Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: on it and welcome to another episode of Carefully Reckless
Speaker 1: with your girl just hilarious. And I got Bria Shannon again.
Speaker 1: And here it's the ratings for me, I know it's
Speaker 1: the ratings. Look Charlemagne and Gard and then told me,
Speaker 1: like you on here, I don't know you. He don't
Speaker 1: ain't gonna like you until he know, you know, when
Speaker 1: he meets you with a different story. But he gonna
Speaker 1: he's gonna be a little blown back by your little
Speaker 1: ass personality. And she she she littles. Okay, so she's
Speaker 1: four seven with a six nine personality, so whatever. Okay.
Speaker 1: So now, like the last two episodes, Bria has always
Speaker 1: known what we were going to talk about. But I
Speaker 1: decided to switch it up on her today and not
Speaker 1: let her know what we're talking about. I told her
Speaker 1: I want her to go into the subject completely blind
Speaker 1: because I feel like she funked up last night. I'm
Speaker 1: in for a rude awake and you are in for
Speaker 1: a rude awaken her, honey, and listen, let me tell
Speaker 1: you this. You're my friend, I'm gonna do it, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because most of our friends. When
Speaker 1: our friends suck up and like players do, we got
Speaker 1: to get them back on track. We can't just throw
Speaker 1: you out there to the wolves like I'm kind of doing.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna let you know, definitely doing it up
Speaker 1: last night. Okay. So anyway, this's a story time for y'all. Okay,
Speaker 1: last night we went out to a rooftop party in
Speaker 1: Baltimore City and it was lit. It was freaking lit.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about one of the most littlest rooftop parties
Speaker 1: you could ever be at on a Monday night. Okay.
Speaker 1: And my friend is very extras She's very short, and
Speaker 1: you know a lot of people who are short have
Speaker 1: these you know, big man big woman complexes, and she
Speaker 1: definitely showed that last night. Okay, you were totally fine
Speaker 1: at the rooftop party. There was an after party that
Speaker 1: took me to. She got I did thank you to it.
Speaker 1: I took you to. I wanted to see a special
Speaker 1: with somebody and I wanted to go there. You took me.
Speaker 1: I rode with her, so she felt like she was
Speaker 1: in charge. Let's just start there. We get there. We
Speaker 1: get put in a section, put up nice too. I'm talking,
Speaker 1: but it was lit. Okay, I'm listening. I looked around.
Speaker 1: I did not see who I wanted to see. So
Speaker 1: I looked at Bria. I said to you, y'all, I
Speaker 1: said to her, listen, I'm not gonna be here too
Speaker 1: much longer. If Sharon Sharrench ain't in here, right, so, no,
Speaker 1: that's his name, Sharon Shrench. If Shrank Shrench, I'm not
Speaker 1: in here, I'm not I'm not gonna be What did
Speaker 1: I say? You said, I don't see screw from so
Speaker 1: let's go. That's what you said. I did not say that.
Speaker 1: I said, I'm not gonna be here. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: be here too much longer if I don't see snu snunch.
Speaker 1: And he was like, all right, put let's go. But
Speaker 1: she had to go to the bathroom. You said, are
Speaker 1: you okay to sit here? And I said yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm straight. He was like, are you sure?
Speaker 1: I said okay. He was like, do you need me
Speaker 1: to take your purse? I said, now, now, she's very
Speaker 1: protective of me, y'all. This is something y'all should know.
Speaker 1: And I do understand that everywhere we go. This girl
Speaker 1: is my little ass bodyguard in midget for him. So
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, cool, that's my girl. But all right,
Speaker 1: I get it. She goes to the bathroom, she comes back,
Speaker 1: she ain't even sitting down for six minutes. Security roll
Speaker 1: up like a motherfucker. I'm like, hold up, what's going
Speaker 1: on you? No? No? So so then come out of
Speaker 1: nowhere right here. She yeah, came out of the ware.
Speaker 1: It was like, oh second, so you leave it seconds
Speaker 1: and I said, what are you talking about? Like I
Speaker 1: didn't even know. I didn't even know. And so I
Speaker 1: saw it that like maybe somebody was getting put out
Speaker 1: of the club, but they had the wrong section, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about because security was the biggest fuck, biggest ship.
Speaker 1: And then another motherfucker was trying to do too much
Speaker 1: because he was trying to impress you. So you went
Speaker 1: downstairs and told me that she was going to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: You went down stairs, and he was like, hey, um, look,
Speaker 1: she ready to go. So what it is? What it is,
Speaker 1: and she needs security to exit because I'm too short.
