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Speaker 1: thanks to the Live Nation. Cam Newton, former NFL quarterback,

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Speaker 1: And you know, now he's just wearing he's wearing hats

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Speaker 1: a lot. He's wearing hats, and he's wearing things around

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Speaker 1: his neck, always something around his neck, and like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I would feel very confined with so many

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Speaker 1: things tied around my neck. And as Scott, you know,

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Speaker 1: he loves to scarf, you know, some around his neck.

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Speaker 2: It's always giving like mister Monopoly in some way, Like

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Speaker 2: I feel like he has one of those like one

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Speaker 2: eyeglasses on.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes, you know, like he probably owns a Monica.

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Speaker 2: I feel like he wears like old timey accessories. Was

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Speaker 2: he the one who like said to that sports reporter like,

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Speaker 2: hold on, it's really cute to hear you talk about plays.

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Speaker 1: I think he did say that. Okay, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to misquote Cam the legend Cam Newton, but I agree.

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Speaker 1: I feel like maybe he said something like that. But

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Speaker 1: here he is with his latest hot take. Cam Newton

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Speaker 1: explains to someone on a podcast, Parker McKenna, why, of

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Speaker 1: course he asked his girlfriend Jasmine Brown for a list

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Speaker 1: of all of her previous partners before their relationship. Really,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to know her list of who.

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Speaker 3: I need I want to know.

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Speaker 1: I needed to know. He Oh my god. And I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you why though.

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Speaker 3: I want to know because before I sit up here

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Speaker 3: and really keep moving and elevating our relationship, I want

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Speaker 3: to know who got one up on me and if

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Speaker 3: I'm willing to take on that burden. Because why I

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Speaker 3: want to know if you had any type of relationship.

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Speaker 3: It's to see experiences with people that I really know.

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Speaker 1: I need to know that I'm old. That says says

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Speaker 1: the guy who has only kids as he am, and

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Speaker 1: not all from the same person, right, I mean like

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Speaker 1: eight kids. I don't know how many different partners. He

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Speaker 1: said he does three different people. Okay, well whatever, which

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Speaker 1: which who cares? Right? But I mean, you know you

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Speaker 1: you are a guy who I mean, does he have

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Speaker 1: to give a list of all the people that he's

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Speaker 1: been with. The only thing I will say about this

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Speaker 1: in I'm not gonna say the defense because really I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not defending him, but I guess in Hollywood where

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Speaker 1: he considers himself, in Hollywood famous, you know, sports, sports,

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Speaker 1: whatever you want to say, it's a pretty tight circle.

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Speaker 1: And these people tend to date the same kind not

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Speaker 1: the same kind of people, but the same people. But

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Speaker 1: so many people float around a little bit. They've dated another,

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Speaker 1: NFL players, other NBA players, depending on, you know, sort

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Speaker 1: of what you're going for. There are some people who

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Speaker 1: will this isn't my opinion, and people brag about this.

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Speaker 1: I've been with this many NFL players and this many

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Speaker 1: NBA players or whatever. I'm not saying she's one of

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Speaker 1: those people. I don't know anything about her, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess it would be helpful to know if she's

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Speaker 1: dated a teammate or a friend or something like that.

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Speaker 1: You know, if we're all keeping it in the family

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Speaker 1: here I mean, I might like to know that, like

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Speaker 1: if I don't know, if you've dated five other radio people,

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Speaker 1: you know, and now if you're a radio girl, which

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Speaker 1: nobody is. Nobody's out here trying to date a radio personality,

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Speaker 1: nobody for a lot of different reasons. You guys used

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Speaker 1: to get thrown at you. There is no one throwing

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Speaker 1: anything in me and is scary. But you guys used

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Speaker 1: to get throw one's throwing anything the hottest girls. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we get like, you don't have to. We cannot reminisce

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Speaker 1: about the time when radio people were considered famous. It's fine,

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Speaker 1: it's finding what because you guys are the same, So

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Speaker 1: it's fine. There were radio groupes though shout out uh.

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Speaker 1: Back in the day, it was fine. They wanted to

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Speaker 1: plenty of late night people, myself included back in the day,

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Speaker 1: the radio has has driven more people away today than

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Speaker 1: it has. You're gonna talk about me on the radio.

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Speaker 1: He talks about people on the radio. I don't but

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Speaker 1: plenty of that going on. But anyway, would you guys,

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Speaker 1: eight five five five five in context the same number.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys think that you are entitled to any

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Speaker 1: relatively small world, so might be I mean, look, if

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Speaker 1: he is, but to his point, I just don't want

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Speaker 1: to be the only guy in the room at the SP's,

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Speaker 1: because I'm always at the SP's. But I don't want

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Speaker 1: Radio Hall of Fame. Okay, who doesn't know that that

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Speaker 1: my wife or girlfriend dated a bunch of other people there?

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Speaker 1: And so again, no one did anything wrong here. You're

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Speaker 1: allowed to date whoever you want. If your list is

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Speaker 1: to you know, volumes, then know you shouldn't be judged

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Speaker 1: for that. Like if I like you and I want

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Speaker 1: to date you and you're good to me and whatever, fine,

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Speaker 1: No judgment, But do you believe that you have a

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Speaker 1: right to know any like how many who? And then

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Speaker 1: does it depend on whether you ever have a chance

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Speaker 1: of running into them or not? Like for example, you know,

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Speaker 1: even you could remove the NFL and being famous for this.

