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Speaker 3: That's true. They don't have that edge. They don't have that,

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Speaker 2: No, I just feel like, I guess I'm only used

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Speaker 3: You swap your you spit into a little cup. Oh,

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Speaker 3: Well, they're all from what is now the Ukraine.

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Speaker 3: But there is how do we start talking about that?

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Speaker 3: I got lost.

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Speaker 2: The podcast is called I said no gifts, Rachel. Yes,

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Speaker 3: Well, I had to put it in the freezer. And

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Speaker 3: Going to talk about the gift. Let me just explain

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Speaker 3: Oh really, Okay, I was imagining, like the range.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you're you are well.

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Speaker 3: main gift. Okay, I'm gonna open it, but it needs

442
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 3: it needs explanation. Wants to open it?

443
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:03,680
Speaker 2: Now, that's a norm a little bag spicles.

444
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,920
Speaker 3: It's a fragrance of some sort. It's almost like I

445
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 3: can't know if it's a room spray, body spray.

446
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 2: I mean, tell us what it's called. Yes, fragrance library, Yes,

447
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:18,880
Speaker 2: fragrance library. And the name of the fragrance is redhead

448
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 2: and Bed.

449
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 3: Yes, red head and Bed. Now let me explain a

450
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 3: few things. One is, I remember these fragrances from like,

451
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 3: I don't know, they've been around a while, and they

452
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,120
Speaker 3: really cool. Like the one I really like is tomato.

453
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 3: It's most just like a tomato plant.

454
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 2: Oh so it's more like a jelly belly situation, I think. So.

455
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, they have all these they have like a delicious apple.

456
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 3: It's most just like a Golden Delicious, they have sugar cookie.

457
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 3: I don't really know what people use these work. But

458
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 3: then I was like looking through, I was gonna get

459
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 3: your tomato, right, but then I was I was kind

460
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 3: of run up, and then my eye falls upon redhead

461
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 3: and bed. But the thing is that that was the

462
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,640
Speaker 3: tester because they didn't have any in the bath. Yeah,

463
00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,680
Speaker 3: so it's a little greasy and it looks old and

464
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 3: it was a little bit gone from it because it

465
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,439
Speaker 3: was a tester, and like, you have to have one

466
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,879
Speaker 3: in the back. This is the whole joke. Did they

467
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 3: give this to you?

468
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 2: No, unbelievable. That's the thing that.

469
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 3: They charged me. They took off two bucks and I

470
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 3: was like two bucks. This should be at least half price,

471
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 3: or give me give the whole thing to me for

472
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 3: five bucks, and they were like, well it's still pretty full,

473
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 3: and I was like what. And I'm thinking like yeah,

474
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 3: but it doesn't look gift worthy. But I never like

475
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 3: to make a scene or like push back on a

476
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 3: salesperson because I'm always just like okay, because I just

477
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,160
Speaker 3: don't want to be that person. So I said, okay,

478
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 3: so that's my eximation of why you have a greasy

479
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,640
Speaker 3: bottle of redhead and bed.

480
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to smell this.

481
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:53,239
Speaker 3: Let's see. Interesting. It doesn't even smell that good. I'm

482
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,879
Speaker 3: gonna I don't know what it's trying.

483
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 2: For, a very like chemical paint.

484
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say it's smells very chemical.

485
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 1: Right.

486
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: This is insulting to.

487
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 3: Me because it was in the freezer. But it doesn't

488
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 3: smell very good.

489
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 2: There my hand.

490
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 3: I know you can throw this away, by the way,

491
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 3: if you want, do you post photos of h of

492
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 3: course it doesn't like I don't know what I was

493
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 3: expecting a redhead and bed to smell.

494
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 2: Like paint thinner.

495
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's there's no comparison smell, right.

496
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 2: I couldn't tell you what notes.

497
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no there's no notes except I was gonna

498
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 3: say chemical too. I can't believe that's the word.

499
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 2: Do you use? Yeah? And then like I mean, now

500
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 2: that I've touched the bottle, frozen bottle, the frozen bottle, there,

501
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 2: there's a smell on my hand, but we can't tell

502
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,679
Speaker 2: if that's from this or other testers who have been

503
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 2: spraying out.

504
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 3: It's from that because the other ones really smell like

505
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 3: very specifically. Okay, I mean there was one called leather,

506
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 3: and I was like, Oh, that'd be kind of funny,

507
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 3: but who wants that smell?

508
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 2: This is the ideal. This is the most mystifying product

509
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:57,400
Speaker 2: I've ever seen.

510
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 3: I don't I almost want to look it up online

511
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 3: and see what it's trying for.

512
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let me, I'm actually gonna red head in bed.

513
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 2: Actually on a last would you google that and see

514
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 2: what's happening? I mean anyone in bed? I mean that's

515
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 2: your sweat.

516
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you would expect me a little more musky, Yeah,

517
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 3: I use the word or like sheets, even like sheets

518
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 3: like a clean linen.

519
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: Yes, right, this I.

520
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:26,880
Speaker 3: Don't know what it's met exactly. So because I didn't

521
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 3: really like this smell, and I thought, you're not going

522
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,399
Speaker 3: to like this either. This is just a purely a

523
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 3: gag gift to use the redhead thing. So then I

524
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 3: got you just a gift so you wouldn't feel bad

525
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 3: in here. Should we get into this, I mean, we'll

526
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 3: keep talking about I'm running the show. You run the show.

527
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,360
Speaker 2: You've got the gifts, right, but I had to get

528
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 2: you like.

529
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 3: A makeup gift for this.

530
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 2: Let's take out the makeup gift and.

531
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,360
Speaker 3: General if you want to I understand.

532
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 2: This is just I'm going to reach in here and

533
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 2: this is this is the thing I need to be frozen.

534
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean that's just.

535
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 2: So it's actually ice nice brand.

536
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 3: Because I was like, is he a chocolate I'm a

537
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 3: chocolate person, but I am too well. Jimmy texts me

538
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 3: that back after I also got a wild wild lavender

539
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 3: and chocolate.

540
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: This feels like it might be a good combination of flavors.

541
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 2: Maybe should I go get some spoons?

542
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 3: That's up to you, right, I can't say I would

543
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 3: say no to the chocolate. This is sometimes the people

544
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 3: bring gifts that they also get to partake in.

545
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, of course, of course. And I'm gonna spray

546
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 2: you in the face with the stmeter on at least

547
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 2: while I'm gone. Have you discovered what it smells like?

