Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and
Speaker 1: the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back on
Speaker 1: the air. Welcome back to yat another carefully Reckless with
Speaker 1: your girl Jess. Hilarious. We're gonna jump right into just
Speaker 1: Fix My Mess. We do not have any voice memos,
Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna be reading all right. Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hey Jos, I'm a big fan. I go and see
Speaker 1: you every time you come to town. I've been doing
Speaker 1: so good for myself. I'm a newly licensed cosmetologist. I
Speaker 1: graduated in December within associates in cosmetology in business in
Speaker 1: two years. I currently have a full scholarship to a
Speaker 1: private university to complete my bachelor in Computer science this fall.
Speaker 1: I'm currently in the Army National Guard for North Carolina.
Speaker 1: I've been in for eight years and for the most part,
Speaker 1: I'm financially stable. Since January, I've picked up two part
Speaker 1: time jobs, work study job, and I volunteer my time
Speaker 1: for funeral services when I'm free. Oh okay. I was
Speaker 1: deployed in twenty nineteen and was overseas during COVID. I've
Speaker 1: really accomplished a lot in a little time. I even
Speaker 1: ran cross country with my school for two years and
Speaker 1: won two championships. But lately I've been really sad, like
Speaker 1: really sad. It's been almost three months since I stopped
Speaker 1: running heavily, and honestly, I thought that was my issue,
Speaker 1: so I started working out and running again. I still
Speaker 1: feel sad. I love to paint, and even painting doesn't
Speaker 1: help me feel better. My love life sucks, and you
Speaker 1: put four Essa's on that shit. It sucks. I have
Speaker 1: no boyfriend. I'm not even talking or messaging anyone on
Speaker 1: the regular. I'm really alone. I have friends, but they
Speaker 1: are all in relationships, some married, all with kids. Though
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm so different from everyone around me.
Speaker 1: I've tried talking to people, but that does mean no good.
Speaker 1: The men around here are some bitches. I'm lonely. I've
Speaker 1: seen for National Help, which saved my life after my deployment.
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm missing something and I'm hurting.
Speaker 1: I'm happy with myself and I have peace within myself,
Speaker 1: but I'm just lonely. My sister have a mental illness,
Speaker 1: which played the biggest part in my life. I created
Speaker 1: a monster, my alter ego because of the emotional weight
Speaker 1: it had on my life. It really got bad. I've
Speaker 1: dug myself out of the hurt and anger that came
Speaker 1: with it. Now that I'm accomplishing all of these things
Speaker 1: and doing good for myself, I feel more and more lonely.
Speaker 1: I don't want a relationship, but I need someone there
Speaker 1: for me. I haven't had intercourse in months, and I
Speaker 1: just want to hug. I'm not getting any of my
Speaker 1: emotional needs met from anybody in my life. I love
Speaker 1: myself more than anything. I have plans to take over
Speaker 1: the world, but I'm missing something. I know you're a
Speaker 1: successful black woman, and I listen to you all the time.
Speaker 1: You give such great advice and you have such a
Speaker 1: huge platform. Any advice on getting out of this loan,
Speaker 1: on the journey of being successful. I'm so stuck. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty seven, by the way, what twenty seven? I'm young
Speaker 1: enough to take my time. But then again, I'm stepping
Speaker 1: into a whole different part of womanhood. I really need
Speaker 1: to get over this emotional hump, all right, So I
Speaker 1: just want to apologize for the background noise. I'm actually
Speaker 1: in my home. I'm getting it cleaned right now, and
Speaker 1: I have to find any and every time I can
Speaker 1: to deliver y'all these episodes, so pardon me and parting
Speaker 1: my cleaners. But listen, first and foremost, I can sympathize
Speaker 1: with you because I'm not gonna say I'm going through
Speaker 1: the same thing, but I'm kind of in the same
Speaker 1: place in my life. I wouldn't consider it going through something.
Speaker 1: And the only reason why I say that is it's
Speaker 1: just not your time here. I am thirty one, and
Speaker 1: I thought that there was a time clock on my
Speaker 1: love life. I thought that there was like a deadline
Speaker 1: that I had to reach in order for me to
Speaker 1: get married, or a deadline to have kids, a deadline
Speaker 1: to be in love. It literally is none of that.
