WEBVTT - How should Christians feel about IVF??

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<v Speaker 1>What's up everybody? Welcome to the podcast, thanks for being here.

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<v Speaker 1>Special edition as we've done the last two or three

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<v Speaker 1>four months. I've got a man with me by the way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? A good This is a special edition because

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<v Speaker 1>sitting here, it is June the twenty first, twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode will release like normal on Monday. But the

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<v Speaker 1>is because it is a big Yege apparel summer launch.

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<v Speaker 1>we're just sitting in the cab of a truck and

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<v Speaker 1>you and I are just having a conversation or around

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<v Speaker 1>the campfire. I don't always have the right answers, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try to talk about this like we're friends.

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<v Speaker 1>And so, Hey, Lourie, what's up from Ontario, Canada? Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for listening. Donita says, good morning, Granger and aunt man

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<v Speaker 1>watching from western Arkansas. God bless you guys and your families,

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<v Speaker 1>and you'll have an amazing day. You two don't need it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wisconsin farmer says morning Granger. Ye yee, and I'm happy

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<v Speaker 1>to see all of y'all on here. Hey, I've got

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<v Speaker 1>my brothers, Tyler and Parker coming live from the EEE

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<v Speaker 1>farm right now. This is the Yee Apparel Summer launch day.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys just launched what twenty three minutes ago. How's

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<v Speaker 1>it going, guys, It's gone great.

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<v Speaker 2>We're busy here in the warehouse getting order shipped out.

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<v Speaker 3>We're excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been working on the stuff for a long time,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's fun to see people's reactions and it's fun

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<v Speaker 2>to put it in boxes and send it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it really is, man. I mean, I'll be honest, Tyler,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you think the same thing, but I it's

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<v Speaker 1>want sounded a little cheesy, But I got in bed

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<v Speaker 1>last night and I was like, oh, got a little nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm excited for tomorrow, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I felt that little a little scared because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just excited that people are going to see what I

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<v Speaker 1>think is one of the best apparel launches that we've

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<v Speaker 1>done in the last decade. Is that too much? Am

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<v Speaker 1>I overstating that? Tyler?

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<v Speaker 4>You're not overstating yet. We're more in the trenches over

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<v Speaker 4>here than you are. But you did text me and

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<v Speaker 4>Parker and said this is my favorite or the products

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<v Speaker 4>are amazing, like and you've never texted that's that before

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<v Speaker 4>the other day. So curious to hear your thoughts on why.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, First of all, I just I always want to

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<v Speaker 1>show my gratitude, you know, either online or offline. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to show my gratitude to you guys, because

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<v Speaker 1>all three of us as brothers, work for and with

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<v Speaker 1>and we are eeee and at the same time, we

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<v Speaker 1>all are in very different lanes, and so my lane

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<v Speaker 1>is really the face, the outward facing image of the

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<v Speaker 1>company doing you know, after midnight and the podcast and

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<v Speaker 1>getting out and speaking, and of course the music and

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<v Speaker 1>the smiths, and you guys are you know, more so

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<v Speaker 1>in the designs, in the inner workings of how this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff gets out, and Tyler, you're you're the guy that's

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<v Speaker 1>looking to see what the world wants to wear. And

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<v Speaker 1>both of you guys and me combined are all always

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<v Speaker 1>aware of what this image is, which is faith freedom

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<v Speaker 1>in the outdoors, which is what Yegee stands for. And

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a it's a battle really to maintain faith

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<v Speaker 1>freedom in the outdoors in twenty twenty four, especially in

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<v Speaker 1>the month of June, when we're coming up against you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of battles that the world wants to fight.

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<v Speaker 1>And Parker, you said something as we did a live

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<v Speaker 1>at ye Apparel a couple of days ago. You said

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<v Speaker 1>something that really affected me and I hope that you

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<v Speaker 1>could repeat it now. But you said at the remember

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<v Speaker 1>what you said when we ended the podcast was that yesterday?

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<v Speaker 1>Remember what you said, Say it again for my listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said, the summer launch is releasing. We're super

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<v Speaker 2>excited about it. But if money's tight right now, and

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<v Speaker 2>then we totally understand. Tyler and I keep in contact

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<v Speaker 2>with a lot of our customers and ye nation, we

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<v Speaker 2>have a pulse on things. I know people are out

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<v Speaker 2>there struggling right now. It's not easy. It's an election year,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot going on. So money is tight, then

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<v Speaker 2>don't even think twice about it.

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<v Speaker 3>You just don't buy anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Take care of you and your family and just enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>EE through our other outlets that we have, enjoy the podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>Enjoys Socials.