Speaker 1: I imagine those were your words. And he came up
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes later, give you this one and no, don't
Speaker 1: give me, no, don't give me Ship my surprise with this.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you this trying to you quote me,
Speaker 1: but I surprised with this. Baby, Oh Nino got me.
Speaker 1: You said you were ready to go because you did
Speaker 1: not see whatever. But the thing about it is I
Speaker 1: never said I was ready to go. I said, look,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sucking leave if I get it. Listen, no, no, no, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: no gout at the funk outgund. I didn't say wrong.
Speaker 1: I just feel like you should have told me, like, look,
Speaker 1: I got scary coming up here. We already get the
Speaker 1: funk out of here. That's it. Put me on points.
Speaker 1: You came back from the bathroom at K downstairs letting niggas.
Speaker 1: No I was ready to go, and didn't tell me Ship,
Speaker 1: So you were just like all right, cool whatever whatever
Speaker 1: police I mean, not the police. Basically it's big walked
Speaker 1: up like shack, like yo, ready go, and I was like,
Speaker 1: uh no, because then sir walked up. It seems like
Speaker 1: he walked up with security at all. Was with him? Baby,
Speaker 1: It wasn't. Joe. I was like dash and have said nothing.
Speaker 1: First of all, I should have mind my business. The world,
Speaker 1: I should have said, look, friend, I told security to
Speaker 1: come up because you told me that you may not
Speaker 1: be here. You told me you wanted to go. You
Speaker 1: told me that you ain't here, and so he ended
Speaker 1: up coming. I think Snurch was already there but was
Speaker 1: trying to Yeah. I think he was yeah, because I
Speaker 1: felt like he was already there now now that i'm
Speaker 1: thinking about it, because I didn't know this was one
Speaker 1: of the thing. So then i'm thinking about I'm thinking
Speaker 1: he was already there, and then saw security coming up
Speaker 1: to get you and came up the blue light, I'm here,
Speaker 1: and it was like it's too late, like it was
Speaker 1: like a thing, bitch, it will never be too late
Speaker 1: for Snurs and so it's my god. But I was
Speaker 1: just saying, it just had That's just the way it happened.
Speaker 1: And I felt like as a friend, I was being proactive,
Speaker 1: but I may have overstepped. Listen, I'm not saying that
Speaker 1: we're not proactive, honey, sweetheart. I just said that this
Speaker 1: could have all been killed if you was like, look,
Speaker 1: called whatever, whatever and whatever, we we won't be on
Speaker 1: the way out. And not even like cool, but liked
Speaker 1: because I had people buying me drinks and everything. Motherfucker
Speaker 1: was we didn't you? I know I didn't need no
Speaker 1: more drinking. I know I was. I do know it
Speaker 1: wasn't time to go. You you I told you that
Speaker 1: I might not beat her anymore. He was like, all right,
Speaker 1: time to go because she's not comfortable. Cool. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's not that I'm not comfortable. I actually feel safe
Speaker 1: in that place. I just was like, where is that's
Speaker 1: all showed up? He did, and once he did, what
Speaker 1: did I do? Stayed? And that's just what y'all. He
Speaker 1: was like, no, for real, I stayed my ass right
Speaker 1: there and didn't listen and it was my fault. Okay,
Speaker 1: but look, we're not even talking. This is not even
Speaker 1: that part. The part of it was when you kept
Speaker 1: telling that nigga sit down like you was the principal
Speaker 1: or something. I was trying to tell him that the
Speaker 1: matter was calm because he arrived. That's what I was trying.
Speaker 1: I was trying to actually please, and you was just like,
Speaker 1: definitely that the one thing that you was you did
Speaker 1: anything I said. I called for security because you said
Speaker 1: to me they you didn't see him and you were
Speaker 1: ready to exit. Period. That's what I got out the deal,
Speaker 1: but did not say, well, I read between the lines. Okay,
Speaker 1: so look that's what you did. You read between the lines.
Speaker 1: You're my friend. That's what friends do. They look out
Speaker 1: for other friends and they may read signals a little
Speaker 1: wrong sometimes, but whatever, I'll take just what it was.
Speaker 1: That's just what it was. We can't change last night.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But that's why I wanted
Speaker 1: to tell you and keep that ship just as real
Speaker 1: as I can keep with you because I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: frank with here in my mouth, and I kept yet
Speaker 1: you was like, sit on, sit doing on right here
Speaker 1: and talk to her. First of all, Mrs trench Bull,
Speaker 1: we're not st oh ain't you? Was like, first of all,
Speaker 1: you wasn't here, so we had I'm like, no, so
Speaker 1: the fun she's not talking to my man like that,
Speaker 1: like what's going on with you? Yes? And you knew.