Speaker 1: It's just not your time, just like it's not my time. Now.
Speaker 1: You're twenty seven, You're still in your twenties. I think
Speaker 1: what you are probably feeling is that you're so busy
Speaker 1: because you talk about how independent you are, how you
Speaker 1: got all this going on, all your accolades. You know,
Speaker 1: you've been in school doing this, you got this degree,
Speaker 1: you're working on this degree, You love yourself and all this.
Speaker 1: I think you don't even make room enough for somebody
Speaker 1: else to tell you any of that because you're that's
Speaker 1: all you gave me up front. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you ever saw the movie Think Like a Man. Taraji
Speaker 1: p Henson's character on There was a very strong independent
Speaker 1: woman who felt like she didn't need a man for anything.
Speaker 1: She just wanted that feeling. She just wanted to be hugged,
Speaker 1: She wanted to be kissed, but she still felt as if, Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't need a man for anything. I don't need love.
Speaker 1: I don't need I just want it. I feel that's
Speaker 1: how you are. You're just a bit younger. We get
Speaker 1: so caught up in what we can do for ourselves
Speaker 1: that we never really give grace to our companion or
Speaker 1: whoever the companion may be in the future or whatever,
Speaker 1: to do the same. Now you said that you are
Speaker 1: stepping into a whole different part of womanhood. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that you have to have everything that
Speaker 1: you think you should have just because you're stepping into
Speaker 1: a whole point of womanhood. Now you said you're the
Speaker 1: loneliest one in your whole friend circle. Everybody else is
Speaker 1: in relationships or they're married, they have different paths. We
Speaker 1: often get caught up in what other people are doing
Speaker 1: that we can't really focus on ourselves. You feel like
Speaker 1: you're deserving of love because you accomplished everything else. No,
Speaker 1: you may have to wait longer for love than anything
Speaker 1: else because you already have everything, And then it may
Speaker 1: just not be your season two love. Maybe you're supposed
Speaker 1: to be so focused that you'll be distracted by love
Speaker 1: if it came to you. Right now. You have to
Speaker 1: think positive in all aspects of your life. That's the
Speaker 1: only negative in your mind. And it's not even a negative.
Speaker 1: It's just not your time. That is the only advice
Speaker 1: I have for you. Take your time because it's not time.
Speaker 1: It's not your time for love. Take your time doing
Speaker 1: everything else. Continue to stay focused, continue to work very
Speaker 1: very hard, and it'll all pay off. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you are a spiritual I don't know if you're religious,
Speaker 1: but the God that I pray to is a very
Speaker 1: very loyal god, and he's not ever going to let
Speaker 1: us be lonely. You're not lonely, You're just alone. And
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you how to feel. I'm just telling
Speaker 1: you I know the feeling all too well. I thought
Speaker 1: it was a season of loneliness for me. No it's not.
Speaker 1: It was just that I was alone, and you have
Speaker 1: to learn how to be by yourself. If you love yourself,
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna do, you know, first, because you
Speaker 1: need to turn that definition of loneliness into just being alone.
Speaker 1: You just don't like being alone, but you have to
Speaker 1: learn how to do that and love on yourself, so
Speaker 1: when someone finally does come to love on you, you'll
Speaker 1: know how to accept it. You know, you have to
Speaker 1: make certain decisions about yourself and what you'll take and
Speaker 1: what you won't take, and just learn yourself. You need
Speaker 1: to be taking this time to learn yourself. You still
Speaker 1: in your twenties. You don't even really get to know
Speaker 1: who you are until you step into that thirty mark.
Speaker 1: I thought I had it all figured out too when
Speaker 1: I was twenty three and twenty five and twenty six.
Speaker 1: It's just because my parents raise a very mature young lady.
Speaker 1: So I'm well before my time, but I still didn't
Speaker 1: know everything. You're well before your time. You still don't
Speaker 1: know everything. You don't know who you are going to
Speaker 1: be as a woman in love. You just don't know.
Speaker 1: So you can't just make that decision and just say
Speaker 1: I'm tired of being lonely. Nobody's gonna you know, I'm
Speaker 1: I don't talk to anybody right now? Do you get out?
