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Speaker 1: Papa Team six. Welcome to another episode of four the Dads.

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Speaker 1: Look boys, we're we're yeah good. Look over at chirum

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Speaker 1: shirt right now. Good wife left town five days. She's

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Speaker 1: in Portland, Oregon, doing an owner's summit with Bar three

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Speaker 1: and their entire headquarters, their national team.

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Speaker 2: All the owners are out there for like a five

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Speaker 2: day event.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what they're doing. They're probably learning some stuff.

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Speaker 1: But your boy, I know what your boy's doing. And

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Speaker 1: your boys in the trenches right now. Back at home,

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Speaker 1: I'm being a father. Back at home, solo dad rocking

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Speaker 1: with two kiddos.

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Speaker 3: Good good. Nanny's out of town. Also goood. Rue doesn't

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Speaker 3: want to sleep in her own bed.

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Speaker 2: If my mama's gone, good good.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Scotty's crying.

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Speaker 1: Rue's crying because she misses mama. I gotta soothe Rue.

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Speaker 1: Scotty's in the crib crying because it's bottle time and

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Speaker 1: she's ready for a bottle to go to bed.

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Speaker 2: But Rue doesn't want me to let her go to bed.

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Speaker 2: Rue wants to go to bed first. Dad that you

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Speaker 2: do bedtime first. Don't do Scottie good good.

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Speaker 3: Because Scotty can put herself down. But she's only wait

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Speaker 3: eight months.

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Speaker 2: She's ten months. Tim can't put herself.

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Speaker 3: She can put herself down. I love for his logic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, oh yeah, Roo, I'm pointing at Scotty in

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Speaker 2: the crib.

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Speaker 3: Look at Scotty.

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Speaker 2: She's she's.

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Speaker 1: This kid is Michael Parson's on the third down. She's

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Speaker 1: hanging on the rail and she's looking at me like,

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Speaker 1: rou look at Scotty that that has to put it out.

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Speaker 1: I promise I'm gonna put her down as fast as possible.

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Speaker 3: It's your three backs. Crosby over there, she got in

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Speaker 3: the water bowl. She's destroyed the pantry.

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Speaker 1: But the pantry I've built it like the foundation I

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Speaker 1: have in the pantry, solid water bowl, dog bowl, the

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Speaker 1: matt and everything's on top of the on top of

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Speaker 1: the counter. She's just rummaging through all the snacks of

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Speaker 1: roof snacks. She's like, you know, she's gotta like throw

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Speaker 1: everything out. Yeah, it's not like the play. It's not

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Speaker 1: to open and try to eat. However, she did get

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Speaker 1: her hands on some puffs and some figured out a

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Speaker 1: way to open the top. I walk in, there's puffs

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Speaker 1: all over the floor as she's eating them with a

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Speaker 1: little grin.

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Speaker 3: On her face. I go, Scotty, pick her up.

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Speaker 2: She's like trying to grab She's trying to grabs me

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Speaker 2: puffs as possible. Want picking her up.

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Speaker 1: But I hope everybody's doing well. I hope the dads

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Speaker 1: out they are doing well. I hope other dads are moms.

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Speaker 1: You guys are sitting there laughing, having a good old time.

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Speaker 1: As Willie tells that story, Yep, we're in it right now.

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Speaker 1: But it's the life. It's the life I have chosen.

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Speaker 1: It's the life we live. I have an ambitious woman

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Speaker 1: who is an owner of our three studios here in Nashville.

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Speaker 1: Come on, who wants to She wants to be a grinder.

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Speaker 1: There's times where I'm at home and I'm like, sweetheart,

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Speaker 1: you know you ain't gotta you ain't gotta do nothing.

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Speaker 3: You don't laugh to you don't want to.

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Speaker 2: But I know she does and she loves it. And

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Speaker 2: it's just it's a grind between between us trying to

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Speaker 2: raise these two little demons.

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Speaker 3: Bro. Yeah, I have a story for you too.

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Speaker 1: As I continue to kick this off, everybody, we have

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Speaker 1: a que cars, we have comments everywhere.

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Speaker 2: We actually we also have an update with Chuck.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you guys have been following this podcast,

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Speaker 1: and a couple weeks ago, we've cried basically on every episode,

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Speaker 1: but a couple episodes ago Chuck talked about his his

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Speaker 1: wife rupturing and everything else. We actually have an update

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Speaker 1: from Chuck that we will hit you guys with. But

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Speaker 1: this show is for the intentional dads. If you're looking

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Speaker 1: to be more intentional. We have a lot of fans, dude,

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Speaker 1: that just enjoy the podcast. They're not even fathers yet.

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Speaker 1: People tell me I can't wait to be a dad

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Speaker 1: one day. Like I'm like a sitting duck. I was

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Speaker 1: telling you this. I was at the nearby park the

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Speaker 1: other day with the wife before she flew out, and

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Speaker 1: we were hanging with the kiddos. She was hanging with Rue,

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Speaker 1: Scotty was napping, and I'm sitting there on the bench

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Speaker 1: as Scotty's napping and the PT.

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Speaker 2: Sixers are out, Bro, they're out.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking.

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Speaker 1: There's a Hawkeye fan talking to me about the you

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Speaker 1: know where the program's at right now. They need to

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Speaker 1: be expecting more wins for their football team. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: a great conversation ended really well. Told him I loved him,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, Hey, I'm saying stuff

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Speaker 1: about the Hawk, but I do like I respect you guys,

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Speaker 1: and you guys have had our number Tennessee fan. Basically,

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Speaker 1: Chef Jack this is in like, this is like thirty

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Speaker 2: Dad. He sits down next to me.

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Speaker 3: How are you.

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Speaker 1: Feeling about the balls in Georgia? I love the Dad podcast.

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Speaker 1: He sits down next to me. Yeah, like we've just

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Speaker 1: been friends for years and it felt that way. We

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Speaker 1: had a great conversation. Fortunately Scotty didn't wake up. But

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Speaker 1: the PT sixers are out there. So this love all

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Speaker 1: subscribed and following all channels. It is football season, so

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Speaker 1: I know everybody's busy trying to consume as much football

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Speaker 1: possible until Ru's like, hey, let's go throw the frisbee outside,

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Speaker 1: Will you're a dad, You're an intentional fother? You have

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Speaker 1: a podcast for the dad. It's like, what would this

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Speaker 1: go play frisbee? And then just turn the game on

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Speaker 1: I can hear it Walla playing frisbee. I'll get up,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's go outside it. Let's go outside and

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Speaker 1: play frisbee with a huge smile on my face.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna get this time back shirm. She's not

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Speaker 1: gonna want to play frisbee. Listening all the time, I'll

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Speaker 1: learn how to throw it. But nothing gets this more

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Speaker 2: It's starting to drive people crazy. I've seen a couple

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Speaker 1: this is for the dads, man.

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Speaker 3: This is for the dads and for anybody that's like, man,

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Speaker 3: Will's juiced up. I do want to remind you it

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Speaker 3: is Busting Ball Week and where this isn't a football podcast,

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Speaker 3: not a football it's a dad podcast. But it is

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Speaker 3: Busting Ball Week. Please keep that in mind during this episode.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot of juice. There's a lot of juice,

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Speaker 2: wife left ur in Busting Bowl Week.

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Speaker 3: Birthday Week. It's birthday week. It's Will Compton's birthday week.

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Speaker 2: And birthday Week's not gonna count if we lose this game.

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Speaker 3: And that's hey, that's okay, because we'll have a birthday

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Speaker 3: next year that won't happen. But I'm just saying, there

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Speaker 3: is a birthday next year.

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Speaker 1: The Huskers are in position to rewrite this last decade,

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Speaker 1: decade and a half. Yeah, however long it's been since

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Speaker 1: we've had success in a season. Last year we had

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Speaker 1: our first winning season that just to taste, can't win

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Speaker 1: the big games and one score games where it's the records.

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Speaker 2: Are not good.

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Speaker 1: We we gritted out a one score game against Cincinnati. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now you're going against a real football team. Yeah, Price

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Speaker 1: Underwood superstar. He's going to be a superstar. He's going

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Speaker 1: to be, in my opinion, a number one overall pick.

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Speaker 1: If like the kids eighteen years old and he looks good,

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Speaker 1: they can run the football.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So this is a fist fight this week.

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Speaker 1: This is a dad's podcast, But we got a fist

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Speaker 1: fight in our hands this weekend, and there's an opportunity.

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Speaker 2: For Huskers, for the Huskers.

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Speaker 1: Matt Rule year three era, Like, there's an opportunity in

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Speaker 3: Talk about generational dad, by the way, Matt Rule, generational father,

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Speaker 3: Matt Rule.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'll be going on this podcast House Rules later today.

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Speaker 2: Really Yeah, that I'll drop this week as well.

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Speaker 1: We'll be talking some fatherhood check that out. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: football journey of the old old Willie Husker back.

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Speaker 2: In the day, So check that out.

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Speaker 1: But we're in a position as a football team, as

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Speaker 2: And it's this weekend.

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Speaker 1: This weekend also happens to be the bust and Bowl,

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Speaker 1: a rivalry between myself and Taylor, So that's one. It's like,

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Speaker 1: on a personal level, you want to win that game

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Speaker 1: just for the bragging rights. Yeah, they've beat us the

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Speaker 1: last four times we've played. We have a beat a

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Speaker 1: twenty four consecutive times we've been in the game against

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Speaker 1: a top twenty five opponent.

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Speaker 2: This game is huge, man, this is a That's podcast.

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Speaker 3: This and just a reminder, this isn't That's by the guys.

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Speaker 3: We are not professionals. But this is a huge week

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Speaker 3: for Nebraska. And if you want to send some love

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Speaker 3: to our boy, willye see because look at him.

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Speaker 1: I recruited Mike Eckler from the University of Tennessee to

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Speaker 1: take over special teams for the University of Nebraska. Yeah

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Speaker 1: on pff, you know we're in Nebraska's ranked right now

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Speaker 1: in special teams.

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Speaker 3: Oh gotta be top three one, come on one, like

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Speaker 3: we're all in.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: If I didn't have a mic in front of me,

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Speaker 1: I'd have a whistle hanging for my neck and I'd

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Speaker 1: be at the University of Nebraska.

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Speaker 3: That's God honest truth. Yeah, God, I believe that. So

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Speaker 3: guys leave some gbrs down in the comments for all

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Speaker 3: Willie C leave some gvrs down in the comments. The

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Speaker 3: boy needs it, he needs the jews. It's a big week,

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Speaker 3: coulda be tough game.

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Speaker 1: I like our ball club, Yeah, and it's all it's

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Speaker 1: it's about not feeling the lights, not feeling the stage, yep.

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Speaker 1: And Memorial Stadium being an electric factory all game, all game.

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Speaker 1: I was there two years ago. They drive it down

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Speaker 3: Besides my own dad, of course, he is amazing. You

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Speaker 2: Damn you are you starting to hear up?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I think you know what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: No? It is.

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Speaker 3: We just talked about for a two quarter routing for Michigan,

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Speaker 2: D like daddy girl six Daddy girl sixers.

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Speaker 1: then just shoot it. Text your mom, Hey Mom, I

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Speaker 3: That is sick. I do want to say. I don't

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Speaker 4: She had sent that and then I said, hey, this

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know what you know. I just Derek

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Speaker 2: But yeah, you're saying you're not picking that about you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Oh, I just didn't want you.

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Speaker 2: You're in your own head.

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Speaker 3: I'm in my own head. Okay, Okay, I'm in my

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Speaker 1: Even I sit there and like like slowly looked over Derek.

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Speaker 3: He's crushing it? Yeah, And I love that he picked

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Speaker 1: Sure we can confidently tell you Shuram does not handpick

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Speaker 2: Moral highgro Yes, sum does not do that.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah. I don't even know why I needed

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Speaker 3: that was that was awesome.

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Speaker 2: Dude, you're you're you're a stud, Sir, you are a stud.

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Speaker 3: You're not You're not.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you're not doing that.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Nobody thought that. I just want you to know.

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Speaker 1: I got one from Ryan Delaney on Instagram. A O

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Speaker 1: here soon to be the soon as missus missus I'm assuming,

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Speaker 1: Team six here, soon to be the Missus Water broke,

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Speaker 1: Water just broke as she's induced sipping on a night

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Speaker 1: you guys, keep killing it. Delaney, congrat or Ryan, congratulations.

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Speaker 1: Bro The trenches are just starting and a new found

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Speaker 3: Truly, I love that nitrous oxide cocktail. Yeah, maybe he

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Speaker 1: Like again, thirty hours, no sleep, you can't expect perfection.

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Speaker 3: That's incredible. Add Daniel six, I'm four to two zero dash.

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Speaker 3: Oh what's up? Fellas? Shout out Derek and chef. My

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Speaker 3: Night football? Is that correct? Sunny night football? Last weekend

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Speaker 3: we do it. Grip it and rip it. Fellas have

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 3: And that came from YouTube. That came from you.

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Speaker 1: Shut out YouTube comments. And by the way, quick time out.

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Speaker 1: That last comment is on me missus? Is that is

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Speaker 3: We're letting it rip.

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Speaker 2: Let me type this in and figure it out. Figure

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Speaker 3: I did not know that. That's truly. I love that,

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Speaker 1: Brittany Underwood sixteen Willie one shelf in Fat Stafford No kids,

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Speaker 3: They're tearing up.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I lost my dad at fourteen, but he

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Speaker 2: It's not a good week for me. Man.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I just want to say this is a really

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Speaker 2: I know and there's no laughing about any of that.

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Speaker 2: To my little girl. Oh but you're sitting there scrambling, get.

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Speaker 1: The kiddo's ready, to get Rue ready for school, get

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Speaker 1: Scottie ready, make sure she's make sure she can't crawl

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Speaker 1: we got for the dads today. We got the team meeting,

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Speaker 1: we got the k Adams Show, we got the Rules podcast.

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Speaker 1: We got to do the second part before the dads

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Speaker 1: driving over here. What my point I was gonna make

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Speaker 2: They you just get to talk about fatherhood.

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Speaker 1: I get to laugh with a good buddy of mine,

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Speaker 1: you gentlemen in the back, as well as Chef and Derek.

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Speaker 1: it always fires me up thinking like I wonder what

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Speaker 1: we'll see today. I wonder how much you'll get the

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Speaker 1: shit is, especially with stuff that happened last week. Just everything, man,

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Speaker 1: everything is just very precious. And to see everybody taking

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Speaker 1: whether it's hey, I lost my dad at fourteen and

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Speaker 1: appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: I know, we both do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we do. They like it is a pleasure to

438
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Speaker 3: read these comments. There's like no part of us that's

439
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 3: sitting in a think corporate think tank. That's like, you'll

440
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Speaker 3: get more listeners to your podcast if you read the

441
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Speaker 3: comments at the beginning of it, like it. We truly

442
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 3: just love reading these comments. Yeah, I also selfish shout out.

443
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 3: Just want to shout out everybody in the comments, to

444
00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 3: everybody that is DM me about my dad loss. Last episode.

445
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Speaker 3: That was the last episode.

446
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 1: I think it was a couple episodes ago. You're talking

447
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 1: about the big one.

448
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 3: We're the big one.

449
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, flying home the Baylor game, yes,

450
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 1: or after the week off yes, yeah, just because you

451
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 1: felt very uneasy after that after that episode.

452
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I knew that it was going. The only

453
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,679
Speaker 3: thing I was uneasy about is I checked in with

454
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Speaker 3: you and was like that I overshared there and you

455
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 3: were like, I didn't think so at all. And then

456
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 3: in my head I was like, did I overshare there

457
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:44,399
Speaker 3: with Jill? Told her everything I yeah, and she was like, yeah, no,

458
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 3: not at all. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's a weird game that doing the podcast, Like you

460
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 1: have yeah in your head on stuff at home, like,

461
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 1: am I oversharing?

462
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 2: Reason I loved it? The reason I loved it so much,

463
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Speaker 2: which I'm glad that you're getting a bunch of.

464
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 1: Feedback from, is because I feel like that it's like

465
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 1: a real situation that you you break down.

466
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 2: And again, this is not some expert show.

467
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 1: This is like us talking about real life experiences in

468
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 1: our lives that I feel like is relatable to everybody

469
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 1: because everybody goes through situations that we've both gone through,

470
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 1: especially with yours. In that situation where you're like, man,

471
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Speaker 1: am I oversharing? Am I seeming like like a bad

472
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 1: husband or a bad dad with that one? It's like, bro,

473
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: all of us have bad moments, So that fires me up.

474
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Speaker 1: That you've gotten a lot of feedback from that.

475
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Speaker 3: Yeah. And I remember telling you because we both started

476
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 3: laughing when I was telling you. The day after that

477
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 3: episode dropped, I had a DM of some guy that

478
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 3: was like, sure, I'm so glad you told that story

479
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,479
Speaker 3: because literally this last week, same thing happened. And hearing

480
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 3: you say that made me feel so much better because

481
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 3: I consider you a good dad and it makes me

482
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 3: feel that much better. And I told Will, I'm so

483
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 3: glad that guy DM because hearing that, he also, yeah, okay,

484
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 3: I'm not the one that we're both feeling the same

485
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Speaker 3: thing with the good and idea of that back, I

486
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 3: was like, bro, I hate that that happened, but I'm

487
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 3: you know, we're in this.

488
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, in this. Hey, and Brittany, by the way, thank

489
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Speaker 2: you for sharing this comment. Thank you for sharing this.

490
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 3: Yes, thank you. Brittany from YouTube Hambonious, Rex Right's wife

491
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 3: thirty three weeks pregnant, just screamed yes about the wives

492
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Speaker 3: designing an MT six shirt. People are serious about it, will.

493
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Speaker 1: I did see a couple of the ladies being like

494
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Speaker 1: they love the idea of the wives designing a milk

495
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Speaker 1: Team six just having something come to us.

496
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Speaker 2: It's from the women that they would be yes fired

497
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Speaker 2: up about.

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Speaker 3: I think that could be a fun little that's a

499
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Speaker 3: fun little bonding thing for our wives too. That could

500
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Speaker 3: be like a hey, you guys have fun, Yeah, leverage.

501
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 2: Our podcasts and brand to do a bonding thing.

502
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Speaker 3: Hope you'll hope you'll have some fun designing this ship.

503
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Chef, can you turn the camera on while

504
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 2: we do.

505
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Speaker 3: And start rolling? Start rolling? Oh, y'all like each other?

506
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:00,879
Speaker 3: All right?

507
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 2: Chef cut it, so you know, we gotta go.

508
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: Huskers are kicking off here in ten minutes, we got

509
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 1: the bonding moments.

510
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 3: Do we get it perfect? Oh?

511
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 1: I got one here from from Logan and I'm sitting

512
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: at the top that this is a real one.

513
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: I need this podcast today.

514
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 1: I also took a huge dat l last night and

515
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 1: got into a big fight with my fiance and listening

516
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: to Shran be so vulnerable and open about the struggles

517
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,400
Speaker 1: of finding that balance between work, family and me time,

518
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 1: I had to shut it off and take a take

519
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 1: a minute to take my own accountability and let her

520
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 1: know that I was being a fuck up to So

521
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 1: shout out to Fat Stafford for being that example. That

522
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 1: being that example that me, as a younger man needed today.

523
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: Shout out Willy one Shelf Chef and Ball's Deep Derek.

524
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 1: He put the hammer for Willy One's shelf, He put

525
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Speaker 1: the little chef emoji for chef, and he put the

526
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: cherries for balls Deep Derek, et six till I die

527
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Speaker 1: Pepperoni's forever Logan, thank you for this comment, man hey,

528
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 1: And just like just like that, we were just talking

529
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 1: about you a couple of weeks ago, and they're.

530
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Speaker 3: Ye and shout out everybody that was commenting Peppinoni's YouTube

531
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Speaker 3: that made me smile. Uh. This one comes from via email.

532
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 3: This comes from Jonathan McMahon. Uh, that's six on one

533
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 3: of the dads at gmail dot com. Correct, okay, excuse me.

534
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 3: Jonathan McMahon writes, sure, Will and Chef three absolute goats.

535
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 3: I would say four, with Derek veteran goon Bray captain

536
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 3: checking in honorably discharge. After finding my own Jilly Bean

537
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 3: slash Charro, I'm now proud girl dad to Ivy three

538
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 3: and Ila five, and now a fully pledged Papa Team

539
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 3: six member. This is huge. My name is Johnny and

540
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 3: I'm from Dublin, Ireland, a rare college football NFL fan

541
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: over here, and I've been riding the bet. I've been

542
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 3: writing with Busting with the Boys since the beginning, which

543
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:08,360
Speaker 3: obviously deployed me over to your podcast without question. As

544
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 3: I sit here listening to the latest episode, I'm buzzing

545
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 3: that the international listeners can now interact. Just wanted to

546
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 3: send some love. This podcast is the real deal. It's raw,

547
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 3: it's relatable, and it's exactly the kind of authentic content

548
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,919
Speaker 3: Dad Slash Future Dad's need and goom berets. It sounds

549
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 3: like no need for a reply. Just wanted to say

550
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 3: you genuinely make my Wednesdays better. Keep doing what you're

551
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,640
Speaker 3: doing and I will rep the four the dad's merch

552
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 3: over here and spread the word. Johnny you said, Johnny,

553
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Speaker 3: Jonathan McMahon.

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Speaker 2: Johnny, thank you for the comment. Bro.

555
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 3: That's a great message. Ireland too and an NFLCFB sick though.

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00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. International for the dads is international, man, Oh that's

557
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Speaker 2: congress to them. We see is a girl dad three and.

558
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Speaker 3: Five three and five Ilah and Island Ivy also shout

559
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 3: out Island Ivy.

560
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 2: Shout out Island Ivy. I had that age right there too.

561
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: Is one that again love stay present in the moments

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Speaker 1: now because Scotty at ten months old is an absolute blast.

563
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: I sit there and mess with Scottie and play with

564
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: Scotty dude and her personality, her crawling all over the place,

565
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 1: her like unbothered this and just happy. She's just a

566
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Speaker 1: happy little girl. Oh yeah, Rue is too, but she's

567
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Speaker 1: a three year olds.

568
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: The emotions like, she's very intense with their emotions right now.

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Speaker 2: Rue is an absolute sweetheart as well.

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Speaker 1: But Scotty, like I play with her at ten months,

571
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 1: I always think about you because I'm like, man, sure's

572
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: really gonna love when he gets to these moments. And

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00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 1: then I quickly I'm like, he's also, he's got it.

574
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 1: He's gotta love, he's gotta love the ones that he's

575
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Speaker 1: in right now. But at three and five, I'm excited

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Speaker 1: for those ages for Scotty and Rue. Ru's three, so

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00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,239
Speaker 1: it'll be like six and three to where they can

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Speaker 1: play with each other, they can teach each other. You know,

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Speaker 1: ruill be teaching her a lot of stuff. They'll be

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00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: getting any each other's way, pissing each other off. I'm

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Speaker 1: very excited for that when Scotty gets to be three

582
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Speaker 1: where Ru is right now, and you know.

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Speaker 2: They'll be like best friends. That is truly. I'm so looking.

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Speaker 1: Forward to that because Ru is so good with Scotty now,

585
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: not now like she wasn't, but she's always been and

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Speaker 1: it's always like a work in progress, right Like if

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Speaker 1: Scotty's up on the couch and trying to pull the

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00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: blanket or doing something that Rue doesn't want, you got

589
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 1: to catch her and continue to remind her, Hey.

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00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 2: She's just a baby. She does not know what you're saying, like,

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00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 2: every time I say no to her, what does Scotty do?

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00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: She continues to do what she's doing. She has no clue.

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00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 1: She's just a baby. We have to learn to be sweet.

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00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: We have to learn to be kind to her. If

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Speaker 1: she's doing something you don't want to do either, you

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00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: know how to disarm the situation, like if she's getting

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00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: in something she knows, like grab her legs and pull

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00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: her back if it's on a sliding surface.

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Speaker 3: I gotta see a video of that.

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Speaker 1: And she did it one time when Scotty was on

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Speaker 1: the bottom stair and so Scotty kind of hit her

602
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: face a little bit. It wasn't bad. Yeah, Scotty was crying,

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00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 1: and that was like a teaching moment of Hey, if

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Speaker 1: Scotty's on a step, you go up and just wrap

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Speaker 1: your arms around her, like around her chest, and just

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Speaker 1: hold her there. If she cries, that's okay, Dad, mom

607
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: or Dada, I'll come over and help. But you just

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Speaker 1: wrap your arms around there and hold her. Because unless

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Speaker 1: you feel confident like picking her up and moving her,

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Speaker 1: which I don't think she doesn't right now, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: just sit there and hold her. And the other day

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Speaker 1: she was literally, I hat Dad, Dad, Scotty's Scotty's on

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Speaker 1: the stairs.

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Speaker 2: I didn't have the barricade up.

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00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: I didn't have jumbo package out there the goal line defense,

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Speaker 1: or I barricaded the stairs. And for people are like, oh,

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Speaker 1: why don't you just get a gate. We do have

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00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: a gate, but it's at the top of the stairs

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Speaker 1: because Rue, if you remember, in the first episode, she

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Speaker 1: went crashing down the stairs, so we got a gate

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Speaker 1: for the top of the stairs. Rue didn't have a

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Speaker 1: whole lot of an issue with like always wanting to

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Speaker 1: climb the stairs, the stairs. Scottie always wants.

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00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 2: To climb the stairs.

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Speaker 3: She's scott Zilla, true.

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Speaker 2: She's scott Zilla. And Willie one shelf has him put

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Speaker 2: a gate in on the bottom.

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Speaker 3: So I have this.

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Speaker 2: Barricade that I put up at the bottom of the stairs.

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Speaker 2: But Rue's holding her.

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Speaker 1: She's like dad a, Scotty's trying to climb the stairs

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00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,959
Speaker 1: and Scotty's crying and fuss and Rue's just sitting there

633
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: holding her and kind of got like a smile on

634
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: her face because she knows she's doing the right thing.

635
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: But that's kind of the stage we're in now, and

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited for and Scotty gets to be like

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00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: Ru's age and they can actually play together.

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00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I and I too, to like reiterate what you're

639
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 3: saying about how excited I'll be. Uh, it goes into

640
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,959
Speaker 3: my dad win, so I don't want to spoil it,

641
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 3: but I am very excited as well.

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00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll hold on that win. You can always tell

643
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: your stories and just say, hey, this is the Dad win.