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, all right, I got this.
Speaker 1: And I could see he was giving you that look
Speaker 1: like look, yeah he was because listen, I have to
Speaker 1: understand she's very short. He was giving you that look like, look,
Speaker 1: little mama, you better get it together because I ain't
Speaker 1: fucking around with a little way of telling me what
Speaker 1: the fights sucking around when no big women. He was like,
Speaker 1: you know, what's a great care out here? He said,
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, No, I wouldn't never have you put out.
Speaker 1: But no, it was just like, wait a minute, what
Speaker 1: the hell is going away at this little this little
Speaker 1: girl talking to me like this. Then you hand to
Speaker 1: make up on last night? Girl? You really look like
Speaker 1: a little kid. Girl. You wouldn't let me got the
Speaker 1: makeup on because well, I said too, I was to
Speaker 1: get ready and decided to get ready. That's on you.
Speaker 1: You de started to get ready while a bitch was
Speaker 1: walking to the car. Listen, that was on you. Okay,
Speaker 1: I give your pass. So this topic would be friends
Speaker 1: overstepping their boundaries and their friends relationships. Now you have
Speaker 1: to imagine the shoot on the other foot, because if
Speaker 1: I called Joe Nigga heard her, you will be like,
Speaker 1: I'm why do you say that? That's too huhh, And
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I was talking to hu hunh because
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. So we got snursh
Speaker 1: nursh and her hunh. So yeah, that's what we're not doing. Okay.
Speaker 1: I would never I love this friend. Yeah, I would
Speaker 1: never try to play I wouldn't ever try to play
Speaker 1: out of position period. You know, even if when it
Speaker 1: comes to you, I got you, but I don't make
Speaker 1: decisions for you. Like if I was making all decisions
Speaker 1: for you, he would be like, wait a minute, I'm
Speaker 1: dating her, not you. What I'm dating Bria, I'm not
Speaker 1: dating you. And I do understand because at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, I sat on Dick last night. Keep
Speaker 1: that record, so whatever. But no, no, no, he's not
Speaker 1: upset with you. But he did express to me like
Speaker 1: what was her problem? Like I never see her and
Speaker 1: he sees you, you know, out not too often, but
Speaker 1: like he sees you and he's like, look, FaceTime she
Speaker 1: literally never I'm sorry, you said what he'd be FaceTime
Speaker 1: you because this we're not doing. I said, FaceTime him
Speaker 1: to him. I would never over the fact that the
Speaker 1: men that you're shot with this one right here, you
Speaker 1: got I'm gonna give you this one. You got me
Speaker 1: all you just gotta get me next week. Either way,
Speaker 1: we got someone, we got something, We got some more
Speaker 1: topics to cover. Now we got a commercial. And if
Speaker 1: you click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna
Speaker 1: beat your ass. Listen. Now listen. So the first half
Speaker 1: was about overstepping your boundaries and your your friends relationships
Speaker 1: or your friends situation ships. Now the second one is
Speaker 1: about friends period. Now listen. So, if you had a
Speaker 1: friend that one day bought you around another friend and
Speaker 1: introduced you too. If you started hanging with that friend
Speaker 1: because you two got so cool without the other friends,
Speaker 1: the original friend, the original friend who even was the
Speaker 1: reason that you two came together or even was introduced
Speaker 1: to one another, how does that affect the friendship between
Speaker 1: you and their original friends. Been on both sides of defenses,
Speaker 1: it can destroy some stuff. Um, I have introduced people
Speaker 1: to other individuals and they have done things to me
Speaker 1: or we have had to fallen out, but they have
Speaker 1: stayed connected with my other you know, friends, and then
Speaker 1: we're still friends. So it's like it's like a thing,
Speaker 1: but it's like a disappointing thing because like, how are
Speaker 1: you still friends with my in it like it's a thing,
Speaker 1: So like it can be a very hurtful thing too
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, being on the other
Speaker 1: side of the other fence, you was introduced to a
Speaker 1: friend from another friend and you and the other friend
Speaker 1: gets the vibing and it's it's a vibe like into
Speaker 1: vibes period. So when a vibe comes my way, I
Speaker 1: try to you know, I try to embrace a vibe
Speaker 1: because I don't like negative energy. So I just like,
Speaker 1: we're doing this, we're doing that like it's my it's not,
Speaker 1: it's my type of vibe. Like I just I just
Speaker 1: always wanted to be in the presence of positive energy,
Speaker 1: if that makes sense. So I'll just go where the
Speaker 1: vibe is, where the vibe is taking me, because I
Speaker 1: know where I want to, So that that's it's a thing.