548
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 3: I have?

549
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 5: So I just want to read this whole thing. Oh

550
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 5: it just really delights me.

551
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 3: Okay.

552
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,719
Speaker 5: Demeter redhead and bed by Demeter perfume. If you want

553
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 5: to attract compliments from your friend's family or even total strangers,

554
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 5: splash on a little Demeter. The ultra feminine fragrance for

555
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 5: women created by Demeter. The citrus undertones of this classic fragrance,

556
00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 5: capture notes of mango, guava, passion fruit, orange liqueur, and

557
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 5: lemon juice to bring you a unique blend of exotic aromas,

558
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 5: lasts for hours and won't fade away during a long day,

559
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 5: strenuous workout at the gym, or night spent dancing at

560
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 5: your favorite club.

561
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

562
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 3: Wait, I have a question that was specifically about Redhead

563
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 3: and bed Yeah, red Demeter, Redhead. It was one smell

564
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 3: that you said that I could kind of wait, will

565
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 3: you list the fruits again?

566
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 5: Because it's got mango, guava, passion fruit, and orange, orange

567
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 5: liqueur and lemon juice.

568
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 2: That makes sense because of the the alcohol element.

569
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 3: There's an orangey thing.

570
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: And you said, like once I was told that it's

571
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:42,360
Speaker 2: a little starbursty.

572
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, what if this was sitting out for like no,

573
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 3: But this this sold out.

574
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 2: I mean everyone wants Maybe a.

575
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 3: Lot of people bought it for their red head friends.

576
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 5: I bet that's why it is also sold out on

577
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 5: this website at perfume dot com.

578
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 3: Everybody's buying it for the Redheads and then everyone's disappointed

579
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 3: when they smell it. Sorry, Demeter, because I love the

580
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 3: tomato one. It smells like a tomato plant. Tomato plant,

581
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: no where. I just smell it in a store and

582
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 3: I would never buy that. No, but it smells just

583
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 3: like it's like when you're little, you sell a tomato

584
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 3: right right, that's what it takes me back, Go get

585
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 3: spoons on the bones. Okay. Do people bring you food

586
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 3: gifts a lot? Because they don't, they don't have an idea.

587
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 2: I love when they do. It gets to go away.

588
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's what I was thinking, like, otherwise you

589
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 3: have to keep a lot of things.

590
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I love a food thing, even if it's a

591
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: gross food thing. Oh that's a good idea, knowing that

592
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 2: I can put it in my stomach and a gross Okay,

593
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 2: let's all try this chocolate. See how we feel it.

594
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: This is Jenny's brand ice cream. I mean it's pretty good.

595
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 2: It's wonderful chocolate. It's a very tasty flavor.

596
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 3: Yeah that's true.

597
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 2: Now, honalis, how do you feel about it? Have you

598
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 2: even tried it?

599
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 3: Delicious?

600
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: Delicious? Yeah, this is a hard one to screw up,

601
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 2: that's true. But now I'm concerned about getting this wild

602
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 2: berry into a lavender.

603
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 3: It just gets I know, I don't care.

604
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 2: Do you care about okay, if you're good with it.

605
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 3: What is a gross food item?

606
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 2: You received a gross food item? Let's see. Naomi Parican

607
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 2: gave me vanilla almond gummy bears hm and they tasted

608
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 2: like teeth. Oh wow, they were. Oh thank you onlie

609
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 2: so sweetly getting me some of this wild berry lavender

610
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 2: ice cream. Now, I love a wild berry, but the

611
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: lavender is where it may be a bridge too far.

612
00:28:58,640 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: You know what.

613
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 3: You can't really taste my lavender up, thank you, so

614
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 3: it might just be uh it tastes like Redhead and bed.

615
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:09,479
Speaker 3: Now I'm just kidding. I'm seeing some common notes here.

616
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 3: When it describes it, it says a pop of sweet orange,

617
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 3: just like red hat in Bed.

618
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: I wonder if orange is just an easy flavor to get,

619
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: so they just put it in everything and that can

620
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: be identified by the user, and then everything else can

621
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 2: be a lie. Okay, how do you feel about this

622
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 2: wild bear?

623
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 3: I'm not really I'm not really a fruit ice cream person.

624
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 3: Yeah it's honey, I got it in case you were.

625
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 2: I appreciate you.

626
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

627
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, first of all, does anyone want more ice cream?

628
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 2: Right now? Okay, I'm gonna put in the freezer. So

629
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: it's not soup. This has been a very active episode.

630
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:56,959
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm running a little story here.

631
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 3: I know it made you work for your gifts.

632
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 2: It's so delicious, the wild berry.

633
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 3: No, I mean I would always use my dessert points

634
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 3: on a I don't mean points like a but my

635
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 3: dessert merits on a chocolate. Yeah, that kind of thing.

636
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, when I'm going out for a treat, I just

637
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 2: I'm not ready to experiment exactly exactly what I want.

638
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 2: Good point, I might try a sample, Yeah I would.

639
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,239
Speaker 2: I don't think I would even bother being like, oh,

640
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 2: you give me the wild berry laughing.

641
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 3: No, I know me neither. I should have assumed a

642
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 3: chocolate thing on you.

643
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 2: But anyway, it's weird when you meet someone who isn't

644
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: into chocolate. I know, I'm suspicious. Yeah, he was like,

645
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 2: what has happened?

646
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 3: Actually I just spit? Okay, I know, but I actually

647
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 3: never thought it was more. But when someone says they

648
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 3: don't like chocolate, they drop.

649
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 2: In my esteem completely. There's immediate judgment. Yes, it feels

650
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: like a choice. It feels like they've decided they don't

651
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 2: like choco.

652
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 3: Feels like something's wrong with that.

653
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's just such a it was like such

654
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 2: a universal flavor. Yeah, and you rarely run into someone

655
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 2: who picks a different flavor over a chocolate flavor. But

656
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 2: maybe they're better than us.

657
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 3: Maybe we just don't know it.

658
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: Maybe I do feel like I have pretty bass taste.

659
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 2: I like a peanut butter. I just learned that Italians

660
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: don't like peanut butter. Oh really, they hate it?

661
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 3: How did you learn that?

662
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: Another guest on this podcast apparently Italians hiss a peanut butter.

663
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 2: They think it's they really hate that flavor. It's like

664
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: cats and whatever cat's hiss att.

665
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 3: I don't know.