644
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 3: That is true. But we'll hold it. We'll hold We

645
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: already said it. I got got three minutes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my wife has a dress like dad them day

647
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: at work coming up, She'll be wearing my PT six shirt.

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Speaker 1: No brainer. This is from Turtle nineteen xx. Thank you

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00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: for the Thank you for the comment, Turtle, and I

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Speaker 1: am fired up that she'll be rocking a PT six shirt.

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Speaker 3: I got one from Kim Hickey for one six Kim

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Speaker 3: Hickey Tier one.

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Speaker 2: She Kim Hickey is a very much a Tier one.

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Speaker 2: Shout out Kim.

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Speaker 3: Hickey, shout he's been.

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Speaker 1: She's been rocking with Bus with the boys for quite

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Speaker 1: a long time, maybe since the beginning.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and a Mama Team sixer. Yeah, well this episode

659
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Speaker 3: had me from start to finish. I saved the pod

660
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Speaker 3: to listen to it at work, and it had me bawling.

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Speaker 2: Good.

662
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 3: Everyone was asking me if I was okay, and I

663
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 3: would tell them about the pod. Red eyes everywhere now, good.

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Speaker 3: Keep up the great work, boys, and sure I felt

665
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Speaker 3: everything you said. You were one step ahead of some

666
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 3: You shared your experience and understood your part in it.

667
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 3: Those days will happen as long as you learn from them,

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Speaker 3: you will figure it out. Thank you, Kim. That's a

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Speaker 3: really sweet comment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an awesome comic, Kim, Thank you, m you

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Speaker 1: Are you done?

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Speaker 2: I'm done. I have two left that we can rip here.

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Speaker 1: This one's from mister Highway zero forty morning, gentlemen, soon

674
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Speaker 1: to be BET six or Team minus three weeks. It

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Speaker 1: feels like DDA or Normandy Beach where heading up the

676
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: shore on our boats. Don't worry, I'm not the one puking.

677
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 1: I'm feeling good. I feel like Fat Stafford and really

678
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Speaker 1: one shouff with me in these final weeks of life

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Speaker 1: as I know it.

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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 1: I have my PT six shir ready for the hospital

682
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Speaker 1: and can't wait to share a pick with me in

683
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Speaker 1: it with my baby boy leaving the hospital.

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Speaker 3: Good.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys. So much for the weekly podcast. It

686
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 1: has helped ease the jitters of becoming a father, and

687
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: it's helped me prepare for wife on the pup list.

688
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: Go Big Red, Go Big Red, and then this final one.

689
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Speaker 2: Here's the update from Chuck.

690
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: So if you guys remember Chuck sent in a comment

691
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Speaker 1: a couple weeks ago talking about how his wife ruptured.

692
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: There wasn't a whole lot of context. I assumed the

693
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Speaker 1: worst that happened, but this is a great update from Chuck.

694
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Speaker 1: It up zero four three days ago. Boys, I wanted

695
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Speaker 1: to thank you for the advice about my fiance who ruptured.

696
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Speaker 1: Mama and baby girl, Charlie are being strong as ever.

697
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Speaker 1: Plan is to be admitted to the University of Michigan

698
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: Shout out Taylor the hospital in two weeks to monitor

699
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Speaker 1: for premature birth as they have the highest level nick

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Speaker 1: you around. Going to be an absolute battle, but I

701
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: know both my girls got it. Thanks for just being

702
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: there means a ton. The community has been a life saving.

703
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,479
Speaker 1: Fatherhood is a blessing. Chuck Man, you are in our

704
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 1: thoughts and prayers.

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Speaker 3: Bro. I would love if you update us.

706
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: I completely understand if you don't want to update us,

707
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: like again, I know I rus in the nick you

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Speaker 1: for seven days, but it wasn't premature. Like that's a

709
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: world that I'm not as familiar with. I know it

710
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: can be I know it can be dangerous. I know

711
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,239
Speaker 1: that it's it's a weird pocket to be in of

712
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: optimism and hope trying to you know, not think about

713
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Speaker 1: what the downside could be.

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Speaker 3: I hope everything goes well.

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00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: Man. Again, the rougher thing a couple of weeks ago,

716
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: my brain saw that and.

717
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 3: Just assumed the worst.

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Speaker 1: So so my fault for misleading that comment. And I

719
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Speaker 1: am very fired up to hear that you guys are

720
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Speaker 1: are being strong right now, and that you guys are

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00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: good right now, and that you guys will be at

722
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Speaker 1: the hospital here to monitor for premature birth. Hopefully all

723
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Speaker 1: goes well.

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Speaker 2: Man. Please update us if you want to, but thank

725
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Speaker 2: you for the update.

726
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 3: I'm sorry I fell silent. I connected the dots that

727
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 3: the daughter's name was Charlie and his name's Chuck, so

728
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 3: she's named after him. I just think that's really cool.

729
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 3: So sorry, I'm so sorry, but like, oh my god,

730
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: you know you're right.

731
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,240
Speaker 2: I'm more so laughing just here in German.

732
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 3: That's so cool. You're right. That is a.

733
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 2: Yeah man. Shout out Charles and shout out Charlie.

734
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 3: They got this.

735
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: They got this. Prayer prayers up for Chuck in the

736
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 2: in the chat. Okay, buddy, what the heck? I know

737
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 2: these comments wreck us man.

738
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 3: It's it was the Collins that used to wreca and

739
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 3: now it's the it's the comments. Se what in the

740
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 3: world I need Kleenex. Cleenex, please shout out there, we

741
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 3: shout out. We can get guys.

742
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: Thank you for sending in comments sincerely like it is

743
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: really it is really cool to be part of this community.

744
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you guys are amazing.

745
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 3: Yes, and Chuck, thank you, Terry, thank you, Uh, Chuck

746
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 3: so stoked, so excited and wishing the best for y'all. Yeah,

747
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 3: and thank you for sharing.

748
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know we can uh number one, so you

749
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: can get yourself together. We do have a team meeting

750
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 1: on the bus and with the boys side in the shop.

751
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: We'll take a quick break and we will be back

752
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: to talk about talk about our weekends, talk about our

753
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: last week in fatherhood. I guess so quick, potty break,

754
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,439
Speaker 1: quick body break, and we will be we will be back.

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Speaker 3: E T six ers. We interrupt this episode for a

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Speaker 3: PT. Sixers, welcome back. We just got done with the

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Speaker 3: ad Reids. However, I did want to do an additional

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Speaker 3: shout out to Wayfair. You see the Memorial Stadium plaque

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Speaker 3: behind will Compton that came from our friends at Wayfair.

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Speaker 3: They give us a two hundred and fifty dollars gift card.

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Speaker 2: Will that's juicy.

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Speaker 1: That was one of our some interesting facts of the

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Speaker 3: I won't again.

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Speaker 2: This is a Dad Chow Dad show, so I won't

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Speaker 2: bore you with those. But some good bullet points up there.

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Speaker 3: They're great bullet points. I bought a sign that I

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00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 3: thought was much smaller, but it's actually a really uh

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00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 3: pretty good sized sign of Baylor. It's like weathered wood.

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Speaker 3: thank you. We We do have our Wayfair giveaway winner

834
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Speaker 3: that we will do at the end of the episode.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry to tease it, that's on me to tease it,

836
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Speaker 3: but we will read out our winner of the Wayfair

837
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Speaker 3: giveaway at the end of the episode. And Derek said,

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Speaker 3: a pretty fire video submission from this guy. Do we

839
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Speaker 3: even want to play it at the end as well? Derek,

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Speaker 3: is it worth putting on the pod? A potential A potential,

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Speaker 3: A potential. A we'll see.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into our let's get into our highs and

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Speaker 2: lows of the week.

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Speaker 3: Love it.

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Speaker 2: We got our hot line six on one.

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Speaker 1: The dads come on, we'll talk voicemails. We'll round it

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Speaker 1: off with a lesson quote coming from you.

848
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 3: I have a quote, real, Yeah, it's hard to kick

849
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Speaker 3: to kind.

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Speaker 1: Of find quotes with the the chaos over the weekend.

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Speaker 3: Oh I know, dude, my quote actually came from a

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Speaker 3: like in person conversation. Didn't hang out with the Jill

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Speaker 3: step dat. It's on there in town for Jill's birthday,

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Speaker 3: and he's just he's full of one liners.

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Speaker 1: Dude, Like, I got to write him down, Dad, one liners.

856
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 1: You got to put it in the notes app and

857
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 1: you gotta start jotting him down whenever you hear from

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Speaker 1: the generation above us, because they have some gold.

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00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 3: He was telling me about a fight he got in

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Speaker 3: way back in the day. He is down because we're

861
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Speaker 3: watching the Monday night football game. We're talking about Houston.

862
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 3: He said, Man, last time I was in Houston, this

863
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 3: big old guys walked through the parking garage. Somebody's cat

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00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 3: calling and his wife. He thinks it's me and our

865
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 3: group of guys and he comes barreling over. I just

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Speaker 3: looked at my friend. I said, this is gonna fucking hurt. Incredible.

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Speaker 3: But the guy missed the punch and hit the car

868
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 3: like uh, the actual car, Fraim and broke his hand.

869
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 3: So Cody got out unscathed. Oh, I know they do.

870
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 3: He's a legend, blue collar type. He's owned towing businesses,

871
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 3: butcher shops, like all different types of stuff. He's a

872
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 3: cool cat. I'll talk about it more later.

873
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, getting into my weekend with the girls.

874
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 1: So my dad loss is more of a dad heartbreaker

875
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 1: than anything else. So, as I've already told you, I've

876
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: been solo with the kiddos. We're solo with the kiddos

877
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: until you're listening to this on Wednesday, So tonight the

878
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: wife gets home tonight, okay, but been sold with the

879
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 1: kiddos on Saturday. And dude, nothing breaks your heart more

880
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 1: than your little girl or you're I always assuming the

881
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 1: little boys are like this too, especially if mama's gone

882
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: being little Mama's boys. But seeing your little girl, miss

883
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: Mama being gone, and that happened over the weekend.

884
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 2: It was night too.

885
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: So the first night Rue and I had a sleepover.

886
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 1: We had a little slumber party where she slept in

887
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: my bed. We usually do it like once every now

888
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: and then, maybe once a weekend, maybe every other weekend.

889
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 2: Just every now and then we hit a little sleepover

890
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 2: where we can sleep with mama and dead dead.

891
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 1: So we did a sleepover on night one on Saturday

892
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: to just to keep her hype about something because mom

893
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: was leaving.

894
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 2: We're dropping her off at the airport. You could see

895
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 2: the her thinging like how many sleeps until you get home?

896
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 1: And like oh dang, like Mama's leaving. We're dropping her

897
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,320
Speaker 1: off at the airport. It's like, oh, we get to

898
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: do is sleepover tonight? We could do this and that

899
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: and getting her excited to hers she's not fully going

900
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: down that emotional rabbit hole of mom being gone. Yeah,

901
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: night too comes. So it's Sunday night and it was

902
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:52,879
Speaker 1: a it was a great afternoon. Called over reinforcements, talk

903
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: about operation in laws, had them over to help with

904
00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 1: the kiddos and Lola open Lola. They're playing with Rue,

905
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: keeping her busy. Lola's holding Scottie. Daddy gets to watch

906
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: a little bit of ball. I'm watching ball with my

907
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: father in law, and we're having a good time. It

908
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 1: was a great afternoon. They leave around five. Rue's so

909
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,399
Speaker 1: tired she ends up sleeping a little bit on the couch.

910
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: I wake her up because it's like, hey, I don't

911
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: want you to sleep too long, you know, we need

912
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: you tire for bedtime. And we're gonna eat dinner, and

913
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: she's having a hard time like getting over to the

914
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: dinner table, yeah, and eating dinner.

915
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 2: And I just end up like, sweetheart, like what's going on?

916
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 2: Like why is this? Why is this? You've been so

917
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 2: good today, You've been you've been so patient, you've listened

918
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: really well, You've had a lot of fun with Lola

919
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 2: and Opa.

920
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: And she just says, I miss mama and starts kind

921
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 1: of crying, and I'm like, oh man, and so I'm

922
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 1: hugging her, and so we get through the dinner and

923
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 1: where I have to you know, I'm just like talking

924
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: her through the dinner and everything else, and then we

925
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: get to bedtime, and this.

926
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 2: Is where it really goes.

927
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 3: This is the.

928
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 2: Real heartbreak moment.

929
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'm trying. So my operation when I'm in

930
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 1: my two minute drill with bedtime is seven o'clock rolls around.

931
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: I get Scottie down, hopefully within thirty minutes feet of

932
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: the bottle rocker, read reader a little nighttime book and

933
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: get her down, and then I usually, like Rui'll just

934
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 1: be hanging out. She might get a TV coupon, depends

935
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: on where she's at with the TV coupons, but.

936
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 3: She'll hang out.

937
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: She'll play for ten She'll do things like either in

938
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: her room or hang out downstairs while I'm putting Scotty down,

939
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: And Rude does a great job, like, hey, you want

940
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: to help that out?

941
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,760
Speaker 2: Can you get in your pjs while I'm putting Scottie

942
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 2: down and kind of challenge her on like being a

943
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 2: big girl. And I can I know I can trust you,

944
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 2: Like I can trust that when I walk out of

945
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 2: this room, you're gonna be in your pj's, You're going

946
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 2: to be in your pull up.

947
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: She does that. Yeah, And I'm trying to get Scottie

948
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: ready for bed. I'm putting her PJS on, I'm getting

949
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: in her sleepsack. I'm like set in the.

950
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 2: Room, set in the mood, the same operation we have

951
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 2: every night.

952
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: And as I get Scotty in the sleepsack, Ruth's just

953
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: crying like really starting to pick up, like a tantrum,

954
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:58,479
Speaker 1: like breaking down.

955
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 3: And I got there, sweetheart, what's going on?

956
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: I put Scotty in the crib and then I walk

957
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: out into the hallway and I'm like, hey, sweetheart, what's

958
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: going on? And she's just crying. She's like, I miss mama,

959
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: I miss mamma. Can you put me to bed first?

960
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: Like I don't want you to put Scotty to bed first?

961
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 2: Can you put me to bed first?

962
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, sweetheart, like I have to get Scotty

963
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: needs it's her bottle time.

964
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 2: I gotta put Scotty down. I gotta get her to bed.

965
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: I promise, I'm gonna go as fast as I can

966
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 2: so then I can spend it. It's just gonna be

967
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 2: me and you tonight and I'll spend time with you.

968
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: I'll read you three books, I'll read you the story.

969
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: We'll do all the stuff, like we'll do all the things.

970
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,359
Speaker 1: And she's struggling, like she's breaking down, having a tantwer.

971
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,399
Speaker 1: I'm just like I'm starting to get stressed. I'm just like, gosh,

972
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: damn it, man, like I need please, like get a

973
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 1: hold of your emotions. I'm like saying this in my

974
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: head as I'm trying to soothe rough Scottie. Micah Parson's

975
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: on third down Demon's that's when she's on top of

976
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: the crib like and she's crying, and I'm like, sweetheart,

977
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: look at Scotty, like I just just please let me

978
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 1: put Scotty.

979
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 2: I promise I'm gonna go fast. She's say, no, you're not.

980
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 2: You're not gonna go fast. You're not gonna put Scotty.

981
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: Down, like I want you to put me down first,

982
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: and a whole thing's going on. I'm like, hey, Sweeter,

983
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: I know you miss Mama. I miss Mama too, Like

984
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: Mama's the best person in the world. Mama is Dadad's

985
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: favorite person.

986
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 2: I love her. I love her and miss her as

987
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 2: much as you do right now. And I know it's hard.

988
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 2: I know it's hard. I'm like, but if you can

989
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 2: just help me for a moment, like just you can

990
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,399
Speaker 2: go lay anywhere you want to. You can go lay

991
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 2: in your bed, you can go lay down on the

992
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: couch if you want to, because I know she's tired.

993
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: She was like trying to take that nap and everything else.

994
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: You can go lay in our bed if you miss mama.

995
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 1: Lay on her side. Go lay it anywhere you want to.

996
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: I promise, I'm gonna get this done as fast as

997
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: I can. Just you look at Scotty, Jojo. I gotta

998
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: go help the little one out right now. And so

999
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: she's sobbing and she ends up like walking away and

1000
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: her shoulders are down. I just feel bad because I'm like,

1001
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: I don't know how else do. I'm like, you can

1002
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: come sit in the room with me and Scotty, but

1003
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,760
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't be making loud noises because it'll

1004
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,280
Speaker 1: keep Scotty awake. Yeah, but whatever you want to do, sweetheart,

1005
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: go lay with anywhere you want to. So I go

1006
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 1: in to put Scotty down feet of the bottle, and

1007
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: Scotty was pretty smooth. I get her down like within

1008
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. And as I'm feeding her the bottle, I'm

1009
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 1: just hearing rue the echoes of her cries from downstairs,

1010
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: and the cries are like, I miss you so much,

1011
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: I love you so much, Mama, like she's talking to

1012
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: mom and it was just a heartbreaker, bro. And I'm

1013
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: just like checking the bottle and I'm like, she's dozing off.

1014
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: I hope she goes asleep because I need to put

1015
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: her down. I need to go down and really get

1016
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: with Rue. Yeah, so I get Scottie down. Dude, I

1017
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: go downstairs because I'm hearing the cries. I'm like, I

1018
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:25,359
Speaker 1: gotta go get to her. And I walk downstairs. She's

1019
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 1: not on the couch. So I walk into my room.

1020
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, she's probably laying on the bed. I

1021
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: walk in my room, bro, make a left and look

1022
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: down on the floor. Rue is laying down on the

1023
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: floor and she's holding our family photo just yelling that

1024
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 1: I miss you so much.

1025
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 2: I love you so much, Mama. I love you so much, mama.

1026
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 2: And it was the saddest thing in the world.

1027
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 3: B dude, it was so sad.

1028
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 1: It was like a it's just a heartbreaker, man. And

1029
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: Charles checking in, how's everything going on? My g It

1030
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: ain't like Rue struggling right now. And she's like, oh,

1031
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 1: does she miss me? And I'm like, she misses you badly,

1032
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: Like she's like she's like hurting, she missed you so much.

1033
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: So orre like you know, I get on face that

1034
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: we're getting on FaceTime with her and we're talking to her.

1035
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 1: You can just tell Rue sad. And then I'm like Hey,

1036
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 1: do you want to sleep with dad ad tonight again? Like,

1037
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 1: you can sleep in the bed, you can sleep in

1038
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: mama's spot. I'll put the photo right here by you.

1039
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: We'll FaceTime with mom. I'll read you some stories. I'll

1040
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: show her some Mama videos on Instagram. Oh yeah, and

1041
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: that calmed her down.

1042
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 2: We get her to sleep. But that's kind of like

1043
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: my dad heartbreaker.

1044
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: Like not it's not a loss, but it's like my

1045
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: heartbreaker of the week, Like that was so sad.

1046
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 3: Such a heartbreaker and such a dad win too though

1047
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 3: of like God, she loves y'all. That's yeah, awesome.

1048
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I know, like as I'm telling Charles

1049
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: how everything's going down there, it's breaking her heart that

1050
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: I'm telling her the story. And I know as a

1051
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: dad on the receiving end of some of the Hey,

1052
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: she's missing you. She wants you to call back, this,

1053
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: that the other. Just like when you're removed and far

1054
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: away and you can't be there, it just makes you

1055
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: sad because you know you're going to be coming home

1056
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 1: and they just can't wrap their mind like everything's okay.

1057
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 2: Now, Mama's right here.

1058
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: Look, you're talking to her like she's just she's just

1059
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,320
Speaker 1: somewhere else right now. Yeah, but anytime we want to

1060
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: call her, we can. I can show you videos. I

1061
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: know you miss her and like, you know, you're giving

1062
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: them hugs. But you know, the mom guilt for my

1063
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: wife is kicking in, like as all this stuff's going on,

1064
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: because it's just a heartbreaker to be away from the kiddos,

1065
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 1: especially when they're struggling.

1066
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 2: They just don't they just don't like get it.

1067
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 3: And what a cheet code face time is. Yeah, thank

1068
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: god for face what a cheek code. Jill has a

1069
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 3: little nephew that I mean, she's face timed with maybe

1070
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 3: five thousand times, has hung out in person over the

1071
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 3: last year with maybe twice. But Jill is still one

1072
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 3: of his favorite people that he instantly like sparks up

1073
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 3: when she walks in the room because he's face timing.

1074
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 2: Her every night.

1075
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 3: Yeah gg I'm like, that's crazy that even over face

1076
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 3: time they can like make those connections.

1077
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but that was a heartbreaker, man.

1078
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: And the bad the habit that I've that I was

1079
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: alluding to is last night, some Monday night. Yeah, I'm

1080
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: sitting there and I'm like, Okay, I can't do three

1081
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 1: days in a row with her in the bed with me.

1082
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: Because you're just starting to create, you're getting in a

1083
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: different you're you're starting to starting to dip your toe

1084
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: in different waters that you don't want to set.

1085
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 2: This standard fee.

1086
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, you need to sleep in your bed. Roose upstairs.

1087
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 1: She crushes it with bedtime. I put Scottie down. I

1088
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: walk in her room. She's got all the peach she

1089
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 1: got to pull up on, the pj's on, she's playing

1090
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: for tend. She's got her little princess crown on. She's

1091
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: got her purse strap over her shoulder. She's got all

1092
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 1: this stuff on her body. And she's like, you know,

1093
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: plaining imagination. And I walk in the room and I

1094
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: have all I brought up her stuffed animals and sound

1095
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: machine and toothbrush and toothpaste, hair brush, brought all that.

1096
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 2: Back upstairs, like into her room.

1097
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I set it all down, and I go

1098
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: downstairs to get the monitor for Scottie. And as I

1099
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,720
Speaker 1: go downstairs, grab the monitor for Scotty, go back upstairs

1100
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:48,760
Speaker 1: and put Rude out for bedtime.

1101
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 2: I walk in the room. Ruse got all the stuffed

1102
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 2: animals in her arms, and the hair brush and the

1103
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:57,319
Speaker 2: toothpaste and the toothbrush, and I was like, sweetheart, let's

1104
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 2: get to bed.

1105
00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 3: What are we doing?

1106
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 1: And she was like, I want sleep upstairs with you?

1107
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 1: And I'm like, baby, this is this bed is for

1108
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: you to sleep in, like we got to start doing

1109
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: We don't want to create a bad habit like that.

1110
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: We don't get to do this all the time, like

1111
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 1: you got to sleep in your bed and dad sleeps

1112
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: in his bed.

1113
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,879
Speaker 2: And she's like, but I want to sleep with you.

1114
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: And I just looked down at her and she's looking

1115
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: up at me, and I'm just like, okay, let's go downstairs.

1116
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 3: Dude. How do you say no to that?

1117
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 2: You can't? You can't we go downstairs?

1118
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 3: She gets them.

1119
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, do you need me to help you.

1120
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: I'm like carrying all this stuff back downstairs, plugging it

1121
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: in in my room, setting up shopping my room because

1122
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, like I tell my wife and

1123
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: she's like, babe, you're going to create a bad habit.

1124
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,919
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I know, I know, but I did

1125
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 1: tell her. I said, hey, when Mama comes home, you

1126
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: sleep in your bed, like this bed is for rude

1127
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 1: to sleep in. Yeah, the bed downstairs for mom and

1128
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: dadad as sleeping when mom comes home. You can't sleep

1129
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 1: with us, do you understand? And she says yes, But dude,

1130
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 1: I'm a I can't say no. And I love it too, Like, yeah,

1131
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 1: I love little Ruthe sleeping with me when I when

1132
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 1: I go out, because I'm like, all right, Dad is

1133
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: gonna go out and sit in the living room watch

1134
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: him like study up for tomorrow, watching TV show.

1135
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 2: You're gonna watch football on yet Dad is gonna watch

1136
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:12,760
Speaker 2: some football.

1137
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: But Dad's gonna be here in the cuddle you whenever,

1138
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: you know, whenever I get done.

1139
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, and just to come in and snuggle up next

1140
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 2: to Rue, Like it's so awesome. I love it more

1141
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 2: than she does.

1142
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 1: And so when my wife is like, you're kind of

1143
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, sweetheart, I know, but I also.

1144
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 2: Enjoy it too.

1145
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh yeah, So.

1146
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: We got one brew and I think it'll be I

1147
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: think we'll be sleeping together. I think she'll be in

1148
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,479
Speaker 1: my bed every night until mom comes home.

1149
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 3: Hey, if that, if that's what it turns into, Like,

1150
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 3: let's say worst case scenario is that when Mom's out

1151
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 3: of town and you know, Scotty, whenever she gets that yeah, whatever,

1152
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 3: sleep with dad. I don't think that's that big of

1153
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 3: a deal. And maybe not. Maybe some people. Are you

1154
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 3: sure you gotta hold your boy accountable. He's doing bad

1155
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 3: habits that's going on. If I saw little Rue holding

1156
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 3: Teddy Bears, bro, I'm telling you stuff.

1157
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 2: Her arms were like this fool with the She had

1158
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 2: the hairbrush in her hands, she had her like five

1159
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 2: stuffed animals that she wanted to bring down. She didn't

1160
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: have the sound machine.

1161
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 3: And then she was like.

1162
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 2: Holding her toothbrush and no toothpaste. And I was like,

1163
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 2: what's what's going on here?

1164
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:25,320
Speaker 3: And she was like, we'll go downstairs, no shot.

1165
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 2: Sleep in your bed. I want to sleep downstairs with you,

1166
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 2: no shot, no shot.

1167
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 3: Answer is yes, immedia.

1168
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 1: And there's just you know, we talk about being in

1169
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: this timeframe, she's gonna get bigger. There's gonna be you know,

1170
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: there's gonna come a time to where she doesn't want

1171
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: anything to do with sleeping next to.

1172
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 2: Dad ad or being around dad ad. Oh yeah, and

1173
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 2: I love it. But I am just a sucker, bro,

1174
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 2: I said, but what.

1175
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 3: Can you do? Man? I don't blame you. What can

1176
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 3: you do? I don't blame you.

1177
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 2: So that's going on that's happening.

1178
00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 3: Uh, that's a really good dad loss. Like I know,

1179
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 3: we joke around, we say good a lot, but like

1180
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:06,240
Speaker 3: that is a good dad loss. Or you know, whatever

1181
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 3: your low was of the week, Like.

