WEBVTT - “I FOUND LOVE ON CHATROULETTE”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hello, Hi. What's your name? My love? My love?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to call you M. I'm going to call

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<v Speaker 1>you M L.

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<v Speaker 2>No because I want you to say something like, ah,

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<v Speaker 2>talk about today, my love.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's that's creepy. I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I would get you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, mL, mL, what's up? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good. I was I'm about to. Well, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>about to. I'm getting ready, just doing my makeup while

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<v Speaker 2>watching Meet the Parents. And I called you like one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred and seven times.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what is it you wanted to talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? I wanted to talk about when I met my

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<v Speaker 2>ex boyfriend on chat Rolette and that resulted in me

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<v Speaker 2>moving from California to Copenhagen for two and a half years.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, how was how was that journey?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>It was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was crazy. Do you know what chatterlette is? I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like when I've told people this story, they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's Chatroulette?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Of course, Chatroulette is a place where you can

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<v Speaker 1>go to see people jerk off all over the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, basically. Yeah, And this was a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 2>This was in like, this was when Chatroulette was really new.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like two thousand and I don't know, nineteen

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<v Speaker 2>or something or not, nineteen nine, and my friend and

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<v Speaker 2>I used to go on there together and just suck

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<v Speaker 2>with people. And there was one day I went on

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<v Speaker 2>by myself. I had time to kill. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 2>just a bunch of dudes jerking off and you just

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<v Speaker 2>press next until you meet someone that's normal, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was this dude. And we didn't even talk for

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<v Speaker 2>very long, but yeah, we ended up becoming pen pals

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<v Speaker 2>for about a year. And then after a year, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I've never been to Europe. I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know what Denmark. I knew nothing about Denmark, never was

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<v Speaker 2>on my radar. And I was like, would it be

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<v Speaker 2>weird if I came to Denmark and you know, stayed

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<v Speaker 2>there for like a week or something, just to go

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<v Speaker 2>to Europe for the first time. And he said no,

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<v Speaker 2>And everyone thought I was going to be murdered, Like

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<v Speaker 2>my friends had like a going away party for me,

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<v Speaker 2>because everyone was convinced I wasn't going to come back.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I went and we ended up dating like

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<v Speaker 2>right away, and like a year. We were long distance

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<v Speaker 2>for a year. I would go out there every few

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<v Speaker 2>months for like a month at a time, and Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Eventually I got a job out there as an no

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<v Speaker 2>pair and that's what allowed me to live out there.

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<v Speaker 2>And that shit was crazy, because a no pair, like

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<v Speaker 2>you're supposed to kind of live with a family in

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<v Speaker 2>exchange for pocket money and just having the experience of

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<v Speaker 2>living in another country, in a different culture or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>You're supposed to be kind of like a member of

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<v Speaker 2>the family. I didn't know what opairing was before I

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<v Speaker 2>started applying for it, and this lady, she told me

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<v Speaker 2>right away that she expected a little bit more like

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<v Speaker 2>her standards were a little higher. And I was so

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<v Speaker 2>desperate to move out there, and I had interviewed with

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<v Speaker 2>so many families that fell through that I was like, sure, yeah, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think much of it, but yeah, that bitch

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<v Speaker 2>had me working six days a week, sometimes seven days

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<v Speaker 2>a week, and I made her and her two kids breakfast, lunch,

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<v Speaker 2>and dinner seven days a week on I had Sundays off,

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<v Speaker 2>and on Saturdays I would have to make, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>enough dinner for them to have, breakfast, lunch, and dinner

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<v Speaker 2>for them to have for two days. I cleaned her

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<v Speaker 2>entire house. She was hell a rich she lived in

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<v Speaker 2>like a mansion. Clean that shit, mowed her lawn. I

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<v Speaker 2>had never mowed a lawn in my life, trimmed these

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<v Speaker 2>hedges that were like ten feet tall. It never done

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<v Speaker 2>that shit before. She had me like weigh her food

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<v Speaker 2>and keep an inventory like in an Excel sheet, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was it was intense. It was very intense.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get paid at all or or was this

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<v Speaker 1>like just in exchange for living?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I got paid, but man, I was living extremely paycheck

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<v Speaker 2>to paycheck. I've never lived that paycheck to paycheck in

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<v Speaker 2>my entire life, because Denmark is such an expensive country.

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<v Speaker 2>And the first like three months I lived in her

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<v Speaker 2>house in a room just to really get a feel

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<v Speaker 2>for what the expectations are and get to know her

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<v Speaker 2>kids and stuff, because part of what I had to do,

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<v Speaker 2>on top of everything else was take her kids to school,

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<v Speaker 2>them up from school, teach them English, make sure they

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<v Speaker 2>did their homework, aise them, like everything. And after three

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<v Speaker 2>months she whupped my pay so I could get an

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<v Speaker 2>apartment with my friend. But she was like that the

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<v Speaker 2>expectations are going to be higher, and I was like okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but I mean I had no choice. I did not

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<v Speaker 2>want to live with them anymore. It was very hard

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<v Speaker 2>working like that, and then going home is just going

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<v Speaker 2>upstairs to a room. I was just in a room

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<v Speaker 2>all day because I don't want to hang out with them.

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<v Speaker 2>And she was very crazy. I thought it was normal

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<v Speaker 2>at first. I'm like, I'm in a new culture. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, maybe everyone out here weighs their fucking oregano

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<v Speaker 2>and then puts it in the next smell sheet.

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<v Speaker 1>And you were weighing food and putting it in excel. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>is that a Danish thing or this lady?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's her. I learned it was her because after

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<v Speaker 2>like months of doing that, I was out with friends

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<v Speaker 2>one night, just exhausted, and I was just like, man,

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<v Speaker 2>telling them about all the shit she's having me do.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, is that what you guys do out here?

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<v Speaker 2>And they were like no, what the fuck? So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she was just crazy, I guess. And she had a

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<v Speaker 2>huge basement and in the basement was so much food,

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<v Speaker 2>like multiple freezers and fridges completely full, and every like

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<v Speaker 2>every other week, I would have to go down there

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<v Speaker 2>and take inventory and put it in a spreadsheet. And

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why she had me do that. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it was she had she had some issues for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was just control. She wanted, like control

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<v Speaker 2>of her environment because she didn't have control, and a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of other aspects of her life I learned over time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was pretty wild. I still keep in touch with

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<v Speaker 2>the little girl. She's eighteen now, which is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But oh yeah, how was How were the kids? Were

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<v Speaker 1>they nice or were they like Brad?

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<v Speaker 2>The little girl, I mean, her and I were cool.

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<v Speaker 2>She was the older one, she was eight when I

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<v Speaker 2>started there, and the little boy was so little, he

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<v Speaker 2>was like three, So I didn't really build a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with him because he really just spoke zero English, and

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<v Speaker 2>no matter how much I would work with him and

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<v Speaker 2>try to teach him, he just, I don't know, didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to learn English. But the little girl learned English

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<v Speaker 2>so fast, and so her and I were cool, but

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<v Speaker 2>she was out of absolutely out of control. She would

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<v Speaker 2>just straight up be like fuck you to her mom

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<v Speaker 2>and like this is bullshit. Yeah, and it was tight

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<v Speaker 2>because I was like, dang, she's saying so much I

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<v Speaker 2>wish I could say to her, but she's like my boss,

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I had to.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you also hated this lady.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was complex because I hated her in a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of ways, because she would really hold over my head,

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<v Speaker 2>like deporting me. And I moved to Denmark to be

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<v Speaker 2>with my boyfriend, so I was like, you know, going

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<v Speaker 2>back to the USA was my worst fear, and I

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<v Speaker 2>felt like I was working my fucking ass off and

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<v Speaker 2>if I didn't do one thing to her standards, it

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<v Speaker 2>would be like, hey, before you leave for the night, like,

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<v Speaker 2>do you mind if we sit down, and it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>fuck what, And it would just be this intense conversation

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<v Speaker 2>of her base and then her being like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I really don't want to send you back to the US,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't how to know what else to do.

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<v Speaker 2>This can't continue, and I'm like, okay, I forgot to

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<v Speaker 2>pack like an apple in the kid's lunch or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it's something so tiny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wow, this sounds like a cunt.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But at the same time, I felt really sad

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<v Speaker 2>for her because I feel like I learned stuff about

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<v Speaker 2>her that a lot of her family didn't know, Like

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<v Speaker 2>she her dream was to become to like work on

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<v Speaker 2>Wall Street in New York. She's super smart. She was

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<v Speaker 2>the CEO of the energy like the solar energy company

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<v Speaker 2>in Denmark and her ex husband lived in China. He's

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<v Speaker 2>super rich, like owned some pharmaceutical shit in China, and

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<v Speaker 2>basically I learned that she got pregnant by him super young.

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<v Speaker 2>He's about like almost fifteen years older than her, and

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<v Speaker 2>it just like put all her dreams of moving to

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<v Speaker 2>the US and doing all these things on hold to

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<v Speaker 2>have kids with him. And then he ended up having

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<v Speaker 2>an affair in China because he would go there for

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<v Speaker 2>business all the time, and then basically was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I actually love this woman in China, so I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to move to China and peace. So she was like

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<v Speaker 2>a single mom while he was with his woman in

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<v Speaker 2>China that he cheated on her with, and then he

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<v Speaker 2>had a baby with her and the kids, the kids

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<v Speaker 2>would like skype him once a week and it was

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<v Speaker 2>only for thirty minutes, and by then I had learned

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<v Speaker 2>Danish pretty well, and their conversations would always be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I got you guys at present. You want to guess

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<v Speaker 2>what it is, and then the kids would be guessing

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<v Speaker 2>what it is, and then oh, thirty minutes are up.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, talk to you next week. That was like

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<v Speaker 2>the extent, and they would visit him once a year

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<v Speaker 2>and I got offered to go and I would be paid,

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<v Speaker 2>but I really thought about it, and the vibes were off.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, hell no, this guy sounds crazy and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be stuck in China. I'm good, wow like this, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she would like I felt like she had no one

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<v Speaker 2>else to talk to. I mean, she didn't really have friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I would offer to keep the kids over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, do you want like a weekend alone? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to go out go on dates? I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know something, because all she did was work and

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<v Speaker 2>then be with the kids. That's it. And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like she didn't have anyone to talk to about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's crazy because so fast forwarding to I'm already

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<v Speaker 2>back in the US two and a half years later,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like five months after I'm home. Oh shit, I

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't have said her name.

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<v Speaker 1>We can believe it out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she listens to this, but I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know who knows. But anyway, the little girl she messaged

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<v Speaker 2>me on Facebook, and her English was all weird and broken,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know she speaks perfect English, so I was confused,

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<v Speaker 2>and there was something about her mom and so I

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<v Speaker 2>messaged her uncle, her mom's brother, and was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>messaging me about her mom, Like what's up. And he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>her mom. I don't want to say her name. Her

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<v Speaker 2>mom died. She fell off a mountain.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, fell off a mountain.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>So crazy wow? Crazy. Yeah. So every year the whole

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<v Speaker 2>family would go to France to like ski and they

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<v Speaker 2>would just do rich people stuff for like a few weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>And I guess they were there and she said I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go on a hike by herself, which already is

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<v Speaker 2>a red flag because she never did that shit. She

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<v Speaker 2>always wanted the kids to like do that stuff with her.