666
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite ice cream place you go to?

667
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, okay. Well, being from Massachusetts, oh course

668
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 3: you know this. But Massachusetts is like, for some reason,

669
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 3: ice cream fanatic. So I like anywhere with, you know,

670
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 3: homemade ice cream. So there's a lot of places on

671
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 3: Cape Cod that I like, Oh okay and whatever. Just

672
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,479
Speaker 3: growing up, I don't know there was ice cream everywhere.

673
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: I'm boring myself again, but I.

674
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 2: Want to hear my.

675
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 3: Marvel that other places don't have as much ice cream

676
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 3: as Massachusetts.

677
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 2: Right. I went to a big ice cream place in Massachusetts.

678
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: It's almost like a weird little theme park.

679
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 3: It's like Kimball Kimball Farm.

680
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 2: Kimble Farms. Yes, Oh, I've been there there once, and

681
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 2: I remember being dazzled by it.

682
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 3: Very good.

683
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 2: They also had like go carts. I wasn't entirely sure

684
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 2: what the operation was, but I must have started with

685
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: ice and what were you doing there? I was visiting

686
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: friends living in Boston, okay, and I must have read

687
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 2: about it.

688
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 3: I didn't know if you were going to be like

689
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 3: I was writing on a blah.

690
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 2: Blah blah okay, on an ice cream the parks, Yeah, exactly,

691
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 2: but yeah, I remember being very good ice cream, but

692
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: also being confused by people in Massachusetts call it a milk,

693
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: but I know as a frap, yeah, which it makes

694
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: no sense about me.

695
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 3: That's a I didn't even know that was a Massachusetts word.

696
00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: But they still have a milk.

697
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's not it's the same. It's the same thing.

698
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 3: A milkshake is a frap.

699
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, But in Massachusetts, if you order milkshake, isn't it

700
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: like a thick thing that you can't drink?

701
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

702
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 3: Probably?

703
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 2: And then a frap is like because I like to

704
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 2: drink the ice cream anything as easy as possible to consum.

705
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 3: I don't know. I thought they were the same, but

706
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 3: I don't know.

707
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember being a little throwne and frap feels

708
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 2: like such a to do about the dessert. Frap. Until

709
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 2: I had learned that about Massachusetts, I thought it was

710
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 2: a word basically that Starbucks had invented. But I guess

711
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 2: that's a frappucino. Which it's all a little confused. They's suspicious.

712
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: There's something going on, something going on. But you like

713
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 2: a cape Caught ice cream? Ye, ultimately that's good.

714
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 3: To cape Cod, cape Cod and ski.

715
00:33:52,200 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 2: Yes, we're trying to build a character. Yes, snob Rachel's. Yes,

716
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 2: ice cream snob Utah is very ice cream focused too.

717
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: It is Utah, I mean because most people don't drink

718
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 2: or do anything like that. So like, the entertainment options

719
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 2: are more family from okay, so ice cream, jello, going

720
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 2: to the movies, okay, okay, So I feel like I've

721
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: had some pretty good ice cream. I don't know, but

722
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 2: now we've got like places like Jenny's, which it's literally

723
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 2: like forty dollars for an ice cream cone.

724
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 3: Oh you know what makes me really sad when you

725
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 3: go to get an ice cream cone and it's like

726
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 3: a tiny little golf ball. Oh and it makes it

727
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 3: like I'm not kidding, it like breaks my heart, like.

728
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 4: When they hand you the tiny gulf Like, now I

729
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 4: might make you cut this because it makes me sound

730
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 4: super pathetic. But one time I was in La, Like

731
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 4: when I'm in La, like I'm not at home, right,

732
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 4: so I'm like it can get a little lonely sometimes.

733
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 4: So I'm staying in this hotel and so this is

734
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 4: the stupidest story. But so I decided like, and isn't

735
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 4: it pretty rare?

736
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 3: Like you go get an ice creacomb by yourself, like

737
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 3: that alone is like a freaking serend.

738
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 5: That's sad.

739
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 3: That's a sad activity, right, Like, but ice cream is social,

740
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 3: like you're going out with a group with your kid whatever.

741
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 3: But I'm like, I'm like, I'm gonna go down the

742
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 3: street and get because I deserve it. I'm sad. So anyway,

743
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: like go down to this ice cream place. I think

744
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 3: it's called Sultan's Straw. And if a free coupon should

745
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,879
Speaker 3: arrive after this story, I'm not gonna be sad about

746
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 3: But anyway, so so songs, which is like it's kind

747
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 3: of like high I've never been, but I got like

748
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 3: really good ratings and all that because I looked it

749
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 3: up afterwards to horrible yelper revealing this about myself.

750
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: Now.

751
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 2: But so we're not there's no way I'm.

752
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 3: So I walk down the hill to the Sultan's John, okay,

753
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 3: and I ordered my sad ice cream and it arrives

754
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 3: and she hands it over and it was the smallest

755
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 3: ice cream scoop you've ever seen in your life. Okay,

756
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 3: It's like my heart sank. Okay. So it was so

757
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 3: small that, like I realized, if I'd been with someone else,

758
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 3: I would have had the nerve to be like, well

759
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 3: that's is that it? Like I would have said so,

760
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 3: But because I was by myself, I just took it

761
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 3: like a sad ziggy characters like I just took the

762
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 3: ice cream and I was like visibly shaken, so that

763
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:34,240
Speaker 3: I'm I'm walking back up to my hotel and myself

764
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 3: like I'm not kidding. It was like done in three bytes.

765
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 3: The experience lasted like forty seconds, and then I walked

766
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 3: back to my and then I had this This is

767
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 3: where the story gets. It's even more embarrassed, so that

768
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 3: I'm like maybe they maybe they're really no make make

769
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 3: me really small portions. So I look at up on

770
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 3: yo right by the way I'm walking gonna tell the

771
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 3: ice cream is long gone. After like ten steps of

772
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 3: dead of walking, I'm already looking at and I look

773
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 3: up thinking I'm gonna see that a portions are really small.

774
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 3: But the reviews it says that they're huge. And the

775
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 3: review it's like, oh my gosh, I'm small. It's like

776
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 3: a double large at this place and something. Then I

777
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 3: find out like what it was the exception what happened?

