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Speaker 1: Morning.

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Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy Charlamagne to God. We are to

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Speaker 2: breakfast club. Nephew just joining us. We're talking about Gabrielle

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Speaker 2: Union and the Waye Wade. Now this comes from a

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Speaker 2: recent interview she did and she was talking about hustplitting

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Speaker 2: the bills fifty to fifty with our husband.

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Speaker 3: Lists Listen, that first sense of security and that the

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Speaker 3: work is coming. And I just as long as I

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Speaker 3: keep knocking it out, there's gonna be more and there

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Speaker 3: isn't this sort of sense of the rug is going

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Speaker 3: could still be pulled out.

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Speaker 4: I struggle with that still, just because I think I

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Speaker 4: just have more responsibilities, you know, for my money. It's

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Speaker 4: weird to say I'm head of household because in this

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Speaker 4: household we split everything fifty to fifty. But in the

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Speaker 4: other households that each of us have to support, it

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Speaker 4: puts this there's always this like gorilla on your back

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Speaker 4: that is like.

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Speaker 5: You better work, You would have better work.

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Speaker 4: Somebody might not eat word, and it's hard. It's hard

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Speaker 4: to let that go. So I'm working on that, all right.

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Speaker 2: So we're asking what are your thoughts. When we got

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Speaker 2: Tracy on the line, Tracy, good.

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Speaker 6: Morning, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey bro, what's your thoughts? Brother?

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Speaker 6: So, my thoughts is this, If it's a regular couple

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Speaker 6: and they work, they both work in jobs, I don't

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Speaker 6: see nothing wrong with going fifty to fifty. But if

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Speaker 6: the woman's in like school or something like that, I

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Speaker 6: understand that man paying the bills. But if the man's

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Speaker 6: paying all the bills and a woman's not doing anything,

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Speaker 6: how they ever gonna get anywhere, like as far as

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Speaker 6: investments and growing a better future for the family, leaving

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Speaker 6: the legacy, how they gonna get anywhere if they regular

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Speaker 6: people and the man's just spending all the money on

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Speaker 6: the building.

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Speaker 5: It's like, now, this goes back to exactly what we

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Speaker 5: were just talking about. You just said that woman is

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Speaker 5: not doing nothing. But I guarantee you if you go

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Speaker 5: to that woman that you're the hypothetical woman's house you're

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Speaker 5: talking about, and you see all of the things that

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Speaker 5: she does on the daily in that house, you would

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Speaker 5: realize that nothing you're saying is a huge something.

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Speaker 1: Tracy, are you married? Tracy?

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Speaker 6: Nah? I'm not mad. I'm not saying she's not doing nothing,

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Speaker 6: but I'm saying, with the money, what is she doing

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Speaker 6: with them? Yeah? No, No, listen to what I'm saying though,

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Speaker 6: with the money that she's saving, that she's not paying bills,

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Speaker 6: I understand that she's being a money.

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Speaker 1: You say that money and say.

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Speaker 6: What is she doing with that money that she's not spending?

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Speaker 6: Or get what you're saying, putting it into invest next

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Speaker 6: for the family, get what you say? You know what

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Speaker 6: I mean.

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Speaker 1: What I thought you said she wasn't making no money?

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Speaker 1: Fifty fifty? What is she doing with her money?

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Speaker 2: She's just putting her money in her account and spending

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Speaker 2: and buying bag shoes and going on trips with the girls.

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Speaker 2: Or is she taking that money and putting it back

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Speaker 2: to the house or investing it or whatever it is? No,

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Speaker 2: I agree that That's why I say, you put it

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Speaker 2: all into one pot, and it should be the households

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Speaker 2: money to you know, to take care of the household,

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Speaker 2: build the kids in all lives.

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Speaker 1: I see what you say.

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Speaker 6: Fact.

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Speaker 1: Thank you brother. Hello?

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Speaker 7: Who's this Valencia?

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Speaker 1: Hey Valencia, good morning.

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Speaker 7: Good morning.

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Speaker 6: How are y'all doing?

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Speaker 5: Good?

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Speaker 8: Amen? What's your thoughts so on your on your topic.

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Speaker 8: I don't think there's anything wrong with fifty fifty. I

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Speaker 8: think the issue comes in where if Gabrielle feels like

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Speaker 8: her money has to go to more places, maybe he

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Speaker 8: should pay more. But I also feel like maybe she

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Speaker 8: hasn't had a conversation about it.

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Speaker 2: But you mean her money has to go to other places,

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Speaker 2: and mean past relationships, so parents or family, something like that.

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Speaker 7: No, in the interview, she said she feels like she

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Speaker 7: has more households to contribute to, so she's constantly stressed

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Speaker 7: about her money. So maybe it shouldn't be fifty fifty.

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Speaker 7: Maybe he should take over more in their households.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I didn't see the interview, so I don't

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Speaker 5: know what that means, but that.

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Speaker 1: Means that could mean she'd be taking care of family.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking.

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Speaker 5: I'm saying, you're taking care of other family members, you

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Speaker 5: know what I mean, Like you could be taking care

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Speaker 5: of your mom, You be taking care of your pops,

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Speaker 5: your grandma. I don't know her family situation, but also

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Speaker 5: it sounds like.

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Speaker 2: But even in family situation, when it's ours, it's we

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Speaker 2: both decide what goes.

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Speaker 1: To family members, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: All the time, because there's family members that may ask

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Speaker 5: my wife for money. Correct, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 5: there's family members that may ask me for money, correct,

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Speaker 5: you know, and those are conversations that we have.

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Speaker 1: It's usually simple because I ain't got it. But you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it.

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Speaker 5: And you know, we were talking about something earlier too,

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Speaker 5: in regards of like family members when they ask us

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Speaker 5: for money, Like my people might ask me for money,

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Speaker 5: or they might have my wife for money.

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Speaker 1: My wife is the no person. Well I'm the sucker.

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Speaker 5: My wife is the no person.

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Speaker 1: My wife.

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Speaker 5: No, it don't matter who it is, even if it's

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Speaker 5: people on my side of the family, tell them to

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Speaker 5: talk to me.

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Speaker 1: See, he's the no person.

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Speaker 2: Is just a good thing. See, you gotta it's like

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Speaker 2: you gotta go through my mom and pops. Right, My

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Speaker 2: mom and pops kind of handle my finances, but they

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Speaker 2: don't meaning they look at it like you work hard.

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Speaker 2: Nobody else works hard, but you so you ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: lend no money. So my mom and possibly be like

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Speaker 2: no like before if they you know, you know, sometimes

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Speaker 2: feeling but like let me talk to the garage, let

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Speaker 2: me talk.

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Speaker 1: To this room. My pops come right with me. No,

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Speaker 1: absolutely no, But that's that's mom and pops. Absolutely all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: what's the moil of the stories. The more the stories

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Speaker 1: doing worse for you.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. But I really don't like this, this,

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Speaker 5: this conversation about percentages. You know what I mean, Because,

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Speaker 5: like we've been saying all morning, if you really broke

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Speaker 5: it down and calculated what each person does in their

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Speaker 5: respective roles, if you look.

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Speaker 1: At all the things a woman does to make our

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Speaker 1: lives easier, yep, oh my god, it would not be

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Speaker 1: fifty fifty.

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Speaker 5: It'd be like seventy thirty, eighty twenty a gear towards

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Speaker 5: the woman.

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Speaker 1: Alright, it's the breakfast Club. Good morning,