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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Hi. What's your name? My love? My love?

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Speaker 1: I'm going to call you M. I'm going to call

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Speaker 1: you M L.

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Speaker 2: No because I want you to say something like, ah,

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Speaker 2: talk about today, my love.

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Speaker 1: No, that's that's creepy. I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: I thought I would get you.

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Speaker 1: Well, mL, mL, what's up? How you doing?

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Speaker 2: I'm good. I was I'm about to. Well, I'm not

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Speaker 2: about to. I'm getting ready, just doing my makeup while

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Speaker 2: watching Meet the Parents. And I called you like one

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Speaker 2: hundred and seven times.

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Speaker 1: Well, what is it you wanted to talk about?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I wanted to talk about when I met my

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Speaker 2: ex boyfriend on chat Rolette and that resulted in me

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Speaker 2: moving from California to Copenhagen for two and a half years.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how was how was that journey?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 2: It was crazy. Do you know what chatterlette is? I

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Speaker 2: feel like when I've told people this story, they're like,

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Speaker 2: what's Chatroulette?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Of course, Chatroulette is a place where you can

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Speaker 1: go to see people jerk off all over the world.

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Speaker 2: Yes, basically. Yeah, And this was a long time ago.

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Speaker 2: This was in like, this was when Chatroulette was really new.

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Speaker 2: It was like two thousand and I don't know, nineteen

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Speaker 2: or something or not, nineteen nine, and my friend and

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Speaker 2: I used to go on there together and just suck

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Speaker 2: with people. And there was one day I went on

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Speaker 2: by myself. I had time to kill. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: just a bunch of dudes jerking off and you just

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Speaker 2: press next until you meet someone that's normal, and yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was this dude. And we didn't even talk for

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Speaker 2: very long, but yeah, we ended up becoming pen pals

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Speaker 2: for about a year. And then after a year, I

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Speaker 2: was like, I've never been to Europe. I don't even

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Speaker 2: know what Denmark. I knew nothing about Denmark, never was

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Speaker 2: on my radar. And I was like, would it be

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Speaker 2: weird if I came to Denmark and you know, stayed

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Speaker 2: there for like a week or something, just to go

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Speaker 2: to Europe for the first time. And he said no,

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Speaker 2: And everyone thought I was going to be murdered, Like

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Speaker 2: my friends had like a going away party for me,

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Speaker 2: because everyone was convinced I wasn't going to come back.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I went and we ended up dating like

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Speaker 2: right away, and like a year. We were long distance

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Speaker 2: for a year. I would go out there every few

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Speaker 2: months for like a month at a time, and Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Eventually I got a job out there as an no

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Speaker 2: pair and that's what allowed me to live out there.

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Speaker 2: And that shit was crazy, because a no pair, like

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Speaker 2: you're supposed to kind of live with a family in

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Speaker 2: exchange for pocket money and just having the experience of

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Speaker 2: living in another country, in a different culture or whatever.

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Speaker 2: You're supposed to be kind of like a member of

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Speaker 2: the family. I didn't know what opairing was before I

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Speaker 2: started applying for it, and this lady, she told me

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Speaker 2: right away that she expected a little bit more like

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Speaker 2: her standards were a little higher. And I was so

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Speaker 2: desperate to move out there, and I had interviewed with

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Speaker 2: so many families that fell through that I was like, sure, yeah, whatever.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think much of it, but yeah, that bitch

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Speaker 2: had me working six days a week, sometimes seven days

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Speaker 2: a week, and I made her and her two kids breakfast, lunch,

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Speaker 2: and dinner seven days a week on I had Sundays off,

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Speaker 2: and on Saturdays I would have to make, you know,

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Speaker 2: enough dinner for them to have, breakfast, lunch, and dinner

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Speaker 2: for them to have for two days. I cleaned her

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Speaker 2: entire house. She was hell a rich she lived in

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Speaker 2: like a mansion. Clean that shit, mowed her lawn. I

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Speaker 2: had never mowed a lawn in my life, trimmed these

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Speaker 2: hedges that were like ten feet tall. It never done

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Speaker 2: that shit before. She had me like weigh her food

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Speaker 2: and keep an inventory like in an Excel sheet, and

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Speaker 2: it was it was intense. It was very intense.

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Speaker 1: Did you get paid at all or or was this

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Speaker 1: like just in exchange for living?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I got paid, but man, I was living extremely paycheck

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Speaker 2: And the first like three months I lived in her

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Speaker 2: for what the expectations are and get to know her

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Speaker 2: months she whupped my pay so I could get an

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Speaker 2: expectations are going to be higher, and I was like okay,

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Speaker 2: but I mean I had no choice. I did not

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Speaker 2: want to live with them anymore. It was very hard

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Speaker 2: working like that, and then going home is just going

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Speaker 2: upstairs to a room. I was just in a room

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Speaker 2: And she was very crazy. I thought it was normal

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Speaker 2: at first. I'm like, I'm in a new culture. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, maybe everyone out here weighs their fucking oregano

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Speaker 2: and then puts it in the next smell sheet.

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Speaker 1: And you were weighing food and putting it in excel. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: is that a Danish thing or this lady?

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Speaker 2: No, it's her. I learned it was her because after

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Speaker 2: like months of doing that, I was out with friends

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Speaker 2: one night, just exhausted, and I was just like, man,

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, is that what you guys do out here?

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Speaker 2: And they were like no, what the fuck? So yeah,

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Speaker 2: she was just crazy, I guess. And she had a

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Speaker 2: like multiple freezers and fridges completely full, and every like

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Speaker 2: every other week, I would have to go down there

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Speaker 2: and take inventory and put it in a spreadsheet. And

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Speaker 2: I don't know why she had me do that. I

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Speaker 2: think it was she had she had some issues for sure.

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Speaker 2: I think it was just control. She wanted, like control

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Speaker 2: of her environment because she didn't have control, and a

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Speaker 2: lot of other aspects of her life I learned over time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was pretty wild. I still keep in touch with

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Speaker 2: the little girl. She's eighteen now, which is crazy.

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Speaker 1: But oh yeah, how was How were the kids? Were

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Speaker 1: they nice or were they like Brad?

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Speaker 2: The little girl, I mean, her and I were cool.

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Speaker 2: She was the older one, she was eight when I

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Speaker 2: with him because he really just spoke zero English, and

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Speaker 2: no matter how much I would work with him and

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Speaker 2: she was out of absolutely out of control. She would

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Speaker 2: just straight up be like fuck you to her mom

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Speaker 2: and like this is bullshit. Yeah, and it was tight

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Speaker 2: because I was like, dang, she's saying so much I

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Speaker 2: wish I could say to her, but she's like my boss,

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I had to.

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Speaker 1: So you you also hated this lady.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was complex because I hated her in a

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Speaker 2: lot of ways, because she would really hold over my head,

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Speaker 2: like deporting me. And I moved to Denmark to be

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Speaker 2: with my boyfriend, so I was like, you know, going

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Speaker 2: felt like I was working my fucking ass off and

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Speaker 2: if I didn't do one thing to her standards, it

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Speaker 2: would be like, hey, before you leave for the night, like,

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Speaker 2: fuck what, And it would just be this intense conversation

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Speaker 2: of her base and then her being like, you know,

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Speaker 2: I really don't want to send you back to the US,

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Speaker 2: but I don't how to know what else to do.