Speaker 1: It seems like you work so much that you wouldn't
Speaker 1: even be able to mix and mingle. It seems like
Speaker 1: you don't really get out for like just drinks. You don't.
Speaker 1: And then have you ever gotten any advice from your
Speaker 1: married friends and from your friends and relationships and from
Speaker 1: the outside looking in? Are they all great and in
Speaker 1: love and happy? Is every single person happy? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Sometimes you could be saving yourself. Sometimes
Speaker 1: it's just better to hold fast and wait. It's not
Speaker 1: your time, baby, it ain't even my time. I used
Speaker 1: to wake up every day like I need to have
Speaker 1: kids by thirty I need to be married by thirty two.
Speaker 1: Why do we put deadlines on ourselves? I come to
Speaker 1: tell you right now, I'm thirty one, and I see
Speaker 1: what my thirties are gonna be like Now, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be a movie's I'm gonna barely have time to sit down,
Speaker 1: get married and have a baby. That doesn't mean it's
Speaker 1: not gonna happen. But now I notice I'm not saying
Speaker 1: the same thing that I was saying at twenty eight
Speaker 1: and twenty seven that I'm saying at thirty one my
Speaker 1: deadline was pushed out. Why because it's not supposed to
Speaker 1: be a deadline put on your life for anything. The
Speaker 1: only deadline you have is death, and we don't know
Speaker 1: what that is. Fortunately, we don't know when that is,
Speaker 1: so check back in with me. I'll let you know
Speaker 1: when I get a man. You let me know when
Speaker 1: you get a man. All right, all right, I love you,
Speaker 1: you young black successful woman. If you love me, you'll
Speaker 1: listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back
Speaker 1: moving on. Hey, Jess, I just want to say I
Speaker 1: love your show, and hopefully you can fix my mess.
Speaker 1: We're going to call this a fall from grace. Oh lord, girl,
Speaker 1: you've been watching too much Soler. Hooray. Let me take
Speaker 1: you back to the summer of twenty twenty, before COVID hit.
Speaker 1: I was living my best life, Jess, traveling, partying on
Speaker 1: the lodge with it. It's a Detroit thing, hot girl,
Speaker 1: summer obs all around. For the first time in a
Speaker 1: long time, I finally felt like I found myself. I
Speaker 1: was drama free, genuinely happy and abandoned. Hi, you must
Speaker 1: have meant unabandoned. I felt free. I was going through
Speaker 1: a little breakup and my feelings were hurt, but I
Speaker 1: was healing but still enjoying my life. Fast forward to
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one and COVID was on a rampage, and
Speaker 1: to be honest, I worked so much that I didn't
Speaker 1: even know what was going on until I went to
Speaker 1: the grocery store and it was completely empty, and I
Speaker 1: was like, damn, this is real. I was still happy
Speaker 1: in doing me, but I was just in the house
Speaker 1: with it until one day I was approached by this guy.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call him gossip boy. Damn, Oh lord, can't
Speaker 1: up and be good about a nigga you calling gossip
Speaker 1: boy gossip boy. It came up to me and started
Speaker 1: a conversation with me, and he seemed to be a
Speaker 1: cool guy, so I gave him my number. We hit
Speaker 1: it off pretty quickly and we started spending time together.
Speaker 1: What I like most about him is that he made
Speaker 1: me laugh and we had a pretty good vibe. He
Speaker 1: was staying with his sister at the time, so the
Speaker 1: first time we hung out was at my apartment. Just
Speaker 1: this man gave me big dick vibes, oh wow, and
Speaker 1: I was really feeling him. One thing led to another
Speaker 1: and clothes started coming off, and bitch, I'm excited. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: because I just knew that he had the King Kong Man.
Speaker 1: When that nigga took off his pants, my face went
Speaker 1: from mm to translation. But he had a mini beer can.
Speaker 1: But I still went through with it because I genuinely
Speaker 1: liked him. After that happened, he would be at my
Speaker 1: place all the time and basically was moved in. Oh shit,
Speaker 1: the first red flag. I was about to say a girl.
Speaker 1: All right. We worked at a factory and I pretty
Speaker 1: much stayed to myself. Nobody knew me until I started
Speaker 1: talking to him, and people somehow knew all of our business.
