley, Slim Keith, and the other wealthy socialites

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<v Speaker 2>who world nineteen sixties Manhattan. Tom played Truman Capoti, their

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<v Speaker 2>unlikely friend and writer host of The Black and White Ball.

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<v Speaker 2>We could talk about Capoti and women in food because

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<v Speaker 2>those women, there are a lot of so many scenes

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<v Speaker 2>in restaurants. Right, they went to lunch every day.

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<v Speaker 9>You're right, But I wonder if they skinny? Was the

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<v Speaker 9>their job?

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<v Speaker 6>Right?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>They drank. I think they drank and smoked. They drank

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<v Speaker 9>and smoked and sort of died young. Yeah. Perhaps they

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<v Speaker 9>were celebrating being in the inn crowd and being at

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<v Speaker 9>the table, the best table in the best restaurant. And yes,

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<v Speaker 9>they were restraining themselves. He couldn't stop, he couldn't control

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<v Speaker 9>his appetite. And he loved cooking. He loved his own kitchen. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 9>So in the South was yes, yes, and the Black

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<v Speaker 9>and White Ball they served his You know, the black

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<v Speaker 9>and White ball, that sort of apotheos The black and

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<v Speaker 9>White ball was a ball at Truman Capoti threw in.

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<v Speaker 9>I can't remember when, the very early sixties, on the

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<v Speaker 9>back of In Cold Blood, which had made him hugely famous,

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<v Speaker 9>and his obsession with sort of high society and his

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<v Speaker 9>own celebrity came together in one glorious moment, and he

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<v Speaker 9>created the guest list to beat all guest lists that

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<v Speaker 9>have ever existed, so much so that people knew about

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<v Speaker 9>him were fighting to get on it. And aristocrats flew

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<v Speaker 9>from Europe. All the film stars, you know, Frank Sinatra,

0:41:45.040 --> 0:41:50.440
<v Speaker 9>Mia Farrow, the Aniellies, the probably Mick Jagger, we can

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<v Speaker 9>ask him. They all turned up to the plaza and

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<v Speaker 9>he he gave them corn beef hash, which he remember

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<v Speaker 9>fondly from Monroeville, Alabama, where he'd grown up. But they

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<v Speaker 9>they all complained about the budget of the catering, that

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<v Speaker 9>it was very small. For him, it was about getting

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<v Speaker 9>them in. They were the decoration, They were the they

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<v Speaker 9>were the party, their their dresses, their masks. But there

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<v Speaker 9>was nothing there. There were some balloons and some some

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<v Speaker 9>some rather dodgy food that neither wanted, and I think

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<v Speaker 9>the party ended relatively early, and a whole bunch of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Went gambling, what was it like filming that scene?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you do it?

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<v Speaker 9>They recreated it in the place and Zach Posen had

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<v Speaker 9>done the dressers for the ladies. It was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he eat?

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<v Speaker 9>He did cooking. Yeah. He was addictive and compulsive, so

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<v Speaker 9>he goes up and down. You see, we in our

0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:55.080
<v Speaker 9>version we pretty much do fat Troomen because I couldn't

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<v Speaker 9>in a TV schedule go up and down as much

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<v Speaker 9>as I needed to, So we went with Ryan Murphy

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<v Speaker 9>said you need to you need to put on some weight.

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<v Speaker 9>So I did, which was very enjoyable. And then it's

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<v Speaker 9>marvelous in the moment. And then and I started to

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<v Speaker 9>find it hard to put my socks on, and I

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<v Speaker 9>got breathless doing sensible things I thought of easy, usual,

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, ordinary things. That was that was distressing. So

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<v Speaker 9>and also I'm a bit old to be messing around

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<v Speaker 9>with my weight like that. And furthermore, I've I have

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<v Speaker 9>a little bit of a compulsion to overeat myself and

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<v Speaker 9>have spent all of my most of my professional life

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<v Speaker 9>slightly going slightly slightly up in between jobs and then

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<v Speaker 9>having a diet before a job, and going up and

0:43:46.360 --> 0:43:48.960
<v Speaker 9>going down, and going up and going down, and trying

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<v Speaker 9>to stay disciplined, trying to be like my father who

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<v Speaker 9>weighs himself every day and if he ever goes over

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<v Speaker 9>eleven stone, he he has a look at breakfast. He says,

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<v Speaker 9>I were I know whether I can have a heavy

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<v Speaker 9>or light retters, depending on what the scales are on

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<v Speaker 9>every day? Does that which sounds like, you know, one

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<v Speaker 9>of the Swans with its level of obsession, But he's

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<v Speaker 9>he's eighty eight and still going strong.