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<v Speaker 2>And hours went by, it's getting dark, everyone's like where

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<v Speaker 2>is she? And they get a knock on the door

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like a mountain ranger and he has her

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<v Speaker 2>ID and it's like, you guys know this woman And

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<v Speaker 2>they said yeah, and they're like, we found her body

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<v Speaker 2>at the like the base of a mountain ship. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And obviously I never told anyone in their family this,

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<v Speaker 2>but I really think she killed herself just based on

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<v Speaker 2>like how how I don't know, I felt, how tormented

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<v Speaker 2>she was, she was, she had some she was she

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<v Speaker 2>was a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>So now I feel now, I feel now I feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad that I said she sounds like a cunt, honestly, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>right after honestly, right after I said it, I was like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't have said that.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh no, I've I've said those exact words, so not

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<v Speaker 2>even she sounds like she is. That's why I have

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<v Speaker 2>very conflicted feelings about her. I'm like, yeah, I hated her,

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<v Speaker 2>but I also felt bad for her. But I also

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't know, yeah, she it was a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, it was interesting because that job, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>that was the kind of job that would have me

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<v Speaker 2>wake up in the middle of the night like gasping

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm like, oh my god, I forgot to do whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And after I moved back home, I promised myself I

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<v Speaker 2>would never ever in my life, ever again have a

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<v Speaker 2>job that has me feeling like that. I'll never have

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<v Speaker 2>a job that I need to take work home, that

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<v Speaker 2>I need to stay after five or whatever that has

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<v Speaker 2>me thinking about work outside of work. Ever, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>care how much it pays, like it's not worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I haven't. I've turned down jobs that I thought

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<v Speaker 2>would be like that, and I think that served me.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a learning experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, you know, it's so life is so

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<v Speaker 1>complicated like that, because like this lady, it sounds like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, something fucked up happened to her, and so

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<v Speaker 1>she's like taking it out on everyone else and then

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<v Speaker 1>it ends with her fucking you know. Uh yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a it's a real yeah, that's that's a real tricky one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But at the same time, I was like twenty

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, this is a lot, Like I I

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<v Speaker 2>can't Yeah, I don't know. And I was just one person.

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened with your boyfriends? Like, what's that whole story?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? I mean, I don't know. We were together while

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<v Speaker 2>I was there. So actually the first it was interesting

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<v Speaker 2>because he and his friend had plans to come to

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<v Speaker 2>the US for a month and do like a little

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<v Speaker 2>US trip, and then I found out I got this

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<v Speaker 2>job in Denmark and when she hired me, she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I need you here in a week, So that was

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<v Speaker 2>pretty insane. I was actually living in LA at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>and it went from trying to find my bearings in

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<v Speaker 2>LA to oh my god, I have to move back

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<v Speaker 2>to my hometown to say goodbye. To my friends and

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<v Speaker 2>family because I'm going to be moving across the world

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<v Speaker 2>in one week and I don't know when.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll be back.

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<v Speaker 2>And the week that I moved to Denmark was the

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<v Speaker 2>same week my boyfriend at the time and his best

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<v Speaker 2>friend were coming to the US. So the whole first

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<v Speaker 2>month I was in Denmark, I knew nobody. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have my boyfriend there. He was here in the US,

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<v Speaker 2>so that was pretty crazy. But after that, I ended

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<v Speaker 2>up getting an apartment with my friend and then eventually

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<v Speaker 2>me and my boyfriend moved in together and it was cool,

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<v Speaker 2>and he came back with me when I had to

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<v Speaker 2>move back, because you know, you get a residence permit

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<v Speaker 2>as a no pairent. After so long, it expires and

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<v Speaker 2>then that's it. And I tried everything to stay in

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<v Speaker 2>Denmark everything. Denmark is like one of the hardest countries

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<v Speaker 2>in the world to get citizenships, and it doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 2>if I got married to my boyfriend, even it does

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<v Speaker 2>not guarantee me anything. And it's like a point system

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<v Speaker 2>out there, and if you don't reach a hundred points

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<v Speaker 2>then they're like, sorry, you're not good enough. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think being like a doctor or a lawyer, stuff like

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<v Speaker 2>that gets you like fifty points, like they want useful people,

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<v Speaker 2>which I can't blame him, I guess, But.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you guys broke up?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely. Yeah. He came back with me for like

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<v Speaker 2>two weeks or something, and it was fun like, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>all over California, European guy whatever. But at the end

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<v Speaker 2>of two weeks, it was like, okay, I mean what

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<v Speaker 2>we're not like, this isn't it's gonna work. There's just

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<v Speaker 2>no way. So, yeah, we broke up. I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really, I'm in California in the base.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I don't want to interrupt. You said you

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<v Speaker 1>still keep in touch with him?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't keep in touch with him, like

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<v Speaker 2>follow each other, and I still keep in touch with

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people from there that we are our

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<v Speaker 2>mutual friends, but like we all talk, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we're friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's life like nowadays in California?

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<v Speaker 5>It's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm married, no, and oh wow me and my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, I mean this is like ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh oh, this was all ten Oh okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't realize this was that long. Okay, So how old

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<v Speaker 1>are you now?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thirty four?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, okay, okay, so this is just like fourteen years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, well yeah, yeah, I guess whoa, No, fourteen

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<v Speaker 2>years Well yeah, I said you said you were twenty

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<v Speaker 2>ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was twenty when I went there, and then when

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<v Speaker 2>I came back home, I was like twenty three. But yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess eleven.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's crazy. Whoa Yeah, No, I'm married now. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's funny because when my ex came out here, we

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<v Speaker 2>went to a party and a bunch of my friends

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<v Speaker 2>were there and my friend Caleb was at the party,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm introducing my boyfriend to everyone. And later, like

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<v Speaker 2>days later or something, he's like, so, what's up with

0:19:17.160 --> 0:19:19.720
<v Speaker 2>you and Caleb? And I'm like, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, what's the history there? And I've known

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<v Speaker 2>Caleb since I was about fifteen. We've never had anything romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just friends. And he did not believe me, never

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<v Speaker 2>believed me. He always thought I was lying. And anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>that's my husband, Caleb.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I'm sorry, ing, hold on, I'm sorry, I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>that I didn't understand. Just now you're at Caleb is

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<v Speaker 1>the friend that you never did anything with or he's

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<v Speaker 1>your husband.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, both.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, oh okay, okay, So he ended up being

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<v Speaker 1>your husband?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like years later, years years later, we ended up

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<v Speaker 2>starting to date and then that's who I'm married to now.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's always the guy. It's always the guy she

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<v Speaker 1>tells you not to worry about. Yes, yeah, you married

0:20:11.720 --> 0:20:15.680
<v Speaker 1>the guy you told him not to worry about. That's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, literally, But but I was being honest there truly

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<v Speaker 2>never was I want this to be on the record,

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<v Speaker 2>There really never was anything between me and him until

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<v Speaker 2>years later. It was like, oh, but clearly he saw

0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:33.840
<v Speaker 2>something between us that we didn't see. I don't know

0:20:34.000 --> 0:20:35.560
<v Speaker 2>the chemistry. Who knows?

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<v Speaker 1>So in that gay how long? How long have you

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<v Speaker 1>known your husband?

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<v Speaker 2>For a long time? We met when I was about fifteen, Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>through mutual friends. He was in a band and my

0:20:47.800 --> 0:20:51.200
<v Speaker 2>friend was like, why is see this band tonight? And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we just had a ton of mutual friends

0:20:54.280 --> 0:20:57.240
<v Speaker 2>and have stayed friends. I have a lot of friends

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<v Speaker 2>from when I was about fifteen fourteen fifteen, we're I

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<v Speaker 2>have a lot of friends from that era and he's

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<v Speaker 2>one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>And what do you do now in California?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, my job.

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<v Speaker 2>Is so boring. It's not even I work for the state.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all that's worth mentioning. It's just a boring stage job.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's cushy. I mean, when you work for the state,

0:21:22.880 --> 0:21:26.040
<v Speaker 2>it's like impossible to get fired and you get like

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<v Speaker 2>retirement and all that shit.

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<v Speaker 1>So looking back on all this and like talking about

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<v Speaker 1>it right now, since it's been so long since, do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like your life worked out better having left

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<v Speaker 1>Denmark or do you ever think about what it would

0:21:42.480 --> 0:21:43.240
<v Speaker 1>be like if you s did?

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<v Speaker 2>I think sometimes I would think about it, but then

0:21:48.520 --> 0:21:50.679
<v Speaker 2>I would see, like what my ex is up to,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll be like, nah, Hellna, there's no way like

0:21:54.520 --> 0:22:02.720
<v Speaker 2>he's he just seems so like he doesn't know what

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<v Speaker 2>he has no direction in life. He just seems like

0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:09.959
<v Speaker 2>he's kind of flailing. And I wouldn't be down for that.

0:22:10.000 --> 0:22:12.880
<v Speaker 2>I'd want to be with someone that's more grounded, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it just it wouldn't have worked out anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Would it have been cool though, to live in Denmark?

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<v Speaker 2>Hell yeah, I would be stoked to live in Denmark,

0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:25.800
<v Speaker 2>But as far as being with my ex, I don't

0:22:25.800 --> 0:22:29.880
<v Speaker 2>think it would have lasted anyway. He's just I don't

0:22:29.920 --> 0:22:34.040
<v Speaker 2>know doing his thing, but yeah, I've thought about it,

0:22:34.080 --> 0:22:38.320
<v Speaker 2>but I think my life. I like my life now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I love my life. And we bought our first house

0:22:41.680 --> 0:22:46.520
<v Speaker 2>this year or last year, twenty twenty four. But yeah,

0:22:46.560 --> 0:22:49.359
<v Speaker 2>so I like how things turned out. I think it

0:22:49.400 --> 0:22:52.000
<v Speaker 2>was meant to be. I'm glad I had that experience

0:22:52.040 --> 0:22:55.680
<v Speaker 2>though out there. I mean, gave me a very good

0:22:55.760 --> 0:22:59.840
<v Speaker 2>work ethic for sure, and it made me like so

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<v Speaker 2>at boundaries for what I want in a job, what

0:23:05.440 --> 0:23:09.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm willing to put up with and say no to

0:23:09.520 --> 0:23:13.320
<v Speaker 2>and stuff. And yeah, I had like a cool experience

0:23:13.359 --> 0:23:16.560
<v Speaker 2>living in another country for a long time. And I

0:23:16.600 --> 0:23:19.560
<v Speaker 2>still understand a good amount of Danish, which is cool.

0:23:19.720 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 2>The language I don't know anyone that knows anything about.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, that was awesome. I'd recommend it to anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was gonna say, I'm gonna take if the chat,

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<v Speaker 1>if the live twitch chat watching wants to ask any questions,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give them a chance to put some questions in

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<v Speaker 1>the chat. Just real quick. This has absolutely nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>do This has literally nothing to do with any anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm looking at the twitch chat and somebody in

0:23:46.200 --> 0:23:50.600
<v Speaker 1>the chat wrote, damn the gecko got chunky. But there's

0:23:50.640 --> 0:23:53.440
<v Speaker 1>a little icon Hella ho on. There's a little icon

0:23:54.119 --> 0:23:57.200
<v Speaker 1>next to their name that says that they're that they're

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<v Speaker 1>only listening to the stream. They're not even watching what.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just know, I don't. I mean,

0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't give a shit. But I just

0:24:06.960 --> 0:24:11.560
<v Speaker 1>thought it was funny that they weren't even watching the stream. Okay,

0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:14.760
<v Speaker 1>somebody said, uh, was the food good there?

