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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I don't know if you want to

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Speaker 2: use your friend's name, Gandhi, Okay, but can I just

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Speaker 2: say I don't want to use the word jealous, envious.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Your friend recently just upended everything. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: she quit her job, she moved, broke up with her boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I mean, what brought all this on? What made her

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Speaker 2: push the reset button?

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Speaker 1: Man? It was I think it was a long time coming.

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Speaker 3: She sort of fell into this rut and she wasn't

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Speaker 3: happy with any aspect of her life. She wasn't happy

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Speaker 3: with the relationship, she didn't like what was going on

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Speaker 3: with work, she didn't like where she was living. She

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Speaker 3: just one day up and decided I'm done and got

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Speaker 3: rid of all of it at the same time, and

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Speaker 3: she has started a completely new life all over again.

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Speaker 3: And I am so proud of her. I know it

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Speaker 3: takes so much to do any one of those things. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: let alone all three at the same time. So to you,

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Speaker 3: my friend, I love you.

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Speaker 1: We'll call her b Okay.

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Speaker 2: So quit her job, she moved to a new town,

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Speaker 2: new city.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I mean, does she have a job before she

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Speaker 2: went there. I mean, she.

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Speaker 1: Still doesn't have a job.

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Speaker 3: She's like, I'm figuring it out right now. She negotiated

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Speaker 3: a little package with the company that she was with,

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Speaker 3: so she has a few months to figure out what's

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Speaker 3: going on, and she's working on something. She said she

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Speaker 3: has some ideas, but she's just super excited and I

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Speaker 3: love that for her.

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Speaker 1: She's not scared at all.

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Speaker 3: She said she was more fearful of actually taking the plunge,

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Speaker 3: and now that she's done it, she's like, it's the

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Speaker 3: best thing that's ever happened. Weights lifted, I feel like

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Speaker 3: a new person.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 5: She didn't like, have a different name, a different identity,

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Speaker 5: die your hair.

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Speaker 1: Yep, you know what I mean, Like everything could be different.

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Speaker 1: The only thing that has carried through was the dog.

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Speaker 1: She took the dog.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you can't leave the dogs. Dogs are good. You

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Speaker 2: can't leave the dog. Uh Man's cow old.

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Speaker 3: She is she's thirty six, Okay, yeah wow, and just

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Speaker 3: said screw it all, I'm moving on.

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Speaker 2: So you're saying she was a little scared about making

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Speaker 2: the leap. M I guess it's easier for me to

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Speaker 2: say because I'm not in her position. You should be

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Speaker 2: more scared not taking the leap totally.

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Speaker 3: And that's when we were talking about it, I said

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Speaker 3: the same thing. I was like, you know, the most

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Speaker 3: terrifying thing would be to be stuck in a life

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Speaker 3: that you hate every aspect of as opposed to just

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Speaker 3: taking the leap and figuring it out for yourself, because

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Speaker 3: you'll fall into something that you appreciate and you like,

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Speaker 3: and you're making your own rules now and you're not

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Speaker 3: you know, sacrificing your happiness for other people and other things.

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Speaker 2: Wow, okay, so cool.

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Speaker 1: When she told me this, I almost I screamed. It

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Speaker 1: was amazing. I was so happy for her.

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Speaker 2: So was this a long time in the works or

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Speaker 2: does she just one day woke up and said, no, no,

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Speaker 2: everything has to be reset everything.

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Speaker 3: See had been toiling it with it for a while,

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Speaker 3: like she would send some of us a breakup text

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Speaker 3: like hey do you think this one works?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 3: How should I word it differently? And then I don't

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Speaker 3: know what happened, But one day she was just like,

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Speaker 3: that's it and she did all of it.

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Speaker 2: Wow. No, no, just ripped it. It's gonna be of course,

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Speaker 2: it is a lot different if you have kids involved.

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Speaker 2: Or there's you know, other things that you've got to

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Speaker 2: be paying attention to, which are of paramount importance. I

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Speaker 2: get that, but if you're thirty six years old, a

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Speaker 2: lot of people would say, Oh no, I'm already thirty six.

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Speaker 2: It is I waited too long in my life to

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Speaker 2: push a reset button. No, not at all, she said.

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Speaker 1: She's not even happier with you know, old I am.

