WEBVTT - Get Your Friend! 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.120 Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:20.840 and the Black Effect. And just like that, we're back 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.800 on it and welcome to another episode of Carefully Reckless 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:27.480 with your girl just hilarious. And I got Bria Shannon again. 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:29.880 And here it's the ratings for me, I know it's 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:32.479 the ratings. Look Charlemagne and Gard and then told me, 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:35.160 like you on here, I don't know you. He don't 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:36.879 ain't gonna like you until he know, you know, when 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:40.600 he meets you with a different story. But he gonna 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:43.240 he's gonna be a little blown back by your little 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:46.440 ass personality. And she she she littles. Okay, so she's 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:51.479 four seven with a six nine personality, so whatever. Okay. 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:56.920 So now, like the last two episodes, Bria has always 0:00:56.960 --> 0:01:00.240 known what we were going to talk about. But I 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:04.120 decided to switch it up on her today and not 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:05.959 let her know what we're talking about. I told her 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:09.120 I want her to go into the subject completely blind 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:15.000 because I feel like she funked up last night. I'm 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:17.399 in for a rude awake and you are in for 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.840 a rude awaken her, honey, and listen, let me tell 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:23.120 you this. You're my friend, I'm gonna do it, you 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:25.240 know what I'm saying, because most of our friends. When 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:28.720 our friends suck up and like players do, we got 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:31.200 to get them back on track. We can't just throw 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:33.399 you out there to the wolves like I'm kind of doing. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.280 But I'm gonna let you know, definitely doing it up 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:39.440 last night. Okay. So anyway, this's a story time for y'all. Okay, 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:45.800 last night we went out to a rooftop party in 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:49.440 Baltimore City and it was lit. It was freaking lit. 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.960 I'm talking about one of the most littlest rooftop parties 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:54.720 you could ever be at on a Monday night. Okay. 0:01:56.480 --> 0:02:00.760 And my friend is very extras She's very short, and 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:03.080 you know a lot of people who are short have 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:07.280 these you know, big man big woman complexes, and she 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:13.080 definitely showed that last night. Okay, you were totally fine 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:17.840 at the rooftop party. There was an after party that 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.200 took me to. She got I did thank you to it. 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:22.600 I took you to. I wanted to see a special 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.000 with somebody and I wanted to go there. You took me. 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:27.560 I rode with her, so she felt like she was 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:31.200 in charge. Let's just start there. We get there. We 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:34.519 get put in a section, put up nice too. I'm talking, 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:38.160 but it was lit. Okay, I'm listening. I looked around. 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:41.320 I did not see who I wanted to see. So 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:45.040 I looked at Bria. I said to you, y'all, I 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:47.520 said to her, listen, I'm not gonna be here too 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:51.720 much longer. If Sharon Sharrench ain't in here, right, so, no, 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:54.720 that's his name, Sharon Shrench. If Shrank Shrench, I'm not 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:57.799 in here, I'm not I'm not gonna be What did 0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:01.960 I say? You said, I don't see screw from so 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:07.560 let's go. That's what you said. I did not say that. 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.320 I said, I'm not gonna be here. I'm not gonna 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:12.480 be here too much longer if I don't see snu snunch. 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:14.680 And he was like, all right, put let's go. But 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:17.080 she had to go to the bathroom. You said, are 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:19.720 you okay to sit here? And I said yeah, I'm good. 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:21.360 I'm good. I'm straight. He was like, are you sure? 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:23.120 I said okay. He was like, do you need me 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:25.239 to take your purse? I said, now, now, she's very 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:27.840 protective of me, y'all. This is something y'all should know. 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.400 And I do understand that everywhere we go. This girl 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:34.160 is my little ass bodyguard in midget for him. So 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:36.320 it's like, okay, cool, that's my girl. But all right, 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:39.640 I get it. She goes to the bathroom, she comes back, 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:45.200 she ain't even sitting down for six minutes. Security roll 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:49.200 up like a motherfucker. I'm like, hold up, what's going 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:55.440 on you? No? No? So so then come out of 0:03:55.440 --> 0:04:04.800 nowhere right here. She yeah, came out of the ware. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:10.640 It was like, oh second, so you leave it seconds 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:14.000 and I said, what are you talking about? Like I 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:18.920 didn't even know. I didn't even know. And so I 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:22.360 saw it that like maybe somebody was getting put out 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:24.960 of the club, but they had the wrong section, bitch, 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:29.320 I'm talking about because security was the biggest fuck, biggest ship. 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:32.680 And then another motherfucker was trying to do too much 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.560 because he was trying to impress you. So you went 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:38.720 downstairs and told me that she was going to the bathroom. 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.520 You went down stairs, and he was like, hey, um, look, 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:43.600 she ready to go. So what it is? What it is, 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:46.880 and she needs security to exit because I'm too short. 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.880 I imagine those were your words. And he came up 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:54.200 fifteen minutes later, give you this one and no, don't 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:59.120 give me, no, don't give me Ship my surprise with this. 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.760 I'm gonna give you this trying to you quote me, 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:06.040 but I surprised with this. Baby, Oh Nino got me. 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.120 You said you were ready to go because you did 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:13.320 not see whatever. But the thing about it is I 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.560 never said I was ready to go. I said, look, 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:23.239 I'm gonna sucking leave if I get it. Listen, no, no, no, okay, cool, 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:28.320 no gout at the funk outgund. I didn't say wrong. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:31.400 I just feel like you should have told me, like, look, 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.080 I got scary coming up here. We already get the 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:35.480 funk out of here. That's it. Put me on points. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:39.240 You came back from the bathroom at K downstairs letting niggas. 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:41.560 No I was ready to go, and didn't tell me Ship, 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:43.839 So you were just like all right, cool whatever whatever 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:47.240 police I mean, not the police. Basically it's big walked 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:50.560 up like shack, like yo, ready go, and I was like, 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:54.919 uh no, because then sir walked up. It seems like 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:59.320 he walked up with security at all. Was with him? Baby, 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:02.039 It wasn't. Joe. I was like dash and have said nothing. 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:05.520 First of all, I should have mind my business. The world, 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:11.240 I should have said, look, friend, I told security to 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:12.640 come up because you told me that you may not 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:14.279 be here. You told me you wanted to go. You 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:17.680 told me that you ain't here, and so he ended 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.520 up coming. I think Snurch was already there but was 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:24.520 trying to Yeah. I think he was yeah, because I 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.440 felt like he was already there now now that i'm 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.000 thinking about it, because I didn't know this was one 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:31.320 of the thing. So then i'm thinking about I'm thinking 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:34.520 he was already there, and then saw security coming up 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:38.279 to get you and came up the blue light, I'm here, 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:40.760 and it was like it's too late, like it was 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:42.880 like a thing, bitch, it will never be too late 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:48.120 for Snurs and so it's my god. But I was 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.360 just saying, it just had That's just the way it happened. 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:53.960 And I felt like as a friend, I was being proactive, 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:56.960 but I may have overstepped. Listen, I'm not saying that 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:02.400 we're not proactive, honey, sweetheart. I just said that this 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:04.479 could have all been killed if you was like, look, 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:09.120 called whatever, whatever and whatever, we we won't be on 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:12.320 the way out. And not even like cool, but liked 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:16.600 because I had people buying me drinks and everything. Motherfucker 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:20.360 was we didn't you? I know I didn't need no 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:25.600 more drinking. I know I was. I do know it 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.680 wasn't time to go. You you I told you that 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:30.360 I might not beat her anymore. He was like, all right, 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:33.720 time to go because she's not comfortable. Cool. Yeah, but 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:36.559 it's not that I'm not comfortable. I actually feel safe 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.320 in that place. I just was like, where is that's 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:43.160 all showed up? He did, and once he did, what 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:48.800 did I do? Stayed? And that's just what y'all. He 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:52.640 was like, no, for real, I stayed my ass right 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:56.720 there and didn't listen and it was my fault. Okay, 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:58.960 but look, we're not even talking. This is not even 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:02.000 that part. The part of it was when you kept 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:05.720 telling that nigga sit down like you was the principal 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:07.600 or something. I was trying to tell him that the 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:11.600 matter was calm because he arrived. That's what I was trying. 