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<v Speaker 2>It was, okay, Honestly, it was kind of bland. It's

0:24:20.640 --> 0:24:25.520
<v Speaker 2>funny because they did not have any hot sauce out there.

0:24:25.720 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 2>Their hot sauce was tabasco. That's all they had. And

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<v Speaker 2>I came back to California one time for five days

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<v Speaker 2>and I brought HELLI shit back. They don't have corn

0:24:34.800 --> 0:24:38.440
<v Speaker 2>tortillas out there either, So I brought back corn tortillas.

0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:41.680
<v Speaker 2>I brought back a huge like you know, the giant

0:24:41.760 --> 0:24:44.359
<v Speaker 2>bottle top of TiO. I think two of them. And

0:24:44.520 --> 0:24:47.680
<v Speaker 2>I brought back like all these dried chili peppers. And

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:51.440
<v Speaker 2>I had a dinner party in my tiny ass apartment

0:24:51.960 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 2>and I made enchiladas and like rice and beans and

0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:58.960
<v Speaker 2>guacamole and all these things, and it was like they

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:01.640
<v Speaker 2>tasted flavor for the first time. The people I had

0:25:01.680 --> 0:25:04.600
<v Speaker 2>over they could it was like their minds were blown.

0:25:04.840 --> 0:25:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh and I brought back red vines. The only licorice

0:25:08.080 --> 0:25:11.280
<v Speaker 2>they have out there as black licorice and they love

0:25:11.359 --> 0:25:16.360
<v Speaker 2>that shit. And I brought back red vines and everyone

0:25:16.480 --> 0:25:19.640
<v Speaker 2>was like, wow, this this should tell a good But yeah,

0:25:19.680 --> 0:25:25.359
<v Speaker 2>all they eat out there is like pork and pickled fish.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I've maybe mentioned this on this podcast about two

0:25:30.119 --> 0:25:33.960
<v Speaker 1>hundred times. Did you go to seven eleven and did

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<v Speaker 1>you get the chicken on a stick there?

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<v Speaker 2>Hell? Yeah, that was my first experience with a nice

0:25:41.119 --> 0:25:44.080
<v Speaker 2>seven eleven. And I've been to Japan and like, obviously

0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:48.639
<v Speaker 2>that's like the seven eleven ever, But en Mark, I

0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:53.000
<v Speaker 2>didn't know seven elevens in other countries were good. I

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:56.600
<v Speaker 2>didn't know that was a thing. And what was interesting

0:25:56.640 --> 0:25:58.760
<v Speaker 2>to me out there too was the people behind the

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:01.359
<v Speaker 2>counter at two am, when you're waisted and going to

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<v Speaker 2>seven eleven to eat, are like teenagers. It's like teenager

0:26:05.720 --> 0:26:09.480
<v Speaker 2>guys and girls working seven eleven at two am in

0:26:09.560 --> 0:26:14.520
<v Speaker 2>a major city. That was insane to me. And the

0:26:14.560 --> 0:26:19.240
<v Speaker 2>fact that you could get hot food that's actually good. Yeah,

0:26:19.359 --> 0:26:24.200
<v Speaker 2>kicking kebabs and stuff, and that was my first experience

0:26:24.240 --> 0:26:27.240
<v Speaker 2>with that, and I thought, wow, why why can't we

0:26:27.320 --> 0:26:27.639
<v Speaker 2>have that?

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Somebody? So somebody asked, uh, okay, so when when that

0:26:33.640 --> 0:26:36.840
<v Speaker 1>girl messaged you for the first time in a while

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:40.240
<v Speaker 1>and her English was broken but you remember her having

0:26:40.280 --> 0:26:41.840
<v Speaker 1>good English? Do you do you? Did you ever figure

0:26:41.840 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 1>out why her English was broken? Like was it? Because

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 1>when you first said that, I was like, Oh, somebody's

0:26:46.280 --> 0:26:48.960
<v Speaker 1>messaging you through her account or something.

0:26:49.400 --> 0:26:51.679
<v Speaker 2>That's exactly what I thought. I thought she got was

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:54.720
<v Speaker 2>like hacked or something. I think she was distraught. I

0:26:54.720 --> 0:26:58.320
<v Speaker 2>think she was just messaging me while being distraught, which

0:26:58.359 --> 0:27:03.280
<v Speaker 2>is like to think about. But yeah, I think she

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:07.280
<v Speaker 2>was just probably I don't know, not thinking straight and

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 2>just getting out the first words she could think of

0:27:10.440 --> 0:27:14.000
<v Speaker 2>to put a sentence together. But yeah, that's my guess.

0:27:14.000 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 2>But I don't know. I didn't ask her, Probably never will.

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:21.600
<v Speaker 1>Somebody said, so, Denmark is known as like the happiest

0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:24.720
<v Speaker 1>country in the world. Having gone there, does that check

0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:25.159
<v Speaker 1>out to you?

0:27:28.760 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:34.280
<v Speaker 2>Kinda? Like I mean, I was broke as hell because

0:27:34.359 --> 0:27:36.840
<v Speaker 2>this lady was paying me and there was a minimum

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:40.000
<v Speaker 2>she had to pay, and she stayed at that minimum.

0:27:40.000 --> 0:27:44.400
<v Speaker 2>But out there, like I had friends that were working

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:47.760
<v Speaker 2>like in a grocery store, bagging groceries, and they made

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:51.240
<v Speaker 2>enough money to have their own apartment. And you know,

0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:54.760
<v Speaker 2>you get free education, free healthcare. And then on top

0:27:54.800 --> 0:27:56.359
<v Speaker 2>of that, if you go to school out there, the

0:27:56.400 --> 0:27:59.399
<v Speaker 2>government sends you a check every month. And I was like,

0:27:59.440 --> 0:28:02.320
<v Speaker 2>what is that four so like financial aid and they're

0:28:02.359 --> 0:28:05.679
<v Speaker 2>like no, it's literally the government being like, good for

0:28:05.760 --> 0:28:08.400
<v Speaker 2>you for going to school, thank you, here's a reward,

0:28:08.440 --> 0:28:12.640
<v Speaker 2>here's a check, keep it up now. And people pay

0:28:12.640 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 2>their rent and shit with that. And but speaking of

0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 2>free healthcare, I got hit by a car while living

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:21.600
<v Speaker 2>in Denmark while riding my bike and that free healthcare

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:25.840
<v Speaker 2>really kicked in for me. And they got pneumonia while

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:27.159
<v Speaker 2>I lived out there, and I thought I was going

0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:28.320
<v Speaker 2>to die.

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:32.040
<v Speaker 1>So one person help said. One person said, what were

0:28:32.080 --> 0:28:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the people there like? And then another person said, are

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:36.520
<v Speaker 1>the people they're boring?

0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:42.000
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think they're boring. They're really interesting, and

0:28:43.640 --> 0:28:47.600
<v Speaker 2>there were for the most part. They spoke English. Weirdly,

0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 2>my ex spoke the best English. I mean, he founded

0:28:51.280 --> 0:28:54.400
<v Speaker 2>American when you would talk to him, and I asked

0:28:54.480 --> 0:28:56.400
<v Speaker 2>him how his English was so good, and he said

0:28:56.400 --> 0:29:00.520
<v Speaker 2>from playing online video games for so many years and

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:03.080
<v Speaker 2>so a lot of the people I spoke with it

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:06.080
<v Speaker 2>would be like very broken English. But I mean I

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 2>got to know a lot of people, and no, they

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:13.480
<v Speaker 2>weren't boring. They're really cool. And what was the other question?

0:29:14.720 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Uh, just like what the people are like in general?

0:29:19.000 --> 0:29:23.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh, they were cool. But man, I felt so ugly

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:24.800
<v Speaker 2>living out there.

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:27.120
<v Speaker 1>Like people there are very beautiful.

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, everyone is like at least five eight five nine,

0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 2>like girls, just everyone and very beautiful blonde hair like.

0:29:39.880 --> 0:29:43.440
<v Speaker 2>Everyone looks like a model, and I'm Hella shore brown

0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:46.200
<v Speaker 2>hair like. I don't look like a model. I don't know.

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:51.080
<v Speaker 2>So everyone's gorgeous, and I felt very ugly.

0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:56.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm really I'm really glad to hear that everything worked

0:29:56.840 --> 0:29:59.560
<v Speaker 1>out so well for you. I appreciate you taking all

0:29:59.600 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 1>this time to tell us your life story. I feel like, again,

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:05.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, I always talk about this like my favorite.

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 1>I really enjoy talking to you because, like the I

0:30:09.880 --> 0:30:13.800
<v Speaker 1>like hearing about people's like life experience and you know,

0:30:13.840 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>how things take twists and turns and work out and

0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:21.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of unconventional ways. And I'm sure they'll be at

0:30:21.080 --> 0:30:24.320
<v Speaker 1>least a person or too who listens to your story

0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 1>and maybe it gives them some kind of context for

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.400
<v Speaker 1>their own life story of some kind. So I appreciate

0:30:31.440 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 1>you sharing. Is there? I guess you know? Before we go?

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 1>Is there any other like aspect of anything you wanted

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:39.320
<v Speaker 1>to talk about or anything you want to say? Any

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:42.120
<v Speaker 1>any any The floor is yours before we go. If

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:45.640
<v Speaker 1>there's anything else, Oh, man.

0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:47.320
<v Speaker 2>There is something else I want to talk about. But

0:30:47.400 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 2>it's almost seven and I'm supposed to meet my friend

0:30:50.360 --> 0:30:54.680
<v Speaker 2>at seven thirty for dinner. So no, But can I

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:56.120
<v Speaker 2>can I shout out my band?

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Please? What's your band?

0:30:59.720 --> 0:31:05.720
<v Speaker 2>Were called night School and our Instagram is night School Band,

0:31:06.120 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 2>and shed give us a follow where Actually we just

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:14.960
<v Speaker 2>finished recording, aren't ep so we'll be releasing your music

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:16.800
<v Speaker 2>soon And if you live in the Bay Area, we

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 2>play shows.

0:31:17.680 --> 0:31:20.160
<v Speaker 1>So oh, look at you got a blue check mark?

0:31:20.200 --> 0:31:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Look at that?

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're official?

0:31:24.680 --> 0:31:27.280
<v Speaker 1>Pretty cool, pretty cool? What kind of music is this you?

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I guess there's no. That was a stupid question to

0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 1>ask over the phone. But is this how many? Is

0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 1>there four or four people in the band?

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:42.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I actually just made a shirt today for merch.

0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:45.080
<v Speaker 2>I was like painting with bleach and it turned out

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:45.640
<v Speaker 2>pretty sick.

0:31:46.120 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 1>So yuess all right, cool man, what got it? What

0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:49.400
<v Speaker 1>kind of what kind of music?

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 1>Play? Oh?

0:31:52.400 --> 0:31:52.600
<v Speaker 4>Man?

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:56.440
<v Speaker 2>I never the best way to describe it, I guess

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 2>is shoe gaze. I never know what are like kind

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:02.120
<v Speaker 2>of Jean to describe us as. But I mean we're

0:32:02.120 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 2>on all like streaming platforms and stuff, so you can

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 2>listen to us anywhere.