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Speaker 2: This can't continue, and I'm like, okay, I forgot to

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's something so tiny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, this sounds like a cunt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. But at the same time, I felt really sad

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Speaker 2: she her dream was to become to like work on

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Speaker 2: Wall Street in New York. She's super smart. She was

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Speaker 2: in Denmark and her ex husband lived in China. He's

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Speaker 2: basically I learned that she got pregnant by him super young.

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Speaker 2: He's about like almost fifteen years older than her, and

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Speaker 2: it just like put all her dreams of moving to

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Speaker 2: to move to China and peace. So she was like

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Speaker 2: would like skype him once a week and it was

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Speaker 2: All right, talk to you next week. That was like

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Speaker 2: the extent, and they would visit him once a year

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Speaker 2: and I got offered to go and I would be paid,

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Speaker 2: but I really thought about it, and the vibes were off.

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Speaker 2: I was like, hell no, this guy sounds crazy and

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Speaker 2: I'll be stuck in China. I'm good, wow like this, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: she would like I felt like she had no one

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Speaker 2: else to talk to. I mean, she didn't really have friends.

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Speaker 2: I would offer to keep the kids over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, do you want like a weekend alone? Like,

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Speaker 2: do you want to go out go on dates? I

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Speaker 2: don't know something, because all she did was work and

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Speaker 2: then be with the kids. That's it. And yeah, I

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Speaker 2: And it's crazy because so fast forwarding to I'm already

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Speaker 2: it's like five months after I'm home. Oh shit, I

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Speaker 2: shouldn't have said her name.

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Speaker 1: We can believe it out.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she listens to this, but I don't

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Speaker 2: know who knows. But anyway, the little girl she messaged

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Speaker 2: me on Facebook, and her English was all weird and broken,

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Speaker 2: and I know she speaks perfect English, so I was confused,

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Speaker 2: and there was something about her mom and so I

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Speaker 2: messaging me about her mom, Like what's up. And he's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: her mom. I don't want to say her name. Her

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Speaker 2: mom died. She fell off a mountain.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wow, fell off a mountain.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So crazy wow? Crazy. Yeah. So every year the whole

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Speaker 2: family would go to France to like ski and they

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Speaker 2: would just do rich people stuff for like a few weeks.

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Speaker 2: bottle top of TiO. I think two of them. And

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00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 2: I brought back like all these dried chili peppers. And

436
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 2: I had a dinner party in my tiny ass apartment

437
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: and I made enchiladas and like rice and beans and

438
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 2: guacamole and all these things, and it was like they

439
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,640
Speaker 2: tasted flavor for the first time. The people I had

440
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 2: over they could it was like their minds were blown.

441
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 2: Oh and I brought back red vines. The only licorice

442
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 2: they have out there as black licorice and they love

443
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 2: that shit. And I brought back red vines and everyone

444
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 2: was like, wow, this this should tell a good But yeah,

445
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 2: all they eat out there is like pork and pickled fish.

446
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 1: Now I've maybe mentioned this on this podcast about two

447
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: hundred times. Did you go to seven eleven and did

448
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: you get the chicken on a stick there?

449
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 2: Hell? Yeah, that was my first experience with a nice

450
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: seven eleven. And I've been to Japan and like, obviously

451
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 2: that's like the seven eleven ever, But en Mark, I

452
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: didn't know seven elevens in other countries were good. I

453
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: didn't know that was a thing. And what was interesting

454
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: to me out there too was the people behind the

455
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 2: counter at two am, when you're waisted and going to

456
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: seven eleven to eat, are like teenagers. It's like teenager

457
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 2: guys and girls working seven eleven at two am in

458
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 2: a major city. That was insane to me. And the

459
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 2: fact that you could get hot food that's actually good. Yeah,

460
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 2: kicking kebabs and stuff, and that was my first experience

461
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 2: with that, and I thought, wow, why why can't we

462
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 2: have that?

463
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: Somebody? So somebody asked, uh, okay, so when when that

464
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: girl messaged you for the first time in a while

465
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: and her English was broken but you remember her having

466
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: good English? Do you do you? Did you ever figure

467
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: out why her English was broken? Like was it? Because

468
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: when you first said that, I was like, Oh, somebody's

469
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: messaging you through her account or something.

470
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: That's exactly what I thought. I thought she got was

471
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 2: like hacked or something. I think she was distraught. I

472
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 2: think she was just messaging me while being distraught, which

473
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 2: is like to think about. But yeah, I think she

474
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: was just probably I don't know, not thinking straight and

475
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: just getting out the first words she could think of

476
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 2: to put a sentence together. But yeah, that's my guess.

477
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I didn't ask her, Probably never will.

478
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: Somebody said, so, Denmark is known as like the happiest

479
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: country in the world. Having gone there, does that check

480
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 1: out to you?

481
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 5: Yeah?

482
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 2: Kinda? Like I mean, I was broke as hell because

483
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 2: this lady was paying me and there was a minimum

484
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: she had to pay, and she stayed at that minimum.

485
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 2: But out there, like I had friends that were working

486
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: like in a grocery store, bagging groceries, and they made

487
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: enough money to have their own apartment. And you know,

488
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: you get free education, free healthcare. And then on top

489
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 2: of that, if you go to school out there, the

490
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 2: government sends you a check every month. And I was like,

491
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 2: what is that four so like financial aid and they're

492
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 2: like no, it's literally the government being like, good for

493
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 2: you for going to school, thank you, here's a reward,

494
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 2: here's a check, keep it up now. And people pay

495
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 2: their rent and shit with that. And but speaking of

496
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: free healthcare, I got hit by a car while living

497
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 2: in Denmark while riding my bike and that free healthcare

498
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 2: really kicked in for me. And they got pneumonia while

499
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 2: I lived out there, and I thought I was going

500
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: to die.

501
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: So one person help said. One person said, what were

502
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 1: the people there like? And then another person said, are

503
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: the people they're boring?

504
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 2: No, I don't think they're boring. They're really interesting, and

505
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 2: there were for the most part. They spoke English. Weirdly,

506
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: my ex spoke the best English. I mean, he founded

507
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 2: American when you would talk to him, and I asked

508
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 2: him how his English was so good, and he said

509
00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 2: from playing online video games for so many years and

510
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 2: so a lot of the people I spoke with it

511
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 2: would be like very broken English. But I mean I

512
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 2: got to know a lot of people, and no, they

513
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 2: weren't boring. They're really cool. And what was the other question?

514
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: Uh, just like what the people are like in general?

515
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 2: Oh, they were cool. But man, I felt so ugly

516
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 2: living out there.

517
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: Like people there are very beautiful.

518
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, everyone is like at least five eight five nine,

519
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 2: like girls, just everyone and very beautiful blonde hair like.

520
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 2: Everyone looks like a model, and I'm Hella shore brown

521
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 2: hair like. I don't look like a model. I don't know.

522
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: So everyone's gorgeous, and I felt very ugly.