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:14.040 I was trying to actually please, and you was just like, 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:17.680 definitely that the one thing that you was you did 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:21.280 anything I said. I called for security because you said 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:25.160 to me they you didn't see him and you were 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:27.640 ready to exit. Period. That's what I got out the deal, 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:32.520 but did not say, well, I read between the lines. Okay, 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:34.600 so look that's what you did. You read between the lines. 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.360 You're my friend. That's what friends do. They look out 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:40.840 for other friends and they may read signals a little 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:44.640 wrong sometimes, but whatever, I'll take just what it was. 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:46.880 That's just what it was. We can't change last night. 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:49.400 You know what I'm saying. But that's why I wanted 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:51.559 to tell you and keep that ship just as real 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:53.720 as I can keep with you because I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no, 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:57.240 frank with here in my mouth, and I kept yet 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:00.400 you was like, sit on, sit doing on right here 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.000 and talk to her. First of all, Mrs trench Bull, 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:11.640 we're not st oh ain't you? Was like, first of all, 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:15.400 you wasn't here, so we had I'm like, no, so 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:17.400 the fun she's not talking to my man like that, 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:22.559 like what's going on with you? Yes? And you knew. 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:26.200 So I was like, okay, all right, I got this. 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:28.360 And I could see he was giving you that look 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:31.080 like look, yeah he was because listen, I have to 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:35.040 understand she's very short. He was giving you that look like, look, 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:39.240 little mama, you better get it together because I ain't 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.559 fucking around with a little way of telling me what 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:46.600 the fights sucking around when no big women. He was like, 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:48.720 you know, what's a great care out here? He said, 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.760 Wait a minute, No, I wouldn't never have you put out. 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:54.000 But no, it was just like, wait a minute, what 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.920 the hell is going away at this little this little 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:58.839 girl talking to me like this. Then you hand to 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:00.360 make up on last night? Girl? You really look like 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:03.800 a little kid. Girl. You wouldn't let me got the 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:06.559 makeup on because well, I said too, I was to 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:10.360 get ready and decided to get ready. That's on you. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:12.480 You de started to get ready while a bitch was 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:15.520 walking to the car. Listen, that was on you. Okay, 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.760 I give your pass. So this topic would be friends 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:23.000 overstepping their boundaries and their friends relationships. Now you have 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:25.240 to imagine the shoot on the other foot, because if 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:28.440 I called Joe Nigga heard her, you will be like, 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:31.760 I'm why do you say that? That's too huhh, And 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:33.600 I'm like, no, I was talking to hu hunh because 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:36.400 like you know what I'm saying. So we got snursh 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:40.240 nursh and her hunh. So yeah, that's what we're not doing. Okay. 