778
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 3: Like everyone's talking about large the scoops, and I felt like,

779
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 3: oh my god. Anyway, it was like I'm still obviously

780
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 3: mad about it. It was like four years owes, you

781
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 3: you owe me like a double scoop for free, a

782
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,399
Speaker 3: full box, because not only did you rip me off,

783
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 3: but also you created an emotional experience that I'm still

784
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 3: we living four years later on a podcast for an

785
00:37:55,560 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 3: ice cream transaction. So anyway, that is my embarrassing pathos Layden.

786
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: That to me.

787
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 3: I feel I feel like I got I got it out.

788
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 3: That was a good started of that feeling fireworks emotional

789
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 3: emotional virus.

790
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: No at that moment I empathize with you so much

791
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 2: in the moment of them handing you the small and

792
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 2: you're alone. There's nothing you can do some more, think

793
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 2: these teenagers like, oh you what are you? A page?

794
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 3: I cannot tell you as all this thing was it

795
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 3: like barely even like surfaced over the colne.

796
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: It was.

797
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: It was like the smallest ice cream ever. So anyway,

798
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 3: whenever they hand you like, you know, well, while you.

799
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 2: Were telling you stories. Because I've always had and this

800
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: is this is not an advertisement for Salt and Straf,

801
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 2: but they've always given me a normal scoop of ice cream.

802
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 2: But Jenny's I've had some of these situations.

803
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,720
Speaker 3: Not always I've never been to Jenny's before.

804
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 2: Delicious ice cream, but occasionally a little sweet for me.

805
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: But go on.

806
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 3: On a sewer. Okay, sorry, go on, I probably can't back.

807
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna say anything, but you gave it to me.

808
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 2: It is a little sweet.

809
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 3: Do you think it needs a little like you need

810
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 3: any break? Yeah, it needs to kick a little at sugar.

811
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: Yes, or like a piece of dark chocolate in there

812
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 2: saying yeah, my tolerance for sweetness has gone way down.

813
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 2: The desserts I'm eating are frequently basically charcoal.

814
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 3: I should have got you the salted kermel that was.

815
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 2: The ice cream needs that sort of thing. I'm dumping

816
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,280
Speaker 2: salt on chocolate ice cream at this point. Delicious.

817
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, sorry.

818
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: But salt and straw.

819
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 3: They this.

820
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 2: Whoever was in charge of your ice cream cone dropped

821
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: the ball, they sure did. I hope the company is

822
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 2: looking into that transaction right now, going through their records.

823
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 3: Four years ago. I bet, I bet location has need

824
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 3: to roll some straw West Hollywood.

825
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: If they don't know.

826
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 2: About that transaction, then ancestry dot com does. Wow, that's it.

827
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 2: But I am going to stand up and say you

828
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: should be anyone should be able to go get an

829
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 2: ice cream alone.

830
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 3: That's true. It's just something I don't.

831
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 2: I support you.

832
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 3: I don't do that often. And I learned my step,

833
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 3: I learned my love. There's something like sad about it.

834
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 3: I don't know. That's just me judging me.

835
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 2: Well, it is a situation.

836
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 3: You're normally with social and you should be social. Right,

837
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 3: I'll go to a restaurant in myself. I'm like another

838
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 3: town whatever, go to a movie, mom, I don't, I

839
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 3: don't have to think. But something about buying an ice

840
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 3: cream com by yourself.

841
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 2: I think it's because it's unnecessary.

842
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 3: It's something about it's like I deserve a treat. It

843
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 3: like something like something like feels like OOKI about it,

844
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna treat myself to an ice cream colm,

845
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 3: But you are.

846
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: I feel like you're a hero in that situation. Everyone's

847
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 2: saying that person's been there.

848
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm helping people by telling this story.

849
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 2: Yes, but I'm proud about going to sweet places a lot. Ultimately,

850
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 2: the everyone will thank you.

851
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,720
Speaker 3: Everyone probably can relate to the small cone sadness.

852
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's such a ripoff. You shouldn't. You

853
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: should be able to enjoy an ice cream cone for

854
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 2: at least ten minutes. I really take my time.

855
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 3: I revealed that about myself. Really the Barbara Walters of

856
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 3: the podcast.

857
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 2: I get the darkest things out of people. I do

858
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 2: a lot of that's gonna have to be beeped out.

859
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 2: That was a horrible story. No, I appreciate you telling that.

860
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 2: And eating alone is a different thing, I guess because.

861
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 3: Sometimes you're just like you got to eat on the

862
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 3: road whatever.

863
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 2: Right, and I'll have a book or whatever. I'm like, Yeah,

864
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 2: I'm eating dinner. Leave me alone.

865
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 3: Let's face the book is just there to let people

866
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 3: know you're okay with this.

867
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 2: Just blank.

868
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 3: It's a mean time I treat myself, and this is

869
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 3: my mean time. This is my reading time.

870
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 2: I was told to do this by the artist's way.

871
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 3: Yes, oh my god.

872
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 2: I just want everyone to always assume I'm doing the artists'

873
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 2: Wayes and movies, I actually think everyone should go to alone.

874
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't mind that, although I must admit

875
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 3: I don't really go to movies anyway.

876
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 2: I don't done with the movies.

877
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 3: Well no, I mean like I watched them at home

878
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 3: or it's been a while since I've gone in there.

879
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 3: I feel bad about that contributing to Hollywood's mind. Yeah,

880
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:27,439
Speaker 3: like I need the movies to keep going, and I've

881
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 3: sort of missed that experience.

882
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,399
Speaker 2: Well, once you get into the rhythm of not going,

883
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 2: it's hard to break out of that. I'm currently in

884
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 2: a lull. You just have to force yourself one time

885
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 2: and then you're back into the movies, and then there's

886
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 2: a drought of good ones and then you're back into it.

887
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 3: But I have memories of when I lived in Chicago,

888
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 3: like there were all these little art movie houses and

889
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 3: remember like you'd find that indie movie and like, let's

890
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 3: go see this on Friday night, Like that was something

891
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 3: cool and I.

892
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 2: Felt like like you had really like found something and

893
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 2: you love doing the work to enjoy this.

894
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,439
Speaker 3: H yeah, yeah yeah, And you can't be distracted.

895
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 2: Right, And it was a limited time to see it.

896
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 2: You weren't going to be able to just see it

897
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 2: in the billion choices of jah.

898
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 3: Right.

899
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like that's gone away. So many things

900
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 2: have gone away.

901
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 3: Turn it take a sad turn.

902
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 2: Well, this podcast is a roller coas.

903
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 3: I'm feeling so many emotions.