0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 1>Ooh, you guys have a show? You have a show?

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Can I talk? Can I shout out your show? Yeah?

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah in a couple of weeks.

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:18.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, Yeah, you got a show in San Francisco

0:32:18.720 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 1>on January twenty third. That sounds cool, just like all

0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:25.120
<v Speaker 1>like the Yeah, I'm just scrolling through the Instagram. I'm like,

0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 1>all right, I gotta check out this band. This looks cool.

0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:32.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, check us out. And when you're here, I mean,

0:32:32.440 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 2>if we're playing, come see us. But yeah, if you

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:35.960
<v Speaker 2>come here again, I do want to go to your show.

0:32:36.240 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 2>I actually had tickets to one of your San Francisco

0:32:38.480 --> 0:32:41.280
<v Speaker 2>shows and I ended up like not being able to go,

0:32:41.320 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 2>and I, yeah, I just have the tickets. I don't know.

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:48.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't have any friends that listen to you. Which

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 2>is sad, but I talk you up all the time.

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 2>I tell people about you and they're like, Therapy, get go,

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:57.160
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, no, just listen, you just gotta listen.

0:32:57.880 --> 0:33:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Well, thanks man. Hopefully I'm returning the favor with the

0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 1>by shouting out Nights School. I'm sure you'll get some

0:33:04.080 --> 0:33:08.000
<v Speaker 1>some Gecko people in there. Yeah, let me know if

0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:10.000
<v Speaker 1>anyone shows up. Let me know if anyone shows up

0:33:10.000 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 1>to your show, and it's like I heard about you

0:33:11.440 --> 0:33:12.440
<v Speaker 1>on the Gecko podcast.

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:15.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh dude, yeah, hell yeah, yeah, if you come to

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:18.520
<v Speaker 2>our show, I mean, you won't know which person I am,

0:33:18.600 --> 0:33:21.600
<v Speaker 2>but come up to one of us and just ask

0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:26.040
<v Speaker 2>if you you know I talked on Arapy Get Go?

0:33:26.200 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, what's your name again?

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 2>My love? Oh?

0:33:31.960 --> 0:33:35.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I forgot about that all right, all right,

0:33:36.080 --> 0:33:41.880
<v Speaker 1>my love, thank you for calling. Okay, right, all right,

0:33:41.920 --> 0:33:44.040
<v Speaker 1>thanks for calling man, Thanks for sharing your story, and

0:33:44.360 --> 0:33:45.040
<v Speaker 1>good luck dog.

0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:46.000
<v Speaker 2>Thanks you too.

0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:46.520
<v Speaker 3>Bye.

0:33:47.560 --> 0:33:52.040
<v Speaker 1>That was cool. I like that. I liked that story. Yeah, dude,

0:33:52.360 --> 0:33:55.880
<v Speaker 1>that's a that's a that's a crazy twisty turney tail

0:33:56.240 --> 0:33:59.200
<v Speaker 1>right there. It's a crazy twisty turney tail right there.

0:33:59.200 --> 0:34:01.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna check this out Night's School band. That sounds cool.

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Hey man, what's your name? Uh?

0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:05.920
<v Speaker 3>If you want, you can give me a name.

0:34:05.960 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 1>I like when you do that, cool, I'll call you.

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Uh uh Stacy, Stacy.

0:34:10.719 --> 0:34:11.239
<v Speaker 2>I like that.

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:12.960
<v Speaker 1>What's going on, Stacy?

0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:14.120
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:34:14.239 --> 0:34:17.120
<v Speaker 3>Not much right now. I'm just hanging out my house.

0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:20.320
<v Speaker 3>Not much going on. Just watch my roommate play Minecraft.

0:34:21.040 --> 0:34:24.799
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything you wanted to talk about today, Stacy? Oh?

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:30.160
<v Speaker 3>Nothing really super in particular. There's a few, like not

0:34:30.280 --> 0:34:32.880
<v Speaker 3>so serious things and more serious things. You go like

0:34:33.239 --> 0:34:35.600
<v Speaker 3>with like a not so serious type question if you want.

0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Dear God, please please please. I'm begging, I beg you

0:34:40.080 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 1>please give me a not serious question.

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.520
<v Speaker 3>Okay, So something I've been thinking about a lot recently

0:34:45.560 --> 0:34:48.120
<v Speaker 3>because like Taco Bell has like brought back some of

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 3>their old discontinued items. Yeah, just like old discontinued items

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:54.400
<v Speaker 3>that I really really like because I love the caramel

0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:56.160
<v Speaker 3>apple and panada. I don't know if you've ever had that,

0:34:56.880 --> 0:35:00.480
<v Speaker 3>but that is literally my dad old, give that.

0:35:00.520 --> 0:35:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Stop me stop stop. What the what the fuck is

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:11.920
<v Speaker 1>a caramel apple and panada?

0:35:12.080 --> 0:35:13.440
<v Speaker 3>You've never had that before?

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:14.799
<v Speaker 1>You're lying to me.

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:18.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm not lying to you. Okay, okay, okay, do you

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:20.720
<v Speaker 3>remember like when McDonald used to have like the fried

0:35:20.800 --> 0:35:25.799
<v Speaker 3>apple pies. Yeah, it's it's it's like that. It's it's

0:35:25.840 --> 0:35:28.960
<v Speaker 3>like that basically. It's like so good. It's it's amazing.

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:31.319
<v Speaker 3>It's just like like an apple pie type filling and

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:33.440
<v Speaker 3>then they fry it. I mean, I don't know if

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:35.080
<v Speaker 3>they actually fry it, but it's like it's it's like

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 3>a fried type texture.

0:35:36.520 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 1>And this is a Taco Bell item.

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:42.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right now. They brought it back for a limited time.

0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:44.840
<v Speaker 3>It used to be like around more like in the

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:46.080
<v Speaker 3>two thousands and stuff.

0:35:46.640 --> 0:35:52.399
<v Speaker 1>Jamie, pull up caramel Apple and Panada. It's so good.

0:35:52.480 --> 0:35:54.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, yeah, I'm looking at it right now.

0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:59.759
<v Speaker 1>That's insane USA. Today Taco Bells Caramel a Panada is

0:36:00.040 --> 0:36:04.279
<v Speaker 1>Caramel Apple and Panada is back. What the fuck? Oh

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:07.359
<v Speaker 1>my god, Yeah, this is real. I've never heard of this.

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 1>That's crazy.

0:36:09.360 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I'm telling you you're missing out.

0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:14.480
<v Speaker 1>WHOA.

0:36:14.880 --> 0:36:18.239
<v Speaker 3>As a kid, every time I would be begging my dad,

0:36:18.280 --> 0:36:20.759
<v Speaker 3>I was like, please, please, please, can I get a

0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:23.600
<v Speaker 3>caramel and plump caramel apple epanat I'm struggling.

0:36:25.840 --> 0:36:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Wow, okay, okay, so go ahead. What is it about

0:36:32.200 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 1>the caramel apple and panada.

0:36:36.239 --> 0:36:37.880
<v Speaker 3>Like, what is it that makes it so amazing?

0:36:38.000 --> 0:36:40.160
<v Speaker 1>Or sorry? I thought you said I thought you said

0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:41.799
<v Speaker 1>you had a not sorry. I thought you said you

0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:43.840
<v Speaker 1>had a not serious question. I thought there was a

0:36:43.920 --> 0:36:48.000
<v Speaker 1>question about the.

0:36:47.560 --> 0:36:49.560
<v Speaker 3>Well, my question was gonna be if there was any

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:53.040
<v Speaker 3>discontinued fast food item that you like, hold near and

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:54.719
<v Speaker 3>dear to your heart that you really want to see

0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 3>come back.

0:36:55.640 --> 0:37:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh man, um m mmm, I'm trying to think here, dude,

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:12.000
<v Speaker 1>not really like all my favorites are so oh oh wait,

0:37:12.080 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I actually do an answer. Do they still have the

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:16.360
<v Speaker 1>case so rito? Dude?

0:37:16.360 --> 0:37:20.239
<v Speaker 3>No? They okay, okay, they's answer kind they get them

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:22.160
<v Speaker 3>to make You can kind of get them to make

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 3>it though. I have a friend who works at Taco

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:25.239
<v Speaker 3>Bell and he taught me the hack.

0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:27.839
<v Speaker 1>What like the hack is you want to beg them

0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:30.239
<v Speaker 1>to Is it just you beg them to wrap a

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:31.439
<v Speaker 1>burrito in a case of dia.

0:37:31.760 --> 0:37:33.719
<v Speaker 3>You can literally, like if you do it on the app,

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:35.880
<v Speaker 3>you can customize one of their items to make it

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:37.279
<v Speaker 3>so it's basically a case rito.

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Whoa, that's pretty cool.

0:37:41.080 --> 0:37:43.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you do the five layer burrito, take the

0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:46.040
<v Speaker 3>fucking beans off of that because the beans are terrible

0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:48.239
<v Speaker 3>and they don't go into the case. So Rito take

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:53.360
<v Speaker 3>those off, add the spicy like Chipotle sauce that they have,

0:37:53.920 --> 0:37:56.880
<v Speaker 3>and then you add rice and have them grill it

0:37:56.920 --> 0:37:57.319
<v Speaker 3>at the case.

0:37:57.360 --> 0:38:02.240
<v Speaker 1>So Rito, Man, there are enough ads in this podcast already,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is fully I just want people to know.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not like a sponsored segment. I just genuinely

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<v Speaker 1>take a lot of joy in talking about Taco Bell.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I absolutely love Taco.

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<v Speaker 1>Bell when I and I also and also by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>just to just to just to even reiterate the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that this is not sponsored. I I act, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this right now, I actively suggest that you

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<v Speaker 1>never ever ever go to Taco Bell for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. I really think, like if you were

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<v Speaker 1>to ask me, no, if you were to ask me,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you if you were to ask me to

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<v Speaker 1>describe the day in a life of a happy, healthy

0:38:48.960 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 1>human being, nowhere in that day does it involve them

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<v Speaker 1>going to Taco Bell. So I enjoy eating Taco Bell,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about it, but I don't I can't in

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<v Speaker 1>good conscious or faith recommend anyone ever go there and

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<v Speaker 1>eat any of the food there.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I get it, but it also makes me

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<v Speaker 3>sad to hear you say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why did hold on? Why does that make you? Said?

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<v Speaker 3>I go to Taco Belle, I mean at least three

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<v Speaker 3>times a week usually, so I mean, yeahs at least

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<v Speaker 3>three days out of my week are not happy days

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<v Speaker 3>according to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, I don't know. We what's your definition

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<v Speaker 1>of happiness?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? I mean, honestly, for me, it's like if I

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<v Speaker 3>if I get something done in the day that makes

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<v Speaker 3>me like I feel like I did something good for

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<v Speaker 3>someone else or something in the world. At least I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I've I've done something to have me have

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<v Speaker 3>like a good happy day. Okay, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>that's just me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you're gonna get to that, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>But Taco Bell will be over reward if I do

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<v Speaker 3>something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, sure, sure, Look I'm just being Look here's thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I also like. I eating a lot of Taco Bell

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<v Speaker 1>makes me really happy, but it also makes me feel

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<v Speaker 1>like shit as eating fast food. I'm not trying, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I'm not trying to be like a dick

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<v Speaker 1>about any of this. I'm just this is just realistic.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just a realistic balance.