523
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm really I'm really glad to hear that everything worked

524
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 1: out so well for you. I appreciate you taking all

525
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: this time to tell us your life story. I feel like, again,

526
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: you know, I always talk about this like my favorite.

527
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 1: I really enjoy talking to you because, like the I

528
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: like hearing about people's like life experience and you know,

529
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: how things take twists and turns and work out and

530
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: kind of unconventional ways. And I'm sure they'll be at

531
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: least a person or too who listens to your story

532
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: and maybe it gives them some kind of context for

533
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: their own life story of some kind. So I appreciate

534
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: you sharing. Is there? I guess you know? Before we go?

535
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: Is there any other like aspect of anything you wanted

536
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: to talk about or anything you want to say? Any

537
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: any any The floor is yours before we go. If

538
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: there's anything else, Oh, man.

539
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 2: There is something else I want to talk about. But

540
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 2: it's almost seven and I'm supposed to meet my friend

541
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: at seven thirty for dinner. So no, But can I

542
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 2: can I shout out my band?

543
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Please? What's your band?

544
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 2: Were called night School and our Instagram is night School Band,

545
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 2: and shed give us a follow where Actually we just

546
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 2: finished recording, aren't ep so we'll be releasing your music

547
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 2: soon And if you live in the Bay Area, we

548
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 2: play shows.

549
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: So oh, look at you got a blue check mark?

550
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: Look at that?

551
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're official?

552
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: Pretty cool, pretty cool? What kind of music is this you?

553
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: I guess there's no. That was a stupid question to

554
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: ask over the phone. But is this how many? Is

555
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: there four or four people in the band?

556
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? I actually just made a shirt today for merch.

557
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 2: I was like painting with bleach and it turned out

558
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: pretty sick.

559
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: So yuess all right, cool man, what got it? What

560
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: kind of what kind of music?

561
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 2: Yes?

562
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: Play? Oh?

563
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 4: Man?

564
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: I never the best way to describe it, I guess

565
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 2: is shoe gaze. I never know what are like kind

566
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 2: of Jean to describe us as. But I mean we're

567
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 2: on all like streaming platforms and stuff, so you can

568
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: listen to us anywhere.

569
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: Ooh, you guys have a show? You have a show?

570
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: Can I talk? Can I shout out your show? Yeah?

571
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeah in a couple of weeks.

572
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, Yeah, you got a show in San Francisco

573
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: on January twenty third. That sounds cool, just like all

574
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 1: like the Yeah, I'm just scrolling through the Instagram. I'm like,

575
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: all right, I gotta check out this band. This looks cool.

576
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, check us out. And when you're here, I mean,

577
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: if we're playing, come see us. But yeah, if you

578
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 2: come here again, I do want to go to your show.

579
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: I actually had tickets to one of your San Francisco

580
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 2: shows and I ended up like not being able to go,

581
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: and I, yeah, I just have the tickets. I don't know.

582
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 2: I don't have any friends that listen to you. Which

583
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 2: is sad, but I talk you up all the time.

584
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 2: I tell people about you and they're like, Therapy, get go,

585
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, just listen, you just gotta listen.

586
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: Well, thanks man. Hopefully I'm returning the favor with the

587
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: by shouting out Nights School. I'm sure you'll get some

588
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: some Gecko people in there. Yeah, let me know if

589
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: anyone shows up. Let me know if anyone shows up

590
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 1: to your show, and it's like I heard about you

591
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: on the Gecko podcast.

592
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: Oh dude, yeah, hell yeah, yeah, if you come to

593
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 2: our show, I mean, you won't know which person I am,

594
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 2: but come up to one of us and just ask

595
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: if you you know I talked on Arapy Get Go?

596
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, what's your name again?

597
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 2: My love? Oh?

598
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I forgot about that all right, all right,

599
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: my love, thank you for calling. Okay, right, all right,

600
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: thanks for calling man, Thanks for sharing your story, and

601
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: good luck dog.

602
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: Thanks you too.

603
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: Bye.

604
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: That was cool. I like that. I liked that story. Yeah, dude,

605
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: that's a that's a that's a crazy twisty turney tail

606
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: right there. It's a crazy twisty turney tail right there.

607
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna check this out Night's School band. That sounds cool.

608
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: Hey man, what's your name? Uh?

609
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 3: If you want, you can give me a name.

610
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 1: I like when you do that, cool, I'll call you.

611
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: Uh uh Stacy, Stacy.

612
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 2: I like that.

613
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 1: What's going on, Stacy?

614
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 2: Uh?

615
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 3: Not much right now. I'm just hanging out my house.

616
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,320
Speaker 3: Not much going on. Just watch my roommate play Minecraft.

617
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: Is there anything you wanted to talk about today, Stacy? Oh?

618
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 3: Nothing really super in particular. There's a few, like not

619
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 3: so serious things and more serious things. You go like

620
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 3: with like a not so serious type question if you want.

621
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: Dear God, please please please. I'm begging, I beg you

622
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: please give me a not serious question.

623
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 3: Okay, So something I've been thinking about a lot recently

624
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 3: because like Taco Bell has like brought back some of

625
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 3: their old discontinued items. Yeah, just like old discontinued items

626
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 3: that I really really like because I love the caramel

627
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 3: apple and panada. I don't know if you've ever had that,

628
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 3: but that is literally my dad old, give that.

629
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: Stop me stop stop. What the what the fuck is

630
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: a caramel apple and panada?

631
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 3: You've never had that before?

632
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: You're lying to me.

633
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 3: I'm not lying to you. Okay, okay, okay, do you

634
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,720
Speaker 3: remember like when McDonald used to have like the fried

635
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 3: apple pies. Yeah, it's it's it's like that. It's it's

636
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 3: like that basically. It's like so good. It's it's amazing.

637
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 3: It's just like like an apple pie type filling and

638
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 3: then they fry it. I mean, I don't know if

639
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 3: they actually fry it, but it's like it's it's like

640
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 3: a fried type texture.

641
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: And this is a Taco Bell item.

642
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, right now. They brought it back for a limited time.

643
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 3: It used to be like around more like in the

644
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 3: two thousands and stuff.

645
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 1: Jamie, pull up caramel Apple and Panada. It's so good.

646
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, yeah, I'm looking at it right now.

647
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: That's insane USA. Today Taco Bells Caramel a Panada is

648
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: Caramel Apple and Panada is back. What the fuck? Oh

649
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 1: my god, Yeah, this is real. I've never heard of this.

650
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

651
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm telling you you're missing out.

652
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: WHOA.

653
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 3: As a kid, every time I would be begging my dad,

654
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 3: I was like, please, please, please, can I get a

655
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 3: caramel and plump caramel apple epanat I'm struggling.

656
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, okay, so go ahead. What is it about

657
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: the caramel apple and panada.

658
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 3: Like, what is it that makes it so amazing?

659
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: Or sorry? I thought you said I thought you said

660
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: you had a not sorry. I thought you said you

661
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: had a not serious question. I thought there was a

662
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: question about the.

663
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 3: Well, my question was gonna be if there was any

664
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 3: discontinued fast food item that you like, hold near and

665
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 3: dear to your heart that you really want to see

666
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 3: come back.