904
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 2: But I yeah, I love going to And this is

905
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: a trick I do at the movies now is if

906
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 2: the movie's three hours long, I only go to an

907
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 2: hour and a half of it. And this gives you

908
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,720
Speaker 2: a new level of freedom with the movies.

909
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, what movie are we dying? This

910
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 3: is real.

911
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 2: This has happened several times, like on purpose, on purpose.

912
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 2: It's my new philosophy. It feels incredible. I've talked about

913
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 2: on this podcast a few times.

914
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 3: But well, give me an example of a three hour movie.

915
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 2: Avatar, oh God, hour and a half in I thought

916
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,359
Speaker 2: I know everything I need to know about this movie.

917
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 2: I can go home. I've experienced whatever.

918
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 1: This is.

919
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 2: My apologies to Jim Cameron and A Submarine number two,

920
00:43:58,239 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 2: John Wick four, which.

921
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 3: I enjoy's seen any of those.

922
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: But it's literally three hours of fighting, and so after

923
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 2: an hour and a half of fighting, I thought I've

924
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,439
Speaker 2: seen enough people get thrown downstairs. I can probably go home.

925
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 3: Okay.

926
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: Bo Is Afraid, which is the ari Astor movie with

927
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 2: Joaquin Phoenix, which I enjoyed enough. Bo Is Afraid never

928
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 2: even heard of it. I enjoyed enough, but it was

929
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 2: just three hours. I couldn't do it. I can't sit

930
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: there that long. Yeah, so I went home. And when

931
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 2: you leave an hour and a half in, it's like

932
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 2: you broke out of jail. Even if you're enjoying a movie, Wow,

933
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 2: you can go around the mall and look at stores.

934
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 2: Everyone assumes you're still trapped in the theater. But no,

935
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 2: this is your secret hour and a half that you

936
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,240
Speaker 2: can kind of just live your life.

937
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 3: I have to say, like, if I see three hours

938
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 3: on a movie, I don't really watch it.

939
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 2: Oh you're zoning out.

940
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 3: I don't, Okay, So I don't make myself watch Oscar

941
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 3: movies anymore. That's good for you. That's the gift I've

942
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 3: given to myself.

943
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 2: What an amazing life.

944
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 3: I mean, what I mean is like back in the day,

945
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 3: i'd try to see everything. I'm not I'm not a

946
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 3: voter or anything. I don't mean that. I just mean

947
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 3: as a civilian that I used to like try to

948
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 3: make myself or if it was like the Action Hero

949
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 3: movie that everyone's saying I goes, but like then I

950
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 3: was like, wait a minute, I don't like these movies.

951
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 3: I don't like Action Hero. I will not see war

952
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 3: movies because they make me too bummed down and like

953
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,959
Speaker 3: heavy dramas, I just don't like it. So I've given

954
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 3: myself a pass, so I don't see any of those.

955
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 2: That's really taking ownership.

956
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 3: Sorry for not supporting Hollywood in that way. But I

957
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 3: like comedies. You're watching comedies, I'm watching comedy. You're watching

958
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:35,919
Speaker 3: light fair, and you're enjoying yourself. You're not subjecting yourself exactly. Yeah,

959
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 3: I'm still very much in a wanting to be part

960
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 3: of like to be able to comment for two minutes

961
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,240
Speaker 3: during dinner. That's a good point. But I can't comment

962
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 3: on a lot of those kind of things.

963
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're basically silent at every dinner At this point,

964
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 2: people are saying, stop.

965
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 3: About the movie. That's what I bring up. You guys

966
00:45:56,400 --> 00:46:07,280
Speaker 3: heard of Sultan Straw? Okay, sorry, no, I think needs

967
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 3: to be. I didn't mean to go back.

968
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 2: We've got it's probably the leading company right now, and

969
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 2: somebody's got to take him down a peck. These companies

970
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 2: to didn't mean.

971
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 3: To go back to. They're kind of fall back ladies

972
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 3: and Jello. That's a comedy technique. Okay, sorry, sorry, go

973
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 3: ahead about saving Private Ryan.

974
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,760
Speaker 2: Okay, so you love Tom Hanks is uh an actor?

975
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 3: Yes, I do.

976
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 2: I know that, but I went in Private Ryan.

977
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

978
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 2: I mean when I said that, I was like, oh no,

979
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 2: he's not the leading.

980
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I've never seen it.

981
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 2: I haven't seen it either, Private Ryan, Well, I think

982
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 2: we should play a game. Okay, We're gonna play a

983
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 2: game called Gift or of this game.

984
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 1: I like that.

985
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 2: Oh good good. I need a number between one and

986
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 2: tent from you. Okay, five, Okay, I have to do

987
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: something them calculating right now. I have to get our

988
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:04,720
Speaker 2: game pieces. So you have the mic. You can recommend, promote,

989
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,400
Speaker 2: do whatever you want promote something.

990
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 3: Oh shit, promote something. Let's see, things have been pretty slow,

991
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 3: so my I promoting something about myself or something in

992
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 3: general about yourself.

993
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 2: You have a podcast, let's hear about that.

994
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:29,720
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I have a podcast. I have a podcast too, Bridger.

995
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 3: I just started it, though a little more recently than you.

996
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 3: I should be taking notes about tricks of the trade.

997
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 3: Well you've been going, you've been doing this for four years.

998
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 3: I think. Sorry, I'm supposed to be talking silly four years.

999
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 3: Four years? Wow? Okay, So I started mine in October.

1000
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 3: Well whatever, it's been like eight months. It's called should

1001
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 3: I talk about it? It's called Woo with Rachel Drafts,

1002
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 3: and it's stories of like the unexplained. So it could

1003
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 3: be ghost stories, psychic phenomena, weird eerie things that have

1004
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 3: or it could be like like Amy Poehler came on,

1005
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 3: she doesn't really believe in any of this stuff, so

1006
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 3: she talked about the Enneagram personality test. So it could

1007
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 3: be like anything woo, anything that's like I don't want

1008
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 3: to be all woo woo, but I went and had

1009
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 3: my tea leaves right, like it could be any yeah,

1010
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 3: because I sort of am into all that stuff. I mean,

1011
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 3: I'm into the stories around. I'm not I'm not a

1012
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 3: truly woo woo person, but I but every so of

1013
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 3: when I hear a ghost story, I'm like, oh, wow,

1014
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 3: maybe we don't know what happens after death. I don't

1015
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 3: know anyway, But I didn't mean to bring up the

1016
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 3: D word. But but no, Like, so, there's been really

1017
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 3: cool stories on there, and if you have one, I

1018
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 3: don't know, I've got to come on, do you have

1019
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 3: a story?