Speaker 1: It's a vibe for me. It's energy for me. It's
Speaker 1: that type of thing. And it's always authenticity. It's genuinity,
Speaker 1: like if you are genuine and you are the type
Speaker 1: of it that I can go with anywhere. It's a vibe,
Speaker 1: like I said, for me, I told my listeners this
Speaker 1: ship last week, like I haven't known you for very
Speaker 1: very long, but I met you through one of our
Speaker 1: mutual friends, and you are very genuine. You make me laugh,
Speaker 1: and all I do is make other people laugh for
Speaker 1: a living. I do that. I have to do that,
Speaker 1: whether I want to or not. If I have a
Speaker 1: show at eight o'clock tomorrow, I can't postpone the show
Speaker 1: because I'm going through some ship. I gotta go, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Unless there is a family emergency
Speaker 1: of death or you know, COVID or whatever can stop that.
Speaker 1: Not too many things can stop that though, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, TV opportunity, Okay, cool, But I have
Speaker 1: to go out there with that hat on all the time.
Speaker 1: I have to go out there with that face on
Speaker 1: all the time, you know, and I never get to laugh.
Speaker 1: That's why even the guy I'm dating now, he makes
Speaker 1: me laugh so much. You you make me laugh like
Speaker 1: I'm getting this laughter in my life. Now. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying I had like a hard life or anything, but
Speaker 1: you know, it's very trying when you have to make
Speaker 1: everybody else laughing and you don't find much funny. Like
Speaker 1: too many people being caliber will allow people even in
Speaker 1: their space, make them laugh like it's like because it's
Speaker 1: you know, some people have motives and what they do.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, They want to be around
Speaker 1: you because who you are, that's my you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying that that's the last thing I'm wanna do,
Speaker 1: you know, I just try to be who I am
Speaker 1: and the fact that I could be who I am
Speaker 1: around you, and that's still a vibe for you, and
Speaker 1: we can still do stuff and then you can still
Speaker 1: correct me when I'm wrong. I can say, like, yes,
Speaker 1: that was wrong, or you can come to me for advice.
Speaker 1: Even the short period of time that we've been friends,
Speaker 1: it madness, Like that's a vibe, like you know, we
Speaker 1: always gotta go out and and doff, we can do
Speaker 1: stuff in the house, you know, we watch anything we can.
Speaker 1: How often, like almost every day more than I'm home period.
Speaker 1: So like I do understand that it's and and the
Speaker 1: access to my place now is very limited. There are
Speaker 1: I can count on not even two hands how many
Speaker 1: people know where I live now. And three of those
Speaker 1: people know because they have to know. That's family, that's
Speaker 1: my team, you know. But you know you and baby,
Speaker 1: you know. So it's just like it's very different for
Speaker 1: me to expose everything coming from friends who just had
Speaker 1: it out for me literally, you know. And and in
Speaker 1: the previous past, like oh I had a bit put
Speaker 1: my address out online, big reason why I moved, but
Speaker 1: because I mean seriously, like when we're speaking on friends
Speaker 1: and you know, meeting you do a mutual friend, like
Speaker 1: like I don't I don't even know what my first
Speaker 1: impression of you was or I don't even remember because
Speaker 1: I felt like we clicked and you know, we've seen
Speaker 1: each other prior to meeting this mutual friend. We see
Speaker 1: each other out, you know, basketball games and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: But it was like when we when we clicked, when
Speaker 1: we were like when we were connecting, we clicked, it
Speaker 1: was like there was a thing. It wasn't like a
Speaker 1: who's that, It wasn't that, It just we just connected.
Speaker 1: It was like, um, you know, I know you're into
Speaker 1: the church absolutely, but you know I mean and then
Speaker 1: day my prayer is always the um. I want to
Speaker 1: be in a divine connection. Like I don't want to
Speaker 1: know like relationships just because of who I am or
Speaker 1: because it's who else who somebody else is. I just
Speaker 1: want everything to be divine and lined up, if that
Speaker 1: makes sense, And that's that's the only thing I want.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be around the why because what
Speaker 1: they got going on, because but they got out ahead
Speaker 1: and they can give me inspiration to get what they
Speaker 1: you know, what I'm saying, So it's never my things
Speaker 1: to be around to my because of what they have
Speaker 1: and all that stuff. It's always been a motivational thing
Speaker 1: for me. Anse and so us be into a mutual
Speaker 1: friend who we love to death, like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and you know we we still cool. Felt
Speaker 1: me true friend. But I feel like it was a
Speaker 1: blessing from above. And if that makes sense, it makes sense.