667
00:36:55,640 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: Oh man, um m mmm, I'm trying to think here, dude,

668
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: not really like all my favorites are so oh oh wait,

669
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: I actually do an answer. Do they still have the

670
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: case so rito? Dude?

671
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 3: No? They okay, okay, they's answer kind they get them

672
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 3: to make You can kind of get them to make

673
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 3: it though. I have a friend who works at Taco

674
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 3: Bell and he taught me the hack.

675
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 1: What like the hack is you want to beg them

676
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: to Is it just you beg them to wrap a

677
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 1: burrito in a case of dia.

678
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 3: You can literally, like if you do it on the app,

679
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 3: you can customize one of their items to make it

680
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 3: so it's basically a case rito.

681
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: Whoa, that's pretty cool.

682
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you do the five layer burrito, take the

683
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 3: fucking beans off of that because the beans are terrible

684
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: and they don't go into the case. So Rito take

685
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 3: those off, add the spicy like Chipotle sauce that they have,

686
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 3: and then you add rice and have them grill it

687
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 3: at the case.

688
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 1: So Rito, Man, there are enough ads in this podcast already,

689
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: but this is fully I just want people to know.

690
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: This is not like a sponsored segment. I just genuinely

691
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,919
Speaker 1: take a lot of joy in talking about Taco Bell.

692
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 3: Oh, I absolutely love Taco.

693
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: Bell when I and I also and also by the way,

694
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 1: just to just to just to even reiterate the fact

695
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: that this is not sponsored. I I act, if you're

696
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: listening to this right now, I actively suggest that you

697
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 1: never ever ever go to Taco Bell for the rest

698
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 1: of your life. I really think, like if you were

699
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: to ask me, no, if you were to ask me,

700
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: like if you if you were to ask me to

701
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 1: describe the day in a life of a happy, healthy

702
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: human being, nowhere in that day does it involve them

703
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 1: going to Taco Bell. So I enjoy eating Taco Bell,

704
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,839
Speaker 1: I'm talking about it, but I don't I can't in

705
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: good conscious or faith recommend anyone ever go there and

706
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 1: eat any of the food there.

707
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 3: I mean, I get it, but it also makes me

708
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 3: sad to hear you say that.

709
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,479
Speaker 1: Why why did hold on? Why does that make you? Said?

710
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 3: I go to Taco Belle, I mean at least three

711
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 3: times a week usually, so I mean, yeahs at least

712
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 3: three days out of my week are not happy days

713
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:25,879
Speaker 3: according to you.

714
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I don't know. We what's your definition

715
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 1: of happiness?

716
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 3: Uh? I mean, honestly, for me, it's like if I

717
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 3: if I get something done in the day that makes

718
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 3: me like I feel like I did something good for

719
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 3: someone else or something in the world. At least I

720
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 3: feel like I've I've done something to have me have

721
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 3: like a good happy day. Okay, but I don't know

722
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 3: that's just me.

723
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: I mean you're gonna get to that, I guess.

724
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 3: But Taco Bell will be over reward if I do

725
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 3: something like that.

726
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: Sure, sure, sure, Look I'm just being Look here's thing.

727
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: I also like. I eating a lot of Taco Bell

728
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: makes me really happy, but it also makes me feel

729
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: like shit as eating fast food. I'm not trying, by

730
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: the way, I'm not trying to be like a dick

731
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: about any of this. I'm just this is just realistic.

732
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: This is just a realistic balance.

733
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 3: So honestly, I should definitely not.

734
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,720
Speaker 1: No, no, Like I here's the thing is, like, I what's

735
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 1: because a hypocrite is somebody who like talks about doing

736
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: something that they would like I'm not. I'm trying not

737
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: to be a hypocrite, but like there's a different word

738
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: maybe of like I eat a lot, like eating a

739
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 1: lot of taco bell. I enjoy it, but I know

740
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 1: I shouldn't do it.

741
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 3: You're yeah, like basically like you yourself do it, but you're

742
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 3: not recommending it to other people, and you know yourself

743
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 3: that it's not the best thing to be doing it,

744
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 3: but you get the enjoyment out of it, so you're gonna.

745
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 1: Do it, right. It's like a being it's like a

746
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 1: reverse hypocrite.

747
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what the word for that would be,

748
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 3: but there definitely should your word for that.

749
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,879
Speaker 1: You said, what was the other thing you wanted to say?

750
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 1: You said you had a couple of not serious things

751
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: and maybe one serious thing.

752
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 3: Uh, I mean, like, I don't know, I know you,

753
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 3: I don't know how much you smoke, but I smoke.

754
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 3: But I'm trying to, like like weed, I'm trying to

755
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 3: get down on it. But like I just don't really

756
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 3: know the best. I don't know.

757
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: It's hard.

758
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 3: I don't know if you have any tips or anything

759
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 3: on that. I don't know how much you smoke.

760
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 1: I probably yeah. I mean, you know, we talked about this.

761
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 1: We've talked about this a bunch of times. I yeah,

762
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: probably smoked weed every day. I like it, and it's

763
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: I I put it on the same level as taco bell.

764
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: It's like, is it a doctor recommended? Probably not? Probably not.

765
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: But I don't know, You'll be fine. Maybe, I don't know.

766
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't. I mean, I'm so what's your

767
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: name again?

768
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 2: Uh?

769
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 3: Well, had you get oh? Froh?

770
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: Stacy? Stacy. I'm so sorry, Stacy, but I can't have this.

771
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: I can't have a conversation every podcast about smoking weed

772
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: every time.

773
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 3: No, no, you're all good. I just yeah, no, I

774
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 3: get it. I get it. I mean that's about I

775
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: talk about talk about.

776
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 2: What do you expect?

777
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Well, I'm I'm happy for you. That the

778
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 1: the thank you for ruining my life by telling me

779
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 1: about the caramel apple and Panada. I will definitely be

780
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: trying you do try it.

781
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 3: Please talk about it sometime after you try it on

782
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: like maybe one of the like nail Gag episodes or

783
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 3: something like that.

784
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 1: I promise, I promise you, Stacy, if I ever eat this,

785
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell anyone. This is this will absolutely

786
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: this will absolutely be a secret thing that I do.

787
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:43,320
Speaker 1: If I end up doing.

788
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 3: It, it will be life changing though, if you ever

789
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 3: do try it.

790
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you, Stacy. Is there anything else you

791
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: want to say it to the people of the computer

792
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:50,399
Speaker 1: before we go?

793
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 3: No, Uh, just thanks for talking to me. It was awesome.

794
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:55,359
Speaker 4: Uh.

795
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 3: Everyone keeps trying and calling. I've tried a lot and

796
00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 3: I finally got it.

797
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, take care of you too.

798
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, I'm Frank, Frank Yo.

799
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? What's up?

800
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 4: I actually, I literally just I was hanging out with

801
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,760
Speaker 4: my friends and we were watching the Lions Vikings football

802
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 4: game and I saw you were streaming and I was like, Yo, guys,

803
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 4: I gotta fucking go like tonight, tonight, I'm calling the

804
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 4: gak it's happening. And they were like, no, Frank, you

805
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 4: gotta stay for the game. Stay for the game. And

806
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:31,399
Speaker 4: I was like, the game, like it right, thank you.