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:44.120 I would never I love this friend. Yeah, I would 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:47.080 never try to play I wouldn't ever try to play 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.480 out of position period. You know, even if when it 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:52.920 comes to you, I got you, but I don't make 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:55.760 decisions for you. Like if I was making all decisions 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:57.680 for you, he would be like, wait a minute, I'm 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:01.400 dating her, not you. What I'm dating Bria, I'm not 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:04.560 dating you. And I do understand because at the end 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:11.240 of the day, I sat on Dick last night. Keep 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.680 that record, so whatever. But no, no, no, he's not 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:17.439 upset with you. But he did express to me like 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:19.840 what was her problem? Like I never see her and 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:23.040 he sees you, you know, out not too often, but 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:25.560 like he sees you and he's like, look, FaceTime she 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:28.840 literally never I'm sorry, you said what he'd be FaceTime 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:32.480 you because this we're not doing. I said, FaceTime him 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:38.640 to him. I would never over the fact that the 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:40.800 men that you're shot with this one right here, you 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:43.559 got I'm gonna give you this one. You got me 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:46.240 all you just gotta get me next week. Either way, 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:50.360 we got someone, we got something, We got some more 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:52.719 topics to cover. Now we got a commercial. And if 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:54.680 you click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna 0:11:54.679 --> 0:12:02.000 beat your ass. Listen. Now listen. So the first half 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:05.439 was about overstepping your boundaries and your your friends relationships 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:08.360 or your friends situation ships. Now the second one is 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:12.200 about friends period. Now listen. So, if you had a 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:17.040 friend that one day bought you around another friend and 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:20.600 introduced you too. If you started hanging with that friend 0:12:21.040 --> 0:12:24.840 because you two got so cool without the other friends, 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:27.559 the original friend, the original friend who even was the 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:30.920 reason that you two came together or even was introduced 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:35.160 to one another, how does that affect the friendship between 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:39.559 you and their original friends. Been on both sides of defenses, 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:45.400 it can destroy some stuff. Um, I have introduced people 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:50.079 to other individuals and they have done things to me 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:52.000 or we have had to fallen out, but they have 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.320 stayed connected with my other you know, friends, and then 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.280 we're still friends. So it's like it's like a thing, 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:58.800 but it's like a disappointing thing because like, how are 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.320 you still friends with my in it like it's a thing, 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:03.800 So like it can be a very hurtful thing too 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:06.000 at the end of the day, being on the other 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:08.560 side of the other fence, you was introduced to a 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:11.240 friend from another friend and you and the other friend 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.559 gets the vibing and it's it's a vibe like into 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:18.680 vibes period. So when a vibe comes my way, I 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:20.520 try to you know, I try to embrace a vibe 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:23.760 because I don't like negative energy. So I just like, 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.160 we're doing this, we're doing that like it's my it's not, 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:31.200 it's my type of vibe. Like I just I just 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:34.560 always wanted to be in the presence of positive energy, 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:37.040 if that makes sense. So I'll just go where the 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:39.240 vibe is, where the vibe is taking me, because I 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.120 know where I want to, So that that's it's a thing. 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:43.640 It's a vibe for me. It's energy for me. It's 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:47.079 that type of thing. And it's always authenticity. It's genuinity, 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:50.280 like if you are genuine and you are the type 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:54.680 of it that I can go with anywhere. It's a vibe, 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:58.200 like I said, for me, I told my listeners this 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.960 ship last week, like I haven't known you for very 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:03.240 very long, but I met you through one of our 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:07.400 mutual friends, and you are very genuine. You make me laugh, 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:09.560 and all I do is make other people laugh for 0:14:09.600 --> 0:14:11.280 a living. I do that. I have to do that, 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:13.160 whether I want to or not. If I have a 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:15.880 show at eight o'clock tomorrow, I can't postpone the show 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:17.880 because I'm going through some ship. I gotta go, you 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:19.720 know what I'm saying. Unless there is a family emergency 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:23.520 of death or you know, COVID or whatever can stop that. 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:25.880 Not too many things can stop that though, you know 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:29.200 what I'm saying, TV opportunity, Okay, cool, But I have 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:30.920 to go out there with that hat on all the time. 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:32.320 I have to go out there with that face on 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.920 all the time, you know, and I never get to laugh. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:38.440 That's why even the guy I'm dating now, he makes 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:41.800 me laugh so much. You you make me laugh like 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:45.720 I'm getting this laughter in my life. Now. I'm not 0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:47.640 saying I had like a hard life or anything, but 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:51.720 you know, it's very trying when you have to make 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.160 everybody else laughing and you don't find much funny. Like 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.880 too many people being caliber will allow people even in 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.760 their space, make them laugh like it's like because it's 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:03.240 you know, some people have motives and what they do. 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:04.840 You know what I'm saying, They want to be around 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:08.360 you because who you are, that's my you know what 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:09.720 I'm saying that that's the last thing I'm wanna do, 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:12.120 you know, I just try to be who I am 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:13.760 and the fact that I could be who I am 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:15.720 around you, and that's still a vibe for you, and 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:17.680 we can still do stuff and then you can still 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:19.600 correct me when I'm wrong. I can say, like, yes, 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:22.120 that was wrong, or you can come to me for advice. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:24.640 Even the short period of time that we've been friends, 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:27.720 it madness, Like that's a vibe, like you know, we 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:30.080 always gotta go out and and doff, we can do 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:33.080 stuff in the house, you know, we watch anything we can. 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:37.800 How often, like almost every day more than I'm home period. 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:41.040 So like I do understand that it's and and the 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:44.480 access to my place now is very limited. There are 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:48.120 I can count on not even two hands how many 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:50.720 people know where I live now. And three of those 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:53.960 people know because they have to know. That's family, that's 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:57.440 my team, you know. But you know you and baby, 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.080 you know. So it's just like it's very different for 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:06.000 me to expose everything coming from friends who just had 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:09.040 it out for me literally, you know. And and in 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.960 the previous past, like oh I had a bit put 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:16.360 my address out online, big reason why I moved, but 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:19.320 because I mean seriously, like when we're speaking on friends 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:22.320 and you know, meeting you do a mutual friend, like 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:24.560 like I don't I don't even know what my first 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:27.520 impression of you was or I don't even remember because 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:30.240 I felt like we clicked and you know, we've seen 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:33.080 each other prior to meeting this mutual friend. We see 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:35.720 each other out, you know, basketball games and stuff like that. 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:37.800 But it was like when we when we clicked, when 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:39.720 we were like when we were connecting, we clicked, it 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:41.240 was like there was a thing. It wasn't like a 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:44.720 who's that, It wasn't that, It just we just connected. 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:47.120 It was like, um, you know, I know you're into 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:51.720 the church absolutely, but you know I mean and then 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:54.920 day my prayer is always the um. I want to 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:56.880 be in a divine connection. Like I don't want to 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:59.560 know like relationships just because of who I am or 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:01.960 because it's who else who somebody else is. I just 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:04.600 want everything to be divine and lined up, if that 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:06.560 makes sense, And that's that's the only thing I want. 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:08.520 I don't want to be around the why because what 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:10.879 they got going on, because but they got out ahead 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:13.000 and they can give me inspiration to get what they 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:15.040 you know, what I'm saying, So it's never my things 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:16.760 to be around to my because of what they have 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:18.919 and all that stuff. It's always been a motivational thing 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.840 for me. Anse and so us be into a mutual 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:23.600 friend who we love to death, like you know what 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:26.280 I'm saying, and you know we we still cool. Felt 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:27.879 me true friend. But I feel like it was a 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:31.919 blessing from above. And if that makes sense, it makes sense. 