1182
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:09,839
Speaker 1: The importance will be when Mom saw them or we're

1183
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: both of them because whenever mom gets home, I gotta

1184
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: fly out Wednesday night to New York for ESPN.

1185
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 3: Oh and then.

1186
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 1: I'll be out Thursday night for the Thursday night football

1187
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: stream whenever bedtime's happening.

1188
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 2: So I think the big thing is like she might

1189
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 2: want to sleep with.

1190
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 3: Sleep with Mama's on Wednesday.

1191
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 2: Night, but it's when bod chairs are there.

1192
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: It's like we gotta hey, hey, no, no, no, you

1193
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 1: gotta sleep in your bed.

1194
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 3: Uh huh, Well you can do some kind of incentivizing

1195
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 3: of that. You'll come up with something.

1196
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: I had to come up with something on Spot last night.

1197
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, sweet Art, let's brush your hair.

1198
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: And she's gotten into this new I want to read

1199
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: a book before I brush my hair, and it's like,

1200
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: you don't want to sit down and turn the lights

1201
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 1: off read a book. Then you going to brushing their hair.

1202
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:53,840
Speaker 1: Then she wants to read another book. Then you do

1203
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 1: brushing your teeth. It's like, I want to brush your hair.

1204
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 1: We read the books while you're drinking your milk, then

1205
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 1: we go in and brush your teeth. Yeah, And and

1206
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: she was down in the in my room.

1207
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 2: She's like, no, I want to read a book first,

1208
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 2: I said, sweetheart, you're in Dadad's room.

1209
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: That means you you go by Dadad's rules. Oh, Dadd

1210
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: wants to we can brush your after a book. But

1211
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: if we brush your hair after a book, we're going

1212
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: to do it up in your room. So we can

1213
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: brush your hair now and you can sleep with Dadad,

1214
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: or we can go upstairs read a book and brush

1215
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 1: your hair. And then she just sat there and like

1216
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: stared at me and kind of was saying about it

1217
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: for a second.

1218
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,839
Speaker 2: Then she just walked over handed me the brush. Yeah. Yeah,

1219
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 2: this is one win.

1220
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,359
Speaker 3: I can like, hey, there you go. You chalked it up.

1221
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 3: I dude, there's not a chance. I'm just trying to

1222
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 3: like run any situation through my head of just where

1223
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 3: I could sit there and be like no, no, no, especially

1224
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 3: at that age, at that age.

1225
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:42,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all right, especially uh see, especially at that age.

1226
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: But when they're just in a really good mood or

1227
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: when they're very much cooperative, because again, three years old,

1228
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 1: the three year old era, they're very intense with their emotions,

1229
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: which I think is ultimately a good thing. You want

1230
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 1: them to feel their emotions. You want them like working

1231
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 1: through their emotions and anything else and kind of guide

1232
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 1: them through their emotions.

1233
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 2: But the three year three year old era is very

1234
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 2: much like very intense emotions.

1235
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 1: If something kind of goes sideways, I hang on a second,

1236
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:08,359
Speaker 1: what are we doing here?

1237
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 2: Here? Is all you have to say.

1238
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 1: I gotta catch myself arguing with her, you know what

1239
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: I mean, because she might like lose it or get

1240
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 1: into the whiny voice or something, and I'll just basically

1241
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: say out loud how she should be talking to me.

1242
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 2: Like let's just say, for example, she did I want

1243
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 2: to I want to pouch?

1244
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: I wanna I want She's whining about a pouch, and like, hey, sweet,

1245
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 1: that DA doesn't accept the way you're talking to me.

1246
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: And then she might she might keep let's just say

1247
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 1: she keeps whinding, but I'll go and get the pouch.

1248
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 1: If it's like snack time er, like, hey, yes, she

1249
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: should have a pouch right now, I'll go hand to

1250
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: the pouch. Hey, hey, dad, d could I have a

1251
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: pouch right now for a snack? And then when I

1252
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:46,879
Speaker 1: hand you the pouch, you say thank you, Like that's

1253
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:48,959
Speaker 1: all you need to say. I were on the same team.

1254
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: You don't need to whine. You don't need to get

1255
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 1: in all this like emotional state of like not getting something.

1256
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,400
Speaker 1: All you gotta say is, hey dad, hey, dadda, can

1257
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,240
Speaker 1: I have a pouch please? And then I might say yes,

1258
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 1: I might say no, but either way that's how you

1259
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 1: need to be talking to dead and like show you know,

1260
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 1: their minds are kind of like going and thinking about

1261
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: it because sometimes, bro, when they get in that whining phase,

1262
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 1: it's like I just boil, Like, bro, what are you doing?

1263
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 2: What are you doing right now? You don't have to

1264
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 2: sit here and whine, but you gotta try. I'm like, okay,

1265
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 2: she's three, the emotions, the brain, that development happening right now.

1266
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 2: Something just you know, she lost her sticker.

1267
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 3: It's almost like what you said earlier about like how

1268
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 3: you have to tell rue sometimes, like hey, you can't

1269
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 3: you can't be talking to Scotti like that because Scotti's

1270
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 3: just a baby. Yeah, Like you're having to tell yourself,

1271
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 3: you know, you know, I gotta teach Rue how to

1272
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 3: how to talk like an adult because the Roue isn't.

1273
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: There yet, right, they don't understand. Yeah, and you're kind

1274
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: of showing them. They're very very observant, like they are smart. Yeah,

1275
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 1: they're thinking through a lot of things. They just need

1276
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:52,919
Speaker 1: to know what it looks like and how it's done.

1277
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: Because a lot of times, like where I connect with

1278
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 1: Rue on a lot of levels is I just always

1279
00:57:57,120 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 1: bring up a past experience to match where whatever experience

1280
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: she's having. Like again, I brought up like losing a sticker.

1281
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: If she lost a sticker, it's like me just making

1282
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,439
Speaker 1: up a story about me losing stickers all the time.

1283
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1284
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: So that way you can like get on their level

1285
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: and they start listening to you, like, oh that it

1286
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: goes through stuff like this, or like Scotty and I

1287
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: gotta tell her, dude, how many times I gotta tell

1288
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: Scotty not to go do that, not to go do this?

1289
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 2: Oh, Scotty, jojo, don't do that.

1290
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: Or you know when we get frustrated when Scotty gets

1291
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: into X, Y and Z.

1292
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 2: But what do we gotta do?

1293
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: We just go over there, Hey, Scotty, know we don't

1294
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 1: do that, and we we just bring her back over to.

1295
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 2: The mat, like you have to be patient with their sweetheart. Yeah,

1296
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 2: and she they're listening.

1297
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just getting through that barrier of those like

1298
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 1: reactive moments as a parent on like wanting to immediately

1299
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: correct them because you're upset by the way they're talking

1300
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: to you.

1301
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 3: Oh, big time, big time. I'll I'll have to bite

1302
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: my lip or bite my tongue on that for sure,

1303
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 3: because I and very quick to you know, jump on

1304
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 3: something that I don't like, especially with the dogs. Like

1305
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 3: I'm very big on like the I you know, real

1306
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 3: loud and like kind of nip it. Yeah, dude, And

1307
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 3: I just the patience will be some you know, something

1308
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 3: that I'll have to dive into. But I love the

1309
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 3: story aspect of it because just thinking of like my

1310
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 3: dad was big on that as you were telling that story,

1311
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 3: I was just thinking of myself of like my dad

1312
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 3: did that a lot now that I think about it,

1313
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,439
Speaker 3: and it does work. Did what a lot?

1314
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 2: Just just like leveling with you with.

1315
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 3: You or like hey, like I wouldn't do that. Here's

1316
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 3: why when I was, you know, fourteen, I did that.

1317
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 3: It turned out like this just want to let you know.

1318
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 3: And then I'm sitting there going okay, like that awesome

1319
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 3: that one like Dad, you know, kind of told me

1320
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 3: something personal or whatever. But two, yeah, that does sound

1321
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 3: like something I wouldn't want to do, so I'll take

1322
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 3: his word for it. Yeah, I was.

1323
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 2: One thing you'll learn too is how you are with

1324
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 2: the dog in front of your kid. Oh really, yeah,

1325
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 2: because like you know, Waffle, she's a bulldog, English bulldog,

1326
00:59:58,640 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 2: lover her Yeah, stubborn.

1327
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I got my taste when I was on

1328
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 3: the beanback chair. Yeah.

1329
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:06,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, to you know, I can like lose my cool

1330
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,439
Speaker 1: with Waffle. She's not like listening to me. Well, whether

1331
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: it's get her off the couch, there's like a challenge

1332
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: moment going on with the dog. And to where pre rue,

1333
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: it's like I'm you know, more reactive with Waffle, yeah,

1334
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 1: or like pushing her off the couch or like doing

1335
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 1: something to get her off. And then if she snaps

1336
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 1: at me, it's like we're both kind of posturing over

1337
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like standing over with my fists.

1338
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 3: He does that. He that is not to be funny

1339
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 3: on the show. I have seen it with Woffle was

1340
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:40,439
Speaker 3: like getting on me and was like man handling me. Yeah, yeah,

1341
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 3: pulled her off and he started just standing over and

1342
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 3: Waffle's looking up and going, yeah, Wills, what are you

1343
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 3: gonna do? What are you gonna do?

1344
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 1: Man?

1345
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 3: Waffle?

1346
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:57,479
Speaker 1: Waffle, get off the couch, move and to where I'll

1347
01:00:57,520 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: see Rue start trying to be snappy at times with Water.

1348
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, oh, no, no, no, this is this

1349
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: is because of me. This is because I've been the

1350
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: example for it in front of Waffle. She thinks this

1351
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 1: is how you have to handle the dog. And I've

1352
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: been a very poor example in front of my daughter.

1353
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: But that's one thing you like, learn to balance however

1354
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:13,919
Speaker 1: you you are with uh.

1355
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 3: You know, your animals.

1356
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like if you're like an abusive person,

1357
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: but I'm saying, like, the times that you do react

1358
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: to the dog because patience is low and it's just

1359
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: you guys at the house when you do have kids,

1360
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 1: then you see it coming out, you know, flashes and

1361
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 1: the kids, and I'm thinking, Okay, I have to change

1362
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,479
Speaker 1: my style with my dog in front of Rue, because

1363
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 1: Ruth's just mimicking the way that I will be with Waffle.

1364
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 2: Because Waffle is stubborn. Bro like Waffle. It's like she'll

1365
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 2: be on the couch and she tries to get to

1366
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 2: the highest point. She thinks she's the alpha. So what

1367
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 2: these dogs try to do?

1368
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it gets the highest point, lay on the highest

1369
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: coashin and she just looks like a beanbag sitting on

1370
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: top of the on top of the cushions.

1371
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 3: I love it.

1372
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 1: And yeah, dude, I love she's She's an awesome dog.

1373
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: She loves love. She wants to cut on. Oh yes,

1374
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: And I'll be like, Waffle, can you get off the couch?

1375
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 1: And like, as I'm walking over to Waffle, you just

1376
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 1: kind of see the you know, the growling start happening

1377
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 1: because they're very again, they're just stubborn, bro.

1378
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,680
Speaker 2: And if Ru's sitting there, I have to completely like

1379
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 2: rewire my thinking because if Ruth's not there, I'm thinking, Okay,

1380
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:15,920
Speaker 2: you want to you want to shot at the title

1381
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 2: right now?

1382
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 3: Yeah? Here here we go again.

1383
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 1: What do you owe for? Who's undefeated in this match?

1384
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: But Waffle like won't move, you know what I mean?

1385
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 1: Where you gotta now? I just go out, like walk

1386
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 1: in the pantry bag, Waffle want to treat and then

1387
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: shake the tree.

1388
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 2: She comes running. I'm like, all right, I got you, Yeah,

1389
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 2: who who's the dumb one now?

1390
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 3: By big one? And I was gonna ask you too,

1391
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 3: what Waffle thinks about scott Zilla just tearing up her

1392
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 3: water bowl. But my big one right now is when

1393
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 3: guests come over. Uh, we've really implemented, especially with Scarlett

1394
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 3: now in the house, and it's funny you bring up dogs.

1395
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 3: That's actually my dad loss. We have a baby gate.

1396
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 3: They stay downstairs whenever we have guests over, and they're

1397
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:03,440
Speaker 3: really yippie behind the baby gate, but they do a

1398
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 3: good job of listening to Dad. I just got to

1399
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 3: show a little bit of force, and so I will

1400
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 3: literally to my house guests. I'll go, guys, I'm so sorry.

1401
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be laded just one time. But they

1402
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 3: will not bark for you know, the foreseeable future. If

1403
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 3: I do this walk over to the baby gate away

1404
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 3: in the house guests, I just go hi, and they

1405
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 3: sit and they're silent for the rest of the night.

1406
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 3: Not bad, I.

1407
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 2: Don't know, I don't think so.

1408
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 5: The same issue we're all yell when I go to

1409
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:40,439
Speaker 5: Knoxville to see Alex, We're all got she don't yell

1410
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 5: at them, And I'm like, look, she's not moving anymore.

1411
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 3: She stopped. He can't wait for him to be a dad,

1412
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 3: by the way, cannot wait in a good way, like

1413
01:03:54,280 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 3: I'm preparing such a good dad, dude, he is. I

1414
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 3: I just love the impersonation of Alex.

1415
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 5: You don't yell at us, Oh, she'll get at me,

1416
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 5: And I'm just something about it bubbles in me where

1417
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 5: I'm like, it's an immediate but it works where you

1418
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 5: get it. It's like a snap gets their attention because

1419
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 5: if you go, hey, Scottie, Scott but Alex's dogs named

1420
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 5: Scotti and hey, come over here, and she she'll nicest

1421
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 5: dog ever, but she'll kind of wander over or maybe

1422
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:25,439
Speaker 5: won't listen to you, but then you know, eventually it'll

1423
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 5: be a Scotty works like a charm Yeah every time.

1424
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, those.

1425
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 1: Are like it's like, it's like two things that I've

1426
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: changed with Waffle is one, instead of diving into that

1427
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: altercation with her on the couch, it's going like, hey, Waffle,

1428
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: do you want to treat and she comes back. And

1429
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 1: the second one is you know, when you have you

1430
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: have your kids, it's like people say, hey, you love

1431
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 1: your dog. I'm taking photos of Waffle. I'm doing all

1432
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 1: these things with Waffle before the kids come, and I'm

1433
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 1: telling Waffle like you'll never beat my number two.

1434
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

1435
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 1: But the moment your kids come, it's a different story.

1436
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: They go down the totem pole, they do. They feel

1437
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 1: it as well. The dog feels as well. And what

1438
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: I had to switch with Waffle on the second note

1439
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: is like, say she's over in the area around the

1440
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: kids or with the kids, or potentially bothering the kids,

1441
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 1: instead of like getting on Waffle and moving her out

1442
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: of the situation, because they're going through there the little

1443
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 1: dog goes.

1444
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 3: They're going through their.

1445
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: Own little process too of just being sad that they're

1446
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 1: not the thing anymore. But instead of like removing Waffle

1447
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: from the situation or getting on Waffle for kind of

1448
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 1: being in that being in their space, it's been more

1449
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 1: so teaching the kids how to be sweet to Waffle

1450
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 1: and be kind and hey, she just sniff and she

1451
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 1: just wants she's just curious, she wants to play. She

1452
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 1: sees you playing with the thing, You're having a lot

1453
01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: of fun. And the way she senses everything she uses

1454
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 1: her nose. So you just got a pattern. If you

1455
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 1: don't wonder there just mom or Dad, can you please?

1456
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 1: Can you please move Waffle? And then in a sweet way,

1457
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 1: it's like we'll get Waffle away. But those have been

1458
01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 1: the two things that I've had to kind of check

1459
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 1: myself on as a dog owner, being an example in

1460
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: front of my kids is the altercation moment on the couch,

1461
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 1: like getting her off the couch, and then when they're

1462
01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: in when Waffle just kind of mosy's over and she's

1463
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 1: kind of in their space and they start like when

1464
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 1: r will start like snapping and yelling, and I think

1465
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: to myself, she's just she's mimicking Dad right now, and

1466
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 1: I've got to change something up because she's got to

1467
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 1: like learn that, hey, Waffle doesn't know either, you know

1468
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 1: how Scotty doesn't know. Waffle doesn't know she's a dumb

1469
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: little dog. Oh, she doesn't get it, and you kind

1470
01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: of like softly remove them. It's kind of rekindled something

1471
01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: between me and Waffle as well, because there's been moments

1472
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 1: where I've had to like look in the mirror and

1473
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, she does.

1474
01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:22,959
Speaker 2: She's not getting a lot of love from Dad right now.

1475
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 5: I also kind of just reiterate just to clarify too,

1476
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 5: I don't scream at my dogs a lot.

1477
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 3: It's just more to get their attention. Gotta be careful

1478
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 3: with the parent that dog parents because as soon as

1479
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 3: Scotty comes up, Hey, come here, girl, come here. Oh,

1480
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 3: it's so.

1481
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 5: Cute, positive reinforcement immediately. It's more just to get their attention. Yeah,

1482
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 5: before people just come in, I promise you.

1483
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 1: We got we got PT sixers sixers and you got

1484
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:47,640
Speaker 1: some some dog team sixers in here.

1485
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 3: You got some dog parents.

1486
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 1: In here like this will kind of just challenge Waffle

1487
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: at all times and swing on her. I've had to

1488
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 1: check myself in some situations, but those have been the

1489
01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: learning curves in parenthood with your animal.

1490
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 3: Couldn't have asked for a better segue into my dad

1491
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 3: loss this week. And also for any PT sickos, I'm

1492
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 3: seeing the PT six echoes on the internet. By the way,

1493
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 3: I'm loving it so the PT sickos that are also

1494
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 3: Chef sichos. Look out on socials for our USF unboxing video.

1495
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 3: Chef absolutely killed this unboxing video. I can't wait for

1496
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 3: you to see it.

1497
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:26,480
Speaker 2: I'm excited to see it too. We got another box

1498
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 2: from USF.

1499
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 3: We did We got a whole package from USF. Shout

1500
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 3: out bulls, Shout out the bulls from their equipment manager for.

1501
01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 1: The Dad's POD's gonna it's the unboxing. So we're gonna

1502
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: be like Coach Cruden over here in the dad work. Truly,

1503
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 1: people just teams are just gonna start sending in boxes

1504
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:42,520
Speaker 1: for for dad culture.

1505
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 3: I'll sport it. I picked up one of those USF

1506
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 3: shirts so fast, it was so soft.

1507
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 1: Don't do it the some of the siccos in that audience,

1508
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:53,720
Speaker 1: they'll say, you're copying.

1509
01:07:54,600 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh love to be careful already still agree? Yeah,

1510
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 3: yeah do we not? What are we supposed to just

1511
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 3: throw the box away? Yeah? Yoh free close, damn got

1512
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:10,240
Speaker 3: throw it away? Uh no, go ahead, chep oh.

1513
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:12,520
Speaker 5: I was just gonna say, shout out to USEF and yeah,

1514
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 5: we don't want to copy Coach Gruden, but this is

1515
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 5: we did shout out all the equipment managers out. Yeah,

1516
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 5: and they want to show love, so we want to

1517
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 5: reiterate that. But yeah, shout out USF and Arkansas for sending.

1518
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 2: Us inspired by coach Yes, inspired by inspired by Gruden?

1519
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, which is that such a cry?

1520
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: I don't forget where he was before Barcelon that was

1521
01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:37,639
Speaker 1: coaching your boy. Hey, come on ouh, my dad who's

1522
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,800
Speaker 1: got the Grooden grinder shirt hanging in his closet. Week

1523
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:42,599
Speaker 1: won twenty sixteen season.

1524
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:46,160
Speaker 3: People forget about that. People forget and you were You

1525
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:48,599
Speaker 3: were like top twenty five hottest player in twenty sixteen.

1526
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,720
Speaker 3: I think I was number seven. Some are saying I

1527
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 3: summer saying, Derek, if you google it, it's the best

1528
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 3: Google of all time, it's the best google.

1529
01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 2: Like the most attractive players I was like on the

1530
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 2: list was just pre veneers.

1531
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:04,840
Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, but that's I don't have a smile

1532
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 1: going on in the photo, Like I'm just kind of

1533
01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: sitting there. And then, you know, whenever I was promoting,

1534
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 1: whenever I was like having fun with it back in

1535
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:14,599
Speaker 1: twenty fifteen or sixteen, whenever that was people are talking about,

1536
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:15,640
Speaker 1: you know, the teeth.

1537
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 2: And everything else.

1538
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 1: Because Julian Ellman's on it, I might have been higher

1539
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 1: than Julian.

1540
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 3: You were.

1541
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:21,720
Speaker 2: Joe Flacco was number one.

1542
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:26,440
Speaker 3: You were higher than some some NFL some times hotties,

1543
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 3: some hotties. Yeah, you were up there.

1544
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 4: Uh, there's not an article that says we're referring to

1545
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:35,720
Speaker 4: actual looks fanatics dock Coomas Compotle list of the most

1546
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 4: attractive teams, The Redskins ranked third, and then the very

1547
01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 4: next paragraph, linebacker Will Coompton was voted the most attractive

1548
01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 4: player on the Skins and the fifth best looking in

1549
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:44,800
Speaker 4: the league.

1550
01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 3: Top five. I didn't know your top five.

1551
01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:52,680
Speaker 1: Buddy, and I shared a locker room with U, with

1552
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 1: Ryan Kerrigan, who's a specimen of a human being.

1553
01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:59,680
Speaker 3: A piece of meat. You will a piece of meat

1554
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 3: into a human meat missile. Yeah, as they say, Compton,

1555
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 3: look at Derek holding up. I love that we have

1556
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 3: the producer camp fifth in the league, fifth in the

1557
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 3: league away from me. That's what the five and then

1558
01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 3: take your tenth year. But they can't take fifth best

1559
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:17,920
Speaker 3: looking in the NFL. The five and fifty one. They

1560
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:20,600
Speaker 3: don't know it does mean top.

1561
01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 2: Five to top five type shit?

1562
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 3: Tight shit?

1563
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 2: Uh my dad lost kicking your dog?

1564
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 3: Go ahead, I can't go again. No, Dad loss was

1565
01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:37,799
Speaker 3: forgetting the dogs, is exactly what you were talking about.

1566
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:41,800
Speaker 3: We had a great night on that would have been

1567
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:47,559
Speaker 3: Sunday night where we did or no, it was Saturday.

1568
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry because college football was going on and

1569
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:53,000
Speaker 3: I was grilling up a bunch of steaks. I was

1570
01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 3: grilling up chicken. We had some Halipino poppers. Fantastic night,

1571
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 3: And honestly I was in my dad uh as far

1572
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:05,080
Speaker 3: as like spending a ton of time with Scarlett pouring

1573
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 3: into Jill. We're coming off of a bad weekend. This

1574
01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 3: is like a makeup game. This is like a week

1575
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 3: gotta lock in, This is a we know what this

1576
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 3: program was built on, and I'm just hitting everything full force,

1577
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 3: killing it as a dad in my own brain got

1578
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:25,000
Speaker 3: too cocky, got way too cocky, because what did I

1579
01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:28,719
Speaker 3: forget to do walk the dogs? What did I also

1580
01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 3: forget to do that night? Put that new baby gate

1581
01:11:31,280 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 3: up that we've implemented. So Goose, who Goose is very

1582
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 3: attached to me. He was a rescue, he was tied

1583
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,639
Speaker 3: to a pole behind a liquor store during COVID. Yes,

1584
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:47,639
Speaker 3: he's our little schnauzerdoodle. He's a little schnoodle. He got

1585
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 3: very attached to me because Mom's favorite is Wriggly and

1586
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,799
Speaker 3: it's very well known in the house. Jill loves Goose.

1587
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:55,440
Speaker 3: Jill loves Goose.

1588
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,759
Speaker 2: Like Goose is what? Like Goose and Wriggly are watching

1589
01:11:57,760 --> 01:11:58,559
Speaker 2: the episode right now.

1590
01:11:58,680 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 3: Yeh yah, yeah, yeah yeah. Jill loves Goosey, Goosey. Mom

1591
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 3: loves you, Mama loves you. But Dad kind of has

1592
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 3: to step in there and be a surrogate love factory

1593
01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:09,599
Speaker 3: for Goose because he doesn't always get it from Mom.

1594
01:12:09,840 --> 01:12:14,719
Speaker 3: So anyways, I digress. He's a little jealous of Scarlet,

1595
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 3: and Dad does in Scarlet, And uh, do you want

1596
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:23,720
Speaker 3: to tell the listeners what gift you got Jill and

1597
01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:28,839
Speaker 3: I or y'all's family got Jill and I for Scarlet?

1598
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 2: Do you remember I've got you a couple? You have

1599
01:12:32,040 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 2: got it?

1600
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 3: This one's in our nursery. Oh the rocking chair. The

1601
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 3: rocking chair. It's a good chair, isn't it.

1602
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 1: I think about it every night when I'm sitting her

1603
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 1: rocking and I hear, you know, maybe a squeak at

1604
01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 1: the end or at the far back, and I just

1605
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: think to myself, I wonder if sure he's rocking right

1606
01:12:46,479 --> 01:12:46,880
Speaker 1: now too.

1607
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:49,679
Speaker 3: Every freaking night Jill and I are in that chair.

1608
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 3: We love that chair. And Goose knows that that's the

1609
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 3: chair that Dada sits with Scarlet and tells him no

1610
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,320
Speaker 3: whenever he's trying to get up and get his pets.

1611
01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:06,720
Speaker 3: And there was a massive mark on top of the

1612
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 3: He jumped on the chair and just gave it up.

1613
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 3: Mark the top of it like where your back would

1614
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 3: go as like a fu. You forgot to walk me,

1615
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 3: You didn't put the gate up. So I'm gonna show you.

1616
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 3: This is goose territory. This is a goose house.

1617
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:25,640
Speaker 2: Do we have a standoff?

1618
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 3: I was livid, pissed. I swallowed it because I was

1619
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 3: like the right thing to because they forget after they

1620
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 3: do it, like I you know, I've heard with dogs

1621
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 3: like if you catch them in the act of something. Yeah,

1622
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:42,600
Speaker 3: if you catch them in the act, you can, you know,

1623
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 3: correct the behavior. But I mean, I'm waking up the

1624
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 3: next morning and we're finding the huge piece staying on

1625
01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 3: the rocky chair. Oh you didn't see until the next morning. Yes,

1626
01:13:52,280 --> 01:13:54,120
Speaker 3: this was at night because we had gone to bed

1627
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 3: and I forgot to walk the because we stayed up

1628
01:13:56,960 --> 01:14:00,960
Speaker 3: late grilling and we're doing scarscar tuckns and ep on

1629
01:14:01,000 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 3: the chair.