807
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 3: I don't know.

808
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 4: I'm not a huge like football fan, like go birds.

809
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 4: And all, but you know, like I don't know, football

810
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 4: is not my vibe. So Gabe, I was like, I

811
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 4: gotta try and.

812
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: Call when you say now, when you say go birds,

813
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 1: what what? What game is this? What game is on?

814
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 4: It's the Detroit Lions and the Vikings. But I'm from Philly,

815
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 4: so it's always cool time.

816
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I I remember when the Eagles won the

817
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: Super Bowl in twenty eighteen, everyone stormed the city and

818
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: like I was in Philly at the time, and everyone

819
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: it stormed the city.

820
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 4: I went, Yeah, I was in high school at the time,

821
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,799
Speaker 4: and I went to the parade and that was like

822
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 4: the first time I ever day drank. Like I was

823
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 4: a theater kid in high school, so it was a

824
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 4: big thing for me to even go to the gate.

825
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 4: Like everybody was like, let's go to the parade, and

826
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't watch football, but like I guess,

827
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 4: and I begged my mom. I was like, Mom, everybody's

828
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 4: taking the train.

829
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 2: It'll be it'll be super safe, Like we're.

830
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 4: Going to ride the train together. And we had rehearsal

831
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 4: that day and we all got so trashed, like showed

832
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 4: up to rehearsal kind of hungover. It was so fun,

833
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 4: like most insane day of my life. Well, actually that's

834
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 4: a lie. That's a lie, but it was.

835
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 2: It was pretty lit.

836
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 3: It was pretty lit, so franky fun.

837
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: What is it you wanted to talk about today?

838
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 4: Honestly, I don't know. Well, I have a few things

839
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 4: on my mind, and one of them is kind of stupid.

840
00:44:56,640 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 4: But I just have wanted your opinion because I don't know.

841
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 4: You're a guy, and I feel like you'll be able

842
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 4: to like give me just the opinion. I broke up

843
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 4: with my ex, all right, let's just start there. I

844
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 4: met the most wonderful guy this summer after a really

845
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 4: horrible relationship.

846
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 2: I was dating.

847
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 4: Somebody who I met my freshman year of college. I

848
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 4: actually moved out of the country to be with him.

849
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 4: I dropped out of college. I did a whole like

850
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 4: I really just like up ended my life to be

851
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 4: with this guy, and I like was down bad. I

852
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 4: was in love with him, I got a dog. We

853
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 4: were like doing the thing. I was in a whole

854
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 4: nother I was. I was living in Puerto Rico. It

855
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 4: was beautiful, and we broke up for well, he dumped

856
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 4: me like four years ago, and it's been a really

857
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 4: long time. Like getting back into the dating scene. And

858
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 4: this past summer, I met this guy, such a nice guy,

859
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 4: like truly so nice, but I just had a feeling

860
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,240
Speaker 4: from the beginning. I was like, I don't know, something

861
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 4: just seems off, like and I think I don't know.

862
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 4: I like told him from the get go too, I

863
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 4: was like, I'm worried I'm gonna break your heart, like

864
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 4: this is the first healthy relationship I've been in, and

865
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 4: like something just doesn't seem right. And he always he knew,

866
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 4: like right away, he was like, I want kids, I

867
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 4: want to get married. I'm gonna like I just love

868
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,800
Speaker 4: having like a white like the idea of a wife,

869
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 4: and like I don't know, that's just like not me.

870
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 4: And it felt like a lot. And then for a

871
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 4: while everything was going really great and I just I

872
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 4: don't know, I think I broke his heart. Like we

873
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 4: were everything was great and he would hang out with

874
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 4: my friends and they all got along, but like I

875
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 4: would go home and I just knew, like something wasn't right,

876
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,439
Speaker 4: and I think part of it is like I mean

877
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 4: I don't really care like what people have going on,

878
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 4: but I'm pretty sure I'm kind of gay. And that

879
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 4: was like something that wasn't fair to like him to

880
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 4: like be in the middle of you know what I mean,

881
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 4: How am I supposed to figure out like my own

882
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 4: shit when I have a boyfriend who's like very monogamous

883
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 4: and like, does that make sense? I?

884
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, yes, Sorry, I feel.

885
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,800
Speaker 4: Like I'm going so hard right now.

886
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: Like oh no, no, no, no.

887
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 4: That I'm like, literally I feel like I'm screaming at

888
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 4: you right now.

889
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: Tell your story.

890
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 4: So anyways, we dated for not even that long, like

891
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 4: after like a month, he told me he loved me,

892
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,919
Speaker 4: like it was just it was very fast. I met

893
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 4: his family like and it was so nice. But the

894
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 4: whole time, I knew in the back of my head,

895
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 4: like this guy's so into you and you don't know

896
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 4: what you want to do, and like it all felt

897
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 4: it felt not fair to like be with somebody who

898
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 4: cared so much about me when I didn't know what

899
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 4: I wanted to do, and it felt like I was

900
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 4: dragging him along, and like, truly, I have never had

901
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 4: somebody treat me like that, and I just the whole

902
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 4: time knew it wasn't right. And we had like the

903
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 4: most amazing weekend. We went to like october Fest with

904
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 4: my friends, and I was so like sick knowing that

905
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 4: it wasn't the right fit for me, that I couldn't

906
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 4: even be alone, Like my anxiety was just eating at

907
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 4: me every day, and all my family and friends were

908
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 4: like yourself sabotaging, Like you've never had somebody be this

909
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 4: nice to you, and now he's like so nice to

910
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,800
Speaker 4: you that you're trying to ruin it. But like I knew,

911
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 4: like I feel like you know when you really want

912
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 4: to be with somebody, and like I wanted it to

913
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:16,760
Speaker 4: work so bad, but I felt like I was playing

914
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 4: straight and like being somebody I wasn't. And I just

915
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 4: woke up one morning and was like I have to

916
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 4: end it, like and it was so hard. I felt horrible.

917
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 4: He called me that morning and was like, let's go

918
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 4: take the dogs for a walk, because like our dogs

919
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 4: were friends. It was really sweet, and I just I

920
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 4: packed up all this stuff and I met him outside

921
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 4: and I made him come to my car, and I

922
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 4: feel like I broke his heart and like he cried,

923
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 4: like it was just it was a lot, like I

924
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,879
Speaker 4: feel horrible, and I like tried to make it make

925
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 4: sense to him, and I was like listen, like you're

926
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 4: so great, and you're so wonderful, and like.

927
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 2: I just feel like I have.

928
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 4: Been trying really hard to make this work, but like

929
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,439
Speaker 4: you deserve somebody that wants to be in the same

930
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:02,479
Speaker 4: boat as you, And like I just felt horrible because

931
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 4: he was trying so hard to like make it work too.