Speaker 1: I would ask him, why are you running your mouth? God,
Speaker 1: Sip been like a bitch. Every time I would ask him,
Speaker 1: he would deny telling anybody anything. Red Flag number two
Speaker 1: mm mmmm. Every time we had sex, he would apologize
Speaker 1: for how small his dickad is in the middle of
Speaker 1: us having sex, and I'm like, nigga, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: concentrate on busting shut up. Red Flag number three. He
Speaker 1: always said I was going to have his baby. I
Speaker 1: tried to get rid of him but he always suckered
Speaker 1: me into staying with him. By July, I was really
Speaker 1: over it, and as soon as I was about to
Speaker 1: kick his ass to the curb, guess who popped up
Speaker 1: pregnant ding ding ding yo ass damn, damn damn in
Speaker 1: my Florida Evans voice. So I found out that I
Speaker 1: was eight weeks pregnant and shit still ain't improven. So
Speaker 1: one day I left work early. He stayed, so I
Speaker 1: politely put his stuff on the other side of the door. Wait.
Speaker 1: I told him we should just focus on col parentsing
Speaker 1: and see what happens. He agreed, and things started to
Speaker 1: get better okay, until my friend told me he was
Speaker 1: around with another girl at our job. I didn't know
Speaker 1: because my job put me on maternity leave early. When
Speaker 1: I confronted him about it, he said he was just
Speaker 1: pimping her out and he didn't care about her. We
Speaker 1: argued for weeks. I asked him to just please leave
Speaker 1: her alone and focus on our family. That bitch told
Speaker 1: me he ain't given up on this opportunity for nobody.
Speaker 1: So once he said that, I blocked him and just
Speaker 1: focused on me and my pregnancy. I was hurt. But anyways,
Speaker 1: when I was five months pregnant. I decided to move
Speaker 1: out of the state to have more support from my family.
Speaker 1: I told him about it. He didn't like it, but
Speaker 1: I had to do what was best for my daughter.
Speaker 1: Mm hm. So one day I called him because I
Speaker 1: missed him, and that's when I found out that the
Speaker 1: girl he was pimping out was pregnant with his child too,
Speaker 1: and he was happy. He told me he finally got
Speaker 1: what he wanted and this is going to be end all,
Speaker 1: be all. When I tell you, that broke me, Jess, like,
Speaker 1: how could you do that to me? Like I have
Speaker 1: never been betrayed like that in my life. Technically weren't together,
Speaker 1: but I was pregnant with your child. I wasn't out
Speaker 1: here fucking nobody. I was alone and pregnant for months.
Speaker 1: I would ask him to help me get some things
Speaker 1: for our daughter, and he would tell me his girl
Speaker 1: and his son needs it more. He treated my daughter
Speaker 1: like a second option. He would verbally abuse me and yeah,
Speaker 1: I popped my shit too. Yeah you're from Detroit, I know,
Speaker 1: but it's different when a nigga is constantly gaslighting me.
Speaker 1: Somehow he finds a way to be a victim all
Speaker 1: that manipulating shit. Gird can't stand it. It's really beyond me. Yes,
Speaker 1: I had my petty moments and said fucked up things
Speaker 1: to him, but he is the common denominator for everything.