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<v Speaker 1>And man, that's I looked at you when we cut

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<v Speaker 1>the camera at that at EE Apparels Podcast. I looked

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<v Speaker 1>at you and I was like, man, who says that

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<v Speaker 1>isn't as an apparel company CEO who leaves everybody with

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<v Speaker 1>the thought, Hey, we're so excited about this launch, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have the money right now and money's tight,

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<v Speaker 1>take care of your family. We understand. It's like wow,

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<v Speaker 1>it's amazing, And there's so much freedom in us to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to say that out loud, because there's a

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<v Speaker 1>pressure where we need to like, oh, we need to

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<v Speaker 1>we have to do this. We got to pay the bills,

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<v Speaker 1>we got to make sure that this launch performs well.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead we just we let it go and we go, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we understand, if money's tight, don't buy a single thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Take care of your family. That's that's horrible advertising from

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<v Speaker 1>a marketing standpoint, but I think it's just really good honesty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we do launches every month, and so like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're buying from us every single month, like that's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of money. And so I totally get And

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<v Speaker 2>you only need to shirt every so often, but hopefully

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<v Speaker 2>whenever you need a new shirt or a new hat,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll get one from us. And we try to make

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<v Speaker 2>it the best possible quality we can, with the coolest designs,

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<v Speaker 2>with the top designers, and hopefully it'll last year a

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<v Speaker 2>long time and then when it wears out, we'll be

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<v Speaker 2>around whenever you need another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's right. And yeah, the quality on a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these T shirts and that Jersey Tyler's wearing these hats,

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<v Speaker 1>the qualities just step up from what we did were

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<v Speaker 1>doing last year and the year before. So yeah, super excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you guys are busy, So I'm gonna let

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<v Speaker 1>you go twenty eight minutes now into the EEE Apparel

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<v Speaker 1>summer launch. Go to yeye dot com for everything. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening live, I would go there quickly because a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of stuff, the popular things tend to sell out quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you're listening later then there's probably there's probably

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<v Speaker 1>enough to get you by so yeye dot com is

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<v Speaker 1>where you need to go. Oh, Tyler's holding up. Eight.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a last minute edition, didn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't think it was gonna come in time. But

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<v Speaker 2>we got our bandanas in literally the day before the launch.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that's a fun little edition. We've never done

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<v Speaker 2>bandanas before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, those are in. They're super soft. I felt them yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cool. All right, guys, I'll let you go. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get to some questions here. Appreciate you, love you,

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<v Speaker 1>see you guys, Ye, say get some risk. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna answer some questions. Aun't you with me? Still?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, sir?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, sir? What's your time? We're sitting at sitting at

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<v Speaker 1>eleven fifty since we start? Okay, cool, all right, this

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<v Speaker 1>question is gonna come from Tyler and not my brother,

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<v Speaker 1>says hey Granger. My wife twenty six and I twenty

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<v Speaker 1>seven right now are considering IVF. We have been trying

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<v Speaker 1>for almost a year to conceive and have recently found

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<v Speaker 1>out that I, U, I or IVF. Maybe you're only

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<v Speaker 1>not option due to some medical issues. We attend an

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<v Speaker 1>SBC church and regularly serve in the worship ministry. I

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<v Speaker 1>am worried that we might be pushed out of our

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<v Speaker 1>church were we to where we have grown deep relationships

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<v Speaker 1>with the pastor and other partitioners. Given the Southern Baptist

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<v Speaker 1>Convention's recent vote to oppose IVF, I'm interested to hear

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<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on this, giving your experience with IVF and

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<v Speaker 1>your connection to the SBC. God bless Tyler, Arkansas. Hey Tyler,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for the question, man. It's a great one, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's this is a fresh wound that the band aid

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<v Speaker 1>has just come off of with the SBC as they

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<v Speaker 1>have voted. It was just as I'm reading this, it's

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<v Speaker 1>only two weeks ago that the Southern Baptist Convention voted

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<v Speaker 1>against the approval or the endorsement of IVF and IVF

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<v Speaker 1>in mutual fertilization comes really with two camps, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is the argument at the SBC. There's two camps of

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<v Speaker 1>opposition of IVF. One is the people that say IVF

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<v Speaker 1>is okay, as long as you don't make as long

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<v Speaker 1>as you I'll put it this way, as long as

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<v Speaker 1>you don't leave embryos extra. That's the most non medical

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<v Speaker 1>way I could say it. And then the other way

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<v Speaker 1>is don't do it at all. It shouldn't be done.

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<v Speaker 1>It's immoral. So I am a Southern Baptist seminarian. So yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am closely tied with the SBC. I go to

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<v Speaker 1>SBC's church. I'm an SBC seminarian. I'm friends. I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>friends with the two leading advocates against IVF. I'm friends

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<v Speaker 1>with those guys. They're both professors at at Southern. So

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<v Speaker 1>on top of that, we have a beautiful baby boy

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<v Speaker 1>downstairs right now, he's almost three, who is an IVF baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me, I need to I need to walk through

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<v Speaker 1>some a couple of things. This will probably take a

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<v Speaker 1>whole podcast if I did. But I understand where you're

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<v Speaker 1>coming from, Tyler, very much. I walked in your shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>And to be honest, I also understand the sentiment of

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<v Speaker 1>the SPC. I think IVF can be it can't be

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<v Speaker 1>a dangerous thing. There are a lot of embryos that

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<v Speaker 1>are that are left over. I think there's hundreds of thousands,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe millions. Don't quote me on that, but there's hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of thousands of believe embryos that have been left over

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<v Speaker 1>that were conceived but not implanted or transferred, I think

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<v Speaker 1>is the right word. And what do you what do