932
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 4: He was like, oh, do whatever you want, like we can,

933
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 4: and I was like, no, that's not the thing. Like

934
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 4: I want you to be happy with whoever you're gonna

935
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 4: be with. And I guess what I'm worried about now

936
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 4: is that I've just like broke his heart and like,

937
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 4: would you hate that person like down the line, like

938
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 4: if you thought about it and somebody broke up with

939
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 4: you because they were like, hey, we have so much

940
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 4: fun and like this all seems so perfect, but like

941
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 4: you just it's not the right fit. Like do you

942
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 4: think you would hate that person down the line or

943
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 4: do you think you look back on it and be like, Yeah,

944
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 4: that sucked. That really sucked. I wish that it worked out,

945
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 4: but I'm also glad that they did that because now

946
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 4: I can find somebody that I feel the same way about.

947
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 1: I don't I really don't think you did this guy wrong.

948
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 1: I really agree with the way that you're looking at it,

949
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: because if you had a gut feeling about this relationship,

950
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: and if you were to just continue to ignore your

951
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 1: gut feeling over and over and over again until until

952
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: it got too late, right and you were like married

953
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: and had a kid with this guy. Yeah, no, you

954
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: didn't do this guy. I think you did the right thing. Yeah,

955
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: it was.

956
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 4: It was to the point where I felt so bad

957
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,760
Speaker 4: that I was like trying to force myself to stay

958
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 4: and I was I was like, I'll just get pregnant.

959
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:22,760
Speaker 1: Like yeah, it's terrible.

960
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, like everything, like We'll just I'll make it work,

961
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 4: Like I'll be like I'll be his stay out Like no,

962
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 4: like that is just not that's just not okay, okay, cool,

963
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 4: Well I need to make sure.

964
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: Well it's an interesting No, it's an interesting it's like

965
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: a truly interesting.

966
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 4: Thing.

967
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: I think about it a lot, like like obviously, I

968
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: think with relationships, like there does come a point where

969
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 1: you have to be like, Okay, this is like a

970
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: challenge that like what's the line between this is a

971
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: challenge or a difference that I want to work to

972
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: overcome because I think all relationships have that. And then

973
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: what's the line between that and no, this just isn't

974
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: working and this is in reconcilable in what's unreconcilable and

975
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 1: and it's hard and it is it is, it's like

976
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: very hard I think to just discern between what's like

977
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: worth uh what like are what are just like hurdles

978
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: that are necessary to accomplish as as part of being

979
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 1: in a relationship versus like overall this is this is

980
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 1: just a complete irreconcilable difference. Yeah, I don't know. It's hard,

981
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,799
Speaker 1: and it's really it is very hard. And in a

982
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:51,280
Speaker 1: lot of ways I think subjective the difference between those things,

983
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: but I don't. But overall, I don't think you did

984
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: any I don't think you did anything wrong. I don't

985
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: think you like if you like here, like if you

986
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: were like a cheating on this guy and you were

987
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: like trying to make it way like that would be

988
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: doing it wrong. But no, like just ending the relationship

989
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 1: because it didn't feel right to you even if he

990
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: was treating you well, I think is I think it's

991
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: not a bad. Yeah, I don't think Yeah, I don't

992
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 1: think you did this guy wrong.

993
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 4: Amazing, thank you. That was that was good. That was good. Gek,

994
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 4: this is so surreal. I cannot believe this is happening

995
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 4: right now. How have you been?

996
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 2: How are you?

997
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: How am I? Like? Uh, yeah, I'm doing I'm doing

998
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 1: pretty good. I'm doing okay. Life is Life is nice.

999
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 1: It's nice to be alive. It's better than the alternative

1000
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: to be dead forever. By the way, you said you

1001
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 1: said you had a I feel like maybe I'm hearing

1002
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: this wrong, but I think you had said you had

1003
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 1: multiple things and this was just one of them.

1004
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 4: This is yeah. I mean, I feel like I'm going

1005
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 4: through like insane shifts in my life your podcast. So

1006
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 4: I'm not an old listener. I just started listening to

1007
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 4: you like three months ago. But when I listen to podcasts,

1008
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 4: what I like to do is I started your first

1009
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,479
Speaker 4: ever episode and I listen from there. So I've really

1010
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:11,319
Speaker 4: only listened to a few of your newer episodes. But

1011
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 4: this shit, like it, this is one of my favorite

1012
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 4: things to listen to. Like, when I was going through

1013
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 4: all that shit, I would put this on and it

1014
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 4: was in the background and it would just be so

1015
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 4: great to like hear what everybody's going through and just

1016
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 4: kind of be going through it together. And I think

1017
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:31,280
Speaker 4: you're doing a fucking awesome thing. I honestly, of course GEK, Like, dude,

1018
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 4: it's every time my boss makes fun of me. Every

1019
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 4: time your I groom dogs. So sometimes when I'm grooming

1020
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 4: a dog, I'll put your podcasts on and I'll listen

1021
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 4: and so like what are you doing? And I'm like, oh,

1022
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 4: you know, just listen to therapy got go. Like she's like, dude,

1023
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 4: you're always looking at that shit, Like yeah, because it's

1024
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 4: fucking good. My other thing, honestly, is kind of just

1025
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 4: from what you've been hearing a lot because it's the

1026
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 4: new year, is like I want to start going to

1027
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 4: the gym and like I'm trying to eat healthier. My

1028
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 4: biggest thing is I've been trying to quit maping, and

1029
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:04,600
Speaker 4: that is like a bit and a half, but I

1030
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 4: think we're we're working through it. Honestly, It's it could

1031
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 4: be worse. It could be worse. I'm alive, I'm here.

1032
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 4: I feel like that's something that a lot of people

1033
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 4: are struggling with recently. I feel like so many people

1034
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,280
Speaker 4: I know, like it went from being nobody smokes now

1035
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 4: everybody either likes smokes weed, which I love because like,

1036
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 4: I fucking love weeds or or they evade, and I

1037
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 4: feel like I need to pick one of the two.

1038
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 4: I feel like my lungs can't do both, so I'm

1039
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:30,879
Speaker 4: gonna stick with weeds. I'm gonna stick with weed.

1040
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:36,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, for whatever, I don't I'm not one to well.

1041
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: I like for my I get. I don't know if

1042
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 1: I would call them New Year's resolutions, but just my

1043
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: like resolutions. I'm noticing that. Uh, I like you, I

1044
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: think to actually do any of this shit, you have

1045
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: to like love the process of it, you know what

1046
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean, Like like like when I'm trying to lose

1047
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 1: weight and shit, like I I genuinely like when I

1048
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: go to the gym, or I go on long walks

1049
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 1: or I do my fast I don't go. I don't go, like,

1050
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 1: oh I have to faster or I have to go

1051
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:01,879
Speaker 1: to the gym and it sucks, and like I don't

1052
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 1: view it as a chore, like I like it. I

1053
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: like being a because it used to be that I

1054
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: would just like I had know what, like I had

1055
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 1: no control over my eating and over food. And I

1056
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: was reading some journals I wrote, like a couple of

1057
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: years ago about how just like I can't get it

1058
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: under control, and like I'm genuinely enjoying the process of

1059
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 1: like fucking like writing, like like writing down what I'm eating,

1060
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: and like fasting and like going by. I'm enjoying the

1061
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 1: process of losing weight. I don't want to do this

1062
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: as a sprint. That's kind of how I used to

1063
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 1: do it. I would do like keto or I would

1064
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 1: do like really really really, you know, restrictive shit, just

1065
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: try to get it all over with. And now I'm

1066
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: this This year specifically, I think is the first year

1067
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 1: where I've been trying to just take it very slow

1068
00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 1: and kind of try to make it more of like

1069
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: a lifestyle change and less of a crash. And we'll

1070
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: see how it goes. But I'm feeling pretty damn good

1071
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: about it.