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<v Speaker 3>So honestly, I should definitely not.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, Like I here's the thing is, like, I what's

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<v Speaker 1>because a hypocrite is somebody who like talks about doing

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<v Speaker 1>something that they would like I'm not. I'm trying not

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<v Speaker 1>to be a hypocrite, but like there's a different word

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<v Speaker 1>maybe of like I eat a lot, like eating a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of taco bell. I enjoy it, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>You're yeah, like basically like you yourself do it, but you're

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<v Speaker 3>not recommending it to other people, and you know yourself

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<v Speaker 3>that it's not the best thing to be doing it,

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<v Speaker 3>but you get the enjoyment out of it, so you're gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it, right. It's like a being it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>reverse hypocrite.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know what the word for that would be,

0:40:58.880 --> 0:41:00.640
<v Speaker 3>but there definitely should your word for that.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, what was the other thing you wanted to say?

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<v Speaker 1>You said you had a couple of not serious things

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe one serious thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, I mean, like, I don't know, I know you,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how much you smoke, but I smoke.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm trying to, like like weed, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>get down on it. But like I just don't really

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<v Speaker 3>know the best. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you have any tips or anything

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<v Speaker 3>on that. I don't know how much you smoke.

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<v Speaker 1>I probably yeah. I mean, you know, we talked about this.

0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:33.399
<v Speaker 1>We've talked about this a bunch of times. I yeah,

0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:37.120
<v Speaker 1>probably smoked weed every day. I like it, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>I I put it on the same level as taco bell.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, is it a doctor recommended? Probably not? Probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know, You'll be fine. Maybe, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I don't. I mean, I'm so what's your

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<v Speaker 1>name again?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, had you get oh? Froh?

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy? Stacy. I'm so sorry, Stacy, but I can't have this.

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:04.799
<v Speaker 1>I can't have a conversation every podcast about smoking weed

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<v Speaker 1>every time.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, you're all good. I just yeah, no, I

0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 3>get it. I get it. I mean that's about I

0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:11.040
<v Speaker 3>talk about talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you expect?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, Well, I'm I'm happy for you. That the

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<v Speaker 1>the thank you for ruining my life by telling me

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<v Speaker 1>about the caramel apple and Panada. I will definitely be

0:42:23.520 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 1>trying you do try it.

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<v Speaker 3>Please talk about it sometime after you try it on

0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:29.920
<v Speaker 3>like maybe one of the like nail Gag episodes or

0:42:29.960 --> 0:42:30.520
<v Speaker 3>something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise, I promise you, Stacy, if I ever eat this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna tell anyone. This is this will absolutely

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:41.960
<v Speaker 1>this will absolutely be a secret thing that I do.

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:43.320
<v Speaker 1>If I end up doing.

0:42:43.160 --> 0:42:45.200
<v Speaker 3>It, it will be life changing though, if you ever

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<v Speaker 3>do try it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just telling you, Stacy. Is there anything else you

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<v Speaker 1>want to say it to the people of the computer

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<v Speaker 1>before we go?

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<v Speaker 3>No, Uh, just thanks for talking to me. It was awesome.

0:42:54.719 --> 0:42:55.359
<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone keeps trying and calling. I've tried a lot and

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<v Speaker 3>I finally got it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah, take care of you too.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi, I'm Frank, Frank Yo.

0:43:06.320 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? What's up?

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<v Speaker 4>I actually, I literally just I was hanging out with

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<v Speaker 4>my friends and we were watching the Lions Vikings football

0:43:15.800 --> 0:43:18.480
<v Speaker 4>game and I saw you were streaming and I was like, Yo, guys,

0:43:18.560 --> 0:43:21.759
<v Speaker 4>I gotta fucking go like tonight, tonight, I'm calling the

0:43:21.840 --> 0:43:24.440
<v Speaker 4>gak it's happening. And they were like, no, Frank, you

0:43:24.480 --> 0:43:26.960
<v Speaker 4>gotta stay for the game. Stay for the game. And

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, the game, like it right, thank you.

0:43:31.480 --> 0:43:31.840
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:43:31.840 --> 0:43:34.760
<v Speaker 4>I'm not a huge like football fan, like go birds.

0:43:34.760 --> 0:43:37.800
<v Speaker 4>And all, but you know, like I don't know, football

0:43:37.840 --> 0:43:40.560
<v Speaker 4>is not my vibe. So Gabe, I was like, I

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:41.839
<v Speaker 4>gotta try and.

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<v Speaker 1>Call when you say now, when you say go birds,

0:43:45.040 --> 0:43:47.359
<v Speaker 1>what what? What game is this? What game is on?

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<v Speaker 4>It's the Detroit Lions and the Vikings. But I'm from Philly,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's always cool time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I I remember when the Eagles won the

0:43:59.560 --> 0:44:04.160
<v Speaker 1>Super Bowl in twenty eighteen, everyone stormed the city and

0:44:04.239 --> 0:44:06.200
<v Speaker 1>like I was in Philly at the time, and everyone

0:44:06.360 --> 0:44:07.560
<v Speaker 1>it stormed the city.

0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 4>I went, Yeah, I was in high school at the time,

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:12.799
<v Speaker 4>and I went to the parade and that was like

0:44:12.840 --> 0:44:16.360
<v Speaker 4>the first time I ever day drank. Like I was

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 4>a theater kid in high school, so it was a

0:44:18.080 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 4>big thing for me to even go to the gate.

0:44:20.719 --> 0:44:23.360
<v Speaker 4>Like everybody was like, let's go to the parade, and

0:44:23.400 --> 0:44:25.359
<v Speaker 4>I was like, I don't watch football, but like I guess,

0:44:25.360 --> 0:44:27.960
<v Speaker 4>and I begged my mom. I was like, Mom, everybody's

0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:28.640
<v Speaker 4>taking the train.

0:44:29.080 --> 0:44:30.960
<v Speaker 2>It'll be it'll be super safe, Like we're.

0:44:30.800 --> 0:44:32.960
<v Speaker 4>Going to ride the train together. And we had rehearsal

0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:36.040
<v Speaker 4>that day and we all got so trashed, like showed

0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 4>up to rehearsal kind of hungover. It was so fun,

0:44:38.760 --> 0:44:42.319
<v Speaker 4>like most insane day of my life. Well, actually that's

0:44:42.320 --> 0:44:44.360
<v Speaker 4>a lie. That's a lie, but it was.

0:44:44.400 --> 0:44:45.120
<v Speaker 2>It was pretty lit.

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:47.480
<v Speaker 3>It was pretty lit, so franky fun.

0:44:48.000 --> 0:44:49.520
<v Speaker 1>What is it you wanted to talk about today?

0:44:51.520 --> 0:44:54.359
<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I don't know. Well, I have a few things

0:44:54.400 --> 0:44:56.600
<v Speaker 4>on my mind, and one of them is kind of stupid.

0:44:56.640 --> 0:45:00.160
<v Speaker 4>But I just have wanted your opinion because I don't know.

0:45:00.239 --> 0:45:03.399
<v Speaker 4>You're a guy, and I feel like you'll be able

0:45:03.480 --> 0:45:07.160
<v Speaker 4>to like give me just the opinion. I broke up

0:45:07.239 --> 0:45:09.719
<v Speaker 4>with my ex, all right, let's just start there. I

0:45:09.840 --> 0:45:15.600
<v Speaker 4>met the most wonderful guy this summer after a really

0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:16.719
<v Speaker 4>horrible relationship.

0:45:16.760 --> 0:45:17.759
<v Speaker 2>I was dating.

0:45:17.480 --> 0:45:20.600
<v Speaker 4>Somebody who I met my freshman year of college. I

0:45:20.640 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 4>actually moved out of the country to be with him.

0:45:22.800 --> 0:45:24.520
<v Speaker 4>I dropped out of college. I did a whole like

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:26.440
<v Speaker 4>I really just like up ended my life to be

0:45:26.520 --> 0:45:30.359
<v Speaker 4>with this guy, and I like was down bad. I

0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:32.279
<v Speaker 4>was in love with him, I got a dog. We

0:45:32.280 --> 0:45:33.759
<v Speaker 4>were like doing the thing. I was in a whole

0:45:33.760 --> 0:45:36.040
<v Speaker 4>nother I was. I was living in Puerto Rico. It

0:45:36.080 --> 0:45:39.480
<v Speaker 4>was beautiful, and we broke up for well, he dumped

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:41.719
<v Speaker 4>me like four years ago, and it's been a really

0:45:41.800 --> 0:45:44.200
<v Speaker 4>long time. Like getting back into the dating scene. And

0:45:44.480 --> 0:45:47.359
<v Speaker 4>this past summer, I met this guy, such a nice guy,

0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:51.640
<v Speaker 4>like truly so nice, but I just had a feeling

0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:53.240
<v Speaker 4>from the beginning. I was like, I don't know, something

0:45:53.320 --> 0:45:57.080
<v Speaker 4>just seems off, like and I think I don't know.

0:45:57.719 --> 0:45:59.480
<v Speaker 4>I like told him from the get go too, I

0:45:59.480 --> 0:46:02.160
<v Speaker 4>was like, I'm worried I'm gonna break your heart, like

0:46:02.360 --> 0:46:04.960
<v Speaker 4>this is the first healthy relationship I've been in, and

0:46:05.000 --> 0:46:08.120
<v Speaker 4>like something just doesn't seem right. And he always he knew,

0:46:08.160 --> 0:46:10.000
<v Speaker 4>like right away, he was like, I want kids, I

0:46:10.080 --> 0:46:12.719
<v Speaker 4>want to get married. I'm gonna like I just love

0:46:12.800 --> 0:46:14.800
<v Speaker 4>having like a white like the idea of a wife,

0:46:14.840 --> 0:46:16.480
<v Speaker 4>and like I don't know, that's just like not me.

0:46:17.200 --> 0:46:20.160
<v Speaker 4>And it felt like a lot. And then for a

0:46:20.200 --> 0:46:23.279
<v Speaker 4>while everything was going really great and I just I

0:46:23.320 --> 0:46:27.080
<v Speaker 4>don't know, I think I broke his heart. Like we

0:46:27.080 --> 0:46:31.160
<v Speaker 4>were everything was great and he would hang out with

0:46:31.160 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 4>my friends and they all got along, but like I

0:46:32.920 --> 0:46:35.279
<v Speaker 4>would go home and I just knew, like something wasn't right,

0:46:36.160 --> 0:46:38.439
<v Speaker 4>and I think part of it is like I mean

0:46:38.880 --> 0:46:41.040
<v Speaker 4>I don't really care like what people have going on,

0:46:41.080 --> 0:46:42.759
<v Speaker 4>but I'm pretty sure I'm kind of gay. And that

0:46:42.960 --> 0:46:45.360
<v Speaker 4>was like something that wasn't fair to like him to

0:46:45.440 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 4>like be in the middle of you know what I mean,

0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:49.279
<v Speaker 4>How am I supposed to figure out like my own

0:46:49.280 --> 0:46:52.839
<v Speaker 4>shit when I have a boyfriend who's like very monogamous

0:46:52.880 --> 0:46:55.520
<v Speaker 4>and like, does that make sense? I?

0:46:55.920 --> 0:46:59.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, yes, Sorry, I feel.

0:46:59.640 --> 0:47:01.800
<v Speaker 4>Like I'm going so hard right now.