Speaker 1: He blames me for having another baby. I had my
Speaker 1: daughter in March of twenty twenty two, and a few
Speaker 1: days later I got a real bad case of COVID
Speaker 1: and pneumonia to the point where I was incubated for
Speaker 1: three weeks and I almost died. So dealing with that trauma,
Speaker 1: being a new mom and the bullshit from him had
Speaker 1: did a lot of damage to my mental health. I
Speaker 1: became a depressed, alcoholic and overall and unpleasant person to
Speaker 1: be all around. I finally made the decision to cut
Speaker 1: him off and focus on myself and my daughter, but
Speaker 1: even with that, it didn't help. Every time I get
Speaker 1: drunk and I'm talking about blacked out drink, I'm crying
Speaker 1: and talking about my baby. Daddy hurt me. Oh God,
Speaker 1: I just want to heal. I just want to be
Speaker 1: happy again. Jess, can you please help me and give
Speaker 1: me some advice? Thank you, and I'm sorry for the
Speaker 1: long written message. PS. I forgot to mention that the
Speaker 1: girl he was messing with knew about me the whole time,
Speaker 1: and she be on fuck shit with his ass. But
Speaker 1: it's okay because when I see her or them, I'm
Speaker 1: beating the ass. I love you, Jess. Also, I'm a
Speaker 1: real person, but I deleted all my social media accounts,
Speaker 1: so I created this one to contact you. Okay, I
Speaker 1: totally get a girl. It don't matter. I didn't even
Speaker 1: need that last part. I could tell you a real
Speaker 1: person because this shit is too fucking specific for you
Speaker 1: not to be a fucking real person. Hold up, hold up,
Speaker 1: I know this shit getting good, But listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple seconds of a comer. If you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen, all right, First and foremost, let's start from
Speaker 1: where you caught my attention. All right, So you wanted
Speaker 1: it to be over, you did. You really did want
Speaker 1: it to be over with him. You put a shit
Speaker 1: on the other side of your door. You was ready,
Speaker 1: You were fed up with it. You didn't quite tell
Speaker 1: me exactly why you were fed up with it, because
Speaker 1: I know the little penis cannot be the only thing.
Speaker 1: Because you still hung in there. You hung in there
Speaker 1: enough to get the bun in the oven. He got
Speaker 1: you pregnant, that that little bit can had some little
Speaker 1: soldiers marching through it, all right, because he got your
Speaker 1: ass pregnant, big dick or not? All right, But you
Speaker 1: didn't quite tell me why you wanted to be done.
Speaker 1: That's all you mentioned was just his small penis, all right,
Speaker 1: But you had this stuff outside the dough. You find
Speaker 1: out you're pregnant, you still wanted them gone. It wasn't
Speaker 1: until you found out that he was dealing with somebody
Speaker 1: else at the job then you were hurt. Now, listen,
Speaker 1: were you hurt because you didn't want him to deal
Speaker 1: with nobody else? Was it just the fact that it
Speaker 1: was somebody at the job? Did you think that he
Speaker 1: may have been fucking with somebody else before y'all broke up?
Speaker 1: Or what? Because if you wanted him gone that bad,
Speaker 1: why did it matter to you so much to find
Speaker 1: out that he was dealing with somebody like y'all weren't together,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You had already put him
Speaker 1: out by then, So I'm just curious to know. Now,
Speaker 1: it could have been a hormonal situation because you said
Speaker 1: you were pregnant. You could have been having different feelings
Speaker 1: that would change. You could have been in and out
Speaker 1: with it, like I want him, but then I don't
Speaker 1: want him. And these could have all been blamed on
Speaker 1: your hormonal changes or whatever with you being pregnant, but
Speaker 1: it seemed that you were very concrete in your answer
Speaker 1: because you wanted this nigga gone before you even found
Speaker 1: out that you were pregnant. So that's what I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get to. But you're not here to talk to
Speaker 1: me in real time about it, so I want you
Speaker 1: to check back with me. Moving on to a later
Speaker 1: part of the story, you said, let's co parents. He
Speaker 1: was fine with that, But then, okay, I'm back pedaling
Speaker 1: because that's what I'm saying. You were fine with everything
Speaker 1: until you found out about the damn girl. So that's
Speaker 1: why I said, were you're really over him? Because sometimes
Speaker 1: we may think that we don't want a person until
Speaker 1: they're gone. In other words, basically, you don't know what
Speaker 1: you got until it's gone. Now, I'm not saying he
Speaker 1: was the best thing that ever happened to you, and
Speaker 1: or nor vice versa. I'm not saying you're the best
Speaker 1: thing to happen to him, but obviously you felt the
Speaker 1: way and you wanted him back after you found out
Speaker 1: that he was with somebody else. You said, the girl
Speaker 1: knew about you the whole time. Fuck her. She ain't
Speaker 1: got no loyalty to you. You ain't gonna be high
Speaker 1: ass because you got a daughter to take care of.
Speaker 1: Fuck that, fuck them, Fuck that, all right, You ain't
Speaker 1: gonna be high ass because, to be honest with you,
Speaker 1: her daughter or her child and your child are siblings,
Speaker 1: whether you like it or not. So don't beat her ass.