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<v Speaker 1>we do with this? This is a moral dilemma and

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<v Speaker 1>we can't be irresponsible with this. When we were going

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<v Speaker 1>through this ourselves. If I wrote the book Like a River,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a had a really emotional moment with if

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<v Speaker 1>in a discussion with Lincoln, my son. That's in the

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<v Speaker 1>book Like a River. It's the tree conversation. If you remember, Daddy,

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<v Speaker 1>does God make all the trees and man make some

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<v Speaker 1>of the trees. It was that conversation. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't read Like a River, Tyler, check that out. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Amber and I decided we were convicted that we

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<v Speaker 1>felt like this may be wrong, and so we decided

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<v Speaker 1>that we would implant every single embryo we had, and

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<v Speaker 1>as it turned out, all of them died, including a miscarriage,

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<v Speaker 1>leaving us all the way just down to just one

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<v Speaker 1>last one and it ended up being Maverick. Now that's

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<v Speaker 1>my story, and that doesn't make IVF right just because

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. And it also, even if it is wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't make Maverick wrong because God uses he always

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<v Speaker 1>has used sin and for his own glory, for his

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<v Speaker 1>own good, he's done. There's countless stories about that. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's never the baby's fault. Certainly not Maverick's fault, and

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<v Speaker 1>Mavericks certainly not an accident or but but just because

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<v Speaker 1>Mavericks exists, and he's beautiful, and he's loved, and he's purposed,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's he is in the image of God. Just

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<v Speaker 1>because of all all that. There also co exists another

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<v Speaker 1>idea that maybe Amber and I were wrong in considering IVF.

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<v Speaker 1>You could tell that I have have struggled over the

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<v Speaker 1>years with it, and if we were going to do

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<v Speaker 1>it all over again, I don't think we would do IVF.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's not because all can now because now the

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<v Speaker 1>SBC is voting against it, et cetera, et cetera. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not because of that. I just believe as we've been

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<v Speaker 1>sanctified as Christians more and more, I think it becomes

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<v Speaker 1>more problematic. Why because look at the fruit of IVF clinics. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we we've getten we get emails from the clinic that

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<v Speaker 1>Maverick was conceived in those aren't they aren't good emails

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<v Speaker 1>that we get? And what they're promoting. What are they

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<v Speaker 1>The emails we get from the clinic where MAV came

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<v Speaker 1>from aren't God honoring emails. They aren't God glorifying emails.

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<v Speaker 1>You give them my drift what they're promoting and what

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<v Speaker 1>they're using IVA for and what they're endorsing because they

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<v Speaker 1>they have IVA of what they're what they're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>they can do. It's not It's not a couple like

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<v Speaker 1>Tyler Sure from Arkansas saying we've struggled and we're we've

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<v Speaker 1>been we go to church and we've been praying and

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<v Speaker 1>we trying to conceive a baby. That's not what these

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<v Speaker 1>clinics are promoting.

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<v Speaker 3>So is the should the reform be on no pun intended?

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<v Speaker 3>I promise.

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<v Speaker 5>Is it throwing the baby out with the bathwater to

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<v Speaker 5>say no IVF at all?

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<v Speaker 3>Or is it saying the way IVF is done right

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<v Speaker 3>now is wrong. You said you used all three embryos.

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<v Speaker 1>Well we did, and there was also there were seven

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<v Speaker 1>more that died before we even got a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>use them. I just think in hindsight we look back

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<v Speaker 1>on it and we go, hey, I don't think we

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<v Speaker 1>are quite as sanctified as we are now in this situation.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think. I don't think we would have done

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<v Speaker 1>it the same. That doesn't make me regret doing it

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<v Speaker 1>or regret Maverick, of course not. But will I now

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<v Speaker 1>stand forward and endorse it and actually go against my

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<v Speaker 1>colleagues in the SBC. I don't think so. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the men and women that have prayed over this and

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<v Speaker 1>studied this for a long time, I don't think they're

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<v Speaker 1>wrong in thinking, Hey, we need to hit the brakes

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<v Speaker 1>on this, We need to think about this because the

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<v Speaker 1>implications of the future. Where's this going? What are the

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<v Speaker 1>fruits of this? And I'll tell you what the fruits are.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, I see the emails, I see their their

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram page and what they're promoting, and it's awful.

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<v Speaker 3>Stuff, unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why you know this this could be well, probably

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<v Speaker 5>should be a bunch of longer conversations. It's a longer

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<v Speaker 5>conversation with other people, people who have been effected on

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<v Speaker 5>both sides of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate to give you the answer, Tyler that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to hear, but adoption is a beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Adoption is a for sure, beautiful, beautiful thing. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many babies that need a home, and you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>how great or how could you say that when you

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<v Speaker 1>you did the opposite. Well, maybe Amber and I need

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<v Speaker 1>to adopt to We'll leave it there. Next question, do

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<v Speaker 1>we have another time for another one right now? Twenty? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's hit another one.

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<v Speaker 3>Try about this and hit some comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool, let's hit the comments and then we can get

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<v Speaker 1>another to break.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we got break. I've got a couple here.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that, yege pearl mug right there? Look at that, friends,

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<v Speaker 1>new the coffee mug just came out today at the launch.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the epitome of product placement today, both of

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<v Speaker 5>us wearing the city.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, here you go.