1630
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:05,280
Speaker 1: Yes, dude, he went in there. That's the one thing

1631
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:06,759
Speaker 1: I was scared of when I got that color.

1632
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 3: I know, in the middle of the night.

1633
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: That's the one thing I was scared of when it's

1634
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:13,320
Speaker 1: a white white jumped up on. It was the one

1635
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 1: that had to get ordered too, and there was you know,

1636
01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:16,800
Speaker 1: it didn't get there right in time for.

1637
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:22,040
Speaker 3: This ordered this very nice chair. Now, however, I was thinking,

1638
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:25,400
Speaker 3: do you want the white get dicey just so you

1639
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 3: feel good and everybody at home, if you're on you

1640
01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:30,760
Speaker 3: know the edge of your seat. Stain did come out.

1641
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 3: We got some think God, yes, stan did come out.

1642
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 3: We do have some utensils and stuff and steamers and

1643
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 3: whatever that like, we're good. But it was a good

1644
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 3: reminder of don't don't forget about the dogs. We got

1645
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:46,320
Speaker 3: a love on the dogs.

1646
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 2: It's a hard reminder, bro a hard one.

1647
01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:52,040
Speaker 3: And I was so mad at goose, but I understood.

1648
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 3: And it's also hilarious how the dog brain works. If

1649
01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 3: he's like Dad has totally forgotten about me, this little

1650
01:14:57,640 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 3: crying thing all the time. He's obsessed with it.

1651
01:15:00,120 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, this dog, this this still thing. Can't sit, he

1652
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 2: sits spin, can't do it, can't stand and dance for

1653
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 2: retreat and.

1654
01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 3: He's getting this thing's getting treats every three hours.

1655
01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't let this thing. How you got to

1656
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:12,559
Speaker 1: change them all the time. You just let me outside

1657
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:13,040
Speaker 1: and he.

1658
01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 3: Sits in that chair all proud with his new little thing.

1659
01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 3: He's given it treats all the time in that chair.

1660
01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 3: I'll fucking show him.

1661
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:21,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, where's that thing's dog collar?

1662
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:26,720
Speaker 3: Just imagine, imagine just him going directly to that chair

1663
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 3: in the middle of the night. Showed him and then

1664
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:33,639
Speaker 3: went back and crawled underneath our bed because they sleep

1665
01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 3: underneath our bed. Yeah, but that was my dad loss.

1666
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:38,680
Speaker 2: It's a it's a quick Did you lose it on

1667
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:39,639
Speaker 2: him the next morning?

1668
01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:42,640
Speaker 3: Is if it just happened? No, just because like with

1669
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 3: they are doing a really good job with the new

1670
01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:48,760
Speaker 3: system that we set up of like the baby gate.

1671
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 3: You guys sleep here, you eat it, these times, you

1672
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:55,080
Speaker 3: do walks it, these times. The accidents in the house

1673
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 3: are completely gone pretty much. I mean, like we've really

1674
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 3: cracked down on the dogs and they've been doing a

1675
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:04,120
Speaker 3: great job. So I really didn't want to hold it

1676
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:08,760
Speaker 3: against him, to be honest. Also, another dad loss, this

1677
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 3: goes with forgetting about the dogs. We hadn't given him

1678
01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:15,559
Speaker 3: a haircut in decades, and he's a shnoodle, so he's

1679
01:16:15,560 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 3: all matted up and after the accident, then the next morning,

1680
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:21,840
Speaker 3: I'm you know, kind of rubbing on him and stuff.

1681
01:16:21,840 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 3: I'm looking at his matts. I'm like, I've completely forgotten

1682
01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:28,160
Speaker 3: about it, you dude. I spent four hours on Sunday.

1683
01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 3: Remember when we were trying to connect and get together.

1684
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:33,080
Speaker 3: I was like, Hey, I don't think it's gonna work well.

1685
01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:33,559
Speaker 3: We have this.

1686
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:35,200
Speaker 1: We were trying to put together a little dad day.

1687
01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 1: It's like, hey, bring Scarlett over, let's do something the

1688
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:38,759
Speaker 1: words to the dad's watching the kids.

1689
01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 3: It didn't work out, and it would have been epic, dude,

1690
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:46,879
Speaker 3: And I've gotten two separate dms of people saying, Sherman,

1691
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:52,639
Speaker 3: is Scarlet potentially gonna become Scarzilla if she becomes friends

1692
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 3: with scott Zilla, And I'm like, I would love I

1693
01:16:55,640 --> 01:16:58,320
Speaker 3: would love it too, bro. If she matched that energy

1694
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:00,680
Speaker 3: and they became two little peas in a pod, I

1695
01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 3: wouldn't hate it.

1696
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 1: Scarzvilla, we're just both there, like making him play fetch

1697
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:05,799
Speaker 1: with stuff.

1698
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 3: You see.

1699
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 2: You saw the videos with the marker over the weekend.

1700
01:17:08,800 --> 01:17:11,839
Speaker 3: Go get it, go on Scarlet and she just Scarlet

1701
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 3: beats out. Scotty will just leaves the room.

1702
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 1: You can't snap on him. They're young, They're not gonna

1703
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:20,599
Speaker 1: get it. So yeah, you got to remove yourself from

1704
01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 1: the room.

1705
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 3: Scotty, you're eight months older than What are you doing?

1706
01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:30,560
Speaker 3: What are you doing? That would break me? Oh? Yeah, yeah,

1707
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:32,520
Speaker 3: but yeah that was that was my dad loss.

1708
01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 2: Do Where were even at right now?

1709
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 3: Crack a cold one? Yes, we'd love to crack a

1710
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 3: cold one. I got a little ad read that goes

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01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 3: along with it. What are we cracking a cold one with?

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01:17:43,320 --> 01:17:46,960
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Speaker 3: is sponsored by Liquid IV. And now I know that

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01:17:51,320 --> 01:17:54,040
Speaker 3: summer is coming to an end, but we are in

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01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 3: like the precipice of fall. It is still hot here

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01:17:58,520 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 3: in Nashville.

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Speaker 2: It's a nineties this week. You got a couple of

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01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:02,920
Speaker 2: nineties days this week, and.

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Speaker 3: You have to stay hydrated. That is the peak time

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Speaker 3: to stay hydrated. When you're dressing a little too warm,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It's a little hot outside,

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01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 3: you're sweating. You gotta rehydrate, and the best way to

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Speaker 3: do is with Liquid IV.

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Speaker 1: and drink your water throughout the day, especially if you're

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Speaker 1: in parent mode. You kind of forget to eat, you

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Speaker 1: can forget to drink. You're taking care of the kiddos,

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01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 1: you're not taking care of yourself. Great way to fill

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01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 1: that energy back up is with some Liquid IV.

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Speaker 3: That is very true. And I know that this is

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01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 3: an ad read but true story. Was feeling a little lightheaded,

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01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 3: a little peckish, I like, had a little snack. But

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01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 3: we have some liquid ivs at home that Jill bought,

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01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:43,160
Speaker 3: and I popped one of those and I was boom

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01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:46,920
Speaker 3: ready to go, like I truly felt it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Great read.

1746
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:28,000
Speaker 3: I wanted that fly so bad, dude.

1747
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:29,920
Speaker 2: I know it's rough. By the way, we didn't even

1748
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 2: talk about.

1749
01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 3: These Let's talk about it.

1750
01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:34,679
Speaker 2: Let's talk about I was gonna say the fly landed

1751
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:36,240
Speaker 2: on this good one or the four of the dads

1752
01:19:36,240 --> 01:19:37,800
Speaker 2: when I wanted to pop it but I couldn't get it.

1753
01:19:38,439 --> 01:19:39,599
Speaker 2: But we had gifts come in.

1754
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:42,080
Speaker 3: We had some major gifts come in. And if people

1755
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 3: remember from one episode, I thought this was just next

1756
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:52,160
Speaker 3: level performance. I quoted King Thaden of Rohan from Lord

1757
01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:54,880
Speaker 3: of the Rings, Return of the King. You did and

1758
01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:58,800
Speaker 3: he printed out this mug you printed on a lot,

1759
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:02,400
Speaker 3: printed it out. Is it Justin? This is this is uh?

1760
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:04,960
Speaker 3: This is Justin Klarner.

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01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 2: Justin Clarner. Thank you for the gifts.

1762
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:08,559
Speaker 1: Thank you for the little gift package, bro, with all

1763
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:09,759
Speaker 1: of these different little.

1764
01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 3: I don't even know what you call these little diss Yeah,

1765
01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:16,759
Speaker 3: they're drink coasters. There we go, this coasters. There were six.

1766
01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:19,080
Speaker 1: Got to keep it under an hour, which, by the way,

1767
01:20:19,120 --> 01:20:20,680
Speaker 1: we do need to keep this episode under an hour.

1768
01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 3: Look at the Nebraska one day you've printed out for you.

1769
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:25,960
Speaker 2: That's why that one's propped up. That's hard bussing week.

1770
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:29,080
Speaker 3: Hard a big week for house, not a football podcast,

1771
01:20:29,200 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 3: not a fool, big week for ness, big week for Nebraska. Also,

1772
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 3: Justin wrote us a letter. Do we want to read

1773
01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:37,640
Speaker 3: that very quickly sure read the letter two before the

1774
01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:40,880
Speaker 3: Dad's podcast. Hope you enjoyed these coasters I made for

1775
01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 3: you guys during my paternity leave. Congratulations. Justin apologies if

1776
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 3: I went overboard, but my quality control and R and

1777
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:51,280
Speaker 3: D team my wife have me create multiple variations of

1778
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:54,479
Speaker 3: the designs. They are all three D printed and I

1779
01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 3: designed all of them, except for the college plaques I

1780
01:20:57,280 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 3: found online. I found you guys shortly before the birth

1781
01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 3: of my daughter and was instantly hooked. The first episode

1782
01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:05,880
Speaker 3: I listened to was episode four. I had it on

1783
01:21:06,400 --> 01:21:08,439
Speaker 3: while I was out doing yard work, and I kept

1784
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:11,880
Speaker 3: stopping inside to replay bits for my wife. We both

1785
01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:15,080
Speaker 3: love the show. So now every Wednesday, my wife, my

1786
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:18,320
Speaker 3: one month old daughter, and I watch it together. I

1787
01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:20,280
Speaker 3: love it that I get to follow Scherm as he

1788
01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 3: goes through his journey through the PT six ranks a

1789
01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 3: couple of weeks ahead of me. Love the show. Please

1790
01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:29,080
Speaker 3: do not keep it under an hour. All the best

1791
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:34,479
Speaker 3: from Justin, Michelle and Little Emerson Klarner. Let's go Shout

1792
01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:35,920
Speaker 3: out the fam. Shout out the Fam. He's good.

1793
01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:39,040
Speaker 1: PT six unit over there, good PT six one one?

1794
01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:41,320
Speaker 1: Con I heard in that note.

1795
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:41,720
Speaker 3: What's going on.

1796
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 2: He started with episode four. I want to know if

1797
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:45,479
Speaker 2: he's went back and went one through three.

1798
01:21:45,800 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 3: Printing off these many drink coasters.

1799
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:51,479
Speaker 2: I guarantee it because I know that there are new PT.

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01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:51,960
Speaker 3: Six.

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01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:53,800
Speaker 2: It ohs like you'll be seeing people. I went all

1802
01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 2: the way back and I'm called all the way up

1803
01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:58,160
Speaker 2: from episode one.

1804
01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:01,120
Speaker 3: I had some body dmy just the other night about that.

1805
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 3: I sent him a little voice message back.

1806
01:22:03,400 --> 01:22:06,360
Speaker 2: I love that you sent Yeah, you sent them. Oh

1807
01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:07,759
Speaker 2: my gosh, what happened.

1808
01:22:07,960 --> 01:22:09,679
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of a voice message I had to send

1809
01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 1: for this dude's birthday on September third. Oh no, I

1810
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:16,080
Speaker 1: responded to the gallon everything and said, I'll have this

1811
01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:17,120
Speaker 1: video cooked up for you.

1812
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:17,639
Speaker 3: Oh.

1813
01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 1: It was like late at night when I was like, uh,

1814
01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:21,280
Speaker 1: it was like when I was putting the kid, when

1815
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 1: I was putt skytie down. I kind of going through

1816
01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:26,559
Speaker 1: some dms because you're trying to keep up with everything, everything,

1817
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 1: and I'll try and click on the ones that seem

1818
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 1: longer to where like, you know, if they're sharing something

1819
01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:32,639
Speaker 1: with you, try to hit him back with a message,

1820
01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:34,320
Speaker 1: and gosh, dang.

1821
01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:39,120
Speaker 3: It is he GBR? If he's GBR, I think the

1822
01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 3: make good is on House Rules give a little belated

1823
01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:44,320
Speaker 3: birthday shout out.

1824
01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:46,479
Speaker 2: I'm scared I won't be able to find.

1825
01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:49,760
Speaker 3: It because if I was GBR and Will Compton is

1826
01:22:49,800 --> 01:22:52,559
Speaker 3: on Matt Rules podcast and he goes, oh, by the way,

1827
01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:57,080
Speaker 3: happy belated Cameron, I would lose my mind. I don't

1828
01:22:57,080 --> 01:22:59,720
Speaker 3: even care if it's four months after my birthday. I'm

1829
01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:04,360
Speaker 3: going nuts. But Yeah, the DM that I got was

1830
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:08,080
Speaker 3: a guy basically saying, Hey, I'm so glad that I

1831
01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 3: found you guys at like episode eight, because I'm still

1832
01:23:12,720 --> 01:23:14,720
Speaker 3: to the point where I don't have to wait till

1833
01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:17,880
Speaker 3: the next week for like a new episode. And I

1834
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:19,960
Speaker 3: hit him back in the voice message. I said, that's

1835
01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 3: crazy that you say that, because I got onto Game

1836
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:26,599
Speaker 3: of Thrones in like season four, season five, and that's

1837
01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:28,960
Speaker 3: how I felt about Game of Thrones. So the fact

1838
01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 3: that you feel that way about the show that we're

1839
01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:34,400
Speaker 3: doing tells me everything I need to know about.

1840
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:36,680
Speaker 2: How nice reference too with the Game of Thrones.

1841
01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:38,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, And I was like, what an honor to

1842
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:41,800
Speaker 3: like be that for some listener that they're like, yes,

1843
01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:43,880
Speaker 3: I don't have to wait another week, Because that's a

1844
01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:44,800
Speaker 3: good feeling.

1845
01:23:44,600 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 1: To the gal I'm supposed to send a video note

1846
01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:49,519
Speaker 1: to please for the love of God, DM me back

1847
01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:51,000
Speaker 1: so it gets to the top of the inbox.

1848
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:52,519
Speaker 2: I was just trying to scroll through to find it.

1849
01:23:52,720 --> 01:23:54,920
Speaker 1: I'm on mic, I got anxiety right now that I

1850
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:56,559
Speaker 1: didn't get back to her and did' send that video.

1851
01:23:56,840 --> 01:24:02,559
Speaker 3: That's okay, ugh damn to make him feel better. I

1852
01:24:02,560 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 3: will also brag on Will over the weekend. I think

1853
01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:08,000
Speaker 3: I shared this with you briefly. Somebody came to our

1854
01:24:08,040 --> 01:24:13,000
Speaker 3: table at Jill's birthday dinner and UH basically just said, Hey,

1855
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:15,840
Speaker 3: I just want to let you know Love Busting Love

1856
01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:19,280
Speaker 3: the brand. UH just want to shout out Will really

1857
01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:22,439
Speaker 3: quick because I reached out to him when I was

1858
01:24:22,479 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 3: going through a rough time and the words they had

1859
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:26,720
Speaker 3: for me via DM we're going back and forth. It

1860
01:24:27,080 --> 01:24:29,800
Speaker 3: really helped me out a lot. I was like, dude,

1861
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 3: what a cool thing to like hear about your boss

1862
01:24:32,680 --> 01:24:35,320
Speaker 3: makes you really happy of the place that you work at.

1863
01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 2: I appreciate the words of information in a time of need.

1864
01:24:37,960 --> 01:24:40,599
Speaker 2: Right now, Yeah, I feel like I let I let this,

1865
01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 2: I let this couple down right here.

1866
01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:45,439
Speaker 3: Dude, you have so many of those types of things

1867
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 3: come in your way that if you missed one. Nobody's perfect, dude. Yeah,

1868
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:51,920
Speaker 3: and maybe I'm going too easy on will you might

1869
01:24:51,960 --> 01:24:54,360
Speaker 3: be ru can sleep in the bed. It's okay to

1870
01:24:54,439 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 3: miss the birthday shout outs. But I feel that way. Yeah,

1871
01:24:57,880 --> 01:24:58,639
Speaker 3: I feel that way.

1872
01:24:59,120 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 2: I gotta find it. I gotta I gotta make that right.

1873
01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 2: I gotta make that right.

1874
01:25:02,439 --> 01:25:05,320
Speaker 1: Crack a cold one, crack a segment, my crack a

1875
01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:07,200
Speaker 1: cold one, and will you give.

1876
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:09,439
Speaker 3: Me a liquid? IV? I would actually love to make

1877
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:10,040
Speaker 3: a little liquid.

1878
01:25:10,800 --> 01:25:14,240
Speaker 2: Would you like, uh, firecracker, the popsicle or would you

1879
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:18,559
Speaker 2: like the I'll do the popsicle, the mango passion fruit.

1880
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:21,160
Speaker 3: I do like mango passion fruit, but I'll do popsicle.

1881
01:25:22,680 --> 01:25:25,360
Speaker 2: Nope, And it's my shot. And somebody giving a little

1882
01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:27,639
Speaker 2: honk to the little pt Sico.

1883
01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:30,599
Speaker 3: This one is firecracker. They're like the bottle.

1884
01:25:31,000 --> 01:25:32,800
Speaker 1: So my crack a cold one. This week is going

1885
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:38,800
Speaker 1: to be getting that alone time with your kids. As

1886
01:25:38,840 --> 01:25:41,840
Speaker 1: a parent, I think it's it's always like you're you're

1887
01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:44,519
Speaker 1: in the trenches when your partner is not with you

1888
01:25:45,320 --> 01:25:47,720
Speaker 1: and they're doing their thing, you know, out for a

1889
01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 1: work thing, like I'm out a lot of the times,

1890
01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:53,360
Speaker 1: like at least once a week to where Charles handling

1891
01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:56,640
Speaker 1: bedtime duty and you're doing the d You're doing all

1892
01:25:56,720 --> 01:25:57,320
Speaker 1: things with the kids.

1893
01:25:57,320 --> 01:25:58,400
Speaker 2: I get the kiddos there.

1894
01:25:58,439 --> 01:26:02,680
Speaker 1: It's a it's a full time gig, but it's like

1895
01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:04,920
Speaker 1: having those solo times that you do with the kids

1896
01:26:05,360 --> 01:26:08,080
Speaker 1: because you just build your relations your personal relationship with

1897
01:26:08,080 --> 01:26:11,720
Speaker 1: them a lot more. I feel like with Rue, there's

1898
01:26:11,720 --> 01:26:13,759
Speaker 1: a lot more of those one on one teaching moments

1899
01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:16,040
Speaker 1: that happen because it is just you there. So when

1900
01:26:16,120 --> 01:26:19,519
Speaker 1: chaos is kind of breaking out or something's happening, and

1901
01:26:19,560 --> 01:26:21,519
Speaker 1: you know, it's just you, like nobody's coming to save you.

1902
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:24,320
Speaker 1: It's it's been a favorite quote of mine forever. Nobody's

1903
01:26:24,360 --> 01:26:27,160
Speaker 1: coming to save you. Nobody cares, work harder. It's like

1904
01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:29,840
Speaker 1: stuff like that that you get reminded of in those

1905
01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 1: moments to where you have more intentional time getting to

1906
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:35,080
Speaker 1: sleep with there, to do the sleepovers at nighttime, her

1907
01:26:35,160 --> 01:26:38,320
Speaker 1: feeling like, you know, calling her, I'm just saying little

1908
01:26:38,360 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 1: things like you you're my best friend, You're like my

1909
01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:42,120
Speaker 1: my favorite little heart beat in the world right now,

1910
01:26:42,360 --> 01:26:44,640
Speaker 1: And just like stuff like that, to where you're connecting

1911
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:46,880
Speaker 1: with them a lot and they're like, you know, you're

1912
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:49,080
Speaker 1: just you're you're giving them words of information, like when

1913
01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:51,000
Speaker 1: they're being a good teammate and telling her, hey, we're

1914
01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:51,599
Speaker 1: on the same team.

1915
01:26:51,600 --> 01:26:52,920
Speaker 2: It's just me and you here, Like we got to

1916
01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 2: do a good job with Scotty. We gotta do a

1917
01:26:54,360 --> 01:26:55,920
Speaker 2: good job of waffle. We gotta do a good job

1918
01:26:55,920 --> 01:26:59,920
Speaker 2: of picking up stuff, picking up after ourselves. But so, Mike,

1919
01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:02,000
Speaker 2: crack of cold one is like having those solo times

1920
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:03,960
Speaker 2: with the kiddos, because it is it's like, Oh, I'm.

1921
01:27:03,800 --> 01:27:05,400
Speaker 1: In the trenches right now. I really wish wife, he

1922
01:27:05,479 --> 01:27:07,640
Speaker 1: was home. I wish there was some help here. But

1923
01:27:07,680 --> 01:27:10,280
Speaker 1: when you grab that perspective of hey, nobody's here, nobody,

1924
01:27:10,720 --> 01:27:13,120
Speaker 1: this is you, or those moments where it's like I

1925
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 1: would rather wat, but my three year old wants to

1926
01:27:15,439 --> 01:27:16,960
Speaker 1: play right now, I need to go. I need to

1927
01:27:16,960 --> 01:27:18,400
Speaker 1: play with her because there's gonna be a data where

1928
01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:19,240
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to play.

1929
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:19,599
Speaker 2: With me anymore.

1930
01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:22,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, moments like that, And I'll also say another crack

1931
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:25,800
Speaker 1: of cold one is operating while your wife is out

1932
01:27:25,800 --> 01:27:31,120
Speaker 1: of town, like being I take pride in like being

1933
01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 1: the partner for my wife to where I'm not hitting

1934
01:27:34,360 --> 01:27:37,840
Speaker 1: her up about stuff I know, like she she probably

1935
01:27:37,840 --> 01:27:40,559
Speaker 1: doesn't like consciously think about that, but I'm sure I

1936
01:27:40,600 --> 01:27:42,960
Speaker 1: know she has perspective on you know, if she talks

1937
01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:46,080
Speaker 1: to her friends or when their husband's hitting them, hitting

1938
01:27:46,160 --> 01:27:48,000
Speaker 1: them up all the time about needing someone or where's

1939
01:27:48,040 --> 01:27:49,439
Speaker 1: this or where's that? Or how do I do X,

1940
01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:50,720
Speaker 1: Y and Z, Like you kind of leave them on

1941
01:27:50,760 --> 01:27:53,000
Speaker 1: an island and they need help, like while the mom

1942
01:27:53,040 --> 01:27:55,120
Speaker 1: and while the wife is gone. I take a lot

1943
01:27:55,120 --> 01:27:58,559
Speaker 1: of pride in not being that to Charro, like, hey,

1944
01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:01,040
Speaker 1: I trust me. I know you're gonna have a lot

1945
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:02,560
Speaker 1: of guilt. I know you're gonna miss the kiddh. She

1946
01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:05,040
Speaker 1: doesn't travel near as much as I do. She has

1947
01:28:05,080 --> 01:28:06,679
Speaker 1: a lot of that mom guilt. But I'm like, dude,

1948
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:09,720
Speaker 1: you need to go have your own time. You need

1949
01:28:09,760 --> 01:28:11,840
Speaker 1: to go sleep in the hotel room and know like,

1950
01:28:11,920 --> 01:28:13,639
Speaker 1: oh it's ten o'clock and I can go to bed

1951
01:28:13,680 --> 01:28:16,240
Speaker 1: and I don't have any responsibility, like we'll do the

1952
01:28:16,240 --> 01:28:18,960
Speaker 1: face times and everything else. But dude, you go take

1953
01:28:19,680 --> 01:28:22,639
Speaker 1: like whatever time you need. I will handle this at home.

1954
01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:25,280
Speaker 1: I will operate at home. I know everything to do. Yep,

1955
01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:27,000
Speaker 1: you to wur you don't have to worry about that.

1956
01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:28,640
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a big crachnical one. And to

1957
01:28:28,720 --> 01:28:30,840
Speaker 1: the PT sixers out there, And if your wife is

1958
01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:35,200
Speaker 1: sitting there watching this episode and thinking, hey, Mama needs

1959
01:28:35,240 --> 01:28:37,519
Speaker 1: to take a trip, needs it, Mama needs the Vegas.

1960
01:28:37,760 --> 01:28:40,439
Speaker 1: I forget the call in or whatever the wind was

1961
01:28:40,520 --> 01:28:43,920
Speaker 1: like episodes ago. Yeah, the Robin like where you might

1962
01:28:43,960 --> 01:28:45,920
Speaker 1: need a Rodman trip, like the wife, he needs a

1963
01:28:45,960 --> 01:28:48,240
Speaker 1: Rodman trip too, or they need to go do things.

1964
01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:51,439
Speaker 1: Your boy has been able to operate. There's a nine

1965
01:28:51,520 --> 01:28:55,960
Speaker 1: day Italy trip, yep, Dad had it on lock. A

1966
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:58,800
Speaker 1: few day Arizona trip, and Phoenix for another work thing.

1967
01:28:59,400 --> 01:29:03,000
Speaker 1: They'll with their friends. The Arizona work thing. Daddy had

1968
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:05,280
Speaker 1: it on lock. And this one too is another one

1969
01:29:05,280 --> 01:29:08,360
Speaker 1: to where it's like, yes, it is stressful. I do

1970
01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:10,240
Speaker 1: get tired at times because we have all the shows

1971
01:29:10,280 --> 01:29:11,640
Speaker 1: that we got to do in the week, and like

1972
01:29:11,680 --> 01:29:13,600
Speaker 1: you're just again when you're at home, you're solo with

1973
01:29:13,640 --> 01:29:16,960
Speaker 1: the kiddos. But another krackical one to the to the

1974
01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:20,280
Speaker 1: Papa team sixers out there, that man the ship whenever

1975
01:29:20,400 --> 01:29:22,600
Speaker 1: mom or wife he's out of town to where you

1976
01:29:22,640 --> 01:29:25,160
Speaker 1: don't Mom doesn't have to worry. They might worry on

1977
01:29:25,200 --> 01:29:26,960
Speaker 1: their own because that's just the nature of the beast.