0:47:01.600 --> 0:47:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Like oh no, no, no, no.

0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:07.520
<v Speaker 4>That I'm like, literally I feel like I'm screaming at

0:47:07.520 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 4>you right now.

0:47:09.440 --> 0:47:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Tell your story.

0:47:11.560 --> 0:47:15.400
<v Speaker 4>So anyways, we dated for not even that long, like

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:17.839
<v Speaker 4>after like a month, he told me he loved me,

0:47:17.920 --> 0:47:19.919
<v Speaker 4>like it was just it was very fast. I met

0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:23.239
<v Speaker 4>his family like and it was so nice. But the

0:47:23.280 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 4>whole time, I knew in the back of my head,

0:47:25.280 --> 0:47:27.840
<v Speaker 4>like this guy's so into you and you don't know

0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:30.920
<v Speaker 4>what you want to do, and like it all felt

0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:33.799
<v Speaker 4>it felt not fair to like be with somebody who

0:47:33.840 --> 0:47:36.000
<v Speaker 4>cared so much about me when I didn't know what

0:47:36.080 --> 0:47:38.279
<v Speaker 4>I wanted to do, and it felt like I was

0:47:38.360 --> 0:47:41.520
<v Speaker 4>dragging him along, and like, truly, I have never had

0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:43.640
<v Speaker 4>somebody treat me like that, and I just the whole

0:47:43.640 --> 0:47:46.200
<v Speaker 4>time knew it wasn't right. And we had like the

0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:49.719
<v Speaker 4>most amazing weekend. We went to like october Fest with

0:47:49.760 --> 0:47:53.759
<v Speaker 4>my friends, and I was so like sick knowing that

0:47:53.840 --> 0:47:56.320
<v Speaker 4>it wasn't the right fit for me, that I couldn't

0:47:56.320 --> 0:47:58.680
<v Speaker 4>even be alone, Like my anxiety was just eating at

0:47:58.719 --> 0:48:01.719
<v Speaker 4>me every day, and all my family and friends were

0:48:01.760 --> 0:48:05.040
<v Speaker 4>like yourself sabotaging, Like you've never had somebody be this

0:48:05.200 --> 0:48:06.759
<v Speaker 4>nice to you, and now he's like so nice to

0:48:06.840 --> 0:48:08.800
<v Speaker 4>you that you're trying to ruin it. But like I knew,

0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:12.839
<v Speaker 4>like I feel like you know when you really want

0:48:12.840 --> 0:48:14.719
<v Speaker 4>to be with somebody, and like I wanted it to

0:48:14.800 --> 0:48:16.760
<v Speaker 4>work so bad, but I felt like I was playing

0:48:16.800 --> 0:48:19.560
<v Speaker 4>straight and like being somebody I wasn't. And I just

0:48:19.600 --> 0:48:21.200
<v Speaker 4>woke up one morning and was like I have to

0:48:21.320 --> 0:48:25.200
<v Speaker 4>end it, like and it was so hard. I felt horrible.

0:48:25.239 --> 0:48:26.840
<v Speaker 4>He called me that morning and was like, let's go

0:48:26.920 --> 0:48:29.120
<v Speaker 4>take the dogs for a walk, because like our dogs

0:48:29.120 --> 0:48:31.840
<v Speaker 4>were friends. It was really sweet, and I just I

0:48:32.040 --> 0:48:34.200
<v Speaker 4>packed up all this stuff and I met him outside

0:48:34.239 --> 0:48:36.640
<v Speaker 4>and I made him come to my car, and I

0:48:36.680 --> 0:48:39.080
<v Speaker 4>feel like I broke his heart and like he cried,

0:48:39.120 --> 0:48:41.200
<v Speaker 4>like it was just it was a lot, like I

0:48:42.200 --> 0:48:44.879
<v Speaker 4>feel horrible, and I like tried to make it make

0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:47.640
<v Speaker 4>sense to him, and I was like listen, like you're

0:48:47.680 --> 0:48:50.120
<v Speaker 4>so great, and you're so wonderful, and like.

0:48:50.960 --> 0:48:53.040
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like I have.

0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:57.360
<v Speaker 4>Been trying really hard to make this work, but like

0:48:57.400 --> 0:48:59.439
<v Speaker 4>you deserve somebody that wants to be in the same

0:48:59.440 --> 0:49:02.479
<v Speaker 4>boat as you, And like I just felt horrible because

0:49:02.520 --> 0:49:05.799
<v Speaker 4>he was trying so hard to like make it work too.

0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:08.040
<v Speaker 4>He was like, oh, do whatever you want, like we can,

0:49:08.120 --> 0:49:09.480
<v Speaker 4>and I was like, no, that's not the thing. Like

0:49:09.520 --> 0:49:12.120
<v Speaker 4>I want you to be happy with whoever you're gonna

0:49:12.160 --> 0:49:14.239
<v Speaker 4>be with. And I guess what I'm worried about now

0:49:14.360 --> 0:49:17.279
<v Speaker 4>is that I've just like broke his heart and like,

0:49:17.960 --> 0:49:20.600
<v Speaker 4>would you hate that person like down the line, like

0:49:20.640 --> 0:49:22.320
<v Speaker 4>if you thought about it and somebody broke up with

0:49:22.360 --> 0:49:24.080
<v Speaker 4>you because they were like, hey, we have so much

0:49:24.080 --> 0:49:27.319
<v Speaker 4>fun and like this all seems so perfect, but like

0:49:27.760 --> 0:49:30.400
<v Speaker 4>you just it's not the right fit. Like do you

0:49:30.440 --> 0:49:32.279
<v Speaker 4>think you would hate that person down the line or

0:49:32.280 --> 0:49:34.560
<v Speaker 4>do you think you look back on it and be like, Yeah,

0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:38.160
<v Speaker 4>that sucked. That really sucked. I wish that it worked out,

0:49:38.200 --> 0:49:40.680
<v Speaker 4>but I'm also glad that they did that because now

0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:43.800
<v Speaker 4>I can find somebody that I feel the same way about.

0:49:44.560 --> 0:49:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't I really don't think you did this guy wrong.

0:49:49.120 --> 0:49:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I really agree with the way that you're looking at it,

0:49:52.960 --> 0:49:57.680
<v Speaker 1>because if you had a gut feeling about this relationship,

0:49:58.160 --> 0:50:00.960
<v Speaker 1>and if you were to just continue to ignore your

0:50:01.040 --> 0:50:05.640
<v Speaker 1>gut feeling over and over and over again until until

0:50:05.640 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 1>it got too late, right and you were like married

0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:10.480
<v Speaker 1>and had a kid with this guy. Yeah, no, you

0:50:10.480 --> 0:50:13.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't do this guy. I think you did the right thing. Yeah,

0:50:13.800 --> 0:50:14.080
<v Speaker 1>it was.

0:50:14.280 --> 0:50:16.120
<v Speaker 4>It was to the point where I felt so bad

0:50:16.200 --> 0:50:18.760
<v Speaker 4>that I was like trying to force myself to stay

0:50:18.960 --> 0:50:21.680
<v Speaker 4>and I was I was like, I'll just get pregnant.

0:50:21.280 --> 0:50:22.760
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, it's terrible.

0:50:22.920 --> 0:50:26.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like everything, like We'll just I'll make it work,

0:50:27.040 --> 0:50:31.359
<v Speaker 4>Like I'll be like I'll be his stay out Like no,

0:50:31.520 --> 0:50:34.839
<v Speaker 4>like that is just not that's just not okay, okay, cool,

0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:37.120
<v Speaker 4>Well I need to make sure.

0:50:37.760 --> 0:50:41.239
<v Speaker 1>Well it's an interesting No, it's an interesting it's like

0:50:41.280 --> 0:50:43.000
<v Speaker 1>a truly interesting.

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:44.799
<v Speaker 4>Thing.

0:50:44.960 --> 0:50:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I think about it a lot, like like obviously, I

0:50:47.840 --> 0:50:50.080
<v Speaker 1>think with relationships, like there does come a point where

0:50:50.120 --> 0:50:52.839
<v Speaker 1>you have to be like, Okay, this is like a

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:57.600
<v Speaker 1>challenge that like what's the line between this is a

0:50:57.719 --> 0:51:03.080
<v Speaker 1>challenge or a difference that I want to work to

0:51:03.239 --> 0:51:06.719
<v Speaker 1>overcome because I think all relationships have that. And then

0:51:06.719 --> 0:51:12.080
<v Speaker 1>what's the line between that and no, this just isn't

0:51:12.800 --> 0:51:19.160
<v Speaker 1>working and this is in reconcilable in what's unreconcilable and

0:51:19.160 --> 0:51:20.960
<v Speaker 1>and it's hard and it is it is, it's like

0:51:21.080 --> 0:51:26.680
<v Speaker 1>very hard I think to just discern between what's like

0:51:27.080 --> 0:51:30.600
<v Speaker 1>worth uh what like are what are just like hurdles

0:51:30.600 --> 0:51:34.560
<v Speaker 1>that are necessary to accomplish as as part of being

0:51:34.600 --> 0:51:38.400
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship versus like overall this is this is

0:51:38.480 --> 0:51:43.359
<v Speaker 1>just a complete irreconcilable difference. Yeah, I don't know. It's hard,

0:51:43.360 --> 0:51:45.799
<v Speaker 1>and it's really it is very hard. And in a

0:51:45.800 --> 0:51:51.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of ways I think subjective the difference between those things,

0:51:51.480 --> 0:51:53.120
<v Speaker 1>but I don't. But overall, I don't think you did

0:51:53.120 --> 0:51:54.680
<v Speaker 1>any I don't think you did anything wrong. I don't

0:51:54.680 --> 0:51:56.960
<v Speaker 1>think you like if you like here, like if you

0:51:57.000 --> 0:51:58.920
<v Speaker 1>were like a cheating on this guy and you were

0:51:58.960 --> 0:52:00.600
<v Speaker 1>like trying to make it way like that would be

0:52:00.640 --> 0:52:03.640
<v Speaker 1>doing it wrong. But no, like just ending the relationship

0:52:03.640 --> 0:52:05.960
<v Speaker 1>because it didn't feel right to you even if he

0:52:06.120 --> 0:52:11.360
<v Speaker 1>was treating you well, I think is I think it's

0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:13.640
<v Speaker 1>not a bad. Yeah, I don't think Yeah, I don't

0:52:13.680 --> 0:52:14.920
<v Speaker 1>think you did this guy wrong.

0:52:16.520 --> 0:52:21.520
<v Speaker 4>Amazing, thank you. That was that was good. That was good. Gek,

0:52:22.320 --> 0:52:24.600
<v Speaker 4>this is so surreal. I cannot believe this is happening

0:52:24.680 --> 0:52:26.799
<v Speaker 4>right now. How have you been?

0:52:27.120 --> 0:52:27.640
<v Speaker 2>How are you?

0:52:28.120 --> 0:52:32.040
<v Speaker 1>How am I? Like? Uh, yeah, I'm doing I'm doing

0:52:32.080 --> 0:52:36.040
<v Speaker 1>pretty good. I'm doing okay. Life is Life is nice.