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.160 And even if it doesn't, we can make it makes 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:37.080 sense to people because it makes sense to us. So 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:38.800 we just have to interpret it for them, you know 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:41.639 what I'm saying. On the spiritual level, Maybe this this 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:43.919 was supposed to happen, you know what I'm saying, because 0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:45.800 you're dealing with things in your life. I deal with 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.119 things in my life. We talk all the time. We 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:51.359 talk every day. We prophesied to one another. You know, 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:56.359 we were given encouraging words um to each other. And 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:58.600 a lot of things that I say to you you 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:00.760 feel from your heart, you know when I say them 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:03.360 from my heart. So I do want to tell you 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:07.400 wholeheartedly I love you. I love you. Put your funk 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:09.080 up last night and you know what it is, what 0:18:09.160 --> 0:18:11.000 it is, and you knew I was gonna come back 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:12.760 to that. I don't know why you're sitting here looking like, 0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:15.240 oh she like she let me. Yeah, I love you 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:17.959 to death. That's where friends are. But if you can 0:18:18.000 --> 0:18:20.080 correct me, am I wrong, and we can bounce back 0:18:20.119 --> 0:18:23.399 from that, then that's that's a whole you know what 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:25.680 I'm saying, Like some people think that when you do this, 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:28.120 it's like she's no, I can't be cool. She came 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:32.480 to her friend, She no cool. We were bounces back 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:35.439 like double time from with we what was going on? 0:18:35.520 --> 0:18:37.040 You know that? And that's how we didn't like and 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:38.879 you've kind of twt me even in the relationship with 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:40.679 our friendship, you've kind of tipt me that, like, no, 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:43.840 you can be friends after this, like after two three 0:18:43.880 --> 0:18:46.400 five weeks without speaking, like you texted me the next 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:49.720 day like a good friends. Yeah, what you know? I 0:18:49.760 --> 0:18:51.720 think you just mindset. We really got to talk today 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:53.840 and was like OK, and then you went to sleep 0:18:53.840 --> 0:18:56.399 because we were so tired and boke up. I was like, 0:18:56.400 --> 0:18:58.040 all right, girl, we gotta do this podcast. Girl, we 0:18:58.040 --> 0:18:59.880 gotta chill. You know what I'm saying. You want to eat? 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:03.119 Oh mission, Like we didn't let nothing stop it? And 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:06.800 what we're gonna do when we leave today, via probably 0:19:06.840 --> 0:19:12.160 gonna get some drinks and some crabs. You're gonna get 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:15.320 some drinks of some goddamn crabs and listen. That brings 0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:17.720 you to the end of the episode today. If I 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:20.280 can give a word to any of my women, it 0:19:20.400 --> 0:19:22.480 can be listening. If you fall out with a friend, 0:19:23.080 --> 0:19:26.080 you can honestly get back depending on the fallout. Now, bitch, 0:19:26.200 --> 0:19:28.680 she's been slept with your man, if she didn't called 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:32.440 your mama crackhead, if she didn't stole from you, those 0:19:32.480 --> 0:19:34.159 are things you can't come back from. You know what 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:37.239 I'm saying, Because Okay, my mom don't deserve that. I 0:19:37.240 --> 0:19:39.640 didn't deserve to get taken off by you. What the funk? 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:42.320 I look like a lick? And you know, certain things 0:19:42.480 --> 0:19:46.920 just you you just can't reconcile after, you know. But 0:19:47.840 --> 0:19:51.000 if you truly love someone, you wouldn't say anything to 0:19:51.080 --> 0:19:53.720 hurt them to the point of no return anyway. So 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:57.040 I want to say that now. In the beginning of 0:19:57.080 --> 0:20:00.320 the episode, we talked about friends overstepping boundaries. You gotta 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:03.880 check your friends, like I checked my friend on the episode. 0:20:04.080 --> 0:20:06.360 I really did. I checked my baby and she got 0:20:06.359 --> 0:20:09.240 it right, It'll never happen again. But one thing she 0:20:09.280 --> 0:20:12.679 will always do is her best to protect me. And 0:20:12.720 --> 0:20:15.040 she cannot tell me that she's not gonna do that, 0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:19.199 you understand, because that will just be too much unlike her. 0:20:19.520 --> 0:20:22.479 Shout out to Labria Shannon on Today for her third 0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:27.040 week in a row, her third consecutive episode of Carefully 0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:32.360 Reckless with me just hilarious. What you gotta say. Don't 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:34.800 surprise me next week. I promised, I want. I had 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:36.840 to do this. You made my baby mad at me. 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:40.960 He never gets mad at anybody I know he got. 0:20:41.000 --> 0:20:45.600 He has the most laid back personality I know. Okay, 0:20:45.720 --> 0:20:47.200 all right, looks she's telling me to get off because 0:20:47.200 --> 0:20:50.200 she's gonna cuss this nigga the fuck out. She gonna 0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:52.960 cuss me out lotus nigga when we get off of here. 0:20:53.000 --> 0:20:55.720 So make sure you tune in next week every Wednesday, 0:20:55.840 --> 0:20:59.320 hump Day and in my best pan boys, I love me, 0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:02.399 I of y'all, and y'all love me. Ain't y'all of y'all? 0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:21.600 Peace feel. Carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart 0:21:21.680 --> 0:21:24.600