1978
01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:31,400
Speaker 1: But to where they know, like, oh, Dad, Pete Siko,

1979
01:29:31,840 --> 01:29:33,960
Speaker 1: he's got it. Back home, he's got he's dial he's

1980
01:29:34,040 --> 01:29:35,240
Speaker 1: dial right now, back home.

1981
01:29:35,360 --> 01:29:41,200
Speaker 3: And to your success, you have a chance to as

1982
01:29:41,240 --> 01:29:45,240
Speaker 3: a mentor to help a boy out. Because there is

1983
01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:48,639
Speaker 3: a Bachelor Rat party that Jill will be attending first

1984
01:29:48,760 --> 01:29:53,040
Speaker 3: weekend of October that we we can talk about it.

1985
01:29:53,120 --> 01:29:55,280
Speaker 3: You know, we going into that episode to make it

1986
01:29:55,280 --> 01:29:58,080
Speaker 3: a big thing. But there's already some talks and Jill's

1987
01:29:58,080 --> 01:30:01,400
Speaker 3: probably going here this, so I'm glad she she's hearing

1988
01:30:01,400 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 3: this as well. We do we need to get a

1989
01:30:04,000 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 3: night nurse on Saturday for you. Do you think you'll

1990
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:08,200
Speaker 3: be able to wake up and you'll be able to,

1991
01:30:08,760 --> 01:30:10,800
Speaker 3: you know, do all this stuff because Scarlet's make it

1992
01:30:10,880 --> 01:30:11,519
Speaker 3: and you.

1993
01:30:11,320 --> 01:30:13,440
Speaker 1: Look her in the eyes and say, don't ever disrespect

1994
01:30:13,479 --> 01:30:14,120
Speaker 1: me like that again.

1995
01:30:14,240 --> 01:30:18,720
Speaker 3: I stood I Jill, Jill Anne Young? Did I not?

1996
01:30:19,439 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 3: And I went now now her mom her mom was there,

1997
01:30:22,800 --> 01:30:25,599
Speaker 3: so I was very sweet about it. So well, maybe,

1998
01:30:25,600 --> 01:30:27,559
Speaker 3: well we'll talk about it when we get closer to

1999
01:30:27,560 --> 01:30:29,640
Speaker 3: the Yeah, we could talk about maybe that is a

2000
01:30:29,640 --> 01:30:32,640
Speaker 3: good idea, but I'm in my head I got this.

2001
01:30:33,560 --> 01:30:35,680
Speaker 2: You got this, bro, You're built for this.

2002
01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:38,880
Speaker 1: Let me don't and selfishly, these are opportunities for the

2003
01:30:38,960 --> 01:30:41,640
Speaker 1: dads to get on the scoreboard when those opportunities come up,

2004
01:30:41,680 --> 01:30:43,720
Speaker 1: like I don't say the nine day Italy trip, the

2005
01:30:43,800 --> 01:30:47,599
Speaker 1: three day Arizona trip, the five day Portland, Oregon trip

2006
01:30:47,640 --> 01:30:50,240
Speaker 1: to like you know, flex my stats and run up

2007
01:30:50,280 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 1: the score a little bit. But all to say is like,

2008
01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:55,240
Speaker 1: these are opportunities to where if you stay downed and

2009
01:30:55,280 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 1: you do it right and you handle the correct way.

2010
01:30:56,960 --> 01:30:59,840
Speaker 1: There's also some some scoreboards from pet six and start

2011
01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:00,400
Speaker 1: to back up.

2012
01:31:00,479 --> 01:31:01,840
Speaker 3: I'm going to six flags.

2013
01:31:02,160 --> 01:31:07,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, guarantee, guaranteed seasons past season, season past. It's the

2014
01:31:07,920 --> 01:31:12,519
Speaker 1: fast pass too, baby, Yes, sir, I'm right up the

2015
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:13,240
Speaker 1: front of the line.

2016
01:31:13,439 --> 01:31:15,640
Speaker 3: Come on taking me through the back door. Maybe you

2017
01:31:15,680 --> 01:31:18,240
Speaker 3: know you do it? Wait, didn't we just see you?

2018
01:31:18,280 --> 01:31:22,200
Speaker 3: What are you doing back up here? Fast past? Yeah? Sorry, sorry,

2019
01:31:22,520 --> 01:31:24,760
Speaker 3: but no, I want to want to prove myself. I'm

2020
01:31:24,800 --> 01:31:27,240
Speaker 3: like a part of me is sitting there and I

2021
01:31:27,280 --> 01:31:29,559
Speaker 3: appreciate them with the night Urs stuff because we're talking

2022
01:31:29,600 --> 01:31:32,880
Speaker 3: about Scarlet. I mean, this is precious cargo. But in

2023
01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:34,760
Speaker 3: the same breath, I'm like man. I want it to

2024
01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:39,040
Speaker 3: be synonymous when you talk about, you know, Sherman being

2025
01:31:39,120 --> 01:31:41,880
Speaker 3: home alone with Scarlet, that that also in your brain,

2026
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:43,760
Speaker 3: he's got it, he's got it.

2027
01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:47,040
Speaker 1: When you get those opportunities, this is no different than

2028
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:49,559
Speaker 1: an opportunity that the Huskers have this weekend, Like this

2029
01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:52,400
Speaker 1: is a big game opportunity when the PT sixers have

2030
01:31:52,560 --> 01:31:55,200
Speaker 1: the chance to man the ship for the weekend, for

2031
01:31:55,240 --> 01:31:57,960
Speaker 1: a few days, whatever it is. And you almost challenge

2032
01:31:58,000 --> 01:32:00,280
Speaker 1: your wife back to where, Hey, I don't want to

2033
01:32:00,320 --> 01:32:02,680
Speaker 1: hear from you if you're if you have anxiety and

2034
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:04,600
Speaker 1: your stresses high, like I just want you to know

2035
01:32:04,680 --> 01:32:06,720
Speaker 1: that's gonna be on you because I'm gonna take care

2036
01:32:06,720 --> 01:32:07,559
Speaker 1: of business back home.

2037
01:32:07,680 --> 01:32:10,479
Speaker 3: And the line for this Nebraska Lot of Football podcast,

2038
01:32:10,800 --> 01:32:13,080
Speaker 3: But the line for this Nebraska game is plus one

2039
01:32:13,120 --> 01:32:15,920
Speaker 3: and a half. And what'd your boy do?

2040
01:32:15,600 --> 01:32:18,040
Speaker 1: You move the line minus thirteen and a half Nebraska

2041
01:32:18,080 --> 01:32:19,880
Speaker 1: Cornhers Bekers and you put a bomb on it.

2042
01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:24,200
Speaker 3: Responsibly, responsibly, And that's what I want to do with this.

2043
01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:27,160
Speaker 3: I note that the lines are right here, and that

2044
01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 3: if you know, if I just do the bare minimum

2045
01:32:30,439 --> 01:32:35,120
Speaker 3: and we do yes, Hey, that's what they expect. Yes

2046
01:32:35,200 --> 01:32:37,360
Speaker 3: and night nurse comes in and night nurse, you know,

2047
01:32:37,520 --> 01:32:40,000
Speaker 3: leaves great notes and all that, and Sherman did great

2048
01:32:40,040 --> 01:32:42,800
Speaker 3: during the day. Blah blah blah. Yeah, I'm gonna get

2049
01:32:42,840 --> 01:32:44,960
Speaker 3: Pats on the back. I'm get you won the game.

2050
01:32:45,040 --> 01:32:49,320
Speaker 3: You did great, Sherman, but if I solo it, and yeah, honey,

2051
01:32:49,320 --> 01:32:52,080
Speaker 3: I did get you know, a total of nine hours

2052
01:32:52,080 --> 01:32:53,760
Speaker 3: of sleep over the weekend. But you know what, I

2053
01:32:53,800 --> 01:32:56,760
Speaker 3: loved every fucking second of it. And I'm ready to

2054
01:32:56,760 --> 01:32:58,439
Speaker 3: go into the work week. I feel juiced.

2055
01:32:58,720 --> 01:33:01,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't let her like, hey, put me on an island.

2056
01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:03,599
Speaker 1: I don't need chip or help. I know this past

2057
01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:07,080
Speaker 1: roaster is nice. Yeah, but slide away from me. I'll

2058
01:33:07,080 --> 01:33:09,200
Speaker 1: handle them one on one. You don't need to put

2059
01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:10,800
Speaker 1: a tight end there. You don't need a running back

2060
01:33:10,800 --> 01:33:12,240
Speaker 1: to chip them coming out of the backfield.

2061
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:15,240
Speaker 3: I want when when they're running a crossing route. I

2062
01:33:15,320 --> 01:33:17,760
Speaker 3: want her to be able to switch and know I

2063
01:33:17,760 --> 01:33:18,160
Speaker 3: got it.

2064
01:33:18,240 --> 01:33:20,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I got trust your guy in that zone defense.

2065
01:33:20,840 --> 01:33:22,799
Speaker 3: She doesn't even have to yell switch because she already

2066
01:33:22,840 --> 01:33:24,960
Speaker 3: knows Griven's got it. Yeah, we're switching here.

2067
01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:28,479
Speaker 1: And what an opportunity to because your wife, it's like,

2068
01:33:28,880 --> 01:33:31,680
Speaker 1: I know when Wednesday comes, she's gonna come in and

2069
01:33:31,760 --> 01:33:33,360
Speaker 1: this house is gonna be the way.

2070
01:33:33,240 --> 01:33:35,240
Speaker 3: She left it. Probably better.

2071
01:33:35,520 --> 01:33:37,519
Speaker 1: Oh, it's gonna be better to where they come in

2072
01:33:37,600 --> 01:33:40,200
Speaker 1: in the house because women, they hate clutter in the house.

2073
01:33:40,200 --> 01:33:43,160
Speaker 1: They hate clutter like men can kind of live a

2074
01:33:43,280 --> 01:33:45,640
Speaker 1: dorm room life at times, like Okay, that's kind of

2075
01:33:45,720 --> 01:33:47,960
Speaker 1: organized chaos that I got going on around the house.

2076
01:33:48,600 --> 01:33:52,200
Speaker 1: They come in and the clutter's gone. That's what that's

2077
01:33:52,200 --> 01:33:54,000
Speaker 1: what the wife you really want, Hey, you handled your

2078
01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:56,640
Speaker 1: business back home. They walk into a decluttered house, a

2079
01:33:56,680 --> 01:33:59,320
Speaker 1: clean house, yep, to where when they put their luggage in,

2080
01:33:59,360 --> 01:34:01,439
Speaker 1: it's just on them getting their laundry out and everything else.

2081
01:34:01,439 --> 01:34:03,240
Speaker 1: But they're not worried about the boxes sitting over there,

2082
01:34:03,120 --> 01:34:05,200
Speaker 1: and not worried about dish's sitting on the counter. They're

2083
01:34:05,240 --> 01:34:07,560
Speaker 1: not worried about whatever male stacks are saying. Kind of,

2084
01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:09,639
Speaker 1: I do still have some mail stax up on the count, bro,

2085
01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:11,120
Speaker 1: those will be gone.

2086
01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:13,400
Speaker 3: You you came over to our house one time when

2087
01:34:13,400 --> 01:34:15,280
Speaker 3: she was out of town, but I'm pretty sure the

2088
01:34:15,280 --> 01:34:18,360
Speaker 3: house was like neatly put together. But Jill runs a

2089
01:34:18,479 --> 01:34:22,519
Speaker 3: tight ship. And what an opportunity, What an opportunity every

2090
01:34:22,520 --> 01:34:25,040
Speaker 3: Saturday and Sunday, we're cleaning the house. On top of

2091
01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:28,600
Speaker 3: she hires cleaners to come on once a month for

2092
01:34:28,680 --> 01:34:32,439
Speaker 3: the deep clean, deep clean, because a clean house is

2093
01:34:32,560 --> 01:34:35,840
Speaker 3: like that is it for Jill if she can have.

2094
01:34:35,880 --> 01:34:37,800
Speaker 2: I think that's it for women out there.

2095
01:34:38,439 --> 01:34:41,400
Speaker 3: And dude, if she if I rock that weekend and

2096
01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:45,080
Speaker 3: she comes home and the hardwoods just wreek a fabuloso

2097
01:34:45,360 --> 01:34:47,000
Speaker 3: and the counters.

2098
01:34:46,600 --> 01:34:49,840
Speaker 2: Are clean, Daddy's gonna mount you tonight.

2099
01:34:51,000 --> 01:34:52,519
Speaker 1: That's when they can walk in the house and you're

2100
01:34:52,560 --> 01:34:59,400
Speaker 1: just at the top stair, no clothes on. I just

2101
01:34:59,439 --> 01:35:02,719
Speaker 1: picked Jill, and you're just standing in the stair naked,

2102
01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:06,160
Speaker 1: looking down. It's Daddy's time.

2103
01:35:08,400 --> 01:35:12,680
Speaker 3: Riding shockwave. Hands up the whole road. Right.

2104
01:35:13,760 --> 01:35:15,280
Speaker 2: Oh okay, where were we?

2105
01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:19,000
Speaker 3: Yeah? Where were we? Crack a cold one. I'll go quick.

2106
01:35:19,880 --> 01:35:21,479
Speaker 3: We have a couple of friends here. He was the

2107
01:35:21,479 --> 01:35:24,240
Speaker 3: best man at my wedding, Brian Cox. He's also one

2108
01:35:24,240 --> 01:35:26,080
Speaker 3: of my best friends from high school. And I'm so

2109
01:35:26,200 --> 01:35:29,919
Speaker 3: lucky that he lives here in Nashville with his wife Hillary.

2110
01:35:30,920 --> 01:35:37,479
Speaker 3: Brian and Hillary came over not the last Wednesday, and dude,

2111
01:35:37,520 --> 01:35:42,160
Speaker 3: it was just awesome. We had Scarlet fully operating, had

2112
01:35:42,160 --> 01:35:45,479
Speaker 3: her in bed, fed by like seven point thirty. They

2113
01:35:45,520 --> 01:35:48,080
Speaker 3: come rolling in at seven thirty. I smoked like four

2114
01:35:48,160 --> 01:35:51,840
Speaker 3: chickens on the Rectex smoker and we had a dinner

2115
01:35:51,880 --> 01:35:54,400
Speaker 3: and we were kind of holding Scarlet at the table

2116
01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:56,680
Speaker 3: and she's doing great, and she falls asleep and then

2117
01:35:56,760 --> 01:35:58,920
Speaker 3: Jill ghost puts her in the crib. She doesn't make

2118
01:35:59,000 --> 01:36:03,360
Speaker 3: up peep, and it's like we're living life. We're talking

2119
01:36:03,400 --> 01:36:06,400
Speaker 3: with Brian and Hillary and we got the little monitor

2120
01:36:06,479 --> 01:36:09,519
Speaker 3: going and we're laughing and Jill like it's just beaming

2121
01:36:09,600 --> 01:36:13,840
Speaker 3: the whole dinner. The dinner setup was beautiful. We're just

2122
01:36:13,880 --> 01:36:16,160
Speaker 3: making fun of shirm, off of his dad loss, of

2123
01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:19,320
Speaker 3: that week, of how what a shit show I was

2124
01:36:19,400 --> 01:36:24,040
Speaker 3: to my wife Jill and Hillary. Brian's wife is just

2125
01:36:24,240 --> 01:36:27,040
Speaker 3: dying laughing at the story because she knows she's known

2126
01:36:27,040 --> 01:36:30,040
Speaker 3: me for a while and she's like, I'm shocked. We

2127
01:36:30,040 --> 01:36:33,120
Speaker 3: were too, We were too. And we're like laughing and

2128
01:36:33,160 --> 01:36:36,200
Speaker 3: there's great banter. They're telling a couple stories of oh,

2129
01:36:36,200 --> 01:36:39,240
Speaker 3: well Sherman, you think that's bad, Brian did this? You know.

2130
01:36:39,360 --> 01:36:41,759
Speaker 3: Me and Brian are sitting over there at the table

2131
01:36:41,880 --> 01:36:44,559
Speaker 3: just taking it, taking it, and they're they're laughing. I

2132
01:36:44,560 --> 01:36:47,120
Speaker 3: mean it was so much fun, dude. It was just

2133
01:36:47,120 --> 01:36:50,479
Speaker 3: a great reminder of like, yes, we are in the trenches.

2134
01:36:50,640 --> 01:36:54,280
Speaker 3: Yes it's hard, but God, you can still live life

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01:36:54,280 --> 01:36:56,040
Speaker 3: and you can still do the things that you want

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01:36:56,080 --> 01:36:58,800
Speaker 3: to do. You can still have those friendships. And it

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01:36:58,880 --> 01:37:02,439
Speaker 3: was sick, dude. I love that. Man, a good ketch up.

2138
01:37:02,640 --> 01:37:03,760
Speaker 3: It was a great catch up.

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01:37:03,840 --> 01:37:05,479
Speaker 1: And it also reminds you of a couple two to

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01:37:05,520 --> 01:37:07,800
Speaker 1: where it's like, we have to be intentional with our

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01:37:07,800 --> 01:37:08,519
Speaker 1: social life.

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Speaker 3: I have to dude. Getting to talk with Brian is truly,

2143
01:37:13,680 --> 01:37:15,840
Speaker 3: like I'm sure it's like with you and Nick, like

2144
01:37:15,920 --> 01:37:18,200
Speaker 3: when you got on the phone with him for his birthday. Yeah,

2145
01:37:18,240 --> 01:37:21,439
Speaker 3: waltzed off for fifteen minutes with my phone. That's how

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01:37:21,439 --> 01:37:24,439
Speaker 3: it is. Every single time I talked to Brian. We're

2147
01:37:24,479 --> 01:37:27,479
Speaker 3: speaking our own language almost, We're not even like and

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01:37:27,680 --> 01:37:31,960
Speaker 3: it's dude, that is so cathartic in itself and kind

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01:37:31,960 --> 01:37:33,920
Speaker 3: of what I've been talking with with my therapist of

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01:37:34,080 --> 01:37:36,600
Speaker 3: just like, you gotta hit all those poles, man, You

2151
01:37:36,640 --> 01:37:38,559
Speaker 3: got to you gotta hit every single one of them,

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01:37:38,720 --> 01:37:42,760
Speaker 3: all those pillars, because they're important. And that was just

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01:37:42,800 --> 01:37:43,800
Speaker 3: a great reminder of that.

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01:37:44,080 --> 01:37:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if something's going on, it's like you checking

2155
01:37:46,200 --> 01:37:47,439
Speaker 1: in on what these pillars are?

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01:37:47,479 --> 01:37:49,160
Speaker 2: Like, where have I not filled the cup up?

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01:37:49,400 --> 01:37:51,120
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I love that.

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01:37:51,200 --> 01:37:52,479
Speaker 2: Man. That's a good crack, A cold one.

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01:37:52,479 --> 01:37:54,760
Speaker 3: It was a good one. It was a good one.

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01:37:55,280 --> 01:37:57,240
Speaker 3: I have a great what are the odds this week?

2161
01:37:57,240 --> 01:37:59,719
Speaker 3: If you want me to jump into that, go ahead, Okay,

2162
01:38:00,960 --> 01:38:03,160
Speaker 3: what are the odds? Now? This one is a more

2163
01:38:03,240 --> 01:38:05,800
Speaker 3: serious one, and I don't mean that in a bad way.

2164
01:38:05,840 --> 01:38:09,000
Speaker 3: I just mean that it carries like a heavier topic.

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01:38:09,400 --> 01:38:11,599
Speaker 3: But this one came in from Instagram. He did say

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01:38:11,640 --> 01:38:14,960
Speaker 3: that we could use his name. His name's Ethan Lawn. So,

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01:38:15,200 --> 01:38:20,759
Speaker 3: first off, thank you for dming me Ethan. Secondly, he said, sure,

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01:38:20,960 --> 01:38:24,240
Speaker 3: I need some help. I'm already the loving father to

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01:38:24,280 --> 01:38:26,519
Speaker 3: a beautiful four year old girl and a two year

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Speaker 3: old boy. Congrats, Ethan. Both of my children have been

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01:38:30,439 --> 01:38:34,200
Speaker 3: born by sea section, the first medically required and the

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01:38:34,240 --> 01:38:37,160
Speaker 3: second nine. My wife and I have been struggling to

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01:38:37,280 --> 01:38:40,080
Speaker 3: conceive our third child for the past year, and we

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01:38:40,200 --> 01:38:43,240
Speaker 3: recently discovered that we are pregnant with our third Let's go,

2175
01:38:44,320 --> 01:38:47,080
Speaker 3: come on. We are still very early in what I

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01:38:47,120 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 3: consider the anxious phase. However, for this third kiddo, my

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01:38:51,560 --> 01:38:55,880
Speaker 3: wife wants to undergo a vaginal birth. So and this

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01:38:55,920 --> 01:38:59,440
Speaker 3: is after two SEA sections, So after two C sections,

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01:39:00,200 --> 01:39:02,800
Speaker 3: I need some help from you guys and the community.

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01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:05,639
Speaker 3: How do I best support her? What do I need

2181
01:39:05,680 --> 01:39:08,360
Speaker 3: to know? What do I need to ask our provider?

2182
01:39:09,080 --> 01:39:11,599
Speaker 3: I'll admit thus far I have not done a great

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01:39:11,640 --> 01:39:14,879
Speaker 3: job supporting her wishes because he's probably a little nervous,

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01:39:14,920 --> 01:39:17,679
Speaker 3: and I get that, but I want to do better.

2185
01:39:18,160 --> 01:39:20,280
Speaker 3: If you could shoot this out to Papa Team six

2186
01:39:20,280 --> 01:39:23,320
Speaker 3: and MIL Team six community, I would greatly appreciate it.

2187
01:39:23,840 --> 01:39:28,000
Speaker 3: Cannot wait for the next episode to drop, so to

2188
01:39:28,760 --> 01:39:31,160
Speaker 3: get bring this into what are the odds? Shout out

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01:39:31,240 --> 01:39:33,200
Speaker 3: FanDuel and I'll start with this and then we can

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01:39:33,240 --> 01:39:36,960
Speaker 3: break down however we want to answer this. There are

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01:39:37,400 --> 01:39:42,439
Speaker 3: sixty to seventy five percent successful vaginal verse And when

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01:39:42,479 --> 01:39:47,360
Speaker 3: I mean successful, I don't mean unsuccessful like the bad unsuccessful.

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01:39:47,400 --> 01:39:49,640
Speaker 3: I just mean that they had to go to a

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01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:53,040
Speaker 3: C section. But they're sixty to seventy five percent of

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01:39:53,080 --> 01:39:56,800
Speaker 3: females that have had two C sections that their third

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01:39:56,800 --> 01:40:01,520
Speaker 3: one is a vaginal birth, So the chances are are high.

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01:40:01,840 --> 01:40:04,320
Speaker 3: It's something that can be done. So I just want

2198
01:40:04,360 --> 01:40:06,479
Speaker 3: to start with that and lay that out and then

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01:40:06,520 --> 01:40:10,800
Speaker 3: we can answer this question. However, so will what what

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01:40:10,840 --> 01:40:13,920
Speaker 3: would we say to to our friend Ethan as far

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01:40:13,960 --> 01:40:16,280
Speaker 3: as just like that support side of things, because we

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01:40:16,320 --> 01:40:19,599
Speaker 3: are no medical experts at all on this matter.

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01:40:19,680 --> 01:40:22,559
Speaker 2: Where did you find the data and the research? You

2204
01:40:22,640 --> 01:40:23,719
Speaker 2: just kind of google and.

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01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:27,120
Speaker 3: Through chat GBT and they cited.

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01:40:27,880 --> 01:40:29,479
Speaker 2: Right the links that you can click onus.

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01:40:30,400 --> 01:40:30,800
Speaker 3: Number one.

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01:40:30,800 --> 01:40:32,600
Speaker 1: I think that's a good pool. It's like if that

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Speaker 1: was going on with me and I was nervous and

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01:40:34,560 --> 01:40:37,240
Speaker 1: I was worried, I would very much be diving into

2211
01:40:37,280 --> 01:40:41,519
Speaker 1: those WebMD rabbit holes on what this could look like.

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01:40:41,880 --> 01:40:45,640
Speaker 1: I would say number one, again, express your concern to

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01:40:45,680 --> 01:40:47,400
Speaker 1: your wife. Not concerned in a way to where you're

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01:40:47,439 --> 01:40:50,040
Speaker 1: resistive to it, but just say, hey, I'm down to

2215
01:40:50,040 --> 01:40:52,280
Speaker 1: support you. I'm down to do whatever you want to do.

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01:40:52,320 --> 01:40:52,840
Speaker 2: Sweetheart.

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01:40:53,040 --> 01:40:55,479
Speaker 1: If a vaginal birth is what is something that you

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01:40:55,600 --> 01:40:58,360
Speaker 1: want to do, Listen, I'm on board. Here's where I

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01:40:58,400 --> 01:41:01,200
Speaker 1: get nervous. But again, maybe it's my ignorance. I don't

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01:41:01,200 --> 01:41:02,559
Speaker 1: know a whole lot of data on it. I'm just

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01:41:02,640 --> 01:41:04,799
Speaker 1: nervous that since we had to do a medical one first,

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01:41:05,320 --> 01:41:07,080
Speaker 1: we did it the second we did a C section.

2223
01:41:07,160 --> 01:41:09,559
Speaker 1: The second time, I'm just nervous about what that looks like.

2224
01:41:09,560 --> 01:41:11,200
Speaker 1: And maybe I just need to do a better job

2225
01:41:11,240 --> 01:41:15,519
Speaker 1: of diving in the information. Maybe wife already has right

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01:41:15,560 --> 01:41:17,600
Speaker 1: to where she feels comfortable enough to do it, And

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01:41:17,640 --> 01:41:20,240
Speaker 1: I think what the stuff that you pulled to is

2228
01:41:20,240 --> 01:41:23,920
Speaker 1: is good data as well. To me, it's always going

2229
01:41:23,960 --> 01:41:27,960
Speaker 1: to come down fellas every couple and everybody knows this,

2230
01:41:28,000 --> 01:41:29,800
Speaker 1: but it's always going to come down to communication.