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<v Speaker 1>A question from you guys doing a podcast tour. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we were just talking about. I just told ant Man

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<v Speaker 1>right before we started this, I said, Hey, once we

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<v Speaker 1>get enough reps doing this live podcast thing, then we

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<v Speaker 1>should we should have all the kinks worked out by

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<v Speaker 1>the time we actually take a tour and do this.

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<v Speaker 3>Hope.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's that's the hope.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good one too.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris says, Hey Granger, this is straight from the live

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<v Speaker 1>right here, I'm reading, Hey, hey Granger, getting ready to

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<v Speaker 1>close on a house soon I'll be it'll be my

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<v Speaker 1>wife and I was first home together. Any advice on

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<v Speaker 1>two newly married twenty four year olds in life and

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<v Speaker 1>being first time home buyers, congratulates, man, that's big, that's big,

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<v Speaker 1>that's huge. Twenty four is young and you've got a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of life ahead of you. I would say, I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, hold it with open hands, don't hold that

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<v Speaker 1>house too tightly, don't worry about that house, don't make

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<v Speaker 1>that house you're idole. Don't don't obsess over that house,

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<v Speaker 1>because bad things are gonna happen to it, like things

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna break, pipes are gonna burst, You're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>you know, fence is gonna get knocked down on a

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<v Speaker 1>high wind. You're gonna you're gonna get stains on the carpet.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just say, live it, live in it, live

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<v Speaker 1>with it. And it's not a permanent house. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a forever home, and so enjoy it, make the most

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<v Speaker 1>out of it, and one day, for willing, five, six,

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<v Speaker 1>ten years, you'll be moving in another house because you

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<v Speaker 1>can need some more bedrooms'd be cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's take a break. YEP.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoever you want me to say it to and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>shoot you a message. Next question comes from Glenn. It

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<v Speaker 1>says the Cowboy church I attend and support has for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time had five minute teachings every Sunday morning

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<v Speaker 1>on biblical giving. The teaching about giving is more than

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<v Speaker 1>just about money and includes Biblical teaching of giving one's

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<v Speaker 1>self first, and that the giving of tides and offerings

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<v Speaker 1>is a reflection of giving oneself first. The teaching is

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<v Speaker 1>then followed by those to come forward and place their

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<v Speaker 1>offering in a bucket and then prayed over. When I

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<v Speaker 1>started going to this church, it was already an established

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<v Speaker 1>part of the service. I am the person asked by

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<v Speaker 1>the pastor to do this teaching. Nearly everyone does it

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<v Speaker 1>without question or complaint. But there is one individual who

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<v Speaker 1>has personally disagreed with the public display of giving tithes

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<v Speaker 1>and offerings because it might offend or compel someone to

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<v Speaker 1>come forward in order to remain in conspicuous, and they

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<v Speaker 1>have made it known to the pastor, but not personally

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<v Speaker 1>to me. My question is, do you see anything wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with giving tides and offerings and a public display of

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<v Speaker 1>coming forward as opposed to passing the offering plate. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to hear your answer. Sincerely in Christ, Glenn Tate. Glenn,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for the question. It's an interesting one. Do

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<v Speaker 1>I see anything wrong? Let me see? How about how

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<v Speaker 1>about Matthew six's three four? But when you give, do

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<v Speaker 1>not let your left hand know what your right hand

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<v Speaker 1>is doing, so that your giving may be in secret

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<v Speaker 1>and your father, who sees you in secret, will reward you.

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<v Speaker 1>There's that. Yeah, I'd be cautious about this. I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>cautious really in the tone of this, because because we're

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<v Speaker 1>kind of we're kind of thinking that this person, this

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<v Speaker 1>one person is crazy and they're actually this one person

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<v Speaker 1>is actually biblical?

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<v Speaker 3>Is the one biblical?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sounds like and we're kind of looking at

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<v Speaker 1>this one.

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<v Speaker 3>Look.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with people wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to get up and give in public. That people are

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna do that. But I think what's wrong is

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<v Speaker 1>saying that this is the way we do it, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you disagree with it, you're strange. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what this email sounds like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, is that what you feel?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it is is the hope that because I see

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<v Speaker 5>someone else, is this what they're thinking. If the rest

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<v Speaker 5>of the congregation sees this many people giving, they'll be

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<v Speaker 5>encouraged to.

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<v Speaker 1>Give to I think that's what they're thinking.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Marshall said something when he was on here earlier that

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<v Speaker 1>I loved a couple of weeks ago, said that him

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<v Speaker 1>and the elders of the church they don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>who gives. They don't look and they're not allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>see the names. Because you have the danger as a

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<v Speaker 1>pastor of it creating favoritism. It does, for sure, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you're as solid as a rock. It's really hard

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<v Speaker 1>not to think, but this person gives the most of

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<v Speaker 1>the congregation, it's really hard not to give them extra

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<v Speaker 1>favor or to do what they are suggesting. It's very difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>So to protect yourself against that you don't know. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you have a public display like that, everyone's getting up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know the pastor sees it, everyone sees it.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I would speak against this. I know cowboy

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<v Speaker 1>churches do stuff like this. I know that even passing

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<v Speaker 1>the offering plate is starting to become less and less

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<v Speaker 1>at a mais, we don't do it. We're not as

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<v Speaker 1>old school and so we don't do it at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's only online.

