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Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. And just like that, we're back

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Speaker 1: on it and welcome to another episode of Carefully Reckless

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Speaker 1: with your girl just hilarious. And I got Bria Shannon again.

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Speaker 1: And here it's the ratings for me, I know it's

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Speaker 1: the ratings. Look Charlemagne and Gard and then told me,

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Speaker 1: like you on here, I don't know you. He don't

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna like you until he know, you know, when

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Speaker 1: he meets you with a different story. But he gonna

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Speaker 1: he's gonna be a little blown back by your little

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Speaker 1: ass personality. And she she she littles. Okay, so she's

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Speaker 1: four seven with a six nine personality, so whatever. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So now, like the last two episodes, Bria has always

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Speaker 1: known what we were going to talk about. But I

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Speaker 1: decided to switch it up on her today and not

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Speaker 1: let her know what we're talking about. I told her

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Speaker 1: I want her to go into the subject completely blind

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Speaker 1: because I feel like she funked up last night. I'm

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Speaker 1: in for a rude awake and you are in for

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Speaker 1: a rude awaken her, honey, and listen, let me tell

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Speaker 1: you this. You're my friend, I'm gonna do it, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because most of our friends. When

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Speaker 1: our friends suck up and like players do, we got

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Speaker 1: to get them back on track. We can't just throw

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Speaker 1: you out there to the wolves like I'm kind of doing.

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna let you know, definitely doing it up

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Speaker 1: last night. Okay. So anyway, this's a story time for y'all. Okay,

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Speaker 1: last night we went out to a rooftop party in

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Speaker 1: Baltimore City and it was lit. It was freaking lit.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about one of the most littlest rooftop parties

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Speaker 1: you could ever be at on a Monday night. Okay.

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Speaker 1: And my friend is very extras She's very short, and

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Speaker 1: you know a lot of people who are short have

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Speaker 1: these you know, big man big woman complexes, and she

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Speaker 1: definitely showed that last night. Okay, you were totally fine

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Speaker 1: at the rooftop party. There was an after party that

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Speaker 1: took me to. She got I did thank you to it.

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Speaker 1: I took you to. I wanted to see a special

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Speaker 1: with somebody and I wanted to go there. You took me.

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Speaker 1: I rode with her, so she felt like she was

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Speaker 1: in charge. Let's just start there. We get there. We

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Speaker 1: get put in a section, put up nice too. I'm talking,

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Speaker 1: but it was lit. Okay, I'm listening. I looked around.

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Speaker 1: I did not see who I wanted to see. So

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Speaker 1: I looked at Bria. I said to you, y'all, I

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Speaker 1: said to her, listen, I'm not gonna be here too

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Speaker 1: much longer. If Sharon Sharrench ain't in here, right, so, no,

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Speaker 1: that's his name, Sharon Shrench. If Shrank Shrench, I'm not

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Speaker 1: in here, I'm not I'm not gonna be What did

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Speaker 1: I say? You said, I don't see screw from so

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Speaker 1: let's go. That's what you said. I did not say that.

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm not gonna be here. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: be here too much longer if I don't see snu snunch.

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Speaker 1: And he was like, all right, put let's go. But

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Speaker 1: she had to go to the bathroom. You said, are

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Speaker 1: you okay to sit here? And I said yeah, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm straight. He was like, are you sure?

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Speaker 1: I said okay. He was like, do you need me

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Speaker 1: to take your purse? I said, now, now, she's very

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Speaker 1: protective of me, y'all. This is something y'all should know.

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Speaker 1: And I do understand that everywhere we go. This girl

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Speaker 1: is my little ass bodyguard in midget for him. So

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Speaker 1: it's like, okay, cool, that's my girl. But all right,

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Speaker 1: I get it. She goes to the bathroom, she comes back,

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Speaker 1: she ain't even sitting down for six minutes. Security roll

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Speaker 1: up like a motherfucker. I'm like, hold up, what's going

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Speaker 1: on you? No? No? So so then come out of

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Speaker 1: nowhere right here. She yeah, came out of the ware.

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Speaker 1: It was like, oh second, so you leave it seconds

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Speaker 1: and I said, what are you talking about? Like I

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Speaker 1: of the club, but they had the wrong section, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about because security was the biggest fuck, biggest ship.

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Speaker 1: And then another motherfucker was trying to do too much

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Speaker 1: because he was trying to impress you. So you went

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Speaker 1: I imagine those were your words. And he came up

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Speaker 1: fifteen minutes later, give you this one and no, don't

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Speaker 1: give me, no, don't give me Ship my surprise with this.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you this trying to you quote me,

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Speaker 1: but I surprised with this. Baby, Oh Nino got me.