Speaker 1: And even if it doesn't, we can make it makes
Speaker 1: sense to people because it makes sense to us. So
Speaker 1: we just have to interpret it for them, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. On the spiritual level, Maybe this this
Speaker 1: was supposed to happen, you know what I'm saying, because
Speaker 1: you're dealing with things in your life. I deal with
Speaker 1: things in my life. We talk all the time. We
Speaker 1: talk every day. We prophesied to one another. You know,
Speaker 1: we were given encouraging words um to each other. And
Speaker 1: a lot of things that I say to you you
Speaker 1: feel from your heart, you know when I say them
Speaker 1: from my heart. So I do want to tell you
Speaker 1: wholeheartedly I love you. I love you. Put your funk
Speaker 1: up last night and you know what it is, what
Speaker 1: it is, and you knew I was gonna come back
Speaker 1: to that. I don't know why you're sitting here looking like,
Speaker 1: oh she like she let me. Yeah, I love you
Speaker 1: to death. That's where friends are. But if you can
Speaker 1: correct me, am I wrong, and we can bounce back
Speaker 1: from that, then that's that's a whole you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like some people think that when you do this,
Speaker 1: it's like she's no, I can't be cool. She came
Speaker 1: to her friend, She no cool. We were bounces back
Speaker 1: like double time from with we what was going on?
Speaker 1: You know that? And that's how we didn't like and
Speaker 1: you've kind of twt me even in the relationship with
Speaker 1: our friendship, you've kind of tipt me that, like, no,
Speaker 1: you can be friends after this, like after two three
Speaker 1: five weeks without speaking, like you texted me the next
Speaker 1: day like a good friends. Yeah, what you know? I
Speaker 1: think you just mindset. We really got to talk today
Speaker 1: and was like OK, and then you went to sleep
Speaker 1: because we were so tired and boke up. I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, girl, we gotta do this podcast. Girl, we
Speaker 1: gotta chill. You know what I'm saying. You want to eat?
Speaker 1: Oh mission, Like we didn't let nothing stop it? And
Speaker 1: what we're gonna do when we leave today, via probably
Speaker 1: gonna get some drinks and some crabs. You're gonna get
Speaker 1: some drinks of some goddamn crabs and listen. That brings
Speaker 1: you to the end of the episode today. If I
Speaker 1: can give a word to any of my women, it
Speaker 1: can be listening. If you fall out with a friend,
Speaker 1: you can honestly get back depending on the fallout. Now, bitch,
Speaker 1: she's been slept with your man, if she didn't called
Speaker 1: your mama crackhead, if she didn't stole from you, those
Speaker 1: are things you can't come back from. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because Okay, my mom don't deserve that. I
Speaker 1: didn't deserve to get taken off by you. What the funk?
Speaker 1: I look like a lick? And you know, certain things
Speaker 1: just you you just can't reconcile after, you know. But
Speaker 1: if you truly love someone, you wouldn't say anything to
Speaker 1: hurt them to the point of no return anyway. So
Speaker 1: I want to say that now. In the beginning of
Speaker 1: the episode, we talked about friends overstepping boundaries. You gotta
Speaker 1: check your friends, like I checked my friend on the episode.
Speaker 1: I really did. I checked my baby and she got
Speaker 1: it right, It'll never happen again. But one thing she
Speaker 1: will always do is her best to protect me. And
Speaker 1: she cannot tell me that she's not gonna do that,
Speaker 1: you understand, because that will just be too much unlike her.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Labria Shannon on Today for her third
Speaker 1: week in a row, her third consecutive episode of Carefully
Speaker 1: Reckless with me just hilarious. What you gotta say. Don't
Speaker 1: surprise me next week. I promised, I want. I had
Speaker 1: to do this. You made my baby mad at me.
Speaker 1: He never gets mad at anybody I know he got.
Speaker 1: He has the most laid back personality I know. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, looks she's telling me to get off because
Speaker 1: she's gonna cuss this nigga the fuck out. She gonna
Speaker 1: cuss me out lotus nigga when we get off of here.
Speaker 1: So make sure you tune in next week every Wednesday,
Speaker 1: hump Day and in my best pan boys, I love me,
Speaker 1: I of y'all, and y'all love me. Ain't y'all of y'all?
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