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01:41:30,160 --> 01:41:31,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.

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01:41:31,479 --> 01:41:33,559
Speaker 1: How to support, Like, if you're on board, you're going

2233
01:41:33,640 --> 01:41:35,280
Speaker 1: to know how to support what you get on board.

2234
01:41:35,320 --> 01:41:38,280
Speaker 1: The thing that you don't want to do is you're

2235
01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:40,799
Speaker 1: just figuring out a way to support get on board

2236
01:41:41,800 --> 01:41:46,080
Speaker 1: by suppressing whatever your worries and concerns are in anxiety.

2237
01:41:46,600 --> 01:41:49,120
Speaker 1: So the first big thing for me would be like, hey,

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01:41:49,320 --> 01:41:54,559
Speaker 1: you feel comfortable to express in a very in a

2239
01:41:54,680 --> 01:41:58,360
Speaker 1: very like constructive way, like how you're feeling about the

2240
01:41:58,360 --> 01:42:00,960
Speaker 1: whole thing because you're you know, the men if you listen,

2241
01:42:01,000 --> 01:42:03,040
Speaker 1: if you have a good marriage going on, Dad's men,

2242
01:42:03,160 --> 01:42:04,679
Speaker 1: you guys are part of the equation too.

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01:42:04,880 --> 01:42:08,679
Speaker 3: It's coming from a place of love. Is coming from.

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01:42:08,560 --> 01:42:11,559
Speaker 1: Love, Yeah, absolutely, So that would be more so if

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01:42:11,560 --> 01:42:16,000
Speaker 1: I had, like, you know, non expert advice. Is I

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01:42:16,080 --> 01:42:18,240
Speaker 1: love that you're on board, get fully on board, you

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01:42:18,240 --> 01:42:19,880
Speaker 1: know how to support it. Sounds like you know how

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01:42:19,920 --> 01:42:21,880
Speaker 1: to support how to get on board, but don't do

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01:42:21,960 --> 01:42:24,760
Speaker 1: it at the expense of suppressing whatever your worries and

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01:42:24,760 --> 01:42:27,400
Speaker 1: anxieties are, because I would say, Hey, whatever you're feeling like, bro,

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01:42:27,439 --> 01:42:28,240
Speaker 1: share it with your wife.

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01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:29,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure she'd love to have.

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01:42:29,439 --> 01:42:32,360
Speaker 1: A conversation with She might be nervous too. Maybe she

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01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:34,680
Speaker 1: in her mind's thinking I've done a couple of C

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01:42:34,840 --> 01:42:35,599
Speaker 1: sections in a row.

2256
01:42:35,640 --> 01:42:38,240
Speaker 2: Who knows whatever outside noise or outside.

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01:42:37,880 --> 01:42:42,479
Speaker 1: Influences that she could be subconsciously putting on herself to

2258
01:42:42,520 --> 01:42:44,880
Speaker 1: feel like she has to do a vaginal birth. Yeah,

2259
01:42:44,960 --> 01:42:47,920
Speaker 1: maybe it's something she fully wants to do and is

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01:42:48,240 --> 01:42:49,880
Speaker 1: on board about it and doesn't have to think twice.

2261
01:42:49,880 --> 01:42:53,320
Speaker 1: But maybe she's also nervous and just feels like this

2262
01:42:53,400 --> 01:42:54,880
Speaker 1: is the route she has to do. You have no

2263
01:42:54,920 --> 01:42:56,679
Speaker 1: clue unless you communicate with your wife.

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01:42:56,960 --> 01:43:00,000
Speaker 3: It's a great point, and to speak on it because

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01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:03,160
Speaker 3: we are not professionals. We're not telling the wife or

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01:43:03,200 --> 01:43:06,800
Speaker 3: Ethan either way to go on this right with like

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01:43:07,320 --> 01:43:10,240
Speaker 3: they are doing whatever they're gonna do. What we can

2268
01:43:10,280 --> 01:43:13,719
Speaker 3: say to Ethan because he did say in the DM recently,

2269
01:43:13,800 --> 01:43:16,920
Speaker 3: I've done a poor job of supporting her in this.

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01:43:18,080 --> 01:43:20,519
Speaker 3: If you have done a poor job, Ethan, and maybe

2271
01:43:20,600 --> 01:43:23,960
Speaker 3: there were some hurt feelings on wife's end of things

2272
01:43:23,960 --> 01:43:27,600
Speaker 3: of he's not supportive, I would also with the communication

2273
01:43:28,360 --> 01:43:31,720
Speaker 3: try to show her that, hey, maybe I didn't communicate

2274
01:43:31,760 --> 01:43:34,240
Speaker 3: it well, but just to know that those words were

2275
01:43:34,320 --> 01:43:37,200
Speaker 3: coming from a place of love and worry for my

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01:43:37,479 --> 01:43:40,599
Speaker 3: wife's health and safety, my baby's health and safety. I

2277
01:43:40,640 --> 01:43:44,080
Speaker 3: love you to death, and I'm team wife, I'm team baby,

2278
01:43:44,120 --> 01:43:46,320
Speaker 3: and let's let's get this thing whatever.

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01:43:46,360 --> 01:43:48,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, to do absolutely no, that's a great that's a

2280
01:43:48,960 --> 01:43:51,240
Speaker 1: great opinion on it. That's great perspective on it too,

2281
01:43:51,439 --> 01:43:53,400
Speaker 1: because if it's like I've done a poor job, all

2282
01:43:53,400 --> 01:43:57,080
Speaker 1: we can do is assume yes, on what this conversation is. Yes,

2283
01:43:57,120 --> 01:43:59,599
Speaker 1: if you assume that there's been a poor job, how

2284
01:43:59,600 --> 01:44:03,439
Speaker 1: do I sup poor? Then my assumption would be the

2285
01:44:03,479 --> 01:44:06,400
Speaker 1: conversation probably came up and you guys got into a

2286
01:44:06,439 --> 01:44:09,479
Speaker 1: conversation or debate or whatever it was, to where it

2287
01:44:09,520 --> 01:44:11,719
Speaker 1: feels like you're sitting on opposite sides of the table,

2288
01:44:12,160 --> 01:44:14,600
Speaker 1: whereas yeah, kerfuffle to where you want her to know

2289
01:44:14,720 --> 01:44:16,640
Speaker 1: this is coming from a place of love to do that.

2290
01:44:16,720 --> 01:44:18,559
Speaker 1: It's like, how do you go from sitting on opposite

2291
01:44:18,600 --> 01:44:21,280
Speaker 1: sides of the table to sitting next to her on

2292
01:44:21,360 --> 01:44:24,280
Speaker 1: the table and hurt with you as well? Yeah, cause

2293
01:44:24,320 --> 01:44:26,600
Speaker 1: again I I don't know. All I can do is

2294
01:44:26,640 --> 01:44:29,519
Speaker 1: assume like she could have fears as well. I don't

2295
01:44:29,520 --> 01:44:31,040
Speaker 1: know that she's not communicating.

2296
01:44:31,760 --> 01:44:36,080
Speaker 3: And dude, after you're done having that conversation, slipper, slipper

2297
01:44:36,120 --> 01:44:39,800
Speaker 3: some cold hard cash. Enough with the venmos slipper, some

2298
01:44:39,880 --> 01:44:42,799
Speaker 3: cold hard cash, and say, hey, the two little guys,

2299
01:44:43,080 --> 01:44:45,880
Speaker 3: I got him for the next how many ever hours?

2300
01:44:46,360 --> 01:44:49,240
Speaker 3: Have fun? Yeah, go get your go, get your nails done,

2301
01:44:49,320 --> 01:44:52,720
Speaker 3: go get your hair done, do whatever. And just in

2302
01:44:52,880 --> 01:44:55,960
Speaker 3: that conversation with that and just be like, I love you,

2303
01:44:56,160 --> 01:44:59,519
Speaker 3: I support you, and if I hurt you, wasn't my attention.

2304
01:45:00,240 --> 01:45:01,599
Speaker 3: And also treat yourself.

2305
01:45:03,960 --> 01:45:05,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, not if I hurt you.

2306
01:45:06,640 --> 01:45:08,800
Speaker 3: Not if I hurt you, that's a good call.

2307
01:45:09,040 --> 01:45:10,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can see I hurt you and that was

2308
01:45:10,840 --> 01:45:12,840
Speaker 1: not my intention at all. The best thing you can

2309
01:45:12,920 --> 01:45:15,879
Speaker 1: do leading into a conversation like that is completely anchor

2310
01:45:16,600 --> 01:45:20,280
Speaker 1: where you were wrong and like exactly like you can

2311
01:45:20,320 --> 01:45:23,559
Speaker 1: even go into an exaggeration mode of I've truly I've

2312
01:45:23,600 --> 01:45:26,720
Speaker 1: done a very poor job of communicating this topic and conversation.

2313
01:45:26,720 --> 01:45:28,679
Speaker 1: Thank you for saying like I've done brutal. My egos

2314
01:45:28,680 --> 01:45:30,840
Speaker 1: got in the way when you brought this up. My

2315
01:45:30,960 --> 01:45:33,920
Speaker 1: worried side came out and I more so lashed out

2316
01:45:33,960 --> 01:45:36,479
Speaker 1: at you on why it shouldn't be happening, but we

2317
01:45:36,520 --> 01:45:38,080
Speaker 1: need to be sitting next to each other. And I

2318
01:45:38,160 --> 01:45:40,519
Speaker 1: honestly I did a very bad job because I can

2319
01:45:40,560 --> 01:45:42,880
Speaker 1: see that how I came off it could have hurt

2320
01:45:42,920 --> 01:45:45,000
Speaker 1: your feelings. Again, I don't know what their conversation was,

2321
01:45:45,280 --> 01:45:47,320
Speaker 1: I can see that it hurt your feelings. And then

2322
01:45:47,400 --> 01:45:49,280
Speaker 1: I did an even poor job because I'm getting my

2323
01:45:49,360 --> 01:45:51,360
Speaker 1: heels in the sand even more in the ground, even

2324
01:45:51,400 --> 01:45:54,439
Speaker 1: more on defending like what I want to see when

2325
01:45:54,520 --> 01:45:56,080
Speaker 1: I need to this needs to be we're on the

2326
01:45:56,080 --> 01:45:56,559
Speaker 1: same team.

2327
01:45:56,680 --> 01:45:59,040
Speaker 3: We're on the same team. And that is a good

2328
01:45:59,120 --> 01:46:01,400
Speaker 3: reminder too, because we talked about like what a full

2329
01:46:01,400 --> 01:46:05,200
Speaker 3: hearted apology looks like, and it's so true.

2330
01:46:05,360 --> 01:46:07,680
Speaker 2: Don't ruin an apology with an excuse.

2331
01:46:07,880 --> 01:46:11,880
Speaker 3: Don't and the I'm sorry I made you feel. I

2332
01:46:11,920 --> 01:46:14,800
Speaker 3: know we're rehashing something, but oh man, it sucks to

2333
01:46:14,880 --> 01:46:16,800
Speaker 3: hear that. I'm sorry if I made you.

2334
01:46:18,160 --> 01:46:21,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yikes, Yeah, you just completely own it. Go into

2335
01:46:21,040 --> 01:46:22,320
Speaker 1: full accountability mode.

2336
01:46:22,520 --> 01:46:22,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:46:23,840 --> 01:46:25,760
Speaker 1: Uh, should we get to should we get to the

2338
01:46:25,760 --> 01:46:28,519
Speaker 1: call ins? We do have a survival Kitten Dad Dad hack.

2339
01:46:28,600 --> 01:46:30,400
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna say the Survival Kitten Dad hag needs

2340
01:46:30,439 --> 01:46:32,080
Speaker 1: to go to uh Kwiko.

2341
01:46:32,600 --> 01:46:37,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does need to go to Kiwik. Yeah, we

2342
01:46:37,400 --> 01:46:37,680
Speaker 3: got it.

2343
01:46:37,680 --> 01:46:40,599
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Speaker 1: if you're looking for survival kit methods or dad hacks

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Speaker 1: out there, like this stuff is really good quality stuff.

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Speaker 1: I think Kwiko crushes it. We got the little stuff

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Speaker 1: he's I wish to shirm the poppy. Yeah, the well,

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Speaker 1: we got poppy. You got Poppy, team saying team six.

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Speaker 1: Then you got what we call yesterday? What was I

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01:47:03,280 --> 01:47:06,000
Speaker 1: saying yesterday? You got the shirm of the Chiwi.

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01:47:05,800 --> 01:47:07,559
Speaker 3: The shei Wei. It's a little she wee bird.

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Speaker 1: But I think the dad hacks and the survival Kit

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Speaker 1: needs to go into Kiwiko for sponsoring the episode and

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Speaker 1: us showing you the gifts that we got from them.

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Speaker 3: Hey fucking sickos, Hey pet sichoes. We interrupt this episode

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Speaker 3: because we have a really fun sponsor today. This is

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Speaker 3: Kids of any age can explore their curiosity and build

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Speaker 3: critical thinking skills through the power of play. It actually

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Speaker 3: has on here. What's a story will where you can

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Speaker 3: talk about a project that maybe you did around your house.

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Speaker 3: I was thinking the lunch of the watch project, ring.

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Speaker 1: Of an open wound right here with it one shelf,

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Speaker 1: a little project around the house.

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Speaker 2: Hey sweet, are you min hanging the shelf?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: One am I building the house? And I can promise

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Speaker 3: you that these projects are way more fun and way

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Speaker 3: easier than hanging up one shelf in your daughter's nursery.

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Speaker 3: dot com using promo code for the dads.

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Speaker 1: And just to take a look into the cookie jar.

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01:48:40,320 --> 01:48:42,400
Speaker 1: Here we got some gifts that will be opening up. Yeah,

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01:48:42,400 --> 01:48:44,080
Speaker 1: and I'm looking at one right here called the Slide

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01:48:44,120 --> 01:48:45,120
Speaker 1: Stack Ring Puzzle.

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01:48:45,280 --> 01:48:46,400
Speaker 3: This for twelve months.

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01:48:46,560 --> 01:48:49,799
Speaker 1: The focus you'll see it right here, focus on problem solving.

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01:48:50,080 --> 01:48:52,400
Speaker 1: Another one I picked up is one that I actually

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01:48:52,479 --> 01:48:54,720
Speaker 1: do have, and it is called the Play and Go

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01:48:54,920 --> 01:48:55,559
Speaker 1: lock box.

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01:48:55,760 --> 01:48:57,479
Speaker 2: To where you might not see it on the photo,

2392
01:48:57,560 --> 01:48:58,240
Speaker 2: but around.

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01:48:58,000 --> 01:49:00,880
Speaker 1: The entire around the entire block is like different ways

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01:49:00,880 --> 01:49:02,639
Speaker 1: to open and close doors. You see a little lock

2395
01:49:02,680 --> 01:49:04,800
Speaker 1: on the side, a different lock over here, a little

2396
01:49:04,880 --> 01:49:05,599
Speaker 1: knob to pool.

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01:49:06,240 --> 01:49:06,479
Speaker 3: Uh.

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01:49:06,520 --> 01:49:09,320
Speaker 1: This is thirteen plus months and the focus is on

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01:49:09,720 --> 01:49:12,679
Speaker 1: motor skills. Sir, do you have you have any any Well?

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01:49:12,880 --> 01:49:14,800
Speaker 3: First off, they sent these hereges and you could see

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01:49:14,920 --> 01:49:16,040
Speaker 3: Will's stuffed.

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01:49:15,720 --> 01:49:18,960
Speaker 2: Kiwe So this is you, that's me? What do you

2403
01:49:18,960 --> 01:49:19,640
Speaker 2: think this one is?

2404
01:49:19,720 --> 01:49:22,400
Speaker 3: That's fat? It's either fat Stafford or a key wee bird.

2405
01:49:22,479 --> 01:49:24,120
Speaker 2: This is key we Bird. This is she wee bird.

2406
01:49:24,200 --> 01:49:25,200
Speaker 2: It's Sherman Kiwi.

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01:49:26,400 --> 01:49:28,720
Speaker 3: It's a wee bird. And then we have a nice

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01:49:28,760 --> 01:49:31,479
Speaker 3: little panda bear here. His name's Poppy. Does that one

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01:49:31,520 --> 01:49:34,320
Speaker 3: have a name. Oh I don't know if that one

2410
01:49:34,360 --> 01:49:34,880
Speaker 3: has a name.

2411
01:49:34,800 --> 01:49:37,040
Speaker 2: But let me open them up.

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01:49:37,840 --> 01:49:42,200
Speaker 3: Let's feel how soft these things are. No name, This

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01:49:42,240 --> 01:49:44,439
Speaker 3: one comes nameless. But what was that one? You said?

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01:49:44,479 --> 01:49:44,839
Speaker 2: Poppy?

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01:49:44,880 --> 01:49:45,639
Speaker 3: This is Poppy.

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01:49:45,880 --> 01:49:49,320
Speaker 2: That's Poppy. That's Poppy Team six right there. That's see

2417
01:49:49,320 --> 01:49:51,760
Speaker 2: Wee code. You guys just struck dynamite.

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01:49:51,840 --> 01:49:56,679
Speaker 3: That's actually huge. This is Poppy and Poppy Poppy Team.

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01:49:56,920 --> 01:50:01,240
Speaker 3: Scarlett's gonna love this. What she's also going to love

2420
01:50:01,560 --> 01:50:04,920
Speaker 3: is this play Matt that came with our ship at

2421
01:50:04,920 --> 01:50:07,760
Speaker 3: This is zero to two months. So Keywekode does a

2422
01:50:07,800 --> 01:50:10,879
Speaker 3: break job, great job of breaking down the age groups

2423
01:50:11,160 --> 01:50:13,760
Speaker 3: will already red off two over there. They also do

2424
01:50:13,920 --> 01:50:16,960
Speaker 3: zero to two months, and they go up to a

2425
01:50:17,200 --> 01:50:22,040
Speaker 3: wide range of ages for kids of all learning experiences backgrounds.

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01:50:22,120 --> 01:50:24,400
Speaker 3: These projects look that one looks sick.

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01:50:24,560 --> 01:50:27,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, buddy, I'll love like this is Christmas.

2428
01:50:27,040 --> 01:50:29,400
Speaker 1: We got the pandacrate right here, and what it talks

2429
01:50:29,400 --> 01:50:33,360
Speaker 1: about is let's count uh ages. Thirteen to eighteen months,

2430
01:50:33,400 --> 01:50:35,719
Speaker 1: count and play with your toddler and help them develop

2431
01:50:35,760 --> 01:50:36,799
Speaker 1: early mass skills.

2432
01:50:37,240 --> 01:50:39,559
Speaker 3: This one right here look like the wind play lab.

2433
01:50:40,520 --> 01:50:43,800
Speaker 2: Fun ahead, this is electric fan. That's and that's what

2434
01:50:43,840 --> 01:50:46,200
Speaker 2: I include. Censory play that will blow you away.

2435
01:50:46,320 --> 01:50:49,760
Speaker 1: Experiment with the wind tunnel and discover how air makes

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01:50:49,800 --> 01:50:50,600
Speaker 1: things spin.

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01:50:50,520 --> 01:50:55,320
Speaker 3: Float and fly. Buddy, Hi, I just want to see

2438
01:50:55,360 --> 01:50:58,120
Speaker 3: you and me building one of these together. That needs

2439
01:50:58,160 --> 01:50:59,760
Speaker 3: to be a social pester Kiwiko.

2440
01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:02,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got another episode before the Dad's coming out tomorrow,

2441
01:51:02,400 --> 01:51:04,000
Speaker 1: and we're just playing with this wind play lab.

2442
01:51:05,800 --> 01:51:08,679
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, y'all go ahead, y'all, go ahead. We can't

2443
01:51:08,680 --> 01:51:12,000
Speaker 3: figure out this wind tunnel. This one's from zero to

2444
01:51:12,040 --> 01:51:16,400
Speaker 3: two months. This one's called Let's bond You got your

2445
01:51:16,439 --> 01:51:19,640
Speaker 3: little tummy time. Scarlett is just past two months, so

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01:51:19,760 --> 01:51:23,040
Speaker 3: this is gonna be perfect for her. Looks like a

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01:51:23,040 --> 01:51:24,680
Speaker 3: lot of different things that she can kind of like

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01:51:24,840 --> 01:51:27,479
Speaker 3: explore and learn with her hands. I know Jill's super

2449
01:51:27,520 --> 01:51:29,880
Speaker 3: big on that. We're starting to take the mittens off

2450
01:51:29,920 --> 01:51:34,360
Speaker 3: of Scarlet, letting her touch and feel and let's see

2451
01:51:34,400 --> 01:51:37,559
Speaker 3: bond with your baby and help develop their growing brain.

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01:51:38,040 --> 01:51:40,760
Speaker 1: Dude, this this ad, we've done this this is a

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01:51:40,800 --> 01:51:43,760
Speaker 1: survival kit. Yeah, this is our survival kit right here.

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01:51:43,840 --> 01:51:45,439
Speaker 1: If you've watched this part of the end you didn't

2455
01:51:45,439 --> 01:51:47,639
Speaker 1: skip forward, give a little shout out to Kipiko, especially

2456
01:51:47,640 --> 01:51:48,640
Speaker 1: if you have their products.

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01:51:48,840 --> 01:51:49,760
Speaker 3: If not, check them out.

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01:51:49,760 --> 01:51:53,040
Speaker 1: Sincere sincerely, Like these products are really good helps us

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01:51:53,040 --> 01:51:55,559
Speaker 1: all age groups. Development with your kid, good connecting time

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01:51:55,560 --> 01:51:57,320
Speaker 1: with your kid. And it's fun to like watch your

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01:51:57,360 --> 01:52:00,679
Speaker 1: little demon get rolling like Scotty right now, he's putting

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01:52:00,680 --> 01:52:02,400
Speaker 1: the ball. She'll put the ball in the whole lit

2463
01:52:02,479 --> 01:52:03,840
Speaker 1: a roll back, put the ball in a whole of

2464
01:52:03,920 --> 01:52:05,160
Speaker 1: roll back. Put the little egg.

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01:52:05,040 --> 01:52:07,439
Speaker 2: In the little little a little bit with this one.

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01:52:07,520 --> 01:52:08,559
Speaker 2: She's a little keyster thing.

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01:52:08,560 --> 01:52:10,080
Speaker 1: I'm just talking about like stuff at home, like you

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01:52:10,120 --> 01:52:11,679
Speaker 1: watch you watch a little demon operate.

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01:52:11,720 --> 01:52:12,599
Speaker 2: It is fun to watch.

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01:52:13,200 --> 01:52:17,840
Speaker 3: And also just speaking of discounts, uh, fifty percent off

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01:52:18,120 --> 01:52:21,639
Speaker 3: is really big. That might be our biggest discount as

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01:52:21,640 --> 01:52:24,320
Speaker 3: far as sponsors go. So it's up to fifty percent

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01:52:24,400 --> 01:52:28,280
Speaker 3: off your first crate if you go to Keiwiko dot

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Speaker 3: com that's k I w I coo dot com and

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01:52:32,520 --> 01:52:34,880
Speaker 3: you use the promo code for the dads.

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01:52:35,280 --> 01:52:38,519
Speaker 2: Dude, this tell you right now Keeyko, this needs to

2477
01:52:38,520 --> 01:52:40,759
Speaker 2: be a partner of the show, the partner of the brand.

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01:52:40,880 --> 01:52:44,040
Speaker 3: Honestly, this stuff is sick. And thank you to Kiwikoe

2479
01:52:44,120 --> 01:52:46,639
Speaker 3: just an extra shout out. They send some extra stuff

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01:52:46,680 --> 01:52:49,760
Speaker 3: for one of our employees. Jeremy also has kids. They

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01:52:49,800 --> 01:52:51,679
Speaker 3: send some extra stuff for him too, because they heard

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01:52:51,680 --> 01:52:53,720
Speaker 3: that he has kids. Oh, I thought that was cool.

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01:52:54,200 --> 01:52:55,320
Speaker 3: I thought that was super sick.

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01:52:55,479 --> 01:52:58,080
Speaker 2: Scotty's ten months right now. She turned ten months. Over

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01:52:58,080 --> 01:53:00,880
Speaker 2: the weekend, we're gonna actually week I'm gonna get her

2486
01:53:00,920 --> 01:53:03,559
Speaker 2: operating on this twelve plus months. We're gonna start problem solving.

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01:53:03,640 --> 01:53:05,760
Speaker 3: That's gonna be. It's gonna be problems. This was all

2488
01:53:06,280 --> 01:53:08,720
Speaker 3: for real. And this one looks really sick. The one

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01:53:08,760 --> 01:53:10,760
Speaker 3: that they sent Jeremy for his older kids. This is

2490
01:53:10,800 --> 01:53:13,360
Speaker 3: three to six year olds. It's like a full on

2491
01:53:13,520 --> 01:53:16,559
Speaker 3: science project in there. See that's cool. We're talking like

2492
01:53:16,640 --> 01:53:21,439
Speaker 3: test tube speaker. I mean it looks sick. Yeah, this

2493
01:53:21,560 --> 01:53:23,519
Speaker 3: is a Kiwiko bombs.

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01:53:23,800 --> 01:53:28,000
Speaker 1: Let's get back to the episode. Go shop kiwik Let's

2495
01:53:28,000 --> 01:53:28,879
Speaker 1: get into the hotline.

2496
01:53:29,040 --> 01:53:30,880
Speaker 3: Let's get into the hot How many we got this week?

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01:53:31,400 --> 01:53:34,639
Speaker 1: We have two to this week we won this week

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01:53:35,080 --> 01:53:39,519
Speaker 1: one This week time, we're pushing an hour time, we're

2499
01:53:39,520 --> 01:53:41,400
Speaker 1: pushing it out, we're pushing an hour.

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01:53:41,760 --> 01:53:43,479
Speaker 2: Gotta keep it under Uh.

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01:53:43,680 --> 01:53:47,200
Speaker 3: I went to one and I think one. I think chocolate.

2502
01:53:47,320 --> 01:53:49,000
Speaker 2: Obviously we want to get into doing more.

2503
01:53:49,040 --> 01:53:50,600
Speaker 1: But I think we had a lot of comments at

2504
01:53:50,600 --> 01:53:52,120
Speaker 1: the top of the episode two that we touched on.