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<v Speaker 5>How about that see, we do both, but it's also

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<v Speaker 5>kind of become tailored, like they'll they'll come up to

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<v Speaker 5>the edge of your row and just kind of look

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<v Speaker 5>conceive if anybody because you know, people will hold it

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<v Speaker 5>up or whatever, and then they'll pass the plate down.

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<v Speaker 3>But it doesn't just automatically go by you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're it used to and there's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Every church I've ever known has done that. And and

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<v Speaker 1>may as we have a box in the back, so

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<v Speaker 1>if like here, you don't do online banking or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>then you could put you could put it.

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<v Speaker 3>In you want to throw a twenty in.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think for that person that throws a twenty

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<v Speaker 1>in the box without anyone seeing, it's blessed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, agreed, I mean it's biblical agreed.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, back to.

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<v Speaker 5>Your point that you're saying that Marshall said is that

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<v Speaker 5>I've seen it in action before. Of they'll carefully consider

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<v Speaker 5>what someone who has who said something or asked to

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<v Speaker 5>do something, they'll think of them and consider it differently

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<v Speaker 5>because they know, man, if we don't do that and

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<v Speaker 5>they get mad, that's a big chunk of money that

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<v Speaker 5>leaves our church.

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<v Speaker 3>That's their thought process. I've seen it happen inactionable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so dangerous man.

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<v Speaker 3>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>Next question comes from Jaden Hey Grangeer. First, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to thank you for the virtual meet and greet back

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<v Speaker 1>in April twenty twenty A while anyway, My question is

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<v Speaker 1>do I let my girlfriend know that I want to

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<v Speaker 1>propose without actually telling her? Or do I just not

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<v Speaker 1>tell her and just do it? That's a very simple question.

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<v Speaker 3>How would you like to be proposed to? Sweetheart?

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<v Speaker 1>That Jay not two parts of that question one one

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<v Speaker 1>part says, hey, man, you know you got to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that she actually is agreeing that she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>get married to.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's a good conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's a conversation where you just say you

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<v Speaker 1>tell her in some kind of form. Surely you have, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I one of these days I want to get married

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<v Speaker 1>and I love you, and you're you're exactly the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of girl I want to marry. So you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>building it up without saying will you marry me? And

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<v Speaker 1>you wait for her reaction because if she says, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know where going this fast, then there's a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>And if she goes me too, you're the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>guy that I would love to marry and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then you kind of move on, but you just store

0:26:13.040 --> 0:26:15.520
<v Speaker 1>that away that Okay, this is good, this is good.

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>You're planning seeds, and you have the conversations about children

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:22.280
<v Speaker 1>and about her faith and things like that, things that

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<v Speaker 1>are unreconcilable once you are married. If she's you get

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<v Speaker 1>married and you're you're expecting four kids and she wants none,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a question in a conversation you probably should have

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<v Speaker 1>had before you're even engaged. If you have a strong

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<v Speaker 1>faith and she doesn't at all, it's a conversation you

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<v Speaker 1>probably should have had or vice versa before you even

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<v Speaker 1>get engaged. If all that's taken care of, then you

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<v Speaker 1>go to the second part of my answer. The second

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<v Speaker 1>part of my answer is, Man, I just think surprises

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<v Speaker 1>are better.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I don't think that I've ever met a

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<v Speaker 5>girl that I had that, and not necessarily a girl

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<v Speaker 5>I was dating, but just a girl in general that

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<v Speaker 5>was dating someone that didn't make their intentions known before

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<v Speaker 5>the guy did, Hey we're getting married, right, you know

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<v Speaker 5>almost that absolutely, Here's what I would wear, Here's the

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<v Speaker 5>house that I would want, Here's how many kid I

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<v Speaker 5>mean that seems to always have been up front in

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<v Speaker 5>most relationships. Yeah, and if you're not having that conversation,

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<v Speaker 5>that might be the first.

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<v Speaker 1>And once you're there, then I think a surprise is good.

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<v Speaker 3>Bingo, surprise her.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, do something neat not something. Also, here's here's a tip.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, not something you think it's a great proposal.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something she would think. It's a great proposal. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if you love football and she doesn't, don't propose it

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<v Speaker 1>the halftime of your favorite football game on the jumbo tron.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, if she loves football, okay, cool. If she

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<v Speaker 1>loves you know, the beach, take her to the beach

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<v Speaker 1>and do it there, even though you don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about her, you know, you know, do do what

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<v Speaker 1>you think would be great for her.

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<v Speaker 3>To be careful not to drop the ring in the sand.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't drop the ring in the sand.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all got some questions here on comments you want to

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<v Speaker 3>do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I say it.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's one.

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<v Speaker 1>Lindsay says, Hi, when is your new song coming out?

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<v Speaker 1>And are you going to release it? I love the

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<v Speaker 1>new intro. I don't know, Lindsay, thanks for asking.