1020
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 2: I do have one, a sweet story. I've told it

1021
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 2: to somebody before, but it's it's a nice story, and

1022
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 2: I have I have conflicting feelings about all and that's

1023
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 2: why I'm not like.

1024
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 3: A full tilt liked percent believer. But when you listen

1025
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 3: to a bunch of these stories, you're like, oh.

1026
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 2: Because people were like this happened to me.

1027
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, that's all people coming on saying. And it

1028
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 3: could be someone like whoever, I don't know, Seth Meyers

1029
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 3: did a Tina fadeed, Or it could be like the

1030
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 3: mom from my son's school who has this crazy ghost story.

1031
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 3: She was telling me at field day and I was like,

1032
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 3: will you come on the podcast? So she has a

1033
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 3: great story. So it's it's all. It's all people and

1034
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 3: you have stories, right I have. I have a ghost

1035
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 3: story that happened in l A. And I have a

1036
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 3: crazy psychic story too, So those are whatever. I pepper

1037
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 3: my own little stories throughout as you should. Yes, anyway,

1038
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 3: that's it.

1039
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 2: O w O yes, yes, yes, everyone go listen to

1040
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 2: that podcast. Rachel's wonderful and ghosts are incredible.

1041
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 3: It was so wonderful.

1042
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 2: This is how we play gift to a Curse. I'm

1043
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 2: going to name three things. You're going to tell me

1044
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 2: if there are a gift or a curse and why,

1045
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 2: and then I'll tell you if you're right or wrong

1046
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,879
Speaker 2: because there are correct answers. Okay, and there's a good

1047
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 2: chance you could fail, and you've you know, you've had

1048
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 2: some sadness already on this podcast. We don't want to

1049
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 2: watch you walk away a failure, so be very careful.

1050
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 3: Okay. Now do I try to match what I think

1051
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 3: you're gonna say or you do.

1052
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 2: Whatever you want? Okay, gift or a curse? This is

1053
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 2: ah Actually I do need to quickly. During the live show,

1054
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 2: we use some listener suggestions, and I simply didn't think

1055
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 2: the people who had sent them in. We had an

1056
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 2: Ellen who suggested the window seat on an airplane. We

1057
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 2: had Mark who suggested cash. And then this is tomatoes

1058
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 2: and guacamole. U no, which just kind of mysterious. But okay,

1059
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 2: let's get into this. Victoria has suggested gift or a curse.

1060
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 2: People who walk dogs on a leash that fastens around

1061
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 2: their waist.

1062
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 3: Fastens around the walker the person's waist. Yes, it's like

1063
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 3: a bel I've never seen that even. I guess I'm

1064
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 3: gonna say curse because I don't get why you're not

1065
00:50:54,040 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 3: just holding it with your hand, but unless you a limitation. Okay,

1066
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say curse because I don't get it.

1067
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 2: It's a curse.

1068
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 3: It makes it.

1069
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 2: I don't know what we're doing. Do you need both hands?

1070
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 2: What do you need both hands for? Are you making pizza?

1071
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:10,760
Speaker 2: I don't understand.

1072
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 3: Is that an la thing?

1073
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 2: I've actually never seen this in person. When this person's

1074
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 2: send this in, I obviously googled it to get my

1075
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 2: eyes on this product, and it seems to be at

1076
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 2: least one person in a stock photo has done it.

1077
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 3: So but I guess I guess it's good if you're

1078
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 3: dealing with like groceries.

1079
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 2: Phone fighting off attackers.

1080
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 3: Fighting off attackers, the doggy bag thing, whatever. But I'm

1081
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 3: just gonna say that's weird.

1082
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 2: It's different.

1083
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 3: So it's worm with what everyone else does. That's a curse.

1084
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 2: No one thing about it to me is I get

1085
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 2: a little I love dogs more than anything, but people

1086
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 2: who are too comfortable with their dog interacting with other

1087
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: people when they just assume everyone is comfortable with their dog,

1088
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 2: I like you think about other people. I'm sure your

1089
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 2: dog's lovely, but maybe not everyone's comfortable with it running

1090
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 2: around your waist, racking them right right, So when you

1091
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 2: have the dog on a leash with your hand, I

1092
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 2: feel like there's a little bit more control there. And

1093
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:14,240
Speaker 2: uh yeah, I just don't understand this product. We should

1094
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 2: stop selling it. O curse. Curse very good Number two.

1095
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 2: This is from a listener named Diego Gift to a curse.

1096
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 2: Yellow popsicles.

1097
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 3: Curse Why because I don't like lemon as a popsicle flavor?

1098
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 2: You're not into a lemon flavor anything?

1099
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 3: Hmm, well what else would a yellow pop? I guess

1100
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:37,839
Speaker 3: it could be pineapple? If you go on, no, I'm

1101
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 3: gonna say, curse. Why what do you say? You say, curse.

1102
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 2: I've only ever known them to be banana, which is

1103
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 2: the worst flavor of anything.

1104
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 3: Oh, now I know what you mean, those ice cream

1105
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:48,479
Speaker 3: truck banana ones.

1106
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: No, they have the regular pop traditional popsicle in a

1107
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 2: yellow the ones I remember from a kid. There was

1108
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 2: a blue, red, yellow, orange, and brown.

1109
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 3: Well, you're reminded me that the creamy yellow one. It

1110
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:02,919
Speaker 3: was kind of good.

1111
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 2: I don't know, but a banana flavored a regular popsicle

1112
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 2: absolutely the worst flame.

1113
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you're gonna want a red or a purple, purple, purple.

1114
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 2: Delicious grape. I can't do a root beer.

1115
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 3: No, I can't stand root beer.

1116
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:21,760
Speaker 2: Awful.

1117
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:27,240
Speaker 3: Beer needs to be excised from the community. Root beer flavor.

1118
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 3: I don't care if it's a soda. I don't care

1119
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 3: if it's a popsicle or a candy.

1120
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 2: No, to me, it just tastes like years in boy

1121
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 2: Scouts and there was always a root beer float awful.

1122
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 3: Anyone else, here's another beer I have? Haven't you like

1123
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 3: tried to like root beer? Like it's the thing, Like

1124
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 3: maybe I like root beer looks good, Maybe I like this.