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01:53:52,200 --> 01:53:55,360
Speaker 3: We did, Yeah, yeah, let's hit this caller, let's hit

2506
01:53:55,400 --> 01:53:56,080
Speaker 3: this six on one.

2507
01:53:56,120 --> 01:53:58,639
Speaker 1: The dads, you want to be featured on the show, obviously,

2508
01:53:58,680 --> 01:54:00,360
Speaker 1: you can write to us, you can comment to us.

2509
01:54:00,400 --> 01:54:02,280
Speaker 1: You can call in and leave a voicemail if you're

2510
01:54:02,280 --> 01:54:04,800
Speaker 1: feeling frustrated, if you got a dad win a crack

2511
01:54:04,880 --> 01:54:06,519
Speaker 1: of coal, when a dad lost something you need to

2512
01:54:06,520 --> 01:54:08,040
Speaker 1: get off your chest. Six and when the dad's leave

2513
01:54:08,080 --> 01:54:11,439
Speaker 1: a voicemail. Chance to be featured on the show. This

2514
01:54:11,479 --> 01:54:12,080
Speaker 1: one comes in.

2515
01:54:12,040 --> 01:54:15,679
Speaker 3: From This one comes from mister white Chocolate.

2516
01:54:15,720 --> 01:54:20,880
Speaker 6: Okay, mister white Chocolate, Will Sarm. This is Tier one,

2517
01:54:21,040 --> 01:54:25,640
Speaker 6: mister white Chocolate speaking. Today is my daughter's birthday. She

2518
01:54:25,880 --> 01:54:29,680
Speaker 6: is now a teenager. It's gonna be some rough and

2519
01:54:29,800 --> 01:54:32,680
Speaker 6: tough years coming for you boys, coming up soon, so

2520
01:54:32,720 --> 01:54:36,240
Speaker 6: please pray for me. My question for you, guys is

2521
01:54:36,320 --> 01:54:40,160
Speaker 6: what are you two looking forward to most when your

2522
01:54:40,240 --> 01:54:46,360
Speaker 6: daughters become teenagers. Love you guys, can't wait to see this.

2523
01:54:47,960 --> 01:54:50,400
Speaker 1: White mister white Chocolate. Thank you for calling in. Man,

2524
01:54:51,680 --> 01:54:54,720
Speaker 1: what a question, Ruse three. Right now, I feel like

2525
01:54:54,720 --> 01:54:56,840
Speaker 1: I don't have to think about it for another ten years,

2526
01:54:57,840 --> 01:55:00,320
Speaker 1: cause those are like it's like, those are scary. I

2527
01:55:00,320 --> 01:55:01,880
Speaker 1: think of all the moments that I'm having with my

2528
01:55:01,880 --> 01:55:03,360
Speaker 1: little girls right now, and it's.

2529
01:55:03,240 --> 01:55:04,600
Speaker 3: Like, what if.

2530
01:55:05,480 --> 01:55:08,520
Speaker 1: What if this is just the relationship for the rest

2531
01:55:08,560 --> 01:55:11,680
Speaker 1: of time and there won't be those tough teenager moments

2532
01:55:11,720 --> 01:55:15,040
Speaker 1: of where they don't want that anymore? But I don't know.

2533
01:55:15,760 --> 01:55:16,920
Speaker 3: Maybe I am number one.

2534
01:55:17,200 --> 01:55:20,240
Speaker 1: Maybe I will be number one her entire life, over

2535
01:55:20,280 --> 01:55:23,680
Speaker 1: her friends, over the you know, her love interests that

2536
01:55:23,720 --> 01:55:24,240
Speaker 1: are out there.

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01:55:24,640 --> 01:55:27,680
Speaker 3: I have my answer, what is if you? Like Jill

2538
01:55:27,720 --> 01:55:30,080
Speaker 3: and I were joking about this that I was saying,

2539
01:55:30,160 --> 01:55:33,200
Speaker 3: I'm actually looking forward to you those days where I

2540
01:55:33,280 --> 01:55:36,320
Speaker 3: picked Scarlett up from school and there's some friend group

2541
01:55:36,480 --> 01:55:39,760
Speaker 3: drama and there's no advice that dad can give her

2542
01:55:39,840 --> 01:55:44,840
Speaker 3: other than just listen. Emily said, what, Oh my gosh,

2543
01:55:44,880 --> 01:55:49,560
Speaker 3: And how did Rebecca respond to that? Oh? Okay, yeah, yeah,

2544
01:55:49,600 --> 01:55:52,320
Speaker 3: well that makes sense because Rebecca doesn't like that. Yeah,

2545
01:55:52,320 --> 01:55:55,440
Speaker 3: you can't have that no, can't have that. Oh good,

2546
01:55:55,480 --> 01:55:57,560
Speaker 3: you hugged her and you told her that you loved

2547
01:55:57,560 --> 01:55:59,480
Speaker 3: her and you want to be your best friend, Scarlett.

2548
01:55:59,520 --> 01:56:00,600
Speaker 3: I think you can nailed that.

2549
01:56:01,280 --> 01:56:03,040
Speaker 1: Just like matter of fact, you should invite them over

2550
01:56:03,080 --> 01:56:05,320
Speaker 1: for Pizza Friday. They can do a sleepover.

2551
01:56:05,360 --> 01:56:07,240
Speaker 2: You guys can stay in the room, will lock the doors.

2552
01:56:07,240 --> 01:56:10,480
Speaker 2: You don't have to go anywhere at nighttime Pizza Friday.

2553
01:56:11,000 --> 01:56:17,640
Speaker 3: I'm thirteen. I break my heart, dude, I know we don't. No,

2554
01:56:17,800 --> 01:56:21,400
Speaker 3: she will, and I'm sorry, I'm sorry I even joked

2555
01:56:21,440 --> 01:56:24,560
Speaker 3: about it. Way they could come. I am looking forward

2556
01:56:24,600 --> 01:56:28,920
Speaker 3: to those little like teenage girls scuffles and just trying

2557
01:56:28,960 --> 01:56:31,560
Speaker 3: to trying to navigate it. And I won't know what

2558
01:56:31,600 --> 01:56:34,520
Speaker 3: to do other than just listen, just listen to her

2559
01:56:34,560 --> 01:56:37,600
Speaker 3: and make her feel heard and like, those are very

2560
01:56:37,640 --> 01:56:41,800
Speaker 3: important stories that I need to and just learning all

2561
01:56:41,840 --> 01:56:44,520
Speaker 3: the nuances of her friends so that I can be

2562
01:56:44,600 --> 01:56:47,839
Speaker 3: a good wall for her to just bounce her thoughts

2563
01:56:47,840 --> 01:56:50,080
Speaker 3: and emotions and stuff off of. And Jill and I

2564
01:56:50,120 --> 01:56:52,840
Speaker 3: were just kind of joking about that, of like, and

2565
01:56:52,920 --> 01:56:56,320
Speaker 3: Jill has no drama queen at all. She you know,

2566
01:56:56,520 --> 01:56:59,400
Speaker 3: she'll tell you that, like any friend group just like,

2567
01:56:59,480 --> 01:57:02,560
Speaker 3: guys have an equal amount of drama, but we're both

2568
01:57:02,600 --> 01:57:05,720
Speaker 3: pretty drama free. So whenever it does come down the

2569
01:57:05,760 --> 01:57:07,760
Speaker 3: pipe where I was like, oh, it's kind of some

2570
01:57:08,080 --> 01:57:11,520
Speaker 3: juicya what's going on, I can get on board with that.

2571
01:57:11,640 --> 01:57:13,800
Speaker 1: I feel like, as you're saying that, I feel like

2572
01:57:13,800 --> 01:57:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to the debriefs in the breakdowns with

2573
01:57:18,000 --> 01:57:20,320
Speaker 1: my wife, like when you know the kiddos are, you know,

2574
01:57:20,400 --> 01:57:22,640
Speaker 1: when the girls are in bed and you're kind of

2575
01:57:22,640 --> 01:57:24,960
Speaker 1: talking about what you might have heard and what advice

2576
01:57:25,000 --> 01:57:26,760
Speaker 1: you were given, how should we do this. I'm hearing

2577
01:57:26,760 --> 01:57:29,880
Speaker 1: there's some stuff going on at school, like the debriefs

2578
01:57:29,880 --> 01:57:31,800
Speaker 1: in the preparation with your wife of how you might

2579
01:57:31,840 --> 01:57:35,400
Speaker 1: handle these situations. Cause it's gonna be like I feel like,

2580
01:57:36,120 --> 01:57:38,440
Speaker 1: in the parents out there with teenagers or adults that

2581
01:57:38,480 --> 01:57:40,920
Speaker 1: live through the teenage years, I'm sure that they'll have

2582
01:57:40,960 --> 01:57:42,920
Speaker 1: some good comments about this, but I feel like it's

2583
01:57:42,960 --> 01:57:46,240
Speaker 1: going to be like it's an art form in motion

2584
01:57:46,640 --> 01:57:49,640
Speaker 1: when trying to prepare for whatever these conversations are, because

2585
01:57:49,680 --> 01:57:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm I'm weirdly, you know, when my daughter starts to

2586
01:57:53,560 --> 01:57:57,720
Speaker 1: have crushes and relationships, I'm like, you know, what what

2587
01:57:57,880 --> 01:58:00,800
Speaker 1: could be knocking on my door on some of these

2588
01:58:00,840 --> 01:58:01,680
Speaker 1: evenings coming up.

2589
01:58:01,920 --> 01:58:03,960
Speaker 2: Oh, what young boys are gonna be asking?

2590
01:58:04,200 --> 01:58:08,120
Speaker 1: Oh you'll be asking permission to take my daughter on

2591
01:58:08,160 --> 01:58:11,400
Speaker 1: a date, Yes, sir, and keeping that standard tour, it

2592
01:58:11,440 --> 01:58:13,720
Speaker 1: doesn't create the friction with your girl, with your daughter.

2593
01:58:13,880 --> 01:58:15,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a song and dance.

2594
01:58:15,800 --> 01:58:20,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, uh, weirdly like looking forward to like which

2595
01:58:20,200 --> 01:58:22,400
Speaker 1: one of these? Well, and our dad which one of

2596
01:58:22,440 --> 01:58:23,120
Speaker 1: these slappies?

2597
01:58:23,200 --> 01:58:26,440
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, our dad brains. It's gonna be like you're

2598
01:58:26,440 --> 01:58:29,080
Speaker 3: gonna go up to Charlie, you know, how's blah blah blah.

2599
01:58:29,080 --> 01:58:32,520
Speaker 3: She seemed upset. Well, Lindsay borrowed another one of Ruth's

2600
01:58:32,520 --> 01:58:35,840
Speaker 3: tops and she hasn't given it back yet. Oh, well,

2601
01:58:36,480 --> 01:58:37,960
Speaker 3: is she gonna call Lindsay and get it back?

2602
01:58:38,000 --> 01:58:38,080
Speaker 2: No?

2603
01:58:38,440 --> 01:58:41,400
Speaker 3: Will, She can't do that because Ruth got cheer Captain

2604
01:58:41,480 --> 01:58:45,640
Speaker 3: Lindsay Dinnitt. She's upset about that. Oh okay, yeah, you're right. Yeah,

2605
01:58:45,680 --> 01:58:50,000
Speaker 3: that's a good I'll call Steve right now. Don't get

2606
01:58:50,000 --> 01:58:52,280
Speaker 3: that popped up back. No you can't.

2607
01:58:52,920 --> 01:58:54,840
Speaker 2: You can't go over her, you can't go around her.

2608
01:58:55,280 --> 01:58:57,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't do that because then Lindsay's gonna do

2609
01:58:57,800 --> 01:58:59,920
Speaker 3: this because Lindsay has a crush on Brian. You know,

2610
01:59:00,160 --> 01:59:01,840
Speaker 3: Brian has a crush on Rue, And it's just the

2611
01:59:01,920 --> 01:59:02,320
Speaker 3: whole thing.

2612
01:59:02,520 --> 01:59:03,960
Speaker 2: Does Ru have a crush on Brian?

2613
01:59:04,680 --> 01:59:07,400
Speaker 3: Well, you know whenever I bring up Brian, she gets

2614
01:59:07,400 --> 01:59:09,400
Speaker 3: a little bashroom and gets a little red in the cheeks.

2615
01:59:09,400 --> 01:59:13,560
Speaker 2: But I don't know, that's it, sticky, That's what I

2616
01:59:14,360 --> 01:59:16,240
Speaker 2: don't feel prepared for stuff like that.

2617
01:59:16,240 --> 01:59:19,280
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. I'm gonna have zero click. That's

2618
01:59:19,360 --> 01:59:21,680
Speaker 3: just where Dad shuts up and just sits back and

2619
01:59:22,360 --> 01:59:23,240
Speaker 3: watches gold.

2620
01:59:23,320 --> 01:59:24,800
Speaker 1: Number one needs to be how do we how do

2621
01:59:24,840 --> 01:59:28,080
Speaker 1: we get this friendship aligned? Because that's potential problems just

2622
01:59:28,120 --> 01:59:29,600
Speaker 1: waiting and stewing, and.

2623
01:59:29,600 --> 01:59:32,400
Speaker 3: My brain goes exactly where you are of like have

2624
01:59:32,480 --> 01:59:35,840
Speaker 3: her over for pizza Friday. But they used to love

2625
01:59:35,880 --> 01:59:37,000
Speaker 3: that when they were kids.

2626
01:59:38,200 --> 01:59:40,120
Speaker 5: Will you need to start working on your dad?

2627
01:59:41,640 --> 01:59:41,880
Speaker 3: You know?

2628
01:59:42,080 --> 01:59:42,280
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2629
01:59:42,280 --> 01:59:44,600
Speaker 5: When you don't and you know, it's like this is

2630
01:59:45,080 --> 01:59:46,839
Speaker 5: gone out of your wheelhouse, you go.

2631
01:59:47,360 --> 01:59:50,560
Speaker 2: Huh, it's gonna be a good looks.

2632
01:59:53,240 --> 01:59:55,520
Speaker 3: And you let me know because I want to help, honey,

2633
01:59:55,800 --> 01:59:57,400
Speaker 3: you just let me know what I need to do.

2634
01:59:57,480 --> 01:59:58,440
Speaker 3: I'm on standbio.

2635
01:59:58,600 --> 02:00:01,160
Speaker 1: So you're telling me Rue who is upset because she

2636
02:00:01,160 --> 02:00:02,600
Speaker 1: didn't get invited to the movies.

2637
02:00:03,640 --> 02:00:07,680
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, so it's Lindsay, it's Rachel, it's Chelsea, it's

2638
02:00:07,720 --> 02:00:09,320
Speaker 3: that all that group of girls that she went to

2639
02:00:09,320 --> 02:00:11,960
Speaker 3: summer camp with and they've just been hanging out a

2640
02:00:11,960 --> 02:00:14,440
Speaker 3: whole lot and they, I don't know, real didn't get

2641
02:00:14,440 --> 02:00:14,960
Speaker 3: the invite.

2642
02:00:15,960 --> 02:00:17,600
Speaker 2: We could do pizza Friday at the house.

2643
02:00:18,720 --> 02:00:20,320
Speaker 3: Well it doesn't work like that.

2644
02:00:21,080 --> 02:00:25,400
Speaker 2: You're telling me she's upset that Charlie won't go with

2645
02:00:25,440 --> 02:00:28,520
Speaker 2: her to the dance and she's torb about that. Is

2646
02:00:28,560 --> 02:00:31,040
Speaker 2: she seeing the status that Charlie's putting up on Friday nights?

2647
02:00:31,560 --> 02:00:32,880
Speaker 2: He's the backup, running.

2648
02:00:32,640 --> 02:00:35,360
Speaker 3: Back pulled this Charlie kid up. Does he have one

2649
02:00:35,360 --> 02:00:37,880
Speaker 3: of those Facebook? No, they don't have Facebook. He has

2650
02:00:37,960 --> 02:00:40,960
Speaker 3: TikTok bro he has eighty thousand followers. Well he's kind

2651
02:00:40,960 --> 02:00:41,360
Speaker 3: of viral.

2652
02:00:41,640 --> 02:00:43,200
Speaker 2: He might have an eight thousand followers.

2653
02:00:43,200 --> 02:00:44,480
Speaker 3: But he can't. He can't.

2654
02:00:44,760 --> 02:00:47,600
Speaker 1: He can't have a four yard run to save his life.

2655
02:00:49,280 --> 02:00:50,840
Speaker 1: She'll just have her.

2656
02:00:50,880 --> 02:00:52,640
Speaker 2: We're just watching film a so you're in love with

2657
02:00:52,680 --> 02:00:54,040
Speaker 2: this Charlie guy.

2658
02:00:54,880 --> 02:00:57,800
Speaker 3: You're breaking down film with the love interest. Let's see

2659
02:00:57,800 --> 02:00:59,760
Speaker 3: how Let's see how you think Charlie's a tough guy.

2660
02:00:59,840 --> 02:01:03,320
Speaker 1: Let's see how he responds in the A gap here.

2661
02:01:03,560 --> 02:01:05,200
Speaker 1: This is the guy you want to you want to

2662
02:01:05,240 --> 02:01:06,960
Speaker 1: attach your attached the wagon to.

2663
02:01:07,160 --> 02:01:09,200
Speaker 3: You see the third and long blitz there, Honey, you

2664
02:01:09,240 --> 02:01:12,200
Speaker 3: see how he looks like he's in a blender. He's

2665
02:01:12,240 --> 02:01:12,960
Speaker 3: bouncing around.

2666
02:01:13,400 --> 02:01:15,240
Speaker 1: Let me talk to you about Tony over here, the quarterback.

2667
02:01:15,920 --> 02:01:18,240
Speaker 1: I mean, he's get some looks from from D one schools.

2668
02:01:18,240 --> 02:01:19,320
Speaker 1: He's only a sophomore.

2669
02:01:19,680 --> 02:01:22,200
Speaker 3: Oh, dad, Tony's not hot. He may not be hot,

2670
02:01:22,240 --> 02:01:26,160
Speaker 3: by honey. It's about the heart. Yeah, it's about the heart.

2671
02:01:26,440 --> 02:01:29,480
Speaker 3: But dude, I'm stoked for that type of stuff once

2672
02:01:29,480 --> 02:01:36,200
Speaker 3: they're like developing that socio you know, like uh whatever,

2673
02:01:36,360 --> 02:01:39,280
Speaker 3: like just those friend groups and navigating it and.

2674
02:01:40,600 --> 02:01:44,880
Speaker 1: The One Tree Hill drama. Yes, dude, the One Tree Hills, Smallville.

2675
02:01:45,240 --> 02:01:46,040
Speaker 3: I rock them all.

2676
02:01:46,120 --> 02:01:46,400
Speaker 2: Dude.

2677
02:01:47,200 --> 02:01:49,760
Speaker 3: The drama in those TV shows. And I'm not saying

2678
02:01:49,800 --> 02:01:54,240
Speaker 3: every girl is girl live teenage girl thing is drama filled.

2679
02:01:54,240 --> 02:01:55,960
Speaker 3: I hope it doesn't sound that way, but I just

2680
02:01:56,120 --> 02:02:00,480
Speaker 3: know that like in their world it is though, yeah,

2681
02:02:00,520 --> 02:02:02,680
Speaker 3: and it is important and it's like a big deal

2682
02:02:02,760 --> 02:02:06,320
Speaker 3: to them. And I remember when my dad would get

2683
02:02:06,400 --> 02:02:10,080
Speaker 3: a friend's name wrong, dude. Oh, that used to bug me,

2684
02:02:10,720 --> 02:02:14,280
Speaker 3: Like I have this best friend named James, and I

2685
02:02:14,320 --> 02:02:16,160
Speaker 3: couldn't tell if he was like doing it to me

2686
02:02:16,240 --> 02:02:20,440
Speaker 3: on purpose to like mess with Meania, when's Josh coming over? Dad, James,

2687
02:02:21,520 --> 02:02:22,520
Speaker 3: James is coming over.

2688
02:02:23,440 --> 02:02:23,880
Speaker 6: I know that.

2689
02:02:24,160 --> 02:02:26,920
Speaker 3: I know that there's a guy at our high school

2690
02:02:27,000 --> 02:02:29,680
Speaker 3: named Cole Lofton and he always called them Cole Laughlin.

2691
02:02:31,040 --> 02:02:34,960
Speaker 3: Drove me nuts, drove me nuts, And so I'm like

2692
02:02:35,040 --> 02:02:37,760
Speaker 3: in my brain, you got name right. I gotta get

2693
02:02:37,760 --> 02:02:40,200
Speaker 3: all of her girlfriend's names right, I got you.

2694
02:02:40,160 --> 02:02:42,920
Speaker 2: Know, I'm ready to do like the.

2695
02:02:44,880 --> 02:02:48,640
Speaker 1: Like the dumb dad step over the line stuff like, Hey,

2696
02:02:48,760 --> 02:02:49,240
Speaker 1: what's going on?

2697
02:02:49,360 --> 02:02:53,720
Speaker 2: Is it something? Are you doing? The is this? You

2698
02:02:53,760 --> 02:02:54,839
Speaker 2: get the period now?

2699
02:03:03,920 --> 02:03:09,000
Speaker 3: Mom told me something's going on this. Mom told me

2700
02:03:09,040 --> 02:03:10,840
Speaker 3: something's going on this week. I just want you to

2701
02:03:12,120 --> 02:03:14,960
Speaker 3: it's just making no eye contact. Yeah, just once. You know,

2702
02:03:15,960 --> 02:03:20,200
Speaker 3: if you need ice cream, if you need extra movie time,

2703
02:03:21,320 --> 02:03:24,320
Speaker 3: you can do that. Actually, I gotta go downstairs in

2704
02:03:24,360 --> 02:03:25,600
Speaker 3: their privacy. Doctor.

2705
02:03:25,640 --> 02:03:27,440
Speaker 1: Mama, you kind of have one of the milestone deals

2706
02:03:27,440 --> 02:03:30,520
Speaker 1: in your life. You know, I'm not too familiar with

2707
02:03:30,520 --> 02:03:31,960
Speaker 1: that stuff. I'm sure Mom tells you a lot of

2708
02:03:31,960 --> 02:03:34,840
Speaker 1: good things. You know, whatever you need from me, just

2709
02:03:34,920 --> 02:03:35,200
Speaker 1: let me know.

2710
02:03:35,240 --> 02:03:38,360
Speaker 3: I'm here for you, you beautiful young lady, just like

2711
02:03:38,360 --> 02:03:40,400
Speaker 3: your mom. I don't know if that's what you want

2712
02:03:40,440 --> 02:03:43,240
Speaker 3: to I don't know, honey. I love you, I love you.

2713
02:03:44,200 --> 02:03:44,960
Speaker 3: I'll see you tomorrow.

2714
02:03:46,000 --> 02:03:48,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I can tell I'm saying a little too much

2715
02:03:48,040 --> 02:03:50,120
Speaker 1: right now. I feel stupid, like just forget everything.

2716
02:03:49,840 --> 02:03:50,560
Speaker 2: We just said right there.

2717
02:03:50,560 --> 02:03:53,640
Speaker 3: Okay, what are we gonna do? I don't know. Man,

2718
02:03:54,800 --> 02:03:58,160
Speaker 3: Oh the great question by mister white Chocolate.

2719
02:03:59,120 --> 02:04:01,560
Speaker 2: You already know that's gonna be a reaction when we're frustrated.

2720
02:04:01,600 --> 02:04:03,360
Speaker 3: Is this that time of the month for you right now?

2721
02:04:03,480 --> 02:04:13,280
Speaker 3: Silent treatment for a week? Y oh yeah, Ruth's gonna

2722
02:04:13,280 --> 02:04:20,680
Speaker 3: be like you're done, You're done. Yeah, man, scary hours, dude.

2723
02:04:20,760 --> 02:04:23,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all like coming through my head right now,

2724
02:04:23,320 --> 02:04:25,240
Speaker 1: like shit, and we.

2725
02:04:25,240 --> 02:04:27,720
Speaker 3: Got that coming down the pipe. But the good news is,

2726
02:04:28,520 --> 02:04:30,400
Speaker 3: and you you've kind of been talking about this like

2727
02:04:30,560 --> 02:04:35,560
Speaker 3: all podcasts. I feel like a good lesson for us

2728
02:04:35,680 --> 02:04:38,800
Speaker 3: dads is we are learning too as they are learning,

2729
02:04:38,800 --> 02:04:42,320
Speaker 3: and as Rue is learning to communicate, as with Scotti

2730
02:04:42,440 --> 02:04:45,520
Speaker 3: or Ruth's learning how to deal with like mom being

2731
02:04:45,560 --> 02:04:48,600
Speaker 3: out of town, like Will is also learning how to

2732
02:04:48,600 --> 02:04:50,840
Speaker 3: deal with Ru while mom's out of town and also

2733
02:04:50,920 --> 02:04:53,800
Speaker 3: dealing how to tell Ru how to communicate with the

2734
02:04:53,840 --> 02:04:57,520
Speaker 3: dog in Scotty. And same with me. I'm learning how

2735
02:04:57,560 --> 02:05:01,120
Speaker 3: to show Jill that I am capable of her being

2736
02:05:01,120 --> 02:05:04,040
Speaker 3: out of town. Yeah, and so yes, that stuff scares

2737
02:05:04,080 --> 02:05:07,360
Speaker 3: the shit out of me. But I'm also like this

2738
02:05:07,400 --> 02:05:11,840
Speaker 3: old dog can learn new tricks. I'm learning and maybe, hey,

2739
02:05:11,880 --> 02:05:15,480
Speaker 3: it does, you know, take me to go crazy and

2740
02:05:16,200 --> 02:05:19,600
Speaker 3: you know, make a mistake here or whatever and like

2741
02:05:19,720 --> 02:05:22,920
Speaker 3: to learn a lesson. But we're gonna be fine because

2742
02:05:22,960 --> 02:05:25,600
Speaker 3: you care. Because you care, and you want to be intentional.

2743
02:05:26,000 --> 02:05:27,320
Speaker 1: You don't want to be the guy who kind of

2744
02:05:27,480 --> 02:05:31,360
Speaker 1: steps off, you know, fades into the fades into.

2745
02:05:31,120 --> 02:05:32,920
Speaker 2: The shadows, falls back. You want to be on the

2746
02:05:32,920 --> 02:05:34,000
Speaker 2: front lines with your wife.