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Speaker 2: I turned the big old, I turned the big six. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm ready to turn it all off and run like

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Speaker 2: hell my everybody, wait, wait, wait, wait, nope, there's no waiting.

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Speaker 2: I'm taking my dogs and I'm leaving. I'm leaving town.

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Speaker 2: But uh yeah, you find yourself in life in a rut,

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Speaker 2: and you're in that ditch like, well, how do I

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Speaker 2: get out of this ditch? Well, you know what. You

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Speaker 2: got to get out of the ditch. But only you

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Speaker 2: can do it. You have to make the decisions. You

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Speaker 2: have to make the hard decisions, the decisions that are

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Speaker 2: challenging and frightening. But no one else can do it.

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Speaker 2: No one else is going to do it. You have

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Speaker 2: to do it. What are you waiting for?

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Speaker 1: She said?

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Speaker 3: She thought about what we talk about all the time.

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Speaker 3: You cannot control other people or other circumstances in your life.

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Speaker 3: You can only control yourself. And she said she was

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Speaker 3: the common denominator and all of the things that she

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Speaker 3: didn't like. So she did what she could in her

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Speaker 3: control and she changed it.

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Speaker 6: And I love it.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy for her.

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Speaker 2: What scary?

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Speaker 4: So what if you're in a ditch you want to

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Speaker 4: flip the switch and start over like your friend did,

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Speaker 4: but you're financially strapped and you're like find But what

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Speaker 4: if the financial thing is the only thing that is

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Speaker 4: holding you back from doing that? Because I know some

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Speaker 4: people that want to hit the reset button on a

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Speaker 4: lot of things in life, but but they're being held

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Speaker 4: back by economics.

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Speaker 2: You gotta find a way.

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Speaker 1: Only fans, hello, I take your shoes off to.

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Speaker 2: Do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 4: But like, no, I know a lot of people who

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Speaker 4: really are Yeah, they want to start over, but they can't.

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Speaker 2: Like easier said than done, Well, no you can. You

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Speaker 2: know it's easy for us to say you can, but

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Speaker 2: you can't. There is a way. It may be it

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Speaker 2: may break your back, you may have to work two jobs,

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Speaker 2: you may have to work around the clock and to

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Speaker 2: save the money. I mean, no, but if you have

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Speaker 2: that goal in mind, you will find a way. And

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Speaker 2: if anyone says, well yeah, yeah, yeah, dare you say that,

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Speaker 2: and well, no, I'm saying it.

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Speaker 2: Gary V was in once a long time ago talking

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Speaker 2: about this. He's said, people come to have all the time.

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Speaker 2: Gary V, I want to be successful, but I'm stuck

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Speaker 2: in doing this. He said, You're not stuck in anything.

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Speaker 2: You continue your work, you continue your job, but you

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Speaker 2: do the side hustle. You figure it out. It's going

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Speaker 2: to take time, it's going to take a mountain of sacrifice.

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Speaker 2: You can do it, don't let don't talk yourself out

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So if I sit here and say, well it's a

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Speaker 2: financial thing, well, y all know that that's a major thing.

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Speaker 2: That is a problem. But you know what, what problem

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Speaker 2: cannot be solved, You got to figure out how to

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Speaker 2: solve that problem. It takes time. Everyone expects everything to

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Speaker 2: be fixed overnight. You can't. You can't look at life

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Speaker 2: like that. Sometimes problems, challenges, it takes it could take

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Speaker 2: a year. But the thing is is during that year

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Speaker 2: or two years, you always keep your eye on the

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Speaker 2: end result. You always do. You never let it go.

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Speaker 5: And sometimes it's not that easy either, Like, sometimes you

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Speaker 5: think you've fixed it, but you run the complications along

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Speaker 5: everything is not gonna be said and done just like that.

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Speaker 5: You just gotta work at it.

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Speaker 3: I also think too, like the regret of making a

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Speaker 3: wondering what would have happened if, Like, at least you

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Speaker 5: You're always gonna wonder what if.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is drastic, though, you know what these things

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Speaker 2: are drastic. You're like, you may have a lot of

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Speaker 2: friends and family members saying, are you crazy? What are

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Speaker 2: And this is I had like a part time job,

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Speaker 2: with insurance before No, I don't want a job with insurance.

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Speaker 2: I want a job that makes me happy and satisfied.

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Speaker 2: The insurance will come. Yeah, you know that.