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<v Speaker 3>Explain what she's talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>So the smiths Our Family vlog I have a new

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<v Speaker 1>song that came out in the intro, the brand new

0:28:15.920 --> 0:28:20.439
<v Speaker 1>intro of the Smiths, and so, uh, just live with it, lindsay,

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<v Speaker 1>you might not even like it after you listen to

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:24.560
<v Speaker 1>it enough times, you might not even want the full version.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you do, all think about how to release it.

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<v Speaker 1>Mason says, how are we going to buy yee Ye today?

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't gonna buy ye ye today, but watching y'all

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<v Speaker 1>in the new gear is making me rethink that maybe

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I'll just rewind and listen to the part about saving money. Yeah. Maybe, so, Mason,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know this, do you see that? No? Stephanie said,

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<v Speaker 1>all the mugs are amazing. I definitely want the insulin munths.

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<v Speaker 1>They work so great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this one that said that mug is already sold out?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it really? Yeah? I haven't been paying attention.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good one. Great one.

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<v Speaker 1>And thank you for always being real honest and my

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<v Speaker 1>brother in Christ, thank you, Emily.

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<v Speaker 5>And then you talked about this one the last on

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<v Speaker 5>the last live that we did about a month ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the live album and DVD be coming soon, so Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>it is officially finished. The live almost a few last

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<v Speaker 1>weeks copyright stuff. For instance, America started with a beat

0:29:22.920 --> 0:29:25.160
<v Speaker 1>from the movie Top Guns. Found out way to take

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:30.160
<v Speaker 1>that out so that But yes, the live album is finished.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very happy with it. It's going to release probably in

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<v Speaker 1>the fall. And the documentary to go with it is

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<v Speaker 1>not finished, but it's a work in progress and we

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:44.400
<v Speaker 1>plan on packaging both of those together. Cool. I going

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to the question here, back to the

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:49.080
<v Speaker 1>email podcast at grangersmith dot com if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>hit me up, and the question from Cody says, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>granger recently met a guy who is so bright and

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<v Speaker 1>caring and giving. We met riding motorcycles and have rode

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<v Speaker 1>together other almost every day since. He caught feelings for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't It was already breaking my heart to

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that I don't like him too, But now

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<v Speaker 1>everything is caving in on him, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to love him without hurting him more by giving

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<v Speaker 1>him hope of a relationship. His family is Messy's sister

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<v Speaker 1>in prison, to autistic brothers, threatening grandpa, irresponsible parents, an

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<v Speaker 1>uncle who died in a motorcycle crash right after we met,

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<v Speaker 1>an injured aunt from the same crash, and an uncle

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<v Speaker 1>who raped his knees. He's twenty five and taking custody

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<v Speaker 1>of his knees to protect her. And he has already

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<v Speaker 1>held custody of his nephew since he was eighteen. He

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<v Speaker 1>beat thyroid cancer two years ago, and he's coming back

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<v Speaker 1>right now, just as strong. He's in pain. He's depressed.

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<v Speaker 1>He's selling all of his bikes that we have been

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<v Speaker 1>and which have been his only outlet and escape from

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 1>everything he's got going on. He's acting like he's giving up.

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<v Speaker 1>He met me three weeks ago and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>give his He wants to give me his favorite bike,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't even like him back. Three of his

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<v Speaker 1>biker friends crashed this week alone, and he is there

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<v Speaker 1>for every single one of them. Though he is suffering,

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<v Speaker 1>he is trying to go to church and have faith,

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<v Speaker 1>even though he hasn't for a few years. I know

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<v Speaker 1>sin is why there is suffering, but God didn't cause it.

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<v Speaker 1>But he can't stop it. God, Why are there people

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<v Speaker 1>like me who have such an easy life when he

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<v Speaker 1>is going through hell every day. I am undeserving and bitter,

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<v Speaker 1>but get to be healthy and okay when he is

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<v Speaker 1>loving and in so much pain? How is that fair. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what an email Cody? Okay, indeed, that's deep. There's two

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<v Speaker 1>different answers that come right to my mind right away. One,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not responsible for this guy. You've known him for

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks. You're not responsible for his happiness. There's nothing

0:31:53.080 --> 0:31:55.640
<v Speaker 1>you could do to make him happy, and there's no

0:31:55.680 --> 0:32:00.680
<v Speaker 1>decision you could make, there's no agreeent that you can

0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:04.080
<v Speaker 1>make to make him You're not responsible for his happiness.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not responsible for Amber's happiness. You're not responsible for

0:32:09.160 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Ashley's happiness. Ant man that this is a misconception that

0:32:13.880 --> 0:32:17.280
<v Speaker 1>we as humans are responsible for other people's happiness, and

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 1>you are saying that about this guy that you just

0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:23.360
<v Speaker 1>met three weeks ago, who's got his life is falling apart.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't mean you can't love him and encourage him

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<v Speaker 1>and be there for him and be a friend and

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<v Speaker 1>listen to him and share time with him. It doesn't

0:32:32.200 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>mean all that. It just means that you can't be

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<v Speaker 1>responsible for his happiness, especially if you don't like him

0:32:39.040 --> 0:32:42.960
<v Speaker 1>in a romantic way, so that you might violate that

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:47.280
<v Speaker 1>just to make him happy. That's wrong. That's the first

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<v Speaker 1>part of my answer. My second part says, I want

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<v Speaker 1>you know where I want to go. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to this part that says, I know that there

0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:55.880
<v Speaker 1>is I know that sin is why he's suffering, and

0:32:55.920 --> 0:33:00.280
<v Speaker 1>God didn't cause it, but can't he stop it? And

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<v Speaker 1>then my mind goes, Okay, Isaiah forty five might disagree

0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:07.920
<v Speaker 1>with you, Cody. It says Isaiah forty five six and

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<v Speaker 1>seven says, I am the Lord, and there is no other.