Speaker 1: Don't beat her ass. I made that mistake. One of
Speaker 1: my baby father's other baby mothers, I beat her ass.
Speaker 1: We're cordial now, but I still regret doing that because
Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking about my child or her child, who
Speaker 1: I also look at as another child of mine. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and how it could potentially hurt
Speaker 1: them later. Or my son could say to his sister
Speaker 1: one day, they argument, that's what my mother beat your
Speaker 1: mother ass. You know, did she look at me a
Speaker 1: certain way? Or you know, vice versa. You just don't
Speaker 1: want to do that. You're plan a dangerous game when
Speaker 1: it comes to your children and their parent, the other parent.
Speaker 1: They're not worth it anyway, all right. You moved out
Speaker 1: of town. He ain't doing shit for your baby. He
Speaker 1: could be bitter that you didn't want a relationship with him.
Speaker 1: He could be better. I'm not justifying, but he just
Speaker 1: seems like he's bitter to you. You can't make a
Speaker 1: man step up and do shit, So you need to
Speaker 1: go through the courts. Because obviously y'all don't even live
Speaker 1: in the same place. You need help with their baby.
Speaker 1: So this is a good time to put them on
Speaker 1: child support. Yep, this is a good time because this
Speaker 1: would be a case where the mom actually needed. You know,
Speaker 1: women put men on child support for many different reasons,
Speaker 1: but the right reason is for the child and because
Speaker 1: you can't do everything on your own, and you did
Speaker 1: not make that baby girl on your own. So this
Speaker 1: is what I would call a great opportunity to seek
Speaker 1: assistance through the courts. Put them on child support, some
Speaker 1: type of government assistance. You would need to help take
Speaker 1: care of your baby. All right, understand that you're bitter,
Speaker 1: but you also need to heal. Like you said, you
Speaker 1: need to fucking heal. He ain't coming back, and even
Speaker 1: if the fuck he would come back, would you take
Speaker 1: him exactly? We have to ask ourselves that what could
Speaker 1: he give you right now to make you happy? Another baby, love,
Speaker 1: a relationship, a cheating one, back and forth? What could
Speaker 1: he do right now to make you happy? Nothing? Take
Speaker 1: care of your daughter, But it ain't even that for you.
Speaker 1: It's the fact that you're still bitter about what he
Speaker 1: did to you with another woman. It ain't even all
Speaker 1: about your daughter. Yes, you're damn sure upset that he
Speaker 1: won't help you take care of your baby, but you're
Speaker 1: upset with matters of the heart too. You know, more
Speaker 1: so what he did to you in the relationship and
Speaker 1: what he didn't do after the relationship, or you know,
Speaker 1: or you felt like you cheated or whatever, or just
Speaker 1: sometimes we don't want to see the person that we
Speaker 1: love with someone else. We're not ready to move on.
Speaker 1: But you need to do so. And it starts with
Speaker 1: you just reflecting on who you are, you having to
Speaker 1: do everything by yourself, and asking yourself that real question,
Speaker 1: that very real question, What could this nigga do for
Speaker 1: me right now that's gonna make me happy in my heart?
Speaker 1: Not the baby me. What can he do drop everything
Speaker 1: and come live here? Then he got another baby, then
Speaker 1: he still got other kids with that of a girl
Speaker 1: somewhere else, You know what I'm saying, like, just just
Speaker 1: wake up and think about that, because you deserve much
Speaker 1: better and you're gonna get much better because you're still young.
Speaker 1: You got a lot more life to live. And so
Speaker 1: does your baby girl. Get back to me, cause if
Speaker 1: you feel like nobody love you, I'm telling you I
Speaker 1: love you, and that little girl loves you too. So no,
Speaker 1: ain't nobody worth your peace and your sanity because you
Speaker 1: need that to take care of your child, and you
Speaker 1: need that to get past all your trauma. And that's
Speaker 1: just what it is. It's past trauma. I'm not asking
Speaker 1: you to forget it in a sense, but in a
Speaker 1: sense I am move on and forget it. Bury that
Speaker 1: shit because remembering ain't gonna do nothing for you but
Speaker 1: hold you back. And just like that, we've come to
Speaker 1: the end of another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl.
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