1125
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 3: Then you're like nope, no, it's still not going to

1126
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 3: cut it's it's you a lot about desserts on this.

1127
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 2: Redheads and desert and okay, okay, very good, you got.

1128
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 3: I'm really getting overly passionate about these. Okay, sorry, go on,

1129
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 3: all right, stoic. On this next one, I'm not so impassioned.

1130
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 2: Okay. This third one is from a listener named Susie Gift.

1131
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 2: You're a curse rat tail hairstyle.

1132
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 3: I mean, I might be out of it and too

1133
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 3: old to answer this, but I'm gonna say curse. Maybe

1134
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 3: it's come back around and it's cool now, but I

1135
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 3: just think of that as Kurt.

1136
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, what do you say, Oh, Rachel, you

1137
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 2: played the game so well until now. Why it's a

1138
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 2: it's a gift.

1139
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:39,959
Speaker 3: It's a gift.

1140
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 2: I don't know that it's ever been in style, but

1141
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 2: it's always been interesting to look at.

1142
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:48,240
Speaker 3: That's true. We Allock says a lot about the wearer.

1143
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 2: Yes, you almost immediately know what's happening in that person's life.

1144
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 2: You see a lot of kids with just about to

1145
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 2: say that, we're detually on the same way.

1146
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 3: Like I was gonna say, what I picture? I picture

1147
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 3: a little kid, a little like hey, like a little

1148
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 3: you can't see me right now, but I'm like, hey,

1149
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 3: with a little tank top causing trouble completely.

1150
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 2: That's an interesting one because usually the rat tail child

1151
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 2: doesn't have a rat tail parent, so the parents like, well,

1152
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 2: let's get one on the kid right when you decide

1153
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 2: to start growing your child's rat tag.

1154
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 3: I haven't seen one in a really long time, though,

1155
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 3: I feel like, because I live in New York and

1156
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 3: probably we see that's a real thing. It's cheesy, But no,

1157
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 3: I haven't seen a rat I have seen a rat

1158
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,280
Speaker 3: tail in a really long time.

1159
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 2: Have you I at least within the last five to

1160
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 2: six years.

1161
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 3: You know, I feel I can see a lot of them.

1162
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 3: Disney World, Oh my god, of course.

1163
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:45,359
Speaker 4: I bet.

1164
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 3: I bet if we went to Disney I haven't been

1165
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,479
Speaker 3: to Disneyland ever. I bet if I went to disney World,

1166
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:52,439
Speaker 3: I could spot it would be like a scavenger hunt.

1167
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 3: I bet I could find three rat tails at Disney World.

1168
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 2: Within three hours. I bet, like an fcot, you're surrounded

1169
00:55:58,239 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 2: by rat tails.

1170
00:55:59,239 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I bet so.

1171
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 2: But I love to see them. I support them. I

1172
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 2: don't know that I would ever have one myself. It's

1173
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: an interesting one because it's really hidden.

1174
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:10,839
Speaker 3: Back there, so you can secret personality. Yeah.

1175
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 2: The moment you turn around, you're like, oh, you've been

1176
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 2: interacting with someone with the rat and that I love.

1177
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 2: So it's a gift.

1178
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 3: That's that's true. Okay, But you got two out of three, which.

1179
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 2: Is not bad. Two out of three is not a failure.

1180
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 2: I don't want you to feel like a failure in

1181
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 2: this moment.

1182
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 3: I don't.

1183
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 2: You did not fail.

1184
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 3: Okay, and you you sort of talked me around to

1185
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 3: the rat hill.

1186
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 2: Okay, and I'm glad I've converted somebody. Okay. This is

1187
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 2: the final segment of the podcast. It's called I Said

1188
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 2: No emails. People write into I Said no gifts at

1189
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. People are begging for answers and all

1190
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,879
Speaker 2: these sorts of things in their lives, and just out

1191
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,439
Speaker 2: of kind of the generosity of my heart, I help

1192
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,719
Speaker 2: you help me answer a question. Yeah, okay, this and

1193
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 2: now this is one that we tried reading the live show.

1194
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:59,360
Speaker 2: And we're interrupted artificially by something I thought of.

1195
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 3: Where was the live show?

1196
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 2: It was a Dynasty typewriter. Oh here, yeah, right here

1197
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 2: in Ilka, And we're going to try to do more soon.

1198
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 2: It was very funn oh cool, Okay, sorry, but interjection.

1199
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 2: But this one, we've got to get back to the

1200
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 2: question because I stopped reading it at the show. This

1201
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 2: is Deer Bridger on Ali's an illustrious guest. I hope

1202
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 2: you were all well, the house dry, the backyard mostly tranquil,

1203
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 2: the flowers watered, et cetera. I'm emailing you from the

1204
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 2: Chicago suburbs with a question about a situation I encountered recently.

1205
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 2: I bought a birthday gift for my sister in law

1206
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 2: and scored a great sale on some clothes. I wasn't

1207
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 2: sure if I could remove the markdown sticker without voiding

1208
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 2: the return, so I left it on. It is now

1209
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 2: several weeks later, and something about it isn't sitting right

1210
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 2: with me. How should I do things next time? I

1211
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 2: obviously think my sister in law deserves full price, but

1212
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 2: at this point in my life, I got a shop

1213
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 2: the sales. What do I do next time? Bridger? I

1214
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: hope you were properly of This is just a little

1215
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 2: in between. I hope you were scandal by your guest's

1216
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 2: unwanted gift, and Guest, I can't wait to consume whatever

1217
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 2: media you're promoting. You've got a new listener to Bou already,

1218
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 2: thank you so much for taking my letter, and have

1219
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 2: a good day. And that's from BO. Oh interesting that

1220
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 2: we talked about. Bo is afraid everything is connected, right,

1221
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 2: everything is connected?

1222
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 3: Is afraid of mark downes. Okay, so wait, here's what

1223
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 3: I'm not getting. Bo left the price tag on the gift. Yes,

1224
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 3: so Bo, you can rip the price tag off and

1225
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 3: get like some sort of gift receipt, right right, I.

1226
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 2: Mean yeah, I'm getting a feeling that BO is not

1227
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 2: familiar with modern retail or both.

1228
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 3: I was thinking maybe Bo is very young.

1229
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like hitched ride. Well, I don't know if

1230
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 2: on sale.