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<v Speaker 2>You're saying before that putting it on was one thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but you haven't told us about how you take it off.

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<v Speaker 9>So I went to a clinic. About half of it

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<v Speaker 9>came off in an Austrian clinic, and then I went

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<v Speaker 9>and did the play in which I was playing someone

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<v Speaker 9>who needed to actually be a bit heavier than me,

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<v Speaker 9>so I took patriots playing Berezovsky, who was quite portly.

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<v Speaker 9>So I kept it on for that and that worked,

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<v Speaker 9>and then I only I only got it off about

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<v Speaker 9>three months ago, with the fear of doing the American

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<v Speaker 9>press junk it. But I I do have a tendency

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<v Speaker 9>to I love eating, but I also eat my feelings,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, which which people do, and if you do

0:44:58.840 --> 0:45:02.120
<v Speaker 9>it too much, it's it's not good for you. So

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<v Speaker 9>I tried to do other things with my feelings.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a friend of mine I was at a dinner

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<v Speaker 2>recently where they were talking about a zempec yes, yes,

0:45:12.920 --> 0:45:15.719
<v Speaker 2>and they were saying that, and it was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>interesting to her. She said, really, what it's done for me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's taken the noise of food away. It's taken all

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<v Speaker 2>that noise. Should I shouldn't? I? How much? When? And

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<v Speaker 2>actually I understand that a lot, But I also think

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<v Speaker 2>it's a kind of noise we do want in our

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<v Speaker 2>life as well. We like the noise of food, don't we.

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<v Speaker 2>We liked the kind of thought of going to bed

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<v Speaker 2>at night and thinking what am I going to have

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<v Speaker 2>tomorrow for lunch or then?

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<v Speaker 9>And actually it's the noise of being alive, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 9>It's the desire, then, the fulfillment of the desire, the

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<v Speaker 9>creative process, the gathering of ingredients, the construction, the destruction,

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<v Speaker 9>the kind of leering up afterwards, everything from the preparation

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<v Speaker 9>to the end of it. It's all and it's a

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<v Speaker 9>sort of I mean, you could I could become pretentious

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<v Speaker 9>if I'd say, but you know, it's a cycle of life,

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<v Speaker 9>isn't it. But yet, but to be at war with food,

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<v Speaker 9>which you can be, is not good. And I have,

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<v Speaker 9>I do have a sense of that because being you know,

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<v Speaker 9>an actor, where you become inevitably obsessed with your appearance,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, it has an a tendency to make you think,

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<v Speaker 9>I mustn't need, I mustn't deed, I mustn't eat, so

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<v Speaker 9>I'm beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. It's never really made any difference.

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<v Speaker 9>I met her. I met her an actor once in

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<v Speaker 9>Italy who'd long retired. He'd been a famous sixties heart throw.

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<v Speaker 9>He said, I had to retire because I was sick

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<v Speaker 9>of being thin and I wanted to eat. And he

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<v Speaker 9>lived in the Italian hills near Cordona, and he loved

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<v Speaker 9>food and he ate it. And he's probably no longer

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<v Speaker 9>with us, but he was living the life of a

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<v Speaker 9>you know, a bonne viver. And I did sometimes think

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<v Speaker 9>I'll get to a certain age and then I'll give

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<v Speaker 9>up trying to not be fat, and then I'll I'll

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<v Speaker 9>just become a fat actor. Because fat actors they never

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<v Speaker 9>stopped working. They're always there's always Rumber, a fat actor

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<v Speaker 9>and everything. Anyway, I can't do that wells right, well exactly,

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<v Speaker 9>or the dear Richard Griffiths or you know you sort

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<v Speaker 9>of think they're they're loved. But I don't want to

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<v Speaker 9>do that because I want to I now need to

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<v Speaker 9>live as long as I can.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure if we're certainly shad because you have a son.

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<v Speaker 1>I do thank you for listening to Ruthie's Table for

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<v Speaker 1>in partnership with Montclair

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<v Speaker 6>Es