1072
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 4: I feel that I feel like I just turned twenty four.

1073
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 4: I feel like my prefrontal cortex is getting to that

1074
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 4: point where it's like almost there. And I will say,

1075
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 4: I mean, I've come a long way. When I was

1076
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 4: dating that that little turn knocker, previously, I was like

1077
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 4: heavily into drugs. I was a complete fucking mess. Like

1078
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 4: my life was just like candy flipping and like ketamine

1079
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 4: every day. And I've i mean, I will say the

1080
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 4: best thing I ever did was get a dog and

1081
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 4: get my shit together, like that was, and I will

1082
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 4: say it's so much fun now, Like I I've been

1083
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 4: trying to like eat healthier and like do the thing,

1084
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:40,760
Speaker 4: and I will say, like the meal prepping has been fun,

1085
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 4: and like I think the way you just put it,

1086
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 4: like looking at it less as like I have to

1087
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 4: get it all done today, Like just taking it day

1088
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,919
Speaker 4: by day is like the best thing that you can do.

1089
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:52,720
Speaker 4: You should look into getting a dog, dude.

1090
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't want to get a dog. I

1091
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: have a I have a stuffed dog that is pretty good.

1092
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: The job of it does the job of a normal dog.

1093
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,799
Speaker 4: I get it. Listen there, I tell everybody, I'm like,

1094
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 4: you should get a dog. But at the same time,

1095
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,959
Speaker 4: I'm like, listen, it's a lot, like it's the true

1096
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:11,719
Speaker 4: labor of love.

1097
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have. I mean, I have a dead plant

1098
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: in my apartment right now, and I'm I'm and I'm

1099
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: glad that that. I'm glad it's a plant and not

1100
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: a dead dog.

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00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's fair.

1102
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: Frank. Is there anything else, Oh, Frank, is there anything

1103
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: else you want to say to the people of the

1104
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: computer before we go.

1105
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 4: No, I just I hope they have a wonderful night.

1106
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 4: I'm so glad I got to talk to you. This

1107
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 4: was fucking awesome. I wish I had like something better planned,

1108
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 4: but honestly, I really think that this is what I needed.

1109
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, Frank. I have a good rest of the day.

1110
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: God bless America. And I'll talk to you in another

1111
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: I'll talk I'll talk to you.

1112
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 4: In another lifetime, in another lifetime, Baybey, have a good one.

1113
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 3: Jack.

1114
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 4: It's a great chat with you. I appreciate it. Man.

1115
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: Bye, Frank, ye bye. Hello.

1116
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 5: Oh my god, this is insane. I'm sorry. I was

1117
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 5: the one who said you looked Asian.

1118
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, we like it? Uh like in the chat?

1119
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, in the chat. I'm sorry.

1120
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: What's your name?

1121
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 5: My name is Bev.

1122
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 1: Bev. What's like Bevery? Yeah? No, like Beverly, well, Beverly.

1123
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 1: What's up? How can I how can I help you today?

1124
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 1: What's going on? What's going on in your life that

1125
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: you want to talk about?

1126
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 5: Not much, I'm just kind of chilling. I took a

1127
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 5: walk earlier. I lived by the docs, so it's quite scenic.

1128
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:04,479
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah.

1129
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 5: Also, I saw a show in London and.

1130
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 1: It was great London. Oh man, that was I gotta

1131
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: say that that show in London was one of my

1132
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: favorites I ever did at that at the Clapping Brand. Yes,

1133
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 1: that was one of the that was one of the

1134
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 1: one of the one of the nights of my life.

1135
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:24,439
Speaker 1: Let me tell you that was a good time.

1136
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 2: Oh cool.

1137
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 5: I mean I couldn't be bothered to like line up

1138
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 5: to meet you afterwards.

1139
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: No, it's okay, Well, so here's what happened. Let me

1140
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 1: here's what happened. Is me and my buddy David. We

1141
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:40,919
Speaker 1: were doing the Europe tour and I did a show

1142
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: in Amsterdam, a show in Berlin, and a show in

1143
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 1: Manchester and all of the you know, all of my shows,

1144
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 1: you know, people line up, I meet everyone after the

1145
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 1: show and everyone comes up to me and and you know,

1146
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: they're they're happy and they're satisfied, and uh. But sometimes

1147
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 1: I'll do a show and I'm just like, I didn't

1148
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: feel like I did a great job, And like three

1149
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: shows in a row, I got off stage being like,

1150
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: ah fuck, I feel like I fucked that one up.

1151
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: But I'm not satisfied with it. I feel like, you know,

1152
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: I could have been a better host I could have,

1153
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 1: you know, had more energy with it. And it was

1154
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: like three shows in a row of that, and I

1155
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: got off stage at all those at three of those

1156
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: shows and I and I said to David, I was like, fuck, man,

1157
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know if I can keep doing this,

1158
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 1: Like I'm just not performing to the degree that I like,

1159
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: to the level that I want to. And then that

1160
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: show in London, I felt so good about it. I

1161
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: got off stage and I just gave David a big

1162
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: hug and I was like, dude, fucking finally, fucking you know,

1163
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: we we did one that I felt really happy with.

1164
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 1: So that was that was a great moment. That felt

1165
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 1: really good.

1166
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 5: Do you think the crowd helped as well, because I

1167
01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:59,959
Speaker 5: think I always think that London's quite a vibe.

1168
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 3: Uh.

1169
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, the crowd was great. The crowd was great. The

1170
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: crowd was great. I had I had an awesome time.

1171
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 1: I had an awesome, awesome time. And London's a great city.

1172
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: What do you guys got You got fish and chips?

1173
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:19,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, actually there's actually like a Chinese guy who makes

1174
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 5: fish and chips down the road for me, and it's

1175
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 5: like the best fish and chips I've ever tasted, so,

1176
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 5: I mean, that's not really British. But yeah, London's cool.

1177
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 5: I guess. Talking about like traveling, I do kind of

1178
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 5: want to travel to the US, but like it seems

1179
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 5: a bit crazy over.

1180
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: There, crazy sense, I don't know.

1181
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 5: There's always stuff happening, people getting shot.

1182
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: You're not gonna I don't think you're gonna get actually okay,

1183
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: well hold on, well you're not gonna get shot if

1184
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: you come to the US. Here's the thing I will say,

1185
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: of all the places I have been, I probably the

1186
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: most day dangerous is probably New York and Los Angeles

1187
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,040
Speaker 1: of any of the places that I have been. So

1188
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: I guess that's true. But no, you're not gonna get

1189
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: like shot if you come to the US.

1190
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 5: I mean, but just in general, stuff happens.

1191
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, stuff happens. Stuff happens everywhere. Like what stuff are

1192
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 1: you talking about?

1193
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 5: I don't know what seems more dangerous that like people

1194
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 5: getting roads, people getting like harassed on the train. To

1195
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 5: see that lady who got burned on.