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<v Speaker 1>I form light and create darkness. I make well being

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<v Speaker 1>and create calamity. I am the Lord who does all

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<v Speaker 1>these things. That is much different than a God who

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<v Speaker 1>says I didn't cause it and I don't know if

0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 1>I could stop it. In fact, that's not a God at.

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<v Speaker 3>All, not a very big one anyway.

0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 1>That's just that's an idle god, lowercase gees that we

0:33:39.240 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 1>have created for our own comfort, so that so that

0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:48.320
<v Speaker 1>we could be comfortable in our little lives, knowing that

0:33:48.640 --> 0:33:52.840
<v Speaker 1>we are stuck in our lives. And it's definitely not fair.

0:33:53.320 --> 0:33:55.520
<v Speaker 1>It's not my fault and it's not fair. That's what

0:33:55.560 --> 0:33:59.560
<v Speaker 1>we want to say all the time. Yeah, And to

0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:02.880
<v Speaker 1>that is always the Gospel is always the Cross of

0:34:03.000 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Christ glaring back at this unfairness that says all of

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:11.319
<v Speaker 1>us are sinned. None of us are good, No, not one.

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:14.719
<v Speaker 1>All of us have rejected God and the world that

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:20.239
<v Speaker 1>was made that was good. In our rebellion, in our sin,

0:34:21.560 --> 0:34:24.319
<v Speaker 1>he made a way to reconcile us, to forgive us

0:34:24.320 --> 0:34:28.040
<v Speaker 1>of our sins. And it's not by anything we could do. Instead,

0:34:28.320 --> 0:34:31.319
<v Speaker 1>it's with his son that he sent to die for us,

0:34:32.360 --> 0:34:35.200
<v Speaker 1>to be the substitute to take, to be the replacement

0:34:35.560 --> 0:34:39.000
<v Speaker 1>for the punishment that we deserved. Christ takes that on himself,

0:34:39.080 --> 0:34:42.879
<v Speaker 1>in his body on the cross and says, whoever looks

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:45.880
<v Speaker 1>at me and believes in this final sacrifice, this ultimate sacrifice,

0:34:45.920 --> 0:34:48.120
<v Speaker 1>you will be forgiven, not in anything you've done, but

0:34:48.239 --> 0:34:51.960
<v Speaker 1>what have I done. That's where fairness comes from. That's

0:34:52.000 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 1>where the judgment is satisfied. And then you go, how

0:34:55.480 --> 0:34:58.320
<v Speaker 1>is that fair? Is Christ dying on the cross? Is

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<v Speaker 1>the man, the God Man, the perfect one, scent, sinless,

0:35:04.920 --> 0:35:08.520
<v Speaker 1>without without flaw, without fault, that lives the perfect life,

0:35:08.560 --> 0:35:10.319
<v Speaker 1>and he goes and we murder him? Is that fair?

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>That's where That's where, That's where this all gets mixed

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:17.319
<v Speaker 1>up here. So Cody, I think that's all I have

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:20.040
<v Speaker 1>to say. Where do you got to end?

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<v Speaker 5>Got a few more comments from uh from the life.

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<v Speaker 5>Love doing this and love seeing your comments in the

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<v Speaker 5>moment too, and love those. So back to the last email,

0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:30.359
<v Speaker 5>you got to come in here so.

0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Jenna says, I so love your broadcast. As as my

0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:38.799
<v Speaker 1>guy introduced you to me. We are happy and I

0:35:38.800 --> 0:35:41.959
<v Speaker 1>could see him as my future as well. We listen

0:35:42.040 --> 0:35:44.560
<v Speaker 1>to you together. Blessings to you always and your family,

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:49.280
<v Speaker 1>Peace of love. Thank you so much. Janis Rachel says,

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<v Speaker 1>are you still coming to Raleigh to preach next month? Yeah?

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I haven't canceled it. Yeah I'm coming, and it says

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<v Speaker 1>good morning and happy Friday to everyone from Santa Domingo,

0:36:01.360 --> 0:36:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Dominican Republic. Thank you Anna so much. I know you

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:06.680
<v Speaker 1>listen quite a bit, so it's always an honor to

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:07.120
<v Speaker 1>have you.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the here's a question for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And she says, I'm forty two and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know your advice from about meeting godly men. Well, if

0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I was, Anna says, what's your advice about meeting godly men?