1231
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 3: Has no No, I'm thinking no. I'm thinking maybe if

1232
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 3: BO is young and BO doesn't know that, then you

1233
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 3: don't you don't have to leave the actual price tag

1234
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:05,440
Speaker 3: on the clue. That would make sense to me.

1235
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 2: What I'm getting is BO is excusing bad behavior. BO

1236
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 2: knew what he was doing. He knew the sister in

1237
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 2: law would be offended when she saw that he had

1238
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:17,920
Speaker 2: bought her marked down merchandise, and now he's backpedaling, so

1239
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 2: there's no excuse he should have taken it off. This

1240
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 2: is bad behavior.

1241
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 3: But here's one thing what about when you give a

1242
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,439
Speaker 3: gift with the price you could rip off the little

1243
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 3: actual number.

1244
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 2: I'm really Bo is after his sister in law, just

1245
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 2: trying to stir up family drama. I mean, you obviously

1246
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 2: make some good points about gift gifting, some very basic concepts,

1247
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 2: and if BO doesn't know these things, then I've got

1248
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 2: a listener that needs to rethink lot.

1249
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 3: All right, but so the sister in law never thanked Bo.

1250
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 3: There's no thank you, was worred. He committed a faux

1251
00:59:53,040 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 3: pas a bopa if you will, But uh yeah, that

1252
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 3: kind of that kind of sucks, like she should have

1253
01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:08,439
Speaker 3: thanked him anyway, even if she thought it was tacky, right,

1254
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 3: because Bo did.

1255
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 2: Get a gift, money was spent. Thought it was kind of.

1256
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 3: Hard to get clothes for people too, because it's hard

1257
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 3: to match their style.

1258
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 2: This is another interesting thing.

1259
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 3: You don't know them.

1260
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 2: I would never buy my sister in law clothing. Yeah,

1261
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 2: now we're getting, you know, a portrait of the podcast. Yeah,

1262
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 2: that needs to really be unraveled. Bo is buying discount

1263
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 2: clothing for his sister.

1264
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 3: No, was it a scarf? Fine? Was it a dress?

1265
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 2: Was it like a we need to talk, Yeah, micro Mini,

1266
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 2: you know what is BO dressing his sister in law

1267
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 2: up in.

1268
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 3: Or even maybe it's not even her style, right, but

1269
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 3: his sister in law still should thank him it.

1270
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 2: Was something given to her. Yeah, I feel like BO

1271
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:49,919
Speaker 2: should stop giving.

1272
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 3: I think Bo is a teen.

1273
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 2: Bo maybe a teen with as you're said.

1274
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 3: Bo isn't a teen, then BO is very insulted right now.

1275
01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 2: I don't know Bo's freaking out. Bo turned it up,

1276
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 2: turned off the podcast. Early twenties maybe early twenties. It

1277
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 2: does seem like they've got to shop the sales, So.

1278
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 3: It's okay to shop the sales.

1279
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 2: I encourage shopping.

1280
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 3: Don't save the price jag.

1281
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 2: On, never pay retail, right, that's what I say. Yeah,

1282
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 2: especially when you're buying sister in law or if you're.

1283
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 3: Buying a sample item, or you should not be paying.

1284
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 3: Did you hear that store that sold me the sample

1285
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 3: size for two dollars off?

1286
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 2: That's so offensive. That's that's such a random number.

1287
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 3: It really is. Should and if you well, you'll see

1288
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 3: this bottle. Ladies and gentlemen and everybody're going to see

1289
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 3: that the label is oily. Anyway, Sorry, I'm not trying

1290
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 3: to sway off of bow and Bose gifting issues.

1291
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 2: I feel like your main mission on this episode has

1292
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 2: been to shut down everything on Larch Month.

1293
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,440
Speaker 3: All of these BOUTINU. No, maybe we can't say the

1294
01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 3: name of it, because if I'm going to complain this

1295
01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 3: much about it.

1296
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 2: It's a great store, It is a great but I.

1297
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 3: Don't want to. I don't want to complain publicly about

1298
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:03,919
Speaker 3: them and the two dollars.

1299
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 2: We'll beep out their name name, but we won't be

1300
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 2: about the street there on. Bo, go to a store

1301
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 2: with some fragrances, find the tester, get a discount, fill

1302
01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 2: it up with water, right and now no one knows

1303
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 2: anything better or rubbing alcohol. Whatever you have might be

1304
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 2: better nearby right in the redhead and bed and the

1305
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 2: sistern law will go crazy. Bo, don't write back in okay,

1306
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 2: closing up the email, Rachel, what you've brought such beautiful

1307
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 2: gifts of the podcast.

1308
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 3: Thank you. I mean it's a pleasure.

1309
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 2: I screamed that I will. Of course I will eat

1310
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Speaker 2: the chocolate one. The other one's going to be there until,

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Speaker 2: like we have another pandemic and.

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Speaker 3: The grocery store is out. I know I was getting

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Speaker 3: that sense right after.

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Speaker 2: I bought it too, but we challenged ourselves. We branched

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Speaker 2: out and learned that we still don't like that type

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Speaker 2: of ice cream, right, Which is important to know about yourself. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: especially if you're standing alone in an ice cream store,

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Speaker 2: you need to know. You should be as informed as

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Speaker 2: possible because you don't want a bad You.

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Speaker 3: Don't want to go wrong.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being Thank you. That's such

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Speaker 2: a wonderful time. And listener, the podcast is over. We're

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Speaker 2: coming to a halt. The audio will end, your life

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Speaker 2: will continue you. You're gonna have a very productive day.

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Speaker 2: I can feel it. I love you, goodbye. I said

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Speaker 2: No Gifts is an exactly right production. It's produced by

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Speaker 2: our dear friend Analise Nelson, and it's beautifully mixed by

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Speaker 2: Ben Holliday. And we couldn't do it without our guest booker,

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Speaker 2: Patrick Kottner. The theme song, of course, could only come

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Speaker 2: from a miracle worker, Amy Man. You must follow the

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Speaker 2: show on Instagram. At I said no Gifts, I don't

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Speaker 2: want to hear any excuses. That's where you get to

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Speaker 2: see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting. And

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Speaker 2: don't you want to see patures of the gifts.

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Speaker 1: But I invited you here, thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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Speaker 1: But you're a guess to my home. You gotta come

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Speaker 1: to me empty, and I said, no guests. Your own

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Speaker 1: presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff, So

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Speaker 1: how do

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Speaker 3: You dare to surbey me?