0:52:36.239 --> 0:52:38.400
<v Speaker 1>It's nice to be alive. It's better than the alternative

0:52:38.520 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 1>to be dead forever. By the way, you said you

0:52:41.560 --> 0:52:43.800
<v Speaker 1>said you had a I feel like maybe I'm hearing

0:52:43.800 --> 0:52:45.680
<v Speaker 1>this wrong, but I think you had said you had

0:52:45.760 --> 0:52:47.520
<v Speaker 1>multiple things and this was just one of them.

0:52:48.960 --> 0:52:51.960
<v Speaker 4>This is yeah. I mean, I feel like I'm going

0:52:52.000 --> 0:52:55.319
<v Speaker 4>through like insane shifts in my life your podcast. So

0:52:55.560 --> 0:52:58.759
<v Speaker 4>I'm not an old listener. I just started listening to

0:52:58.800 --> 0:53:01.880
<v Speaker 4>you like three months ago. But when I listen to podcasts,

0:53:01.920 --> 0:53:04.440
<v Speaker 4>what I like to do is I started your first

0:53:04.440 --> 0:53:07.479
<v Speaker 4>ever episode and I listen from there. So I've really

0:53:07.520 --> 0:53:11.319
<v Speaker 4>only listened to a few of your newer episodes. But

0:53:11.600 --> 0:53:14.200
<v Speaker 4>this shit, like it, this is one of my favorite

0:53:14.239 --> 0:53:16.120
<v Speaker 4>things to listen to. Like, when I was going through

0:53:16.120 --> 0:53:18.560
<v Speaker 4>all that shit, I would put this on and it

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:20.239
<v Speaker 4>was in the background and it would just be so

0:53:20.280 --> 0:53:22.160
<v Speaker 4>great to like hear what everybody's going through and just

0:53:22.239 --> 0:53:23.960
<v Speaker 4>kind of be going through it together. And I think

0:53:24.000 --> 0:53:31.280
<v Speaker 4>you're doing a fucking awesome thing. I honestly, of course GEK, Like, dude,

0:53:31.360 --> 0:53:33.960
<v Speaker 4>it's every time my boss makes fun of me. Every

0:53:33.960 --> 0:53:37.320
<v Speaker 4>time your I groom dogs. So sometimes when I'm grooming

0:53:37.360 --> 0:53:39.319
<v Speaker 4>a dog, I'll put your podcasts on and I'll listen

0:53:39.360 --> 0:53:40.839
<v Speaker 4>and so like what are you doing? And I'm like, oh,

0:53:40.880 --> 0:53:44.600
<v Speaker 4>you know, just listen to therapy got go. Like she's like, dude,

0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:46.759
<v Speaker 4>you're always looking at that shit, Like yeah, because it's

0:53:46.840 --> 0:53:50.600
<v Speaker 4>fucking good. My other thing, honestly, is kind of just

0:53:51.120 --> 0:53:52.799
<v Speaker 4>from what you've been hearing a lot because it's the

0:53:52.800 --> 0:53:54.400
<v Speaker 4>new year, is like I want to start going to

0:53:54.400 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 4>the gym and like I'm trying to eat healthier. My

0:53:57.200 --> 0:54:00.399
<v Speaker 4>biggest thing is I've been trying to quit maping, and

0:54:00.640 --> 0:54:04.600
<v Speaker 4>that is like a bit and a half, but I

0:54:04.600 --> 0:54:07.200
<v Speaker 4>think we're we're working through it. Honestly, It's it could

0:54:07.200 --> 0:54:09.640
<v Speaker 4>be worse. It could be worse. I'm alive, I'm here.

0:54:10.200 --> 0:54:13.520
<v Speaker 4>I feel like that's something that a lot of people

0:54:13.560 --> 0:54:16.200
<v Speaker 4>are struggling with recently. I feel like so many people

0:54:16.239 --> 0:54:19.280
<v Speaker 4>I know, like it went from being nobody smokes now

0:54:19.360 --> 0:54:22.160
<v Speaker 4>everybody either likes smokes weed, which I love because like,

0:54:22.200 --> 0:54:25.640
<v Speaker 4>I fucking love weeds or or they evade, and I

0:54:25.640 --> 0:54:27.200
<v Speaker 4>feel like I need to pick one of the two.

0:54:27.280 --> 0:54:29.000
<v Speaker 4>I feel like my lungs can't do both, so I'm

0:54:29.000 --> 0:54:30.879
<v Speaker 4>gonna stick with weeds. I'm gonna stick with weed.

0:54:32.120 --> 0:54:36.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for whatever, I don't I'm not one to well.

0:54:36.440 --> 0:54:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I like for my I get. I don't know if

0:54:38.640 --> 0:54:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I would call them New Year's resolutions, but just my

0:54:40.600 --> 0:54:45.040
<v Speaker 1>like resolutions. I'm noticing that. Uh, I like you, I

0:54:45.080 --> 0:54:46.960
<v Speaker 1>think to actually do any of this shit, you have

0:54:47.000 --> 0:54:49.600
<v Speaker 1>to like love the process of it, you know what

0:54:49.600 --> 0:54:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like like like when I'm trying to lose

0:54:51.719 --> 0:54:53.680
<v Speaker 1>weight and shit, like I I genuinely like when I

0:54:53.719 --> 0:54:55.680
<v Speaker 1>go to the gym, or I go on long walks

0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:58.400
<v Speaker 1>or I do my fast I don't go. I don't go, like,

0:54:58.520 --> 0:55:00.040
<v Speaker 1>oh I have to faster or I have to go

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:01.879
<v Speaker 1>to the gym and it sucks, and like I don't

0:55:01.920 --> 0:55:04.640
<v Speaker 1>view it as a chore, like I like it. I

0:55:04.920 --> 0:55:10.840
<v Speaker 1>like being a because it used to be that I

0:55:10.880 --> 0:55:13.680
<v Speaker 1>would just like I had know what, like I had

0:55:13.800 --> 0:55:18.320
<v Speaker 1>no control over my eating and over food. And I

0:55:18.880 --> 0:55:21.920
<v Speaker 1>was reading some journals I wrote, like a couple of

0:55:22.000 --> 0:55:24.160
<v Speaker 1>years ago about how just like I can't get it

0:55:24.200 --> 0:55:28.040
<v Speaker 1>under control, and like I'm genuinely enjoying the process of

0:55:28.200 --> 0:55:32.040
<v Speaker 1>like fucking like writing, like like writing down what I'm eating,

0:55:32.160 --> 0:55:36.360
<v Speaker 1>and like fasting and like going by. I'm enjoying the

0:55:36.440 --> 0:55:39.319
<v Speaker 1>process of losing weight. I don't want to do this

0:55:39.400 --> 0:55:41.040
<v Speaker 1>as a sprint. That's kind of how I used to

0:55:41.080 --> 0:55:43.239
<v Speaker 1>do it. I would do like keto or I would

0:55:43.280 --> 0:55:47.840
<v Speaker 1>do like really really really, you know, restrictive shit, just

0:55:47.880 --> 0:55:49.680
<v Speaker 1>try to get it all over with. And now I'm

0:55:49.760 --> 0:55:53.160
<v Speaker 1>this This year specifically, I think is the first year

0:55:53.200 --> 0:55:57.680
<v Speaker 1>where I've been trying to just take it very slow

0:55:57.800 --> 0:55:59.279
<v Speaker 1>and kind of try to make it more of like

0:55:59.280 --> 0:56:01.719
<v Speaker 1>a lifestyle change and less of a crash. And we'll

0:56:01.719 --> 0:56:04.160
<v Speaker 1>see how it goes. But I'm feeling pretty damn good

0:56:04.200 --> 0:56:04.560
<v Speaker 1>about it.

0:56:05.640 --> 0:56:08.319
<v Speaker 4>I feel that I feel like I just turned twenty four.

0:56:08.360 --> 0:56:10.680
<v Speaker 4>I feel like my prefrontal cortex is getting to that

0:56:10.760 --> 0:56:13.799
<v Speaker 4>point where it's like almost there. And I will say,

0:56:13.880 --> 0:56:15.520
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I've come a long way. When I was

0:56:15.600 --> 0:56:19.279
<v Speaker 4>dating that that little turn knocker, previously, I was like

0:56:19.400 --> 0:56:22.640
<v Speaker 4>heavily into drugs. I was a complete fucking mess. Like

0:56:22.680 --> 0:56:26.160
<v Speaker 4>my life was just like candy flipping and like ketamine

0:56:26.200 --> 0:56:28.920
<v Speaker 4>every day. And I've i mean, I will say the

0:56:28.960 --> 0:56:31.279
<v Speaker 4>best thing I ever did was get a dog and

0:56:32.360 --> 0:56:34.560
<v Speaker 4>get my shit together, like that was, and I will

0:56:34.560 --> 0:56:36.560
<v Speaker 4>say it's so much fun now, Like I I've been

0:56:36.600 --> 0:56:38.560
<v Speaker 4>trying to like eat healthier and like do the thing,

0:56:38.600 --> 0:56:40.760
<v Speaker 4>and I will say, like the meal prepping has been fun,

0:56:40.840 --> 0:56:43.759
<v Speaker 4>and like I think the way you just put it,

0:56:43.840 --> 0:56:45.719
<v Speaker 4>like looking at it less as like I have to

0:56:45.719 --> 0:56:48.279
<v Speaker 4>get it all done today, Like just taking it day

0:56:48.280 --> 0:56:50.919
<v Speaker 4>by day is like the best thing that you can do.

0:56:50.960 --> 0:56:52.720
<v Speaker 4>You should look into getting a dog, dude.

0:56:53.280 --> 0:56:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I don't want to get a dog. I

0:56:55.239 --> 0:56:59.560
<v Speaker 1>have a I have a stuffed dog that is pretty good.

0:57:00.120 --> 0:57:02.920
<v Speaker 1>The job of it does the job of a normal dog.

0:57:03.280 --> 0:57:06.799
<v Speaker 4>I get it. Listen there, I tell everybody, I'm like,

0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:08.319
<v Speaker 4>you should get a dog. But at the same time,

0:57:08.360 --> 0:57:10.959
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, listen, it's a lot, like it's the true

0:57:11.000 --> 0:57:11.719
<v Speaker 4>labor of love.

0:57:12.640 --> 0:57:16.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have. I mean, I have a dead plant

0:57:16.960 --> 0:57:20.880
<v Speaker 1>in my apartment right now, and I'm I'm and I'm

0:57:20.880 --> 0:57:23.000
<v Speaker 1>glad that that. I'm glad it's a plant and not

0:57:23.080 --> 0:57:23.760
<v Speaker 1>a dead dog.

0:57:25.160 --> 0:57:26.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, that's fair.

0:57:27.800 --> 0:57:32.280
<v Speaker 1>Frank. Is there anything else, Oh, Frank, is there anything

0:57:32.280 --> 0:57:33.200
<v Speaker 1>else you want to say to the people of the

0:57:33.200 --> 0:57:34.080
<v Speaker 1>computer before we go.

0:57:35.800 --> 0:57:37.800
<v Speaker 4>No, I just I hope they have a wonderful night.

0:57:37.840 --> 0:57:39.680
<v Speaker 4>I'm so glad I got to talk to you. This

0:57:39.920 --> 0:57:43.320
<v Speaker 4>was fucking awesome. I wish I had like something better planned,

0:57:43.320 --> 0:57:46.280
<v Speaker 4>but honestly, I really think that this is what I needed.

0:57:46.960 --> 0:57:49.200
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Frank. I have a good rest of the day.