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Speaker 1: You said you were ready to go because you did

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Speaker 1: never said I was ready to go. I said, look,

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Speaker 1: no gout at the funk outgund. I didn't say wrong.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like you should have told me, like, look,

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Speaker 1: I got scary coming up here. We already get the

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Speaker 1: funk out of here. That's it. Put me on points.

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Speaker 1: You came back from the bathroom at K downstairs letting niggas.

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Speaker 1: No I was ready to go, and didn't tell me Ship,

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Speaker 1: So you were just like all right, cool whatever whatever

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Speaker 1: police I mean, not the police. Basically it's big walked

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Speaker 1: up like shack, like yo, ready go, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: uh no, because then sir walked up. It seems like

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Speaker 1: he walked up with security at all. Was with him? Baby,

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Speaker 1: It wasn't. Joe. I was like dash and have said nothing.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I should have mind my business. The world,

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Speaker 1: I should have said, look, friend, I told security to

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Speaker 1: up coming. I think Snurch was already there but was

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Speaker 1: to get you and came up the blue light, I'm here,

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Speaker 1: and it was like it's too late, like it was

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Speaker 1: like a thing, bitch, it will never be too late

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Speaker 1: for Snurs and so it's my god. But I was

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Speaker 1: just saying, it just had That's just the way it happened.

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Speaker 1: And I felt like as a friend, I was being proactive,

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Speaker 1: we're not proactive, honey, sweetheart. I just said that this

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Speaker 1: could have all been killed if you was like, look,

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Speaker 1: because I had people buying me drinks and everything. Motherfucker

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Speaker 1: was we didn't you? I know I didn't need no

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Speaker 1: more drinking. I know I was. I do know it

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Speaker 1: wasn't time to go. You you I told you that

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Speaker 1: it's not that I'm not comfortable. I actually feel safe

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Speaker 1: in that place. I just was like, where is that's

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Speaker 1: all showed up? He did, and once he did, what

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Speaker 1: did I do? Stayed? And that's just what y'all. He

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Speaker 1: was like, no, for real, I stayed my ass right

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Speaker 1: but look, we're not even talking. This is not even

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Speaker 1: that part. The part of it was when you kept

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Speaker 1: telling that nigga sit down like you was the principal

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Speaker 1: matter was calm because he arrived. That's what I was trying.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to actually please, and you was just like,

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Speaker 1: definitely that the one thing that you was you did

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Speaker 1: anything I said. I called for security because you said

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Speaker 1: ready to exit. Period. That's what I got out the deal,

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Speaker 1: but did not say, well, I read between the lines. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so look that's what you did. You read between the lines.

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Speaker 1: You're my friend. That's what friends do. They look out

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Speaker 1: That's just what it was. We can't change last night.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But that's why I wanted

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Speaker 1: to tell you and keep that ship just as real

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Speaker 1: as I can keep with you because I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you was like, sit on, sit doing on right here

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Speaker 1: like what's going on with you? Yes? And you knew.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, all right, I got this.

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Speaker 1: And I could see he was giving you that look

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Speaker 1: little mama, you better get it together because I ain't

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Speaker 1: fucking around with a little way of telling me what

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Speaker 1: you know, what's a great care out here? He said,

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, No, I wouldn't never have you put out.

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Speaker 1: But no, it was just like, wait a minute, what

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Speaker 1: make up on last night? Girl? You really look like

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Speaker 1: a little kid. Girl. You wouldn't let me got the

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Speaker 1: I give your pass. So this topic would be friends

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Speaker 1: overstepping their boundaries and their friends relationships. Now you have

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Speaker 1: I'm why do you say that? That's too huhh, And

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I was talking to hu hunh because

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Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. So we got snursh

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Speaker 1: nursh and her hunh. So yeah, that's what we're not doing. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I would never I love this friend. Yeah, I would

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Speaker 1: never try to play I wouldn't ever try to play

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Speaker 1: out of position period. You know, even if when it

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Speaker 1: comes to you, I got you, but I don't make

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Speaker 1: dating her, not you. What I'm dating Bria, I'm not

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Speaker 1: dating you. And I do understand because at the end

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Speaker 1: that record, so whatever. But no, no, no, he's not

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Speaker 1: literally never I'm sorry, you said what he'd be FaceTime

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Speaker 1: you because this we're not doing. I said, FaceTime him

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Speaker 1: got I'm gonna give you this one. You got me

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Speaker 1: all you just gotta get me next week. Either way,

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