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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from DeAndre on Steve HARVFM.

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Speaker 1: DeAndre says, I'm seventeen years old and my mother just

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Speaker 1: got remarried. Now I don't have a problem with her

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Speaker 1: new husband. However, he is insisting that I call him dad.

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Speaker 1: I have a dad already. I love my pops and

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Speaker 1: he is very involved in my life. I don't think

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Speaker 1: it's cool that I'm being asked to put my real

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Speaker 1: dad to the side. How do I tell Dad number

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Speaker 1: two to chill out?

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Speaker 2: Well, well, listen to this man. I understand what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: And the advantage that you have is you have a

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Speaker 2: great relationship with your father. Oftentimes that's not the case.

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Speaker 2: So you are very very fortunate that even though it

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Speaker 2: didn't work out between your parents, your father is still

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Speaker 2: very much in your life. That's a great thing. Yes,

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Speaker 2: there's no problem, but remember this and you say you

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Speaker 2: don't have.

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Speaker 3: A problem with him.

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Speaker 2: A lot of times when you blend in a family,

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Speaker 2: what the confusion comes in as the kids is you

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Speaker 2: know you can actually love two people. You can and

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Speaker 2: it's okay to love two people. If this new husband

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Speaker 2: is being good to you and treating you family, then

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Speaker 2: just had the best relationship you can with him, and

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Speaker 2: you always have a relationship with your father, because you

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Speaker 2: just said you have a great relationship with him, so

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Speaker 2: good kudos to that, But kudos to the man that

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Speaker 2: also steps in to take in the space of gaps,

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Speaker 2: because a lot of men who step into women's lives

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Speaker 2: who have children, they deserve a plaque for doing that.

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Speaker 2: So it could be an advantage to have these two

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Speaker 2: men in your life. If I was you, I can

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Speaker 2: understand you. It's not saying that's not your dad. What

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Speaker 2: what's the alternative? What do you want to call him?

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Speaker 2: What you want to call him Roger, something like this,

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Speaker 2: you know, or you could just call him something, give

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Speaker 2: him a secondary name, a title like a pop or

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Speaker 2: something like that, or.

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Speaker 3: You know something.

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Speaker 2: You know that wouldn't hurt you know, I mean, I

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Speaker 2: understand the guy wants to hurt really well, you ain't

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Speaker 2: gotta call him dad.

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Speaker 3: Dad means a lot, Yeah, it really. Dad is more

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Speaker 3: than father, Yes it is. I said. Oftentimes any man

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Speaker 3: can be a father.

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Speaker 2: That's all you gotta do is make the donation to

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Speaker 2: the egg and you become a father.

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Speaker 3: Take a special man to be a dad.

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Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one, Steve, thank

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Speaker 1: you for that. This is from Tiffany and Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 1: She says, I've been seeing this guy for a couple

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Speaker 1: of months and things are going really well. He's thoughtful,

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Speaker 1: funny and genuinely kind, but he doesn't want to have sex.

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Speaker 3: Shit.

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Speaker 1: He says it's because he thinks we have something special

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Speaker 1: and doesn't want to rush it, which I'm sweet, but

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Speaker 1: it's also the longest I've ever been in a relationship

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Speaker 1: without things getting physical. I don't want to pressure him,

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Speaker 1: but I can't help wondering if something else is going on.

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Speaker 1: How do I know if he's been sincere or if

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Speaker 1: this is some kind of red flag.

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Speaker 3: It's man, Yeah, nobody want a good man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's only been two months.

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Speaker 3: It's only been two months. He hybe?

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Speaker 2: Maybe he waiting on you to, you know, see if

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Speaker 2: you fall in love with him. So when he you

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Speaker 2: finally do get to it, he you know, maybe he

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Speaker 2: you know, sometimes you need to let a woman be

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Speaker 2: in love with you before you give it to it,

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Speaker 2: because what you got ain't really you know.

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Speaker 1: All what that wait, repeat what you just said.

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Speaker 3: No, sometimes you have to wait.

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Speaker 2: Hope a woman fall in love with you or what

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Speaker 2: you've got all.

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Speaker 1: That, and that sounds like that's what she's worried about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I don't think that's the case.

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Speaker 3: Though, Oh what do you think it is?

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Speaker 2: I think what Tommy just said is some women just

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Speaker 2: don't want a good man and as good man qualities, Mandy,

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Speaker 2: guy could be just treating you super respectful.

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Speaker 3: That's very true. I ain't never no two months that

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Speaker 3: I had no sex. Yeah, we doing exactly. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: ain't ready to love Steve. She ready to have six?

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Speaker 3: Ain't ready?

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you. Coming up next, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show twenty minutes after.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning

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