0:57:49.800 --> 0:57:54.920
<v Speaker 1>God bless America. And I'll talk to you in another

0:57:55.160 --> 0:57:56.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll talk I'll talk to you.

0:57:57.840 --> 0:58:03.440
<v Speaker 4>In another lifetime, in another lifetime, Baybey, have a good one.

0:58:03.520 --> 0:58:03.720
<v Speaker 3>Jack.

0:58:03.880 --> 0:58:05.920
<v Speaker 4>It's a great chat with you. I appreciate it. Man.

0:58:06.360 --> 0:58:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Bye, Frank, ye bye. Hello.

0:58:13.400 --> 0:58:15.880
<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, this is insane. I'm sorry. I was

0:58:15.920 --> 0:58:17.360
<v Speaker 5>the one who said you looked Asian.

0:58:18.080 --> 0:58:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, we like it? Uh like in the chat?

0:58:24.160 --> 0:58:25.880
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, in the chat. I'm sorry.

0:58:26.120 --> 0:58:26.720
<v Speaker 1>What's your name?

0:58:28.640 --> 0:58:29.400
<v Speaker 5>My name is Bev.

0:58:30.040 --> 0:58:38.160
<v Speaker 1>Bev. What's like Bevery? Yeah? No, like Beverly, well, Beverly.

0:58:38.720 --> 0:58:41.160
<v Speaker 1>What's up? How can I how can I help you today?

0:58:41.160 --> 0:58:43.520
<v Speaker 1>What's going on? What's going on in your life that

0:58:43.600 --> 0:58:46.080
<v Speaker 1>you want to talk about?

0:58:46.680 --> 0:58:53.360
<v Speaker 5>Not much, I'm just kind of chilling. I took a

0:58:53.360 --> 0:58:59.400
<v Speaker 5>walk earlier. I lived by the docs, so it's quite scenic.

0:59:00.120 --> 0:59:04.479
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. Yeah.

0:59:04.520 --> 0:59:06.320
<v Speaker 5>Also, I saw a show in London and.

0:59:06.240 --> 0:59:09.760
<v Speaker 1>It was great London. Oh man, that was I gotta

0:59:09.800 --> 0:59:12.560
<v Speaker 1>say that that show in London was one of my

0:59:12.600 --> 0:59:17.240
<v Speaker 1>favorites I ever did at that at the Clapping Brand. Yes,

0:59:17.920 --> 0:59:19.280
<v Speaker 1>that was one of the that was one of the

0:59:19.600 --> 0:59:23.160
<v Speaker 1>one of the one of the nights of my life.

0:59:23.240 --> 0:59:24.439
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you that was a good time.

0:59:25.440 --> 0:59:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh cool.

0:59:26.200 --> 0:59:28.120
<v Speaker 5>I mean I couldn't be bothered to like line up

0:59:28.160 --> 0:59:29.160
<v Speaker 5>to meet you afterwards.

0:59:29.200 --> 0:59:33.280
<v Speaker 1>No, it's okay, Well, so here's what happened. Let me

0:59:33.360 --> 0:59:37.320
<v Speaker 1>here's what happened. Is me and my buddy David. We

0:59:37.320 --> 0:59:40.919
<v Speaker 1>were doing the Europe tour and I did a show

0:59:40.960 --> 0:59:43.080
<v Speaker 1>in Amsterdam, a show in Berlin, and a show in

0:59:43.120 --> 0:59:48.520
<v Speaker 1>Manchester and all of the you know, all of my shows,

0:59:49.800 --> 0:59:52.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, people line up, I meet everyone after the

0:59:52.720 --> 0:59:55.120
<v Speaker 1>show and everyone comes up to me and and you know,

0:59:55.200 --> 0:59:59.600
<v Speaker 1>they're they're happy and they're satisfied, and uh. But sometimes

0:59:59.640 --> 1:00:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I'll do a show and I'm just like, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I did a great job, And like three

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<v Speaker 1>shows in a row, I got off stage being like,

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<v Speaker 1>ah fuck, I feel like I fucked that one up.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not satisfied with it. I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I could have been a better host I could have,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, had more energy with it. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>like three shows in a row of that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>got off stage at all those at three of those

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<v Speaker 1>shows and I and I said to David, I was like, fuck, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't know if I can keep doing this,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm just not performing to the degree that I like,

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<v Speaker 1>to the level that I want to. And then that

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<v Speaker 1>show in London, I felt so good about it. I

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<v Speaker 1>got off stage and I just gave David a big

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<v Speaker 1>hug and I was like, dude, fucking finally, fucking you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we we did one that I felt really happy with.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was that was a great moment. That felt

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<v Speaker 1>really good.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think the crowd helped as well, because I

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<v Speaker 5>think I always think that London's quite a vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the crowd was great. The crowd was great. The

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<v Speaker 1>crowd was great. I had I had an awesome time.

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<v Speaker 1>I had an awesome, awesome time. And London's a great city.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you guys got You got fish and chips?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, actually there's actually like a Chinese guy who makes

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<v Speaker 5>fish and chips down the road for me, and it's

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<v Speaker 5>like the best fish and chips I've ever tasted, so,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's not really British. But yeah, London's cool.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess. Talking about like traveling, I do kind of

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<v Speaker 5>want to travel to the US, but like it seems

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<v Speaker 5>a bit crazy over.

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<v Speaker 1>There, crazy sense, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>There's always stuff happening, people getting shot.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna I don't think you're gonna get actually okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well hold on, well you're not gonna get shot if

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<v Speaker 1>you come to the US. Here's the thing I will say,

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<v Speaker 1>of all the places I have been, I probably the

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<v Speaker 1>most day dangerous is probably New York and Los Angeles

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<v Speaker 1>of any of the places that I have been. So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's true. But no, you're not gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>like shot if you come to the US.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, but just in general, stuff happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, stuff happens. Stuff happens everywhere. Like what stuff are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what seems more dangerous that like people

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<v Speaker 5>getting roads, people getting like harassed on the train. To

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<v Speaker 5>see that lady who got burned on.

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<v Speaker 1>The train was a lady that did happen. There was

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<v Speaker 1>a lady who got there. That is undeniable. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>many things Trump is sure there's Trump, but like he's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna like, he's not gonna get you. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna be like walking down the street and

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<v Speaker 1>he shows up and he like grabs you. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not. He's in some other room. He's in he's

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<v Speaker 1>in some room somewhere doing something and talking to someone

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<v Speaker 1>and it and you know he's not he's not. He's sure,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like in all of our lives, but he's not directly.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not sitting in the chair across from you, like okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not like behind he's you're gonna open a door

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<v Speaker 1>and he punches you in the face, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, cool, thank you for you're asshowing me right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, so what else? What do you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>if you come here? Where do you want to go?

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<v Speaker 5>I want to eat so much food, Like I just

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<v Speaker 5>want to eat what you guys eat, which is like

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<v Speaker 5>really fatty shitty stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The one thing if I were going to America and

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<v Speaker 1>I'd never been before, the one thing that we have

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<v Speaker 1>here that they really truly truly do not have anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>else is Chick fil A. Because you guys have McDonald's

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<v Speaker 1>they have like five guys, I think even in Europe,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's no check. There's no Chick fil As in Europe.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I really want to try Chick fil A and

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<v Speaker 5>in and out in and it's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>Inn it's pretty good. Five guys is better though, but

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<v Speaker 1>Chick fil A will will blow your tits off.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, okay, beverage, do you know what? I hate

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<v Speaker 5>that you made that joke because I just hate that joke.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing, the beverage thing. Yeah, I mean whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes you just say sorry, yeah, I sorry, I was

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<v Speaker 5>just reading the chat.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to eat a lot of food in America.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to go to the grocery store and see

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<v Speaker 5>what it's like. I want to go to Costco and

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<v Speaker 5>see what it's like. I want to like go on

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<v Speaker 5>a hike and go skiing and go to the beach,

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<v Speaker 5>all in the same country. Like that's lit. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>But for now I'm stuck in London. Well a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do in London? What's going on over there?

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<v Speaker 5>I work for a large supermarket in their office, which

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<v Speaker 5>is nice. I work as part of the buying team,

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<v Speaker 5>which is not very interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, cool, very nice, very good. Well come to America

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, see for yourself. If I tell you what,

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<v Speaker 1>if you come to America and you do get shot

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<v Speaker 1>and killed, I will give you whatever money you spent

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<v Speaker 1>back to have this phone call. That's my money back guarantee.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, you know I'm probably running up the

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<v Speaker 5>bit yo and Ayway's two things. Have you ever watched

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<v Speaker 5>Broad City?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? Yeah, I know, I know, brad City, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, So when I imagine it going to New York,

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<v Speaker 5>I like to think of broad City because I'm a

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<v Speaker 5>stoner and I'm a girl. I mean I'm not Jewish,

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<v Speaker 5>all white, but I'm black. But yeah, I always imagine

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<v Speaker 5>New York to be like that, just going on an

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<v Speaker 5>adventure pretty much every day and smoking loads of weeds. Also,

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<v Speaker 5>have you watched Lost?

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<v Speaker 1>I have not watched Lost?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, you look like a character and Lost called Hurley.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, I've always thought that. Wait, hold on, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hate. I'm gonna look this up and I know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>No, just the face, just.

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<v Speaker 5>The face, just.

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<v Speaker 1>Lost, Oh god, damn it? All right?

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<v Speaker 5>No, well, I mean Harley's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, yeah, I get you, I get you. I

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<v Speaker 1>get it, like.

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<v Speaker 5>And even the way he speaks, like, guys, do agree

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<v Speaker 5>like the way he speaks you just it's very similar.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not I'm not trying.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. It's my look, it's my fault. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not your fault that I definitely look like this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's not You're not the I have habits in

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<v Speaker 1>my life and routines that have that I have enforced

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<v Speaker 1>consciously and subconsciously that are the reason that that I

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<v Speaker 1>look like this guy. So it's not your fault. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't blame you, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>But also you don't look like him weight or body wise.

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<v Speaker 5>I just mean also the way you guys, you guys

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<v Speaker 5>sound alike.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, listen, Bev, you should come to America, eat some

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<v Speaker 1>Chick fil A, and then we can both look like

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<v Speaker 1>Harley from Lost.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Cool?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else? Who I say to the people

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<v Speaker 1>of the computer before.

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<v Speaker 5>We go, Peace and love to everyone, Be nice, be

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<v Speaker 5>kind and happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea God, bless see you later, BEV, get bless Hello, folks,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel kind of trapped.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like I'm not really where I want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, yeah, you never will be. You'll probably be

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit depressed and unhappy forever.

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<v Speaker 4>My ex's dad is hard, probably a cannibal.

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<v Speaker 1>Your ex's dad is a cannibal.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I will take this journey with you. I will

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<v Speaker 1>take this journey with you. Felix, Please please please please

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<v Speaker 1>take us on this journey together through through whatever this

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<v Speaker 1>story is gonna be. Can you hook me up with

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<v Speaker 1>a tour of Universal Studios.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not Universal Studios.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see how they Yeah, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't call back unless if you can hook me up

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<v Speaker 1>Gecko dot supercast dot com. All right, I have nothing

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<v Speaker 1>else to say. The repet goes on the line, taking

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<v Speaker 1>your phone calls every night. Themp can goes to his ride.

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<v Speaker 4>He's teaching you how to live your life, but he's

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<v Speaker 4>not really an expert.