1196
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 1: The train was a lady that did happen. There was

1197
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: a lady who got there. That is undeniable. Yeah, so

1198
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 1: many things Trump is sure there's Trump, but like he's

1199
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 1: not gonna like, he's not gonna get you. You know,

1200
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be like walking down the street and

1201
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: he shows up and he like grabs you. You know,

1202
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: he's not. He's in some other room. He's in he's

1203
01:02:56,360 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: in some room somewhere doing something and talking to someone

1204
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: and it and you know he's not he's not. He's sure,

1205
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: he's like in all of our lives, but he's not directly.

1206
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: He's not sitting in the chair across from you, like okay, yeah,

1207
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 1: he's not like behind he's you're gonna open a door

1208
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 1: and he punches you in the face, you know what

1209
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 1: I mean?

1210
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, cool, thank you for you're asshowing me right.

1211
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 1: Well, so what else? What do you want to do

1212
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: if you come here? Where do you want to go?

1213
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 5: I want to eat so much food, Like I just

1214
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,440
Speaker 5: want to eat what you guys eat, which is like

1215
01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 5: really fatty shitty stuff.

1216
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1217
01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:40,920
Speaker 3: Uh.

1218
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: The one thing if I were going to America and

1219
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: I'd never been before, the one thing that we have

1220
01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 1: here that they really truly truly do not have anywhere

1221
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 1: else is Chick fil A. Because you guys have McDonald's

1222
01:03:57,240 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: they have like five guys, I think even in Europe,

1223
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 1: but there's no check. There's no Chick fil As in Europe.

1224
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I really want to try Chick fil A and

1225
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 5: in and out in and it's pretty good.

1226
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: Inn it's pretty good. Five guys is better though, but

1227
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:15,800
Speaker 1: Chick fil A will will blow your tits off.

1228
01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 5: Okay, well, okay, beverage, do you know what? I hate

1229
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 5: that you made that joke because I just hate that joke.

1230
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 1: The thing, the beverage thing. Yeah, I mean whatever.

1231
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 5: Sometimes you just say sorry, yeah, I sorry, I was

1232
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:40,439
Speaker 5: just reading the chat.

1233
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1234
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,160
Speaker 5: I want to eat a lot of food in America.

1235
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 5: I want to go to the grocery store and see

1236
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 5: what it's like. I want to go to Costco and

1237
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 5: see what it's like. I want to like go on

1238
01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 5: a hike and go skiing and go to the beach,

1239
01:04:56,360 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 5: all in the same country. Like that's lit. Yeah, yeah,

1240
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 5: But for now I'm stuck in London. Well a bit.

1241
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 1: What do you do in London? What's going on over there?

1242
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 5: I work for a large supermarket in their office, which

1243
01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 5: is nice. I work as part of the buying team,

1244
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 5: which is not very interesting.

1245
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, cool, very nice, very good. Well come to America

1246
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: and you know, see for yourself. If I tell you what,

1247
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 1: if you come to America and you do get shot

1248
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:50,960
Speaker 1: and killed, I will give you whatever money you spent

1249
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 1: back to have this phone call. That's my money back guarantee.

1250
01:05:56,080 --> 01:05:57,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you know I'm probably running up the

1251
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 5: bit yo and Ayway's two things. Have you ever watched

1252
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 5: Broad City?

1253
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: Uh? Yeah, I know, I know, brad City, Okay.

1254
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 5: Yes, So when I imagine it going to New York,

1255
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 5: I like to think of broad City because I'm a

1256
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 5: stoner and I'm a girl. I mean I'm not Jewish,

1257
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 5: all white, but I'm black. But yeah, I always imagine

1258
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 5: New York to be like that, just going on an

1259
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 5: adventure pretty much every day and smoking loads of weeds. Also,

1260
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 5: have you watched Lost?

1261
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 1: I have not watched Lost?

1262
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,880
Speaker 5: Okay, well, you look like a character and Lost called Hurley.

1263
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 1: Oh god, I've always thought that. Wait, hold on, I'm

1264
01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: gonna hate. I'm gonna look this up and I know

1265
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna.

1266
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 2: No, just the face, just.

1267
01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 5: The face, just.

1268
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 1: Lost, Oh god, damn it? All right?

1269
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 5: No, well, I mean Harley's cute.

1270
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: No, No, yeah, I get you, I get you. I

1271
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: get it, like.

1272
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 5: And even the way he speaks, like, guys, do agree

1273
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 5: like the way he speaks you just it's very similar.

1274
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 5: I'm not I'm not trying.

1275
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: I get it. It's my look, it's my fault. Look,

1276
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 1: it's not your fault that I definitely look like this guy.

1277
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: It's it's not You're not the I have habits in

1278
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 1: my life and routines that have that I have enforced

1279
01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 1: consciously and subconsciously that are the reason that that I

1280
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,120
Speaker 1: look like this guy. So it's not your fault. I

1281
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:43,760
Speaker 1: don't blame you, okay.

1282
01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:47,800
Speaker 5: But also you don't look like him weight or body wise.

1283
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 5: I just mean also the way you guys, you guys

1284
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 5: sound alike.

1285
01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 1: Well, listen, Bev, you should come to America, eat some

1286
01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 1: Chick fil A, and then we can both look like

1287
01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 1: Harley from Lost.

1288
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 2: Okay?

1289
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:03,240
Speaker 3: Cool?

1290
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 4: Uh?

1291
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 1: Is there anything else? Who I say to the people

1292
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:06,760
Speaker 1: of the computer before.

1293
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:11,840
Speaker 5: We go, Peace and love to everyone, Be nice, be

1294
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 5: kind and happy.

1295
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:19,799
Speaker 1: Yea God, bless see you later, BEV, get bless Hello, folks,

1296
01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 1: it's Lyle here. That's the end of this episode. But

1297
01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 1: get this, I'm releasing a bonus episode this week. That's right,

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Speaker 1: from my live shows, members only streams, and they help

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Speaker 4: I feel kind of trapped.

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Speaker 2: It's like I'm not really where I want to be.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, you never will be. You'll probably be

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Speaker 1: a little bit depressed and unhappy forever.

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Speaker 4: My ex's dad is hard, probably a cannibal.

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Speaker 1: Your ex's dad is a cannibal.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I will take this journey with you. I will

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Speaker 1: take this journey with you. Felix, Please please please please

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Speaker 1: take us on this journey together through through whatever this

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Speaker 1: story is gonna be. Can you hook me up with

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Speaker 1: a tour of Universal Studios.

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Speaker 3: It's not Universal Studios.

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Speaker 1: I want to see how they Yeah, I don't think.

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Speaker 1: Don't call back unless if you can hook me up

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Speaker 1: with a tour at Universal Studios. If you want to

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Speaker 1: hear this full conversation, you can sign up to become

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Speaker 1: or find the link in the episode description. That's therapy

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Speaker 1: Gecko dot supercast dot com. All right, I have nothing

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Speaker 1: else to say. The repet goes on the line, taking

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Speaker 1: your phone calls every night. Themp can goes to his ride.

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Speaker 4: He's teaching you how to live your life, but he's

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Speaker 4: not really an expert.