0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:23.840
<v Speaker 1>And let me reframe the question, grangeur, what's your advice

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<v Speaker 1>in catching large mouth bass? I'd say go to a

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:32.480
<v Speaker 1>go to a good polly with some low hanging brush

0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:37.320
<v Speaker 1>that has plenty of bait. Fish go during spawning season.

0:36:37.320 --> 0:36:40.719
<v Speaker 1>That's where you're gonna find the biggest ones and know

0:36:40.760 --> 0:36:44.960
<v Speaker 1>what to throw. And so for you, you want to

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:47.440
<v Speaker 1>know what kind of lure a godly man is going

0:36:47.480 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 1>to want a godly woman, So be a godly woman,

0:36:50.160 --> 0:36:52.799
<v Speaker 1>be the kind of woman that a godly man would

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:55.640
<v Speaker 1>be attracted to. That's a great that's a great goal.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you got to go to the pond. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I would go to a good, solid Bible teaching church.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where you're gonna find godly men. And that's when

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna throw a godly lure. And that is with

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<v Speaker 1>a godly woman.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna say, the only thing only difference is

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<v Speaker 3>you're the lure. But you have to be real and

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<v Speaker 3>he can't be fake.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you gotta be a live meno exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So does that help you at all?

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<v Speaker 5>If equated dating fishing, that's what you get on there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's either dating to fishing, or it's either fishing or

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<v Speaker 1>football or the two analogies I go to all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>That time you want to do one more email.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, I only have two lefts. So yeah, one more

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<v Speaker 1>would be good. Kristin says, hello from Orlando. Women as pastors.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow here, man, we're just hitting them all, aren't we.

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<v Speaker 1>You did this to me, man, you did get over

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<v Speaker 1>there laughing. Women as pastors seem to be a controversy

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<v Speaker 1>with churches. I don't understand why. Is the Bible is

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<v Speaker 1>very clear. I do not attend I do not attend

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<v Speaker 1>my church because of this comments. Thank you and blessings, Kristin. Hey, Kristin,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you. I believe the Bible is is

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<v Speaker 1>very clear that the the biblical eldership leadership in a

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<v Speaker 1>church is for men. I am a complementarian, meaning that

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<v Speaker 1>when men and women have very both of us, very

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<v Speaker 1>important and very distinct roles that we need to carry

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<v Speaker 1>out in the church, and when when those distinct roles

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<v Speaker 1>are blurred, trouble begins in the church. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>see this. I think there's no doubt that we see

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<v Speaker 1>the the result of either way. I'm not an egalitarian,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning men and women are equal in every way and

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<v Speaker 1>and and that's not my opinion, Like we have to

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<v Speaker 1>get that clear too. That's that's not just what my

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<v Speaker 1>heart says or my gut says, or what you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I want to be. That's just what the Bible says,

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<v Speaker 1>and so believe it. And then I see the from

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<v Speaker 1>it acted out correctly, and I go, oh wow, that's

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<v Speaker 1>women are so much better when they're following the Biblical standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Men are so much better when they're following the Biblical standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Kids are so much better when they're following the Biblical standard.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's the marriages are so much better when they're

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<v Speaker 1>following the Biblical standard. Grief is so much more hopeful

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<v Speaker 1>when following the Biblical standard. I could just go on

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<v Speaker 1>and on and on, but all the attributes and characteristics

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<v Speaker 1>and identities of people and our feelings and our emotions

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<v Speaker 1>are just better when carried out according to the Biblical standard.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I don't want to break apart from that

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<v Speaker 1>because it hurts if we do it, it doesn't work right,

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<v Speaker 1>and it creates struggle and strife, and so yes, so Christen.

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<v Speaker 1>The one thing I want to say in your email

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't like about your email is that you

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<v Speaker 1>said I do not attend my church because of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, then it's not your church, find you one.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many in fact, in order, my buddy, Caleb

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<v Speaker 1>Brasher has a great church there called the Grove, and

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<v Speaker 1>please please, I'm gonna look it up right now. But

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<v Speaker 1>if I was in Orlando, I would definitely go to

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<v Speaker 1>the Grove. I'm looking them up right now. It is.

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<v Speaker 1>It is in Claremount, so I'll give you the address.

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<v Speaker 1>It's four to sixty West Montrose Street, Claremont, Florida three

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<v Speaker 1>four seven one five. The pastor has Caleb Brasher. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called the Grove, and it's just uh, it's it's a

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<v Speaker 1>great complementary in church.

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<v Speaker 5>You have that question a lot about you know, where

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<v Speaker 5>do I find a great church? And you've talked about

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<v Speaker 5>it before of who they can email.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, we could still haven't done it in a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, but it's it's Take and Read podcast at

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<v Speaker 1>gmail dot com. Take and Read podcast at gmail dot com. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's uh, that's pastor Chad hopefully can help you with that.

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<v Speaker 1>So what are we doing on time? We're good, We

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<v Speaker 1>like that's it. Okay, Hey guys, we love you and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad you're you're tuning in now with me

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<v Speaker 1>live and I'm so glad you're you're listening later if

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<v Speaker 1>when you see this released on Monday. But I sure

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate y'all and you just make things your your questions

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<v Speaker 1>just make me so encouraged. So love you guys. See

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<v Speaker 1>you next Monday.