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Speaker 1: Happened with me too with this job.

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Speaker 5: Right, So I got the job I was making four

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Speaker 5: to twenty five an hour out right out of college.

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Speaker 5: And my mother kept saying, you need to quit. She

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Speaker 5: was like, you need to find something else, blah blah blah,

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Speaker 5: and I kept saying, no, I'm going to stick it out.

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Speaker 5: And so you know if I had listened, then we

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Speaker 4: Said exact thing, Danielle.

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Speaker 2: You gotta quit that job. It costs you more to

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Speaker 5: There were days where I'd pay to go to work

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wasn't making anything they were. I was paying

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Speaker 6: And look at you, now, Yeah, what's that prob I've

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Speaker 6: learned this as a parent. And when you want somebody

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Speaker 6: And when you want something bad enough for yourself, you

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Speaker 6: won't be able to be stopped. No matter what anybody said,

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Speaker 6: no matter what obstacle comes up, no matter what it takes,

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Speaker 6: you will find a way to do it if it's

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Speaker 6: what you want. And so that's truely what it comes

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Speaker 2: You know, you can easily say, well, this is what

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Speaker 2: I do professionally, this is all I know, and I

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Speaker 2: have to do this. But unfortunately the job sector I'm

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Speaker 2: working in is deteriorating. It's just evaporating. And well then

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Speaker 2: you got to go do something you don't know, you know,

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Speaker 2: that's the whole point of this Loretta line twenty she said,

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Speaker 2: enough is enough. I'm moving to Costa Rica. I'm taking

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Speaker 2: the family. Yeah, congratulations on taking a family, Loretta. What

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Speaker 2: made you decide? Okay, Costa Rica because a lot of

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Speaker 2: Americans do this, they love going down there.

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm not American. I'm British. You guys know me.

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Speaker 7: I'm the ginger teat lady.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh hello, So you're moving, you're picking up, You're moving

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Speaker 2: to Costa Rico. Now what made you decide to make

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Speaker 7: Well, the terrifying events of twenty twenty in America really

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Speaker 7: opened up the eyes of a lot of US Brits.

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Speaker 7: And the violence, the gun violence for crazy politics, really,

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Speaker 7: I mean, scary nose Costa Rica. There's no gun violence.

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Speaker 7: There's no military, they have no army.

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Speaker 2: They spend the money they would spend on an army

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Speaker 2: on education. Yeah. No, I've been there several times. I

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Speaker 2: love Costa Rica. It is fascinating. And every time here

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Speaker 2: going to find an apartment. So when are you moving?

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Speaker 7: We're moving middle of August.

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Speaker 2: That's tomorrow.

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Speaker 6: Years ago.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, we just sold our house.

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Speaker 7: Our house went on the market. It's sold within a week.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, we've got no choice. We're going. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Are you a little like well, like a scary type

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Speaker 7: I'm terrified, but I think I might at some point

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Speaker 7: when I've met you guys, show you one of my tattoos.

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Speaker 7: It says, face the fear and do it anyway. I

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Speaker 7: you know, being from England, born in London, but I

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Speaker 7: abnormal thing to do. It's terrifying, absolutely, and with children

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Speaker 7: you have to be very, very conciouzant about what their

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Speaker 7: going to have friends. My husband and I we can,

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Speaker 7: you know, we can go to the coast every weekend

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Speaker 7: most important thing is making sure that our children's mental

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Speaker 2: Wow, I got it. Adopt me please, I'm on the way.

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Speaker 2: Thank well, Loretta. It's bittersweet and saying congratulations, but you know,

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Speaker 2: knowing that you're not here anymore. But you can listen

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Speaker 2: to us Costa Rica. Well, I think we're number three

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Speaker 2: I have a wonderful time in Congratulations and yeah again,

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Speaker 2: be more afraid of not making a change than making

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Speaker 2: the change. Congratulations you and that tattoo. It means a

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Speaker 2: lot to read that tattoo to me one more.

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Speaker 7: Time, face the fear and do it anyway.

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Speaker 2: There you go, all right, all right, thank you, Loretta,

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Speaker 2: and god speed, much love to do your family.

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Speaker 7: You know, all of you take your test Thank you Danielle,

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Speaker 7: thank you guys, Thank.

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Speaker 2: You Loretta, have a wonderful life.

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