2747
02:05:34,320 --> 02:05:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, learning and immersing yourself into stuff, because I can

2748
02:05:37,960 --> 02:05:44,800
Speaker 1: only hope we're sitting here ten years later, and I'm like, boys,

2749
02:05:45,120 --> 02:05:51,560
Speaker 1: pop a Team six My daughter just turned thirteen, and

2750
02:05:51,600 --> 02:05:54,360
Speaker 1: here's the situation, and I gotta be careful because my

2751
02:05:55,000 --> 02:05:57,320
Speaker 1: roo could listen to this stuff. Oh yeah, but I

2752
02:05:57,320 --> 02:05:59,080
Speaker 1: gotta tell you I got a relationship with the PT

2753
02:05:59,200 --> 02:06:01,640
Speaker 1: sixers out there community, and I'm gonna.

2754
02:06:01,400 --> 02:06:02,040
Speaker 2: Need some help.

2755
02:06:02,280 --> 02:06:06,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, honey, you don't. You don't want me talking about

2756
02:06:06,600 --> 02:06:08,440
Speaker 3: you making the cheer team. I won't talk about making

2757
02:06:08,440 --> 02:06:12,040
Speaker 3: the cheer team. I'm brody. I just love you and

2758
02:06:12,080 --> 02:06:15,000
Speaker 3: your mama was a cheerleader. You're a cheerleader. I love it.

2759
02:06:16,000 --> 02:06:20,200
Speaker 3: You start crying. Yeah, you're always crying, Dad quick crying

2760
02:06:20,200 --> 02:06:25,440
Speaker 3: on the podcast. My friends keep pulling it up. Yeah, gole, Yeah,

2761
02:06:26,840 --> 02:06:28,560
Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be interesting.

2762
02:06:28,680 --> 02:06:30,600
Speaker 2: All these moments on the Internet that they will have

2763
02:06:30,640 --> 02:06:31,160
Speaker 2: access to.

2764
02:06:33,240 --> 02:06:35,520
Speaker 3: He's just gonna make you a legend. If anything.

2765
02:06:37,000 --> 02:06:41,560
Speaker 1: Should imagine the first time my daughter comes across me

2766
02:06:41,760 --> 02:06:44,160
Speaker 1: with my pants off doing a case race.

2767
02:06:45,360 --> 02:06:51,200
Speaker 3: As Darth mauls with Darth Maul face paint, and honey,

2768
02:06:51,280 --> 02:06:53,040
Speaker 3: there's this great talking about I just want to shake

2769
02:06:53,080 --> 02:06:56,840
Speaker 3: the uber guy's hand. I just want to shake his hand. Honey.

2770
02:06:56,920 --> 02:06:59,720
Speaker 3: There's this burner account on Twitter. It's called Will Compton's

2771
02:06:59,720 --> 02:07:02,960
Speaker 3: Bowl gen It's actually in reference to that moment. Yeah,

2772
02:07:03,200 --> 02:07:04,080
Speaker 3: he's a great fault.

2773
02:07:04,480 --> 02:07:07,080
Speaker 2: You know it's not your father, but you were going

2774
02:07:07,120 --> 02:07:08,760
Speaker 2: to see some stuff on the internet.

2775
02:07:10,080 --> 02:07:12,680
Speaker 3: By then, AI will be so crazy you can kind

2776
02:07:12,720 --> 02:07:17,960
Speaker 3: of might spins on it. Are they making those with something?

2777
02:07:18,040 --> 02:07:21,360
Speaker 3: Are they making those about your dad again? I can't believe.

2778
02:07:21,520 --> 02:07:27,960
Speaker 3: Yeah was a real honey, Yeah, hey die like yeah, hey,

2779
02:07:28,000 --> 02:07:30,520
Speaker 3: that touchdown the ice scord as a wide receiver in

2780
02:07:30,560 --> 02:07:31,520
Speaker 3: the NFL. That's real.

2781
02:07:31,600 --> 02:07:34,440
Speaker 2: That's yeah.

2782
02:07:34,880 --> 02:07:38,800
Speaker 3: Great call in. Did you have a lesson or a quote?

2783
02:07:38,960 --> 02:07:39,280
Speaker 3: I do?

2784
02:07:39,680 --> 02:07:43,200
Speaker 1: If not, go ahead, okay, cool, Like I could muster

2785
02:07:43,320 --> 02:07:45,120
Speaker 1: one up, I can, I could find one. But dude,

2786
02:07:45,120 --> 02:07:47,000
Speaker 1: take the floor. Bro, this is We've been going for.

2787
02:07:47,680 --> 02:07:48,280
Speaker 3: A good amount.

2788
02:07:48,400 --> 02:07:49,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, a good amount.

2789
02:07:49,280 --> 02:07:54,120
Speaker 3: Okay, So going into this quote, I've always had a

2790
02:07:54,120 --> 02:07:58,960
Speaker 3: good relationship with Will's stepdad Cody, but him coming in

2791
02:07:59,000 --> 02:08:04,320
Speaker 3: town for Jill's birthday, it has been incredible. The girls

2792
02:08:04,760 --> 02:08:06,960
Speaker 3: went out and left the house last night, her mom

2793
02:08:07,000 --> 02:08:10,560
Speaker 3: and Jill to go to Home Goods, Shout out Home Goods,

2794
02:08:11,360 --> 02:08:15,560
Speaker 3: and baby scarscar was by herself with the boys, Me

2795
02:08:15,600 --> 02:08:19,720
Speaker 3: and Cody. We got to watch Baker Mayfield perform a

2796
02:08:19,760 --> 02:08:23,880
Speaker 3: miraculous comeback on Monday night football, and Cody and I

2797
02:08:23,920 --> 02:08:27,240
Speaker 3: are jumping up, we're standing up, we're clapping, We're like

2798
02:08:27,320 --> 02:08:29,600
Speaker 3: we browed out. It was really kind of the first

2799
02:08:29,600 --> 02:08:33,400
Speaker 3: time of us browing out so much fun to brag

2800
02:08:33,440 --> 02:08:38,000
Speaker 3: on him. Super interesting guy, very interesting guy, doesn't have

2801
02:08:38,880 --> 02:08:42,400
Speaker 3: like the college education that most have of like, you're

2802
02:08:42,440 --> 02:08:45,400
Speaker 3: no business savvy entrepreneurs, but he's a self made man,

2803
02:08:45,520 --> 02:08:49,320
Speaker 3: blue collar man, owns a ton of companies, have sold

2804
02:08:49,320 --> 02:08:52,200
Speaker 3: a ton of companies. And I feel like every single

2805
02:08:52,200 --> 02:08:55,040
Speaker 3: time I'm around him, I'm learning something new, but he's

2806
02:08:55,040 --> 02:08:58,280
Speaker 3: never trying to teach me anything. Jill has his surprise

2807
02:08:58,360 --> 02:09:01,879
Speaker 3: birthday part or not surprise birthday, has a thirtieth birthday

2808
02:09:01,920 --> 02:09:04,560
Speaker 3: party coming up, and it's kind of last second. We're

2809
02:09:04,560 --> 02:09:06,760
Speaker 3: throwing stuff together. We're trying to figure out how to

2810
02:09:06,760 --> 02:09:10,040
Speaker 3: do it in the front yard, and Cody's like, oh, sureman,

2811
02:09:10,360 --> 02:09:12,480
Speaker 3: I'll go to home depot and get a couple two

2812
02:09:12,480 --> 02:09:14,600
Speaker 3: by tens and some two by fours. I'll set up

2813
02:09:14,600 --> 02:09:17,480
Speaker 3: two pillars. We'll get the twinkle lights going from that

2814
02:09:18,200 --> 02:09:20,480
Speaker 3: oak tree y'all got in the front yard, throw some

2815
02:09:20,600 --> 02:09:22,600
Speaker 3: duct tape on it, kind of get it right there.

2816
02:09:23,560 --> 02:09:26,360
Speaker 3: It's just all those little, like nuanced moments. I'm like, dude,

2817
02:09:26,360 --> 02:09:29,120
Speaker 3: you're such a legend. So just getting to know him

2818
02:09:29,160 --> 02:09:31,560
Speaker 3: better and getting to learn stuff from him has been fun.

2819
02:09:31,640 --> 02:09:35,880
Speaker 3: This was my favorite quote that came from dinner. We

2820
02:09:35,880 --> 02:09:39,520
Speaker 3: were talking about things that we wanted to instill in Scarlet.

2821
02:09:39,600 --> 02:09:41,360
Speaker 3: And I'm sitting there going, oh, I want her to

2822
02:09:41,400 --> 02:09:43,720
Speaker 3: have a part time job in high school. My parents

2823
02:09:43,720 --> 02:09:45,400
Speaker 3: were big on that. I want her to have that,

2824
02:09:46,040 --> 02:09:48,600
Speaker 3: and I want, you know, really want to try to

2825
02:09:48,640 --> 02:09:50,160
Speaker 3: do this, try to do that. And he came in

2826
02:09:50,200 --> 02:09:52,360
Speaker 3: with this and said, it took me a while to

2827
02:09:52,400 --> 02:09:55,200
Speaker 3: learn this as a parent, but it ain't about fixing

2828
02:09:55,280 --> 02:09:57,680
Speaker 3: the shit that was wrong with you and your childhood.

2829
02:09:58,720 --> 02:10:02,560
Speaker 3: That's a different human or sorry, it ain't about fixing

2830
02:10:02,600 --> 02:10:05,720
Speaker 3: the shit that was wrong with you and your kid.

2831
02:10:07,000 --> 02:10:11,360
Speaker 3: That's a different human, that's a different story. Be better

2832
02:10:11,400 --> 02:10:15,920
Speaker 3: than what came before you, like your parenting and right

2833
02:10:16,040 --> 02:10:19,160
Speaker 3: whatever parenting wrongs were done to you, but don't try

2834
02:10:19,200 --> 02:10:21,480
Speaker 3: and force your kid to be someone that they're not.

2835
02:10:22,400 --> 02:10:24,720
Speaker 3: And I just thought that that was a banger little

2836
02:10:24,840 --> 02:10:27,960
Speaker 3: lesson from Cody of like, tell me the first ten

2837
02:10:28,040 --> 02:10:31,000
Speaker 3: years he was just everything that he saw wrong in

2838
02:10:31,120 --> 02:10:33,800
Speaker 3: himself and didn't want his son to you know, do

2839
02:10:34,400 --> 02:10:36,840
Speaker 3: he just riding them, riding them, riding them. And he

2840
02:10:36,960 --> 02:10:40,760
Speaker 3: was like, yes, he's my son, he's my namesake, but

2841
02:10:41,480 --> 02:10:45,200
Speaker 3: he's not me, and he's not gonna automatically want to

2842
02:10:45,280 --> 02:10:49,560
Speaker 3: lean towards these mistakes and blah blah blah. I just

2843
02:10:49,600 --> 02:10:52,640
Speaker 3: thought that that was a cool message. Yeah, I love that.

2844
02:10:52,880 --> 02:10:55,040
Speaker 1: I feel like I come across quotes like that on

2845
02:10:55,120 --> 02:10:58,400
Speaker 1: Instagram where it's like the fears and the insecurities that

2846
02:10:58,440 --> 02:11:00,360
Speaker 1: you have will show up in your kids' life if

2847
02:11:00,360 --> 02:11:03,320
Speaker 1: you're not, you know, looking at yourself and fixing yourself.

2848
02:11:03,360 --> 02:11:03,880
Speaker 3: But you're right.

2849
02:11:03,920 --> 02:11:06,560
Speaker 2: I love that quote. Yeah, I love that quote.

2850
02:11:06,760 --> 02:11:08,560
Speaker 1: I feel like it's going to be that's such a

2851
02:11:08,600 --> 02:11:11,360
Speaker 1: song and dance for parents, because again, it's like all

2852
02:11:11,400 --> 02:11:13,880
Speaker 1: you know is your experiences and what you have done

2853
02:11:13,920 --> 02:11:16,360
Speaker 1: in the past and things that you might have hated

2854
02:11:16,400 --> 02:11:18,240
Speaker 1: that you might be lashing You might not know it,

2855
02:11:18,280 --> 02:11:20,480
Speaker 1: but you might be lashing out and doing certain things

2856
02:11:20,480 --> 02:11:23,280
Speaker 1: and setting certain examples to where Yeah, I feel like

2857
02:11:23,320 --> 02:11:25,880
Speaker 1: if you don't check yourself and ask like, what's the

2858
02:11:25,960 --> 02:11:29,200
Speaker 1: principle behind this? Like, what's the actual goal is it?

2859
02:11:29,960 --> 02:11:32,120
Speaker 1: No matter what I'm going to they're going to have

2860
02:11:32,160 --> 02:11:34,520
Speaker 1: a responsibility, like a part time job in high school.

2861
02:11:34,640 --> 02:11:37,280
Speaker 1: I feel like on paper that sounds amazing. It's like,

2862
02:11:37,280 --> 02:11:38,920
Speaker 1: but I have no clue what life is going to

2863
02:11:39,000 --> 02:11:41,040
Speaker 1: look like when she is a teenager when she is

2864
02:11:41,080 --> 02:11:43,240
Speaker 1: at that age. Yes, because you feel like it's a

2865
02:11:43,240 --> 02:11:45,800
Speaker 1: good responsibility and it's a great principle to teach at

2866
02:11:45,800 --> 02:11:49,440
Speaker 1: a young age, but making sure you're doing it through

2867
02:11:49,480 --> 02:11:52,320
Speaker 1: the right lessons and teaching the right things and guiding

2868
02:11:52,360 --> 02:11:55,960
Speaker 1: them that way to put that responsibility on them instead

2869
02:11:56,000 --> 02:11:58,240
Speaker 1: of like, you know, you're just saying, this is how

2870
02:11:58,280 --> 02:12:00,280
Speaker 1: it's going to be, and as long as you're under

2871
02:12:00,320 --> 02:12:02,400
Speaker 1: my roof, you go by my rules, you have a

2872
02:12:02,520 --> 02:12:05,480
Speaker 1: job because you're it's like you're just saying that because

2873
02:12:05,480 --> 02:12:08,000
Speaker 1: there's not a lot of context or teaching or lessons

2874
02:12:08,040 --> 02:12:09,920
Speaker 1: that you're trying to give them through what you learned

2875
02:12:10,520 --> 02:12:12,880
Speaker 1: by addressing whatever your insecurities or fears.

2876
02:12:12,600 --> 02:12:15,480
Speaker 3: Are and whatever learning lesson you're trying to instill in

2877
02:12:15,520 --> 02:12:18,760
Speaker 3: them with the part that just for example, that's example,

2878
02:12:19,200 --> 02:12:22,920
Speaker 3: will hang on, Yeah it is. Maybe Scarlett is a

2879
02:12:22,920 --> 02:12:28,880
Speaker 3: thespian and takes theater super serious. An actress in stage theater,

2880
02:12:29,000 --> 02:12:32,520
Speaker 3: it's like musicals and stuff, and she's taking that super serious,

2881
02:12:32,560 --> 02:12:35,400
Speaker 3: and she's traveling and doing these shows and like the

2882
02:12:35,480 --> 02:12:38,640
Speaker 3: hard work and dedication that she's doing to like memorizing

2883
02:12:38,680 --> 02:12:42,760
Speaker 3: her lines, showing up early to rehearsals, being the last

2884
02:12:42,800 --> 02:12:46,320
Speaker 3: one to leave from rehearsals. Like, that's the same thing

2885
02:12:46,360 --> 02:12:50,160
Speaker 3: as what the part time job would instill, right, yeah, Like, hey,

2886
02:12:51,040 --> 02:12:53,880
Speaker 3: you are being held accountable. People are relying on you

2887
02:12:54,000 --> 02:12:58,240
Speaker 3: to perform at a high level, and you're doing everything

2888
02:12:58,280 --> 02:13:00,880
Speaker 3: to prepare for it. And I'm so proud of you.

2889
02:13:00,880 --> 02:13:03,640
Speaker 3: You're doing such a great job with like and yes,

2890
02:13:03,680 --> 02:13:06,320
Speaker 3: it's not a part time job. She's in you know,

2891
02:13:06,440 --> 02:13:09,640
Speaker 3: the musical whatever. Yeah, but it's the same thing.

2892
02:13:10,240 --> 02:13:12,280
Speaker 1: I feel like that's really good man, yestly, I think

2893
02:13:12,280 --> 02:13:14,400
Speaker 1: that's really good because to me, like what it comes

2894
02:13:14,400 --> 02:13:19,360
Speaker 1: down to is uh commitment, Like what are you going

2895
02:13:19,440 --> 02:13:22,840
Speaker 1: to be committed to beyond going to school from eight

2896
02:13:23,280 --> 02:13:25,840
Speaker 1: in the morning to three in the afternoon. Yeah, and

2897
02:13:25,920 --> 02:13:29,480
Speaker 1: whatever that is, I don't that's again as you observe

2898
02:13:29,560 --> 02:13:31,800
Speaker 1: and see your kid and see your teenage or whatever

2899
02:13:31,840 --> 02:13:35,640
Speaker 1: that is. I know, like in my mind, it's just like, uh,

2900
02:13:35,680 --> 02:13:41,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a commitment to to excellence somewhere whatever

2901
02:13:41,160 --> 02:13:41,720
Speaker 1: that might be.

2902
02:13:42,160 --> 02:13:43,840
Speaker 2: Maybe it's in the arts, maybe it's in.

2903
02:13:43,880 --> 02:13:51,440
Speaker 3: Athletics, it's video games, yeah, yeah, streaming. Imagine with this

2904
02:13:51,600 --> 02:13:53,839
Speaker 3: day and age, I'm like it could it could truly

2905
02:13:53,920 --> 02:13:54,520
Speaker 3: be anything.

2906
02:13:54,720 --> 02:13:55,640
Speaker 2: Yeah if you look at.

2907
02:13:55,680 --> 02:13:57,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you look at when you listen to Nick Merch's story,

2908
02:13:57,760 --> 02:13:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm busting with the boys. Yeah, because that it's like

2909
02:13:59,880 --> 02:14:02,520
Speaker 1: a wrestling family. So I see like whit dad was

2910
02:14:02,560 --> 02:14:04,000
Speaker 1: the way he was. My dad was kind of the

2911
02:14:04,040 --> 02:14:06,560
Speaker 1: same way with me, And I can imagine the friction

2912
02:14:06,600 --> 02:14:07,920
Speaker 1: that'd come up if like, hey, I want to be

2913
02:14:07,960 --> 02:14:11,440
Speaker 1: a video gamer and everything else. But to me, it's like, yeah,

2914
02:14:11,480 --> 02:14:13,680
Speaker 1: what is your what's the commitment looking like.

2915
02:14:15,480 --> 02:14:16,080
Speaker 2: For your kid?

2916
02:14:16,640 --> 02:14:19,520
Speaker 1: Because again, you want them committed to something because at

2917
02:14:19,640 --> 02:14:21,920
Speaker 1: one point or another, man it's like mom and Dad's

2918
02:14:21,960 --> 02:14:24,240
Speaker 1: not going to be there forever. Yep, Mom and Dad's

2919
02:14:24,280 --> 02:14:26,840
Speaker 1: not going to be there. If you go to college, Mom, dad's.

2920
02:14:26,560 --> 02:14:27,080
Speaker 3: Not going to be there.

2921
02:14:27,120 --> 02:14:29,040
Speaker 1: When you're in the real world and making your own decisions,

2922
02:14:29,080 --> 02:14:31,680
Speaker 1: and it's like, what fundamentals and what principles and lessons

2923
02:14:31,720 --> 02:14:34,200
Speaker 1: are you leaning on that we taught you at a

2924
02:14:34,240 --> 02:14:36,680
Speaker 1: young age, whether it's a part time job, whether it's

2925
02:14:36,680 --> 02:14:39,960
Speaker 1: you taking theater very seriously like you, I want my

2926
02:14:40,080 --> 02:14:42,840
Speaker 1: kid to understand what commitment looks like so that way

2927
02:14:42,960 --> 02:14:45,240
Speaker 1: you're not surprised and caught off guard when life doesn't

2928
02:14:45,240 --> 02:14:47,520
Speaker 1: go your way one day, because it's not going to

2929
02:14:47,600 --> 02:14:48,720
Speaker 1: life's not going to go your way.

2930
02:14:49,320 --> 02:14:54,840
Speaker 3: And what powerful lessons on the theater example of not

2931
02:14:55,040 --> 02:14:58,440
Speaker 3: memorizing your lines. You're on stage in front of hundreds

2932
02:14:58,440 --> 02:15:00,960
Speaker 3: of people and you don't know your lines. You froze

2933
02:15:01,000 --> 02:15:04,000
Speaker 3: in front of everybody. You'll never want to feel that again.

2934
02:15:04,480 --> 02:15:07,840
Speaker 3: And like being able to then in those moments in

2935
02:15:07,960 --> 02:15:11,240
Speaker 3: their world who they are be able to find those

2936
02:15:11,320 --> 02:15:15,280
Speaker 3: learning lessons of Hey, we'll get it right. We're gonna

2937
02:15:15,280 --> 02:15:17,360
Speaker 3: go through your lines again. Let's practice your lines here

2938
02:15:17,400 --> 02:15:19,280
Speaker 3: at home. We're gonna get this thing straightened out.

2939
02:15:19,600 --> 02:15:21,320
Speaker 2: In the personal story, hey you don't think your old

2940
02:15:21,320 --> 02:15:23,400
Speaker 2: man was embarrassed, Like, let me show you Thanksgiving game.

2941
02:15:23,800 --> 02:15:28,520
Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys twenty and sixteen two misstackles on Ezekiel Elliott.

2942
02:15:28,520 --> 02:15:29,040
Speaker 3: They go down to.

2943
02:15:28,960 --> 02:15:32,960
Speaker 1: School right in my face, like sweet, I, yeah, we

2944
02:15:33,000 --> 02:15:34,920
Speaker 1: know what embarrassment looks like. And it's like pulling those

2945
02:15:34,960 --> 02:15:36,960
Speaker 1: stories to level with them and just you know, let

2946
02:15:36,960 --> 02:15:38,560
Speaker 1: them know, Hey, this isn't gonna be the first time

2947
02:15:38,560 --> 02:15:40,640
Speaker 1: you're embarrassed. It's not gonna be the last time you're embarrassed.

2948
02:15:40,720 --> 02:15:43,080
Speaker 1: What matters is how you respond to how you're feeling

2949
02:15:43,160 --> 02:15:43,560
Speaker 1: right now.

2950
02:15:43,840 --> 02:15:48,400
Speaker 3: Yes, that's so great. And I showed them the uh

2951
02:15:48,600 --> 02:15:51,200
Speaker 3: for listeners from last week. I showed them the bar

2952
02:15:51,320 --> 02:15:55,720
Speaker 3: soap clip and he goes, yeah, man, hell yeah, man.

2953
02:15:56,160 --> 02:15:58,120
Speaker 3: Only way to teach them that fire hurts is let

2954
02:15:58,160 --> 02:16:00,720
Speaker 3: them put their hand in there. Yeah, I've told you

2955
02:16:00,800 --> 02:16:01,960
Speaker 3: not put your damn hand in there.

2956
02:16:02,160 --> 02:16:05,520
Speaker 1: And so we ran the We ran the campfire clip. Yeah,

2957
02:16:05,720 --> 02:16:07,320
Speaker 1: oh I love that. Yeah, it's a good clip.

2958
02:16:07,400 --> 02:16:10,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, we played the clip. I'm pretty sure love it

2959
02:16:10,960 --> 02:16:12,960
Speaker 3: or we if it hasn't gone out yet, it will,

2960
02:16:13,000 --> 02:16:14,000
Speaker 3: you know how the brain's fleeting.

2961
02:16:14,120 --> 02:16:18,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, great episode. Hope you guys all enjoyed it.

2962
02:16:18,520 --> 02:16:20,680
Speaker 1: Pop a team six. Keep doing your thing, man, keep

2963
02:16:20,800 --> 02:16:23,440
Speaker 1: leading from the front, keep asking question, just keep engaging

2964
02:16:23,480 --> 02:16:25,920
Speaker 1: with us. This community is incredible. We truly love it

2965
02:16:25,960 --> 02:16:28,760
Speaker 1: and we are We're grateful. Man, this has been awesome.

2966
02:16:29,480 --> 02:16:31,680
Speaker 1: Bet six out, make sure the trash is taken out,

2967
02:16:31,680 --> 02:16:32,920
Speaker 1: and let's have a hell of a weekend.

2968
02:16:32,959 --> 02:16:34,600
Speaker 2: Go big Red, Go big Red.

2969
02:16:34,720 --> 02:16:37,119
Speaker 1: Before we go, I'm sorry, we're not We're not gone yet, Durem.

2970
02:16:37,240 --> 02:16:39,039
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, so sorry.

2971
02:16:39,120 --> 02:16:41,880
Speaker 3: No, and you're totally fine. I apologize because this has

2972
02:16:41,879 --> 02:16:44,440
Speaker 3: been sitting by me. I teased it earlier. This is

2973
02:16:44,480 --> 02:16:48,280
Speaker 3: our Wayfair giveaway. Derek did a great job going through

2974
02:16:48,600 --> 02:16:50,520
Speaker 3: all the submissions that we have for the two hundred

2975
02:16:50,520 --> 02:16:53,280
Speaker 3: and fifty dollars gift card from Wayfair. If I could

2976
02:16:53,280 --> 02:16:58,640
Speaker 3: get a quick drum roll, please, it will be going

2977
02:16:58,680 --> 02:17:04,840
Speaker 3: to Gauge. Shot out Gauge, Gauge bombing dude. Tons of

2978
02:17:04,879 --> 02:17:07,560
Speaker 3: cool stuff on Wayfair. We already talked about the memorial

2979
02:17:08,879 --> 02:17:11,080
Speaker 3: plaque over there. We got the Baylor thing hanging up

2980
02:17:11,160 --> 02:17:14,880
Speaker 3: above me. A ton of tailgate of Central guys. We're

2981
02:17:14,879 --> 02:17:18,520
Speaker 3: talking full on grills on wayfair dot com. They have

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Speaker 3: everything from grills, memorabilia, anything for game day. They got sofas,

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Speaker 3: they got lamps, they got all types of stuff.

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Speaker 2: Wayfair's got it, baby, Wayfairs got it. Shout out Gauge.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations brother, they're a great job going through, sort through everybody.

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Speaker 2: We'll have more giveaways in the future.

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Speaker 3: That's for the dads, for you. Take out the trash.