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Speaker 1: Like let's say you grew up in a neighborhood and

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Speaker 1: and so you know, and you're going to stay in

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Speaker 1: years ago and everyone's moved on that, you know, your

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Speaker 1: husband dated so and so, who's now you know, shopping

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Speaker 1: for comquats right next to you? And and do you

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Speaker 1: have a right to know that? Or or is it

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Speaker 1: just hey, a life as it comes up. Then I

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Speaker 1: because it's like, oh, you dated her, I don't like her,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be with you. Now you could

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Speaker 1: argue that's not the right person for you. But still like,

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Speaker 1: sometimes too much information is too much information, Yeah, but

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Speaker 4: And I don't need to be sitting down eating misteak

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Speaker 4: nuggets with the lady that you smashed before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because most of Big Tim's ladies also eated Armies.

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Speaker 1: Probably Armies is a hotspot for for all of big

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Speaker 1: Where is like where is Arby's? I kind of love

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Speaker 1: Arby's to be honest, Really, I can't find enough the

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Speaker 1: Army's roastbeef sandwiches is on it. It is, Well, no,

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Speaker 1: maybe there should be more. I'm not sure. But then

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Speaker 1: again they're serving now like like wedges of meat Like

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Speaker 1: that's it. That'sn't even come down to. They do say

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Speaker 1: they got the meat. That's what they say. They are

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Speaker 1: doing what they said they were going to do. But

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Speaker 1: basically now it's like, what chunk of meat would you

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Speaker 1: like when you go to and then we'll put it

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Speaker 1: on bread if you want, or we'll put it on

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Speaker 1: can make it yourself. However do you so you say yes?

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Speaker 1: So you know everybody who Big Tim was with before.

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Speaker 4: You probably don't know everybody, but I know if we're

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Speaker 4: in the same type of circle, Like I know if

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Speaker 4: I know the girl, like if I know her, I

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Speaker 4: need to know if you smashed. If I've never heard

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Speaker 4: of this person, I don't really care. But to Cam's point, yes,

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Speaker 4: if we are going to be running in the same circles,

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Speaker 4: it would be nice to know.

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Speaker 1: I hope he's providing the same transparency. Something tells me

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Speaker 1: he may or may not be just so.

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Speaker 4: Many woman in his vicinity if I was his girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that you do you think you should

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Speaker 1: know a complete rundown of who you're with was with

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Speaker 1: before you. No, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I need to know if like I

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Speaker 1: Was your example.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't mind that, like if it was like

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Speaker 2: my friend or my sister, like, you should probably let me.

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Speaker 1: Know about that.

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Speaker 2: But I I'm a weirdo because I have had the

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Speaker 2: conversation in past relationships like the how many conversation, and

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Speaker 2: it does not bother me for a single second. I

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Speaker 2: It does not bother me at all. I don't care

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Speaker 1: The number doesn't bother me. I suppose maybe some of

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Speaker 1: the particulars would that bothered me, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm mixed on this, Like sometimes it's like, what do

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Speaker 1: you mean particulars, like like you who, well, I don't

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Speaker 1: Really that you can't? You can't handle that. I can

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Speaker 1: tell you that because you think I look like that,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you're really.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, that's you know.

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Speaker 1: And I started thinking about it's not an insecurity. I

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Speaker 1: just start thinking about it too much. It's too much.

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Speaker 1: But then again, I don't want to be the only

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Speaker 1: person in the room who doesn't know, so I can't

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Speaker 2: Ignorance is bliss and that's sure you'll never know, so like,

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Speaker 2: who really cares?

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Speaker 1: This is funny? Someone texted, I mean I don't want

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Speaker 1: names or addresses. I'd probably want a body count. And

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Speaker 1: then Bella said, hey, we're going to call you, and

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Speaker 1: then she said normally yes, but my daughters are in

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Speaker 1: the car. Never mind well speaking.

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Speaker 2: Code, Yeah, right, say friends, how many friends have been.

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Speaker 1: Together for thirteen years, married for seven of My answer

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Speaker 1: is no, I don't need to know, and I'm not entitled. Yes,

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Speaker 1: need to know who you smashed in your circle of friends? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess it would. Proximity is really important, That's what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like if you hooked up with so and so,

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Speaker 1: and I'm never going to meet them and I never

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Speaker 1: will know them or come in contact with them, Okay, fine,

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Speaker 1: Now the only time that could be a problem is

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Speaker 1: like if you, I don't know, got went to kankun

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Speaker 1: and hooked up with some like awful celebrity on spring

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Speaker 1: break or something, and then I just can't get that

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Speaker 1: think of somebody who like is very distasteful now and

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Speaker 1: you're like, you hooked up and again it's context, like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, there are a lot a lot of variables here, Ellen,

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Speaker 1: I've been single my whole life. I didn't cheat anybody,

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Speaker 1: I didn't do anything wrong. I was I was ethnical,

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Speaker 1: I was honest. Technically, yes, no, I was. I would

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